Breast Cancer Wellness
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Breast Cancer Wellness
Breast Cancer Wellness M A G A Z I N E Empowering MIND • BODY • SPIRIT “We are all bonded by the experience of breast cancer and the best thing we can do is to support each other.” –Olivia Newton-John Alchemy of Hope A Miracle Seed Keep Your Heart Open Yes, I Can Make a Difference! My Healing Breakthroughs Your entary mplim ue $4.95 C o Iss Volume 4, Issue 3 Fall 2009 NON-PROFIT PRST STANDARDUS POSTAGE PAID PERMIT 205 BOLINGBROOK, IL contents Fall 2009 ON OUR COVER Olivia Newton-John BCW FEATURE 5-9 “I was afraid that the cancer had spread. That was my initial fear, and I was afraid I was going to die from chemotherapy. After the first treatment and looking at my fears squarely, I realized I was going to be okay. Yet there were times when I thought I can’t do this, I will never find love again, I’ll never be happy again. Yes, you do have those thoughts. However, I think at the core of my being I have always been a positive person and I believe in possibilities.” 1717 St. Char les Avenue | New Or leans | 504.899.2800 | www.breastcenter.com The Center for Restorative Breast Surgery is affiliated with St. Charles Surgical Hospital, the only hospital in the world dedicated to reconstructive surgery for women facing breast cancer. Scott K. Sullivan, MD, FACS and Frank J. DellaCroce, MD, FACS 2 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine 30 F E AT U R E S D E PA RT M E N TS KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN 5-9 PUBLISHER’S LETTER 4 Olivia is more than an internationally recognized superstar. She is a mom, a global humanitarian and philanthropist and she is an advocate for positive changes for Mother Earth. She is on a mission of helping to change the way cancer is treated and for its’ cure. She reminds us to always keep our hearts open to love and to possibilities. Feelings of distress, despair, loneliness, and hopelessness deserve attention and need to be addressed in order to restore your natural state of hope and well-being. St Louis Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure Cares 30 Over 66,00 people participated in the 11th annual Race for the Cure in St Louis, making it one of the largest breast cancer events in the world. Yes, I Can Make a Difference! 32 Men and women share how they are making a difference for others facing the challenges of breast cancer. The 4th Annual Breast Cancer Survivors Cruise 2010 36 PROFILES IN WELLNESS 38 Nancy Gratz Believes in Hope 41 My Healing Breakthroughs by Rochelle Togo-Figa ALCHEMY OF HOPE 10 AMOENA for me 14 A MIRACLE SEED 16 The edible plant that gives breast cancer patients and survivors the power of nutritional lignans, fiber, and omega-3 fatty acids. WHAT’S GOOD TO EAT NOW? 18 Enjoy these healthy products because they contain ingredients to boost your immunity, protect healthy cells, and potentially reduce the risk of breast cancer metastasis or recurrence. Girl Talk for Survivors 20 SURVIVOR GUILT 22 THE TIME IS NOW 28 With clear minds and hearts full of hope, Goodwill Ambassador for Cancer Control to the World Health Organization and Founder of the Susan G. Komen for the Cure® organization, Nancy G. Brinker, asks us to meet the challenges to end cancer now. PINK PAGES DIRECTORY 45-46 www.breastcancerwellness.org 3 BCWFEATURE publisher’s letter Dear Friends, People are so amazing. They rise every day to make a difference for the world, to help others and to see the best in the human race and in their own lives. Our feature, “Yes, I Can Make a Difference!” is filled with wonderful reminders how you each make a difference in your unique ways for ending the world of breast cancer and helping others. All of these caring choices to improve the quality of life IS what makes our planet to be even better. Years ago, October was proclaimed “national breast cancer awareness month”. Both October and pink ribbons continue to be symbolic messages for better breast care for all and to end breast cancer forever. Many of us believe we are alive today because of what the pink ribbon stands for. It is my prayer that soon the pink ribbon will stand for something new ~ a representation of how women, men, prayer warriors, spiritual leaders, scientists, researchers, philanthropists, nutritionists, medical teams, politicians, pharmaceutical drug companies, healing experts and visionaries from around the world came together with Truth, Grace, and Wisdom and ended breast cancer. I am so excited about the Breast Cancer Survivors’ Cruise and to have fun! The type of fun where we laugh together, make new friends and enjoy every thing a cruise has to offer. Are you ready for some guilt-free fun? The kind of fun where we know we are among sisters and where we are heard, understood and loved, if so, call Shelly Williams at 1-800-810-8619 or e-mail her at swilliams@ greatsoutherntravel.com. We are already into our second block of reserved cabins. I look forward to meeting each of you and for us to have fun together! I received this prayer from several friends via e-mail and I wanted to pass it along as others have passed it to me: “Today may there be peace within. May you trust that you are loved for you being you. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. May contentment rest within your heart. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love. It is there for each and every one of us.” -author unknown. My prayer and invitation is for each of us to experience healing and wellness to the fullest. FALL 2009 Volume 4, Issue 3 PUBLISHER Bevery Vote [email protected] To order your individual free subscription, go to www.breastcancerwellnesss.org or see page 42 to subscribe. Please contact Beverly Vote at [email protected] to request magazines for your events, support groups, or patients. ______________ DIRECTOR OF SALES Bonnie Phelps [email protected] 417.581.3438 Fax 417.581.3498 ______________ ART DIRECTOR Stacie L. Marshall www.hilldesignco.com [email protected] Wellness Blessings, Beverly Vote Publisher / Editor 17 year breast cancer survivor P.S. We are in need of an intern editor, someone who is interested in wholistic healing principles, respectful of others’ healing and religious beliefs, and would love to be part of the BCW team. If you have a gift for writing, enjoy connecting with breast cancer survivors, and this opportunity speaks to you, please e-mail me at [email protected]. 4 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine The Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine P.O. Box 2040 Lebanon, MO 65536 breastcancerwellness.org Published quarterly for Breast Cancer Wellness. Reader discretion is advised. Publisher of The Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine does not endorse or promote any product or service of advertisers of this publication nor does it verify the accuracy of any claims made in the advertisements or articles. This magazine is not intended to replace the care and advice of expert medical professionals. All rights reserved. Reproductions of any information appearing in this publication in whole or in part cannot be made without the express written permission of the publisher. Keep Your Heart Open The International Life and Mission of Olivia Newton-John by Beverly Vote Since age 15, Olivia Newton-John has connected with the world with her music and her passion. Her life’s accolades include four Grammy Awards, an Emmy Award, People Choice Awards, American Music Awards, and numerous Country Music Awards. Her songs include Physical, I Honestly Love You, Have You Ever Been Mellow, Let Me Be There, You’re the One That I Want, Hopelessly Devoted to You and Summer Nights. Her movies include Grease, Zanadu, Two of a Kind, It’s My Party and Sordid Lives. She has been inducted into the Australian Music Hall of Fame and has received the Lifetime Achievement Award in 2006. But Olivia is more than an internationally recognized superstar. She is a mom, a global humanitarian and philanthropist and she is an advocate for positive changes for Mother Earth. But a diagnosis of breast cancer drove her life deeper into her passion of serving the healing and wellness needs globally. It also activated Olivia to connect more deeply within herself which led her to become the happiest ever in her life. u www.breastcancerwellness.org 5 BCWFEATURE Tell her there is something that can ease the skin discomfort pRo-tone for radiation treatment by www.skinagain.com permanent and that I could open up to greater possibilities. Yes there were times when I thought I can’t do this, I will never find love again, I’ll never be happy again. Yes, you do have those thoughts. However, I think at the core of my being I have always been a positive person and I believe in possibilities.” “I feel very blessed and grateful through all those things. We all go through many challenges. Through the years, I have continued to learn lessons about keeping my life balanced, and I think this is what got me through my breast cancer experience and much more,” said Olivia. Without those lessons, Olivia says she wouldn’t be doing what she is doing today. In 2005, this gratitude led Olivia to co-write Grace and Gratitude, a healing and therapeutic CD. Olivia says she wrote it as much for her healing needs as well as for others. One of Olivia’s missions is to educate women on the importance of early detection and breast self-exams. The Liv Aid was created to help women with their monthly breast self-exams. The Liv Aid is a heart-shaped saline filled device that helps enhance the feelings in the fingers to more effectively feel breast tissue. It is very inexpensive, easy to use and is recommended by Dr. Bodai for better breast care. Visit the Liv Aid website at www.liv.com. Olivia is also on a mission to help change the way cancer is treated around the world and to find a cure. This is why she is involved in helping to raise funds for the Olivia NewtonJohn Cancer and Wellness Centre in partnership with Austin Health, a research hospital in her hometown Melbourne, Australia. This cancer and wellness center will include both Eastern and Western wellness principles which she believes helped her heal from breast cancer. To help raise funds, in the spring of 2008, Olivia helped lead a group of friends and supporters on the Great Walk to Beijing, a 23 day, 142 mile journey through both barren terrain as well as jagged, rugged and steep mountains. They were threatened by desert dust storms, felt ongoing fatigue and blisters, and didn’t have the pleasures and comforts of hot showers or running water. But in addition to the reward of raising much needed funds for Olivia’s cancer and wellness center, the walkers realized how much they had endured when they euphorically looked upon their experience from the perspective of reaching their destination with the spectacular mountain views beneath them and realizing how far they had come. The Great Walk to Beijing was symbolic of what cancer patients experience, meeting challenges on unchartered rough terrain, yet continuing to move forward. To make a donation to the Olivia Newton-John Cancer and Wellness Centre, go to www.greatwalktobeijing.com The Liv Aid is a convenient, inexpensive devise to help women with their monthly breast self-exams. The Most Trusted Name in Wigs Reveal a wig that suits your needs. Choose from a wide variety of comfortable wigs that offer realistic styles and colors to give you confidence. Receive a FREE CATALOG with a $10 off coupon at www.beautytrends.com/inforequest.asap or by calling us at 1-800-777-7772 www.beautytrends.com Order by phone 1-800-777-7772 8 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine or www.OliviaAppeal.com. Olivia and her business partner Gregg Cave own Gaia Retreat. Gaia Retreat is a spa and healing sanctuary that is located near Olivia’s farm in Australia’s Bryon Bay area. “Gaia” means spirit of Mother Earth. (In 2008, Gaia Retreat won the Conde’ Nast award for best spa in Australia.) “If I hadn’t believed in maintaining balance in my life, I probably wouldn’t have gotten involved in the spa which fortunately led me to marry a wonderful man,” said Olivia. In the summer of 2008, Olivia and John Easterling, the founder of the Amazon Herb Company were united in a private ceremony in the Amazon. In addition to being in love, Olivia and John have kindred viewpoints and missions about the world’s environmental, health and wellness issues. John has been involved in the study of the Amazon for over 30 years. His belief is that that the Rainforest must be protected as it is the living pharmacy for the planet because it supplies 30% of earth’s oxygen supply. John and Olivia donate to an organization called the Amazon Center of Education and Environmental Research. John helps to educate the people of the Amazon on the importance of the Rainforest to help protect against oil companies and logging companies that harm the Rainforest. Recently Amazon Herb Company, John, and Olivia launched a healthy drink called Zamu. The main ingredient in Zamu is the Camu Camu berry, that grows in the Amazon. It has been well known in Peru and Japan for its benefits to feel better and contains the highest concentration of vitamin C of any fruit. It hasn’t been as well known in America until recently. “Zamu is all organic; the ingredients are from the Rainforest. It makes you feel good; it’s slogan is, “Clear your mind, brighten your day,” said Olivia. “When I had breast cancer, I was very concerned about the environmental toxins. I wrote a CD about this, called Gaia. I believe women are directly connected to Mother Earth. I believe that my breast cancer was linked to the toxins that have polluted Earth. And as we are polluting the Earth, that pollution is penetrating our bodies. John and I are excited that our work is having a positive impact for Earth and for others. I am powerfully committed to what is best for the environment and to the mission of helping to change the way cancer is treated and for its cure.” Olivia is both an international superstar and an international superadvocate with a loving heart for human and environmental wellness. She continues to live her life with passion and with purpose to make a difference and she continues to connect with us through her music. Olivia’s message to all women is that “We are all bonded by the experience of breast cancer and the best thing we can do is to support each other. Always keep your heart open to love and to possibilities.” n For more information, visit these websites: www.OliviaNewton-John.com www.liv.com www.GaiaRetreat.com http://healthyvisions.amazonherb.net www.OliviaAppeal.com An Honest, Intimate Story of Healing From the Inside Out This book is your road map to inner healing. You are NOT alone. Free guided meditation audio Free affirmations bookmark “Vital information and companionship for those on a journey with breast cancer as well as those who support and accompany them.” Free shipping Read excerpts from this healing book here: www.AnneMarieBennett.com/book —Jane B., NH $14.95 ISBN: 9781442173880 617-974-7466 www.breastcancerwellness.org 9 Alchemy of Hope Dear Readers, If you are like a great many breast cancer survivors, you’ve experienced some degree of hopelessness – ranging from a transitory bout of the blues up to fullblown despair. Medical doctors are often unaware of the despair, whether lowgrade or acute, that lurks beneath the surface; many of you present a beautiful, smiling countenance in your clinic visits. We applaud your strength as survivors, but we also understand that there may be currents of emotion running deep within you. These feelings deserve attention, and need to be addressed in order to restore your natural state of hope and well-being. In this issue, we discuss one program that has proven effective in decreasing distress and despair among breast cancer patients, and provide you with its roadmap to personal recovery. With blessings and best wishes, Amy Jane As I entered the examining room, Rhonda leaned forward in her chair to greet me. A broad smile crossed her face. After all, we had journeyed through her chemotherapy together, and with the frequent contact over that six-month period, our relationship had been close. From deep in my heart, I smiled back. “How are you??” Rhonda had returned to the clinic for a routine visit, after completing her chemotherapy for breast cancer one year ago. She looked fine, was in good health, and reported no concerns. “Just fine, Doctor.” But my intuition was telling me otherwise. In the waiting room, Rhonda had completed a thorough questionnaire of symptoms and issues (among doctors, this is called a “review of systems”); the survey covers everything from side effects like pain and constipation to functionality, psychosocial disturbance including anxiety and distress, and sexual concerns. I scanned her answers for clues as to how she was doing; a host of high scores jumped off the page at me, signaling her actual experiences at this time: worry, anxiety, sadness, loneliness, insomnia. “Tell me about how you’ve been feeling, Rhonda,” I began. Though emotional disturbance – particularly distress and despair – are common among breast cancer survivors, this aspect of cancer’s impact is often neglected by providers, who may be simply unaware. The sufferer endures her feelings in isolation and silence. It’s not surprising that the psychological impact of cancer has been neglected. Until recently, medical care has placed the vast majority of time and attention on the physical aspects of cancer, striving to treat the disease itself and to mitigate physical symptoms and side effects. Psychosocial issues related to cancer were considered the business of the individual, possibly aided by friends, family, caregivers, or professional therapists and psychologists. Today, however, we are witnessing a growing consciousness that psychosocial needs among cancer patients are real, important, and largely unmet. The Seven Pillars of Personal Recovery In a sentinel report that drew widespread attention and catalyzed action at many medical centers, the Institute of Medicine (IOM) explored the prevalence, severity, and repercussions of psychosocial issues among cancer patients. Cancer Care for the Whole Patient: Meeting Psychosocial Needs (IOM, 2007) provides a host of data showing that psychological distress and despair are common and weigh heavily on many cancer patients, taking a toll in multiple areas of their lives. New processes of medical care are allowing us to better understand the emotional, as well as the physical, landscape inhabited by our cancer patients. For example, at Duke we have instituted an electronic system in which breast cancer patients and survivors, while sitting in the waiting area, answer an assessment questionnaire. They respond to 86 questions regarding their experiences, both physical and psychosocial, using an “e/Tablet,” a wireless personal computer that resembles a spiral-bound notebook with a pen-like stylus for touch-screen responses. The report generated from these responses is a full review of systems; results are made immediately available to the nurse and doctor. In this way, we can learn – efficiently and privately – what is, and what is not, troubling the individual before she comes into the clinic room for her visit. This new system has already provided some important information. In a pilot study, we enrolled 50 women with metastatic breast cancer who each completed the electronic assessment at four clinic visits. At the outset, these women reported multiple symptoms; approximately half of them indicated worry Unique Breast Cancer Clothing Designed To Help You... • Designed by a breast cancer survivor using wicking material for sensitive skin. • Cool Chemo garments are fashionable, comfortable and are available in a Top, Long Pant, Capri and Cap. • Discreet snap channels manage the tubes to the drain pocket. • Drain pocket is secure and completely removable after treatment. • Sleeves cut to address the issue of lymphedema. Confident Clothing Company™ (831) 440-8834 direct 10 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine To see more styles and colors visit our website at: www.confidentclothingcompany.com “I am rediscovering hope in my life.” “I am taking my life back from cancer.” and nervous, tense, or anxious feelings, and a quarter of them reported feelings of sadness or depression, hopelessness, guilt, and crying Clearly, breast cancer can cause a lot of distress and despair. What can we do for these women? For Rhonda? “I thought I’d just get better, you know, get my feet back down on the ground, after chemo ended,” Rhonda said, “but that just never happened. In a bizarre way, I even missed coming into clinic. It was like I lost my support network.” Like many women, Rhonda had a strong sense of purpose and determination when she was in the midst of treatment, but felt stranded, alone, and out of sorts when she no longer needed to make regular trips to Duke for infusions. She no longer talked to fellow survivors in the waiting room before her treatments, didn’t chat with the nurses about her kids, lost her connection to the hustle and bustle of oncology. Her questionnaire reflected this. Belying her smile, her responses showed that she was experiencing trouble thinking and concentrating, insomnia, worry, feelings of hopelessness, and feelings of worthlessness. Rhonda was an optimal candidate for a focused psychosocial care program. At Duke, we are studying different approaches to psychosocial care. One program, Pathfinders, has drawn considerable attention. Pathfinders is an integrative psychosocial care program designed to benefit people affected by cancer at all stages, from first diagnosis throughout survivorship. By addressing the emotional, social, and spiritual issues that accompany a cancer journey, the program fosters healing and personal growth for patients, families, and caregivers. A Pathfinder is a trained professional, usually a clinically experienced social worker, who works one-on-one with the patient (and caregiver, where possible) to identify and activate the patient’s innate strengths, and to teach the patient specific coping skills that will assist “I understand the power within me.” “I am doing all I can to help myself be well.” “I am giving and receiving the support I need.” her in navigating the cancer journey. Through both therapist-led and selfguided inquiry, the individual progresses toward “personal recovery” – that is, an ability to live fully, meaningfully, and with a sense of deep personal well-being despite the presence of cancer. In a pilot clinical trial at Duke, we studied the impact of Pathfinders on metastatic breast cancer patients and found that, even in this group of women with advanced disease, the program decreased distress and despair. Why? We hypothesize that this is because Pathfinders focuses on strengths, possibilities, and what is working well in the patient’s life, rather than on needs and what is not working. The program is designed to identify and amplify the individual’s own inner resources, though they may be dormant, and to harness those assets and capacities in service of personal recovery. Pathfinders takes a pragmatic approach to this process, following a program manual but tailoring care to each individual and her unique strengths, concerns, and circumstances. Central to the Pathfinders model is the Seven Pillars of Personal Recovery, a framework for assessment and inner growth that guides the patient in seven dimensions of healing: hope, balance, inner strengths, self care, support, spirit, and life review. There is nothing mysterious or magical about the Seven Pillars. In a certain sense, we all recognize them and understand their significance. They are familiar concepts from our religious traditions, family upbringing, self-help activities, poetry and literature, even therapy. What programs like Pathfinders do is to create a framework that helps cancer patients put these perennial values to work for them at a time of challenge, transforming that challenge into an opportunity for personal growth. u “I am exploring my beliefs about life, death and Spirit.” “I am fully present in the journey of my life.” “ We wrote this book with the purpose of providing the kind of encouragement and advice we give our patients every day. ” –Jude McKay & Tamera Schacher US $18.95 • ISBN: 978-572246218 A reassuring, must-have guide for anyone undergoing treatment for cancer. Packed with practical suggestions, nutritional advice, relaxation skills, and other techniques to strengthen the body. newharbingerpublications 800-748-6273 • newharbinger.com Sign up for our book alerts at newharbinger.com www.breastcancerwellness.org 11 I referred Rhonda to our Pathfinders psychosocial care study, for which we were enrolling patients at Duke. She met with a Pathfinder weekly for several months. In the first session, she and the Pathfinder clarified Rhonda’s biggest stressors; she articulated, in her own words, her worries, the emotions that kept her up at night, and the thoughts that incessantly spun in her head. This open talk about Rhonda’s daily thoughts and fears was the first step in creating a new coping plan for her. The Pathfinder listened to Rhonda’s constellation of worries and expectations, identified her coping mechanisms, and then tailored the intervention to Rhonda’s unique situation. Not wanting to appear pessimistic or to jinx her chances, Rhonda was reluctant to talk about her biggest fear - what if the chemotherapy didn’t work? This fear was seeping into her daily life, dampening her optimism and her enjoyment of favorite activities. The Pathfinder led Rhonda through a life review exercise, and encouraged her to acknowledge her fears about dying while reconnecting to the things that give her life meaning and joy. Rhonda also learned some simple breathing techniques to help her relax when she became anxious. Rhonda decided to share her concerns and wishes with her husband, Jim. Not knowing how to help Rhonda, Jim had been feeling powerless and distant. The couple began a beautiful dialogue about what their individual needs and mutual appreciation. They started going out on a date night each week to rekindle their intimacy. Following some simple steps within the Seven Pillars of Personal Recovery model, Rhonda regained a sense of control over her life and her emotions. She felt more empowered to handle the daily challenges of cancer and more present to enjoy her life. Her despair waned, replaced instead by a sense of calm gratitude for her life and the ones she loved. In our pilot study of Pathfinders at Duke, we found that even women with very advanced metastatic breast cancer found relief from despair through working with Pathfinders and the Seven Pillars of Personal Recovery. In fact, for those women who completed the six-month assessment, we found a 55% relative reduction in the subscale score for despair, and a 39% relative reduction in the subscale score for distress. This dramatic improvement came through the women’s commitment to owning their inner strengths and working with the psychosocial care principles in their daily lives. Through this process, they learned to love themselves, and their lives, in a deep and abiding way, a way that even cancer cannot touch. I am reminded of a famous quote from Victor Frankl, who endured challenging times beyond our darkest nightmares. Frankl observed that “… everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” We all have the power to choose love, peace, and recovery. Our research in psychosocial care has shown us that, in the face of these truths, despair will recede. n Name Brand Wigs Amy Abernethy, MD Dr. Amy Abernethy obtained her medical degree and post graduate training in Internal Medicine, Hematology, and Medical Oncology at Duke University and trained in Palliative Medicine and Cancer Pain Clinical Trails at Flinders University in Australia. She is Director of the Duke Cancer Care Research Program, faculty member of Duke Clinical Research Institue and Duke Comprehensive Cancer Care Control Program and Senior Fellow of the Duke Center for Clinical Health Policy Research. Her research focuses on evidence-based solutions for improving the cancer patients’ experiences. http://www.cancer.duke.edu/dccrp/ Jane Wheeler, MSPH Jane Wheeler received her undergraduate degree from Princeton University and her master of science in public health from Harvard University. She has studied complementary and alternative medicine in various venues, including the Acupressure Institute (Berkeley, CA) and McKinnon Institute for Professional Bodywork (Oakland, CA). She formerly served as a certified massage therapist, and has maintained an active yoga practice for 20 years in the Iyengar, Astanga, and Anusara traditions. She currently serves as Research Associate in the Duke Cancer Care Research Program and Medical Instructor at Duke University School of Medicine. She can be reached by email at [email protected]. 12 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine www.breastcancerwellness.org 13 for me What You Wear Can Make a Difference Choices After Breast Surgery by Lee Thrash Over the years, Amoena has lived out its mission to provide a better quality of life for women after breast surgery by developing innovative breast forms that have changed lives. But don’t take our word for it – let the women who wear Amoena explain how our products make a difference for them every day. Are you looking for a new sense of balance? Christy Geuter Wears Amoena Climate, Amoena Swimwear “In 2005, I had a bilateral mastectomy and since then, I have used several breast forms, my favorite being the climate-control lightweight forms. They keep me so comfortable! I usually wear them in a pocketed seamless bra. I love the way I look in clothing. When people find out that I am a 10-year survivor, they always say something like ‘Oh my goodness, I had no idea!’ That is the best compliment, and I think it is what most women want to hear! I was hesitant to wear Amoena swimsuits. I was afraid I would look old. But then I realized the swimsuit line has something for all ages – there are two-piece suits, tankinis, suits with short-skirted bottoms… The silicone swimform is perfect. Since it’s lightweight, it won’t pull the suit down when you bend over and looks like a natural breast would in a swimsuit. I have about 6 Amoena suits now!” 14 “I have worn the Balance symmetry shapers from the beginning of my reconstruction to present day. I wear them with the Amoena bras, sports bras and in my bathing suits, too. Sometimes I forget that I was wearing the shaper and end up digging around the laundry basket for the thing! You have to laugh about it! This product has truly helped my self-image, which was lagging after difficult surgeries. I have been in fashion since I was a teenager, so clothes and presentation were just a natural part of me. Amoena was essential to rebuilding my confidence and it really makes a difference to feel like I can wear tightfitting or any trendy clothes. I am slowly returning to modeling, where all the women at the casting calls are just perfect…. As a survivor, I have to remind myself not to compare, but just be the best I can be. The symmetry shapers make me look my best!” Bonnie Marshall Wears Amoena Contact, Amoena bras “The Mona bras are so comfortable, I even sleep in them from time to time. I have come to love the Contact attachable breast forms and wear them nearly every day. They are so natural looking and feeling. It did take me a week or so to get used to the sensation of the Contact on my chest, but now I wear them in the lake, the hot tub, to work… everywhere. No one knows that I’m a bilateral mastectomy patient unless I tell them. Finding this product changed my life… both personally and professionally. I am able to wear clothes and swimsuits that had hung in my closet or been in a drawer for more than two years. What a sense of freedom.” Amoena’s promise is to continue making products with compassion and integrity – to make a difference for all women during their healing journeys. n Lee Thrash E-business & PR Coordinator, Amoena USA Lee Thrash manages Amoena’s online community, theBreastCareSite.com, Amoena Life magazine, and other online and print publications which help breast cancer survivors and their families. A graduate of Emory University, her writing experience includes reporting for and editing health care journals such as Hospital Case Management, Case Management Advisor, and Hospital Home Health (AHC Media), as well as 10+ years editing educational websites, brochures and publications. Amoena ® Balance Symmetry Shapers slip in your favorite bra and restores breast symmetry after a lumpectomy, reconstruction and multiple biopsies— providing a non-surgical solution for a more symmetrical silhouette. Renèe is a 10 year breast cancer survivor and Amoena Balance wearer. Rebecca Single Wears Amoena Balance Symmetry Shapers, Amoena bras Visit our store locator at www.amoena.us or call 1-800-741-0078 to find an Amoena retailer near you. Amoena is the world-wide leader in post-breast surgery products. Post-breast surgery products may be covered by Medicare and private insurance. Insist on Amoena / www.amoena.us Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine ©2009 All rights reserved. Amoena USA Corporation, GA 30144-4582, Kennesaw, USA Amoena is a registered trademark of Amoena Medizin-Orthopädie-Technik GmbH. A Miracle Seed by Christine Horner, MD If you were given only one choice of a food to take as medicine, your best choice would be the tiny seeds from flax. Flaxseeds have more potent medicinal qualities—especially those that fight breast cancer—than any other known edible plant. This small seed provides a fortress of protection against breast cancer as well as many other health ailments. OMEGA-3 FATTY ACIDS The intelligence contained in flax is so spectacular that it coordinates a sensational offense against breast cancer. Flax has three notable distinctions. First, it’s the richest plant source of omega-3 fatty acids. Research has found that women who eat the highest amounts of omega-3s have the lowest risk of breast cancer. Omega-3 fatty acids help to lower the risk of breast cancer by quieting inflammation and by decreasing the rate at which breast cells divide in response to estrogen. Inflammation is a key factor in the initiation and progression of a variety of diseases including heart disease, rheumatoid arthritis, skin diseases, and cancers such as breast cancer. If you have breast cancer, omega-3s have been found to help shrink breast tumors and prevent them from spreading to other parts of the body. I recommend taking one to two tablespoon’s a day of organic flax oil. My favorite brand is Barlean’s Organic Oils because their products are produced with the highest quality standards: they are organically grown and produced, freshly made, contained in a dark bottles to protect them from sunlight, and stamped with an expiration date. Barlean’s Organic Oils come in many different flavors including a delicious “Omega Swirl” which includes flavored yogurt and tastes like a fruit smoothie. LIGNANS The second exceptional quality of flax has to do with something called “lignans.” Lignans are natural plant compounds that help to give stiffness to the structure of plants. They also possess extraordinary anticancer properties with an astonishing ability to help protect against and fight breast cancer. Lignans are found abundantly in certain fruits, vegetables, beans, seeds, and legumes—for example, garlic, carrots, broccoli, asparagus, dried apricots, and 16 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine termine the exact role this supplement may play in cancer treatment. Brevail is standardized to one type of lignan found in flax, “secoisolariciresinol diglycoside” (SDG). Of all the lignans found in flax, SDG is the one found in the highest amounts and is possibly the most potent. If you decide to take Brevail, I think it’s a good idea to eat flaxseed, too. In addition to the advantages of lignans, flax has many other anticancer properties that you wouldn’t want to miss out on. prunes. But, the amount of lignans in these plants is miniscule compared to that in flaxseeds. Flaxseeds contain at least 100 times more lignans than any other known edible plant! Lignans deter and arrest the growth of breast cancer in a multitude of ways. First, they act as a weak estrogen and block strong cancer-promoting estrogens from attaching to the estrogen receptors in the breast. Second, lignans change the structure of the breast making it more resistant to toxins that induce cancer. Third, if you have breast cancer, lignans can stop the tumor cells from growing and help to prevent the metastasis of your tumor. They do this by decreasing two growth factors that fuel the fires of breast cancer: insulinlike growth factor (IGF-1) and something called “epidermal growth factor.” IGF-1 is thought to be one of the most dangerous and potent risk factors for breast and prostate cancer. There is another cancer-enhancing growth factor that lignans thwart, called “vascular endothelial growth factor” (VEGF). VEGF stimulates new blood vessels to grow. In order for a tumor to grow larger, it needs more nutrients-nutrients that can only be delivered by new blood vessels. So the more blood vessels that grow into a tumor, the more food that is delivered to it, and the faster it will grow. On the contrary, without new blood vessels, tumors can’t grow larger. Cancer specialists recently discovered that this anticancer tactic used by lignans--blocking VEGF--is so powerful at stopping tumor growth that they have created a new anticancer drug that works this same way. It is called Avastin (bevacizumab) and was released on the market in 2004. Avistan is currently only approved for the treatment of metastatic colon cancer and must be given in combination with another chemotherapy drug called 5-FU. Lignans have several additional ways that they reduce the risk of breast cancer. They create more of the “good” protective kind of estrogen and less of the “bad” cancer-promoting type. They also reduce the production of estrogen in fat cells by blocking the aromatase enzyme. Aromatase converts androgens to estrogens (The new anti-breast cancer drug Arimidex works in the same way). According to a 1993 study from the University of Rochester, lignan-rich flaxseeds also lengthen the menstrual cycle. For example, if a woman has a menstrual period every 28 days and then starts consuming flaxseeds, her cycles may lengthen to every 32 days. The longer your menstrual cycles are, the fewer the number of cycles you will have over your lifetime, and the less estradiol you will produce. Simply put, the longer your menstrual cycles are, the lower your risk of breast cancer is. All of the very effective schemes that lignans use to combat breast cancer add up to lots of protection. Research shows that women with the highest amounts of lignans in their urine—a reflection of how much they consume in their diet— have the lowest risk of breast cancer. Brevail is made of isolated, purified, and concentrated lignans from flaxseed. The dose in one daily capsule was strategically designed to create levels of lignans in the body that are in the same range as that found in women with the lowest risk of breast cancer. There are two major benefits to taking supplemental lignans. First, the amount of lignans in flax can vary from crop to crop by as much as 300 percent, whereas those in the supplement are standardized so you always get the optimal amount. Secondly, studies show that the lignans in Brevail are absorbed eighteen times more effectively than they are from ground flaxseed. So, taking lignans in this supplemental form guarantees that you get the healthiest dose of lignans every day. Brevail is not recommended for women who are pregnant or currently breast feeding, not because it isn’t safe, but because no studies have been conducted yet on this special group of FIBER women to analyze the effects and proper dose. Taking Brevail with other cancer drugs is also not recommended because this product hasn’t been studied in women currently undergoing cancer treatment. However, that may change in the near future. A study published in the journal Breast Cancer Research and Treatment in July 2003 found that lignans enhance the effectiveness of the common cancer medication Tamoxifen. Researchers J. Chen and Lillian Thompson found that lignans and Tamoxifen, alone and—better yet—in combination, reduce the ability of estrogen-receptornegative tumor cells to stick together, invade, and migrate—all important properties in cancer’s ability to grow and spread. More research is needed to de- The third property of flax that lowers your risk of breast cancer is its abundant fiber. High-fiber diets are associated with a 54 percent lower risk of breast cancer. Fiber helps to lower the amount of estrogen in your body by binding to it in your intestines and then expelling it from your body. EATING FLAXSEEDS Three Lollies The Natural Way to Ease a Queasy Stomach All Natural and Delicious Drug Free and Doctor Recommended Soothing and Comforting Conceived by Health Care Professionals It is recommended to eat at least 3 tablespoons of ground flaxseeds a day. To eat them, you must first grind them in a coffee grinder until they become a fine nutty powder because the hard seeds can’t be digested. Add the ground seeds to just about anything you like: vegetable dishes, salads, smoothies, baked goods such as muffins, and cereal. n Receive a 15% discount off purchases from our website www.threelollies.com Christine Horner, MD Christine Horner, MD is a board certified and nationally recognized surgeon, author, expert in natural medicine, professional speaker and a relentless champion for women’s health. She is the author of Waking the Warrior Goddess: Dr. Christine Horner’s Program to Protect Against and Fight Breast Cancer, winner of the Independent Book Publishers Award 2006 for “Best Book in Health, Medicine, and Nutrition.” For more information go to www.drchristinehorner.com. Code: feelbetter CALL Toll Free 24 hours/day 866-PREGGIE (773-4443) International Orders: 714-973-7674 Arm sleeves, Gloves, Compression hosiery and Lymphedema products We sell Jobst, LympheDivas, Mediven, Juzo, and Sigvaris at up to 40% less than pharmacy prices. Order online at www.BrightLifeDirect.com or call 1-877-545-8585 Monday – Friday 9AM – 6PM, ET Order by 2PM for same day shipping 30-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE www.breastcancerwellness.org 17 What’s Good to Eat Now? It’s no secret that a poor nutritional status may diminish the quality and quantity of life for cancer patients, robbing them of the building blocks needed to regenerate healthy cells and physically recover from the sometimes debilitating effects of cancer treatment. That’s why, early on in the treatment plan, physicians, physical therapists, and nutritionists should work together with patients and caregivers to manage eating challenges brought about by conventional treatment side effects and physical or metabolic changes. Timely nutritional intervention makes it possible for many patients to maintain their nutritional status through treatment. But then what? While cancer patients must always keep in mind the end goal of obtaining adequate calories and protein, they should also consider using nutrition as a way to challenge cancer and optimize their health. Scientists have discovered that many common foods like green tea, citrus fruits and soy beans, contain plant chemicals—called phytochemicals—that may boost immunity, protect Green Tea by Kim Dalzell, PhD, RD, LD healthy cells, and potentially reduce the risk of cancer metastasis or recurrence. Foods that may specifically benefit breast cancer patients include: Apples and Onions Apples, white grapefruit and onions contain quercetin, a plant compound classified as a citrus bioflavonoid. Human and animal studies suggest that bioflavonoids may have anti-allergy, anti-inflammatory and anti-tumor activity. A study in Rome revealed that quercetin, along with the anti-estrogen tamoxifen, was able to inhibit growth and division of a variety of cancer cell lines. Scientists also suggest that quercetin may reduce skin damage from radiation in patients. You may opt to eat raw apples or onions, or chose easy-toswallow whole plant alternatives like applesauce and grapefruit sections. Additionally, onion powder can be sprinkled liberally to season meats, soups and casseroles. Cranberries Cranberries are an excellent dietary source of proanthocyanidins, powerful water-soluble antioxidants that have been found to support heart health and protect against macular degeneration and cataracts. A recent University of California study found that cranberry extract blocked the growth and reproduction of two cancer cell lines in test tubes. Grape seed extract has also demonstrated cytotoxic activity toward the breast, lung, and stomach cancer As a member of Cancer Busters you receive: 4 CAM Expert Teleconferences: Learn about safe and effective alternative therapies for cancer 4 Discounts: Receive a 20% discount on products and services 4 Free Downloads: Access reliable nutrition advice from eBooks and archives 4 Monthly Prizes: Monthly chance to win a free nutrition consultation 4 Valuable Information: Get cutting edge answers to your personal questions Dr. Kim Dalzell 4 Recipes: Eat smart with cancer friendly recipes Ph.D., R.D., L.D. To join, visit www.cancerbusters.org today! Only $995 per month cells. Other foods rich in proanthocyanidins include blueberries, blackberries, cherries, plums, raspberries, red grapes, and strawberries. You may want to substitute regular morning orange juice with 100% cranberry juice blends (no additional sugar added) or toss a mixture of thawed out frozen berries into a bowl with low fat, plain yogurt for an eye-appealing, between-meal-snack. Curry The name “curry” is used to describe any food dish—from chicken to rice—that is made with a pureed mixture of onions, garlic, ginger, turmeric and coriander. One of those ingredients—tumeric—contains the plant chemical curcumin, which may protect cells from chromosomal damage. There are a large number of studies demonstrating the anti-cancer benefits of curcumin. For example, researchers in California found that curcumin could stop the growth and promoted apoptosis (cellular death) in cancer cells. Curried foods are served at Indian restaurants and curry recipes can be found in a variety of cookbooks. Curcumin is also available as a natural dietary supplement. The suggested dose is 200 to 400 mg daily under the supervision of a qualified healthcare professional. Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine Soy Diadzein and genistein are two weak plant estrogens (isoflavones) found in soybeans. They have the most active blocking potential against estrogen receptors in the breast and ovaries, but also have demonstrated anti-cancer activity in several other cancer cell lines. Researchers have found that these isoflavones may enhance immunity by activating human natural killer cells. Genistein may also be effective in controlling the growth rate and metastatic properties of cancer cells in laboratory animals. Soybeans are extremely versatile and have been made into a variety of foods. You may wish to may top cereal with soy milk (chose the lite version if fat intake is a concern) or blenderize silken tofu with low-fat yogurt and fresh fruit to make a delicious smoothie. Soy dietary supplements are also available, but there may be risk associated with higher intakes of purified isoflavones, so it makes sense to choose soy foods, like tofu, soy beans, soy milk, etc., as a primary source of this cancer-fighting chemical. Every day, research from around the world demonstrates the powerful healing potential of plants. I would encourage you to view food as more than calories or protein. Rather, educate and empower yourself with the knowledge that plant chemicals found in common foods may provide a substantial link to better health and cancer recovery. Kim Dalzell, PhD, RD, LD, is an oncology nutrition expert and awardwinning author who motivates us to “chews” wisely for optimal health. To book her for a speaking engagement or order one of her books, please visit www.naturesanswertocancer.com. n Kim Dalzell, PhD, RD, LD Dr. Kim Dalzell is a doctor of holistic nutrition and registered dietitian who has helped thousands of cancer patients with her “inside-out” nature-based healing approach to cancer control. She is a sought after speaker, author of Challenge Cancer and Win!, industry spokesperson and founder of cancerbusters.org. To learn more about how you can control cancer with nutrition, please visit: www.naturesanswertocancer.com. Pro’s Choice Lotion, LLC Your Source for Pain Relief Erase your pain with the soothing lotions from Pro’s Choice Lotion Pro’s Choice Sports Lotion Relieve pain and swelling caused by arthritis, bursitis, fibromyalgia, sore muscles, and sprains. www.proschoicelotion.com 18 Catechins are polyphenolic compounds derived from tea. These compounds have a wide range of biological activities, including the potential to prevent breast cancer. Human, animal and test tube studies suggest that catechins may inhibit the activation of cancer-causing agents and have demonstrated anti-inflammatory, probiotic, and anti-microbial properties. Green tea contains more health-promoting compounds than black tea. But even if cancer patients aren’t tea drinkers, there is good news! Researchers noted during a clinical trial at The State University of New Jersey that subjects experienced high concentrations of catechins in their saliva without drinking the tea. They simply held the tea leaves or brewed tea in their mouths for 2-5 minutes and then rinsed thoroughly. For those of you who prefer to chew catechins, reach for more berries, grapes, peaches, persimmons, plums and strawberries—all good sources of polyphenols. Receive 10% off Your First Purchase Toll Free Pro’s Choice COOL DOWN When you have recently suffered a burn of some kind our lotions are what you need. 877-249-8579 [email protected] [email protected] www.breastcancerwellness.org 19 Girl Talk for Survivors It seems as though my to-do list keeps getting longer and the time to do it gets to be less and less. I have two kids that need to be in two different places at the same time virtually all fall and a husband who has a high school football team of his own to tend to. Oh, boy. Something just keeps telling me this: Breathe! I can choose my attitude this fall. I can stress and make poor choices or I can do the best with what I have. I am choosing the latter. It is this very stage of life that I looked forward to, that I longed to be a part of someday when I was going through treatment. Now that it’s here I want to enjoy it. In order for me to really feel good about what is happening each day I need to know I am taking care of myself as well as my family. This is not a time for elaborate meals or really long daily workouts. In fact in might just be a time for a few minutes worth of wellness some days. I put together a few ideas for fitting in goodness on a time crunch. Add a few to your crazy day and maybe you will feel as though you can keep pace and still be healthy. In five minutes time you could… • Brew a pot of green tea • Call and schedule a doctor’s appointment • Breathe deeply • Do pushups and situps • Make a fruit and veggie packed smoothie • Get a mini massage • Enjoy the fresh air • Take vitamins • Pray by Heather Jose In ten minutes time you could… • Plan healthy meals for the day • Workout a schedule that includes time to exercise • Go outside and play in the garden • Visualize • Cut up fresh veggies to grab and go • Snuggle with someone you love • Pack a great lunch for work • Play tag with your kids or fetch with the dog In fifteen minutes time you might… • Put together a meatless meal • Call a friend • Read something inspirational Looking for Inspiration on your Cancer Journey? Buy the book today! • Yoga • Go for a walk or jog • Get a jump on bedtime • Decompress with music As a survivor being healthy is and needs to remain a priority for me. It is about knowing myself, and what I can handle. There is no way I could have been this busy when I was diagnosed and still devoted the time I found necessary to heal from cancer. Finding the time is different for everyone. Listen to yourself and enjoy the ride. n Heather Jose Diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer at 26, Heather Jose chose to fight the cancer head on putting together a plan to battle cancer on a daily basis. Ten years later, Heather is healthy and using her experiences to speak to healthcare providers and patients about how much their actions and words can impact success. Heather is the author of “Letters to Sydney: Every Day I am Killing Cancer”. www.heatherjose.com. Are you ready to go Beyond Treatment? Heather Jose is a ten year survivor of stage IV breast cancer. Diagnosed at 26, Heather chose to go beyond treatment to kill cancer. Heather is a dynamic speaker and writer, inspiring action in survivors and the heathcare providers that they encounter. She will empower your group to make positive actions and words count. It’s time to go beyond treatment! Contact Heather today. [email protected] (517) 262-8397 www.GoBeyondTreatment.com 20 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine “Letters to Sydney is a compelling and riveting approach to give hope to those experiencing cancer. it is a must read for every woman diagnosed with cancer.” –Greg Anderson, Author of The Cancer Conqueror Founding Chairman & CEO Cancer Recovery Foundation of America Call Us Toll Free 1-866-790-3274 Email: [email protected] Visit www.MyTresses.com o Your Secret T Hair! Natural Looking Lace Front Wigs, Hairpieces and Hair Extensions Natural Hairline • Premium Remy 100% Human Hair Handmade • Contouring Stretch Lace for The Ultimate Fit www.breastcancerwellness.org 21 What To Do With Someone Living With Survivor Guilt Be on the lookout for it. Keep your eyes and ears open to it. Chances are your loved one could be experiencing it. Survivor guilt. A little talked about condition, survivor guilt occurs when those who are, well, surviving an illness or negative event, and start to feel guilty about doing so. That may sound incredulous to you; shouldn’t we just be darned grateful to be alive? Well, yes, but it doesn’t always happen that way. It is not uncommon amongst those living with a terminal illness or those having lived through traumatic times. Survivor guilt first came to light during periods of war when returning soldiers, mourning the loss of their peers, started having trouble with the fact that they came home and their buddies didn’t. It has been repeated with people living with HIV (“I admit that I’ve taken just as many risks with my health as he did, so why don’t I have it?” a survivor may be thinking) and even those living with breast cancer. So how can you support someone you suspect is coping with survivor guilt? Consider the following tips: 1. Gently broach the subject. Saying “Mom, I have been noticing some things that you say in conversation and I want to ask you about them. When you say ‘I don’t know why I’m here and your Aunt Betty isn’t’, it makes me feel like you’re worried and feeling bad about living with your disease. Can we talk about this?” 2. Reassure and reflect. A comment to your loved one that you are grateful they are taking treatment, eating right, focused on healing or whatever action they’re taking to get well again, will help to gently remind them that there is a purpose to their lives. Reflecting on the positive events they’ve been part of can also help (for example, “I am so glad you felt up to attending Susan’s birthday lunch with me! She really appreciated our being there.”) 3. Find professional resources. Depending on the severity of your loved one’s feelings, it may be necessary to seek professional assistance. Do your homework: develop a contact list of professionals in your area who are skilled in the area of survivor guilt. They will usually be the ones who have been trained to work with posttraumatic stress disorder. Being given a diagnosis of a serious illness can wreck havoc not just on the body, but the mind as well. Doing what you can to assist your loved one’s emotional state of mind, as well as their physical well being is just one more gift you can give to your relationship and to strengthen the bond of communication. And don’t forget your own peace of mind. Caring for someone who is coping with guilt issues can take its toll on you, too. Be sure to have a strong network of caring friends and helpful people who you can call on for coping. n Ann Leach Ann Leach is the founder and president of Life Preservers: a global grief support community. She served as the primary caregiver for her mother, who died of cancer twenty-one years ago. Ann produces an award-winning free online newsletter called In the Flow for caregivers coping with loss. Visit www.life-preservers.org for more information. Helping caregivers chart their course through the waves of change Visit www.life-preservers.org to purchase your copy of 101 Tips for Caregiver Coping & 101 Tips for Caregiver Grieving By Ann Leach, The Caregiver Coach Need coaching support or a conference speaker? Contact Ann at 417.624.3377 22 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine W hen a woman hears the frightening words, “You have breast cancer,” she instantly wonders if she will ever feel whole again. Fortunately, women can return to a sense of “normalcy” with an external prosthesis. by Ann Leach Breast Cancer Wellness Readers – Take $1 off the purchase price! As a 25 year breast cancer survivor, I have faced that moment of truth where a whirlwind of emotions almost brought me to my knees. I remember the crushing burden of trying to decide among the several options available to me to rid my body of this disease. After much thought, I finally decided to have a modified radical mastectomy in the 1980s. One of the few faint rays of hope that provided me with encouragement was the thought that at least I would look “normal” thanks to an external prosthesis. Today women can find a breast form for their specific needs. Innovations such as light weight forms, ultra light forms, swim forms and partials have improved the wear, comfort and appearance for women all over the world. I am awed to be named a co-inventor of the newest innovation in the long line of breast prosthesis improvements, The Massage Form. Leslie Amick, the breast form designer at American Breast Care, and I spent a great deal of time conceiving and wear-testing this innovative design. The result was a significant improvement in wear-ability, comfort and enhanced dissipation of warmth in the chest wall area. The Massage Form connects with the chest wall, has a cooling effect, while providing a secure fit in the bra. It provides the wearer with a “natural breast” sensation. The entire process has been extremely gratifying for me. It has taught to me to encourage the women I meet to bring their insights gathered from wearing a breast form to the attention of women like Leslie. For each idea, there is the possibility of the next innovation in breast form design. - Ellen Tassone, CMF, 25 year survivor Amazing New Breast Prosthesis *Don’t miss your chance to meet with the co-inventors of The Massage Form, Ellen Tassone and Leslie Amick, for fittings and consultations. Dates and times are noted below. Alabama The Massage Form “My name is Ellen Tassone and I am a 25 year breast cancer survivor. After having worn forms of all sizes, weights and shapes, The Massage Form has proven to be the most comfortable for me. 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The Total Woman Boutique Fittings by Michele, Inc. Susan’s Special Needs The Massage Form is protected by patent pending. Wayne Pharmacy & Respiratory Home Care Medical Department Store LaBelle Swimwear and Lingerie The Massage Form massages, cools and hugs your body. Silhouette Shoppe 1564 F. Montgomery Hwy, Hoover, AL 35216 Kahler Hotel, 20 2nd Ave. SW #117, Rochester, MN 55902 Phone: (205)823-6407; Sept. 29th & 30th, 9:30am - 5:30pm Phone: (507) 289-1572; Oct. 15th (Call for event times) The Bra Lady Boutique Resolutions 2 Knueppel HealthCare Services, Inc. Visit the retailers below on special promotion days to experience The Massage Form. Find your local store below and call for details. Promotions Days A rkAnsAs Barbara Graves Intimate Fashions, Little Rock, AR (501) 227-5537; Sept. 24th & 25th C AliforniA Marzel’s, Walnut Creek, CA; (925) 939-2450; Oct. 20th Marzel’s, Pleasanton, CA; (925) 227-1402; Oct. 21st Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, Center Line, MI; (586) 497-4810; Oct. 7th, 10am-4pm Late Bloomers, San Mateo, CA (650) 343-7000; The month of October Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, Royal Oak, MI; (248) 288-0441; Oct. 8th, 10am-4pm Willie’s Specialty Shop, Orange, CA; (714)771-4310; Oct. 23rd Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, Southgate, MI; (734) 281-3031; Oct. 9th, 1pm-4pm M iChiGAn Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, Eastpointe, MI; (586) 779-7771; Oct. 6th, 1pm-4pm C onneCtiCut The Boutique at Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale, New Haven, CT M ississippi (203) 200-CARE(2273); Opening Oct. 2009 Fitting Concepts, Tupelo, MS; (662) 841-2476; Oct. 6th & 7th f loridA nd rd Baptist Women’s Boutique at the Towers of Baptist Hospital, Sal Liz, Flowood, MS; (601) 932-0179; Sept. 22 & 23 Pensacola, FL; (850)469-7252; Oct. 20th & 21st M issouri Hulston Cancer Center, Springfield, MO Colonial Medical Supply, Altamonte Springs, FL (417)269-5257; Oct. 23rd, 10am - 3pm (407)849-6455; Oct. 13th - 16th n ew h AMpshire Medical Department Store, Punta Gorda, FL Lady Grace Stores, Salem, NH; (603) 898-0522; Nov. 7th (941) 637-7330; Nov. 11th Medical Department Store, Fort Myers, FL n ew J ersey (239) 482-6111; Nov. 12th & 13th Ridgewood Corset Shop, Ridgewood, NJ (201) 444-5763; Oct. 5th & 6th th Perkins Medical Supply, Port St. Lucie, FL; (772) 337-4631; Oct 5 n ew y ork st nd Silvia’s Corset Shoppe, Coral Gables, FL;(305) 446-8484; Oct. 30th Blum’s, Patchogue, NY; (631)475-0136; Oct. 1 & 2 G eorGiA Cat’s Pajamas, Ltd., McDonough, GA (770)954-1005; Oct. 1st M Aine Sullivan Center, Saco, ME (207)571-9329; Oct. 15th M ArylAnd Sylene, Chevy Chase, MD; (301) 654-4200 Check website for promotion dates: www.sylenedc.com M AssAChusetts Lady Grace Stores, Brookline, MA; (617)566-8194; Nov. 2nd Lady Grace Stores, Braintree, MA; (781) 848-6188; Nov. 3rd Lady Grace Stores, Danvers, MA; (978) 774-7141; Nov. 4th Lady Grace Stores, Woburn, MA; (781) 569-0727; Nov. 5th Lady Grace Stores, Tyngsboro, MA; (978) 649-3942; Nov. 6th n orth C ArolinA Unique Boutique, Charlotte, NC; (704)377-4356 o hio Ida-Joy Shoppes, Parma, OH; (440) 884-8220; Oct. 19th & 20th Ida-Joy Shoppes, Warrensville Heights, OH (216) 831-2048; Oct. 21st & 22nd p ennsylvAniA That Special Woman, Edwardsville, PA; (570)288-6688 s outh C ArolinA Designed by Nature, Greenwood, SC; (877) 242-2462; Oct. 14th (Also serving Aiken & Greenville) t ennessee A Fitting Place, Memphis, TN; (901) 682-0210; Oct. 1st-30th v irGiniA M iChiGAn Stepping Stones Women’s Center, Mechanicsville, VA Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, (804) 746-9880; Oct. 12th Sterling Heights, MI; (586) 737-2324; Oct. 5th, 9am-12pm Lourine’s Breast Prosthesis & Wigs, Salem, VA Binson’s Home Health Care Centers/Lady Binson’s Boutique, (540) 387-0158; Oct. 20th th Troy, MI; (248) 828-3143; Oct. 5 , 1pm-4pm All of the retailers below proudly carry The Massage Form. Visit your local mastectomy retailer today. Participating Retailers Arizona A Private Affair, Chandler, AZ; (480)345-6141 California Beeman’s Boutique, San Bernardino, CA; (909)882-0193 The Hers Breast Cancer Foundation, Fremont, CA; (510) 790-1911 Nordstrom at The Galleria at Tyler in Riverside, Riverside, CA; (951) 351-3107 Women’s Health Boutique, Escondido, CA; (760) 746-5146 The Power of Pink, Fresno, CA; (559) 434-5400 Siloette, Los Altos, CA; (650) 917-1771 Colorado Nordstrom at Park Meadows Mall, Lone Tree, CO; (303) 799-3400 Connecticut West End Medical, Norwich, CT; (860) 889-8785 Florida Beauty Plus, Bradenton, FL; (941)755-7500 Binson’s Home Health Care Centers, Winter Park, FL; (407) 679-2135 Binson’s Home Health Care Centers, Altamonte Springs, FL; (407) 691-3009 Family Healthcare Supply, Sarasota, FL; (941)923-7556 New Beginnings, Fort Walton Beach, FL; (850)581-7700 Illinois Iroquois Home Care Inc., Watseka, IL; (815) 432-6155 Freeport Home Medical Equipment, Freeport, IL; (815) 297-0504 Freeport Home Medical Equipment Belvidere, Belvidere, IL; (815) 566-4288 Vono Medical Supplies, Springfield, IL; (217) 522-2403 Indiana Beautiful Creations, Bloomington, IN; (812) 332-1556 The Cancer Center Boutique at Ball Memorial Hospital, Muncie, IN; (765) 751-5302 Fig Leaf Boutique at Community Hospital North, Indianapolis, IN; (317) 621-5323 Pill Box Pharmacy & Home Medical Equipment, Warsaw, IN; (574)267-4900 ext. 663 Iowa Clark &Associates Prosthetics and Orthotics, Mason City, IA; (641) 422-1423 Fittings Unlimited, Urbandale, IA; (515) 727-1406 Fittings Unlimited, Cedar Rapids, IA; (319) 383-8062 Kentucky Not Alone Too Fitting Boutique, Paducah, KY; (270)898-1819 VDK at Grogan’s Healthcare Supply, Lexington, KY;(859) 276-2950 OLBH Women’s Center Boutique, Ashland, KY; (606) 833-2130 King’s Daughters Home Medical, Ashland, KY; (606) 408-6399 Maryland Fran’s Nu Image, Waldorf, MD; (301) 843-9282 Massachusetts Friends Place at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute , Boston, MA; (617) 632-2211 Massachusetts Towne Medical Supply, Inc., Shrewsbury, MA; (800) 750-8121 Women’s Health Solutions, LLC, Hyannis, MA; (508) 775-5570 Michigan Comfortably Yours, St. Clair Shores, MI; (586) 776-7429 Minnesota Actra, Bloomington, MN; (952) 831-1500 Heide’s Mastectomy Shop, Edina, MN; 952-925-7837 Nordstrom at Mall of America, Bloomington, MN; (952) 883-2121 Missouri Missys’ Mirror, Division of Saint Luke’s Cancer Institute, Kansas City, MO; (816) 932-2565 Montana TLC Lingerie, Billings, MT; (406) 655-9400 New Jersey Bra and Girdle Factory, Lakewood, NJ; (732) 477-2227 New York Underneath It All , Inc., New York, NY; (212)717-1976 Underneath It All, Inc., New York, NY; (212)779-2517 Women’s Center at A & O Surgical Supplies, Bronx, NY; (718) 654-1882 MSKCC-Evelyn H. Lauder Breast Center, New York, NY; 646-888-5200 North Carolina Albemarle O & P, Elizabeth City, NC; (800)849-0460 Guilford Medical Supply, Greensboro, NC; (800) 458-3164 Second Nature, New Bern, NC; (800) 950-2302 Second to Nature, Greensboro, NC; (336) 274-2003 Triangle Mobility & Medical Supply, Princeton; NC; (919) 936-0404 Williams Medical Equipment, Gibsonville, NC; (336) 449-7357 Layne’s Family Pharmacy, Eden, NC; (336) 627-4600 Oklahoma The Fitting Room, Tulsa, OK; (918) 582-1975 Women’s Health Boutique, Oklahoma City, OK;(405) 936-0030 Pennsylvania Wigs and More Mastectomy Boutique; Latrobe, PA; (724) 532-1901 Rhode Island Ruth’s Lingerie, Inc., Cranston, RI; (401)941-5155 South Carolina Sarah Ann’s Undercover World, Greer, SC; (864)968-1699 Impressions Appearance Shoppe, Anderson, SC; (864) 512-4761 Becky’s Place, West Columbia, SC; (803) 791-2440 South Dakota Sanford Home Medical at Bloom Boutique, Sioux Falls, SD; (605) 328-6055 Texas New Impressions Boutique, Abilene, TX; (325) 437-3315 Virginia Lincare, Lynchburg, VA; (434) 528-0761 The Time is Now by Ambassador Nancy G. Brinker Dear Friends, As a nine-year-old girl, in 1955, I remember waking in my hometown of Peoria, Illinois, to hear bells ringing. Mom and Dad told me that factories stopped and teachers wept as a vaccine for polio was announced. I remember how we all celebrated. We knew life would be better – free of a cruel and calamitous disease that was only discussed in whispers. The sight of school friends in iron lungs and leg braces, the memory of a president with polio who couldn’t even talk about it was — we hoped — over. In the years that followed, we all lined up in the school cafeteria and gladly thrust our arms forward for the injections we knew would let us go to whatever swimming pool we wanted, to any of our friends’ homes, or to the park unafraid of a deadly virus. Controlling polio gave us as Americans the knowledge that we could control the most feared disease of our generation when we marshaled the national will and put in the effort to create the programs and education to go with it. This was the inspiration for two little girls a few years earlier, me, aged 5, and my sister, Susan G. Komen, aged 8, to hold the kind of fundraiser that only little girls could hold for polio – a little talent show in our back yard. Years later, when Susan died of another feared and cruel disease – breast cancer – and I was diagnosed with the disease, I would marshal that same spirit to challenge this cancer with a foundation named in my sister’s memory – Susan G. Komen for the Cure®. In the years since, fueled by passionate and determined women and men all over this country and around the world, Calling her a catalyst to ease suffering in the world, President Barack Obama honors Susan G. Komen for the Cure ® founding chair and cancer advocate Ambassador Nancy G. Brinker with the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the nation’s highest civilian honor, August 12, 2009 in Washington, D.C. Photo by Carrie Devorah. 28 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine Above: The Komen sisters, Suzy and Nancy kissing their mom Ellie Goodman. Right: 1st Global Race for the Cure, June 6, 2009 we have created a global movement against breast cancer, raising the funds and putting in the long hours and hard work that would lead to cures and educate women and men. In just one generation, we have made tremendous progress: with five-year survival rates of 98 percent for cancers that haven’t spread from the breast (compared with 74 percent in Susan’s time). Today, we have new treatments, better detection, more information about a disease that was discussed only in whispers in my time. More women are living longer, with a better quality of life, and more hope than at any time in our history. Most satisfying to me, as Goodwill Ambassador for Cancer Control to the World Health Organization, is that what we have learned in breast cancer is bringing new hope for all forms of cancer. And yet, we remain on the crest of a global cancer tsu- Nancy G. Brinker (left) poses with her sister, Susan G. Komen. nami, and it is time for America to lead a global effort to end a disease that will soon be the leading killer worldwide, particularly in countries with few resources, and for people in our own country who don’t have access to a system that could save them. The time is now. As the world population ages, the need to control cancer is paramount. And while our goal continues to be to find the cures for all cancers, we are at a place today where many cancers can be at the very least, chronic diseases, allowing women and men to escape a certain death sentence and maintain a quality of productive life. What we need most is for America to lead. We need the agreement and good will of lawmakers, who have been touched by cancer like the rest of us. We must make our voices heard in Washington to achieve a national cancer strategy. To broker ideas, to meet each other halfway, to allow physicians to determine how best to help cancer patients, to speed up discovery of the cures, and make treatments available for all. One of two men and one of three women in our country will grapple with cancer in their lifetimes. Everyone, including the leaders of this nation, is affected by this disease. Everywhere I go, I hear the stories of husbands, wives, mothers, sisters, aunts and uncles, cut down by cancer, just as my sister was cut down at the age of 36. I marvel at the strength of the survivors, and their resolve to end it. The national will is there. We must put that national will to work. We in America must meet -- with clear minds and hearts full of hope – this challenge, to create a world where cancer is conquered. The world waits for America to lead, and for the church bells to ring once again. With warm regards and appreciation, Nancy G. Brinker Ambassador Nancy G. Brinker Founding Chair, Susan G. Komen for the Cure® www.breastcancerwellness.org 29 St. Louis Affiliate of Susan G. ® Komen for the Cure Cares by Beverly Vote “We recently held our 11th Annual Susan G. Komen St. Louis Race for the Cure and I have to stop and reflect on what an incredible event it was. Over 66,000 people ran or walked in the fight against breast cancer. Each year, one of the greatest outcomes from our Race is seeing the St. Louis community come together for this cause and this event. If you stopped and looked amongst the crowd you would have seen people of all ages, ethnic and economic background. With so much going wrong in the world today it was amazing to see so much go so right.” –Renee Ribble Hall, President, Board of Directors, St. Louis Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure In 1999, a group of dedicated community volunteers brought the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure® to St. Louis. The first Komen St. Louis Race for the Cure made an immediate impact, with the distinction of being the largest road race ever held in the city. That same year, through the success of the Race, came the creation of the St. Louis Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure®. The Affiliate has been working for more than a decade to better the lives of those facing breast cancer in the St Louis service area. The Komen St. Louis Affiliate serves a large and diverse geographic area that straddles the Mississippi River to include the City of St. Louis and St. Louis County, St. Charles, Jefferson, Montgomery, Lincoln, Warren, Franklin, Washington, Ste. Genevieve, St. Francois, Perry and Madison Counties in Missouri and the Illinois counties of Clinton, St. Clair, Madison and Monroe. These counties cover over 8,000 square miles and range from urban areas to suburban and more rural, agricultural areas. Since its inception, the St Louis Affiliate has raised over $16 million for breast health and invested over $11 million in Survivors fighting forward at the 2009 Race for the Cure, St. Louis, MO. 30 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine Left: Hoda Kotb, co-host of the fourth hour of NBC’s “Today” Show and breast cancer survivor, served at the national honorary chair for the Komen St. Louis Race for the Cure. Kotb led over 4,000 breast cancer survivors in the annual survivor procession. Downtown St. Louis was a sea of pink when 66,470 people participated in the 11th Annual Susan G. Komen St. Louis Race for the Cure last June. Photos by Kyle Kabance Photography. breast health care specific programs in the greater St. Louis area. Seventy-five percent of the dollars raised in St. Louis stays there, while twenty-five percent of the dollars raised in the area goes to the national Susan G. Komen for the Cure® Grants Program to fund research. In 2009, the St Louis Affiliate awarded a record amount of $2.5 million in local grants that funded 28 programs, while an additional $800,000 was given to the national grants program. The breast health care specific programs that they fund support non-profit organizations and governmental agencies in their service area for innovative, non-duplicative, evidenced-based projects in the areas of breast health and breast cancer education, outreach, screening, treatment and support programs targeting services not otherwise available to the medically under served populations. These programs are made possible through outstanding community-wide support for their signature fundraiser, the Komen St. Louis Race for the Cure, other local events, individual donations and the generous support of their corporate partners. “Our partnership with Komen St. Louis has been of great benefit to increase breast cancer awareness and screening to low income, uninsured women in St. Clair County, Illinois in the Wellness for Women Project. With Komen funding, St. Clair County Health Department has been able to make available 200 screening mammograms to women 40-49 years old at no cost to them. St. Clair County Health Department and the partnership with Komen St. Louis has unquestionably been a win-win situation, especially for women in need,” Survivors, friends and families making a difference. Far right: Renee Ribble Hall, President, Board of Directors, St. Louis SGK said Karen Pratt, B.S. Outreach & Prevention Manager, Breast and Cervical Cancer Program Manager of St. Clair County Health Department. “Komen St. Louis is successful because the community we serve has embraced our organization; we have had the fortunate pleasure of having volunteer leadership that have seen the big picture and an endless amount of great, talented and dedicated people that want to be a part of finding the cures. This had led to our community Helen Chesnut, feeling like it can connect with the Executive Director, work we are doing, and that connecSt. Louis SGK tion keeps people involved. Also, our Board of Directors, Operational Committees, Volunteers and Staff work tirelessly for the cause,” said Helen Chesnut, Executive Director of Susan G. Komen for the Cure St Louis Affiliate. “Our biggest challenge as an organization is reaching the populations in our service area that may not understand what we do and that may not know that we can help direct them to life-saving services available through our local grantees. These are Komen-funded programs available for uninsured and under served women in our service area. Komen St. Louis has a large Race that raises a lot of money, but we are more than just a Race. The money raised by the Affiliate stays in the St. Louis area to help our sisters, aunts, mothers, daughters, neighbors and friends. Every day, with everything that we do, we are working towards finding the cures for breast cancer. Our goal as an organization is to distribute funds to as many organizations as possible, providing means for each to fulfill the Komen for the Cure promise – to end breast cancer forever.” said Helen Chesnut. When Nancy Brinker promised her dying sister Suzie Komen that she would do every thing in her power to end breast cancer, she left Illinois with that promise in her heart. It was that promise, filled with love and caring compassion that continues around the world. The St. Louis Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure® Cares. www.breastcancerwellness.org 31 , s e “Y I Can a e k a M ” ! e c n e r e f f i D Hello friends, I ask you, would we want to live our life any other way, but to touch someone’s life? Any time we lose connection with sharing our lives with our friends, family, and community, we give up one of the best parts of living. I hope you enjoy this special section where wonderful individuals have stepped up to the plate, and claimed, “Yes, I Can Make a Difference!” ~Love and blessings, Bev Tim Livingston Donna Bruck At some point in a long journey you have to have help. At first you think you can do it alone, but soon your surroundings lose their comforting familiarity. It is easy to lose your way. Relationship/fellowship is the greatest gift that can be bestowed upon another. We become like God, and we share a magnificent love. It gives us strength when we have none, and hope when all seems lost. Shared tears help wash away fear and sorrow. It was soon into my wife’s journey that a relationship was forged with a local organization known as The Pink Ribbon Riders. They provided my family fellowship. They are a testament of the greater good in all mankind. They provided us with financial assistance, but more importantly they offered a helping hand, a fellowship. They showed that they cared when we live in a world where it is much easier not to. Pink Ribbon Riders made a living difference for my family. [email protected] I can make a difference by sharing my story and experiences with others. I have made a cancer scrapbook and a photo journal. I began sharing my story and informed people that young women get breast cancer and that everyone needs to do self-exams. The local newspaper did an article on my experience. Although I had doubts about letting the entire county know I had one of my breasts removed, I was able to educate thousands about the importance of self-exams. Later as I was working at my Medical Records job, I was summoned to Surgery Pre-Op. As I entered the room, there was a young woman holding a newspaper; the one that contained my story. She had done a selfexam after reading the article. She hugged me and thanked me for saving her life. Her mastectomy was the following day. I CAN make a difference because I’m vocal. Survivor of Invasive Ductal breast cancer, at age 24; [email protected] Chris Hubbard The Team Survivor Tampa Bay, Florida makes a difference by promoting a healthy and active lifestyle and by providing organized opportunities for physical fitness, wellness education, and psycho-social empowerment among female cancer survivors. The “Pink Dragon Ladies” use dragon boat racing as a means to demonstrate the indomitable spirit of cancer survivors. The sport of dragon boat racing dates back about 2,000 years in China. Dragon boats are 42’ long canoes powered by up to 22 members – 20 paddlers, a drummer, and a steers-person – who must operate the vessel in unison in the hope of crossing the finish line first. The “Pink Dragon Ladies” paddle together, support each other, learn from one another, laugh together, enjoy competition, overcome fear, encourage others, take pride in their accomplishments and break the silence of cancer. http://teamsurvivortampabay.blogspot.com 32 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine Brenda Tucker I am a Senior Customer Service Representative with Amoena, and a 9-year breast cancer survivor. I have been with Amoena for 15 years. I continue to be impressed with the many great improvements in our products. Amoena listened to our customers when they asked for lighter weight forms and more stylish bras, intimates and swimsuits. I am now able to offer more choices that suit their different needs. Working in customer service has given me the opportunity to help retailers across the U.S., advising them with difficult fits and inventory questions. I also have the privilege to talk one-on-one with our consumers. I am able to put myself in each woman’s shoes, trying to provide her some peace of mind during a difficult time. It is these interactions that remind me what I do really does make a difference. www.amoena.com Liz Church Seattle Sutton Childcare was a major concern for my husband and me during the time I was receiving treatment for stage II breast cancer in 2001. We needed someone to care for our three young children on the days I received chemotherapy and for the two to three “sick days” following. My friend, Marianne Jones, handled the entire management of our childcare needs for six months, utilizing those from our church family who had volunteered to help. As each treatment date approached, we simply received a telephone call letting us know which family would be arriving to pick up our kids. This freed me from what could have been a huge emotional burden and enabled me to concentrate on healing. I will always be grateful to her for being there for me in such an important way and for contributing so significantly to my recovery from breast cancer. I am thankful for Marianne and my church family for making a difference for me and my family. [email protected] I was 67 years old when I found out I had breast cancer during my routine annual mammogram. I had a modified radical mastectomy, a few doses of chemotherapy and took Tamoxifen for 5 years. I’m happy to say, I will be a 10-year cancer survivor this November! I feel I make a difference every time I share my story with others to encourage them. I feel my experience has made me more appreciative of the important things in life. It has given me hope. Breast cancer runs in my family. Although I am a healthy eating advocate, I still developed breast cancer. My only sister died of breast cancer in her 50’s. My aunt had breast cancer and survived. Two of my first cousins, on my mother’s side of the family had it and one died from it. I want other women to know they can beat breast cancer, like I did. www.seattlesutton.com Vanessa Echols As Marketing Manager for Amoena, I am responsible for all of our outreach, advertising, and public relations activities, which allows me to interact with all of our audiences --including medical professionals, retailers, and breast cancer survivors. My main job is to communicate, and to make sure that Amoena effectively communicates our mission to all members of the breast care community. I truly enjoy learning from the different people we meet and serve. Doctors and nurses push us to continually develop newer, better products and our consumer base inspires and compels us to always do so with compassion and unbeatable quality. I’m grateful to be able to support our retailers and through them, to support women in their journey to health, lifelong wellness, and positive self-image. www.amoena.com Ok, now what? That’s what I was thinking after completing treatment for Stage II breast cancer: Six months of chemotherapy, a mastectomy, reconstruction and 30 radiation treatments. I was thrilled to be finished with treatment and cancer free. And I realized how blessed I was to have family and friends to help me through the journey. But I kept thinking about those patients who don’t have family or friends to help with the daily chores we don’t feel like doing when we’re going through treatment ~ housework, grocery shopping, all the stuff that isn’t a challenge when we’re feeling healthy and strong. In response to that need, a group of friends and I formed COMPASSIONATE HANDS AND HEARTS BREAST CANCER OUTREACH. We’re that extra pair of hands patients need when they’re going through treatment. We provide housecleaning, grocery shopping, transportation to medical appointments, anything that will help ease the stress for patients and their families. www.compassionatehandsandhearts.org Wendy McCoole Cookie Aftergut I never realized that sharing my story on a website called “Bald Wendy” would change my life, but after documenting my treatments and emotions online, the tremendous response I received from other breast cancer patients thanking me for helping them to not feel alone made me decide to quit my corporate job and found the non-profit organization BreastCancerStories.org – a website where patients and caregivers can write, read and share their experiences with loved ones and with one another. What makes BreastCancerStories. org different from a traditional blog site is the stories are all searchable by a number of demographics. Imagine a single mother under the age of 30 who just had a mastectomy being able to find someone who is going through the same situation and even connect with them directly through the website. We make a difference for people all over the world by providing support and hope. [email protected], www.breastcancerstories.org/wendy In 2003, while finishing my chemotherapy and radiation treatments for breast cancer, I came up with the idea of a stand-alone support program to help women evolve from being “victims” of breast cancer. Chemoflage was born! This half-day program includes nutrition tips; relaxation techniques given by a Yoga instructor; and discussions about “chemo brain” from an oncology social worker. To complete the program, patients learn makeup techniques -- how to apply eyebrows and line their eyes where lashes used to be – and the “art” of scarf tying. I present these parts of the program, and do some motivational speaking from my own experience. Instructors and patients often bond over shared emotions and stories. I have seen over 500 patients now, and am expanding to other states. I believe that I was given this opportunity so I can help others do what I did: become not just a survivor, but a CANCER THRIVER. www.chemoflage.com Malissa Magyar www.breastcancerwellness.org 33 n , a s C e I “Y Make ” ! e c n e r e f f i D a Debbie Wolf Claire Greenwood Kay Troutman Janet Chambers In 2006, a dragon boat team of breast cancer survivors was formed in Racine WI. The team is a support group that competes against other dragon boat teams. Since I have joined, I have had two lung surgeries and cyber knife to my brain. I am bald for the third time in seven years as I do more chemotherapy and keep fighting the cancer that has metastasized. When I am too weak to row, I am the drummer that beats with every stroke. I am told “you are our inspiration. You have such a great attitude.” At a recent race, we did not qualify for the final heat. Some were heading home already. Race officials requested us to race again. I gathered up the others and said “we CAN do one more!” We raced again with pride and determination. We are all winners in our own battle. [email protected] Breast Cancer is a devastating disease that is life altering once diagnosed. Being from a family of breast cancer victims and survivors it is an every day reminder to me just how precious life really is. I am an avid snowmobiler and was visiting Jackson Hole, Wyoming for the Hill Climb finals in March of 2008 when I was introduced to the Pink Ribbon Riders. They have changed my life. This is a volunteer non-profit organization of some of the most compassionate people on this earth. Giving direct assistance with a money gift card to help the patients with any thing they need. That is unheard of and truly a great gift that really makes a difference. The Pink Ribbon Riders hold various events across the United States raising money and awareness for breast cancer. It was the first time that I was surrounded by other people who have experienced the same trials as I and I could actually relate with them. They do amazing things for anyone who needs it! [email protected] / www.pinkribbonriders.com I am a breast cancer survivor diagnosed in June of 1988. Just by being alive and well is a testamony to anyone who is just diagnosed. I love to visit with women who are just being told they have breast cancer. Just talking with someone who has survived gives them some peace. When one is first diagnosed, they have so many questions and fears and to hear it from someone who has been there is very comforting. We don’t know the answers, but we do have the compassion to understand what they are feeling. I was diagnosed at age 52 and am now 73 and still going strong. So yes, my dear sisters, there is life after breast cancer. God bless you all. [email protected] The power of one generates goodwill and pays the blessings forward. Before you know it, others want to make a difference and join in the kindness. I Have Wings Breast Cancer Foundation (IHW) took flight in 2002, on a wing and a prayer! Our goal was simply to assist women when faced with the crisis of breast cancer; emotionally and financially. Now, our roots are the generous women and men volunteering their time and talent with a focus to lift others up during a critical time. We consistently ease stress in over 100 families a year with emergency assistance, educate our youth and endorse research to help eradicate breast cancer. The more families we assist, the more blessings we receive! I am the founder, proving ONE can make a difference in our community, but the strength of the foundation lies in the hands of others. One person at a time! www.ihavewings.org / [email protected] Kathy Dibben I am a two time breast cancer survivor who discovered after a bilateral mastectomy, the tremendous need for post surgery products. I work with women daily who have heard the words “you have cancer”. I own a retail shop, Absolute Dignity, where women come to be fit for after surgery garments. These ladies know that they are welcome to drop in when they are having a down day or when they want to celebrate a new milestone. This time last year my picture and story was on General Mills cereal boxes, Fiber One Bars, and Chex Mix Select as part of their PinkTogether.com campaign, an online community of support for women with breast cancer. That campaign allowed me to reach out and help many more women. As a nearly 20 year survivor, I make a difference, I offer the next best thing to a cure, I offer HOPE! www.absolutedignity.com / www.myspace.com/absolutedignity Morag Currin Touch For Cancer Online trains and certifies licensed estheticians to provide safe and nurturing spa treatments to all people living with cancer. Our advanced education in this new modality of oncology esthetics is imperative for breast cancer survivors since the décolleté, neck and face have many lymph nodes, of which one or many may be removed or radiated. Therefore, adjustments to any facial are necessary in order to make the treatment a safe one. The products used, the power of the touch applied help ensure a positive outcome which can touch a survivor on many levels - psychological, mental, spiritual, emotional and physical. So yes, I can, and I am making a big difference in the lives of many cancer survivors by ensuring that estheticians get certified - each esthetician we certify touches many more lives, and this creates a ripple effect. [email protected] / www.touchforcanceronline.com 34 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine Ann Erickson I have been a breast cancer survivor over half of my life. This fall 2009 I will celebrate 35 years after having a mastectomy at the age of 30. Things were very different in 1974, the surgery, the recovery, not much education available about life after a mastectomy. Women I met after my surgery were not open to discuss or share there feelings with others. No support groups were available and women were very secretive. I felt the need to do something and share my feelings and concerns with other women, and got active in the Reach to Recovery Program through The American Cancer Society, a group of survivors like myself. With a Dr’s request I could visit women in the hospital, give them some information and show them exercises that would help them in their recovery. The hospital stay was about 10 to 12 days, now it is 24 to 48 hrs. I was active in Reach to Recovery for 10 years. In 1985, I had the opportunity to start a career as a Certified Mastectomy Fitter. I traveled 7 states, driving to see each client. My career has taken me to places I would have never had the opportunity to visit. I have had the pleasure of meeting thousands of women throughout my territory. I feel very blessed to have this opportunity to work with ladies and help them feel better about themselves after breast surgery. Today, at 65 years old and 24 years later I am traveling 4 states, enjoying every day that I am able to make a difference in someone’s life. [email protected] To submit your article on how you make a difference, go to www.breastcancerwellness.org. Mary Ann Wasil I am a 5+ year breast cancer kickin’ survivor, health activist and Executive Director & Founder of the Get In Touch Foundation®, a grassroots non-profit organization based in Connecticut. Our cornerstone mission is the Get In Touch Girls’ Program & Daisy Wheel™, a global initiative committed to educating girls in grades 5-12 on the importance of, and how to do a breast self exam for life! Education is power. The power to make a difference in your own life is in your own hands. Our program teaches “best breast health practice.” The sooner girls learn this practice, the better. Taking control of your body at an early age encourages girls to demand that others respect - and not objectify - their bodies. Join us as we “change the world one girl at a time”. Hope Lives! www.GetInTouchFoundation.org Tracey Stills My name is Tracey M. Stills (pictured centered – sitting down) and I am a breast cancer survivor of almost 7 years. The other ladies pictured in this photo I call my “Angels.” They continue to inspire me to advocate for women to have yearly mammograms. Their undying support through my treatment and afterwards keeps me humbled and hopeful that “together” we can beat and help eradicate this disease. Yearly at the time of my “cancer free” birthday – they salute me and honor me by making their mammogram appointments and encouraging other women in their lives to do the same. They have walked and helped raise money and awareness for breast cancer and are indeed the “Angels – helping to keep watch over me.” They encourage me to be a voice of hope for other women who may be afraid. Yes, I Can Make a Difference! Pictured (l-r) (back row) Latrisha Price, Shyrl Jones, Charlotte Curtis, Yolanda Jefferson, Tijuana Joiner. (below) Carnise Harris, Tracey Stills (breast cancer survivor), Moniqye Gill, Latrisha Rencher & Tonia Reed. [email protected] Lisa Suraci Blakey I don’t care for the term “survivor” when it comes to my battles with cancer. For me it has the literal meaning of “existing after” or to “remain alive”. I prefer the title of Warrior. It not only has a very stoic ring to it but it also implies a certain state of engagement; not solely existence. For so many women, the breast cancer diagnosis is particularly devastating. As women we tend to be very judgmental of ourselves. The body image issues that are often an unwanted “souvenir” of the manifestations of the disease can be halting. There exists the need for more emphasis on the after surgery/treatment stages. We need to make our own difference. So Ladies, along with the pink ribbons, reconstruction or not, wear your bikini or your sexy dress as a badge of honor and declare: “My body is beautiful; it is that of a Warrior!” [email protected] Alexandra Boos Utilizing my full-figured New York City modeling career as a platform, I have always espoused a link between external self-perception and wellness. So, watching my mother’s emotional and financial journey with chemotherapy, radiation and breast surgery as she recovered from 4th stage cancer invited me to bring together “glamour industries”, such as fashion, beauty, and television with the best of breast health care. 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She almost canceled the appointment for her annual mammogram because she was very busy with new home loans and home refinancing at the time. Even though Nancy thought she felt a small lump just prior to her scheduled mammography, she briefly thought that it would be best to put off the exams until she first caught up with serving her clients at work. But her inner voice told her she needed to keep the appointment. Not only did she get her mammogram, but her intuition also nudged her to have additional diagnostic testing. A biopsy revealed Nancy had breast cancer. “The doctor recommended a double mastectomy. I was scared the day of the surgery because I didn’t know how advanced the cancer was. I am very fortunate because it was detected early. I think what helped me to handle the diagnosis was being open to other survivors helping me and hearing what worked for them during their healing process. Plus I knew I wanted to be able to help other women in any way that I could after my survival,” said Nancy. “The most difficult part for me was staying strong around my family members and trying to be upbeat and positive all the time. Often I thought it was harder on them than it was on me. It was challenging for me to always keep a smile, but I prayed a lot for my health and for them. I reminded myself that cancer doesn’t have me, and I believed I could get beyond breast cancer. I read a lot of inspirational books including Chicken Soup for the Soul books, 90 Minutes in Heaven by Don Piper, The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren, and Prescription for Life because I thought these books would help me to stay strong and focused.” said Nancy. “I admit that in my private moments, I did cry. And I did pray. My belief was that I was not going to let this get me, and that I was going to keep moving forward with my life and that is how I faced most days during my healing process. Things turned out positively, and I think this is because there were a lot of prayers.” At the time of diagnosis, Nancy was chairperson of the Chamber of Commerce in Jefferson City, Missouri. Because she couldn’t raise her arms for a period of time after surgery, her 38 Breast Cancer Wellness Magazine by Beverly Vote husband Bill drove her to the executive committee meeting. She joked with everyone at the table about her new hairdo because Bill had to do her hair that morning. Nancy was determined that she was going to fulfill her duties and obligations as chairperson even though she was going through breast cancer. This helped her to keep a sense of normalcy in her life and was something she could have control of. She believes this determination and mindset, along with not isolating herself, helped her heal faster and to be able to return to work earlier than was medically expected. “Since breast cancer, I do not spend as much time working but am spending more time with the people that I love. I live each day to the fullest, even though this sounds like a cliche’, the little things have become so much more important to me. Things like cleaning my house isn’t as important as it once was, but being with my grandchildren is. I have devoted more time to having fun. I knew I had to change my work situation, so that I would have less stress in my life because it was affecting my attitude. That is when I made the move to Premier Bank. I knew I had to slow down and my way of slowing down was to work in a place that I loved.” “I know that I am a stronger person as a result of living through breast cancer. My pledge is that if I can help some one in any way through their surgery and to help make their decisions easier, I will be there. The one thing that I can do is to share my experiences and try to help educate others. It is so very important. I have people thank me for helping them, even though it was some simple thing, but at the time you don’t know how much it means to that person. I want to help women that are facing breast cancer as other people helped me. I encourage all breast cancer patients to connect with someone that has gone through the same experience. It makes the healing process so much easier. Always have hope and always share hope when you can. I believe that prayer also helped my emotional wellbeing along with my physical healing. Crying and laughter helped too. I want to thank my family, friends and other cancer survivors for the support they gave me to be able to say I am a 8 year cancer survivor. I also want women to know that their inner voice that speaks to take care of your health is a very important voice. Taking care of our health is so very very important,” said Nancy. Nancy Gratz is an amazing woman and her profile of wellness is exemplified in that she: Makes time for her health and healing needs in spite of busy work schedules The Gratz Family – Summer 2009 Expresses even more gratitude for her life, her family, and what is really important in life Believes in reaching out, receiving help, and helping others Believes in herself and others Believes in intuition and the power of prayer Believes in healing possibilities Believes in fun, humor, and laughter in spite of being diagnosed with a life threatening disease Doesn’t avoid her feelings and gives herself permission to cry Reflects upon her life and takes measures in her career so that she can enjoy her life more Believes in hope. n Nancy enjoys community work and meeting new people. She is past president of the Breakfast Rotary Club, has also been Sergeant of Arms, Secretary, and Treasurer. She is on the American Cancer Board of Directors, the Community Breast Care Project board, involved in the ETC breast cancer support group, and works hard for the Relay For Life. She has been involved with ACS for many years, even prior to her diagnosis of breast cancer. After her u www.breastcancerwellness.org 39 Profiles of Wellness Are you sick and tired... ...of feeling sick and tired? SYMPTOMS: • Lack of energy, tiredness, weakness • Susceptibility to illness and infections • Insufficient or slow would healing • HIV/AIDS • Hepatitis • Herpes For dietary treatment of diseases involving immune system dysfunction and deficiency. Thymus therapy with GKL 03 restores bodily defenses to fight against viruses, bacteria and auto-immune deficiencies in individuals with a compromised immune system. 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Nancy is married to Bill Gratz and they have 3 children, 4 grand children, and 2 step grandchildren. She loves to spend time with her family, swim, and to play golf, something she is determined one of these days to be good at. Nancy can be reached at [email protected]. Her phone numbers are (H) 573-636-8285 (C) 573-659-0550 (W) 573-761-4633. EVERY BODY DANCES © “Oh, I don’t dance.” said she. “Oh, everybody dances.” said he. As he showed me the breath between the pages of a moment, The peace beyond the limits I have set. This comforter who dips his hand in the ink of my heart and goes beyond “I know.” His pulse runs through every space in my body, making way to still my soul. “Oh, this is what you mean. I’ve never been here before.” “This is where you come from, this is who you are.” As he showed me the spaces, the places I’d come from. 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Even though I placed faith in the doctors to surgically remove the cancer, I became involved with my thoughts to help me to be better. Someone mentioned to me that I should get Dr Bernie Siegel’s books and his healing CD’s, and this felt right for me. Even in the operating room I was listening to his healing tapes. I also listened to them every morning and night for several weeks. Then I had the opportunity to attend one of Dr Siegel’s healing workshops. All through this, I had this inner knowing that I can do this, I can make the changes in my life that I need, and as Bernie Siegel recommends, healing our life helps heal cancer. I made the decision to do what it takes to be one of the many hundreds of thousands of people that survives breast cancer. I have been on my own since I was 17, so I have always taken care of myself. I had this belief that I must do everything myself. I gave that belief up and learned to relax and allowed myself to say yes to becoming interested in people again. And amazingly, people started reaching out and became interested in me. Even people I didn’t know called to see how I was doing. Speaking with other breast cancer survivors was both inspirational and comforting. I love it that I am connected back with people. I attended a personal growth workshop which helped me realize that I had many fears – fears that no one would hire me, or that they might think Yes! Send me a FREE subscription! Rochelle and Rob I am not very good at what I do or that I am a fraud. I was also afraid any new employer wouldn’t pay me fairly. So I had a lot of fears about changing jobs. The workshop gave me the tools to overcome my fears and the confidence to leave my job. I knew I was one step closer to starting the business I really wanted, a business where I could help people both personally and professionally to help them through their challenges to the life they desired. That is what I really wanted to do with my life. And today, that is what I am doing. I realized the healing breakthroughs were happening because I started to think and to speak differently and to visualize myself being well. I said yes to more harmony and joy in my life. I joined a support group in New York City and then Rob, the man I was living with at the time, joined a support group for men. Even though I was the one diagnosed with breast cancer, we were both going through the experience in different ways and he wanted to be SIGN UP TODAY TO RECEIVE YOUR FREE SUBSCRIPTION Sign up online at www.breastcancerwellness.org or use this form. 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When I entered his life and got sick, he had to put me first. He said the experience made him a better person. We ended up falling in love, and a year and half later we got married. We have been married for fifteen years. Breast cancer turned out to be a gift of life because it transformed my life. I opened up to a new way of thinking that helped me to be one with my soul, to connect with people, with Rob, and with the work that I love - helping people breakthrough to their most fulfilling lives. n Editors note: This is one of the empowering stories we received from women who want to make a difference with their life’s work. Rochelle is an extraordinary woman. She got in touch with her subconscious thoughts, fears, and beliefs that were preventing her from having the love, health, and career she wanted, transformed those thoughts, and today her life and career mirrors her heart’s desire to help others. Rochelle Togo-Figa is a Sales Business Coach, Trainer, and Motivational Speaker with 24 years in the corporate world as a top sales producer, and 14 years as a coach, trainer, and speaker. She successfully coaches and trains business owners, entrepreneurs, and sales professionals to achieve breakthrough results by having them to look at their responsibility in the situation and to see what’s missing so that the necessary pieces can be put into action so that their desired results can follow. Her clients include many Fortune 500 companies including Estee Lauder, American Express, Deutsche Bank, Merrill Lynch, Met Life, Philip Morris, Crain’s Business Publications, and American Media Magazine. 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