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bridal issue! - Women Magazine
Women
bridal issue!
Green Bay | Appleton | Neenah/Menasha| Oshkosh | Fond du Lac
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MAY 17, 2016
Strength
OF
Sisterhood
Delta Sigma
Theta Sorority,
Northeast
Wisconsin
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contents
SPECIAL SECTION | 5 Chic
bridal styles
by Kat Boogaard
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10
BODY Summer dresses
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HEALTH Skin saviors:
prevent Melanoma 14
Unique wedding displays
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by Lauren Waters
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by Alison Ver Halen
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by Emily Bowles
COVER | Strength of
sisterhood
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by Jennifer Hogeland
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Art of thank-you notes
30
ASPIRE Fit for summer
32
SPIRIT | Q&A with
John Edward 34
MIND | Timeless traditions
by Lu Ann Vander Zanden
by Kelly Dvorak
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by Katie Ellingson
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by Jennifer Hogeland
Quilts on display
in Green Bay
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Checking In 4 Question of the Month 5
Around Town 37 Recipe 38
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Volume 14 Number 10 | May 17, 2016
Publisher Leslie Asare
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Editor Jennifer Hogeland
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Marketing consultant
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Contributing writers Kat Boogaard,
Kelly Dvorak, Katie Ellingson,
Jennifer Hogeland, Lu Ann
Vander Zanden, Alison Ver Halen,
Lauren Waters
Cover photography by Melody
Wollangk, Limelite Studios,
Oshkosh.
Photo taken at University of
Wisconsin – Oshkosh Alumni
Welcome and Conference Center,
Oshkosh.
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Attendees at the Delta Sigma Theta charter ceremony on April 2, 2016.
f I learned one thing this month, it’s that we all have different strengths
and talents.
I’ve been training for months to run the Cellcom Marathon relay with
my family — a challenge that has been on my bucket list. While I’ve always admired those that could run long distances with ease, I quickly
discovered I’m not a natural. I’ll pass along the relay “baton” eventually but
only because I’ve sweat through each training mile. My talents lie elsewhere.
One of the things I admire about the 11 amazing women on our cover this
month is they not only understand where their strengths are, but they are
also using these to better the community. They have the connections and
the passion to make an impact. Just over a month ago, this group of women
got together to charter an alumnae chapter of Delta Sigma Theta, a sorority
dedicated to doing good.
As we start a new season, I challenge you to take a moment to assess the
gifts you were given and make the most of these. And, push yourself out of
your comfort zone once in a while — it feels amazing to accomplish something once thought out of reach!
Happy reading!
Jennifer Hogeland, editor
[email protected]
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Questionof the Month
SUMMER
Must-do list?
What's at the
top of your
Being in education,
I typically center
my summer around
reflecting on the
previous school
year and what I
can do to better meet the needs
of learners in the fall. While I will
continue those practices, I also
plan to find ways to serve others
this summer. I feel that I may be
able to better rejuvenate my mind
and spirit through giving, as well
as soaking up the sun with a good
read in hand!
Jocelyn Hischke, Little Suamico
Summer in Wisconsin is my favorite
time of year. I look
forward to many
backyard parties
with our friends and
neighbors, playing yard games,
grilling out and enjoying patio fires
while roasting marshmallows to
perfection.
Maria Young, Wrightstown
The top of my summer to-do list is:
• Enjoy more active
outdoor activities
with my husband and
kids — and attend
the Heart Walk!
• Do a lot of boating with my family
and friends.
• Have our annual “River Tube Day
and Shopping Getaway Weekend”
with the girls.
• Clean and organize my garage.
• Have a BLAST with my 40 family
members from Chicago that stay
and celebrate Fourth of July with us
at our home every year!
Marla Sparks, Shawano
This summer the top
of my to-do list is
to master standup
paddleboarding. It’s
such a terrific ab
workout combined
with spending quality time on the
lake.
Sarah Fairchild, Green Bay
The top of my summer must-do list
is pretty simple —
spending as much
time as possible enjoying family, friends
and the great outdoors!
Diane Meyer, Oshkosh
Top of my summer
must-do list is to
dance! Dance at area
outdoor concerts,
dance at Summerfest, dance on
stage with the Riverside Players and
anywhere else the summer breeze
takes me!
Pamela M. Barnes, Neenah
Take my 85-year-old
mother and her two
sisters to Door County
for a girl’s weekend.
Mary Beth Leopold,
Appleton
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CHIC
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SPECIAL SECTION
wedding
BRIDAL
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STYLES
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STRAPLESS DRESSES ARE STILL
POPULAR, BUT STRAPS AND SLEEVES ARE
DEFINITELY MAKING A COMEBACK.
t’s one of the biggest days of your life. Those
doors open and all eyes are on you as you
take your walk down the aisle toward the
person you’ll spend the rest of your life with.
Naturally, you want to look and feel your very best.
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by KAT BOOGAARD
There are so many elements involved with a wedding. But, arguably one of the most important
details for the bride is her gown.
While not every bride-to-be is into
a trendy look, some love to be on
the cutting edge of what’s happening in bridal fashion. Two local
wedding experts revealed five of
the latest styles for that big day.
1. Lace
Photograph courtesy of Dana Grant Photography USA
Lace is always a classic and timeless look for your wedding day, and
the delicate fabric continues to see
a lot of popularity when it comes to
bridal gowns. “We see a lot of lace,”
explains Carlene DelBianco, bridal
consultant at Elaine’s Wedding
Center in Green Bay. “Many brides
are going back to a more vintage
look.” The material is feminine and
intricate, making it a perfect choice
for a stunning dress.
2. Straps and sleeves
“Strapless dresses are still popular, but straps and sleeves are definitely making a comeback,” shares
Brenda Kilheffer, owner of Tie the
Knot Bridal in Green Bay. Often,
the addition of straps is a gorgeous
detail, and also means the bride can
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wedding
Making
every event
memorable.
dance the night away without worrying about her dress
continuing to slip down. Three-quarter-length sleeves
are also a popular pick, particularly for fall and winter
weddings with colder weather.
3. Illusion necklines
It’s all about the details, and illusion necklines created
using tulle are a great way to add even more visual interest to your dress. Whether beaded or bare, they add a
touch of glamour to a simple wedding gown.
4. Floral headpieces
Veils will always remain a classic choice for brides, but
floral headpieces are another beautiful option to accessorize the dress. “Floral garlands, using either real or silk
flowers, are the new trend for 2016,” explains Kilheffer.
They’re especially big among brides who are aiming for
a more relaxed, bohemian look on their wedding day.
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While floral headpieces might be suitable for some
brides, there are still plenty who want to stick with
something more traditional — a veil. “There’s been a lot
of interest in the cathedral-length veils, which are veils
that extend the length of the gown or even past,” says
DelBianco. “It’s the perfect dramatic finishing touch,”
adds Kilheffer.
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These are all style details a bride can incorporate into
her look on her special day; however, it’s important to
remember that you shouldn’t base all of your style decisions on trends alone. “Trends come and go,” adds DelBianco. “In the end, it all comes down to what the bride
wants.”
So, make a conscious effort not to get wrapped up in
what’s popular and what’s not, and instead focus on what
makes you look and feel your very best. Finding your
dress is much like finding your partner — you’ll know
when you’ve found “the one,” regardless of whether it’s
considered trendy or not. And, if you feel beautiful in it,
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SPECIAL SECTION
wedding
by LAUREN WATERS
UNIQUE WEDDING DISPLAYS
COUPLES SHOWCASE THEIR PERSONALITY
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very couple has a one-of-a-kind love story to tell, and their wedding day is the perfect
place to share it with their loved ones. Do the bride and groom share a passion for the
outdoors? Or maybe they’re both great cooks and love exquisite cuisine. Whatever their
interests and personality, there are wonderfully unique ways of displaying this on their
special day.
Let your personality shine
Jennifer Michiels, sales and marketing director at Fox Banquets Rivertyme
Catering in Appleton, says brides and grooms want to personalize their wedding so it reflects the couple and their favorite things.
“I think a couple tends to pick out a theme and tries to stick with it throughout the entire wedding process,” Michiels shares. “They start with it for the
save-the-dates and continue it all the way through the wedding day.”
Johanna Wittmann, owner of Witt & Co. Events in Oshkosh, agrees. She
says a wedding should be a reflection of the bride and groom and how they
are as a couple.
“A wedding should be cohesive throughout to really share their personality,” she shares. “Each couple is different and oftentimes they like to showcase their shared hobbies through their decor.”
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Wittmann has seen couples incorporate their hobbies into wedding
displays in many fun ways — one
hobby being hunting.
“This doesn’t mean the wedding must have camouflage,” she
explains. “I’ve seen beautiful weddings that are hunting-themed with
faux antlers spray-painted gold
as part of the centerpieces, monograms with an elegant antler accent
and place card holders made from
shotgun shells.”
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Wittmann explains if a couple shares a love of baseball,
they might incorporate their favorite team’s colors or have
a snack station with popcorn, peanuts and other baseballthemed goodies at their wedding.
Jeff Larson, director of marketing with the Landmark Resort in Egg Harbor, says he’s seen a couple display their
love of the outdoors by using rocks they had collected on
their hikes as part of each table’s centerpiece.
Morgan Mann, who does marketing for Jason Mann Photography, recalls one particular wedding held at the Landmark Resort where the bride and groom’s central theme
was displayed beautifully.
“The couple went over-the-top romantic and rustic with
their decor,” she explains. “Big barrels topped with leaded glass held a display of past family wedding portraits.”
Table displays
Wittmann says the entrance table is a spot couples can
really personalize. Since it usually holds the place cards
or seating assignments, she reveals couples can use these
to create a statement.
“The most unique place cards I’ve seen are sports tickets
for football fans, airline baggage tags for world-travelers
assigning guests to a destination-named table and wooden
coasters made from the family’s trees and stamped with
the guests’ names,” she adds.
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BODY
fashion
by ALISON VER HALEN
summer
Dresses
FLOWERS
AND
PASTELS
ARE RIGHT
ON TREND
W
hen most of us think of spring and summer, we
think of flowers. So it only makes sense that
women would think the same when shopping
for warm weather dresses.
Kim Verheyden, the owner of Apricot Lane in Green Bay, confirms this is a big trend she’s been seeing in spring and summer dresses this
year. “Definitely lots of floral,” says Verheyden. “Whether it’s pink rose colors, greens or blues, it’s really huge.”
For colors, Verheyden says the lighter shades are very popular. “We’re seeing lots of pastels,” she adds.
Tina Palmer, the owner of Vintique in Neenah, agrees that pastels and
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lighter shades are big this year.
“The popular colors this year are
white on white, ivory, pink and
navy,” she says.
When it comes to styles, Palmer
says they’re seeing a lot of vintage.
“We’re seeing casual dresses that
entail a great deal of 1970s influence with ivory and crochet,” says
Palmer.
But there are also options for
the more modern consumer. “Justabove-the-knee lengths and the cutWomen I MAY 17, 2016
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Verheyden explains they’re seeing two main styles at Apricot
Lane. “There’s the more fitted style
at the waist, with some lace detailing, and a more open back,” she
says. “And there’s the looser style
with a bralette or bandeau underneath — more of a handkerchiefstyle dress.”
According to Verheyden, what
customers choose often depends
on where they intend to wear their
new dress. “Our customers really
love more of a fitted style for weddings or bachelorette parties or date
night,” adds Verheyden.
If they want the looser styles,
Apricot Lane can help their customers out there as well, and not
just in supplying the dress itself.
“We have a wide variety of bandeaus and lace bralettes that go under more of a loose-fitting dress,”
said Verheyden.
Apricot Lane gets their dresses
from the L.A. fashion district, but
that doesn’t mean they only have
dresses that look good on hangers.
They have a wide variety of dresses
and are happy to help their customers find something that looks best
on their particular body type.
For some general guidelines, Verheyden suggests fitted dresses for
the smaller ladies. “I would say a
petite girl is going to go for more
of an A-line dress that’s fitted at
the waist,” adds Verheyden. “For
somebody who is a little bit curvier,
I would suggest going with more of
a shift-dress style where it’s a little
bit looser. If you’re a curvy girl,
wearing something tight doesn’t always work out.”
Girls with fuller figures can also
take advantage of ruches, which
are strips of pleated fabric that are
used to trim or finish a dress. “If
you have ruching at the sides, or
throughout the dress, it creates a
seamless look and distracts from
areas you might not want people to
focus on,” says Verheyden. “It accents the curves nicely and accentuates the waistline.” w
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HEALTH
skin cancer
by EMILY BOWLES
SKIN
SAVIORS:
MINIMIZE RISK TO HELP
PREVENT MELANOMA
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fter months of frigid temperatures and
early sunsets, we’re all craving sunshine
— and not just for its therapeutic doses of
vitamin D.
Before you spend too much time absorbing those UV rays, though, take
some time to look at your skin and schedule an appointment with your dermatologist. Then fill your favorite tote bag with some must-have items to take
in some rays without the risks.
Check yourself
“Melanoma is the deadliest form of skin cancer and is best treated early,”
explains Dr. Michelle Lewis of Forefront Dermatology in Appleton. “Fortunately, when it is detected early, the five-year survival rate is 98 percent.”
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That means it is critical for people
to know their bodies and keep an
eye on moles.
“One of my personal physician
friends had a changing mole on his
abdomen,” explains Dr. Edward
Szabo, dermatologist at Primary
Care Associates in Appleton. “It
was removed and 20 years later doing well.”
“Melanoma is best detected
through a combination of self-skin
exams that individuals perform
at home on themselves, in combination with professional skin examinations with a dermatologist or
other health care provider skilled in
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skin cancer and melanoma detection,” says Lewis.
Technology can also be a surprising friend to your skin.
“If you have lots of moles, have yourself or family members put small ruler next to a lesion and take a picture
with your cellphone,” Szabo says. “Keep tabs on what it
looks like, any changes, and if changes are noted see your
doctor and bring pictures.”
Plastic Surgery &
Skin Specialists
by BayCare Clinic®
One in five Americans will develop
skin cancer in the course of a
lifetime. (Skin Cancer Foundation)
Know your risks — and reduce them
“Melanoma is best prevented through avoidance of UV
exposure,” says Lewis. “Not surprisingly, melanoma risk
increases as we age.”
He explains people with fair skin, light eyes and red/
blond hair face higher risks. “A history of significant sunburns, having a first-degree relative with melanoma and
a personal history of other cancers also increases one’s
risk,” adds Lewis.
“Make sure to use sunblock rather than suntan lotion
and wear clothing that minimizes exposure such as light
dry-fit shirts and large-brimmed hats,” says Szabo.
And, remember tanning booths are never safe.
“Tanning is the skin’s response to DNA damage from
harmful UV rays,” explains Lewis. “You cannot get a tan
without increasing your risk of developing cancer. And
tanning is also a common cause of early aging of the
skin.”
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The best treatment is early
detection. Contact us if you
notice any unusual skin changes.
We can evaluate whether your
skin condition is cancerous.
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Cancer survivor Month.
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As the incidence of cancer across the globe surges at the same time
that survival rates improve due to improved screening and more effective therapies, more and more people are living with a history of cancer.
In America, 14 million people are survivors of cancer, but the burden of
the disease carries on after the final treatment is administered. Issues
facing cancer survivors include the physical effects of treatment, the
emotional scars that remain and the fear of recurrence, and the
financial burdens that result from facing a life-threatening illness.
There is so much pressure that causes cancer patients to focus
on the uncertainty of the future that it’s easy to forget to live
in the present, and to focus on being a survivor. A person with
cancer does not have to be in remission to be considered a
cancer survivor – every day of life means that they are a
cancer survivor.
Kevan G Lewis, MD
American Board of Dermatology Certified
If you can spot it, you can stop it.
Skin cancer is the most common of all cancers,
afflicting more than two million Americans each
year. Skin cancers found and removed early are
almost always curable. If you spot anything
suspicious, see a board-certified dermatologist.
For an appointment, call
920.965.0345
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Pack your bags
Now that you know what to look for and how to avoid
some major risk factors, get ready to spend time in the
sunshine with less fear and more freedom.
“Fill your melanoma tool kit with a broad spectrum
sunscreen with SPF of at least 30, a broad-brimmed hat,
sunglasses and possibly a vitamin D supplement,” says
Lewis.
Skip the tanning bed and save the money so you can
splurge on a facial. Your skin will thank you by looking
younger. You’ll also boost your longevity and put on a
beautiful face as you encounter all of the outdoor adventures the sunnier days are sure to bring. w
A Closer
ROOTS ON 9
Look
TH Roots on 9th opened in late April.
Located at 1369 9th Street in Green Bay, the floral design company and greenhouse finds its inspiration through nature and
the use of texture.
Owner Jamie Hemenway-Peotter brings years of experience
and an eye for floral arranging to Roots on 9th. She opened the
shop so she had an opportunity to design with cut flowers for
weddings and special events as well as grow annuals, succulents, vegetables, herbs and assemble unusual container plants.
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features home décor,
household items and
eclectic gifts. Within
the shop, you’ll find
farmhouse kitchen
goods, Pendleton
blankets, paper
goods, chalk paint,
old-fashioned candy
and more.
Tina Palmer,
operator of Vintique,
a vintage clothing
boutique across the
street from Red Door
Mercantile, is thrilled
to share her love of
vintage by selling
rustic objects that fit
beautifully in most
décor styles.
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Find it. Treat it.
Beat it.
sign that it is growing or changing.
Larger moles that have been stable
for an extended period of time
isn’t typically cause for concern,
though continued observation is
recommended.
Evolution – Part of the reason
regular self-screenings are effective
is because you’ll more easily notice
when moles grow in size, shape or
color – indicating melanoma.
A GUIDE TO MELANOMA
SELF-SCREENING
The earlier you can find cancer, the better your odds are to beat
it – and it’s no different with melanoma. While yearly skin
screenings are recommended for those over the age of 25, it’s
never too early to start performing monthly self-screenings. In
honor of Melanoma Awareness Month, here’s a guide to skin
cancer self-screening.
What to Do If You Find
Something
“The most important step in
melanoma treatment is scheduling
a skin check and getting a biopsy,”
says Dr. Lisa Campbell, board
certified dermatologist and
Mohs surgeon at the Forefront
Dermatology clinics in Appleton,
De Pere, Marinette and Hudson.
“The earlier melanoma is
discovered, the better the outcome.”
Melanoma is basically a mole gone awry. When identifying
potential trouble spots, remember your ABCDEs.
Asymmetry – If you draw a line through the middle of the benign
mole, the two halves should roughly match. If not, it may be a
sign of melanoma.
Borders – The edges of a benign mole are smooth and even.
Scalloped, rough, or notched edges are indicative of early stage
melanoma.
Color – Most benign moles are fairly even-colored. Melanoma
may be multiple shades of brown, black, red, white or even blue.
Diameter – Benign moles are typically smaller than malignant
ones. If its diameter is greater than a pencil eraser, it may be a
Experts. Partners. Neighbors.
courtesy of Skin Cancer Foundation
What You’re Looking For
Regular self-examinations
coupled with a yearly
physical with your
dermatologist can catch
melanoma at its earliest,
most treatable stages – and
may very well save your
life. Should you find a
troubling spot, visit a skin
care expert that has the
advanced training to make
sure you have an accurate
diagnosis, innovative treatment
options and, most importantly,
the best possible outcome.
Courtesy of Forefront
Dermatology
Lisa
Campbell, MD
Victoria
Negrete, MD
Michelle
Lewis, MD
Welcoming new patients!
8 convenient locations in the Fox Valley
To make an appointment call 920-785-6579
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COVER
Delta Sigma Theta Sorority
Strength
of
sisterhood
AREA WOMEN CHARTER A GRADUATE
CHAPTER OF DELTA SIGMA THETA
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COVER PHOTOGRAPHY BY
MELODY WOLLANGK, LIMELITE
STUDIOS, OSHKOSH.
PHOTO TAKEN AT UNIVERSITY OF
WISCONSIN – OSHKOSH ALUMNI
WELCOME AND CONFERENCE
CENTER, OSHKOSH.
by JENNIFER HOGELAND
Sitting (l to r): Robyn Davis, Valerie Hines,
Daphne Lewis and Kimberly Watts
Standing (l to r): Jenene Calloway, Brittany Grimes
Zaehringer, Veronica Warren, Dr. Omobolade DelanoOriaran, Ameerah McBride, Joi Kennedy Brown and
Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni)
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Delta Sigma Theta Sorority
B
ring a group of community-minded women
together and great things are sure to happen.
On April 2, 2016, just over a dozen women
chartered a chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, a sorority new to Northeast Wisconsin.
Members represent communities from Fond du Lac to
Green Bay. “Sisterhood, our history in African-American experiences and service to our communities tie us
together,” says member Dr. Omobolade Delano-Oriaran.
Delta Sigma Theta is an international organization of
college-educated women committed to the development
of its members and to public service. The sorority’s primary focus is on the black community. Since its founding in 1913, more than 200,000 women have joined Delta Sigma Theta. There are more than 1,000 collegiate and
alumnae chapters.
The Northeast Wisconsin chapter includes women
from nonprofit and for-profit organizations, educational
institutions and more. The sorority sisters believe they’ll
be able to increase their impact through collective power by tapping into their resources to influence social
change.
“While we could accomplish things on our own or individually, it will certainly be a lot more impactful to
be part of a movement of women all focused on similar goals and initiatives,” says Brittany Grimes Zaehringer. Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni) explains
the women are tied together under the core values of the
organization, known as the Five Point Program Thrust
— economic development, educational development,
international awareness and involvement, physical and
mental health and political awareness and involvement.
“Because we have dedicated our lives to making the
communities we live in and those around us better, the
energy, passion and commitment among us allows us to
come up with innovative ways to best serve,” adds Jenene Calloway.
Lardinois explains, “Establishing the graduate chapter
of the sorority will allow us to bring together our collective skills and resources to continue the work toward
building positive communities for current and future
generations to live, grow and prosper.”
Thirteen members of the Northeast Wisconsin chapter
of Delta Sigma Theta agreed to reveal why they joined
the sorority and share their impact on the community.
Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni)
Principal, Green Bay Public School District
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
In college I knew and believed in the core values of the
organization around public service and wanted to be a
part of making a contribution to the organization.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
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Margaret Antoinette Lardinois (Toni)
I hope that my work in the public sector for the past 26
years will connect us to resources and opportunities we
can use to help others.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Hands down, I am most passionate about educating
and supporting our youth. They are our future and they
deserve to have access to quality education and career
opportunities.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
Personally I give my time to the youth at my school
promoting education with my students. I have been very
involved in political efforts, and on the lighter side enjoyed dancing with the Nia African Dance group.
Your professional impact?
I am actively involved in school at the building and
district level as we continuously explore best strategies
to improve learning opportunities for our students and
staff.
What is something few people know about you?
I am a daredevil at heart.
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Veronica Warren
Associate Director of the Counseling Center, University of
Wisconsin-Oshkosh
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
Although I witnessed the public service activities that
the sorority conducted on the University of Michigan
campus, it was a personal conversation with Dr. Alexa
Canady that solidified my decision to be a part this great
sorority. I was so humbled by the fact that the first female
African-American neurosurgeon took the time out of her
busy schedule to talk to me and share her passion and
love for Delta.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
A lifetime of leadership skills and genuine love for
people.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Providing the community with an image of educated
African-American women who want to be an influential
part of their communities by empowering and educating
others.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
• Continually motivating students to push beyond
their perceived boundaries.
• Founder of D.I.A.M.O.N.D Girlz.
Your professional impact?
• Promoting wellness through mental health services
at the Counseling Center.
• Implemented a Multicultural Process Group.
What is something few people know about you?
I was a cheerleader in high school and I am still cheering people on to reach their goals.
Ameerah N. McBride
Ameerah N. McBride
Special assistant to the Chancellor, Director of Equity
and Affirmative Action, Title IX Coordinator, University of
Wisconsin-Oshkosh
Veronica Warren
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Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
I joined Delta Sigma Theta because I wanted to align
myself with a group of college-educated women dedicated to service. After learning the history of the sorority,
knowing that the founders’ first public act was participation in the 1913 Women’s Suffrage March, made Delta
Sigma Theta an obvious choice for me.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
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My greatest contribution will be my continued active
membership, service to my community as well as leadership on the local, regional and national levels.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
I am currently a member of several community organizations that work within the African-American community to provide empowerment to students and parents
through advocacy work. I also serve as a board member
on several community-based organizations such as the
Head Start Board of Advisors.
Your professional impact?
Professionally, I work within the university community to ensure fair and equitable hiring practices, as well
as equitable treatment for all members of the university
community. I also provide counseling, guidance and insight to community organizations regarding university
policies.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
Leveraging my experience in business to help the
chapter establish clear and focused objectives, goals,
strategies and measures for our first few formative years. What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Disadvantaged children.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
Volunteering with the local Girls Scout Troop 2101.
Your professional impact?
I am an active mentor to up-and-coming marketing
managers at Kimberly-Clark.
What is something few people know about you?
I am a devoted wife to Leonard and mother to Lena,
11, and Levi, 9. When I’m not traveling the globe, I enjoy
celebrating any and every accomplishment from a game
win, to a good grade on an assignment to turning another
year old.
Daphne C. Lewis
Vice President-Branch Manager, JPMorgan Chase Bank
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
I was motivated by collegiate sorors who supported a
college prep summer program that I attended throughout high school.
Kimberly Watts
Kimberly Watts
Global Marketing Director-Feminine Care, Kimberly-Clark
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
The members of my alma mater, Theta Zeta, exemplified the type of women I aspired to be. They were not
only beautiful and sophisticated, but they were passionate about their public service and had tons of fun doing
it. They demonstrated how helping others is a great way
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What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Cultivating a safe and inclusive learning environment
for our children in the state of Wisconsin.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
I’m serving as Associate Pastor at Bethel Worship Center in Oshkosh, under Senior Pastors Joe Sr. and Chaun
Butler.
Robyn Y. Davis
President, Freedom House Ministries, Inc.
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
As a junior attending a predominantly white university, I was looking to connect with other young women
of color for sisterhood, support and service to the community.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
My connections in the Green Bay area with local organizations and individuals will be helpful as we establish
Robyn Y. Davis
The Northeast Wisconsin Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma
Theta pose for a photo at their charter event.
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our service to the community along with my passion to
encourage others to reach their full potential whether
it is in their homes, professions, community or in the
church.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
I am most passionate about encouraging and walking
alongside families in their journeys to become self-sufficient.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
I believe I am making an impact personally through my
ongoing involvement at my home church, Living Hope
in Green Bay, as well as the relationships I have developed while serving in other community organizations.
Your professional impact?
By working collaboratively with other organizations to
shatter the stereotypes about homeless individuals and
families and seeking solutions to end of homelessness in
our community.
My compassion for humanity and my empathy to pass a blessing forward.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Abuse; socio-economic disparity.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
By taking on the following roles: secretary for my
church, Bethel Worship Center; Girl ScoutTroop 2101
volunteer leader for the Brownies and Juniors; member of the prison ministry at Bethel Worship Center; substitute teacher to show a more positive role for African Americans.
Your professional impact?
I believe I accomplish this by participating in the Oshkosh Farmers Market spreading the word of the Gospel by selling prayer pillows with scriptural verses, KJV, screen-printed on the face of the pillow.
What is something few people know about you?
I was a member of a Disaster Medical Assistance Team.
Brittany Grimes Zaehringer, Esq., MSSA
Human Resources Director, Brown County, Wisconsin
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
My mother, a retired school teacher, is one of my biggest role models. She is a Golden Life Member of Delta
Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. I also believe in the sorority’s
mission and it aligns well with my personal values.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
Valerie A. Hines
Valerie A. Hines
Owner/CEO, Inspired Creations by Valerie
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
Delta Sigma Theta Sorority represents the mission, vision and impact on society I desire to be a member of.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
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to the sorority?
During this startup phase, I believe that my greatest
contributions will be my knowledge of the sorority and
its operations — as an active member for 20 years I’ve
held various local and national leadership positions
— along with my background in compliance and internal controls. As the chapter matures, I believe that my
expertise in grant writing, program development and
evaluation will help us expand our programming and
measure its impact.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
I am excited to learn about where our sorority’s programmatic thrusts align with the community’s needs. As
a small chapter, we have to be strategic about where we
focus our resources.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
I just moved to this community less than eight weeks
ago. I believe that the sorority will be my entrance into
serving this community. In the past, I’ve served on over
30 nonprofit boards and committees to improve my
community.
leaders in the community and just classy.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
Now at 84 years old, I want to share the wisdom that
comes with age and life experiences. I am also the cheerleader, encouraging for my young sorors to be leaders
in their communities, to go that extra mile, to a make a
difference.
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
community?
Serving as mentors to the youth in this community especially in these turbulent times. Our young people need to understand the sacrifices
made in the past and to take control of their own destiny
— to become the best they can be.
How are you personally and professionally making
an impact on the community?
I still utilize my skills as an educator to consult on service programs dealing with youth.
Imogene B. Edwards
Retired Educator, Retired Gary Community Schools, Adjunct
Professor at IVY Tech Community College, Educational Consultant State of Indiana Impact Program
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
As a teenager, the women I admired most in my community were all members of Delta. They were educated,
Imogene B. Edwards
Joi Kennedy Brown
Joi Kennedy Brown
Supplier Manager, Pierce Manufacturing (An OSHKOSH
Corp. Company)
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
I grew up surrounded by Delta women. They were my
role models, my heroes, including my mother Imogene
B. Edwards. They instilled in me the importance of serving and giving back to the community. They preached
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that it’s important to take action where
there is a need and not to wait for others — to be one of the driving forces for
change and improvement.
What do you believe will be your greatest contribution to the sorority?
Persistence and determination are
my greatest strengths. I keep pushing
for those things I believe in. The establishment of this chapter is one of those
things. It took more than 18 years but
now we a have Northeast Wisconsin
Alumnae chapter.
What are you most passionate about in
terms of the community?
Providing programs for our youth. Providing resources for them to grow, academically, personally and spiritually.
How are you personally and professionally making an impact on the community?
Currently, I am on the board for Building for Kids Children’s Museum in Appleton. I have also served on the several
other local boards.
Jenene N. Calloway, M.S.
Partner Development Team Leader, Schreiber Foods Incorporated
Why did you become part of Delta
Sigma Theta?
Fourteen years ago, when I joined, I
wanted to join like-minded women in
understanding the needs of our commuJenene N. Calloway
nity and strategically work together to
close the gap.
What are you most passionate about in
Skills developed through my coaching/teaching are
terms of the community?
what I believe to be nuggets to help people understand
I am passionate about helping single moms and dads
each other better and help them reach their highest
get back on their feet so they can support their family
potential.
and helping women build the confidence they need to
accomplish their personal and professional goals.
Dr. Sylvia Carey-Butler, Assistant
How are you personally making an impact on the
Vice Chancellor Academic Support of Inclusive Excellence,
community?
University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh
I frequently have the opportunity of participating in
events that educate the community on topics around diWhy did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
versity and inclusion. By providing and participating in
I knew I would become a “Delta” when I was a young
these opportunities, I am hoping that my sons will grow
girl. There were several professional African American
up and continue to be comfortable in a predominantly
women in my community in upstate New York that I
Caucasian community as African American men.
wanted to emulate.
Your professional impact?
What are you most passionate about in terms of the
In my roles at work and in the community, I provide
community?
coaching, mentoring and training on a variety of topics.
I have spent my life moving young people from un-
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What do you believe will be your greatest contribution
to the sorority?
My contribution to the community is a reflection of
my academic background and expertise: ensuring that
African American/Black children have access to quality
public education, which I am already doing through African Heritage, Inc.
How are you personally making an impact on the
community?
I am blessed that my professional life intersects with
my personal life, giving me the opportunities to transfer my academic interests and expertise to responding to
the needs of my community.
Your professional impact?
My work at St. Norbert is to provide new teachers the
tools and abilities to work with diverse communities and
break down stereotypes of race. The future generations
in my community will have competent, knowledgeable
and compassionate teachers able to navigate difficult
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Dr. Sylvia Carey-Butler
certainty to success through education. I want AfricanAmerican youth, especially girls, to understand the
power and transformational nature of an education.
How are you personally and professionally making
an impact on the community?
I give back as often as I can by responding to as many
requests to speak or facilitate inclusive excellence conversations as my schedule will allow. I can always do
more.
I am a firm believer that you must give back to the communities in which you reside. Currently, I am the chair
of the Oshkosh Housing Authority Board and the Vice
Chair of the Oshkosh Area Food Pantry Board.
What is something few people know about you?
I am married to Master Sergeant (Retired) Paul E. Butler and have three children: Evian, Delano and Xavier.
Dr. Omobolade Delano-Oriaran
Associate Professor of Education, St. Norbert College,
De Pere, WI
Why did you become part of Delta Sigma Theta?
I became a member in fall 1985 while attending Savannah State University. I joined because of its commitment
to academic excellence, focus on professional black
women and dedication to public service. Furthermore,
as a woman of Nigerian descent, I wanted to be part of a
global organization of movers and shakers committed to
social action in our world.
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MIND
wedding traditions
by LU ANN VANDER ZANDEN
TIMELESS TRADITIONS
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eddings reflect a variety
of ethnic, religious, social
and regional traditions. In
some small communities,
the “open church” tradition is popular. It simply means that
everyone is invited. In the South,
reception guests sign a book for the
couple. That tradition has changed
in our area to include a variety of
signature options — the family tree
and signing a picture frame has become very popular. In some places,
family and friends make a wedding
quilt for the couple and this can be
given either as a wedding gift or a
shower gift.
Fortunately, some traditions have
not survived. In the 18th century,
a marriage race was common. As
soon as the ceremony was over, everyone raced out of the church door
to the wedding feast at the bride’s
home. What did the winner get?
The first piece of bridal cake or a
cup of soup or porridge — and the
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luck that supposedly came from being first.
In 1775, a law stated that a young woman could not be married wearing
makeup. Makeup was considered an ensnarement and the wedding would
not be legitimate because the groom would have been trapped by the illusion
of beauty.
And one favorite tradition has evolved from necessity. Today’s bride
throws her bouquet so that her unmarried friends can “catch” some luck in
romance. But the custom actually started as a form of defense. Centuries ago,
the belief in the mystical value of a bride’s adornments prompted friends
and strangers alike to try to grab a piece of her outfit. Eventually, a clever
bride found that by flinging her flowers away from herself, the crowd would
have something to fight over and she could escape. Now the bride throws
her bouquet as a signal to the guests that the reception is almost over. When
possible, she should choose a picturesque setting where guests can catch one
last glimpse of her wedding finery before she tosses the bouquet.
Until the 1500s, the lavish weddings of royalty were often paid for by taxes
levied on landowners. By the 1600s the custom changed. According to historical sources, the wedding of Princess Elizabeth to Frederick of Bohemia
cost her father the equivalent of about $5 million in today’s currency.
Today’s brides are part of the ever-evolving “look” of weddings. Experienced consultants can help create a wedding that will
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perfect
finding the
Choosing the right wedding professional can
make a difference between an average event
and a memorable one. When selecting a
vendor, be sure to research all of the services
they provide and the cost associated with
each. Utilizing a source that provides and
facilitates multiple services can be beneficial in
the following ways:
•
Streamlined and efficient delivery, set-up
and retrieval of wedding and décor items.
•
A better understanding of how to achieve
a desired budget.
•
Overall cohesiveness of décor, style, color
and theme.
•
Fewer points of contact and less chance
of a mistake when discussing details of the
day.
match
When selecting a florist, it’s helpful to share
images through social media outlets, such as
Pinterest boards or e-mailing images directly.
Because each event and venue is unique,
it’s not often the designer will do something
exactly as pictured. However, they can gain
great inspiration for the overall look and
feel that you would like the event to portray.
Before meeting with your florist:
•
Schedule a consultation and share basic
design inspiration.
•
Be aware of the level of service you’d like
to receive.
•
Research what blooms are in season or
available locally around the date of your
event.
•
Have a budget in mind, but know that
it may fluctuate depending on guest
count, number of attendants and blooms
selected. Your florist should be willing to
work within your desired budget, within
reason.
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MIND
bridal etiquette
handwritten
thank-you notes
The dying
art of
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by KELLY DVORAK
A
s the summer season of weddings, showers and parties draws near, it’s
time to review the old tried and true rules of etiquette when it comes time
to say “thank you” for that beautiful wedding gift or that baby shower
your best friend hosted in your honor.
You may have memories of your
mother or grandmother forcing you
to sit down and laboriously handwrite personalized thank-you notes
to friends and relatives at some
major milestone event in your life.
Today, however, that tradition has
waned a bit, having been replaced
by generic photo cards, emails and
(gasp!) text messages. In these days
of instant gratification, digital alternatives can seem like a godsend.
They’re fast, budget-friendly and
almost effortless. But is that really
a good thing?
According to Alliey KlineWeichelt, lead planner and CEO
of Sash & Bow in Green Bay, handwritten, personalized thank-you
notes remain essential, especially
for major events like weddings and
showers. “Writing a proper thankyou note is the least you can give
your guests after they took an entire day to celebrate your marriage,
shower or occasion.” Preprinted
thank-you notes, she advises, are
not personal and go against the
general rules of etiquette. Even in
a situation where a photo from the
event is included in the thank-you
card, which is a common trend, a
formal handwritten thank-you note
should always be included, says
Kline-Weichelt.
Though it can seem overwhelming, especially if you have many
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thank-you notes to write, following a few simple guidelines can turn a chore
into a breeze. Nicole Bergeson, paper arts designer and creative genius for
Creations Galore in Green Bay, suggests making or buying your cards before
the event, because that early preparation will provide motivation for followthrough. When it’s time to sit down and write your thank-you notes, she
advises keeping it short and simple – two or three sentences at most. First,
she says, thank the giver for the specific gift. Then, include a sentence about
what you did or how you will use the gift, especially if the gift is money.
Bergeson cautions that even if you don’t like the gift, you don’t have to lie.
“Thank them for the gesture,” she says. “It’s the thought and the effort that
counts.”
Getting your thank-you notes in the mail is the final step. For weddings,
try to send out your thank-you notes within three months of the event, advises Kline-Weichelt. For showers, the general rule of thumb is one month.
Bergeson adds that it’s also important to specifically thank the host or hostess within a week of the event. For thank yous that are not event-oriented,
like thanking a friend or neighbor for their support, Bergeson recommends
sending a note within two or three days, if possible.
Sometimes people struggle with the desire to let a gift giver know
that they’ve received a gift (like a wedding gift sent in advance of
the wedding), and the timing of a formal handwritten thankyou note. Bergeson has a solution. It’s acceptable
to send a quick text message or use Snapchat
to let the gift giver know the gift has been received, she says. Then follow up with a formal handwritten note after the event.
Handwritten thank-you notes are not
just for adults. “It’s important to teach
kids to say thank you,” adds Bergeson. Even if they can’t write the
note themselves, have kids
participate in saying thank
you by signing their own
name, stuffing envelopes or decorating with stickers. It’s never too
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ASPIRE
to your health
by KATIE ELLINGSON
Exercises to
do now to
get in shape
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wimsuit season is just around the corner. Now is a great time to get in shape
so you can improve your health and
look your best this summer!
Mel Tuomi, personal trainer and group exercise instructor at Western Racquet in Green Bay, recommends doing this full-body exercise routine three times
per week to achieve a toned body for summer:
Walking pushups: Start in a standing position and
bring hands to floor, keeping legs as straight as you can.
Walk hands out to a pushup position and do a pushup;
then bring the left knee to the left elbow. Repeat on other
side. Walk hands back to feet and repeat from starting
position. This works the chest, shoulders and abs.
Forward/backward lunge: Start in a standing position,
step forward with right leg; lower until both legs are 90
degrees. Reverse motion and step back with the right leg
— that’s one rep. Repeat 10 times on the right leg and 10
times on the left leg. This works the legs and glutes.
Back extension: Lie face down on the floor, fingertips
behind your ears. Retract shoulder blades together and
lift upper body as high as you can, squeezing glutes
while dropping shoulders away from the ears. Hold for
five counts and repeat 10 times. This works your back
muscles.
Dynamic Squats: Start in a standing position; jump
feet out as if to do a jumping jack. Squat down and touch
the floor with your left hand, quickly reverse the move
back to a standing position and repeat with the right
hand. Do 20 squats, alternating hands. This works the
legs and glutes.
Pike up: Start in a pushup position; bring hands back
about six inches while pushing hips back so you are
making a V with your body. This is your starting position. Drop your head between your arms so you are looking through legs, then bend your elbows and drop the
top of your head to the floor and push back up. Repeat to
fatigue. This works the shoulders and triceps.
Ryan Dart, owner and coach at CrossFit Appleton, recommends combining exercises, such as situps, lunges
and jumping rope, in as many different patterns as you
can think of. “CrossFit is constantly varied so our body
never knows what’s coming next and in turn we never
hit a plateau in our training,” says Dart.
Here are two CrossFit workouts that can be
done at home:
Set a clock for 10 minutes and complete as many
rounds and reps as possible of five burpees, 10 pushups,
15 squats, and 20 situps. This workout will work the
entire body with the pushups and burpees hitting the
upper body, the squats targeting the legs, and the situps
hitting the core. (Note: to do a burpee, start in a standing
position, jump your feet back to a plank, do a pushup,
jump your feet to your hands and stand up.)
Complete four rounds of running to the end of your
block and back, 20 walking lunges and 40 jumps
with a jump rope. ”This
one will work more with
your cardio than muscle
fatigue,” explains Dart.
“The key to success with
CrossFit, and any workout,
is dependent on consistency and intensity,”
adds Dart. “Also, we never do the same workout
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ohn Edward is a psychic medium, author
and lecturer. Over the last 25 years, Edward has captivated audiences worldwide with his uncanny ability to predict
future events and communicate with
those who have crossed over to the “other side.”
Edward is coming to the Radisson Hotel & Conference Center in Green Bay on May 25 to wow
the crowd. He took a few minutes to share his
story with Women magazine.
Q: Tell me a little about you. Where are you currently living?
A: I am currently living in between New York City and
L.A. My work and office is on the east coast, but my
daughter Olivia is working on a TV series that will
be on FX called “Better Things” where she
plays the youngest daughter to the
very funny and talented Pamela Adlon, so I’m
living in the air
as they say.
q&a
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JOHN EDWARD
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Q: What inspired you to become a psychic?
A: I was 15 when a reading put me on my path. Psychic Lydia Clar was doing readings in my grandma’s
home — it was called a house party (think Tupperware,
take out the Tupperware and insert the readings). She
blew my mind with her accuracy and she told me I had
this ability. My development was very quick.
Q: What have been a few significant stepping stones
or milestones in your career?
I have had some great opportunities to teach and
raise awareness, from private readings to TV, radio and
now the Internet with johnedward.net, It is all very exciting for me.
Q: What is the most common question you are asked
from individuals or audiences?
A: “Am I okay?”
Q: What accomplishments are you proudest of?
I’m most proud of being a dad. I didn’t really have
a great role model, so I feel that I’ve had to use the
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CLASS AND CARRY
After a couple serious injuries and residual physical limitations, Loui Ebeling was unable to return to her job as a freight delivery driver for one of the
big package delivery service companies. Too old to learn anything completely
new, and too young to retire, she took inventory of her skills and passions then sought out training in Nevada, Arizona and Ritchfield, WI and became
certified to train others in handgun proficiency and concealed carry. “I recognized a need for what I can bring to the industry, there is frustration in not being able to find ‘real world’ training and concealed carry accessories (especially for women). Plus, I had this little voice that kept telling me I had to do this.”
Loui laughed as she recalled her motivation to open Class and Carry. “The first
week we were open, I got a call from a woman who said, ‘I kept thinking, why
isn’t there someone out there doing this? and then, here you are! Thank you!’
- ahhhh, that one phone call, along with so much positive feedback since, has
really confirmed my mission to help women and men to explore their options
for defending themselves if they ever have that need arise.”
The Boutique styled store and classroom offers training for people who are
very new to handguns, along with the state required Concealed Carry Permit
Training. Then, for those that already have their CCW Permit, we carry a full
line of options not found anywhere else locally, from Leggings to Compression
Wear, Belly Bands and even CanCan Concealment - Kydex holsters for most
popular carry choices along with concealed carry purses and so much more!
The response from men has been so incredibly positive that we’ve added a
men’s department and we hope to be a resource for everyone in our area that
is active in Taking Their Safety Personally.
patterns of parenting I received from my mom and
her side of the family. The accomplishments of seeing
their achievements and these respectful, intelligent,
funny and spiritual little beings grow up under your
care is a gift.
Q: What can the audience on May 25 expect from
the event?
A: I will basically be explaining a bit about energy and
trying to read for as many families as I can, while also
answering some audience questions.
Q: What do you think the future has in store for you?
A: Good question. I think I am being led back to TV,
but I’m uncertain if it will happen … if it’s right, if it feels
right and I can help more people with the medium of
TV, then I’m in!
Q: What advice, if any, would you give a younger
John Edward?
A: Be exactly who you are and don’t deviate — you
turn out just fine. w
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SPIRIT
hobbies
by JENNIFER HOGELAND
QUILTS ON DISPLAY
IN GREEN BAY
M
ore than 30 years ago, a
group of women established Evergreen Quilters Guild to promote the
art of quilting and share
their passion with the community.
Today, more than 150 members exchange quilting ideas and information.
“Interest is very strong in the quilting community,” says Tracy Reeb,
Guild member. “Each year our
membership grows.”
The Evergreen Quilters
Guild is holding their
biannual quilt show
on June 11 and 12 at
Ashwaubenon High
School. More than 250 quilts will be on display, from traditional and modern
styles to the popular art quilts. Award ribbons are given out in each category.
The weekend draws a crowd of more than 1,000 quilters and those curious about the craft. The event features a silent auction, which includes baby
quilts, table toppers, wall hangings, aprons and more. The Guild will also
be raffling off a quilt and sewing machine. Local groups will be on site to
exhibit products; workshops will showcase a variety of projects.
“Women and men, from age 5 or 6 up to 100 years old enjoy the feel of the
fabric and the creative process,” adds Reeb. “Quilting has been around for
many years and I’m sure it’s here to stay.” w
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wanted to add a personal touch to each dinner table by
displaying photos of themselves as a couple.
“Each picture was from activities, events or other special memories they had shared together,” he says. “It certainly brought in their personality!”
Michiels explains many couples like to incorporate
photos into wedding displays. She shares one bride used
an old, rustic ladder to hang pictures.
The cake or dessert tables are a wonderful way for
brides and grooms to express their personal style as well.
Some choose the more classic and traditional white
cake, while others opt for playful and colorful cupcakes.
Larson says they have even done a build-your-own ice
cream sundae bar for a fun-loving couple.
Another fun, new trend for the dessert table is having a
“Petite Sweets” station, explains Michiels.
“Our clients still want many of the classic desserts,
but they are asking for them to be presented in a miniature version,” she says. “Instead of having one slice of
cheesecake, we will have three different mini cheesecakes for each guest.”
The sky’s the limit when it comes to the ways a bride
and groom can showcase their style and personality on
their wedding day, and the guests love seeing the creative and personal touches that show what truly makes
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cucumber
watermelon
salad
Directions
Combine the lime juice, sugar
and salt in a 2-quart bowl; whisk
together. Stir in parsley.
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watermelon; fold in gently.
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2 tablespoons lime juice
2 tablespoons granulated sugar
½ teaspoon salt
¼ cup minced fresh parsley
2 medium unpeeled cucumbers,
washed, ends removed, sliced
lengthwise then sliced crosswise
3 cups watermelon, cut in 1-inch cubes
(about 1 pound)
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