Praying for a Creep, and Other Spiritual Matters
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Praying for a Creep, and Other Spiritual Matters
From the Pastor The Rev. Dr. Keith C. Alderman Praying for a Creep, and Other Spiritual Matters In a few days, the Lenten season will begin. Lent is another word for Spring, or literally the lengthening of the number of daylight hours. Lent in the Christian Church is often viewed as a period of spiritual preparation for the celebration of Easter. Some people give something up, others take something special on to work towards in making their spiritual preparation to be ready to accept the gift and glory of Easter. Personally, I have found it beneficial to take on a variety of forms of prayer as my Lenten task. Here are ten ways you can add meaning to your life. 1. Pray when you hear the sirens in the distance. When you hear sirens, that means someone is in trouble. Pray for them, even though you don’t know who or where they are. 2. Pray before you sit down to eat. This is a way of slowing down, and acknowledging that God is in control, not me. It is good to be thankful for the blessings we have. 3. If you are eating alone, that can be a time of prayer. Do you eat in front of the TV? Sometimes it is good to turn it off, and pray as you are eating. You will be surprised by the things which come to your consciousness when you do this. 4. Pray when you are stuck in traffic. Does your blood pressure rise when you are stuck in traffic? You can’t make the traffic go any faster by yelling at it. Try praying instead. The calm will do you good. 5. Turn off the car radio and pray in the quiet. Sometimes the radio in the car can be our constant companion. Pay attention to your driving, but let God be your copilot. 6. Pray while you are doing your exercises. I do this all the time. It is a great way to fight boredom, and you will doing several good things at once. 7. Pray when you go for a walk. You will see a lot of things when you walk. Pray for the people in the houses you pass by. Pray about whatever you happen to see. 8. Attend worship. Hey, it’s only once a week! No matter how busy you say you are, you can always squeeze in time for worship and prayer. Prayer during worships seems to gather power when you are praying with other people. Worship is good for you. It is better for you than whatever else you’ve been doing. 9. Pray when you say hello and good bye. When your loved ones leave the house, pray for them. When they return safely, thank God for their return. It’s a little thing, but it means a lot. 10. Pray for a person who is a creep. Jesus said, “Love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you” (Mt 5:44, NIV). That’s what Jesus did, and he wants us to do it, too. It might not change the other person, but it will change you and how you react to them. It can’t help but make the world a better place. + In Christ, Rev. Keith 1 From the Associate Pastor Jonathan Elsensohn When I awoke to get ready for church last Sunday, I heard an unmistakable sound outside my window: bird song. The snow is starting to retreat, and Spring is starting to make itself known in the milder temperatures and longer days. March is shaping up to be a month of many new developments here at Pilgrim Congregational Church. In addition to welcoming some new members to the church, and a baptism, our own Confirmation class is going to undertake two important events. First, they will be heading to the Craigville Retreat Center out on the Cape, to meet with other Confirmation Classes from around the state. The experience is designed to help them grow in their own faith formation, to meet and fellowship with other students who are going through a similar process, and ultimately to aid them in their decision to confirm their baptism in the United Church of Christ. Later in the month, the Confirmation Class will be leading worship for us. They have elected to perform the entire service, from the Welcome and Announcements all the way through the Benediction. I do hope that you will be able to join us for what promises to be a unique service on March 30th. March will also see the beginning of Lent, a time of reflection and discernment within the church. Come join us on Shrove Tuesday for a Chocolate Buffet, hosted by the CE Committee (more info to be found on the CE page of the Messenger). During the Lenten Season, I will be leading an adult discussion group about the book “Living Buddha, Living Christ”, by Thich Nhat Hanh. Hanh is a Vietnamese Budhhist monk who is deeply committed to the non-violence movement. He became interested in the teachings of Jesus due to his association with Martin Luther King Jr and Thomas Merton, and this book is his attempt to see what the two traditions have to teach one another. We will meet on Tuesday evenings, starting March 11th. Please contact me, or leave word at the church office, if you are interested. Lent can be a difficult time, as we impatiently wait for the miracle and the hope of Easter morning. Will you give something up this Lent: meat, or sweets, or alcohol, or social media? Will you take on a project: volunteering, or increasing your devotional time, or simply getting to the gym more often? Last month I spoke to you of seeds, of the time spent waiting under the earth, subject to unseen forces, biding their time to burst forth into the world of light and life and Spring. I'll leave you now with a few words from the poet T.S. Eliot, from his poem “Ash Wednesday”. … the air which is now thoroughly small and dry/ Smaller and dryer than the will./ Teach us to care and not to care:/ Teach us to be still 2 MODERATOR’S MOMENT Things I don’t always think about when it comes to my church: No human being “lives” in the church so it must be looked after on more days than just Sunday. o It can also be said that no aliens live there either, so no one watches the church 24-7. o God doesn’t live there, he lives in our hearts and his spirit is there when we worship together, so he’s doing enough already. o The Pastor doesn’t live there; he lives out of town, so I probably shouldn’t presume that he will always be around to pick up the slack for whatever is left undone. I DON’T LIVE HERE EITHER SO WHAT ABOUT THAT!!?? Think about it this way, at home we pay the bills. What if you turned to your spouse or your dog, or whoever will listen to you and say… “I paid the bills, so that means NOW I don’t have to clean the house!” Well that would lead to imminent disaster and your dog would soon be making calls to a hoarding psychologist. At church we tithe, which pays people to clean, but there are both limits to what we pay them and limits to what they do. Here are some ways you can help: DO A CHURCH DRIVE BY…..If you are in the center of town, drive around the church, check to see if any doors or windows look open. Check for any safety issue or any problems that might impact the building structure. Notice if anything looks wrong, then tell someone. Keep paying the bills! (We get a lot of work for our tithing such as cleaning services, sexton on Sunday, snow removal and shoveling) Keep your tithing current – it all helps. Put away props, costumes and other things that we keep from year to year. If it won’t be used again, try to be realistic about it - throw it away. I know it is yucky, but if you see trash outside, please pick it up. (gloves can be found in the kitchen) Volunteer for a cleaning day. We have several of these during the year! Clean something no one has asked you to clean, and feel good that you are doing something for everyone to enjoy. Faithfully, Janel Milner 3 Christian Education News March SAVE THE DATE Shrove Tuesday, March 4, 2014 Chocolate Buffet Pilgrim Congregational Church, Fellowship Hall 6:00-7:30 This program is free – please pick up a ticket in fellowship hall throughout the month of February…we need to make sure we have enough chocolate!!! Are you interested is new Adult Christian Education programs at PCC? Join us on Sunday, March 9th after the service. For more information please contact: Pastor Jon at 978-534-5164 or Jon Carruth at 978-537-1413. Upcoming Events Children’s Church, Sunday March 2nd Children Pre-K through 2nd grade. Youth Group Meeting, Sunday, March 2nd at 11:30 in Fellowship Hall. We will be making treats for the Shrove Tuesday Program Adult CE Meeting, Sunday, March 9th following the 9:30 worship service in a second floor classroom. Christian Education Committee Meeting, Sunday, March 16th after the service. Sunday School Teachers Meeting Sunday, March 23rd after the service Confirmation Retreat Friday, March 7th – Saturday, March 8th Office Hours: Pastor Jon is in Mondays and Tuesdays, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. and can be reached through the office at 978-534-5164. First Communion Class: the class invites you for a viewing of Jesus of Nazareth, Sunday March 2nd and Sunday, March 9th from 1:00PM -5:00PM. CONGRATULATIONS 3/1 3/4 3/5 3/6 3/7 Jackie Lozier Randy LaClair Felix Legere Monica DeBalsi Brian Rightmyer Brittany Dauphinais 3/8 Joyce Roy Royal Turner 3/10 3/13 3/15 3/17 Pat Schilling Ryan Toohey Donna Burke Sagar Bhatty Stephanie Carlson Ed Furtado Eleanor Paquette Ross Turner Maureen Wright Liz Kane Cynthia Premo Tom Rich Jillian Wright Joe Brown Ruth Ann Nickel 3/21 3/23 3/25 3/26 3/28 3/29 3/31 Priscilla Howard Melissa Ann Sykes Michael Stassen Our congratulations to first-time grandparents Kathy and Jon Carruth on the birth of their granddaughter, Grace Giuliana Carruth on February 10, 2014. Grace weighed in at 7 lbs., 9 oz. and was 21 ½ inches tall. Dad Chris and mom Katie, Grace and grandparents are all doing well! THANK YOU To Pilgrim Church, Thank you for the phone calls and cards while I was home sick. You were in my prayers and I appreciated it very much. Sincerely, Winnie Bateman The Missions Committee would like to thank members of Pilgrim Church for their generous donations to the Souper Bowl of Caring. Thank you also to the Cub Scouts and Marilyn Wilson for helping with this event. We raised $280.00. All proceeds will go to the PCC Food Pantry. Thank you again! Missions Committee Thank you to Rev. Keith and all who sent beautiful messages of sympathy when my husband, Dominic, passed in January. Your thoughts and prayers were deeply appreciated in our time of sorrow. Sincerely, HANNAFORD/SCRIPS Carol Carchidi and Family March 9 is the next order date for the Hannaford and SCRIPS gift cards. Give your orders to Mary Mullahy, or leave them and your check in the Vice Moderator’s box. 5 SYMPATHY TIME TO THINK OF THE FAIR Our sincere and heartfelt sympathy is extended to: The Annual Spring Fair will be held on Saturday, May 10th. Rosemary and Joe Banda on the recent death of their son, Dr. Terence Banda of London, England. Dr. Banda was buried in the family plot in Zambia. Susan Jeffers on the death February 16th of her brother, Richard Lystila. Richard’s funeral was held at Richardson Funeral Home on Feb. 26th, officiated at by Rev. Keith. A reception followed in Fellowship Hall here at Pilgrim Congregational Church. You can start to think what you can do for the fair this year! On March 9th, there will be a short meet and greet after service in the conference room. Come with any ideas, suggestions, or comments. All input is welcome. There is a need for pre-fair volunteers. If you have an hour or two available in the next 10 weeks, please let us know. Come and find out what you can do to assist your church family. DEACON OF THE WEEK March 2 – Sandra DeRienzo Communion servers, in addition to Rev. Keith and Sandra: Mike Palis, Charlie Milhans, Mary Mullahy, Bonnie Clifton and Sophia Kelly March 5 – Ash Wednesday – All Deacons will participate in the service March 16 – Mike Palis March 23 – Bonnie Clifton March 30 – Shaqim Walker † † † † ASH WEDNESDAY SERVICE OF HEALING Rev. Keith will lead a service of healing on Wednesday evening, March 5 (Ash Wednesday), beginning at 7:00 p.m. Members of the Board of Deacons will be taking part in the service, as well as the Senior Choir. Ash Wednesday is a day of repentance and starts off the six week period of Lent. During the service, communion will be offered and ashes, in the shape of the cross, will be applied to one’s top of the hand. Please join us for this special service of prayer and reflection. March 9 – Evelyn Jiménez † The Fair Committee: Penny Faul, Deb Maillet, Karen McNall, Sandy Taralli and YOU! † 6 Women’s Book Bash March 30, 2014 This endless winter continues to provide us with more opportunities to curl up on the couch with hot chocolate and a good book. So this is the perfect time to start reading our next book selection and slip into the ambiance of a time gone by. In the spirit of The Paris Wife, acclaimed novelist Melanie Benjamin pulls back the curtain on the marriage of one of America’s most extraordinary couples: Charles Lindbergh and Anne Morrow Lindbergh in the New York Times bestseller, The Aviator’s Wife. In this exhilarating fictional biography, Anne Lindbergh narrates the story of the Lindbergh’s troubled marriage in all its triumph and tragedy. This remarkable novel will fascinate history buffs and surprise those who only know Anne Morrow as the aviator’s wife. The Aviator’s Wife succeeds in putting the reader inside Anne Lindbergh’s life with her famous husband. This is yet another book whose intimate detail and gripping nature is hard to put down. We will meet at the home of Kathy Carruth, 19 Foster Court, Leominster, MA from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Kathy’s phone number is 978-537-1413. Come join us on Sunday, March 30, 2014 to share your thoughts and feelings with other women of the church. Call Beth Lyle at 978-537-6964 if you have any questions or need a ride. The Aviator’s Wife by Melanie Benjamin When Anne Morrow, a shy college senior with hidden literary aspirations, travels to Mexico City to spend Christmas with her family, she meets Colonel Charles Lindbergh, fresh off his celebrated 1927 solo flight across the Atlantic. Enthralled by Charles’s assurance and fame, Anne is certain the aviator has scarcely noticed her. But she is wrong. Charles sees in Anne a kindred spirit, a fellow adventurer, and her world will be changed forever. The two marry in a headline-making wedding. In the years that follow, Anne becomes the first licensed female glider pilot in the United States. But despite this and other major achievements, she is viewed merely as the aviator’s wife. The fairy-tale life she once longed for will bring heartbreak and hardships, ultimately pushing her to reconcile her need for love and her desire for independence, and to embrace, at last, life’s infinite possibilities for change and happiness. Read Ahead: Apr 27, 2014: My Beloved World by Sonia Sotomayor Jun 1, 2014: Day After Night by Anita Diamant 7 Hosted by Colette Vallee Hosted by Karen McNall PROMOTE YOUR BUSINESS IN THE “MESSENGER” Pilgrim Congregational Church invites members and friends to advertise your business in our monthly newsletter. The cost is $25.00 per calendar quarter. Simply submit a business card or equivalent-size notice to the church office, along with payment, for however many quarters you’d like the ad to run. This is a wonderful opportunity to promote your business while contributing financially to the church’s operations. We thank the following for advertising in the “Messenger”: ONE GREAT HOUR OF SHARING During the month of March, we will be collecting donations for the March 30 One Great Hour of Sharing Special Mission Offering. Inserts and bulletins will be in the March worship orders. 8 EASTER FLOWERS 2014 Order Form Given by: ____________________________________________________ In Memory Of In Honor Of (please check appropriate box and indicate name of person you are giving the flowers in memory of, or in honor of, below) ____________________________________________________________ How many of each? Tulips ____ Daffodils ___ Lilies ____ Hyacinths _____ Price per plant: $10.00 each Do you plan to pick up your flowers after the Easter Worship Service? Yes No If you checked “NO” above, please indicate if you wish to have them delivered to a shut-in or someone in a local hospital (name and address, please). Checks should be made payable to: “Pilgrim Congregational Church” and should accompany your order form. Please indicate “Easter flowers” on the memo portion of your check. Order deadline is April 13 (Palm Sunday), 2014. Special dates In like the Spirit In many places, March is quite windy: “In like a lion ...!” Though I don’t like the damp chill that’s often part of the transition to spring, I love windy days. Something about the air’s movement — a gentle breeze or ferocious gale blowing through trees, against the house, in my hair — breeds excitement in me, anticipation that something new is astir. How fitting that in conversation with Nicodemus, Jesus said, “The wind blows where it chooses, and you hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit” (John 3:8, NRSV). Like Nicodemus, we fail to comprehend the Spirit of God. But Jesus reminds us that though we can’t see the Spirit, we feel his love, see his actions of justice and hear his sounds. These include kind words, bold preaching, weeping for another, shared laughter and songs of praise. • Transfiguration of Our Lord, March 2, 2014 • Ash Wednesday, March 5, 2014 • World Day of Prayer, March 7, 2014 • First Sunday in Lent, March 9, 2014 • Daylight-Saving Time begins, March 9, 2014 • Girl Scout Sunday, March 9, 2014 • Second Sunday in Lent, March 16, 2014 • First Day of Spring, March 20, 2014 • Third Sunday in Lent, March 23, 2014 • Fourth Sunday in Lent, March 30, 2014 *** • “A thorough knowledge of the Bible is worth more than a college education.” —Theodore Roosevelt • “Faith grows only in the dark. You’ve got to trust [God] when you can’t trace him. That’s faith.” —Lyell Rader *** Who are you wearing? —Heidi Mann *** Relinquishing control Marcia shared how she’d been struggling to relinquish control and let God direct her life. One day, amid this challenge, her daughter approached her for homework help, which called for the use of an iPad. As Marcia struggled to make sense of her daughter’s question, the youngster kept swiping at the screen, zooming in and out and grabbing the tablet to turn it toward herself. “If you want my help,” said Marcia in exasperation, “then let me help!” Suddenly Marcia had an a-ha! moment: Hadn’t God been saying the same thing to her all the while? To truly benefit from God’s help, she would have to stop trying to do everything herself, let go, sit back and accept his guidance. *** Before the Oscars, a big question for every glamorous celebrity is “Who are you wearing?” Fashion reporters and fans are eager to discover and imitate the latest designers and styles. Few of us will ever walk the red carpet in Hollywood, yet we receive a much more impressive wardrobe makeover when we accept Jesus as our Savior. Through his death and resurrection, Jesus turned our filthy rags of sin into dazzling white robes of righteousness (see Isaiah 61:10). This righteousness is embellished with good works that speak to our vibrant faith. How evident is your new “outfit” to people around you? As you get dressed each day, consider whether you’re living in such a way that people will wonder “Who are you wearing?” And finally, oh Fire divine, I will come to know your light and warmth in the sooty depths of my soul. *** —Heidi Mann Stop, look and listen Lent, the season of the church year that’s associated with repentance, begins on Ash Wednesday (March 5 this year). While some people deny themselves by giving up something for Lent, others prepare for Easter through special Bible studies or devotions. Christians observe Lent for these reasons: • It causes us to STOP. Lent says, “Stop and rest awhile,” as well as “Stop doing wrong.” • It tells us to LOOK. Look inward for an honest self-examination. Look upward to see the cross of Christ offering healing and love. Look forward to the hope of the Resurrection. • It tells us to LISTEN. Listen to the words of Christ. Listen to the voice of God. Listen to the winds of the Spirit of God. Stop, look and listen. These three words aren’t only important for our safety in travel; they’re also helpful for our journey through the 40 days of Lent. “Ashes to Ashes” Oh, divine Fire, burst aflame in my life — spontaneous combustion to turn all that traps or crushes growth ... laziness busy-ness self-preoccupation worries and doubts indifference ... to turn all that traps or crushes growth ... into ash. Rendered to ashes by way of a Cross, The world will know I’ve been graced by the Fire. *** Offering a lifeline After a family member tried to commit suicide, New Mexico pastor Mark Kluzek decided to reach out to de-pressed people throughout the country. He posted encouraging articles on a website (www.GodCaresAboutYou.net), even listing his own phone number for people who needed to talk. Kluzek bought Google ads that would direct desperate people to the site, but after getting no response for a year, he was ready to end the experiment. Then he heard from a man in Iowa who’d first dialed a suicide-prevention phone number that ended up being a bank in Hawaii. Kluzek convinced the man not to end his life and shared with him the good news of Jesus. The God Cares About You ministry now includes evangelism outreach to a poorer region of Albuquerque, known to residents as the “War Zone.” Volunteers are working to turn it into the “Lord’s zone,” Kluzek says, as they meet people’s physical and spiritual needs. Whether you lend a listening ear or provide food and clothing, your loving actions show individuals that God truly cares for each of them. *** Unconditional love No matter what sin we have committed, no matter how terrible it may be, God loves us. —Billy Graham *** 10 Spring renewal By reading the Scriptures I am so renewed that all nature seems renewed around me and with me. The sky seems to be a pure, a cooler blue, the trees a deeper green. The whole world is charged with the glory of God and I feel fire and music under my feet. —Thomas Merton *** Imagine going in ... When terrorists attacked the Westgate Mall in Nairobi, Kenya, last September, a former British Royal Marine guided many people to safety. His identity was concealed for security purposes, but The Daily Mail later quoted a bystander: “What he did was so heroic. He was having coffee with friends when it happened. He went back in 12 times and saved 100 people. Imagine going back in when you knew what was going on inside.” Imagine going into any place of danger or violence, knowing what’s happening — or what could happen: firefighters rushing into a burning house, a classmate stepping into a tense situation to end bullying, an adult boldly reporting suspected child abuse to authorities. And God ... taking on flesh and entering our world as Jesus, fully knowing “what was going on inside” and the violence to which he’d be exposed. Yet he went ahead and did this, all to rescue people — us! — from certain death. *** Quite a story to blow up the bridge, and all the Israelites were saved.” “Now, is that really what your teacher said?” the boy’s mother asked. “Well, no,” he admitted. “But if I told it the way the teacher did, you’d never believe it!” Bible Quiz Moses was a prophet and lawgiver for God’s chosen people, the Israelites. What does the name Moses mean in Hebrew? A. “Out of the water” B. “Giver of the Law” C. “Prophet” D. “God is good” Answer: See Exodus 2:10! Fear not I wonder if fear is not our main obstacle to prayer. When we enter into the presence of God and start to sense the huge reservoir of fear inside us, we want to run away into the many distractions that our busy world offers so abundantly. But we shouldn’t be afraid of our fears. We can confront them, give words to them, cry out to God and lead our fears into the presence of the One who says, “Don’t be afraid. It is I.” —Henri J.M. Nouwen *** During Sunday dinner, a mother asked her son what he’d learned in Sunday school that day. “Well,” he said, “our teacher told us how God sent Moses behind enemy lines on a rescue mission to lead the Israelites out of Egypt. When he got to the Red Sea, he had his engineers build a pontoon bridge and all the people walked across safely. Then he used his walkie-talkie to radio headquarters for reinforcements. They sent bombers 11 Holding us together of blood on her chest is called “the pelican in her piety.” As evangelist Louie Giglio was winding down a Passion Movement tour in Texas, a molecular biologist came up to introduce himself. Giglio mentioned he was heading home to Atlanta to preach some sermons about the glory of God in the human body. When the scientist discovered that Giglio still needed a big “hook” for the talks, he began describing laminin, a cell-adhesion molecule that holds the body’s membranes together. The scientist encouraged Giglio to go home and look up laminin on the Internet. When the image appeared on his screen, Giglio was amazed. The molecule that literally holds people together is in the shape of a cross! Giglio immediately thought of Paul’s words about Jesus in Colossians 1:17 — “in him all things hold together.” The next time your life seems to be falling apart, look up an image of laminin. Then remember that Jesus holds you together through his victory over death on the cross. Friday, March 7, 2014. FOOD PANTRY Many thanks for your generous contributions to the SouperBowl in February. The monetary contribution of $280 plus the many nonperishable items are helpful as we continue to make bags of groceries available to those in need. The generosity of our Pilgrim family is appreciated. In March we would suggest donations of canned vegetables, hearty soups, and/or cereal. Thank you! **** Set your clocks AHEAD one hour when you go to bed Saturday, March 8th! Christian symbol Pelican In the Middle Ages, the pelican came to represent Jesus’ sacrifice of his blood for the world. According to legend, a mother pelican, in times of famine, would pluck open her chest and feed her young with her own blood. An alternate myth was that she fed her dying young with her blood to revive them, losing her own life in the process. The depiction of a pelican with a drop MARCH COUNCIL MEETING (Weather permitting ☺) Tuesday, March 18, 6:30 p.m. GREETERS AND ACOLYTES NEEDED Sign-up sheets are on the Opportunity Table for the above volunteers. Many vacancies exist for March and April. We are also short on ushers for Week 2 of each month. If you can help on that Sunday, please contact Cherie Rivera. Thanks! 12 BANDA SCHOLARSHIP FUND. For the next several weeks, we will be collecting money for the Dr. Terence Banda scholarship. Dr. Terence Banda was a physician practicing in London, England, and recently passed away due to complications from pneumonia which he had contracted from a patient he was treating. Dr. Banda was 40 when he passed away, and is the son of Rosemary and Joe Banda. It is hoped that Rosemary and Joe can honor the memory of their son by using the funds collected to assist a worthy student of their choosing. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Pilgrim Congregational Church United Church of Christ March 15, 2014 4:30-6:30 P.M. Irish Step Dancers perform at 5:30 P.M. Adults $8.00 Child $6.00 Family Cap $24.00 Tickets available at the door A N ew sletter from Pilgrim Congregational Church Office H ours: 9:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Mond ay-Frid ay The Rev’ d Dr. Keith C. Ald erm an, Minister Cell p hone: 978-407-8502 Mr. Jonathan Elsensohn, Associate Pastor Lu cille Sam p son, Organist/ Mu sic Director Penny Ald erm an, Ad m in. Assistant Ashley Keogh, Su nd ay Sexton Office: 978-534-5164 Fax: 978-534-7679 E-m ail: pilgrim church1743@com cast.net Worship Service: Su nd ays, 9:30 AM Web Page: w w w .pilgrim church-ucc.org Church School: 9:30 AM 2014