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Bengaluru Bengaluru April 2014 Antithesis That Makes One Great Talk by Sudhanva Desai at Hebbal Coffee Chavadi Oct 2014 Acupressure – Talk by Dr. Balasubramanyam Reddy was organised at Vidyaranyapuram Chavadi April 2014 Dr. Venkatesh from Fortis Hospital: a talk on Cardiology. Nov 2014 Kannada Rajyotsava Celebration, a wonderful state festival celebrated and enjoyed by members. April 2014 Pot luck organised at Mahalakshmipuram Chavadi where Dignitarians came out with their new recipes Nov 2014 Visit to IISc by Vidyaranyapuram Chavadi – A two day seminar. April 2014 Organ Donation by Members Of Good Hearted Souls Nov 2014 Talent show of Members organised at Vijayanagar Chavadi. April 2014 Diabetic Information by Dr. Radha Dec 2014 CSR activity by Standard Chartered Bank made Dignitarians play games and enjoy refreshments sponsored by them. May 2014 Enjoy dance by Seema, aerobics instructor Dec 2014 Quiz on Physics was organised by Hebbal Chavadi by our Dignitarian Shakuntala. Dec 2014 Anita Chandra from New Jersey U S A made herself free to educate Dignitarians on “Maintaining Your Health” at Jayanagar Chavadi. Dec 2014 Preventing disease as you age: a Talk Dec 2014 Recollecting our four Years of the centre -- 4th year Anniversary celebrated at Vidyaranyapuram Chavadi May 2014 “Stealth in Modern Electronic Warfare” – Mr. PSR RAO had a wonderful talk with slide show May 2014 Legal tips - Mr. Murthy retd. Manager SBI, wonderful legal hour at Vijayanagar Chavadi June 2014 Held the first Carom Tournament in the month of June at Jayanagar Chavadi. Dignitarians participated in good numbers and prizes were awarded to the winners. June 2014 Talk on Satellite Technology and its application was held at Vidyaranyapuram Chavadi. Dec 2014 M C Rangarajan talked on “Tata’s New Car Running On Air” – Automobile idea sharing by Members July 2014 Maiya's a well known restaurant demonstrated their recipes at the Jayanagar Chavadi, and they had brought all the ingredients, and held demo of many recipes. Jan 2015 Rajeshwari from Sagar Hospital spoke about prevention of Fall and Preventive at Jayanagar Chavadi. Jan 2015 Aug 2014 Image building through Soft Skills (In English) by Mr. MSR Rao, a stimulating full hour with the scientist. Story Telling-Akbar Birbal/Tenali Ramakrishna – Dignitarians went back to their school days and recalled stories they remembered. Feb 2015 Sep 2014 Fancy dress competition at Jayanagar Chavadi. Dignitarians dressed themselves like brides and bridegrooms of different culture and demonstrated the unity in diversity. Frontiers in Medicine at Narayana Hrudayalaya on 24th 25th of February 2015. Feb 2015 NU Hospital organised a mega health camp and free health check up was done for Dignitarians. Interesting and useful information about DD Magazine was discussed. Mar 2015 Dr. Radha Murthy of Nightingales Medical Trust gave a talk on Active Ageing. Talk on Mother Theresa at Vidyaranyapuram Chavadi. It seemed Dignitarians comprehensively understood the depth of her suffering Mar 2015 Ali Khwaja of Banjara Academy related to seniors at Hebbal Chavadi. Sep 2014 Sep 2014 40 41 Chennai Chennai April 2014 We ushered in the Tamil New Year with a ‘pattimandram’ – a debate in Tamil on the topic “Science & Technology or Spiritualism – What helps senior citizens in their Golden Years” by members of the Kamban Kazhagam and a karaoke on yesteryear melodies. Sep 2014 The Steering Committee, Helpline Committee and Events Committee comprising of enthusiastic Dignitarians were formed .They are now very active groups and support all activities of D.F. April 2014 Dignitarian, S.V.Sekar released the 1st issue of our bilingual Newsletter which we have been rolling out month after month since 2013. It has helped us share and discuss our projects, our achievements, our hopes and has become a forum where our members could express themselves in both Tamil and English. Oct 2014 May 2014 We started the “Summer Camp with a Difference” – where our Dignitarians spent time with children, taught them life skills and recreated the atmosphere of ‘summer at patti, thatha’s house’. Two summers down and this has been a great success! We conducted Suraksha Bandhan where we went to schools and encouraged the children to tie Suraksha Bandhan bands to their grandparents with a vow that they would never do anything to hurt them. Painting, slogan and quiz competitions were conducted for kids on the theme of grandparents. “Quizzing with your grandparent” was the theme where each participating team had to have one senior and a child. It was a beautiful evening where at the event children who had not come with a grandparent and seniors who had come without a child quickly bonded, formed teams and were soon guessing away! It was conducted by The Hindu Young World Quiz Master V.V.Ramanan, who held the audience’s attention all the time. May 2014 D.F. was awarded the Rolling Shield for the Best NGO by Bahaii Association at a grand event at Chinmaya Vidyalaya Oct 2014 June 2014 We celebrated the 19th Anniversary of Dignity Dialogue. We honoured Sahitya Academy Award Winner Asoka Mitran. Danseuse Dr. Anita Ratnam spoke on how literature and art could be a window to one’s expression and emotions. Author Dr. Kamalie Sripal and R.V.Rajan encouraged seniors to write, read and learn new things. We recognised contributors to our magazine and Dr. Anita Ratnam released Dignitarian Malathi Subramanian’s Anthology of Poems. World Elders Day was celebrated and the theme was “Anecdotal Evidence”. We discussed the helpline cases that we had received and the solutions to their problem. The panel comprised of former DGP, Letika Charan, Hon’ble Justice Mathivanan, Madras High Court and senior Journalist Ramalingam. The session was moderated by Raza Narayanan. Oct 12, 2014 We celebrated World Arthritis Day at GRT Convention Centre. Starting with a good breakfast, we held games for seniors, Dr. Arumugham spoke on “Winning Arthritis” and actor and comedian Ramesh Khanna had the audience in splits with his humour. Nov 2014 We organised a 3 day tour to Courtallam – the Spa of South India in the Western Ghats. Dhanapaul and Sasi Rekha accompanied 18 Dignitarians on a tour that came back with great memories to cherish. Dec 2014 To create awareness about D.F, the problems of the elderly and the support they require we organised a “Walkathon on the Marina”. Our Dignitarians, senior citizens, students and members of different organisations in Chennai participated. It was a fun event starting with yoga, warm ups, flag off by Actor Sivakumar and his ever inspiriting talk. We ended having a scrumptious breakfast Dec 2014 The 5th Anniversary of our Dementia Day Care Centre was celebrated on the lawns of the Centre in Palavakkam. M.K. Narayanan, ex-governor, West Bengal was the chief guest and Dr. P.V. Dhananjayan, dance maestro was the special guest. We had over 100 invitees. July 2014 Aug 2014 We conducted a “Health and Wellness Camp” for the benefit of senior citizens at Gallery Shree Parvathi Hall. It was a weeklong programme where Uma, a yoga and wellness exponent from Maldives, taught them simple yoga and relaxation techniques for 45 seniors with music and dance. This was very well received. We celebrated the Independence Day at the office with flag hoisting and a tour of “Known places but Unknown facts” by Raza Narayanan, a visual tour of places where the Freedom Movement was significant in Chennai. Aug 2014 We also started celebrating the birthdays of our members at different old age homes so that we double our joy and make life more interesting for the less unfortunate. We had also collected and donated clothes and rugs for the residents. Sep 2014 The Free Legal Clinic which is an offshoot of DIGNITY HELPLINE was inaugurated by Justice Bhaskaran. It was spearheaded by Advocate Raza Narayanan. Every month ungrudgingly he helped us deal with and advice seniors on legal entanglements. Through the Free Legal Cell more than 150 seniors had benefitted. This initiative brought us lot of public visibility. 42 43 Chennai Goa Jan 2015 We kick started the New Year with an “Appraisal and Planning Meeting” April 2014 to March 2015 Jan 2015 Celebrated Republic Day at our office with flag hoisting and Kreeda games -- which brought in their wide array of board games and toys of yesteryears. Dignitarians enjoyed reliving their childhood days and shared memories of playing them in their younger years. Frontiers in Medicine A day out for Piku movie Investor’s awareness programme Eat right and Stay right Investment opportunities for seniors Usage of smart phone for seniors Women’s day celebration Jan 2015 We celebrated Pongal with the traditional Pongal Panai and games like tug of war and ‘uri adikirathu’. Jan 10, 2015 Regular chai masti sessions commenced Jan 2015 We organised a three day trip to Yelagiri - a hill station in the Vellore District. Dignitarians thoroughly enjoyed the break and company. Feb 2015 The free library for seniors was inaugurated in our office by noted journalist and author His Highness, Shree Kumar Varma and Prof. Aludiapillai. We now have an exclusive collection of more than 1000 books from the personal collections of avid book lovers. Feb 2015 We started a new Tehneer Arangam centre in Anna Nagar. The first programme was “ Vilaiyadalam Vaango” by Kreeda games March 2015 We hosted the Healthcare event, a two day symposium on Allopathy and Alternate Medicine. Doctors from different specialties spoke on the latest advancements in healthcare followed by an interactive session. March 2015 We celebrated International Women’s Day, where we honoured well-known author Sivasankari, Meiyammai Murugappan, Visalakshi Ramaswamy and Dr.P.Manorama – all elderly women who continue to inspire people with their work. March 2015 In March we started working for the underprivileged seniors in the slums of Saidapet and Kannagi Nagar. We work closely with the community to find out their problems, build trust and help them. We have conducted a free eye camp with Udhi Eye Clinic for the elderly in both areas. 20 free cataract surgeries were done and we sponsored glasses for 50 seniors who were prescribed the same. Health, financial inclusion, empowerment, skills development, introduction of Government schemes are some of the projects we are working on. We are helping them open bank accounts and sponsoring the health/accident insurance put forward by the Government. We are also working to get the govt sponsored schemes they are eligible to receive. Mar 2015 Kolkata July 2015 We support Health and Hygiene Project in different Old Age Homes in Kolkata. “Sohomormi” an Old Age Home in Dhakuria benefited this time. We conducted a General Health Camp in Sohomormi on 24th July. There was a general health check up including BP, Sugar, ECG, Height and Weight followed by Doctor’s consultation. As a part of the Hygiene support, we distributed Health and Hygiene products like phenyl, lizol, handwash, soap, savlon etc to the residents. Aug 2015 On 15th August WBHIDCO invited D.F to Senior Citizens Park (Swapna Bhor) at New Town in Rajarhat. There was a cultural programme organised by all Four Chai Masti centres. The programme started with the welcome speech of the Chairman, Debashis Sen followed by the performances of the Chai Masti Centres... The Independence Day Special Programme was highly appreciated by nearly 95 seniors who were present in the auditorium. It was a great outing for the seniors on that day, as Transport facility (Pick and Drop) was being provided by HIDCO. We have started the free ration service where we supply free ration to needy seniors who can no longer work and do not have anybody to support them. 30 seniors have benefitted from this scheme. 44 45 Pune April 4, 2014 April 15, 2014 Pune Session on Managing Hypertension and Diabetes by Homeopathy Feb 24, 2015 Session on Water management....a challenge for the globe by Crispino Lobo Mar 9, 2015 International Women's Day-A Documentary Screening on Gender Equality ECG Checkup camp by Ruby Hall Clinic, Wanawadi, April 27, 2014 Dignity Dialogue Anniversary Event at Ruby Hall Clinic, Wanawadi May 12, 2014 Hobby and Talent show. . Mar 10, 2015 Dental and General Heath check up by Apollo Dental Hospital, May 13, 2014 Demonstration of Yoga Techniques and Pranayam by Natasha Menezes Mar 13, 2015 Celebrated the Holi festival of colours. Dr Sheilu Sreenivasan’s visit to DF Pune to address all members. Members enthusiastically responded by signing up to volunteer in committees to run the activities. April 2014 to March 2015 57 Govt of Maharashtra Senior Citizen’s ID cards were issued. July 4, 2014 April 2014 to March 2015 190 Helpline cases received at Pune Helpline, out of which 98 cases are active and 92 are closed after satisfactory resolution. April 2014 to March 2015 Under the Dignity Companionship project 18 members were provided with companionship volunteers April 2014 to March 2015 Dignity Discovery to mitigate loneliness – a quarterly trip to scenic sites near Pune. The trip encourages people to come together and forge new friendships. One picnic to Iskon Temple was very popular. April 2014 to March 2015 Dignity Ration Programme: Monthly basket of basic provision to help 10 Leprosy families. July 22, 2014 Outing to New Iskon Temple Aug 11, 2014 Wine tasting programme. Oct 6, 2014 Tried and Tested Ayuvedic Medicines from Haridwar, addressed by Dr Tabib Nov 12, 2014 World Elders Days Celebrations Nov 14,2014 Children’s Day Celebration Nov 18,2014 Free Medical checkup by Sanctus Healthcare Dec 9,2014 Diabetes Management followed by free medical checkup and physio assessment by Sanctus Healthcare Dec 15, 2014 Christmas celebrations Jan 2, 2015 New Year Celebrations Jan 9, 2015 Prevention of Heart Disease by Dr. Kulkarni Jan 16, 2015 Greriatric Health by Dr Rain Feb 14&15 2015 Frontiers In Medicine – two days of Talks by various physicians and therapists Feb 20, 2015 A Bhajan Programme by Kadambari Bhajan Group Feb 23, 2015 Session on Counseling and Mental Health issues of mentally challenged adults-conducted by Dr Neelima Desai 46 20 rust T f Ye a r s o 47 Loneliness Mitigation Centres Euphemistically referred to as ‘Chai Masti’ Life after retirement can be quite lonely as a person no longer has an active social circle. There is no meaningful activity that one has every morning when one wakes up and there could be a sense of loss of identity. All this leads to a deep sense of loneliness and loss of self-image. Even if some people are lucky to live with their children, they realise that everyone is busy with their own lives and have no time or inclination to talk to older adults. Loneliness leads to depression which in turns leads to many health problems. D.F.’s Loneliness Mitigation centres are euphemistically referred to as Chai Masti centres. These centres provide a platform for senior citizens to interact socially, build a support network, boost their self esteem and lead an active life. The centres run from Monday to Friday for 2 hours, usually 4 pm to 6 pm. Loneliness Mitigation Centres have structured activities to promote: Social interaction and sharing with peers Learning new skills Physical and spiritual well being Offer a platform to display their talents and get recognition Some of the key structured activities conducted at the Loneliness Mitigation Centres are: • • • • • • Guided Tai Chi Yoga Bridge, Carom, Chess etc. Antakshari Birthday Celebrations Group Singing • • • • • • Around 1500 senior citizens come on a daily basis to the 18 centres across 7 cities – mitigating loneliness and enriching lives. The Chai Masti centres are a beehive of activity, laughter, learning, and bonding, expanding of horizons and most importantly, of belonging. The concept of Chai Masti is built on the sound Buddhist principles of Kalyana Mitrata. In Buddhist writings a friend is endowed with seven qualities, worth associating with: Life at Chai Masti…… • • • • A great variety of experiences members receive including outing, Talks, Celebrity meetings, spiritual inspirations, performances and other active participatory events. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. He gives what is hard to give. He does what is hard to do. He endures what is hard to endure. He reveals his secrets to you. He keeps your secrets. When misfortunes strike, he doesn’t abandon you. When you’re down and out, he doesn’t look down on you Despite the common image of the Buddhist as the ultimate solitary wanderer, we see from the above and other verses throughout Buddhism, the central importance of admirable friendship. Two sides of admirable friendship are discussed: *The first is finding and cultivating admirable friendships, as opposed to our ordinary, everyday friends. *The second side is in how we, as friends, may best support one another on the path. Supplemented by Psychologist Eric Ericsson’s concept of Ego Integrity as a very desirable goal to achieve in one’s senior citizen hood, this Buddhist principle of Kalyana Mithratha has been implemented on ground by D.F. in order to help senior citizens work towards a level of equanimity and self respect through the daily enriching programmes. Quiz Games Old Hindi Songs/Movie Screening Talks by doctors, financial experts, Lawyers, etc. Festival Celebrations Indian Dance 48 20 ust f Tr Ye a r s o 49 Mumbai function, and joined it with a wavering mind because 4 pm was not suitable to me. I thought maybe I will attend it once a week. But on 28th October my mother expired. I was grieving badly. On 31st October I got call from our Co-ordinator Elizabeth, that Dignity Chai- Masti will start from 1st November and I thought this as His divine intervention….and started attending its sessions. Since then I have never looked back. Every evening at the stroke of 4 I am at our popular joint Chai Masti. My personal thanks to Dr. Sheilu Sreenivasan to have come up with this concept and lighten our lives forever! I can’t imagine life without it. Mira Road Centre Chembur Centre Says Dignitarian Ravikumar Vutha Darshna Thakker, Coordinator (50) Life has truly changed its course after we have taken membership at D.F. It has become a school for us at this age, educating us on many aspects, giving us an opportunity to meet new people, make friends, celebrate various festivals, understand different cultures, organize several events etc. We have all been in a cocoon of family responsibilities and career for all these years burying our inner talent & skills. It was D.F. which pulled us out of the cocoon with flying colors and gave wings to our creativity. A personality change has taken place. I am no more a shy person. I now love dancing, singing, having fun with my friends and most importantly, do not shy away from flirting with my wife in open! I have again become a naughty teenager! Hence, there was always this fun, crazy, witty, unexplored side of me which got unraveled through D.F. Kudos to Dignity! We are really enjoying this second innings of our life! I eagerly look forward to attend my school nowadays! I will complete 3 years with D.F. by end of this year. When I joined Dignity as a chai masti co ordinator I thought I will have to be a person who will have to continually give pep talks and motivate the senior citizens to enjoy senior citizens and society at large. life but I was in for a pleasant shock. The senior citizens of Chembur chai masti centre are fun loving, full of energy and child like enthusiasm. Says Elizabeth Alfred (55) Coordinator, Mira Road I had spent a large part of my professional career as a nurse mostly caring for Senior Citizens. I joined DF on 8th October, 2007 as Coordinator. The Centre serves as a second home not only for the members but over the years for the Co-coordinators as well. By virtue of sharing our joy, sorrow and happiness with the seniors, we often forget our domestic problems. I have by now become a part and parcel of the organisation and its mission of service to humanity. I am confident that in the coming years we will all grow with expanded vision and dedication. I am no longer afraid of ageing because they have taught me to age gracefully, while having fun. Says Jitendra Prasad Verma, I joined in 2008; my very first day was most thrilling. It was a very great experience to meet together with seniors from all parts of India and all faiths-- a real life case of unity in diversity in loving friendships. The programmes are very interesting and varied -- from Yoga, Tai-Chi, Aerobics, Dancing, Talks, Games & Picnics; I also enjoy all the programmes. I particularly love the magazine Dignity Dialogue which is so informative and touching in covering great lives of simple people and celebrities... I have become a better daughter to my parents and am able to now truly understand their needs. I have come to a stage where I feel that not just Chembur centre but entire D.F. is my extended family. I am truly grateful to D.F. for having faith in my work and giving me this opportunity to do good work for 20 st Tr u f o Ye a r s Says Dr Vijaya Bhatia, I remember 18th October 2007 when Dignity Chai Masti was inaugurated at Mira Road; I attended the 50 51 varied backgrounds. Coming from the world of technology I enjoy sharing my knowledge and skill to co-members. I am amazed at the level of grasping and enthusiasm from people ranging from 60 to 90 years! Today we have one of the most active WhatsApp groups with over 200 messages daily. With this new group I have traveled far and wide to Bhutan, Dubai, North India, Daman, Lonawala etc. Every day at 5pm it is pure excitement to walk into our centre and greet all. I strongly recommend seniors to join DF.CM. Powai Happy Times at Chai Masti By Dr. Jeanette Pinto I have been a member of the D.F. for the past 5 years or more. The Chai Masti session was then held in the basement of the ADAPT building in Chembur. We were about 25 active members then. We had a young vivacious Coordinator named Dianne Tauro who addressed every one of us as Aunty or Uncle, and who brought much life into the activities. This I suppose made us feel like one big family. I enjoyed all the activities as per the schedule. Over the years I have seen more new members join, and now our Dignity Recreation Center seems to be bursting at its seams. The hall in the same building is a vibrant place full of energy and life on most days of the week. On an average there are around 40 -50 active people attending and participating in the various programmes. The activities are well balanced providing all seniors to enjoy their recreation/ Chai masti time fruitfully and with much joy. Some enjoy playing cards or board games, while some may even just sit and chat. There is excellent participation at the Birthday celebration of members and at the different festival celebrations. Some of the ladies put in much effort to revive tradition in a creative way. What is good about Chai Masti is that there is a physical routine, as well as a social platform for members to participate or even make new friends. There is fun, laughter and friendship galore. A couple of interesting talks too have been arranged. The atmosphere is very enervating and the cuppa tea and an occasional snack complete the evening. Some brain games, book/ social issue discussions, or perhaps short local outings would be welcome. Picnics have been fun too. Our present Coordinator Darshna is a lady who has a pleasant nature and is encouraging and motivating in her approach. She sees to it that all are having a good time, and also actively involves and participates in the various activities. Personally I enjoy most sessions and would not miss an opportunity to be present at the Chai Masti every day. I have learnt Tai Chi, which I had no knowledge of. The Aerobics and the Yoga sessions provide me with the necessary physical exercise. I also enjoy the birthday bashes with the fun games and the camaraderie. From the social angle D.F. has provided me with the opportunity to appreciate the gift of life and friendship of the elderly. More power to Dignity Chai Masti- Chembur! 20 st u r T f o Ye a r s 52 Kadambari Joshi (72), Coordinator I manage the Powai centre with 100 plus members from its inception in 2013. It is very enriching to see people coming with personal emotional baggages but slowly and steadily lighting up. Ours is a very energetic group with lots of in-house activity through the week. Almost each month we get away to exotic places such as Bhutan, Dubai, Haridwar, Mt Abu, Daman to name a few. Personally, having retired as a teacher in Kendra Vidyalaya after 40 year stint, it seems to me I am having a fresh crop of second inning children one hundred of them! Says Dignitarians Amita Mehta I joined the CM Powai right at the start. From a lonely status, now I am full of friends from all walks of life. My granddaughter is actually jealous of me as my WhatsApp does not stop ringing. She says ‘Granny’ you have so many friends!!!” Really the Powai centre has brought a big change in my life and I look forward to going to the centre each evening, to the extent that I won the ‘Most Regular’ award in the recently concluded 2nd Anniversary Party of Powai centre. Besides the fun there are also various discounts one gets from Medical stores, Restaurants to beauty parlours !!! Says Dignitarian Ganesh Iyer I joined Dignity Chai Masti Powai centre about 18 months back. It has been greatly enriching with new friends and a great learning experience. I have met people from 53 Navi Mumbai Nandkumar Patil (57), Coordinator This September I completed 8 months of my association with D.F. With my earlier corporate background it was entirely different field for me even though I always wanted to do my little bit for society. Co-ordinator assignment came at just the right time for me to offer services to Senior Citizens at the Loneliness Mitigation Centre. This unique experience has brought out my hidden capabilities of having a good communication, leadership skills, organising sessions and simultaneously exercise lot of patience. The interaction with Senior Citizens sharing of a lot of experiences has given me an opportunity to learn and enjoy the collective activities of fun, fitness and recreation. where we can share and exchange our views, thoughts, and opinions, discuss issues, new developments with our intimate, open minded friends. Their enthusiasm and the activities inspired us a great deal to think and be energetic to do more towards society. The activities like Yoga, Tai Chi, Zumba, Aerobics, singing, dancing, telling jokes, recitation and such like keeps us physically as well as mentally fit. We are also celebrating everyone's birthday on a month wise basis to feel good belonging to a group. The most important aspect of joining here is its contribution to make us realise that “even” being a senior person like ourselves we have our own importance and are given guidance as well as all the support that are needed which will ultimately result in being beneficial to our country. Says Dignitarians Gautam Goswami Says Dignitarian Kiran Bhalla and Rumjhum Goswami Vashi Dignity Centre has grown from a mere four members to 35 in a short span of few months. We are lucky to have a beautiful centre at New Bombay Bengali Association. We meet for different sessions like yoga, Zumba and Tai Chi in addition to lectures on nutrition, physiotherapy, Bhagwad Geeta. We had a story telling session which was interesting and unique. Our centre donated old clothes to an adivasi village nearby. My wife and I joined DF in March 2015. I must say we have come to the right place which we very much needed. This is the place We recently visited Dignity Lifestyle and a house-visit to one of the members who turned 80. All this have brought us 54 together and we look forward to making more such visits. We sing, dance share jokes during birthdays and this brings us closer to one another and keeps us happy. I have made a lot of friends and reunited with a lot of my old friends. ‘Chai Masti’ friends have enriched me and I look forward to having our weekly meetings to plan for daily programmes. Now we are gearing up for our presentation on 1st October, 2015. Says Dignitarian Meenakshi Kapadia Grant Road Centre My sister and I joined D.F. in the year 2004. Since then we have made many friends here. We all go together for movies, to restaurants and also jointly celebrate each other's birthdays. By joining ‘Chai Masti’ centre I have gained a lot of confidence and lost all my stage fright by participating in all activities. All the programmes conducted here are very useful especially Tai Chi, Yoga, Aerobics and other exercises. Although I live far from the Centre, I come here regularly as it gives me an opportunity to spend my time fruitfully and happily. I have not used the discount booklet as the places mentioned are quite far from my residence. Samata Kalra – Coordinator (55), Grand Centre, Mumbai This November it will be exactly four years of my association with D.F. I'm at a stage now that I am ready to convince each and every senior citizen I pass by on the road to become a member of D.F. and to be able to enjoy all that it has to offer and experience the 360° change in their lives. I have always had a passion for senior citizens and doing my duties as a coordinator has been a positive outlet for the same. Not having any idea of all that my work would involve, I was unprepared for the changes that have come into my members and my own life. The biggest advantage is the totally unconditional love and respect from almost all of them. I continue to be amazed at their zest for life and untiring efforts to go on and on even if sometimes it becomes a little difficult to do so physically. They love picnics, parties and joyously relive their childhood at birthday celebrations. It is immensely satisfying to see them bloom under appropriate guidance and I've seen innumerable success stories that continue to inspire me every single day. Working with them has honed my conversational, organisational and leadership qualities. Interacting with them on a daily basis has taught me to be 5Ps Precise, Practical, Patient, Progressive and persevering in all that I do. Dinshaw Mehta My wife and I are a part of D.F. since the year 2010. We like coming to ‘Chai Masti’ centre so we can participate in all the activities conducted here. My favourite activities are Yoga and Tai Chi. I also like meeting and communicating with new people and sharing experiences with each other. I have been unable to use the discount booklet up till now. 55 • If it is good to do Outing once a while but daily body stretching exercises is a must, thanks to Outing and Yoga sessions • Nobody is small or big, rich or poor, black or white, when individual is progressing in life. • Only aim is to enjoy life gracefully while ageing, thanks to different games like Bridge, Antakshari, Dumb Charade and Chess. • Speaking frankly is good relief for stress bursting thanks to group sessions all the time. Versova Ishrat Nazirkumar(74) Coordinator 20 Just as I was getting a little anxious about having to live a lonely, almost directionless life, a Good Samaritan introduced me to the organisation called Dignity Foundation. I was so taken up by its goals and objectives that I wasted no time in seeking membership its in 2010. st u r fT o s Ye a r Within 5 months I was asked to accept the responsibility of being the coordinator of the Versova branch. It has been almost five years now and I have enjoyed every moment of it thoroughly. I have learnt that there is no better health therapy than having a mind that is fruitfully occupied. When that occupation is contributing towards the welfare of fellow beings, even in a small measure, the result is not really just good health but also sublime happiness. On the whole, D.F. converted my retired, bored, old age life to an enjoyable and dignified graceful life. Thanks to D.F and Thane Chi Masti Centre. Says Dignitrian Nayeem Khan In August 2015, I have completed one year as member in Versova centre. On reflection of the past one year, I can say that this centre has added mirth and masti in my life. After retirement there is a gradual reduction in contacts with old friends. The Dignity Chai Masti Centre offered me a great platform to have new friends on a regular basis. The programmes from Monday to Friday between 4:00 pm to 6:00 include a variety of games, songs, yoga and discussions on topics of interest, lectures by experts. The members can participate as per their choice, interests and convenience. It is an enriching experience with knowledge addition. Our Coordinator Ishrat Kumar is adept at organising the members and programmes deftly. This appealing occupation has resulted in my taking a kind of u-turn on the road of life. I feel much younger and rejuvenated. This is not just true in my case, but in the case of all of us who meet and participate in a variety of activities offered by D.F. This is very apparent to all when one sees the cheerful, glowing countenance of the members. Loneliness, which is the bane of most lives at this stage, has been given a go-bye here. We have struck new and lasting friendships with people who understand our needs at this stage. I have learnt that biological age is not of much importance; it is the mental or psychological age that really counts. Dignity has given me that understanding; that invaluable gift. Our chief objective or motto could be interpreted as: “Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinah: Sarve Santu NiraamayaahSarve Bhadraanni Pashyantu Maa Kashchit-Dukha-Bhaagbhavet.” In the childhood days, we played in the evenings with friends for physical development. In this second childhood, we play with new friends for a healthy mind and a healthier body. This social get-together platform keeps the seniors entertained and healthy. They also organise picnics. In today’s fast paced life, where other members of the nuclear families have no time for senior citizens or where some have lost their life- partners, the Centre has a lot to offer to alleviate the loneliness and make life happier and healthier. Surely, the D. F. Chai-Masti Centres are a boon for the health and happiness of Senior Citizens. I suggest that there should be at least two such inter-centre get-togethers organised in a year. This will enhance better interaction between members of all Dignity Chai Masti Centres in Mumbai. Let all be happy; Let all be healthy; Let all be safe; Let no one ever suffer from sorrow My little endeavour towards that objective in turn keeps me happy, healthy, safe and ever cheerful. Thank you, Dignity for gifting dignity to our lives. 56 Thane Shubha Kamrishi (34) Coordinator It almost 32 Months since I joined. The experience is very enriching; I have seen a different side of life here. People say life comes to an end after retirement but I have experienced that life starts after retirement. Thanks to DF for providing me this opportunity. Working with Senior citizens is very rich experience, you can learn lot about life from them, at this age, the kind of enthusiasm they bring peps up our own energy and equip us with an understanding to resolve problem easily. Says Dignitarian Swadesh Marwah I had a very busy and fruitful life in the bank but after retirement I suddenly found myself very lonely, dull and nothing to look forward to. It was God’s grace that I was advised and persuaded by my friend to join D.F. Chai Masti at Thane. It was one of the best happenings in the later part of my life. The Dignity forum has given me the much needed confidence and chance to express myself, revive my hobbies such as reading, embroidery, cooking and to have a good discussions on current topics of the day. Now I am happy, more cheerful and enjoy life to the fullest and in the way I love. Hence I look forward to more new activities and event for the senior citizens in the years to come. I thank God for making a great part of this beautiful organisation: D.F. To start with, I found it a little difficult to match up with senior citizens thought processes and to understand them well, but thanks to the Team they have helped me learn things fast , and now we all work as one big family where we have our own roles to play but all to enjoy to its fullest. Qualities which I have learnt to practice here are patience, time management, communication, dealing with issues related to human psychology, and all these have helped in making me as a better and confident person. Says Dignitarian Raja Ram Swadi I am now more proud as Dignitarian then as senior citizen because of following: • I Understand now philosophy as good as technology and realise both are important in life, thanks to Bhagwad Gita sessions 57 Pune Vaishali Desai, Hon. Coordinator, Kalyani Nagar Ahmedabad organised programmes with the day full of fun. For the two hours at the Centre, we all forget our home too. The Centre has been so closely bonded and people are attached to each other like a family. The only tension I have is how to spend Saturdays and Sundays and pass the weekend without my friends since Centre works only 5 days a week. Exactly one year ago, I took charge of the newly formed Kalyani Nagar centre. Since then, my life has changed for better in ways I never imagined. My husband and I moved from Mumbai to Pune, and I did not have a friend’s circle of my own in this city. I was feeling depressed sitting at home -- wanting to find what and how I can use my time and energy. As a boon, and by chance, I met Dr. Sheilu Sreenivasan, and she trusted me and handed over the responsibility of starting a new centre in Pune. In the process of starting this new centre, and organising different programmes for Chai Masti, I met so many people from all walks of life, that I had no time to think or worry about utilising my time for a cause! All the people I met, they have enriched my life in many ways. The guests at Chai Masti, the members of DF - all have given so much love to me that I do not miss my children anymore! Now our Chai Masti centre has become like a family. In this one year, we have spent so many great moments together that now we can't imagine our lives without one another. We understand the needs, emotions and feelings for each other. Feel more close to Dignity friends, with whom we can share all our feelings! Each one wants to do something or the other for our group, and it's such a good feeling. It’s very hard to make so many friends in a new city, especially at this age, but thanks to D.F, I found my happiness. We, all the members of Kalyani Nagar, have vowed to be together and for each other till the end! 20 Madhvi Mehta - Social Worker and Coordinator of Chai Masti centres It’s a point of great pride for me that within a year, we have garnered more than 100 members. Physically we reached out to more than 2000 individuals; 500 persons had attended our different programmes; more than 50 individuals had been counseled through our Helpline support. From day one Ahmedabad Chapter had started to take steps in the direction of collecting funds to become self reliant. My vision for the future is to open 5 centres in areas such as Paldi, Ranip/ Vadaj, Maninagar, Navrangpura, Bopal. Says Dignitarian Bhadresh Vora I have been coming to the satellite Chai Masti Centre from day one (Dec 8th onwards) and I have not missed any session till date. My friends at the centre tell me that I am a very good singer as well as a good Tabla player. After my voluntary retirement from SBI I was in search of such a group, and it’s my good fortune I found D.F. After my wife's sudden death I had become very lonely and sad, but once I joined the ‘Chai Masti’ Centre I have been able to accept her loss, and become positive in life again. I have kept myself busy with all the interesting lectures and programmes. I enjoy Fridays’ programmes the most. Now I have made so many new friends who always care for me and make my life worth enjoying once again. rust T f Ye a r s o Dr. K. S. Purohit, Gastroenterologist and speaker at 'Frontiers in Medicine', held in February 2015, says: I like the word DIGNITY, it is an excellent expression of what senior citizens are; the word gives value to a person's character. Seniors are most valuable and are pillars of society as they can guide the younger generation for positive achievement. D.F. is doing an excellent service to the society. Says Dignitarian Shrilkeha Bhatt National Anthem by Mr V Sundaram Key note by Chief Guest-Ms Vinita Deshmukh 58 I am a very active member of our satellite Chai Masti Centre ever since I became a member in April 2015. I am happy to say that I have never missed a single day. People say I am very good as a mimicry artist and I always try to entertain members with her own life experiences. I love to get involved in all the 59 Chennai One of the recent innovative programmes is the introduction of special interest clubs and the involvement of members which has taken them to a new level. We now screen movies at our centre on a big projector screen and Dignitarians enjoy it with tea and snacks. Dignitarian Experience I was Vice President in a big private firm. After retirement, I was lost for things to do. I came to know about D.F. and visited their office and started frequenting their Tehneer Arangam at Teynampet. I have made very good friends, learnt bridge and now share great evenings with my peer group. Certain programmes conducted by Dignity like the healthcare event were useful. G.R. Sunderamoorthy Dhanapaul Arumgham, Coordinator of all ‘Tehneer Arangam’ in Chennai By organising a variety of Tehneer Arangam programmes, I have had the opportunity to network with many resource persons and feel proud and happy to have been instrumental in sharing their experience with Dignitarians. I have been a member of Dignity for the past seven years. I like all the activities of Dignity especially tours that have been organized for us and the special events like the healthcare event and literary event. I enjoyed acting in the drama and enjoy meeting people of my age group and look forward to all the future events. The company and support is such a blessing in this age! Amutha Raghavan I feel happy that we have had lot of coverage from the media about the events at our Tehneer Arangam centres which in turn have helped us in our membership drive. We have been sending our Tehneer Arangam schedules to members who have not renewed, who after seeing our interesting programmes have renewed their membership. Dignitarians call to ask for our programme schedule if they have missed out on it. Goa Preethi Pereira, Social Worker and Co-ordinator I still remember the time when we started our 1st chai masti at Goa and the members had just enrolled for the reason that they were single and lonely with no one to look after them. Their main concern was ‘what if any medical emergency would come and who is going call the ambulance for us?’ This is what they shared with me and I could see the pain in their depressed sad eyes with no self confidence. But when I look at them now, I really feel proud. I can see confidence twinkle in their eyes, they are no more worried aboutloneliness, they have made many friends, and I have seen a total change as attested to in their dressing, which is smart and cheerful. Our members get to bring friends for sampling a few sessions, and sure enough the next day I get a call from them about wanting to join D.F. I know each and every member personally now and feel happy to see how they have changed and I see them living their life to the fullest. This I feel is my gain and satisfaction. Says Dignitarian Elizabeth Rodrigues I complete 7 months of my membership with D.F. I remember the day I was invited for ‘Frontiers in Medicine programme’ hosted by Dignity. That’s when I first got associated with Dignity and the ‘Chai Masti’. I always look forward to joining the next ‘Chai Masti’. I like the simplicity of the members and I like to meet them, hear memorable moments of their life and share mine. I always use to think that I have a problem in dealing with old age, but when I met the ‘chai Courtallam Trip 60 Pongal 61 masti’ group, I could see that everyone has their own problem but were still living life to the fullest. I too developed the positive attitude, zest for life. I learnt how to stay fit and not to ever worry about old age. Now I know old age is just a number. Members of our Chai Masti group have developed a mutually supportive mind set, and we would like to share this with other chapter members. Ajith Gupchup My father expired in Dec 2000 and this came as a great shock to all of us. Mother never really got over it. She would brood throughout the day and pour her heart out to anybody who would come to visit her. After a while people stopped coming to our house and the relatives too would rarely call. Four years had passed and she had come to stay with me in Mumbai. She had become a very lonely woman and had almost forgotten to smile. Nothing would make her happy and we at home were just not able to make her comfortable. At this point in time I remembered having attended a talk on the D.F. I called up the organisation helpline and explained the situation. In two days time we had two counsellors visiting us. They sat for a good hour and half and promised to come again the following week. Their visits helped and Mom became a little cheerful. I was really impressed. I stopped working at the age of 65 and around July 2014 I joined the Goa chapter of the D.F.… I ached to give something back to the society. The good deed done by the D.F. at Mumbai had motivated me. What I like about the ‘Chai Masti’ is that we can be ourselves! There is nothing to gain or lose so the need to impress anyone is not there, so automatically you have no mask to wear. The most important thing I’ve learnt is that there is no one in this world without problems! Pune DIGNITY HELPLINE We connected them to an MD (Psychiatry), from their panel and enquired if he could treat the patient. After receiving his confirmation, we passed on the Doctor’s contact details and address to the Client’s daughter. The daughter said that her father responded well to the medication and he slept well for 2 or 3 days. However, oversleeping became a problem and after a number of difficulties in treatment lasting several days, the patient finally settled down with regular sleep and medication routine after doctor’s intervention. The Client’s family was appreciative of the efforts taken by DF to find solutions to a complicated situation arising out of doctor’s unavailability. CASE 1: Non receipt of Voters ID card and name missing from Voters’ list problem The client (woman -- 62.) called to register her complaint that she had not received her voter’s card though she submitted the required Form 6 at her constituency in Pune District well in time. She was not allowed to vote even though she had her old voters ID issued from her old constituency, where she stayed previously. She had approached practically everyone who was election authorities, including her friends but none could help. Finally, she approached our Helpline. The Dignity Helpline volunteer went online to the Maharashtra Chief Election Officer’s website and searched. The search was successful and the information about the Client’s voter ID card was displayed online including Constituency, Voting Centre, the client’s serial number in the voting list and most important the Voter’s ID number. CASE 3: Psychological support to overcome loneliness Since the client had additionally complained that she had not received her Voter ID card, DF phoned up the Election helpline and obtained the information that the Client could collect her Voter’s Card from the local Talathi’s office, which too was passed onto her. Day 1 to Day 14: Client had to make couple of visits to the Talathi’s and other offices before they could locate her Voter’s Card and she got it finally. She thanked DF profusely. How Many Older Adults Did Helpline Help? CASE 2: During the 12 months Helpline Counselors answered 8,943 calls from Older Adults asking Needed reference of Doctor to treat Dementia patient directly for help, advice and protection. About 290 of these used our crisis counseling one-toone, including email counseling services, personal visits to the home of the clients, and thousands received trusted information on the website's several sections and queries responded to. The good news in Helpline services is that the new segments of below-thepoverty level elders also were enabled to access due to the monthly workshops organised from March onwards. . 62 The client’s (Male 86 years) daughter called to get the reference of a doctor to treat her father who was a Dementia patient. Of late he was not sleeping and just sits for most of the time. The caregivers were finding it difficult to manage. She was seeking a Doctor, who could treat her father and resolve the problem. 63 The client’s (Male. 74 years) called on Pune helpline and narrated his feeling about DF & also talked about the phase which he has going through. He explained about his loneliness and related issues. He was totally depressed when he first time called on the helpline. He is staying as PG (paying guest) close to our office. Due to loneliness he has no desire to live. We took him into our chai masti sessions daily, giving him a chaperon support to come and go. We counseled him about mingling with other members which will help him to come out of the negative feelings. Almost for one week he attended CM activities and we could see the difference in his health. One of DF helpline volunteer helped him to seek treatment for his physical and mental health issues. His health improved gradually. He started to visit DF every day and participate in all activities. He is happy and has found friends at DF. Many of our regular members are supporting him to get engaged with activities and discussions. Chennai Soon the entire family situation improved. Daughter in law suddenly experienced positive change in her mother in law’s behaviour and peace soon settled in after her husband’s treatment. These changes had reduced the daughter in law’s possession episodes Mumbai Dhanapaul Arumgham, Social Worker Thilagavathy and husband (60 and 65) from Vellore approached us with the problem of sons; working in the Army is not looking after them. Social Worker helped the client to send a petition to the higher ups in the Army. The latter responded favourably and apportioned 4000/ per month out of the son’s salary to be sent to them directly for their monthly maintenance. The clients were very happy. Case2 Devika (62) from Valasaravakkam called our helpline. Paul Vannan was her son and Samira, her daughter. Paul got married and settled in Hyderabad. Samira was not married, working in a company. Samira got into a love affair, strongly resented by mother. Due to this frequent quarrels were taking place. I decided counseling would benefit both of them. Accordingly advised both and few session’s situation improved tremendously. Case 3 Balan from Mogapour called and shared about his problem. He underwent treatment at Ramachandra Hospital for his dental problem. They wrongly removed his good teeth instead of the affected ones. Regarding this he wanted a complaints letter against concerned doctor. Our Legal counsel helped him draft a letter to the management of Ramachandra Hospital. Balan gave the letter to Dr. S. Elangkumaran after which the management called him and gave a free treatment to the affected tooth. Unresolved cases Jaya, 60 years, a widow from Adayar approached us. Her son died six months ago by committing suicide. She has two grandsons and her daughter-in- law Rani is a teacher. As Jaya realised that her daughter-inlaw is having an extra marital relationship, 64 and felt threatened, and feared that ultimately her grandsons would be neglected. She wanted to take away the grandsons, against the wishes of her daughter-in-law. Jaya came to our office and met our Advocate. Our Advocate advised that as per law, mother is the natural guardian for both the minor sons and hence law did not permit the grandmother to take the children. The case was explained to Jaya, and asked to reconcile with reality. Nothing much could be done. Alagesan (72) living in Porur approached us. He served as a civilian in Defence for some 8 years. Due to eye sight problem, he took leave and came to Chennai. After that he did not report back for duty. He wanted to know whether he can get pension from the Army. WE made enquiries and found out that the person should serve for a minimum period of 10 years and hence Alagesan is not eligible for the same. Alagesan then wanted to apply for mercy petition to the President of India. There hangs the case. Bengaluru Sandhya S.N An elder of 80 years came to our office at 6pm one day saying his son who is mentally challenged for the past 40 years, and is missing, and does not know how to go about finding him. We arranged for Police intervention and in 24 hours reunited the family. In our Vijayanagar Chavadi Coordinator Suma consoled a 70 years lady who was suffering from family abuse to live on her own with her son’s help for her routine maintenance. Now the lady says that this could not have happened if not our intervention. Bhavana Kapadia, Social Worker Gangutai Shelar (67) was physically healthy with severe hearing impairment. She is resident of a slum in Gotalia village, at Chembur. She is a widow with two sons and two daughters, all married. Both the daughters and one son are settled. She stays with her younger son in a small hut built in the midst of the vegetable market. Her son is married and has six daughters and one son. He is a rickshaw driver, daily wage earning of Rs.150. He is an alcoholic with problems of paranoia. Daughter in law wants to admit her girls to Ashram school for further studies. We are waiting for vacancy. Ahmedabad Gangutai was referred to D.F by the Chembur Police station. She had bruises on her hands and face when she came to register her complaints. Her major complaints were physical and verbal abuse by her daughter in law. Due to her hearing impairment it was extremely difficult to communicate with her. She was not able to give even her correct address. She wanted her son and his family to vacate the home and be allowed to live in peace. I made a home visit to assess the situation. It surfaced actually it was our own client who was the abuser, and ill treated her daughter in law, whose famished and dilapidated health condition bore testimony to the abuse. All the seven kids resembled their mother in terms of health. She had developed mental illness. I also found the son needed deaddiction treatment and got him admitted at a Govt hospital nearby. Series of counseling sessions were done with the client and her daughter in law. After the counseling sessions the intensity and frequency of quarrels reduced between the two. Client was explained that she should allow her son and his family to live in her hut. Her daughter in law was counseled against abusing her mother in law. Treatment processes revealed the son was getting better. 65 Yogendrabhai (84) had retired as a Post Master. He has a son and five daughters. He had left his wife 20 years ago, who now stays with his son. He shifted to Ahmedabad about 2 years ago. He has his own house in Jivaraj Park area, which is illegally possessed by his divorced daughter. She has filed case against her father about ownership of the house. The case is running in Mirazapur court for the past 2 years. With no relief, he claims that presently he stays on the road. We had a meeting with the advocate, who had wanted more details which our Volunteer Desai fetched for us; but due to client not revealing all the facts but hiding the same, and on account of the fact that he was actually staying with his sister and not on the road, this was a bad case and the client also refused to cooperate with advice. We could not do much with the case despite our trying to find facts from a variety of sources. Dharmishta Bhatt (61).The Chairman and Secretary of her housing society was harassing her by stopping her water supply for more than 11 months, they forced her to do repairs to her bathroom and the drainage line for more than five times. She needed police support, so we were advised to approach the Mahila Police who promptly spoke with the society members. The problem remains solved. Dharmishta Bhatt became member of D.F and enjoys daily sessions at the Chai Masti centre. in our office and distribute to the beneficiaries on the first of each month. Office space was blocked up with storage of such groceries for over a week, which turned out to be a Herculean task working on the 2nd Floor of a building in Byculla. When Localbanya.com offered to deliver at the door step of the poor old, not only our work but the elderly themselves do not have to struggle anymore carrying some 25 to 30 kgs back home from our office. I applaud the service mentality of this online stores says Dr. Sheilu Sreenivasan Ration Supplies Ration Supplies and Knowledge Workshops for BPL Elderly (below the poverty level) From 2002 this project has been in vogue. The credit goes to Neha Shah, then Social Worker, for taking the initiative to start this project. Refinement through the years has seen a near-perfect, hassle free distribution of rations to poor people. Localbanya.com, a premier online convenience store, joined hands with D.F. in delivering rations. As part of this partnership, Localbanya has taken on the responsibility of helping the Foundation with our procurement needs and providing the necessary logistics support to arrange deliveries in a timely fashion. Apart from a number of individual donations, we owe our grateful thanks to donors: Give India, the estate of Late Smt. Bhadra Ranjitlal Sukhadwala, and Ramal Charities. D.F. provides Localbanya with a list of grocery items required to run our programme on a monthly basis which is then in turn sourced and delivered to the poor at their doorstep. We pay a subsidised rate for the various items while Localbanya picks up the cost of delivery. Every month over 120 senior citizens are benefited across Mumbai. Knowledge Workshops for the Poor Old in Slums Sponsored by National Stock Exchange Commenting on this initiative by Localbanya, Rashi Choudhary, Co-Founder said, “The basis of the partnership is the belief of both the organisations that our elders should not have to struggle for basic needs and have a right to healthy living. We are very happy to associate ourselves with D.F. and help them in our way to make a difference in the lives of elderly who are struggling to make ends meet. In future, we would also like to extend this initiative to other cities like Delhi, Pune and Hyderabad where we have a presence.” She further adds, “Apart from helping the senior citizens through the NGO, we have the noticed a trend where kids staying in different cities or abroad order groceries and other items online for their parents in India. It’s really pleasing to see such orders come in.” Known by the title Integrated Social Support and Health Security For The Elderly in Mumbai and Chennai, the National Stock exchange headquartered in Mumbai adopted it as part of their CSR outreach programme. According to Dr. Sheilu Sreenivasan ‘Even to serve the poor is not an opportunity one can easily get in life, except as a grace from above” is an oft repeated dictum I have heard as a child. Twenty full years after the setting up of D.F to be now endowed with this sort of an opportunity to dedicate ourselves to the cause of very poor senior citizens is the news I want to share with you all. The National Stock Exchange (NSE) headquartered in Mumbai has selected our Project for sponsorship that will enable us to undertake a Programme of Action for the Elderly Poor in the Slums of Mumbai and Chennai”. These two cities have been selected by NSE. In a process lasting two Prior to the above arrangement, we were struggling with bringing such huge quantities of grains and cereals each month, store them 66 67 years we would empower 16,800 poor senior citizens in these two cities. “Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well” is my personal view. And we chugged along all these years with whatever resources one found along the way. Now with this new enablement for establishing newer milestones in the growth history of our Foundation we hope to intensify the new direction that has opened up. Rationale for the Action Programme The key problems faced by poorer senior citizens are: • Financial insecurity • Health related problems • Loneliness • Elder abuse • Impediments to mobility These aspects lead to loneliness, depression, suicidal tendencies even while living with adult children. Among competing economic pressures of the working class children, on whom the elderly poor are dependent, a sense of fear, insecurity and final disempowerment if they opted to speak up about their impoverished and neglected conditions result in real disempowerment sooner than later. While the smaller children of the adult children receive priority over the needs of the “oldies”, a highly sensitive and subtle inequilibrium develops in the enjoyment of scarce comforts at home. The senior citizen is finally driven to live on the fringes of the family structure. His/her awareness about laws, policies and support programmes of the Govt and other large bodies is very low. Empowering senior citizens with basic awareness and gifting them with various services already in existence at D.F came to be seen as the most important act we could undertake, but with funding support. Four poorer and congested localities in Mumbai ( BDD Chawl Worli, Dharavi, Jogeshwari East and Sion East Transit Camps) and two in Chennai ( Kannagi Nagar and Saidapet) were selected for our action programme. One Coordinator for each Locality was appointed. Five Volunteers in each of the 6 Localities were also appointed. An exclusive Project Manager at the head office in Mumbai was also appointed. The Intervention Programme The intervention in each locality would be structured as talk sessions and workshops. The topics that would be covered through these workshops would be as follows: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Financial Awareness and Financial Inclusion Health and Hygiene awareness sessions Awareness about government schemes and benefits Awareness about NGO programmes for senior citizens Senior Citizens ID card programme in Maharashtra Awareness about Alzheimer’s / Dementia Awareness about rights and legal recourse available for senior citizens Beside the sessions / workshops on the above topics there would be additional activities such as: 1. Health Camps on general medical health, vision, hearing, etc. 2. Provision of cataract detection, referrals, surgeries and follow-ups 3. Distribution of medicines and aides such as walking sticks, spectacles, hearing aids, etc. 4. Workshop on skill development for earning livelihood for the able bodied 5. Distribution of basic ration to the very poor 6. Cultural programmes and intergenerational activities 68 69 Senior citizens are very insecure about their health. However, given the high cost of healthcare, they tend to ignore a problem till it becomes large and critical. A regular health check up can help tremendously in identifying problems early enough so that it can be treated. The objective of health camp is to provide a battery of tests free to senior citizens so that they are able to benefit from this preventive healthcare. Investigations like blood sugar, blood pressure, hearing test and consultation facilities for Medicine, Eye, ENT, General Surgery, Dental, Dietetics & Nutrition and Ortho will be offered free of cost during the proposed health camps. Before the yearend 6 workshops were held in Mumbai and Chennai. Corporate Calling and Social Media With the increasing visibility being given in the media about the CSR (Corporate Social Responsibility) companies are looking for funding projects of their choice in the development sector. D.F appointed a senior executive in February 2015 to take care of this aspect of fund mobilisation. As of March 31, 2015 some 20 companies have been presented with Proposals outlining the social significance of undertaking the projects. The impact of this effort will be seen in FY 2015-16. In the context of companies’ participation in the social programmes of not-for-profits, of late a term doing the rounds is ‘Slacktivism’ which is a portmanteau of the words (linguistic blend of words) ‘slacker’ and ‘activism’. The word is usually considered a pejorative term that describes "feel-good" measures, in support of an issue or social cause, that have little physical or practical effect, other than to make the person doing it feel satisfied that they have contributed. Slacktivism can be defined as the act of showing support for a cause but only truly being beneficial to the egos of people participating in this so-called activism. The acts tend to require minimal personal effort from the slacktivist. The underlying assumption is more like low-cost 70 efforts being substituted for more substantive actions. Be that as it may, like many other websites and news platforms who have integrated social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter into their interface, allowing people to easily "like", "share" or "tweet" about something interesting they saw on the Internet, D.F has also been increasingly addressing the need to attract the young working in companies through these popular media. People can now express concern about ageing issues posted by D.F. in Facebook, Twitter and YouTube, with nothing more than the click of a mouse, raising the question of what is actually being accomplished by these "likes" when very little thought or effort is required. Despite such armchair activism and limitations of the people wanting to look socially good in the eyes of peers, a good amount of posturing has been undertaken by D.F in the social media, in keeping with times and media practices. The now famous ice bucket challenge was taken as emblematic of “slacktivism,” the derisive term described above, for cheap ways to feel good without doing anything meaningful. For example, the one-day–in-a-year volunteerism of employees who come to D.F and its locational activities can be compared to Internet campaigns such as the Stop Kony movement and the ice bucket challenge as merely symbolic ways for “young narcissists to preen without actually achieving any change”. Slacktivist activities include signing Internet petitions, joining a community organisation without contributing to the organisation's efforts, copying and pasting of social network statuses or messages or altering one's personal data or avatar on social network services. Research is beginning to explore the connection between the concept and modern activism/advocacy, as groups are increasingly using social media to facilitate civic engagement and collective action. Events Holding Events as one more relationship-building tool has been practiced most faithfully by D.F since day one in 1995 which saw the first large mobilisation of senior citizens for the first event in Mumbai called ‘Walk for Dignity’. From then to now, an average of 5 to 6 events per year are held in each of the chapter cities of D.F. Dr Cyres Mehta at Frontiers in Medicine Ask a Question at Frontiers in Medicine The main Events are summarised as follows: Frontiers in Medicine Recent advances in the prevention and treatment of chronic diseases have radically altered the quality of life for even middle class Indians. The Longevity Rule of 30-70 specifies that 30% of ageing is genetically based. The other 70% is in our hands. We can therefore design drugs and health supplements that might alleviate some of the deficits of having bad genes. Innovations in medical science, especially pharmaceuticals, have shifted the focus of medicine from highly invasive treatments and surgeries with potentially serious risks to less-invasive therapies focused on prevention and health maintenance. This shift has allowed many older Indians to remain healthy and independent, avoiding long hospital or nursing home stays. As a result, generations of seniors will likely live longer, healthier, and more productive lives. Two decades ago physicians worked to relieve patients’ symptoms while today the therapeutic objective is to slow disease progression and aim for remission. These gradual gains have been made through a continuous accumulation of knowledge through research and clinical experience. In order to make such knowledge available for members, the idea of holding a two day Conference occurred to us. To demonstrate we are not partial to allopathic medicine, we also dedicate a full day to other forms of health care. Together the two days bring to members vital information and cutting edge awareness in the modern treatments of diseases specific to senior citizens. In Bengaluru, Himalaya Drugs and Pharmaceuticals as well as Narayana Hrudayalaya have lent crucial support to our chapter. In Kolkata similarly a number of health care companies have joined hands. Physicians and non-allopathic practitioners have generously shared their time to address senior citizen members, and we owe them all our sense of immense gratitude. 71 Dignity Literary Festival Each year, in commemoration of the anniversary of magazine Dignity Dialogue -India’s first magazine for senior citizens -- we happily celebrate its birthday in the presence of celebrities we have profiled in the magazine and honour all authors and contributors of the year by calling them to stage and recognizing the literary talents. I believe each one of us has a place under this benevolent Sun….whether you have completed 6o/70/80 years the uniqueness of each one of you is the process we call in Psychology as “individuation”. Each year as you keep accumulating various responses to stimuli in the environment, you keep becoming more and more a unique individual. The older you are the more unique you become. It is this uniqueness that we aim to capture in magazine Dignity Dialogue, by immortalising your experience as a person in this cosmos. Those who write are enabled into this process of immortality, and those who don’t write, but read what others write are adding yet more experiences into one’s individuality. Thus a continuous process of enrichment is what we have set in motion, and considering the fact this is going on since our inception in 1995 there is a need to celebrate the moment. It is when we celebrate anything with people who have achieved and reached the pinnacle of creativity, that we find newer meanings in the world around us. For this reason great achievers are profiled in the magazine. “Go, go out of the closets,” said Picasso, “go into the museums, libraries, architectural monuments, concert halls, bookstores, recording studios and film studios.” Seek inspiration at any cost, by virtue or by vice, by friend or by fiend, by prayer or by wine... urged Ralph Emerson. We at Dignity Dialogue made this our singular mission and in each successive issue, over the past 20 years we brought in a rich variety of people who are unique, whose lives provide plentiful insights. How can we ever not remember our authors, thinkers, critiques, performers, speakers, orators, social workers, spiritualists, compassionate persons who have embellished the magazine’s cover month after month? AD Guru K V Sridhar and Asha Lal, COO, D.F Campaign for Dignity One or our distinguished authors, Lalita Kodikal who has been writing since 1995 for the magazine sent us this poem for the occasion. I quote: One day we will depart On a Journey free of cost. Don’t worry about Seat Reservation It’s confirmed. And the Flight is always on time Our good deeds done will be our luggage Humanity will be our passport Love will be our Visa! Make sure we do our best To Travel to Heaven in Business Class! In 2015 we saw 150 creative young teams pour their emotions to paper and picture to showcase how endearing older Adults are: how it’s the duty of the young to look after the older adults, ‘how little things that count’; ‘ Wanted, Lost Missing the daughter I taught to read’; new word formations: Ignoparent, Granservant, Old-digger, Desolage; Boomerang….What goes around comes around; Pets for Sale; What’s your Excuse; 15 minutes can make a day; Don’t deserve Indignity; Main Kaun Hota Hoon?; It’s never too late…………. The world of creativity has put a permanent closure to the erroneous thinking among the old that the young do not care. For the 2nd year in succession, in Mumbai we held this very brainy event called Campaign for Dignity that should have been held in March 2015 but got postponed to September 14th 2015. . For those of us working with older adults, it is a common realisation that old people ache for their young. The Older Adults are sad and grieved that the young do not care of them. That the disturbance in the joint family system in India has thrown out the older adults to fend for themselves without any support, succour. That the young do not care. Here comes Campaign India, the sensitive print media representing the world of advertisements to demonstrate the exact opposite reality. Their 2014 Contest showed how deeply sensitive the young in India are. 72 In February this year when Campaign India came forward with the idea to hold the second annual event Campaign for Dignity 73 2015 the entire team at D.F. jumped with joy. Here again we have a spanking new exhibition to go to town with, to the colleges and school portals to showcase how dear our parents are and how we should take care, protect, respect the deep dignity there is in every parental heart. as Gero Counselors to listen to the callers’ problems and offer counseling support to them. Pune Chapter celebrated World Elders Day on Nov 12th with re-launch of DIGNITY HELPLINE with Gero Counselors taking over the management of the Helpline. Similarly, Kolkata and Bengaluru chapters will host the World Elders Day with meaningful activities. International Day of Older Persons 2014-15 The crowning glory of this year’s event is Prasoon Joshi’s very special tribute to Older Adults and his chairmanship of the Jury that made the selections. I convey my deeply felt gratitude to his generosity. The poem is to be recited by him at our forthcoming event on October 1, 2015 in Mumbai. To Suresh Ramakrishnan, CEO of Campaign India we owe our special appreciation for continuing this year’s contest. The Managing Editor, Gokul Krishnamoorthy -- imbued, troubled and overwhelmed with emotional dues to his elders -- has patiently put up with our perennial nudge. This year he initiated the idea of expanding the scope of the contest by inviting young film makers and radio spot creators to send entries for the Contest. The application of their medium Campaign India to announce the contest and involve the staff in Campaign for Dignity is something we are very proud of – lending dignity to Dignity. To Ramesh Narayan and Gokul Krishnamoorthy as part sponsors of this event we owe our special thanks. At the end what I would like to stress upon is the fact that while the nation celebrates the contributions of the elderly, the elderly owe it to themselves to take charge of their lives and cultivate what in Psychology is called Ego Integrity (versus despair) that is, coming to terms with one’s life, accepting conditions when the older person feels whole, complete, and satisfied with their achievements. That you have adapted to inevitable victories and disappointments. You realise that the paths you followed or gave up, were all necessary for a meaningful life course. October 1 marks the International Day of the Elderly. During the entire month all senior citizen associations, including D.F. celebrate, remember and recognise the role of our elders within our community. This year’s theme as declared by the UN is “Leaving No One Behind: Promoting a Society for All" is the theme used internationally to commemorate this day. Different city chapters of commemorated the Day differently. Ahmedabad was the first city chapter to start off the celebrations by launching the key event of Suraksha Bandhan. This event was first conceived by us in 2001 for sensitising school children so that they do not indulge in Elder Abuse when they grow up. To launch the event of Suraksha Bandhan. I had taken 35 Chief Dignitarians from all over India in 2001 to meet the President of India Shri Abdul J Kalam who was very happy with a Dignitarians grandchild child who tied the Suraksha Bandhan band and took the vow “I shall protect your security with Dignity”. It is our fond hope that if we as members of D.F. year after year go to schools during October to remind them of their duty to take care of their parents and other elders in society, they will remember it after they grow old. The capacity to view one’s life in the larger context of all humanity contributes to the serenity and contentment that accompany integrity. Ego integrity, in turn, is associated with more: favorable psychological well-being, a more upbeat mood, greater self-acceptance, higher marital satisfaction, closer relationships with adult children, greater community involvement, and increased ease in accepting help from others when it is needed To keep the heart unwrinkled, to be hopeful, kindly, cheerful, and reverent -- that is to triumph over old age. To know how to grow old is the master work of wisdom, and one of the most difficult chapters in the great art of living. I end with Deepak Chopra’s oft quoted statement: Most people think that ageing is irreversible and we know that there are mechanisms even in the human machinery that allow for the reversal of ageing, through correction of diet, through anti-oxidants, through removal of toxins from the body, through exercise, through yoga and breathing techniques, and through meditation. Chennai chapter celebrated the day on October 11th with competitions for children and enactment of Suraksha Bandhan on stage. Preceding this they held a Legal Discussion on Elder Abuse by eminent Judges and advocates as anecdotal evidence in the chapter. The chapter also re-launched DIGNITY HELPINE by dedicating themselves 74 75 Govt of Maharashtra ID Cards to Senior Citizens Total Forms received for the card issuance: 11, 600 Total Cards issued: 10,300 Total number of Application Issuing Centres: 27 in Mumbai No. of Old Centres: 21 No. 1 2 3 4 5 6 Dementia Centres In Mumbai and Chennai where we run day care centres, this year also we continued our services to older adults afflicted with dementia. In both the cities the pickup vans became old while in Mumbai we had to dispose off the van, in Chennai the van is doing its last year probably before it becomes totally unserviceable. Apart from the routine neither centre saw anything new. In Mumbai the number had gone done to a mere 14 people and Chennai some 9 people in all. of New Centres Opened: 6 in Mumbai Versova, (Church of our Lady of Health) Chembur Naka (Shree Kutchi Jain Mandal) Andheri (E), (Sai Wadi, Datt Mandir) Malad (E), Malad (W), (Malvani) At Abhydaya Bank premises Number of Centre closed : 3 Mobile Camp conducted during the year: 12 1 Goregaon Mall 2 Chita Camp (Chembur) 3 Lokhandwalla (Andheri) 4 Ghatkopar 5 Vikroli 6 Matunga (Ruparel Collage) 7 Gorai (Gavthan) 8 Malad (E), (Ganesh Mandir) 9 Malpa Dongri (Andheri E) 10 Deli Road (Har har wala Bldg) 11 Marol (Bamandaya Pada) 12 Masjid Bandar 13 Dongri DDC Bus patients getting in DDC carrom another State Centres New centres opened: 7 Total no. of centres in the state of Maharashtra 132 20 Total no of application Forms issued: 16,900 ust f Tr Ye a r s o Total no of Cards issues: 18,686 (including last year’s backlog) 76 77 Financial Performance We commence our financial information with details of donations received with grateful thanks during the FY 2014-15. Only those names appear here who have donated Rs. 10,000 and more. Individual Donations Donor Name Mrtyunjaya Shevanthi G. K. Rao Kuldip Balasia Prem Prakash Yadav Gobind V. Hiranandani Krishna Rao Huzan Jal Khodaiji Vimal C Kamath Aakash Moondhra Deepika Joshi Dr. B. Lalitha Rao Dr. Jyotsna Deo Geeta Iyengar Jayaram Raghavan Josephine Coutinho Natarajan. M Nikunj Jhaveri Nirmala George Mathews Noshir M.Mistry Perviz N. Hathidaroo Prabhakar S.Gurjar Rakesh Asthana Ravindra Shantaram Gayatonde S. Satyabhama Sadashiv S. Rao Shanti Suresh Lawande Sudip Indani Uma Krishnamurti V.K.Doraiswami Meena Padhye Chandrashekhar K. Kamath Siddharth Mankiwala Shreevasta G Satyamohan Sachdev Hiren Jayesh Shah Nirali Biren Shah Navroz Mahudawala Shyam Singh Tomar Ushaben Sanghavi Vrinda Dalmia Christine Rose Pereira Isshane Gupta Vatsala Krishnadas Nayak Madhusudan Raghavan Ephrain Alves Priyanka Shah Zarine B. Merchant Hasmukh Shah Eva Gunilla Sachdev Pankaj Bhatt Kapil Dhatingan Pradeep Mallick Sam Rustom Pochkhanawala Suryanarayana Raut Shashikant Balwant Ananya Shelter Alvares Barretto Kesar raj Darius Forbes Anuradha Shanbhag Hiresh Wadhwani Lalita D Gupte Mayank R.Prasad Mona A.Kapadia Trishla D.Gala Kshitish Madanmohan Krishnamurthy Amiita Rangnekar Dilip Bamania Rehana Sharifi Jayakumar Prathika Chary Biren C. Shah Manhar P.Khadawala R. Muthulakshmi Lakshmi Srinivasan Uma Srinivasan Hari Parthasarathy Ashish Sawkar Warner D'Silva Shrikant Sahaukar C.V.Ramachandran Jayant Ravi Jayamma S.RAMASWAMY Veera Nagarwala Haroon B. Shaikh Padma Sundaresan Sulabha Paralkar Raja Balasubramanian Arnie Noshir Antia P.H.Jokhi Ramesh Narayan Siddhartha Luther Velagapudi Lakshmana Dutt Amount 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,100 10,505 11,000 12,000 12,000 12,500 12,500 13,680 13,680 15,000 15,000 15,000 15,000 15,000 15,273 15,400 15,400 15,400 78 15,600 16,000 16,001 18,000 18,000 18,000 18,000 18,900 19,101 19,250 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 21,000 22,000 23,100 23,100 23,100 24,000 25,000 25,000 25,000 28,200 30,000 30,000 30,800 30,800 30,800 30,800 32,800 35,000 36,000 36,000 38,300 41,100 44,300 45,000 45,000 50,000 50,000 50,000 50,000 51,116 Abdul Aziz sharifi Rita Sinha R.K. Elisha Behroze Daruwalla Meher M. Shastri SOUNDARAJAN Jayashree Parthasarathy Vijay.H.Shah Yash A. Talpade A Kumaraswamy M.Miakhan Sujatha Menon Kamala Krishnamurthy Farzana Fazelboy Shubhada Govekar Suresh Nayak Rao Suresh Dawalbhakta Jayashree Menon Booma Bashyam Dr. V. Dhananjayan Elizabeth Reuben Tarjani Vakil S.Ramamurthy Ravi Malhotra Coomi M.Mahudawala Gopal Srinivasan Estate of Late Smt Bhadra R. Sukhadwala Sharad Wasani Ramaswamy Raman Sheilu Sreenivasan Sanjay Khatau Asher TOTAL 53,900 57,000 58,500 58,900 60,000 60,000 61,600 62,500 65,100 66,000 72,000 72,060 72,900 75,000 77,000 77,000 84,700 92,400 100,000 100,000 100,000 100,000 108,000 110,000 136,800 200,000 Standard Chartered Bank 75,000 N.A. Sportz Interactive Pvt. Ltd. 76,405 Gujarat Road & Infrastructure Co. Ltd. 100,000 United Way of Mumbai- India 103,100 Deer Creek Intersil India Pvt. Ltd 105,000 J K Group 116,954 Crompton Greaves Limited Corporate 340,000 United Way Worldwide - USA 631,668 Kotak Mahindra Bank 878,230 Scientific Publishing Services 1,500,000 Rajaram & Tarabai Bandekar Charitable Trust 10,000 Shantadevi Charitable Trust 10,000 Thatikonda Vatsala Ramachandra Foundation 10,000 Bibhuti Bhushan Foundation 12,000 Singamsetty Ateend rooloo charities 12,900 Shri Balaji Charitable Trust 16,020 Nirlon Foundation Trust 21,000 Dasharath Mahadevia Sanskrutik Sanstha 22,000 Ramprakash Podar Charitable Trust 23,250 TB Relief Association 25,000 Wales Puja Committee 25,000 Dayaram Thadhamal Shahani Trust 25,000 Mahaiashha Building Trust 25,000 Ramal Charities 25,000 Sindhu Charitable Society 25,000 Baldev and Raj Handa Foundation 100,000 Kewalram Chanrai Foundation 100,000 M.V.Subhaivah (Vellayan Trust ) 100,000 Nihchal Israni Foundation 100,000 Ambashree Foundation 240,000 Sar-La Education Trust 500,000 Jamnalal Bajaj Foundation 700,000 Give India Foundation 822,841 Charities Aid Foundation of America 978,365 Radha Mohan Mehrotra Medical Relief Trust 1,000,000 Charities Aid Foundation India 1,155,388 National Institute of Social Defence 1,213,800 National Stock Exchange 2,015,100 250,000 280,000 375,000 387,683 950,000 6,322,649 Corporate Grants, Donations and Trust Donations Donor Name Health & Wisdom BIB & GFO Corner Stone Senion Service Satyanand Hospital OSS Technologies Thomas Cook (India) Ltd Sun Pharma Arphi Electronics Pvt Ltd The Media Ant Probeen Porisheba Medwell Ventures Pvt .Ltd J.Thomas and Co Pvt Ltd Satyanand Hospital Old is Gold Store Novartis India Ltd Sudit Parekh & Co Sundaram Mutual Funds Nutan Nagrik Sahakari Bank M/s.Titan Aayushman Nature Cure Centre Amount 10,000 10,000 10,000 10,000 12,000 12,000 15,000 15,000 15,680 20,000 20,000 20,000 20,000 25,000 29,400 30,000 30,450 31,000 38,000 43,005 TOTAL Corporate Donation 13,655,556 TOTAL DONATION OF BOTH 19,978,205.00 79 Computation of total income & expenditure Dignity Enrichment Programme 12% Amount in 000's Donations Donations 63% 17,686 Income from other sources 4,384 Dignity Enrichment Programme 3,314 Grants received 1,886 Others Income INCOME:- Income from Others other sources 2% 16% Grants received 7% 616 Total Income Others Dimentia Care 6% 3% Grants utilisation 5% 27,885 Expenses Charitable objectives 17,336 6,325 Medical relief 1,668 Grants utilisation 1,378 Others Expenses Dignity Enrichment Program 750 Total Expenses 27,458 Net Income over expenses 428 Dignity Enrichment Programme 23% Charitable objectives 63% Financial Performance at a Glance Income Amount % receipt 17,685,685 63% Dignity Enrichment Programme 3,313,923 12% Grants received 1,885,500 7% Income from other sources 4,384,160 16% 615,870 2% Donations Others Total 27,885,137 Expenses % Dimentia Care 1,668,349 6% Grants utilisation 1,377,603 5% 6,325,450 23% 17,335,851 63% 750,316 3% 27,457,570 27,457,570 Charitable objectives 74 Others Total 80 300 250 200 Amount Dignity Enrichment Program Budget vs Actual Budget 150 Actual 100 50 0 in Lakhs Ordinary donation receipts Expenses for cause 81