D.R.E.A.M. Acronym - Focus on the Family

Daily Affirmations of the Happy Wife I, ______________________, am a happy, godly, attractive and sexy wife. I provide a peaceful and pleasant haven for my husband to come home to. I respect my husband's opinions and recognize him as the leader of our home. I always speak well of my husband to others and look for specific ways to compliment his fine character and behavior. I enjoy having sex with my husband. I crave intimacy with him and want to be uninhibited and free in our lovemaking together. I care about my appearance and take effort to look attractive and to stay fit. I am a fun person who loves to laugh. Below are some expanded affirmations so you can customize your affirmation by emphasizing the areas you need encouragement in. The acronym D.R.E.A.M. can help you remember these affirmations more easily: D = Domestic Tranquillity — Your husband needs a peaceful haven. R = Respect — Your husband needs to be honored in his own home. E = Eros — Your husband needs a fulfilling sex life. A = Attraction — Your husband needs to be attracted to you. M= Mutual Activities — Your husband needs to have fun with you. Domestic Tranquility My home is neat and orderly. I dispose of clutter and take pride in my environment. I am a positive thinker in a negative world. I am happy to be a refuge for my spouse. I am content with what I have and am not obsessed with obtaining material possessions. Respect It is my joy to submit to my husband as a way to honor God. Even if my husband doesn't respond the way I'd like, I will respect him and be loyal to him. I will walk in his shoes and seek to understand his perspective. His preferences are important to me. I will be quick to listen and slow to speak. Eros I am intensely sexual. God created me as a sexual being, and I am committed to being intimate with my husband. I am a turned‐on woman who's blessed to be with a great guy. I look forward to having great sex this week and can't wait until our next time to express love to each other with freedom. Attraction I don't compare myself to airbrushed models or the world's idea of beauty. I am beautiful from the inside out. I am confident in who I am and don't doubt my worth in God's sight. My body is important to me. I strive to maintain a healthy body weight and exercise at least three times a week. I am more attractive to my husband today than the day we were married. Mutual Activities I am constantly looking for fun activities to do together with my husband. I don't take myself or life too seriously. I make time for date nights and weekends away to create special memories with my husband. I'm not afraid to try new things. I enjoy my husband's company more than anyone else's. Adapted from the book 31 Days to a Happy Husband. Copyright © 2012 by Arlene Pellicane. Published by Harvest House Publishers, Eugene, Oregon, 97402. www.harvesthousepublishers.com. Used by permission.