Get a Happy Member: Break Out of the Self-Pleasuring Routine
Get a Happy Member: Break Out of the SelfPleasuring Routine
Sometimes, having a routine is a very positive thing. It helps a person get to
work on time or make progress on a project. But a routine can get a little
boring – and that can sometimes happen with self-pleasuring. Since guys
tend to self-gratify more than girls (for male organ health reasons, plus it’s
just fun), this may not be an issue for many women. But lots of bros find
themselves ready to self-fondle, but kind of bored with the whole thing. So
what to do?
Clearly, if a guy’s self-pleasuring routine is interfering with his enjoyment
of his solo sensual time, he needs to either take a break and stop selfstimulating for a while (which is sometimes a good idea) or he needs to
change his game up. For those interested in the latter, try some of the
following as a way to make a break from the routine.
Stand up. Or lie down. With adult videos a big part of selfpleasuring for many men, lots of guys spend time self-gratifying while
sitting in a chair in front of a screen. An easy way to shake things up a
little is to stand up at the desk while stroking. Those with a laptop or
mobile device may want to bring it to bed and lie down for a little
Or turn it off. Or here’s a radical idea for those who self-gratify
while watching videos: don’t. A guy can free himself from all those
adult channels and Tumblr blogs and use his own imagination to
create sensual scenarios. This is actually one of the best ways to make
self-pleasuring more exciting and stimulating; exercising his own
fantasy muscles, at least every once in a while, can be a blast.
Change subjects. Another easy fix. Instead of always self-fondling to
steamy pictures of blondes, track down some sensual redhead shots. If
tall women turn a guy on, he can view some petite versions for a
change of pace. The internet is full of sensual experiences for every
possible taste, so do a little exploration to see what else is out there.
Don’t be afraid to push the comfort zone a little.
Change locations. A change of scene can do wonders. That may
mean self-stimulating in the living room instead of the bedroom, or
the kitchen instead of the bathroom. Or it may mean a bigger change –
taking matters into his own hands in the men’s room at work, for
instance, or in the car, or (if he has a good privacy wall), in the
backyard. (Just be careful not to get busy in a situation that could get a
person fired or jailed!)
Get a partner. Maybe what’s missing from a guy’s solo time is a
partner. Not everyone would feel comfortable doing this, but some
people might want to ask their wife or best buddy to share in their
self-pleasuring experience. For those with someone in their life that
they can broach the subject with, it can be very rewarding.
Work on timing. Sometimes just self-stimulating at a different time –
before breakfast rather than before bedtime, say – can make a big
difference. Or a guy who likes a session to last for an hour can try to
get off as quickly as possible.
Changing the self-pleasuring routine, even just for a short while, can put
some life back into the experience. After all, variety is the spice of life.
Whether the self-pleasuring is too routine or not, a guy needs to keep his
manhood in top notch shape for the activity. Regular application of a
superior male organ health crème (health professionals recommend Man1
Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can do just
that. Be sure the crème includes both L carnitine and L-arginine in its
ingredients list. The former is neuroprotective, so that all that insistent
handling of the member doesn’t result in a loss of sensation to the member.
And the latter is crucial for creating nitric oxide, which in turn helps open
member blood vessels so that more blood can flow freely into the manhood
at the appropriate time.