Oral Self-Engagement: Tumescent Member Fun for One
Oral Self-Engagement: Tumescent Member Fun
There’s no two ways about it: Men love to receive oral engagement. Being
in a relationship in which oral stimulation is part of the mix of sensual
options is a goal of most men. Sure, part of the reason is simply that any
kind of tumescent member action is good for male organ care, but most guys
like it because it’s a different kind of fun than penetrative coupling or selfstimulation. Most guys probably wouldn’t admit it, but it’s the rare dude
who hasn’t thought about oral self-engagement – performing oral activity on
oneself – and at least engaged in a little bending to see if such activity might
be a possibility.
Does that mean every man can experience this special form of sensual fun?
No, and not every man would even want to. But for those with an interest,
the following tips may come in handy.
Be forewarned. First and most important, any man who attempts oral
self-engagement should be aware that doing so requires that the body
be stretched in a way that goes beyond what is considered “normal” –
and therefore attempting it means a man runs the risk of injury.
Potential oral self-engagers need to be able to push themselves but
know when it is time to stop.
Limber up in advance. Since the practice requires bending the back
and neck so that the mouth comes in contact with the manhood, the
more limber a guy is, the better his chances for success. It pays to
spend a few weeks doing exercises that gently help to stretch out the
spine. Many yoga poses are designed to do this, so taking appropriate
yoga classes may be one way to get the body in a more limber place.
Prepare. When a guy decides he is ready to give a real old college try
to orally self-engaging, he needs to take special steps to prepare
himself before just jumping right in. For example, the body is going to
be more receptive to bending and stretching in a warm room; cold
causes muscles to contract. So he needs to be sure to set the
temperature at a level that will make the room comfortably toasty. He
also should drink plenty of fluids so that he’s not going to feel
dehydrated – but he should stop fluids (and food) about 2 hours before
commencing the attempt. Just before starting, take a nice, hot bath and
do some simple, easy stretches while in the tub. (Be sure to dry off
thoroughly.) Perform a few more stretches once out of the tub.
Get ready. Although some men might be limber enough to be able to
orally self-engage a flaccid male organ, most will find it much easier
to do with a tumescent member. It pays to take some time to achieve
arousal before getting started.
Choose a position. It appears that beginners are typically more
successful if they lie on their back, lift their legs and torso up (often
against a wall), and then flip the legs back behind their head. But
some men report that standing and bending over is better for them,
and others swear by sitting in a chair and bending over.
Be prepared for failure. It’s not uncommon for a guy to need to try
several times before achieving success – and some never do. There’s
no shame in not being able to orally self-engage.
Successful oral self-engagement requires more than a tumescent member – it
requires a healthy one, as well, so that the experience is more pleasant. Men
should regularly use a first rate male organ health crème (health
professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven
mild and safe for skin) with vitamin D for this purpose. Vitamin D is the
acclaimed “miracle vitamin” that provides important health benefits and
promotes healthy cellular function. The crème should also contain vitamin
A, the anti-bacterial properties of which can fight persistent manhood odor –
something a guy’s nose will thank him for.