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Strawberry Shortcake’s friend Coco Calypso and her animal friends have a happy life on Seaberry Island, but someone keeps stealing Coco Calypso’s seaberry harvest! As Strawberry Shortcake and Coco Calypso try to find the thief, they discover a shy girl named Seaberry Delight who soon becomes a new friend. Then, Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet, Blueberry Muffin, Coco Calypso, and Seaberry Delight go on an adventure far away where mermaids play, but their friendship is threatened when they discover gold and greed. Ultimately they learn that their real treasure is their friends and the life they enjoy together. This discussion guide touches on topics that children often deal with at a young age – how to find solutions to problems, the importance of looking at another perspective, and why material things don’t necessarily bring happiness. Each topic is complete with thought-provoking questions, related scriptures, and helpful lessons. To supplement the lessons, clips from the movie have been chosen and are offered as a visual aid. These clips are available for download at www.foxfaith.com or may be shown through a specially made DVD that you can request at the same website. These clips and the guide, used in Sunday school classes, other small groups or by parents, will provide you with the opportunity to discuss situations that a child may experience as they journey towards adulthood. For more information and additional Church resource material, go to www.foxfaith.com. © 2005 TCFHE. All rights reserved. © 2005 DIC Entertainment Corp. Strawberry ShortcakeTM. Those Characters form Cleveland, Inc. Strawberry Shortcake Designs © Those Characters form Cleveland, Inc. Used under license. All rights reserved. DISCUSSION GUIDE ABOUT THE FILM The Strawberry Shortcake video series brings home lessons of love, friendship, and fun to kids and families. The series has received eight dove awards from The Dove Foundation and is approved by KidsFirst! and iParenting. It is the recipient of the National Parenting Seal of Approval. Strawberry Shortcake Seaberry Beach Party consists of two adventures that center around a very special girl named Strawberry Shortcake, and her friends. Strawberry Shortcake is sweet like her name, “berry” cool, and always a best friend. Her reputation is that she has a special touch with others. Everyone who knows her loves her very much. Strawberry Shortcake’s motto is “friends help friends.” So, it isn’t surprising in the first story when Strawberry Shortcake and her friends Rainbow Sherbet and Blueberry Muffin come to the rescue of Coco Calypso. Coco Calypso lives alone on Seaberry Island, except for her animal friends. In this happy place she harvests seaberries from the Seaberry Lagoon. But something has gone wrong. Someone – or something – is stealing her seaberries! It takes teamwork and a plan to find the answer to Coco Calypso’s problem. When the mystery is solved, the girls discover that the “sea thief” is a shy girl named Seaberry Delight – and one who quickly becomes a brand new friend. In this meaningful experience, Coco Calypso discovers that there are two sides to every story; that our own actions may not always take into consideration the feelings or needs of others. And Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet and Blueberry Muffin learn it’s “berry” important to listen to a friend’s heart even when their words say something else. money to help others in need. God expects us to use our assets wisely and to give some of our money back to Him. Unfortunately, when greed gains control, our focus is on ourselves which can lead to discontent with things we already have. This first story touches on topics that children often deal with at a young age – how to find solutions to problems, the importance of looking at another perspective, and why material things don’t necessarily bring happiness. Giving Up the Gold Strawberry Shortcake and her friends devise a plan to rescue Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Delight. By enticing the guards to follow her, Strawberry Shortcake leads them into a cave where the others successfully trap them. While celebrating their success, there is a seaquake. The ocean floor opens and begins to swallow all the Sea Serpent’s treasures. The serpent is devastated and follows the gold as it disappears into the depths. With the Sea Serpent’s life in danger, all the mermaids create a human chain to rescue her. But, she doesn’t want to let go of her gold to grab the hand that can save her. Finally, at the last minute she lets go and is lifted to safety. The second adventure takes place far away and very deep in the water where the Sea Sweeties swim; a place where mermaids play. They sing about the wonderful treasure that exists where they live – beautiful sights and underwater creatures. All they have to do is pause for a moment to enjoy all that they have in their undersea world. But, Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet, Blueberry Muffin, Coco Calypso and Seaberry Delight find that their contentment and friendship is threatened in this underwater world when they discover gold and greed. But ultimately, they learn that their real treasure is their friends and the life that they enjoy together. About the Leadership Guide With the Leadership Guide, parents and teachers can lead their group in discussion subjects that touch a child’s life. The lessons are supplemented by clips from the movie you’ve either received or downloaded online. These scenes were specifically selected to help you set the tone and furnish context for your discussions, whether it’s in the home-setting, or the Sunday School FRIENDS MAKE MISTAKES Questions: After the mermaids rescue Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet, there is a seaquake. The Sea Serpent tries to save her gold by following it into the open crack in the sea floor. Why isn’t she thinking about her safety instead of her treasure? If you were in a similar situation, what would you be thinking about? Even though the Sea Serpent has wronged Blueberry Muffin and Seaberry Delight by holding them captive, all the girls still reach out a helping hand. Why do you think they form a human chain to save the serpent? Should we always forgive others who treat us poorly? Read Matthew 18:21-22 and Luke 6:32-36. The mermaids risk their lives to save the Sea Serpent, but the Sea Serpent doesn‘t reach for their hand at first. What does she say is her reason? What has happened to her priorities? Is it possible that we might do the same thing with our possessions? For instance, if you have a test in school that you need to study for, do you think you might decide to watch TV or play with your toys instead of studying? What are you risking? What do the mermaids and the Sea Serpent learn from their experience with the treasures? Are the best treasures things you can buy? Why not? Read Colossians 3:1-4. Lesson to Learn: Our culture places a lot of emphasis on material things – how much money we have, what kind of car we drive, how big and expensive our home is. But these things aren’t important in God’s eyes. What is important is how we touch other people’s lives. Our relationships are truly our treasure and no amount of money or possessions can compare. It’s easy to get our priorities mixed up and think that riches and material things will make us happy, but it’s only temporary. What makes us the happiest is our ties to our friends, family and others. What lasts forever is our relationship with God. There’s a saying that goes something like this, “Only one life will soon be past. Only what’s done for Christ will last.” Encourage your group to discover the greatest treasure of all – a relationship with God. Debt can be a monster that traps us. When we borrow money, we are forced to work to get out of debt and give up some of our freedom to do other things; for example spending time with friends. What would be a better way to get something that we want? Have you ever saved money in a piggy bank or at a regular bank? How did you feel when you were able to buy something special with the money you saved? FRIENDS FORGIVE Trapped It isn’t long before Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet, weighted from all the gold sand dollars they’ve found, hear the other girls calling for them. But, instead of thinking that Strawberry Shortcake, Coco Calypso, and Seaberry Delight are worried about them, they suspect that the girls are looking to take their treasure. Then, without warning, Blueberry Muffin and Seaberry Delight are trapped in a net and carried to the home of a Sea Serpent who owns a huge pile of gold sand dollars. She puts them to work gathering more treasures. Questions: Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet are too busy gathering gold to notice they’re in danger. Once they realize it, they are trapped. Do you think our greed can really trap us? Have you ever borrowed money so you could have something you wanted immediately? How did you feel when you thought about paying back the money? 8 The Sea Serpent has a lot of gold, but she doesn’t think it is enough. As a result, she forces Sea Sweeties and now, Blueberry Muffin and Seaberry Delight to find more sand dollars. When you get something you want, do you stop wanting more things? Why not? Read Malachi 3:10. Whatever amount of money we have, God tells us to give some of it back to Him. Why do you think God wants us to give up some of our money? Is tithing easy? What else can we do with our money that will benefit other people? Lesson to Learn: Children need to learn at an early age about the pitfalls of greed and debt. In this lesson, we explore the feelings and problems that result from immediate gratification. Seaberry Delight and Blueberry Muffin learn a painful lesson from this experience. They isolate themselves from their friends, put their freedom in jeopardy and are trapped into an existence that has no way out. Greed causes us to extend ourselves beyond our means. The result is that we are required to pay back the debt at a terrible price. That price may include jeopardizing important relationships, giving up time with those we love, or not being able to use our class. There are also suggested scriptures for your group to read. Plus, we’ve offered several questions based on the different scenes. The video clips, Bible reading and questions should initiate conversation. We suggest that you show the video to your class or study group in two segments. For example, watch the story about Coco Calypso and the theft of the seaberries, followed by discussion, video clips, and Bible reading. Use the leadership booklet as your guide. Remember, this study can extend over several learning sessions, if you choose. Then, repeat the process with the second story that focuses on the girls’ search for hidden treasure. You’ll find that this process will provide you with the opportunity to discuss situations that a child may experience as they journey towards adulthood. Discussions: Once your group has watched one of the stories on Strawberry Shortcake Seaberry Beach Party, you can reinforce the themes and messages of the story by showing them the video clips. These clips can be downloaded online at foxfaith.com or shown through a specially made DVD that you can request at the same website. You might start the study time by saying something like this: “We’ve watched the story about Strawberry Shortcake and her friends. Now we’re going to watch a video clip that will help us discover some ideas that we can use in our own lives.” Then, after they have watched the clip, read the questions and scriptures that will jump-start discussion. Remember, the amount of time you spend on this process is entirely up to you. Don’t feel like you have to hurry through a good conversation to finish all the scenes. The goal is to allow the group time to understand the principles that are set forth in the story. FRIENDS HELP FRIENDS Friends to the Rescue! Papaya Parrot arrives to tell Strawberry Shortcake about her friend Coco Calypso who has been robbed. He explains that Coco Calypso lives alone except for her animal friends and there is no one around for miles and miles. But there must be someone close by because her seaberries have disappeared. Papaya Parrot tells Strawberry Shortcake that Coco Calypso needs help to solve the mystery. Of course, Strawberry Shortcake says, “Friends help friends.” Questions: When Strawberry Shortcake hears that Coco Calypso needs help because she has been robbed of her seaberries, she takes action right away. Why does Strawberry Shortcake say she will help Coco Calypso? Is it because she will get to eat seaberry treats or is there a deeper reason? Read James 2:8. There are times in life when we need someone else to help us. Think about a time when you asked a friend to help you with a problem. How did it make you feel when they said yes? 1 Not everyone thinks like Strawberry Shortcake – that friends always help friends. Sometimes friends don’t help each other. What are some reasons that someone might say they can’t help a friend? What does God say about helping others? Read Luke 3:11. Lesson to Learn: It’s easy to say you’re a friend, but a real friend puts their friendship into action. As soon as the news comes that Coco Calypso is in trouble, Strawberry Shortcake, Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet go to Seaberry Island. The girls want to do whatever it takes to help Coco Calypso. Even though Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet and Blueberry Muffin were busy with their lives, they stopped what they were doing to make their friend a top priority. It’s important to remember that we are supposed to love other people just like we love ourselves. This isn’t always easy, but it’s the right thing to do. FRIENDS ARE POSITIVE A Plan is Foiled! Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet, and Blueberry Muffin tell Coco Calypso that they can find out who the “sea thief” is if they stay up all night. They plan to keep watch in their beach hideaway. But they all fall asleep. When they awake, the seaberries are gone! Coco Calypso cries that she’ll never be able to make treats again. And that “no one will ever come see 2 me with this creature around!!!” Strawberry Shortcake and Rainbow Sherbet remind her to be hopeful, that it might be a nice “very happy to see you ‘sea creature’.” Read 1st Timothy 6:10. What does the Bible say about loving money? What do you think can happen to your heart and mind when you love money? Questions: Lesson to Learn: When Coco Calypso realizes that they missed seeing the “sea thief” she gets very upset, but she doesn’t blame her friends for falling asleep. When things go wrong, do you ever find yourself blaming someone else? Why do we do that instead of taking some of the responsibility for what happened? When we love material possessions such as money, beautiful jewelry, or expensive clothes and toys, we begin to focus on those “trinkets and baubles” instead of being thankful for what is more important – good health, special friendships, a happy environment. In the morning when the girls wake up and realize that the seaberries are gone, Coco Calypso worries that she’ll never be able to make seaberry treats again. And, worse than that, she fears that no one will ever come see her because of the “creature.” Have you ever been afraid that a terrible thing would happen and then it never did; or it wasn’t anything like you imagined? Read Luke 12:22-26. What does God say about worrying? Does it change anything? Read Phillipians 4:8. There are Biblical warnings about loving money or treasuring “things” more than our relationship with God. When we disregard these warnings we may find our attitudes taking a wrong direction. Also, when everyone around us thinks loving material things is okay, it takes courage to take a stand and not go along with the crowd. A friend sets a good example for friends to follow. A true friend makes an effort to warn others of actions that could lead to potential problems. FRIENDS INTERVENE A Bigger Find Strawberry Shortcake, Coco Calypso and Seaberry Delight find a wonderful place to play, but they realize their friends are missing. When they find them, Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet are fighting over a huge pile of gold sand dollars. Strawberry Shortcake reminds them that they are all friends and that the gold doesn’t mean anything. She asks, “You aren’t getting greedy, are you?” Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet ignore their friends’ plea to come play and leave the treasure hunt behind. Even when a wall of Sea Sweeties block their path to warn them of impending danger, they disregard their advice. When Strawberry Shortcake, Coco Calypso and Seaberry Delight find Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet, they are fighting over a huge pile of gold. Isn’t there enough gold for both of them? Does getting more money, cool toys, or fancy clothes ever satisfy a person? Why or why not? When Strawberry Shortcake asks Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet if they are getting greedy, they ignore her. What actions do Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet demonstrate that show they are becoming more and more greedy? Strawberry Shortcake, Coco Calypso and Seaberry Delight beg Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet to leave the treasure and come play with them, but Rainbow Sherbet and Blueberry Muffin don’t want to discontinue their search. What does Strawberry Shortcake say about friendship and how it compares to gold? Which is the greater treasure? Read Matthew 6:19-21. What should we focus on everyday? How can we demonstrate that loving others is more important than getting more “stuff?” Lesson to Learn: When we center our affection on material things we may forget or close our eyes to all the blessings we have in our lives. Instead, we can become greedy and disregard the best treasures we have already – family, and friends. God tells us in the Bible that we should be storing up treasure in heaven. Our lives should reflect His love, reaching out to help others. One way we can help others is to get involved when we see they are doing something where they might hurt themselves. A good friend intervenes to save a friend. 7 Lesson to Learn: Before we accuse others of wrongdoing, we should try to find out if we are at fault too. In Coco Calypso’s case, she was trespassing and taking something that didn’t belong to her. Even though she didn’t realize she was doing wrong, she needed to look at what may have caused the problem in the first place. Often times, if we can solve a situation peacefully, then there is a positive outcome. For Coco Calypso, she gained a new friend and didn’t have to be lonely anymore, besides having enough seaberries to make treats. For Seaberry Delight, she now had a friend that she didn’t have to feel shy around. Plus, by sharing what she had, Seaberry Delight and the Sea Sweeties could enjoy Coco Calypso’s delicious seaberry treats. FRIENDS PROTECT A Trail of Treasure Strawberry Shortcake mermaid finds a pure gold sand dollar. This discovery entices the rest of the mermaids to search for the mountain of gold sand dollars that have been reported to be somewhere near. Seaberry Delight warns her friends that this kind of treasure can bring unhappiness, but no one listens. The mermaids search and one by one they find more gold sand dollars. Seaberry Delight refuses to hunt for them or accept any when they are offered to her. As the search progresses, it’s not long before the mood changes. Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow 6 Sherbet become secretive, even to the point of lying to each other. The hunt for the treasure has taken on increased importance – enough for these two to separate from the group and go into dangerous territory. Questions: Strawberry Shortcake finds a pure gold sand dollar and excitedly shows the other girls. When Seaberry Delight warns her friends about the treasure, is it because she wants to keep it for herself? What is the real reason? Seaberry Delight tells her friends that the treasure brings unhappiness. Why do you think that no one will listen to her? Why does Seaberry Delight refuse to take any of the gold sand dollars? Can you think of a time when you decided to not follow the group? Was it easy? Difficult? Coco Calypso starts to whine when she can’t find any gold sand dollars, but Strawberry Shortcake offers her one of her own. But what happens to Blueberry Muffin and Rainbow Sherbet as they gather more of the sand dollars? Why is their attitude changing? When Coco Calypso thinks of the “sea thief,” she pictures a “creature.” But, Strawberry Shortcake and Rainbow Sherbet remind her to be hopeful, that it might be a nice “very happy to see you ‘sea creature’.” As friends, they try to encourage Coco Calypso to see another point of view. Why do you think it’s important to help a friend look at a problem differently? Lesson to Learn: Our emotions can sometimes get in the way of seeing a situation clearly. For instance, we worry about things that may never happen, or we picture a problem as being horrible – like the “creature” in the story. But, if we would look at our dilemma in a different way, it might not seem so bad. Strawberry Shortcake and her friends try to help Coco Calypso think differently; to see the difficulty in a more positive light. Another lesson to think about is how we sometimes blame others for outcomes that we may have had some responsibility for ourselves. It’s important to not blame others when life doesn’t happen exactly the way we want it to turn out. Coco Calypso was a good example of how she didn’t place blame on her friends when all of the girls fell asleep and didn’t see the “sea thief.” Friends really can make a difference! FRIENDS SEE THE HEART Please Hear What I’m Not Saying! Coco Calypso and the island monkeys entertain Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet and Blueberry Muffin with a Calypso-style concert. Coco Calypso sings a song that tells about her wonderful life on the island, “With all that I’ve got and all that I’ve found., it’s o.k. by me if there’s no one around.” Her song describes being alone, but not lonely. But, when Strawberry Shortcake says to Coco Calypso that it must be “berry” fun to have this whole beautiful beach island to herself, there is hesitation in Coco Calypso’s voice. And when the girls rave about Coco Calypso’s concert, she excitedly tells them that she can do one every night – and the girls can even move in with her too! Later Blueberry Muffin and Strawberry Shortcake agree that Coco Calypso seems lonely. Questions: Coco Calypso sings about all that she has on Seaberry Island and that she is very happy living alone. Describe the things on the island that Coco Calypso says make her very happy. From outside appearances, Coco Calypso seems to have everything that a girl could want in life. But when she talks to her friends after the concert, what does she say that makes Strawberry Shortcake and Blueberry Muffin think that she’s not totally happy? 3 Have you ever felt that if you were able to buy something that you wanted, or go to a special event or place, then you would be “berry” happy? What happened when you got it? Or when you went there? Did that feeling of happiness last for a short or long time? Read Mathew 6:19-21. What does God say about happiness and material things? Coco Calypso was lonely on Seaberry Island, but she pretended that everything was wonderful. She even sang about how she was “alone, but not lonely.” Still, Strawberry Shortcake and Blueberry Muffin knew that she was lonely. When you care about someone and you can see that they are hurting, should you always believe what they say? Or should you listen to what they’re saying behind the words? What can a friend do to help someone who may be lonely? Lesson to Learn: Often times we see someone who appears to have everything – pretty clothes, a beautiful house, or lots of fabulous things with which to play. But “things” don’t always guarantee happiness. What human beings need most of all, besides food and shelter, are loving relationships. When a loving connection with another person is missing – with a parent or another child – no toy or object can take its place. It’s important for friends to reach out to others who may be missing that relationship; one that says “I love you just the way you are.” FRIENDS FIND ANSWERS The Mystery is Solved! Strawberry Shortcake, Rainbow Sherbet, Blueberry Muffin and Coco Calypso set a trap again to catch the “creature.” When the alarm sounds, they find a surprise. The “sea thief” is a girl just like them who introduces herself as Seaberry Delight. She admits to taking the baskets of seaberries because the seaberries where she lives have been disappearing. Seaberry Delight has always used them to feed herself and her underwater sea friends, the Sea Sweeties. At this moment, Coco Calypso realizes what she has done. “I thought you were stealing them from me, but I was stealing them from you.” But now, it looks like Coco Calypso may not be able to make Seaberry Delight treats anymore! Then, Strawberry Shortcake suggests that the way to solve the problem is for Coco Calypso to take a few berries less and share her seaberry treats with the Sea Sweeties. Even better, Seaberry Delight can now be a friend to Coco Calypso! Questions: When the girls meet Seaberry Delight and hear her story, Coco Calypso realizes that she has made a big mistake. What should Coco Calypso have done before taking the seaberries that weren’t in her own backyard? Have you ever had something stolen? How did it feel? Coco Calypso was very upset when her seaberries were missing. But, Seaberry Delight was equally upset that her seaberries were disappearing. Instead of sneaking into Coco Calypso’s home at night to take the seaberries, what should 4 Seaberry Delight have done? What was her reason for not talking to Coco Calypso? Did that make her action right? When Coco Calypso found that she had been “robbed” by someone, she called them a “creature” and a “sea thief.” Yet, at the same time, she had actually been taking seaberries that didn’t belong to her. What does the Bible say about finding fault in others? Read Luke 6:42. Both Coco Calypso and Seaberry Delight need the seaberries, each for a different reason. How does Strawberry Shortcake solve the problem? What are the results of solving a situation peacefully? What would have happened if Seaberry Delight and Coco Calypso had decided to fight over the seaberries? 5