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Not for Reproduction Southern urban charm Metro living in the Carolinas page 17 Noted . Notable . Noteworthy . LGBT News & Views Volume 23 . Number 23 Ballroom fever ‘Burn the Floor’ comes to BPAC page 19 March 21 . 2009 Printed on Recycled Paper FREE ‘Dangerously’ queer Gay play on French novel hits the QC page 17 Not for Reproduction q-notes.com Dear leader GGF hires new Executive Director page 7 Not for Reproduction - 2 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction T A B L E O F C O N T E N T S Front and center: www.q-notes.com Volume 23 Number 23 PO Box 221841 • Charlotte, NC 28222 • 704.531.9988 . 704.531.1361 March 21, 2009 Editor/New Media: Matt Comer [email protected] Associate Editor: David Stout Special Assignments: Lainey Millen Graphic Design/Production: Lainey Millen [email protected] Ad Sales: Marketing Jim Yarbrough, Manager 704.531.9988 704.531.9988 [email protected] Ad Sales . 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Q-Notes staff N.C.’s religious right: Digging their own graves doing our side a huge favor. “I think we’ve seen moderate legislators who could go either way on our issues really get sick and tired of the negative attacks on our community from the religious right,” Palmquist told me.“I actually think that some of the rhetoric that they’ve been spouting can work to our advantage.” It is time for North Carolina to move into the 21st century and forget the backward, harmful legacy of anti-gay hatred and bigotry. Legislators and conservative activists who stand against the safe schools bill really only do it for one reason: they don’t want queer kids protected.And, there’s really only one reason to not want the LGBT kids protected — these folks believe they shouldn’t be. Rabid Right leaders like Tami Fitzgerald, executive director of NC4Marriage (and the attorney at N.C. Family Policy Council), have said the safe schools and sex ed bills will open the door to having children taught that gay relationships are acceptable.Although that’s really not the intention of the two bills, I really don’t mind if that’s the outcome. The current abstinence-only education is a joke — teens are getting pregnant by the bus load and straight and gay kids are getting infected with life-long and sometimes In the past few weeks we’ve seen North Carolina’s religious right (I like to refer to them as “Rabid Righties”) praise and laud a proposed state constitutional amendment that would discriminate against LGBT people and jump, scream, yell and holler over proposed pieces of legislation that would offer safety — physically, mentally and otherwise — to Tar Heel youth, regardless of sexual orientation and gender-identity. The Rabid Righties have been steamrolling the American Promise as they head across the state pushing through local, municipal resolutions in support of a state constitutional amendment banning any civil recognition of relationships between adults other than those of married, one man-one woman couples. In most counties and cities, these insidious resolutions have passed unanimously. Only one county, that I know of, has had the cajones to defeat the resolution presented to them. Groups like Return America, led by radically anti-gay Winston-Salem pastor Ron Baity, the teetotaling Christian Action League and NC4Marriage, a coalition run by the N.C. Family Policy Council (although they won’t openly admit it), are vying for their chance to make North Carolina just like all our other Southern neighbors. North Carolina, thank God, remains the only state in the southeastern U.S. without an anti-gay amendment. N.C. state Rep. Rick Glazier stands with fellow members of the N.C. General Assembly at a press conference introBut all this clamoring ducing the School Violence Prevention Act in the House and rabid, frothy-mouthed insanity is beginning to have and Senate. Photo Credit: EqualityNC an effect opposite of what I can only imagine Baity, the Action League and deadly diseases because they aren’t being NC4Marriage actually desire. taught how to protect themselves and they Since Q-Notes’ last print issue, two key aren’t receiving the fair, equitable and safe pieces of legislation were finally introduced in acceptance and support they need from menboth houses of the General Assembly. The first, tors and school leaders. the School Violence Prevention Act, would proWhile the right is worrying about sin and tect students from harassment and bullying eternal damnation, young people in this state regardless of sexual orientation and genderare making horrible, ignorant and preventable identity, among other enumerated categories. choices now — choices that will impact their The second, the Healthy Youth Act, would lives here on earth long before they reach repeal the state’s miserably failed “abstinencethose pearly or fiery gates. I don’t think God’s only” sex ed courses and replace them with a gonna mind if we give them the tools to promuch better, more useful, instructive and edutect themselves as they grow, make mistakes cational comprehensive curriculum. and live to make better ones. These bills aren’t new. Moderate and proNorth Carolina’s rabid, deceitful religious gressive legislators have been introducing bigots need to get their heads out of the sand them for years. This session, though, the comand into reality. If they really cared about this munity, state and media are paying more and state’s children, they’d be spending more time more attention to the safe schools and sex ed pushing for these two bills and less time bills. The Rabid Right is to blame. fighting to write discrimination into a docuTheir duplicitous lies about the effects of ment created to ensure equality and justice. the bills are getting the media’s attention. In Instead, they’re too busy worrying about their turn, community members and voters (who own agenda. overwhelmingly support both bills) are speakOur state motto challenges us “to be, rather ing out and turning to their elected officials, than to seem.” I’m telling our dear religious urging them to vote for and co-sponsor them. right to cool it and to be real Christians — It looks as though the right is digging their caring and working for the outsiders and marown grave. ginalized — rather than to only seem so Ian Palmquist, executive director of under their false veneer of “because the Bible EqualityNC, agrees that the religious right is says so” bullshit. Q 4 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction P E R S P E C T I V E Anything But Straight ideologues and the uneducated white underclass with a token perby Wayne Besen . Contributing Writer son of color up in front of the TV to obscure the all-white, all reactionary, all backward and there is In pandering to the fanatical and the fearno global warming, rube reality.” ful — both religion and Republicanism may The Republicans Schaefer is referring to have compromised their future. have lately come out of the woodwork in Utah, First, the Republican Party seems in an where State Sen. Chris Buttars called LGBT awfully big rush to implode with Rush advocates,“the meanest buggers.” A rightLimbaugh as its mercurial mouthpiece. The wing organization,America Forever, placed GOP’s other savior, Michael Steele, is just a big full-page ads in the Salt Lake dailies comparmouth who seems more suited to Limbaugh’s ing gay men and lesbians to “druggies” and talk show gig than chairman of the party. The “hookers.” Of course, Utah Republicans might GOP’s first African-American leader, Steele, know about these things.A new study reveals promised a “hip hop makeover” that would that the conservative state leads the nation attract even “one-armed midgets.” It is Steele, with 5.47 internet pornography subscribers however, who is the incredibly shrinking per thousand. chairman, with his promised “Big Tent” turnSimilar to the Republican Party, religious ing into a circus act. organizations have catered to the crazies for This carnival of “conservatives” has led the far too long. The “ex-gay” organization once-mighty Republican Party to O.J. Exodus International is a perfect example. It Simpson-like popularity levels.An NBC/Wall travels the world to proclaim its “love” for Street Journal poll recently put Republican homosexuals.Yet, a board member, Don approval at just 26 percent, compared to Schmierer, spoke at a Ugandan conference Barack Obama’s 68 percent. that pledged to “wipe out” gay practices. The state of the modern GOP was best Schmierer joined Holocaust revisionist Scott captured on CNN’s “D.L. Hughley Show,” when Lively to urge Uganda to continue its persecuthe host interviewed Frank Schaeffer.A former tion of gay people, including life prison senmember of the Religious Right and author of tences for the “crime” of homosexuality. “Crazy For God,” Schaeffer said the GOP had On March 8, the Vatican defended the created a “hard-assed neo fascist kind of excommunication of a nine-year-old Brazilian direction in America.” girl’s mother and doctors, who helped abort He went on to say,“The Republican base is the pregnant child’s twins. The procedure was now made up of religious and neoconservative recommended because delivering these babies Religion and Republicanism losing converts might have killed the 80-pound girl. The local archbishop, Jose Cardosa Sobrinho, justified this despicable decision by saying,“God’s law is above any human law.” Such transparently vindictive versions of “love” is why Christianity has lost followers in Europe and is now draining them in the United States.A new survey by researchers at Trinity College in Hartford, Conn., documents that the percentage of Americans identifying as Christians has dropped to 76 percent of the population, down from 86 percent in 1990. Fifteen percent of Americans now say they have no religion at all. It may be that socially conservative churches and their anti-gay pastors are directly responsible for much of the erosion of Christianity. Sure, their mega-churches may be growing. But, for every new person they attract, they likely turn off 10 others to all religion with their vituperative sermons. Focus on the Family’s “ex-gay”road show, Love Won Out, is a perfect example of how the radicals are ruining the image of Christianity. The conference may lure a few self-loathing dupes who briefly claim they have “prayed away the gay.” But, for every temporary convert (it rarely, if ever, lasts a lifetime) they turn off thousands of gay people to all religious belief. How does Focus on the Family justify this as a “win”? Even as the Religious Right rapidly contracts, conservatives are foolishly demanding that Republicans veer further right. Come to think of it, Rush Limbaugh may be the perfect leader for a party intent on alienating the majority while talking endlessly and aimlessly to itself. Q MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 5 Not for Reproduction P E R S P E C T I V E by Shane Windmeyer, Charlotte, N.C. Imagine: $700,000 for local LGBT advocacy and support It is over. Tux rentals are returned. Gowns are at the dry cleaners. Checks are written. Cocktails consumed. Credit cards are swiped. Photos adorn Facebook.A collective sigh — once again, we imagine another step taken toward equality. After five years in Charlotte, it is good to ask what the return on investment has been having the Human Rights Campaign Carolinas Dinner in our backyard. In justifying the $700,000 raised, a conservative estimate, HRC will say they have an active presence in the Carolinas through tabling at Pride celebrations, lobbying for national legislation and, of course, hosting events that are fundraisers for HRC. The HRC Dinner has helped our community in the eyes of local politicians and big corporations who realize we do exist now. Plus, there are many wonderful talented local volunteers who work tirelessly to plan the dinner. This year’s dinner theme was “IMAGINE: What do you Imagine?” So, let us for a moment imagine if that estimated $700,000 had been spent for advocacy and support in our local community. Imagine if the Charlotte Lesbian & Gay Community Center had a budget to pay for professional staff salaries (director, assistant director, programs coordinator) comparable to HRC staff salaries. Or, just imagine if our local center had a budget that would pay for more than utilities and rent.Ask yourself: Would HRC’s Joe Solmonese work for under $35,000 a year as CEO? What type of quality of a director would HRC get? Would HRC be as effective if they ran solely on volunteer support without any staffing? Of course, not.Why do we expect our center to do that? Imagine if MeckPac had $50,000 to back an openly LGBT candidate to run, for the first time ever, on the ballot for local city office, county commissioner, etc. Think of the hearts and minds in Charlotte that would change by having a local LGBT leader in our community live and lead by example. Imagine if the Charlotte Business Guild could have the necessary resources to create an LGBT economic development plan with a team of professionals — businesses, developers, planners and investors. The plan could support the growth and development of LGBT and ally owned businesses, even possibly an LGBT and 6 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction ally neighborhood living community. Imagine if Time Out Youth could have more resources to help LGBT homeless youth get off the streets and have safe housing, education and support with health issues — specifically our young transgender populations. Imagine if RAIN could have increased monies to focus on the alarming rate of gay men who are rapidly growing in the number of new HIV cases or more money for health services reaching to LGBT persons of color. Imagine the possibilities. The list is truly endless on what we can do locally to advocate and support LGBT equality at home. If anything, HRC and the dinner have helped Charlotte realize that we can throw a great party and raise a lot of money. But was the $700,000 raised by the HRC Carolinas dinners a good investment to get us any closer to achieving LGBT equality? The decision last year by HRC (or as some have said, the Human Rights Compromise) to not stand united for inclusion of transgender people in employment non-discrimination legislation makes one wonder.What about the fact that HRC as a national political organization still has yet to pass one single piece of pro-LGBT legislation into law? Let us hope that with a Democratic President and Congress this will surely change. What I do know is that I can now buy a spiffy pair of underwear with an equality logo on it and a Harvey Milk embroidered track jacket from the HRC store. I would like to think the $700,000 has done more — but I am unsure, frankly. Some may see my remarks as critical,merely pointing blame and nothing more.After all,it makes us feel uncomfortable to think that we believe in an organization that has not been successful with our money.But,trust me,I am looking in the mirror myself.I was one of the first cochairs who originally brought the HRC dinner to Charlotte.I was a HRC Board of Governor for two years,until I resigned.I had been a volunteer since 1992 when I was in college.I stood by HRC and part of me still does believe,maybe naïvely, in what HRC can do for LGBT equality nationally.But,I have also witnessed the bad side of an organization that has actively worked to stamp out other regional and national organizations’ efforts and take all the credit so they can raise Not for Reproduction A C T I V I S M more money.Whether we admit it or not, HRC has become a political fundraising machine — at the peril of others within our own LGBT and ally family. Next year the HRC dinner will move to Raleigh. Now we have an opportunity far greater than HRC. Charlotte must begin by doing some soul searching. Our LGBT and ally community is only as good as each of us can imagine.Our local LGBT and ally community needs to have that $700,000 and more in order to continue to grow over the next five years.We deserve professionally paid staffing at our Lesbian & Gay Community Center and other LGBT local organizations so we can ensure quality leadership and vision for the future.We also need volunteers and more opportunities to recognize their efforts.And,we need money. If Charlotte can do it for HRC,then we can do it for ourselves.Put what you imagine into action today,whether that be volunteering or writing a check.Start now by investing in something you believe in locally.Q — Shane Windmeyer is executive director of Campus Pride, based in Charlotte, N.C., the leading national organization for student leaders and campus organizations working to create safer, more welcoming college environments for LGBT students. For more, visit www.shanewindmeyer.com. Q-Notes strives to provide the Carolinas LGBT community with an open forum for discussion and commentary. The views of guest commentators do not necessarily represent the official views or positions of Q-Notes, its editorial staff or publisher. GGF hires new exec director Luck Gambrell Davidson brings ‘wealth of experience’ by Matt Comer Q-Notes staff GREENSBORO — The Guilford Green Foundation (GGF), the Triad-area’s largest LGBT charitable foundation, on March 12 announced the hiring of a new executive director. Luck Gambrell Davidson replaces the group’s first Executive Director Cecelia Thompson, who left to take a position with Action Greensboro late last year. Thompson had served as the foundation’s first fulltime staffer. “We are very excited about Luck coming on board and leading GGF to new heights,” GGF Board CoChair Ivan Canada said in a statement.“Her knowledge of the Triad’s non-profit community will prove invaluable as she spearheads development efforts, as well as efforts at garnering national attention for the LGBT community’s needs.” The GGF board said Davidson brings a “wealth on non-profit experience and fundraising expertise.” She has previously served in leadership roles with National Conference of Community and Justice, Community Foundation of Greater Greensboro, Joseph’s House, YWCA, Greenhill Center for NC Art and the Greensboro Public Library Foundation. In the political arena, Davidson has worked on the campaigns for U.S. Sen. Kay Hagan and former Gov. Jim Hunt. “I have a love for my community, which is manifested in my participation in the civic and cultural life of Greensboro,” Davidson said.“My involvement in Greensboro’s public sector and non-profit community has given me a wide range of experience and has led me to form relationships with people from all walks of life, backgrounds and cultures.” The Guilford Green Foundation annually grants funds to Greensboro-area LGBT community groups. Last year, they granted out more than $70,000. Their endowment includes more than $350,000 in funds. GGF also produces the popular “Green Queen Bingo,” held several times a year. [Ed. Note — This writer is a former member of the GGF Board of Directors.] Q MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 7 Not for Reproduction G L O B A L International News by Andy Harley . UK Gay News Anti-discrimination laws essential for Serbian democracy BRUSSELS — Members of the European Parliament made calls in early March for the Serbian government to put back on its agenda proposed anti-discrimination legislation that would protect LGBT citizens. The draft legislation is said to have been withdrawn before the vote in the Serbian Parliament following pressure from the Serbian Orthodox Church. “In a country which aims to be a member of the European Union it is unacceptable to let minorities suffer discrimination including the discrimination based on sexual orientation,” said Michael Cashman, president of the allparty intergroup on gay and lesbian rights. “If the Serbian government is serious about its EU membership aspirations, they will put the law back for the vote in the Parliament,” he said. “This is also a question about the democracy and rule of law,” Cashman continued. “A country can not be considered democratic if the government does not follow the constitution which clearly states the separation of church and state. “This Anti-discrimination law has been drafted in an open and fair process where all parties have been involved equally. To stop the law because of the inconsequent last minute intervention by the church is not democratic in any way,” he concluded. Also urging the Serbian Government to reintroduce the anti-discrimination legislation is the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches (UFMCC). Preventing and sanctioning discrimination is an obligation of any democratic European state, the UFMCC said in a statement on March 9. “It is the top priority of the Serbian Government to respect its international obligations, to show determination and a duty of loyalty to all its citizens, not only to some of them, and to resist the public pressure of the Serbian Orthodox Church which is not serving the national interest in this case,” the UFMCC said. “By delaying the adoption of the anti-discrimination provisions, non-profit organizations dealing with minority rights, women’s rights, HIV/AIDS and mental disability rights are basically dismissed in their courageous efforts to tackle discrimination,” the UFMCC Bishop for Eastern Europe, Rev. Elder Diane Fisher, said. The UFMCC is calling on the Serbian authorities to remain active in the creation and building of a human rights culture in which the anti-discrimination provisions are an inseparable part. “Intensifying the contacts between the Serbian Government,the European Commission and the European Parliament’s intergroup on gay and lesbian rights will create a new,collaborative strategy to fight discrimination. The voice of the Serbian civil society should be included and taken seriously in this dialogue,and not silenced,” the Bishop concluded. Pols condemned for anti-gay meeting BRUSSELS — The attendance of several Ugandan parliamentarians at an anti-gay conference in Kampala during the first weekend in March has been condemned by the European Parliament’s allparty “intergroup” for gay and lesbian rights. The conference featured keynote American speakers Scott Lively, Don Schmierer, Caleb Lee Brundidge and Stephen Langa. Also attending were Uganda-based groups working to diminish human rights of gay and transgender men and women. “It is very sad that representatives of Ugandan parliament who should work for the rights of every Ugandan citizen, gravely discredit themselves by meeting people who work to spread hate and diminish rights of other human beings,” said Michael Cashman, president of the intergroup.“It would never be acceptable for any member of the European Parliament to meet, for example, representatives of Ku Klux Klan; thus I do not understand the rational of those Ugandan parliamentarians who agreed to the meeting with anti-gay militants.” Raúl Romeva, vice president of the intergroup for the GREENS/EFA party added: “If these Ugandan parliamentarians are serious about respecting the constitution of their country and in particular Chapter 4 on Protection and promotion of fundamental and other human rights and freedoms, they should instead be working towards abolishing those discriminatory laws of Uganda which still deny full human rights to gay and lesbian citizens.” Officials urge religious leaders to ignore Pride events RIGA, Latvia — Elected officials in Riga have urged religious groups to ignore the gay Pride march to take place in the capital city in May. Andris Grinbergs, the executive director of Riga, told a meeting of a working group of the assembly of Christian congregations in the city not to focus attention on the event, adding that with little attention organizers might not be so interested in pursuing similar events in the future. But the president of Latvian Christian Radio said that Christians should not be silent. “We must take a categorical stand against such marches or other types of activities,” he said, according to Latvian news agency LETA. This year’s event in Riga will be the first Baltic Gay Pride — officially Baltic Friendship Days — which joins the LGBT communities of the three Baltic countries, Estonia, Latvia and Lithuania. The Latvian LGBT advocacy group Mozaika applied for the parade to the Riga City Council last October. Two routes were suggested, both starting and finishing at Vermandarzs Park. But an anti-gay Pride group,“Fund for the Family,” has, in a counter move, applied for permission to stage a Family Celebration 2009 in Vermandarzs Park on the same day — May 16. A final decision will be made by the Commission on Meetings, Marches and see next page > 8 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction D O M E S T I C Demonstrations at Riga City Council. Janis Sicevskis, a representative of the Latvian Orthodox Church, said that the church “categorically objects” to the parade, particularly if it passes a church. He said that the church is planning a special prayer service to pray that people do not take part in the event. “We have asked the Riga City Council to do everything possible to ensure that the march does not take place after all,” he told LETA. Representatives of the religious denominations have agreed to write to Riga Mayor, Janis Birks, and to Mr. Grinbergs asking them not to support the gay march, and to support the rival “Fund for the Family” event. This year’s gay Pride in Riga gets underway on May 15 and concludes on May 17 — coinciding with the International Day Against Homophobia. Next year, the event will be staged in Vilnius, Lithuania. Q — Andy Harley is the editor of UK Gay News. For more global news visit www.ukgaynews.org.uk. National News Prop 8 challenge goes to court by David Stout . Q-Notes staff SAN FRANCISCO, Calif. — Attorneys for same-sex couples, civil rights organizations and the state Attorney General’s office appeared before the California Supreme Court on Mar. 5 to urge the court to strike down Proposition 8.At issue in the case is whether the initiative process can be used to take away a fundamental right only for one group of Californians based on a trait — in this instance sexual orientation — that has no relevance to the group’s ability to participate in or contribute to society. The case is unprecedented because no other initiative-amendment has successfully taken away a fundamental right only for a particular minority. Because Proposition 8 would, for the first time, change the state constitution in a way that strips a minority group of its right to equal treatment under the law, California Attorney General Jerry Brown agrees that Proposition 8 should be struck down. Marriage has legislative support MONTPELIER,Vt. — The Vermont House and Senate Leadership have expressed their commitment to passing a marriage equality bill before the end of the legislative session in May. The bill is expected to be introduced by Senate President Peter Shumlin, Majority Leader Sen. John Campbell and the Assistant Majority Leader Sen. Claire Ayer on Mar. 17. If passed by both chambers and signed by the governor, this would mark the first time marriage equality has become law by the legislative process. “We applaud Vermont’s House and Senate leaders for taking this bold step and working to pass this legislation in this session,” said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese.“The momentum for marriage equality is real and tangible. For Vermont, which began this public conversation with civil unions in 2000, to move towards marriage equality sends a powerful message and we salute them.” Trans Lobby Day coming up WASHINGTON, D.C. — Transgender activists along with their families, friends and allies will hold their annual congressional Lobby Day on April 28, while the two days prior will be reserved for social networking (26th) and a day of training and workshops (27th). The key issues for discussion with leg- islators will be the need for an Employment Non-Discrimination Act that includes gender identity, and a trans-inclusive hate crimes bill. Registration is now open for Lobby Day. Signing up is important because the sponsoring National Center for Transgender Equality is making appointments for registrants to visit their Congress people. For more information, email [email protected] or call 202-903-0112. Memorial scholarship honors teen LOS ANGELES, Calif. — Point Foundation, the nation’s largest scholarshipgranting organization for LGBT students of merit, is partnering with Jeffrey Fashion Cares to create a scholarship in memory of Lawrence King, the 15year-old gay male student murdered at school just over a year ago in Oxnard, Calif. The four-year Lawrence King/Jeffrey Fashion Cares Point Scholarship will be awarded to a Point Scholar in the 2009/2010 academic year. “It is an honor to create a scholarship in the name of a young man who, from what I’ve read, showed so much promise and was a light for many around him,” said Jorge Valencia, executive director and CEO of Point Foundation. “Point is fortunate to have a wonderful friendship with Jeffrey in order to team and create this scholarship.” Dan Rothmann, co-chair of JFC events, added,“JFC’s involvement with the Point Foundation stemmed directly from the senseless murder of Lawrence. The Lawrence King/Jeffrey Fashion Cares Point Scholarship was set up to ensure that this young man’s memory and the crime would not be forgotten.” Adoption websites choose bigotry NEW YORK, N.Y. — Rather than open their services to qualified same-sex couples,Adoption.com and ParentProfiles.com have stopped doing business in the state of New York, according to State Attorney General Andrew Cuomo. The withdrawal stems from a July 2008 discrimination complaint filed with Cuomo’s office on behalf of Rosario Gennaro and Alexander Gardner, a New York City gay couple barred by the companies from posting their online adoptive-parent profile solely because they are same-sex partners. Lambda Legal filed the discrimination complaint on the grounds that the companies in question violated New York laws prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation and marital status.Adoption Profiles was sued in California in 2004 by the National Center for Lesbian Rights for violating that state’s anti-discrimination law and, as a result, no longer does business there. Q MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 9 Not for Reproduction N O R T H C A R O L I N A North Carolina News Notes Trask, will be mounted from March 27-29 at The by Lainey Millen & Matt Comer . Q-Notes staff Garage, 110 W. 7th St. This Obie-winning OffCHARLOTTE Broadway musical tells the story of “internationally ignored song stylist” Hedwig Schmidt. Still hanging out The punk rock, hard rock, glam rock musical plays for four performances at 11 p.m. on CHARLOTTE — LOAFERS (formerly March 27 and 28 (21 and over); 8 p.m. on Lesbians Over the Age of Forty, which is now March 28 (18 and over); and 7 p.m. on March open to all ages) is a support/discussion/social 29 (18 and over). Tickets are $10, regular, and group that meets at 6:30 p.m. at The Lesbian $7, student. and Gay Community Center, 820 Hamilton St., Though not an official production from Suite B11, on the second Friday of each month. the University of North Carolina School of the This group, which is now well into its secArts, the production is produced, designed ond decade, is made up of a variety of women: and performed by students and staff associatsome are out of the closet, others are in or in ed with all five of the University’s schools various stages in between. Some women have (Drama, Dance, Filmmaking, Music and partners, some are single and some are still Design & Production). married. The one thing they have in common The play is directed by Joshua Morgan and is that they like to get together to talk, eat, stars Chris French as Hedwig Schmidt, both have fun, laugh and learn from each other. fourth-year actors in the School of Drama. Informal gatherings are held throughout the month. It is self-led, with no one serving TRIANGLE as its head. A camping trip is scheduled for April and ENC offers GLSEN report other events were on the drawing board at RALEIGH — Equality NC has received a press time. large shipment of a 117-page softcover bound For more information, call Jeanne evenings report from Gay, Lesbian and Straight and weekends at 704-995-6326 or email Education Network (GLSEN) entitled [email protected]. “Involved, Invisible, Ignored: The Experiences TRIAD of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Parents and Their Children in Our Nation's KIt’s angry inch time! 12 Schools.” Administrative Coordinator Shawn Long WINSTON-SALEM — “Hedwig and the said,“To my knowledge, this is the first extenAngry Inch,” written by John Cameron see next page > Mitchell with music and lyrics by Stephen 10 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction N O R T H sive report on the experiences of kids with gay parents in schools. It's filled with graphs, stats and tables.” Information included in the report says that gay parents tend to be much more involved and proactive in schools; half of the students with gay parents experience intimidation and bullying; and a fifth of parents feel they are mistreated and not included by school officials. Copies are available free by request via email to [email protected]. Supply name and mailing address. ENC will cover postage and handling. For more information on ENC, visit www.equalitync.org. STATEWIDE Campus climate survey released CHARLOTTE — Do you consider your campus to be gay-friendly? Does your campus have work to be done on transgender issues? What does it mean to be an LGBT student, staff or faculty member on your campus? Campus Pride seeks undergraduate and graduate students, staff, faculty and administrators who identify as LGBT people to participate in the comprehensive assessment through the National LGBT College Climate Survey. The survey is housed under the Q Research Institute for Higher Education (QRIHE), the national center for the scholarly study of LGBT people in higher education. The QRIHE is owned and operated by the national non-profit organization Campus Pride. Dr. Susan R. Rankin of The Pennsylvania State University serves as C A R O L I N A research director. Dr. Warren J. Blumenfeld of Iowa State University is the associate research director. Institutional Review Board approval has been granted nationally for this study. In accordance, participation is confidential and data specific to individual higher education institutions will not be identified in the final analysis. Once completed, any participant will have the opportunity, if chosen, to register for $500 cash and a free cruise aboard RSVP Vacations. “Nationally there is much work to be done to better serve LGBT students and the larger campus community. Our goal is to provide an assessment that can create positive change and safer, more inclusive LGBT colleges and universities,” Rankin said. She added,“Campus Pride’s National LGBT College Climate Survey offers an annual, comprehensive means to provide valuable information for program planners and policy makers in tackling emerging issues on campus.” This research examines emerging issues, trends and changing demographics of LGBT people in higher education. Research allies include American College Personnel Association – College Educators International, Consortium of Higher Education LGBT Resource Professionals, Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, Human Rights Campaign, NASPA – Student Affairs Administrators in Higher Education, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, National Youth Advocacy Coalition and RSVP Vacations. For more information, call 704-277-6710 or email [email protected]. To participate, visit www.campuspride.org/research. Queer groups abound STATEWIDE — Whether you are a Facebook, MySpace person or you are engaged in Google,Yahoo, etc., groups, there's always one that will meet one's taste palette. There's no exception to that in the Tar Heel State. Among a fast growing network of LGBT and/or friendly Meetups are: The Winston Salem LGBT & Straight Allies: They will be attending an Adam Foundation Martini Night event on April 8 at 6 p.m. They will meet on March 23 and April 27 at 7 p.m. with PFLAG Winston Salem Adult Support Group (which is held on the fourth Monday each month). lgbtfriends.meetup.com. Lesbians Who Love Movies: On April 4, there will be a dinner/movie night at 6 p.m. at a member's home in Hillsborough. www.meet up.com/Lesbians-Who-Love-Movies. Geeks and Gaymers of NC: Bad Sci-Fi Movie Night, March 28 at 5 p.m. at a private residence in Durham. geek.meetup.com. Homme Artist and Artisans: They will meet on April 29 at 6:30 p.m. in Charlotte. www.meetup.com/homme-artist-and-atisans. Triangle Couples Without Kids Social Group (DINKs-if we must): On March 27 at 7 p.m. they will meet for a social gathering. childfree.meetup.com. Charlotte Gay Professionals: On April 3, join members at a local restaurant for an evening of networking and socialization. www.meetup.com/The-Charlotte-GayProfessionals-Meetup-Group. Others to consider are: Triangle Community Works Game Night (gayrights.meetup. com/319); Fayetteville Area LBT Friends (www.meetup.com/The-Fayetteville-LBTMeetup-Group); Lesbian Couples (www.meet up.com/lesbiancouples); Lenoir Gay & Lesbian Community (www.meetup.com/Lenoir-GLBTSocial); Triangle Area Gay Scientists (gaypros.meetup.com/328); and more! Visit the Meetup site at www.meetup.com and search for one of a multitude of groups near you. Some are closed which require moderator approval for membership. Yahoo groups include ones for NOW chapters, PrideSisters, GLBT Pagans, Rainbow Kids NC and NC Family, to name a few. Got an LGBT-focused group or organization (religious, sports, social action and more) to promote? Let us know We’ll be glad to share the news with our readers. Q info: Announce your community event in NC News Notes. email: [email protected]. MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 11 Not for Reproduction 12 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction L I G H T S - C A M E R A - A C T I O N GayCharlotte Film Festival kicks off April 3 Fest is first-ever large-scale LGBT cultural event since 1990s’ OutCharlotte festival by Will Billings . Contributing Writer CHARLOTTE — For LGBT Charlotteans who miss the queer cultural scene celebrated by the 1990s’ OutCharlotte festival, the long wait will come to a close during the first weekend in April. The first annual GayCharlotte Film Festival kicks off at 6 p.m. on Friday, April 3 at the Lesbian & Gay Community Center of Charlotte. The Festival, which runs through Sunday,April 5, features more than a dozen LGBT-themed films, some with a local Charlotte and North Carolina focus. The films represent a wide variety of tastes and styles, including full-length movies and shorts, documentaries and narrative fictions, as well as nationally and critically acclaimed films on transgender issues, the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy of the U.S. military and films by and about AfricanAmerican and Latino LGBT communities. The event is sponsored by the Community Center. Festival organizer Teresa Davis said hosting the weekend-long event at the Center, as opposed to renting space at an actual movie theater, was as much about practicality as economics. “The Center’s rooms, located at The Music Factory, are extremely versatile,” explained Davis.“Some of the well-established, mainstream Carolina film festivals screen many of their movies at similarly-sized venues, so it didn’t make sense to rent a movie theater when we could bring audiences to our wonderful space and pass the cost-savings along to them.” Davis said the Festival planning committee was thrilled to learn that Takeover Friday, a regular event popular with gay and lesbian nightlife-goers, had agreed to “takeover” one of the Friday night films.All ticket holders will receive half-off admission to the Garden & Gun Club, located next door to the Center. The Takeover feature film begins at 8 p.m., after the “Hometown Shorts” series at 6 p.m. Proceeds from the Festival benefit the Community Center,“although the mission of the Festival is as much about bringing quality movies to our LGBT Community as it is about raising funds so we can keep our doors open,” Davis said. Movies include “Ask Not” which address- es challenges faced by gays in the military, “Dear Jesse,” about a gay North Carolinian’s ties to the late U.S. Sen. Jesse Helms and two movies actually filmed at the Center: “Queer: Out and About in Charlotte” and “Coming Out/Coming In.” Full-length features include “Hard” where a young, gay cop must work in a homophobic police unit while catching a serial killer who murders gay johns, and “Christopher Street” which is the East Coast version of L.A. television series “Noah’s Arc.” Davis is also proud the Festival will screen “Barbara & Tibby,” a work she said is of “utmost importance” to all Carolina LGBT communities. The film addresses Virginia’s anti-gay marriage legislation and constitutional amendment.A similar amendment has been introduced in the N.C. General Assembly again this year; it has failed to gain traction in five previous legislative sessions. Q — The GayCharlotte Film Festival will be held April 3-5 at the Lesbian & Gay Community Center of Charlotte, 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11. For ticket information and movie schedules, visit www.GayCharlotteFilmFestival.com. MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 13 Not for Reproduction F E A T U R E stamp of approval Gay researcher calls out HRC for giving perfect score to R.J. Reynolds Tobacco Co. corporate parent by Matt Comer . Q-Notes staff . inDepth ublic high schools; libraries and museums; public and private colleges and universities; hospitals; foundations and charities — the list of beneficiaries of the legacy of R.J. Reynolds, his family and the Winston-Salem tobacco company he founded more than a century ago is long and valuable — perhaps endless. There is hardly a Carolina soul who will debate the positive, economic influence P amounts of harm tobacco use causes in North Carolina and to the LGBT community.” In a late February letter sent to the Human Rights Campaign — copied to Q-Notes and others — Lee outlined his argument for reducing Reynolds’ CEI score. “While it is perfectly legitimate to report on the workplace policies of the tobacco industry,” Lee wrote to HRC,“I believe you may have overlooked the evidence on corporate responsibility and inadvertently and incorrectly given a perfect score to Reynolds American Tobacco (sic).” Released annually, the CEI ranks Fortune 500 companies, and others, according to the LGBT-friendliness of corporate policies and practices. Scoring criteria in the “corporate responsibility” section of the CEI requires that a company must exhibit “responsible behavior toward the LGBT community,” and show that it “does not engage in action that would undermine LGBT equality.” Fifteen points are deducted from the scores of corporations found to be engaging in harmful antiLGBT activity. Lee said that Reynolds American, and other companies, have exhibited poor corporate responsibility toward their LGBT customers. In his letter, Lee said An anti-smoking campaign targeted to LGBT San Franciscans by SF Pride. Reynolds and other Tobacco Road tycoons had on this state, its people or its society and government. But one openly gay researcher at the Tar Heel State’s premier “public ivy” isn’t convinced that Reynolds American, the tobacco company’s corporate parent, is deserving of all the praise it’s been getting from the Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s largest LGBT advocacy organization. Joseph Lee, a social research specialist in the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill Department of Family Medicine’s Tobacco Prevention and Evaluation Program, says that Reynolds American shouldn’t have received a perfect 100 score in the 2009 HRC Corporate Equality Index (CEI). “Being from Madison County, I am not denying the long heritage of tobacco in North Carolina,” Lee told Q-Notes in an interview via email.“But, today, we cannot deny the huge 14 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction that the company has shown “irresponsible and cynical behavior” toward LGBT people through its marketing of a “product … directly and unequivocally linked to death and disability.” Lee says that Reynolds American’s actions have created a “health inequality” and that “disproportionate numbers of lesbian women and gay men smoke and suffer from the resulting death and disability.” Lee contended that his main opposition to Reynolds’ perfect 100 score stems from evidence of the company’s history of marketing has increased tobacco use among LGBT peo- Not for Reproduction F E A T U R E ple. Study after study confirms that disproportionate numbers of lesbian and gay adults and youth smoke. “By giving a perfect score to Reynolds American, the HRC is promoting health inequalities, not corporate equality,” he said. “Until tobacco companies stop selling addiction and disease to LGBT communities, they should not be included in an index of equality.” Lee’s page-and-a-half letter was referenced and cited 25 times with research studies and reports, some as recent as this year, showing that LGBT people are more likely to start smoking because of stress from discrimination and oppression, persistent and targeted advertising by the industry and exposure to smoking environments, such as gay clubs and bars. “For better or worse, bars and clubs have long been an important part of our communities,” Lee told Q-Notes.“Many bars are, in fact, paid by the tobacco industry to allow and promote smoking. It is the social environment of smoky places, discrimination and targeted marketing that pushes LGBT youth to start smoking.” Sally Herndon Malek, director of the Tobacco Prevention and Control Branch at the N.C. Division of Public Health, told Q-Notes that her program had attempted to gather information specific to North Carolina lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) communities and their smoking habits. In 2004, she and other staff attended the NC Pride Fest and Parade in Durham. Out of a small sample of 136 surveys collected there — one of the only Carolina-specific attempts ••••••••••••••••• Should companies promoting addictive and unhealthy products (cigarettes, alcohol, etc.) be included in the Human Rights Campaign’s Corporate Equality Index? at LGB tobacco use data collection — Malek found a higher rate of smoking among LGB adults (42 percent) than the general population of adults in the state (24.8 percent, in the same time period).Among non-smoking LGB respondents, 47 percent said they were most exposed to second-hand smoke in bars. In particular, her community survey showed that 59 percent of the North Carolina LGB youths aged 18-24 reported using tobacco products. She said that only 31.3 percent of youth the same age report smoking in the general population. “Rates are higher across North Carolina in that population [of 18-24 year olds] in general because there was a cohort of young people who were smoking at higher rates,” she said. “We have been successful in North Carolina, beginning to put some things into practice that really help prevent tobacco use initiation among young people.” In a publication of the community survey results, Malek and her staff ceded that the sample size was small, but that the data collected provided “some insight into tobacco use prevalence in the LGB population in North Carolina.” Daryl Herrschaft, director of the HRC Foundation Workplace Project, told Q-Notes via phone that the national organization is cognizant of the health-related ramifications of tobacco use.“HRC does not accept sponsorship dollars from tobacco companies because we recognize the harmful effects that tobacco has done, and in some ways its disproportionate effect on our community … We don’t want to play a role in advocating smoking to our membership and to people who come to our events.” He said the CEI scores aren’t meant to reflect anything other than a company’s treatment of LGBT employees. “The Corporate Equality Index addresses only corporate policies that impact LGBT people,” Herrschaft said.“It also addresses external actions of the company that directly and primarily impact LGBT equality. The Corporate Equality Index is only one measure of policies for LGBT employees and we strongly encourage everyone to seek out and pay attention to other indicators that are important to them.” see HRC on 16 See the options and vote at www.q-notes.com MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 15 Not for Reproduction F E A T U R E HRC called out for giving perfect score to Reynolds American from page 15 Herrschaft said that CEI scores are based on corporate policies and practices relating to non-discrimination policies, health insurance policies and domestic partner benefits, as well as corporate actions such as supporting anti-gay organizations or taking positions on legislation that hurts the LGBT community. The CEI scoring “is not the right information to be looking at,” he said, if one is concerned primarily with the health of the LGBT community. Lee said HRC should be taking into consideration the harm companies cause through other actions outside of legislative and philanthropic arenas. He cited Reynolds’ “Project SCUM,” or “Sub-Culture Urban Market” plan. In his letter to HRC, Lee claimed that Reynolds had “planned Project SCUM (that’s Sub-Culture Urban Market) to target gay men in the Castro District of San Francisco.” In a written response to several questions posed by Q-Notes, Seth Moskowitz, a communications director with Reynolds American, said that Project SCUM was never a finalized or utilized marketing plan. “It was a proposal in a document from one [of] R.J. Reynolds’ sales offices for a marketing program called, Sub Culture Urban Marketing,” Moskowitz explained.“This inappropriate and offensive document presented an idea for marketing cigarettes to adult smokers who chose 16 alternative lifestyles. The proposal was never pursued or put into action.” Moskowitz added,“In 2001, when R.J. Reynolds became aware of this document, the company saw that it used language that was unacceptable, inappropriate, offensive and insulting and the company publicly apologized. The document did not reflect the opinions, policies or practices of the company — in fact, it could not have been more opposed to R.J. Reynolds’ operating philosophy and practices. “This thoughtless document did not, and does not, represent R.J. Reynolds’ view of, and respect for, its customers and employees. Rather, the company used the discovery of that document as a catalyst for communicating once again to its employees the management philosophies and practices by which the company is to be run.” While the Project SCUM plan was never put into action, Lee nonetheless feels the company has used advertising to draw in new LGBT customers for Reynolds cigarette brands.“The tobacco industry uses similar strategies of making products more available and more appealing today,” he said. “Instead of calling us scum, the industry talks about inclusion, diversity, and responsibility. Either way, the purpose of targeted marketing is getting LGBT youth and adults to start smoking.” Moskowitz admitted that R.J. Reynolds Tobacco, as any other company would, wants LGBT consumers to choose their brands over others.“If the ultimate question is this: does R.J. Reynolds Tobacco Company want LGBT adult tobacco consumers to use an R.J. Reynolds brand instead of a competitor’s brand — the answer is, yes. The company would like to earn the business of all adults who have made the choice to smoke cigarettes or use tobacco products.” He said that “gay adult tobacco consumers, like the rest of the adult tobacco consuming population, have the same ability and right as the rest of the population to evaluate and make informed decisions about whether or not they want to use tobacco or any other consumer product.” Although the company hasn’t run any print advertising in more than a year, Moskowitz said that the company had, in the past, run cigarette advertising in publications like The Advocate and Instinct.“It would not be appropriate to exclude gay audiences or media from R.J. Reynolds’ brand communications,” he said. R.J. Reynolds Tobacco Company and its corporate parent, Reynolds American, adhere to equal opportunity policies in employment and hiring — policies that include sexual orientation and gender-identity. Moskowitz said the company strives “to MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction ensure that LGBT employees are treated the same as other employees.” In 2002, R.J. Reynolds included LGBT employees and their partners in medical, dental and vision benefits under a domestic partner plan. Lee is adamant in his opposition to giving undue praise to tobacco companies.“We have to stop the addition to the tobacco industry’s flattery and money,” he said.“All the tobacco industry’s marketing and promotion (including its inclusive policies) do is help sell cigarettes. Tobacco company ‘social responsibility’ to the LGBT community means a higher body count in Winston-Salem and beyond. It does not mean more rights and less discrimination. “Smoking in LGBT communities is a social justice issue,” he added.“Tobacco is the only legal product that when used correctly leads to disability and death. Our communities smoke considerably more than straight folks, and we thus suffer from earlier death and more disability due to tobacco-related diseases.As a community, we have not faced so many obstacles only to lose our lives early from smoking.” Q — Are you a smoker? Want to quit? Get help by calling QuitlineNC at 1-800-QUIT-NOW (7848-669) and visit www.becomeanex.org. Both are free resources. Find more LGBT-specific information at www.lgbttobacco.org and www.gaysmokeout.net. Not for Reproduction Burning up the stage page 19 Urban living with Southern charm Carolinas cities offer variety in downtown, metro living by Matt Comer . Q-Notes staff Y ou don’t have to move to Atlanta, D.C., or New York to get a taste of urban, downtown living on the East Coast. Cities small and large across the Carolinas offer exciting options for those who desire something a bit more than the usual Southern suburban experience. Charlotte The newest and most luxurious development in the Queen City is bound to draw excitement from across the Carolinas, and perhaps the entire southeastern region. The Vue, set to be completed in mid-tolate 2010 according to sales manager Rob Vue Charlotte, currently under construction at the 31st floor. McCrorey, will include more than 400 luxury units in a 51-story, towering building over Uptown’s First Ward. The Vue’s units start at $319,000 and continue upward to $2 million or more. It will the be tallest residential building in North Carolina. McCrorey said that the tough housing market and economy has “definitely slowed down the pace of sales,” but that units are still being sold. “We’re at 65 percent sold right now,” he told Q-Notes. “We are considered a luxury building in Charlotte. People can really perceive how scarce this opportunity is going to be in the future because so many other projects here are being postponed or canceled.” The development will feature state of the art amenities and security. McCrorey’s especially proud of the building’s bio-metric finger-print control. A 25-yard, Olympic-sized pool, 4,000 square foot work-out facility, a concierge and 24hour doorman service is just the beginning of what might turn out to be the place for Uptown Charlotte living. info: www.vuecharlotte.com Raleigh It’s beginning to look a lot like A rendering gay town — you won’t have to wait too awful long before a veritable gayborhood pops up in downtown Raleigh. The Hue, a seven-story condo development with first floor retail sits on the corner of Glenwood and Hargett — right across the street from The CC and next to Legends. Those LGBT nightlife lovers might enjoy themselves living so close to their favorite watering holes in what of the Hue Raleigh’s pool and courtyard. developers are calling “the future of downtown Raleigh living.” Amenities in the Hue, scheduled for completion this year, include a resident’s cocktail lounge, contemporary courtyard with pool and barbecue grill, private fitness room and concierge service. Individual unit features include spacious private balconies, see Southern on 18 ‘Dangerous’ liaisons with queer lust, seduction, betrayal Queen City Theatre to present all-male version of play based on classic French novel by Matt Comer . Q-Notes staff ince the 1782 publication of the French novel “Les Liaisons dangereuses,” better known as “Dangerous Liaisons” to the English-speaking world, European and American playwrights, and later filmmakers, have been obsessed with capturing the spirit and risqué sexuality of author Pierre Choderlos de Laclos’ characters. In April, Charlotte will get a taste of the classic French tale in an all-male, gay version produced by Queen City Theatre Company. While mainstream media will likely turn their attention to the retelling of the 1996 Charlotte “Angels in America” drama presented in “Southern Rapture” by Actor’s Theatre, “Dangerous” will present a much more openly sexual tale that has managed to stay alive in the minds of Westerners for centuries. This contemporary adaptation of “Les Liaisons dangereuses” by playwright Tom Smith is bound to turn some heads; S thank the heavens above Charlotte isn’t as conservative as it was in 1996. Director Glenn Griffin, one of four Queen City Theatre founders, says that despite the raw sexuality of the production, the piece has artistic and real-life meaning. If art celebrates life, how can it not celebrate and explore sex, a key component of it? “I think the original novel could only do so much for the period it was in,” Griffin told Q-Notes during a recorded conversation available exclusively at Q-Notes Online. “There is so much sexual energy suggested. The movies and plays based on novel once again suggested all of that. But this play really plays into the sex of it; the game of it and the manipulation — all of the ways that sex can be used, even as a weapon.” The sheer amount of open sexuality in the play made casting difficult, a Queen City Theatre founder and “Dangerous” Cast of Queen City Theatre Company’s production of ‘Dangerous.’ Photo Credit: QCTC actor Kristian Wedolowski said. “Glenn was very clear in the auditions as to what the show would be about,” he said. “Some people did audition and did get cast and got our phone call and had to turn it down. Either they were gay and their partners wouldn’t allow them to do such a show on stage and others were see Seven on 27 www.q-notes.com/qliving • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Southern charm dots Carolinas from page 17 walk-in laundry rooms, wireless security capability, hardwood floors and built-in, stainless steel appliances. info: www.hueraleigh.com Winston-Salem Once home to banking giant Wachovia, the City of Winston-Salem offers downtown living with a sense of small town charm. With a population of a little over 200,000, Winston’s downtown is an eclectic mix of when those hot and sultry summer afternoons come our way. But don’t expect One Park Vista to be as affordable-sounding as the Nissen. One Park is solely a condominium community, with prices in the half-million dollar range or higher. Sounds pricey, but some folks must like it — only 19 units haven’t sold. info: oneparkvistawinstonsalem.org . nissenapartments.com Greenville, SC Interior view of a Nissen apartment. If living downtown in a larger city has you squirming, don’t give up hope. The town of Greenville in Upstate South Carolina has a beautiful, charming downtown area full of life, food, nighttime fun and more in a sleepy Southern town size. Greenville, population 57,000 or so, sits in the county of the same name — although the population numbers sound small, we’re sure you’ll find plenty of colorful gay folk among the half-million or so people living outside the city limits. Greensboro Like its nearby sister city of Winstonoffices, cool and relaxing nightlife, a vibrant Salem, the City of Greensboro offers an arts scene and the historic Old Salem. exciting but quaint downtown complete Two prime properties sit squarely in the with great food and nightlife. Affordable middle of all the action — the Nissen downtown apartment residences make Building Apartments and the new, almost downtown living realistic for young professold out One Park Vista. sionals. Originally built in 1927 as an office The Elms Apartments, a restored turn of building, the Nissen has been a symbol of the century hotel conversion, sits in the Winston-Salem’s strong business legacy. In old historic district of Greensboro, above the late 1990s and early 2000s, plans to renovate the building for resiA rendering of the completed dential use finally went into One Park Vista, with the taller, construction phase. Although older Nissen Building in the condos were the developer’s background. original plan, the building is now home to over 140 high rise apartments, with rent for a one bedroom starting at $795. Two bedroom apartments run for $1165-$1700. Amenities, like a workout room and rooftop pool with rentable pexnthouse party space, seals the deal. Next to the Nissen is the new development One Park Table 16 restaurant. The Elm St. residences Vista. On its website, developers say they range from $675 to $1175 per month in wanted to create a sense of “Uptown style” price and 650 to 1,125 square feet in size. and “Downtown living” while keeping a Nearby dining and nightlife includes Natty flair for suburban life. Porches and decks Greene’s and M’Coul’s Public House. accompany many of the units giving them info: 336-272-0767 Q an open and airy feel that’ll be just right 18 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G The men of ‘Burn tory y pose. ‘Burn the Floor’ strike strike a preda predator Openly gay gay cast member Robin Windsor can be seen standing in the center of the group group.. Burnin’ up the stage High-energy dance show coming to Charlotte by David Stout . Q-Notes staff o doubt about it: America is captivated by dancing at the moment. The proof is all over TV — in the form of current reality hits “Dancing With The Stars,” “So You Think You Can Dance” and ”America’s Best Dance Crew” — and in theater houses nationwide — where productions like “Riverdance,” “Stomp” and “Tap Dogs” regularly play to sold-out audiences. In fact, at the time this piece was being prepared “Riverdance” had only days ago concluded a week-long run in Charlotte. Now, after just two weeks to catch our collective breath, another dancing smash is poised to open in the Queen City. This one, called “Burn the Floor,” has most recently been thrilling audiences at San Francisco’s Post Street Theatre with its edgy, rebellious take on Ballroom and Latin dancing. The movement in “Burn the Floor” is a high-voltage mix of Rumba, Cha-Cha, Samba, Salsa, Waltz, Tango, Quickstep, Swing and Jive. A cast of 16 award-winning dancers — including Australian Ballroom dance champions and World Latin American champions — has been assembled from around the globe to bring the show’s set pieces to pulse-pounding life. The production is rounded out with two percussionists and two vocalists who perform live during various numbers. The idea for “Burn the Floor” grew from a display of Ballroom and Latin dance the show’s Australian-born creator Harley N Medcalf experienced at Sir Elton John’s 50th birthday gala in London in 1997. He eventually partnered with former World Champion Latin and Ballroom dancers Peta Roby and Jason Gilkison to produce the project. Gilkison, the show’s artistic director, is also its choreographer — a position he likewise held on “So You Think You Can Dance” last season and on the NBC series “Superstars of Dance,” which aired earlier this winter. He told dance legend Rita Moreno backstage after the San Francisco premiere of “Burn the Floor” that he had the cast watch her work in the film “West Side Story” to see “perfection.” The icon returned the compliment in a gush of superlatives, Leah Garchik reported in the San Francisco Chronicle: “She dropped to her knees to kowtow to them, keeping up a stream of praise: ‘You’re astonishing’; ‘You’re amazing’; ‘Who wants a kiss?’; ‘You’re going to run forever, if you live’ (the routines are strenuous, to put it mildly); ‘How wonderful you are’; ‘Bravo, bravo.’” Audiences in Charlotte can judge for themselves when “Burn the Floor” swings into the Blumenthal Performing Arts Center March 24 with shows scheduled through March 29. For more information, see the display ad in this issue or visit www.burnthe floor.com. To purchase tickets, call the BPAC box office at 704-372-1000. Q MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 19 Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Drag Rag by Miss Della . Contributing Writer From blizzards and beyond — it’s way too fun! Oh kids, time draweth nigh and my column is due once again. My, my, my — what shall we discuss this time? A pageant in a blizzard? Rescuing Coco Couture’s and her friend’s things from a car with no keys? (Thank goodness I bought this year’s membership with AAA after all). One never knows what will be encountered in the wonderful world of pageantry, right? And, speaking of Asheville queens, hats off this time to my Cherokee sis Vivica Dupree who won all categories at Miss Asheville Sweetheart. Her runners-up were Manhattan and Giselle St. James (Jacqueline’s daughter, who was there to support and dance for dear daughter).Another Sweetheart contest was recently held at Warehouse 29. Cherries Jubilee won Talent and the crown. Her RUs included Sassi Stevenz (who won Creative Presentation), Felicity Brylette (winning Creative Evening Gown) and Vanessa Cottrell. Shame on me for not mentioning that there was a screening of “Pageant”in Atlanta not long ago at the Plaza Theatre with Bubba D. Licious and the Lady Bunny hosting. Sure wish it would come to the Queen City! One star of the movie,Victoria Parker, was recently on L.A. Talk Radio talking about the movie and “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” I’m sure that was a holler! In national pageantry prelim news,congrats are going out to Jodie Santana who recently won Miss Missouri Continental Elite.Trinity Taylor of Birmingham,AL just won Great Lakes EOY and was crowned by the national titleholder,Nina West (last year’s winner of the same prelim). Hats off to Michigan’s Natalie Cole who was recently crowned the newest Miss Unlimited in Hickory.Her RUs were Alexis Nicole Whitney and our Miss NC,Quindyn “Q”Campbell. On the U.S.ofA.scene,we have aplenty to report on.Our Miss At Large,Tajma Hall,tells me that she and the other national titleholders had the red carpet rolled out for them recently in Las Vegas for the Sin City prelims.Royal treatment does not even begin to describe the things these ladies enjoyed,I’m told — private shows, VIP soirees and lovely seats to see the “real”Miss America pageant! Apparently,the promoter Stephan has all the right connections.Naomi St. James won with RU Alina Maletti.April Reign won the At Large with RU Alexis Nicole Whitney. Amber Nixx won the Classic.All kinds of lovely Texas girls in the mix.A big shoutout to my sis 20 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Victoria LePaige who just won Miss Arizona — this three-time former national title-holder has her eyes on another rhinestone prize.Get it,girl! Kudos also go out to the new Miss AL Tiffany Rachels,Miss FL Natasha Braxton with RUs Dorae Saunders and Josephine (O’Hara) Andrews,Miss NJ Sahara Davenport and Miss OK Mya Mokha Iman. And, let us not forget the Mother Nature’s nightmare that was Miss NC! It started out with interviews at the host hotel and a great show at Scorpio that night, featuring formers Tiffany Bonet (celebrating her 10th anniversary), Jessica Jade,Versage, plus Miss NC U.S.ofA.At Large Eden Parque Divine (my first time seeing this lovely queen) and the outgoing Miss NC, Cierra Nichole. Then Kara Young-Ross flew in, her bags were delayed and it just all kinda went downhill from there for a little while. There were rumors of postponing the pageant, but a few dedicated folks pulled it off minus a few contestants and most everyone else but the diehards (including myself). Brooke Divine won Interview with a perfect score and Talent (and the crown, too, obviously) and Raven Wood won Gown and was named 1st RU. Other contestants included 2nd RU Cheetah Shaw and Briana Love. Everyone involved that evening deserves a big thank you and a pat on the back for taking part, even Alana D. Steele and her gang from Indy who participated when folks from just right around the corner were complaining and criticizing. This is show business, folks, and the show must go on! And, speaking of Tiffany Bonet, she told me the Sweethearts of XTC show at Warehouse 29 (that I missed at the last minute) was fantastic. Paris LeBon emceed. The place was packed by 10:30 pm. I’m told in the audience that one could spy former NC legends of the stage like Sammera Stevens, Candace Corday and Tiffany Wellington.Wow — sorry I did miss it! Let’s make a trip to the gorgeous NC mountains for the U.S.ofA. pageants in Asheville at Scandals, featuring all the national titleholders including Kara Young-Ross, Tajma Hall, Shae Shae LaReese, plus our fierce Mr. U.S.ofA. Ram Crawford, Miss Texas Leyla Edwards O’Hara (my little baby), plus Regine Phillips, Coco Couture, the hott Wendy Williams, and more. Road trip! Q info: Drop me a line, OK? . The [email protected] Not for Reproduction MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 21 Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G House of Mercy AIDS walk set for April 4 16th annual event welcomes walkers of all ages by Matt Comer . Q-Notes staff BELMONT, N.C. — Spring is coming back — everyone knows what that means.As the days get longer and warmer, non-profit groups are organizing fundraisers and other activities to raise awareness and cash. The House of Mercy, a non-profit residence for lowincome persons living with advanced stages of AIDS, will be among the first groups to roll out fundraising events this spring. On April 4, the group will present its 16th Annual Walk for AIDS. Founded by the Sisters of Mercy, the House of Mercy has been providing housing and compassionate, 24-hour care for low-income AIDS patients since 1991. The group has served over 250 men and women since their beginning. The Walk for AIDS begins at 9:30 a.m. on Saturday,April 4 on the Sisters of Mercy campus in Belmont. Throughout the day, several groups and performers will take the stage to entertain during the walk and picnic reception afterward. Entertainers include the Belmont Steel Drum Band and Audioform, an acid-jazz funk collective that originated in Charlotte.Audioform is known for its multicultural attempt to fuse jazz, funk, and soul into a sound that is augmented by a big horn section and a groove-oriented rhythm section. The band consists of Tony McCullough (alto saxophone), Joey Rayfield (trombone), Travis Calvert (Saxophone),Audi Jones (drums), Joe Smalls (bass) Keith Whatley (guitar), Antonio Diaz (percussion) and Johnathon Ayala (keys). This year’s honorary chair is Maureen O’Boyle, a graduate of West Charlotte High School. O’Boyle anchored for “A Current Affair” and the entertainment news magazine show “EXTRA” before moving back to Charlotte to anchor for WBTV News. This year’s event is sponsored by Tibotec Therapeutics, Firefold,WSGE 91 and Q-Notes. Corporate friends of the event include Environmental Diversified Services, Lucas Concrete Products, Merck & Company, The Woodshed Lounge, and Tony’s Ice Cream Company. For more information about the event or to make a donation, visit www.thehouseof mercy.org or call 704-825-4711, ext. 3. Q aspeakout b Send your letter to the editor or any other thoughts to [email protected] or click on over to our website at www.q-notes.com and join the conversation there. Web comments will be featured in each issue. Limit letters to the editor to 150 words or less and include your name, city and state and a phone number where you can be reached. 22 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G General Gayety by Leslie Robinson Contributing Writer A rocky time in the Rockies State senators in Utah and Colorado delivered hugely homophobic rants lately. It seems this country is suffering an outbreak of Rocky Mountain spotted fervor. In the Utah case, Sen. Chris Buttars (R-West Jordan) sat down with a documentary filmmaker to discuss the involvement of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in California’s Proposition 8 battle. Buttars said gay activists are “probably the greatest threat to America going down.” Not the frightening economy, not the two wars America’s fighting, not the health care mess. The greatest threat to America is Americans demanding equality. The truth is out. Time for me to admit this gay activist is doing her part to bring America down: I’ve signed up to bring a town in Idaho, a subdivision in Michigan and a mall in Florida to their knees. Buttars also said,“What is the morals of a gay person? You can’t answer that, because anything goes.” Yes indeed. Today I managed to lie, embezzle, assault and commit arson.All before lunch. The state senator compared gay activists to Islamic radicals.“Muslims are good people and their religion is anti-war. But, it’s been taken over by the radical side.And, the gays are totally taken over by the radical side.” While I’ve never known a gay activist who wanted to blow up planes, I could suggest the idea at the next meeting. Maybe we could talk some eager young twink into it. Promise him that in the next life — to which we are rushing him — he’ll be rewarded with an entire troop of Chippendales dancers. After a Salt Lake City TV station aired Buttars’ comments, people inside and outside the state called for him to resign. Fat chance. He has refused even to issue an apology. The Utah Senate president, a fellow Republican, removed Buttars as chair of a judicial committee — to keep him from being a distraction, not to punish him. Buttars’ colleagues agree with much of what he said. One senator noted Buttars’ language was “immoderate,” adding,“I don’t believe that all gays have no morals whatsoever.” Oh. Goody. Over in Denver, Colorado State Sen. Scott Renfroe (RGreeley) morphed into a preacher during debate on a bill extending health benefits to partners of gay state employees. In a six-minute speech, Renfroe called homosexuality an “abomination” and an “offense to God.” He quoted several Bible verses, including that pip from Leviticus that says men who sleep together shall be killed. He pinched a page from the playbook of Sen. Buttars in the neighboring state, comparing gays not to terrorists, but to something similar. “I’m not saying this (homosexuality) is the only sin that’s out there,” he explained.“We have murder.We have all sorts of sin.We have adultery.And, we don’t make laws making those legal.And, we would never think to make murder legal.” So, homosexuality and murder are on a par.With apologies to John Denver, I’m experiencing a Colorado Rocky Mountain low. After the appropriate uproar, Renfroe told the press he didn’t mean to suggest that homosexuality and murder were the same. He also said he doesn’t advocate punishing gay people. However,he still holds that all sin,including homosexuality, offends God and the state shouldn’t enact laws condoning any of them.There goes that law allowing counterfeiting I had in mind. Just when these two state senators have cast a pall over the region, an antidote arrives. Roger Carrier, a straight, retired teacher from Salt Lake, was disgusted by the comments of Sen. Buttars. To combat what he feels is growing homophobia among Utah politicians, he’s proposed placing a statue of Harvey Milk at the Utah Capitol. It’ll never happen. But, Carrier showed a happier attitude in the high altitude. Q info: [email protected] . www.GeneralGayety.com MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 23 Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Tell Trinity by Trinity . Contributing Writer However, sweetie, if you’re talking about over spending your ex’s credit cards, withholding sex from your spouse or completely avoiding someone who did you wrong, well, then that’s not only good revenge, that’s just good ole common sense. Hello Trinity, I’ve been working on my art for years without success. I know dreams take time and hard work, but I’m thinking of quitting. Is it weak to give up on a dream for something more financially practical? All Dreamed Out, Richmond, Va. Hello All Dreamed Out, Altering your dreams and how you go after them is for the intelligent and strong. Giving up is for everyone else. If you try and try and still nothing happens, then take some healthy time off before, yes, trying it again differently. Honey, one alternative is to dream part-time while working part-time at a financially rewarding job or on getting a trade degree like hairdressing or construction. Then, use that income as a reinvestment for your dreams.With a practical “fall back” you can “get back” to your dreams even better than before. For inspiration, study the histories of Lincoln, Edison and others When is revenge wrong or just good ole common sense? Hey Trinity, Is revenge really so wrong? The Revenger, Daytona Beach, Fla. Hey Revenger, You mean as in retaliation or vengeance? To steal from, destroy or put a mafia hit on someone or make someone’s life worse than death by filing an unethical public lawsuit? Well, if you’re talking about that, then, yes, revenge is wrong and why waste your time. 24 (like myself) who never gave up, but just altered the dream constantly! (The cartoon shows you the many faces of those who did not give up!) Dearest Trinity, My last date complained that I needed to learn better boundaries. How pretentious is that? Bewildered Boundaries, Indianapolis, Ind. Dearest BB, Whether it was pretentious or not, I can’t help but think that as society spends more time alone, on the internet or sitting effortlessly watching hours of cable, the more setting boundaries is becoming a lost art. Some people have too many and some not enough. No matter what, pumpkin, it’s always good and healthy to keep checking in with yourself, your behaviors and your good or bad boundaries. Dear Trinity, I threw a party but everything went wrong. It was my first attempt at party throwing and it will definitely be a while until my next one. Any tips for hosting? Party Doubts, Louisville, Ky. Dear Party Doubts, Not only have I written “Trinity’s Uptown Tips For Hosting A Party,” but, baby, I also wrote: Trinity’s 11 Hats For Hosting A Party 1. The Organizer forecasts the event, hires help and invites everyone via phone, email and/or snail mail. 2. The Purchasing Agent decides what to buy, MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction where to buy it and when to buy it, like ice, just before the party. 3. The Head Chef plans the menu and oversees the cooking, the food the presentation and the table layout. 4. The Cook just cooks (and lets the chef worry). 5. The Decorator arranges the furniture, the lighting, the candles, the decorations and makes sure it all Feng Shuis (flows). 6. The Cleaning Person makes it all shine especially the bathrooms and the common areas. 7. The DJ (disc jockey) is in charge of the most important thing…ambiance with constant pre-, during and post-event music. 8. The Server continually presents food, rearranges half empty platters and passes out hors d’oeuvres (which is a must). 9. The Host greets, takes coats, points out the bar and helps the guests meet each other (so that the host can get back to work). 10. The Tidy-upper constantly spruces up, cleans up and never worries about picking up someone’s drink (because everyone has labeled or different cups). 11. The Post-event Breakdown Person raps up and puts it all away (and never breaks a thing). Q — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity was host of “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama, and now performs globally. info: www.telltrinity.com . [email protected] Tell Trinity, P.O. Box 23861 . Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33307 Sponsored by: Provincetown Business Guild 800-637-8696 . www.ptown.org Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Out in the Stars by Charlene Lichtenstein March 21-April 3 Make room for energetic Mars as it pushes its way through Pisces. There is nothing as powerful as an idea whose time has come. Hurry up and move on it before it goes. ARIES (03.21-04.20) Gay Rams have a way of unearthing the truth even when it’s deeply buried and practically invisible. There is no reason to accept anything at face value now since much of what is left unsaid is much more useful to you than what is exposed. Be strategic, calm, evasive and look under the surface for clues. There is plenty of time to manipulate them to your liking later. TAURUS(04.21-05.21) Your life, in general, revs to a roar. Queer Bulls with a yen for company will find it in droves. Place yourself where it will do you the most good in the long term. There is a lot that you need to accomplish on a personal level over the next year or so and the connections you make now will decide whether that road is slick, gravelly or smooth. Hob nob from the top down. GEMINI(05.22-06.21) You may become too,too much in your quest for advancement. Pink Twins need to feel appreciated and recognized for their considerable efforts, but how much can you ask of bosses now? If you are seeking employment, this is the time to try something unexpected that will heighten your profile and get yourself noticed…but wearing a cellophane suit is not that thing. CANCER (06.22-07.23) Brush up on your various skill sets, gay Crab. Higher education and other forms of study — both formal and informal — prove to be more valuable than you initially think. Your inquisitive mind needs nourishment beyond the occasional cable program. So, carve out . Contributing Writer the time and ramp up the effort. Can an old dog learn new tricks? Only if they cruise the right bars. LEO (07.24-08.23) Get ready for tax season, proud Lion. Despite your best efforts to put off the inevitable, it is time to turn to fiscally prudent and accurate analysis of your state of affairs.Survey the potential damage with a good advisor. But, all is not doom and gloom. Expect a zetz in your love life. It is the spice you need to keep things interesting and passionate. Be flexible and very pliable. VIRGO (08.24-09.23) Open enemies are no match for you. Queer Virgins can be diplomatic or aggressive and see success in whatever option they choose.Mold relationships more to your liking and needs, but try to appear to be fair. For those seeking new liaisons, rely on your gut feelings as you scan the playing field. Displaying too much gut though is not recommended. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) Maybe it is time for a pet or a workout. Or, maybe a workout with a pet. Proud Libras are too stressed out. Anything that gets you to rest, relax and recharge has multiple benefits. Clean out your in box and push more into your out box. You find alternative ways to clear and unload clutter. Use the time to tone and buff your bod instead of just lifting the occasional paper weight. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) There are no straight lines to success. Linear thinking will get you nowhere and actually take you far off the mark. Use your ample imagination and creativity to chart your course over the next couple of years. Queer Scorps are often very intense. Now, put that passion to work on your own agenda. If that means throwing a not-to-be-missed basheroo, so be it. SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) Gay Archers are not stay-at-home types,but consider giving it a try. Find creative ways to enhance your surroundings and make them more stimulating and enjoyable. One great way is to plan the perfect get-together with the usual unusual crowd that will have them talking for weeks.Well,even a couple of days is better than average. CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) Pink Caps are expected to always be logical and exact. However, your actions do not always match your words. While you think you can spread your oil and slide by, your grease could begin to fry and burn. If you find yourself criticized for saying one thing and doing another, just tell the confused crowd that you are running for political office. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) If money has been tight, this time period will either help you invest more wisely or cajole you into unnecessary spend- ing. But, is it something that you want to risk right now, Aqueerius? Take care in any situation that requires a monetary outlay of any kind. Perhaps it is better to err on the side of thrift and cheapness. But, don’t worry, this too shall soon pass. PISCES(02.20-03.20) Recently,you had exciting thoughts and now you can match these thoughts with successful action. There is something energizing about you. Begin new projects, get yourself in front of important, meaningful projects. You make strong advances that set the stage for future success. Don’t wait for the world to rouse you. If you snooze, you will oversleep and lose. Q © 2008 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit www.TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites. MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 25 Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Out and About . compiled by Q-Notes staff Events and happenings across the Carolinas Main, 335 Main Ave. 8 p.m.-12 a.m. 828-322-1447, ext. 224. www.alfainfo.org. Mar. 24 • Raleigh Day of Action Join EqualityNC and its supporters for their annual Lobby Day at the N.C. Legislature. Talk to your state senators and representatives about the issues and legislation that matter to you and your community. N.C. Legislative Building, 16 W. Jones St. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. www.equalitync.org. Apr. 2-5 • Charlotte Film Festival Mar. 26-28 • Asheville The Lesbian & Gay Community Center of Charlotte has rescheduled the Film Festival, previously planned for the end of January.Apr. 2, opening night gala; Apr. 3, audience votes on favorite features and shorts; Apr. 4, awards ceremony. gaycharlottefilmfestival.com. John Cameron Mitchell Apr. 3-5 • Chapel Hill The University of North Carolina-Asheville presents its 2009 GLBTQ Conference with a slate of panels and keynote speakers including director of John Cameron Mitchell (“Shortbus,” “Hedwig and the Angry Itch”). Mitchell will speak at a Q&A session following a screening of “Hedwig” on Mar. 26 in the Humanities Lecture Hall. For more information on conference registration and single event passes, visit www.unca.edu/queer/. Unity Conference Mar. 27-29 • Winston-Salem The House of Mercy will present its 16th Annual Walk for AIDS. For more information about how to participate, help fundraise or attend the walk, visit www.thehouseofmercy.org. ‘Hedwig’ Students from the University of North Carolina School of the Arts present a performance of “Hedwig and the Angry Inch.” This punk rock, hard rock, glam rock musical written by John Cameron Mitchell (“Shortbus”) will have you jumping and dancing with excitement. Shows are 8 p.m. Mar. 27-28 (18 and up), 11 p.m. Mar. 27-28 (21 and up) and 7 p.m. Mar. 29 (18 and up). The Garage, 110 W. 7th St. $10 general/$7 students. Mar. 28 • Greensboro Peace & Justice concert The Peace & Justice Network presents its first annual Concert for Peace, Justice and Sustainability, to benefit the network in support of community efforts and organizations working to promote peace and justice. The concert will feature Grammy-nominated performing artist Eliza Gikyson, with introductory remarks from noted author Robert Jenson. Church of the Covenant, 501 S. Mendenhall. 7 p.m. $20 admission available through Deep Roots Market or via [email protected]. Mar. 29 • Charlotte Carolina gay softball The Carolina Gay Softball Alliance will host a clinic and sign-up for new players at Veterans Park in the Plaza-Midwood neighborhood. Interested new players should bring a glove,“feel sporty” and be ready to start the clinic by 3 p.m. If joining the team, league fee is $40, cash only. For more information, call Ron Tessneer at 704-287-9637 or visit www.myspace.com/carolinasoftballalliance. Exploring topics and issues of gender and sexuality in the South, the University of North Carolina GLBTSA presents its 2009 Southeastern Regional Unity Conference, an annual gathering of progressive LGBT youth and their allies. Registration is open and available online through www.unityconference.webs.com. Apr. 4 • Belmont Walk for AIDS Apr. 5 • Charlotte Carolina gay softball The Carolina Gay Softball Alliance will host a clinic and sign-up for new players at Veterans Park in the Plaza-Midwood neighborhood. Interested new players should bring a glove,“feel sporty” and be ready to start the clinic by 3 p.m. If joining the team, league fee is $40, cash only. For more information, call Ron Tessneer at 704-287-9637 or visit www.myspace.com/carolinasoftballalliance. Apr. 11 • Charleston ‘Crisis’ signing Join Sean’s Last Wish and Faith in America for a fundraiser and book signing of “Crisis: 40 Stories Revealing the Personal, Social, and Religious Pain and Trauma of Growing up Gay in America.” Mitchell Gold, editor, will be there with other contributors from South Carolina to sign copies of the book. Copies of “Crisis” will be available for purchase. Proceeds benefit non-profits supporting LGBT teenagers, including The Trevor Project Helpline, GLSEN, PFLAG, Point Foundation,Ali Forney Center and Sylvia’s Place Homeless Youth Shelter.Waldenbooks/Borders Books, 120 Market St. #C-116. 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Free. www.crisisbook.org. www.seanslastwish.org. Apr. 15-May 2 • Charlotte ‘Southern Rapture’ Join the SC Pride Movement for an evening of bowling, socializing and fun. $15 gets you shoe rental and two games. Bar and food available at the bowling alley.AMF Bowling Lanes at Parkland Plaza, 900 Axtell Dr., Cayce, SC. 7 p.m.-10:30 p.m. www.scpride.org. Take a trip back in time with the Actors’ Theatre of Charlotte to when the Queen City was coming of age in the heart of the culture wars of the 1990s. “Southern Rapture” is a sidesplitting, fictionalized farce based on the defining battle between the city’s artists, politicians, pastors and innocent bystanders over a local production of “Angels in America.” 650 E. Stonewall St. Various times. Various prices. 704-342-2251. www.actorstheatrecharlotte.org. Apr. 2 • Hickory Apr. 18 • Greensboro Dining for Friends Thicke & Hudson A celebration to benefit ALFA, the only HIV/AIDS service organization serving Alexander,Alleghany, Ashe, Burke, Caldwell, Catawba,Watauga and Wilkes counties. Dining For Friends (DFF) is as simple as having dinner with friends. Invite friends to your home for dinner, and guests “pay” for their dinner with a donation to ALFA.Afterward, join ALFA supporters at their Dining for Friends Finale. Market on Grammy winning, platinum superstar and recording artist Robin Thicke and Grammy and Academy Award winner Jennifer Hudson will bring their multi-city coheadlining tour to the Greensboro Coliseam Complex’s Special Events Center, 1921 W. Lee St. 8 p.m. www.ticketmaster.com. Q Apr. 2 • Columbia Bowling with SC Pride info: Announce your community event in Out & About. email: [email protected]. Submit your events at Q-Notes Online! You can now easily submit all your events at Q-Notes Online. Surf over to www.q-notes.com/out-and-about/submit/ and complete the form. Click the submit button and our staff will receive your event. It is that easy! Bookmark it in your browser! www.q-notes.com/out-and-about/submit/ 26 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction Not for Reproduction Q - L I V I N G Seven guys get ‘dangerous’ from page 17 straight and weren’t comfortable with this type of play.” Two straight actors were eventually cast, playing the two young lovers in the tale. “There’s still a taboo of ‘Oh, I’m straight. I don’t want to do a gay play,” Griffin said, letting his pride show for the two straight actors who’ve said they’re committed to playing the roles. The production isn’t for the faint of heart. Wedolowski and Griffin expect the show to be a hit, but certainly not one that’ll keep their company afloat. They’ve relied on more subdued productions to see Duke Energy Theatre, 345 N. College St., them through the current economic mess Charlotte, from April 2 through April 18. and allow them to present challenging and For more information and for tickets, visit. rare works like “Dangerous.” www.queencitytheatre.com or call 704“There was a moment in October that 372-1000. Q we were really depressed, to the point of ‘Like, what are we going to do?’’ Wedolowski said. “The election, the economic crisis, the gas crisis — everyOnline Exclusive thing together — since then we have Listen to the full audio conversation with been optimistic and it is growing. A lot Queen City Theatre founders, Director Glenn of people have begun to see theater Griffin and actor Kristian Wedolowski at Q-Notes again as a way to get out of their Online. www.q-notes.com/multimedia/. problems, to get out of their houses.” “Dangerous” will be presented at Support the companies and organizations that rally for you! They’re here in Q-Notes. To advertise, call 704.531.9988 or email [email protected]. only online • ‘Dangerous’ liaisons special online exqlusive audio interview with Director Glenn Griffin and actor Kristian Wedolowski at Q-Notes’ Multimedia section • EarthTalk: saving the polar bear • Money Matters: portfolio strategies more at q-notes.com! MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction 27 Not for Reproduction 28 MARCH 21 . 2009 • QNotes Not for Reproduction