Oakland, CA August 20-22, 2010
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Oakland, CA August 20-22, 2010
Oakland, CA August 20-22, 2010 brought to you by the Femme Collective Welcome to Femme2010: No Restrictions! On behalf of our Steering Committee and the entire Femme Collective, we are so excited to share space with all you fierce, amazing, fantastic Femmes and allies! We hope this will be a conference where we break through restrictions – both those put on us and those we put on ourselves – so we can begin to look at how we can re/build our community and lives in more empowering and connected ways. We have put our best selves into creating this space, and – although we know it won’t be perfect – we hope that you experience it as the community-building and Femme-affirming space we have intended to make. Our Steering Committee is made up of Femmes working to build intentional space for and with each other, both in commonality and across our differences. We are of different races, classes, ethnicities, sexualities, sizes, and backgrounds. We’re from different regions in the U.S., live and work in different communities, and understand our genders and identities in different ways. We’re Femmes of Color, Feminist Femmes, High Femmes, Black Femmes, Tomboy Femmes, Diesel Femmes, Latina/Chicana Femmes, Femme Artists, Stone Femmes, Asian Femmes, Lesbian Femmes, Femme Parents, Academic Femmes, Working Class Femmes, Femme Tops, Bottoms, Switches and more. We’re Queer Femmes who want to create a space to talk about, learn about, think about, and explore Queer Femme as identity, gender, construction, experience, and way of being both intentionally in our personal lives and explicitly in our work/activist lives. We’ve worked hard to lay the groundwork for what we hope will be an exciting, challenging, and amazing conference. Our organizing structure is interconnected and mutually accountable, and we have a democratic-consensus process for making our decisions. We have worked with intention to create a space that is inclusive and welcoming. We understand that the term “Queer Femme” includes many different identities, genders, bodies, sexualities, etc. We explicitly include bi folks, trans folks, and genderqueer folks who identify as Femme in “Queer Femme”. While you do not have to identify as “Queer Femme” to participate, present, or attend, we do ask that folks who identify as straight honor the fact that we’re invested in creating a space that’s explicitly Queer/LGBT/SGL focused. 2 • Femme2010 FEMME COLLECTIVE MISSION STATEMENT create a safe place for open dialogue among a plethora of Femme-identified persons and their allies. The Femme Collective is committed to creating conferences by Femmes, about Femmes, and for Femmes and their allies. We understand that Femme is more complex than just being a queer person who is feminine; it is a part of how we interact with and shape our world as queer academics, activists, artists, homemakers, parents, professionals, students, teachers, etc. We are dedicated to: creating a Femme-positive environment; selecting programming to honor differences in ethnicities, physical abilities and gender expressions; and highlighting the intersection of queer Femme identity with issues of race, class, age, and body. We hope that together we can create a space to explore many of the complexities of Femme identity, including (but not limited to) questions of privilege, invisibility, intersecting identities, class mobility, aging, and the differences between femininity and Femme identity. We hope to contribute to giving voice to queer Femme identity, and to building unity, coalition, and solidarity in and among genderqueer communities. Our conferences seek to explore, discuss, dissect, and support Queer Femme* as a transgressive, gender-queer, stand-alone, and empowered identity and provide a space for organizing and activism within Queer communities. We hope to attract people of all genders who are interested in a deeper understanding of Femme identity, culture, and history as well as Femmes interested in learning, teaching, connecting, and building community geared towards social change. Recognizing that queer Femme gender can be constructed independent of and/or intimately connected to biological sex, this conference will build coalition among queer Femmes of every stripe. Taking into consideration the various ways in which Femmes across the country and the world construct Femme based on region, class, race, ethnicity, access and ability, the Femme Collective will strive to *We recognize that for many lesbians and same-gender-loving Femmes ‘queer’ is not a term that works and that it can often feel alienating and unwelcoming. We want to recognize that language is always imperfect, and make it clear that we use the term as an umbrella to include all of us who identify as Femme within LGBTQIA/SGL and genderphile communities. We are using this term to specifically and intentionally include lesbians and same-gender-loving women as well as genderqueers, transwomen, and folks of every sex and gender who identify as Femme and see themselves as part of LGBTQIA/SGL and genderphile communities. INDEX Femme Collective Steering & Committee Bios .....p 4–7 Check our Workshop Descriptions page for an in-depth look at the diverse ways our communities approach talking about Femme. In addition to workshops and presentations, our Accessibility and Awareness Committee has created a whole series of caucuses during lunch on Saturday. We encourage you to look those over and join in on the conversations. Our Performance Chairs have created two mind-blowing shows including talent from all over the United States, Canada, and even across the Atlantic! You can learn about these amazing folks on the Performance pages. And our Keynote Speakers are inspiring and exciting Femmes who we are thrilled to be showcase at Femme2010. Welcome! We can’t wait to be a part of the conversation with you, learn from you, and build community with you. Jessica Eve Humphrey & Christine De La Rosa, Conference Co-Chairs Logistics Accessibility & Awareness ...........................p 8–9 Childcare ..............................................................p 11 Maps ........................................................................p 24, 25 Art Show ..............................................................................p 12–13 Workshops Friday .....................................................................p 14–16 Saturday ...............................................................p 20–23 Sunday ....................................................................p 32–34 Performance Friday .....................................................................p 17–19 Saturday ...............................................................p 26–27 Keynote Speakers Kate Bornstien ..................................................p 22 Moki MacÍas ........................................................p 33 Film Festival .......................................................................p 28–31 Presenter & Performer Bios .......................................p36–45 Program design/layout by: Hadassah “D’Luxe” Hill heelsonwheelsdesign.com Program editing by: Cherry Poppins No Restrictions • 3 Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios STEERING COLLECTIVE 2010 Conference Co-Chair: Jessica Eve Humphrey is a peripatetic Femme who currently lives in Chicago on weekends, and travels around the country on assignment for the Labor Movement during the week. When she has Photo by Kina Williams the opportunity, Jessica is a radical homebody who likes to knit things, read things, cook things, and recharge her batteries with radical queer community. Fat, femme and fond of frosting, she thinks alliteration is sexy and slant rhyme is fantastic. Truly geeky, Jessica believes in working hard to make all our lives better, political activism that’s rooted in both ideals and pragmatism, multiissue/multi-identity feminism, and the bliss of perfectly-baked baked goods. Conference Co-Chair: Christine De La Rosa is a transplanted Tejana living the Bay Area who has been creating spaces for the LGBT community for over twelve years both online and in real life. One of the founding members of the Femme Collective, co-founder of Movement Productions which produces BLISS – An Oasis for Women of Color in the Desert, WETbar, Good Times, among other events, co-host of Real Talk with Kiki and Miz Chris on KPFA radio, founder of MizChris. com and the Yay! Area Events Newsletter and owner of Butch-Femme.com, Christine is committed to creating intentional space for Women of Color within a larger lesbian community context. Her passion is bringing together diverse groups of women to mix, mingle, talk, argue, engage, converse and generally bring about change through conferences, events, gatherings and salons where ideas are sparked and exchanged. She believes that through this dialogue, we can create change, together. You can also reach Christine at http://www.mizchris. com/. 4 • Femme2010 Performance Co-Chair: Currently celebrating 30 years as a tap dancer, Krista Smith aka Kentucky Fried Woman (KFW) has been performing in and producing queer cabaret shows since 2000. She was a member of the Disposable Boy Toys in Santa Photo by Amelia Mae Paradise Barbara, CA and founded the Queen Bees in Seattle, WA in 2002. Since residing in Oakland she has founded three performance groups, ButchBallet, ButchTap & Titland and has also performed and produced as a solo artist and with other Bay Area queer performance artists, including playing the part of Hermoine Granger in Hogwarts Express: The Musical. Since living in the San Francisco Bay Area she has produced many shows including the 2006 Femme Conference Saturday Evening Cabaret, the Wham! Tribute Show, Rally the Troupes IV and VI, Flabulous! & Flabulous Too: Fatter than Ever, and the once monthly Kentucky Fried Woman show. KFW also facilitates workshops around the US and Canada on the intersections of bodies and identities. She is one of the femmes featured in the book: Femmes of Power where her essay discusses the intersections of her fat, femme and queer identities. She has been on the steering committee of the FemmeCollective since 2005 and is thrilled to be on board for Femme2010: No Restrictions. Performance Co-Chair: The Lady Ms. Vagina Jenkins is more than “Atlanta’s Best Burlesque Dancer” as named by Creative Loafing magazine, she’s more than one of Go! Magazine’s “Top 100 Lesbians”, she’s more than SOVO’s magazine’s most creative “up and coming activist.” The Lady Ms. Vagina Jenkins is also a noted philanthropist. As the CEO and Founder of the “No Butch Left Behind” program she’s been housing (and bedding) impressionable young fellagirlies since 2003. Give until it hurts, that’s Vagina Jenkins’ motto. If you’d like to learn more about her efforts in your town, check www.VaginaJenkins.com for more details! Programming Chair: Dr. Kathe Young is a queer Femme feminist and one of the founding members of the Femme Collective. She is a Clinical Psychologist and owner of Affirming Alternatives Psychological Services, a practice that specializes in treating trauma and Chicago’s queer community. She can be found blogging about all things trauma related at Treating Trauma in Chicago. Her professional interests include trauma, EMDR and mindfulness. She is recently intrigued by the application of social media to mental health treatment and education. Her personal interests include processing things endlessly, hiking, feminism, vegetarian cooking and pugs. Registration Chair: Marisa A. Klages is a fat queer femme from NYC. She earned her PhD in 2007 from West Virginia Univeristy and specialized in medieval mysticism. Marisa teaches writing and literature at LaGuardia Community College in NYC. An avid cyclist, you can find her blog at Fat Grrl Rides. Logistics Chair: Jodi Bon Jodi (aka Joe D. Vice / Jodi Kansagor) was a member of DK PDX, Portland OR’s fagtastic drag troupe until early 2006 when the troupe disbanded. Since then she has focused on other projects, including receiving her MBA from Portland State University, co-founding Pants Off Productions, a radical queer event production company, and also co-founding The Untrained, I Dance Company. JBJ spends most of her time figuring out how to survive in the world without a full time job while also providing fun activities for her community. Jodi Bon Jodi loves expensive cosmetics, cheap beer and condescension. Allison Stelly) is a queer femme artist, per- Film Chair: Sarah Deragon is a San Francisco based glitter femme originally from Denver, Colorado. Sarah has a BA in Literature and an MA in Social and Cultural Anthropology and currently works for Frameline, the San Francisco Photo by Sophie Spinelle, Shameless International LGBT Film Festival. Sarah was the co-chair of queer women’s programming at the San Francisco LGBT Community Center for two years and won Volunteer of the Year for the city of San Francisco in 2008. One of her main focuses is taking the time to create space(s) for exploration around racism and white privilege to launch new anti-racist activism/practices. She occasionally works as a self-defense teacher and maintains a store on Etsy.com, where she sells her fabulous hair accessories. She loves to bake her infamous chocolate mayonnaise cupcakes, play with her pit bull mix, Pork Chop, and do yoga in the early morning hours. Transition Chair: Katie Spencer is a queer, feminist, fat, femme in her second go-round working with the femme collective. She has lived and loved in every midwestern state and loves a cold glass of pop and a good hot dish. Strongly invested in building femme community, she values femme friendship and processing feelings as well as long discussions about dismantling the white supremicist heteropatriarchy. She works as a sex and gender therapist by day and a strong proponent of glitter and great mascara by night. Her work as the transition coordinator for this year’s conference is focused on establishing the longevity of the conference itself and reaching out to the vast queer femme community to keep the femme collective going strong and continuing its fierce and fabulous traditions. Bios a superqueer bearded-lady hard femme, living in Minneapolis, Minnesota for 2 years and 2 months longer than she ever expected. For money, Jessica makes mochas and takes minutes. For love, Jessica dances, brunches, recruits volunqueers, tries to make change in systems and spaces with and for trans and queer young folks, and works on her collective process skills as a anti-Zionist Jew Quaker sex fiend. things). founder, performer, activist, inciter, creator, mediator, dreamer and soup maker, she has extensive experience in performance activism, public education and community organizing. her paid and unpaid work has focused largely on queer liberation, gender-based violence, reproductive justice, and the sex trade. Currently, jennifer spends her time reveling in her return to Chicago, the city that holds her heart: plotting future projects, educating kids about food sovereignty through organic gardening, and generally running amok. her likes include dismantling privilege & oppression, the lost truths of both/and, and locating the community and power in the space in-between. she also enjoys soft and stinky cheese, whiskey and dancing, although not necessarily all together or in that order. Art&Film Volunteer Co-Chair: Jessica Rosenberg is valles is sassy, classy and femme (among other fat femme living in Minneapolis, but with her roots firmly planted in the Garden State where she was born and raised. She is a fifth year Ph.D. candidate in gender studies focusing on feminist and queer theories and their intersections with new media, performance, and fat studies. When she’s not working on her dissertation research on the neo-burlesque movement, Jessica keeps busy as the editor of the forthcoming first fat, queer anthology, Spilling Over. In her spare time, she enjoys thinking of ways to merge her academic dreams with her activist heart, teaching butches how to slow dance, and attending cake decorating classes with Midwestern soccer moms. Events a Brooklyn-based queer femme, liberationist artist, writer, creative, and activist who performs as Axon D’Luxe. Her work focuses on celebrating extremes of femininity; Photo by Kristyn O’Reilley feminist / queer archiving and storytelling, and on building and skillsharing a new framework to both analyze and enjoy life from. D’Luxe is co-founder of New York’s Femme Family [femmefamily.com], a queer femme cultural community; she’s the co-creative director of the all-femme Hart Collective [hartcollective.com]; and she Art Directed the award-winning $pread Magazine [spreadmagazine.org] for three years. A repatriated expat by way of Toronto, DIY tech geek and communications designer [heelsonwheelsdesign. com], and working-class gone hustling-class high femme fatale, Damien loves rhinestones and anything dramatic on wheels. Download tracks, read stories and her how-to blog: www. axondluxe.com . Accessibility & Awareness Chair: jennifer Fundraising Chair: Jessica Giusti is a queer, Performance Media Co-Chair: Damien Hadassah Luxe is fat, femme feminist who works for reproductive rights in the non-profit industrial complex by day and inhabits the queer underbelly of Minneapolis by night. Workshops former, writer, and organizer. She just moved to the Bay Area from Austin, TX, where she spent 7 years Making Things Happen: producing a drag troupe, co-founding a radical queerPhoto credit: Beau Toxic leading squad, launching the Austin chapter of the Femme Mafia, building community, making zines, and organizing events (no doubt she’ll stay busy in the Bay, as well!). She crafts like it’s going out of style, journals obsessively, and leaves a trail of glitter in her wake. Volunteer Co-Chair: Becky Smith is a queer, Logistics Media Co-Chair: Cherry Poppins (aka No Restrictions • 5 Logistics Workshops Performance Events COMMITTEE MEMBERS 2010 Executive Committee: Mz. Amy Adams is a community activist and lover of women, trying to enhance the lives of women and family with love & positivity. With the mission of creating harmonious communities for women by women, she also finds love rockin the mic. She spits poems with ferocious diva attitude. Performing around the Bay Area and beyond for the past 7 years. SheSpeaks, Eclectic, Love Jones, Coochielicious, LIP, Butta, 2007 APIWTC 20th annual Lunar Banquet, Dorsey’s Locker, FRESH, Winner of 2008 Talent Show , 2009 SF Pride Women’s Stage, and has acted in the Fourth Annual DykeDrama Festival, Dangerous Curves: “The Femme Show” , and several other plays with the Lunasea Theater. Mz. Amy was also the organizer for the 2004 Oakland Poetry Slam, and for the 2006 Shespeaks fundraiser for Sistahs Steppin In Pride. 2008 organizer for the MO’ Butta Weekend, 2008 Volunteer Coordinator for the Soul of Pride Stage @SF Pride, 2008 Coordinator for the Butch-Femme Bash, 2009 Volunteer Coordinator for the SF Pride Women’s Stage. Performance: amanda harris (aka Lola Dean) is an activist-artistqueer-southernpoly-feministfrequently in one helluva pair of cowboy bootsfemme. she recently relocated to the bay (via brooklyn) but is always longing for her southern soil. amanda co-organizes community events, skillshares, and performance nights at her high femme fabulous house - the glitterhaus - with her wing-femme in crime, rachel schiff. an avid supporter of harm reduction and rural queer organizing, amanda believes in carrying our roots and telling our stories wherever we go. Performance: Celeste Chan aka Chan Dynasty is Photo: Amie LeeKing, www.handpickedlovlies.com 6 • Femme2010 a queer API multimedia artist, performer, activist, and arts organizer. She is inspired by drag queens, Chinese opera, radical queer people of color cabaret/burlesque, and new media. She has performed and screened her work at National Queer Arts Festival, Mangos with Chili shows, Queer Women of Color Film Fest, TrannyFest, SF in Exile, and other art venues. She’s also organized with Shifting Narratives film collective (2008-present), Homoagogo (2002), and she’s a proud Board Member of Community United Against Violence (cuav.org). Performance: Ms. Cherry Galette Born into a family of migrant music makers, Ms. Cherry Galette is a Moroccan and Chicana interdisciplinary movement artist fusing dance, burlesque, text, theater and more to create post-colonial fairy tales of modern resistance that celebrate queer desires, histories, survivals, migrations, and revolutions. Cherry has captivated, delighted, roused and stunned audiences as a solo artist in renowned, alternative, and underground theaters, festivals, cabarets, clubs, and varied stages across North America. She has danced and performed with some of the Bay Area’s most noted world dance ensembles including MaraReggae, The Hot Pink Feathers, and the legendary Shabnam. Cherry’s performance evokes elements of the cosmopolitan cabarets of the golden age of Middle Eastern dance, the legacy of movement passed down in women’s kitchens and salons, and the energy, joy, and enthusiasm of collective street dance. She has earned recognition for expanding the genre of burlesque to explore narratives of race, power, empire, and queer bodies in diaspora, and is known for presenting genre pushing work based in sultry, sacred, and profane fusions of traditional dance forms with story, burlesque and ultra-gay cabaret. Over the past 5 years, Cherry has produced and curated more than 60 productions for audiences across North America as both solo producer, and as Co-Director of Mangos With Chili. Performance: Pidgeon Von Tramp With the goal of making you laugh infused into every piece she creates, Pidgeon brings humor into everyday events brought to the stage. Of course she may also try to sneak in a little taboo and a smidge of thought provoking politics. Pidge currently produces quarterly shows with Pidgeon Coop Productions in Seattle. Art&Film Bios Programming: Sophie Spinelle is a high femme photographer and poet living and working in Brooklyn, New York. She is founder of Shameless Photography (www.shamelessphoto.com), a feminist pinup photography business that works to turn beauty standards upside down and reclaim stilettos, rhinestones, and crinolines for people of all colors, sizes, shapes, and abilities. She is an organizer for Femme Family NYC and an incorrigible troublemaker with Femme Menace Action Club. She is also a tree hugger, cake batter eater, linguistic anthropologist, shower opera singer, scrabble fiend, and really good friend. Programming: Aja Jones Aguirre is a born and raised San Francisco femme, feminist, wife and mother. When she’s not working as Senior Editor for Drink Me Magazine or volunteering for IMPACT Bay Area Self-Defense, Aja gives the world a cheeky peek into one lesbian’s closet at her style blog, Fit For A Femme, nominated for the prestigious Lezzy Award for two years running. She’s also deejayed at lesbian and queer parties like Catfight, Hot Pants and Shadowplay, including the popular Shadowplay stage at SF Pride. Some of her proudest moments include fighting violence against women with the Purple Berets, surviving natural childbirth with a healthy 8-lb. baby girl, a one-time appearance in Curve Magazine, an established non-fear of public speaking, and being legally wed to her dapper wife, Miriam. This is her first year as a member of the Femme Collective, and she hopes to be so inspired that the awkward standoff with her unfinished novel can at last come to an end(ing). Programming: Christina is a fabulous, fierce femme and feminist extraordinaire with a serious heart on for political action and community organization and an unmitigated desire for beautiful shoes. She currently lives in Oakland, California by way of Sacramento, CA; Pittsburgh, PA and Chicago, IL. In her downtime, Christina enjoys time with her amazing family, human and canine alike, and dancing like no one... and everyone... is watching. Events Art&Film Accessibility & Awareness: Kaytee Duskin is a queer femme living in Denver, CO, who grew up in Philly and spent some time in Grrrlington, VT. After co-facilitating the femme caucus at the University of Vermont’s Translating Identity Conference for the last two years, she hopes she’s ready for the big leagues of femme conferencing. Right now she’s working at an environmental education non-profit, crocheting fancy beer cozies, and listening to a lot of Kate Bush. Kaytee enjoys craftivism, farmers markets, books about labor unions, creme brulee, and playing the banjo. Bios Media: Haley Koch is a queer femme-inist performance artist and trouble maker whose current work could be described as a sparkly pastiche of anarchist politics, queer theory, stilettos, poetry, and queer archives. She believes in the power of femme magic and rage to destroy, create, and get shit done. If you want to exchange rants, lipstick smudges, or sordid plots, holler at her: haleykoch(at)gmail(dot)com. Performance Registration: Erin McDowell is a box office and special events manager who loves checking in hot girls ;) She is a life-long competitive track runner planning on competing in the Gay Games VIII in Cologne, Germany and reclaiming her title as ‘the world’s fastest lesbian.’ She is also a new bird on the Sac City Roller girls derby team and is working on her Master’s at SFSU in Recreation. This fierce femme is looking forward to working with all of you! Media: Meredith Fenton is a long-time Bay Area activist, performer and fairy princess. By day, she is the Director of Communication Strategy at the Ella Baker Center for Human Rights, where she leverages media, communications and Web 2.0 for economic and racial justice social change. She performs drag and burlesque under the names Starr 69 and Corky St. Flair and has been a part of such beloved groups as Hogwarts Express: the Musical, Titland, The Transformers, Burlesque-Esque, and Sparkle Motion. Meredith worked as the National Program Director of COLAGE for over 7 years, has years of experience organizing with radical Jews, and has appeared in media outlets from the New York Times to the Advocate. She is an avid reader, an aspiring urban gardener, and a lover of musicals, cheese, glitter and Muppets. Logistics: Aster Wolfe is a genderqueer mythical creature who could be found until recently in the home terrain of Portland, OR. Here you might have run across him laying down some smut for the Dirty Queer open mic at In Other Words. Or helping reinvent queer performance by strutting all matter of sexy and thought-provoking stuff on the Pants Off Productions stage, both solo as Billy Coyote and with Beefcake Burlesque. Aster has called queer, femme, trans, genderf***ing, worker’s-rightsrabble-rousing community home for a long time and is committed to the work of co-creating safe space and challenging ourselves and the world through performance, the written word and co-conspiring. Recently transplanted to Oakland, CA, Aster is nesting and making magic and is open to newly local conspirators and friends. Workshops Programming: Taueret Manu is a fatshion shopgrrl, activist, and artist. Her femme roots are in the elevated subway tracks, man-made jungle zoos, queer topless beaches, and gentrified piers of New York City. Her hands and heart Photo by Sophie Spinelle, Shameless are always full of sequins, trouble, and ferocity (tools, all of them). She loves the divine, pitbulls, friction, hibiscus juice, sexual currency, poetry, rioting, and her femmesisterfriends. She dislikes White Santa/ White Jesus/White Male God, the prison industrial complex, and the NYPD. She is also the co-editor of the radical fat style zine Glutton for Fatshion, an organizer with the Femme Family NYC, and a proud Femme Shark. Photo credit: Sophie Spinelle, Shameless Photograph Media: Bevin Branlandingham is the Host and Producer of FemmeCast: The Queer Fat Femme Podcast Guide to Life. She is a flamboyant femmecee, queer high femme, writer, drag king, burlesque and comedy performer. Photo by Sophie Spinelle, Shameless She is Co-Head Madam of the Femme Family, the New York Chapter of the Femme Mafia, and on the steering committee for the Fat and Queer conference. In 2008 Bevin received a Commendation from the Mayor of Jersey City for her work with the LGBT community. Her writing has been published in numerous periodicals and she has performed throughout North America. Her mission is to make the world a safe place for people to love themselves, regardless of their differences. Her website (including blog, calendar of events and workshops) is found at QueerFatFemme. Com. Photo credit: Sophie Spinelle, Shameless Photography Logistics Programming, Mixed Media Art Show Coordinator: Cassandra Falby (aka Brock Cocker) is a West IndianAmerican femme who has been ‘that way’ since the days of Underoos. Currently, she is a graduate student working toward her M.S. in Counseling with the goal of becoming a therapist. Cassandra is a member of The Art of Living Black (TAOLB), a collective of San Francisco Bay Area artists of African descent. For three years running, she has co-curated a satellite exhibit through TAOLB which is held annually at Mills College in Oakland, California. Her commitment to gender freedom and racial awareness includes her work as the Logistics Chair for Femme 2006, her participation in the Queer Women of Color Media Arts Project (QWOCMAP), and her love of performance. She is one of the founding members of the Femme Collective. Accessibility & Awareness: Dulce is a fierce Queer Xicana born in Mexico City and raised in East Los Angeles who has evolved from a high risk youth to an outspoken community activist and organizer. Blending her book smarts with her street smarts, she has passionately served underrepresented and undeserved communities since the age of 19, while never forgetting her roots. As a sexual health educator she advocates for selfempowerment though education that is fun, non-judgmental, and accessible to her audience regardless of their age, gender, sexual orientation, race or ability status. When not talking about sexual communication and consent you can find her at your nearest San Francisco dance floor... she’ll be the lady with the hot red lipstick and matching heels dancing Salsa! No Restrictions • 7 Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Session Tips & Guidelines Film: Jae Sevelius was born in a trailer park in Opelika, Alabama, was raised in Miami, Florida, and arrived in the Bay Area by way of Gainesville, St. Louis, and Eugene, Oregon. Jae has a PhD in Clinical Psychology and is currently an Assistant Professor of Medicine at University of California, San Francisco. During her clinical internship, Jae discovered she has a distaste for diagnosing people and opted instead to devote her life to research and advocacy for transgender health care. In 2007, she helped found the Center of Excellence for Transgender Health at UCSF (www.transhealth.ucsf.edu). As a genderqueer femme drag king, Jae often finds other people’s well-intentioned comments about her gender disorienting. As drag king Jay Walker, he enjoys excessive glitter, fagtastic choreography, well-packed hot pants, and inappropriate duets with his husbutch Delicio Del Toro. Fundraising: Alysia Angel is a feral mix of Scottish and Lakota Sioux and a native Texan. Alysia a fine whiskey sipper, a female jack tripper, a constellation catcher, a feminist, a lover, a logophile and a high femme living out of pink Samsonite suitcases. When not courting her San Francisco dreamboat, Karlyn Lotney aka Fairy Butch, she is writing on scraps of paper on her thigh in bathroom stalls, publishing and touring with a series of five chapbooks entitled “What I Do When You’re Not Looking”, facilitating body positive workshops and pretending to be a performer. If asked about where her favorite spot to rest, it would be on her knees. If asked what the most important part of living is, it would be for love. Alysia flags sham-ow on the left. http://alysiaangel.blogspot.com/ 8 • Femme2010 Fundraising, Childcare Coordinator : Lindsey Shively is a femme anarchist organizer in the East Bay. Recently she has been working with Midnight Special Legal Collective, Unsettling Minnesota, and Black Mesa Indigenous Support, and is excited to get back to her roots in queer organizing with the Femme Conference. She is passionate about building multi-generational radical communities, dismantling heteropatriarchy, and getting other white people to talk about colonization. When not busy smashing the state, Lindsey enjoys painting her toenails and dancing in her underwear to Dolly Parton songs. Fundraising: Lady Monster A Queen of the Fire Tassels and Satans Angel’s Own Protégé. Straight outta the mouth of Hell is – burlesque, fire tassels, go-go dancer, model, actress, writer, recording artist, event producer and radio disc jockey – plus-sized and passionate! Fundraising: Moonyean is a life-long lover of books. A California native, she is happy to be living there again after a 16year break in Arizona where she earned an English degree and owned a feminist bookstore. She lives in northern California with Lakke, her spouse, and Kona, a yellow Lab. She has been published in Hitched! Wedding Stories from San Francisco City Hall and in Visible: A Femmethology. Do your best to be on time to all sessions. If you do arrive late please enter closed door sessions as quietly as possible. We suggest not entering sessions more than 15 minutes after they have begun. Please note that in each room there are designated seats reserved for conference attendees with hearing and/or sight impairments or other specific needs. We ask that you leave these seats available up to 5 minutes before the session begins if you are not in need of them; if you do occupy one of these seats, be willing to move should someone with specific needs require that seat. You’ll notice that in each of the rooms there are open spaces in some rows; we have reserved these spaces for our attendees in need of wheelchair access – please do not move chairs into these spaces. When the East Hall is not in use for caucuses or keynotes, it will be available to all attendees as a conversation room. Inspired, enraged or engaged by a particular workshop? Want to find others with which to discuss? Need a space to continue a conversation? Head to the welcome table and one of our Accessibility & Awareness volunteers can direct you to an open space. You will also be able to locate a trained mediator there. Should you want to provide feedback to us directly, process with someone one-on-one, or have someone help you with a difficult conversation we’ll be available for you. It takes all of us to create an inclusive, dynamic and accessible space – thank you for contributing! Following is information regarding awareness and accessibility for Femme 2010: No Restrictions. If you have any questions or concerns about the below policies and information, please contact our Accessibility and Awareness Chair, jen valles. We believe that providing ASL services at all plenary events as well as in requested workshops is crucial. To that end, we have done our best to secure ASL interpretation for all of our keynotes, performances and requested workshops. Childcare Dietary Scent-Aware Policy We are working hard to create an environment at Femme 2010: No Restrictions in which everyone experiences the conference as comfortable for sharing thoughts and ideas. In keeping with this goal, our stance is that the conference space be a scent-aware environment. While we cannot force each attendee to be scent-free, we ask that, when you know you’re going to be in the communal space of the conference, you acknowledge how using certain products could diminish someone else’s ability to enjoy the same panels or workshops that are of interest to you. We understand that perfumes, oils and hair products can be part of one’s gender identity, ethnic identity or spiritual practice. For these reasons, we do not promote a scent-free policy at the conference, but ask that you be as close to scent-free as possible for you. You can view our full scent-aware policy, as well as gather resources & information on scent-awareness, on our website at www.femmecollective.com. No Restrictions • 9 Ongoing As the conference organizers we are not able to provide food from sources external to the hotel. However, please feel free to individually bring whatever food you may need to meet your specific dietary requirements. If you have internet access, you can find information on gender neutral / genderfree / all-gender restrooms in the SF Bay Area at Safe2Pee’s website (http://www.safe2pee. org). You can also check with the conference organizers for resources. Friday Additionally, there are dozens of restaurants that can be found within 0.5 miles of the hotel that can meet many dietary requirements and preferences. Please ask hotel staff or a conference organizer for further details, or see the map in the center of the program. During scheduled conference hours, we will be designating select restrooms gender neutral. Saturday To keep conference registration costs down, we did not include any meals in the conference registration fee. There are, however, two restaurants within the hotel: the City Center Grill, serving breakfast and lunch and the Atrium Lounge serving dinner. Restroom Accessibility Sunday Should you want to provide feedback to us directly, process with someone one-on-one, or have someone help you with a difficult conversation, we’ll be available for you. We will have trained and experienced mediators and counselors on hand throughout the conference. In each room there will be designated seats reserved for conference attendees with hearing impairments, sight impairments and other specific needs. Additionally, there will be open spaces in rows reserved for our attendees in need of wheelchair access. Bios Conflict and Crisis Resources Workshop & Keynote Accessibility Art&Film The Femme Conference Kids Working Group has organized a dynamic, fun, and safe space where kids can have their own Femme conference, as well as space to play and learn. Parents and caregivers are welcome to leave kids for the day while they are attending workshops or can join in as they explore themes of Strength in Femininity, Creative (Gender) Expression, and Solidarity through radical gender coloring books, games, queer sing-a-longs, dramatic fairytale re-tellings, and glitter. Kids of different ages, needs, and abilities are welcome! The Oakland Marriott City Center is fully accessible and is in compliance with the 1990 Americans with Disabilities Act. Our performance venues are fully accessible as well. Events Femme 2010: No Restrictions is excited to be offering free, quality childcare and kid-oriented programming this year. Physical Accessibility and Safety: ADA compliance Performance ASL Workshops Taking into consideration the various ways in which Femmes across the country and the world construct Femme based on region, class, race, ethnicity, access and ability, the Femme Collective strives to create a safe place for open dialogue among a plethora of Femme-identified persons and their allies. Logistics Accessibility and Awareness Performance Performance Events Events Art Art&&Film Film Bios Bios Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Logistics Workshops Workshops The Femme Collective is looking for new members! Planning for the 2012 Femme Conference is already underway and we’re looking for new members to work with us. The Femme Collective is made up of the following committees, and there are openings on all: Registration Media Volunteers Programming Performance Fundraising Logistics Executive Accessibility & Awareness Keynotes We’re looking for Femme-identified people who are committed to our mission and are interested in working in a collaborative environment. All members must commit to: • Communicating with other collective members via e-mail and conference calls • Fundraising • Being present at the conference Time commitment required varies; however, Femme Collective members should be able to spend a minimum of two (2) hours per week conference planning and upwards of ten (10) hours per week in the month preceding the conference. If interested please send the following info to [email protected] • Name • Phone Number • Any relevant identifying demographic information you choose to include • E-mail Address • City of Residency • A short statement on why you’re interested • A list of previous experience, if any, with conference planning or community activism (it’s okay if you don’t have any, just send us what skills you’d like to develop) • Which committee you are interested in! New collective members will be chosen by consensus among the current members; we will endeavor to place as many folks as we can. If we are unable to place all applicants this cycle, we hope you’ll submit a proposal for the conference itself. Getting involved is the best way to become a part of the Collective. If you’d like to participate in planning, but don’t think being a member of the Collective is right for you right now, let us know; we’d love to hear your ideas on how we can work together. Questions? Comments? Ideas? Contact us at [email protected] Deadline to submit an application is July 1st, 2011 We look forward to hearing from you! The Femme Collective 10 • Femme2010 Logistics CHILD CARE Workshops This year for the first time we will be supporting parent access to the Femme conference with free childcare and kid-oriented programming! Parents, guardians and caregivers are welcome to leave kids for the day while attending workshops, or can join us as we explore themes of Strength in Femininity, Creative (Gender) Expression and Solidarity through radical gender coloring books, games, sing-a-longs, fairytale re-tellings, and glitter. We will do our best to accommodate kids of different ages, needs, and abilities. Performance You can locate our Kidspace in room OCC 205. Childcare will be available during conference workshop hours: Events 8:30am-9:00pm Friday 8:30am-5:30pm Saturday 9:00am-5:15pm Sunday Art&Film For further info, please drop by room OCC 205 or Registration and ask for Lindsey Shively, Childcare Coordinator or jen valles, Accessibility and Awareness Chair. Bios Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing No Restrictions • 11 Events Art& &Film Bios ART SHOW We are pleased to have eleven artists share their imaginative spirits as part of the Femme2010 art show, Through the Looking Glass: Femme Portraits, Images, and Visions. Sunday Saturday Ongoing Performance Friday Logistics Workshops Through the Looking Glass: Femme Portraits, Images, and Visions These artists offer diverse creative visions through a range of mediums such as painting, photography, and sculpture. Some have formal art education and some are self-taught. All have stories to tell about their experiences of being femme, how they see femmeness, or how the identity of femme inspires them as artists. Each artist has a unique narrative conveyed through their work. Through the Looking Glass is a rich array of queer reflections and perceptions. In the Marriott, OCC 350 East Hall Friday: 1:00pm - 6:00pm Saturday: 10:00am - 5:30pm Sunday: 11:00am - 5:30pm Featuring the work of: Adee Roberson Ashley Eberlein Cassandra Falby Catherine Murty Cherry Poppins Corinna Nicole Elizabeth “Oscar” Maynard Erin Rosett Karen Marisa Sophie Spinelle Vixen Noir Ashley Eberlein Corinna Nicole Sophie Spinelle 12 • Femme2010 Tickets are $1 each or $10 for the length of your arm, waist, or bust and the prizes are FIERCE! • • • Events Early money, helps us organize sooner and continue to ensure exciting programming for future conferences. Show us your support by purchasing raffle tickets throughout the conference. Your help makes all the difference! Art&Film Bios Raffle tickets will be sold at the Friday night reception, Friday and Saturday evening performances, and before Kate Bornstein’s keynote address on Saturday. Winners will be announced on Sunday after Moki Macias’ keynote. Sunday xoxo, The Femme Collective Steering Committee Catherine Murty Performance Erin Rosett • • • $200 goodie bag from Good Vibes filled to the brim with exciting items A strap-on kit provided by Babeland Copies of Visible: A Femmethology, Vol. 1 &2 Gift certificates from businesses such as plus-size clothing company, Cupcake & Cuddlebunny Hand-made jewelery from local artists and vendors And more! Workshops Help us in our efforts to keep the Femme Conference going by participating in our raffle that will help us raise funds in anticipation of our 2012 conference! Logistics BUY A RAFFLE TICKET, WIN A PRIZE!!! Saturday Friday Ongoing Karen Marisa No Restrictions • 13 Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing 9:00 am – 10:15 am SESSION 1: FEMBODY Flash Mob Movement Workshop (Amelia Mae Paradise) SESSION 3: Non-Violent Communication (Bettina Stuecher) A space where Femmes can come together and move in an invigorating, sassy, healthy, sparkly, way. Start your day with Amelia Mae Paradise, who will lead a class with a yoga-type warm-up/cool-down and a saucy jazz type movement section, featuring short choreographic phrases and opportunities for participants to connect with their sensual and powerful bodies. Come learn the moves and have a chance to join our spontaneous Femme flash mob! This workshop includes discussion, exercises, and small group work as a method of gaining insight into the interpersonal communication process and ways that nonviolent communication (NVC) can further authentic connection between partners. NVC, as described by the NVC Center for Non-Violence is “[an] approach to communication that emphasizes compassion as the motivation for action rather than fear, guilt, shame, blame, coercion, threat or justification for punishment. The process of NVC encourages us to focus on what we and others are observing separate from our interpretations and judgments, to connect our thoughts and feelings to underlying human needs/values (e.g. protection, support, love), and to be clear about what we would like towards meeting those needs.” OCC East Hall OCC 202 10:30 am – 11:45 am SESSION 6: TechFemme: Femme Blogging & Social Media (Aja Jones Aguirre) SESSION 8: PolyFemmory: Living, Loving, and Fucking as Poly and Femme (Amanda Harris, Rachel Schiff) Network, share resources, ins + outs of the queer blogging scene, discover new blogs and expand your readership, the pros and cons of advertising on your website or blog, etc. For those of us living, loving, and fucking as poly and femme, we know that this distinct intersection of identity equally challenges and empowers us. Answering both self-imposed and outside questions regarding our sexual freedom and gender roles can spark daily inquisitions into self-discovery – and often self-doubt. This interactive workshop will take on these tough questions, guiding us as a poly-femme community in exploring non-monogamy as an extension of feminism and femme sexual agency, communication patterns in poly situations, and how our genders and partners’ genders impact, inform, and transform our relationships. Our loyal friend, “Jealousy” (who we love to hate and hate to love!) will be front and center, as we spotlight its effects on our passionate pursuits of good loves and good fucks. The session will be largely participant-driven, so bring all your baggage (don’t worry, it doesn’t have to match!), and let’s talk polyfemmory! While this workshop is primarily for polyamorous and non-monogamous femmes, polycurious folks and allies are welcome. OCC East Hall SESSION 7: Read Between the Lines: A Hands-On Guide to Sexy Sign Language (SSL) (Lillith Grey) This workshop will cover basic sign-language techniques and vocabulary from American Sign Language, with a focus on ways to use sign language to spice up your sex life. Sexy Sign Language can be used in a variety of ways – from bar flirting to cruising, from private conversations to private moments, this class will offer you a fresh and unique way to communicate with the people around you. OCC 201 SESSION 9: Show Production 101 (Jenny Lowery) Learn the basic skills required to produce your own cabaret or spoken word show. Focus will be on finding a venue, creating a budget, promotion, sending a call for submissions, and all the little details involved in making your show or fundraiser happen. OCC 202 OCC 203 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm Lunch Break 14 • Femme2010 Grab lunch in the hotel café or one of the many places nearby, and take advantage of the hour free to continue your discussions or just hang out and get to know your fellow attendees. 1:15 pm – 2:30 pm Come learn the basics of country-western two-step! Twostepping is fun, challenging, and a great way to meet new people. We will be covering some basic steps, turns, and partner dance etiquette – and there will be plenty of time to practice your moves! OCC East Hall SESSION 12: Wild Geese: Femme Survivors Write (Jen Cross) OCC 201 OCC 202 SESSION 14: Red Hots Burlesque School of Shimmy (Dottie Lux) Calling all divas, cool cats, harlots, dames hot mamas and daddy-o’s, RED HOTS BURLESQUE SCHOOL OF SHIMMY is for you! If you have always dreamed of being a burlesque star or just want to learn what all this fun is all about you too can be Red Hot! Burlesque is about having fun! Bring a smile and an open mind, because we’re going to let loose as you learn to shake it with confidence and class! OCC 203 SESSION 15: My Kind of Crazy: Femmes Confront the Stigma and Stereotypes at the Intersections of Queer Femininity, Mental Illness, and Other Marginalized Identities (Tasha Fierce) A workshop in which femmes with mental health issues can focus on community building, radical mental health networks, harm reduction (involving self-injury, eating disorders, etc), creating strategies on how to deal with symptoms in positive ways, the benefits of medication vs. no meds, radical therapeutic models, resources for those without the means to get expensive health care and/or medications, recognizing and fighting stereotypes, and coming to accept and love themselves in the face of neurotypical discrimination and marginalization. OCC 204 • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing “You do not have to be good […] you only have to let the soft animal of your body / love what it loves.” -- Mary Oliver / “Wild Geese” Writing is a way to discover and honor our resilience and our resistance – Gather with other femme-identified survivors of sexual trauma to create a space in which we struggle with and celebrate our complex selves, our survival strategies, and the ways in which our survivor selves intersect with our femme selves. Many of us who are survivors of sexual trauma feel fragmented or disjointed and have come to believe we must always live our lives this way. Transforming our language is one way we transform our lives; we can create new art and new beauty out of the difficult and complicated realities of our lives. Although the setting is a supportive one, this workshop is different from a therapy group, as the focus of the workshop itself will be on each person’s writing. Also, even as we come together as survivors, we are never required to write any particular version of our “abuse story.” In this space, you have the opportunity to write as you feel called to write, no matter what the subject. You’ll leave this workshop with: a renewed sense of yourself as resiliently creative, a rich body of new creative writing, feedback from your peers about what’s already strong in your new writing, and connection with a new writing community. Open to folks of all writing abilities! Calling all LOVERS! In theme with this year’s conference of NO RESTRICTIONS, come learn how to communicate with your partner(s) about what you like, how you like it, and where you like it! In this interactive workshop, we will discuss and practice how to identify, ask for, and negotiate the kind of sex/intimacy you want. Consent is sexy, baby! Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios SESSION 11: Country-Western Two-Step (Chiara Manodori, Haley Ausserer) SESSION 13: May I Kiss You?: Sexual Communication & Consent (Dulce Garcia) No Restrictions • 15 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios 2:45 pm – 4:00 pm SESSION 16: Quit Fucking Taking Us For Granted: How to Survive the Movement as a Femme (Moderators: Savannah Kilner, Lisa Marie; Panelists: Damien Luxe, Fatima Arain, Blyth Barnow, Morgan Bassichis, Kai Barrow) Though femme organizers and activists have historically carried social movements, we often find ourselves to be one of a handful of femmes in our activist communities. Femmephobia and invisibility within our movements impact our spirits and psyches and limits the capacity of all of us to vision a more liberated world. We see the femme conference as an opportunity to bring femme organizers and activists together to examine the ways we can learn from each others experiences, strategies for resistance and survival, as well as create fierce femmeships with other movement femmes. This panel of femme organizers and activists will celebrate and explore the libratory potential of femme organizing strategies as well as the challenges of organizing in masculinist, femmephobic organizing spaces, queer and otherwise. We will also explore how our many femme experiences are mediated by race, class, gender, age, geography, etc. SESSION 18: Singing as Social Justice (Nomy Lamm) The voice is a powerful tool in defending ourselves, voicing our truths, and sharing our essence of being with the world. In this workshop we will create a non-judgmental space to explore our voices in authentic ways. With a series of breathing exercises, vocal warm-ups, and improvisations, we will learn to be more grounded in our bodies, self-aware, brave, flexible, and connected to our surroundings. We will explore how these qualities can help us deal with our own oppression, and help us to be good allies to each other. Open to all styles and abilities. OCC 202 SESSION 19: Our Power Is Larger Than Our Size: Making Visible Queer Femme Disordered Eating (Marisa Hackett, Jessica McPherson) Participatory art workshop for femmes to explore the ways in which we access space, and the issue of space as it pertains to food and eating behaviors. OCC 203 OCC East Hall SESSION 17: How Fat Women of Color Queer Femme (Patricia Valladolid, Virgie Tovar) A workshop where participants can examine how sexuality and space is both ignored and erased for fat women of color. OCC 201 4:15 pm – 5:15 pm Opening Remarks OCC East Hall Oneg Shabbat. led by Chaia Milstein 7:15 - Gather for service | 7:38 - Shabbat begins Oakland Room, 3rd Floor Come light candles, say kiddush, and engage in the mitzvah of cruising each other’s footwear! This oneg is open to all self-identified Jews and those on the path of giyur. It’s not going to be Orthodox, but we won’t be, like, serving bacontopped challah either. Co-sponsored by JQ International. 16 • Femme2010 A Spoken Word Stand Up Showcase ...and Conference Reception! Friday, August 20 | City Center Grill (in the Marriott) | 6:00 pm – 9:00 pm Come to the welcome reception in the City Center Grill at the Marriott, fill up your plate from the buffet, and mingle – then stick around and enjoy this showcase of spoken talents, the first of three Femme2010: No Restrictions performance events. Featuring FemC Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha! Performances by: Tara Hardy Missy Fuego Anna Camilleri Belinda Carroll Sara Brickman Daphne Gottlieb Happy/L.A. Hyder Jessica McPherson Dominika Bednarksa Victoria Bell Hegemony of the Down-Down South Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Femmes on Fire: • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing No Restrictions • 17 Performance Events Art& &Film Bios Friday Night Lights Two-Stepping, Music & a Risqué Cabaret! Friday, August 20 • Oakland Metro Opera House, 630 3rd St, Oakland $10 general public/free with conference registration Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops 9:00 Two-Stepping 10:30 Nicky Click 11:00 Risqué Cabaret Rosie Lugosi & Bevin Branlandingham Co-FeMC’s: Featuring San Francisco’s Own Alotta Boutté with special guests... Lola Dean Dottie Lux Girlie Pink Ruby Vixen Miss Tamale 18 • Femme2010 Lady Monster JAC McFaggin Chan Dynasty Pidgeon Von Tramp Cherry Galette √ MuLotta TaTas & Miasia Sugarbush Lane Ms. Vagina Jenkins Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Straight from the womb to the lime light, this lady’s been performing since her first breath. Itching for her own little niche in this glamorous world, she went searching for her place and found it in the stories of her moonshinin’ grandpa and strong matriarchy. Alotta relished her rich Creole family history and the dirty blues of the Deep South. She added her queer-ashell family, vibrant with drag of all kinds, and refined the mix into the perfect audacious spitfire sweet-treat you’ve ever had the pleasure to see. You can find this bawdy, brazen, juke-joint mama performing throughout the San Francisco Bay Area and on occasional national and international travels. • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Alotta Boutté No Restrictions • 19 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios 9:00 am – 10:15 am SESSION 21: Starting the Revolution from Within: How to Use Meditation to Heal and Fuck Shit Up! (Meliza Bañales) The strongest muscle a Femme has is her spiritual one. In this workshop, we will explore how to use the healing practice of meditation to further our activist and creative selves. For many of us, life can be a mix of absolute joy and progression combined with uncontrollable stress and complete break-down. We even come to these amazing conferences to party and connect and by day two, find ourselves exhausted, overwhelmed, and needing a vacation from our vacation. What we forget in our busy-ness and urgency is the simplest act of all: breathing. The breath is an amazing source of healing and rejuvenation that needs nothing more than your willingness and open mind and heart. In this workshop we will participate in a guided meditation for a bit, talk for a bit, and learn methods that we can institute in our daily lives to further our commitment to revolution and our creative selves. This workshop is open to everyone, regardless of religious beliefs or faith and is designed to benefit beginners and experienced practitioners. It is also okay to only come for the sit (meditation) and not stay for the talk (though, of course, you are encouraged to!). Give yourself an extra boost to keep your bad-ass self going! In the words of Ajhan Cha, “If you have time to breathe, you have time to meditate.” OCC East Hall SESSION 22: Embodying Dialogue: A Creative Exploration of Femme (Heather M. Ács) This workshop offers an alternative to traditional discussion groups by encouraging participants to get on their feet and explore issues surrounding “femme” through interactive exercises and group activities. Using theatre, improvisation, movement, and writing as tools to explore issues and incite dialogue, the facilitator will guide a creative “conversation” and exploration of topics on “femme” chosen by the group. No performance experience necessary. OCC 201 SESSION 23: Talk Back! Responding to Anti-Femme and Anti-Butch Comments Within LGBTQ Communities (Paige Kruza, Sophia Lanza-Weil) The workshop will focus in on what we want people to know about femmes and butches, and will share tools for confronting anti-femme/anti-butch biases in ways that will help end the criticism/opposition and create space for community-building. OCC 202 SESSION 24: RAW DIVINE! Honoring Your Femme Spirit! Sacred Space Workshop (Monica Anderson) Nourish your spirit by honoring the power of personal sanctuaries. Learn how to revitalize your spirit energy by defining and creating sacred spaces in your everyday environments (work, home, school, etc.). OCC 203 10:30 am – 11:45 am SESSION 26: Enabling What? Femmes talk about Disability, Gender and Sexuality: Poetry and Conversation with Members of Fabled Asp (Fabulous/Activist Bay Area Lesbians with Disabilities: A Storytelling Project) (Dr. Laura Rifkin, Dominika Bednarska) How do ideas about ability and disability affect us as femmes? What is it like being partners with femmes with disabilities? How do changes in our bodies impact how we see ourselves as sexual beings? Issues ranging from high heel envy to “how to get into the dance” when you use a wheelchair or a cane, and everything in between. This will be a personal conversation where we get to the nitty gritty questions about being femme, claiming our sexuality, the challenges we face, and the successes we have as femmes who are differently abled than the norm. People of all abilities encouraged to attend! OCC East Hall 20 • Femme2010 SESSION 27: Femmes and Aging (SJ Kahn and Jewelle Gomez) Join our discussion about issues related to aging and femme identity. We will make a short presentation and invite you gals to share and we can all talk together cuz we know that no one (or two) of us knows more than all of us. OCC 201 SESSION 28: Pastie Making (Vagina Jenkins) This international Queen of Queer Burlesque shows you some tried and true methods for making a tip top decorative nipple cover. From basic designs and everyday materials to tasseled pasties, to more advanced designs; Vag can teach you how to make your titties festive and fun for any occasion! OCC 202 10:30 am – 11:45 am [cont.] A panel discussion of femme porn performers talking about presenting as femme in queer sexual performance, working in the mainstream as a queer femme, and much more. OCC 203 SESSION 30: Positively Lovely (Lady Monster) A workshop about loving our bodies, releasing judgments and falling in love with them. Let’s have a positive discussion in the round about loving every inch of your body, how we fell in love with our bodies, what each of us does to spread the love, and how we can love them more. Includes visualization exercises, discussion, and creating community. All body sizes and genders welcome. OCC 204 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm Lunchtime Caucuses Femmes Over 40 (Kathe Young): OCC East Hall Femmes of Color (Tasha Fierce): OCC 201 Femme Trans Women (Julia Serano): OCC 202 Feel free to use available space to create your own caucus, either on Saturday or anytime throughout the conference weekend! Post your caucus or workshop on the community board. BDSM Femmes (Jukie Sunshine): OCC 203 Poor / Working Class Femmes (TBA): OCC 204 1:15 pm – 2:30 pm Keynote Address: Kate Bornstein See more information on page. 23 Co-presented by Nehirim: GLBT Jewish Culture & Spirituality (www.nehirim.org) and the Pacific Center. OCC East Hall 2:45 pm – 4:00 pm SESSION 31: Feature Film: Diagnosing Difference OCC East Hall - See description on pg. 28. SESSION 32: Creating Women of Color Spaces: Ownership and Intentionality/The Color of Femme (Christine De La Rosa, Norma Sanchez, Amy Adams) This workshop is about creating plans of action to create women of color spaces while be mindful of our allies, to be intentional about the spaces we do create and really understand why we need/want to create them. This workshop is for self-identified Femmes of Color only. OCC 201 SESSION 33: The Money Is Out There for the Femme Revolution: Grassroots Fundraising for Work and Play (Dara Silverman) For all of us who are working to build queer and radical community, one of the biggest skills we need is fundraising. This workshop will teach you the basics of grassroots fundraising, how to make a plan, get over your fear of making the ask and strengthen your community in the process. OCC 202 A panel of queer femme mothers, exploring issues of family, parenting and identity. Followed by Q&A and open discussion. OCC 203 SESSION 35: Femme Kings: Performing Maleness Onstage\ (Panel Moderator: Bethany Lockhart; Panelists: Leslie Einhorn, Jay Walker, Brock Cocker, Charleston Chu) What does it mean to be a drag king who identifies as femme? This group of panelists will discuss their artistic journeys and their motivations to perform maleness. Among the topics examined will be intersections of femme-ness and stage persona, socio-cultural influences, and performance themes. There will be time set aside for Q&A. This is a special opportunity to hear femmes speak about ‘kinging’ as a form of creative, personal, and political expression. OCC 204 • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Viewing of the 2009 documentary Diagnosing Difference (dir: Annalise Ophelian), followed by panel discussion. SESSION 34: Femme Mamas (Celestina Pearl, Dana Rosenberg, Annie Schuessler, Sara Lesser, Kathy Brady) Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios SESSION 29: Queer Femme Porn Panel (Courtney Trouble and Dylan Ryan) No Restrictions • 21 Performance Events Art&Film Bios Saturday Keynote Address Kate Bornstein 1:15 pm – 2:30 pm OCC East Hall Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Photo by: Dona Ann McAdams KATE BORNSTEIN is an author, playwright and performance artist whose latest book is “Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives To Suicide For Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws.” Other published works include the books “Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us”; “My Gender Workbook”; and the cyber-romance-action novel, “Nearly Roadkill,” with co-author Caitlin Sullivan. Kate’s plays and performance pieces include Strangers in Paradox, Hidden: A Gender, The Opposite Sex Is Neither, Virtually Yours, y2kate: gender virus 2000. Kate’s books are taught in over 120 colleges and universities around the world; and ze has performed hir work live on college campuses, and in theaters and performance spaces across the USA, as well as in Canada, the United Kingdom, Germany, and Austria. She is currently touring colleges, youth conferences and high schools, speaking and leading workshops on the subjects of sex, gender, and alternatives to teen suicide. Kate was born outside of Fargo, North Dakota in a log cabin ze helped hir parents build. Hir father was a Lutheran minister, and hir mother was Miss Betty Crocker, 1939. Kate has lived in the queer ghettos of Philadelphia, San Francisco, and Seattle. Ze currently lives with hir partner--sex pioneer, writer and performance artist Barbara Carrellas--in New York City, along with their pug, two cats, and two turtles. 22 • Femme2010 4:15 pm – 5:30 pm At this workshop we will be coming up with creative solutions to violence against queer / lesbian women of color by working toward a conscious active community response to this type of violence. By refusing to tolerate or be complacent in our discussion or response to sexual violence and promoting sexual empowerment we are resisting the silence and perpetuation of unhealthy sexual communication. In this workshop we will encourage participants to engage in dialogues about sexuality in an effort to promote community response to sexual violence against queer / lesbian women of color. We will help promote the sexual, physical and emotional health of the people in our communities by empowering individuals to reflect on their personal experiences and assisting community members in developing the tools and skills needed to promote holistic sexual wellbeing. OCC East Hall SESSION 40: “Bitch, I Want to Fuck You” (Shar Rednour, Caitlin Sweet) Femme to femme desire and relationships. OCC 204 Many of our butch sisters have been, often out of necessity, propelled into entrepreneurship, but what about a femme who wants to create their own business? What are the options and some concrete steps we can take to start & grow our own business? This is an interactive discussion. OCC 201 SESSION 38: Film Panel (Annalise Ophelian, Miss Major, Adela Vazquez, Shawna Virago, Cecilia Chung, Jeanna Eichenbaum) How does it feel to have your gender identity included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders? Find out when the fierce and fabulous women of the new documentary film Diagnosing Difference join queer femme director Annalise Ophelian for a panel discussion about the medicalization of transgender identities. OCC 202 SESSION 39: Fairies, Dandies and Fancy Boys: Variations on Femme (Mason Munson, Aster Wolfe) Explore femme-identified masculine folks and our roles in the femme community. OCC 203 • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing East Bay? SESSION 37: How-To for Entrepreneurial Femmes (Spring Opara) Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios SESSION 36: Sexual (R)Evolution: Exploring the Interconnectedness of Race, Sex, Violence and Pleasure for Queer / Lesbian Women of Color (Amy Saucier and Mayra Mendoza) PACIFICCENTER.ORG No Restrictions • 23 Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios LOCATION MAPS MASS TRANSIT BART - Bay Area Train. Stops @ Midnight $1.75 [w/i Oakland $3.25 [SF/Mission] Conference is at 12th Street City Center stop. AC TRANSIT - Oakland bus $2 / $2.25 w/transfer MUNI - SF bus/trolley $2 / $2.25 w/transfer. Dial 511 and say, “AC Transit,” to speak with a person OAK. MARRIOTT 1001 B’WAY. @ 11TH TRANSBAY BUS - $4. Leaves from SF’s Union Station (kind of deserted late at night) and drops off about 3 blocks from the hotel in Oakland. All systems take both bills and coins. They do not share passes/fare cards. OTHER EVENTS FOOD AMENITIES Awaken Café: 14th off B’way. Coffee, tea, breakfast stuffs & lunch. Independent! Rite Aid, Walgreens: 14th/B’way. Close @ 6p Breakroom Café: 13th/B’way. Vegan/Veggie! Golden Lotus: 13th/Franklin. Vegan/Veggie! BAY AREA 24 • Femme2010 City center: Btw 12th & 14th and clay & B’way is quite beautiful with plenty of places to sit, a nail salon, florist, lots of fast food/take out places and small vendors. ART & SOUL festival Sat/ Sun. 14th and B’way. HELLA GAY! Sat 21st @ The Uptown, 1928 Telegraph Ave. $5 w Femme2010 wristband OAKLANDOP VENUE MAP Ground Floor: Keynote, Film & Large WOrkshop Room • FREE WIFI in the Atrum Lobby • Restrooms closest to the East Hall WILL BE Gender NEUTRAL • ELevators in Lobby • smoking outdoors only Second Floor: Second Floor: Child CAre & Workshop rooms CITY CENTRE GRILL & ATRIUM LOUNGE: • Free WIFI • Food Available • Friday’s 6pm RECEPTION Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Ground Floor: • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing OPERA HOUSE PERFORMANCE VENUE METRO OPERA HOUSE 630 3rd St No Restrictions • 25 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art& &Film Bios An Evening of Fierce Femme Sparkling Entertainment! Saturday, August 21 • Oakland Metro Opera House, 630 3rd St, Oakland 8-11pm • $15/free with Femme2010 conference registration Featuring: Rosie Lugosi With Special Guests: Titland Cattitude Indigo Blue Fran Varian Heather Ács Alysia Angel Damien Luxe Alex Cafarelli Gina de Vries Jessica Halem Elaina M. Ellis Sweet LillyBee Shawna Virago Goldie Dartmouth Happy/L.A. Hyder Heaven Mousalem The Miracle Whips The QUEERleaders Jessica McPherson Amelia Mae Paradise Celestina Meow Meow Ginger Snapz & Cherry Tart Brock Cocker & Jay Walker Psychobabble Co-FeMCEE’s: Alotta Boutté & Kentucky Fried Woman This event will be a cabaret of live music, spoken word, belly dancing, drag, & burlesque entertainment 26 • Femme2010 Rosie Lugosi Winner of the DaDa Award for Performance Artist of the Year and an Erotic Oscar for Solo Performer, she has appeared throughout the UK as well as Europe and the USA, performing at venues ranging from stadium events such as Europride, Kinkfest, and The Skin Two Ball to events such as Queer Up North (Manchester), Schmacht! FrauenKonferenz (Berlin), Femme2008 (Chicago), and the Dallas ButchFemme Bash. She was proud to be featured in Del LaGrace Volcano’s book Femmes of Power. As well as performing at Femme 2010, she is launching a new collection of poetry - Things I Did While I Was Dead, her first publication following her experience of throat cancer in 2009. www.rosielugosi.com, www.myspace.com/ rosielugosi. Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios is a high-femme mistress of musical mayhem, one of the UK’s most in-demand comperes, and certainly the kinkiest. She has been tantalizing audiences with her unique blend of camp humor, mayhem and song for ten years, performing twisted parodies of Andy Williams, Shirley Bassey and Gloria Gaynor (to name a few poor victims) in a vamp-goth-fetish style. • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing No Restrictions • 27 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art& &Film Bios FEATURED FILM Saturday, OCC East Hall , Film Screening: 2:45 pm – 4:00 pm. Panel Discussion: 4:15 pm – 5:30 pm Diagnosing Difference, Directed by Annalise Ophelian How does it feel to have your gender identity included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders? This is the question explored in Diagnosing Difference, a new documentary that features interviews with 13 transgender and genderqueer artists, scholars, and activists who discuss the impact and implications of the Gender Identity Disorder diagnosis on their lives and communities. Panel discussion to follow with Annalise Ophelian, Miss Major, Adela Vazquez, Shawna Virago, Cecilia Chung, and Jeanna Eichenbaum. Annalise Ophelian is a San Francisco-based human sexuality consultant, trans ally, and filmmaker with a doctorate in clinical psychology. Her clinical experience includes working at New Leaf: Services for Our Community, one of the nation’s leading LGBT community mental health clinics, as well as running a dropin group for trans youth at the Dimensions Health Clinic. She has most recently worked for a private sector mental health agency specializing in relapse prevention for violent and sexual offenders. Since 1998, Dr. Ophelian has worked as a community-based sex educator, specializing on alternative sexualities and communication and negotiation skills for sexual partners. She has lectured at colleges and universities around the country, and provides clinical competency workshops on issues of human sexuality for medical and mental health providers. 28 • Femme2010 No Restrictions • 29 Performance Events Art& &Film Bios Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Femme2010 Short Film Fest OCC East Hall Shorts Program: 9:30 am – 11:00 am Panel Discussion: 11:15 am – 12:30 pm We are proud to present to you some of the newest and most exciting voices in independent cinema. We have selected 19 short films – by femmes, for femmes, and/or about femme identity – that touch on themes of family, loss, relationships, sex, dating, remembrance, music, and song. Our hope is that these films will conjure up a vast range of emotional experiences so that, in the end, you will have extraordinary insights into the possibilities of short filmmaking. Stick around after the films for a Q&A session with several of the filmmakers. In attendance (subject to change): Catherine Murty, Michelle Miguelez, Celestina Pearl, Indira Allegra, So Yung Kim, Joey Cupcake, KB TuffNStuff, Jenna Riot, Courtney Trouble, April and Allegra Hirschman, Mary Guzmán, Ruth Vilasenor, Maria Breaux, Tina D’Elia, and Nicky Click. Mechanics Daydream (directed by Catherine Murty): A HiDef homage to perfection: high femmes, aerialists and vintage motorcycles. By Looking At Me (directed by Joey Cupcake): An experimental video of thoughts passing on a slow day on a boat. http://www.52pickupvideos.com/HTML/Stevenson_grid.html. HoOps (directed by Michelle Miguelez): A young Latina gives up HoOps and finds her groove with the help of her mother. 3 Hour Man (directed by KB TuffNStuff): It’s all about LOVE! This music video is set in scenic San Francisco and features dance/performance artist Lady Fantastique! Music by KB TuffNStuff. www.KINGTUFFNSTUFF.com. Las Mañanitas (directed by Celestina Pearl): Las Mañanitas (The Little Tomorrows) is about the relationship of a queer Chicana Femme Dyke and her Drag Queen Nana, their adventures, love of life, Nana’s beautiful, bittersweet passing, and the magical, alchemical integration of these experiences into the cycle of Las Mañanitas. Blue Covers (directed by Indira Allegra): Blue Covers is an experimental visual poem that re-imagines the survivor’s journey from childhood sexual abuse. Here, the lover, trauma and the possibility of healing all exist within the space of a moment. http://bluecovers.wordpress.com. Homeschool (directed by So Young Kim): A Korean adoptee is haunted by lessons of forced assimilation. 30 • Femme2010 Never Been a Bad Girl (directed by Sabrina Chap): Music video for the single off Sabrina Chap’s newest album, “Oompa!” It features King of New York night-life, Murray Hill, and the Queen of the Drag Queens, Linda Simpson. www. sabrinachap.com. I’m on my Cell Phone (directed by Peter Pizzi): A beautiful and strange video for this hit song by Nicky Click. www. magicclubfilms.com. Hustle (directed by Shawna Virago): Erotic music video featuring Shawna Virago’s song Hustle and an all trans-cast. www.shawnavirago.com. Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Worst Case Scenario: Femme Edition (directed by Mary Guzmán): A super 8 femme etiquette primer. www.oneof9films.com. Won’t You (directed by Jenna Riot and Courtney Trouble): Queer femme music video from the legendary Jenna Riot. Traditional Indigenous Values (directed by Ruth Villasenor): Traditional Indigenous Values is an Indigenous Woman’s perspective of the confrontational Yes on 8 rallies in the Bay Area. Historical photos of Native American acceptance of gay people before colonization, along with interviews of Indigenous same sex couples married during this time compares Proposition 8 to the impact of colonization Slug Love (directed by J. Mary Burnet): This short music video addresses gender and sexual oppression by imagining what it would be like if we (humans) were leopard slugs. http:// www.youtube.com/user/jmaryburnet. the heart’s regeneration (directed by Celeste Chan): Experimental video collage touching on themes of identity, love, and re-birth. Set to “Iron Lady” by Diamanda Galas. Shafted (directed by April & Allegra Hirschman): When femme lesbian Lindsay finds that her ex has taken all of her sex toys after their break-up, she is outraged. Lindsay seeks solace in her friends, only to find that it is commonly accepted that femmes get ”the shaft” when it comes to postbreakup sexual property. The personal and political collide as Lindsay channels her heartbreak and rage in a one-woman journey for justice. (Frameline) Cut & Paste: Understanding Sexuality through Movie Watching (directed by Alexis McCrimmon): An eye-catching and playful autobiographical documentary that explores the historical contexts of racial stereotypes, gender identity and sexual agency, i.e. what it meant for one little girl who dared to be Black, queer and kinky. Lucha (directed by Maria Breaux and Tina D’Elia): El Salvador, 1982, during the civil war. While President Reagan sends funds and arms to the Salvadorian military to kidnap, torture, and kill the people of El Salvador, Lucha and Isabella decide their fate. www.luchafilm.com. • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing In Your Face (directed by The Hungry Hearts): The International Lesbian Anthem. Music by The Hungry Hearts Pin-Up Performance Band. No Restrictions • 31 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios 9:30 am – 11:00 am Femme2010 Short Film Fest We are proud to present to you some of the newest and most exciting voices in independent cinema. We have selected 19 short films – by femmes, for femmes, and/or about femme identity – that touch on themes of family, loss, relationships, sex, dating, remembrance, music, and song. Our hope is that these films will conjure up a vast range of emotions so that, in the end, you will have extraordinary insights into the possibilities of short filmmaking. Stick around after the films for a question and answer session with some of the filmmakers. OCC East Hall 11:15 am – 12:30 pm Short Film Fest Panel Discussion Filmmakers in attendance (subject to change) are Catherine Murty, Michelle Miguelez, Celestina Pearl, Indira Allegra, So Young Kim, Joey Cupcake, KB TuffNStuff, Jenna Riot, Courtney Trouble, April and Allegra Hirschman, Mary Guzman, Ruth Villasenor, Maria Breaux, Tina D’Elia, and Nicky Click. OCC East Hall Minding the Cleavage: A Cross Generational Dialog (Keiko Lane, SJ Kahn) How do you articulate femme? What signifiers do you use to mark your territory in the world and in your relationships? What have the femmes who came before you taught you about being a femme? What will be your gift to the next generation? In a paradoxical culture where old queers are neglected by youth centric politics, and simultaneously youthfulness is fetishized while young queers are abandoned, how do femmes stay committed to one another’s visibility and viability across generational divides? How do differences of race, class, spiritual practice, and community affiliation impact the construction of our femme identities? How important is it to maintain a cohesive sense of history as a community? And, with the increasing complexity, fluidity, and queering of genders, how do we hold onto and adapt our femme histories and identities? Join us for a facilitated conversation about femme identity and experience through our lives and across generations. We welcome butches, allies — and femmes. Strap-On Satisfaction: A Femme’s Guide to Giving and Receiving Pleasure (Greta Carey) This workshop will explore tools of the trade (finding a harness built for you, in search of the perfect dildo... to suit your mood, and lube, glorious lube), switching things up (fabulous foreplay; giving, receiving and sharing - strap-on play where everyone wins; exploring anal), and building sexual confidence and asking for what you want. This workshop is intended for people from all levels of experience. All discussion and materials will be presented in a safe, sex-positive and body friendly manner. The facilitator is a queer, plus sizefemme domme, burlesque performer, writer, former sex-worker and professional marketer, with a primary intention in this workshop of sexual education and exploration. OCC 201 Community Accountability Approaches to Violence Against Femmes (Juliet November, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha) White folks have a unique role to play in resisting racism both within femme/LGBTQ communities and the world at large. Join us in a dialogue around privilege and allyship. Come together to talk in a radically different way about how we can stop, prevent and heal from violence against us without relying on cops or prisons. The criminal legal system has never shown itself to be a friend to marginalized femmes, in particular those who are poor, of colour, trans, migrant or youth. So how can we find ways to deal with violence ourselves? In this skill share we’re proposing understanding violence widely – that it’s not just about physical violence – but that we look at the spectrum of violence we face: like domestic violence with our partners, social, spiritual, emotional and cultural violence of misogyny and state violence – and the intimate ways these intersect with other oppressions. This is a skill-share not a workshop because we are not interested in “teaching” so much as sharing the fierce wisdom of femmes about healing, transformation, resilience and prevention. OCC 203 OCC 204 OCC 202 White Privilege (Meredith Fenton, Krista Smith) 32 • Femme2010 Keynote Address: Trust & Delight: Exercising a Femme Politic in Political/Public Work. 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm OCC East Hall While at SCHR, Moki co-founded BLOCS – Building Locally to Organize for Community Safety – a grassroots organization dedicated to building the leadership and power of those most affected by Atlanta’s police and prison system by fighting for police accountability and developing effective strategies to create just and peaceful communities. In 2009, Moki entered a Master’s program in City & Regional Planning at the Georgia Institute of Technology, and is writing her thesis on public safety rhetoric, the intersection of planning and criminalization tactics, and creative responses at the neighborhood-level. For the last three years, Moki has lived with and parented her teenage sister Nandi, with the support of her partner LB, an incredible queer family, and unstoppable love from their boxer/ pitt Stanford. She holds a bachelor’s degree from Mount Holyoke College and is a 2010-2011 Davis-Putter Scholarship Fund grantee. • Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Moki Macías is a queer femme organizer and community planner in Atlanta, Georgia. Originally from New Mexico, Moki found her way to Atlanta, Georgia after her mother and sister moved there from New Orleans post-Katrina. She received her education in southern history and the criminal justice system while working at the Southern Center for Human Rights, a public interest law firm challenging mass incarceration and the death penalty in the southern states. Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios Moki Macías No Restrictions • 33 Sunday Saturday Friday Ongoing Logistics Workshops Performance Events Art&Film Bios 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm Keynote Address: Moki Macias OCC East Hall 2:45 pm – 4:00 pm SESSION 46: Tough Girls: A Celebration of Tomboys, Rough Girls & Gender-Queer Femmes/The GenderFucked Femme (Meliza Banales, JAC Stringer) What happens when you seem to fall in-between butch and femme? What happens when you have the looks of Jo from the Facts of Life, the swagger of Joan Jett, with the smile of Marilyn Monroe? What happens when you realize that instead of dance class and burlesque, you’re more likely to get roughed up in a mosh pit or get caught wearing lacy panties under your Dickey work-pants? You get the kind of femme who might wear Doc Martins but never smears her lipstick and whose guitar and words are her weapons of self-empowerment just as much as her mascara. Award-winning writer, filmmaker, and punk-performance-artist Meliza Banales (aka Missy Fuego) curates this panel-performance, featuring four of the toughest chicks around, bad-ass girls who through rough edges, juvenile hall, rock n’ roll, and a little geeky-ness have managed to carve out a space in femme identity. OCC East Hall SESSION 47: Dress and Express: Exploring Body Image and Self-expression Through Fashion (Sarah Astarte) Body image is a major issue among contemporary feminists, as it affects all women in this country. How one sees and carries one’s body has much to do with one’s selfimage. Fashion is a form of creative expression that can be utilized to express and even transform one’s self-image. This workshop will involve dressing up; clothing, cosmetics, and accessories will be provided for participants to dress however they choose to. A discussion will follow the activity about what their outfit(s) express, how one feels about themselves before and after changing outfits, and how it affects their self-image, intellectually and emotionally. Gender identity, race/ethnicity, and economic issues may come up around manner of dress as well. OCC 201 4:15 pm – 5:15 pm Closing Plenary OCC East Hall 34 • Femme2010 SESSION 48: Self-Identification Begins in the Womb (Queen Hollis) This workshop provides a safe space of self discovery for Femme women to honor their Divine Feminine by sharing their menarche (first menstruation) stories, or if they don’t remember their stories, this space will also provide a meditative journey followed by journaling that will invite imagination, memory, and possibility of creating her own story. This space will also invite us to tap into the power of creativity and sensuality while crafting waist beads to honor our womb whether She still bleeds or not. The intention of this space is also to restore a common unity that transcends race, religion, beliefs, or anything that keeps us from remembering the sense of Oneness that binds us together as women who bleed. It is the ultimate intention to inspire each participant to continue this circle of celebration with children, lovers, family, friends, and community. In addition, participants will also have an opportunity to create neck or waist beads to honor and celebrate their blood/womb. OCC 202 SESSION 49: Tips for a World-Class Marriage / Relationship (Molly McKay, Davina Kotulski) Everyone has what it takes to create a world class marriage. The truth is that great marriages are made, not born. But many of us don’t know how to find that right relationship or how to make the one that they have even better. Davina and Molly, a butch/femme couple, together for 14 years and who have married each other countless times on the road to securing civil marriage for same-sex couples, provide insights, tools and practical steps to reach new levels of intimacy, understanding and vitality to ensure that we not only can legally marry but live our happily ever afters together. OCC 203 THANK YOU!!! The Femme Collective would like to thank: Our keynotes, Kate Bornstein and Moki Macias Encian Pastel and Tiffany Martinez for help coordinating childcare Dean Jackson and Krystian Muroya for stage managing Rocket and Delicio del Toro for help with other performance needs The Oakland Downtown Marriott and the Oakland Metro Opera House Our childcare providers and ASL interpreters Movement Productions, Kentucky Fried Woman, Debauchery and any other groups, individuals, or businesses who helped raise funds for Femme2010 Movement Productions for providing webhosting Cristy Road for her poster art The founding members of the Femme Collective: Christine De La Rosa, Cassandra Falby, Ryn Hodes, Jessica Eve Humphrey, Angie Ward, and Kathe Young Our donors: Elizabeth Busch, Angela Shock, Carol Thompson, Blyth Barnow, Syndey Lewis, Davey Wilkes, Dawn Haney, Emily Smith, Rachel Devitt, Babeland, Good Vibes, Cupcake & Cuddlebunny, Sarah Deragon, dirtydarlingshop.com, Amy Nicole Miller, Jennifer Burke and Homofactus Press. All the performers who donated their talent to help raise funds for Femme2010: Alotta Boutté, Beary Craves, Billy “The Poof” Elliot, Brock Cocker, Cherry Poppins, Delicio del Toro, Diamond Daggers, Dick Damount, DJ Dandy G, Dottie Lux, Drew Montana, Gabe Oi, Jay Walker, Jukie Sunshine, Kentucky Fried Woman, Lance Armstar, Lil Miss Hot Mess, Lyric Styles, Momma’s Boyz, Ocean of Emotion, Phenix Love, Pidgeon von Tramp, Ricky T. Smiles, Ruby Vixen, Rusty Hips, Savory Sweet, Simone de la Getto, Starr69, Sugarbush Lane, The Dangers, Wife, Zelda du Jour, Brock Cocker, Mona Webb, DJ Olga T, DJ Rockaway, Celestina Pearl, Amy Adams, Arnetta King, Rubenesque Burlesque, Cherry Galette, Chan Dynasty, Susie McCaffery Our friends, families of choice and origin, lovers, partners, and allies, who support us in ways too numerous to list here ALL of our presenters, artists, performers, speakers, committee members, and amazing volunteers for dedicating their time, skills, and energy to make this conference possible! No Restrictions • 35 Logistics Workshops Adee Roberson (Artist) is a queer black artist currently based between New Orleans, Louisiana and Gainesville, Florida. An independent, self-taught, mixed media visual artist, Adee has curated and exhibited her art in numerous independent and alternative media/art venues across North America including Pensacola, FL, New Orleans, LA, Oakland, CA, Portland, OR, Providence, RI, and Montreal, Canada. Inspiration for her work is influenced by punk , hip-hop, and 1960s and 70s African psychedelic aesthetics, animals, the natural world, LOVE, and Resistance. Alex Cafarelli (Performer) is a genderqueer femme Jewish Witch who has been performing and writing erotica ever since her short story, Being Bisexual In One Day, was composed at age 10. Since then, her solo and collaborative work has blossomed to encompass crafty wordsmithing, internal martial arts, music, and ritual performance art that inspires sexual healing, spiritual awareness, and a mad dash of feisty femme resistance. Alex co-founded the Minneapolis-based performance group, the Psycick Slutz, in 1993, whose original work includes a capella singing, queer campy spoken word theatrics, and kinky anti-oppression themed Sex Magick. Alexis McCrimmon (Filmmaker) is a multimedia artist and filmmaker of Midwestern origins. Her media work ranges in mode, incorporating performative documentary, hybrid narrative strategies as well as elements of collage cinema. Currently, she is developing a new series of works exploring the theme of nostalgia and the transformation of public and private landscapes. Alexis’ film/video work has screened at the Wexner Center for the Arts, Frameline 32, Yerba Buena Center for the Arts, MIXNYC, Boston LGBT Film Festival and the BFI London Lesbian & Gay Film Festival. 36 • Femme2010 Performance Events Allegra, April, and Celeste Hirschman (Filmmakers) founded Hirschman Sisters Films in 2000. Their films focus on the comedic side of the LGBT world. Blood and Monkey, about Frida Kahlo, won Best Short Film in the SF VideoFest. They were inspired at a young age by their father, a devout videophile, who showed them the beauty of musicals. Allegra is possibly the only fifteen year old who wept when Gene Kelly died. Amelia Mae Paradise (Performer, Presenter) is founder/artistic director of Diamond Daggers burlesque company, an illustrious brood of vigilante vaudevillian teasers and the Bay Area’s longest running queer burlesque cabaret. With Diamond Daggers, Amelia has headlined across Europe. Amelia also serves on the core-committee of Sistahs Steppin’ In Pride: The East Bay Dyke March & Festival. With her wife, Sarah Paradise aka Sir Loin Strip, she is one half of The Bearded Ladies on Parade!, a story-telling, singing, dancing, wisecracking act that draws on the languages of Drag, Burlesque, and Husband/Wife comedy teams. They live in Oakland with their two dogs, Uncle Lewis and Frances, and their two kitties, Sadie and Mellie. Amy Saucier (Presenter) is a queer woman of color mental health consumer, advocate, and clinician originally from Chicago. She brings to her work as a social worker, five years of experience working with children and families involved with Child Protective Services in both San Francisco and Alameda County Family Preservation Programs. Amy’s training includes culturally sensitive therapy, in-home family therapy, human sexuality, and working with dual diagnosis populations. Amy is specializing in working with women of color and with issues related to gender fluidity, sexuality, sexual trauma, and sexual orientation. Art&Film Bios Anna Camilleri (Performer) has performed and read across Canada and the US in theatres, festivals, universities, and houses of ill-repute over the past 15 years, and most recently at the Queer Literary Kinships Symposium at Gent University, in Belgium. She is a founding member of SweLL (with Ivan E. Coyote and Lyndell Montgomery) and coauthored Boys Like Her: Transfictions. Camilleri is the writer and performer of one-woman shows Still Breathing Fire and Sounds Siren Red, author of critically acclaimed I Am a Red Dress, editor of Red Light: Superheroes, Saints and Sluts, and co-editor of Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity. Website: www.annacamilleri.com. Annie Schuessler (Presenter) is a couples therapist in private practice in San Francisco. She specializes in helping couples stuck in arguing and other painful patterns. She is a queer femme Mama of 2 young ones, an infant and a 7 year old. Ashley Eberlein (Artist) was born in Park City, Utah, then later ventured to less religious lands, and she rarely ventures without at least one of her cameras. “Sharing my photos, is my way of giving you a little present—here is something that I saw, that perhaps you didn’t, and it’s quite possible it won’t ever exist again; open it with your eyes, explore it with your whole you. What will you do with it? How does it affect you? Had you ever thought that thought before?” She is founder & CEO of An Eye For It, Productions and Memory Movies (Bay Area). Aster Wolfe and Mason Munson (Presenters) have been collaborators in fanciful distraction for many years. Co-producers and performers with is a working class femme who believes that politics are personal. And not just in that who’s-gonnawash-the-dishes kinda way. She has organized, performed, talked the talk and walked the walk. Caitlin Sweet (Presenter) is a gender queer switch hitting femme who hella loves other femmes. She is the perfect blend of Appalachian bohemian working class woo and radical dirty per- The Clackamas Community Cat Club (CCCC) strives to create cat-based art in a supportive, loving environment. Through interactive workshops, community building and outreach we hope to create a cozy catmosphere for all feline friends. The CCCC presents the Cattitude Dance Ensemble, the performance arm of our club. Celestina Pearl (Filmmaker, Performer, Presenter) is a Chicana Femme Dyke, artist, poet, bruja and queer Mama. She’s performed sola, with the Fierce Pussy Posse Cabaret Theatre Company, 3 years of Liquid Fire, in many shows at Lunasea Women’s Theatre, Debauchery LiveDykeSexTheatre, “Wet” an erotic cabaret by Lesbians of Color, Fairy Butch, and Cabaret de Nude. She starred in “Voluptuous Vixens” and “Please Don’t Stop,” two Good Vibrations erotic movies. Her film “Las Mañanitas,” about her Nana, showed at QWOCMAP and Frameline. She appears in “Femmes of Power” by Del LaGrace Volcano and Ulrika Dahl. She is raising her beautiful daughter Esperanza Lola and making a movie about creating queer family, called “Queer Spawning.” Charleston Chu (Presenter) is a genderqueer, genderfluid femme of Chinese American descent who lives in San Francisco, CA. are two fierce femme burlesque performers who’ve been individually titillating and tantalizing the west coast for the last five years. These ‘two tough cookies’ shimmy and shake the stage with sexy, playful, subversive antics to challenge “-isms” and create art that celebrates diversity, sexuality, and body-positive politics. Miz Snapz is currently a doctoral candidate at the University of Washington where she teaches a course on Burlesque and Feminism highlighting histories obscured by the dominant narrative of burlesque. Miss Tart is a founding member of Gayitease, a queer body-positive drag/burlesque troupe, and moonlights as a performance poet with the Bent Writing Institute. Bios Blyth Barnow (Presenter) Cattitude Dance Ensemble (Performers) Art&Film has long been involved in the non-violent communication (NVC) community and has worked as a community workshop facilitator and organizational consultant for some years. Training for licensure as a therapist with a focus on LGBTQ couples, she makes her home in Minneapolis, MN. Cherry Tart and Ginger Snapz (Performers) Events Bettina Stuecher (Presenter) loves femmes and motorcycles, so she decided to make a film about it. Mechanic’s Daydream has played all over the world, from San Francisco’s own Frameline Film Fest to Romania. Recently the film won the “Best Stunt” award. Performance is a Portland, OR based stand-up comic. Belinda sang Blues, R&B and Soul most of her life in various bands, and migrated naturally to comedy in 2002 with the sketch comedy troupe “The Tragedies.” Moving to Austin, TX in 2005, she branched into improvisational comedy, began stand-up comedy and discovered an art form that allows her to express all of the different parts of her performing background, and seek vengeance on students that mercilessly teased her throughout school. Belinda is a contributing writer for Ourbiggayborhood, GAY! E-mag and Curve Magazine, performs and produces shows throughout the US, and has headlined Portland and Austin Pride. Catherine Murty (Filmmaker) Charleston is a fussy yet sensitive drag king/queen, burlesque artist, dancer, and musician who has performed with The Bromantics, Mangoes With Chili, Model Minority Revolt, Butch Tap, The Transformers, The Fly Guys, Eye Candy, Freeplay Dance Crew, and Hogwarts Express: The Musical. Charleston’s alter ego is a clinical psychologist and has written about genderqueer and femme identities in Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity and Visible: A Femmethology. (Photo: Justin Beck) Workshops Belinda Carroll (Performer) vert queer. When she isn’t talking a mile a minute about queer sex, fashion, animals, magic, and sexism in the queer community, Caitlin is making art and doing body work. She published and edited the Femme Coloring Book and co-produced the Deep Lez Potluck and Performance Night. Logistics Portland based boy-lesque troupe Beefcake Burlesque; they both thoroughly enjoy the opportunity to address gender normative views, masculine icons and inter-species interactions both of and on the stage. Aster has recently relocated to Oakland to dwell in an intentional creative space and Mason is delighted to cross a few state and identity lines to come for a visit at Femme 2010! Chiara Manodori (Presenter) has been dancing for 27 years and graduated with a major in dance from the San Francisco School of the Arts. She studied music for 15 years and discovered partner dancing after college. She has taught two stepping, children’s dance classes, and west coast swing dance classes. Chiara is a certified yoga teacher and a licensed psychotherapist. She has participated in many styles of dance including jazz, modern contemporary dance, Duncan dance, folk dancing, American Contra, and country Western dance. She is on the board of directors at Sundance No Restrictions • 37 Logistics Workshops Association and is a regular host of the women’s social party at Sundance’s yearly San Francisco Stompede. She currently organizes and DJs for Texas Rose, a monthly women’s country western dance in Oakland. Corinna Nicole (Artist) discovered her passion of painting in 2005 during her sophomore year at the University of Montevallo - Alabama. Usually working in oil and preferring figurative art, her art usually deals with the human figure, human relationships and/or identity. In August 2008, she graduated Magna Cum Laude with her Bachelor of Arts. Currently residing in California, Corinna Nicole is pursuing her MFA in Art Practice at UC Berkeley. Courtney Trouble (Filmmaker, Presenter) is a Queer Porn Icon, known for her awardwinning porn site NoFauxxx.Com, her stunning photographs, and most recently her AVN-nominated and Feminist Photo by Rae Threat Porn Award winning films including Speakeasy, the Roulette series, the Seven Minutes in Heaven series, Bordello, Nostalgia, and Billy Castro Does the Mission. She’s an expert when it comes to creating highimpact, creative, gritty, and raw pornographic portraits on little to no budget, and also performs porn, makes music, writes books, and designs websites. www.CourtneyTrouble.Com, www. NoFauxxx.Com. Dana Rosenberg (Presenter) is a queer, Jewish, femme health teacher and school counselor, who has been promoting feminism and positive sexuality to youth for the last fifteen years in the Bay Area. She is a big mama of a sassy-pants eight and a half year old boy, who keeps her busy, and laughing. Dana is a proud Oakland native and has no reason to take up residence anywhere else. Performance Events Daphne Gottleib (Performer) Award-winning San Franciscobased Performance Poet Daphne Gottlieb stitches together the ivory tower and the gutter just using her tongue. She is the author of four books of poetry (most recently Kissing Dead Girls) and a graphic novel (illustrated by the amazing Diane DiMassa). She is also the editor of two anthologies, as well as the co-editor (with Lisa Kester) of Dear Dawn: The Letters of Aileen Wuornos, due from Soft Skull in Spring 2011. Photo credit: Joie Rey Cohen. Bios ducing SF’s only weekly burlesque show, RED HOTS BURLESQUE, now in its 3rd year at El Rio. Dottie hails from New York City, where she’s known to cause a ruckus with a horn, shake it up and bring bawdy brouhaha to well known stages like Coney Island Side Show, The Supper Club and Bowery Poetry Club. Also an educator, she has performed and lectured at NYU and Bard University. For more information on how to book her or just say hi, email redhotsburlesque.com. Dylan Ryan (Presenter) Dara Silverman (Presenter) is a consultant, organizer and trainer who has worked to build movements for economic, racial and gender justice over the past 15 years. She works with small/ mid-sized groups to build their organizing skills, fundraising and organizational capacity. Dara was the Executive Director of Jews for Racial and Economic Justice (JFREJ). Her work has appeared in the New York Times, Tikkun, Zeek, Heeb, Curve, the San Francisco Bay Guardian and Righteous Indignation: A Jewish Call for Justice. She co-authored The Love and Justice in Times of War Haggadah. She splits her time between consulting, farming, and teaching yoga. http://www.infovisions.org/rise. Dominika Bednarska (Performer, Presenter) is a doctoral student in English and Disability Studies and a queer disabled femme. Her writing has appeared in The Bellevue Literary Review, Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity, What I Want From You: An Anthology of East Bay Lesbian Poets, Niet Normaal: Difference On Display, and Cripping Femme. Her solo show entitled My Body Love Story was developed as part of the AIRspace residency program and was performed as part of the National Queer Arts Festival this past June. It is also cosponsored by FabledASP. Dottie Lux (Performer, Presenter) 38 • Femme2010 Art&Film Well, hello San Francisco! Dottie’s here and pro- is a porn star and grad student currently living in Toronto, Canada. A proud member of the queer porn revolution, Dylan is finishing up her Masters in Social Work where she wrote her thesis as an autoethnographic response to feminist critiques of porn. An avid supporter of sex workers, Dylan believes that sex work can be a safe, viable and empowering option for femmes. Elaina Ellis (Performer) worships at the Church of Poetic Intentions morning, noon, and night. She is proud to be a teacher at Bent, Seattle’s Queer Writing Institute, and is working towards her MFA in Creative Writing at Antioch University. In early 2009, she founded TumbleMe Productions, a dynamic site for multi-genre events of the wordy & nerdy variety. In its first 14 months, TumbleMe produced four standing-room-only, taboo-smashing shows incorporating poetry, music, and image. Recently Elaina was a Write Bloody Publishing manuscript contest winner; look for her first book for sale (and catch her on tour) in the year ahead! Erin Rosett (Artist) is a queer fat femme artist and educator born and raised in Michigan, now residing in Portland, OR. When not hanging out with her amazing roommates and tiny dog at Gaylords Paradise, she can be found teaching, hanging with little ones, crafting, and making femme art. She is particularly fond of block prints, stencils, collage, pen + ink, and gouache. Girlie Pink (Performer) also known as Miss Lola Sunshine, is really just your average, garden variety queer, is a rainbow of flavors rolled into one big, juicy, kinky, amazon hellcat. A native New Yorker who’s transplanted to the Bay Area via Music City, USA, she’s spent this wonderful life exploring, celebrating, working in and writing about the sexual panorama. Curently, Greta is happily working for Babeland, finding sex toys and spreadsheets equally thrilling, filling out her vintage porn collection and exploring the many wonders of Northern California . Haley Ausserer (Presenter) has been twostepping since 2005, when she learned the basics in Toronto before moving back to California in 2007. She has the good fortune to live in the Bay Area, where country-western dance opportunities abound. A tried and true country music lover, she has worked at both the Country Music Hall of Fame and Heather Acs (Performer, Presenter) is a Brooklynbased multimedia, theatre performance artist, activist, and educator. She creates nonlinear worlds layered with movement, soundscape, video, and storyPhoto by Ally Picard telling, refracted through working class Appalachian and Mexican cultural imagery. Her gritty, glittery work has been called “performance art that pushes boundaries without pushing the audience away” (Portland Phoenix) and featured at theatres, galleries, festivals, college/universities and conferences across the U.S., Canada, and Europe. Heather is also a dedicated teaching artist, using theatre as a tool for social change with low-income youth in cities throughout the United States. heatheracs.com. Bios is a queer femme Paisan pervert, and a writer, performer, and activist with a long history doing political organizing in and with queer, trans, and sex worker communities. Gina has performed, taught, and lectured everywhere from chapels to leatherbar backrooms, including Reed College, Yale University, and Harvard University. She is the founder and facilitator of Sex Workers’ Writing Workshop, a writing class for current and former sex workers. Gina is pursuing her MFA in Fiction Writing at San Francisco State University. She likes glitter, the color fuchsia, leopard print, and political discussion as foreplay. www.ginadevries.com. Greta Carey (Presenter) ‘Older, wiser, sensuous to the bone,’ Happy/ L.A. Hyder wrote for an ad 10 or so years ago. The writing she’ll share comes from many years to immediate. The dance she has been dancing for 40 years, just as long as she has been making images. For more: www.lahyderphotography.com. Art&Film Gina De Vries (Performer) is a fat, queer, high femme activist and performance artist from Berlin, Germany. She blends burlesque, strip tease, theatre and comedy to produce explosive, politically infused performances full of trashy high drama and femme extravagance. She draws from a wide range of cultural influences including Hitchcock, Dolly Parton, Ancient Greece, feminist literature and Divine; for parody, critique and homage. Offstage Goldie is an activist, film maker and playwright, as well as holding down various day jobs. She is currently working on a documentary about fat queer performance activists. www.emmacorbettashby.co.uk. Happy/L.A. Hyder (Performer) Events is a writer, performer, activist and late stage lyme disease, babesia and bartonella warrior. She is also a proud Femme who loves her community and misses the SF/ Bay like mad, but has found tremendous reasons to love living in the South. Her writing appears at Lodestar Quarterly, www.hipmama.com, Without a Net: The Female Experience of Growing Up Working Class, It’s So You: 35 Women Write About Personal Expression Through Fashion and Style, and the upcoming anthology: Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation (edited by S. Bear Bergman and Kate Bornstein). helphealfran.org Goldie Dartmouth (Performer) Museum and Country Music Television (CMT), and is currently employed at roots music label Arhoolie Records. Her video Letters to Dolly screened at the Femme2006 conference. Performance Fran Varian (Performer) high femme, switch, slut, sexworker, pervert, and burlesque performer. She enjoys destroying dichotomies, dissecting absolute truths, and dismantling heteronormativity. She believes in sex, glitter, energy explosions, good manners, and cooking with real bacon, butter, and sugar. If you haven’t seen her boobs onstage in Chicago, Las Vegas, Baltimore, Dallas, or San Francisco, then try visiting her at work at the Lusty Lady. Workshops is a radical queer Pakistani femme youth worker originally from the Midwest, now residing in Seattle, WA. She envisions and works toward a world where her femme, and its intersections with her race and religion, is appreciated as an integral part of her resistance. Logistics Fatima Arain (Presenter) Heaven Mousalem (Performer) Having studied dance for ten years, Heaven Mousalem felt she was ready to explore her own cultural roots through dance. Under the tutelage of the legendary Shabnam of Oakland, CA, she embarked on a journey that ultimately led her into the depths of her own soul. Through Belly Dance, Heaven strengthened her core and discovered the power of self love. She claimed the sacred feminine held deep within herself and each woman. Whether it is performing with Shabnam’s Shalabiya troupe or performing solo, Heaven hopes to share this joy of life and celebration of beauty and dance with everyone present. No Restrictions • 39 Logistics Workshops Indigo Blue (Performer) With a strong dance and theater background and extensive experience as a stripper, Miss Indigo Blue brings sensuality, musicality, eroticism, and humor to her carefully crafted routines. Photo by Sheena Lee Based in Seattle, Miss Indigo has performed across the globe, most recently Stockholm, Shanghai, Lisbon, Dublin, London, and Amsterdam, and she is a three-time aware winner at the Miss Exotic World competition. In 2008 she was selected by Heeb Magazine for the “Heeb 100”, won “Sexiest Eyes” at the New York Burlesque Festival, and starred in the documentary film “A Wink And A Smile” about her Academy of Burlesque. Indira Allegra (Filmmaker) is a writer and artist concerned with emotional intimacy, the body as landscape, spirit, and states of hyperawareness. Her short film Blue Covers debuted at the 2008 National Queer Arts Festival and has screened at festivals and events in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Boston, Calgary, AB and Vancouver, BC. In 2008, she co-facilitated the artistic vision of performance project Sins Invalid, a re/view of embodiment for artists exploring intersections of sexuality and disability. Indira’s writing has appeared in Wordgathering: An Online Journal of Disability Poetry, the 2008 Artists Against Rape Chapbook and Make/ Shift Magazine. Indira is of African, Cherokee and Irish descent. JAC Stringer (Performer, Presenter) is a radical genderqueer-femme trans-activist born and raised in the Midwest. JAC is the founding director of The GenderQueer Coalition and The Queer Wellness Initiative, an original member of the drag troupe The Black Mondays, and an avid blogger on MidwestGenderQueer.com. JAC’s alter-ego, the genderfuckingly fabulous JAC McFaggin’, is a pleather and feather wearing euro-star who has performed across the country both solo and with The Black Mondays. In addition to his activist work and 40 • Femme2010 Performance Events performing, JAC is pursuing research in sexology and gender studies focusing on non-pathologized gender variance and GID reform, transgender and queer health access, and queer sexualities. Jen Cross (Presenter) is a writer, performer, facilitator, and femme dyke incest survivor. Her writing appears in over thirty anthologies and periodicals, including Make/ Shift, Nobody Passes, Visible: A Femmethology, and Best Sex Writing 2008. She tours with the Body Heat Femme Porn Tour, for which she’s produced two chapbooks. She’s featured at such Bay Area literary events as Femina Potens’ Sizzle, Writers With Drinks, and the National Queer Arts Festival. Jen has facilitated sexuality and survivors writing workshops since 2002. She received her MA in Transformative Language Arts from Goddard College, and is a certified facilitator of the Amherst Writers & Artists method. www. writingourselveswhole.org Jenna Riot (Filmmaker) is a fierce-femme force of nature. Jenna Riot makes your electropop dance floor dreams come true. Her style & glamour are innovative & unique. Not only does she work hard fixin’ up beats & heartthrob bruises, she also raps and sings with KATASTROPHE in their up and coming music project, Ice Cream Socialites: www.myspace.com/icecreamsocialites. www.jennariot.com. Jessica Halem (Performer) called “BRAVE and BAWDY” by Time Out Chicago, was raised by hippie Jewish artists from the East Coast which was anything but normal - or easy - in small town Ohio. But it did help to foster this very funny “on-your-face” comic who puts her queer spin on Sudafed, sexual politics, and glory holes. Art&Film Bios Jessica McPherson (Performer, Presenter) is a fierce, wordspattering, pole dancing, glittertwirling, feministtheory-obsessed femme from Littleton, CO, currently residing in Seattle, WA. She is a Graduate Assistant at Seattle University working on her Master’s in Education. She believes each clink of her high heels hitting the pavement is revolutionary. She is committed to challenging patriarchy with protest, pole dancing and an anti-capitalistic analysis of feminine expression and glamour. Her social justice work includes, but is not limited to, feminist justice, challenging heteronormative culture, eating disorder awareness in queer spaces, and trans activism. Jewelle Gomez (Presenter) is the author of seven books including the double Lambda Literary Awardwinning novel, THE GILDA STORIES. She was on the founding boards of GLAAD and the Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justice and taught one of the first lesbian studies courses in the country at Hunter College (NYC) in 1985. She was on the board of the early Lesbian/Feminist journal CONDITIONS, and her writing appeared in numerous other early queer periodicals such as “On our Backs,” “Girlfriends,” “The Advocate,” and many that don’t exist anymore. Her forthcoming novel is entitled TELEVISED and she’s finishing a play about James Baldwin. She is President of the SFPL Commission. Joey Cupcake (Filmmaker) lives in San Francisco. She is published in several Canadian anthologies and was half of the infamous fat burlesque duet The Chainsaw Chubbettes. Currently, she is a hairdresser who is constantly searching for the next feminist dance party. All queer femme, all the time. Juliet November (Presenter) is a white, queer, working-class, anti-racist and anti-capitalist sex worker, grassroots organizer, Kai Barrow (Presenter) is a national organizer with Critical Resistance, an organization working to abolish the Prison-Industrial Complex. KB TuffNStuff (Filmmaker) Ph.D., femme, is the creative catalyst/midwife of “”Fabled Asp””- Fabulous/ Activist Bay Area Lesbians with Disabilities: A Storytelling Project (www. fabledasp.com). Her recent writing and art has been published in the open issue of Sinister Wisdom, featured in the short film SIX and displayed at CHRONO- is a writer, performer and teacher who moonlights as drag king Arty Fishal. Arty was crowned SF Drag King ‘98. In his heyday Arty could be seen gracing many a Bay Area cabaret stage and scaring the midwesterners on various daytime television programs. Arty is now mostly in retirementhis swan song featured a gyrating eight months pregnant belly. Leslie Einhorn is the director of CASA (Children’s After School Arts). Lillith Grey (Presenter) is a queer femme currently living in the Dallas area. Part diva, part academic masochist, her favorite hobbies are hula-hooping, rounding up fresh leather, scalping fundamentalists, and spanking insolent pin-up girls. She is on the Advisory Council for the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, working to affirm sexual freedom as a fundamental human right. She is also an instructor in the Dallas Mentors’ Training Program, and presents educational workshops on a variety of topics, including research, personality, sign language, and multicultural/diversity issues. Lillith owns and runs Gloryhole Productions (www.GirlsGoneGloryhole.com) and Sex in Power (www.SexInPower.com), and can be contacted through www.LillithGrey.com. Marisa Hackett (Presenter) Bios Laura Rifkin (Presenter) Leslie Einhorn (Presenter) received her MFA in Playwriting from San Francisco State University, where she was a twotime winner of the Highsmith Playwriting Award. In 2000, Maria ventured into filmmaking. Her first film, I’d Rather Be… Gone, premiered at the San Francisco International Lesbian and Gay Film Festival to a sold-out audience. Lucha, co-written with San Francisco artist and activist Tina D’Elia, won the Audience Award for Best Short in the 2009 San Francisco International LGBT Film Festival and was a nominee of the 2009 Iris Prize. She recently completed her second feature film, Mother Country. Art&Film is a psychotherapist in Berkeley, CA, where she specializes in psychotherapy with gender radicals, postcolonial activists, queer parents, students and artists (www. keikolanemft. com). A longtime survivor of ACT UP and Queer Nation, she has been a queer and mixed-race activist in social justice, international solidarity and inter-community dialog issues for 20 years. Keiko, who is a published poet, essayist and academic, also teaches graduate queer and multicultural psychologies, and the embodied literature of exile. Keiko is adjunct faculty in the Somatic Psychology Department at the California Institute of Integral Studies, and a clinical supervisor at the Center for Somatic Psychotherapy. Maria Breaux (Filmmaker) Events Keiko Lane, MFT (Presenter) is a queer disabled Sri Lankan writer, performer and teacher. The author of Consensual Genocide, her writing has appeared in the anthologies Yes Means Yes, Visible: A Femmethology, and Homelands, Colonize This, and We Don’t Need Another Wave, to name a few. The Revolution Starts At Home: Confronting Intimate Violence Within Activist Communities, which she co-edited with Ching-In Chen and Jai Dulani, will be published by South End Press in March 2011. She holds an MFA in Creative Writing from Mills College, focusing on creative nonfiction and community-based teaching by writers of color. is a 29 year old queer Chicana femme currently based in the Bay Area. Lisa Marie has been an anti-PIC, homeless rights, and youth organizer for the better part of 10 years and currently works as the National Campaign Director with Critical Resistance. Lisa Marie is fiercely anti-capitalist and fights for a world where no cages, borders, or binaries determine how we treat one another. Performance A Two-Spirit musician who is a NYC native and SF resident, KB’s adventures include teenage CBGB punk band shows, post-production audio for B-grade horror movies and on to Drag King queer blues performance as TuffNStuff: The Last Delta Drag King. Leah Lakshmi PiepznaSamarasinha (Performer, Presenter) Lisa Marie (Presenter) Workshops Kathy Brady (Presenter) is a queer femme parent of two girls, a toddler and a tween. She and her family currently live and work in Oakland. TOPIA: The Past, Present and Future of Queer Histories as part of Lineage ll: Matchmaking in the Archives. She has been creatively living with a disability for over 30 years and has been actively exploring butch/femme identities and chemistry for longer than that! Laura spearheaded the movement to have 2010 named as The Year for Honoring Lesbians with Disabilities. Logistics writer and fierce femme with a deep love for community resilience and the visioning beyond the prison industrial complex. is a queer bi femme who sometimes uses the phrase ‘boyscout femme’ to describe her ability to always carry rain friendly shoes. Currently living in Seattle where she is learning to be a social worker and doula, she hopes to someday have a dream job that involves deconstructing the heteropatriarchy and babies. A disciple of Lady Gaga, she channels her ballerina experience into starting spontaneous dance parties and can be found planning queer mixers, femme organizing and creating original pieces of clothing in her spare time. Mary Burnet (Filmmaker) is a queer feminist living in Halifax, Nova Scotia. No Restrictions • 41 Logistics Workshops Performance Events Mary Guzmán (Filmmaker) Melissa Koch (Presenter) is an award winning filmmaker. Her films have screened in Spain, France, Australia, Indonesia and across the U.S. Three of them are in distribution. Ms. Guzmán has directed theatre for The Playwrights Foundation, San Francisco, and The Lark Theater, NYC. Theatre directing highlights include Enrique Urueta’s Learn To Be Latina at IMPACT Theatre, San Francisco and Bright Ideas at Shotgun Players, Berkeley. Currently she is directing Forever Never Comes for Crowded Fire Theater Company, has completed the screenplay for her mystery titled, Lost Dog and is creating a women’s college basketball TV pilot titled Starting Five. is a Midwestern, working-class, femme, multidisciplinary media-artist who has directed narrative short films and has worked in documentary video, photography, and radio. Her feature-length documentary directorial debut, The Red Tail, premiered at the 2009 Galway Film Fleadh and has been touring festivals internationally for the past year. Melissa has a BA in Cultural Studies, Media Arts, and Social Justice from the University of Minnesota, Twin Cities and is a new graduate student in the Social Documentation program at the University of California, Santa Cruz. She has worked with queer, community & arts organizations for the past 12 years. Mayra Mendoza (Presenter) Michelle Miguelez (Filmmaker) is a queer ally from East Oakland. An all around peer educator, Mayra spends her time spreading the word about political issues, sexual health, and legal resources. She is also studying identity politics in international relations at San Francisco State and works on issues related to Indigenous Peoples’ rights through the International Indian Treaty Council. Meghan Pergrem (Presenter) is a 24 year old queer organizer and community educator. She works for the Broadway Youth Center (BYC) as a Program Assistant for their Drop-In Program and co-organizes their Peer Advocate Project, a collective for LGBTQA youth of color engaging in popular education and leadership skills. Upon completing her degree in Gender, Sex, and Sexuality at Antioch College in Ohio, Meghan served as the Community Manager of Non-Stop Liberal Arts, before moving to Chicago to engage in youth organizing through After School Matters, Affinity Community Services, and the BYC. Her work centers around Rape Culture awareness, sexual wellness, and gender identity. 42 • Femme2010 is a queer chica from New Orleans, Louisiana. She has been living in the Bay Area for the past 9 years. She’s an educator, poet, storyteller, and a filmmaker. Miasia (Performer) Mi-a-sia \ My-Asia \ n.: A dedicated Middle Eastern Belly Dance performer and teacher whose experience in Burlesque serves to create a uniquely satisfying entertainment experience. Captivating audiences all over the U.S., as well as Canada, Turkey, and Egypt, Miasia seeks to open the doorway of dance to include all sizes and abilities. Audiences find themselves seduced by sensual movement that explodes the myths of what fat women can and will do with their bodies. Synonyms: Spellbinding, Sassy, Agile, Sensual, Tantalizing. To learn more about Miasia, visit her website at www.miasia.org. The Miracle Whips (Performers) is a queer femme performance troupe that works to promote models of progressive femininity, to Art&Film Bios create radical erotic possibilities, and to disrupt conventional notions of sexiness. This feminist collective provides a healthy dollop of sass with their social commentary. Incorporating performance art, sketches, song and dance, and take on gender and social issues through sexuality and irreverent humor, they’ve performed throughout L.A. and at Femme Conferences 06 and 08. Missy Fuego / Meliza Bañales (Performer, Presenter) writes books, sews clothes, and makes movies. She has toured with Sister Spit: The Next Generation and Body Heat: The Femme Porn Tour. Her two most recent films are Do the Math with Mary Guzman and Getting Off with J Aguilar, and she is currently on crew for the feature film Mother Country (Maria Breaux). She was featured in FTF: Female to Femme and the photo book Femmes of Power. She is working on a spoken-word album with Crunks Not Dead Records and another collection of short stories, Life Is Wonderful, People Are Terrific. She makes art in San Francisco. Molly McKay & Davina Kotuski (Presenters) Since 1998, Molly McKay and Davina Kotuski have been active together in the fight to secure marriage equality for same-sex couples through grassroots organizing. Molly, an attorney, is currently the National Media Director of Marriage Equality USA®. Davina, a psychologist, is the former Executive Director of Marriage Equality USA and authors of the books Why You Should Give a Damn About Gay Marriage (2004) and Love Warriors: The Rise of the Marriage Equality Movement and Why We Will Prevail (2010). Molly and Davina co-founded the annual national marriage counter actions on Freedom to Marry Day in 2001 where same-sex couples request marriage licenses at their local marriage counters to render the discrimination visible and tell their stories of how they are harmed by the inability to marry. Molly and Davina were one of the first couples to be married in San Francisco in 2004 (later nullified by the California Supreme Court) and re-married on their 12th anniversary in September 2008. Morgan Bassichis (Presenter) is a queer anti-racist organizer with Community is a San Francisco-based writer, performer and musician. She teaches voice lessons and nurtures collaborations with her band, “nomy lamm & THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD.” She has co-written a post-apocalyptic genderqueer rock opera (“The Transfused”), released two solo albums (“Anthem” and “Effigy”), and toured with Sister Spit and The Sex Workers Art Show. She currently writes an advice column for Make/Shift magazine (makeshiftmag.com), performs with Sins Invalid (sinsinvalid.org), and is working on her first novel, The Best Part Comes After the End, as a grad student at SF State. is a first year Master’s student at San Francisco State University in the College of Ethnic Studies, focusing on gender and sexuality. As a self-described plus-sized Chicana, Patricia focuses her research on issues of body, gender, space and sexuality. Her research interests include representations of fat women of color in the media, third world feminism, third space history, Chicana bodies as a location of intersectionality, and Chicana Lesbian Literature. She plans to complete her Master’s degree in Ethnic Studies with a thesis on reclaiming the experiences of Fat Chicanas and other Latinas and move on to a doctoral program. Peter Pizzi (Filmmaker) is a filmmaker, photographer and installation artist from Boston, MA. In 1999, he formed the production company Magic Club Productions. Queen Hollis (Presenter) For the last 28 + yrs of my life I have been a Global Community Spiritual Activist/ Shawoman. My collective journey as a practitioner of universal/ indigenous spiritual practices, including Mamahood,teaching,Kundalini yoga, West African dance, Elemental based Ritual and ceremony, Founder of Ancestors Daughters a Women and Girls Rites of Passage, Youth Mentoring Connection, Spiritual Counselor and Ritualist for Unitybridges.org ,Creating Sacred Spaces, Ceremonial Crafting, Founder of Earth Pit Ceremonies (return to the womb journey), Co-founder of BLU (Blacklesbiansunited.org), Initiated in Ifa, Sacred Sweat lodge, Mahikari, Poetry, Creative Writing and more… Bios Nomy Lamm (presenter) Patricia Valladolid (Presenter) is a collective of bay area based queers interested in dissecting gender norms and systems of gender oppression; comprised of Charleston Chu, Lance ArmStar, Scout B Naughty, and Kore Ansoul, Psychobabble made their debut at Rally the Troops 6 and include current and former members of the Citizen Kings, the Saucy Knickers, Dancing with the Star(Trekkie)s, Bromantics, Freeplay Dance Crew & Hogwarts Express: The Musical, Rhythmless Nation, Butchtap, Mangoes With Chili, Model Minority Revolt, The Transformers, The Fly Guys, and Eye Candy. Art&Film is a one woman powerhouse of high femme queerness, with a following of devoted fans around the world. Her infamous performance antics are an experience in themselves, as Nicky interacts with her audience in femme extremity, often incorporating bizarre costumes and sexy props into her acts. Her music spans jump-up party dance music, and electro sensibilities, spiced with emotive lyricism and saucy storytelling. At femme 2010 she will share a part of her new piece: the one doll show. www. nickyclick.com, http://www.crunksnotdead.com. is a white queer stonebutch woman and proud New Englander. Currently the Development Manager at the Transgender Law Center, she has previously done a variety of public health, organizing, and fundraising work. She spends her free time adoring her dog and cat, appreciating Bay Area people (and weather), and supporting local organizations that do anti-violence, racial justice, and economic justice work. PSYCHOBABBLE (Performers) Events Nicky Click (Performer) Paige Kruza (Presenter) His work explores themes of sexuality, gender and identity. His recent directed short film titles include Sucker, The Face of God and Dream of an ex-girlfriend. His work has been described as provocative, political and comical. He enjoys working with props such as puppets, masks and his alter ego - Mr. Bunny. His films and artwork have been featured in Art Galleries and Film Festivals both nationally and internationally. www. magicclubfilms.com. Performance MuLotta TaTa’s (aka Malcolm PeX) is a former member of the Transformers, ButchTap, and Hogwarts Express and a current member of Seattle-based tap sensation Time to Heel. She’s grateful to be on the FemmeCon stage to shake her sugar makers. Sugarbush Lane is thrilled to join MuLotta TaTa’s for a fabulous duet. After a delectable debut in “Trekking With the Stars,” Sugarbush was fortunate enough to be taken under several glittery burlesque wings and has been performing silly, sweet and sassy numbers around the Bay Area ever since. She hopes your sweet tooth will have you coming back for more! Told for too long she wasn’t gay enough, brown enough, active enough, or good enough, Norma Elena Sanchez exemplifies the healing required to survive sexism, internalized homophobia and racism. She’s emerged with a focus on the heart and stubbornly insisting she’s as normal as the girl next door. She mentors other young women with this same process, is a successful businesswoman in the Bay Area and ain’t afraid to admit she may very well be the biggest pervert in the room. She embraces this sisterhood for the visibility it gives her and the camaraderie in all things queer, femme, moral and naughty. Workshops MuLotta TaTa’s & Sugarbush Lane (performers) Norma Elena Sanchez (Presenter) Logistics United Against Violence and the Transgender, Gender Variant, and Intersex Justice Project in San Francisco, and loves the struggle to end all forms of violence! Ruby Vixen (Performer) is an atomic bombshell with a love for all things big, queer and naughty. She can’t wait to shake what her momma gave her for all the delicious femmes, femme-lovers and allies at Femme Con! You can catch her at the monthly fundraiser Debauchery! A strip club for queers of all genders - every 3rd Sunday at the White Horse Inn, Oakland. No Restrictions • 43 Logistics Workshops Ruth Villasenor (Filmmaker) is Chiricahua Apache and Mexican and identifies as Two Spirit. Her Two Spirit activism includes involvement in Bay Area American Indian Two-Spirits (BAAITS), the Native American Health Center, and currently as the Native American Outreach Director for Marriage Equality. She and her wife are owners of Paws & Claws, a natural pet food store in Oakland, CA. In her different roles, Ruth has been a vehicle for proud unity and change in her community. Through her energetic spirit and tireless efforts she has helped educate Natives and non native alike to the historical acceptance of two spirit people. Performance Events LGBTQ community and is a graduate of the Women’s Initiative, Simple Steps to Success business program. She also holds a BS degree in Political Science from the University of California, Berkeley. Spring served 5+ years in the US Air Force and is a published, lesbian of color, writer of erotic fiction. Spring is happily single and LIVING LIFE with her extended Tribe and her feline-familiar, Peejo, in beautiful Oakland, CA. The QUEERleaders (Performers) This bicoastal duet of fiesty femme fruitcakes reunited to perform their legendary halftime show at Femme 2010. Co-Captains AMAZING GRACE (aka Ingrid Elizabeth of sultry roots duo “Coyote Grace”, Sonoma County, CA) & STRANGE POWERS (aka Noelle Powers, mastermind behind “Hooping Powers”, Baltimore, MD) use their big mouths, short skirts & high kicks to fight homophobia and cheer on genderlicious love in all its brave & breathtaking forms. You never seen fly girls lookin’ so gay, you never seen gay girls lookin’ so fly! Savannah Kilner (Presenter) is a 23 year old white queer/ femme who grew up in the Bay Area and organizes against policing in Oakland and beyond. Her politics are guided by women of color feminism and grounded in prison abolitionism. She believes that we all have a stake in each other’s liberation. Sophia Lanza-Weil (Presenter) is a queer femme with rough edges, happily identified as an old-school, working class and feminist femme. She is committed to anti-oppression work in activism and communities, and currently works as a union organizer. She has been involved with various queer and trans groups across the country; and has also worked with HIV/AIDS advocacy and education, youth sexual health advocacy, and immigrant, worker and women’s rights groups in the US and in Mexico. Sophia adores high-heeled boots, motorcycles, books and traveling. Spring Opara (Presenter) is the President of Blac Gurlz Ink – www. blacgurlzink.com, a greeting card business that specializes in creating premium greeting cards for the 44 • Femme2010 Sabrina Chap (Filmmaker) is a songwriter/ performer whose brand of vaudevillian stomp is currently “Queering up Ragtime” (the Queerist). She’s currently touring the East with her spankin’ brand new album, “Oompa!” with a band of burlesque ladies, fire eaters and sideshow freaks. Also a writer, she edited the Lambda nominated book, “Live Through This - On Creativity and Self-Destruction” (Seven Stories Press) and often lectures on women, art and self-destruction when she’s not wearing glitter on her chest and flirting with the crowd. Sara Brickman (Performer) is a ten year veteran of the spoken word stage. She is proud to have represented the youth community of Ann Arbor, the Hampshire College Slam Collective, and Photo by Andi Dean the Seattle Poetry Slam. An instructor and student at Seattle’s Bent Writing Institute, the world’s only writing school for queer folks, she teaches and performs nationwide. Her work plants seeds where the factory’s torn down, buzzing around the hive of gender, Judaism, magic, the Rust Belt, and femme identity. She prefers her ukulele tuned and her sweaters argyle. She gulps her breath-notes in Seattle, Washington. Art&Film Bios Sara Lesser (Presenter) is a queer femme parent of 2 cuties. She and her butch partner co-parent with 2 gay men. She is a psychotherapist working with individuals and couples in Oakland. Sarah Astarte (Presenter) is a native Californian, and is the oldest of four children. Sarah attended UC Santa Cruz, where she received her BA in Psychology. She went on to the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology where she received a Master’s in Psychology and her Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology. Her research is on body image in adult females, Jungian psychology, and the Lover archetype. Sarah is certified in creative expression and is a licensed minister, being an initiated shamanic healer and priestess in neo-pagan traditions. Sarah has also been an activist in peace and diversity. Shar Rednour (Presenter) Author of The Femme’s Guide to the Universe, is also the director and co-producer of Healing Sex featuring Staci Haines which helps us heal intimacy with ourselves and others after surviving abuse or trauma. This revolutionary project helps heal the world so everyone can enjoy her company’s other endeavors like Hard Love & How to Fuck In High Heels, Sugar High Glitter City or the Bend Over Boyfriend series. She is a creative, strong, and funny mother to 3 and wife to 1– Jackie Strano. Her mommy revelations can be found on goodvibessexymama.com. Shawna Virago (Filmmaker, Performer) is a celebrated transgender songwriter whose music twists together roots rock and folkpunk, creating anthems for a new generation. A transsexual feminist icon for the 21st century, Virago’s songs are windows into queer and transgender life. Her performances are celebrated for their compelling mix of original songs, storytelling and standup – with exceptional lyrics ranging from sexy to sarcastic, haunting to heartfelt. The San Francisco Bay Times said, “If In 1993, Sweet LillyBee - Incendiary Burlesque talent, Healer & Priestess - flew into Minneapolis on the back of a vengeful goddess and has never looked back. Bringing a classic look with a hot, modern twist, she’s a powerhouse on the stage. A true renaissance woman, she passionately lives Life as Art. Sweet LillyBee performs in many capacities with a focus on burlesque, fetish, fire arts, alternative theatre and ritual performance. She has taken her act on the road and is slowly conquering the world one sizzling step at a time! www.SweetLillyBee.com. Tamale (Performer) is a cutting edge interdisciplinary performer based out of Chicago. She earned her bachelors from the University of Arizona in Agricultural Education, then followed the natural progression to Tasha Fierce (Presenter) is a 30-something freelance writer, social justice blogger, and avid consumer of Twinkies. A raging Aries, she spends most of her time writing and building her burgeoning media empire, although she is occasionally interrupted by a part-time job. She’s written about race politics, fat acceptance, mental illness, disability and feminism in several zines, including Evolution of a Race Riot and the zine she edited from 19982001, Bitchcore. She has contributed to Jezebel, Shapely Prose, Racialicious, FWD/Forward, and her work has also been featured in The Huffington Post. http://redvinylshoes.com. You can add her on Twitter @redvinylshoes. Tina D’Elia (Filmmaker) is a queer/dyke-identified, power-femme, mixed-race Mexican/ Italian/German, actor, playwright, performance poet, and award-winning screenwriter. She is best known for her onewoman show Groucho: a Day in the D’Elia Soup, presented at the National Queer Arts Festival (02) Victoria Hegemony (Performer) Victoria Bell Hegemony of the Down-Down South is a Dada Performance Radical and more importantly, the Femme mother of nonsense drag house: The House of Hegemony. Victoria is an Argentinian, Salt Lake City born self-proclaimed southerner who has performed in outlandish places like Slovenia and Denmark and landish ones like Carrboro, NC. She holds a Bachelorette in Performance Studies from UNC and intends to put that degree to good use by making performances for her queer family. Victoria spent much of her life believing she was a princess and her most recent work focuses on the experiences of femininity by little princesses. Bios Sweet LillyBee (Performer) Composed of current and former members of Kings & Things, Burlesque-Esque, the Queen Bees, the Transformers, ButchBallet, Hogwarts Express, and ButchTap, these hotties of Bay Areabased Titland bring a wealth of dance, burlesque, and drag experience to the table. They aim to thrill, tease, turn-on, tame, and titillate their audiences through their unique style of dancing and twirling. It’s T’n’T all the way with these gals, so get ready to explode with excitement for Cherry Poppins, Starr69, & Kentucky Fried Woman as they take you to an oasis known as Titland! is the working class queer femme poet who founded Bent, a writing institute for LGBTIQ people in Seattle, WA. She is a founding member of Salt Lines, the all woman performance poetry group that toured the U.S. in March of 2009 & 2010 in honor of Women’s History Month. From 2008-2009, Tara was the only poet in the country to perform on six National Poetry Slam finals stages. Her work has been published in various journals and anthologies, her upcoming book of poems is scheduled to be published by Write Bloody press in the spring of 2011. To contact Tara, email wordyfemme@ hotmail.com. www.tarahardy.net. Titland (Performers) Art&Film is a queer adoptee of color whose writing and activism focus on exposing the racism and imperialism inherent in the transracial adoption industry. A co-conspirator behind Transracial Abductees, one of the first websites by and for critical transracial adoptees, she now blogs at Outlandish Remarks on wordpress. Tara Hardy (Performer) Events So Yung Kim (Presenter) and the Women on the Way Festival (02). She recently performed her new solo show, The Rita Hayworth of this Generation (NQAF 2010). In 2009 D’Elia and director Maria Breaux co-wrote & co-produced, Lucha. Lucha won Best Short Film at Frameline (09). Currently D’Elia is writing a full-length feature screenplay. tinadelia.com. Performance is a lesbian psychotherapist in the SF/Bay Area who has practiced extensively in the LGBTI community for the past 20 years. She works with couples and individuals as well as providing professional consultation. Her work is relational, empathic, collaborative and grounded in the larger social/cultural context. She is on the faculty of the Women’s Therapy Center where she supervises interns and provides professional development groups. becoming a comedian and performance artist in Chicago. Having toured internationally with both the Windy City Blenders and with independent projects, Tamale incorporates comedy, burlesque, drag, fire dancing, and tribal belly dancing into her work to create exciting, original pieces. Named America’s Seventh Funniest Lesbian in 2008, she is becoming popular on the stand-up circuit. www.TamaleRocks.com Workshops SJ Kahn, MFT (Presenter) Logistics Keith Richards was a tranny that got together with Merle Haggard, Shawna Virago would be their love child.” She is also the Artistic Director of Tranny Fest, the nation’s first transgender film festival. www.shawnavirago.com Virgie Tovar (Presenter) is a sex educator, author and fat activist. Her first book, Destination DD: Adventures of a Breast Fetishist with 40DDs (2007) earned her the title of Best Sex Writer 2008 in the SF Bay Guardian. She began her career as an activist while teaching a women’s sexuality course at her alma mater, UC Berkeley, where she also directed and produced Irreverence Is Our Right: Monologues by Women of Color. Spotted by CBS radio, she became the host of The Virgie Show, a show on sex and relationships on 106.9FM. She is pursuing her Master’s degree in Human Sexuality Studies at San Francisco State University. www. virgietovar.weebly.com. No Restrictions • 45 Femme 2010 ONGOING Conference Schedule OCC 205 OCC East Hall ENTRANCE Childcare Art Show Vendor Fair FRIDAY OCC EAST HALL OCC 201 OCC 202 OCC 203 OCC 204 9am-10:15am FEMBODY Flash Mob Movement Workshop FREE Session Non-Violent Communication FREE Session FREE Session 10:30am-11:45am TechFemme: Femme Blogging & Social Media Read Between the Lines: A Hands-On Guide to Sexy Sign Language(SSL) PolyFemmory: Living, Loving, and Fucking as Poly and Femme Show Production 101 FREE Session 12:00pm-1:00pm Lunch break Lunch break Lunch break Lunch break Lunch break 1:15pm-2:30pm Country-Western Two-Step Workshop Wild Geese: Femme Surviviors Write May I Kiss You?: Sexual Communication & Consent Red Hots Burlesque School of Shimmy My Kind of Crazy: Femmes confront the stigma & stereotypes at the intersections of queer femininity, mental illness, & other identities 2:45pm-4:00pm Quit Fucking Taking Us For Granted: How to Survive the Movement as a Femme How Fat Women of Color Queer Femme Singing as Social Justice Our Power Is Larger Than Our Size: Making Visible Queer Femme Disordered Eating FREE Session 4:15pm-5:15pm OPENING REMARKS 6:00pm-9:00pm Welcome Reception Femmes on Fire: Spoken Word & Stand Up Performances @ City Center Grill 9:00pm-12:30pm OFFSITE: Friday Night Lights: Line Dancing, Music & a Risque Cabaret! Oakland Metro Opera House, 630 3rd St, Oakland SATURDAY OCC EAST HALL OCC 201 OCC 202 OCC 203 OCC 204 9am-10:15am Starting the Revolution from Within: How to Use Meditation to Heal and Fuck Shit Up! Embodying Dialogue: A Creative Exploration of Femme Talk Back! Responding to Anti-Femme and AntiButch Comments Within LGBTQ Communities RAW DIVINE! - Honoring Your Femme Spirit! - sacred space workshop- FREE Session 10:30am-11:45am Enabling What?- Femmes talk about Disability, Gender and Sexuality: poetry, and conversation with Fabled Asp Femmes & Aging Pastie Making Queer Femme Porn Panel Positively Lovely 12:00pm-1:00pm Femmes Over 40 Caucus/ Lunch Break Femmes of Color Caucus/ Lunch Break Femme Trans Women Caucus/ Lunch Break BDSM Femmes/ Lunch Break Poor/Working Class Femmes Caucus/ Lunch Break 1:15pm-2:30pm KEYNOTE: Kate Bornstein 2:45pm-4:00pm Featured Film Diagnosing Difference Creating Women of Color Spaces: Ownership and Intentionality/The Color of Femme The Money is Out There for the Femme Revolution: Grassroots Fundraising for Work and Play Femme Mamas Femme Kings: Performing Maleness Onstage 4:15pm-5:30pm Sexual (R)Evolution: Exploring the Interconnectedness of Race, Sex, Violence and Pleasure for Queer Women of Color How-to for entrepreneurial femmes Film Panel- Filmmaker Fairies, Dandies and Fancy Boys: Variations on Femme BITCH, I wanna Fuck You! 8:00pm - 1:00am OFFSITE: Glitterati: An Evening of Fierce Femme Sparkling Entertainment! Oakland Metro Opera House, 630 3rd St, Oakland SUNDAY OCC EAST HALL 9am-11:00am Short Film Festival 11:15am-12:30am OCC 201 OCC 202 OCC 203 OCC 204 Film Festival Panel Strap-On Satisfaction: A Femme’s Guide to Giving and Receiving Pleasure Minding the Cleavage: A Cross Generational Dialog White Privilege Community Accountability Approaches to Violence Against Femmes 12:30pm-1:30pm Lunch Break Lunch Break Lunch Break Lunch Break Lunch Break 1:30pm-2:30pm KEYNOTE: Moki Macias 2:45pm-4:00pm Tough Girls: A Celebration of Tomboys, Rough Girls & Gender-Queer Femmes/The GenderFucked Femme Dress and Express: Exploring Body Image and Selfexpression Through Fashion Self-Identification Begins in the Womb Tips for a World Class Marriage/Relationship FREE Session CLOSING PLENARY 4:15pm-5:15pm 46 • Femme2010 No Restrictions • 47 ? Faces of The Femme Collective, organizers of Femme2010 Who’s Missing? YOU!! See pg 10 for information on getting involved to organize Femme2012