Garage Sale - MCCS Okinawa
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Garage Sale - MCCS Okinawa
THOMAS ALAN SMILIE contents APRIL 2014 ONTHECOVER Traditional kimono are still worn today during special occasions…sometimes with a dash of modern couture. WEARING ART 8 Steeped in tradition, Japanese garb known as kimono are as close one can get to wearing an artistic masterpiece. TAIYO GOLF 43 Wedges 101 Choose your wedges wisely…they’re some of the most important weapons in your golf-bag arsenal. PHOTO ESSAY TSUNAMI SCUBA 45 Junior Divers Diving may seem like a challenging activity, but with the proper approach and training, it can be an exhilarating hobby for the entire family—including the kids. Discovering Fukushūen 18 Visit an authentic Chinese Garden located in the heart of Naha City. LIVING AT LARGE Eggstravaganza…Dads in Gear 7 TOURS PLUS 47 Climb Mt. Fuji Do you have what it takes to conquer the most famous peak in Japan? MIKE SAN’S JAPAN 26 The Water Dragons of The Ryukyu Kingdom Many know that dragon boat races are annual events held in fishing communities throughout Okinawa beginning in the late spring and lasting into the late summer months. But did you know where it is said to have begun? AT THE CLUBS 49 Month of the Military Child During April, MCCS Clubs are offering some special Month of the Military Child events. COMMUNITY CENTER 51 Garage Sale A classic framed photo or piece of art will never go out of style. Now’s your chance to get a chop frame (one that hasn’t been cut to size yet) at a bargain price! RESTAURANT REVIEW 38 Depot Garden Enjoy good old-fashioned American cuisine served with a smile at this Chatan eatery. INSIDEMCCS QUEST FOR HEALTH 41 Protecting Our Children April is the Month of the Military Child. What better time to concentrate on the health and wellness of our littlest heroes and heroines? THOMAS ALAN SMILIE 18 MARINE & FAMILY PROGRAMS—RESOURCES53 Using Relocation Assistance Moving is an inherent part of the military lifestyle, and without proper preparation, the stress caused by the relocation process can be overwhelming. MARINE CORPS FAMILY TEAM BUILDING 55 Volunteer today It takes a special person to give back to the community. But having the desire to do it is oftentimes all you need. EDUCATION & CAREER SERVICES 57 April at your MCCS Library Springtime is here in full effect! Check out what MCCS Libraries have to offer you during the month of April. CHILDREN YOUTH & TEEN Autism Awareness Month MENSORE LIVING ON OKINAWA LOCAL LIVING MARKETPLACE 59 3 63 65 66 APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 1 mensôre “Welcome “ to Okinawa Living Magical Mystery Tour Fifty-one years ago, I was born into a unique corner of America’s culture, one without permanent homes or hometowns, and one that launched me on a lifelong journey shared by many of my “siblings” worldwide. I am a military brat. Like some who may be reading this magazine – or their children – I spent part of my formative years on Okinawa as the child of a U.S. military service member. I look back on those years as the very best part of my youth and some of the best times in my life, a feeling shared by many of my Kubasaki High School classmates, military brats nearly all, who are scattered far and wide. We cling tenaciously to one another, enabled by newfangled tools such as Facebook, even though we are many decades removed from having shared a “Military Mystery Tour” that was at once both magical and, at other times, maddening. Being a military brat has shaped me and millions of other Americans in ways we are still coming to grips with today. Fortunately for military families, this unique upbringing is not nearly so underappreciated or undercover these days. Since 1986, the contribution that the military child makes as their parent or parents serve our nation has been recognized every April as “The Month of the Military Child.” It is during this month each year that all branches of services provide special days and events to honor the family and their children. You can read more about what MCCS Okinawa activities are offering this month on pages 41, 49 and 57 of this issue. You can delve more deeply into the military brat experience in other ways. BRATS: Our Journey Home, debuted in 2005 to critical acclaim from the media, filmmaking and military communities and is the first documentary about growing up military from Army brat and writer-director Donna Musil. Fellow Army brat and journalist Mary Edwards Wertsch’s 1991 book, Military Brats: Legacies of Childhood Inside the Fortress, is a groundbreaking exploration of growing up military that bears repeated readings. As does Sarah Bird’s gem-of-a-coming-of-age story, The Yokota Officers Club, a 2001 Jesse H. Jones Best Book of Fiction Award, with its enchanting recollections of Kadena Air Base and Okinawa during the tumultuous 1960s. Ms. Bird’s new book, Above the East China Sea, is set on the island of Okinawa today and during World War II. After being asked to review a final manuscript last fall (the book won’t be released until next month), I can share that it ties together the power of an ancient culture to the tragedy of war and its aftermath in ways that are profound and moving. For more information about these titles and others, visit your local MCCS library or check out the military brat-associated organizations, alumni associations, writers and artists, and other resources available online at www.bratsourjourneyhome.com/ links.htm. As always, we invite your comments about this monthly magazine and our new baby, Okinawa Living Weekly at cmo@ okinawa.usmc-mccs.org. CHIEF MARKETING OFFICER Marine Corps Community Services Okinawa APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 3 OKINAWALIVING CHIEF MARKETING OFFICER Jim Kassebaum feedback from the ICE Program and Facebook MANAGING EDITOR Mike Daley GRAPHIC ARTS MANAGER Henry C. Ortega OKINAWA LIVING ART DIRECTORS Margie Shimabukuro WRITER/EDITORS Ryan Anastoplus Courtney Rick Lisa Leung Indelicato T he artwork in A Glimpse In Time (in the March 2014 issue of Okinawa Living) is spectacular! And the article and pictures on the Kerama Islands is terrific! PHOTOGRAPHER Thomas Alan Smilie GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Lisa Miyagi Kelli Davis Karie Morton Hector Nieves Mickayla Wilson ADVERTISING SALES & SPONSORSHIP MANAGER Roy Forster ADVERTISING SALES & SPONSORSHIP TEAM Yoshihiro Shinzato Yoriko Yamashiro Aya Chilcote Jessica Wagner Maria Cardenas MARKETING ACCOUNTS & RESEARCH MANAGER Andrew Menges MARKETING ACCOUNTS & RESEARCH TEAM Amy Schultz Nicole Taylor Allison McCarley Kelly Longo CULTURAL RESEARCH SPECIALIST Ayako Kawamitsu Rie Shinjo DISTRIBUTION Daisuke Sunagawa Laurence Vail Gideon Juko Joe Fincher BROADCAST TEAM Victor Mercado Kathlene Millette Samy Fineman Gabe Archer —via Facebook My family and I love going to the Camp Foster Library and visit every weekend to return our books and take out some new ones. However, we have several issues with being told that we did not return books that we know we have (returned). Last week my husband found one of the “missing” books on the shelf and brought it to the librarian. We returned to the library and were told that the book is still “missing.” At this rate we will owe the library for many books that we did not misplace. —via ICE Thank you very much for bringing to my attention your recent experience at Camp Foster Library. Please know that your account has been corrected. We have also talked with the staff about the importance of listening to customers and making sure that the customer is as satisfied as possible before they leave the library. We are also revising our procedures for checking in materials to make sure that we don’t put items back on the shelves that have not been properly cleared. Thank you for your comments about the staff in general, and be assured that we will continue to do all we can to ensure customers receive a positive experience. —Jeff Conner Supervisory Librarian The staff at Typhoon Motors on Camp Kinser is very professional. Michael Johnson was very helpful when it came to ordering parts and signing up for a storage unit at their facility. The facility is very clean and filled with very knowledgeable staff. I would recommend this facility to any of my friends and family. —via ICE When will information come out on the Mud Run at Camp Hansen and how can I register? —via Facebook The Bushido Mud Run has been rescheduled to May 10 (from its original date of March 29). For more information, please contact the Single Marine Program at 645-3681 (or 098-970-3681 from off-base/cell) or visit the website at mccsokinawa.com/smp. —Editor Steve Nakashima (Taiyo Golf Club Pro Shop Manager) provided excellent customer service while fitting me for personal golf clubs. The session was only scheduled for an hour but Steve took extra time, about an extra hour, to ensure I was fully satisfied with the Premier 6-Point Custom Club Fitting experience and answered several questions/concerns I had about golf clubs and golf. He did an excellent job and I will definitely recommend other people to Taiyo because of the excellent staff and overall customer service. —via ICE I really like eating at Tengan Castle (on Camp Courtney), but I suggest having more vegan options for those service members and their families following that lifestyle. It’s a shame that such a great place with amazing crew doesn’t offer such things, nor do the other MCCS restaurants. Sure, I can get a salad, but I would like a complete vegan meal once in a while. There are more vegans on island than one imagines, and these people do not visit MCCS dining facilities due to the lack of options. —via ICE I am very displeased with my experience today (at the Foster Bowling Center). I came in during lunch hours to practice for the upcoming Commander’s Cup tournament. Normally I enjoy the music that plays. Today, however, the volume of the music and the intensity of the bass was unbelievable. The floor was in fact vibrating under my feet. I couldn’t even have a conversation with my fellow bowlers; we couldn’t hear each other unless we were next to each other speaking loudly. —via ICE I would like to apologize for the unhappy experience that you had at the Foster Bowling Center. I checked and found out that when customers purchase music through Touch Tunes, our system does not equalize bass levels. Some songs force our bass system into overdrive, which can be overbearing at times. I am looking into ways to prevent “bass overdrive” without detracting from the overall effects of Foster Bowling Center’s customdesigned lighting and sound system. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. If you have any further questions or concerns, feel free to call me at 645-7205 or stop by my office in the Camp Foster Bowling Center. —King Croley Foster Bowling Center Manager GIVEMCCSFEEDBACK ICE Program & Facebook Let us know how we can serve you better or when a job has been well done. Just go to mccsokinawa.com, and click on the ICE link at the bottom of the page or find us on Facebook to share your feedback. livingatlarge UNDERWATER EGGSTRAVAGANZA Easter eggs are a symbol of new life and new beginnings. In the spring, it is a fun, family-friendly custom to have an Easter egg hunt. MCCS Semper Fit Aquatics has added a new twist to this old tradition at the 2013 Underwater Eggstravaganza Hunt. This egg hunt takes place in the pool with swimmers hunting for eggs underwater. On Saturday, April 19, at the Camp Foster 25 Meter Pool, join in this underwater egg hunt with a chance to win some prizes. The egg hunt will start at 11 a.m. Hunters ages 3 to 15 are welcome. There will be several different categories based on swimming ability and age. All participants for the underwater hunt must pass the swim test. A swim test will be held prior to the event or may be taken at any MCCS pool before the event begins. For those who are not interested in swimming but still want to participate, there will also be an egg hunt on land. For more information, please visit the MCCS Okinawa – Semper Fit Aquatics Facebook page, mccsokinawa.com/aquatics or call the Foster 25 Meter Aquatic Center at 645-7554. Okinawa Living, MCCS’s Award Winning Magazine 2003 • 2004 • 2005 • 2006 • 2007 • 2008 2009 • 2010 • 2011 • 2012 • 2013 DADS IN GEAR Fatherhood is a beautiful thing. Raising a child and being the father figure in their life is one of the most important jobs in the world. It takes a lot of time and patience but is hugely rewarding and well worth the effort. The New Parent Support Program offers the Dads in Gear program to expectant fathers and fathers of children ages zero to five to give dads the opportunity to share their experiences as a parent in the military. The goal of the program is to empower fathers as they build lasting bonds of attachment with their children from the pregnancy stage all the way through early childhood and beyond. For more information, please call the New Parent Support Program at 645-0396 or visit mccsokinawa.com/npsp. Okinawa Living is published by MCCS Marketing. Its purpose is to inform the military and civilian community about events and programs offered by MCCS or available in the local market. Dates and times may change. Copyright ©2013 by MCCS. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transferred in any form, by any means, electronic, photocopying, recording, or otherwise without written permission of the copyright owner. No federal or Marine Corps endorsement of advertisers and sponsors. MCCS is not responsible for editing content of non-MCCS ads. GIVEUSFEEDBACK We welcome your comments. Please send letters to [email protected] FOR ADVERTISING, CALL: 098-970-2245 (phone) 098-970-0975 (fax) [email protected] (email) See our advertising rates at www.mccsokinawa.com MCCS Marketing Branch MCB Camp S.D. Butler Unit 35023 FPO AP 96373-5023 広告掲載のお問い合わせは MCCSマーケティング営業部まで 098-970-2245 (日本語可) [email protected] Okinawa Living Magazine is printed with CHILD ABUSE PREVENTION MONTH Child abuse and neglect awareness activities are promoted across the country and on military installations worldwide during April. Highlighting prevention strategies brings awareness to the importance of raising healthy, resilient children, free from abuse and neglect. Research shows that there are six protective factors linked to a lower incidence of child abuse and neglect. The first factor is Nurturing and Attachment. When parents and children have comforting, warm feelings for one another, children develop trust that their parents will provide what they need to thrive, including love, acceptance, positive guidance, and protection. Knowledge of Parenting and Child Development is also a vital factor. When parents and caregivers know how to apply limits and encourage appropriate behaviors based on the child’s age and level of development, discipline is both more effective and more nurturing. The next factor is Parental Resilience. Resilient parents have a positive attitude, solve problems creatively, address challenges effectively and are less likely to direct anger and frustration at their children. The fourth protective factor involves Social Connections. Family and friends that are trusted and caring provide emotional support to parents via encouragement and assistance when facing the daily challenges of raising a family. Concrete Supports are also a vital factor in lowering incidence of abuse and neglect. In the military, there are many additional causes—such as extended deployments— that can affect a family’s ability to care for their children. Providing or connecting families to community support is critical. On Okinawa, there are multiple service agencies and programs created to serve families. The final factor is Social and Emotional Competence. When a child has the right tools for healthy emotional expression, parents are better able to respond to his or her needs, which strengthens the parent-child relationship. If you suspect abuse or neglect, obtain medical attention for the child immediately, if necessary. Also, notify PMO and Family Advocacy. For more information, contact the Behavioral Health Family Advocacy Program at 645-2915. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 7 n cultures all over the world, clothing has been a bridge between fashion, functionality and art. Nowhere is this as apparent than in the Japanese kimono. At first glance, kimono appears to be a simple garment. Constructed from a 36 cm-wide, 11 meter-long bolt of cloth cut into seven straight pieces, kimono are more than just clothes—they are an artistic and personal statement that tell the story of the wearer, and the rich culture of Japan, to the world. Like most things humans make, kimono started as a functional item, meant to cover you and be easy to put on, wear and wash. But also like most things we touch, it evolved into a more elaborate production. Sure, it still covers you, but it is most certainly not easy to put on (in fact, there are professional dressers for this), and washing and storing it is complicated. Dressing used to be a tradition that passed from generation to generation, but the more formal and complicated kimono require professional assistance. Today there are classes for people to learn the finer details of kimono wearing, called kitsuke, but people By Lisa Leung Indelicato often still opt for professional help, especially for special occasions like weddings or Coming of Age Day (Seijin no Hi). Kimono are worn by both men and women, though it cannot be denied that the simple men’s kimono are not the works of art that women’s have achieved. Men’s kimono are usually plain and dark. If a pattern exists, it is modest or seen in the actual texture of the fabric. One of the chief differences to set the men’s kimono apart are the sleeves, which are attached to the body all the way down, unlike the free hanging sleeves seen on women’s kimono. This difference exists because men’s obis, which are narrower, are worn lower on the body and do not get in the way, whereas women’s obis are worn higher so the sleeves must be unattached in order to not get in the way. As with women’s kimono, men have a variety of formal and informal kimono that are worn throughout life. However, the variety (and cost) is nowhere near as great as with women’s kimono. Whether you rent or buy your kimono, a woman will undoubtedly spend more money than a man throughout her lifetime on kimono. In Japan, there is a saying, “if you have three daughters, you will be broke.” . Layout by Margie Shimabukuro . Translation by Rie Shinjo APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 9 KIMONO DESIGN ELEMENTS its own special patterns. The trio known as “the three friends of winter”—pine, bamboo and plum blossoms—are called shouchikubai, specifically featured on winter kimono for their allegorical meanings. Pine, an evergreen, is a symbol of longevity. Bamboo, a plant that proliferates quickly, represents prosperity. Plum blossoms, which are among the earliest flowers to bloom, embody the hope and anticipation for the spring and are thought to be bearers of good news. Symbolism plays a strong role in kimono design, adding a layer of complexity through meaning. Flowers, animals and other items drawn from cultural or spiritual beliefs have auspicious connotations and are used to elevate the value of the garment. Certain motifs are thought to transfer characteristics and benefits to the wearer. Cranes, believed to live in the land of the gods for thousands of years, bring good fortune and longevity. Turtles, who live so long they can grow moss on their backs, convey endurance and strong support. Carp, known for their determined journey upstream against a strong current, advance worldly aspirations and represent perseverance in adversity. Motifs can also allude to the personality of the wearer. For example, dragonflies were popular motifs for samurai, as the Japanese word for this insect is a homophone for the word “victory,” expressing that the wearer is powerful, respected, agile and victorious. The colors used in kimono can also have more than a metaphorical meaning. Traditionally, it was believed that the actual type of dye used would embody the essence of the plant used to make the dye. Indigo is used to dye fabric blue, but it is also used to treat stings and bites. An indigo-dyed blue kimono was therefore thought to ward off snakes and insects. Purple comes from the gromwell plant, which has extremely long roots, and kimono made with this dye are said to grant undying love to whoever wears it. WEARING A KIMONO Aesthetics in Japan are vastly different than in Western cultures. For Japanese, the ideal female body shape is flat and narrow. This ideal is so important that padding will often be added underneath the kimono to minimize curves and guarantee a uniform, barrel-like profile. For women, the kimono is made to highlight the neck and wrists, the two body parts that are traditionally found to be the most sensual. When you pick out and put on a kimono, there are a few rules of thumb to help you adhere to the proper etiquette and ensure the proper size. In general, kimono are sold by the length, stated in centimeters. To find the right size, convert your height into centimeters and add or subtract ten centimeters, depending on your build. If you are slim, subtract ten; if you are rotund, add ten. If you are very tall, you likely won’t be able to find your size. However, there is always the option to wear it tsuitake style, where you do not tuck the fabric at your waist under the obi. Sleeves should come down to your wrist bone so that the sensual wrists are not scandalously flaunted, but may still be seen in fleeting glimpses as you move. The nape of the neck is likewise half hidden. When dressed, the collar is pulled back from the nape of the neck to have just enough space to fit your fist. There should be enough space between the back of your neck and the collar to fit your fist. Though the left and right panels will ultimately be staggered when viewed from the front, your kimono should fall to the length of your ankle bone. KIMONO ACCESSORIES Kimono are never worn alone, but are accompanied by other layers and accessories. Putting them together is a thoughtful process that, when done correctly, creates a complete statement about the wearer. Obi are sashes that serve a dual function of keeping the kimono in place while adding an additional element of beauty and style to the ensemble. They can be narrow or wide, simple or complex. With hundreds of ways to wear it, the obi can be as prominent as the kimono itself. Tying an obi is quite a challenge, so many people opt for a pre-tied obi for all but formal occasions. The cord-like obijima is often worn on top of the obi to help hold it in place. Increasingly, they are used as an outlet for personal style, and today’s obijima can be quite flashy. A haneri is a collar piece that is layered under the kimono to prevent it from getting dirty while adding a splash of complementary color to the outfit. Kanzashi are the stunning hair combs worn with kimono. They, too, hold deep meaning, often seasonal in context, and articulate the wearer’s position in life. Women often carry sensu, the flat or folding fans that are tucked into the back of the obi when not in use, and wasou, a small decorated purse, for their belongings. No outfit is complete without footwear, and a proper kimono is worn with zori—a thong-style sandal with a flat, hard sole—over tabi, socks that have a split toe to accommodate the zori’s thong. Photos on this page courtesy of Kimono Hearts unless otherwise specified. Wearing a kimono is serious business. There are strict rules that dictate who can wear what. Several factors decide the appropriate kimono for an individual, including the wearer’s age and marital status, rank or class, the formality of the occasion, the season and, of course, personal taste. Breaking kimono etiquette is a grave infraction, which is why many people seek professional help when picking theirs out. For some events, such as Seijin no Hi, people start planning up to two years in advance with their coordinator/dresser in order to be sure that their kimono is the perfect choice. What makes kimono interesting is that they are unaffected by trends—the cut and way it’s put together has remained relatively unchanged over time. Perhaps because of this strictness in form, the creativity in kimono finds its outlet in patterns, color and other design elements. Japanese culture is fanatical about aesthetics. The designs that embellish kimono are highly significant—it is through the choice of motifs and color that the wearer's status, age, wealth and personal taste are established. It was around the 17th century that kimono moved from being a general garment to being a vestment that expressed the wearer’s station in life. At this point, designs on women’s kimono became larger and more apparent. Age and marital status distinctions were brought forth, with older, married women taking on subdued patterns and colors and younger, unmarried women sporting extravagant designs and flashy colors. Kimono were also seen as a true canvas, where the compilation of elements—patterns, obi, accessories, layering—all contribute to make each ensemble a magnum opus. Nature, especially in a seasonal context, is the dominant inspiration for designs. Seasonal variation in kimono themes are not just aesthetic, they are obligatory. Various elements of nature are categorized by season and may only be worn during those months. In the spring, the most popular bloom is the cherry blossom, which represents innocence, loyalty and purity. Running water is also commonly found on spring kimono, representing the thaw and the passing of winter months. They are usually pastel or brightly colored, honoring the coming of new growth. Summer kimono often feature fish and waves, as water activities abound during these months, and are usually decorated in bright colors to reflect the sunny, vibrant quality of the season. By far, the most popular motif for autumn kimono is the Japanese maple leaf, often shown falling to represent the change in season. Earth tones dominate, as do themes of the closing year, such as migrating geese or fruit and crops of the harvest. Winter has Stock photo APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 11 KIMONO TYPES OF KIMONO Given that kimono literally translates as “thing to wear,” it shouldn’t come as a shock that there are dozens of types of kimono. Wearing them depends on age, gender, status and occasion. However, there are a few more common ones you will come across. FURISODE TOMESODE Mofuku are known as the funeral kimono. They are worn only to the funerals and memorials of close relatives. It is all-black and usually adorned with kamon. They are always worn conservatively, with a high, closed collar. Furisode is a formal kimono worn by young, single women. It is typically brightly colored, as is appropriate for youth, and worn for major social functions such as tea ceremonies, weddings and Seijin no Hi. What makes furisode different from other kimono are the sleeves, which are very long, reaching almost to the ground. HAKAMA The tomesode is the equivalent of the furisode for married women. It has shorter sleeves, is darker and more subdued in color and only has a pattern below the obi. It is worn to weddings of close relatives. YUKATA UCHIKAKE Uchikake are known as the wedding kimono. In traditional Japanese weddings, the white uchikake is worn for the formal part of the ceremony. Afterwards, another, usually more bright, layer is added on top for the rest of the ceremony. Uchikake are expensive and very elaborate. The length is very long and flows onto the ground all the way around like a 360-degree train—it is so long that the bride needs assistance to walk. One of the reasons that tomesode are dark is to contrast with the white uchikake of the bride, as the bride will be surrounded by close relatives during the ceremony. SUSOHIKI MOFUKU The susohiki is usually worn by geisha, maiko or stage performers. The skirt portion has a long train (up to two meters) that trails along the floor. It is padded at the hem, in order to retain a smooth, splayed shape as the wearer moves or dances. It must be lifted when walking outside, which shows off the often-elaborate nagajuban (underkimono) layer. Hakama cover the legs and are worn on top of a regular kimono. They are traditionally reserved for men but are now worn by both sexes. They can be worn for formal and informal occasions but are now most often seen at graduation ceremonies or as part of the uniform sported by practitioners of kendo, aikido and other forms of Japanese martial arts. The yukata is also known as the summer kimono. It is the lightweight, unlined, cotton equivalent of the heavier, more formal styles of kimono, and is often worn to summer events, such as temple festivals and fireworks displays or the ever-popular Orion Beer Festival. It is worn by both men and women, though men (and increasingly women) can opt to wear the less restrictive jinbei. If you want to dip into the world of wafuku (Japanese clothing), but want something more practical and inexpensive, then you’re looking for a yukata. You can find them for as little as ¥2,000 yen in markets or complete sets with obi and geta (the summer equivalent of zori) in most shopping centers. front MON back Crests, called mon, are usually found on kimono for more formal occasions. A kimono may have one, three or five mon. The more mon, the more formal the occasion. People may choose their own mon or can sport their family crest, called kamon. When used for a family event, mon are positioned with reference to family hierarchy. The back crest is for family ancestors, sleeves crests for siblings and chest crests for parents. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 13 KIMONO HOW TO PUT ON A YUKATA 1 Put the yukata on as you would a robe, with the opening at the front. Straighten the panels. 2 Hold the erisaki panels (the collar lapel pieces) in front of you with one hand (about 20 cm up from the bottom of the erisaki), and settle the garment on your body so that the center line runs vertically up and down your back. 3 Still holding the erisaki, bring your left hand to your right hip to get an idea of how the outer panel will look when finished. Adjust the length and panels if necessary. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 15 KIMONO 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 Close the right side of the yukata over to your left hipbone and tug the garment with your left hand to straighten out the cloth. Using the side openings under the arms, evenly smooth out the extra fabric of the top portion in the front and back over the koshihimo. This overlap layer is called ohashori, the bottom of which will be ultimately seen below the obi. Tighten the yukata by pulling any excess fabric from the front half over the back half at the side openings to hide the extra fabric and tie a second koshi-himo to secure the ohashori in place, and tuck in the koshi-himo ends. Keeping the right panel of the yukata in place, close the left side snugly over to your right hipbone. Note that all kimono must be closed with the left panel over the right. The opposite is reserved for dressing the dead for burial. Adjust the ohashori at the back, smoothing out any bunching, making sure the bottom is horizontal. Wrap the obi around your waist, making sure that the strings are at the top and the obi ends in the center of your back. Secure it by tying the strings once at the back, then bring them around to tie in the front. Tuck the strings into the top of the obi. Gaikokujin (foreigners) are welcome to embrace the local customs and culture by trying out traditional clothing. Finding the opportunity (and bankroll) to wear a traditional kimono may be a challenge, but do not be discouraged. There are scores of studios across the island that will dress you up in full attire and capture the moment with a photo shoot. Yukata are also a fantastic affordable option, and it’s not uncommon to spot gaikokujin wearing them to summer festivals and other events. Don’t be shy—find the right yukata for you and make a statement by wearing art. Tie koshi-himo (a thin strip of fabric) around your waist to secure the garment. Tie it tightly so that the yukata doesn’t become loose as you wear it. Tuck the ends of the koshi-himo into itself so there are no loose ends. Make sure the collar is closed so that your collarbone isn’t visible. Leave a space a between the collar and the nape of your neck at the back—enough to be able to fit your fist inside. Insert the obi bow, centered at the back. KIMONO PHOTO STUDIOS Kimono Hearts portal.kimono-hearts.co.jp/shop/okinawa/okinawa.html WHITE RIVER PHOTO STUDIO whiteriverphotostudio.com KEYSTONE PHOTO STUDIO keystonephotostudio.com APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 17 PHOTOESSAY B uilt in 1992 to celebrate 10 years of friendship between Naha and sister city Fuzhou, China, Fukushūen Garden is a tribute to China’s role in Okinawan culture and history. The garden’s location of Kume, once known as Kumemura, was the center of education and culture during the Ryukyu Kingdom. Kumemura continued to be the epicenter of sophistication until the kingdom dissolved in 1879 when Ryukyu was annexed to Japan. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 19 PHOTOESSAY The garden was built entirely of materials from Fuzhou by artisans from Fuzhou. Fukushūen is a traditional Chinese garden, transporting you from the bustle of everyday Naha to the quiet respite of nature. A Chinese garden is not meant to be seen all at once. Chinese gardens are built so each section is a perfectly crafted glimpse of nature. Fukushūen maintains some traditional themes of Chinese gardens such as walled sections, scholar’s rocks and asymmetry. The garden has a number of pavilions, sculptures, bells and a model of the ship that travelled between Fuzhou and the Ryukyu Kingdom for trade. The garden is filled with symbolism, not only within nature but in its architecture. Some of it is blatant, though others are more subtle. Chinese gardens are meant to symbolize man’s harmony with nature. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 21 PHOTOESSAY One of the most important parts of a Chinese garden is the architecture. A garden’s architecture is meant to be in harmony with its natural attributes. Fukushūen features a pavilion for viewing different parts of the garden, but if you look beyond the vegetation and stone monuments, you’ll find architectural gems. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 23 MASTER OF SCIENCE IN INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS SCHEDULE of CLASSES: TERM V 2014 Contact your local Troy University office for course dates and times. TERM DATES: 26 May 14 – 27 Jul 2014 REGISTRATION DATES: 5 May 14 – 26 May 2014 IR 5524 Contemporary American Foreign Policy* IR 6640 Government and Politics of Developing Nations * Wknd 1/3 31 May-1 Jun, 14-15 Jun Dr. Harrington National Security Affairs Concentration Elective for Other Concentrations Wknd 2/4 7-8 Jun, 21-22 Jun Dr Harrington Relevant Elective Regional Affairs (Asia) Elective for Other Concentrations IR 5533 Comparative Government * Wknd 5/7 28-29 Jun, 12-13 Jul Dr. Keum Regional Affairs Concentration Elective for Other Concentrations Schedule is subject to change. Please check the TROY website for changes at www.troy.edu or call 959-3940. All courses are three semester hours. *Web-enhanced courses have some online requirements. Check the syllabus before registering or contact the instructor. Enroll now | 959-3940 | www.troy.edu PHOTOESSAY Though the garden is traditionally Chinese from the wood and stones that it’s built on, there are elements to it that are uniquely Okinawan. The foliage selected in the garden, such as the orange jessamine and acacia petit feuille, are unique to Southeast Asia, allowing the leaves to change along with the seasons. How to get there: Take Hwy. 58 south towards Naha. Take a right on Route 42. Continue straight and the gardens will be on your left. Admission is ¥300 for adults and ¥100 for children. Open daily from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Phone: 098-951-3239 Google maps link: goo.gl/qvOjvL APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 25 e h T MIKESAN’SJAPAN s n o g a r D r te Wa f the o m o d g n i K u y k u y R Daley e k i M y b orton raphy g M o e t i o r h a P K y Text & Layout b s n o g a r d r e t a w t a th e t a t . s s n s a d e n c e o g e nd a , s a s e h t s Chinese l , n o s m r e r v e i r m m e u h s t d an g n govern i r p s e h t n i g e n i f i r l u d o t r a s e e y m y o r c e v h E this my t g n i d n u o r ur . s a s w r a e n i t a k O f o t he w d n a sl t he i APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 27 MIKESAN’SJAPAN he brilliant subtropical midday sun; the rhythmic reverberations of hundreds of drums…the hearty whistles of thousands of spectators…the whistling sound of rushing water on wooden hulls…and the straining muscles of rowers’ arms moving in perfect unison—just another normal day at a traditional Okinawan dragon boat race. Dragon boat races are annual events held in various fishing communities throughout Okinawa beginning in the late spring and lasting into the late summer months. Although these races are popularly called hârî in some places, they are still known by their original name— hârê—south of Naha in Itoman City. The largest of these festivals is the Naha Hârî that is held during Golden Week—the five days of holiday between April 29 and May 5. The Naha dragon boat races pit multi-colored boats against each other in breathless sprints. These vessels are decorated with ferocious-looking dragon heads, scaled arms with sharp talons and elaborate tails, and each is powered by a 32-rower team. Teams range from Tomari, Kume and other Naha district residents, rowers comprised of company employees; as well as teams representing different nations (including contingents from U.S. military installations such as the MCCS Semper Fit Single Marine Program team). The three-day Naha Hârî Festival often draws hundreds of thousands of spectators and incorporates food booths, live band performances and nightly firework displays. The Naha Hârî Festival is considered one of the largest festivals of the year on Okinawa alongside the Naha Great Tug-of-War. Most agree that dragon boat races held in the islands originated in China and were either brought here as a form of entertainment for visiting Chinese envoys or transferred to the Ryukyu Kingdom by islanders who saw the spectacle while visiting or studying in China. There are many interesting stories about how the races originally began in China, and one of the most popular legends about the beginnings of dragon boat racing is the story of Chu Yuan—a faithful and honest servant of a 278 B.C. Chinese emperor. Chu Yuan was a poet and philosopher and had many fine qualities in an age when corruption and unnecessary war were widespread in the empire. And while many in the government respected Yuan (and usually heeded his sage counsel), they adored playing their political court games much too much—even though these games often led to bloodshed in the court. Yuan worked long and hard for reforms to save the ailing empire. However, it wasn’t long before the emperor was beguiled by silver-tongued sycophants and Yuan was banished from the court. It is said that Chu Yuan composed some of China’s greatest poetry while wandering the countryside in exile—mostly about his fervent love for his country, and his deep concern for his homeland’s future. He made many friends among the rural populace, especially among the fishermen living beside the Mi Lo River. And as time passed, Chu Yuan’s melancholy slowly lifted. However, upon learning of the devastation of the court at the hands of a rival kingdom, Chu Yuan fell into a black depression. And, because he felt somehow responsible, he leaped into the Mi Lo River holding a great rock in a display of heartfelt sorrow. Many fishermen raced out in their boats in a vain attempt to save Chu Yuan while beating on drums and splashing their oars in the water to keep the water dragons away from his body. Although many boats were dispatched to save him, none were fast enough. It is said that the dragon boat races held in many places throughout Asia were originally held in honor of the memory of this statesman. ▶ APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 29 MIKESAN’SJAPAN In the southern city of Itoman, the roots of the dragon boat race are thought to be tied to the younger brother of the ruler of Nanzan—a small kingdom in southern Okinawa. The king’s younger brother studied abroad, and while in the Nanjing province of China, he witnessed a dragon boat race. He was so overwhelmed with the display that upon his return to Ryukyu (he was subsequently named the lord of Tomigusuku Castle), he ordered that copies of the dragon boats be made and began holding races in the inlet below his castle. After he was crowned the king of Nanzan in 1403, the boat races were moved to the main Nanzan trading port located in Itoman—where they are held to this day. It is said in Itoman that the dragon boat races held throughout the Ryukyu Archipelago stem from the Itoman Hârê. Unlike the Naha Hârî, dragon boat races are still called hârê in the rustic, southern city of Itoman. The southern area of Okinawa has always been known for a large population of uminchû (which is a term that literally translates into “sea person”). And because many that live in the small southern city still depend on the seas for sustenance, tradition plays a larger part in their daily lives. Uminchû have always depended on the ocean. During ancient days they often made long, perilous journeys, carrying tribute and correspondence to the Chinese empire and southern mainland Japan. Fishermen plied local seas for nourishment, harvesting the abundant riches of the ocean. Because of Itoman’s long seafaring and fishing heritage, their hârê carries much more meaning than the gala events held elsewhere. The Itoman Hârê is heavily linked to a festival known as Kaijin-Sai (which is known as Unjami in Uchinâguchi—the language of the Ryukyus). Kaijin-Sai is observed to give thanks to the sea god for sharing the ocean’s bounty, and pray for the safety and prosperity of fishermen for the year. The boats used in the Itoman Hârê are smaller than those used in Naha—holding crews of 8 to 14 rowers. These boats, which are called sabanî, are made of lightweight wood and usually painted incandescent reds, yellows or blues. Their design is similar to craft used hundreds of years ago by Okinawan fishermen. ▶ APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 31 MIKESAN’SJAPAN In Itoman, dragon boat races are steeped in religious ceremony, and priestesses called noro perform rites before and after races much as they did during ancient days. Early in the morning on the day of the festival, the priestesses of Nanzan and Itoman gather at Santinmo—a hill in the center of Aza Itoman to bless the races. And, after the races, the members of each team file up to Hakugin Shrine in the order they finished the race, to visit Itoman’s patron god Ibinme. Dragon boat racing on Okinawa has changed considerably over the centuries. Today, the symbolic rituals are seen by many as nothing more than amusing entertainment. In fact in many places, the races are as much a part of a celebration as they are for veneration or supplication. However, almost everyone who has participated in a race will probably attest to this—during hârî/hârê season, water dragons do indeed govern the clouds and rains, and rule the seas of Okinawa. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 33 Depot’s Garden Where the food is better than your company By Ryan Anastoplus Photography by Thomas Alan Smilie A t some point dining became a social thing. Food is an excuse to get together with people. Conversation comes first, food second. You must tend to your guest before you tend to your palate. But I like food better than I like people. I don’t like dinner dates because I love food more than I love women. When I eat, it’s selfish, gluttonous and chaotic. No regard for anything or anyone. Perhaps other food lovers can identify. Or perhaps I have an unhealthy relationship with food. But the relationship between this man and good food is the most ideal relationship that has ever been told: an unconditional love, a flame that burns ever-bright, an insatiable yearning, and it doesn’t matter if it destroys me or my heart—this man will have his food. Each delicious meal is a honeymoon. A wild dance in the moonlight. And when I felt as though I would taste everything I would ever taste in my life, feel every feeling I would ever feel, Depot’s Garden made me young again. It’s as if my whole life I’ve been asleep, dredging through bland dreams and tedious feelings, overwrought with sodium, cheap spice blends and preheated sauces. I started with the Pork Plate ( ¥ 1,280 lunch, ¥1,680 dinner). Taken by its color, from the vibrant red sauce that releases an aroma that you could feel in your coat pocket, and the specks of mustard green peeking out of the white rice—hinting at what would come if you play your cards right. The dish starts off with pork—tender and creamy, naturally sweet with a slight tang from the sauce. It’s just enough to hold your attention. If it were a person, the taste wouldn’t be able to leave your mind for days. But you don’t have to wait days. You sink into the next layer—the rice. The disheveled, coarse blend of rice and mustard greens is substantial enough in texture and crass enough in flavor to balance the creamy, calculated and refined topping. If this was a person, you would ruin this for sure. Because you aren’t worthy. Depot’s Garden focuses the natural flavors of their ingredients. This is most apparent in their Pescatore (seafood) Pasta (¥ 1,580). This dish is topped with scallops, crab legs, shrimp, clams, squid and mussels. This is a medley of the sea, like a date with a mermaid. This is the kind of dish that is straightforward about RESTAURANTREVIEW what it is and what it wants. And sometimes, that can be confusing. Without the human influence of covering our food in manufactured flavorings, we are left with the anomaly that is “natural flavor,” and in this case, it’s as obscure as “seafood.” If this was a person, you wouldn’t be ready, because this person is too real for you. You don’t know what it is to be real, to feel what’s real or to taste what’s real. But it all can start with seafood pasta. But there is always something easy, simple and fun. Call for the Kalbi Shortrib Yakiniku dish (¥1,580). It’s grilled beef rib with a sweet and tangy glaze on a bed of white rice. You know exactly what to expect and Depot’s Garden delivers. You know the one that’s always there for you but you’re reluctant to give yourself to because you’re afraid you’d be settling if you did, but you still can’t stay away? That’s kalbi shortribs for you. And at Depot’s Garden you think, maybe life with you wouldn’t be so bad. Then there’s dessert. Quick, cheap but maybe you feel a little guilty afterwards. But with Depot’s Garden’s selection, can you help yourself? There’s milk pudding (¥150), cheese cake sticks (¥280), brown sugar choux cream (¥180) and more. Goddesses of their realm, they are each increasingly indulgent and creamy. You are too foul to be near them, everyone knows it but you’re still allowed to derive its divine pleasure. That is what makes dessert so unequivocally special. But you cannot live on dessert, just like you cannot pretend you are married to Julia Roberts. n HOWTOGETTHERE Head north on Highway 58 and take a left at the intersection between Camp Lester and Starbucks. Continue down the road until you reach the parking lot for American Depot. Depot’s Garden is right across the street from Mihama 7 Plex movie theater. Google Map link: http://goo.gl/TjJBI8 Hours of Operation Lunch: 11:30 a.m.–3 p.m. Tea Time: 3 p.m.–5:30 p.m. Dinner: 5:30–10 p.m. Phone Number 098-982-7790 Payment $, ¥, credit cards APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 39 QUESTFORHEALTH Protecting Our Children Focus on children’s health for Month of the Military Child By Megan Chapman, RN, MCCS Heath Promotion Wellness Educator A vid children’s health supporter, First Lady Michelle Obama, said as part of her Let’s Move campaign, “The physical and emotional health of an entire generation and the economic health and security of our nation is at stake.” The month of April offers us a special opportunity to acknowledge and honor the service of our littlest heroes, our military children. Established by Secretary of Defense Caspar Weinberger in 1986, the Month of the Military Child recognizes the important role military children play in our communities. There are approximately 1.9 million military children, ranging in ages from newborn to 18 years old, and approximately 225,000 of those have a parent who is currently deployed. Children in military families are exposed to stress levels that could be considered toxic according to The American Academy of Pediatrics. The National Center for Child Traumatic Stress notes that military children experience unique challenges related to military life and culture such as deployment-related stressors and reintegration. Managing stress and maintaining a healthy lifestyle as a family needs to be a high priority in order to ensure a successful future for our military children. Over the past three decades, childhood obesity rates in America have tripled, and today, nearly one in three children in America is overweight or obese. If we don’t solve this problem, one-third of all children born in 2000 or later will suffer from diabetes at some point in their lives. Many others will face chronic obesity-related health problems like heart disease, high blood pressure, cancer and asthma. Children become overweight for a variety of reasons. The most common causes are lack of physical activity and unhealthy eating patterns. Only in rare cases is being overweight caused by a medical condition such as a hormonal or genetic problem. Today, children experience a very different lifestyle. Walks to and from school have been replaced by car and bus rides. Gym class and after-school sports have been cut. Afternoons are now spent with TV, video games and the Internet. Parents are also busier than ever and families eat fewer home-cooked meals. Of course you want to make sure your children grow up fit and healthy, but it’s hard to juggle work, family and physical activity. Setting a healthy example is a good start. Research shows that parents who are physically active increase the likelihood that their kids will be active as well. Exercise is a very effective stress relief activity for kids and promotes a healthy, balanced lifestyle. Set aside one day a weekend to do something active as a family, like swimming, biking or hiking. Take along a nutritious picnic lunch and make it fun. Try setting a time limit on weekly television and video games to facilitate outdoor activity. If you vegetate in front of the TV every night with the remote control in one hand and a bag of chips in the other, however, you’re not practicing what you preach and your kids aren’t likely to respect restrictions you set on their screen time either. Check your own viewing behavior and serve as a role model by incorporating physical activity into your everyday life. Take the dog for walks together and squeeze in some running, roller-skating or jumping rope while you’re at it. Set aside a family “work time” with every member of the family doing active housecleaning, window-washing and vacuuming—this, too, is exercise. Families that eat healthier tend to have other healthy habits too, such as regular physical activity. Take kids to the farmers market, let them pick their own fruits and vegetables, and involve them in the food preparation. They’re much more likely to enjoy their meals—and clean their plates. The USDA’s new food icon, MyPlate, serves as a quick visual reminder to all consumers to make healthy food choices when you choose your next meal, built off of the 2010 Dietary Guidelines for all Americans. MyPlate can help prioritize food choices by reminding us to make half of our plate fruits and vegetables and shows us the other important food groups for a well-balanced meal: whole grains, lean proteins and low fat dairy. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 41 TAIYOGOLF Wedges 101 Got the right weapons to go low? n WEDGEGLOSSARY Loft The angle of the face of the club in relationship to the shaft. The more loft a wedge has, the higher the trajectory of the ball and the more spin will be generated. Bounce The angle of the sole in relationship to the horizontal plane. All clubs are built with some amount of bounce to keep them from digging in to the turf too quickly. A moderate amount of bounce, around eight to 10 degrees, is reasonable for a utility club under normal conditions. If you tend to take large divots or play in very soft, wet conditions, a higher bounce of 12 to 14 degrees may be desirable. For firm conditions or for players that “pick” the ball and take very small divots, a lower bounce club in the five to seven degree range is ideal. W ith the exception of the putter, a golfer’s wedges may be the most “personal” clubs in the bag. Executing delicate finesse shots and difficult up-and-downs from 120 yards and in requires confidence in one’s weapons of choice. Selecting the right combination of wedges is critical to scoring success. In today’s wide-open and high-tech wedge market, there are a plethora of loft, bounce, head-shape and groove-design options to choose from—not just from the major manufacturers but from smaller companies as well. “To maximize performance and ensure you’re using the right wedge for your swing and course conditions, proper fitting is a must,” says Steve Nakashima, Taiyo GC Pro Shop Manager. “As with your irons, you must have the proper length, lie, shaft flex and grip size to perform to your potential—but even more so on touch shots closer to and around the green.” According to Nakashima, wedges fall into four categories, which manufacturers such as Mizuno, Ping and Nike offer in many finishes and styles: Pitching: Typically 45 to 48 degrees of loft and included with a full iron set, it’s not just a full-swing club but also useful for approach shots. Gap/Approach: Typically 50 to 53 degrees of loft and used for full swings, chipping and pitching, with limited bunker usage. Sand: Typically 54 to 56 degrees of loft and two to three bounce options. Lower bounce of approximately 10 degrees is better as a utility club, moderate bounce of approximately 12 degrees makes it a better sand club with reasonable usability from turf, and highbounce models with approximately 13+ degrees of bounce are optimized for use in sand bunkers and extremely soft conditions. Lob: Typically 58 to 60 degrees of loft with high bounce (eight to 10 degrees) and low bounce (four to six degrees) options available, this specialty wedge generates a very high trajectory with maximum spin but is less forgiving than a lower-lofted sand wedge. Don’t forget to upgrade or service your wedges regularly, too. Worn-down grooves can make it difficult to put maximum spin and control on the ball, already a difficult prospect for golfers with slower swing speeds. And, in conjunction with a proper wedge set, Nakashima advises that “a series of golf lessons focused on the approach/scoring shots can do wonders for your golf game.” For more information about Taiyo Golf Club, purchasing the right wedges for your game or partaking in our Premier 6-Point Custom Club Fitting Program, call the Pro Shop at 622-2004/2006. You can visit us online at mccsokinawa.com/golf, where you can make your online teetime requests, get directions to Taiyo GC, and much more. And you can find us on Facebook at facebook.com/taiyogc to access other content about our golf program and the game of golf. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 43 TSUNAMISCUBA Junior Divers Introducing children to the world of scuba By Courtney Rick n FEATUREDCLASS Deep Diver After your first few scuba dives, you soon want to explore a bit deeper. There’s something exciting and mysterious about the depth that attracts divers. The fun part about this course is the opportunity to explore the deep. It’s exhilarating. You may even be able to earn college credit for the PADI Deep Diver course. n SAFETYTIP Always dive within your certification level and your personal limits. J acques-Yves Cousteau, one of the most well-known divers, began his love affair with the sea as a young child. Despite suffering from poor health, young Cousteau became an avid swimmer and practiced holding his breath underwater while exploring pools and lakes. Later in life, Cousteau would solve his challenge of breathing underwater with the invention of the demand regulator, modernizing scuba diving and allowing more people to explore the ocean’s depths. Perhaps Cousteau’s early love for underwater exploration strengthened his inventive nature as an adult. Children have a natural curiosity about the world around them, including the world that lies below the surface. The Professional Association of Dive Instructors (PADI) has recognized this need for exploration by offering certification programs for kids as young as 10. Once your child has learned to swim and has expressed an interest in the ocean, they can try snorkeling as an introduction to diving. Children can become comfortable with snorkeling gear and the sensation of breathing through a device. Snorkeling is also good practice for maintaining buoyancy on the surface and surveying ocean conditions before getting in the water. While there is no age restriction for snorkeling, parents should use their best judgment when introducing their children to any new activity. Children may take the PADI Junior Open Water Diver certification course beginning at the age of 10. PADI recommends that children be comfortable in the water and mature enough to learn from adult-level materials before beginning. After successfully completing the course, students will become Junior Open Water Divers with certain limitations. Divers ages 10 to 11 must dive with a PADI professional or certified parent or guardian and cannot exceed a depth of 40 feet. Divers ages 12 to 14 must dive with a certified adult no deeper than 60 feet. Junior Open Water Divers ages 12 to 14 can continue to build upon their underwater skills with a Junior Advanced Open Water Diver certification course. Divers must successfully complete five adventure dives, including a 70-foot dive, under the supervision of a PADI instructor to complete the course. Junior Open Water Divers ages 10 and 11 can also continue their education with the Junior Adventure Diver program with three adventure dives. Once a junior diver turns 15, there is no need to recertify for adult diving restrictions. Diving may seem like a challenging activity, but with the proper approach and training, it can be an exhilarating hobby for the entire family. The PADI instruction places safety at the forefront of any certified diver’s mind, and the younger a child learns to dive, the more comfortable and safety minded they are likely to become as adults. Diving at a young age also instills a sense of environmental consciousness in children. Without ocean conservation, divers may lose their underwater playground. Encouraging your children to scuba dive also opens up more possibilities for spending time together as a family. Diving parents can bring their children along to explore the incredible diving spots on Okinawa rather than find a sitter. To find out more about dive certifications for children or to register for an upcoming course, contact the Camp Foster Tsunami SCUBA at 645-4206 or visit mccsokinawa.com/scuba. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 45 TOURSPLUS Mount Fuji Do you have what it takes to conquer the tallest peak in Japan? By Ryan Anastoplus n LOCALTOURS Fireworks Cruise April 12, 6–10 p.m. Adults $53, Children (4–11) $43 Enjoy the boat cruise with a dynamic one-hour fireworks display at Ginowan Tropical Beach area. Battle Sites Tour April 19, 9 a.m.–5 p.m. Adults $26, Children (3–11) $16, (under 3) $5 Relive the Battle of Okinawa with a history lesson. Visit the Battle of Okinawa Historical Society’s museum on Camp Kinser. Explore the Japanese Naval Underground Headquarters and end the day at Peace Prayer Park. Japanese Tea Ceremony April 25, 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Adults $33, Children (3–11) $26, (under 3) $5 Experience a traditional Japanese tea ceremony at a beautiful private Okinawan home. After tea, head to Kokusai Street for lunch and shopping. Hiji Falls & Okuma April 26, 8:30 a.m.–5 p.m. Adults $21, Children (3–11) $14, (under 3) $5 Enjoy a hike to Hiji Falls. After working up an appetite, head to Okuma for a late lunch. H ave you climbed Mt. Fuji yet? You know, the tallest peak in Japan which is also now a World Heritage Site? That thing that you’ve been putting off since you arrived on island? If you have not, climbing season is coming, and this year is better than any other to finally take on the challenge. The roughly 5-hour climb may not pose any major difficulties in actual climbing skills, but the terrain can be steep and rocky. The main challenge is, of course, climbing for 5 hours straight through often thinning air. However, the rewards are great and unforgettable—and will make it all worthwhile. So if you haven’t conquered the massive peak that symbolizes the Land of the Rising Sun, then you’re missing out on an opportunity to really show what you’re made out of. The legendary picturesque mountain is something everyone should attempt conquering at least once during their stay in Japan. This tour offers more than the climb; you’ll have three extra days to explore Tokyo with friends or family before the journey. So are you ready to reserve a spot in the annals of glory and moxy alongside the greatest of the great? Go climb that mountain. Let’s plan your journey right now. First, reserve a spot with MCCS Tours+. There are plenty of opportunities to climb Fuji this year. Trips are organized for July 5–9, 8–12, 16–20, 23–27 and July 30–August 3. In August, there are trips for 6–10, 13–17 and 17–21. Day 1: The tour starts at the Foster Education Center, where you will catch a bus to take you to Naha Airport. While you wait, do some stretches, take a few vitamins and start sketching the inevitable bronze statue of yourself. Upon arrival to Japan, check into the New Sanno Hotel. The rest of the day, as well as the next two days, are free days. There are plenty of nice little cafes, bakeries and little shops around Hiroo, where the New Sanno is located. Perfect for a quick walk and exploring. Day 2-3: There is plenty to do in Tokyo for the whole family during those days. Visit the legendary Akihabara Electric Town, the Mecca of electronic and anime goods. If the latest gadgets aren’t your fancy, check out giant pandas at Ueno Zoo. The zoo first opened in 1882 and is Japan’s oldest zoo. Carve out some time to visit the Imperial Palace—you know, the home of the Emperor of Japan. For dinner, treat yourself right before the most grueling climb of your life. Who knows, it could be your last meal…as a mere mortal. If you only have one sushi experience in Tokyo, make it at Tsukuji Fish Market, the largest fish market in the world and the best place to go for the freshest catch. Day 4: Climb Mt. Fuji. Become a living legend, and don’t forget to get the final brand on your staff at the top proving that you have indeed emerged triumphant. Day 5: Fly back to Okinawa. A bus will pick you up at the airport and take you back to the Foster Education Center, where only five days ago, a much-less glorious version of you stood. For details on this trip or other upcoming tours, visit mccsokinawa.com/tours. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 47 ATTHECLUBS Month of the Military Child Celebrate military children at MCCS Clubs By Alyson Turner n CINCODEMAYOATTHECLUBS Celebrate Cinco de Mayo at MCCS Clubs. On Friday, May 2, stop by The Palms on Camp Hansen from 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. for a Mexican lunch. Have complimentary Mexican appetizers at Legends Officers’ Club on Camp Courtney from 6 to 8 p.m. or BeachHead on Camp Schwab from 7 p.m. to midnight. On Saturday, March 3, have a night out at Thirsty’s on MCAS Futenma from 5 p.m. to 1 a.m. with Mexican food, prizes and giveaways and a DJ spinning Latin music. Visit Surfside on Camp Kinser for a delicious buffet from 6 to 9 p.m. followed by a live DJ spinning until midnight. Check out Hashmarks on Camp Courtney from 6 p.m. to midnight or Globe & Anchor on Camp Foster from 10 p.m. to midnight for complimentary Mexican hors d’oeuvres and a live DJ. On Sunday, May 4, stop by Tengan Castle on Camp Courtney from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. or the Butler Officers’ Club on Plaza Housing from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. for an authentic Mexican brunch. Reservations are highly recommended for the Butler Officers’ Club event. For more information, visit mccsokinawa.com/clubs. C hildren in military families learn to deal with change from a young age. Between separations due to deployments and temporary duty assignments, PCS moves, changing schools and making new friends, it can be tough for military children to adjust. Despite these circumstances, they always manage to settle into their new routine with resilience and determination and find a way to feel at home in a new place. In 1986, in honor of military children, Secretary of Defense Caspar W. Weinberger designated April as the Month of the Military Child. This month recognizes the role that military children play in the community while their parent serves in the military. To praise and support our military children, MCCS Okinawa promotes special programs, public education and activities throughout the bases. During April, MCCS Clubs are offering some special Month of the Military Child events. Enjoy weekly Family Nights from 5 to 9 p.m. on Wednesdays at Ocean Breeze on Camp Foster and Thursdays at The Butler Officers’ Club on Plaza Housing, Surfside on Camp Kinser and Tengan Castle on Camp Courtney. Prices are $7.95 for adults, $3.95 for children ages 5 to 11 and free for children under 5. Along with a kid-friendly buffet, there will be games and activities. All military children will also receive a free gift bag to take home. You can also show your appreciation for your military child by spending an enchanting evening at The Butler Officers’ Club for Magical Festival Family Night. On Thursday, April 24 from 5 to 9 p.m., children can dress up as their favorite Disney characters. They will have the chance to mingle with other children and enjoy a spectacular kid-friendly buffet. Classic Disney movies will be playing all night and there will be an opportunity to take pictures with some Disney lookalike characters. Prices for this event are $7.95 for adults, $3.95 for children ages 5 to 11 and free for children under 5. Every Sunday, bring the whole family to one of the Sunday brunches or breakfasts. Breakfasts at Surfside and Ocean Breeze are from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Ocean Breeze hosts breakfast on Saturday as well. Prices for these events are $9.95 for adults, $4.95 for children ages 5 to 11 and free for children under 5. Brunch at Tengan Castle is from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. and at The Butler Officers’ Club and from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Prices for brunch are $17 for adults, $8.50 for children ages 5 to 11 and free for children under 5. The Habu Pit on MCAS Futenma offers a breakfast menu from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Month of the Military Child brings awareness to the challenges that children of military families face and is designed to encourage these children with fun, family-friendly events. It is also a great opportunity to bond with other children that are in the same situation. Military families understand that life can be extremely busy between work, school and activities. That is why it is important to take a break every once in a while and spend time together. So take some time this month to recognize your military child and enjoy activities together as a family. For more information on these events, contact your nearest participating club, visit mccsokinawa.com/clubs or the MCCS Okinawa–Clubs & Restaurants Facebook page. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 49 COMMUNITYCENTER Garage Sale A frame for any occasion By Ryan Anastoplus n FEATUREDCLASSES Origami Class Designed for participants age 14 and older, this class teaches the fundamentals of origami, from reading patterns to folding. This class is taught on the first Thursday of every month from 3 to 4 p.m. at Foster Framing & Fine Arts. Call 645-3674 to register. Kimekomi Doll Class Dolls are an essential part of Japanese culture and dollmaking is an art form requiring skill and creativity. Learn the art of kimekomi doll making, from molding clay figures to folding fabric. This class is taught on Wednesdays from 10 a.m. to noon and Saturdays from 2 to 4 p.m. at Foster Framing & Fine Arts. Call 645-3674 to register. F oster Framing & Fine Arts is having yet another sale. If you haven’t capitalized on one of their sales yet, then you should do it now. Frames always make great gifts because it allows people the opportunity to preserve memories that they otherwise wouldn’t have. We all have those photos or works of art we want to frame, and even some that we’ve forgotten about that deserve to be placed in a nice frame. Why put it off any longer? On Saturday, April 5, Foster Framing & Fine Arts will have a Garage Sale from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Chop frames will be going for as low as $5. Chop frames are frame materials that haven’t been put together yet or cut to length. Let’s face it—digital photo frames aren’t going to catch on anytime soon and the classic photo frame will never go out of style. Frames are great for any occasion but what this sale is really perfect for is Mother’s Day. Yes—Mother’s Day is May 12 this year (you’re welcome), and a framed photo is the kind of thing moms always like. April 5 is the perfect timeframe for you to get something framed and still have time to send it back home in time. (And Ma won’t ever have to know it was all done on the cheap). A picture of you and Mommy behind a nice no-glare glass or even a nice scenic shot of the place you now call home to send back will be a great gift. You can put the pieces you purchased at the Garage Sale together yourself using Foster Framing’s facilities or you can have the Frame Shop do it for you. Whichever way you do it, be sure you take a moment to revel in the savings. While you’re at the sale, why not take the opportunity to pick up a bunch of chop frames for preemptive gift giving/personal picture framing use? Who knows when you’ll come across another deal like this? And the great thing about chop frames are that there’s no pressure for you to frame something right away—you’ll just always have the materials handy to throw together a frame for any occasion. Significant other’s birthday or anniversary? Frame. Going away? Frame. Housewarming? Frame. A general sharing of wealth? Frame. Just throw in a photo or a piece of artwork appropriate of the occasion and you’ve got a great gift. The best thing about a frame is that it always makes the framed content look at least 150% better. Thanks, frame! Just be quick—four hours is the only window of opportunity you have for this sale. If you’re lucky, you can have all the gifts covered for the year (and maybe some for yourself) without breaking the bank (this all depends on how wide your social circle is. Our apologies if you do end up breaking the bank…or don’t). Don’t miss out on this opportunity to do all of your present shopping in a couple hours. Foster Framing & Fine Arts is located in the Community Center on Camp Foster Bldg. 5908. For more information, call 645-3674 or visit facebook. com/mccsokinawa.communitycenter. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 51 M&FPR Using Relocation Assistance Make your next transition an easy one. By Rose Barros, Relocation Specialist n FEATUREDCLASSES Professional Communication Polish your verbal and written communication skills so you can get ahead in your career. Learn how to speak and write clearly and effectively to make a positive impression with employers. Smooth Move Workshop This mandatory half-day workshop provides pre-departure and destination information on relocation and travel entitlements, base and community information, financial concerns, employment opportunities and much more. Orders are not required and family members are encouraged to attend. Call your nearest MFP–R facility to sign up. n APRILCALENDAR Camp Foster Survival Japanese Writing Japanese Language Class Part III Tour: Hamby Town Home Buying Workshop Career Assessment Federal Government Employment Process W hile many are getting ready to spend another great summer on the beautiful island of Okinawa, many service members and families are preparing to move once again. Moving is an inherent part of the military lifestyle, and without proper preparation, the stress can be overwhelming. We offer many workshops and services to help effectively move and adapt to new locations. Smooth Move Workshop: Representatives from IPAC, Disbursing, TRICARE, DMO, PTO, Financial Management and more answer questions regarding upcoming moves. Welcome to the USA: This workshop helps foreign-born spouses relocating to the United States reduce their anxiety before their move. Welcome to the USA familiarizes foreign spouses with American customs, cultural differences, housing, living arrangements, history and much more. Sponsorship Request/Welcome Aboard Package: The Relocation Office can assist those that have received PCS orders but are not familiar with their new assignment. The relocation staff can contact their new command/unit and request a sponsor and/ or welcome aboard package. Newcomers’ Orientation: Every Wednesday, the Relocation Office brings representatives from a multitude of service organizations to welcome newly assigned service members and their families to the island. A variety of topics are covered including Japanese culture and etiquette, standards of conduct, driving on Okinawa and more. Loan Locker: Basic home items are available for families to borrow for up to 30 days from the Loan Locker while awaiting their household goods shipment. Sponsorship Training: This monthly workshop, held at each of the Marine & Family Programs facilities on Okinawa, prepares sponsors to assist transitioning service members and families. Unit Sponsorship Coordinator (USC) Training: This training provides an overview of the USC’s key role. They learn how to effectively run the unit’s Sponsorship Program and ensure their unit program meets established standards. For more information on the Relocation Program and other Marine & Family Programs, please call 645-2104 or visit the Marine & Family Programs–Resources’ Facebook page. Camp Kinser Tour: Kinser Field Trip Obi Making Money Management Workshop Social Network Your Way to a Job Resume Writing Workshop Ace the Interview Workshop Camp Courtney Career Assessment Social Network Your Way to a Job Ace the Interview Workshop Professional Communication Credit Report & Score Analysis Saving & Investing Camp Hansen Survival Japanese Language Class Money & Marriage Transition Readiness Seminar Social Network Your Way to a Job Resume Writing Workshop Ace the Interview Workshop Camp Schwab 4 Lenses Workshop Social Network Your Way to a Job Job Fair Success Ace the Interview Workshop Money Management Workshop Saving & Investing MCAS Futenma Survival Japanese Language Class Money Management Workshop Credit Report & Credit Score Analysis Retirement Planning APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 53 MCFTB Volunteer Today Contact L.I.N.K.S. to see how you can help By Tiffany Mattson, L.I.N.K.S. Program Trainer n FEATUREDCLASSES Family Readiness Officer Training April 2, 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m. Camp Foster Hearts Apart April 4, 9:30–11:30 a.m. Camp Foster Aging Parents & Elder Care April 9, 9:30 a.m.–noon Camp Foster Premarital Seminar April 11, 8 a.m.–4 p.m. Camp Foster Family Care Plan April 15, 11:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Camp Foster Advisor/Assistance Training April 15, 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m. Camp Foster A s Elizabeth Andrew once said, “volunteers do not necessarily have the time, they just have the heart.” In today’s fast-paced, technology-based society, we find ourselves with less and less time. It takes a special person to give back to the community. But having the desire to do it is oftentimes all you need. The concept of volunteering dates back hundreds of years. According to Susan J. Ellis and Katherine H. Campbell, authors of Volunteering: An American Tradition, Americans have been banding together to help one another since colonial times. When America was first being settled, the land was barren and “neighboring farmers combined efforts to clear land, build houses and barns and harvest crops and town records are rife with references to donations of land, materials and money, all given voluntarily.” The people had to work together to create a habitable environment for themselves. Today, the essence of volunteering remains the same: reaching out to help others and improve their quality of life. It is through volunteering that we can connect with each other, build stronger relationships and help communities and society grow and advance. We are also helping ourselves while we help others. According to Joanna Saison, M.S.W., Melinda Smith, M.A., and Gina Kemp, M.A, authors of Volunteering and its Surprising Benefits, volunteering can help increase selfconfidence, combat depression and advance your career. There are so many ways to give back to the community you call home. Many programs on Okinawa run on the assistance of volunteers. L.I.N.K.S. (Lifestyle, Insight, Networking, Knowledge and Skills), is one of those programs. L.I.N.K.S. is designed to provide information about the military lifestyle through peer-to-peer mentorship, with workshops for the whole family available island-wide. Since April is Volunteer Appreciation Month, we would like to thank all of the volunteers who make our programming possible. Your experience, insight, knowledge and skills have enriched the lives of your peers and made them stronger and more resilient members of the military community. If you are interested in volunteering with L.I.N.K.S., contact our office at 645-3698 (098-970-3698 from off-base) for information on how to get started. OPSEC Training April 15, 2–4 p.m. Camp Foster L.I.N.K.S. for Spouses April 16–17, 6–9:30 p.m. Camp Kinser Strong Military Couples April 17, 6–8 p.m. Camp Foster JSO (Space-A Workshop) April 17, 1–4 p.m. Camp Foster Savvy Spouses April 23, 8:30–10 a.m. Camp Foster CO/Senior Enlisted Spouse Training April 23, 1:30–4:30 p.m. Camp Foster Building Lasting Relationships April 24, 1:30–4 p.m. Camp Foster L.I.N.K.S. for Japanese Spouses April 28–29, 9 a.m–1 p.m. Camp Foster eMarine Lab April 30, 8:30 a.m.–noon Camp Foster APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 55 LIBRARIES&EDUCATION April at your MCCS Library A month for our children, transition and travel By, Jeff Conner, Supervisory Librarian n BOOKREVIEW Our Daddy is Invincible! by Shannon Maxwell and illustrated by Liza Biggers Our Daddy is Invincible! is on the First Lady of the Marine Corps Reading List and is available at all MCCS Okinawa Libraries. Ms. Maxwell writes from the point of view of her children and how her family handled their father’s severe traumatic brain injury. The book is beautifully illustrated and addresses the before and after aspects of both deployments and injuries arising from the battlefield. There are testimonials from other children and families who have been through similar situations. These testimonials provide hope and comfort to the injured parent, spouse and children. Our Daddy is Invincible! is one of several children’s books available on the First Lady of the Marine Corps reading list which address issues all children of military parents face. n A pril has a lot going for it, besides flowers, poetry and the last respite before official typhoon season. It is the Month of the Military Child, which is a great reason to celebrate those who remind us of our reasons for hope and why we plan for the future. Libraries at Camps Courtney, Foster and Kinser will have themes for their regular Lapsit and Preschool storytimes during April that celebrate this special month. All libraries will also be displaying books aimed at both children and adults that highlight the challenges and rewards of raising children in a military setting as well as overseas. The First Lady of the Marine Corps has recently revised her reading list with 11 new titles, including books for children and adults. We have a number of educational and fun electronic resources such as Tumblebooks, which is accessible from our MCCS Library home page. The MCCS Library home page (mccsokinawa.com/libraries) is a great resource for all ages, with games, readalong books and more. Tutor.com is available for K-12 users (active-duty Marine LIBRARY101 Okinawa Collection Whether you are new to the island or have been here for decades, you can find information about the history and culture of Okinawa at any MCCS Okinawa Library. While the Camp Foster Library has the most extensive collection, every library has dozens of books available for checkout on Okinawa’s past and present. Corps and Navy family members). Our EBSCO databases offer kid-friendly resources, articles and ebooks. On our MCCS Okinawa homepage you will find lots of other links and resources available online. Don’t forget we have iPads available for in-library use with great apps pre-loaded. Libraries at Camps Courtney, Foster and Kinser all have children’s computers available with over 60 educational programs and activities. Don’t forget our regular programs for infants, preschool-aged children and families, which include Lapsit (for children 3 and under) and Preschool (3–5 years old). Imagination Station (3–9 years old) is held on the second Wednesday of every month at the Camp Foster Library. April is also a time of transition, changing seasons, PCSing and making travel plans. Your local MCCS library is a great place to stock up on gardening books, emergency preparations, moving tips and travel planning. If you are finishing up your coursework and need additional resources, don’t forget the many new titles we have added over the past year and the electronic resources we have. If you are making travel plans to other countries, you can download 80 languages to your smartphone and start learning right now. Transparent Language Online, also known as BYKI, is a great, free resource available to all registered library patrons. Travel ebooks are available through our GALE app (for both Apple and Android devices). Sometimes when you travel, it is hard to find a magazine to read during the hours in transit. Zinio is a free service which provides over 200 free magazine titles for all interests. The library has easy-to-follow instructions for setting up your Zinio accounts and the app, and once the magazines are downloaded, you don’t need Internet access to read. Back issues are now available for most magazines. Even if you aren’t traveling, check out the great programs we offer each week at all Okinawa libraries. Programs range from Japanese and Tagalog survival classes, games and gaming nights, movies, book clubs and special presentations. Our world-class staff is ready to help you with all kinds of ideas for life on Okinawa. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 57 YOUTH&TEEN Autism Awareness Month Increasing awareness in the military community By Mysael Santolaja, Training Education and Outreach Specialist n SLOSPOT With TerraNova testing and March over, so many wonderful things wait on the other side: mild weather, spring sports, budding trees and spring break. If you’ll be sticking around for spring break, here are a few suggestions to help you enjoy your break. Explore Okinawa. I’m sure there are things you’ve been meaning to do, but you haven’t found the time. Use your week to check a few items off your Okinawa bucket list. Discover scuba, go for a hike or visit a museum. Visit the Youth or Teen Center and take part in one of the many activities they have going on. Visit your library and read a book for pleasure. Especially when it isn’t forced, reading is fun. Whatever your plans are, relax while spending time with your friends and family. You’ll find yourself restored, renewed and re-energized to conquer fourth quarter E ach individual with autism is unique. Many of those with autism have exceptional abilities in visual skills, music and academic skills. Many on the spectrum take well-deserved pride in their distinctive abilities and unique ways of viewing the world, while others with autism have significant disabilities and are unable to live independently. While autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is commonly associated with intellectual disability, difficulties in motor coordination, attention and physical health issues such as sleep and gastrointestinal disturbances are often also present. ASD and autism are both general terms for a group of complex disorders of brain development. These disorders are characterized, in varying degrees, by difficulties in social interaction, verbal and nonverbal communication, and repetitive behaviors. Autism appears to have its roots in early brain development. However, the most obvious signs and symptoms of autism are often recognized in children between 2 and 3 years of age. There’s no pathology associated with autism. A puzzle piece is often used in autism campaigns to symbolize the complexity of ASD, as well as the individuality and uniqueness of the individuals affected. The different colors and shapes represent the diversity of the people and families living with the condition. The brightness of the ribbon signifies hope that through increased awareness of autism, early intervention and appropriate treatments, people with autism will lead fuller, more complete lives. The number of children diagnosed with ASD is consistently increasing. In 1998, it was one in 1,000. Today, it’s one in 88. Using this data, we can estimate that if four million children are born in the United States every year, approximately 24,000 of these children will eventually be diagnosed with autism. Is it our increasing awareness that’s impacting those figures? Regardless of the cause, it is our dedication that helps us detect this disorder and intervene in the early stages of development. Though ASD ranges from mildly to profoundly disabling, a diagnosis is an important turning point in a long journey. Increasing autism awareness is a key aspect of this work and one in which our families and friends play an invaluable role. Since the 1970s, the Autism Society has been celebrating National Autism Awareness Month to educate the public about autism. In the month of April, the Exceptional Family Member Program (EFMP) is working to promote autism awareness in the military community. EFMP is hosting a series of events throughout the month to increase the public’s knowledge regarding facts about autism and personalize this disorder within our community on Okinawa. The April Autism Awareness Campaign will kick off with a signing by Major General Hudson, Commanding General for Marine Forces Installation Pacific Command. There will also be an autism awareness 5K Family Fun Color Run/ Walk on April 12; an Empower Hour lecture by Dr. Scott Stuart, Developmental Pediatrician, to discuss recent changes in diagnosis and treating autism on April 15; and a showing of the movie Frozen on the lawn for the whole family on April 25. For more details on upcoming events, contact our Okinawa EFMP office at 6459237 or visit our website at mccsokinawa. com/efmp. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 59 LIVINGONOKINAWA Sexual Assault Awareness Prevention and response to sexual assault By Sunny Street, Installation Sexual Assault Response Coordinator A pril is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, making this is an ideal time to brush up on a few basic facts and review local resources. Sexual assault happens more than we realize and is shrouded in myth and misconception. According to the Rape Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN), one in six women and one in 33 men have been the victim of attempted or completed rape in their lifetime. Statistically, you are likely to know someone who has been sexually assaulted, but are unlikely to know about it. Only about 40 percent of sexual assaults are reported to law enforcement. Men and women often don’t report for fear of victim blaming, embarrassment or that they won’t be believed. The myths and misconceptions about sexual assault discourage reporting to law enforcement as well as disclosing to friends and family. Myths that say that it can’t happen to men, that sex offenders are creepy strangers lurking in the dark or that sexual assault is physically violent have a two-fold negative impact. First, these myths ignore the most common risk factors that distract us from planning effective risk-reduction strategies. Second, these myths create an inaccurate picture of sexual assault, leading us to exclude non-stereotype victims from our support. While some sexual assaults may meet the stereotype of strangers lurking in the dark, 73 percent of sexual assaults are committed by non-strangers such as acquaintances, co-workers or friends. Approximately 60 percent of sexual assaults take place at the home of either the victim or offender. Alcohol is a common factor as well. Alcohol not only impacts victims’ ability to assess risk, make sound decisions or even fight off an offender, but it also lowers the inhibitions of offenders, fueling their behavior. A realistic scenario might be a date or a party where the victim trusted the offender enough to be alone with or consume alcohol in the presence of him or her. If the victim is incapacitated, he or she will be unable to struggle or resist. If the victim is intimidated or fearful, he or she may comply, which is not consent. This might be a situation where the offender is a supervisor, has some influence over the victim’s life or career or has a high status in the community. By focusing on the facts, we can take steps to reduce our risk for ourselves and loved ones. When socializing, know where you will be and who you will be with. Arrive and leave with your group. Work to keep group members from being isolated away from the group. Have an exit plan and a backup plan. Keep extra cash for a cab for yourself or a friend. Do not leave drinks unattended or accept a drink you haven’t seen poured. Drink in moderation. Above all, trust your gut. If you aren’t comfortable (for yourself or your friend), make an excuse or be direct and get out. Because sexual assault is caused by the actions of an offender, these risk-reduction strategies can only mitigate risk and are not a guarantee against sexual assault. If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted, a great place to start is with your local Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program (SAPR). Active-duty service members can confidentially speak to their command’s uniformed victim advocate or sexual assault response coordinator (SARC), whose contact information is posted in the common areas of the command. Adult civilian dependents, DoD employees and DoD contractors can contact the Installation SAPR office at 6452134 during business hours and speak to an advocate (this option is also available to active-duty personnel). Advocates and SARCs can provide confidential consultation that does not trigger an official report to law enforcement. A consultation includes a review of available options, pros and cons of options and local resources relating to legal, medical or counseling services. To report a sexual assault and receive an immediate response, call the installation 24/7 helpline at 645-HOPE (4673) or 098-970-4673. DoD also offers a 24/7 helpline at 877-995-5247 or safehelpline. org. More information about the statistics cited in this article can be found at rainn. org, and Installation SAPR information can be found at mccsokinawa.com/sexual_assault_prevention_and_response/. APRIL 2014 OKINAWA LIVING 63 LOCALLIVING Shîmî D uring the month of April, many visitors to the island may see a perplexing sight everywhere on Okinawa—families gathering at tombs for what looks like a picnic. While the number of groups gathering annually at traditional tombs is frequently large, this doesn’t necessarily mean that tombs are the Okinawan picnic site of choice. These people are gathered for Shîmî—a ceremonial visit to the family ancestral tomb. Although formally held on Higan, or the spring equinox, Shîmî is often held on an April weekend convenient for all members of the extended family. Unlike the tombs found in mainland Japan, Okinawan tombs are strongly influenced by Chinese counterparts. These tombs tend to be a lot larger because all the kindred from the father’s side of the family go into the same tomb. Tombs also include an open area in front, so that the entire clan can gather. On the day of Shîmî, after cleaning up the surrounding area, blankets or tarps (usually depending on weather) are laid on the open space in front of the tomb. Sweets, fruits, and gochisô (a traditional feast inside ceremonial containers called jyûbako) are brought from each family. Although the variety of food inside the jyûbako varies family by family, they always come in odd numbered quantities (these rules also vary depending on which part of Okinawa the clan originates). After placing the feast in front of ancestors and “praying” for them, the “tomb picnic” begins. Families enjoy food, drink, and conversation with relatives—many of which who don’t see each other very often. n Tsuboya Shîsâ Celebration April 3 Tsuboya Yachimun (Pottery) Street, Naha Every year on the third day (san) fourth (shi) month Okinawa celebrates the mythical lion dog known as the shisâ. Famed for its history of potters and artisans, many that create shisâ exclusively, the Tsuboya district of Naha celebrates with special exhibitions and fun events. To get to Tsuboya Yachimun Street head south on Highway 58 into Naha. Turn left at the Tomari Intersection and a right onto Highway 330. Turn right onto Tsuboya Street after the second light (there will be a McDonalds on the left). Lily Festival Mid- to Late-April Ie Island (Lily Fields) View over one million Easter lilies in bloom. This festival that kicks off the lily season will feature local foods and entertainment. MCCS Tours+ will be offering a tour to see this festival. Contact them at 646-3502 for details. Ryukyu Kaensai Fireworks Festival April 12, 7:30 p.m. Ginowan Tropical Beach (Advance) Adults, ¥3,800 (with a parking spot); ¥2,700 (without parking); Children (Elementary to Junior High School), ¥1,600 Enjoy one of the earliest fireworks displays of the year set to music and laser lights. A total of 10,000 hanabi will be lighting up the night sky. To get there from Camp Foster, turn left out of the Kitamae gate (Commissary Gate) onto Highway 58. Turn right at the first light and continue straight through three lights. Turn right, after you pass the fourth light (the entrance to Ginowan Tropical Beach). Chawan-Mushi (steamed egg custard) Ingredients: 4 eggs 2 cups dashi (a broth made from dried bonito flakes) 3/4 tbsp salt 1 tbsp soy sauce 1 tsp sake (rice wine) 1 1/4 tbsp mirin (sweet cooking rice wine) 3 oz fresh spinach leaves (parboiled) 4 small uncooked shrimp, shelled and de-veined 4 shiitake mushrooms (stemmed and quartered) 8 snow peas (parboiled) Preparation: 1. Break the eggs into a bowl, add the dashi, salt, soy sauce, and mirin, beat well. 2. Allow the mixture to stand for a few minutes, then strain to remove all air bubbles and lumps from the mixture. n 3. Divide the shrimp, snow peas and the shiitake mushrooms between four individual heat-proof custard cups with lids (or heat resistant coffee cups with saucers or foil for lids). 4. Pour the egg mixture into each cup until two-thirds full and cover with the lid. Place the cups in a preheated steamer and steam over high heat. 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