Summer 2016.pub - Saint Andrew Greek Orthodox Church
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Summer 2016.pub - Saint Andrew Greek Orthodox Church
Page 1 The Anchor—Summer 2016 THE anchor St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church 5649 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago, IL 60660 773-334-4515 (ph) 773-334-3468 (fax) www.standreworthodox.org (email) [email protected] Rev. John N. Kalomas, Proistamenos Rev. John G. Kutulas, Proistamenos Emeritus Deacon Vasilios Smith Sunday Services: Orthros 8:00 a.m. Liturgy 9:30 a.m. As Time Goes By: A Reflection Of 25 Years On Friday the 20th of May 2016, I sat in a bleacher overlooking the football field of Hinsdale South. The bleachers were filled with many individuals; young and old awaiting to hear the name of their loved one as they were each called to come forth and receive their diploma of graduation from High School. I observed Nicholas as his row was motioned to stand and go forth. I saw his excitement and was even thinking to myself it shouldn’t be only Nicholas receiving his diploma but also my wife Presvytera Kiki along with him, because she walked that long road with him for over 16 years to get him to the point where he is today. I felt a little ashamed that I may have not done enough, because even though I was there to assist in any way that I could, it was Kiki who dealt with the brunt of everything with Nicholas. I pondered “What did I do to affect my son’s life?” “Nicholas Kalomas” was announced and of course the cheer from our small cheering section. It then happened as Nicholas took his diploma, he turned and before he walked down the steps from the receiving platform for the students, he bowed his head and did the sign of his cross. The answer to my question was revealed. Even if I didn’t do anything else, knowing that my son was not ashamed to show his faith in public was enough to tell me that you did teach him who his Lord and Saviour is and never to be ashamed of Him. So with this event of my son’s graduation I sit back and think of the 25 years that have gone by. 25 years of marriage to Kiki; 25 years for being ordained to the Priesthood on June 16th. My Christmas Article spoke about the first Christmas with Kiki and how it was a special one. Well throughout the 25 years I can say God blessed me with many gifts and the many people He placed into my life. From the day that I was ordained I had the pleasure of serving 3 churches. One being an assistant (Assumption of Chicago) and two being the Proestameno (Holy Cross of Justice, IL and St. Andrew of Chicago). Yet with 25 years, which in God’s time is not even a drop in the bucket, it’s had its shares of many joys and also sorrows. I’m glad to say though it was more joys than sorrows. The 25 years brought me a loving and beautiful wife Kiki; two beautiful children Katrina and Nicholas; a loyal dog Gandalf and so many people both young and old from three beautiful communities. The 25 years has allowed me to get to know couples that I married and then baptized their children and now doing the weddings of their children. It brought young people from Joy, Goya, YAL, and OCF of Loyola. It introduced me to a school known as Plato Academy in which I taught for 10 years and was their spiritual advisor. Caretakers of the church like Zacharia, Athanasios and George. Chantors like Niko, Athanasios, George, Nick and Kosta. I was the commissioner of our Basketball League for over 10 years, and saw the institution of the Men’s League. It brought to me many people from other churches in which we had our annual Ski Trips with our Goya, our College Students and now our OCF and Families. I recall the young men who used to gather in the gym of Holy Cross every Wednesday after 5:30 in which basketball was always a fun time. Yes even during Lent these young men would come to PreSanctified Liturgy even with their sweats, and shorts, light their candles, sit in the pews, participate in the liturgy, and after they received their antidoron, they would go and play ball. I could be criticized for that because it was during Lent, but I could also say that at least these young people were with me instead of being out on the street doing something else. During these 25 years, I also found out what Lupus and Autism was. I buried many family members, grand- parents, aunts, uncles, fatherin-law and mother-in-law. They were all difficult but the hardest was my father. I did many funerals of parishioners, and their family members in their elderly years and yet as life is not kind or fair to anyone in this world, I also had to bury children from just a few months old that were premature to 18 year old; those are the difficult times. I will always remember a little girl by the name of Lynn Marie. At the age of 3 years old she was accidentally shot by her brother in the head who was 5 playing with their father’s gun in which the father kept it hidden and away but he found it. As hard as I tried I could not find the real words to say. Really! Are there any words to say? The only comfort that I could bring was that 4 children are still living because of the lungs, the heart, the kidneys, and the liver of Lynn Marie. Yes those 25 years also showed some very difficult and troubling times. But like I said I am glad that the majority of the 25 years were joyful; the marriage ceremony with Kiki and going to Hawaii for our honeymoon. Having the opportunity to visit Pearl Harbor and the Arizona Memorial because I am a WWII nut. Kiki being with me for my last year at Seminary and graduating. My wife said that I had the longest name on the graduation booklet; “Reverend Deacon John Nicholas Kalomas”. Our first apartment and our first house in Lombard; seeing the many seasons and holidays together. Watching the changing of the leaves during the Fall; the cold and snowy days of Winter; the budding of the trees of Spring; and the warm days of Summer. Celebrating the different holidays of Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s, or Easter, either just the two of us or with our children, family, and friends. I have memories of (Con nued on page 3) The Anchor—Summer 2016 ST. ANDREW GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH His Eminence Metropolitan Iakovos Metropolis of Chicago Rev. John N. Kalomas, Proistamenos Rev. John G. Kutulas, Proistamenos Emeritus Deacon Vasilios Smith Contact Fr. John at 773‐334‐4515 or Email him at [email protected] PARISH COUNCIL 2015 Terri Mikuzis Phil Hatzopoulos Mark Poulakidas Jeffery Chrones Bill Aslanides Nick Hatzopoulos Michael Bartholomew George Marks President 1st Vice President/Facili es 2nd Vice President/Stewardship 3rd Vice President/Finance Secretary Treasurer Assistant Treasurer Financial Secretary OFFICE ASSISTANCE Bess Davis Helen Giannakopoulos Terri Mikuzis Frances Tsaoussis Cathy Fasseas Adeline Kalant Sami Samia Thank you all for your con nued help and support throughout the year! M Peter Alexopoulos Nick Karafo as Nick Kontos Nick Tzakis Steve Hastalis Spiro Kondos Frank Prokos Kosta Zografopoulos STAFF & MINISTRY LEADERS Pastoral Assistant: Financial Secretary: Office Secretary: Athanasios Minetos Vivian L. Davros Alejandra Franco Philoptochos President: Cynthia Melas In an effort ini ated by our dear departed friend and Philoptochos sister Ethel Kotsovos, members of the greater Chicago Orthodox community have had the privilege of serving lunch to approximately 100 less fortunate fellow human beings on the first Saturday of the month for more than 15 years. The soup kitchen, located at the First Presbyterian Church in Evanston, is just one part of that church's strong community outreach program. St. Andrews Philoptochos and other volunteers have consistently and con nuously served the Saturday soup kitchen, longer than any other single contribu ng group. Please consider joining them. Chanters: Choir Director: Nicholas Christacos & Dean Theodoropoulos Dr. Peter Jermihov Narthex Commi ee: William Alexopoulos, Leo Manta, ST. ANDREW’S FOOD PANTRY Ma hew Bezanes, James Chrones, Michael Davros, More and more everyday less fortunate people are asking Solon Tsaoussis churches for food. In these difficult mes St. Andrew would like to help them, but in order to do so we need Sunday School Coordinator: Tracey Lazos your help. Greek School Principal: Father John Kalomas Please help us restock our food pantry with Mommy and Me Advisor: Stephane Collopy items such as: cereal, oatmeal, rice, pasta, JOY Advisors: Tia Manolakas, & pasta sauce. Also, canned items of tuna, Bill Aslanides tomato sauce, soup, vegetables, fruit or any other non‐ GOYA Advisor: Georgia Loomas perishable items. It is helpful if the canned goods have a Young Adult Ministry: Ta ana Vuko c, flip‐top lid. Monetary dona ons will also be accepted. Anastasia Papas, & Eleni Papas Page 3 rushing quickly to get back home because Kiki was in labor with Katrina and a few years later with Nicholas, (Katrina I was at the health club; Nicholas I was in Orthros Service at Holy Cross); or rushing home just to be home. Whatever it was, these 25 years have quite a few events in them and yet I ask myself how did all these memorable events ever fit into a package of only 25 years. I can’t forget also the clergy that have been part of my life of these 25 years. Clergy that influenced my early years of my priesthood; the seniors like Fr. Demetrios Treantafilis, Fr. George Massouras, and Fr. Lionakis. Those who have left this world like Fr. Byron Papanikolaou, and Fr. Bill Chiganos. My priest from the day of my baptism until the day he passed Fr. Nikiforos Tzerdimos. The priests who were there before and after my ordination like Fr. Andrew Koufopoulos, Fr. Ted Poteres, Fr. Dean Hountalas, and Fr. Basil Papanikolaou Fr. John Artemas. Priest who are my senior yet my friends like Fr. Timothy Bakakos, Fr. Dean Botsis, and Fr. Apostoplos Georgiafentis. My junior priests Fr. Peter Sarolas, Fr. Stamati Sfikas, and Fr. Chris Mihalopoulos. Yet the one who is my spiritual father Fr. Chris Kerhulas. I will always remember the years of St. Basil’s and what I learned in beautifying God’s house. Fr. Chris taught me how it is important to remember what Christ said of leaving the 99 and going after the 1 who is lost. Whether it was chanting the services of Holy Week or running and seeing shows on Broadway in New York or seeing the Black Hawks win or lose both in the old and new stadium, it was Fr. Chris that taught me the importance of looking for the good in people and reaching out in keeping the youth close by. His words when I was ordained were “Capture the youth and their hearts and you have won the parents.” Truer words have never been spoken. There are so many more memories. So many more precious people that God has put into my life. I can truly say that the youth of my early years of my ministry at Assumption, at Holy Cross, and even at St. Andrew made my ministry in what it is today. I had two individuals from my early years as a priest in which they both followed on the road of the priesthood; Fr. Michael Prevas, and Fr. Chrysanthos Kerkeres. Fr. Michael after his small stay in the Chicago area and assisting at Ss. Peter and Paul went to California and is doing his ministry close to the San Francisco area. Fr. Chrysanthos in which I call Fr. Chris has become a dynamic priest of the Chicago area in which his work and his ministry but above all his love and care for people has resurrected the community of St. George. As much as Fr. Chris Kerhulas says about me that you can always be proud when the student surpasses the teacher, I can say that about Fr. Chrysanthos that I am proud to see what he has done and become so truly he has surpassed his teacher. So I ask all of you to take a moment and walk down your memory lane. Many psychologists have said it is good to do that, it is good to become nostalgic and reminisce about the past events. When I go to Moline, I still take a drive by the old house where I grew up on Campbell’s Island. I still drive by the old Shell gas station my uncle had even though its been redone. I still drive by the old baseball and softball fields in which I played remembering the great plays that I had done. Strike outs I try to forget! It is ok to do that because it is healthy to become nostalgic occasionally for it makes realize our humanity, where we came from, and how our past shaped us to the individual we are today. All our memories and remembering them benefits us in many different ways. I read an article that was written by a psychologist Edward Hoffman called The Benefits of Nostalgia which speaks about how one benefits mentally, emotionally, and spiritually by remembering the past. He states how remembering keeps us grounded, keeps us in perspective, helps us to be in touch The Anchor—Summer 2016 with ourselves, it boosts our memory, and connects us spiritually. All that I shared of my life’s memories has helped me cope with the difficult memories that life lays in front of not only me, but to all of us. Thinking of my father’s death awakened in me not only the negative of that event, but brought back the many more great memories than just the one event that was negative. It took away from me in thinking, my father is not here anymore and I don’t know what to do. It gave me though a new perspective of thinking “What would my father do. He has taught me for 43 years. There must be a solution on how dad would handle it. Think for yourself. Find the answer in what dad would have done.” Enjoy the article! The Benefits of Nostalgia A psychologist extols the benefits—mental, emotional and spiritual— of remembering the past. by Edward Hoffman “I admit, I’m a nostalgic guy. Whenever I need a break from my work, I go to YouTube and watch an old video like James Taylor’s “You’ve Got a Friend.” Both the song and the singer, with his long hair and mustache, transport me back to 1975, to Ann Arbor and the University of Michigan, where I studied for my Ph.D. in psychology. But I never imagined my YouTube habit as anything more than a pleasurable distraction. Recently, though, I’ve been doing research on “peak experiences,” surveying people about their most joyful, life-changing events. One man zeroed in on a park where he and his friends hung out as kids. They recently revisited it together, walking around the lake and the ball fields, observing how things had changed and sharing stories about the past. “It made me feel grateful for my friendships,” the man wrote. “Ever since the trip down memory lane, I’ve felt happier about my life.” Could it be possible, I wondered, that simply recalling happy memories can be almost as powerful as having a positive new experience? Was my YouTube habit benefiting me more than I first thought? Certainly, nostalgia hasn’t always been viewed as a good thing. For years, the psychological establishment believed it was simply a form of escapism. But as I discovered, and a growing body of psychological research confirms, waxing nostalgic from time to time doesn’t trap us in the past—it is healthy for our body, mind and spirit in the present. Nostalgia Keeps Us Grounded In his 1979 book, Yearning for Yesterday, sociologist Fred Davis noted that his research found nostalgia allowed people to “maintain their identity in the face of major transitions like childhood to pubescence, adolescence to adulthood, single to married life, and spouse to parent.” In other words, it helped people stay true to themselves despite huge life changes. Today, technological and social change happens at a rapid pace, work and travel take us farther from home than ever before, and new information bombards us constantly. It’s easy to feel lost. A highpowered Manhattan executive may get caught up in the rat race, only to catch a scent of horses in Central Park and be reminded of her idyllic beginnings growing up on a Midwestern farm. Wherever we find ourselves, nostalgia helps bring us back to our roots, back to the things that are most important. Give it a try. When you feel confused, adrift, out of place, turn off the computer and the TV for an hour or two and read a favorite book (Continued on page 4) The Anchor—Summer 2016 from your high school days, or look through a scrapbook or wedding Mom said, and she told me a wonderful story about meeting Dad at a teachers’ ball in the early fifties.Family photos triggered other album. Most likely, you’ll feel restored and refocused. memories. There was one shot of us at a nondescript pool I couldn’t Nostalgia Gives Us Perspective identify. But Mom knew. “Our trip to the Catskills!” she exclaimed. “Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it,” said the She held my brother’s hand and mine tenderly. These memories philosopher George Santayana. Nostalgia provides a lens through seemed to imbue her with strength, if only for a few minutes. which to view past mistakes and misfortunes. Take the TV show Mad Men, famous for its edgy take on the 1960s. This isn’t the wholesome, In 2009, researchers at the University of California-Davis mapped the innocent world of Leave It To Beaver. People smoke and drink in the brain activity of young adults while they listened to well-known songs. office, rude treatment of women is the norm and an early episode even It turns out that the region of the brain responsible for our long-term shows a child playing with a plastic bag over her head. memory also serves as a hub that links familiar music and images with emotions. A seemingly forgotten memory embedded deep within These things shock us now. By remembering our more reckless our minds may rise to the surface, along with the feelings attached to behavior and contrasting it with who we are today, we can more it, when we hear an old tune or see a childhood photograph. Many clearly appreciate how far we’ve come. It can also make us think assisted-living centers use popular music and vintage movie posters, twice about the things we do so casually today—revealing so much of even artifacts like manual typewriters and rotary telephones, to jog our lives on Facebook, for example—reminding us to err on the side memories of patients with dementia and Alzheimer’s. Family members of caution. A branch of psychology called narrative therapy prompts create “memory boxes,” filled with photos and objects related to work patients to tell stories about their lives in vivid detail—including their or hobbies, that awaken their loved one’s dormant memories. hardships, defeats, losses and disappointments—in order to bring focus to the silver lining, the lessons learned. Research has shown Nostalgia Connects Us Spiritually that people who can see the positive aspects of the things that have The Hebrew Scriptures remind us to honor the past. Take caused them pain usually have better mental and physical health as Deuteronomy 8:10-19: “Be careful that you do not forget the Lord they get older. your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” Otherwise, the passage warns, “you will surely be destroyed.” Every Nostalgia Helps Us Get in Touch With Ourselves year on the Jewish holiday of Passover, I sit down with my family for I once treated a man for loneliness and depression. He was in his late the Seder, the festive meal at which we follow the biblical forties, lived alone and aside from phone calls to his elderly mother, commandment to tell the story of our people’s deliverance. he led an almost totally isolated existence. I encouraged him to go to a singles dance or join a book club, but his shyness and self-defeating It’s not only a way of glorifying God, it’s also a way of remembering attitude always stopped him. I was stymied. Then one evening he that we must not take our freedom for granted. A plate at the center of arrived for our session with a bounce in his step. “I had an amazing our table holds six special foods, each of which represents a part of dream last night,” he told me. He dreamt that he was sitting on a the story of Exodus and the Jewish people. For instance, charoset—a beautiful beach under blue skies, and “Desperado,” the 1970s hit by spread of chopped nuts, apples and wine—symbolizes the mortar our the Eagles, was playing. ancestors used when they were forced to build Pharaoh’s cities. Horseradish—by its taste—recalls the bitterness of slavery. And a “You know,” he said, “when I woke up, I felt happier than I have in hardboiled egg reminds us of our people’s resilience, rebirth and years.” The song reminded him of a college summer when he shared a renewal. Why all of these rich, sensory symbols? Jewish tradition tells beach house with friends. “Everyone accepted me for exactly who I us that it’s not enough to simply recite the Passover story. Instead, we was,” he said. must relive it—through all of our senses—as though we had He laughed and joked about his adventures that summer, and it was experienced enslavement and liberation for ourselves. Those ancient hard to believe this was the same lonely, depressed man. Our memories must become our very own for us to truly appreciate all of conversation continued the following week. Eventually, the happy God’s miracles. memory motivated him to join a volunteer organization, where he made new friends. Thinking back on the past helped him find a key to I think that our biblical ancestors were onto something. When I watch his future. those old James Taylor videos on YouTube and rewind my life to my grad school days, I can’t help but replay the blessings that have come In a 2008 study, an international team of researchers found that in the years since—a successful psychology practice, a happy focusing on happy memories from their childhood enabled people to marriage, many friends and the joy of becoming a father. And I feel a feel more connected with family and friends. A 2006 study discovered renewed appreciation for the One who bestowed them.” that a group of people who spent just a few minutes writing about a past event were more cheerful afterward than a group who wrote It was this article that I had read which motivated me to share some of about a typical day in the present. Both studies show that people with the important parts of my life as well of the people for these past 25 high resilience—the ability to bounce back quickly from stress and years. Yes there is much more, and to place them down not even setbacks—are especially adept at using nostalgia to put themselves in 10,000 Anchors would be able to hold them. What we must do though an upbeat frame of mind. is give thanks to God because however great or small the memories are, it’s remembering them that is important. Nostalgia Boosts Our Memory My mother spent her last days in home hospice care. Once a music To every funeral that I have conducted I have always concluded with teacher and accomplished pianist, she was too frail to play piano, and the words that Abraham Lincoln said in a letter to a mother and seemed listless and distant. But she perked up when my brother and I widow Mrs. Lydia Bixby from Massachusetts who had five sons that put on music for her. “Chopin!” she said, hearing a classical music were killed on the field of battle during the Civil War. I am only CD. The song “I Could Have Danced All Night” brought back fond sharing the final passage of the letter because it is what I have derived memories of our father. “My Fair Lady was his favorite musical,” in my final remarks in my eulogies. If you want to see the letter in its Page 5 The Anchor—Summer 2016 entirety Google “Letter from Abraham Lincoln to Mrs. Bixby” and If I may adjust it a little to end this long Anchor Article, “I pray you will get it in its entirety. therefore that our Heavenly Father bless you and your loved ones always and leave you with the sweet cherished memories that have “I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your been part of your life and the lives of your loved ones.” bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so A Blessed Summer and precious Memories. costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom.” Fr. John N Kalomas SOCIETY OF SAINT ROMANOS THE MELODIST FORMING A VISION OF ORTHODOX CULTURE Contact Telephone Email Website WORLD PREMIERE OF NEWLY COMPOSED DIVINE LITURGY Peter Jermihov 773-558-4864 [email protected] www.societyromanos.org GREEK LITURGY by Fr. Ivan Moody Chicago, IL, May 15, 2016– Two years ago, the Society of Saint Romanos the Melodist commissioned a Divine Liturgy from Bri sh, Orthodox composer—Fr. Ivan Moody. The new Greek Liturgy, based on tradi onal Greek Byzan ne chants, is now completed and will be premiered on Sunday, October 2, 2016 at the celebra on of Divine Liturgy at St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church in Chicago and sung by the St. Romanos Cappella. The work is commissioned and dedicated to the memory of John Bartholomew, member of the Order of St. Andrew Archons of the Ecumenical Patriarch. This world premiere of the Greek Liturgy is part of a series of events celebra ng the 90th Anniversary of St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church in Chicago. It also commemorates the Feast of Day of St. Romanos the Melodist, Patron Saint of church musicians, and the 15th Anniversary of the Society of Saint Romanos the Melodist. On Saturday, October 1 at 1:00 pm in the St. Andrew President’s Room, Fr. Ivan Moody will present a lecture on his newly composed Greek Liturgy and Some Perspec ves on the Theology of Orthodox Music (see his ar cle: h p://www.mdpi.com/2077‐1444/6/2/350/htm). Dr. Peter Jermihov, Founder and Ar s c Director of the Society, stated: “As a long‐term objec ve, the Society formulated a vision to commission from various Orthodox composers one major liturgical composi on per year. Following the landmark contribu ons of Orthodox composers such as Steven Cardiosmenos, Frank Desby, Anna Gallos, Christopher Kypros, John Revezoulis, John Sakellarides, and Tikey Zes, the Society hopes to con nue to enrich the liturgical life of the Church by facilita ng newly composed works for worship.” The Society of Saint Romanos the Melodist is a Not‐for‐Profit 501(c)(3) corpora on with tax‐exempt status, founded in 2001 to promote Eastern Orthodox culture in general and sacred music in par cular. The Society organizes and presents dis nc ve cultural events that further an awareness of Eastern Orthodoxy in America. These events include commissions of new works of art, concerts of sacred music, presenta on of guest‐ar sts, speakers and ensembles, theological seminars, and pilgrimages. The Society is endorsed by Members of the Assembly of Canonical Orthodox Bishops of North and Central America. His Eminence, Metropolitan IAKOVOS is the Honorary Chairman of the Society Board and Fr. John N. Kalomas, Proistamenos is the Society’s Spiritual Advisor. If you would like more informa on about this event, please contact Peter Jermihov at 773‐558‐4864, email the Society at [email protected] or visit the Society website at www.societyromanos.org The Anchor—Summer 2016 Page 7 Christos Anesti to all of our Stewards. We are now beginning the last seven months leading to our 90th Anniversary. As you can tell from all of the information that has gone out, we have many events planned, with something for every one to enjoy. Over the Memorial Day weekend our children will be participating in the Junior Olympics at Saints Constantine and Helen in Palos. The activities will be going on for two days. Basketball, track, swimming, soccer and a host of other sports will include every child in days filled with fun, and enable them to make new friends. In June the following events will be taking place: Friday, June 3rd at Chevy Chase Country Club will be our annual Golf Outing. For more information check our website. Friday, June 24th we will celebrating Father John’s 25th Anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood. This event is meant for all members of the Parish family, so please join in the celebration. The Anchor—Summer 2016 flyers and banners to see what new attractions will be happening. August activities: Services leading to the holy day of the Assumption. Days and times of services will be in the Sunday bulletin. With a special service on August 15th. September activities: Basile will be doing a show at St. Andrew’s on September 10th. Watch for information on the website and bulletin. Services for Holy Cross with Vespers on September 13th and Holy Cross on the 14th. The culminating event will be our 90th Anniversary Dinner Dance on Saturday, December 3, 2016, at the Lowes Chicago. Please mark this date to celebrate our 90 years in the service of the Lord. The committee has put in long hours in planning this exciting event. Make every effort to join us as a member of the Saint Andrew’s Family. July activities: The Parish Council and I look forward to seeing you and your families at these various events. The 55th Annual Edgewater Greek Fest presented by St. Andrew’s. There will be some new additions this year. So watch for our Terri Mikuzis The Anchor—Summer 2016 ST. ANDREW’S PARISH PRESENTS BASILE GROWING UP GREEK IN AMERICA SATURDAY 9/10/2016 SJ GREGORY AUDITORIUM 5649 NORTH SHERIDAN RD CHICAGO, IL Page 9 The Anchor—Summer 2016 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one.” Preparing for marriage is truly a beauƟful period of expectaƟon and joy. As you get ready for the “big day,” it is also important to spend Ɵme geƫng ready for the days that follow that “big day.” As you know, Holy Matrimony is not only a Sacrament at the Ɵme of the ceremony, but also throughout life. At St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church, we invite all couples geƫng married to parƟcipate in a Marriage PreparaƟon Seminar where you can discuss issues related to marriage, the struggles along the way, and the strategies for preparing for the journey. All couples are required to parƟcipate in one of these workshops, prior to your wedding date. Marriage Preparation Seminars will be held from 10 am—3 pm on the following Saturdays: August 13 September 10 November 12 Please RSVP to Fr John at [email protected] 40 Day Blessings Penelope Rose, daughter of Amy & Spiro Rempas Morgan Elizabeth, daughter of Gina & Chris Uhle Hunter Metcalf Hunter James, son of Chris na & Lee Roupas Evangelos George, son of Filisa & George Mantas Juliana, daughter of Maria & Benjamin Pecaro David, son of Haroula & Mark Serlo Paul Bryan, son of Anna & Bryan O’Connor Evan Raymond, son of Alexis & Raymond Koukari Bap sms Weddings Patrick Rosen & Sophia Prassas Funerals Jake Deane Constance Eugenia, daughter of Chris ne & Dean Marinakis UPCOMING CHURCH SERVICES Thursday, June 9, 2016 Ascension Orthros Divine Liturgy Georgia, daughter of Effie & Dino Loukas Georgia Kara oias Stella Lamprinos James C. Govos s Gregory Vavloukis Janice Theodore Kurowski Friday, August 5, 2016 Great Vespers-Transfiguration 7:00 p.m. Saturday, August 6, 2016 Feast Day of Transfiguration 9:00 a.m. 9:00 a.m. Orthros 10:00 a.m. 10:00 a.m. Divine Liturgy Memorials Constan ne Beldianu—40 days Vasiliki Brelias—40 days James C. Govos s—40 days Georgia Karafo as—40 days Christos Karras— 40 days Angela Mouzakeo s—40 days Anna Tsagarelis—40 days Gregory Vavloukis—40 days Steve Kondos—6 months Demetra Atsaves—1 year Louis Demos—1 year Dimitrios Lekkas—1 year Panayiota Panayiotou—1 year Theoni Bouris—2 years Despina Perous anis—2 years Erato Douligeris—3 years John Bouris—10 years Theodore Rempas— 10 years Ka na Festos—19 years Evangelos Alexander—25 years George Festos—35 years Friday, August 12, 2016 Small Paraklesis 7:00 p.m. Monday, August 15, 2016 Assumption of the Theotokos Orthros 9:00 a.m. Divine Liturgy 10:00 a.m. Monday, August 29, 2016 7:00 p.m. Beheading of John the Baptist Orthros 9:00 a.m. Wednesday, August 10, 2016 Wednesday, August 3, 2016 Divine Liturgy 10:00 a.m. 7:00 p.m. Small Paraklesis 7:00 p.m. Small Paraklesis Monday, August 1, 2016 Small Paraklesis Monday, August 8, 2016 7:00 p.m. Small Paraklesis The Anchor—Summer 2016 St. Andrew Sunday School Congratulations to all of the graduates of the 2015-2016 Sunday School Year. It has been a wonderful year of celebration, learning and community. Thank you to the amazing teaching staff for their dedication to the enrichment of our future generation. We look forward to seeing you all in the Fall for another great year. A special honor to our graduating high school students. We have had the honor of watching this amazing group of young adults over the years and look forward to celebrating their next chapter of life. CONGRATULATIONS!! Alexander Behle Constance Chrones Dimitri Dernis Alex Gargano Angie Georgaras Conner Hatzopoulos Nicholas Kalomas Hope Marks Amanda Prokos Olivia Westerbeck In Christ, Tracey Lazos Sunday School Coordinator Classes for the 2015-2016 School Year begin on Saturday, September 10, 2015. Registration is now open, and if you preregister by July 30 with a $500 deposit (per family) tuition will be the same as last year. Tuition rates for the 2016-2017 Year are as follows: Stewards: Full Payment at time of Registration: $900.00 ½ Payment at time of Registration: $955.00 Non-Stewards: Full Payment at time of Registration: $1,600.00 ½ Payment at time of Registration: $1,655.00 THE ABOVE TUITION RATES INCLUDE A $75.00 BOOK, SUPPLY & PTO FEE *There is a $50 discount which will be applied per additional child enrolled in one of our programs Page 11 The Anchor—Summer 2016 St. Andrew’s Women’s Philoptochos Society Christos Anesti to all of the St. Andrew’s community. As your Philoptochos, we hope you all had a wonderful Pascha celebration. It was a joyous week of celebration and reflection of our commitment to our Orthodox religion… that which binds us all. Thank you, thank you, thank you St. Andrew’s families for continually supporting our philanthropic endeavors. As a philanthropic organization, we wouldn’t be able to give to the needy, if it wasn’t for your ongoing generosity. ************************************************************************************************************** SAWPS Outreach Program was started March, 2015, by Past President Vonnie Karafotias, along with a standing commi ee have been delivering handmade sack lunches to Edgewater’s Night Ministry, Sarah’s Circle and Care for Real on a monthly basis. These freshly made sandwiches represent our contribu on to the Nat’l Philoptochos Outreach program ‘Feeding the Hungry’ Campaign to feed 250,000 which culminates July 2016 at the Nat’l Philoptochos Conference in Nashville, Tennessee. Thank you to the following ladies who continually support this very important local outreach program: Karen Anderson, Semi Karnezos, Nan Rumsey, Terri Mikuzis, Cathy Fasseas, Stephane Collopy, Kathy Kaporis, Georgia Farlekas, Tina Arvanitakis, Dimitra Loukissa, Diane Alexander White, Samia Sami; as well as to Vicki Karagianis and Vonnie Karafotias who co-chair this project. The next Sarah’s Circle sack lunch making will be on May 20, 2016; 10:30 in St. Andrews kitchen. Philoptochos organiza ons na onwide have surpassed the ini al goal of serving 250,000 meals. The exact amount of meals served will be announced at the Na onal Conven on in July. Our representa ves will be: Vonnie Karafo as, Hellena Chrones, and Demetra Christus, along with our Na onal members: Arlene Siavelis Kehl, 1st Vice President; board members: Kathy Siavelis and Marilyn Tzakis. Stewards: If you know an owner of a grocery store or fruit market to approach for a donation, please contact Vicki or Vonnie. We welcome individual donations as well to help defray the $100. monthly costs. Items used: 9 loaves wheat bread, 1 large peanut butter, 1 jar large grape jelly, 50 slices Swiss cheese, 4 lbs. Krakus Ham, 5 lbs. Sara Lee/Butterball Turkey, 80 cans pop/juice boxes, cookies, 80 Cutie oranges, brown lunch bags, and plastic sandwich bags. We have been fortunate to receive donations from Mariano’s, Jewel, and Treasure Island to help our efforts along with donations from the container in Pangari, we are able to keep this ongoing. Philoptochos thanks each and every one of you for your continued support toward this outreach project. Thank you, Vicki (773-327-3194) and Vonnie; [email protected] for further details or to answer any questions. The Anchor—Summer 2016 Feed the Hungry – Metropolis Program January 70 sack lunches - Sarah's Circle February 82 sack lunches - Sarah's Circle March 82 sack lunches - Sarah's Circle April 80 sack lunches - Sarah's Circle April 10,000 -Meals -Outreach, Inc. May 80 sack lunches - Sarah's Circle May 150 sack suppers -The Night Ministry June March 20th: 3rd Annual Lenten Luncheon on Sunday of Orthodoxy: chaired by Peggy Papaioannou! This event is a wonderful combina on of Lenten luncheon and the Greek School Greek Independence Day Program presented by Eugenia Demos and Christina Kakavas. The children did an amazing job with their oral presentations and Greek dancing!! Many thanks to the generosity of the attendees who collectively donated $600. to the National Philoptochos Aid to Greece and Cyprus campaign. Thank you to the ladies who baked our traditional chocolate Lenten cupcakes: Maria Kotsinis, Peggy Papaioannou, Helen Papaioannou, Marilyn Tzakis, Patty Tsaoussis, and Cynthia Melas. April 8th Wintery Lenten Services with Metropolitan Iakovos and April 28th Holy Tuesday with Bishop Demetrios of Mokissos A big thank you to all the ladies who helped to set up and bake Lenten sweets for both of the coffee hours after services on the Fourth Friday and Holy Tuesday. Bakers extraordinaire: Eugenia Demos and Aspasia (Moustakoulouria), Artemis Papoutsis (Halva), Angie Alexopoulos (Melamoukarona), Marilyn Tzakis (Apple Cake and Lenten Cupcakes), Voula Euthimiou (Fruit trays and OJ), and Terri Mikuzis, Sascha Kalpake, Kathy Kaporis, Semi Karnezos, Marilyn Tzakis and Cynthia Melas for helping to organize and set up. 1 April 16 : Walk-a-thon with St. George Philoptochos: As one of Philoptochos’s 90 Anniversary Acts of Kindness, St. Andrew’s Philoptochos joined in a Walk‐a‐Thon with St. George’s Philoptochos thanks to Father John and Father Chris. Our goal was to raise funds for Rehabilita on Ins tute of Chicago Adap ve Sports Program & Rio 2016 ParalympicTraining Program. Coincidentally, the Advisor of this team is our own Kosta Zografopoulos. We were very successful in raising over $1000.; thank you so much to all of our generous donors! tMany thanks to Pa y Harrison, Semi Karnezos, and Artemis Poulakidis for se ng up and serving refreshments to all the par cipants!! th th Page 13 The Anchor—Summer 2016 April 24th Palm Sunday Bake Sale: Once again, Philoptochos did the baking for St. Andrew’s this Easter. Thank all of you for participating and making our Bake Sale a success. Many thanks to all our bakers: Kourambiethes: Patty Harrison, Sophia Spiradakos, Tracey Poulakidis, Cynthia Melas; Koulourakia: Patty Harrison, Seva Johnson, Terri Mikuzis, Eugenia Demos, Aspasia Sarris; Melamoukarona: Angie Alexopoulos; Moustokouloura: Eugenia Demos and Aspasia Sarris; Baklava: Shia Kapos and Cynthia Melas; Galatoboureko: Angie Alexopoulos; Diples: Stella Nash. Patty Tsaoussis, Patty Harrison, Shia Kapos, Marilyn Tzakis all did an awesome job setting up and selling the baked goods. We all hope you enjoyed your purchases…we will be back next year!! Ongoing Dreamcatchers “Helping Women in Need” Personal Items Drive: Philoptochos has identified Dreamcatchers as one of our key organizations to supply personal goods on an annual basis. We are collecting travel size items of only these key items: hand lotion, body wash, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, and hand sanitizers. We are accepting donations of $5 to cover the expense of these specific items if you would prefer a monetary donation. Collection bins will be in the gym foyer by the cloak room. To learn more about the organization please go online: wwwthedreamcatcherfoundation.org. *************************************************************************************************************** Upcoming Events: June 14th: End of Year Dinner June 19th: Pentecost Coffee Hour after services July 3-8th: 2016 National Philoptochos Biennial Convention, Nashville, Tennessee St. Andrew’s Women’s Philoptochos2015-2016 Stewardship Form Welcome new members: Sophia Kondos, Alex White, and Irene Fiorentinos! Suggested Annual Stewardship Donation: $40.00 To be distributed as follows: National Philoptochos: $15.00 & Metropolis Philoptochos: $6.00 Any additional amount supports the good works of our chapter. Please print a copy of this form and complete. Name ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Spouse __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ City ______________________________________________________ State _____________ Zip ___________________ Phone Number _______________________ Cell Number____________________________ Email _____________________________________________Donation Amount __________ Please make check payable to St. Andrew’s Women’s Philoptochos Society (SAWPS) Mail your check and this form to: St. Andrew’s Women’s Philoptochos Society Attn: Hellena Chrones, Membership 5649 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago, IL 60660 The Anchor—Summer 2016 Page 15 The Anchor—Summer 2016 St. Andrew’s Greek Orthodox Church Chicago, IL Celebrating its 55th Greek Festival July 9th and July 10th Program Booklet Advertising Contract This is an advertising contract between St. Andrew’s Greek Orthodox Church of Chicago, Illinois: Name: ______________________________________________________________ Address: ______________________________________________________________ City: _______________________ State:______ Zip: _________Phone:______________________ Contact Person:______________________________________________ E-Mail: ___________________________________________________ The above company/person agrees to place a ______________Advertisement in the St. Andrew’s Greek Orthodox Greek Festival 2016 Program Booklet. Advertisers please attach your borderless camera-ready advertising copy to this contract, (see next page for rates and layouts) along with your payment, NO LATER THAN Friday, June 24, 2016, payable to: St. Andrew’s Greek Orthodox Church Attn: Festival 5649 N. Sheridan Road Chicago, IL 60660 [email protected] Advertising Rates: $150 for a full page (5 x 8) $80 for a half page $50 for a quarter page $25 for “Friends of the Festival” section where you may list your business’s name, address, and telephone number, or a personal message Also available are Raffle Tickets: 1st $5000, 2nd $2000, 3rd $1000. Price is $10 per ticket. Your Message Please submit your advertising message as you would like it to appear in the ad book in the space below. _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ All advertisement formats are final. An electronic file is preferred (JPG) and you may email it to: [email protected] and if one is not available please attach a scanned copy of your advertisement or business card. Please note that original artwork cannot be returned. The Anchor—Summer 2016 St. Andrew’s Celebrating its 55th Annual Greek Festival Dear Stewards and Friends: This year St. Andrew’s is celebrating its 55th Festival which will be held on Saturday, July 9 and Sunday, July 10, 2016. We are looking to having a fun and successful event. We can only do this with your help. As we all know, the costs of the festival rise each year, whether it is the food, tents, entertainment or kids activities. We always have the best possible product and entertainment. This year we are in hopes of defraying our costs for the 55th Festival. Please take a moment to look at the list below and if you are able to help out please fill out the section at the bottom of this sheet. All donations are helpful. If you have any questions or know of anyone who could help us out with any of the items listed, please contact Vonnie at [email protected] or call at 630-378-4878. Items DJ Dance Troupe Dumpsters Police/Security Labor Fork Lift Kids Area/Jumps Cooks/Souvlaki – 2 days Cook/Gyros – 2 days Kitchen Personnel Charcoal Lumps – 40 lb bag (each) Ice Ice Chest Dinner Rolls Hot Dog Buns Spinach Pies Cheese Pies Vegetarian Mousaka Pastisio Phyllo Pillsbury Hot Roll Mix (8 – 1lb boxes) Lamb (2 whole legs) Lamb Cooking Lamb Souvlakia Chicken Retsina Rose Wine Wine (Red) Wine (White) Greek Beer Lemons Watermelon Creamer Red Onions/Julienned Green Peppers/Diced Green Peppers/Julienned Onions/Sliced Onions/Diced Olives – 12 kilo kegs Translucent Cups/7oz – 1 case Translucent Cups/5 oz – 1 case Souffle – 2 oz. cups – 1 box Souffle – 2 oz. lids – 1 box Foil Pans/Full Size Foil Lids/Full Size Canolla Oil – 35 lb containers Salad Oil – 35 lb containers Balsamic Dressing Lemon Juice Amount Needed $1000 $250 2 @ $325 each $2650 $1360 $500 $2600 $810 $350 $1850 13 @ $22 each 4 @ $130 each $150 300 doz. 16 doz. 13 cases @ $50 each 11 cases @ $50 each 6 cases @ $84 each 9 cases @ $72 each 2 cases @ $40 each 40 cases @ $17 each 2 @ $160 each 55 lambs @ $60 each 680 lbs Pork Tenders 350 chickens 2 cases @ $54 each 9 cases @ $54 each 7 cases@ $84 each 7 cases@ $84 each 60 cases @ $20 each 2 cases @ $40.00 1 case @ 35 each 1 case @ 12 $53.00 $85.00 $53.00 $155.00 $60.00 6 jugs @ $60 each $50.00 – 2500 per case $50.00 – 2500 per case $28.00 $28.00 2 cases @ $38 each 1 case @ $38 10 @ 25 each 2 @ $25 each 2 cases @ 40 each 1 case @ $17 Cost $1000 $250 $650 $2650 $1360 $500 $2600 $810 $350 $1850 $286 $520 $150 $450 $40 $650 $550 $504 $648 $80 $680 $320 $3300 $680 $2200 $1200 $108 $486 $588 $588 $1200 $80 $35 $12 $53 $85 $53 $155 $60 $360 $50 $50 $28 $28 $76 $38 $250 $50 $80 $17 Partial Payment Full Payment Page 17 Olive Oil Ouzo Metaxa Sternos Honey (5lb containers – 6 per case) Cup Cake Holders (15 paper/foil liner) Pop Up Foil – 500 ct. Potato Chips Tomatoes/Diced – 6/10# Salt/Morton Iodized – 12 lbs. Spices Coffee/Filters Gyros Tzatziki Sauce Pita for Gyros Land O Lakes Butter – Unsalted (ONLY) 12 boxes Swan Down Flour (ONLY) 6 gallons milk 14 – 20 doz. eggs (Large) 4 lbs Powder Sugar, 1 ½ lbs Baking Powder, 2 lbs Baking Soda, 3 gal Corn Oil 60 lbs. Walnuts 30 lbs. Almonds Lighter Fluid (12 containers) Feta Cheese Paper products, plates, napkins, cups, etc.. Gen Paks Bottled Water Coke Diet Coke 7-Up/Sprite Rice Onions, Celery, Parsley Cherry Tomatoes Cucumbers Tomatoes Mustard Hotdogs (160) Sandwich Bags Ice Cream Bowls Whipping Cream Plastic Spoons Ice Cream – Variety Chocolate Syrup Cinnamon Kaseri Cheese (180 lbs/approx.) Kefalogravera/Saganaki (200 lbs/approx.) Tablecloths/Aprons/Towels Plastic Table Covering (Outside) Plastic Table Covering (Inside) Plastic Shopping Bags Nescafe (Frappe) 1 case - $61 2 cases @ $130 each 2 cases @ $130 each 3 cases @ 38 each 9 cases @ $76 $20 – 15 containers 1 box - $15 4 cases @50 each @ $12 1 case @ $25 12 containers @ $15 Oregano, Pepper, etc.. 3 cases @ 30 each 20 cases 10 cases @ $23 per case 15 cases @ $20 per case 60 @ 4 each 12 @ 3 each $40.00 2 5gal pails 22 cases @ $19 per case 100 cases @ $3 per case 60 cases @$7.00 per case 45 cases @$7.00 per case 40 cases @$7.00 per case 15 bags @ $23 22 cases @ $17 per flat 8 cases @ $19 per case 13 cases @ $14 per case 1 case $38 (per 80) 500 500 12 bottles 500 7 – 3 lb containers @ $30 each 2 large jugs @ 25 each 1 – 2 containers 2 cases Nescafe, Plastic/Cups 16oz The Anchor—Summer 2016 $61 $260 $260 $114 $760 $20 $15 $48 $25 $15 $350 $90 $2000 $230 $300 $240 $36 $30 $50 $75 $250 $100 $40 $100 $1600 $418 $300 $420 $315 $280 $345 $50 $374 $152 $182 $15 $76 $20 $25 $40 $12 $210 $50 $25 $900 $1000 $225 $550 $100 $30 $70 Please Note: If you know someone who may be able to donate any of the items listed above, please contact Vonnie at 630-378-4878, no later than Wednesday, June 29, 2016. Monetary donation to the festival $ _________________ to help defray the costs or Yes, I’d like to donate __________________________ in the amount of $__________________ As always, we thank you for your continued generosity and support to St. Andrew’s. The 2016 Picnic Committee The Anchor—Summer 2016 St Andrew’s Greek Fes val Volunteer Form ‐ 2016 Print clearly and return or email to office by Tuesday, June 28, 2016 One form per person please Name:_____________________________________________ Phone: day (_____)______________________ Address:___________________________________________ evening (_____)_________________________ City:______________________ Zip:____________________ email: ________________________________ Food Preparations and Festival Set Up Bring Kitchen Knives & Cutting Boards Thursday, July 7 at 6 pm – Souvlaki making/skewering Friday, July 8 from 10 am to 3 pm Saturday, July 9 at Noon (DATES/TIMES SUBJECT TO CHANGE – CHECK YOUR SUNDAY BULLETIN & UPCOMING EVENTS SCHEDULE/EMAILS) FESTIVAL VOLUNTEERS Saturday July 9 2:30 – 5 pm Saturday July 9 5 – 8 pm Saturday July 9 8 – 11 pm Sunday July 10 11 am – 3 pm Sunday July 10 3 – 7 pm Admissions Ice Cream Shoppe Kids Area Loukoumades Pastries Bar FOOD TENT Saganaki/Gyros Souvlaki/Chicken/ Lamb Orthodox Books Boutique Raffle Booth Personnel Booth Email form to: [email protected] or fax 773-334-3468, drop it off to the office or mail to: St. Andrew’s Greek Orthodox Church, Attn: Festival 5649 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago, IL 60660 Festival Week Schedule: Thursday, July 7 – Tent setup, electrical work Thursday, July 7 – skewering of Souvlaki – 6:00 pm (Check Sunday bulletin or church office for date/time change) Friday, July 8 – Food prep, booth setup, tables & chairs, electrical work Saturday, July 9 – Final food prep and booth setup Monday, July 11 – Festival tear down and clean up Sunday July 10 7 – 11 pm Page 19 The Anchor—Summer 2016 The Anchor—Summer 2016 St. Andrew Greek Orthodox Church 5649 N. Sheridan Rd. Chicago, IL 60660-4803