Fall 2011: Grayson
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Fall 2011: Grayson
A Special Time For Remembering Sponsored by the Letter from the Director..............2 The Home Hospice Auxiliar Thanks for the Support ..............3 Sponsored by the Paula Cloud, chairperson Light Up a Life Support ..............4 The Home Hospicehonorary Auxiliary Castleberry, chairperso Patti Habitat for Humanity ..................4 Paula Cloud, chairperson Pattispecial Castleberry,time honoraryfor chairperson A remember Update on the Auxiliary..............4 Staff Fun Committee..................5 people special A special time for remembering Wish List ....................................5 Hospice Hugs ............................6 Memorials .............................. 7-9 Caregiver Support Group ........10 special people The Light Up a Life Tree Lighting Ceremony was he Tuesday, November 29 at 7:00 PM at beautiful Kell The Light Up a Life Tree Lighting Ceremony was held Square.November The tree was with prayer and son Tuesday, 29 at 7:00blessed PM at beautiful Kelly Square. The treeilluminated was blessed with prayer and song before Hosp the tree was by a patient on Home the tree was Pictures illuminatedwill by abe patient on Home service. in our next Hospice newsletter. service. Pictures will be in our next newsletter. P.I.E. & F-P.I.E. ........................10 National Hospice Month ..........11 Bereavement Opportunities .....12 Golf Tournament ......................13 Community Outreach...............14 Spotlight on the Staff ...............15 Camp Dragonfly.......................15 You are invited to give: are invited to give: You In celebration of the birth of a child or a special event In celebration of the birth a child or aone special event In loving memory of aof friend or loved In honor of someone very special In loving memory of a friend or loved one In honor of someone very special Up a Life go directly All donations given to Light to fund the care of our patients. donations given given to to Light Up a Life go All donations go directly directly (Please see information on how you can give inside this newsletter. to fund the care our patients. to fund the care of our patients with of limited resources or no insurance. Susan…please put the giving information listed below on the (Please see information on how you can give inside this newsletter.) inside of the newsletter: (Please see information on how you can give inside this newsletter. Susan…please put the giving information listed below on the Highlights • Volume XXII, Issue 3 • Holiday 2011 inside of the newsletter: Fr o m t h e D e s k o f t h e D i r e c t o r Forty five years ago, physician Dame Cicely Saunders first called specialized care for those facing a life-limiting illness “hospice;” and for the past thirty years Home Hospice has been journeying with individuals who are living with a life-limiting illness, their family members and friends, and all in our community who grieve. During those thirty years we have remained faithful to the vision of our founding board members as to what Home Hospice can do for each individual whose life touches ours - providing comfort and the highest quality care, focusing on improving the quality of life when nothing can be done about the quantity, supporting loved ones in their efforts to make this special journey as caregivers alongside family and friends, and providing outstanding education, support, guidance and care throughout our community to those who have experienced a loss. What would matter to you during your final journey or during the final journey of someone you love? Does remaining comfortable so you may enjoy each and every moment matter? Does guidance and support at every turn in order that you know what to expect and how to plan matter? Does it matter to have the opportunity to have loved ones call in messages of support from wherever they are and have those messages recorded to listen to again and again? Does having someone talk with you about spiritual concerns at this special time matter? Does spending time doing what you love most with those you love most matter? Does having time to finish that “pesky unfinished business” matter? Does the opportunity to have your life story turned into a book for family and friends matter? Does it matter for your family to know that help is available for them as they grieve? Does knowing your team is part of Home Hospice, a knowledgeable, experienced provider that has made this journey with over five thousand individuals and families for thirty years learning valuable lessons each and every time matter? I was recently asked, “what should drive hospice care – compassion or compensation?” The person who asked simply wondered if all of the programs and services, all the staff training and education, all the community education and support, all the community knowledge and involvement that comes from being “from here,” and all the care and support of everyone with or without insurance, was really important, whether it really mattered at this most significant time of life, whether building a program based on truly meeting people’s needs, in a multitude of ways with compassion and understanding, truly matters. We believe that it all matters because your life matters. When you or a loved one is faced with the news that your precious final journey has begun, turn to your trusted neighbor and know that you will receive the best in hospice care available to you. Let us bring our experience and expertise to you and those you love, and share in your journey supporting you with all the valuable lessons we have learned throughout the years. How You Can Make a Difference Your tax deductible donation to Home Hospice, a 501(c)(3) organization, makes a positive difference in the lives of our patients. Monies donated will go toward patient and family care. Donations may be made with a credit card on our website, www.homehospice.org. Name of Donor: ______________________________________________________________________________________________ Address: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ City, State, Zip _______________________________________ Phone #: _______________________________________________ Enclosed is my gift of $ _______________________________________ (a credit card donation may be made by calling our office) This gift is given “In Memory of”___; “In Honor of”___; other (please specify) __________________________________________ The person’s name is __________________________________________________________________________________________ Please send acknowledgement of this gift to: ______________________________________________________________________ Address: ________________________________________________________City, State, Zip: ______________________________ Please return your donation, made out to Home Hospice, to our office or mail to the address listed on the address side of the newsletter, or donate online at www.homehospice.org. Page 2 Volume XXII, Issue 3 Thanks For The Support Thanks to the Boozefighters Motorcycle Club #163 who worked with Loose Wheels, Texas to hold a benefit fundraiser for Home Hospice on October 8. Pictured is the flyer that the motorcycle club used as well as a picture of some of the many Home Hospice volunteers who attended the event. Pictured are employees Kathi Kirby, Sheryl Myers, Nora Montgomery and Board of Director Lyn Jostes. Thanks to Wilson N. Jones Community Foundation for sharing the proceeds from their successful golf tournament with Camp Dragonfly. Pictured are Julie Mitchell, Chairman of the Foundation along with Jolene Senek and Vicky Lindsey, Camp Dragonfly Directors, and Sherry Little, Executive Director, receiving the check. Thanks to the 150 or so students at C.W. Hayes Primary School in Whitesboro for volunteering to be part of the Love Letters project in which students create cards and write letters throughout the year to patients of Home Hospice. Home Hospice Volunteer Coordinator, Barb Samuelson and 2nd grade teacher, Brittanny Bennett coordinated the project. Thanks to the Callisburg ISD Art Student’s support. Under the direction of art teacher Tiffany Rawling, the students will be decorating gift bags for Home Hospice to use for our Bear Hugs program, Christmas, Easter and other events. Holiday 2011 Thanks to the Texoma Christian School for selecting Home Hospice as one of the work sites for this year’s Service Day. A group of students under the direction of Elizabeth Meeks decorated sacks to use with our Bear Hugs project. Bear Hugs is a project in which the family of a patient picks out a favorite article of clothing and our expert sewers create a very huggable memory bear. Page 3 Thank you for Lighting Up a Life! Thank you for Lighting Up a Life! Leadership levels of giving extend our ability to careH forome patientsH andospiCe families. Thank you for Lighting Up a Life! Contributions of every size are deeply appreciated. Leadership levels of giving extend our ability to care for patients and families. Thank you for Lighting Up a Life! Cooks for HabiTaT Contributions of every size are deeply appreciated. Thank you for Lighting Up a Life! Leadership levels of giving extend our ability to care for patients and families. Eachtogift of for $10patients or moreand lights a symbolic light on our Tree of Lights. Leadership levels of giving extend our ability care families. for HumaniTy Contributions oforevery deeply Eachlevels gift ofof$10 moresize lights a symbolic light on ourand Tree of Lights. Leadership giving extend our are ability to careappreciated. for patients families. Home Hospice is a 501(c)3 organization. Your gift is tax deductible. Contributions of every size are deeply appreciated. In the spirit of volunteering, Each gift of $10 or more lights a symbolic light on our Tree Platinum of Lights. Dove $5,000 Home Hospice employees fixed a Each of $10 or more lightslight a symbolic lightLights. on our Tree of Lights. Each gift of $10gift or more lights a symbolic on our Tree $5,000 Platinum Dove ofgift Gold Dove Home Hospice is a 501(c)3 organization. Your is$1,000 tax deductible. taco soup and burrito lunch with $1,000 Gold Dove organization. Home isHospice isorganization. a 501(c)3 Your gift $500 is taxSilver deductible. Home Hospice a 501(c)3 Your gift is tax deductible. Dove cookies for the volunteers at the $5,000 Platinum $500 Silver Dove Dove $5,000 Platinum Dove $250 Bronze Dove $5,000 Platinum Dove Habitat for Humanity worksite in $1,000 Gold Dove Dove $250 Bronze $1,000 Gold Dove $100 White Dove $1,000 Gold Dove Denison on November 2. Pictured $100 White $500 SilverDove Dove $500 Silver Dove Other $ ________ $500 Silver Dove are Bob Montgomery, Crew Chief, $250 Bronze Other $ ________ $250Dove Bronze Dove $250 Bronze Dove $100 White Dove and Laurie Mealy, Executive $100 White Dove Your name____________________________________________ $100 White Dove Your Other $ ________ Director, in front of the Habitat name____________________________________________ Other $ ________ Mailing address ________________________________________ address Other________________________________________ $ ________ work trailer. (Bob Montgomery Mailing Your name____________________________________________ City/State/Zip__________________________________________ City/State/Zip__________________________________________ is also the facilities chairperson name____________________________________________ MailingYour address ________________________________________ Phone________________________________________________ Your name____________________________________________ Phone________________________________________________ for Home Hospice and the 2010 Mailing address ________________________________________ City/State/Zip__________________________________________ e-mail________________________________________________ Mailing address ________________________________________ e-mail________________________________________________ Volunteer of the Year for the Phone________________________________________________ City/State/Zip__________________________________________ City/State/Zip__________________________________________ My gift is in memory of:______________________________________________________ e-mail________________________________________________ My gift is in memory of:______________________________________________________ Texas and New Mexico Hospice Phone________________________________________________ Phone________________________________________________ Organization.) My gift is in honor of:________________________________________________________ My is in honor of:________________________________________________________ My gifte-mail________________________________________________ is ingift memory of:______________________________________________________ My gift ise-mail________________________________________________ in honor of:________________________________________________________ My giftPlease is in mail memory Pleaseonmail Please place my doves on the tree ❏ dovesof:______________________________________________________ to me ❏ Please place my doves the doves tree to me My mail gift is in memory of:______________________________________________________ ❏ Please to meof:________________________________________________________ ❏ Please place my doves on the tree My gift isdoves in honor My gift is in honor of:________________________________________________________ Give online at www.homehospice.org/events (Click on Light A Life) Give online at Up www.homehospice.org/events (Click on Light Up A Life) PleaseGive mailonline dovesat to me Please place my doves onLight the tree (Click on Up A Life) You maymail alsodoves call www.homehospice.org/events 903-868-9315 if youplace wouldmy like to make a credit card payment over the phone Please to me Please doves on the tree You may also call 903-868-9315 if you would like to make a credit card payment over th You may also call 903-868-9315 if you would like to make a credit card payment over the phone Please make your check out to Home HospicePlease make your check out to Home Hospice Please make check out to Home Hospice (Click on Light Up A Life) Give online atyour www.homehospice.org/events P.O. Box 338 • Sherman, Texas 75091 P.O.UpBox 338 • Sherman, Texas 75091 GiveP.O. online (Click on Light A Life) Box at 338www.homehospice.org/events • Sherman, Texas 75091 You may also call 903.868.9315 903-868-9315 if you would like to make a credit card payment over the phone 903.868.9315 • www.homehospice.org • www.homehospice.org You may also call 903-868-9315 if you would like to make a credit card903.868.9315 payment over• www.homehospice.org the phone Please make your check out to Home Hospice Please make your check out to Home Hospice P.O. Box 338 • Sherman, Texas 75091 P.O. Box 338 • Sherman, Texas 75091 903.868.9315 • www.homehospice.org 903.868.9315 • www.homehospice.org Contributions of every size are deeply appreciated. Home Hospice is a 501(c)3 organization. Your gift is tax deductible. ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ upDaTe on THe auxiliary In October, the Auxiliary presented the staff with ‘Casserole Ole’ – a buffet of entrée and vegetable casseroles as well as desserts. After partaking in all the deliciousness, the staff responded with resounding cries of “OLE!” Thursday December 1 at 11:30 a.m., The Auxiliary held their Christmas Luncheon in Kelly Square. Instead of gift giving between the members, they chose to adopt the Home Hospice Wish List and donate some of these needed items. UPComing EvEnTS in 2012 January 26 at 11:30 a.m. Auxiliary Meeting - Home Hospice Large Conference Room – covered dish Pictured are a few of the ladies who luncheon and program entitled Downtown Sherman Streetscape by Jared stayed after the October Auxiliary Tredway. A service project will follow the meeting. meeting to work on various projects, February 23 at 11:30 a.m. including stuffing envelopes for Light Auxiliary Meeting - Home Hospice Large Conference Room – covered dish Up a Life. luncheon and program entitled Preserving Family Heirlooms with Dan Steele of the Sherman Museum. A service project will follow the meeting. march 22 at 11:30 a.m. Auxiliary Meeting - Home Hospice Large Conference Room – covered dish luncheon and program entitled Camp Dragonfly with Jolene Senek, LBSW. A service project will follow the meeting. Page 4 Volume XXII, Issue 3 T Staff Fun Committee he Fun Committee sponsored a Pumpkin Decorating contest recently. The staff entered pumpkins in various categories and, after the judging, the pumpkins were taken to patients and families of patients who are on service. The Fun Committee has also sponsored, to name a few, National Smile Day, Talk Like a Pirate Day, an evening of appetizers at a local restaurant as well as a cranky co-workers contest. Wish List Donations of items listed below enable Home Hospice to practice the good stewardship for which we are known and to use our resources in the best way possible. Please call in advance if you have a large donation so we can help you unload. PaTiEnT ChriSTmaS giFT LiST Large, new Christmas gift bags New stuffed animals Candy canes and chocolate covered cherries New slipper socks, house shoes & pajamas Socks, undershirts Note cards & journals Christmas candles & mugs Hot chocolate & coffee singles Pictured are three of the winning pumpkins. Clockwise from upper left: Lois Morris, Most Creative; Jolene Senek, Best Use of a Theme; and Nora Montgomery, Most Traditional. PaTiEnT CarE nEEDS Baby monitors Baby wipes Ensure-all varieties, all flavors Boost—High Protein or Carnation Instant Breakfast Inexpensive red or maroon towels Beanie Babies For BEar hUgS: • Polyester Fiberfill 16 oz bags • Ribbon: satin, grosgrain or organza ½” – 1 1/2 ‘ wide (solids, stripes or prints) • Buttons: tan, medium brown or black ¾ - 1 ¼” diameter Metal or plastic pet carriers for Pet Peace of Mind Vases with a 1 ½” opening for Petal Pushers program Curling ribbon For CookE CoUnTy rED haT Program Red Hats Pictured are staff members, Frances Nelson, Donna Pack, Dr. Ron VanBuskirk and Barb Samuelson on Talk Like A Pirate Day. Holiday 2011 oFFiCE nEEDS Blue ink pens Zip Lock bags—quart and gallon size Bottled water for events Snacks for support groups Toilet paper, tissues & paper towels 3 x 3 self-stick note pads Coffee- regular and decaffeinated Page 5 Hospice Hugs To the Auxiliary for fixing a delicious Casserole Olé staff luncheon. To Billy Hamilton for repairing the bench at our entryway. To Bob Montgomery for continuous oversight of our renovation project in Cooke County. To Eyemart Express at Town Center for donating glasses for one of our patients. To our Board of Directors for sponsoring Chaplain Jerryd Wallace in the WNJ Community Foundation Golf Tournament, everyone who volunteered at the tournament and a big hug to WNJ Community Foundation for Camp Dragonfly support. To Target Pharmacy for supplying Home Hospice with empty medicine bottles for the medical staff to use to dispose of medicines. To Jack Ragsdale for building a wheelchair ramp for a patient. To our P.I.E. (Partners in Education) speakers since July: Sue Morrison-Peippo, Family Pharmacy, in Pottsboro, Brent O’Bannon, momentum coach, Vance Reynolds, CEO and President of Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital-WNJ, Dr. Andres Morales, D.O., and Drs. Jerry Lincecum and Peggy Redshaw, Telling Our Stories speakers. Also to Partners, Joyce White, Texas AgriLife, Cheryl Brandon, Texas Health Presbyterian HospitalWNJ Senior Passport and Nora Habal and Judy Conner, Texoma Council of Government. To Sherman Healthcare for providing pies and to Traditions for speaker gifts. To Kroger in Sherman for increasing their support of Home Hospice by providing all of the flowers, free of charge, for Grayson/Fannin Petal Pushers program. To attorney Ron Huff for support and guidance. To Van Alstyne Senior Center for the use of their great facility for our fall volunteer training. To First Baptist Church in Bonham for allowing us to use their facility for our Fannin County summer volunteer training. To Dannel Funeral Home for providing a great tour and interesting information for the HOSA (Health Occupation Student Association) students at Sherman High School going through Home Hospice Volunteer Training. To all the wonderful people in our communities who donate the vases for Petal Pushers and the bereavement programs. To all Home Hospice volunteers for sharing their heart, time and talents with the patients and families served by Home Hospice of Grayson, Cooke and Fannin Counties. To Texas Laundry (on Sunset) by helping with laundry. To the Home Hospice Auxiliary for their hard work in supporting the staff and the mission of Home Hospice. To the Sponsors of our golf tournament along with the many, many volunteers and golfers who made the 7th Annual Golf Tournament at Stone Creek Country Club a success. To our 7th Annual Golf Tournment Committee members, Mark Tooley, Chairperson, Gerri Bandemir, Eddie Brown, Tommy Gibbs and Lyn Jostes for leadership and hard work. To United Way for the support we receive. To First United Methodist Church for letting us use their facility for processing our bulk mailings. To Loose Wheels, Texas for working with the Booze Fighters Motorcycle Club in October on a fundraiser benefiting Home Hospice and to the Boozefighters for putting the event together. To the kind employees at American Bank who provide birthday cakes for our patients. To Trinity Lutheran Church for hosting the P.I.E. events for the months of August through November. To the F-P.I.E. (Fannin County Partners in Education) speakers, Lowell Howard, JoCarolyn Chambers, LCSW, and Gabriela Esparza along with partners Home Hospice, Clyde Cosper Texas State Veteran’s Home, TCOG, Area Agency on Aging and Texas AgriLife. To Nan Jones and Joyce Robinson who faithfully acknowledge gifts given to Home Hospice. To the staff of Home Hospice who gave time out of their work and personal schedules to provide training to volunteers. To the T.E.A.M.’s Center in Bonham for letting us host The Last Walk as well as many of our other events in Fannin County in their facility and to our volunteer Dwight Mason who acted as host for the event. To the Camp Dragonfly volunteers & committee; All Saint’s Camp and the Jolt staff; ESP Designs for the great shirts; The Humidor for their donation of cigar boxes that were transformed into amazing memory boxes by the campers and to Project Linus whose members made special dragonfly embellished blankets for each camper! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!! To Texas Health Presbyterian-WNJ, Bonham T.E.A.M.’s Center and Texoma Medical Center for partnering with Home Hospice to present Beyond Kübler-Ross: New Perspectives in Death, Dying and Grief in November. To Landscape Architect Michael Parkey for the pond plants and fish in our Memory Garden. Page 6 To Mary Hebert, M.D. of Texas Oncology for co-sponsoring our National Hospice Month presentation by Stan Goldberg. Volume XXII, Issue 3 2 0 1 1 G r ay s o n C o u n t y M e m o r i a l s Home Hospice acknowledges the many memorials and gifts that have been given. All gifts are tax deductible and acknowledged upon receipt. The individual whom the memorial remembers is in boldface. The following individuals were remembered and honored from June 1 through October 31, 2011. Every attempt is made to assure accuracy in recognizing donors. However; errors may occur. We ask for your assistance in correcting inaccuracies that you detect. Donations to our Light Up a Life campaign are not included in this list, they are recorded in the Book of Lights which will be at the Tree of Lights throughout the holiday season. In MeMory of John morgan adams Marthe Adams Shirley Belden & Children Peggy, Bud, Pat & Gene Patterson Michele Simari Joyce allen Andrea Orrick h.C. anderson Judy Barnes Jane Barnett Danny Brakebill Colleen & Alex Brannan Bill Brooks Eula Mae Dickey Patricia Horton James Murrell M.D. & Neva Pinkston Clyde & Barbara Reynolds Jim & Cindy Robertson Della & John Skerkis Zoretta Smith Charles & Roylene Winchester Evie atkinson Nancy Wassell Tena ayers Carolyn & Dan Carey awilda Baker Ralph Bluemel Monzelle Jeffrey Jerry & Carrin Katz Margaret Kemp Marsha Kemp Vicky Lindsey Betty May Dawn & Rick Oldfield Donor & Joetta Penn Naomi & Bobby Rubarts Dr. Ray & Betty Stephens Charles & Sandra Templeton Martha Baker Wolfe Lois Davis Baker Lanny & Patricia Baker John Bell Jo Bateman Holiday 2011 michael Bishop Sue & Denis Boquist Sammy & Janis Brown Employees of Diamond Service Center Stacy & Kelly Little Sandy Nachman Ricky & Donna Walker J.o. Boothe Dusta King Joyce Bozarth Randy & Carol Harris Bessie Branham Frank & Pat Jacob Marie Morrow Anita Robertson annette Braun De & Lee Main Elizabeth Brown Judge Paul & Frances Brown Mr. & Mrs. Sammy Brown Elton Brown Justin & Heather Young michael Brownlee Charlene, Terrie, Tracie & Families Lenora Edna Bunch Unit 85 of N.A.R.V.R.E. annie Burns Stacy & Kelly Little Lawrence Carter Lois Carter Ned & Connie Culp Carol Frost Patsy Wallace Dr. mack Castleberry Betty & Jack Morgan raymond Cathey Kenneth & Frances Bailey Helen Caston Damon, Duell & Jan Cathey Virginia McClure The Pritchett Family Lee Vance Barbara Welch Wayne Cavender Georgia Richardson monroe Coble Tom Sullivan Donna Cocks Robert & Sherry Little Whitesboro Birthday Breakfast Group Eleanor Colker Frank & Dedra Workman Dorothy Connelley Blue Ridge Post Office Jerry Cranford Carolyn Cranford rev. Billy Earl Creswell Barbara Bell martha Davis Lanny & Patricia Baker Doyle Dobbins Ellis Olmstead Lorelle Dodson Helen Jones Mitchell John Elkins Bradley & Machelle Burns Erna Elkins Lake Aire Heating & Air Conditioning Service Lanny & Sharon Rainey norma Farrar Judge Paul & Frances Brown Rhoda & Bob Harris Jack & Lola & Paula Martha Kaufmann Lynn Lee Bobby & Cleo O’Neal Allen & Marcheta Osborne Paul & Donna Rocky & Mary Ann Valentine Gary & Marilyn Wallis Brenda & Eddie Young Jennifer Finney Georgia Richardson Frank Fry Bill & Layne Averyt James & Barbara Baker Susan & Eddie Brown Carolyn Cranford Glen Davis Patsy & Cal Dittemore Ronnie & Susan Fielder Carolyn Francisco Phillip Fry Hynds & Jones Family Pat Johnston Steve Kitching Keith Lightfoot Addie Matthews Brenda Needham Jack & Texanna Norman Leo Paterra Chris & Kitty Richardson Georgia Richardson Craig & Peggy Rountree Virginia Stanley Texas Star Bank, Directors, Officers & Employees Elizabeth Thomas Pamela Sue Furrh Lena Furrh Juanita “nita” garner Betty Hempkins Florence “Flo” gallion The Cigna Team Daisy Brand Adrian & Ginny O’Hanlon Betty Hempkins Christie Jones Matthew, Niles, Sherry Gallion & Gwen O’Bar ruby george Danny Brakebill Page 7 Jerry gilliam Vinson Shields Darr gruber Friends on Lake Texoma Jackie gulick Home Hospice Auxiliary katherine gunn John & Georgia Richardson kyle haigis Georgia Richardson ginny harrell Dr. Ogden & Judy Baur Mr. & Mrs. J.L. Beaird & Carrie Charles & Elizabeth Bowden Carolyn Cranford Dr. Trey & Susannah Crosthwaite Michael & Kathy Faber Donald Fincher Nanette Gabriel Dale & Tina Garner Mib Garrard Gatehouse Capital Corp. Guy & Gayle Gross Frank & Ann Harris John & Beth Hubbert & Family Nan Jones Lacy Brothers, Malcolm, Lee & Robert Jim & Vicky Lindsey John & Harriet Lovetere Sammie Mailes Ann Mayer-Scaffidi Bill & Annette Miller Harold Mitchell Rosalind Motley Betsy & Edward Owens Premier Surgical Associates Mary Ann Reich Jennie Robertson’s Kids Pat Robinson Dorothy Ryan Ed & Carolyn Spencer David Sprowl Dr. Ray & Betty Stephens Dr. De An Strobel Dr. Ray & Elizabeth Thomas H.W. Totten Wednesday Study Club Mary & Jack Windlow velma henderson Jacqueline Banfield mary Janice hestand Frances & Kenneth Bailey Nancy Barris Vic & Joanne Barris Norman Bennett Ina Carpenter Jim & Trudy Lucas Ray Mozingo Betty Pannell Dr. & Mrs. Ray Stephens H.W. Totten Francine hickox Mike & Vickie Herber Michael Karleskirt Jack & Texana Norman Page 8 Janet hugenberger Dr. James & Rita Gay Chuck hunt Waymon Evans ava ora Jarvis Frances & Kenneth Bailey Donny & Marina Jarvis The Nicholson Family Betty Julien John & Georgia Richardson Johnnie kasowski Charlie & Jeanell Harris Thomas kendrick Gertrude Kendrick Carol kiesel Lanny & Patricia Baker Wilmer kinsey Donna Andrews Kenneth Day, Jr. Gary & Aubrey Gates Darlene Goode Rosa Hancock Jeff & Laura Hill Johnnie & Tammy Jaresh Geri Kinsey Jo ann kizzar G. Randall Schmaltz Billie Lewis Stacy & Kelly Little georgia Lynn Lindsey Greg & Carol Butler mattie Lee Lubbers Steve & Debbie Fulton kathy Luther Karen Clark Arlene Schmitt Joe & mary ann maier Rosa Hancock Dr. Zafar malik The David Clendenin Family Scott & Gina Smith Larry mathis Jack & Betty Anderson velma mayo Wilma Conklin Betty Cordell Peggy Mayo Johnny mcCray Judy Akin Paul Deane Lilly Bobbie Pratt ken mcTee Carl & Billie Vawter Turner means Joe & Sandra Barrett Dennis & Sandra Ferguson James Fielder III Ned & Patricia Ireland Jack & Sue O’Neal Deborah meinen Tohnie Hynds Scott melton Connie Bryan Roy Erwin Donna Eury George Kerekes Jimmie McDonnell Faculty & Staff of Neblett Elementary School Vanessa Smith robert montague Nancy Wassell Don mullinex Jimmye Phillips John mumm Judge Paul & Frances Brown mary newhouse Mary Ann Bell Carol Durbin Jim & Glenda Milton Tom Sullivan Carleen nichols Dorothy Anderson Lela Pattillo Lo Ree Logan Frances Mandeville & Family Donor & Joetta Penn george o’hanlon The O’Hanlon Golf Team aldo Paviola Patches & Maryann Payne Bob Pearson Stacy & Kelly Little Fern Penny Helen Melton Buddy Perkins Whitesboro Birthday Breakfast Group Claude Peterson Charles Detweiler Dale & Tina Garner Juanita Powell Bert Dempsey Janet Thornton Bill reddish Diane Martin Eric, Diane, Bryan, Kim, Jason, Nicole, Derek & Sara Elinor reed Lucille Hull Magni-Fab Southwest Co., Inc. Denny & Joyce Reed Georgia Richardson Bala Venkataraman Frances richardson Helen Barron Dorothy Bishop Fellowship Class, Fairview Baptist Church Jo Ann Osburn Family of Frances Richardson Gay Richardson Janie Whitten Dot rigsby William Cupit E.C. riley Elizabeth Riddels E.C. Riley Family John rushing Donna Rushing Volume XXII, Issue 3 Watson Seely Dollie McFarland ronnie Shaw Lanny & Patricia Baker kathleen Sims Judy & Jim Fox myrtle Smithson’s Daughter Red Hat Society at Texoma Healthcare John Spencer Jr. Kaye Reed Carolyn Squires Linda Allen Dana Squires Dollie McFarland helen Starkey Sharon Barker Margaret McClure Bertha Steele Louise Tucker Linda Stephens Red Hat Society at Texoma Healthcare Bob Stidger Jimmye Phillips Sue Stofel Melanie Jones Paula Stoner Herman Stoner Evelyn Tapper Texoma Vintage Car Club Billie Taylor Mark Coffman James Terflinger John & Georgia Richardson russell Warren Thomas Bill & Joan Douglass Bette Thompson Marilyn Bader Paul & Frances Brown Mary Charlotte Casteel Sydney, Terence & Meg Clendenin Boody & Joe Fallon Mib Garrard Mr. & Mrs. Jack Hall E. Lee & Bette Higgins Keith Hubbard Margaret McNallie Brad & Ruth Ann Moore Betty & Jack Morgan Ellis & Patti Olmstead Martha Ramsey Sara, Jerry, James & Emily Reid Elizabeth Riddels Mary & Webb Sanderson Ann Quentan Tobolka Linda, Dan & Leigh Toney H.W. Totten Dorothy Thornton Janet Thornton mark Trammell Stacy & Kelly Little Jack & June Trammell Paul Trotter Roger & Marilyn Banks Holiday 2011 rhonda Ward Dale & Tina Garner anita Wilson Derek & Randee Goad William Windle Ouida Windle Dr. Jim Witt Judge Paul & Frances Brown Betty May Betty & Jack Morgan Sara, Jerry, James & Emily Reid Elizabeth Riddels arlene Wolfe Judge Paul & Frances Brown Alisa Campbell Barbara Hayes & Family A. William Modrall Naomi & Bobby Rubarts David Sprowl hazel Wright Louis & Helen Barron GTE Pioneer Club Debbie Hopper Bill Jarvis Ronald Kinney Robert & Sherry Little Polly Murray Jack & Texanna Norman John & Ella Reamer John & Georgia Richardson Harold Wright Scotty Wright Zafar Zafar Bryon, Margaret & Gerald Clark In Honor of: Wayman & Betty Chilcutt Whitesboro Birthday Breakfast Group Carol Davis Home Hospice Auxiliary Sherry Little Beth Bringhurst Williams Linda Lynch’s Birthday Betty Hempkins Dr. David Phillips Max & Shirley Cham Woman of the year Xi Theta Delta Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi DonatIons: Advantx Home Care Mary Allen Dorothy Anderson Drew Anderson Pamela Bellerman Michael Bishop Kay Blankenship Kimber Bosse Patricia Bruce Jo Calvert Church of Christ, Savoy D. Coker Cooke County United Way Glen Davis Margaret Ditto Steven Elk Kathy Faber First Christian Church, Denison First United Methodist Men, Whitesboro Amanda Fleck Sandra Fletcher Vivian Ford Flo Gallion Julie Harrell Captain H.T. Hastings Charitable Trust James Ray Hawk Dr. Mary Hebert, Texas Oncology Dena Hill Shirley Holland Barbara Hutson James Kirkpatrick Knights of Columbus Council #1289 Lake Texoma Sams L. Anne Lamkin Estee Larson Leroy Lewis Jr. Misty Lichnovsky Lone Star Food Store-Dickey’s Barbeque Sue Luthi Sydney Lynch Rita & Billy Mangrum Pat McBroom Betty McCray Linda Melton Helen Mitchell Patricia Moore Debbie Morris Pairs & Spares SS Class @ Harless Memorial Methodist Church Donor & Jo Etta Penn Project Linus Sydney Lynch Debbie Reiter Donna Rushing Sam’s Club Sherman Bible Church Sharon Shields State Farm Good Neighbor Grant Tom Sullivan Bill Taylor Kerry Don Tiner Trinity Lutheran Church Truist Comprehensive Distribution United Way of CFC of North Central Dallas United Way of Grayson County United Way of Southeastern Pennsylvania Richard & Peggy Vanderveer Todd Velekei Walmart Volunteerism Always Pays Grant Whitesboro Birthday Breakfast Group Kemp Willard XI Theta Delta Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi Page 9 Monthly Caregiver Support Group Taking care of self is not selfish. Taking care of self is mandatory. It is impossible to provide quality care to our loved ones without providing care to ourselves first. If you or someone you know is a caregiver, please consider either attending this group or letting others know about the group. unique frustrations and challenges associated with being a caregiver, while also recognizing that providing care to our loved ones is a very rewarding experience. There is no fee to attend the group and it is open to anyone, in our communities who is caring for someone who is ill. The group is facilitated by Paula Perkins, LBSW. If you have questions about this Caregiver Support Group, you may This monthly support group for caregivers is held on the call Paula Perkins at 903-868-9315 or email her at paula. first Tuesday of each month at the Denison Public Library. [email protected]. It is a dynamic, yet confidential forum for expressing the P.I.E. (Partners in Education) Schedule P.I.E. is a monthly seminar offered to the public by a local professional to enhance your knowledge and education. These highly informative and entertaining talks are sponsored by Home Hospice, Texas AgriLife Extension Service, Texoma Council of Governments and Texas Health Presbterian Hospital-WNJ and are offered at no cost to those attending. Please mark your calendar and attend these talks. All talks with be held on the third Tuesday of the month, February through November, from 12-1 pm in the Eisenhower Room at the Texoma Council of Governments, which is located at 1117 Gallagher Road in Sherman. Coffee and complimentary home-made pies made by Sherman Healthcare will served. You may bring a sack-lunch if you would like. Below is the schedule: February 21, 2012 march 20, 2012 april 17, 2012 Dr. azar Ehsan Dr. muqdad Zuriquat Joyce White Heart Healthy Eating Pulmonary and Sleep Disorders Cut the Clutter: Simplify Your Life F-P.I.E. (Fannin County Partners in Education) F-P.I.E. is a monthly seminar offered to the public in Fannin County by a local professional to enhance your knowledge and education. These highly informative and entertaining talks are sponsored by Home Hospice, Texas AgriLife Extension Service, Texoma Council of Governments and Clyde Cosper Texas State Veterans Home. All talks will be held at the Bonham T.E.A.M.’s center, 806 W. 16th in Bonham on the last Wednesday of the month beginning in January from 2-3 pm. Coffee and complimentary home-made pies will be served. Below is the schedule: January 25, 2012 February 29, 2012 march 28, 2012 Page 10 Lanny Joe & Cindy Baker Burnett Joyce White JoCarolyn Chambers, LCSW Cowboy Stories & Songs Cut the Clutter: Simplify Your Life Shoot the Outlaws, Love the In-laws Volume XXII, Issue 3 Celebrating November National Hospice Month The National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization’s 2011 theme is “Helping you put the pieces into place to ensure that you and your loved ones find Comfort, dignity and respect. We listen, we care.” The modern hospice movement was begun in England by Dr. Cicely Saunders and is still based on her belief that each moment of your life matters. history of hospice and home hospice The first American hospice was founded in Connecticut in 1974 home hospice of Grayson County was founded in 1982 by a group of local visionaries The first Light Up a Life event was held in 1984 and was run by Patti Castleberry with a logo designed by Dr. Daniel Setterburg home hospice of Cooke County’s office was opened in 1988 For-profit hospice companies begin operating in our area in the late 1990’s The “rules” for the organization of all hospice organizations are dictated by Medicare regulations Interestingly, studies have shown that patients living under the care of hospice tend to live longer how home hospice goes over and above the basic requirements: Staff members specifically dedicated to working after hours and on the week ends to meet patient and family needs Bear Hugs program to make a teddy bear from a patient’s clothing as a tangible memory for the family Legacy program brings in a volunteer to take down an oral history of the patient, writes the history and the patient and/or family receives a booklet with pictures and the history Petal Pushers flowers are taken to patients and family weekly with a goal of each patient receiving flowers monthly Check out these websites for Information about health Information about care for a loved one Information about available resources good information from a trusted source: www.seriousillness.org/grayson www.seriousillness.org/fannin Holiday 2011 Pet Peace of Mind program allows a volunteer to help a patient keep a beloved animal in the home for love and support Whispers from Home program records telephone messages from family and special friends to the patient which are recorded on a CD for the patient to hear Food Committee program brings a meal to a patient and family who need extra help with cooking What our Families Say: I don’t have the words to fully describe the gratitude my family and I have for the excellent team assigned to my mother and us. They were always comforting, reassuring and caring. Twice I had to call late at night and the response was excellent. If it hadn’t been for our main nurse, and my heavenly Father, I wouldn’t have been able to take care of my mom at home until she passed. From the aides, minister, social worker and nurses all made a nightmare into a beautiful experience. I will never stop praising and recommending Home Hospice. What a blessing to have such a wonderful organization available to help the transition from life to death. Thank you! My mother-in-law had a stroke at the assisted living center and was hospitalized for one week until her death. During that time, Home Hospice was so helpful to us. They were supportive and caring and so professional. The doctor who visited us was an absolute angel. He was amazing and we felt so comforted by him and the entire staff. Many thanks. I was surprised by how thoughtful and caring the volunteers were. I am so grateful to all those involved who assisted me in the end. Words can not express my appreciation for all they did to ensure Mom was comfortable. I thank you all! God bless. You guys are a God send for mom and dad, both. It was a blessing to have you as part of our family, not just for mom and dad, but us kids, too. Thank you for everything. God bless. Some hospice websites www.homehospice.org www.hospicefoundation.org www.nhpco.org www.hospice.org Page 11 Bereavement Opportunities in 2012 Home Hospice endeavors to provide optimal grief support for all persons in our communities. These programs assist individuals and families who are struggling with the death of a significant person in their lives and are offered free of charge. These grief support groups will provide comfort, guidance and support to all those who grieve. When Life Changes Support group Because there is a need for those grieving to be able to come to a safe place in order to talk about their grief or listen to others who are experiencing grief, a new four-week support group will begin in January. This structured support group will focus on grief and loss. Bereavement Coordinator, Jolene Senek says “Many who are grieving feel alone and isolated, but you see a ray of hope, through the sadness, in their faces when they realize they are not alone and recognize that others are experiencing some of the same thoughts.” There is no fee to attend, but registration is required so that appropriate materials may be prepared. Please contact Jolene Senek at jolene. [email protected] or call 903-868-9315 or 940-665-9891 to register. Sherman Location Begins January 9, 2012 12-1:30 p.m. Home Hospice - 505 W. Center Large Conference Room in Sherman When Families grieve—2 Part Workshop Sesame Workshop has created When Families Grieve to help both adults and children cope with the death of a loved one. This workshop will provided you with tools on how to talk to your children about death, a better understanding of their grieving process, grieving and remembering together. This workshop is designed for you and your children to attend free of charge. The children will have an activity designed just for them while you attend the workshop. Please RSVP to [email protected] or 903-8689315 or 940-665-9891 as space is limited. Tuesday, January 24th & 31st 4:00 -6:00 p.m. Home Hospice Large Conference Room 505 W. Center Street in Sherman Quarterly memorial Services Planned Starting in 2012, memorial services will be held quarterly to honor your loved ones. Our first memorial service of 2012 will be held in early February in both Sherman and Gainesville. The date and location will be announced in January so keep watch in the KIT (Keeping in Touch) newsletter, Home Hospice website, www.homehospice.org, and Facebook. Page 12 gainesville Location Begins January 9, 2012 2-3:30 p.m. Call for location and to register 940-665-9891 Seasons of the heart a four week grief workshop offering insights on grief and coping skills including myths about grieving, factors that make our grief unique and healthy coping skills to name a few. Plan to attend all four sessions. The seminar is free, but registration is required so appropriate materials may be prepared. Please contact Jolene Senek at jolene.senek@ homehospice.org or call 903-868-9315 or 940-665-9891 to register. Tuesdays, January 24th, 31st, February 7th, 14th 2012, 4:005:30 p.m. Whitesboro Public Library Community Room 308 W. Main Street in Whitesboro Sweet vs. Sour—When grief Steals your Chocolate! Join us for dessert served up with a light discussion of Valentine’s Day and what that means if you are facing it without your sweetheart. We will enjoy the indulgence of chocolate while taking a look at the lighter side of grief. Yes, there is a lighter side (however after we have indulged in the ooey gooey sweets we may not feel so light!) Valentine’s Day is often a day that evokes many emotions for those who are grieving. The seminar is free, but registration is required in order that appropriate materials/desserts are prepared. Please contact Jolene Senek at jolene.senek@ homehospice.org or call 903-868-9315 or 940-665-9891 to register. monday, February 13, 2011 4:30 p.m.—6:00 p.m. Home Hospice Large Conference Room 505 W. Center Street in Sherman Volume XXII, Issue 3 Golf Tournament Home Hospice gratefully thanks the many who helped at our October golf tournament, those who made special donations, our players, as well as our sponsors. With all the great help, over $12,500 was raised for care of patients with limited income or no insurance. Our sponsors are listed below: And the winners are: Independent Bank Double Eagle Sponsor: First Place: Landmark Bank Stone Wealth Management Matthew Gallion Red River Title Company Group of Wells Fargo Advisors, Niles Gallion Virginia Cook Realtors: LLC Gwen O’Bar Mark Tooley & Tommy Gibbs Eagle Sponsors: Sherry Gallion Par Sponsors: A-1 Printing Second Place: Advanced Medical Imaging Jimmy Jack Beale Adrian O’Hanlon, Jr. Bratcher Funeral Home Bob Utter Ford Lincoln Mercury Adrian O’Hanlon, III Eddie & Susan Brown Kia Ryan O’Hanlon Carey Hearing Centers Betty O’Hanlon in Memory of Michael Taylor Dannel Funeral Home George Third Place: El Chico Texas Star Bank Lee DeVowe First National Bank of Bells\ Birdie Sponsors: Gabriel Philpot Savoy Axtell Rite Value Pharmacy/ Corey Harvey Malnory, McNeal & Co., P.C. Whitesboro Corey Wood Debbie Hudnall, Virginia The Angry Dog, Dallas Closest to the Pin: Cook Realtor & Debbie Sartin, Central Health Services Jim Russell Shelter Mortgage Doc FM Longest Drive: Higginbotham & Associates Patrick Murray he phone Holiday 2011 Page 13 Home Hospice Reaches Out to the Community Home Hospice in Grayson, Cooke and Fannin County reaches out to our communities in various capacities. The Katy House recently had a chili cook-off and Home Hospice participated by providing a crock pot of chili for their chili cook-off. Sherry Little cooked the chili and Vickie Putman, R.N. and Nancy Russell visited with the residents and helped with the cook off. Pictured are Kim Johnson and Leslie Lee of the Katy House with Vickie Putman in the center! The employees of Home Hospice supported The Wounded Warrior project of Traditions in Sherman by walking to support the cause and making a contribution to the organization. Pictured are employees enjoying a fundraising meal. Volunteer Coordinator Barb Samuelson carved a pumpkin for the Preston House Halloween Pumpkin Carving Contest. Her first place pumpkin had the Home Hospice Logo on one side and our name on the backside and it was beautiful when it was lighted. Home Hospice of Cooke County was a sponsor with T.E.A.M.’s (Together Everyone Accomplishes More) this summer. The Cooke County Volunteer Fire Departments received bottled water, electrolyte drinks and lip balms during the intense time of wildfires in our area. T.E.A.M.’s also collected socks for adults that are Cooke County Meals on Wheels recipients. Pictured is Sue Carr from Valley View “wearing” some of the many socks that have been collected. Page 14 Nicole Smith played a basketball game and gave out Trick or Treat goodies to the youngsters in the neighborhood of the Wheeler House in Gainesville on October 31. Home Hospice employees Vickie Putman, Nicole Smith, Cheryl Bowen, Laurie Watson and Diana Catlin each made four dozen cookies to take to Sherman Healthcare on Halloween for a party for residents and staff. Pictured are a few of 20 dozen delicious and adorable cookies. Volume XXII, Issue 3 TwenTy years of serviCe To Home HospiCe Pictured are Donna Pack, R.N. and Nancy Aylor, C.H.P.N.A. who have worked at Home Hospice for twenty years. They each received a custom Home Hospice gold and diamond service pen lovingly designed by jeweler Jeff McEwen of McEwen Jewelry, who says he designed the pin in memory of his mother because Home Hospice took such good care of her at the end of her life. Thanks Donna and Nancy for their wonderful service and to Jeff for making their beautiful pins. Caregiver Talk Dr. Stan Goldberg made two Caregiving presentations on Thursday, December 1 at Grayson County College. Those who attended, both family caregivers and professional caregivers, learned ideas, suggestions and tips for caregiving and the professionals learned the importance of incorporating the family into the team that cares for patients. The seminar was sponsored by Home Hospice and Dr. Mary Hebert, Texas Oncology. Spotlight on The Staff Pictured are the Psycho/Social staff members. This department includes Bereavement, Social Work and our Spiritual Advisors. Patients and family members may request services that include emotional support, assistance with anticipatory grief issues, community resources, spiritual support, advance directives, and assistance with end-of-life issues, including funeral planning and grief counseling. Camp Dragonfly Camp Dragonfly a grief camp for children ages 8-12, was held October 7-9th at All Saints Camp on Lake Texoma. All of the 21 campers have experienced the death of an important person in their lives within the last two years The campers arrived unaware of what to expect, but quickly bonded while making their name tags and finding their Project Linus blankets waiting for them. It was truly a fast and furious weekend, going from one activity to the next. The camp activities give a voice to the children’s feelings, whether it’s with words or body language. Camp Director Jolene Senek said, “As the volunteers were leaving on Sunday we were Holiday 2011 suddenly surrounded by a swarm of dragonflies as if to tell us ‘good job!’ ‘great camp! we saw what you did and it was awesome!’” One of the campers is pictured holding a dragonflyshaped leaf she found at the camp. The next session of Camp Dragonfly will be held in March of 2012. For information or to register a child contact Jolene Senek at jolene. [email protected] or call 903-868-9315 or 940-665-9891. Page 15 Home Hospice is a non-profit organization, founded in 1982, dedicated to providing education, programs, services and quality care to palliate physical, emotional and spiritual symptoms at end-of-life for patients, families, and caregivers regardless of ability to pay, as well as all in our communities who grieve. If you’re 70½ or older, your chance to make taxfree gifts directly from your IRA for 2011 ends on December 31. A donation to Home Hospice via a direct transfer from your IRA, will generate neither taxable income nor a tax deduction to you. You do not need to itemize your deductions to take advantage of this opportunity. Your contribution will greatly benefit those persons and families who are struggling financially during this final journey and allow them to maintain dignity by providing excellent care. Home Hospice is does not provide tax advice and you should consult your tax advisor for more information about making a year-end gift from your IRA. Our Mission Statement Time Is Running Out Our Website www.homehospice.org 3 Uptodatewebsite 3 EventsPage 3 Opportunitiestodonateonline Home Hospice of Grayson County is an agency of United Way of Grayson County. Home Hospice of Cooke County is an agency of Cooke County United Way. We urge you to support United Way of Grayson and Cooke Counties as they complete their annual campaigns. www.HOMEHOSPICE.org BeTh BrinGhursT Williams, Auxiliary President - Grayson County deBBie FleiTman, Auxiliary President - Cooke County Tom Kyle, PresidenT marK Tooley, PresidenT elecT Gerri Bandemir, Treasurer donna BedGood, secreTary Jim WalKer, immediaTe PasT PresidenT charlie dannel louis emerson sheila Graham lyn JosTes BoB madison sue malnory VirGinia o’hanlon ed reid daVid G. sTone home hosPice Board oF direcTors P.O. Box 2306 • Sherman, Texas 75091-2306 505 W. Center St. • Sherman, TX • 903-868-9315 www.homehospice.org • [email protected] PeRMIT 481 SHeRMaN, TX US POSTage PaID NON-PROFIT PRSRT STD