MEGHAN SHIGO - Executive Agent Magazine
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MEGHAN SHIGO - Executive Agent Magazine
Southern California’s Publication for the Real Estate Professional EXECUTIVEAGENT MAGAZINE MEGHAN SHIGO Executive Agent of the Month I NSIDE F EATURES: LESLIE M ILLER Main Street Realtors® CHRIS M ONTES Dominion Property Investments M ICHELLE Q UEYREL HÔM Real Estate Group TM Friendly, expert service from your local home loan professionals The professionals at MetLife Home Loans, a division of MetLife Bank, N.A., are committed to helping homeowners and homebuyers find loan options that fit their needs. Whether purchasing a new home or refinancing, we can help find a solution. For more information on how we can assist you, contact a member of our team today! John J. 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Certain conditions and fees apply. Mortgage financing provided by MetLife Home Loans, a division of MetLife Bank, N.A. Equal Housing Lender. 1112-4610 © 2011 METLIFE, INC. L1110141967(exp1211)(All States)(DC) PEANUTS © 2011 Peanuts Worldwide ExecutiveAgent Magazine contents FEBRUARY, 2012 VOL. 4 NO. 36 Cover Story Editorials 27 - Tony Alessandra: Visualization 16 - Linda Brakeall: BECOME A SPECIALIST! 36 - Mark Victor Hansen: Liberate Yourself From The Opinions And Judgments Of Others Fred Arrias Executive Publisher 2929 Calle Frontera San Clemente, CA 92673 Ph: (949) 366-3349 Fax: (949) 266-8757 [email protected] www.ExecutiveAgentMag.com ADVERTISERS’ INDEX Advantage Title.................................11 Escrow Leaders..................................24 Harcourts..................................26 imortgage.................................13 32 - C.J. Hayden: Marketing The REAL YOU 5 Kinecta Federal Credit Union............19 22 - Rich Levin: Meghan Shigo Executive Agent of the Month i Photography Studio..........................39 MetLife Home Loans..........................2 Your Secret Presentation Weapon NAHREP..................................34 PrimeLending....................................25 Prominent Escrow............................40 PWAOR................................38 Realty ONE Group.............................12 14 20 Wells Fargo Home Mortgage.............31 Leslie Miller Michelle Queyrel Main Street Realtors® HÔM Real Estate Group 9 28 Chris Montes Dominion Property Investments ExecutiveAgent Magazine The Termite Guy................................30 Windermere Real Estate....................18 Photography: i Photography Studio Graphic Designer: Rob Paino Editorial Manager: Garon Arrias Writers: Lalaena Gonzalez–Figueroa, Shannon Hartsoe © Copyright 2011 Executive Agent Magazine. All rights reserved. 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Known for her work with vintage and custom homes, she offers solid representation with a focus on exceptional customer care. When she transitioned into real estate in 1998, Meghan was already familiar with the needs of a highly demanding clientele. As a Pre-K teacher she was patient, adept at differentiating communication, and task-oriented. These skills provided an ideal foundation upon which to build her career as an agent, though she acknowledges that her initial plans were to manage a part-time business. “Within a year I had established a growing clientele, and it became evident that this was my profession,” she recalls. “I am so grateful to have the opportunity to work with such a diverse and wonderful clientele.” Meghan found her niche in the vintage home market, revealing that she thoroughly enjoys the process of showing and selling historic properties. “It’s great to work with people who are as excited about these homes as I am,” she says. In the highly competitive and specialized market, Meghan’s knowledge provides her clients with a notable advantage. Not only is she able to assist them in identifying properties that will suit their criteria, but she has developed a strong collegial network of specialists whose work pertains to the unique needs of historical homes. A member of Anaheim’s Historic Preservation Committee, she is resourceful in determining how to refurbish homes while preserving their distinct architecture and historical context. Client Angela Valenti learned firsthand the benefits of working with a specialist like Meghan when she sold her father’s historic home. The emotionally-challenging process was made easier, she reveals, thanks to Meghan’s knowledge and proactive approach. “I interviewed a number of agents, and there was such a difference between Meghan and the others,” recalls Valenti. Her suggested price point was one notable factor: “Meghan wanted to list it for over one hundred thousand dollars more than what other agents were telling me it was worth. I thought, ‘You’re out of your mind lady!’” Valenti laughs as she continues, “She did it! She came in with a plan and she made it happen. Meghan appreciated the home’s unique history and value, and was able to successfully market the special nuances that distinguished it from other properties.” Whereas other agents associated the home’s history with problems and negatives, adds ExecutiveAgent Magazine L to R: Alex Romero, Marcie Heitzmann, Georgette Wahl, Meghan Shigo, Panky Romero, Karina Gonzalez, Michelle Angulo, Kristina Frazier Valenti, “Meghan saw it as positive. She was an out-ofthe-box thinker who really excelled in the process.” While she specializes in Downtown Anaheim and the region’s historic homes, Meghan is also well-versed in representing a range of transactions throughout North Orange County. From equine properties to starter homes, she has successfully negotiated on behalf of buyers and sellers who appreciate her thorough and client-centric approach. Education and information guide Meghan’s real estate business. “Realtors® are salespeople, but more importantly, we are resources for our clients,” she observes. “From community-specific trends and developments, to developments in the regional marketplace, I strive to provide my clients with the knowledge they need to make the right decisions.” Meghan’s buyers enjoy a personalized process that focuses on exceptional service. Her team, which includes three assistants, a transaction coordinator and a buyer’s agent, offers invaluable support. “No matter how many transactions we have in the pipeline, each of our clients feels important. We dedicate the time and energy into ensuring that their questions and concerns are answered and their needs are met.” She and her team are concise and generous with information, taking buyers through the process one step at a time. “A home purchase is huge,” she acknowledges. “I love educating my clients and demystifying the elements of the transaction including loans and contracts.” Helen Garner describes multiple transactions with Meghan as “very smooth and professional.” She notes, “Meghan has always been communicative and responsive, facilitating successful sales and purchases for me.” Her work with buyers keeps Meghan in touch with the needs of the market at large. This, she explains, allows her to better represent listings. “It’s all about preparation when you’re selling a home,” she notes. “My strategy is to develop a targeted market plan that is tailored to each property and its prospective buyers.” Understanding the expectations of today’s buyers, Meghan ensures that homes show to their fullest potential. Professional staging services are utilized when appropriate, and a strong online presence showcases properties. She communicates regularly with her clients and colleagues, networking with fellow real estate professionals and following through on showings and buyer inquiries. With the support of her dedicated team, Meghan ensures that no details are left to chance. ExecutiveAgent Magazine Georgette Wahl Michelle Angulo Kristina Frazier Karina Gonzalez Alex Romero Marcie Heitzmann ExecutiveAgent Magazine A Realtor® and a Friend Adaptability is a critical component to the longevity of any real estate professional’s career, and Meghan has taken measures to ensure her business didn’t succumb to challenging market conditions. She established relationships with area banks and asset managers, which has allowed her to represent REO properties as well as traditional equity sales. Meghan’s efforts are enhanced by the resources and systems of her brokerage, CENTURY 21 Award Real Estate. The firm, she says, is the largest within the CENTURY 21 system. “With over 800 agents in our office, we have a tremendous presence within our region,” Meghan notes. “In addition to the worldwide recognition of our brand and a host of proprietary systems, we also have excellent resources designed to support agents and our clients. From an in-house marketing department to videos targeted to consumers, our brokerage remains at the forefront of our marketplace.” Her dedication to her clients and her business are matched by Meghan’s passion for community service. In addition to serving as a member of the Anaheim Historic Society and the Historic Preservation Committee for nearly a decade, she is also on the Board of Directors of the Anaheim Neighborhood Association’s Political Action Committee. As an active chair on the Anaheim Central District Neighborhood Council she maintains her finger on the pulse of the city, staying current on upcoming events and developments. “It’s an interesting and innovative group, and I’ve been proud to be a part of that,” Meghan remarks. An avid horse enthusiast, Meghan enjoys the opportunity to be active with her horse Sunny. She and her husband Tim are the proud parents to two children, Brianna and Timmy. “Every home has a story,” says Meghan. “Vintage and custom homes’ histories can be fascinating, and I love to learn –and share- them.” Tim, Brianna, Timmy and Meghan ExecutiveAgent Magazine Meghan Shigo Century 21 Award Real Estate 303 W. Lincoln Ave., Ste. 100 Anaheim, CA 92805 Ph: (714) 273-1381 [email protected] www.meghanshomes.com DRE# 01243803 ExecutiveAgent Magazine Where you land is up to you. We understand that the first step is always the hardest, and in this economy trust is earned. So whether you are an agent or a lender, take that first step and call us today to learn more about imortgage. Because of our unique business model, we have developed preferred lending relationships throughout the county, with Real Estate companies and Home Builders alike. 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E XECUTIVE AGENT MAGAZINE TM Michelle Queyrel By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa D ynamic, resourceful and in tune with the regional market, real estate professional Michelle Queyrel has cultivated a thriving business throughout Orange County. A graduate of the University of Southern California’s Marshall School of Business, she excels in developing solid relationships with her clientele, who appreciate her knowledge and her hands-on approach. She has achieved remarkable results thanks, in great part, to her straightforward business style. “In order to establish trust-based relationships with my clients, I’m obliged to tell them the truth,” she reveals candidly. “It is imperative to me that my clients feel comfortable entrusting their largest assets to me, and I achieve that trust through honest and direct communication.” Her forthright approach has propelled Michelle to become a highly-accomplished professional who has consistently bucked market trends. She closed over $10 million in sales in 2011 and represents the highest-priced listing in Orange County in 2012, a stunning $37 million custom home recognized as 1 Pelican Hill Road North. Her commitment to customer care and unwavering drive to achieve her clients’ goals has enabled Michelle to build a steadily-growing base of customers, who appreciate her fresh attitude toward the business of real estate. ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA A Fresh Approach Michelle thrives under pressure, regularly seeking solutions to challenges and maintaining a proactive approach to her responsibilities. “Sometimes, particularly with a home that has been on the market for a while, a real estate professional can come along and identify new branding or marketing opportunities that will make the difference,” she observes. “That’s where I excel, and HÔM Real Estate Group offers the support and resources I need to accomplish my clients’ goals.” HÔM Real Estate Group has established itself as an innovative brokerage designed to meet the needs of a broad client spectrum. In addition to offering a wealth of technological systems and exceptionally-crafted print and online marketing and advertising campaigns, the firm is also well-positioned to work with buyers and sellers around the world. The company has cultivated a strategic alliance with Sotheby’s International Realty, joining a distinguished network of luxury and high-end real estate brokerages. “It has been a fantastic move, increasing our international exposure while allowing us to maintain the brand and business we have so successfully built,” notes Michelle. “There is so much more to a property than the number of bedrooms or its square footage.” Representing the real estate needs of high net-worth clients presents a unique set of responsibilities and challenges, and Michelle skillfully negotiates every element of her transactions. “I’m there with my clients from start to finish,” she asserts. “From twelve-hour photo shoots, to showings and negotiations, I am the person handling the important details associated with a sale transaction.” Her diligence, she explains, allows her to better communicate with other parties involved in the process. Michelle is adept at working with professional partners, financial planners, attorneys and trustees, and maintains collaborative relationships with individuals in order to accomplish successful closings. In an industry where technology has facilitated an abundance of information for consumers, the savvy real estate professional understands how to consistently add value to each client’s experience. This is where Michelle shines. “The MLS only provides so much information,” she reveals. “There is so much more to a property than the number of bedrooms or its square footage. It can be time consuming to attempt to navigate available properties, and dealing with disclosures and contracts can have serious financial consequences.” She adds, “My role is to provide my clients with the information that is critical to their decision-making process, to aid them in identifying the type of property and the community that are best suited to their lifestyles and their criteria.” A skillful negotiator, Michelle maintains her clients’ short-and long-term objectives at the forefront of her actions. “I strive to earn my clients’ business,” she states. “My work consistently goes beyond a given transaction.” Michelle’s region of expertise includes Newport Beach, Newport Coast and Corona del Mar. She works with buyers, sellers and investors. In a challenged industry, it becomes immediately obvious who is destined to survive. Michelle’s positive attitude and solid business acumen have enabled her not only to weather the market’s storm, but to thrive. She looks forward to the continued opportunity to assist her clients in accomplishing their real estate-related goals. Michelle Queyrel HÔM Real Estate Group 1200 Newport Center Drive, Suite 100 Newport Beach, CA 92660 Telephone: 949.632.1618 [email protected] ExecutiveAgent Magazine DRE No. 01864077 EA BECOME A SPECIALIST! By Linda Brakeall I n this age of finely tuned niche marketing, I find surprisingly few Realtors® who position themselves as specialists. you have to give him or her something to work with! If you do like the financing angle, that may be an area for you to focus on. Most other professionals position themselves as specialists. Doctors do it. Lawyers do it. Dentists do it. Even chefs, landscapers, decorators and CPA’s specialize in one segment of the market that they know inside out. They become a knowledgeable resource and the ultimate expert in their field. And everyone likes to work with an expert. How about working with people with damaged credit? That certainly takes some skill and finesse. I’ve got friends in lending who just adore putting the pieces of the puzzle together till it looks like a viable loan! You are a professional. I’m sure there is something that you do better than most other Realtors®. What is it? And how do you get the word out? Let’s start with “what is it?” Which customers do you like to work with best? When and where are you most effective? Is there a particular area, buyer or price range that you could sell and talk about all day long? Examples: If you are bi-lingual, you might position yourself as the lender who specializes in the .....(ethnic) community. Home-buying is tough enough to understand in your native language! If English was not my first language, I’d really appreciate having someone explain things to me in my mother tongue! You might consider compiling a glossary in that language as a resource for your clients. Do you love working with first time home-buyers? Does that bring out the nurturer, the teacher, the counselor in you? Position yourself as the First Time Home Buyer Specialist! Do you remember getting your first home? I do! And it was tough. No one wanted to take the time to explain all the details to me. There are wonderful booklets available free or close to free from the government’s printing office in Pueblo, Colorado. Keep some on hand to enhance your image, and offer helpful information. Are you really good at government loans or creative financing? That takes a certain amount of experience and expertise that not everyone has. We’ve all seen perfectly good loans rejected because an amateur didn’t know the ropes. And while a lender can back you up 16 We work together to make it happen. Again, make sure that clients and potential clients understand that what you do is not easy. We’re not talking whining but perhaps you’ve compiled “a 54 item check list to assist your clients in the process of repairing credit and getting a loan.” ¾ so that they can actually buy a house. If nothing comes immediately to mind, you might track your last 50 buyers and see if more than 20% of them had anything in common. It might be a product, it might be a personality type or an occupation. For example, if you find that accountants really enjoy working with you and you serve their needs well, that might be a specialty that you could pursue. Once you figure out what your specialty is then add that catchy phrase to your business card, write a couple of press releases and start giving talks at civic, social and service clubs to let people know what you do and how good you are. Now isn’t that special? Linda Brakeall, GRI, CRB, is a nationally recognized expert in sales and marketing for Realtors®. Linda, a Realtor® for 13 years, three of which were as an award wining sales person, spent the next ten years as a manager and corporate trainer. She has been speaking professionally speaking, training and consulting since 1992. Copyright© 2001, Linda Brakeall. All rights reserved.For info about Linda, please contact The Frog Pond Group at 800-704-FROG (3764) or email susie@ frogpondgroup.com; http://www.frogpondgroup.com. ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA You are a professional. I’m sure there is something that you do better than most other Realtors® ExecutiveAgent Magazine 17 w To learn more about how Windermere can help you achieve your goals Contact Christine Haynes 714.932.4447 No Monthly Fees E&O Per Transaction Option DRE Approved Classes Exceptional Agent Support 135 S. State College Blvd., #110 / Brea, CA 92821 / 714.582.8000 / WindermerePreferred.com Finally, a lender that exceeds expectations. 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Visit www.kinecta.org/PurchasePower for more details. 8318-12/11 E XECUTIVE AGENT MAGAZINE TM ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA Leslie Miller Exceptional Knowledge, Incomparable Care By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa A n accomplished stockbroker who successfully navigated the high-stakes financial sector for over a decade, Leslie Miller has found her niche in real estate. Armed with remarkable business acumen and a comprehensive understanding of complex transactions, she offers her clients diligent service and steadfast representation. She is at once personable and professional, and maintains an unwavering sense of accountability in her endeavors. Transitioning from the stock market to real estate made sense for Leslie, who sought new opportunities as the financial industry began to experience severe declines. “I wanted to continue to offer valuable services to my clients,” she reflects. “Investing a million dollars in a home began to make a lot more sense than in a piece of paper.” The ability to represent tangible investments was appealing, and Leslie quickly discovered that she had found her niche. “The path opened up and became broader and broader,” she recalls. “With every successful transaction, I became more intrigued at the business of real estate.” Leslie works with a range of clients, though she specializes in meeting the demanding needs of professionals and high net-worth individuals. “Goal-oriented people with vision,” she explains. “They know what they want, and I am able to be a distinct asset to them in the process of buying or selling a home.” Her business moniker reflects her clientele: C-Suite executives including CEOs, CFOs and COOs appreciate her attentive and knowledgeable care. She adds significant value to the experience through highly effective communication, providing the information her clients need in a concise and timely manner. Her extensive financial background allows for a rare understanding of the elements involved in complex real estate transactions, as well. “My job is to help bring each client’s vision to fruition in a cost-effective, time efficient and expeditious manner,” she notes. Leslie can be of invaluable assistance when working with clients seeking to diversify their portfolios to include long-and short-term real estate holdings. “My objective is to facilitate a seamless experience for my clients, to minimize stress throughout the process,” says Leslie. Her market knowledge complements her financial experience; she works closely with each of her clients to aid them in developing balanced portfolios. “My piece of the puzzle must fit into the larger picture,” she observes. “There is a discernible need for this level of real estate representation, and I have the skillset necessary to meet that need for my clients.” Her professionalism is tempered by her genial nature; Leslie is adept at connecting with a range of individuals and effuses communication with her positive perspective. “I love what I do,” she offers. “There is something so rewarding about helping people achieve their goals.” Facilitating a successful transaction at any level involves a collaborative effort, and Leslie notes that she maintains solid collegial relationships with all parties involved. Ultimately, she explains, this is the agent’s primary role. “The bottom line is that the deal is really between the buyer and the seller,” she says. “As a professional, my job is to represent my client throughout the process and to address challenges and issues before they develop into problems.” Proactive and meticulously detail-oriented, Leslie adeptly navigates the real estate process for clients in purchases, equity sales, and distressed properties. She is unwavering in her goals, and acknowledges that she enjoys “the hunt.” From identifying the properties that will meet a client’s criteria and financial needs, to negotiating on behalf of her sellers, to advocating for individuals embarking upon short sales, Leslie thrives in the opportunity to identify and implement strategic solutions to a myriad of challenges. She utilizes technological tools and systems to maximize efficacy for buyers and sellers. While she specializes in the high-end luxury home and investment properties, Leslie has dedicated her efforts to assisting individuals at every level of real estate. She has taught seminars for first-time buyers through the Long Beach HOPE Center, and has been tapped by the City of Long Beach as a listing agent for the city’s Neighborhood Stabilization Program (NSP). Beyond real estate, Leslie enjoys gourmet cooking, touring wineries and traveling abroad. “It’s wonderful to visit other countries and see how people live,” she says. “And it’s always great to come home.” Leslie Miller Main Street Realtors® 244 Redondo Avenue Long Beach, CA 90803 Telephone: 562.477.0338 [email protected] www.CSuiteRealEstate.com DRE# 01816602 ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA By Rich Levin Your Secret Presentation Weapon Y ou are at a listing presentation, and you know the seller is interviewing other agents. Would you like to distinguish yourself as the best? Here’s how. This is on an age-old and proven sales concept that is taught in high-level sales training in every major corporation. In real estate, it is a subtlety that most agents simply don’t build into their skill set. Those who learn and use this skill stand out and win against the competition. Have you ever lost a listing and could not figure out why? The seller says that they had more confidence in another agent. This skill is the reason they will choose you. They may not recognize why; they just have more confidence in you. Sample Seller Script Here’s an example. After, I’ll break it down for you so that you can apply it for yourself. Agent: “Do you know the number one complaint owners, like you, have about their present REALTOR®? “The agent doesn’t communicate or loses touch. It’s one of the simplest things and one of the most important. I know some of the best agents in town who sell a lot of homes and have the best intentions, but they just don’t follow up like they should, and you fall through the cracks. “I set aside an hour each day just for staying in touch with my clients.” 22 “You don’t want to be in the dark, uncertain and uncomfortable. I want you confident that we are both doing everything we can to get your property sold for the most money in the shortest time. “I like to make these calls between eleven and noon on Thursday mornings. What is the best number to reach you at that time?” AABC: The Breakdown There are four steps to this presentation skill. They are subtle and easy to learn. You must practice to be natural with this skill, which I call AABC. • Step one is the Action you take. In the example above, it’s communicating regularly. • Step two is the Advantage you bring that differentiates you. In the example above, it is setting aside an hour each day. • Step three is the Benefit to them. In the example above, it is making them certain, comfortable and confident. ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA “Would you like to have the advantage of seeing the newest properties on the market, every day?” • Step four is the Close, which is asking for a decision. In the example above, it is asking for the specific number to be reached on a specific day and time. AABC Action: What you do. Advantage: Your distinction. Benefit: What’s in it for them? Close: Asking for a decision. something different, something more. They will more easily sign exclusive contracts with less commission challenges. They will trust you and make your job with them easier, because they strongly believe in your efforts on their behalf. A Few Subtleties I like to start with a question. Do you know? Have you heard? Would you like? This has been taught by Fortune 500 Companies decades before Anthony Robbins was a twinkle in his mother’s eye. Most agents miss the mark on this in today’s competitive real estate market. To hit a bull’s eye, use AABC as your secret weapon. You will begin to notice sellers and buyers having more confidence in you, relaxing with you, and trusting your judgment. Sample Buyer Script “Would you like to have the advantage of seeing the newest properties on the market, every day?” A – The Action: “Every day - often twice a day - I will search for properties that are new to the market.” A - The Advantage: “In our area there are nearly three thousand real estate agents. Every day, some of them are placing a new property on the market. Within hours, often less, I make sure that you are aware of any and every property that even remotely matches your desires.” B - The Benefit: “You’ll have the best opportunity to find the property that has the most of what you want before you are in competition for it, and you often get it at the best price. Each year, many of the homes I sell are those fresh listings that have only been viewed by my buyers. It’s fun for me. It’s the best way to give you the competitive edge.” C - Close: “Do you want me to contact you each day as soon as we become aware of any property in which you may be interested? If I call during the workday with an excellent choice - something that looks perfect - would you be able to come fairly quickly to see it?” The Action can be very simple. It is your Advantage - the way you do it differently - that makes the distinction. The Benefit is always more money, the best time frame, and/or more ease and convenience. That is WIIFT: What’s In It for Them. The Close is critical. In addition to confirming their agreement, it makes them an active participant in the process. In my work, I occasionally accompany Agents on listing presentations - Agents who take over a hundred listings a year. Once they begin to apply AABC, they immediately express that they feel, hear, and see the difference in the way their clients responded to them. This is an advanced skill that raises your effectiveness and enhances your relationships and your results. It requires preparation and practice. It is a secret weapon that can shift your work and your career into the next gear. Rich Levin is one of the most successful Real Estate coaches in the nation by virtue of the measurable results of his clients and creator of the Real Estate Hierarchy of Success, a working model for understanding and planning your business. Copyright© 2008, Rich Levin. All rights reserved. For information about Rich’s Coaching programs, contact the FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or email [email protected]; http://www.FrogPond.com. You will find AABC is your secret weapon. While other agents present their same old way, the buyers and sellers to whom you present see, hear, and feel ExecutiveAgent Magazine 23 SUCCESS! PLAN IT. BUILD IT. GROW IT. We Can Help You! 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Currently we have significant opportunities for new franchise owners, If you are an existing real estate business owner looking to take advantage of the world's best training, support, systems and culture you owe it to yourself and your team members to investigate the Harcourts Option. Call us today. Aaron Hodson E: [email protected] P: 949 282 4288 All approaches will be handled in the strictest of confidence. www.harcourtsusa.com EA VISUALIZATION By Tony Alessandra isualization is indispensable tools in helping people attain their goals. Musicians and athletes have proven that visualization is an effective substitute for real practice. V Feel. What would your tactile sensations be? You would feel people rubbing up against you in the crowded room. You would feel others shaking your hand. What else? In visualizing your goals, you will live your accomplishments in your mind’s eye. The more of the five senses that you can involve, the greater your chances are of accomplishment. Taste. Taste in your mind the champagne you will be drinking. Taste the food you will be eating. Experience the sweet taste of success - in advance! Most importantly, imagine the exhilaration you will feel when your name is called to receive the award! Take your time during this exercise and enjoy it. The more you can “visually” attend this banquet, the more motivated you will become. For example, you may want to be the Salesperson of the Year in your company. You know that each year an awards banquet is given during which a plaque is presented to the year’s sales leader. You may choose to focus on this banquet for your visualization exercise. Here is what you do: Make yourself comfortable. Close your eyes and relax. Slowly and systematically go through all of the five senses. Imagine what you would be experiencing at the banquet. Sight. Imagine what you would see there. You would see other salespeople and their spouses. Imagine what they are wearing. You would see tables decorated and waiters scurrying about. You would see the bar and people standing around talking. Keep expanding what you “see” for several minutes. Sound. What would you hear? You would hear the chatter of people. You would hear laughter, the tinkling of glasses, music from a band, and people talking. You would also continually hear people coming up to congratulate you. Imagine that! Smell. Imagine all the smells you would experience: women’s perfume, food, alcohol, men’s cologne, and the smell of floral decorations. What else? To aid in your visualization exercise, you might want to start a visualization file. This is a file into which you put pictures, clippings, letters, and other reminders of what it will be like to succeed. Your file should also contain letters or awards that you have received in the past. Anything that makes you feel good about yourself can be included in the file. It can then be used as a source of motivation and inspiration, especially if you begin to feel a little down or de- motivated. We all need to be reminded of our past accomplishments once in a while. Be your own best friend -- remind yourself! Dr. Tony Alessandra, CSP, CPAE has authored 13 books, recorded over 50 audio and video programs, and delivered over 2,000 keynote speeches since 1976. Copyright© 1999, Tony Alessandra. All rights reserved. This article has been adapted from Dr. Alessandra’s book, The Platinum Rule (Warner Books, 1996). Dr. Tony Alessandra is recognized by Meetings and Conventions Magazine as... “one of America’s most electrifying speakers.” For information about Tony’s keynote presentations, please call The Frog Pond Group at 800-704-FROG (3764) or email [email protected]; http://www.frogpondgroup.com. ExecutiveAgent Magazine 27 E XECUTIVE AGENT MAGAZINE TM Chris Montes By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa F or nearly two decades, Chris Montes cultivated a thriving career as a mortgage professional who specialized in creating solid packages designed to meet each client’s unique needs. His commitment to building a solid base of industry-related knowledge was unwavering, and he eventually found himself acting as a resource for individuals who trusted his abilities and experience. “People began to suggest that I should become a full-time real estate agent,” recalls Chris. And when the time was right to make a professional change, that’s exactly what he did. Today he represents buyers and sellers throughout Orange County and the surrounding regions, offering his clients exceptional and knowledgeable care. His work as a mortgage professional enabled Chris to earn his clients’ trust and respect, which often extended beyond the lending process. “When they didn’t know where to look for help with sales and leasing, my mortgage clients would call me for advice,” he recalls. Transitioning into a role as a full time agent made sense, and Chris has thoroughly enjoyed the opportunity to continue to provide services focused on the wants and needs of his clientele. ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA Building a Consumer Centric Business He excels as a listing agent, but it is Chris’ dedication to assisting buyers that has distinguished him among his peers. His knowledge and creative approach to identifying solutions has allowed him to consistently provide solid solutions to individuals who may otherwise find themselves stymied in the purchase process. Not only is he able to provide reasonable suggestions on price points, but he has also successfully negotiated non-traditional terms for his buyers, facilitating transactions that may otherwise have stalled or failed. The reduction in stress for his clients, says Chris, is immeasurable. “It can be torturous for people to have to meet with a lender and obtain prequalification before they ever look at a home with an agent,” he asserts. “My background is different; my clients and I discuss their financial outlooks while we are previewing properties, and create a clear picture of their options before they ever have to meet with a lender.” It’s an unofficial process, but one that prepares consumers for the steps they’ll take, alleviating fears of the unknown. And when a traditional mortgage simply won’t work, adds Chris, there are still opportunities to buy. “When a seller doesn’t need all of the money up front, an owner-carry finance plan may be a great option for all parties involved,” he explains. It’s a viable plan for individuals with vacant and high-end properties, because sellers earn immediate income rather than waiting for homes to languish in a sluggish market. “Many times agents have heard of these types of transactions, but aren’t really well-versed in them,” observes Chris. “I’m happy to walk them through the process, to answer their questions and concerns. I also work with escrow companies that are experienced in these types of transactions, and who are highly skilled at managing the process.” acknowledges. “When we meet or exceed clients’ expectations on both sides of the transaction, everyone wins.” His business acumen isn’t limited to his own clientele; as the broker/owner of Dominion Property Investments, Chris leads a team of professionals focused on the real estate markets throughout Orange, Riverside and San Diego Counties. Agents offer top-notch representation centered on their clients’ individual needs and tailored to the unique market conditions impacting buyers and sellers today. The brokerage has also cultivated a professional partnership with Miracle Mitigation, a loan modification firm that represents residential and commercial clients. “This is a great benefit to our clients, because the company’s president, Stacie Hatfield, has developed strong working relationships with banks, asset managers and short-sale negotiators,” explains Chris. “Regardless of their needs, our clients have access to a wealth of resources.” In every aspect of his professional endeavors, Chris strives to achieve consistent client satisfaction. “We’re building long-term relationships, working together to accomplish their short-and long-term goals,” he says. “I have appreciated the opportunity to facilitate successful transactions and to continue to capitalize on opportunities to keep myself– and my fellow agentsactive.” Chris’ innovative approach to business has facilitated strong relationships with clients and colleagues alike. Fellow agents appreciate his ability to create business and the efficacy with which he manages his transactions. He is proactive and systematized, identifying and addressing potential barriers before they become unmanageable. “I want to slam it,” Chris ExecutiveAgent Magazine Chris Montes, Broker/Owner Dominion Property Investments Real Estate and Finance Services 28262 San Marcos Mission Viejo, CA 92692 Telephone: 949.294.8747 www.OCSalesAndLease.com [email protected] Broker ID# 01204198 NMLS ID# 358487 Why Wells Fargo We want to be the key to your success We’re dedicated to helping you put more buyers into homes with more mortgage options to suit more buyers • Wells Fargo Closing GuaranteeSM: If we don’t meet your client’s initial closing date, as indicated in the original purchase contract, we’ll refund their first month’s mortgage payment (principal and interest).1 • Full service lender: We offer financing for conventional, FHA, VA, renovation, relocation, and more! • PriorityBuyer Preapproval: You’ll know you’re dealing with serious buyers who have already completed the application, credit check, and first decisioning phase. 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Available on all qualified purchase transactions. For FHA and Rural Development loan customers, the lender will make a one-time donation in the customer’s name to a 501(c)(3) charity of their choice instead of the refund. Other terms and conditions apply. See a home mortgage consultant for details This information is for real estate professionals only and is not intended for distribution to consumers. Wells Fargo Home Mortgage is a division of Wells Fargo Bank, N.A. © 2012 Wells Fargo Bank, N.A. All rights reserved. NMLSR ID 399801. AS940382 1/12-4/12 EA 32 ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA Marketing The REAL YOU By C.J. Hayden I often wonder how the practice began of pretending to be someone else in order to market your business. You know what I’m talking about -- it’s the marketing face, the selling voice, that you often put on in order to attend a networking event or make a sales call. Who taught you to do that? I have a suspicion where we learn this behavior. Most of us spend a lifetime observing showroom salespeople, product spokespersons in the media, and hucksters on street corners. What we see demonstrated there is artificial enthusiasm, manipulative use of language, feigned interest, and in some cases outright deception. Sounds awful, doesn’t it? So why copy any part of this distasteful way of selling? Psychologist Abraham Maslow said, “If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” Perhaps we believe this is the only way we can sell because it’s the only way we know. I’m not accusing anyone of consciously deceiving prospective clients. What I’m suggesting is that what we do unconsciously and automatically is to behave inauthentically around them. Intuitively, many of us feel as if something is wrong with this way of operating. When we have to sell ourselves, we find it unpleasant, disagreeable, even repulsive. But what if all those negative feelings were simply because we hate the artificiality and manipulation we think must be a part of selling? Imagine what it would be like to go to a business networking event as yourself. No facade, no pretension, just plain you. When someone asks your reason for coming, you tell them the truth. You don’t have to claim you wanted to hear the speaker (if you didn’t). You can come right out and say, “I’m hoping to make some contacts that will lead to business for me.” You wouldn’t have to invent reasons to start a conversation. You can walk up to someone who looks interesting and say, “Hi, I haven’t met you yet.” If you’re shy around strangers, you can tell the first person you meet, “I’m sort of a wallflower and feel awkward at events like this. Could you introduce me to some folks?” Now imagine placing a follow-up call to a prospect where you are completely honest. You could say, “I have some days open on my calendar soon and I’m wondering if this would be a good time for that project we’ve been discussing.” Or, “We haven’t talked in a while and I’d like to find out if you’re still planning to start the new training program this year.” I see so many professionals and consultants struggle with trying to find an “excuse” to call a prospect. You don’t need some manufactured excuse. You know the reason you’re calling. Most of the time THEY know the reason you’re calling. Just say what it is. Let’s extend this same principle to making a cold call. Instead of stumbling around awkwardly trying to make a polished -- but unnatural -- sales approach, imagine yourself saying, “I’m not much of a salesperson, but I’m really good at what I do. Can we have a conversation about what you need and see if I’m the right person for the job?” If you’ve been working from a cold-calling script that makes you flush and get a tight throat every time you read it, throw it out. Come up with one really good opening line that feels authentic and gets directly to the point. Then decide how you will answer -- honestly -some of the typical questions prospects ask you. My bet is that your calls will immediately get easier. In fact, the more you become honest, direct, and authentic in all of your marketing, the more appealing selling will be to you, the more effortless it will become, and the more success you will ultimately achieve. Because most business results from building relationships, and how can you develop a relationship with someone when you never reveal who you really are? C.J. Hayden, MCC, is a business coach and consultant who teaches people to make a better living doing what they love. Her company, Wings for Business, specializes in serving entrepreneurs, self-employed professionals, and people in marketing and sales. C.J. is the author of Get Clients Now! (AMACOM, 2007), Get Hired Now! (Bay Tree, 2005) and The One-Person Marketing Plan Workbook, and a contributing author to Guerrilla Marketing on the Front Lines. © 2008, C.J. Hayden. All rights reserved. For information contact FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or email [email protected]; http://www.FrogPond.com. ExecutiveAgent Magazine 33 EXECUTIVEAGENT T HE N ATIONAL A SSOCIATION OF H ISPANIC R EAL E STATE P ROFESSIONALS MAGAZINE TM NAHREP-LA’s mission is to increase the rate of sustainable homeownership among Hispanics, increase membership, help educate Hispanics in the home buying process & promote homeownership in the Hispanic Community. N E X T N A H R E P - L A E D U C AT I O N A L E V E N T GET ALL THE DETAILS: W W W . N A H R E P - L A . 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The Executive Agent Magazine 2012 Advisory Selection Committee members: Fred Arrias Executive Agent Magazine 949.366.3349 John Reed MetLife Home Loans 949.812.3410 Jim & Marcia Brashier McMonigle Group Teles Properties 949.734.6228 Derek Graham Advantage Title365 949.584.2570 Tom Slyman Advantage Title365 714.585.9333 Sue LaPeter Prudential California Realty 714.369.4689 Elizabeth Do Keller Williams Realty 714.317.7243 Spyro Kemble Surterre® Properties 949.717.7248 Chris McKeen Prudential California Realty 714.921.9457 Shauna Covington Prudential California Realty 949.395.8786 Barbara Amstadter Prudential California Realty 949.500.0155 Bob Fox Escrow Leaders 949.373.7000 Gerold Grosso Evergreen Realty 714.396.5514 Lynn Wong First Team Real Estate 714.414.8809 Janice Eckles MetLife Home Loans 949.812.3501 EA Liberate Yourself From The Opin By Mark Victor Hansen Y ou can’t make everyone happy. I’m sure you’ve heard this most of your life. It seems like a surface statement – it goes in one ear and out the other – but it runs very deep. You will never be able to please everyone. No matter what you do, what decisions you make, what kind of car you drive or where you live – someone is going to be disappointed with you. Putting the opinions and judgments of others before your own will only result in your failure. Learn to trust and believe in yourself for phenomenal success. Are you constantly trying to maintain the peace in your office or home by making sure everyone is happy? Do you find yourself walking on eggshells everywhere you go, hoping no one will “start something”? Are you afraid of ruffling feathers when you’re out with your friends, so you agree with whatever they say? If you said yes to any of these questions then you my friend are a people pleaser, or on the fast track to becoming one. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with wanting everyone to be happy. Heck no! I want everyone to be happy 24 hours a day. But I’m not willing to compromise who I am to make that happen. Sometimes you have to ruffle a few feathers – and that’s okay. You can’t be a “lesser” you just to make someone else happy. That’s not the way it works. Express yourself. Go ahead. But do it with love and a gentle voice. You’re not challenging anyone. You’re just being your authentic self. When you stop saying “yes” to everyone and start expressing how you really feel, be prepared. The people you have only known the “suppressed” you are going to give you funny looks and you’ll probably hear “what’s gotten into you” quite a bit. A few so-called friends may not ever speak to you again. But isn’t it better to know who your true friends are? There is no such thing as a superiority complex. It’s only an inferiority complex hiding as superiority. Action Step Do you have people in your life that you are constantly trying to please? Are these people who you look to for approval? Do they always have opinions about your life and what you’re doing wrong? 36 ExecutiveAgent Magazine EA nions And Judgments Of Others Normally, we all have at least one of these people in our lives. But why do people act negatively towards us when we try to better ourselves? It’s not usually out of spite. Most of the time these people are either insecure about themselves and their lives, or afraid that once we begin living our dreams they’ll be left behind. So, how do you keep your mind and your focus on your goals when these people are around? Well, the first step would be decide who you really want in your life – people who are going to support you or people who are going to bring you down. You are going to change your life and you don’t need any negative distractions. If those around you can’t listen and support you in your efforts, then they have no place in your life. Period. If for some reason you cannot remove these people from your life, then you’ll have to decide not to discuss your life with them. If they ask you questions about what’s going on in your life tell them you’d rather not discuss it with them. Eventually they will stop asking and go away. If they offer advice anyway, simply thank them for the advice and ignore them. Try this a few times and see what happens. Negativity only survives where it is allowed to feed – starve it and it will move on. Mark Victor Hansen, “that Chicken Soup for the Soul guy®”, inspires NEW VISION that generates innovation, productivity and profitability. markvictorhansen.com. Copyright(c)2004, Mark Victor Hansen. All rights reserved. For information about Mark’s Keynote Presentations, contact the Frog Pond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or email [email protected]; http://www.frogpond.com. ExecutiveAgent Magazine 37 CRUISE GIVEAWAY BIRTHDAY * The PWR Birthday Cruisin’ drawing takes place Monday, September 17, 2012! 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