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ing” by Alexis Maugeri - Schools of the Sacred Heart Grand Coteau
“Valentine’s Day Around the World” by Raven Bouvier……...Page 3 “Relationship-ing” by Alexis Maugeri………………………………….Page 5 “Five Love Languages” by Jean-Claire Benton……………………..Page 7 “Senior News: The Legacy of Our White Dress” by Hannah Broussard…………………………………………………………………………..Page 9 “Moby Dick Book Review” by Caroline Grand……………………Page 11 “What Does the Horse Say?” by Angel Scallisi......................Page 13 “Winter Formal” by Madison Monceaux……………………………Page 14 “DIY Valentines”…………………………..……………………………………Page 16 Photography by Jordan Russo……………………………………………Page 18 Photography by Rebecca Miller…………………………..…………….Page 19 Art by Emily Hargis…………………………………………………………….Page 20 By Raven Bouvier Wales The people of Wales celebrate Valentine’s Day much like we do, but they also have a day known as St. Dwynwen’s Day. St. Dwynwen, although no longer recognized by the Catholic Church, is known in Wales as the patron saint of lovers, though her story is one of tragedy. Dwynwen was the prettiest of King Brycheiniog’s twenty-four daughters. She fell in love with a man named Maelon, but her father had already promised her to another man. Distraught with grief over her lost chance at love, she prayed that she might forget Maelon and be relieved of her pain. An angel appeared to her offering her a potion to make her forget and turn Maelon into a block of ice. After she took the potion, God also gave her three wishes. Her first wish was that Maelon be unfrozen, her second was that God should take care of all lovers, and her third was that she might never marry. All of her wishes were granted, and she dedicated herself to God as a sign of her gratitude. Today, lovers visit the island of Anglesey where Dwynwen lived and visit her well there. It is said that a sacred fish lives in the well and if the fish are seen in the water or the water is boiling, then the lovers are true. China The Chinese don’t celebrate February 14th as Valentine’s Day, but they do have a similar day to celebrate love known as the Double Seventh Festival. The festival takes meaning from the folk legend of Nui Lang and Zhi Nu. These two lovers were forbidden from being together, but their love so moved the Queen of the Heavens that she allowed them to be together on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month every year. The Double Seventh Festival is frequently celebrated by going to the matchmaker’s temple where those who are single and those in relationships alike will pray for love. It is also becoming more and more popular to share a gift of flowers or chocolate with loved ones on this day. Japan In Japan, Valentine’s Day is a chance for women to express their feelings to the men around them. For this occasion, women give chocolate to express how they feel. There are two types of chocolate to allow the expression of the appropriate sentiment. For coworkers or guy friends, there is Giri-choco chocolate or “obligation chocolate.” Giri-choco is an inexpensive chocolate and is frequently given simply because everyone gives chocolate on Valentine’s Day. The other chocolate, Honmei-choco, is a more expensive type of chocolate reserved for a sweetheart or close family member. Women will spend up to thirty-five dollars on Honmei-choco and will sometimes make it themselves. While it seems that the women are doing all the giving, the men are not quite off the hook. On March 14th, White Day, men must return the sentiment. Any man who received chocolate of either kind must in turn give a gift of either chocolate or other trinkets of slightly higher value than that which he received to each girl from whom he received chocolate. The gifts are given in white boxes, hence the name White Day. Mexico Mexicans celebrate El Día de San Valentín (Valentine’s Day), also known as El Día de Amor y Amistad (the day of love and friendship), on February 14th. Their celebration is similar to ours with loved ones sharing gifts of chocolate, flowers, and balloons. It is also very common for couples to go out to dinner; making reservations several weeks in advance is a necessity at almost any restaurant. While they have adopted the European Valentine’s Day and made it a holiday of their own, historically the people of Mexico celebrated their own deities of love, Xochipilli and Xochiquetzal. Although no longer worshiped hese two gods were respectively the gods of love, beauty, songs, games, corn, and flowers and the fertility of nature. These gods were honored by four days of fasting, sacrifice, offerings, and dancing. France The first Valentine’s card is said to have been sent by a French man in 1415. It is also said that the French first started the Valentine tradition. In the middle ages when the birds mated halfway through the second month of the year, lovers took it as a sign to express their love. They would write love letters to their sweethearts and, thus, turned the time into a holiday. France also adopted a practice known as “pairing off.” Single ladies and gentlemen would draw names for the celebration of love and “pair off” for the day. The tradition was eventually banned by the government because ladies who were rejected would start bonfires and burn photos of their “pair” and shout profanities. Nowadays, Valentine’s is celebrated with chocolate and a romantic dinner for two out. By Alexis Maugeri Watching a television show, reading a book, or even living daily life offers us teens a moment when we think “Man, those two should get together!” This sentiment is the basic concept of “shipping,” a term used to describe the act of pairing two fictional characters or real people together. The word evolved from the word “relationship,” and while it was once used exclusively in fan fiction circles, the phrase has spread to the general population on the Internet. While this type of fandom behavior isn’t new, it has become more prevalent in today’s culture with the rise of media. Obsessing over comics, television, or things once thought to be part of “nerd culture” has now become part of the mainstream, or popular, culture. Those of you with Tumblr accounts can attest to this: even if you are exclusively following nonfandom tags and blogs, coming across this section of the internet is not uncommon. As Valentine’s Day approaches, the celebrating of shippings and couples will grow even more, and this new culture will become even harder to ignore. In order to understand any culture, you must speak the language, and internet shipping culture has a language all its own. But don’t worry! I’ll explain everything to you. “OTP” or “One True Pairing,” is a term for the pairing you prefer over all others, either in fandom or in general. The opposite is of this is “NOTP,” the ship you like least or despise. Rival ships (ships that don’t agree, i.e. Hermione and Ron versus Hermione and Harry) often engage in online feuds known as “shipping wars.” Some of these can become quite heated. Events in a series that disrupt the shipped couple in question, such as a character’s death or one character being in a different relationship than that of the ship, are known as “cannonballs.” These can often “sink ships” and cause some people to abandon the shipped couple (aka: abandoning ship) as they are shown to have no possible future in the show. “Sharks” are people who resent a particular pairing and may attack shippers in the aftermath of a cannonball to their ship. In the community, however, it’s usually considered unacceptable and distasteful to attack another pairing, no matter the circumstance. In most cases there are two types of shipping, “canon” and “non-canon.” A canon shipping is a relationship that has actually happened or been hinted at in the show or book. A notable example would Katniss and Peeta in The Hunger Games. A noncanon ship is an unconventional, yet popular ship, such as “Zutara,” the shipping name for the pairing of Zuko and Katara of Avatar: The Last Airbender. Other nonconventional shippings are “slash” and “RPS” ships. Slash shippings are relationships depicting characters in homosexual relationships. This particular branch has dated back since the late 1970s with Star Trek’s James Kirk and Spock in fanfiction. The usage gained popularity and spread to other fandoms as homosexuality became less taboo in society. “RPS” or “Real Person Shipping” is used to pair public figures such as actors, band members, or even historical figures. While typically seen as a black sheep, the sub category has gained a greater following as Youtube has become more popular. The band One Direction is often shipped, with the most popular being “Larry,” a pairing of Harry and Liam. Armed with this fandom lore, perhaps it’ll be easier for you to get through the lovebird’s season. We all want to find somebody to love, and if that can’t happen, then at least we can imagine our favorite characters being happy together. By Jeanne Claire Benton Going back to the earliest history, humans always had the need to show love and affection, and this need survives in the world today. These demonstrations of affection, whether they are big or small, can be beautiful and romantic. Even the smallest action can have a huge impact on the receiver. Everyone is different, and each person shows love in different ways. There are many ways that love can be shown whether it’s towards a husband, boyfriend, child, or another person who needs kindness. It can even be a simple act that makes a person you do not know feel loved, but for now we will just talk about acts of love directed towards a person you love. These acts of love are also known as love languages. There are five love languages, or ways to communicate affection. These love languages are used to communicate love towards the other person. The five languages are Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Words of Affirmation For some, actions don’t always speak louder than words. To a person who speaks the language of Words of Affirmation, “I love you” is what they will always want to hear. For these people, behind the “I love you” is something greater that reminds them why you love them, and the expression can make them feel genuinely loved and important. However, the Word of Affirmation do not always have to be this specific phrase. Positive and encouraging words can be just as important. They help build the person up and allow them to build trust with others. For people who understand love through Words of Affirmation, insults, yelling, or explosions of anger can prove shattering to the selfesteem. Harsh words can devastate them and be hard for them to forget. Acts of Service This love language involves serving the person you love, not like a slave or a maid, but through kind acts that demonstrate love and care. These Acts of Service can be big or small. Just saying, “Let me get that for you,” is one way to do an Act of Service. Similarly, holding something for someone, opening a door, washing their dog, doing chores, or buying groceries are all Acts of Service you can perform for your loved ones. However, laziness, broken promises and commitments, and making more work for people who understand Acts of Service as expressions of love tells your loved one that his/her feelings do not matter Receiving Gifts The love language of Receiving Gifts should not be mistaken for materialism. In this language, gifts represent love. A gift can mean a great deal to the person you love because it shows the sacrifice of getting the gift and the thoughtfulness that went into it. The gift makes your loved one feel like he/she matters. It is especially powerful if there is meaning behind the gift. If your love’s language of choice is receiving gifts, then receiving a gift will make him or her feel treasured. Your loved one will understand that you consider him/her someone for whom it is worth making sacrifices and expending effort; your loved one will feel love and gratitude. Getting a careless gift or forgetting to offer a birthday and anniversary gift can be disastrous for a relationship involving this language of love. Quality Time The love language of Quality Time is when a person gives their time and attention to the beloved. Putting down work, turning off video games, delaying chores, and turning off the TV to spend time with the person you love shows that you value your time with him/her and want to focus on nurturing the relationship through quality time. You should make time for the one you love by setting aside time in your day or week to be with him/her. People whose love language is Quality Time feel special and worthy when you make an effort to spend time together, even if you aren’t “doing” anything. Not spending enough time with your loved one can lead him/her to question the strength of the relationship. Physical Touch The language of Physical Touch shouldn’t be taken the wrong way. Physical touch can be just holding hands, an encouraging pat on the back, a hug, or mere physical presence. Physical touch provides the person with a sense of security and trust and acts as a reminder that you are there. Neglect and other physical abuses large or small can be unforgivable and destructible to both the relationship and the person who values the language of Physical Touch. Physically pushing someone away can make your loved one feel neglected, worthless, and small. Even small actions can have a major impact on the person who speaks the language of Physical Touch. By Hannah Broussard Second semester is upon us and it brings the reality that in less than five months, the seniors will be saying goodbye to Sacred Heart forever. Thoughts about our departure from Sacred Heart loom in the air. “It seems like it was yesterday that we were coloring pictures in Ms. Moore’s class,” says a nostalgic Lilly Butler, as she reminisces on her ASH kindergarten days. “I can’t believe we are so close to leaving.” Along with the beautiful ceremony under the oaks and the turning of the rings, the dresses worn by seniors are a trademark tradition at Sacred Heart. Thus, as we prepare to wear them, it seems appropriate to consider how this practice began. length, and white, but the important thing about this year is that each of the seven seniors wore the same dress. Every year after, the class wore the same dress, but the dresses differed. Class of 1939 Sacred Heart has long preserved the tradition of a unifying dress for each member of the senior class, but the style of the dress has changed many times. Pictures of past Sacred Heart graduates in the front office show the class of Sr. Lieux with Her Graduating Class 1939 to be the first class with the traditional formal white dresses. The dresses were simple, floor The dress worn by the class of 1958 marked the most striking departure in style. That year, the dress evolved into a tea length, A-line silhouette, and it was paired with matching white kitten heels, a style that Caroline Grand is particularly fond of. “I think those dresses are stylish, sophisticated, and classy,” Grand commented. “Adelaide Gladney, a 2013 graduate, tried to bring those dresses back for their graduation,” she added. Although stylish, the long sleeves may have made the 1958 dress unpopular. “I don’t understand how they survived [the heat of] graduation [day] in sleeves without passing out,” says a puzzled Caroline Muldowny. The class of 1976, Sr. Lieux’s graduating class, apparently agreed that the sleeves had to go. Their dress still carried on the traditional uniformity, but it was one of the first to rock the sleeveless look. Though the style of the dresses changes with the latest trend of the era, the beauty of a class being unified by their dresses and sisterly love is timeless. Some may look at our uniform dresses and see it as restrictive because it keeps us from expressing ourselves on our special day, but that is not the case. “Yes, they may be uniform,” explains Sarah Papadakes, “but they are just like our senior rings. It means so much more to know that anywhere we go, our class will always have these items to tie us together.” Wearing the same dress is not seen as a requirement by the Class of 2014; instead, it is acknowledged as a privilege. As Kathryn Mayer explains, “When I think of our graduation dresses, I don’t think of a piece of fabric, but of my senior family. I am honored to share a dress with them to reflect all of the good memories we have shared through the years.” Your graduation dress does not belong to you, but to every girl in your class, every past graduating class, and every class coming after you. It belongs to every girl who has laughed with you, cried with you, and loved you. We can be fitted for our dresses, but the love the seniors have for our Sacred Heart sisters is too large to be measured. The dress we all wear is another treasured symbol of that unbreakable bond. By Caroline Grand Caroline Grand is done with bland book summaries that touch on no meaning; hence this month’s book review is less of an actual review and more of a contemplation of ideas touched upon in Herman Melville’s Moby Dick, a classic American novel that tells the tragic story of the antiheroic Captain Ahab and his monomaniacal obsession with harpooning the great white whale responsible for his amputated leg. It’s anything but a fun, lighthearted read, and this review is more of an engagement with the novel’s philosophical exploration than a summary of the plot. “We must watch for a breach in the living wall that hemmed us in.” (Melville 559) So says Melville as the Pequod’s crew is ringed by a school of whales; they are a coven of awkward bipeds against the ancient underwater Leviathan. The breathing wall has encircled the hunters only to shut them up. From the moment we take our first infant inhalation, we are consumed by the slings and arrows of earthly life. We seek to be spit back out, but are ultimately smothered as candles made brighter for all their flickering. “We were burning; immortal in these jaws of death!” (Melville 327). Is that not what we all want: escape from Death’s impatient maw? Perhaps it is not life that devours us from birth, but the crooked teeth of mortality, Jonah’s punishing fish, that chews humanity like a worry stone before snuffing it into infinite silence. Maybe there is more to Jonah’s story than outward instinct and obedience to God. “All we can do is dream, or die; dream that we do not die; and at times, for a moment, wake” (Melville 401). How glorious it would be to surface from this world, to be expelled beyond, to touch that sentient sea that washes outside our captive feet. Only through feeling the knowing insanity can we finally accept our position in this earthly gullet, but waking with both joy and fear at our opposite sides is the hardest human thing. The Promethean fire found in forbidden fruit is indeed difficult to hold; are not all intellectuals crazy? We had paradise, but we wanted freedom. “There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness” (Melville 612). Some people seek to relieve this anguish in submissive self-extinction; in reality, they only slide deeper into the throat of the whale, even further from the light that first drove them to grief. Is pain not worth it for the sake of beauty? Is loss too much for the consolation of love? Entire civilizations, cultures, lifetimes, and legacies have been torched and destroyed, but like the brow of a morning star cast from Heaven, their triumphs even in the midst of unavenged suffering burn like truth. No tasteless folly could ever demolish the victory in holding the universe for the first time and knowing exactly what it is that spills from the beaten fingers. Who knows how much ancient suffering is there in the smiles and the glances? “That mortal man who hath more of joy than sorrow in him, that mortal man cannot be true” (Melville 612). With an injured inner eye, I see a world not of blacks and whites, but of greys, doleful shades where “hope never comes that comes to all.” Blinded, I turn away from the rash humor found in colors. I could hardly stand to live under the strain of unabashed beauty. Maybe black and white and grey are the prisms of the world that we only choose to see; maybe the true colors are what we find in those precious moments we burst forth from the mouth of the whale with the driven intensity of a wanting soul. We live in the spectrum of a thousand hues, but do we really let ourselves gaze upon it? Maybe it is not the whale that holds us, but a dungeon we create for ourselves when the world becomes too much to see. We exist in the very infinite unknown we so passionately seek, and yet, irony of ironies, do not recognize that what we’ve chased, hunted, lived for, died for, has been here all along. Blundering through facets of light, how frequently do we stop to look at them? How often do we hold love in our hands and not know it? Listen: there is a place, strange place, whose inhabitants walk in varied Paradise and do not know it. Young hearts are fearful when they should be open; tears from quiet solitude die alone. But, surrounded by constant Heaven, are not a very they themselves akin to the power and the glory? Walk not ashamed in the face of beauty, for such a yearning species could only be the product of knowledge and the laughing sea. By After the Ylvis song “The Fox” went viral, everyone wanted to know what it is the fox says. Unfortunately, I don’t know any foxes, but fear not! I have contacts where another beloved animal roams, and so my muddy journey to the barn began. There, I met with my horse, Pony Boy, to bring you the scoop on what a friendly horse would communicate. Pony Boy has no knowledge of Morse code, but I was able to conduct the interview anyway. I found him in his stall, eating hay, and asked him, “What does a horse say?” Hello, Pony Boy, would you mind answering some questions for the school paper? Our readers are dying to get the equine perspective. Can I keep eating my hay? Of course, you did. Do you have any advice or life lessons for our human readers? Run fast, be free, play hard, and above all, be wary of trees. Trees? Why trees? I don’t see why not. Does this mean you’ll answer the questions? You can’t trust them. Sure. Will I get a treat? Why can’t trees be trusted? They just sit there. Of course you will. Let’s get started with the first question. What is your favorite thing about living here? They have good hay. I’m sure the hay is good, but what we’d like to know is what you like besides food. Oh. I like that there’s lots of room to play outside. I can run around and mess with my friends. Pony, you don’t give your friends a hard time do you? Um…no…I don’t, I meant to say play with my friends. Well, you think they’re on your side, right? They’re just there, don’t do much. But when you least expect it, BOOM! They move, and it sounds like the sky is falling and there’s a hurricane of doom. And when they just stand there, you can’t tell what they’re thinking or going to do. They’re just so still. You can never be too careful around trees. Alright, I will make sure that everyone knows to watch out for trees. Can I get my cookie now? Yes, here’s your cookie. Thank you for your time. Well, there you have it folks! Straight from the horse’s mouth! Though I’m not sure how much of a threat trees are on a normal basis, they do hurt if you run into them, so I echo Pony Boy’s advice that you should look out. By Madison Monceaux Before Winter Formal, the sophomore girls spent class meeting after class meeting desperately trying to pull things together to make sure that everything would be satisfactory. Major last minute changes were made to account for a change of location for Winter Formal; the event was moved from the ASH Auditorium to the Grand Coteau Ballroom. People who signed up for T-Shirts designed by Kaili Simien, sophomore class secretary and leader of the Winter Formal T-shirt Committee, were still struggling to find her to pay and receive their shirts. Tickets were flying left and right so that everyone would be prepared at the door when they arrived to the Grand Coteau Ballroom. All of the typical “day-before the event” struggles occurred, but the sophomore girls handled it all with class and managed to get everything completed. Cassidy Oberlightner, one of the two sophomore class Student Council Representatives, reflects, “Getting everything prepared for Winter Formal was slightly stressful because of all the pressure to produce an amazing event for the entire high school; however, I think that in the end, our class was able to come together and produce a great dance that everyone who attended enjoyed.” Winter Formal night seemed to approach rather quickly for the girls of the sophomore class, but being the smart young ladies that they are, many of them called in advance for their dinner reservations to make sure that no one would be too early or too late to the dance. The girls who brought guests or dates had to make sure that their flowers matched, their dates’ ties were the correct color, and that hair and makeup was completed to their highest standards. Taylor Boagni, Sophomore class treasurer, says “I absolutely loved getting ready before Winter Formal. Getting ready with my friends and taking pictures with my date filled my night with laughter and joy. I had a fabulous night.” While Taylor’s night was filled with laughter and joy at the dance, Kaili Simien says that her pre-dance activities were stressful because she had to make sure that her dinner reservations were still available and that her date would be able to make it to the restaurant on time. However, once she and her date arrived at the dance, the stress disappeared and she had a good time. All in all, dance-preparation activities appeared to be exciting and pleasing for majority of the girls, if a bit stressful. Everyone who attended seemed to enjoy the dance, and the Sophomore girls were very proud of the event that they planned. They liked the DJ, and many students commented that he was very considerate of their requests and played the majority of them in a timely manner. Even with the last minute change of location, everyone danced the night away with their friends and dates. Margaret Fox, who attended Winter Formal with Javi, one of the Foreign Exchange students at St. John Berchmans from Madrid, says “Being able to attend Winter Formal with Javi was an experience that I would not trade for anything. I loved that I was able to introduce him to new people at the dance and help him experience this event with my Sacred Heart Sisters.” Winter Formal Court, one of the highlights of the night, was announced by our celebrity guest, Mr. David Venable. Sarah Nele, one of the two Sophomore girls who were voted onto the Court, tells me that she was overwhelmed with joy when her name was called and that she was extremely thankful to all of her friends who voted her onto the court. Even though only two girls from each grade are able to be on Winter Formal Court for all to see, every girl who attended winter formal looked gorgeous that night, and in their own way, they are all Sacred Heart Royalty. Sarah Frey, who rocked a beautiful dress that evening, says, “I had such a great night attending Winter Formal. Everything turned out great, the Ballroom was decorated wonderfully, the backdrop was beautifully painted, and everyone there participated well. I am looking forward to seeing what the Freshmen Class will produce next year; I am sure that they will be able to live up to the expectation left by our class this year.” Lots of people think Valentine’s Day is only for those of us lucky enough to have a special someone, but really Valentine’s Day can be a day to tell everyone you love how much they matter to you. So, how about some sweets for the people who make your life sweet? As Charles M. Shultz said, “All you need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.” Whether it’s for your special someone or for someone special, here is a simple chocolate-filled gift you can make an"d give to your Valentine. A Handmade Box of Chocolates Her hearts are 16.5 inches in perimeter, so her strips are that long What you will need: Two same-sized hearts cut out of cardstock in a color of your choice One doily that will fit on one of your cardstock hearts Two strips of cardstock that are the length of the perimeter of your hearts. One strip should be an inch and a half thick, and the other should be an inch and a quarter thick How to make your box: Step #1 Cut quarter-inch notches in the strips of cardstock to look like the picture above. Step #2 Glue your doily to one of your cardstock hearts. You could also skip the doily and draw something or paste pictures of things your Valentine might like. Step #3 Glue the notched edges of the one and a quarter inch thick strip of cardstock to one of your hearts. Once that dries, place the other strip of cardstock inside the already assembled half, tabs facing out, and glue the second heart to the tabs. Step #4 Open your box and fill the bottom with shredded paper and place your chocolates inside. Cover the chocolates with a heart shaped piece of wax paper to prevent the chocolates from messing up the top of your box. Close up your box and add any finishing touches. If you make your box in advance, make sure you keep it in a cool place so your chocolate won’t melt. This craft and others can be found at: http://www.damasklove.com. By Jordan Russo By Rebecca Miller By Emily Hargis