THE GIFT OF AN AMISH FRIEND - Homewood Retirement Centers
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THE GIFT OF AN AMISH FRIEND - Homewood Retirement Centers
CHATTER Homewood at Frederick The Volume 15 Number 8 August 2014 THE GIFT OF AN AMISH FRIEND Cathy Stull About 20 years ago, a longtime friend and her husband retired and moved to New Holland, Pennsylvania. They had spent years enjoying weekend camping in the community. After selling their home in Gaithersburg, Maryland, they purchased a piece of farmland outside New Holland and built their dream retirement home. I, of course, really missed my dear friend, Joann; but through the years, I visited her in her new home during many weekend trips. During these visits for almost 15 years, Joann and I visited many local Amish businesses and attended craft shows and Amish markets. I quickly learned about the difference between the tourist attractions and authentic local life. I always avoided the attractions. I bought eggs and bedding plants from “the plain women,” and learned to love the hand-crafted soap sold from the small kitchen of a young Amish bride. I purchased pumpkins and gourds during the fall months from Amish farm wagons parked on muddy lanes. About five years ago, I also learned from Joann, an “English woman,” about Leah, an Amish woman, whom Joann had met at a local auction and who had become a dear friend. During many subsequent visits, I would hear heartwarming stories about Leah’s many talents and kindnesses toward my friend. I began to borrow books about the Amish from a room filled with books on the subject at Joann’s house. The more I read and the more I heard about the friendship between Joann and Leah, the more I realized what a rare relationship it was; friendship between an English woman and an Amish woman was not an everyday occurrence. Joann had surgery and found Leah at her side. As she recovered at home, she found Leah in her home preparing meals, doing her laundry and hanging clothes on the line to dry. When Joann had to face yet another surgery, she awoke to hear Leah singing to her in her hospital bed. About five years ago, as I arrived for one of my many weekend visits to New Holland, Joann said to me, “Leah has asked to meet you….and wants you to come to dinner at her house this evening.” Leah’s “haystacks,” a sort of taco pile-on, was a wonderful meal and the beginning of a magical friendship. Since then, I have been blessed with many dinners at Leah and John’s home. I have met their 13 children and over 40 grandchildren. Leah has shared “sisters’ day” with me, and has come to Frederick because she wanted to see where I work. She and her husband, John, toured Homewood with me and were nearly speechless over the look and feel of our campus. I felt overwhelmed with gratitude on that tour day when these two old-order Amish people came and had a meal at my house before leaving Frederick to return to New Holland. Our goodbyes included many hugs, smiles and promises to get together again very soon. Friendship is always a blessing and this one is no exception. The gift of an Amish friend brought with it a gift of learning and vision into a community and a lifestyle that I could otherwise never have imagined. But the real gift from my new-found Amish friend was a lesson about unconditional, selfless, truly-committed love. Nichols’ Notes Eric T. Nichols, Executive Director The dog days of summer are upon us here in Frederick. We have been fortunate enough to have a wet summer this year with the various storms coming through our campus several times a week. It has not been a good year for many of our trees on the campus between these summer storms and the ice we had this past winter. Both have done damage to our trees. Work on Willow Road should have started by the time you read this article. The bypass road is in place and will provide a bypass of two-way traffic around the area of Willow Road where box culverts will go in. This work will take approximately three months to complete. The next section of Willow Road will be the roadway from the Crumland Farms front entrance to the bypass road. This work will begin after the culvert work is completed. Lastly, Willow Road work will be completed on the last section out to Willowbrook Road. All of Willow Road work will last approximately six months; but when it is completed, we will have a nice new road from Route 15 to Willowbrook Road. The last 12 patio homes along Route 15 are moving along very nicely. Construction will be completed with those that are leased during the month of September. Right now seven of those 12 have leases on them. Beginning August 18th, the roadways of Willow Ponds, that are currently construction-paved, will have the final paving completed which will provide a nice finished look to those roadways. Our Health Care Center staff has been undergoing a lot of training over the past months as we get ready to go to electronic medical records. The vendor that was chosen for all the Homewood campuses is called AOD (Answers on Demand). This new software, along with some new computers and kiosks, will provide a new way for us to document the care that is being provided to the residents of the Health Care Center. Later this year, or early next year the transition to electronic medical records will also occur in Assisted Living. ON DEMAND: Electronic Medical Records Vicki Keriakos, RN, DON Homewood has started training the Health Care Center nurses and aides to transition from paper charting to electronic charting. Through June and July, the staff trained extensively, learning how to use a system called “Answers on Demand.” The HCC will initially activate the new system during the week of August 18, 2014. Kiosks will be installed on the walls throughout the HCC for aides to document resident information. The headsets that the staff currently wears will not be used after September. The nurses will have laptop computers installed on their med-carts and new computers will be added to the nurse’s station; the new electronic charting will allow the nurses to have access to resident’s information while they are passing medications without going to get the paper chart. Making the transition is a two-part process: the first, which the staff is doing now, is to learn the charting of nurses’ notes and assessments. The second part, which will take place sometime next year, will teach the entering of physicians’ orders into the computer, and the signing of medications and treatments electronically. WORK ORDER PROCEDURE CORRECTION Stan Schweinfurth In the Family Council article in the July 2014 issue of The CHATTER, I may have misled the reader about the length of the training course for the nurse’s aides employed by Homewood. In fact, the State of Maryland requires nurse’s aides to complete a 75-hour course and pass a test. In addition, to work in a retirement health-care facility, they must take an 8-hour course of geriatric training and pass a test. These two requirements are minimums; some certified nurse’s aides have more training than the minimum. Greg Lescalleet, Maintenance Director If you need Maintenance staff to do something in your dwelling, please fill out a Work Order form. The procedure is very simple: either ask for a Work Order form at the front desk, fill out the form, and leave it with the receptionist; or call the front desk at X 6000 and a receptionist will graciously complete a form for you. If you have a true emergency (fire, water overflowing, no air conditioning, no heat), please call the front desk and a receptionist will contact Maintenance staff. Many folks have called my office to leave a work request, but I suggest that you use the front desk. Many days, I’m not in my office for long periods of time, and leaving phone messages only delays the Work Order scheduling process. We will always strive to provide you the best service possible and this is one step to improve the process. I thank you in advance for your cooperation. Safety Tip The reception desk in the Community Center has coverage during the week Monday-Friday, 7:30 am-8:00 pm, and on Saturday, Sunday and holidays, 8:30 am-8:00 pm. Jo Gilbert If you have an emergency Maintenance/ REMINDER: SIGN-UP FOR MEALS When you wish to eat dinner in the Dining Room, or to order Take-Out, please sign-up by 3:00 pm on the day you want service, whether for Specials or items from the menu. Signing-up is also necessary for the Sunday meal beginning at 11:30 am. For Sunday choices, order before 10:00 am on Sunday morning. You may place any orders by telephone to the Reception Desk, still observing the deadline times. Food Committee Security problem during the uncovered hours, please dial X 6000. The call will be answered by personnel on the Meadows who will contact the Maintenance/Security person on duty to handle your problem. Do not hesitate to use your Lifeline Medallion for security or for medical emergencies. NEW RESIDENTS ………………………………. JeAnne and Bill Burg moved to Willow Ponds at Homewood at Frederick in May 2014 from Bluffton, SC. They have one son and one daughter who lives in Arlington, VA. JeAnne and Bill were both born in Nebraska. JeAnne received a M.S. in math at Eastern New Mexico State, a M.S. in Chemistry from the University of Nebraska and a PhD in Biostatistics from the University of Cincinnati where she was also on the faculty. She was a commissioned officer in the U.S. Public Health Service for 26 years. Bill received a B.S. from Colorado State University, a M.S. from the University of Nebraska and a PhD from Kent State in chemistry/environmental health. He taught chemistry in New Mexico, Louisiana and Ohio. Bill served in the U.S. Army and owned a consulting business in Atlanta. Both JeAnne and Bill have been active in church work. JeAnne’s interests include Mahjong and exercise, and Bill enjoys racquet ball. The Burgs moved to Homewood upon the recommendation of friends. Joining us from New Market, MD at Willow Ponds in June 2014 are Phyllis and Allan Heuerman. They have one daughter, one son and four grandchildren. Phyllis was born in Buffalo, NY, and received a B.A. from State University of NY at Buffalo and a Certificate in Management from Harvard University. She was employed as a Human Resources Manager by the U.S. Navy and the U.S. Office of Personnel Management. Phyllis is active as a Master Gardener in Frederick City; she belongs to Green-Walled Garden Club, Homemakers and the Frederick Evangelical Lutheran Church. Her hobbies and interests are gardening, travel, cooking and music. Allan was born in Faribault, MN, attended Technical High School in St. Cloud, MN, and received a B.A. from St. Olaf College and a MPA from the University of Southern California. He served in the U.S. Army. Allan was employed by the Office of Personnel Management, U.S. Civil Service Commission. He is active at the Frederick Evangelical Lutheran Church, and enjoys traveling, gardening and reading. After comparing retirement communities in the area, they liked the new patio homes and chose Homewood at Frederick. We welcome Nancy and Bill Holmes to Cottage 1 in the West Village and who moved from Silver Spring, MD in May 2014. They have two sons and six grandchildren, and five members of their family live in the area. Nancy graduated from Roosevelt High School in St. Louis, MO; Hendrix College in Conway, AR; Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX; and audited courses from Union Theological Seminary in NYC. She worked part-time at the National Catholic Educational Association in Washington, D.C. Nancy was active with the League of Women Voters in Texas, church groups, book clubs and a sewing club. Her hobbies include working jigsaw and crossword puzzles, and flower arranging. Bill graduated from Little Rock High School, and received a B.A. from Hendrix College in Conway, AR. He received a Master of Divinity degree from Perkins School of Theology in Dallas, TX, and attended Union Theological Seminary in NYC. Bill’s career as an ordained minister in the United Methodist Church spans some 46 years; he was the senior minister at National United Methodist Church, Washington, D.C. for 24 years. Somewhere along the way Bill served in the U.S. Merchant Marines, and served his Washington, D.C. community on the Ethics Advisory Committee as a Trustee at Sibley Hospital, on the Lawyers Guild and as a missions volunteer. His current interests include reading, writing and following the Washington Nationals baseball team. ………………………………………. Shirley Erdmanis Nancy and Bill decided on the Homewood destination when they added their names to the waiting list over 25 years ago. Ray Rankin moved to Willow Ponds in June 2014 from Rockville, MD. He is a widower who was born in Edgewood, PA. Ray has one son, two grandchildren and two great-grandchildren; two family members live in the area. He attended high school in PA and Bell Vocational School in Washington, D.C. for an engineering course of study. Ray was employed by the National Geographic Society in Washington, D.C. as Superintendent of Buildings and Grounds. Among the organizations he has actively served in the Maryland and D.C. area are the Masonic Order, Naval Lodge No. 4; Order of the Eastern Star; Scottish Rite; and Almas Shriners. Ray also served in the U.S. Army. In his spare time he enjoys photography and woodworking. Ray selected Homewood as his retirement community because his daughter-in-law’s mother resided here so he was familiar with the location which enabled him to be close to his family. In June 2014 Joe and Ginger Ward moved into Cottage 35 from Frederick, MD. They have two sons and six grandchildren. All of their family live in the area and Ginger says, “Hurray!” Ginger was born in Cleveland, OH. She attended Western High School in Baltimore City, and received B.A. and M.L.A. degrees from Western Maryland College. In Baltimore County Ginger was a teacher, a nursery school assistant teacher and a substitute teacher; she was an education assistant at Mt. Olive UMC in Randallstown, MD for 13 years. Ginger has been active serving in her church, PTA, Scouts, Great Decisions and Great Books. She enjoys babysitting, crafts, needlework, gardening, reading, exercise and cooking, although she hasn’t had much time for such things while preparing to move, she says. Joe was born in Tyler, TX, and graduated from Tyler High School. He received a B.A. from Rice University in Texas, a M.P.A. degree from George Washington University, and a M.A. in public policy from UMBC. Joe spent 34 years with the Social Security Administration as a claims representative, disability reviewer, computer programmer and analyst, Branch and Division Director and Deputy Office Director. He has worked with the Frederick School of Religion and the Great Decisions programs. Joe’s interests include public policy, poetry, science, music and blogging. After talking with Homewood residents and friends, and comparing retirement communities in the area, the Wards found Homewood to be “the best.” Another new addition to the 4th floor in Apt. 445 is Marcell Howell, who moved from BelAir, MD and Whittier in Frederick in May 2014. She is a widow with two daughters, three grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. One member of her family lives in the area. Marcell was born in North Carolina. She graduated from Rising Sun High School, and attended classes at Harford Junior College and Towson State. She was a teacher hired by Cecil and Harford Counties for the Title IX program in 1967. Marcell was a volunteer in the Pinkie program at Frederick Memorial Hospital, making surgical and neck pillows for patients. She was a member of AARP 636, Red Hat Club, Gambrill Park Homemakers and taught Bible study at a nursing home. Her interests and hobbies are growing flowers, attending craft shows, sewing and reading. After undergoing rehabilitation at Homewood, Marcell chose Homewood for retirement because she “liked it very much.” WHY DO WE CELEBRATE THE 4TH OF JULY? Pat Morgan Lest we forget, Frank Lesure, assisted by his wife, Nancy, gathered a group of 10 residents on the morning of July 4 in the Café Library to read aloud The Unanimous Declaration of the Thirteen United States of America. The opening words of the second paragraph are familiar: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” On July 4, 1776, a group of patriots assembled…not concerned with wearing red, white and blue, nor to plan a picnic menu, nor to design a firecracker display. America’s founding fathers agonized over the many reasons why “it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off” a form of government which they described as “an absolute tyranny over these states.” In what would clearly be recognized as a dangerous act of treason, they declared “that these united colonies are, and of right ought to be free and independent states.” By signing the document “in the name, and by the authority of the good people of these colonies,” these representatives of the United States of America, convening as the General Congress, figuratively but courageously, shook their fists in the face of King George III of Great Britain. “We must all hang together,” said Benjamin Franklin, “or assuredly we shall all hang separately.” Frank’s plan is to schedule for next year, and annually, a reading of The Declaration of Independence to gratefully remember why we celebrate the 4th of July. Hear! Hear! 90th Birthday Celebration Bev Cleaver/Pat Morgan Bev Cleaver, the first cottage resident at Homewood in 2000, celebrated her 90th birthday in June. Her immediate family, some 25 strong, hosted her remarkable event at the Embassy Suites Hotel in Alexandria, VA. They traveled by plane and automobile from the states of Washington, California, Colorado, South Dakota, Texas, North Carolina, Ohio, Virginia and Maryland to be with Bev. The youngest of the Cleaver clan who was present for the occasion was only nine months’ old and the oldest was age 69! Bev’s daughter, Joy Miller, who was formerly employed at Fort Detrick in Frederick, was in charge of the arrangements, assisted by Bev’s three sons, Harlan, Brent and Kurt, and by Bev’s best friend, Pat Dawson. Bev and Pat were Homewood cottage neighbors before moving into IL apartments. Lunch opened with “An Eastern Prayer” from the Middle East; Bev’s children grew up in Saudi Arabia. Each family received as a party favor an antique silver thimble from an heirloom collection representing family members, still living or deceased. The theme for Bev’s special day was “Stitching the Family Together,” complete with the memories that go back to the Depression years on a South Dakota tenant farm and migrating to California for wartime jobs. An Eastern Prayer I pray the prayer the Easterners do: May the peace of Allah abide with you. Wherever you stay, wherever you go, May the beautiful palms of Allah grow. Then in your days of labor, and your nights of rest, May the peace of Allah make you blessed. So I touch my heart as the Easterners do: May the peace of Allah abide with you. SMITH ISLAND TRIP Vernon Rippeon Eleven Homeland residents made the trip to Smith Island, Somerset County, Maryland in July. We left at 7:00 am, stopping in Cambridge for breakfast. We boarded “The Twister,” a passenger ferry, for the one-hour ride to the Island. The Chesapeake Bay was calm; the day was sunny; the temperature was moderate. The ladies worked on their tans and no one got seasick. Our driver, David Burke, had made lunch reservations at the Dock Side Restaurant where we were served family style. Dave ordered a special lunch for each of us that included two crab balls, clam fritters, and various side dishes, with the famous Smith Island Cake for dessert. The cake is composed of 10 very thin alternating layers of yellow cake and chocolate icing. I have heard about Smith Island since I was a kid, but, alas, modernization has arrived! We discovered a lot more vehicles on the narrow macadam streets than we anticipated; many of them were rental bikes and golf carts. The community features one Methodist Church, and according to the graveyard, many families named “Evans” have lived there. Two artesian wells supply the community’s water; electricity comes from the mainland by underwater cable; and there is a sewage treatment plant. The homes for about 52 families, according to the last census, are generally small, white, weatherboard bungalows. Serving the children’s educational needs is one small school on the Island for Grades K-6; for secondary school, the students ride the ferry for the onehour trip twice each school day, to and from the mainland. Visitors may tour their beautiful and modern museum for a charge of $3.00. NEW BOOK: WENNER’S CIVIL WAR HISTORY Stan Schweinfurth, Library Committee Fred Wenner has generously donated a copy of his 2012 book on Frederick history to the Homewood library’s history collection. The title of the book is The Civil War Comes to Frederick’s Churches 150 Years Ago. The book is subtitled “Reflections on Slavery, Theology and the Bible--including the stories of Stonewall Jackson and Barbara Fritchie and how Frederick became ‘One Vast Hospital’ following the battles of Old South Mountain and Antietam in September 1862.” This book will be prominently displayed on the library counter of the second floor Café Library. It will be available for borrowing, just as are all of our books on history. Please, however, do not keep this new book for more than three days at a time. NO BOOKMOBILE SERVICE Freda Litman, Library Committee In response to our request, the Frederick Public Library System (FPL) advised that it is unable to provide bookmobile service to the Homewood community. The budgetary constraints that caused the discontinuance of the bookmobile some years ago have not changed, and FPL does not have sufficient resources to re-establish the service We stopped at the Bay Bridge for a travel break and supper before returning to Homewood at 9:00 pm after a truly delightful trip! SATURDAY NIGHT MOVIES (Subject to change) August 2 August 9 August 16 August 23 August 30 Nancy McIntyre Flight of the Phoenix 1965 Money Ball 2011 Lincoln Lawyer 2011 I Remember Mama 1948 The Edge 1997 MEET OUR SOCIAL SERVICES STAFF: Cathy Stull Linda Procter, Social Services Director, joined the staff in 1982 as Resident Relations Coordinator in Homewood at Frederick’s original location at the old FSK hotel in downtown Frederick. In 1989, Linda left Homewood to work at Frederick Memorial Hospital in the Home Health/ Hospice Department, and in 2003, she returned to Homewood as a Social Services Coordinator for the Meadows Health Care Unit. working with people with memory impairment. She recalls spending lots of time at the nursing home where her mother worked. Dore now is in charge of Willows/Meadows Court which is a 45-bed unit. She is married with two children, a dog and a cat; the family resides in Myersville, Maryland. In 2013, Linda was promoted to Social Services Director. She has a Bachelor’s degree from Hood College in Social Work and is a Licensed Bachelor Social Worker (LBSW). Linda works with residents who live on Meadows for long-term or rehabilitative care. Linda serves as an advocate for residents and works closely with their families for individualized care needs. She assesses cognition and conducts mood assessments, in keeping with the federal and state regulations. Linda works with residents who are returning home as well as those facing end-of-life issues. She helps to coordinate the weekly interdisciplinary care planning meetings and provides education regarding support services and community resources. Linda appreciates Homewood’s various levels of care, providing optimal support as resident’s needs change. She is involved with planning the new Lunch & Learn session, providing an opportunity for residents and families to be more prepared for these changes. Linda is married with three grown children and lives in Braddock Heights. Dore Ackerman, Social Services Coordinator, Willows and Meadows Court, joined Homewood in 1996. During this early time, Dore was wearing two hats since she also was serving as the Senior Center Coordinator for the Department of Aging. She received a Bachelor’s degree from York College in Behavioral Science. Dore is responsible for providing education regarding community resources to residents and their families as she coordinates the care for the residents in Willows and Meadows Court. Dore provides counseling about residents’ health status and offers assistance with Advanced Directives. She says she particularly enjoys helping with the one-day orientation for new Homewood staff. Dore’s mother was a nurse, and she has always loved Mimi Brady has worked for Homewood at Frederick for 16 years. After serving as part-time staff in the Activity Department and as the Volunteer Coordinator, in 2004 she became Social Services Coordinator in The Woodlands. Mimi brought her degree in Gerontology from the University of Maryland to her position. Mimi oversees the admissions and discharges, as well as marketing for The Woodlands. As the Social Services Coordinator, she assists residents and their families with the adjustments that come with transitioning into assisted living, and then with the often difficult challenges with transitioning out of assisted living when another level of care is needed. Mimi’s door is always open to assist residents and their families with any problems or concerns they may have. In the Woodlands, 56 rooms are occupied by 60 residents; of that number, 43 are women and 17 are men, including four couples. Mimi anticipates an upcoming 4-day training class for learning the new resident data computer system that will provide a more efficient and current method of maintaining resident records. She considers working with and getting to know residents very rewarding and a great privilege. ALOHA QUILTS Avadna Coghill Flo Martin, a former and beloved Homewood resident, had dreamed of an exhibit of quilts with residents sharing stories of their origins, personal meaning, historic significance, etc. The ALOHA luncheon on June 27 fulfilled her dreams and was especially enjoyed by all who attended. Three of Flo’s own family quilts were the central focus, surrounded by others belonging to more than 20 residents. It was a wonderful variety of old traditional quilts and more modern quilts with new materials. From bedcovers to wall hangings, jackets and purses, many creations were included. Sharing stories of the quilted creations continued as ALOHA members stayed to talk and listen even after the meeting adjourned. [A tip from Sue Wirths: Quilted creations, especially if old, are delicate and worthy of preservation. To avoid fabric and thread deterioration, store them in an acid-free environment. Wrap them in clean, white muslin, or a bed sheet, but not in paper or plastic.] Since ALOHA (Active Ladies of Homewood Association) will vacation until September, we thank Pauline Flanagan for leading our programs this year. RIPE TOMATO REPORT On June 20, 2014, Jane Dertzbaugh reported that the first tomato of this summer season had appeared…big, red and ripe…in her garden outside her apartment across from the gazebo. Vernon Rippeon was subsequently dispatched for The CHATTER, partly to record on film this wondrous event, and partly to prevent Charlie Rickman from making the claim, Jane says, like he did last year, Jane says, of producing the first tomato of the season, when Jane claims she did. So let it be written. So let it be done. Now let the games begin! ** On June 24, Jane reported that she ate the first tomato and “it sure tasted good!” To her delight, a second tomato is forming. Volunteer News Cathy Stull, Volunteer Coordinator Sunshine Readers Needed The Volunteer Office seeks additional volunteers who would like to help improve the reading skills of elementary school children in our community. Classes resume in Frederick County next month, and the Homewood bus will again travel to Walkersville Elementary School each Tuesday morning, and to Brunswick Elementary School each Thursday morning. The Sunshine Readers at Homewood at Frederick began in 2001 as a small once-a-week group of Homewood resident volunteers serving one school. The team had a strong interest in enhancing the literacy program in Frederick County. Thirteen years later, the Sunshine Reader team has over 40 members, serving two schools and over 488 students! The Sunshine Reader Booster Team of three volunteers recognizes student birthdays with special cards, and assists with special events at both of our sister schools. They spread their own very special kind of sunshine! Our current Sunshine Reader schools, Brunswick and Walkersville Elementary Schools, are designated by the FCPS under the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act as Title I-eligible schools. Under this act, these two schools are able to take advantage of invaluable grants designated for schools with a high number of free and reduced meal students. Specially designated students (for example, struggling readers) will benefit. Grants provide additional federal money to create more learning opportunities for students. Our Sunshine Reader Program mission is to… enhance the reading and communication skills of Frederick County students; make contributions through an intergenerational support program; increase the self-esteem and confidence of the students. For more information or to sign up to be part of this very rewarding program, please contact the Volunteer Office, X 6046, or [email protected]. Watch for upcoming information about our Annual Sunshine Readers Kick-Off Reception…a fun opportunity to learn more about the program and meet representatives from our schools. Friendship Circle The Friendship Circle is a group of volunteers who are resident escorts, help at mealtime, deliver the mail, visit with residents, bring out the convenience carts, help the Activity staff each day and bring their pets to visit our campus. The group numbers 65 who reside in the IL areas at Homewood and in the Frederick community. During the summer months, student volunteers are part of the unique, caring program that enhances the lives of Homewood residents and delights them in many different ways. For more information about the Friendship Circle, contact the Homewood Volunteer Office, X 6046, or [email protected]. Student Volunteers, Summer 2014 Beginning soon after the end of the school year, Homewood residents may have spotted the student volunteers, ages 14-21, in the hallways. Their names are Caitlin Davis, Tyler Martin, Thomas Morris, Bethany Norris, Jeremy Warrenfeltz, Molly Weber, Daniel Yoon and Edward Yoon. Let them know that we appreciate their assistance. Chaplains’ Corner Chaplain Shelley Weakly What a month July was for local history buffs! Thanks to the amazing efforts of local historians, volunteers and staff at Monocacy National Battlefield, the Battle of Monocacy, fought a century and a half ago, virtually came to life just a few miles up the road from my Urbana home. Almost every day in mid-July, the kids and I found an excuse to head up the Urbana Pike so we could hike battlefield trails, examine artifacts from a long-ago slave plantation, listen to lectures about ransom notes, and hear a deeply moving concert of spirituals and freedom songs by Kim and Reggie Miller of Philadelphia. My oldest son even ran into Homewood’s own Fred Wenner on one hike! All of this stirred up some conflicting feelings and debate in a family that hates war but loves history and freedom. One of the oddest moments for me came in the basement of the gracious hilltop Worthington House. For this particular occasion, we were allowed to descend the stairs and look through the window where little six-year-old Glenn Worthington, himself the son of a slave-owning Confederate family and later the author of Fighting for Time: The Battle of Monocacy, peeked out to watch the battle raging in his front yard. As I watched my own little boy look through that window, I had to stand in the shoes of a lady I found easy to judge. I wondered about the strange things God sometimes calls us to do. What would it have been like for Mrs. Worthington to have to learn to get along peaceably with neighbors who had taken up arms against her way of life? What would she do now that her way of life was changed forever and so many relationships were different? We like to hear the exciting stories of battles and Underground Railroad escapes, but often it’s the less dramatic stories of how we interact with people on a daily basis that define who we are. All this history reminds me that I may never be asked to hide a runaway slave or care for a wounded enemy soldier, but I am tasked daily with letting the grace of God transform my relationships regardless of political differences. That’s more than enough for me to deal with! One small way to let God’s grace transform the lives of Frederick children is to remember the Religious Coalition school supplies drive. A bin is available in the chapel for your donation. Please make checks payable to the Religious Coalition. Thank you very much! LUNCH & LEARN SUMMER SERIES Pat Morgan I should note for readers, in advance, that the following is an “I story,” that is, a personal experience. I am totally overwhelmed by the critical and valuable information that has been provided by the Homewood staff for the benefit of Homewood residents. I have been present (accompanied, thankfully, by my appointed health care agent) for two of the three scheduled Lunch & Learn programs. My reason for using words like “overwhelmed,” “critical” and “valuable” is because they’re the closest I can come to honestly describing my own feelings about what I have learned and expect to learn. Especially about how Medicare works…that the current system is nothing new…it’s been happening for years…right under my nose… and I wasn’t paying attention. I think I was too busy, too complacent, too detached, to learn about federal regulations for providing health care and maintaining facilities, and to understand their meaning and costs for me. I must take charge of my future. I need to change. I must stop thinking that I’m “covered...so I’m okay.” But that may not be good enough. I don’t remember growing older…do you? I urge residents to attend on August 11, the last in the Lunch and Learn summer series, when the topic will be “Transitioning from Health Care back to IL or AL.” The leaders will be from Homewood’s Rehab and Social Services Departments. Be sure to sign up for the lunch meal beginning at 12:00 noon in the MP room. THE RESIDENT OPTIMIST Guest, Nancy Lesure This poetry is dedicated to the “many people moving now,” and offers comfort for the sadness of what we all leave behind when we must move on. “No looking back.” I closed the wicket gate For the last time; then turned to look once more…. I wept, for every brick and stone and leaf Was charged with memory…. The old house spoke: Child, here is naught for grief— Change works no ill, and time is but a name; What the heart loved it keeps. And all is well. From Old House, by Nancy Byrd Turner Bethany Norris, Julie’s daughter, recently had the amazing opportunity to sing at Carnegie Hall. She was nominated and chosen to be part of the National Honors Junior Performance Choir. There were 165 middle school students chosen from the U.S., Canada, China, Korea and Guam. SEE YOU IN SEPTEMBER Group Date Time Place Visionaires Tues., 9/2 10:30 am ILAC How & Why? Mon., 9/8 7:00 pm ALACT HOBOs Thurs., 9/18 12:00 N MP Music Listening Thurs., 9/18 3:00 pm ALACT ALOHA Fri., 9/26 12:00 N MP CONTACT INFORMATION THE CHATTER NEWSLETTER STAFF Editor……..……………………………..Pat Morgan Reporters………Shirley Erdmanis, Vernon Rippeon Final Proofreader………………………Paul Mellott Circulation Manager………….....Marlee Richardson Photographer……………………….....…..Lane Hart Production Manager……………….……Julie Norris Ex-Officio…..…………..President, Residents Ass’n To make comments or suggestions, or to submit original articles, photographs or other newsworthy items from cited sources for publication, contact: Pat Morgan, Editor [email protected] IL Apt. Box 213, Phone X5810 The deadline for publication in any issue is the 15th of the preceding month.
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Peggy Hopkins has worked at Homewood for 9 years as the Activity Coordinator for Meadows and Meadows Court. Prior to joining the staff at Homewood Peggy worked in long term care for 24 years beginn...
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