Bazman Hazeh
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Bazman Hazeh
2420 East Hillcrest Drive Thousand Oaks, CA 91362 (805) 497-7101 www.adatelohim.org Bazman Hazeh “In These Times” Kislev - Tevet 5776 Andrew Straus, Rabbi David Shukiar, Cantor VOL. 49 NO. 3 DECEMBER 2015 Aliza Goland, Executive Director Marcy Goldberg, Director of Education Donna Becker, ECC Director Peggy Frank, President, Board of Directors Alan Greenbaum, Rabbi Emeritus From the Rabbi’s Desk How many miracles does Chanukah celebrate? W hat is the meaning of Chanukah? We are told that a great miracle happened in Jerusalem. The Maccabees stood up against the Greco-Syrians and fought for their freedom of religion. They conquered Jerusalem, they cleaned the Temple and prepared it for rededication. The final act was the lighting of the lamps. They searched the Temple and found only a single cruse of undefiled oil, sealed by the High Priest. In it was oil enough for the needs of a single day. A miracle was wrought and it burned eight days. And so we celebrate Chanukah to remember the oil that lasted for 8 days. But my friend and colleague Rabbi David Kalb teaches the miracle really only lasted 7 days since there was enough oil for one day. The first day is no miracle at all, as there was enough oil for one day! So why do we celebrate Chanukah for 8 days? He suggests that Chanukah commemorates two miracles: one human and one divine. The human miracle was the dedication and commitment that the Maccabees had to Jewish life and living, the risks that they were willing to take to ensure that Judaism survived despite persecution. The human miracle was that they cleaned the Temple and had the faith to light the one vial of oil, hoping and believing that it would last until enough oil could be produced. The second miracle was God’s miracle - the oil that should have only lasted one day lasted for 8 days. The first day is our miracle, the other 7 days are God’s miracle. Rabbi Kalb goes on to teach that Chanukah is an important lesson to all of us about the partnership between humanity and God. If we but take one step in the right direction then God will take 7 steps in our direction. God is our partner, waiting and hoping that we will cause miracles to happen. As we celebrate Chanukah this year, let us remember the dedication of the Maccabees and let us recommit ourselves to Jewish life and living. Each night, as you light the menorah with your family or friends, take a moment to appreciate the miracles that are all around us. Take a moment to talk about what you are dedicated to and in what ways are you a descendant of the Maccabees working to ensure the Jewish future. What miracles are you taking the first step towards? Let us remember that Jewish life does not just happen; it takes hard work and commitment. It also requires us to take risks, to believing that miracles will happen if we act first. As David Ben-Gurion, Israel’s first Prime Minister, taught us, “Anyone who does not believe in miracles is not a realist.” Wishing you and yours a joyful, happy and bright Chanukah. l’Shalom, Rabbi Andrew Straus Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 2 PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE Frankly Speaking According to BeliefNet.com, when the rabbis of Talmudic times asked, “What is Chanukah?” — their answer focused on the purification of the Temple and the miracle of the oil that burned for eight days, despite the fact that there seemed to be oil enough for only a single day. This is not a new story or a new interpretation of Chanukah but it does seem to be the story of our financial history here at TAE. I think about our temple and our financial strength that mostly allows for us to only take care of sustaining needs. When I think of the oil that sustained these iconic eight days of light, I also think of you and me, and how even with our personal limited funds, we still find a way to contribute beyond our dues to create sustaining funds. Now our challenge is to move beyond the sustainable factor and consider how we fund new, exciting programs and innovations, including enhancements and new technologies that go beyond the basics to update our temple. Like our children preparing their Chanukah gift wish list, our temple, too, has a wish list that goes beyond what we want to what we need – The 2016 TAE Dream Team Wish List. Some of the items on our wish list include updating the sound system in our sanctuary to include ear and guitar microphones, adding Wi-Fi to our classrooms and sanctuary/social hall, updating our sanctuary’s hearing impaired sound system, updating the aesthetics and the function of our ECC and Religious School classrooms, and updating the social hall to make it the sanctuary of fun and community, which once defined our temple as the destination of choice for mitzvah celebrations. A special thank you to TAE Sisterhood for answering this call already with their $2,000 donation to purchase a new icemaker for the temple kitchen. This year when you light your Chanukah candles and you bring light into your homes, please consider creating a little extra light for your temple with a general or designated donation – your end-of-the-year extra support to your home away from home, Temple Adat Elohim. During my High Holy Days address, I asked you to invest in Temple Adat Elohim. “How will you know if you made a good investment? It’s up to you – will you share Shabbat services with us, listen to your child chant from the Torah, attend your child’s preschool graduation, share in the mitzvah of a bar or bar mitzvah for a child or perhaps adult, join with teens for youth group events, attend an adult education program, like the one we hosted recently where nearly 400 gathered for an educational evening on the Iran Nuclear Continued on page 4... E-MAIL ADDRESSES [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Youth Group: Accounting: Reception Desk: Clergy/Exec. Asst.: TAE Seniors: $ Judaica Shop New Items for “Excellence means when a man or woman asks of himself more than others do.” – Jose Ortega y Gasset Rabbi Straus: Cantor Shukiar: Aliza Goland: Marcy Goldberg: Donna Becker: DECEMBER 2015 BAR/BAT MITZVAH, WEDDINGS, ETC. 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Bazman Hazeh Bazman Hazeh is the newsletter of Temple Adat Elohim [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 2420 East Hillcrest Drive Thousand Oaks, CA 91362 A Reform Jewish synagogue, affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism. It is published monthly. DECEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim CANTOR’S NOTES PAGE 3 CELEBRATE SHABBAT SHIRA (THE SABBATH OF SONG) – FRIDAY, JANUARY 22ND AT 7:30 P.M. Join Cantor Shukiar, the Adat Elohim Chorale, the Band of Milk and Honey, our Junior Cantors and Shirei Elohim (our Junior Choir) as we recall our Exodus from Egypt across the Sea of Reeds to freedom. As we remember the song that Moses, Miriam and the Hebrews sang at the shores of the sea, we will experience an evening filled with music and spirit as we take a journey through Mah Tovu and discover its meaning through various versions spanning the generations of Jewish music. You do not want to miss this opportunity to study and experience Mah Tovu … this wonderful and sometimes troubling piece of our liturgy! TAE COLLEGE HOMECOMING SHABBAT: FRIDAY, JANUARY 8TH AT 7:30 P.M. TAE COLLEGE OUTREACH COMMITTEE SENDS CARE PACKAGES TO OUR COLLEGE STUDENTS Temple Adat Elohim sends care packages to our college students who are away from home in the hopes that they can still feel their connection to our community. If you are a member of our congregation and your child is a student who would like to receive such a package, please send their name and address - dates they will be home from school for winter break, spring break, and summer break - expected graduation date - and any food allergies, to Cantor David at [email protected]. Our next package will be in the fall. We are always looking for additional volunteers to help with our committee. You can also contact Cantor David about our Facebook page, dedicated to sending periodic messages to our college students. Thank you for helping to maintain this important connection! Share in a Shabbat service where we will welcome home some of our college students and hear about their experiences in school and how being a part of the Jewish community has impacted their college experience. Come and be inspired by our future leaders who are making their mark on the world today. TEMPLE ADAT ELOHIM IS THE ONLY CONGREGATION WITH AN ALL-MEMBER COMMUNITY SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA!!! S There are many reasons why the music program at TAE is unique among synagogues around the world. One is that we are the only synagogue with an all-member community orchestra. If you are interested in joining this new and exciting part of our music program, and if you play a musical instrument at a High School level, please send me a note at [email protected]. We look forward to welcoming you to our expanding symphonic family! PAGE 4 Temple Adat Elohim DECEMBER 2015 BAR/BAT MITZVAHS December 5, 2015 Zara Aiken daughter of Michelle Zakson Zara is an 8th grade student. She enjoys music, art, horseback riding and electronic media. For her Mitzvah project she has been working as a volunteer at the Agoura Hills Library. Preparing for teen events is Zara's favorite thing to do at the library. We are so proud of you, Zara, and know you will do great! We wish you nothing but the best today! All of our love, Mom, Abriannah, Grandmommy, Papa, Uncle Laurence and Uncle Peter! Summer Camp Makes a Great Chanukah Gift Summer at a Jewish residential (sleep-away) camp is one of the best Chanukah gifts that you can give your children or grandchildren. Numerous studies have shown that Jewish children who attend Jewish summer camps not only have a great experience but that their Jewish identity is greatly increased. Campers return from the summer being proud to be Jewish and feeling more connected to their Jewish community. Lifelong friendships are formed and the memories last a lifetime. I know that when my children went to Camp Newman (the Reform movement camp in Northern California), they would come home saying, “Camp is home; we are just visiting with you here.” What more could we ask for than that deep a love of camp and Jewish life and living? There is a new camp that I want to highly recommend for those who are looking for an excellent Jewish sports camp. Sponsored by the URJ (the Reform movement), 6 Points Sports is North America’s Premier Jewish Sports Camps. At 6 Points, athletes will participate in top-level sports training alongside the beloved traditions of Reform Jewish camping. 6 Points will be held at Occidental College in Pasadena. Athletes will take their game to a whole new level! 6 Points offers a unique approach to Jewish education which promotes Jewish identity-building throughout the course of each day. Not only will campers improve their athletic abilities, but they will also build self-confidence, strong connections to their peers and grow into proud Jewish athletes.” For more information, go to http://6pointssports.org/. For most of the past 20 summers, I have served on the faculty of Camp Newman. It is an excellent camp located in the beautiful Santa Rosa Hills. Newman is Jewish camping at its best. Rooted in Jewish values and guided by Newman’s experienced staff, Newman offers fun, immersive summer sessions that give your child(ren) the opportunity to develop community, teamwork, selfesteem, and individual skills. For more information, go to Continued on page 6... December 19, 2015 Ethan Goldenberg son of Elicia and Dan Goldenberg Ethan is a seventh grader at Lindero Canyon Middle School. He enjoys Social Studies and Spanish. He is a Boy Scout who loves playing tennis and drums in the middle school band. His three other siblings and the family goldendoodle, Snickers, also keep him busy. Ethan is passionate about animal welfare; and for his Mitzvah project he is focused on helping the Agoura Animal Shelter acquire items needed for the animals in their care. Special thanks and yasher koach to Casen Lieb and our other Tzofim (peer tutors) who have helped to guide these students through the process of becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Continued from page 2... “President’s Message” Deal? Or, will you attend Torah study, participate in a social action program that helps you to be a role model for your children, or perhaps - attend seniors, brotherhood, sisterhood, or ECC parents’ activity? Or will you merely look at the legacy of Jewish education enriching the lives of the countless that live after you and feel that indeed yes, this is a worthy investment – a legacy that inspires you to be a part of the fabric of TAE.” Now I’d like to take that one step further and ask you to consider investing in our 2016 TAE Dream Team Wish List Initiative to make our sacred community a place that nourishes the soul, mind, and heart. Please help us make this year’s Festival of Lights a victory for, and a living model for, innovation at TAE - your place to learn, grow, and connect. To make your end-of-the-year general or directed donation, please contact Executive Director Aliza Goland at (805) 497-7101 or [email protected]. You may also make your donation online at http://www.adatelohim.org/Support. Our goal is philanthropy at any level – however small or large – your contribution is gratefully embraced and appreciated. With love, respect, and gratitude, Peggy C. Frank President DECEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 5 YOUTH GROUP This month AETY went to Golf N' Stuff! Mark these dates on your calendar for our upcoming events! Coming up in December: Saturday, Dec. 5th MAETY is going to Sky High! Saturday, Dec. 12th JAETY will be making Latkes and Menorahs! Sunday, Dec. 13th AETY will be going Ice Skating! AETY 9th-12th JAETY 6th-8th MAETY 4th & 5th The Jewish Genealogical Society of the Conejo Valley and Ventura County (JGSCV) will hold a general meeting, co-sponsored with Temple Adat Elohim, on Sunday, January 3, 2016 at Temple Adat Elohim - from 1:30-3:30 p.m. The Topic: Never Give Up - Strategies for Taking Your Genealogy Research to the Next Level and Finding the Previously Unfindable This program is a collection of “I wish I knew that when I was starting out” tips to maximize your research efforts. The speaker will share insights learned after 20 plus years of research about how to extract information that isn’t immediately obvious from a wide variety of sources. Topics include names and name variations, strategies for researching common names, revisiting old research with new eyes, obtaining the most out of the records you find, alternate approaches to solving genealogical problems, differences in search engines and indexing, extracting unexpected information from death records, the importance of geography in searches, creative use of city directories and the importance of persistence in genealogical research. Speaker: Marion Werle began her family history research over 20 years ago, researching family from Lithuania, Latvia and Belarus, who settled in the U.S., Canada and Israel. She served on the boards of JGSCV, and JGSLA, and is a past president of the Latvia SIG. After making the same beginner’s mistakes that we all do, she is now focused on applying accepted genealogical research standards to her research. She has master’s degrees in both European History and Library Science from UCLA. There is no charge to attend the meeting. Anyone may join JGSCV. Annual dues are $25 for an individual and $30 for a family. The meeting is open to the public. The Jewish Genealogical Society of the Conejo Valley and Ventura County is dedicated to sharing genealogical information, techniques and research tools with anyone interested in genealogy and family history. For more information, contact: [email protected] or contact Jan Meisels Allen at (818) 889-6616. Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 6 DECEMBER 2015 EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION CENTER “TRADITION” The holidays are coming and it is so easy for us (parents) to lose ourselves amid the chaos and the preparations. The holidays can create stress long after the guests have left and the oil smell of frying latkes has finally left our kitchens. How about 5 possible ways for a new approach? Here are some ideas that you can act upon to create both meaningful new traditions and memories that will last a lifetime for you and your family. 1. Check out the programs at TAE that your family can do together to serve the community: • Mitzvah Day • SOVA Food Drive • Winter Shelter … just to name a few. Designate a day that will be devoted to serving others in your community. Encourage your family to discuss and vote on the project that you will complete together. There are numerous unique volunteering opportunities that exist for families, at our temple and throughout the greater community. 2. Take a walk and make it an annual event. Whether you have a houseful of visitors or just your immediate family, walking is a great way to spend time with each other, let off steam, and work off those extra latke calories. Set aside time – even just 30 minutes – to get outside and stretch your legs with your family. Come on, everyone … this is Southern California! The weather is most likely going to be beautiful. Getting kids connected to nature through their senses is important. Wildlife viewing, listening for different bird sounds, feeling the texture of different leaves or tracing the bark on a piece of paper, helps children to appreciate nature and the world around them. This is really more important than ever. Nature looks a lot different in person than on a phone, TV or electronic device. It looks different, feels different and smells different. This is the way we want our children to experience the world around them, not just on a flat, one-dimensional screen. 3. Write an annual letter to your child or any special member of your family. Start now. It is never too late to create a new tradition. Write a yearly letter filled with your observations of your loved one as well as hopes and dreams for the future. Holidays are a great time to mark you child’s growth with a special message that will be cherished for a lifetime. 4. Leave a legacy that lasts (Tikun olam) … heal the earth. Each January for Tu B’Shevat, plant a tree in honor of your children/family. Hold a special birthday party/ceremony in which everyone in the family plays a part in the planting of that tree, take lots of photos, both when the tree is planted and over the years as it grows. 5. This year, instead of buying a gift, give a gift. This year, instead of an exchange, make a donation in that person‘s honor. Opportunities are all around us: Veterans’ organizations, Toys for Tots, Jewish Family Services, SOVA. If you are by chance shopping at a mall, they often have a special convenient place to choose a gift for a child and drop it off right there in a designated bin. New traditions that you create this year with your family will be fun. Don’t forget to relax and enjoy. The memories and lessons you teach them alone about giving back will also last a lifetime. May your holiday season be filled with Light, Laughter, Love, Family and Friends! Happy Chanukah! Donna Becker Director of Early Childhood Center Continued from page 4... “Summer Camp Makes a Great Chanukah Gift” http://campnewman.org/ or speak to Rabbi Straus. For years, students from TAE have attended Camp Alonim, Camp Hess Kramer/Hilltop and JCA Shalom. Each one of these camps is a great Jewish camp. They are each slightly different. Find the one that is best for your child. For more information, go to: http://www.alonim.com/ http://www.wbtcamps.org/ https://www.campjcashalom.com/ Many first-time campers are eligible for a $1,000 scholarship. Google “One Happy Camper” for more information. Temple Adat Elohim and each of the camps strongly believe that every child should be able to experience Jewish summer camp. We will do our best to ensure that finances are not a reason for a child’s inability to attend summer camp. Need-based financial scholarships are available. And remember that TAE Sisterhood provides several scholarships for our students to attend Jewish camps each year through its Marsha Fayne Campership Fund. Application forms were distributed to all Religious School students in early November; and additional copies are available by contacting Marcy Goldberg. Please speak to Rabbi Straus, Marcy, and/or the camp of your choice for scholarship information. Rabbi Andrew Straus DECEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim SISTERHOOD NEWS PAGE 7 Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 8 DECEMBER 2015 BROTHERHOOD NEWS Greetings to our Brotherly Mishpucha, Your Brotherhood Board hopes that you and yours experienced a very Happy Thanksgiving celebration. It is time to work out so that we can burn off our Thanksgiving dinners to be able to eat Chanukah latkes. TAE Brotherhood Activities: We have our monthly Board meetings on the second Tuesday of each month. Please come and join us. We meet in Rooms 5-6. We also have social nights on the third Wednesday of each month, which are held off-site. Men’s Torah Study - Monday Evenings from 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Temple Library - The Men’s Torah Study Group has a contemplative discussion each week as they read through an individual chapter. Please come and join them for spirited discussion and thought provoking commentaries. For additional information, please contact Bob Grossmann. Upcoming Bagel Brunches: Cybersecurity in the Digital Age - Dr. Lillian Ablon, the RAND Corporation – Sunday, December 20, 2015 Iran and the Nuclear Agreement - Dr. Dalia Dassa Kaye, the RAND Corporation – Sunday, January 24, 2016 The Mars Curiosity Mission: Latest Insights - Our own Dr. Deborah Bass, NASA JPL – Sunday, February 21, 2016 Emerging from the Iron Curtain: Romanian Orphans and their Medical Challenges - Our own Dr. Alvin Miller, MD and FAAP Sunday, March 27, 2016 Influencing the Policy Debate in an Era of Political Polarization - Michael Rich, Esq., President and CEO of the RAND Corporation – Sunday, May 15, 2016 Bagel Brunches start promptly at 9:15 a.m. in the Social Hall. You may drop off your child(ren) for Religious School, enjoy the brunch, and they’re usually over just in time to go pick up your child(ren) after class. You may bring your significant others or friends, too. All we ask is for an RSVP in advance, a hearty appetite, and a modest– albeit voluntary – donation of your choice to help offset our costs. RSVPs may be delivered to Bob Salfi at [email protected]. Sheldon Tilles is working on a Men’s Seder for Tuesday, April 26th. He did such a wonderful job last year that we asked him to do it again … Upcoming Temple Events: Friday, December 11th, at 6:30pm - Please join us for our second annual family-friendly holiday event 'Chanukah Happy Hour featuring Latkes, Babkas and Vodkas'. Enjoy a variety of delicious latkes with all the fixings. Bring your own wine or sample some of our own. Oneg will include our annual sufganiyot (jelly donuts), mouth-watering babkas and Chanukah cookies. This is a FREE event for everyone. Please RSVP no later than Wednesday, December 9th at 10am to ensure we have enough latkes for this event. Note: This event is a nosh, not a dinner. Go to www.adatelohim.org/Programs-Events-s/1241.htm for details on this and other upcoming events. Friday, December 25th, from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. - The annual Community Holiday Dinner at Thousand Oaks High School - TAE is sponsoring. We are asking that Brotherhood members contribute toys for less fortunate children. As always, check Brotherhood’s page on the TAE website, or our Facebook page, to keep informed. We need your support! Happy Holidays, Stuart Goodman Brotherhood President RABBINIC TRANSITION TEAM REPORT Save the Date: February 26–28, 2016 Rabbi Straus’ Installation Weekend It’s hard to believe that the secular year is coming to a close. For TAE, 2015 was a year of decision, and a year of change. Decisions can be difficult, and change can be downright challenging. But decisions also can be empowering, and change a time of opportunity. The end of December will mark six months since Rabbi Straus arrived at TAE; and there have been so many occasions to begin getting to know each other, whether at High Holy Days, Shabbats, Circlehood get-togethers, community hikes, Tot Shabbats, Torah study, or just dropping by the office. The positive “buzz” is heartening, as we embrace the change and move forward to Rabbi Straus’ Installation Weekend, February 26-28, 2016. So, please, save the date, where we will confirm our choice, and celebrate our future together, and the limitless opportunities that lie ahead! We will be welcoming Rabbi Angela Buchdahl* to conduct the Installation. As the senior rabbi of Central Synagogue in New York City, she is a nationally known and well-respected figure in the Reform Movement. She was featured on Newsweek’s 2012 list of “America’s 50 most Influential Rabbis,” and is recognized for her programming innovations, her dynamic presence on the bima, Continued on page 9... DECEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 9 MIDDAH OF THE MONTH Courage / Ometz Lev Ometz Lev (from the Hebrew words ometz – strength, and lev – heart) refers to acts of courage. In Pirkei Avot 4:1, the question is posed, “Who is strong or mighty ?” The answer is, “One who overpowers his inclinations.” Throughout history in children’s literature and fairy tales, there are references to Ometz Lev, heroic actions. In Judaism, many of the Biblical and traditional stories we read to our young children focus on heroism and courage. These include holiday stories about Chanukah, Purim and Passover. We recount how the few Maccabees won their fight against the armies of their enemies. We describe Queen Esther standing up to King Ahasuerus who had agreed to a plot to kill the Jews. We learn in the Torah of Pharaoh’s cruel edict that firstborn Hebrew children be thrown into the river and of the bravery of Moses’ mother, Yocheved, who defied Pharaoh, saving baby Moses by putting him in a basket in the river. As Moses grows up, we read about his bravery in confronting cruel taskmasters about their treatment of the Israelite slaves. We also read how Moses, following God’s direction, stood up to Pharaoh, demanding that the Israelites be allowed to go free. the value or consequence of reading stories containing violence to young children. It is essential to communicate to children that suffering is caused by violence and that there are solutions to conflict other than violence. There are age appropriate books that discuss conflict and courageous solutions. These stories teach our children about acting courageously in the face of danger and overcoming fear. We often wonder about the value of sharing stories about violence with children. Do these stories provoke fear in children who already live in a world filled with danger? Or, will these stories help them become courageous? Children need courage to overcome situations that are fearful to them. Children’s fears may include everyday situations like sleeping in their own bed, separating from parents, or participating in activities for the first time. L’Shalom, Michelle Princenthal Mussarforchildren.com © 2014 The Mussar Institute In recent years, the suitability of violence in children’s stories has been questioned by parents and teachers. Experts do not agree on For more information about Jewish values for children, visit http://mussarforchildren.com. Children should be made aware of the realities of the world - good and bad. Many experts argue that children’s literature that includes violence can be especially valuable in teaching children to cope with conflict. Experts also believe that violence has value in children’s literature, only if it truthfully reflects characteristics of the world that children should be aware of, no matter how much adults may wish to protect them from those dangers.1 1 Although fairy tales often involve violent and dangerous situations, it is clear that stories such as these can have immeasurable value in a child’s life.” Christina Moustakis. “A Plea for Heads: Illustrating Violence in Fairy Tales.” Children’s Literature Association Quarterly 7.2 (1982): 26-30. Project MUSE. Web. 28 Feb. 2014. <http://muse.jhu.edu/> Continued from page 8... “Rabbinic Transition Team Report” as well as for her appearances in the media, such as contributing to interfaith discussions on the Today Show, and other television appearances. Rabbi Buchdahl is the first Korean-American Jew to be ordained both as a cantor and as a rabbi. We are highly honored that she will be participating in this special weekend. Straus’ Installation festivities with a special late-morning Tefillah, followed at 11:30 a.m. by a winter “weenie roast,” to which all the parents are invited as well! It will be a wonderful weekend for the TAE community to honor Rabbi Andrew Straus, embrace our present, and create our promising future. The Installation itself will be conducted at Shabbat services on Friday, February 26, 2016. Rabbi Buchdahl will join Rabbi Straus and Cantor Shukiar in what promises to be a beautiful and unique evening of music, worship and celebration. The evening will begin with a Community Shabbat Dinner at 6:15 p.m., and conclude with a festive Oneg. Saturday morning’s service on February 27th will begin the day’s “Lunch & Learn,” with a morning of study led by Rabbi Straus & Rabbi Buchdahl, followed by aFor catered luncheon. (Yum!) On Sunday morning, more information: February 28th, our religious school students will join in Rabbi Please watch for a formal invitation and RSVP to Installation events, and for any possible changes in the schedule. The RTT can’t wait to see everyone there! l’Shalom, RTT Chair – Jan Iscovich [email protected] *http://centralsynagogue.org/about_us/our_clergy www.wbtcamps.org • (213) 388-2401 Ext: 2145 PAGE 10 Temple Adat Elohim DECEMBER 2015 JEWISH VALUES FOR EVERYDAY LIVING Omaitz Courage/O “Being deeply loved gives you strength. Loving deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu Courage is defined as the mental or moral strength to venture, persevere and to withstand danger, fear or adversity. It is the staunchness of mind and the strength of the will to cope with hardship. Courage enables you to maintain your dignity in difficult situations, and it supports you in striving toward more noble aspirations. Courage is a soul-trait, and like all soul-traits it can be improved and brought into balance, which is the goal of Mussar practice. Courage is a state of being. You do not have to be a person who feels courageous all of the time in order to speak and act with courage. After all, you can be in a joyous state for a few minutes, even if you aren’t always joyous. You can be in a serene state for a while, even if you aren’t always serene. You can be in a centered and balanced state, even if you aren’t always this way. The same applies to courage. We all have the ability to access a state of courage. At times we might find this easy, and at times it can be difficult. The more you practice accessing courage, the easier it becomes, even in situations where you previously weren’t able to do so. Courage is one quality of great people. More accurately, it is a quality that creates greatness. It is the quality of Abraham, who recognized the Creator and was willing to give his life for this awareness. It is the quality of Moses, who approached Pharaoh and told him, “Let my people go.” Courage is the quality of people throughout the ages who were willing to sacrifice everything to live a life of Torah. It is the quality that can elevate and empower you throughout your life. Take a moment to think of a time when you said or did something that took courage. Yes, we all have memories of when we lacked courage, but it is very important for your soul to remember your best moments and to build on those memories and moments. Surely there are many instances when we lacked the ability to control a situation. Some people feel strongest when they feel in control, and they feel overwhelmed when they cannot control events. You always have the ability to control your attitude toward what occurs. Courage enables you to maintain an inner sense of empowerment, even when you lack the power to control external events. For courage to be most valuable, the owner of a courageous attribute needs to be sensitive to the feelings of others. They pay attention to the effect of their messages and choose the most sensitive approach. There are many instances when it takes courage to remain silent. It might be easy to speak up, but the right action may be silence. Someone insults you and you have the ability to respond with a devastating knockout punch. Courage here is to NOT to say a word. Your silence is an expression of courage. Courage like this builds selfrespect. When you face a difficult situation and you react with dignity, you increase your self-respect. • Have the courage to ask people for help when you need it. • Have the courage to say,” I don’t know.” • Have the courage to ask questions, when you don’t understand something. • Have the courage to push forward, even if you might make mistakes. • Have the courage to do the will of our Creator. May you go from strength to strength! Michele Matis Jackman Advanced Mussar Facilitator Thank You … For the Cards and Candy for the Troops Dear Students, Parents, Staff, Madrachim, Friends and Clergy: I recently delivered all the cards and candy to “For The Troops.” In total, the students from all grades made nearly 250 cards. In addition, there were about 150 pounds of candy, 4 bottles of hot sauce and a variety of holiday cards, all donated. The picture attached shows the candy and a sampling of the cards made by the children. As much as the candy will provide sweetness to the lives of the troops, the messages and artwork of the children will provide hope and meaning. Knowing the mission of “For The Troops” and that every single item donated will go to a very good cause gave me goose bumps when I dropped everything off. The words “Thank You” sometimes are not enough to fully express how our entire TAE community came together in an amazing act of Tikkun Olam. Looking forward to talking with you soon. B’Shalom, David Rosenblum Temple Adat Elohim DECEMBER 2015 PAGE 11 THE TAE SENIORS (formerly The Greatest Generation) Many thanks to Stan Steinberg for taking the wonderful pictures during the temple’s Mitzvah Day activities on Sunday, November 8th. Your TAE Seniors were responsible for providing bagels & cream cheese, as well as Orange Juice, for all of the nearly 100 participants who worked very hard in many activities for our greater community, such as: clearing the foot trails in our parks, doing clean-up at the adjacent public school, making packages for our service personnel overseas, creating blankets for those in need, our Junior Choir singing at one of the retirement communities, etc. We all hope that these mitzvahs will be a blessing to those who receive them. Special thanks to those who picked up all of the foodstuff and drinks as well as those who manned our Bagel Table: Stan Steinberg, Joel Lunsik, Mort Rosenthal, Bill Berger, and Marilyn Kramer. We invite each of you to join with all of your fellow TAE congregants for our “Annual Chanukah Dinner & Party” on Wednesday, December 9th starting at 6:30 p.m. This event includes a communal Chanukiah lighting, a scrumptious buffet dinner catered by Cielo Catering that will include mouth-watering brisket and salmon on a plank plus all the trimmings, plenty of delicious latkas, cake for dessert, PLUS musical selections by our headliner , “Mark Rosen – Singin’ and Swingin’.” The costs are: $30 for temple members, and only $33 for non-members. For last minute reservations or to answer questions, please contact Stan Steinberg [805-376-0422]. You still can have your own reserved table with your friends and Havurah members. Please come and join in on the fun! Our next “Tuesday Social” will be our monthly “Lunch & Learn” on Tuesday, December 1st at 1:30 p.m. We’ll enjoy a delicious lite luncheon, celebrate December birthdays and anniversaries, plus we’ll be entertained by our extremely talented Cantor David Shukiar. Please plan to be with us as we sing many familiar Chanukah songs. On Tuesday, December 15th at 1:30 p.m., we will be delightfully entertained by “Stu & Laurie – That’s Entertainment.” This talented duo always presents a wonderful show that includes their version of “Sonny & Cher,” as well as music from the Great American Songbook. Please come … and remember that you are always welcome to bring along a friend or two. If you have any questions, [email protected]. please contact L’Shalom. Bob Grossmann President – TAE Seniors Mitzvah Day helpers taking a break Senior Group provided the bagels, coffee, juice for Mitzvah Day Participants enjoying bagels, juice and coffee me PAGE 12 Temple Adat Elohim NOVEMBER 2015 NOVEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 13 Wood Ranch Proudly Supports Temple Adat Elohim DINE IN TAKE OUT CATERING Like woodranch.com PAGE 14 Temple Adat Elohim NOVEMBER 2015 Temple Adat Elohim DECEMBER 2015 DECEMBER ADULT BIRTHDAYS December 1-7 Rosalie Bell Melissa Conn Leslie Weinberg Eric Breton Wendy Grossmann Jackie Jorge Shari Meyerson Peter Reinisch Meryll Belfor Michael Preddy Karen Barton Martin Josephson Rebecca Kinberg Lewis Sample Andrea Satz Alyson Beckman Noah Gusdorff Ellen Kinberg Bradley Kirsch Bobby Steinman Helene Cohen Robert Herstein Ari Markow Patti Zeman Barbara Greenstein Nathan Rosenblum Adam Southard Erica Zide December 8-15 Jennifer Joseph Meredith Messe Austin Alschuler David Greenbaum Tamara Lesser William Lopshire Heather Marcus Darren Rosenblum Steven Handler Stephanie Kulle Jill Markow C. Rosenfeld Ginger Bistrow Susan Braunstein Yasmin Braunstein Phoebe Kleiger Kathy Pike Richard Trogman Mara Abrams Paul Artof Lonney Gordon Churee Josephson Melanie Weisenfeld Denise Arsht Jerry Robins Joyce Weinper Arlene Jakubs Sheri Meyerson Joshua Surmani Naomi Brown Dori Greenbaum Noah Grossman David Landsman David Model Gail Orbach Richard Rosen Elaine Saperstein Aileen Stein December 16-23 Nicholas Benjamin Brian Brickman Joanne Cohen Michael Iceland Anita Roll Jim Chaconas Brian Guerrero Melissa McConnell Jennifer Kesner Faye Mallinger Rebecca Goldman Charlene Wecker Paul Bell Doug Cohen Carrie Glicksteen Miriam Goodman Regina Mann Isabella Teague Elaine Bercy Alexandra Epler Barry Klevs Beverly Shapiro Kari Gutnik Leah Kaplan Naomi Finkel Carol Schmidt December 24-31 Elissa Green Maurina Sherman David Yim Stacy Pike Jodi Feldman Janis Iceland Elianna Roffman Amy Whitney Stacey Lebowitz Patti Murray Brent Novak Michael Rosen Joe Stark Janice Winters Joan Bernick Ira Pincus Maggi Salfi Ron Ballen Emily Cohen Rachel Malovany DECEMBER CHILDREN BIRTHDAYS December 1-7 Haley Begun Matthew Elbaum Stephen Herring Madelyn Posner Hayley Minassian Amanda Sherter Delaney Snyder Alessandra Davis Joshua Kesner Ethan Klausner Cooper McConnell Marissa Schulner December 8-15 Peter Sandberg Emma Cohen Skye Forster Olivia Wolk Isabella Greenblatt December 16-23 Zachary Harris Zoe Epstein Arielle Wender Abigail Messe Joshua Messe Zoe Ballen Evan Brenner Nathan Brenner Addison Breton Grace Keatts Benjamin Schenker Grace Teague Eliana Gunnoe December 24-31 Eva Catriel Eric Goldman Danielle Gould Myles Slotnick Ava Tribe Jillian Beer Anthony Choudhry Everly Green Jacob Krakower Cayla Cohen Harrison Novak PAGE 15 DECEMBER YAHRZEITS Madeline Asher Terry Baker Goldie Barman Ira Behar Ralph Benezra Estelle Berg Edna Bergson Paul Blair Bella Bloom Bruce Blum Phlip Blumstein Morris Braunstein Arthur Bryan Fred Bynder Samuel Bynder Joseph Cohen Simon Cohen Charles Deschamps Leo Diamond Gertrude Dubin Lillian Dubowe Sylvia Einzig Della Epstein Morton Epstein Harry Fabian Herbert Fabian Bess Faust Goldie Feuer Irene Flamm Rita Frank Samantha Freedman Robert Freeman Ron Fulop Nathan Futterman Leonard Ginsburg Daniel Glasser Mrs Frieda Glotzer Irene Goldfadden Philip Goldstein Charles Grant Idelle Greenberg Ben Greenspan Anna Gumpertz Victoria Hananel Rose Hapner Maurice Hettler Brian Hill Ceil Horenstein Rosalind Horowitz Harry Horwitz Joseph Housfeld Sarah Housfeld Maurice Iceland Herbert Jacobson Miles Jakl Gertrude Joseph Samuel Judis Reina Kaczer Jeanne Kay Herman Kaye Nicole Kehler Roger Keller Alex Kirsch Sarah Klevs Evelyn Komer Rabbi Harold Krantzler Abe Krupka Dana Landsberg Nancy Lee Jack Leif Chen Lin Harry Lowy Linda Mallinger Joseph Marks Nancy Marks Henry Matis Abraham Mestman Anita Miller Robert Mirkin Harry Nadler Eli Namanworth Lillian Nemeroff Irving Oberstein Eunice Peck Lillian Press Julia Redholtz Jerome Rehberg Kay Rehberg Benjamin Rosenthal Leslie Rosenthal Norman Rothstein Elizabeth Rubenstein Nick Ruttenberg Ruth Saperstein Chuck Schiff Art Schlaifer Robert Schneider Herman Schoenbrun Jerry Schur Gertrude Schwartz Rebecca Schwartz Michael Shain Rose Shain Nyman Shanblum Resa Shapiro Annette Sheeler Esther Sherman Irving Sherman Leon Sider Steven Silberberg Jack Simon Judi Sitkoff Morris Stearn Ben Steinberg Merrill Steinberg Blanche Stern Sara Stern Ruth Sterneck Herman Sturman Lilyan Tanenbaum E. Tipton Thompson Jack Topkis Martin Twersky Arnold Vitawski Fred Weisberg Harry Weisenfeld Dorothy Wharton Ruth Wind DECEMBER ANNIVERSARIES Mara and Gary Abrams Ruthanne and Mike Begun Bobbie and Eugene Berg Susan and Ronald Braunstein Bonnie and Seth Chasin Lisa and Jonathan Corn Sheryl and David Drozen Rachel and Ken Elman Erika and Leslie Field Shani and Morris Finestone Judy and Sam Forusz Peggy and Barry Frank Erin and Steven Handler Judy and Barry Krauss Arlene and Ken Mars Leean and Martin Nemeroff Shirley and Norm Ohren Beverly and Harry Pomeranz April and Mark Powers Anita and Jeffrey Rose Marianne and Rocky Rosen Robin and Paul Roth Mary and Jeff Salzman Arline and Ronald Schechtman Pearl and Gene Solomon Tobi and Sheldon Tilles Michele and Steven Wexler Melanie and Tim Wilt Elayne and Stanley Wypyszynski We Welcome Our New Members: Lynne and Natt Alschuler Lindsey and Jean-Philippe Choudhry Our Condolences to the Families of: Lillian Rogers, Mother of Marilyn Fine Julius Leon Singer, Uncle of Gerri Wissot Temple Adat Elohim PAGE 16 DECEMBER 2015 We are grateful to the following for their contributions: CHAI ANNUAL CAMPAIGN GENERAL FUND DONOR NAME Susan and Paul Artof Susan and Paul Artof Susan and Paul Artof Lori Crane Debbie and Art Heisman Marge and Jack Schlaifer Marge and Jack Schlaifer DONOR NAME Judy and Sidney Kuperberg IN MEMORY OF Edith Artof, Mother of Paul Artof Henry Artof, Father of Paul Artof Geraldine Greenspan, Mother of Susan Artof Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Edward Mazure, Brother of Debbie Heisman Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin, With our deepest Love and Sympathy Sam Roth, Cousin of Jack Schlaifer IN HONOR OF Dan Kuperberg-In honor of being selected as lawyer of the year. With Love. MORTGAGE REDUCTION FUND DONOR NAME Bunny and Preston Beckman Ruth and Hal Bloom Ruth and Hal Bloom Bea Ferber Rita and Joseph Futterman Rita and Joseph Futterman Rita and Joseph Futterman Judith and Robert Grossmann Judy and Robert Grossmann Gloria and Bob Meyerson Judy and Richard Munitz Erica and Peter Reinisch Ellen and Gregg Southard Stanley Steinberg Stanley Steinberg Irene and Mark Stern Deidra and Ronald Stitch Sherrie and Martin Weisman Elizabeth Winters Patti and Richard Zeman Patti and Richard Zeman IN MEMORY OF Fran Entin, Beloved Wife of Bernie Entin Ruth Allen, Mother of Sherry Stockham Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Jack and Bea Kriger Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Gertrude Dubin, Mother of Rita Futterman Nathan Futterman, Brother of Joseph Futterman Dorothy Bloom, Mother of Judith Grossmann Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Paul Reinisch, Father of Peter Reinsich Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Ida Steinberg, Mother of Stanley Steinberg Ralph Wilder, Father-in-law of Stanley Steinberg Sara Stern, Mother of Mark Stern, Grandmother of Mitch Stern Alvin Stitch, Father of Ronald Stitch Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Erwin Winters, Father of Richard Winters Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Lillian Zeman, Mother of Richard Zeman (Continued...) CANTOR SHUKIAR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND DONOR NAME Gene and Barry Klevs Gene and Barry Klevs Christine and Richard Lasus Arlene and Paul Plotkin DONOR NAME Michael Borovay Lelaine and Martin Braime Benny, Missy and Pam Conn Robin Platt and Randy Fox Wendy and Phil Oseas Teri and Richard Rosen DONOR NAME Jerry Asher Honey and Barry Barman Bobbie and Gene Berg Deborah and Ira Gabriel Barbara and Sandy Greenstein Kelly and Ron Hughes Christine and Richard Lasus Rose Marco Rose Marco Rose Marco Erica and Peter Reinisch Teri and Richard Rosen Merry and Don Stein IN MEMORY OF Madeline Asher, Mother of Jerry Asher Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Estelle Berg, Mother of Gene Berg John Martinis, Father of Deborah Gabriel Ilse Freundlich, Aunt of Rabbi Andrew Straus Frances Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Frances Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Norman Marco, Late Husband of Rose Marco Spector Harry Zweigbaum, Father of Rose Marco Spector Hyman Zweigbaum, Brother of Rose Marco Spector Susanne Reinisch, Mother of Peter Reinisch Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin DONOR NAME IN HONOR OF Judy Arsht Denise and Sam Arsht's 25th Wedding Anniversary Lalaine and Martin Braime and Family Rabbi Straus-Thank you for helping Julianne get ready for leading the Nov. 7th service Bernie Entin Rabbi Straus-Thank you for the Eulogy you gave at Fran's funeral Donnamae and Bernie Huberman Rabbi Straus Gloria and Bob Meyerson Margot and Jeff Cohen’s Birthdays CANTOR SHUKIAR'S DISCRETIONARY FUND DONOR NAME Susan and Ronald Braunstein Nanette and Robert Coffin Judy and Sam Forusz Kailee Graham Kailee Graham Elisa and Robin Hirsch IN MEMORY OF Irene Braunstein, Mother of Ronald Braunstein Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Hannah Pulin, Mother of Judy Forusz Edward Volk, Father of Kailee Graham Dorothy Wharton, Mother of Kailee Graham Abe Krupka, Father of Elisa Hirsch IN HONOR OF Cantor Shukiar for the beautiful service for my mother, Arline Borovay Cantor Shukiar-Thank you for your work, especially helping Julianne prepare for Shabbat service. Cantor Shukiar-A gift of our appreciation Cantor Shukiar, for our beautiful wedding ceremony Judy and Don Lucove's 50th Wedding Anniversary Dylan Sara Rosen, Newborn Granddaughter of Teri and Richard Rosen, Daughter of Britt and Ryan Rosen EDUCATION AND SCHOLARSHIP FUNDS MARSHA FAYNE CAMPERSHIP FUND DONOR NAME Joanne Cohen Nancy and Neal Federman Iris and Marty Ricks IN MEMORY OF Joseph Cohen, Husband of Joanne Cohen Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Ruth Allen, Mother of Sherry Stockham DONOR NAME Bunny and Preston Beckman IN HONOR OF Joanne Cohen-Mazel Tov on the birth of your granddaughter, Josephine Cohen Roe PAST PRESIDENTS' EDUCATIONAL ENDOWMENT FUND DONOR NAME Mort Rosenthal IN MEMORY OF Benjamin Rosenthal, Father of Mort Rosenthal RELIGIOUS SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP FUND DONOR NAME Marcey and Rick Alpert Norma Roberts IN HONOR OF Dan Kuperberg being named Attorney of the Year The Jewish Wedding of Debra Abramowitz and Dean Prober CLERGY DISCRETIONARY FUNDS RABBI STRAUS' DISCRETIONARY FUND IN MEMORY OF Sarah Klevs, Mother of Barry Klevs, Grandmother of Lisa Zweig, Charles Klevs and Barbara Botwin Leonard Ginsburg, Father of Gene Klevs, Zadie of Lisa Zweig, Charles Klevs and Barbara Botwin Frances Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin Ida Plotkin, Mother of Paul Plotkin YELADIM PRESCHOOL EDUCATION FUND DONOR NAME Iris and Ken Bragar IN MEMORY OF Anita Miller, Mother of Iris Bragar DONOR NAME Melanie Scott IN HONOR OF The Early Childhood Center YOUTH PROGRAMMING FUND DONOR NAME Mary and Steve Forman IN MEMORY OF Fran Entin, Wife of Bernie Entin DONOR NAME Debra and Andrew Krosnoff IN HONOR OF Debra Abramowitz and Dean Prober's 5-year wedding anniversary OTHER SPECIAL FUNDS MAZON FUND TO SUPPORT FOOD DISTRIBUTION DONOR NAME Judy and Richard Munitz IN MEMORY OF Seymour Diamond, Uncle of Richard Munitz MUSIC & CHOIR FUND DONOR NAME Bunny and Preston Beckman Tami Finkbeiner Marilyn Novak Marilyn Novak Marilyn Novak Maud Pincus Marge and Jack Schlaifer IN MEMORY OF Fran Entin, Beloved Wife of Bernie Entin Shirley Zimmerman, Grandmother of Tami Finkbeiner Joseph Housfeld, Father of Marilyn Novak Sarah Housfeld, Mother of Marilyn Novak Nicole Kehler, Daughter of Marilyn Novak Howard Pincus, Husband of Maud Pincus Phillip Schlaifer, Brother of Jack Schlaifer DONOR NAME Judy Bock and Family IN HONOR OF Dan Kuperberg, for Lawyer of the Year Award