May - Congregation Temple Israel, St. Louis, MO
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May - Congregation Temple Israel, St. Louis, MO
May 2013 Iyar / Sivan 5773 Volume XXXII / Number 8 www.ti-stl.org Please join us for SHAVUOT AND OUR SERVICE OF CONFIRMATION Friday, May 17, 2013 - 7:30 pm Congregation Temple Israel is a caring, inclusive community committed to living Reform Judaism and participating in the sacred destiny of the Jewish people and Israel through education, worship, and repair of the world. MAY WORSHIP SCHEDULE Friday, May 3, 2013 Friday, May 24, 2013 6:00 p.m. Mother’s Day Tot Shabbat 6:00 p.m. Pre-Oneg 7:30 p.m. Classical-Style Shabbat 6:30 p.m. Shabbat with HaShemesh Guest Speaker: Marcia Mermelstein Adult Bat Mitzvah of Mary Ellen Freund (see page 12) Saturday, May 25, 2013 Saturday, May 4, 2013 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Lizzy Mills Bar Mitzvah of Spencer Goldberg daughter of son of Brian and the late Becky Goldberg Jill Silverstein and Jon Mills Torah Portion: Leviticus 26:3-13 Torah Portion: Numbers 11:10-20 Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19-21 Haftarah: Zechariah 2:14-17 Friday, May 10, 2013 Friday, May 31, 2013 6:00 p.m. Pre-Oneg 6:00 p.m. Shabbat Family Service 6:30 p.m. Shabbat B’Shir and Picnic with Rick Recht Rabbi Alper to speak on (see page 13) “The Great Reform Experiment” (see page 12) Saturday, June 1, 2013 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Saturday, May 11, 2013 Bar Mitzvah of Matthew Bloom 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship son of Patty and Jonathan Bloom Bar Mitzvah of Bobby Loomis Torah Portion: Numbers 14:1-10 son of Susan Moriconi Haftarah: Joshua 2:1-7 Torah Portion: Numbers 3:1-10 Haftarah: Hosea 2:11-15 Friday, May 17, 2013 7:30 p.m. Shavuot and Confirmation shabbat greeters Friday, May 3 Rob Epstein , Sarah Falkoff Saturday, May 18, 2013 Friday, May 10 Loren Ludmerer, Gail Kitsis 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Friday, May 17 Pepe Finn, Dee Mogerman Bar Mitzvah of Charlie O’Gorman Friday, May 24 Burt Garland, Jr., Dorette Goldberg Friday, May 31 Thomas Glick, Michael Weiss son of Sheri and Sean O’Gorman Torah Portion: Numbers 6:1-8 Haftarah: Judges 13:2-9 2 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE at a Glance 2013 CONFIRMANDS Bridget Bain Richard Simon Daughter of Michael Bain and Shelly Bain Son of Steven and Lael Simon Madison Blanchard Hannah Snidman Daughter of Debi Blanchard and Chris Blanchard Daughter of Robert and Elizabeth Snidman Adam Bogard Michelle Stone Son of Jeff and Jeri Bogard Daughter of Victoria Stone Joel Burda Aron Tolin Son of Felix and Joanna Burda Son of Josh Tolin and Greta Bukovitch Kelsey Culp Emily Toscano Daughter of Cory and Jennifer Culp Daughter of Kim and Josh Tolin Jennifer Greenberg Elise Vincent Daughter of Patti Greenberg-Gold Daughter of Patrick and Kari Vincent Joshua Goodman Emma Weller Son of Adam and Carolyn Goodman Daughter of David and Karen Weller Hannah Jacks Erin Wides Daughter of Andrew and Judy Jacks Daughter of Nancy Wides Jordan Kaplan Michael Wielansky Daughter of Michael and Jodi Kaplan Son of Steve and Linda Wielansky Jessica Lazaroff Daughter of Dennis and Nancy Lazaroff and Jane and Lee Brotherton www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 3 page If Not Now, When? Rabbi Amy Feder One of our congregants and Religious School teachers, No matter what, we will continue to hire inspiring Bob Schnurman, recently shared a story with me. teachers, search for innovative curricula, and to try to He reflected upon a conversation he had with another of meet our learners’ needs in a multitude of different ways. our teachers, Evelyn Bernstein, about why they taught at We will put our energy, our spirits and our intellects Temple Israel and what goals they had for their children. into providing the best and most meaningful Jewish Though the curriculum and ages of the children they experiences out there. taught were very different, it turned out that their goals Yet in the end, the best way to encourage people to were exactly the same. learn about and love their Judaism is simply to be a They wanted their students to: living example. Whether it’s attending Shabbat services, 1. Begin to think about their Jewishness; participating in educational programs, or doing social 2. Love being Jewish; action projects, it is our actions that define who we 3. Be proud to be Jewish; are as Jews. When we model the way to be dynamic, 4. Learn and appreciate the many contributions that interested Jews, we inspire others to do the same. Jews and Judaism have given to the world. All of us, at every age and in every profession, are It strikes me that for as many conversations as we have Jewish educators. May we take it upon ourselves to about teaching styles, curricula, and new ways to learn, engage others and ourselves in meaningful Jewish in the end our goals are very simple. When people of any exploration each and every day, and may we all find that age walk through the doors of Temple Israel, they should in the end, we can look at Bob and Evie’s goals and say leave feeling better and more knowledgeable about their that we have met them and encouraged others to do faith than when they walked in, and that’s pretty much it. the same. It doesn’t sound like too lofty a goal, yet we know that we don’t always hit the mark. What can we do to meet these [email protected] learning goals in a more consistent and meaningful way? 4 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE worth noting CHUTZPAH Rabbi Michael Alper In the month of May we celebrate the holiday of Shavuot. Even though Shavuot is one of the three major pilgrimage festivals in Judaism, it is one of our lesser known holidays. That may be because there are simply not as many customs and traditions associated with it as there are with some of our other holidays. In terms of food (the most memorable factor of many holidays), we eat dairy items on Shavuot — ice cream, blintzes, and cheesecake tend to be the highlights. We read the story of the receiving of the Ten Commandments during services. And, in the Reform movement, we celebrate Confirmation, when our high school students reconfirm their commitment to Judaism in a communal ceremony before the congregation. While each of these traditions is significant, Shavuot still doesn’t seem to have the magic of other holidays. It’s missing the lights of Chanukah, the stories of Passover, the solemnity of Yom Kippur. Yet if we skip out on Shavuot, we are missing a beautiful Jewish holiday, and, in my opinion, one of the most meaningful Jewish texts in the entire Tanakh (Bible). On Shavuot, in addition to reading about the giving of the Ten Commandments, we also read the Book of Ruth. Ruth tells the story of a young non-Jewish woman whose Jewish husband dies early on in their marriage. While she could have returned to her own family after his passing, she insists, instead, on staying with her bereft mother-in-law Naomi. She says to Naomi, “Whither thou goest, I will go; whither thou lodgest, I will lodge; thy people will be my people, thy God my God.” This is one of those times when I find that the King James English translation is particularly poignant. In the story, Ruth does indeed stay with Naomi, and the two go on to forge a new path in the world. Ruth eventually marries another relative of Naomi’s, and goes on to have a son. It is from Ruth’s line that King David is born, and Ruth is known throughout history as the first Jew-by-choice. What I love most about this story, though, is not the concept of conversion, or even the story of David’s lineage. What I love is Ruth’s promise to Naomi. We don’t know if Ruth had a sense what she was getting herself into when she made those promises to her mother-in-law. Did she know what being a Jew would mean? Did she know where Naomi’s travels would take her? In fact, Naomi is so depressed that she seems almost ready to give up on life. It is very possible that their path together might have been a tragic one. What is clear, though, is the sense of loyalty and love in Ruth’s vow. She was ready to follow Naomi to the ends of the world because of their shared history and love. Maybe it was that promise that enabled their journey to be a happy one with such a positive ending, one that forever impacted the Jewish future for the good. There are times when we all question our path moving forward, where we wonder what the future holds. But when we have people in our lives who matter more than anything, being able to promise that we will make the journey together makes it all seem a bit easier. It makes the road ahead less frightening, and is a way of giving strength and support in even the most uncertain hours. May we each find the love, companionship and devotion that Ruth and Naomi shared, both as individuals and as a community. May we find that companionship makes our lives better and brighter, and easier to face any challenge that lies ahead. [email protected] www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 5 page SHAARE EMETH AND TEMPLE ISRAEL BEGIN EXPLORATORY CONVERSATIONS TO CREATE ONE VIBRANT CONGREGATION On Tuesday, April 16, Congregation Shaare Emeth and Both congregations are hosting town halls open to Congregation Temple Israel, two of the strongest Reform their congregants. Members can attend their own Jewish congregations in St. Louis, announced plans to congregation’s meetings to learn more about the process explore the creation of one stronger and more vibrant and become involved. congregation dedicated to learning, celebrating and living the Jewish faith. As announced last month, the collaborative between B’nai El and Shaare Emeth will be based at Shaare Emeth “At a time when congregations are facing great and dedicated to helping adults create opportunities for challenges around engaging and serving the unique learning, engagement and growth. Those plans will move needs of members, both congregations decided to work forward, even as discussions between Temple Israel and together to consider a new model,” said Rabbi Jim Shaare Emeth progress. Bennett of Shaare Emeth. “We’re considering a new approach that no single congregation could accomplish on its own.” “We also expect to better engage members served by the ‘new B’nai El collaborative’ by bringing Temple Israel and Shaare Emeth together,” added Bennett. “The results The two congregations are committed to creating will be a stronger, more vibrant and sustainable Jewish a Reform Jewish community that preserves community for all.” tradition, embraces diversity and provides support for all members. Both congregations offer unique About Shaare Emeth programming, and a merger would enhance community Congregation Shaare Emeth was the first Reform Jewish resources and efforts. congregation established west of the Mississippi River. We celebrate our rich diversity as a congregation, a “We want to build an innovative community that focuses community within many communities. Shaare Emeth is on members and families with different needs,” said a compassionate and inclusive community that makes Rabbi Amy Feder of Temple Israel. “Bringing these Judaism relevant, meaningful and joyful. For more congregations together would give members access to information, please visit www.shaare-emeth.org. more resources and new services.” About Temple Israel A steering committee comprised of lay leadership and Congregation Temple Israel is a caring, inclusive clergy began conversations in earnest last fall. While no community committed to living Reform Judaism and plans are definite, the two congregations have proposed participating in the sacred destiny of the Jewish people a three-phase due diligence process to bring the two and Israel through education, worship and repair of entities together on an equal basis. the world. We are a progressive synagogue of diverse households living and celebrating Reform Judaism. For more information, please visit www.ti-stl.org. 6 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE worth NOTING Shaare Emeth and Temple Israel Frequently Asked Questions 1) Why are Shaare Emeth and Temple Israel considering creating a new entity? • Shaare Emeth and Temple Israel, two of the strongest Reform Jewish congregations in St. Louis, are working together to explore the creation of a stronger and more vibrant congregation dedicated to learning, celebrating and living our faith. We’re considering a new approach that no single congregation could accomplish on its own. • At its core, Reform Judaism is about change and responsiveness to evolving needs of the world around us. These plans will help us do just that. Our primary goals are to foster deeper connections in the Jewish community and try a new model for engaging all of our members. Bringing these congregations together will give our members access to more resources and new services. 2) What are the benefits to members and the greater Jewish community? • Our combined community will be built around congregations, we are committed to creating an innovative Reform Jewish community that preserves tradition, embraces diversity and provides support for all members. 3) Is this move a result of financial issues for one or both synagogues? How much will this cost? • No. We’re in an excellent position to talk about integration. Both of our congregations are strong financially and our missions are aligned. If we move forward, we would come together as equals, by choice. Together, our congregations could create cost efficiencies by combining services and programming we’re duplicating. This is a way to reinvest in our community, helping to build a stronger and more vibrant congregation. We view this as a merger of equals. • This strategy will create some significant cost savings and efficiencies, though saving money is not the primary motivation. At the same time, it will likely require additional investment in order to members and families with different needs. Bringing succeed. Exact costs (and savings) will be determined these congregations together will give our members as we continue to flesh out our plans and explore access to more resources and new services that no next steps. one congregation could achieve (or offer) on its own. • If our congregations choose to merge, we believe that there is a greater number of projects, programs and efforts we could establish. Our goal is to assess current efforts and develop a plan of action that will best benefit the combined community. • At a time when Jewish congregations are facing great challenges, we need to evolve to meet those needs. Acknowledging the strong history of both www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 7 page 4) Why are we just hearing about these plans? How long have they been in the works? • We wanted to present a full and thought-out concept that made sense for both congregations. Our steering committee took the time it needed to evaluate the approach to ensure it supports both of our missions. • Earnest conversations started this past fall. Earlier this year, the operating and executive committees of each congregation approved moving forward with 7) What role will lay members play in the final decision? • Lay leadership and clergy will actively guide the exploratory discussions and on April 16, the boards entire process. We encourage members to get of each congregation also approved moving forward involved. We need input in order to make the with exploratory discussions. most informed decisions. Together, we can create 5) My family has been a part of Shaare Emeth/Temple Israel for generations, why make this change now? Can’t it wait until my kids or family are ready? • We are committed to the process and the potential a stronger and more vibrant congregation that’s dedicated to learning, celebrating and living out our shared faith. 8) If we move forward, will the combined congregation of a new approach. Our goal is to determine the best adopt a new name or continue to operate as two course of action and, for now, gather information to entities? help us make informed decisions. While it’s important • We hope to create one strong Reform Jewish to remember tradition, our faith embraces change community. It’s too early to talk about names, but we and looks for opportunities to evolve and meet will certainly explore that as part of the process. the needs of today’s world. This partnership would allow both congregations to focus on the future and embrace change. • It’s important to remember that we’re still exploring. There’s a lot that remains to be decided and done. We need input in order to make the most informed decisions. 6) What is the process and timeline for making decisions? • We presented the concept to both of our boards on April 16, 2013. • Our exploration process includes three phases of due diligence, which we will discuss at upcoming town hall meetings. Throughout each phase we’ll discuss a number of aspects, including programming, building needs, staffing and more. The final vote will go to both congregations in late 2013 or early 2014. • We invite members to join us at their congregation’s upcoming town hall meetings to get involved and find out more about the process. 9) Where will the new congregation be housed? What will happen to the two buildings? • Our first step is to evaluate and consider our assets. We need to assess what our shared community might need before we make decisions on facilities. An evaluation of our facilities is scheduled to take place in the first phase of the process. It’s a longterm process, and it’s going to take time. 10) What will happen to programming at each synagogue? How will we blend our two cultures and unique histories? • Shaare Emeth and Temple Israel are two of the strongest Reform Jewish congregations in St. Louis. Throughout the evaluation process, programming will continue as usual. We plan to take a closer look at what we’re doing well, where we’re duplicating programming and determine what’s best for a shared community. Our goal is to bring together the best of both congregations. 8 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE St. Louis; how can we serve our members worth personally? to see in each phase? NOTING 11) This will create one of the largest congregations in • Shaare Emeth and Temple Israel are two of the 15) Bringing our congregations together will take several phases. What changes should we expect • One immediate change will be that you will be strongest Reform Jewish congregations in St. Louis; hearing from leaders at both congregations as we an integration would provide us with the resources continue our research and exploration. Over the next and the ability to better serve our members. The several months, we will be doing a lot of listening and landscape of the Jewish community has changed, learning from one another. and both congregations have been this size (or near it) before. • Until we’ve done our due diligence, we won’t be in a position to share specific staff or facility changes. We 12) Who is driving this strategy? • We’ve assembled a steering committee that includes officers, board members and rabbis from both congregations. We are committed to creating an do commit to communicating any changes when they are known and keeping our members informed. 16) What about the preschools? • Both preschools will continue as they are, for now. innovative Reform Jewish community that preserves A committee will assess all programs to help us tradition, embraces diversity and provides support determine next steps. Again, we need to learn more for all members. before any decisions are made. 13) What will happen to our staff and rabbis? Will they keep their jobs? • Our primary goals are to foster deeper connections in the Jewish community and explore a new model to • Plans for the preschools will be considered during the first phase of the process. 17) Where can I get more information? • Information can be accessed from a number of better engage all of our members. There will be no sources. Members can find information on either immediate changes in our clergy and staffing. Once website. Everyone is encouraged to attend their we have clearer picture of the new organization, congregation’s town hall meetings to become we will be able to identify the appropriate staff. involved and engaged. We’ll also share updates We do know that this new model will mean new through our e-newsletters and through direct email opportunities, as well as some likely consolidations. correspondence. 14) Who can I talk to about my personal situation and my specific questions? • If you have questions, please feel free to email or call your rabbi or president. You can also come to one of your congregation’s town hall meetings to learn more about the process. * Temple Israel town hall MEETINGS Thursday, April 25, 2013 at 7 p.m. at Temple Israel Sunday, May 5, 2013 at 2 p.m. at Temple Israel www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 9 page • If you have questions, please feel free to e-mail or call your rabbi or president, [email protected]. E J O IN US AT T E M P L I SR A E L’ S M E G A M I T Z VA H D AY R E W E LCOM E ! ALL A Sunday, May 5th - 11am to 2pm Electronics Recycling by MERS Goodwill – Opens at 10:30 AM! FREE recycling of computer equipment and accessories, home and cell phones, clocks, VCRs, DVD players, stereos, A/V equipment, home electronics, appliances, and more! Donations of clothing and household items are also welcome! Gift of Life Bone Marrow & Stem Cell Donation Registry Get your cheek swabbed and potentially help save a life! Add your name to the bone marrow and stem cell donation registry. Sponsored by our TIFTY high school youth group. Health Equipment Drive by St. Louis HELP (Health Equipment Lending Program) Bring donations of walkers, wheelchairs, crutches, canes, shower seats, raised toilet seats, and other health equipment items. Build the Western Wall and Help us Feed the Hungry Children and adults of all ages are invited to donate boxes of cereal and cake mix and help us build a replica of the Western Wall. Cans of frosting are welcome, too! When the wall is complete, we’ll add our special prayers and blessings. Donations will benefit the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry. 10 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE temple News Creative Crafting for our Community Enjoy special craft projects for children and adults, including cards for cancer patients, mobiles for babies, and a rainbow mural, that will be donated to people in need in our community. No special skills required! Safe Pharmaceutical Disposal / Eye Glasses & Hearing Aid Recycling Bring your expired or unused prescription and over-the-counter medications for safe, environmentally-friendly disposal. We will also accept donations of old eye glasses and hearing aids. Police Car Detailing Teens and adults are invited to help us clean and detail Creve Coeur Police cars. Spring Cleaning Brigade Bring your gardening gloves and tools and come help us spruce up the Temple grounds and work in the Temple’s Mitzvah Vegetable Garden. Lunch and refreshments will be available for purchase from food trucks! Enter the TIFTY Camp Rainbow Raffle to win an iPad 2! www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 11 page may Adult Learning Opportunities Rabbi’s Roundtable – Thursday, May 2, at 12:30 p.m. Life in Transition – Tuesday, May 7, at 6:30 p.m. Join one of our rabbis for lunch and a lively discussion This group, led by Jan Nykin, M.Ed., LCSW, meets on of current events or any topic of interest to participants. the first Tuesday of each month and is for anyone The cost for lunch is $10. RSVP to Evie Bernstein, experiencing loss, whether through death, divorce, 314-434-3937. unemployment, or any life circumstance. ElderLink St. Louis Shabbat Presentation - Lunch and Learn: Torah Study – Tuesdays, noon to 1:15 p.m. Friday, May 3, 7:30 p.m. Join us for a Classical-style Bring your lunch and join Rabbi Alper in exploring the Shabbat service with guest speaker Marcia Mermelstein, week’s Torah portion. No Hebrew skills necessary. Senior Adult Information and Referral Specialist with Come every week or whenever you can. ElderLink St. Louis. Mermelstein will speak on “Making the Jewish Journey from Midlife through Exploring Life’s Journey – Tuesday, May 21, 6:30 p.m. the Elder Years. This group, facilated by Jan Nykin, M.Ed., LCSW, meets on the third Tuesday of the month and explores life Crafting for Community – Sunday, May 5, at 9:30 a.m. lessons and purposes, spirituality, Jewish meditation in The Gathering Place at the Temple. Join Jody Chassin and other related topics. in learning fun and easy crafts to make and donate to organizations that serve people in need. For more information on adult education programs, contact Rabbi Alper, [email protected] or 314-432-8050. The Lilith Readers Book Club – Tuesday, May 7, 6:30-8:00 p.m. Modern Jewish Girl’s Guide to Guilt by Ruth Andrew Ellenson. Bring your dinner and enjoy a ladies’ night out, interesting books and great discussions. Rabbi Alper to present summer sermon series Rabbi Alper will present a series of thought provoking sermons and food for thought throughout the summer. Mark your calendars now and plan to join us for Shabbat worship and learning. Friday, May 10 - The Great Reform Experiment: Examining the driving forces of Reform Judaism’s past and present. Friday, June 14 - The New Testament: A Jewish Book? Friday, July 12 - The Jewish Sports Hero: Paradox or Paradigm? Friday, August 9 - Yiddishkeit: Living Like Mensch in a Meshuga World. 12 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE temple www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 13 page News Deutsch Early Childhood Center of TEMPLE ISRAEL Leslie Wolf, Director Camp Shook enrollment for this summer is going strong. With nice spring weather finally here, I encourage you to This year we are offering fun weekly themes that will make sure your children get outside and play! keep our campers very busy. Our preschool camp runs for eight weeks, and parents have the flexibility to enroll their children for any or all of the weeks. As part of our busy camp day, children 3 and older will swim in our in-ground pool and younger campers will get to play with our water tables! Our camp day also includes art, music, science, nature, sports and games. What truly sets Camp Are you aware that today’s children spend an average of 40 hours a week in front of some type of screen — television, tablet, iPhone, etc. Time outdoors can reduce children’s stress, increase their curiosity and creativity, improve their physical coordination, and increase cooperative behavior and problem solving. Shook apart is our incredible teachers and counselors. Whether it’s making mud pies, picking dandelions and Campers love the individual attention that they receive creating necklaces, or digging worms out of the ground, from our counselors. Our entire staff is dedicated to children need to be outside learning about the world making sure that children have the best preschool camp around them. Let’s limit the hours they are in front of adventure possible. It’s not too late to enroll your child screens and encourage them to engage with nature. for camp this summer. While you’re at it, join your children outdoors! It will do Enrollment for our Deutsch Early Childhood Center everyone a world of good to go outside and play! preschool program this fall is now open to the entire Play is what we do best at Camp Shook and DECC. community. Some of our age groups are almost filled. There is so much to be learned from play. If you have If you know anyone who has a child of preschool age, any questions about DECC, Camp Shook or anything please encourage them to give me a call so that I can concerning preschool age children, give me a call at give them a personal tour of DECC. Once they are in the 314-432-8076. I am always happy to discuss anything door and see our program in action, it will be hard to that is on your mind. send their children anywhere else! [email protected] 14 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE school NEWS religious school Happenings Marisa Reby, Director It’s hard to believe that we’re at the end of the school Through cooking, dance, the arts, and more we tried year. We will end our religious school year on Sunday, to make learning come alive for students. May 5, with a school-wide Mitzvah Day. As we plan for next year, we welcome your feedback We are also already planning for next year. on our program and our ISJL curriculum. Feel free to Registration materials are coming soon. Watch your contact me at 314-432-8077 or [email protected]. e-mail for details! [email protected] Throughout this year we have conducted special school-wide celebrations of holidays and special events in order to reinforce classroom lessons with interactive learning experiences. On April 14, we celebrated Israel’s 65th birthday with an Israel Street Fair. We were joined by Reva Frankel, our education fellow from the Institute for Southern Jewish Life (ISJL), who assisted with the program. Each student received a passport and shekels to take with them on their “journey” through Israel. As each class traveled throughout Israel, students visited the Kotel, the Western Wall, to write prayers that will be taken to Israel in May; experienced the healing power of mud from the Dead Sea; played the Israeli game Ga-Ga in Eilat; sampled Middle Eastern food and participated in an invention program in Tel Aviv; designed Yom Ha’atzmaut (Israel Independence Day) posters in Yokneam; and learned Israeli folk dancing and Krav Maga (Israeli martial arts). www.ti-stl.org May 2013 / 15 page Among the many activities at our Religious School’s Israel Street Fair was the opportunity to experience mud from the Dead Sea. engaging our youth NFTY-MO Valley Spring Chavurah More than 200 high school teens from across the Midwest were at Temple Israel the weekend of April 5-7 for the NFTY-MO Valley Spring Chavurah. Our Temple Israel youth received several honors at the event. TIFTY was named the most improved youth group, Kelsey Culp was honored as Special Projects Coordinator of the year, and Andy Cohen received the prestigious VICTOR award for being an exemplary youth grouper. In addition, Tyler Andreasson was elected to the NFTY-MV Regional Board as Membership Vice President. TIFTY members Andy Cohen, Alex Jacks, Kelsey Culp and Tyler Andreasson were among theTemple Israel youth who attended the Spring Chavurah. Win an iPad 2 from TIFTY TIFTY is raffling off an iPad 2 to benefit Camp Rainbow, To purchase tickets, complete the stubs below and a summer camp program for children undergoing submit them along with a check (payable to Temple treatment for, and survivors of, cancer and other blood- Israel) to: Temple Israel, Attn: Stephanie Rhea, 1 Rabbi related diseases and disorders. Tickets are $10 each or Alvan D. Rubin Dr., St. Louis, MO 63141. Tickets will also three for $25. The raffle drawing will take place during be sold on Mitzvah Day. For questions or to receive Mega Mitzvah Day on Sunday, May 5. You do not need to additional tickets, contact Stephanie at 314-432-8050 be present to win! or [email protected]. WIN AN iPAD 2 WIN AN iPAD 2 WIN AN iPAD 2 Name __________________________ Name __________________________ Name __________________________ Phone __________________________ Phone __________________________ Phone __________________________ Email __________________________ Email __________________________ Email __________________________ Proceeds benefit Proceeds benefit Proceeds benefit Drawing will be held May 5, 2013. You do not need to be present to win! Drawing will be held May 5, 2013. You do not need to be present to win! Drawing will be held May 5, 2013. You do not need to be present to win! 16 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE Sun Mon may Tues Wed 1 9 am Opera Lecture 7 8 9:30 am Religious School Last Day 2 pm Lunch and Learn: Torah Study 9:30 am Study Group 9:30 am Crafting for Community 6:30 pm Life in Transition 11 am Mitzvah Day 6:30 pm Lilith Readers 5 6 2 pm Town Hall Meeting Calendar Thu 2 Fri Sat 3 4 6 p.m. Tot Shabbat 11 am Shabbat Worship 12:30 pm Rabbi’s Roundtable 7:30 p.m. Classical-Style Shabbat Guest Speaker Marcia Mermelstein Elderlink 9 10 11 6 pm Pre-Oneg 11 am Shabbat Worship 6:30 pm Shabbat B’Shir Bar Mitzvah of Bobby Loomis 17 18 7:30 pm Shavuot and Confirmation Service 11 am Shabbat Worship Bar Mitzvah of Charlie O’Gorman 23 24 25 DECC Last Day of School 6 pm Pre-Oneg 11 am Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Lizzy Mills Bar Mitzvah of Spencer Goldberg 7:30 pm Boy Scouts 12 13 14 15 Mother’s Day 7 pm Board of Trustees 12 pm Lunch and Learn: Torah Study Shavuot 7:30 pm Boy Scout Committee Meeting 16 Temple Offices Closed Erev Shavuot 19 20 21 6:30 pm DECC Pre-K Graduation 12 pm Lunch and Learn: Torah Study 22 6:30 pm Shabbat Service with HaShemesh Adult Bat Mitzvah of Mary Ellen Freund 6:30 pm Exploring Life’s Journey 7 pm Introduction to Judaism II 7:30 pm Boy Scouts 26 27 28 29 30 31 Memorial Day Temple Offices Closed DECC Dynamite Days DECC Dynamite Days DECC Dynamite Days DECC Dynamite Days 12 pm Lunch and Learn: Torah Study 7 pm Intro to Judaism II 6 pm Shabbat Service with Rick Recht 7:30 pm Boy Scouts For the most up-to-date news on TI programs and events, subscribe to our weekly e-newsletter, connecTIons. E-mail [email protected] or visit www.ti-stl.org. www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 17 page Religious school celebrates israel’s 65th birthday 18 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE worth Noting Do We Have Your Most Current Contact Information? Did you know that you can update your address and phone numbers, and even pay your dues and other fees Temple Israel Wish List In each issue of the Dateline, we highlight a variety of needs at Temple Israel where your generosity can make an immediate impact. online through the secure, members only section of our Temple Israel website? $1,000Temple gifts to B’nai Mitzvah students for one year Visit our website, www.ti-stl.org and click on the black, TI Member Login link at the top of the home page. $750 One month of Friday Shabbat music This will take you to the TI Member Login page. Click on $600One month’s Tot Shabbat program $500Confirmation year scholarship the click here to submit your e-mail address link in the middle of the page. Enter your name, e-mail address, for one student and phone number and click submit. You will receive an e-mail containing a temporary password for you to use in setting up your personal account. If you have any questions or would like us to walk you $200 Sponsor a Shabbat Pre-Oneg $200Chaperone for out-of-town youth group event through the process, please contact Eli Montague at [email protected] or 314-432-8050. To fulfill a wish list item, mail a check payable to Temple Israel to: Intro to Judaism II Class Offered Introduction to Judaism II, a class for interfaith couples, Temple Israel Wish List P.O. Box 790379 St. Louis, MO 63179 Donate online by credit card at www.ti-stl.org/wishlist. those considering conversion to Judaism, and anyone Please specify the item you are funding. Contributions wanting to learn more about Reform Judaism, will will be recognized in future issues of the Dateline, so meet for six weeks on Tuesdays, May 21-June 25, from please let us know if you prefer to donate anonymously. 7:00-9:00 p.m. at Temple Israel. This class is designed for those who have already completed the initial Introduction to Judaism course and will be taught by Rabbi Elizabeth Hersh. For more information, contact Steve Sorkin, [email protected]. www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 19 page For more information, contact Carol Wolf Solomon, Director of Development and Communications, [email protected] or 314-432-8050. We gratefully acknowledge these tributes received as of April 18. bernadine S. silverman senior citizens fund In memory of Albert Greenblatt Scott Biller and Family Andrea and Benjamin Filla Mauri and David Fronczak The Herbert Family Eva and Godofredo Herzog Susan and Stanley Goodman Robyn and Timothy Hunter Renee and Jack Rosen Judith and Jerome Rubenstein Audrey Shanfeld Sunny and Jarrett Silverman broadcast fund In memory of Irving Harris Gale and Harry Hilburg and Family In memory of Joan Rosenblum Gale and Harry Hilburg and Family frieda & lester handelman early childhood art fund In honor of Frieda Handelman’s Special Birthday Barbara and David Boxer Marilyn and Jay Cohn Judy and Rick Glassman Judy Grand Temple israel general fund In memory of Harry Offenbach Cathy and Marcos Rothstein In memory of Joan Rosenblum Sandler Family In honor of a speedy recovery of Evie Bernstein Hildegard Rochman In honor of the birth of my great-grandson, Mason James Weglarz Nanette Holtzman In honor of Robert Burg’s 90th birthday Helen Hyatt building fund Reva and Harry Shank In memory of Norman Rubenstein In appreciation of Temple Israel Hosting Shabbat St. Louis Ron Cytron Jody and David Chassin deutsch early childhood center fund In memory of Dr. Ira Gall Ellen and Jack Deutsch In memory of Pearl Schindler Sheryl Kask In appreciation of Temple Israel Christine Schulze and Jeremy Hodess john & anna lee brown scholarship fund In memory of Irving J. Harris The Temple Israel Education Center Sharon and Jack Yasafat In memory of Joan Rosenblum kirk nackman garden fund Andrew, Angela, Joie and Grant Sandler In memory of Dr. Ira Gall Linda and Phil Horwitz In memory of Norman Rubenstein Ellen and Jack Deutsch edith and kurt j. lindner endowed building fund In memory of David Caplan’s sister Diana and Jim Rothbarth endowment fund Les Nackman In memory of Lillian Greenspon Lori and Don Brockhaus In memory of Jules Hartstein Les Nackman In honor of Robert Burg’s Special Birthday Linda and Phil Horwitz In honor of Robert Burg’s special birthday Lois Sloofman 20 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE lynne & arnie cole urj camp scholarship fund In memory of Harry Offenbach Lynne Cole mildred b. simon scholar-in-residence fund In memory of Martin Rosen Milton and Marjorie Karp In memory of Jack Schuman Sanford Weissman nathan kahn - ernestine kahn charles kahn foundation In appreciation of Rabbi Feder Thelma Davidson may TRIBUTES rabbi rubin endowed rabbinical chair In memory of Ira Gall Marcee and Merle Silverstein In memory of Norman Rubenstein Marcee and Merle Silverstein Rabbi Shook Life-long Learning Fund In honor of our wedding anniversary Priscella and David Schnur yahrzeit fund In memory of Eli Cohen , Stanley Rosenblum and Charles Rubenstein In memory of Marjorie Rosenbloom Berg Janice Berg and Phil, Jeremy and Josh Levinson In memory of William Bloom Jeanne Bloom In memory of Edwin Solomon Brownstein Byron Brownstein In memory of Dr. Norman Chassin Jody and David Chassin In memory of Ann Cohen Stanley Cohen In memory of Rose Fred Marvin Gelber In memory of Leslie Grodsky JoAnn K. Grodsky In memory of Carolyn Rae Kalterman Annette and Richard Bailin In memory of Letty Korn Jeffrey Korn In memory of Emil Lasker Carol and Tom Lasker In memory of Joseph Montefiore Montague Beverly Faber Eli Montague In memory of Dr. Ira C. Gall Phyllis and Stanley Cohen In memory of Laura Wolfeil Montague Eli Montague In memory of Elise Schield Myer Jesse S. Myer III In memory of Rachel Davidson, Bobby Davidson and Suly Davidson Thelma Davidson offenbach fund for interfaith education In memory of Harry Offenbach Adell and Erwin Alpern Darien and Steve Arnstein Dolly Arnstein Jody and David Chassin Judy and Rick Glassman rabbis’ discretionary fund In memory of Dr. Ira Gall Essie and Earl Kessler In appreciation of Rabbi Amy Feder Linda Kline rabbi mark and carol shook camp upkeep fund Stacy Cohen Angie Cohen Scariano In memory of Jules Hartstein Sandy and Frank Wasserman www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 21 page (Tributes continued on Page 22) Shabbat Sponsors Tributes (continued from Page 21) In memory of Robert Rothbarth Diana and Jim Rothbarth In memory of Hilda Schiffer Harriette and Lloyd Arkin In memory of Mildred Schnurman Melvin Schnurman In memory of Dorothy Schum Gail Schum Appelbaum In memory of Bob Schultz Debbie Schultz In memory of Clifford Shanfeld and Lori Shanfeld Audrey Shanfeld In memory of Marion Solomon Nancy and Edward Solomon In memory of Carl Spector Stevie and Brian Spector In memory of Sam Tucker Jane and Mark Tucker bIMAH FOOD BASKETS April 6: Sponsored by Meryl DeWoskin and Suzanne and Ted Hoffman In honor of Matthew Gelfman becoming a Bar Mitzvah April 13: Sponsored by Eric and Sari Hausler In honor of Benjamin Hausler becoming a Bar Mitzvah shirley post Bimah flower fund April 5: Sponsored by Lynne Cole and Children In memory of Arnie Cole May 18: Sponsored by Sheri, Sean and Harry O’Gorman In honor of Charlie O’Gorman becoming a Bar Mitzvah pre-oneg shabbat April 19: Sponsored by Sina and Dave Beil and Ellen and Jack Deutsch In honor of Marcus Deutsch becoming a Bar Mitzvah In memory of Audrey Weissman Sanford Weissman oneg shabbat May 24: Sponsored by Mary Ellen, Robert, Beth and David Freund In honor of Mary Ellen Freund becoming a Bat Mitzvah SAVE THE DATE! Sunday, August 18 High Holy Day Boot Camp We’ll take the mystery out of the Days of Awe with an afternoon of interactive learning and activities for children and adults alike. TEMPLE ISRAEL IS ONLINE Like us on Facebook at templeisraelstlouis Visit us at www.ti-stl.org Details to follow. 22 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE worth Noting in our temple family Mazal tov to Jennifer and Doug Patchin and Mazal tov to Sandy “Bozo” Silverstein, who will Sandy and Craig Schultz on the birth of their be honored on May 20 at the St. Louis Jewish son and grandson, Andrew James Patchin, born Light’s Fourth Annual Unsung Heroes event for on March 20, 2013. his work with Boy Scout Troop 11. Todah rabah to Diane Packman for organizing Mazal tov to Vida “Sister” Goldman Prince, the Kiddush for the community Shabbat St. who will be honored on May 2 as one of the Louis service hosted at Temple Israel, and to 2013 Women of Achievement in the area of the following congregants who donated sweets “Multicultural Leadership.” and fruit: Evie Bernstein, Sheryl Breadman, Jennifer Culp, Pamela Dern, Susie Epstein, Robin Feder, Amy Fenster Brown, Susie Fliesher, JoAnne Levy, Lynne Lippmann, Marti Maurer, Joy Melman, and Diane Packman. Yasher koach (great job) to musicians Emma Rehfeld and Ethan Shuchart, and to JoAnne Levy, Dee Mogerman, Bob Schnurman and Debbie Schultz, on their participation in leading the community Shabbat St. Louis service. Todah rabah to Nancy Solomon and Louise Levine for assisting with the food drive for the Shabbat St. Louis service. Todah rabah to Ben and Margo Manheim and Howard Masin who helped with recent congregational mailings. www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 23 page Mazal tov to Claudia Montague, who was selected to be a part of The Muny Teens performing troupe. Claudia has also been cast in three Muny productions this summer – Monty Python’s Spamalot, Shrek the Musical, and Mary Poppins. Mazal tov to Esther and Ted Berger and Emily Becker on the birth of their great-granddaughter and granddaughter, Hadley Renee Becker, born to children David Becker and Cali Bosse. Condolences We extend our deepest sympathy to the families of What’s New At New Mt. Sinai? Lillian Brasch The dates are set for two complimentary guided bus Ruth Epstein tours of New Mt. Sinai Cemetery for members of the Dr. Ira C. Gall cemetery’s owner congregations – Temple Israel, Albert Greenblatt Shaare Emeth, and B’nai El. Tours will be offered on Marvin Grossman Sunday, June 9, and Sunday, July 7. Bus transportation Irving J. Harris will be provided from Temple Israel. The pick-up at each Dr. Ervin Lipschitz Martin “Mickey” Rosen Joan W. Rosenblum Barbara Savitt Robert Silverman Jerome Zellinger Temple will begin at 12:30 p.m., and the tour will begin around 1:45 p.m. This year’s tours will highlight the locations of the graves of the many rabbis who have been buried at the cemetery over the years. The tour should last around 45 minutes and there will be opportunities to get off the bus a couple of times. Buses will then return participants to their respective congregations between 3:00 – 3:45 p.m. Listen to Services Live! Guests are welcome, but bus seating is limited and advance reservations are required by contacting the cemetery, 314-353-2540. Live audio broadcasts of all Shabbat and holiday worship services at Temple Israel make Dan Brodsky Executive Director our worship accessible to those who are ill or homebound and to family members and friends who are unable to attend a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. To listen by phone: Dial 1-800-846-4808, enter account code 8053. To listen online: Shop for a Cause! Buy Scrip from TEMPLE ISrAel Visit www.ti-stl.org, click on the “Listen to Do you shop at Dierbergs, Whole Foods, Schnucks and Worship Services Live” link. St. Louis Bread Company? Order and purchase scrip We are grateful to the generous donors to online at www.ti-stl.org. You can also purchase gift cards our Broadcast Fund who make this broadcast or receive a Schnucks e-scrip card by contacting possible. Diane Packman, 314-432-8050, ext. 233. 24 page / May 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE we REMEMBER April 28- May 4 Sylvia Altman Sarah Shapiro Balk Mendel Bender Hertha S. Bernard Dr. Raymond M. Charnas Rachel Fried Davidson Phyllis R. Dubinsky Shirley H. Esrock Elaine C. Fischman Etta Frager Julius Frank Leo Frank Julius L. Freund Mollie S. Gelb Morris (Mosh) Glaser Rosalie Kleinhauser Glaser Goldie Goldstein Nat J. Green Dr. David W. Helman Jerry Kaiser George H. Kaufman Martin Kodner Edgar Lloyd Levin Lois H. Martin Betty Ellman Packman Albert Rothschild Morris P. Sarner Dr. Seymour Schlansky Maxine Ruth Schucart Elizabeth Silverstein Eli Stein Charles David Weaver Birdie Kaminer Wegusen Morris L. Whyman Herman Willer Gussie Edlin Arthur D. Epstein Robert Esrock Carrie Fuller Samuel Greenberg Louis Guckenheim Carl Handshear Alberta Schield Kalish Edith Kalterman Esther Fox Kantor Betty Keyser Robert J. Kleinman Esther M. Kling Dora Laufer Blanche W. Leuchter Emma Levy Irene Strauss Littmann Clara K. London Ralph Lowenbaum Gus Nemser Herbert Perlmutter Liesel Rein Gerald A. Rimmel Henrietta Appt Rogers Dorothy Passer Rosecan Dr. Jeffrey Rosecan Harry Rosenblum Merle Silverman Roufa Bessie Saifer Michel Bernard Samuels Dr. Harry Sandperl Robert F. Sax Abe Schneider Betty Schneider Hugo Schorsch Jane Clare Senturia Joseph E. Silverman Hannah C. Stein Alvin Morris Swier Bessie Tepper Paul Treumann Jack Tzinberg Michael Victor Morris Wilson George Woolf Jr Corinne S. Bloch Leo Brown Mollie Rimel Cohn Irving Edison Frieda Baer Fuller Max Garber Stella Tuholsky Glaser Bessie Weil Glauber Anne S. Goldberg Ben L. Goldberg Lillian Goldman Morris Golstein Zeus Sidney Goodman Rena G. Grosberg Ronni Handelman Phillip Kalish Rudy Kohn Edgar Littmann Morton J. May Rosalie Frank Neuburger Samuel Nieberg Helen T. Offenbach Sophie S. Poulson Jon Lockmyer Prel Judy L. Smith Jack W. Soffer William A. Stolar Philip Unterberger C. Sidney Weaver David Weil Joe Weil Rebecca Winner Elise Altschul Wolff Benjamin Finer Adolph Frank Donald Philip Gallop Martha Sacks Gelber Mollie Grodsky Morris Isserman Annette Lillian Kamil Albert Kaufmann Charles Kessell Robert James Kligman Max Levi Elinor Shmookler Lewin Estelle London Mandelstamm Steven Z. Marglous Leon Neuman Clara Lee Pearline Mildred Platt George Potlitzer Jennie M. Poulson Dr. Jacob G. Probstein Esther S. Radloff Isadore Riezman Stanley M. Rosenblum Celia Fremder Rostenberg Fannie E. Rothgiesser Nellie Newmark Sachs 1st Lt. Roslyn Littmann Schulte Samuel M. Shuchart Faye M. Tuholske Hattie Sommers Waldheim Bertha Lipton Weil Joseph Wolfort Lois Grand Leon Guttman Saul Halpern Samuel Hamburg Pearl Heit Louis A. Horwitz Sol Morton Isaac Benjamin Jaffe Carl Kahn Charles Kahn Ruth Ferer Kopman Lorraine Claire Lander Belle Grosby Levin Mollie Rosenkranz Levin Bella Lipkin August Lipson Sophie Lissner Rebecca K. Losos Walter B. Mainzer Carola Margraf Mildred Epstein Nemser George Pitler Alyne Polsky Isaac Rosenblatt Harry Irving Samuels Diana Freda Schreiber Sylvia Schwartz Joseph Shapiro Abe I. Small Anna Veil Muriel E. Zweig May 5-11 Jean Appel Bess Barney Kate Berkowitz Jacob Bernhardt Lorgia Marge Bernstein Simon Bienenstock Mary Bosse Fannie Cohen Melba Samuels Cohen Marlene Katz Cristal Isidore Suly Davidson Albert J. Edlin May 12-18 Rose Steinham Abrahamson Alvin W. Abramson June W. Agress Henry Appt Harry J. Arnheim Alvin L. Bauman Sophie Bendit Jacob G. Bernstein May 19-25 Rose Barken Joseph A. Bernard Julius Cohn Harold Robert Davidson Sybil Margaret Day Marvin Deutsch Morris Josef Drucker Marian A. Feder May 26-June 1 Katherine Silverman Pauline Kattler Cohen Marjorie Feldman Corn Jack R. Cutter Scott Allen Dankner Stanley V. Friedheim Simon Gelber Dr. Max J. Goldenson Names listed have been placed in Perpetual Memorial. For information as to how you may place a loved one’s name in Perpetual Memorial, please contact Sydney Masin at [email protected] or 314-432-8050. www.ti-stl.org / May 2013 / 25 page GIVE-A-MEAL-A-MONTH For the month of May, the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry is looking for these specific items in order to assist the community in need: Canned Pastas, Canned Tuna Fish, Peanut Butter and Jelly, Canned Vegetables (especially peas, corn, carrots and green beans) Canned Spaghetti Sauce, Kosher Food, Hand Soap, Shampoo and Deodorant Items should be brought to our collection site by the May Chapel. For further information, please contact Louise Levine, 636-227-1259. TEMPLE ISRAEL DATELINE TEMPLE ISRAEL DATELINE May 2013 Iyar / Sivan 5773 Volume XXXII / Number 8 www.ti-stl.org #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive Creve Coeur, MO 63141-7670 PERIODICALS POSTAGE PAID AT ST. LOUIS MISSOURI staff Amy Feder, Rabbi Michael Alper, Rabbi Mark L. Shook, Rabbi Emeritus Eli K. Montague, F.T.A., Executive Director Leslie Wolf, Director, Deutsch Early Childhood Center Marisa Reby, Religious School Director Carol Wolf Solomon, Director of Development and Communications Amanda Radman, Membership and Development Coordinator OFFICERS JoAnne Levy, President Dee Mogerman, Vice President, President Elect David Chassin, Vice President, Facilities Carol Cohen, Vice President, Membership Harvey Harris, Vice President, Community Relations Michael Weiss, Vice President, Strategy Neil Marglous, Secretary, Tikkun Olam/Social Action Pamela Dern, Assistant Secretary, Tikkun Olam/Social Action Cathy Goldsticker, Treasurer Diana Rothbarth, Assistant Treasurer Summer Tot Shabbat & Family BBQ Friday, June 7 6:00 p.m. Tot Shabbat (for families with children in Kindergarten and younger) Celebrate summer with an outdoor Tot Shabbat and BBQ Dinner followed by Shabbat Worship in the May Chapel. 6:30 p.m. FREE BBQ Dinner for All Ages (hotdogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers and more!) 7:30 p.m. Shabbat Worship (for all ages in the May Chapel) There is no charge to attend but reservations for dinner are needed by Tuesday, June 4, to Amanda Radman at [email protected] or 314-432-8050. OFFICE HOURS CONTACT US Monday - Tuesday, 9:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. Wednesday - Thursday, 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Friday, 9:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. Phone: 314-432-8050 Fax: 314-432-8053 www.ti-stl.org NOTE: Temple Israel Dateline (USPS: 128-700) is published monthly except bi-monthly June-July by Congregation Temple Israel. Periodicals postage paid at St. Louis, MO. Postmaster: Send address changes to: Temple Israel Dateline, #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive, St. Louis, MO 63141-7670