Thank you! - Schlegel Villages
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Thank you! - Schlegel Villages
Our Mission is to provide holistic health care in a home environment located within an internal neighbourhood design that promotes a caring community, with emphasis on optimal health and life purpose for each resident. December 2015 Follow The Arbour Trail... In This Issue: Page 2 A message from Anneliese Krueger Page 3 Greetings from Mike Dickin For a full listing of vendors, visit page _____ Pages 5 - 7 It’s My Life Page 8, 9 Getting To Know You Page 12 PAL Programs Page 13 Caregiving and the Holidays Pages 14 - 17 Recreation, Outings & Special Events Pages 18, 19 Holiday Socials and Dinners Pages 21, 22 Research Institute of Aging - RIA Page 24 - 26 Market Vendors and Donors @ArbourTrails www.facebook.com/ArbourTrails It is with much appreciation that we thank all the volunteers, including those pictured above who who supported our Christmas Market on Saturday, November 28. Their gift of time, energy and spirit was key to the success of the day and we thank you; you are real treasures! Interested in volunteering? Contact [email protected] The Christmas Market welcomed 45 vendors with a varied selection of handcrafted and selected products. For more information, please visit: www.guelphchristmasmarket.com Thank you! ‘Christmas is not as much about opening our presents as opening our hearts.’ ~ Janice Maeditere ‘Home is where you treat your friends like family and your family like friends.’ 32 Bayberry Drive, Guelph, Ontario N1G 0C9 P: (226) 251-3065 W: www.schlegelvillages.com/guelph2 A Message From ... Schlegel Villages Values Caring People Passion Hands—On Innovation Positive, Can—Do Attitude Hard Work December always seems an appropriate month for reflection on the year behind us and anticipation of the year ahead of us. This year I had the opportunity to get to know the Arbour Trails community. The last several months have been a wonderful journey in my interim capacity. The Village is full of passionate residents and team members alike! With the hard work of the team and the patience of the residents, we have made many improvements to services within the Village, from going to two seating times and a new menu, to streamlining care services. Closely tied together with these improvements are an overall quality improvement system. At Schlegel Villages, we call this our Evergreen Framework. It involves reviewing data (Quality of Life survey data, team member survey data, monthly quality improvement audits, suggestion forms, etc.), making decisions on Village priorities, planning together with the Neighbourhood teams and conducting root cause analyses, and sharing with residents, team members, and other Village stakeholders. As we move forward with the Evergreen Framework in 2016, we will continue to see great improvements! In the summer we shared our Operational and Strategic Plans at a Resident Council Aspirational Statements meeting. I am pleased to share that we are on track with our goals. Most items on the Promote cross-functional teams 2015 plan are already complete, with a few fourth quarter items left to be wrapped up. Commitment to these goals has helped us to build even stronger foundations. ToCreate opportunities for gether with team members and the Resident Council, we have developed an ambimeaningful and shared activi- tious Operational Plan for 2016 and look forward to getting started in January. ties Connect research and innovation At Schlegel Villages we pride ourselves on growing and developing team members internally. We are so pleased that Pauline Donovan has accepted the position of to Village life Assistant General Manager – Retirement at The Village of Winston Park, our sister Offer flexible living Village in Kitchener. Pauline will be starting her orientation at Winston Park on Foster Authentic Relationships December 7th, and will be an integral part in the orientation of a new Wellness Co-ordinator for Arbour Trails. Honour diversity in Village life This month Mike Dicken, General Manager, will join the team permanently and I will Promote resident empowerment transition back to The Village of Erin Meadows. Please see his introduction in this Newsletter. Shortly into the New Year I will embark on a different journey as my family welcomes another baby boy. My son, Aaron, is thrilled that he will soon be a big brother. I will be sure to send photos along as soon as possible. It has been such a pleasure to be a part of Arbour Trails for the last several months and I thank you all for the kindness you have shown me! Anneliese ‘A house is made of walls and beams, a home is made of love and dreams.’ ~ William Arthur Ward WELCOME TO ARBOUR TRAILS! Programs For Please join us as we welcome Mike Dickin to the Arbour Trails family: Active Living I am a proud father of three wonderful kids; Samantha is 5, Benjamin is 3 and Ella is 18 months. I was born and raised in Kitchener and attended University of Waterloo for my undergraduate degree in Kinesiology and Psychology. I later attended Wilfrid Laurier University, where I received a Master’s degree in Business Administration. Prior to joining The Village of Arbour Trails as General Manager, I was the Assistant General Manager at Winston Park for 7 months. Prior to that, I was the Administrator of a 300-bed long-term care home owned by the Region of Durham in Oshawa for two years before moving back to the Kitchener-Waterloo area to be closer to my family. Prior to working with the Region of Durham, I was Director of Operations for a mid-sized retirement and long-term care chain. Mike Dickin General Manager I am overjoyed to be joining the team at the Village of Arbour Trails and look forward to meeting everyone. Thanks for taking the time to reading my bio. - Mike Dickin A Friendly Reminder To all families and friends bringing in new articles of clothing for loved ones that we provide laundry services for: Please make sure to bring all unlabelled clothes to the Neighbourhood hub, the front porch of your loved ones neighbourhood, so the team can bag and tag them for laundry services to label. Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 3 Programs For Active Living The Village of Arbour Trails Aspirations: Create opportunities for meaningful and shared activities Foster Authentic Relationships Promote Resident Empowerment ‘Conversation Café’ On November 18, we welcomed Culture Change Ambassadors from Riverside Glen to engage our Village in a series of questions related to our Aspirations. Those questions included: What are you grateful for at the Village and Why? In thinking about our Aspirations, what makes you thankful about how these Aspirations are being lived out in your Village? Or perhaps, thankful about how this will improve the Quality of Life for those who live & work here? If we could focus on one thing in the coming year, what would make you feel more grateful if it was done differently? If you were unable to take part in this opportunity, please be welcomed to pick up a copy of the individual response form at the Village Office and take some time to reflect on the questions, share your thoughts to and return the form to the office in an envelope in confidence. We look forward ‘working together to put living first’ with you in 2016. It’s My Life “Meal times at Arbour are a particularly favourite time of day,” laughs Colin Bain. He, and his wife Vi, moved into Arbour five short months ago, and now comfortably call it home. Favourite past times include the afternoon documentaries and movies. And Vi, who enjoys a daily morning walk, has found several enjoyable paths on which to stroll. Colin was born in London, England in June 1945 just after Victory in Europe Day (“VE Day”). His parents, expatriate Scots, lived in London during the war. Luckily they were never bombed out, but they chose to keep their family small until the prospect of war ended. Colin smiles as he shares the Bain family lore. “Born in July 1939, my older brother Don was said to have started the war, and I arrived to end it.” Although his parents spent their adult lives in London, the family did return for a three-year hiatus to the Scottish Highlands to care for Colin’s aging paternal grandparents. Upon their death, the Bain family returned to London where they lived until Colin was 12. In 1963, they moved to rural Buckinghamshire, Chalfont St. Giles. “My father was a merchant seaman,” explains Colin. “He did this for about 11 years until the depression hit in the 1930s and the demand for trade collapsed and demands for shipping decreased.” Unable to find work, he came ashore and started his own London business repairing motor tires for cars and trucks. Colin believes he went into it because it didn’t require much upfront capital, just a few sturdy tools. “It was hard, dirty work,” adds Colin, “and father insisted that his two sons have nothing to do with the business; he simply didn’t want us doing that kind of work.” He sold the business after 30 years. Programs For Active Living Colin and Vi Bain a life of hard work,” says Colin. “The combination of education and a strong work ethic can’t be beaten.” Don became a geologist. He worked for an oil company in Calgary before transferring to a bank as a corporate loans officer. When an oil company wants to borrow $400 million from a bank, the bank has to ensure the application is genuine and the applicant hasn’t rigged the figures. Don’s role was to review and approve applications for corporate companies – mostly oil – worldwide. He and his wife Carol, a pharmacist, travelled extensively in those years. Colin immigrated to Canada in 1963 to study History and Social Sciences at McMaster University in Hamilton. Don and his wife were living there at the time, although they moved to Alberta shortly after Colin’s arrival. Colin lived in residence, which was a great experience. “To be away from home and have some independence helps you grow up quickly,” says Colin. “Father thought that there was more fortune in property than anywhere else,” continues Colin. “He was actually quite the entrepreneur. He brought property in Chalfont St. Giles, built bungalows, and rented them out.” He was an uneducated man who worked hard, and encouraged his sons to pursue an education. After attaining his undergrad degree in History and Social Sciences at McMaster, Colin headed to the University of Guelph in 1967. Guelph was just opening its School of Scottish Studies where Colin ultimately earned his MA and PhD. “My research dealt with Scotland’s nineteenthcentury industrial revolution.” This is possibly the most important value that his father instilled in his sons. “My parents had no education; it was Continued on next page ….. Arbour Trails Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 5 It’s My Life Vi and Colin, who met at a dance at MacMaster, married in June 1969. It was a beautiful June day in Vi’s hometown of Sudbury, and Colin’s parents travelled from Scotland to attend. Programs For Active Living “It was great fun,” recalls Colin. “I had the opportunity to travel and meet teachers across the province. Once I discovered exactly what they wanted, my goal was to produce material that met their needs.” It was a rewarding and enriching experience. “There was a real While Colin concentrated on his studies, Vi worked pressure to be on time and meet deadlines and be on in the University of Guelph Library’s Research task to produce what you said you were going to Department. “This was long before computers so all produce,” recalls Colin. “That pressure was something searches were done manually,” marvels Colin. But the that I thrived on.” research material Colin required access to was housed in Scotland, so the Bains packed up and moved just As teachers, the Bains were fortunate to be able to take north of Edinburgh, Scotland in 1971. When they advantage of deferred leave programs that allowed returned in the summer of 1972, Colin’s research was them to enjoy their passion for travelling. They took complete. But what Colin discovered during that year two extended leaves from work. In 1987 Vi took a year was that he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life off, and Colin six months; they bought around-thedoing academic research. He enjoyed his teaching world tickets and set off in an easterly direction assistant role but found the academic research dull. travelling to Asia, Australia, New Zealand, and Fiji. As a result, he applied to Althouse Teachers’ College Australia had held a particular fascination for Colin. in London, Ontario (1972-73) where he earned his “You have to remember England and Australia were teaching certificate. great sports rivals,” he explains. “And so Australia played a higher part in my consciousness than Canada “1973 was really a momentous year when I think did because there weren’t the same rivalries here. about it,” muses Colin. In August he defended his Thailand was very interesting historically as well.” thesis, and was granted his degree. Vi decided that she too would like to attend teacher’s college. And Colin On their second leave in 1995-96, they toured the was looking for a job. But it all came together for the States, returned to England, and spent a couple of couple. Colin secured a teaching position at Neilson months in Australia and New Zealand. On returning High School in Burlington, and Vi was admitted to home, Colin had made a decision: “the next time I Hamilton Teacher’s College in the Fall. And when she took time off work it was going to be forever.” graduated she found a job with the Halton School Board in Oakville. Travelling raises the question of souvenirs. Not many can say they returned home with an MG sports car! Although they were never in the same school at the But that’s exactly what the Bains did, and it’s still in same time, they both worked within various schools their possession. They used it as they sole transport for under the Halton Board until Colin’s early retirement about nine years, until it wore out. “Those cars are in 2000. Colin concluded his teaching career with a quite persnickety,” says Colin, “but over a long period nine-year position at Acton High School. of time, I restored it. In fact, we had it on the Ontario Coincidentally, Vi retired the following year at roads this summer.” Neilson High School in Burlington, where Colin had started his career. For 30 years, Colin authored and co-authored over a dozen textbooks for use in the Ontario curriculum. The Social Science books (History, Sociology, Economics) are still used in today’s classrooms. Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Continued on next page ….. Page 6 The couple purchased a cottage on Manitoulin Island in 1999 as a retirement project because it was too far for weekend jaunts. Colin recalls “fifteen enjoyable summers there; largely an untouched region, it’s very much like stepping back to the 1950s. We look back on our time there with great affection.” Vi grew up in Sudbury, and her fondest memories were of family summer camping adventures on Manitoulin Island. It was also the perfect place to enjoy other passions: running, bicycle rides, and cross-country skiing. Programs For Active Living they had to decide whether to move or make the house larger. “We made the house larger,” chuckles Colin. It was a lovely country life. “We could step out the back and, depending on the season, hop on our bikes or cross-country skis. We certainly had lots of exercise and Vi, who loved to garden, had beautiful gardens to tend.” “In many ways, Vi and I have had easier lives than many whose childhoods were impacted by the wars,” notes Colin. “When you look around Arbour Trails, there are war brides and veterans who served in the forces. They’ve had hard lives. I feel I was very fortunate to be born when I was.” While Colin doesn’t read as many novels as he once did, reading remains high on his list. He’s currently reading Steve Jobs’ biography, and highly recommends Willie Nelson’s recent biography. Colin also grew up in at a time when the economy was expanding and work was relatively easy to find. As he “I’m a self-confessed news junkie,” smiles Colin. “I like explains, when he and Vi were at university, they knew to listen to news on different channels. I used to listen there’d be some type of work when they needed it. He to Radio Moscow on the shortwave; listening on the notes that, “it’s so very different for graduates today shortwave was so unpredictable with signals fading in with thousands of dollars of debt and an uncertain and out. But now I can listen to news from around the economy.” world on the Internet — the sound quality is so crisp!” He also considers himself lucky to have had the Asked what he considers the biggest advancements opportunity to come to Canada during the early 60s — he’s seen in his lifetime, Colin quickly lists the Inter- an era of expansion. “Not to mention the job I had,” net, development of jet engines, and the ability to feed he adds, “that allowed me to take time off to go idly and house virtually the nation’s entire population. “I traipsing around the world.” feel very lucky to not have had the Internet,” confesses Colin. “To know what it was like before its existence, “And the decision in coming here in 1963 is right up and to now have it at my fingertips is an amazing there in importance in choosing the right wife,” he thing. I don’t know how I could live without it now – continues. “It’s very important to be able to look back it’s a valuable communications tool.” and say I got most of my life decisions right. There are always small things that we might do differently, but as When Colin came to Canada in 1963, summer job long as you get the major decisions right, then you’re rates were about $1.75/hour. A phone call to the UK OK. And I feel that I — and Vi — were very fortunate during reduced hours cost $1.50/minute — almost an to get most of our decisions right.” hour’s work to talk for one minute! “Now, it’s virtually free,” marvels Colin. “I think I spoke to my parents twice on the phone in the entire four years I was at Interested in sharing highlights of your story? Mac. Now you can send pictures, videos, news back and forth six times a day!” Contact Kim Cusimano Director of Recreation and Volunteer Services Last summer, the Bains left their home of 42 years in [email protected] Morriston as they prepared to move into Arbour Extension 807 Trails. When they bought their home in 1973, their plan was to stay three years, build a nest egg and buy a home in Burlington. But the Morriston community stole their hearts, and they stayed to the point where Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 7 Programs For Getting To Know You... Active Living Hello, my name is Russ Kelly and I have been working in maintenance at Arbour Trails since April 2014. Three words I would use to describe Arbour Trails are: Family, friends, home. These words all create an atmosphere where a person looks forward to coming to work and gives 100% of their energy. It is a very safe environment where caring and compassion for our residents and each other is easily seen on a daily basis. I was led to this profession after many years of factory work and it was time for a big change. I did not want to spend the rest of my life running a machine. I knew there was much more that I could offer and although factory work did provide good wages, it did not fulfill my need for happiness and the satisfaction of making a difference in people’s lives. I needed to move forward and not allow myself to be stuck in a rut for the rest of my life. My time working in Maintenance goes back 11 years. These many years working in retirement residences owned by other companies had shown me there was great need for improvement in several ways that residents are cared for and treated. I very strongly wanted to see change and was disappointed not to see the change that was needed. So, I carried on and always did my best to treat residents like my own mom and dad. That is how they should be treated. My eyes were always open to new opportunities that offered this better way of working in an environment that offered such a sensible way to care for seniors. Life has a way of making available such an opportunity which puts happiness and meaning into your life. I heard of a new innovative retirement residence opening up in Guelph, and I was excited about where this information could eventually lead me. What I heard was everything I ever wanted in a work environment. This consisted of a new building with up-to-date systems, equipment and appliances. These are very important from a maintenance point of view. Arbour Trails is where I had my sights focused and I aimed to be part of a better way of running a business… it isn’t all about the money! ArbourTrails, Trails,Volume Volume3,3,Issue Issue1112 Arbour Russ Kelly It is about doing things differently and better while always looking for innovative ways to treat people like people. Not just another number on the books. There are a number of things that have surprised me about working at Arbour Trails. These very important things are not often present in a lot of working environments these days. Many things come to mind like: being treated as a person and not just another number on the payroll, being appreciated for my hard work and recognized for my contributions, the opportunity to grow as a person, receive training needed to succeed in the work I do, and learn a great deal more than from any previous employer. Open communication and being listened to is missing in many work situations, but Schlegel Villages has made this a very important aspect of the way they do business. This is important and is needed to succeed! The most rewarding part of my job is being part of a family of people with big hearts filled with compassion and caring for others. Team members, residents and their families are all like one big family. After all… we are all in this together! Continued on next page ….. Page9 8 Page While still single, my work took me to Australia for 10 months. While there I enjoyed parachuting from 10,000 feet, hot air ballooning, and scuba diving on The Great Barrier Reef. I really enjoy travelling and have been to Western and Eastern Canada, Florida, Mexico, and plan a trip to Italy and The Netherlands next year. Outside of my maintenance work at Arbour Trails I enjoy continuing an interest in being a strong advocate for restorative justice and conflict resolution. The past 13 years have been exciting while delivering well over 100 speaking engagements on the topic of restorative justice to various groups including youth, adult, and seniors. Various venues included several conferences, prisons, churches, schools, colleges, universities, and youth in conflict centres. While working in maintenance at the first retirement residence of my newly found career I became close friends with one of the residents whom very strongly encouraged me to write a book about what I was doing and what lead up to it. Not wanting to disappoint her, I followed her advice and wrote, published and had my book From Scoundrel To Scholar… The Russ Kelly Story sent to the printers. Copies of the book are currently in over 20 countries including libraries, prisons, schools, correctional service institutions, policing and is used as an educational tool while teaching law and justice. Presently, I am enjoying the excitement of a documentary created on the information in my book. It had its USA premier showing in March 2015 and had its Canadian premier showing November 19th at the Apollo Cinema in Kitchener. I like to travel and enjoy the beauties of nature. Even though I like to be around people and have a need to be social, I also like quiet time to meditate and re-energize. My spare time often finds me to be creative and building things. My first conquest was building a motorized go-cart at the young age of 12 on my own without drawings or adult supervision… and it worked pretty good! Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Programs For Active Living My favorite quote is: Life is for Living, enjoy every day! We don’t know how many tomorrows we will have, so we need to make these ones count. The characteristics I admire most in others are: Honesty, ambition, empathetic and caring attitudes. My biggest pet peeve is people that use the word “like” far too often in a conversation and most times inappropriately. The most influential person in my life: my wife Irene. She has given me purpose, reason and strength! She believed in me when I as the lowest point in my life and helped me to climb back up. The best advice I was ever given was this: “If they were true friends they would not let you destroy your life. Drinking buddies and friends are very different.” My personal philosophy is: Make the best of today, because we don’t know if we’ll be around tomorrow! A few favorite things I enjoy in life are: coffee, ice cream, road trips (new places), good restaurants, dogs (especially puppies), favorite music - Gordon Lightfoot, favorite song “Don’t Give Up” (you are loved) by Josh Groban. I am extremely organized, systematic and methodical in my approach to most things. I absolutely, positively will never, ever eat hot peppers. I am hooked on Coronation Street and Heartbeat TV shows, yet I cannot be held responsible for that as my wife got me hooked! Three things I cannot live without is my wife, hugs, and coffee. Russ was nominated by our Village community and was awarded the ‘Always Do Your Best’ in April 2015. Arbour Trails will screen the documentary ‘The Elmira Case’ in 2016 and we will have the opportunity to learn more about restorative justice. Please join Arbour Trails in congratulating Russ and sharing appreciation for his efforts at the Village. Page 9 Programs For Active Living The Village of Arbour Trails remembers our friends: Elaine Cutting Bernice MacEachen As a Village, we extend our heartfelt condolences and support to Ken Cutting, Ernest MacEachen and their families. It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas! The hustle and bustle of the season has long begun with bazaars, decorated trees, gifts, special food and lots of music! We sing about sharing “Good tidings of comfort and joy” but we also show it as we give that little bit extra to help someone in need or spread the message of joy to those around us through a smile, a conversation or a moment of laughter together! This season, we will be sharing the joy of Christmas in our Sunday chapel services as several guests share the message of Christmas through word and song. Two activities of note are a Christmas Communion Service with Rev. Canon Ralph Blackman from St. George’s Anglican Church on December 16th and a special candlelight chapel service on December 23rd. The semi-annual Celebration of Life service with take place on December 3rd, as we honour the memory of those who are no longer with us this holiday season. This is a time of comfort as we recognize that the holidays are difficult for many who have lost loved ones. Thank you to all who completed a Spiritual Care Survey. Some follow-up of the comments and suggestions will be helpful in planning and providing the best care possible within the Village. Mark your Calendars! Salvation Army Hymn Sing Connecting Chats Tuesday, December 1 10:45 am in the Hobby Shop Truth and Tell with Marguerite Tuesday, December 22 10:45 am in the Chapel Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 As we share this season together, let us remember the words of Henri Nouwen who said “Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” Many blessings to you this Christmas and in the New Year to come! Chaplain Beverleigh Broughton Ext 845 [email protected] Page 10 Wishing our Arbour Trails family a HAPPY BIRTHDAY! “Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.” - Jack Benny Wishing each and everyone the happiest of birthdays; may they be filled with much love & laughter! December 4 December 5 December 5 December 8 December 8 December 9 December 10 December 15 December 16 December 19 December 21 December 24 December 25 December 27 December 27 December 29 December 29 December 31 Bill Richardson Josephine Kelly Beverly Robinson Jim Houston Forbes Black Ken Stanton Bob Aldis Marilyn Rose Maxine Crispin Angelina Cardone Pauline Cross Margaret McKersie Grace Balnar Jack Baillie Betty Jones June Hagar Geri Winer Lola Jobst Those celebrating a birthday in the month of December are invited to a ‘Birthday Social’ at 3:15 pm on Wednesday, December 16 featuring friends, fellowship RSVP to Ext. 807 Arbour Trails Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 11 Program For Active Programs ForLiving PAL Corner! Active Living Fitness Opportunities At A Glance….. HELP SANTA REACH ARBOUR TRAILS BY CHRISTMAS! Mondays 10:00 am VON Fitness – High Intensity 11:00 am VON Fitness – Low Intensity It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Tuesdays In order to combat all of the delicious Christmas treats and dinner we will 10:00 am Better Balance be consuming this month, come take part in the Program of Active Living’s 10:45 Chair Yoga 11:00 am Fun & Fitness (2nd Fl Egerton) December NuStep challenge. 2:30 Pole Walking In order to help Jolly Ol’ St. Nick get from the North Pole to Arbour Trails in time for Christmas, we invite residents and team members to work throughout the month to complete 60,000 steps on the Nustep. Those Wednesdays residents who are able to conquer and complete the 60,000 steps by the 10am VON Fitness – High Intensity 25th will receive a prize for their dedication. 11am VON Fitness – Low Intensity 2:15 pm Hand Therapy So come on down to the fitness center to take part, and feel a little less 3:30 Sit and Strength guilty about consuming that Christmas pudding! Start Date: December 1, 2015 End Date: December 25, 2015 Thursdays 10am Better Balance 10:45 am Mat Yoga 11:00 Fun & Fitness (2nd Fl Egerton) Megan Laycock Friday Exercise Therapist 10:00 Tai Chi Extension 808 10:45 VON Fitness [email protected] Arbour Trails Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 12 Programs For Active Living Caregiving & the Holidays While the holidays can be a time of joy and happiness, they can also be a time of anxiety and stress for persons living with dementia and their families. Please find the following excerpts from the listed online resource that may provide tips for a joyous holiday season for your family. For more information, please visit: www.alz.org/co/in_my_community_Holiday_Help.asp Be calm and supportive Use short, simple and familiar words Speak to the person as an adult Address the person living with dementia by name. They may not remember they are Dad, Uncle, Aunt or Grandma Try not to use phrases like ‘remember that?’ for recent memories about general family memories Be patient and encourage the person to continue to express themselves even when it’s hard to understand or takes a long time Avoid criticizing, correcting and arguing. Be prepared to accept the reality of the person living with dementia whether that is today or 20 years ago on the farm Avoid use of negative statements and quizzing - for example: ‘You know who that is, don’t you?’ Look for opportunities to enjoy simple moments of joy; play familiar songs, view family photo albums or enjoy nature. Prepare as a family, talk with siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins and children. Help children to better understand dementia and support opportunities for meaningful experiences - bake cookies together, work on a craft together, practice an instrument. For more information, please visit: www.nia.nih.gov/alzheimers/publication/helping-kidsunderstand-alzheimers-disease As a caregiver, take care of yourself. There are a variety of online resources including below that offer ideas, tips and solutions. www.caregiver.org/taking-care-you-self-care-family-caregivers Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Holidays at the Village There are a variety of opportunities to share in the season as a family. Join into your Neighbourhood Social, stay for Dinner and enjoy! All Village Neighbourhoods: Tuesday, December 15 - 3:30 pm ‘A Jazzy Lil’ Christmas’ with signature drinks, afternoon entertainment and a Jazz inspired meal Egerton Neighbourhood: Friday, December 18 - 4:00 pm ’Wine and Cheese’ with afternoon entertainment Emma’s Neighbourhood: Sunday, December 20 - 3:00 pm ‘Cocoa and Cookies’ with afternoon entertainment In addition, there are upcoming Chefselected holiday meals throughout the season: Christmas Eve Thursday, December 24 Christmas Day Friday, December 25 Boxing Day Saturday, December 26 New Year’s Eve Thursday, December 31 See page 19 for menu details. Reservations welcome by calling 519.836.2464 Page 13 E-News? Social Media? We can email the Newsletter directly to you! Send an e-mail to: [email protected] The monthly Calendar and Newsletter can also be found online at http://schlegelvillages.com/ guelph2/village-life ‘Like’ us on Facebook! www.facebook.com/ArbourTrails Follow Arbour Trails on Twitter @ArbourTrails Coming in January … For all female residents, family members, team members and volunteers; it’s a ‘night’ in just for us! Dress in your comfortables and join us for an evening in Town Hall with refreshments, games and a ‘chick flick’! RECREATION Show & Sale A wonderful idea has come forward from a resident to host a show of resident and community art paintings, drawings, sculpture and more. Incorporated in this idea was the additional ability to sell pieces of art with the proceeds directed to a local charitable organization. Are you interested in showcasing your artwork? Watch for announcements in the New Year about this event idea. For current inquiries, please speak to: Kim Cusimano Director of Recreation and Volunteer Services Extension 807 [email protected] Arbour Trails Volume 3, Issue 12 Interested in helping to plan this evening? Contact: Kim Cusimano at extension 807 review Leisure in 2016 … What is your wish for your leisure in 2016? Always wanted to try something new or are you ready to take up a long-lost interest? Write a short story, poems or a blog Learn Chess, Cribbage, Sudoku and more Create! Art, crafts, carvings Meditation, Guided Imagery Wine Tasting, Culinary Travel Travel - Day Trippers, Get Aways and holidays Tournaments - euchre, poker, snooker Drum Circle, Resilience Circle, Reading Circle Share your ideas with the Recreation team what would meaningful leisure look like to you in 2016? Contact Kim at extension 807 Page 14 Programs For Active Living Monday Matinees 2:30 pm Monday, December 7 The Christmas Shoes A young boy tries to get a pair of Christmas shoes for his dying mother, while a lawyer tries to deal with the break-up of his marriage. 94 minutes. Cast: Rob Lowe, Kimberly Williams-Paisley, Max Morrow Monday, December 14 Miracle on 34th Street (1947) A young lawyer decides to defend an elderly man who is institutionalized for his claims of being Santa Claus. 96 minutes. Cast: Edmund Gwenn, Maureen O’Hara, John Payne Monday, December 21 It’s A Wonderful Life (1947) An angel helps a compassionate but despairingly frustrated businessman by showing what life would have been like if he never existed. 130 minutes. Cast: James Stewart, Donna Reed, Lionel Barrymore Monday, December 28 Holiday Inn (1942) At an inn which is only open on holidays, a crooner and a hoofer vie for the affections of a beautiful up-andcoming performer. 100 minutes. Cast: Bing Crosby, Fred Astaire, Marjorie Reynolds Friday Flicks & Features 4:00 pm and 6:30 pm Friday, December 4 The Family Stone (2005) When the favourite son of the Stone family comes home for Christmas with plans of proposing to his uptight girlfriend, the rambunctious family has other ideas! 103 minutes. Cast: Dermot Mulroney, Sarah Jessica Parker, Claire Danes Friday, December 11 The Polar Express (2004) A young boy embarks on a magical adventure to the North Pole on the Polar Express. This a journey of self-discovery and the beliefs of Christmas. Please note, although this movie is animated, it is fantastic! 100 minutes. Cast includes: Tom Hanks, Chris Coppola, Michael Jeter Friday, December 18 National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation (1989) The Griswold family’s large Christmas plans turn into a large Christmas disaster! With unexpected guests, and one complication after the next, Clark Griswold’s Christmas bonus keeps him going. 97 minutes. Cast: Chevy Chase, Beverly D’Angelo, Juliette Lewis Friday, December 25 White Christmas (1954) Movie Showtime - 9:30 am A successful song-and-dance team become romantically involved with a sister act and team up to save the failing Vermont inn of their former commanding general. 120 minutes Cast: Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, Rosemary Clooney A Christmas Story (1983) Movie Showtime 4:00 and 6:30 pm Ralphie tries to convince his family, teacher and of course Santa to bring him a Red Ryder B.B. gun for Christmas! After all his efforts, what’s under the tree? 94 minutes. Cast: Peter Billingsley, Melinda Dillon, Darren McGavin Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page15 December Events & Outings Cameron Card Creations Tuesday, December 1 10:30 am to 1:30 pm - in Town Square Entertainment Tuesday, December 1 at 7:15 pm - Town Hall By the Royal City Ukulele Ensemble Entertainment Wednesday, December 2 at 10:30 am - Town Hall By The Village Band Stone Road Mall Outing Wednesday, December 2 departs at 2:30 pm *Sign up at Village Office Sing-Along in Town Square Thursday, December 3 10:30 am Guelph Moms and Co. Celebration of Life Thursday, December 3 at 7:30 pm in Town Hall Entertainment Friday, December 4 at 2:30 pm - Town Square By Kent Tocher Entertainment Saturday, December 5 at 11:00 am Suzuki Strings School of Guelph Entertainment Tuesday, December 8 at 2:30 pm - Town Square By Georgetown Transfer Guest Speaker - ‘Speaking of Pet Health’ Wednesday, December 9 at 3:00 pm in Town Hall 16 Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 16 Programs For Active Living Christmas Tea Social Thursday, December 10 at 3:00 pm in Town Square Suzanne’s Jewellery Monday, December 14 from 11 - 3 pm in Town Square Jazzy Lil’ Christmas Tuesday, December 15 at 3:30 pm Happy Hour with Signature Christmas Cocktails 3:45 pm Threefold Standard Jazz Trio Dinner Reservations welcome 519.836.2469 Bishop Reding Student Jazz Band Wednesday, December 16 at 11:00 am - Town Square Christmas Communion with St. George’s Church Wednesday, December 16 at 2:30 pm in the Chapel Dressing Room Clothing Sale Thursday, December 17 from 10:00 to 3:00 pm In the Hobby Shop Resident Council Christmas Celebration Thursday, December 19 at 3:00 pm in Town Hall Entertainment Monday, December 21 at 7:15 pm Sue and her music students - come sing along! Vesper Service Wednesday, December 23 at 7:30 pm in Chapel Holiday Dinners Chef-selected menus for Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Boxing Day, New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day! Guest reservations welcome 519.836.2464 New Year’s Eve 7:15 Entertainment with Flutist Frazer French and Pianist Frank Iacino Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 17 Programs For Active Living Williamsburg & Becker Tuesday, December 15 ‘A Jazzy Lil’ Christmas’ A Christmas Social beginning at 3:30 pm in the Café Happy Hour with Signature Christmas Cocktails Local Jazz Musicians ’Threefold Standard’ at 3:45 pm Guests welcome - reserve for dinner 519.836.2464 Egerton Neighbourhood Friday, December 18 ’Wine and Cheese’ Entertainment by Paul Hock beginning at 4:00 pm Guests welcome - Wine by the Glass $6 Reserve for dinner 519.836.2464 Emma’s Neighbourhood Sunday, December 20 ‘Cocoa & Cookies’ With Entertainment by Lindsay Cox beginning at 3:00 pm Guests welcome - Reserve for dinner 519.836.2464 Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 18 Programs For Active Living Java Music Club Volunteer This program is a mutual peer discussion and support group with weekly themes and includes a musical component. Tuesday morning from 10:30 – 12 noon Wednesday afternoons from 2:30 - 4:30 pm Assist with set up, gather and welcome residents to participate in this peer musical discussion group. Program Convenor Welcoming residents to act as Program Convenors for independent leisure opportunities. Program convenors would be responsible for gathering supplies, inviting and welcoming residents and clean up. A little work but a lot of fun! Consider these ideas: Book Club Convenor Crib Club Convenor Men’s Club Ladies Club Scrabble Scrimmage! The potential is endless - get involved! Music and Memory Volunteer Gather information Build the music repository Develop playlists Become a Musical Docent Become an Ambassador Neighbourhood Volunteer Share your time with one of our neighbourhoods; support life on the neighbourhood through visiting, engaging residents in shared and meaningful activities. This opportunity is flexible to your schedule and is suitable for a variety of experiences Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 For more information on how you can become involved in volunteering at the Village, please contact: Kim Cusimano Director of Recreation and Volunteer Services (226) 251-3065 ext. 807 [email protected] @ArbourTrails VOLUNTEER VIEW Volunteer Opportunities Programs For Active Living www.facebook.com/ArbourTrails International Volunteer Day is a global celebration of volunteers. It takes place every year on December 5 to shine a light on the impact of volunteer efforts everywhere. Volunteers are leading social change around the world. This special day promotes the work of volunteers at all levels, including local, national and international. United Nations Volunteers founded International Volunteer Day in 1985. For more information, please visit: www.unv.org/what-we-do/intl-volunteer-day.html On behalf of Arbour Trails, we thank the residents, family, team members and community members for their gifts of time and talent. Your support to Village life is truly appreciated! Page 20 Programs For Active Living Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 21 Programs For Active Living Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 22 Programs For Active Living Looking for Christmas gift ideas? Consider Nordic Walking Poles! The Programs For Active Living Program uses these in their fitness program offerings. If your family member at Arbour Trails enjoys walking, this may be a great gift idea. An iPod Shuffle or Nano and/or iTunes card! Arbour Trails is a registered member of the Music and Memory program and looks forward to building this program in 2016. Music can have a profound effect on people and in particular, it can be a soothing experience for residents living with dementia. General Store Gift Certificates! Contact Gary Roche (519) 993-7104 or email at [email protected] Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 23 Christmas MarketPrograms For With thanks to the more than 45+ vendors who shared their products at our Christmas Market on Saturday, November 28. Active Living Ann’s Jams Peach, Raspberry, Strawberry jams, Gift boxes, Spreaders and Trays www.annsjam Audrey Heyking & Beryl Johnston Assorted Christmas arrangements, mittens, and earings [email protected] BD Crafts Knitted and Crocheted items, Christmas Ornaments [email protected] Beauticontrol Skin care and make up products www.beautipage.ca/susanldunkley Blossoming Heart Words The Stellar Queen of Oaxaca Children’s Book www.blossomingheartwords.com Bonnie Patteson Scarves [email protected] Born Again Dollies Dolls, knitted dolls clothing and more [email protected] C & S Sales Fashion scarves and pins [email protected] Cameron Card Creations Handmade Gift Tags and Cards www.cameroncardcreations.com Glass On A Wire Hand Made One Of A Kind Jewelry [email protected] Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Cassie Maple Products Maple syrup, sugars, jelly, brittle, fudge & more [email protected] Cynthia Gedye Quilted items and jewelry [email protected] Debbie McKinnon Knitted items incl. animals, scarves & booties [email protected] Elaine and Ivy Jewelry Handmade jewelry store.elanneivy.com Emily Rose Apiaries Honey, gift sets, and candles [email protected] Guelph Wood Art Wooden puzzles [email protected] Hayston’s Creations Hand Made Home Décor, Crafts, Needlework, Infinity Scarves, Aprons & More Www.etsy.com/haystoncreation Kim Harvey Live greenery arrangements [email protected] Hospice Wellington Cookbook in support of Hospice hospicewellington.org Page 24 Karen Townsend & Evelyn Lee Necklaces, bracelets, and earrings [email protected] Scentsy Scented waxes and warmers and more heathermoon.scentsy.ca Krissy’s Custom Knits Homemade knitted items www.krissyskustomknits.ca Sunset Gourmet Spices, soups, breads, desserts, and a variety of gluten free products www.mysunsetgourmet.ca/sharonmoody Mary Cyr Handmade items for pets, children, and adults [email protected] MS Society Bake Table Cakes and Cookies [email protected] Palms Gift Baskets and Candles A variety of candles and baskets [email protected] Patricia Case Doll clothes & assorted doll items [email protected] Paper Daisies Christmas wreaths, ornaments, decorations www.facebook.com/paperdaisiescrafts Pat’s Crafts Knitted items, purses, placemats, and more [email protected] Programs For Active Living S&S Variety Pashmina shawls, Indian Pearls, Mexican and Indian crafts, Ornaments [email protected] Sheena Drummond Hand painted Christmas decorations Simply Natural Creating home made, natural, better for you products for everyday use www.facebook.com/Simple.natural.changes/ Specialty Wood Pens Handcrafted wood items [email protected] Stampin’ Up! Christmas cards and gifts www.stampinup.net/esuite/home/dianeh Thirty-One Purses, accessories, home organizing, and more mythirtyone.ca Recycle A Bow Handmade purses, crochet hats, mitts, and scarves TLC Treasures www.facebook.com/recycleabow Lite-up table Christmas centerpieces,, trees, Branch Arrangements and more Riverstone Spa and Salon [email protected] Gift Certificates for salon, manicures, pedicures, massage, facials and more! Tocara http://schlegelvillages.com/node/876 Sterling silver, gem stones, stainless steel & more Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory Various chocolate treats & gift boxes www.facebook.com/RMCFguelph Rosanne Bauman Baby gift items and Children’s Sleepwear [email protected] Sandra Beer All season silk flower arrangements, Christmas wreaths, stockings, and tote bags [email protected] www.tocaraplus.com U Wear It Well Scarves, handbags and jewelry [email protected] Yvonne Thistle-Brewster Art felting, nature prints, cards & more [email protected] 2cute4words A variety of paper and knit crafts [email protected] Many thanks to the following local Programs For businesses who donated to our ActiveChristmas Living Market! Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Tara Rosenow Page 26 Programs For Active Living Third Age Learning Third Age Learning -Guelph is a non-profit, independent organization operated by a voluntary Board of Directors which arranges lectures by professors and community experts covering a wide range of interesting subjects. For over 25 years we have offered intellectually stimulating lectures for people who are retired or semi-retired and who wish to continue learning. Winter series is offered in the New Year from January 13 through March 2, 2016. Winter Walkways As we approach winter weather, this is a friendly reminder to all residents with vehicles; please park your car to ensure that the front of the car is not hanging over the edge of the sidewalk. Thank you. The Grounds Crew team do a great job cleaning the sidewalks; it makes it easier to remove the snow with the tractors when the sidewalks are clear. Sharing the spirit of the season, Arbour Trails is collecting toys and non-perishable food donations for local families. All are welcome to contribute and all donations shared at the Town Square Gazebo will be taken to the Salvation Army on December 18. If you are interested in participating in the delivery to the Salvation Army, please sign up at the Village Office. To learn more about the Christmas Hamper program and other community services the Salvation Army offers, please visit: www.guelphsa.ca/index.php/CHRISTMAS-EVENTS/ get-involved.html Programs For Active Living An evening with Robert burns Sponsored by the VBA Theatre Group SATURDAY, JANUARY 23, 2016 In Reid Hall Come join us in celebrating the birth of Scotland’s Greatest Poet, Rabbie Burns This is an independent outing requiring own transportation Doors open at 5:30 pm Program begins at 6:00 pm Dinner is served at 6:30 pm Catered by the University of Guelph $40 per person No Cash Bar Bring your own Beverage Menu includes Beef Pie with seasonal vegetables, small tasting of Haggis followed by Trifle Complete form below and provide to Barb McKinnon, Suite 479 by January 4, 2016 Program includes The Village Harpeggios, an Address to the Haggis, Scottish songs and dance. To purchase tickets for this event, please complete this form and provide a cheque payable to the ‘VBA Theatre Group’ and return to Barb McKinnon, Suite 479 by Monday, January 4, 2016. Name: __________________________________________ Suite Number: ___________________ Cost $40 per person Total Requested Tickets _______________ Amount Enclosed ______ Tables are assigned in the order that response slips are received. No Refunds. Programs For Active Living MARK YOUR CALENDARS! When: Sunday, January 31, 2016 Time: 9:00 am to 12 noon Location: Old Quebec Street Shoppes and Suites, 55 Wyndham St. N., Guelph Join Arbour Trails as we walk for memories and support raising funds for the Alzheimer Society! How can you become involved? 1. Volunteer! Help support residents to be involved in the walk! 2. Join the Arbour Trailblazers team! 3. Sponsor the Arbor Trailblazers team! Visit the Walk For Memories website for more information on the event and how you can support http://walkformemories.ca/sponsor-a-walker/ or contact: Kim Cusimano at (226) 251-3065 x 807 [email protected] LIVING in My Today is an organizational care philosophy and corresponding training program that focuses on supporting the well-being of residents living with dementia in Schlegel Villages. LIVING In my Today was developed in partnership with residents, family members, team members, volunteers and community partners such as the Murray Alzheimer Research and Education Program (otherwise known as MAREP), is a program that integrates research and educational activities in an effort to improve dementia care practices in Canada and beyond. What makes this curriculum unique is that it builds on the current culture change movement happening at Schlegel and internationally. The curriculum is really shifting care and services to focus on the remaining strengths and abilities and perspective of the resident, supporting them to live life to the fullest and the well-being of not only the person but all those in the circle of care. Its based on sound research and more importantly, grounded in the perspectives of people living with dementia, family and professionals. Our goal is to create a shared understanding and philosophy of care and builds awareness, understanding and compassion. Watch for further information about the Living In My Today dates for 2015. Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 12 Page 29 Arbour Trails Team Directory Mike Dickin General Manager 803 [email protected] Jim Alder Director of Environmental 829 [email protected] Philip Aubin Marketing Co-ordinator 825 [email protected] 845 [email protected] Director of Recreation 807 [email protected] Pauline Donovan Wellness Co-ordinator 820 [email protected] Beverleigh Broughton Chaplain Kim Cusimano Donna Hastings Administrative Co-ordinator 802 [email protected] Heather Hyland Neighbourhood Co-ordinator 805 [email protected] George Madalena Director of Food & Hospitality 804 [email protected] Kelly Meeussen Marketing Co-ordinator 826 [email protected] Majlinda Gashi Neighbourhood Co-ordinator 819 [email protected] Megan Laycock Pal Kinesiologist 808 [email protected] Ainsley Snowe Administrative Assistant 801 [email protected] Lead Nurse Can be reached at this ext. 505 Wishing each and every resident, family member, team member, volunteer, care partner and neighbour the happiest of holidays. May this season bring you much joy and happiness! www.facebook.com/ArbourTrails 32 Bayberry Drive, Guelph, Ontario N1G 0C9 Arbour Trails, Volume 3, Issue 11 P: (226) 251-3065 @ArbourTrails W: http://www.schlegelvillages.com/guelph2 Page 30