The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style
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The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style
My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style Hi, I’m Jill Chivers and thanks for signing up to receive this free report: The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style. I am really excited to share this free report with you. I have been in love with clothes and style for as long as I can remember, and this topic – being stylish without shopping all the time - just fascinates me. Before I started on my own journey of conscious consumption I’d never given these questions much thought. But now I’m intrigued about whether it’s possible to shop less and have more style? I believe the answer is YES! And that’s what I’d like to explore with you in this free report. Before we jump into the free report, let me share just a little about what has brought me to this topic. © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style I was a compulsive shopper for years. And for much of that time, I didn’t even realise it. I thought shopping was a harmless pastime or maybe a contact sport I had become very, very good at. Shopping was my favourite hobby. I had more than enough clothing, but I was continuing to consume, and add more to a bursting-at-the-seams walk in wardrobe. I had racks and racks of stuff I didn’t need, and wasn’t wearing. Why was I buying so much when I already had so much? I didn’t know the answer to that question but I had to find one. The path I chose to explore this question was to take a year without clothes shopping. I had to stop the constant intake of new items into my closet. I had to put some space and distance between me and all this buying, and buying, and buying. That year changed my life. It changed how I think and feel about shopping, and it changed my shopping behaviour. It also led me to work in this intriguing and complex field of compulsive and unconscious shopping. And it’s lead me to you. © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style One in 12 women are addicted to shopping – and even that may be a conservative number. Overdosing on credit cards has reached an all time high. We are buying more clothing than ever before, yet we’re not using even a fraction of the items we purchase. We are spending ourselves into an early grave, over-charging, over-consuming and overlooking what life is really about. Life is about the experiences we have and the people we share them with. Life is to be lived – not spent. Many of us who have accumulated a lot of clothes but still feel we have nothing to wear could do with a helping hand to create wonderful working wardrobes, a sense of personal style and a way to bring shopping back into its rightful place in our lives. On the following pages are 12 secrets to less shopping, more style that you can use to illuminate your path and lighten your load. © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 1. Play around in your closet and ‘work’ what you already have. Many women wear 20 – 30% of their wardrobe because they aren’t tapping into the hidden mileage and magic lurking in their wardrobe. Play with different outfits you can create by mixing and matching existing pieces. Get creative and experiment! Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 2. Create and use your “love to do (instead of shopping) list”. Create a list of 10+ things you like to do – apart from shopping. Update your list often – it is a living, dynamic thing. When you feel the urge to splurge, do something on the list instead. There’s so much more to life than shopping! Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 3. Discover what suits you. Many of us overshop because we simply don’t how to buy for our bodies, our personalities, or our lifestyles. We have no accurate information to base our buying decisions on – we just see something that catches our eye and we purchase it! It is often these very purchases that lead us to creating large wardrobes full of items we do not like to wear. When you know what suits you – your body shape, your colouring, your personality and your lifestyle – you shop wisely. © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com Actions I can take straight away My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 4. Discover what drives your shopping behaviour. Your shopping habits have developed the way they have for a reason. You need to unearth and explore your shopping drivers, otherwise it’s unlikely your shopping habits will change for good. Explore what your underlying drivers are and you are free of the enormous weight that is compulsive, impulsive and addictive shopping. © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com Actions I can take straight away My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 5. Revamp existing items from your closet. Conduct a ‘playshop’ within your closet and see what can be upstyled and recycled. New buttons? A shorter hemline? A change in colour? Add some embellishment? Cut the sleeves off? There are so many ways to rework existing, unworn items. Get inspired and rework those pieces! Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 6. Shop only when you feel positive, calm and alert. Many of us have used shopping as a way to soothe or repair our mood. We shop when we are emotionally not at our best (tired, bored, lonely, upset, anxious - just some of the emotional states that can trigger a shopping spree). Make today the start of only shopping when you are feeling positive, calm and alert. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 7. Only buy what you LOVE. Make today the start of a new approach when you shop: never buy items that you feel just so-so about. If you aren’t mad crazy in love with it, leave it behind. You’re better off with a small amount of great than a large amount of just ok. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 8. Stay away from and out of the shops. This is one of the most obvious but also one of the most effective ways to shop consciously – stay away from the stores as your ‘default’ activity. Avoidance is a perfectly legitimate strategy, and it really does work! Go do something else, and be somewhere else. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 9. Engage the ‘power pause’. Don’t buy desirable items straight away. When you see something you might want to buy – leave it. Walk away for at least two hours, if not two days, before deciding to make the purchase. The power pause is remarkably effective in breaking the unconscious shopping cycle. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 10. Get organised and clear the clutter from your closet. We don’t wear what we can’t see. You may be amazed at what you already own, once you can see and have organised everything that you already have. Organise like items with like, fold and hang everything neatly, match those hangers, and store/display accessories to give you easy access. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 11. Ditch the cards and use cash only. Research proves that spending via cash feels more “real” than spending via plastic. If you want to feel every dollar that you spend, then ditch the credit and store cards and use cash only instead. And use cash for not just the small dollar items, but the big ticket items too. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more The 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style 12. Do a shopping detox where you don’t buy anything for at least 30 days, and longer if you can. Make sure you pay attention to what you’re learning as you go – regular journaling is a good way to do this. And If you really want to get to the heart of your shopping issue, do a year without clothes shopping. But don’t do it alone – be supported and inspired by us and join us at Shop Your Wardrobe - sign up today. Actions I can take straight away © Shop Your Wardrobe www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more About the author I’m Jill Chivers and I understand what it’s like to ‘shop til you drop’ and yet still feel it’s never enough. I know how heavy that feeling is. And I’m here to tell you it is possible to lay that burden down, to stop the constant shopping, and to reclaim your life. Your life is not to be found in the mall You won’t get to the end of your life (the ultimate scorecard, if ever there was one) and wish you’d spent more time shopping. Life is about the experiences you have, the people that you love, and the contribution that you make. And none of those things have anything to do with or require shopping. My goal and intention with everything I do in this space of conscious consumption is to encourage you to think about the shopping you do, and to choose it – not find yourself accumulating more and more stuff you don’t want, don’t even need, and won’t fully use. Through products and resources I’ve created, I help women who shop too much to stop, or at least cut down. © Shop Your Wardrobe To learn more www.shopyourwardrobe.com and sign up: www.shopyourwardrobe.com My Year Without Clothes Shopping Shop less, live more Where to from here If you enjoyed this free report on the 12 secrets to less shopping, more style you may enjoy and get great value from one of our paid programs. Both these programs provide a great opportunity to explore your shopping behaviour and attitudes in a supportive, stimulating and safe environment: My Year Without Clothes Shopping program. The My Year Without Clothes Shopping program has 12 themes over the 12 months, 52 in-depth weekly tutorials, and bonuses and benefits in our member’s only area. 6 Week Conscious Clothes Shopping Mini Course. The 6 Week Conscious Shopping Mini Course delivers 14 emails over 6 weeks, organised around the 6 key principles of conscious clothes shopping. Thank you again for signing up to receive this free report on the 12 secrets to less shopping –more style. I hope our paths cross again soon! To your shopping health, Jill Chivers © Shop Your Wardrobe To learn more www.shopyourwardrobe.com and sign up: www.shopyourwardrobe.com