Insider News August 2016
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Insider News August 2016
inc . Insider News An Independent Newspaper For Wynmoor Residents August 2016 • Vol. 8, Issue 8 A LOOK INSIDE TO PAPER New Gate Entry System To Launch On August 2nd PEN Wynmoor writes... Page By Fred J. Michael, Director of Association Affairs Imagine calling the Security 9-1-1. For non-medical emergencies, simply hang up if you are finished. Dispatcher and not getting a busy hang up and dial 954-978-2663. When calling from outside your unit signal or being put on hold. Guest reservations may be made or via cell phone, you will be required Well, imagine no more. seven days prior to their arrival. A to provide your unit’s landline-based Effective August 2nd, the Wynmoor visitor gate entry pass is valid from phone number (that is your user ID) Security Department will launch the one to seven days. and your Personal Identification New Gate Entry System. Please state the name of your guest, Number (that is your password). If This new technology-friendly, when your guest will arrive and the you do not have an active phone in cloud-based electronic dispatch number of days between one and your unit, which your governing system will be convenient, eliminating seven for the pass to be valid. documents require for the security busy signals and calls being placed on Submit the name(s) of your guests. fire/alarm system to operate, you will hold. If you wish to review your recording, be unable to utilize the gate access When calling the automated gate please press * system. access system at 954-978-2666 from If you want to add additional guests, When the new gate entry system your unit’s landline-based telephone, please press # is activated, your current permanent you will hear the following prompt: Thank you for using the Wynmoor guest list will be purged and not Welcome to Wynmoor’s automated automated gate access system. If transferred. There will no longer gate access system. If this is a medical you were unable to enter your guests be a permanent guest list. It is the emergency, please hang up and dial please press O for the operator, or Continued on page 4 All Year Round Club By Myrna Berger FINANCIAL FOCUS Independence... 8 Page 23 WYNMOOR BUS Hip, Hip, Hooray... Page 24 FRONT ROW CENTER Theatre, theatre... DR. OZ Page 28 Page 35 New research... U.S. DEMOCRACY Sit down & hold on... Page 36 LORI PARISH Back Row: Bill Shanker; Middle Row: Estelle Israel; Charlotte Warech; Stephanie Tow; Estelle Miller; Millie Steiner; Charles Steinberg; Front Row: Selma Handler; Muriel Kruger; Joy Rifkin; Lenore Gonzer; Sunny Kelsohn In 2006, Muriel Kruger became the second President following Muriel Laxer, of the All Year Round Club that was started in 2001. At that time, twelve permanent residents were trying to decide how to keep active for the summer months when the seasonal residents leave and most activities are on hiatus. As it happened, the residents all women, decided that they would start a club that would enable Wynmoor residents to enjoy different activities all year round. The Club goals were dedicated and still remain to provide to its membership a venue to socialize and offer overnight trips and other excursions out of Wynmoor. It took one month for the ladies to get a meeting room and in the following four years the membership grew to 300. On the Sunday morning that I was invited to attend the monthly breakfast* for the paid-up membership in the Ballrooms A & B, I had a chance to see the camaraderie and partnership of volunteers and Board members working together to set up the event. President Muriel Kruger introduced me to Bill Shanker, VP & Treasurer; Selma Handler, Secretary; and Board members: Sunny Continued on page 6 TRIM time... DR. JOY Page 39 Page 42 Good info... WIN CASH! 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Articles must be typed double spaced (upper and lower case), or legibly printed, signed and include the author’s address and phone number. We reserve the right to edit or omit articles sent in for publication that do not conform to our standards. Submitted material becomes the property of the Insider News and will not be returned. PRESIDENT Jack Mendelson SECRETARY Beverly Trapper MANAGING EDITOR Miriam Mendelson OTHER BOARD MEMBERS Ralph Trapper Myrna Berger EDITOR Naomi Lubarsky INSIDER NEWS Dear Editor My hats off to the bus drivers in Wynmoor. As a newbie (just gave up driving after 65 years) I am pleasantly amazed at their driving skills, handling those big buses around the curves in the roads, the ins and outs in every village. The buses are always spic and span and air conditioned. My biggest respect goes to the drivers (male and females), always courteous, friendly and extremely helpful with the big shopping bags. Thanks to all the drivers. Keep up the outstanding job you do every day. Marlene Lieberman ***** Dear Editor Many thanks to my friends and neighbors for all their good wishes on my special day. I can’t put into words how much your presence meant to me. Bless all of you! Marion Pink New Gate Entry System To Launch On August 2nd Continued from front cover responsibility of the unit owner or tenant to call in their guests to our automated dispatcher at 954.-9782666. That includes realtors, contractors, vendors, aides and nurses, etc. The maximum length of time for an entry guest pass is seven days. The New Gate Entry System scans driver license or valid ID of each driver into the system, including photographs of each guest and prints a visitor pass that includes a picture of the guest and the guest’s vehicle license plate. The information remains in the computer system, making it easier to renew guest passes. All residents are also urged to update their Emergency Contact list. The names you provide will be granted access to the community when emergencies arise such as hospitalizations. Those on your emergency contact list will be escorted by a member of Wynmoor security to your unit to provide entry if necessary. The Emergency Contact forms are available in the Association Affairs Office, Room 215 of the Administration Building or you can e-mail your information to Fred Michael at fred_wynmoor@ bellsouth.net. Please provide the names, relationship, addresses and phone numbers (cell and home) of each of those on your Emergency Contact List. VOLUNTEERS Rhoda Becker, Nina Pollock For Display Advertising Telephone: 9:00am-5:00pm MONDAY-FRIDAY 954-975-8001 WORD LIMITS: NEIGHBORLY NEWS CLUBS THOUGHTS & OPINIONS ARTICLES OF INTEREST 200 Maximum 200 Maximum 250 Maximum 450 Maximum Articles must be typed or legibly printed. Please identify the nature of your submission on your envelope: Example: Calling All Clubs, Neighborly News, Pen to Paper, Thoughts and Opinions, Etc. Deadline: The 10th of each month at noon. This applies to all articles, photos, classified ads, etc. Insider News inc. reserves the right to refuse publication if material is received after the deadline. The Insider News will accept all advertising that otherwise is in keeping with the publications’ standard of ethics, legality and propriety, so long as such advertising is not derogatory or demeaning. Advertising copy is reviewed but publication does not imply endorsement of any advertiser’s goods, services or opinions. The Insider News is not responsible for any advertisers claims, errors, omissions or statements. At the request of Wynmoor, we are publishing this disclaimer. “This publication is not endorsed, approved or owned by any Wynmoor entity or Wynmoor Community Council, Inc. Any and all content in this publication has not been approved or endorsed by any Wynmoor entities.” Advertisements (including inserts) and articles appearing in the INSIDER NEWS do not constitute an endorsement or recommendation by The Insider News or its Board. This publication may not be reproduced in whole or part, without the expressed consent of the Insider News, inc. SAMPLE GUEST PASS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 5 6 AUGUST 2016 All Year Round Club Continued from cover Kelsohn; Lenore Gonzer; Estelle Miller; Joy Rifkin; Mildred Steiner & Stephanie Tow, who all participate in making this club so successful. Each has a designated job that guarantees their events run smoothly. It was very nice to see residents meeting neighbors that they might not have seen for a while. And, there was an entertainer as there is always entertainment at Club gatherings. The Club usually plans three trips a year, which might include a gambling junket coupled with a stay overnight to the West Coast, and maybe a show or shopping excursion added. The Club was the first to initiate off premise trips including trips to the Seminole Casinos. Club dues are $13.00 a person and the new year starts as of March, but dues are pro-rated from when the new member joins, if before. Membership is now at about 150 and always room for more. Put this Club on your list if you have a desire to meet new people, take interesting and fun filled trips, and have a place to socialize with your neighbors. *The regular September Sunday morning event is changed to an evening Pizza Party, see club announcements. INSIDER NEWS STRANGE BUT TRUE By Samantha Weaver It was beloved 20th-century American dancer, singer and actor Fred Astaire who made the following sage observation: “The higher up you go, the more mistakes you are allowed. Right at the top, if you make enough of them, it’s considered to be your style.” *** If you write the word “suns” upside down, it still says “suns.” *** This election season might be a good time to resurrect the word “flapdoodler.” During Victorian times, any annoyingly boastful or self-righteous person was considered to be a flapdoodler. *** In Britain in the early 2000s, dead hedgehogs started turning up with their heads stuck in McFlurry cups. It seems that the little creatures would stick their heads in to get to the remains of the discarded treat, then they’d be unable to get out and would starve to death. In response, in 2006 McDonald’s changed the design of the McFlurry cups to be more hedgehog-friendly. *** You might be surprised to learn that Helen Keller, probably best known as the first deaf and blind person to earn a bachelor of arts degree, was one of the first members of the American Civil Liberties Union. *** Thought for the Day: “I want people to talk to one another no matter what their difference of opinion might be.” -- Studs Terkel (c) 2016 King Features Synd., Inc. INSIDER NEWS WIN CASH! The Insider News gives away $25 cash to one lucky winner. Here’s how to win: • Find our palm tree logo located in TWO advertisements. • On a sheet of paper, list the TWO advertisers and page numbers that show this logo. • Include your name, address and phone number. • Put the information in an envelope labelled “WIN CASH” in the Insider News box located in the Business Office in the Country Club. • The winner will be drawn randomly at 4:00 p.m. every 2nd Wednesday of the month. • One entry per unit each month. • Must be a Wynmoor resident to enter. • You do not have to be present at the drawing to win. We will call you. • The winner will be published in the following issue of the Insider News. Look For This Logo in TWO Ads Within This Paper AUGUST 2016 $25 Cash Winner Dorothy Flood This logo is placed in two different ads throughout the newspaper. One on pg. 10, Gene’s Car Service and one on pg. 47, Pride VOTE IN THE PRIMARY AUGUST 30, 2016 Election of Non-Partisan Circuit Court and County Court Judges WEST WING - 7:00 AM - CLOSING CIRCUIT COURT CANDIDATES: Andrea Ruth Gundersen, Lea P. Krauss, Maxine K. Streeter, Haccord James Curry Jr., Matthew Isaac Destry, Barbara Roseann Duffy, Brian Frederick Greenwald, Abbe Sheila Rifkin, Barbara McCarthy, David A. Salomon, Doreen Turner Inkeles, Michael Lynch COUNTY COURT CANDIDATES: Kal Le Var Koble Evans, Phyllis Pritcher, Florence Taylor Barner, Adam Geller, W. Dale Miller, Rhoda Sokoloff, Brenda Di loia, Nina Weatherly Di Pietro, Ian Richards, Kathleen McCarthy, Stephen J. Zaccor, Betsy Benson, Mark Kushner, Alfreda D. Coward, Samuel D. Lopez, Kim Theresa Mollica, Bradford Alan Peterson, Deborah Carpenter-Toye, Russell Miller Thompson 7 8 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS Pen to Paper Remembering… By Adele Salzano I read “Calling All Veterans” in the July Issue of Insider News and the beginnings of “Honor Flight,” the story written by Myrna Berger. I remember hearing or perhaps reading of these wonderful volunteers who devoted their time and money escorting elderly or disabled veterans to Washington, D.C. to actually see firsthand the WWI memorial created for them. But reading this story of living Vets, brought back sad, as well as wonderful memories. As a young girl I was always bothered by the fact that my last name began with a “Z”, which invariably put me in the last row last seat in school. I decided I would only marry a boy with the first letter an “A” in his last name. So this is the story about my husband Max Aranoff. Max Aranoff was graduated from college with a diploma in one hand and a “Greetings” in the other. Uncle Sam needed him so he volunteered and was accepted into the Air Corps. If memory serves me right, the newspapers had large headlines exclaiming the fact that there was a lack of planes in the U.S. arsenal. At that time we were shipping planes to England surreptitiously since we had not officially declared war on Germany. At that time Max was washed out of the Air Corps and given a choice to either join the infantry or the parachutists. He chose the latter and trained in jumping out of planes with a parachute. When we finally declared war and joined the invasion, he was parachuted onto Normandy Beach. He was seriously wounded as was his best buddy whom he carried to safety. His wound was far more serious than he knew and after surgery at a distant Army hospital, wound up with a metal plate in his head. He remained there for four months. He lived through it all, married me, had 2 lovely daughters and passed away after twelve years of marriage. In his lifetime he became the architect he always dreamed of and worked as a member of the Scenic Artist’s Union. He worked on the design and building Fort Hamilton Veterans Hospital on the Belt Parkway in Brooklyn and he loved to laugh when being interviewed for entrance into the Scenic Artists Union whose members designed and built stage sets, he was asked what he know about structures. His response was “the Veterans Hospital is still standing.” P.S. How amazing it must be for the many Vets who survived the war and lived long enough to see this outstanding memorial to their bravery and courage. P.P.S. Surely there must be other wives who lived through the second WW. We’d love to read your story. A Long-Winded and Rambling Letter to My Granddaughter Nancy Lee Schwartz Hi Colleen – Ever since we talked about grammar on the phone the other night, rules and regulations I haven’t thought about in years have been dancing in my wee little head! We discussed – possibly I expounded on (and on and on) while you politely listened – the usage and avoidance of the use of the pronoun ME – as is demonstrated when you hear, “Between you and I” AAARRGGGHHH instead of “between you and me.” Sometimes a lamp post is added for whatever reason – as in – “Between you and me and the lamp post,” – HOWEVER, between indicates two, and the lamp post makes three – so it would really have to be “among you and me and the lamp post” – and I can’t for the life of me imagine anyone ever saying that. AND – me – such a lovely objective-case pronoun – is also the right choice for the indirect object in a sentence – as in “Thank you for giving me the Pen to Paper continued on page 10 INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 9 10 Pen to Paper continued from page 8 AUGUST 2016 Pen to Paper A Long-Winded and Rambling Letter book.” However, some folks opt for the reflexive pronoun myself instead – “It was so nice of you to give John and myself that wonderful book.” Yuk! Which, of course, (OF COURSE!) leads me to think about the reflexive pronouns – all those wonderful self words – that can be used for emphasis – “I’ll do it myself!” Mothers say that a lot, usually through clenched teeth. Or with teeth unclenched and happily, for emphasis – “Just imagine! The President himself addressed our group!” A reflexive pronoun is also used to denote action back on the speaker – I hit myself – she burned herself – they enjoyed themselves - - - dontcha just love English grammar! Well, I’m having fun – and we do want good old gram to enjoy herself – another one! Now don’t we! And surprisingly, one trip down memory lane can lead to another. In addition to reviewing old grammar rules, I decided I’d like to learn to play that old song “Delilah.” I listened over and over to a Tom Jones CD. Then I settled myself (MYSELF! Yay! Action back on the speaker) on the piano bench and gave it a whirl (the song, not the bench). It wasn’t sounding right and I realized it had to be in a minor key. I play almost all the songs I know in the keys of C, F, or G – I do so enjoy the absence of a lot off nasty sharps and flats! One time I was accompanying a would-be prima donna, who said to me rather haughtily, “I sing this in the key of A flat.” I thought that was hilarious – I told her “C, F, or G – take your pick!” She was not a very good sport – or singer either – if you ask me. But I digress – you’ve probably noticed I do that a lot. (It comes with age – wisdom is supposed to come with age too, but unfortunately the birthday fairy failed to bring me mine.) Nevertheless, out of the dim, dark recesses of my mind, I played the C minor scale strictly by ear (it has two flats, I discovered) – and then I even remembered the chords and arpeggios! I was positively delighted with myself (action back on the speaker!) I learned that stuff when I took piano lessons a thousand years ago and never gave it a thought all this time – but son of a gun! It’s still in there! OK – back to Delilah – I started paying attention to the words, and it’s gotta INSIDER NEWS be the dumbest song I ever heard! Here’s this idiot cluck whose girlfriend cheats on him and then laughs at him when he confronts her – so he stabs her. Then he sings about it. Geez Louize! I mentioned that to a friend and she said, “Really! I don’t think I ever paid any attention to the lyrics – I just loved the melody.” I guess that’s how everyone feels – whenever a Tom Jones impersonator entertains at Wynmoor, as soon as he starts singing that song, everyone enthusiastically sings along with the My, My My Delilah and Why, Why, Why Delilah parts. They shoulda added another part: Bye Bye Bye Delilah. Well, unfortunately for me, I PLAY BY WORDS. I learn the words to the song, and as I play, I’m singing the lyrics in my head to myself. (Once I developed laryngitis during a performance, and when I realized I couldn’t sing out loud, I couldn’t play either – talk about weird!) Eee gad, Colleen – I’ve written you a young book! One of the symptoms of old age is rambling – but I guess you figured that out already. I love you lots – Grandma Joyce Kilmer – Begone! By Naomi Lubarsky Would that I had a way with words as did the above named poet of “Trees”, the following piece could reach a more lofty level. Had he been of this era and been shown our Wynmoor unit he would have sealed the deal by opening his eyes as well as did we. The view! There is the lake, the golf course, the shrubbery, the distant trees, the sunrise, the birds contesting the desperately elusive fish for their food, the families of ducks out for a swim or a stroll, the privacy and all manner of birds aerating our earth by dining al fresco not to mention the turtles basking in the sun. We felt like Adam and Eve in that garden and nary a snake in sight. Oh, I neglected to mention the three saplings, toothpicks really, beneath our third floor terrace. Well, they grew, and they grew, and they grew and there Pen to Paper continued on page 13 INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 11 Discover Luxury Senior Living Discover Pacifica Forest Trace A luxury senior living community, Pacifica Senior Living Forest Trace provides the service, ease and beauty of an exclusive resort – all for one affordable monthly fee. Our residents enjoy: • 73 acres including a 30-acre lake • 24-hour gated security • Spacious, well-appointed apartment homes • Restaurant-style dining • Complimentary Happy Hour daily • Robust social programming • Theater with top entertainment • Daily fitness classes and frequent educational seminars • Tennis court, putting green, golf*, heated pool and walking trails • Library and computer center Reward yourself with carefree living. Choose the convenience of Pacifica Forest Trace. Call Today to Schedule Your Personal Visit! 954-543-0337 5500 NW 69th Avenue Lauderhill, FL 33319 www.PacificaForestTrace.com *Club Link Corporate Sports Golf Membership Assisted Living Facility #7448 Independent Living • Assisted Living 12 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS Pen to Paper continued from page 10 AUGUST 2016 Pen to Paper Joyce Kilmer – Begone! went our view. So we now see many shades of green and a glimmer of the lake. Now Joyce may have spotted a spreading oak in an open field and made for it. He tossed his knapsack to the ground, leaned against its trunk and relished the shade. He then put “pen to paper”—hence his output. Now, before you berate me, know that I am an eco-friendly person, love all things green (except envy) however when it’s in my face I’m not that tolerant. So, here’s my wish. It’s for a wind, a big blow, a really strong slammer (no, not a H_____even a small one) that will remove leaves, twist twigs and break branches sending them all to Mt. Trashmore. Imagine a tree covered hill in the distance – a Florida tourist attraction. Now, God if you can make a tree, how about this? A Letter To My 11 Year Old Grandson Ryan By Peter Hardis Hi; Yeah it’s Pete and I know exactly what you are thinking! What the hell is this? Well this is a “Hand Written Letter.” It is probably something you have never seen before. If I should decide to stop sending them to you, I predict that you will never ever see one again. Why the letter? Well you know very well that us men hate to talk on the phone and we are also not big fans of texting. So rather than struggle with those things in order for us to be connected in some way I decided to turn the clock back about 25 years and try this “letter writing” thing on for size. So let’s get down to business. Boy do I miss you! You and I have been such great friends for so many years. Together you and I shared so many wonderful moments. A lot of that time was spent doing our own make up silly pretend things and all our stupid games. I often wish that it could have gone on forever. I know you must miss all that 13 “shtick” also. How can you not when we had so much fun doing those things? Anyway I’m going to spend the rest of this “Hand Written Letter” telling you why I miss you so much from where I stand. Please don’t get a swollen head if by chance I happen to say something nice about you. First: I must have gone to at least 150 baseball, soccer and basketball games you were involved in. For me it was always so exciting to watch you play. Why? Mainly because to your credit, whether it was a fielding catch or error, a hit or a strike out, a basket or a miss, you always carried yourself on the field with so much dignity. I always felt when I was watching you out there that I was watching a Derek Jeter type professional athlete because you always carried yourself, and still do, with so much class just like Jeter always did. Second: What make so much of our time together exciting for me was that you never had any qualms about beating me badly. Whether it was our made up karate, boxing, wrestling matches or our playing “pepper catches” with a baseball, football or anything else we could find to throw at each other and of course your heartless destruction of me when we played ping pong. I always tried my very best to win but because you were stronger, faster and smarter than me you just about always won. O.K. You always won! Happy? You never had any mercy for me and I loved every minute of it. Believe me, I never played just to let you win. I always played my heart out. And now last: You are so endearing. The care, kindness and the love you had for me was always very evident. Whenever we were together you made me feel so incredibly blessed to have you in my life. Thank You! I know that you are that way by nature so here you go…another reason why you are such a special person. Ryan, I could go on and on about you, and maybe I will because from now on – every two weeks I intend to write you a “Hand Written Letter.” Please, don’t ever feel that you have to write me back. However just maybe somewhere along the line you will attempt to put a pen to a piece of paper and shock the hell out of me. And now just a couple of last minute things: Pen to Paper continued on page 14 14 AUGUST 2016 Pen to Paper continued from page 13 Pen to Paper A Letter To My 11 Year Old 1. Don’t ever be tempted to crumple up and throw my “Hand Written Letter” away. In this world they are so rare that one day they will be worth a fortune. 2. Please wish mom, dad and Cayla a wonderful happy Passover and remember I have the same exact wish for you. 3. Please know that I love and treasure not only you but the extraordinary friendship you allowed me to have with you! OK Ry…That’s it. Now you can go out and play! Love, Pete Maybe You Should Look That Gift Horse in the Mouth After All By Nancy Lee Schwartz So I’ve got this tee shirt my kids gave me years ago – it says: “Stop Me Before I Volunteer Again.” To tell you the truth, I think I should have a new one that says “If I Volunteer Again, Ignore me! Run the other way!” I was caring for my neighbor’s puppy – little white ball of fluff – adorable! and cat (nicest cat I ever met.) When I’d sit on the couch, this cat liked to sit on my head with his tail swinging back and forth in front of my face – purring all the while. (The cat was doing the purring – not me – although, I was pretty happy too.) Well, as days passed by, it turned out that everyone wanted to take the puppy home to play with for a while. After a week, I began to feel sorry for the cat – nobody ever offered to take him home for a visit. So this one afternoon, after someone had collected the pup to play with her grandkids, I said to the cat, “It’s not fair – you never get to go anywhere.” So I picked him up and brought him over to my apartment. I figured he deserved an outing too. Well, that poor cat was TERRIFIED! He wanted no part of me or my INSIDER NEWS apartment – he ran under an arm chair in the living room and wouldn’t budge. After a few hours – (we had had supper, and Larry went off to his card game shaking his head) I coaxed, I pleaded, I begged some more – but all to no avail. That cat wasn’t about to budge. I stepped outside, and as luck would have it my neighbor came by. I told her my sad little tale – maybe in this case it should be tail? Anyhow, she has a cat, and told me, “Oh, don’t worry – I’ll help you.” No more beautiful words in the English language! And son of a gun – she came in, we upended the chair, I grabbed the cat and carried him home – all the while telling him how sorry Grandma was (yeah, the puppy and the cat call me grandma.) I sat there petting him, and he wrapped himself around my neck, and dug his claws into my hair and neck with a vengeance – and he was purring! I yelped, but I didn’t blame him one little bit. So I vowed once and for all to stop paving the road to hell with my good intentions. Unfortunately, old habits die hard. Another neighbor, who is super nice and super organized – gad, I wish I could be organized, but it hasn’t happened yet (not in this lifetime anyway) – mentioned she was going on vacation for a couple of weeks and was concerned because the person who was supposed to care for her plants wouldn’t be able to do it. No warning bells went off in my brain – nothing – nada! “No problem,” sez I. “I’ll be glad to do it.” I went to her apartment with a pad and pen, and wrote down instructions for watering the various plants (she’s got a gorgeous array of ‘em – some artificial, some real.) I went so far as to come home and type up the instructions – I really wanted to do a good job for her! Alas – some things are not meant to be. I was busy paving that road again. On my first day of watering – you’re not gonna believe this – in fact I have trouble believing it myself – I watered her artificial plants. I mean, she has a lot of them and the imitations are mixed together with the live ones. I finally figured out which was which – and I’m hoping against hope that by the time she gets back, the water will have dried up around the imposter plants and it will be my little secret. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 –A LEAGUE OF THEIR OWN– 15 By Myrna Berger Left to right: Bob Silverstein, Tom Rabicki, Norm Kale, Pat Martone, Ralph Rubin (captain) and John Goss. In April, the Wynmoor Pool and Billiard Club was invited to form a team and compete in a summer and winter league. The league games started the week of April 18th and will continue through the summer, ending on August 8th, with the winter season starting a few months later. The areas that the teams come from include Delray, Boca Raton, Boynton Beach and Lake Worth. There will be one outside match per week where Wynmoor will be the visiting team and Wynmoor will also host on some occasions. Eight players form a team with an added four players that will fill in if needed. Once the Club players were contacted, the twelve players necessary filled the roster in a very short time. A representative of the group went to visit some of the clubs that the team would be playing in and found them to be well established with tables and cloth in excellent condition. Pool and Billiards is a very popular sport in South Florida and the clubs that were visited were well attended with skill levels from beginner to advanced. The league is looking forward to an interesting and fun summer playing in this very organized and well established league. Team Captain, Ralph Rubin is interested in starting an in-house tournament (9-ball) once a week for players in the league and a few Wynmoor residents that are not on the team. If you are interested in joining, please contact Ralph Rubin at [email protected]. Wynmoor is in first place as of June 27th. Directions For Blinking RED Light Solid RED: Complete stop until the light changes to GREEN. Blinking RED: Complete stop, watch for oncoming traffic, then proceed with caution. The light will remain blinking RED during the hours of 7:00 PM - Noon. 16 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 17 8/31/16 18 AUGUST 2016 WOODSHOP By Charles Goff Left to right: Karl Georgi, Kia Williams, Guy Zannini, Kay Lines, Ernie Fluery Guy Zannini and Kay Lines INSIDER NEWS In the early spring, Kay Lines, chairperson of the Art Studio here in Wynmoor met with Guy Zannini, President of the Woodshop Club, to ask if the Woodshop Club could help the Art Studio by building a set of painting easels. The response was an immediate and enthusiastic “yes”. A representative model of the easel size and design was brought to the club and plans were discussed. Soon specialty items needed for the project were ordered and the wood required was purchased. In June the completed easels were brought to the Art Studio, and a mini event was held. Barry Burns, resident photographer, took pictures of this special event. Kia Williams from Recreation was present along with the club members who participated in the construction of the easel; Ernie Fluery, Karl Georgi, and President Guy Zannini. Kay Lines, Chairperson representing the Art Studio Board, received the easels with a broad smile and handshake. The Woodshop Club again showed its commitment to the needs of others. As I write this I am reminded of the contributions made by so many others in the club. Sy Shved is a prime example. Golfers passing hole number 15 see the wonderful bridge connecting the main part of the course to a small island on the course. For a second example you need look no further than the main gate entrance. As you come on to the grounds at the main gate you are greeted with the sign, “Wynmoor Country Club”, another prime example of Sy’s woodworking skill and the Club’s contributions to the Wynmoor community. Members of the Woodworking Club are justly proud of their many examples of outreach to the Wynmoor community. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 SHOWS AT WYNMOOR FITO GIRON Saturday, August 6th - Time: 8:00 PM - Price: $5.00 ADRIANA ZABALA Saturday, August 13th - Time: 8:00 PM - Price: $5.00 MARCIA McCLAIN Saturday, August 20th - Time: 8:00 PM - Price: $5.00 CECILIA ROY Saturday, August 27th - Time: 8:00 PM - Price: $5.00 See You At The Show! - BRING A FRIEND 19 20 Fabulous Flicks AUGUST 2016 Reel Times NO FOOD/DRINKS or E-CIGARETTES Only Bottled Water! INSIDER NEWS Wynmoor ID is Required MIRACLES FROM HEAVEN 1 Hr. 49 Mins. • Open Caption* 2 & 8 PM Sunday Aug. 7 Monday Aug. 8 8 PM Tuesday Aug. 9 8 PM Wed. Aug. 10 2 PM * MAGGIE’S PLAN 1 Hr. 24 Mins. • Open Caption* Sunday Aug. 21 2 & 8 PM Monday Aug. 22 8 PM Tuesday Aug. 23 8 PM Wed. Aug. 24 2 PM* MONEY MONSTER 1 Hr. 39 Mins. • Open Caption* 2 & 8 PM Sunday Aug. 14 Monday Aug. 15 8 PM Tuesday Aug. 16 8 PM Wed. Aug. 17 2 PM* ME BEFORE YOU 1 Hr. 50 Mins. • Open Caption* Sunday Aug. 28 2 & 8 PM Monday Aug. 29 8 PM Tuesday Aug. 30 8 PM Wed. Aug. 31 2 PM* $2.00 ALL Times INSIDER NEWS BSO Security Update with Sheriff Scott Israel Wednesday, August 24th at 9:00 AM in the GRAND BALLROOM A light breakfast will be served. All Wynmoor residents are welcome. A Few Good Volunteers At The North Regional Broward College Library For Book Sales Children’s Programs English Conversation Gift Shop Tutoring, Etc. Please Call Diane at 954-999-1185 You’ll Be So Glad You Did! AUGUST 2016 21 22 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS A new book provides a beautifully written and uplifting story of one woman’s descent into the darkest depths of self-pity and depression and her ultimate ascent into a bright new day of hope, love and happiness. An Inspiring Look At Love, Illness And Recovery (NAPS)—According to the American Cancer Society, nearly two out of five Americans will be diagnosed with cancer at some time in their lives. It’s a rare family that’s not affected—but if it ever happens to you, a new book may be both helpful and inspiring. “Walk Beside Me” by Christine Handy (Proper Press, LLC) is the amazing story of one woman’s journey from a world of fashion, fame and wealth to one of cancer and healing; it’s about a life that goes from the glitter of New York’s fashion world and designer labels to one of loneliness, fear, illness and, finally, recovery. The book is a fictionalized story of what at first seems a picture-perfect life: a stunning model turned wife and mother, who lives in a beautiful home with her husband and two kids in one of the wealthiest neighborhoods in Ohio. Then she’s diagnosed with breast cancer and it all seems to fall apart. Fortunately for her, she has the most amazingly devoted group of friends who won’t let her walk alone. These extraordinary women, all living prominent lives with demanding schedules, take turns staying with her, accompanying her to doctors’ appointments, to chemo sessions and back home, where they do everything for her, from feeding her to bathing her to cleaning up after her. They are her angels, and they walk beside her every step of her long recovery. They lift her spirits; laugh and cry with her. They share their stories, some funny, some sad. They walk beside her spiritually and emotionally, soothing her heartache, boosting her self-esteem and reminding her that every single minute of her life is abundantly worth living. This is an enthralling story of sickness and triumph, of being comfortable in your own skin, of valuing the things that have true worth, and of learning to fight for yourself and what you truly want. It’s the story of a woman who peels away the layers to find her inner warrior, a woman who faces insurmountable odds and—thanks to her earthly angels—learns to treasure the gift of God’s infinite light and love. The author, a real-life former model and cancer survivor, is now an advocate for women with breast cancer, and donates 15 percent of the sales price of her book to breast cancer research. “Walk Beside Me” is available at www.amazon.com and www.barnesandnoble.com in hardcover, paperback and as an e-book. Learn More For further facts about the book or the author, visit www.theproperpress. com and www.christinehandy.com. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 Financial Focus 23 ® Jordan T. Spohn, AAMS® Financial Advisor For EDWARD JONES (954) 973-0825 Investing: A Marathon, Not a Sprint The 2016 Summer Olympics began in Rio de Janeiro. One of the most compelling events is the marathon, a 26.2-mile endurance contest with roots dating back to ancient Greece. It may be that we’ve kept our interest in the marathon because it can teach us much about life – and it certainly has lessons for investors. In fact, if you were to compare investing to an Olympic sport, it would be much closer to a marathon than a sprint. Here’s why: · Long-term perspective – Sprinters are unquestionably great athletes, and they work hard to get better. Yet their events are over with quickly. But marathoners know they have a long way to go before their race is done, so they have to visualize the end point. And successful investors, too, know that investing is a long-term endeavor, and that they must picture their end results – such as a comfortable retirement – to keep themselves motivated. · Steady pacing – Sprinters go all out, every second and every stride. But marathoners have to pace themselves – too many spurts of speed could tire them out and doom their performance. As an investor, you, too, should strive for steady, consistent progress. Rather than attempting to rush success and achieve big gains by chasing after supposedly “hot” stocks – which may already have cooled off by the time you hear about them – try to follow a long-term strategy that emphasizes diversification among many different investments. (Keep in mind, though, that while diversification can reduce the impact of market downturns that primarily affect one type of asset, it can’t guarantee success or prevent all losses.) Ability to overcome obstacles – When sprinters stumble or fall, they are finished for the race; there’s simply not enough time to recover, so they typically just stop. But over 26 miles, a marathoner can fall and – providing he or she is not injured – get up again, compete and possibly even win. When you’re investing for the long term, you have time to overcome “mishaps” in the form of market volatility. So instead of dropping out of the “race” and heading to the investment sidelines, stay invested in all types of markets. As you near retirement, and you have less time to recover from market downturns, you may need to adjust your portfolio to lower your risk level – but even then, you don’t need to call it quits as an investor. · Proper fueling – Sprinters have to watch what they eat. But world-class marathoners have to be ultra-diligent about their diets, especially in the period immediately preceding a race. Because they must maximize the oxygen their bodies can use while running, they need a high percentage of their calories to come from carbohydrates, so they “carbo-load” when needed. When you invest, you also need to periodically “refuel” your portfolio so it has the energy and stamina needed to keep you moving forward toward your goals. And that means you must add dollars to those areas of your portfolio that need beefing up. Regular reviews with a financial professional can reveal where these gaps exist. As an investor, you can learn a lot from Olympic marathoners – so put this knowledge to good use. This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Edward Jones Financial Advisor. See ad on page 39. · Summer Hours for the Country Club The summer hours for the Country Club Business Office are: Monday through Sunday: 8:00 AM to 5:00 PM Remember you will only be able to access the Insider News box during these hours. 24 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS On The Wynmoor Road/Bus Again By Myrna Berger Once, when I had just moved to Wynmoor, I overheard someone answer who was being asked why they had moved here? The answer simply was: “because Wynmoor has a wonderful bus system for the entire community, and I will need it someday”. Well, now that I have moved back to Wynmoor and don’t have a car and “I need it”, I can appreciate that comment very much. I have only the highest praise for the men and women that drive the buses and handle the daily calls for pick-ups from the buildings seven days a week from early morning until late at night. I also met a new resident who enjoyed taking the dinner bus because she was able to find new restaurants without driving around by herself and it was also a good way to meet some of the residents that she otherwise would not have had the opportunity to do. Without the hassle of driving around and finding a parking spot the bus brings residents back and forth to different restaurants each week. The shopping buses make it very easy to get to malls, banks, supermarkets, and the Festival Flea Market, with a schedule that accommodates residents all week. Special event buses give residents a chance to attend outside activities that they might not want to drive themselves, especially when the trip might be very long, driving to new territory and/or coming back late at night. I want to say here that the shopping bus drivers are the most patient, courteous and helpful to all the residents that use this service which is available six days a week. They know most of their passengers by name and always say hello to them. I have never noticed a grouchy driver and I mostly admire their ability to traverse the curves and sharp turns of some of the village roads. I know they are doing their job, but I feel that they definitely go the extra mile, pun intended. My feelings are the same for the jitney and on call drivers. Both day and night service drivers also deserve praise. One more group of people I want to applaud are the operators that take the calls on the dispatch line. I am sure that it can get a little crazy accommodating all the people calling to let people in and asking for a bus pickup. There has never been a time when I have been disappointed asking for a ride. I strongly recommend for anyone that would like to have a lovely tour of Wynmoor around the circle, where you could see the beauty of the lakes and some of the displays of all the trees and flowering bushes that are abundant on the road, take a bus ride. You would see all the villages, including those on the North road and where the maintenance and the security buildings are located. Enjoy a comfortable, air conditioned bus ride sometime! Be Alert...Be Ready... DON’T BE COMPLACENT Be Hurricane Ready INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 25 POETS and POETRY If your poetry was not in this issue because of space, we will try to get it in the next issue. Our goal is to give everyone an opportunity to have their work published. All poetry will be printed as submitted. A Dream By Judith Bobker I never learned to ride a bike, Or knit quite properly, I never mastered rod and reel, Or sang above high C. I couldn’t throw a baseball far, Or with a deadly aim, In fact, I was a total dud At any sporting game. I floundered in the swimming pool, Just like a sodden mop, And when it came to diving, all I did was belly-flop When I tried to snap my finger, Not a sound was heard, And when I tried to do the Charleston, I looked too absurd. I played piano for a while, But had not the ambition. The fire in the soul, to be A consummate musician. What I really wanted was To act upon the stage, Become another personage, To be a different age. But love and marriage, motherhood, Held all my days in sway, And thoughts of Broadway, Hollywood, Were safely tucked away. But life has many twists and turns, And ‘twas my destiny To wind up here in Florida, A Wynmoor retiree. And with the Actors Workshop, find In its dramatic theme, At last, the sweet fulfillment of A long and ardent dream. AMPLIFIED PHONES AVAILABLE Florida residents with a certified hearing loss are eligible to receive a free amplified phone from the non-profit Florida Telecommunications Relay, Inc. Cordless and corded phones for persons with mild to severe hearing loss. Limit one per customer. For more info. call 954-601-1930. Please Join Us For A Distribution of Amplified Phones: Friday, August 12th, 10:00am - 12:00pm Card Room 1 (by the library) October 14th, December 9th Must have a landline in your home. Must bring back defective FTRI phone to exchange for a new one. Special 2016 Homeowner Sign-Up Dates: Aug. 25, Sept. 22, Oct. 27, Nov. 17, Dec. 8 Semi-Annual White Elephant Sale Friday, August 26th from 9:30 AM - 2:00 PM in the Grand Ballroom. Registration began July 7th. All those who participated in Winter sale are eligible to register on Thursday, August 4th. One table per household. Cost $10.00. 26 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS Puzzles and Games Crossword Puzzle ACROSS 1. Apprehend 6. Makes a mistake 10. Assign a grade 14. Hello or goodbye 15. Bobbin 16. Norse god 17. Noteworthy 19. Schnozzola 20. Sleeping sickness carrier 21. Assist 22. Component of urine 23. Fancy 25. Alter 26. Froth 30. Spartan 32. Oval 35. Sincere 39. Time of the year 40. Skin pattern 41. A twisting force 43. Attack 44. Innate 46. Jar tops 47. He flies a plane 50. Cheapskate 53. Biblical garden 54. Lie 55. Emissary 60. Indian music 61. Deranged 63. Blacken 64. A noble gas 65. Anagram of “Amend” 66. Sacred 67. Declare untrue 68. Shorthand DOWN 1. A heavy open wagon 2. Beers 3. Hefty volume 4. Gossip 5. Abrasive 6. Historic period 7. Refund 8. Remedy 9. Sleigh 10. Significant 11. Love intensely 12. Ascended 13. Work dough 18. New Zealand parrot 24. Utilize 25. Tapestry 26. Gala 27. Margarine Solutions on page 61 Sudoku 28. Winglike 29. Overseas Christian Use your logic to find the correct number for each square. When finished, worker all nine rows across, all nine columns down and all nine 8-by-8 boxes 31. Dines must contain all nine numbers, 1 through 9 with no repeats. 33. Dot 34. Prig 36. Decorative case 37. Auctioned Find and circle all of the summer words that are hidden in the grid. 38. Infants The remaining letters spell an additional summer item. 42. Candidate 43. Autonomic nervous system 45. Award 47. Alight 48. Potato state 49. Lawful 51. L 52. Units of paper 54. A reserve of money 56. Annoying insect 57. Skin disease 58. Adolescent 59. Cocoyam 62. One or more a WORD or Two Word: usurp Definition: to seize and hold by force or without right Example: In her first managerial position, Hannah was hesitant to delegate critical tasks for fear that a subordinate might usurp her position. Word: abhor Definition: to regard with extreme repugnance; loathe Example: She is a strict vegetarian who abhors the consumption of meat. Trees APPLE APRICOT ASH ASPEN ARBORVITAE BALD CYPRESS BEECH BIRCH BOXWOOD BUCKEYE BUTTERNUT CATALPA CEDAR CHERRY CHESTNUT COTTONWOOD ELM FIR GINKGO GOLDENRAIN HAZELNUT HEMLOCK HICKORY LARCH LINDEN LONDON PLANE MAPLE NECTARINE OAK PALM PEACH PEAR PECAN PLUM PINE POPLAR REDBUD RUBBER TREE SEQUOIA SPRUCE SYCAMORE TULIPTREE WALNUT WITCHHAZEL WILLOW YELLOWWOOD INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 27 Visit Our Business Center located in the Country Club Hours: Mon.-Sun. 8:00am-5:00pm The Business Center provides services such as: • Copying • Faxing • Computer Service • Printing • Recreation Class/Trip Sign-ups • Studio Access • Guest Passes • Library Book Loans • Dinner Bus Sign-ups For more info, 954-978-2643 28 Front Row Center... AUGUST 2016 By Selma Glass Broward Stage Door Theater on Sample Road in Coral Springs has a good summer season to cool off in! Playing now until August 14th is Neil Simon’s ‘Broadway Bound’. This is part 3 of his autobiographical trilogy’ Eugene and his brother Stanley break into show biz as pro comedy writers, and their parents’ marriage comes to an end. Neil Simon’s plays are always funny, warm and touching, and audiences love them! Playing from August 5th – September 18th is ‘Blame It On The Movies’, a revue of over 75 of the most well-known songs in cinematic history, ranging from ‘Gone With The Wind’ to ‘Footloose’. It’s a fun-filled homage to movie musicals, screwball westerns, sizzling screen romances, thrillers, and action epics....... From September 2nd – October 16th is ‘The Rothschilds’, a 2-time Tony Award winner, a famous rags-to-riches story about the charismatic, resourceful and ambitious Mayer Rothstein and his family, and how they overcame prejudice to build a family banking business. They went from the Jewish ghetto to the courts of the rich and powerful. This play has not been shown in south Florida before and kudos to the Stage Door Theater for their selection! Broward Center for the Arts, Broadway Series, will present their new season INSIDER NEWS starting in October...more on their schedule later! Thomas Wolfe was a major American novelist of the early 20th century most notable for his first book, ‘Look Homeward Angel’. He also wrote ‘The Web and the Rock’, ‘You Can’t Go Home Again’, ‘Of Time and the River’. I was spellbound by his poetic words, his soaring emotions. When I was in high school, he was my favorite novelist and I read everything, his novels, short stories, poems. I typed out favorite passages and dramatized them to my friends. Unfortunately, he died at only 38 years old, of a rare disease. I had not heard or read anything about him for many years. A newly released movie is out called ‘Genius’. It focuses on Thomas Wolfe and his relationship with his editor, Maxwell Perkins. Perkins was also the editor of Ernest Hemingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald. This was a long and tumultuous relationship. Perkins edited the manuscript of Wolfe’s first novel, ‘Look Homeward Angel’ to a more manageable form (Wolfe wrote thousands of pages). I loved the movie and thought the acting of Jude Law as Wolfe, and Colin Firth as Perkins was extraordinary, and I wouldn’t be surprised if they were both nominated for an Academy Award! Nicole Kidman played Aline Bernstein, a Broadway costume designer who had a tumultuous relationship with Wolfe. I do hope the movie will be shown at Wynmoor. I will most certainly see it again! Wynmoor Saturday night shows are only $5.00 throughout the summer...cool off at the Wynmoor Theater and the movies! See you next month! INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 29 Rising Up To Meet The Challenge By Sheriff Scott Israel When I talk with residents in the community, I’m often asked if the Broward Sheriff’s Office has been able to make real improvements to keep our county and its 1.8 million residents safer and more secure. The short answer: Absolutely yes! When I became Sheriff in January 2013, Broward was in the midst of a public safety crisis. Crime had soared to unacceptable highs; our homeless and mentally ill were being treated as criminals; we were sending far too many kids to jail; and we had an agency that both failed to resemble our diverse community and struggled to connect with it. What a difference almost four years of hard work and innovative ideas can make. Thanks to BSO’s amazing sworn and civilian personnel and the agency’s progressive law enforcement initiatives, violent crime in Broward has plummeted to its lowest levels in decades. We’ve reversed the long trend of rising crime by performing exceptional police work while incorporating new proactive approaches to crime fighting, including intelligence-led policing. Our Violence Intervention Proactive Enforcement Response (VIPER) Unit, a crime-fighting initiative that targets Broward County’s most dangerous violent criminals, and the Burglary Apprehension Team (BAT), which targets criminals who break into homes and vehicles, are two highly successful examples. Since 2012, violent offenses are down 18 percent while burglaries have plunged a stunning 42 percent because of these two initiatives. BSO has also been quick in confronting unforeseen, new law enforcement challenges. When the highly-dangerous designer drug Flakka suddenly appeared and became an out-of-control scourge in Broward, we met it head on. Within months, we effectively stamped out the deadly drug from Broward’s streets. Yet, while a strong response is warranted during certain circumstances, I am also mindful there is no one-size-fits-all approach to public safety. Through the Juvenile Civil Citation Program and P.R.O.M.I.S.E. Program, thousands of students have been kept in the classroom and out of the courtroom – avoiding criminal records while being given a chance to turn their lives around. We have also made dramatic strides with our Homeless Outreach Initiative, which connects the homeless to appropriate social services – treating them with dignity and respect instead of arrests and costly jail space. BSO has also diligently worked to bring transparency and build community trust by embracing a community policing model where law enforcement and members of Broward’s diverse communities work hand in hand to improve public safety services and make their own neighborhoods safer. Amazingly, we have accomplished far more by working with far less. As good stewards of taxpayer dollars, we have become more streamlined, smarter and efficient in tackling the public safety issues confronting us. In the years to come, I vow to continue to advance the mission and goals of BSO. My top priorities include: the expansion of our body-worn camera program so all deputies are equipped with the technology; the further development of the Civil Citation Program; and increased fraud protections for senior citizens. The past four years have brought about huge successes, and I am excited for what BSO has in store for the future. AUGUST 2016 PROGRAMS... 30 INSIDER NEWS North Regional/Broward College Library AUGUST 1100 Coconut Creek Blvd. • Coconut Creek, FL 33066 • 954-201-2601 ADULT PROGRAMS: 1st Floor Adult Community Coloring: The world has become a complicated and stressful place. Adult coloring is a therapeutic way to escape. If you’re coloring, you’re not checking your smart phone, surfing the web, responding to emails, flipping channels, or tweeting. Take some time today, to reduce your stress by being creative! Sponsored by the Friends of North Regional/BC Library. 2nd Floor Gallery Exhibit: Photography by Robert Grauer. Award winning photographer, exhibits Exhibits: his passion for fine art photography. 2nd Floor Book Display: Olympic spirit is here! For the summer, at least. We’ll be featuring a display table with books, dvds, and other goodies about the Olympics and Olympic sports. Check it out! Gallery: Seven Doors. An art installation by local artist Nazli Amirghasemi. Seven Doors leads one on 2nd Floor Jigsaw Puzzle: Collaborate with other library customers to complete a challenging jigsaw expedition through different cultures of the world. Reflecting on how knowledge helps overcome bar puzzle. March 2016 Programs leadsLANGUAGE to a strongerCLASSES: connection between humans. Tuesdays & Wednesdays – English Café: a conversation practice class for intermediate learners of English. 6:30Case: to 7:45 p.m. Rm 226Craft Art Exhibit. Earthsea Characters and Creatures inspired Display Asian Paper 1st Floor Wednesdays – Spanish Café: conversational Spanish practice for English speakers. 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. Read selection “AonWizard of Earthsea.” Teen Room 1st Floor. Freegal® Music Freegal® Music Service offers download access to more than 8 million songs, including Sony Music’s catalog of legendary artists. In total the collection is comprised of music Display Case: Check out some of the top books: Top Book of 2015. 2nd Floor from over 28,000 labels with music that originates in over 80 countries. Compatible with most devices, you can download up to 6 songs per week once downloaded, they never expire, time-out, or disappear! Language Classes:Just log on to the service with your library card number and PIN (the last 4 digits of your phone number). Thursdays – Digital Downloads Open House. Learn how to access and download free books, music, Tuesdays & Wednesdays Café:First a conversation practice class for intermediate magazines and movies –toEnglish your device. come, first served. Noon to 1:00 p.m. Rm 226 learners of Music Appreciation with Walter Ladden, featuring the works of German 6:30Tuesday, to 7:45 August p.m. Rm2 –226 composer, conductor, pianist, guitarist and critic, Carl Maria Von Weber. 10:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. Rm 226 Thursday, –August 4 –Café: Florida Votes – A Brief History. The League of Women Voters6:30 of Broward Wednesdays Spanish conversational Spanish practice for English speakers. to 7:30 p.m County invites you to a fascinating presentation which examines the important events that define on 1st Floor. Florida’s 170-year voting history. 1 to 2:30 p.m. Rm 154 Monday, August 8 – Distribution of No Cost Amplified Telephones to Hearing Impaired Florida Residents. 2 by to 4VITA: p.m. Rm 226 Tax Preparation Tuesday, August 9 – Lunch & Learn @ Your Library Series: “The Light Between Oceans” by M. L. Stedman. Bring your lunch and join librarian Morgan Reeves for book discussion. 12:30 to 2 p.m. Rm Free Income Tax226Assistance: Income requirement is $54,000.00 or less, taxes are filed electronicall Thursday, August 11 – Movie Matinee: “Star Wars: The Force Awakens”. Three decades after Original Cards for you, ayour and/orThedependents social security theSocial defeatSecurity of the Galactic Empire, newspouse threat arises. 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All levels of fitness welcome. 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Rm 226 1095A, 1095BAugust or 1095C. you qualified for an exemption through Insurance Marketplac Saturday, 20 – IfColor Your World: Rediscovering Coloringthe asHealth an Adult. Join artist Doris Krueger for inspiration, tips and, techniques. 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Rm 226 Exemption Certificate Number (ECN). SEPTEMBER MOVIES: Thursday, September 8 - Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. A nine-year-old amateur inventor, Friday, March 4, 2016 10:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Rm 226 Francophile, and pacifist searches New Your City for the lock that matches a mysterious key left behind by hisMarch father,7, who died in the world September 11, Monday, 2016 2:00Trade p.m.Center – 7:00onp.m. Rm2001. 2262012, rated PG 2013. Monday,September March 14, 2:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Hélène’s Rmnewfound 154 (Auditorium) Wednesday, 21 2016 – Queen to Play. Middle-aged chambermaid obsession with the game of chess leads her to seek10:00 the tutelage a reclusive Friday, March 18, 2016 a.m. –of3:00 p.m. American Rm expat, 226 transforming both of their ho-hum lives in the process. 2009. French with English subtitles. Saturday, March 19, 2016 11:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. Rm 154 (Auditorium) INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 31 32 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 33 34 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 35 Best Brain Training: Get Moving By Michael Roizen, M.D., and Mehmet Oz, M.D. For a rock-solid memory and razor-sharp brainpower, get up and move! A growing stack of research confirms that working your brain as if it were a core muscle keeps it younger and fitter. Exercise is good for your brain, for a ton of reasons. One biggie: Getting active slashes stress, and taming tension is the single most important thing you can do to slow memory loss and sidestep fuzzy thinking. Stress hormones switch off parts of the hippocampus, a brain area involved with memory, reducing the ability to learn. Over time, high anxiety can tip over into depression, and that messes with memory. These days, we’re excited about the slew of new research that shows how exercise helps your brain: --Better blood flow. Exercise increases circulation in areas of the brain hit hardest by Alzheimer’s disease, says one new study from the University of Kentucky. Volunteers who were the most fit had the best blood flow to regions where Alzheimer’s plaques and tangles happen. --More connections. Getting active increases levels of a brain chemical called brain-derived neurotrophic growth factor, which helps brain cells grow and connect. More connections boost brainpower. In a recent study from Rush University Medical Center in Chicago of 525 older people, those with the most BDNF showed the smallest declines in mental prowess. This was true even for those with signs of Alzheimer’s disease, suggesting that BDNF builds extra connections in the brain that may act as collateral pathways around diseased areas, allowing you to still find your keys, balance your checkbook and enjoy your life. --Less brain “trash.” Movement helps your brain use more glutamate, an amino acid that helps neural pathways transmit signals. When excess glutamate piles up between cells, it creates tiny toxic-waste dumps that are linked to a wide variety of brain disorders as well as to dementia. Researchers from Canada’s University of Guelph found that exercise can increase the amount of glutamate your brain uses, so there’s less trash mucking up things. The best save-your-brain plan combines exercise with these other essentials: 1. Other stress-soothing activities, such as meditation, knitting, bowling with friends or listening to your favorite music; 2. a healthy eating plan that has you staying away from the Five Food Felons -- most saturated and all trans fats, added sugars and sugar syrups, and any grain that isn’t 100 percent whole -- and eating plenty of produce, whole grains and good fats like the omega-3s in salmon and wild trout; 3. taking supplements containing, specifically, DHA omega-3. ALA omega-3 may also be beneficial for your eyes, joints and brain, and is found in food like walnuts and avocados. Daily mental challenges, such as learning a language, doing crosswords or Sudoku, or other brain-stimulating mental gymnastics also are beneficial. Try these activities: Yoga plus meditation: In a recent University of California Los Angeles study of 25 adults age 55 and older with mild memory problems, this combo was even better than brain-training games at improving memory and reducing depression. A weekly class plus 20 minutes of daily practice was all it took. Yoga can ease stress, reduce inflammation and encourage formation of new brain connections. Gardening, dancing and other fun stuff: In a new University of Pittsburgh study, scans of the 876 volunteers revealed that the more activity the better it was for the brain. Everything from walking and gardening to dancing and going to the gym kept the brains of older adults bigger, reducing risk for Alzheimer’s by up to 50 percent. Aerobic exercise: In one recent lab study, aerobic activities -- a long walk, pedaling your exercise bike while you watch the nightly news, a new class at the gym -- bested strength training for stimulating growth of new cells in a brain area involved with learning and memory. In another study of 876 older adults, varying between moderate and intense exercise translated into faster thinking and keener memories. Their brains were comparatively 10 years younger than non-exercisers’ were. *** Mehmet Oz, M.D. is host of “The Dr. Oz Show,” and Mike Roizen, M.D. is Chief Wellness Officer and Chair of Wellness Institute at Cleveland Clinic. To live your healthiest, tune into “The Dr. Oz Show” or visit www.sharecare.com. (c) 2016 Michael Roizen, M.D. and Mehmet Oz, M.D. Distributed by King Features Syndicate, Inc. 36 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS United States Democracy By Philip Edwards Sit down and hold on. This is probably different than you thought. Americans share a reverence for our Founding Fathers that wrote the Declaration of Independence and created our Constitution. Most were remarkable and gifted people, but like all of us, they were shaped and influenced by their environment and their prejudices. John Adams, a Founding Father and our second President, was married to Abigail Adams. She wrote to her husband, “And, by the way, in the New Code of Laws (Constitution) which I suppose it will be necessary for you to make, I desire you would remember the ladies.” She was asking equal treatment (liberation) for women. John’s response, “As to your extraordinary code of laws, I cannot but laugh.” My guess is those long cold New England nights just got colder for John. The colonists were entrenched and followed the British form of government that was imposed on them. Before Independence, only white wealthy freehold landowners who were “invested” could vote or hold office. During the war, this same pattern held true. One was considered invested in the country if they bought and owned large acreage of land. Obviously, women, minorities, slaves, the middle class, the poor, Jews, Quakers, and most Catholics could not vote. Each state set their own requirements and criteria for voting and holding government positions. After four bloody years of war, in which more colonists died in English prison barges off the east coast than died in actual combat, the colonists argued that they, too, were invested in America, even without land or money. They argued they were invested with their arms, legs, vocations, assets, and their very lives in liberty and America. Most states reduced, refined, or eliminated the freehold requirement to vote or hold public office for white free men. However, many of the states continued religious restrictions until 1850. Connecticut and Massachusetts implemented the first literacy tests to discriminate against the Irish. I am half Irish. Many of our forefathers rejected and resisted the right of every free man to vote, not just because they weren’t wealthy, but also because they came from that British background that believed commoners were too unsophisticated, uneducated and unprepared to make those types of decisions. Most of our forefathers not only did not believe in the populist vote, but the thought of all citizens voting scared them to death. The privileged colonist felt the poor would sell their votes, the uneducated would squander votes, the weak would be intimidated by the powerful, and drinkers would be directed by alcohol. George Washington was accused in 1757 of providing 144 gallons of rum to voters in order to win an office in Virginia. Dr. Benjamin Rush said, ‘They call it democracy—mobocracy in my opinion would be more proper.” John Adams responded to a suggestion to open the voting rights to all free men, “It is dangerous to open so fruitful a source of controversy and altercation, as would be opened by attempting to alter the qualification of voters. There will be no end to it John Randolph, who became a member of Congress from Virginia said, “I am an aristocrat. I love liberty. I hate equality. Are we men?” His argument was that only the wealthy should vote and have a place at the political table. James Kent from New York wrote, The tendency of universal suffrage is to jeopardize the rights of property, and the principles of liberty.” Senator Gouvemer Morris I of New York, who wrote the Preamble to the Constitution and other sections, had this to say about the populist vote, The mob begin to think and reason. Poor reptiles! It is with them a vernal morning, they are struggling to cast off their winter’s slough (skin) and ere noon they will bite, depend upon it He aggressively pressed for only allowing wealthy landowners to vote and hold political office. For him, We the people really meant in his heart, We the privileged. The strongest consistent voice for universal suffrage was from the old, wise, and battle worn statesman, Benjamin Franklin. However, our first congressional leaders so feared the populist vote that they instituted two items in the Constitution to ensure that those in power were given an advantage. Originally, Senators were not elected by voters, but by the state legislators. This system became so corrupt that Congress passed the 17th Amendment in 1913 that changed the way Senators are elected. From 1913, qualified voters in their states have elected their Senators. The second way the forefathers attempted to block the populist vote was to create the Electoral College that actually elects the President of the United States, rather than the vote of the people. This continues today. ‘The Electoral College consists of 538 electors. A majority of 270 electoral votes is required to elect the President. Your state’s entitled allotment of electors equals the number of members in its Congressional delegation: one for each member in the House of Representatives plus two for your Senators.” Each state’s collective votes determine how the electors will vote. Therefore, the need is there to vote for your choice and hope that the accumulated votes produce the candidate of your choice for the Presidency. Our forefathers, like us, were not perfect. The Preamble of the Constitution says, ‘We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect Union ...”. Everyday of every year, we work to make it better for all of us. We the People. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 37 38 AUGUST 2016 Wynmoor Pickleball Club Members Win City of Coconut Creek Tournament By Sandra Cohen On June 14th, the City of Coconut Creek Recreation Center at the corner of Lyons Road and Coconut Creek Parkway, held their first pickleball tournament and luncheon. Several of our Wynmoor Pickleball Club members participated, and took three of the top four winning positions. When the participants arrived in the morning, teams of two were established through a random drawing. Although the competition was tough, Wynmoor resident Leeland Shanle and his partner Coconut Creek resident Mike Darienzo took first place. Each received a first place medal and a $25 gift certificate to Dick’s Sporting Goods. Irwin Cohen and his partner Robin Thompson, both Wynmoor residents, took second place. INSIDER NEWS Veterans POST By Freddy Groves Operation Gratitude Operation Gratitude needs our help. Carolyn Blashek, founder of OpGrat, recently sent out a request for funds to ship 3,272 more care packages to troops currently deployed in dangerous areas. It costs $15 to send one box, so you can do the math. It needs a lot of dollars. Since its founding in 2003, Operation Gratitude has sent 1.5 million care packages to our active-duty men and women who are deployed overseas. Donations of items for the boxes are given by large corporations and small companies, individuals and groups. The boxes always contain excellent treats valued at nearly $100, and might include videos, flash drives, candy, books, toiletries, games and more. Each one contains letters from home. Sometimes there might be a key to a brand-new vehicle that will be waiting when the soldier, sailor, airman or Marine gets home. Additionally, OpGrat now sends packages to first responders, wounded heroes, new recruits and more. But the postage ... that’s the big problem. There are no government handouts, no discounts from the Post Office. It’s all on us to help with that. OpGrat always does a big push at the holidays, and the goal this year is to send out 250,000 packages as they close in on the 2 million mark. If you can help out with the cost of mailing a couple of boxes, or even just a few dollars, send a check to: Operation Gratitude PO Box 260257 Encino, CA 91426-0257 Or visit www.operationgratitude.com for ways to donate online. Your donation is tax deductible. If you like to check out things out in advance (good for you, if you do), go online to CharityNavigator.com and hunt for Operation Gratitude. You’ll see it has a solid four-star rating with a 100-percent accountability and transparency score. (c) 2016 King Features Synd., Inc. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 39 Broward County Property Appraiser Lori Parrish Answers Your Questions It's TRIM Time for Broward County Residents Dear Lori: We just bought a new home in Broward County. When does the Broward County Property Appraiser mail the 2016 proposed tax notices and what is the best way to contact your office if we have questions regarding our property’s 2016 valuation and exemptions? The Wilsons, Hollywood, FL (via email) On August 12, 2016, the Broward County Property Appraiser will mail over 770,000 Proposed Tax (TRIM) Notices to property owners on behalf of the various Broward County taxing authorities. The 2016 TRIM Notices will provide property owners information on their 2016 property assessment, exemptions, proposed tax amounts and proposed tax rates. These notices inform property owners of their right to both appeal their property assessment and to attend their various taxing authority budget hearings regarding the proposed tax rates. The Property Appraiser’s Office does not set tax rates or collect taxes. If you wish to discuss the proposed tax rate or any new fees or fee increases on your TRIM Notice, you should contact the County Commission, School Board, City Commission and other taxing authorities listed on the TRIM Notice. The TRIM Notice will include phone numbers for each taxing authority, as well as the schedule of the budget public hearings. Each taxing authority is required to hold two hearings before setting the tax rate. These agencies welcome comments from taxpayers like you when setting their budgets and tax rates. The Property Appraiser’s Office determines the property’s market value as of January 1, 2016 and grants exemptions to qualified applicants. If you believe you may be eligible for an exemption you are not currently receiving, you can still late file for all 2016 exemptions until September 19, 2016. For exemption questions and assistance, please call 954.357.6830 or email Kelly Brown at [email protected]. If you believe the market value of your property, as stated on your 2016 TRIM Notice is not what a buyer would have reasonably paid for your property on January 1, 2016, you must contact our office or file a petition with the Value Adjustment Board by the September 19, 2016 deadline. Please be advised you cannot challenge your actual tax amount, but rather your property assessment. If you would like to discuss your 2016 property assessment please call or email or visit our office. For residential properties, please call 954.357.6831 or email Scott Lewis at [email protected]. For condo, co-op and timeshare properties, please call 954.357.6832 or email Maureen Morrison at [email protected]. For commercial properties, please call 954.357.6862 or email Vincent Clark at [email protected]. You may also contact me directly at 954.357.6904 or by email at [email protected]. Our office is located at 115 South Andrews Avenue, Room 111, Fort Lauderdale. The office is open from 7:00AM to 6:00PM (Monday – Friday). To better accommodate the schedules of working families, our office will be open on Saturday, August 27 and Saturday, September 10 from 8:30AM to 5:00PM. If after speaking to one of our appraisers, you still disagree with our determination of the 2016 market value, we will help you file an appeal petition directly with the Value Adjustment Board (VAB). All valuation petitions must be received by the VAB (115 South Andrews Avenue, Room 120, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301) by close of business on September 19, 2016. You may also file a petition online with the VAB https://bcvab.broward.org/ axiaweb2016. Should you have any questions regarding the VAB, please contact their office directly at [email protected] or 954.357.7205. Should you need additional information about property assessments, exemptions, and the TRIM Notice, please visit www.bcpa.net or call 954.357.6830. Sincerely, Lori Lori Parrish, CFA If you have a question for Lori, please email her at [email protected] or write to her at the Broward County Property Appraiser’s Office, 115 South Andrews Avenue, Room 111, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301. 40 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS Donald Buikus Attorney at Law 1402 North State Road 7 • Margate, Florida (954) 974-2704 REAL ESTATE CLOSINGS TITLE INSURANCE PROBATE, WILLS Gulfstream Park and Casino Monday, August 1st Receive $10.00 Free play and $7.00 Meal Voucher. Departs Tract 1000 at 10:00 AM Cost: $7.00 HHH REASONABLE FEES Real Estate Closings $495.00 Quit Claim Deed $125.00 Single Simple Will $ 75.00 Durable Power of Attorney $ 75.00 Living Will $ 10.00 Clearing of Title When One Spouse Dies $195.00 Probate Call for Price Plus costs, recording fees, filing fees or title insurance premiums The hiring of a lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely on advertisements. Before you decide, ask us to send you free written information regarding our qualification and experience. Benvenuto Opera Luncheon Thursday, August 18th Join us for an Opera show and luncheon at Benvenuto. Includes a gourmet lunch, show and transportation. Departs Tract 1000 at 10:45 AM. Cost: $42.00 HHH Dania Jai-Alai Monday, August 22nd Receive $10.00 Free play and $5.00 meal voucher. Government ID required upon registration. Departs Tract 1000 at 9:45 AM. Cost: $7.00 HHH Miami Marlins vs. LA Dodgers Friday, September 9th First pitch is at 7:10 pm. Depart Tract 1000 at 4:00 pm. Cost: $49.00 A Night at The Cove This event continues, every other Thursday Night from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM on the Country Club Patio! A free event to all our residents and their guests. Live Music, Food and Dancing under the stars. Food is available for purchase until 7:00 PM. August 11th: King Arthur August 25th: Edie DiCaro September 8th: Mike Rapposelli September 22nd: Randy Stevens Afternoon Mall Schedule PICK UP STARTS AT 12:00 NOON Monday: Publix (return time 2:30 PM) Tuesday: Coral Square Mall & Michaels (return time 3:00 PM) Wednesday: Walmart (Atlantic Blvd.) (return time 3:00 PM) Thursday: Festival Flea Market (return time is 3:00 PM) Friday: 1st Friday: Super Target 2nd Friday: Publix 3rd Friday: Boca Town Center 4th Friday: Publix 5th Friday: coral Square & Michaels (return time for all malls is 3:00 PM) Saturday Morning: Penn Dutch & Walmart (Turtle Run) EVERY WEEK INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 ALL YEAR ROUND CLUB Presents GAMBLERS GETAWAY September 21st & 22nd 2016 Your trip will include: Door to door luxury motor coach transportation Gaming at The Isles Casino, $10 Free Play & $4 Coupon for use at the buffet Check in at the Holiday Inn, Ft Myers Forum Champagne Cocktails & Hors d’ouevres Dinner & Show at the Broadway Palm Yesterday’s – The Rockin 50’s & Groovin 60’s Hot breakfast buffet Gaming at Dania Beach Casino, $10 Free Play & $5 Food Voucher $121 per person – $30 single supplement For more information please call: Joy 954-978-2222 or Selma 954-415-2974 2016 Homestead Exemption Property Tax Exemption Filing Dates Announced For The Wynmoor Residents Broward County Property Appraiser Lori Parrish has announced special 2016 homeowner sign-up dates for Homestead, Senior and other property tax exemptions. Deputy Property Appraisers will be accepting applications Homestead, Senior and other property tax exemptions at the Wynmoor Main Clubhouse Library. 2016 Schedule Deputy Property Appraisers will assist residents at the main clubhouse on the fourth Thursday of each month from 10:00am - 12:00pm: November 17, 2016** December 8, 2016** **Please note: 3rd Thursday in November & 2nd Thursday in December Documents required to file a Homestead Exemption include: • a current Florida driver’s license or Florida identification card, and • a current voter registration card or declaration of domicile • Non-US citizens must also provide proof of permanent residency. Qualified residents 65 years of age or older as of January 1, 2016 may also apply for the additional Senior Exemption. Eligible seniors must have a total household income not to exceed $28,482. Seniors must bring a copy of their 2015 Income Tax Return or a copy of their 2015 Social Security 1099 form if no tax return was filed. The Property Appraiser’s full outreach calendar can be viewed at www. bcpa.net/Events.asp. For further information visit our website at www.bcpa. net or contact The Outreach Department at 954.357.5579 or [email protected]. * Third Thursday in November & Second Thursday in December to avoid holiday conflicts 41 42 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS Dear Dr. Joy... By Joy Berke Sanchez, PhD Dear Dr. Joy, I have never gone to a psychologist and wonder what it is like. Do I lie on a couch while you sit there in a chair taking notes? Must I confess my most inner feelings? Please tell me what I should expect, should I choose to seek professional help, and what is the theory behind what you do? I’ll answer your questions and then give you some general information. If a person is thinking about seeking psychotherapy they should first become somewhat savvy about what they are looking to accomplish. Unfortunately most people have no idea what they are looking for. They usually get a list of providers from their insurance companies and choose a therapist by where they are located, whether they want a male or female or if they like the person’s name. Another way people find a therapist is by asking friends or family if they know someone and if they found that person helpful. That’s somewhat better than the provider list. A better way is to speak with your physician and hopefully he or she will recommend someone who would be a good match for you. A good match is someone who does the type or types of therapies that have a good chance of working for what ails you. It also means that you feel comfortable, understood, look forward to your next session and just ‘click’ with that person. Truthfully a person has to be lucky to find the appropriate psychotherapist the first time around. It does happen but certainly not always. What is more common is that you will see someone two or three times before you make a decision as to whether you want to stay or try someone else. As for what transpires once you are there, it varies from therapist to therapist and client to client. It is mainly Freudian analysts who have patients lie on a couch and although I am fairly well versed in the technique on an intellectual level, I have never actually used it, nor am I trained in Freudian analysis. It is still being used, but personally, I only know one person in that particular discipline. In my office individuals sat in a big comfy reclining chair with a hassock while I sat facing them in a not so comfy upright chair. Sometimes I took notes but most of the time I wrote what I needed to write after the session was over. Couples often sat on a loveseat in my office or on two facing chairs. I always had clients tape their sessions because I found that the moment they walked out the door, they totally forgot what was said. It was especially useful for couples, parents and children and business partners. They were told to listen to the tape twice; once right after the session and once right before the next session so it was fresh in their minds. Some clients saved all their tapes and some taped right over them the next week. Also, I frequently worked with an easel, where I wrote down key phrases, drew diagrams or used it in other useful ways. Usually I sent the client home with the papers. As for theories behind therapy, these are also varied. Obviously, psychologists/psychotherapists believe that when people are troubled in some area of their lives, they can be helped to overcome whatever difficulties they are having and be more fulfilled, happier, calmer and engage in ‘better’ relationships. The way the therapist will approach a presenting problem will depend on the personality of the client and the nature of the issue. For example, some people are very cerebral and look at life scientifically while being removed or alienated from their emotional state. Others experience their emotions as being very close to the surface and can’t put them aside to think through their problems with clarity and reason. It is clear that these two people must be dealt with differently. The nature of the problem is also quite relevant. Grief for example, needs to be dealt with on an emotional level and the ‘scientist’ would have great difficulty in thinking his way out of feeling that kind of pain. One of the techniques I find very useful is relatively unknown. It is called Structural Consulting and can be used for individuals, couples, families, businesses, etc. Using this, the therapist or consultant would attempt to uncover the concepts that are held unconsciously by the client(s) that lead to unproductive behavior and undesired results. This is done simply by asking questions of the client until the concept is revealed and then the client is shown how the concept is interfering in his or her life and together we rethink it. There are usually no emotions involved and it ‘is a purely cognitive session. If successful, it works very well and very quickly. The downside to this technique is that many people don’t want to fully look inside themselves and think through their answers. It requires honesty and the ability to think rationally. If the client continues to say “I don’t know’ in answer to the question, then the session has to end and another approach must be used. The challenge for the consultant is in knowing which question to ask and when to ask it. It is a technique that takes years of training and is difficult to master and therefore there are only a handful of therapists who are certified to use it. I hope I’ve answered your questions and also hope that other readers have found this interesting. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 43 44 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 45 CONDO LAW Q A By Mark Bogen and Q I have owned my condo unit for years and have rented it out most of the time I have owned it, sometimes on a weekly basis. All of a sudden, the board had a board meeting and decided the minimum lease term must be 1 month. Is the board able to change the minimum lease terms? A No. However, you must look at your association’s governing documents to see if and what leasing restrictions bound the owners. If it currently states the minimum rental period must be at least one week, then the board may not enact any rule that conflicts with the governing documents. In order to change the minimum lease term, the owners would have to approve an amendment to your governing documents that change these restrictions. Under Florida law, even if the owners do approve the change and you do not, you would be grandfathered in until there is a change in ownership for your unit. HHHHHHH Q A May the board pass a rule that prohibits smoking anywhere on the common elements (common areas)? Yes. The board is able to pass a rule to prohibit smoking within the common elements such as a clubhouse, corridors or catwalks, and other common areas. Thursday Night Bingo will be held in the Ballroom. Doors open at 6 PM, game begins at 7 PM. All Wynmoor residents are welcome! Q My wife and I own a unit. May wife works in the management office for our association and I want to be on the board. Is this allowed because my wife works in the management office? A Generally, yes this is allowed. If you are a director, you would access to all of the records that your wife would have access to being in the management office. HHHHHHH Q I received a fine violation notice from our HOA board for having a sign on my front yard stating that my home was protected by a security alarm company. May I be fined for having this type of sign? A For HOA’s, any owner may display a sign of reasonable size provided by the security company so long as the sign is installed within 10 feet from the entrance to your home. If the sign is further than 10 feet from any entrance to your home, then you would be subject to a fine if the association’s governing documents or architectural rules prohibit signs. 46 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS Dinner Theatre AUGUST 2016 The Lion In Winter By Lynne List On Sunday afternoon, February 12th, the fantastic drama, The Lion in Winter, will be presented here in Wynmoor’s West Wing by the Supper Club. This is not an historical drama, though the characters are real. This is a story of intrigue, infidelity, and murder plots; a story of personal and political conflicts of King Henry II. The show was first seen as a movie starring Katherine Hepburn and then moved to the stage starring Glenn Close. There will be ONLY ONE PERFORMANCE. The show will be performed by the Curtain Call Playhouse, a talented professional travelling troupe, who will be performing at the Willow Theatre in Boca, the Sunrise Theater, and other venues in Broward and Palm Beach Counties. Doors will open at 1:00 PM and the curtain goes up at 2:00 PM after the audience has enjoyed a light lunch of Roast Beef and Turkey croissant sandwiches, potato salad, a succulent chocolate dessert, coffee and iced tea. The ticket price is only $15 per person, tax and gratuity included, for the lunch and the show. Tables hold 8 to 9 people and will be assigned on a first come first served basis. Flyers and Order Forms will be emailed in early September. (Please note, if you supplied your email for the musical you do not need to give it to us again, and please do not.) If you have not sent in your email then send it to [email protected] and write Supper Club in the subject line. If you do not have an email, you can send a self-addressed stamped envelope to Lynne List 2708 Nassau Bend, Apt. F-1. When the forms are available in early September they will be sent to you. 47 By Lynne List What is “I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change”? It’s a witty musical revue that tackles modern love in all its forms, from the perils and pitfalls of the first date to marriage. It will have you rolling in the aisles as it takes on the truths and myths behind “the relationship.” It is also the second longest running Off-Broadway hit musical. This tells you, in itself, what a great show it is. The show will be presented in the West Wing for three performances on Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday March 8th, 9th and 10th by the professional traveling troupe, The Curtain Call Playhouse who also will be performing the show in various venues in Broward and Palm Beach Counties. Prior to the show, the patrons will enjoy a gourmet sit-down served dinner provided by Olde Florida Catering. The meal will consist of a glass of wine (BYOB if you want more), a garden salad, and a choice of Chicken Marsala or Salmon in Dill Sauce, Rice Pilaf, Baby Carrots, éclair for dessert and coffee, tea and soda. The total cost, per person, including tax and gratuities is only $32. Imagine, a wonderful dinner and Broadway show for no more, or less, than what you would pay for a meal in a good restaurant. 48 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 49 50 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 1803 Eleuthera 51 NEIGHBORLY NEWS By Marlene Lieberman Thanks to our recreation department for bringing the July 4th Party indoors. The food was good and plentiful, the DJs had people dancing around all afternoon. Looking forward to next year. Since things are quiet around our building, this will be a potpourri of my thoughts as I go along. Did you know that the Florida schools are reopening around mid-August? The temperatures are the hottest (around 90º) this year. Why do you put your discarded furniture, pictures, knick knacks outside of you storage bin? Why do you leave the lights on, the door open after exiting the garbage room or storage area? For all the dog owners – please keep them on a leash, keep them from barking and scaring non-dog lovers. Thanks for cleaning up after them. We love them too. Whew! Got that off my chest. August Happy Birthday: Lorraine Dunleavy, Marilyn Oshins, Sal Granato. Happy Anniversary: Grace and Frank Petruzzi, Maralyn and Bruce Wallace. Happy moving to Evelyn Chertok. She is relocating to be near her family on the West Coast of Florida. Evelyn has been the past president of the 1803 Social club for many years. Under her leadership the Club planned luncheons, dinners and many activities too much to mention. So we bid “Adieu” to a lovely lady. May you enjoy many more years in good health. We will miss you. Make every day –a Happy Day. 2901 Victoria Circle Our July Fourth Celebration was a big success thanks to Kia Williams, our fabulous staff and all our resident volunteers led by Ceil Eitman who helped them set up. The high, Wynmoor spirit was on display along with the colorful decorations, beautiful, patriotic centerpieces made, as usual, by Rita Margolin (L-2) and the music made everyone feel like dancing. The festivities began with the Presentation of Colors hosted by the American Legion Post #170 led by Commander Don Schwiesow and was totally impressive. This day was another superb ‘win’ for Wynmoor! We’re about to start our laundry room floor project and let’s keep our fingers crossed that it goes smoothly. I know, I know – something always happens that is totally unexpected and usually unpleasant but I’m hoping for the best and relying on all of you to be patient. It’ll look great when it’s done. That’s it for now. ‘Til next month stay well, keep safe and please be good to each other. 3204 Portofino Point By Frances Schoenberg We are sorry to report the loss of one of our longtime residents on June 20th. Philip Rubin was Assistant Director of our building for many years and served us well. We will miss him and offer our condolences to his wife, Doris and their family. Our building director, Lee Warman has been in the hospital and is now recovering in rehab. We wish her good health in the future. Keep well and have a pleasant summer. By Joan Sampson Maybe it’s me, but I don’t remember a summer as consistently hot and humid as this one! It started early and just hasn’t let up. Thank heaven for our nice, cool pools – all of which seem to be up and running! It’s the place to be! Do You Want To Be Notified or Not? If you have a computer and wish to be notified of cancellations or emergency situations in Wynmoor, contact Fred Michael in the Administration Building to give him your e-mail address. You will be notified of any cancellations. i.e. The Cove canceled due to inclement weather. When Wynmoor calls us to take action. In the case of the traffic fiasco, Fred let us know who to call or email. It turned out that over four hundred Wynmoorites did call and or email and the next day there was relief in the traffic situation. 52 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS August Classes Monday Chair Yoga (Charland): Starting August 1st from 1:00 – 2:00 PM for 5 weeks; $35.00 Tuesday Creativity Unlimited - Paint (Benezra): Starting August 2nd from 10:00 AM – 12:00 for 4 weeks; $45.00 Following the Leader - Paint (Emerick): Starting August 2nd from 1:00 – 3:00 PM for 4 weeks $30.00 Jewelry Repair/ Button Necklaces (Holtzman): Starting August 9th from 9:15 AM – 12:15 PM for ONE DAY; $20.00 Line Dancing (Levitan): Starting August 2nd from 10:00 – 11:00 AM for 5 weeks; $35.00 Thursday Canasta (Levitan): Starting August 4th from 3:30 – 5:30 PM for 4 weeks; $32.00 Mah Jongg (Levitan): Starting August 4th from 1:00 – 3:00 PM for 4 weeks; $32.00 Saturday Yoga (Charland): Starting August 6th from 9:00 – 10:00 AM for 4 weeks; $28.00 Sunday Line Dancing, Intermediate/Advance (Levitan): Starting August 7th from 4:00 – 5:00 PM for 5 weeks; $35.00 Ongoing Sessions Golf Lessons (Battersby) Private Sessions available Tennis Lessons (Soifer) Private Sessions available Tennis Lessons (Kantor) Private Sessions available Wynmoor Personal Trainer Ron Molino Private Sessions available For more information, call Recreation at 954-978-2600, press 1. Register at the Recreation Office Monday - Friday from 8:00 AM – 4:45 PM OR at the Business Center in the Country Club, Monday - Friday, 8:00 AM – 12:45 PM AND 2:00 – 5:00 PM. Classes are on a monthly basis and must be taken consecutively. Classes are subject to change. Refunds are not granted after the start of the second class. City Matters INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 53 By Mayor Mikkie Belvedere Happy birthday and happy anniversary to all celebrating this month. Enjoy your day. On August 18, 1920 the nineteenth amendment was added to our constitution. It was the amendment that gave women the right to vote. I hope all women, men and eligible teens go out on August 30th for the primary election. This is a very important election. You can vote early; you can vote by mail. It is your right and obligation, EVERY VOTE COUNTS. If you don’t vote you cannot complain. Acquaint yourself with the candidates, new districts were drawn for state senate, there are many judicial candidates, US Congress, Amendments and your choice for President. August 2nd, 1790 the first census was taken. Coconut Creek was not even on the horizon. But 50 years ago a new city was born. We have grown, added housing, residents and commercial businesses and we are proud of our City. Look forward to the 50th celebration of our City next year. The Department of Health has some suggestions on mosquito bites protection in Florida. Mosquitos can also live indoors and they bite at any time, day or night. Some suggestions are, insect repellent, wear long sleeves, long pants, and stop mosquitos from breeding by removing all standing water. Mosquitos breed in standing water so keep flower pots and saucers free of standing water. At least once a week empty anything that could hold water: tires, buckets, birdbaths, trash, recycling bins, pet dishes. The IRS and the Police Department have received hundreds of calls from residents complaining of Scam IRS calls. Please just hang up or don’t answer your phone. It is very difficult to trace these calls. There are some methods of changing numbers or using throw away cell phones which are not traceable. Do not send them any money. THE IRS DOES NOT MAKE PHONE CALLS. There are many other scams out there. Be Careful. The Coconut Creek Police Departments Community Outreach Team visits Wynmoor on the 4th Thursday of each month from 2:30 to 3:30 PM in the Ballroom. Come and listen to crime and scams reported by our police and suggestions on how to protect yourself. Hope to see you there. Remember to call 911 for a medical emergency and 211 for information to connect to many social services. Some other numbers for seniors, Tops (transportation options) 866-682-2258, special medical needs shelter (we are still in hurricane season) registration and transportation 954-8313902, Medicare hotline 1-800-633-4227. For seniors over 50 living alone there is a service that will call you daily to see if you are ok. You can call for information at 954-640-5800. On the first Tuesday of every month we have a traveling office in our Wynmoor Library. A representative from Congressman Deutch is here to answer any questions and assist in resolving problems, the same for a representative from our State Representative Kristen Jacobs and myself. We are there from 10:30 AM to 12:00. Check us out. We are collecting used canes, walkers and other medical equipment. Please bring them to the security office or call security to come and pick them up. Thank you. Please don’t hesitate to call me with questions or suggestions at 954803-7696. Have a great day and keep smiling. 54 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS On August 7th and 21st, rain or shine, the congregation welcomes you to join them for meet and greets with their engaging clergy. Visit and learn more about Temple Beth Orr, located in Coral Springs, Florida. Enjoy food, music, and activities, such as a bounce house, glowin-the-dark mini golf. There will be workshops, tours of the synagogue and schools, and the opportunity to learn more about their alternative dues structure, with no fixed dues. Hours:11:00am-1:00pm at the southwest comer of Royal Palm Blvd. and Riverside Dr. in Coral Springs. All events will be held indoors. The schedule of additional events includes: 11:30 AM – Star Wars and Jewish Values with Rabbi Loving 12:00 PM – Shehecheyanu in a 21st Century Schedule with Cantor Barry There is no charge for admission. Please RSVP by visiting www.templebethorr.org/events or call the temple office at 954-753-3232. Temple Beth Orr is a dynamic, reform congregation, warmly welcoming singles, seniors and families of all ages including interfaith families and LGBT individuals and families. It is located in Coral Springs at 2151 Riverside Drive (southwest corner of Riverside Dr. & Royal Palm Blvd.) For more information: E-mail: [email protected]; web site: www.templebethorr.org. Telephone: 954-753-3232. TEMPLE BETH ORR INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 55 Clubs and Activities Acting Out Club By Katya Pucci Wynmoor’s newest club, “Acting Out” is the most fun we’ve had since the world was young! Come and play with us! Enjoy Theater Games, Improvisation, Character Development and Scene Study. For those who love to perform or just play, we have something for everyone!! Scientifically proven to enhance balance, cognition, memory, social skills and just plain joy, theater training opens our eyes to the potentiality we are and the awe and wonder we had as children! Club meetings are the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of each month at the Lecture Hall, 3:30 – 5:00 PM. No fees. For more information, please call Katya Pucci, 310-713-0819. Actors Workshop By Judy Bobker Actors Workshop will resume on September 9th. We will be auditioning and rehearsing for our next production in the spring of 2017. Please join us in the Lecture Hall on Fridays, from 1:00 – 3:00 PM. Here is your chance to bring out your hidden talent and enjoy the experience. We look forward to seeing you. Info – Judy – 954-973-4958. All Year Round Club By Joy Rifkin Our next meeting, will be on Sunday, August 14th at 10:00 AM. All members and new members are always welcome. We have many exciting things coming up. In September, we are running a Big Pizza Party on the 14th at 5:00 PM which will be a lot of fun. We are also running a terrific overnight to the West Coast to see “Yesterday”. We will also be going to a casino the first day and the second day with each day a $10.00 Free Play. The dates are September 21st and 22nd. The price is $121.00 for sharing, $30.00 more for own room. For more information call: Joy – 954-978-2222 or Selma – 954-968-7618. BOOKIES By Edythe Rishin BOOKIES meet year round on the first Tuesday of the month at 7:30 PM in Ballroom C. The group is open to any Wynmoor resident interested in reading, books, and a pleasant evening. We hope to greet you on August 2nd. The selection for that evening is The Nest by Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney, a story of four siblings and their hopes and plans based on their inheritance, and how it really works out. The book chosen for September 6th is The Space Between Sisters by Mary McNear, a familiar story of two sisters, completely different, “a stay up all night novel”. For further info. call Laura at 954-917-7677 or Edythe at 954-978-9824. Bowling By Lynne List The Senior Stars is a mixed league of senior bowlers meeting every Monday morning at 9:45 beginning September 12th. The league works with a 100% handicap. So, if you average 75, your handicap is 125 for a total of 200. If you average 150, your handicap is 50, also averaging 200. So it makes no difference if you are a good bowler, a fair bowler, or a weak bowler. As long as you bowl your average, you are doing well. Therefore, we urge all of you who used to bowl to come and get back into it for the socializing, the exercise, and the fun of league bowling. And, oh yes, there are nice money prizes at the end of the season. You can join us even if you are a snowbird, just let us know when you expect to get back. No ball or shoes? The alleys, just a short distance away on State Road 7 in Margate, have them all for you’. If you can join us, call Lynne at 954-973-1223 or email her at LLIST@juno. com. We hope to hear from you, you won’t be sorry. New Bowling League Wynmoor Rebels By Les Resnick We are BREAKING AWAY from the AMF Margate Lanes. Why not come bowl with us and get some exercise. We will start bowling again Monday September 12th at 10am at SAWGRASS LANES. We would like you to join us. We have bowlers of all ages with averages from 60 to 160. All are welcome. We use a 100% handicap system that makes all bowlers equal. Call me if you want join us or just an explanation of our handicapping system or any other questions. We’ll be bowling each Monday at 10 am for 32 weeks. Les Resnick 954-366-5352 or Victor Cevallos at 954-978-8493. Bridge Club By Ruth Barry In June, two pairs distinguished themselves with 70% or better games. Ralph Hessdorf and Murray Buchwalter achieved a 75% game, and Dorothy Flood and Lynne List had a 70.5% game. We’re proud of you!! An important event will soon be upon us: It is the November Election meeting, on Friday, November 18th. Of course, there will also be lunch and bridge following. Even farther down the pike, is a truly impressive anniversary: the 35th birthday of our Bridge Club!! Details will be available very soon. For the Friday Easy Duplicate players, here’s a new benefit you can’t refuse. By joining the ACBL, you will be gifted each Friday for a whole year, with a $2.00 voucher. This is an offer hard to resist. So, don’t! In the meantime, the games go on. The five ACBL sanctioned games take place on Monday and Wednesday evenings at 6:30 in the East Wing., and Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, they are at 1:00 PM, also in the East Wing. The two non-sanctioned duplicate games are on Tuesdays at 12:30 in the East Wing, and on Friday, also at 12:30, but in the West Wing. These two Clubs continued on page 56 56 AUGUST 2016 Clubs con’t. from page 55 INSIDER NEWS Clubs and Activities Bridge Club games are preceded by a complimentary half hour lesson. Our games all have a motto: “Play Nice.” We want you to be happy. No partner? No problem. Call Gerri, 954-978-2457. Please arrive at all the games at least 15 minutes early, to allow the Directors to set up the games. Camera Club By Editorial Staff Last month, the Insider printed an incorrect statement regarding the initial start of the Camera Club. The following is the correct information: The Camera Club was initially started by Hy Cohen and Barry Halpern in late 2015. Due to prior commitments, Barry requested that he be replaced by Lee Levine who has had 20 years of experience in the photographic field. City Of Hope By Janet McGovern Thanks to all the loyal supporters who attended June and July’s Dining With the City. August opens with a slight change. Instead of a luncheon, we are doing a dinner splurge. On Wednesday evening, August 17th, we will meet at GGs of NY, 5440 State Road 7 at 5:00 PM. There will be an open menu so we can each choose whatever grabs our attention, especially our favorites, and we are each responsible for our individual tabs and tip. A small donation of $3.00 will be collected for the charity to forward. Please notify us if you are attending, at least 2-3 days before so we can give the restaurant a heads up as to how large a party they may expect. On Tuesday September 13th we will be hosting a card party at West Wing II from 11:30 AM until about 3:00 PM. Cost is $14.00 which includes a lunch from TooJays. Again, we need a heads up AND the fee beforehand so the lunch can be ordered. Choices are wonderful. Sandwich choices include chips and a black and white cookie. Wrap choices include fresh fruit and a black and white cookie. Again, please call asap.....first, to be included, and second, to choose your preferred lunch. Please call either me, Janet McGovern at 954-366-5767 or Joan SteinFeldman at 954-968-8532. Conservative Club By Andrea Joy Frankel-Bellitto It is the pleasure of The Conservative Club of Wynmoor that Mr. Joe Kaufman will be its August speaker. Mr. Kaufman is running in the 23rd district for congress. He is running against Debbie Wasserman Shultz! He will speak on issues that are important to him such as The Veterans, The National Debt, Immigration, Foreign Policy, the Constitution and more. He will conduct a Q and A. He is very active in the Jewish community as well and is very pro-Israel and very informed on that topic as well. The meeting is Tuesday August 16th at 7:30 PM at the Clubhouse Ballroom A. We will have the 50/50 plus a drawing for a bottle of wine and a door prize that evening as well!!! Refreshments will be served. Our meetings are open to all and all are welcome! So bring a neighbor and a friend! We look forward to seeing you! Current Events Club By Daisy Sheridan Just a reminder – on August 2nd only we will meet in the Sunrise Room – the Multi-Purpose Room will not be available to us. As usual, we meet every Tuesday morning at 11 o’clock and we discuss all the important events of our times. Our meetings are always most interesting and stimulating and there is never a charge for same. We conclude the meeting at noon time, but you may stay and socialize until 12:30 PM. We meet during the summer months. We hope to be able to welcome you next Tuesday! Democratic Club By Rhoda Becker There is a wonderful treat awaiting us on Tuesday, August 2nd. A longtime friend of ours, Howard Finkelstein will be our guest speaker. Many of you know him as “Help Me Howard,” and his ability to get things done. He will be here to remind us how important an individual vote is. VOTE to get proven, responsible, capable individuals into office. Your vote can do it. Please be reminded that a Primary election is to be held on August 30th. You can cast your ballot early, vote absentee, or, in person on Tuesday, August 30th at the West Wing. Vivian Jones, our V.P. is waiting to hear from you. Check your calendar. There are a number of open positions where your assistance would be greatly appreciated. Any of your spare time can make a difference. We also wish to remind you that we depend upon your input as to our speakers. There is a suggestion box at the back of our meeting room. Use it to let us know whom you choose to hear from. Is there a political subject that we have not yet addressed that you want to know more about? Our job is to supply you with answers. Bring friends. Refreshments are always served. Tuesday, August 2nd, 2:00 PM Ballroom A Documentary & Discussion Club By Betsy Kalau Our meeting: Sunday, August 14th, 2:00 PM, Country Club Lecture Hall. MAKER Women Who Make America is the title of DVD that will be shown. “It tells the remarkable story of the most sweeping social revolution in American history, as women have asserted their rights…” No admission or club fees. Everyone welcome. If you have questions call 954-979-0295. Fine Arts Club By Betsy Kalau George Gershwin’s An American In Paris and Rhapsody In Blue are on the program for Wednesday, August 10th, 7:00 PM, Country Club Lecture Hall. We will watch and listen to the DVD as Leonard Bernstein conducts the New York Philharmonic. “Gershwin’s music,” so Bernstein, “remains one of the greatest voices that has ever rung out in the history of American urban history.” Every one welcome. No fees. Questions? Call 954-979-0295. Fun With Friends By Richie Wernick We keep dancing during the summer months. With some of the best bands of South Florida we continue to enjoy ourselves on one Sunday a month. Fun With Friends is proud to have a top performer, Al Cabrera, and his show and dance band. Cachet has performed at many society and charity events all over the country. On Sunday, August 21st they will light up the room with imitations, songs from our youth and a variety of music. Different and fabulous are words to describe the night. We gather in the Wynmoor Ballrooms in the Clubhouse for a free dance lesson at 7:45 PM. Patti and David teach the Swing of old and West Coast. Music for dancing is from 8:45 ‘til 10:45 PM. Contact Richie at [email protected] GLOW (Gays and Lesbians of Wynmoor) For info. on social events, please call Judi Goldstein at 954-586-4096. Ladies Golf Association By Violet Howard Summer HHH Days Flying By – Our Tuesday tournaments continuing in “full swing” and the 9 and 18 holers welcome back Virginia Carme (returned from vacation); and also thank Barbara for helping out. Our Golf Course is coming alive with many new improvements. Must comment on the “Golden Girls” threesome playing a Scramble and coming in second with a 67. Zelna, Laura and Violet had a fun time! Scrambles will continue the last week of each month, as always. Follow these 18 holers: Janice, Gloria, Betty, Jamie, Bella, Cece playing every week and having a “ball”. Exciting new tournaments and delicious luncheons are in the works this fall to welcome back our Canadian cousins and snowbirds. Suggestions are always welcome – your input is important to us. Our luncheon at Bobby Rubino’s was a success and everyone enjoyed the sociability. Have you visited our “updated” golf shop lately? It looks great, and be sure to check the bulletin board for new happenings and activities. Happy Birthday To: Diane Ramadi – August 2nd; Violet Howard – August 2nd; Patti McDonaugh – August 8th; Loraine Dunleavy – August 19th; and Kristine Baker – August 27th. Congratulations and have a wonderful day! Hadassah By Toby Norman Hopefully everyone is enjoying their summer and gearing up to start a new season of doing. Our first Hadassah meeting of the 2016-2017 season will INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 57 Clubs and Activities be September 7th. Looking forward to seeing everyone there. Save the date: January 4th will be our annual Hadassah Medical Organization Luncheon. Watch for more information to follow. A very successful card party was held on July 13th. A big “thank you” to Natalie Gorelick for a GREAT job. Trees maybe purchased through Beverly Alexander at 954-969-1701. For certificates please contact Bernice Riback at 954-984-1703. Irene Tunkel is working on our New Year’s greeting. Please contact her at 954-971-0323 so that your name can be added for $2.00 per name. Italian-American Club By Phyllis Weltman-Esposito Getting ready for our Club meeting starting Wednesday, September 14th. We have many enjoyable programs planned for the future and hope to see our old and new members join us. Remember, we meet on the 2nd Wednesday of each month at 3:00 PM in Ballroom A. Always treating our paid-up members with free food and drink. For membership, call Joann at 954-935-1299. Ladies Circle By Eleanore Butler Our August 25th meeting will have our usual bagel lunch at noon followed by our exciting trivia games. Do you do well on “Jeopardy”? Come join us and test your knowledge by competing with your fellow sisters. We will be giving out our fabulous prizes for the winners. Remember the “good old days” on the radio? (Are we that old?) On Wednesday, September 14th a 1:00 PM in the West Wing I we will have an Ice Cream Party featuring the “Radio Players Show.” This show recreates the golden era before TV. Tickets are $10, made out to the Ladies Circle and must be purchased before August 30th. All are welcome to attend. Call Harriet Shlam at 954-970-8546 for more information. No meeting in October due to the High Holy Days. On Wednesday, November 2nd at 12:30 PM we will have a Luncheon and Dance Recital at The Harid Conservatory in Boca Raton. Cost is $35-$37, checks made out to Ladies Circle. Reservations by October 10th. For more info call Harriet at 954-970-8546. All are welcome. Latin Brazilian Women’s Connection Club By Eliassi Carson Club members are busy making plans for the Club’s 5th Anniversary Dinner Dance, and celebration of Hispanic Heritage month for Friday, September 16th at Wynmoor Ballroom A/B from 7:00 to 11:00 PM. Please come out and support this activity. You are going to enjoy a delicious meal, dance to the music of Mike Rapposelli, and perhaps win a door prize – all for $20.00 p/p. For reservations, buying tickets, or for more information, English speakers may contact Minerva Nazario at 954-532-3156, and Spanish speakers may contact Myriam Alonso at 954-673-6542. Our next monthly meeting will be on Tuesday, August 30th. Our monthly meetings are held on the last Tuesday of the month at the East Wing, Classroom 4, at 2:00 to 4:00 PM. Refreshments are served. All meetings are held in Spanish/Portuguese. Needlework Click By Barbara Bilello Our August meetings are on the 9th and 23rd; the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month. We meet in the West Wing from 1:00 to 4:00 PM. We serve coffee and snacks. We are a friendly, happy group of ladies who enjoy knitting, crocheting, needle point and sewing. If you’re new to Wynmoor and would like to join us, everyone is welcome. We do a lot of socializing, chatting and checking what everyone is doing. We get new ideas every meeting. If you have a hobby that you can bring with you, come to share with us. Hoping to see a lot of new faces. Call Barbara 754-222-6375 or Charlotte 954-972-4817 for any donations of yarn. Will be happy to pick up and appreciate all donations. Thank you. We want to wish our long term member Ronnie Fixler all the best. We will miss you Ronnie. Pickleball Club By Sandra Cohen In addition to our regular pickleball games and free pickleball lessons, our club provides a lot of social activities. Our recent “karaoke nights” have been a tremendous success, attracting club members and non- members, alike. Entrance is free for members and $3 for non-members. So, if you love karaoke, please join us on August 10th and 24th at 7:00 PM at the West Wing I. Want to come for free? Our dues are only $5.00 for a year of great exercise and fun. Members never pay an entry fee, and we have lots of social events all year long. So you can play pickleball and attend the events, or just become a social member, if you prefer. If you want to learn the game, we offer free pickleball lessons. August classes will be on Wednesday, August 3rd and 17th, from 4:00 to 5:30 PM on the pickleball courts, located within the Nassau community. We even supply racquets and balls for the lessons. We hope to see you playing on the courts or having fun with us on karaoke nights. Queens Club By Ruth Weinstein August 3rd - 4th is the overnite trip to Fort Myers at the bargain price of $110 per person sharing the room. Single room is also a bargain. The Palm Dinner Theatre is showing “Wizard of Oz.” Ticket reservations must be made and paid to see “The Rothchilds” at Broward Stage Door on Sample Road on September 18th at 2:00 PM Call Ruth – 954-975-0515. Tennis Club By Shelly Propper Summer is here and there are tennis players on the courts in the mornings and evenings. Anyone who plays is welcome at our beautiful courts, even if you don’t have a regular partner. “Night tennis” is played from 6:30 to 8:00 PM on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, year round on our courts with lights. It’s not necessary to bring a partner to participate because we play numerous games with different partners. There are also special events posted on the bulletin boards for the Tennis Club, such as Master’s Classes, that are fun for all players. Hope to see you there! Women’s Non-Fiction Club By Betsy Kalau This club meets twice monthly; Monday August 8th and Monday August 22nd, at 2:30 PM, in the Sun Shine Room, East Wing of the Theater. Ashley’s War, a book by Gayle Tzemach Lemmon will be discussed. Everyone is welcome; there are no club fees. Questions? Call 954-979-0295. Writers Group By Ruth Packer Everyone is a writer. Come to the Writers Group and you will see. Everyone has many thoughts to put down on paper. It may be sports, or science, it may be something you imagined, come and write it. We meet in Cardroom 1 at the Clubhouse, at 10 o’clock, on Saturday mornings. Questions? Call Ruth Packer 964-971-9935. Zumba Fit By Nina Pollock If you want a terrific workout that is fun, invigorating and good for men and women of all ages and shapes, come to Zumba Fit which is held in the West Wing every Monday, Wednesday and Friday morning at 8:30 AM. Sonya Longo, the teacher is energetic, enthusiastic and encouraging and makes it so much fun. Some of the routines are done sitting in a chair and moving arms and legs and using light weights. Others include dancing with or without weights. So come and join us for an enjoyable aerobic and toning class. 58 AUGUST 2016 Update: INSIDER NEWS Dangers of Trying To Be Your Own Lawyer By Martin Zevin, Attorney You have probably heard the saying: “The lawyer who represents himself has a fool for a client.” If that is true, what about a non-lawyer who tries to represent himself? In this age of the internet, I see many people attempting to prepare their own legal documents. Typically, this involves accessing some do-it-yourself legal website which provides generic forms. These forms include the Durable Power of Attorney, Designation of Health Care Surrogate, Living Will, Quit Claim Deed, Revocable Living Trust and Last Will and Testament. In over forty years of experience as a Florida attorney, I have seen very few non-lawyers successfully create and properly execute any of the above legal documents. Documents are created and/or executed improperly, resulting in a legal can of worms. Deeds are a common example of where an attempt to save a few dollars in attorney’s fees results in what can often end up being major title defects. Properties are improperly transferred, thereby creating a defect in the title which needs to be corrected either while someone is alive or during a probate process after death. The defects can involve improper dates, names, lack of proper witnessing and/or notarizing, incorrect legal descriptions, etc. Lawyers make mistakes, too, particularly those who are not experienced in real estate. Each of our fifty states has its own unique set of laws. Therefore, attempting to use a generic form for Florida is asking for trouble. In October of 2011, the Florida Legislature passed a new law regarding the Durable Power of Attorney. This law makes the document much more complicated and detailed than it used to be. I worked with other law firms for many months to create a proper document to conform to the complex new law. It is highly unlikely that such a document (our current format is approximately 26 pages) is available on the internet. Likewise, there is specific language regarding the Federal HIPAA Act which must be included in all Florida Designation of Health Care Surrogates to make them “HIPAA compliant.” The correct language is not likely to exist on the generic Health Care Surrogate forms. Regarding Revocable Living Trusts, attempts to create this document and then transfer property frequently results in a total mess which requires that a lawyer revoke all of the previous documents and start from scratch. There are individuals and companies that advertise themselves as paralegals and claim they are not providing legal advice but only forms. In my opinion, it is virtually impossible to provide a legal form without providing legal advice. The bottom line is: there is no guarantee that hiring a lawyer will mean a good result. However, you certainly stand a much better chance than doing it on your own. Please feel free to call me for a free personal or phone consultation regarding any issues pertaining to Wills, Trusts and Estates. I am also available for a free consultation regarding any issue pertaining to personal injury claims or car insurance coverage. Call me at 954-569-4878. My address is 3275 W. Hillsboro Blvd., Suite 204, Deerfield Beach, Florida 33442. My website is www.martinzevinpa. com and my e-mail address is [email protected]. See ad on page 19. INSIDER NEWS Rules of the Road AUGUST 2016 You must turn on your low beam (dim) headlights when driving between sunset and sunrise, including the twilight hours between sunset and sunrise or between full night and sunrise. You must also use these lights during any rain, smoke or fog. Parking lights do not meet requirements of this law. Fog or Smoke Wildfires, smoke, fog and heavy rain can lower visibility on the roads. It is important for drivers to drive as safely as possible in these conditions. Safety tips on driving in low visibility: · Drive with lights on low beam. High beams will only be reflected back off the fog and actually impair visibility even more. Your lights help other drivers see your vehicle, so be sure they all work. Keep your windshield and headlights clean, to reduce the glare and increase visibility. · Slow down - and watch your speedometer - before you enter a patch of fog. Be sure that you can stop within the distance that you can see. Fog creates a visual illusion of slow motion when you may actually be speeding. Speed is a major factor in fog-related crashes. · Watch out for slow-moving and parked vehicles. Listen for traffic you cannot see. Open your window a little, to hear better. · Reduce the distractions in your vehicle. Turn off the radio and cell phone. Your full attention is required. Now Here’w A Tip By JoAnn Derson You can calm flyaways by washing and conditioning your hairbrush. Wash all types in soap and water, and if your brush has natural bristles, dip it in a cup of water with a little conditioner added. Let it dry, and brush away with no more static. HHH Use plastic wrap to help out on paint jobs. It can protect odd-shaped items, like unremovable lighting fixtures. You also can give your paintbrush an overnight break when you wrap it tightly in plastic wrap and stick it in your fridge -- no washing required if you’re just pausing! HHH “Slip a long wooden spoon into a plastic baggie. Use a hair tie to secure the bag tightly around the spoon. Now you can use the spoon to apply sunscreen or lotion to your back.” -- W.T. in Florida HHH Staple removers aren’t just for the office. Need to load a key ring? A staple remover will open those rings right up. HHH Coffee filters and used dryer sheets are both fantastic dusters for the dashboard of your car. Throw a few in the glove box for when the dash needs a quick dusting. HHH “You can get your shower liner clean in no time at all by throwing it in the washing machine. I do mine once a month in a load of towels for extra scrubbing.” -- R.R. in Washington (c) 2016 King Features Synd., Inc. 59 · Use wipers and defrosters liberally for maximum visibility. Some- times it is difficult to determine if poor visibility is due to fog or moisture on the windshield. · Use the right edge of the road or painted road markings as a guide. · Be patient. Avoid passing and/or changing lanes. · Signal turns well in advance and brake early as you approach a stop. · Do not stop on a freeway or heavily traveled road. You could become the first link in a chain-reaction collision. If you must pull off the road, signal (people tend to follow tail lights when driving in fog), then carefully pull off as far as possible. After pulling off the road, turn on your hazard flashers(hazard lights should only be used when you pull over to show that you are parked on the side of the road). Move away from the vehicle. · Check traffic conditions before traveling, by dialing 511 or visiting www.fl511.com. Rain The first few drops of rain mean danger. Roads are most slippery just after the rain begins because oil dropped from cars has not been washed away. Slow down and plan for at least two times the normal stopping distance. In a heavy rain, your tires can ride on a thin film of water, like skis. This is called hydroplaning. When your tires are not touching the road, you can easily lose control and skid. Keep your tires on the road by slowing down when it rains, and by having tires with the right air pressure and good tread. Brakes often become wet after driving through deep water or driving in heavy rain. They may pull to one side or the other, or they may not hold at all. If this happens, slow down and gently push on the brake pedal until your brakes are working again. 60 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS Breakfast at the 19th Hole for three Judicial candidates. A group of volunteers met a few judges running for election August 30th on a non-partisan basis. We were there to organize and promote getting out the “Vote.” It is very important we all “Vote” this election, so we can make a difference. Standing is Andrea Gundersen, seeking election for Judgeship. Judge Matthew Destry with Marta, our waitress at the 19th hole. Alfreda Coward, seeking election for Judgeship. Seated at the table are: Anne Fantell; Rhoda Becker; Alfreda Coward; Judge Matthew Destry; Annette Freund; Andrea Gundersen; Coconut Commissioner Becky Tooley; Selma Shubin; Joan Sampson; Carla Romaner; Dorothy Kornheiser; Roz Greenberg. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 Puzzles and Games Trees 61 Solutions from page 26 Crossword Puzzle The hidden sentence is: Sudoku A SOCIETY GROWS GREAT WHEN OLD MEN PLANT TREES WHOSE SHADE THEY KNOW THEY SHALL NEVER SIT IN 62 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS CLASSIFIEDS Something to Buy? Something to Sell? For classified information call: 954-975-8001 Mon.-Fri. 9am-5pm FOR RENT: ANNUAL FOR RENT: SEASONAL LUCAYA Lane. Second floor. Beautiful view of the pool. 2/2 for yearly rental. $1200.00 furnished, new air-conditioner, new appliances, newly painted, glass enclosed sunroom. ECM service contract, flat screen, TV and a storage unit. 954-609-4323. $62,000 UPGRADE. 1-1-1/2 Lovely water view. 1st floor. New kitchen. New vanities. Tile and laminate. Wall to wall closets. New water heater. John K. - Antigua-Ter. 954-295-9434. MISCELLANEOUS SEAMSTRESS/ALTERATIONS. Wynmoor Resident. Will Come To You. Call: 954-978-6451. LEAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER. WANTED TO BUY: Golf Cart. Looking for best price. Wynmoor Resident. Call: 503-869-8031. MAH JONGG PLAYERS: Looking for a game? (13 Tiles) Call Ruth 954-649-3914. Wynmoor residents only. Wynmoor, 2 br, 2 bath, Victoria, Flexible Rental. Beautiful apartment, completely furnished w/ magnificent patio view of golf course & lake w/ water fountain. Unit includes 3 flat screen tv’s, stainless appliances, king bed & twin beds in 2nd br. incl. desk, fax, & copy machine. Eat-in kitchen. 2nd fl, elevator. Call Joan 561-703-4557. ~In Loving Memory~ Philip Rubin March 8, 1915 - June 19, 2016 Beloved husband, father, grandfather Forever in our hearts, he will be missed by all. Directions For Blinking RED Light Solid RED: Complete stop until the light changes to GREEN. Blinking RED: Complete stop, watch for oncoming traffic, then proceed with caution. The light will remain blinking RED during the hours of 7:00 PM - Noon. INSIDER NEWS AUGUST 2016 63 64 AUGUST 2016 INSIDER NEWS