thank a nun - Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary
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thank a nun - Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary
Celebrating the lives and contributions of Catholic Sisters March 8–14, 2015 THANK A NUN Messages to the members’ of the Sisters of Charity, BVM www.facebook.com/bvmsisters 2 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Dear Sisters, The following THANK A NUN messages for BVM Sisters were received as part of a promotion created by the Catholic Sisters of the Upper Mississippi Valley for National Catholic Sisters Week 2015. Individuals submitted responses to: “Did a Catholic Sister help you in your life? Thank her now!” Photos, notes and videos will be shared on social media (www.facebook.com/bvmsisters) and in print during National Catholic Sisters Week and throughout the year. Enjoy reading the messages describing the many ways BVM Sisters have impacted the lives of others. It is truly a testament of living out BVM mission and core values. Through these people, the BVM legacy will continue. Gratefully, Angie Connolly, Director of Communications NOTE: These message are unedited. Email addresses are listed from those who provided them. Please feel free to contact someone who may have “THANKED YOU.” Videos: Catherine Wyman - Xavier College Preparatory [email protected] • • • Thank Sister Lou Anglin: http://youtu.be/TtT1EOZhw50 Thank the BVM teachers who have impacted their lives. http://youtu.be/v3v5tkIuu4c Share how BVMs have impacted their lives and education! http://youtu.be/MK3eQbHE2v4?list=UUEg88lZJr2EPdYks0Fsiz9Q Catholic Sisters of the Upper Mississippi Valley http://video214.com/play/GNTkX9AfFLZmM4J0ZjRp8w/s/dark Thank a Nun: Mary Alma Sullivan, BVM https://youtu.be/E54nGtDX9sE BVM Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bvmsisters Thank A Nun: Karen Herman DeMuro Thank A Nun Shout Out: See who “ROCKS” at Mount Carmel. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 3 THANK A NUN Messages: Sandy Hobbs-Galyon [email protected] There aren’t enough words to express the love and gratitude I feel towards Sister Ann Ellen Quirk! She came to Wilmington, Ill., over 60 years ago. I was in first grade when I met her. All the girls in my class from first through eighth grade were in awe of her. She was so kind and beautiful, and so much fun! She taught us to sing, play the piano, and dance. We learned how to square dance, and, of course, how to do the Irish jig. We all thought we were her “favorite.” She was my teacher, my mentor, my friend. Through the years she has become my best friend. No better friend could anyone have. I marvel at all she does. Thirty years ago she saw a need in the community and started feeding the less fortunate out of her classroom. From there she has established an ecumenical mission in Wilmington, called Kuzma Care Cottage, and is currently feeding 539 families, totaling approximately 1,300 people. She has pulled together a town through simple acts of kindness and giving. The Cottage has over 90 volunteers from all of the churches and organizations in town, and some not affiliated with any religious group; however, everyone associated with the Cottage is convinced that God is smiling on our mission. My husband always said had she not been called to religious life she would have been CEO of a fortune 500 company. She works nonstop, available to anyone who needs her, regardless of when or how she is feeling. She puts everyone else first. “No” must not be in her vocabulary. How blessed my life has been having her as part of it. She is family, and yes, I’m sure I’m her favorite! 4 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Sharon Sullivan [email protected] I have had the absolute pleasure of having a BVM for an aunt. My Aunt Mary Alma Sullivan has filled my life and my family’s lives with constants. Constant love, faith, support, encouragement and the true gift of listening. By extension, the Sullivans were gifted with two adopted aunts, Sr. Mary Pat Haley and Sr. Ann (San) Harrington, who brought kindness, compassion and a much needed sense of humor to all of our family gatherings. All three have been blessings. When the time came, in true form, my Aunt Mary was there to champion my education, advising me on the opportunities of attending Mundelein College. It’s 20+ years since I’ve graduated and if asked (or sometimes not), I have always said it is the best decision I ever made; I received a better education than I may have deserved from the most intelligent people I›ve ever met, including Sr. Paul Francis, Sr. Eliza Kenny, Sr. Joan Francis (JF) and, of course, my aunts. I had wonderful and inspiring teachers throughout my four years and credit the Sisters of Charity, BVM for their continued conviction of empowering women through education. Luis y Lety Gonzalez Azucena, Abraham y Ariel Gonzalez [email protected] Thank you to Grandma Judy. The endurance and drive of a compassionate and intelligent woman has no limit. I am forever grateful to Sr. Judy Callahan. Since the 1990s, when I, as a young 20-year-old woman, had arrived in the USA, in Kankakee, Ill., I had the blessing to meet Sr. Judy through St. Teresa Church. When I arrived I did not know any English. Sr. Judy supported me through all the following years. I had the opportunity to learn the language and finish a bachelor’s degree in business and technology because of her support. Since 1990 Sr. Judy has been and still is part of my family; it is an honor to have her as a grandma for my kids. Today I want to thank her for all she has done for me and my family because without her help this family would had no grandma and we are very proud of her. Erin Callahan [email protected] My aunt, Sr. Judith Callahan, one of 13 children, spent the first 18 years of her life growing up on a farm, tending to the duties and heavy demands of a farm daughter and a very large and at the time quite impoverished family. I believe she entered the convent as soon as she had graduated from high school, and has been a BVM since. Her life within this community took her far from home and us for many years. It was always an exciting and special time when she was able to come home to visit. Over the years I watched quite a broad transformation in her life as a BVM: Initially as an advancing young convent school teacher covered in full flowing black habit and large rosary beads, moving into extensive missionary work in South America, and returning to life as missionary to Hispanic people in the United States. She is no longer in habit or convent, but responsible for self provision for all of her own needs; like the secular population, with her salary. Recently retired, her life seems to have changed little, as she continues to devote much time and energy serving, loving and caring for anyone in need: fellow BVMs, family, Hispanics in need, the Catholic community and more. I am always quite impressed with her deep level of devotion, seemingly inexhaustible energy and drive, and her incredibly bright, positive attitude at all times, never revealing a hint of her own stress or exhaustion. I thank her for being her. God only made one Sr. Judy Callahan, only one Aunt Bogie; she stands alone in that she is quite herself, quite an individual. I thank her for many, many things I have learned and deeply respect; through her personal life; through her deep religious and community service; for her absolute support of family at all times; for always being there for all of us; and for being an interactive, fun, bright, positive, strong and caring aunt. Personally, I thank her for always bringing a fun, happy atmosphere, whenever at family gatherings—always creating games and activities to play with us as children, to keep and involve interconnection of family. I am and will always be personally, deeply thankful to her for the times she made heavy self-sacrifices for family, and in my case especially for the times she dropped everything and came into our home to help my parents under truly dire situations: caring for (including baking the best apple pies and apple crisps in the WORLD) seven rowdy children, when severe illness struck my mother; while my grandmother (her mother) also became injured while caring for us; and my father needed someone to come to both care for grandma, and to “mother” the whole clan; enabling and providing my father relief, to carry out his intense spousal, financial and career responsibilities. I am ever thankful for her always being there for me, giving me support, at any time, under short notice, despite her extremely heavy schedule, whenever I called her throughout my father’s last couple of years of life, and for the peaceful respite she gave me and my husband in her home when my father did pass. I am thankful for the love, sister-ship, friendship, happiness, patience and care she gave to my father during those days (Uncle Claude’s too, along with being his guardian). I am now thankful knowing she is now retired and hope she will not have to live such a grueling lifestyle, and hope it can be her turn to relax a little. And I am very thankful, and I find great comfort, THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 5 knowing she has been and always will be there for me. And through her example, I hope she realizes the importance and true impact her life has made on me. So—THANK YOU, Sr. Judy BVM- Aunt Bogie! LOVE YOU! YOU ROCK! Erin Name not provided [email protected] I have several nuns I would like to thank: Sister Barbara Kutchera, BVM Barbara taught me so many things in high school and college. She was the first person to really make me aware of my own biases and prejudices. She did this so carefully that I hardly knew what she was doing. I recall one time in high school complaining about another teacher. She told me how fortunate I was to be so young and recognize flaws in adults. What a great opportunity I had to look at all my teachers and decide what kind of person I would like to emulate. It hit me so hard that I never forgot what she was telling me. What a great gift she was to me. Sister Mary St. Jean Ward, BVM She was the dean of women at my high school. For me she was someone I could go to and talk about anything. She was my spiritual guide. I loved her dearly. Sister Mary Frances Patricia, BVM She scared me to death in the beginning. She seemed so stately and severe. How lucky I was to have the duty to clean her room. She became my spiritual advisor, my director, my friend. I found that she was brilliant, a woman ahead of her time, clued into all that was happening in the world as well as the church. I loved talking to her. She was full of wisdom and love. Sister Mary Lois Dolphin, BVM Lois taught at my high school but I never had her in class. She struck me as a woman who was happy. Every time I saw her she was smiling. I thought to myself, “That’s the way I want to be.” She seemed so content with her life. I looked up to her as my role model. I still do. 6 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Sister Jackie Burke, BVM This woman changed my life. As a Scholastic leaving Mount Carmel for Clarke, I was not feeling very good about myself. One counseling session with Jackie changed my life. How could she give me such self confidence in one meeting? I will always be indebted to her for helping me see the true me. I have never forgotten how she opened my eyes. She touched me deeply. I am eternally grateful to this wonderful woman. Mary Jo Callahan Brown, Chicago [email protected] Sr. Josephine O’Brien from St. John of the Cross Parish in Western Springs, Ill., was one of my favorite teachers of all time. While a wonderful educator, I can’t really remember (30 years later) what Sr. Josephine taught me in class. I remember her calling me out when I was laughing at another student and making me see how my behavior affected others. I remember her telling a fellow student to be proud of whom he was despite what some would consider a handicap. I remember her as the conscience of our sixth grade class. I remember her teaching me about justice and fairness and hard work. She was a force to be reckoned with, but she was kind and gentle too. Making her laugh was great fun. Sr. Josephine was special and just what sixth grade kids (sixth grade girls, possibly the worst creatures on earth) needed. She served as an excellent example to us. I probably never showed her how much I liked her. I wonder if she would even remember me. I certainly remember her and keep some of those lessons with me both as a person and as a teacher myself. Thank you, Sr. Josephine! I’d like to thank my aunt, Sr. Judy Callahan, BVM of Dubuque, Iowa. Aunt Judy taught me, at a very young age, about going out in the world and helping all kinds of people. Aunt Judy spent a good deal of my youth in Quito, Ecuador, and always brought fun and interesting crafts home for me. These were made by the children she worked with in Quito and this was a way for me to connect with children from a far away and «exotic» place. More than that, I understood how much she loved these kids who were not her own and how happy it made her to help others. Having her in my life also «humanized» the nuns at my school and helped me to understand them better. Today I am a teacher too, and reflecting on it I see the direct influence Aunt Judy had on my becoming one. She is always so inspired by the work she does and the people she works with; she is continues to be a great example to me. Thank you Aunt Judy! Msgr. J on behalf of Joanne Callahan [email protected] I would like to honor the memory of my second and third grade teacher at Our Lady of the Angels School: Sr. Mary Terrencia, BVM. That was in 1930 and through many years I kept in contact with her until her death. On my way home from Camp Roberts, Calif., at the end of WWII, I was able to make a stop in Arizona to see her. I never forgot her. She was a wonderful teacher with a great sense of humor. The children flocked around her. That was the beginning of my education by the BVMs, followed by the Sisters of Providence in my last four years of grammar school. I joined up with them again in my high school years at Holy Name in Chicago. I will treasure the many whose influence was immeasurable and the long association with the Sisters of The Blessed Virgin Mary during my priestly years in Dubuque. One of my own stories is in remembrance of Sr. Mary Sylvester. I recently ran across my old high school physics notebook filled with formulas and laws. In 1961 I had little confidence in my own ability to grasp physics let alone succeed in the class, but finding this notebook reminded me of how she approached us with no nonsense or fanfare but rather with a steady discipline she somehow instilled in me along with a growing confidence in my capacity to “do hard!” Remember CPPRs? (Clean Piece of Paper Ready) for a pop quiz? We never knew when they were coming so had to keep up on a daily basis. Fast forward some decades when my son (a bright kid who was in an AP algebra class he found “too hard” and wanted out), I must have been channeling Sr. Mary Sylvester when I told him to get extra help for ten days and learn to “do hard” which was something new for him. He succeeded! “Sylvester” was a bit intimidating and inscrutable to me but she was never about herself but all about us succeeding. What a gift! Dennie McCollom Scott T [email protected] Dennie McCollom Scott [email protected] As some of you know, I became reconnected with Mary Alma Sullivan (AKA Sr. Mary Robert Emmett) about 20 years ago while taking a seminar in Chicago as part of my master’s degree. Since then we’ve exchanged emails from time to time and recently she asked me to respond to the attachment below. Thinking you may have seen this if you’ve donated to the BVM’s. Mary Alma asked me to submit something and so I’m inviting y’all to do likewise. “Your assignment is to interview John Raitt after his next performance.” Yes, the star of the musical “CarouseI,” and other Broadway hits, and yes, Bonnie Raitt’s father (for those of us of a certain age). In the fall of 1961, I was a junior at Our Lady of Peace High School in St. Paul, Minn. There was a new teacher at OLP that year, Sr. Mary Robert Emmett, BVM (Mary Alma Sullivan), who had just come from Chicago, relating to us THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 7 how she had some trepidation as the train backed into the station in St. Paul, her new assignment. In her journalism class, the John Raitt interview was just one of many assignments I would be given that year. I think that same year the town’s news media became aware of the young women in blue uniforms with gold insignias, blue oxfords and bobby sox, who consistently seemed to show up at major events, student reporters’ badge in hand, press camera slung over a shoulder, to catch a story for the school paper, PEACE POINTS. We thought we were hot! We could talk to anybody, and did. Some of us were quite heady with it all. A stickler for facts and accuracy, excellent writing, and awareness of the world around us, she had us reading America magazine and Newsweek on a regular basis. That, above and beyond keeping up with American literature on a daily basis. I remember becoming entranced with Thoreau, Whitman and Dickinson. “Robert Emmett” believed in pushing the boundaries and seeing that just about anything was possible and acceptable to do in the name of journalistic accountability, including walking over, with her, to Bober Drugstore and demanding the owner take the pornographic “literature” off the stands. That junior year planted the seed for me to eventually become a college English major and high school English teacher myself. And most of all, I credit my own discretionary eye for all things literature, film and communication, to her. Diane Molitor Palmer Clarisse [email protected] I am writing this note to thank a wonderful BVM nun, Sr. Laurene Brady, for her wonderful example of charity and devotion. I had the pleasure of being reacquainted with Sr. Laurene in March 2011. Sr. Laurene was in Wichita, Kan., in 1959-60 at Mt. Carmel Academy, where I was a freshman boarding student and Sr. Laurene was teaching math for her first teaching assignment. 8 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK She also lived in the dormitory with the boarding students. I did not have Sr. Laurene for a teacher and don’t remember her specifically but we walked the same halls and prayed in the chapel together. I graduated from Mt. Carmel in 1963. I always admired the BVM sisters and cherished my high school years at MCA. Fast forward to 2010 when I was turning 65 years old and decided to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro and raise money for five charities in Africa, one of them being the BVM mission of a library in Kumasi, Ghana, that Sr. Laurene spearheaded. I had the good fortune to visit Sr. Laurene in Ghana in March 2011 and spend several weeks with her. I was able to volunteer at the library and became aware of the kindness, talent and dedication that Sr. Laurene uses daily in her work. She has a great sense of humor and always displays a welcoming attitude to friend or stranger. She enriches thousands of children’s lives through her efforts in building the outstanding library in Kumasi. Sr. Laurene and I had a wonderful time reminiscing about our experience at Mt. Carmel Academy. I am indebted to Sr. Laurene for her exceptional example of what charity means and I hope to emulate her in my daily life. I feel blessed to know her. Betty Trudell [email protected] Hi, My name is Betty Trudell and I live in Fairview, Mont. I would like to thank Sr. Ellen Morseth, who was employed at our church, St. Catherine, in the early 80s. Sr. Ellen became a dear friend and our church learned so much from her. She had many obstacles to overcome as there were many who didn’t want any change. But she persevered. We established ministries: We now had a cantor and our music was made greater because we were encouraged to sing along and did we sing. New people who attend our church as well as new priests who serve us comment on our wonderful music ministry. She showed us the ministry of hospitality and we became greeters, welcoming everyone to our church. We have also been complimented on our “friendly church!” Our ministry of lectors and Eucharistic ministers also improved and many more volunteered to be in a ministry. Sr. Ellen had a way of asking that was so gentle, you wouldn’t want to say no and we usually didn’t. Sr. Ellen was instrumental in helping us set up our renew program and scripture sharing was established. Wow, did we go to town on that. We were hungry for scripture and we were being fed. We still have one group who meets weekly with some original members and many new members. She was only with us for a few years but she impacted my life in a big way. Along with more blessings from others, I ended up employed as parish coordinator at St. Catherine for 23 years. I just retired a year ago. I also want to thank Sr. Mary Frances Schafer who worked for our diocese of Great Falls-Billings and was the coordinator of the lay minister program called Tempus. I was in the second Tempus and learned so much from the many presenters we were privileged to hear. Sr. Mary Frances had us study the Vatican II documents each time we met. What a beautiful document and I am so glad I was able to study it with a person who understood it so well. She also became a dear friend. I miss both of these special women and still communicate with Sr. Ellen a couple times a year. It has been a privilege to know the sisters who came to help us follow God more closely and personally. Mary Ellen Meckley, BVM [email protected] When we moved to Arizona in 1946, I “tried” Catholic school. I had attended public schools in New York State. There were seven wonderful BVM sisters. I decided to stay at St. Matthew School. Then I attended Xavier HS. It was a very small high school at that time. Again, there were wonderful sisters. It seems that the sisters who were sent to Arizona in the 30s and 40s were pioneers, who were able to live without air conditioning in overcrowded old buildings and be happy. Several of the sisters, years later, told me those were the happiest years of their life. I entered the BVM congregation in 1953. Bob Sammon [email protected] Another BVM who had an impact of my family’s life was Gayle Brabec. I had long graduated from OLL in Hempstead, N.Y. But my mother worked as the secretary for Helen Garvey. Each week when we still only had land lines during college, she regaled me with her stories of Helen and Gayle. I enjoyed the SALT article of Helen and Gayle moving to the Motherhouse. I think my sister Pat still has the plaque that Gayle gave her about doing “’her works.” Gayle worked with environmental sustainability in Kentucky and I am hope Gayle is happy to return to Dubuque. I want to visit to see so many BVMs who have influenced my being an educator. Bob Sammon [email protected] Another BVM sister I would like to thank on behalf of my family is Helen Maher Garvey. She was the last BVM principal of my home parish, Our Lady of Loretto, in Hempstead, N.Y. Her house was on Lincoln Road crossed by Crowell Street, where I almost got hit by a car while on my bike and my mother spanked me for it. Helen, I believe, lived next door to the Brethels, and after them the cousins, the Blighs. Jim Bligh was my godfather. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 9 So it was so unusual that later in life my mother connected with Helen. I think my mother wanted to keep our younger sister Sue in check and she took on the job as secretary at Our Lady of Loretto. I believe Sue’s science teacher Mr. Leary stapled her to the wall. My mom agreed but Helen did not. What Helen saw in my mom as becoming her secretary was not the secretarial skills but a person who could be welcoming of people coming into the school. I remember so many times Helen and Gayle Brabec were at our house, especially when they lived down the block and the convent closed. My mother stayed another year when Gayle and Helen left OLL to assist the new lay principal. But the school was not the same; my mother always loved the BVMs from when my brother entered in 1966. My mother loved the contact with all the BVMs over the years; I still have the graduation picture of my mother and me with Mary McCauley and Jeanne Granville (mom still had one of those now ugly but stylish mink stoles). But mom could not have been prouder than standing by the BVMs. When dad retired I think mom going to work helped her. It was also the time that our dog died— Bootsie, who received first communion when Mary McCauley was at our house for a home Mass. The cremated box came to OLL where Mrs. Bernstein was tossing it in the air asking what is this? I enjoyed reading Helen’s article in SALT this month and will send it to my siblings. The week has been tough for us, as my sister Mary’s home burned to the ground and all but the cat survived. As always Angie, I have a few more BVMs to write about when I can—Jeanne Granville, Annamarie Kane. Too many have either left the BVMs or passed away. Mary McCauley said she would send me a picture of the tree I asked to be planted in Mary Wolfe’s honor. Bob Sammon [email protected] How do I ever say thanks to Mary McCauley for the role she played in my life and her constant inspiration with what our country faces with 10 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK immigration? As a teacher in my sixth grade social studies class she brought European history alive and I loved it in high school and pursued a B.A. in European history. I taught world history from 1975-82 until my principal asked me to study graduate work in student counseling. Since that time, I always tried to teach one religious studies class or social studies class in Catholic high schools until 1997, when my public school system said I could not. I had been teaching NYS history and literature inspired by Margaret McCullough for six of my years at Holy Cross HS in Flushing, Queens. I loved Mary’s teaching style which she shared in sixth grade European history; she had a calming and welcoming effect on me but also lighted a fire in my interest in the subject matter. When I had Mary as a homeroom teacher in eighth grade, religion class teacher, geography and science teacher, I appreciated all of her thoughts, grace and skills. I remember in eighth grade I sat near the window where the radiator was, and at times I would doze, or I would talk to my longtime friend John DeSretto. We were studying with a new post-Vatican II textbook and I guess I was dozing and she said to whatever question she asked, that “the Holy Spirit can.” Mary inspired me in geography as eighth grade was studying different countries by different climate regions. I remember always typing my notes as I loved history and geography (no one in my family had the math gene, sorry Margaret McCullough). I remember doing a report on China and Mary asked who typed the paper, and I said I did. I remember the physical science section of science I had so much difficulty with and she helped me with. I remember we had to do a presentation and I found an old telegraph my grandfather had and brought that into the class. Mary, like so many BVMs, was ahead of her time in educating us Northeasterners! I remember when Mary told us, I think before Easter vacation of the changes that would happen and the sisters would come back looking different. Mary explained they were going back to their baptismal names and the change of habits. It made us wonder what was happening with their hair; a few years later many were without habits, as Mary was. Bob Sammon [email protected] I went to a high school 16 miles away from OLL but by my junior year I became president of the CYO and asked Mary, Susan Offerman, BVM, Deacon Tom and Father Bill Brisotti to be on our advisory council. The times were remarkable (1969-71) and to have these wonderful people who understood young people and the changes in society and church were wonderful influences. I want to write about Sister Mary Suzette, (Jeanne Granville). She was one of the coolest nuns I had at Our Lady of Loretto; there was something in her posture and grace. I enjoyed having Sister for eighth grade English (learning haiku which I never figured out) and for eighth grade American history. Her BVM legacy gave clarity to the period of 1865 to the present, which enveloped so much BVM history—the dust bowl of the Midwest. Sister had such a low key way of sharing stories and history. She was also an excellent English teacher. I was fortunate to have her as a junior high school teacher, as I was to have all the BVMs. I understand that she has also moved back to Mount Carmel. I still have the picture of Sister Jeanne, Mary McCauley and my mother at my eighth grade graduation. Being as low tech as I am, if I can scan the picture, I will try to do so. I remember visiting Mary after she had finished her master’s degree and helped to set up her classroom where I learned more of her Midwest background. When I was a senior in high school and was the president of my high school’s social justice program, she came to my house for a “home Mass”—remember them? It was then that the crumbs from the homebaked bread from one of my fellow students dropped on the floor when Father Brisotti broke the bread around the dining room table and our beagle received her first communion. Our OLL parish was sorry to lose Mary but she went to neighboring St. Thomas in West Hempstead. Because of the BVM presence, my family transferred their membership to St. Thomas from OLL. It was the BVM difference to them in the school. I think by the time my nephew enrolled in pre-k, there was only one BVM left, and that convinced my family. I continually look to immigration issues as they are Mary’s focus. She has been a blessing in my life, in the BVM community, in the church’s life and social justice issues. I was quite humbled when she read my thoughts about Mary Wolfe, BVM, as my sixth grade teacher. You all have to know that the dynamism of Mary Frances Clarke and how you evolved after Vatican II are so important to our generation. To Mary McCauley, and all my BVM teachers on the Mississippi bluffs in Dubuque, know of my fidelity and gratefulness to you all. (I think I have covered Gayle Brabec, Helen Garvey, Margaret McCullough, Jeanne Granville, and Mary McCauley. I think I have only to write about Annamarie Kane, who I never had but my younger sisters did). My parents so loved the BVMs and were heartbroken when OLL closed. Bob Sammon [email protected] I do not have many memories of Sr. Annamarie Kane except that my parents cared for her and my sisters benefited from her as a teacher. I remember her telling her students if they did not complete their homework they could not watch Batman. Annemarie and Anne Francine joined my father’s political campaign to become trustee in the village of Hempstead, N.Y., and the goal was better integration. I remember them being at my parents’ home for some discussions. As usual, the BVMs were at the forefront of social and political change in the 60s. I remember Annamarie coming to stay with my family perhaps around 1970; I was the youth club president and she chaperoned a trip with my mother to Rye Beach. You must know that our family is deeply grateful for Annamarie (and Anne Francine) who so assisted THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 11 my sisters in their early educational years and supported the values my parents believed in, which I think are BVM core beliefs. Judy Peckham [email protected] Bob Sammon [email protected] One of the BVMs I would like to thank is Sr. Margaret McCullough. Sister Margaret was my seventh grade homeroom, religion, and US history/New York history teacher and my eighth grade math teacher. She was very patient with me as no one in my family possessed the math gene. She also coordinated the altar boys. I remember how understanding she was when I went through eye surgery and how encouraging she was when our family was taking an Easter vacation to visit Williamsburg, Va. I was quite impressed when she went on to become superintendent in St. Louis. I do not remember how it happened in seventh grade but somehow the statue of Mary broke in our classroom. I took up a collection among my classmates and replaced it, and she was very appreciative. At that time there was an A&S in Hempstead and that is where I purchased it. I did not know the Walsh and Conley Religious Goods Store existed in Hempstead. I remember our class trip to a Mets game and she was excited by it. Sr. Margaret was a BVM at the right time during the post-Vaticaan II years who inspired me to be a social studies teacher and a person of faith. I heard from her at Christmas and that she will be returning to Dubuque soon. I saw an advertisement in Time magazine advertising cruises down the Mississippi and Dubuque is one of the stops. As Sr. Margaret mentioned, I have friends there and would like to see about doing so. Lovingly, Bob Sammon, Our Lady of Loretto, Hempstead, NY Class of 1967 Thank you for all you did to make so many young women at Xavier High School into beautiful, bright, loving Christian women. I can never thank you enough for the deep, health roots you gave me by your wonderful example! With Love, Judy Hock Peckham 1967 Denise Ann (Franklin) Terry [email protected] This is a picture of three women who made an enormous difference in my life—my father’s sisters: Dorothy, Patricia and Kathleen. My father was the oldest of nine children, and I am his oldest child. When I was little, my aunts and uncles were still in school, still at home, very much a part of visits to my grandparents. I chose this photo because it shows how lively and beautiful they were. They were also brilliant and fun, inspiring and loving. 12 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK In the middle is Dorothy, who became a BVM: Sister Mary Robertelle. She chose her name to honor her twin brother, Robert. Although she eventually left the order and spent part of her adult life married, Aunt Dorothy was a dedicated sister who taught at all levels of education, including math and Latin at Mundelein College in Chicago. Because she excelled in these things, I believed that I could. And so I did, taking on courses in the classics and in mathematics in college. On the left is Patricia, who became a Visitation Sister: Sister Marie Aimee. I took Patricia as my confirmation name in her honor, and named one of my own daughters Amy. Aunt Pat was deeply spiritual, a contemplative, but she was also upto-date on world affairs. She was a dedicated teacher and administrator. She wrote letters, and never forgot my birthday, and to visit with her was to bathe in affection and love. On the right is the surviving sister, Kathleen, who is still a BVM, living now at the Motherhouse in Dubuque, Iowa. She was Sister Mary Joselle, in honor of Patricia’s twin, Joseph; she is now Sister Kathy Franklin. She and I have had such fun together, enjoying Cape Cod and Long Island (N.Y.), sharing family history, and having time together. Aunt Kathy was also a teacher, working into her seventies as a computer instructor. She volunteered with an immigrant group until very recently. I would not be the person I am today without these remarkable role models throughout my life. I have always been able to feel their prayers. They were my teachers in so many ways. I thank these nuns. Joyce Mach [email protected] As long as I can remember, I wanted to play the violin. We always had a piano in the house but the violin seemed so sweet and beautiful to me. Every time I heard a violin the desire to play it increased. Then one day I met Sister Mary Phileta, BVM. I had just begun attending St. Mary High School in Chicago. It was Open House and when my parents and I met Sister, my mother mentioned my love for the violin. The rest is history. Sister taught me to play and I joined the orchestra. I even received a beautiful violin of my own from my parents. I am grateful to Sister Mary Phileta for teaching me how to play my favorite musical instrument, and for providing me with opportunities to play for the enjoyment of others. Marlene Mangrich [email protected] My recollection of the BVM sisters goes back to the years of 1949-50 when I was a sixth grade student at St. Athanasius School in Jesup. It was the opening of our new Catholic school and the parish was thrilled to have the BVM sisters teaching in our school. My husband and I each had aunts that were of the Notre Dame order in Mankato. The Notre Dame order taught at Immaculate Conception in Gilbertville, where my husband attended school. Thank you to the nuns of all the different orders who patiently taught by example and caring for each individual at their level. May God bless and reward each of them for being His faithful servants!! Maggie Shannon George, CPCC, ACC www.phreshpective.com Mary Alma Sullivan, BVM Sr. Mary Alma Sullivan gave me the first failing grade of my life. She expected more of me than she saw in that first college freshman writing assignment. Once I recovered from the shock and tended my bruised ego, I took up the challenge. I don’t think I used the verb “to be” or the word “thing” for years. I can still hear her telling us to use more descriptive, interesting words. Over the course of my years at Mundelein, I knew with each course I took from Mary Alma, and there were several, that I would be stretched, THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 13 challenged and held to a very high standard. I appreciate that Mary Alma push me to rise to a higher potential. And rise I did! Thank you for seeing me and knowing what I was capable of achieving. Lois Dolphin, BVM Sr. Lois Dolphin was my high school science teacher. One of my strong memories of her took place when I received an extra assignment to measure the sun’s diameter during each month of the year using pictures taken from the same location for 12 consecutive months. When I was confused about the findings, she told me to go ask my mother. This was at a point in my life when I was pretty sure I was smarter than my mother. So not only did I learn that the sun is closer to the earth in the winter, I also learned that perhaps the adults in my life did have some things to teach me. I’m sure my mother is as appreciative of Sr. Lois’ influence in my life as I am. Carole Jaroch [email protected] Thank you, Sister Dorothy Gaffney, for taking me under your wings of prayers. It is so enjoyable to hear your voice when you call to see how I am doing and if there are any prayer needs. I feel like you are my mother checking in on me. I have enjoyed getting to know you. You have a beautiful ministry. I pray that you will remain healthy in 2015. God bless you for your continued prayers. I will also be praying for you. Thank you to all the BVM sisters for all they do and for those that have passed on to their eternal life. God bless you. Love, Carole Jaroch Rose Rita McMahon Sullivan [email protected] The Sisters of Charity, BVM have been a big part of my life. It started for me the day I was born when my mother selected my name. I was to be called Rose Rita after her sister, Loretta Considine, AKA Sister M. Rose Rita. Sister had 14 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK been professed just a few years before my birth. I admired and loved her so. She was a beautiful woman who always brought us holy cards. Sister spent many years teaching in various cities in Iowa. She also was assigned to a new school opening in Chattanooga, Tenn., as well as one in Carlsbad, Calif. My family, along with my parents, visited her while she was in Tennessee. We were quite impressed. It was always a special occasion when she was able to come home for a visit. Much preparation was made for this big event. Sister M. Donata was her most frequent companion. We looked forward to the companions visiting as well. We enjoyed visiting Sister at Chicago›s Holy Name Cathedral Convent, always enjoying the company of the other sisters, especially Sister Ann Marie Dolan. While there were many Catholic girls’ high schools close to where I grew up, I could not resist the familiarity of the nuns at St Mary High School. I loved my time there as a member of the class of ‹41. I was especially fond of Sister M. Jeanne Therese. She was not only beautiful but a great teacher. I was able to visit her at Mount Carmel when both she and the then Sister Loretta Considine were residents. I am grateful for the BVM experience and the effect on my life. The teachings of the good Sisters of Charity, BVM reinforced the faith that had been instilled in me by my great parents. Sincerely, Rose Rita McMahon Sullivan Madeleine (Gonnella) Licavoli [email protected] I am a graduate of St. Paul High School in San Francisco. Sr. Ann Marie McNamara (RIP 6/4/08) was my typing and shorthand teacher. Shortly before graduation she sent me for an interview in response to a call she had received from someone at city hall who was looking for a temporary secretary. I began working two days after graduation, June 9, 1970, and continued to work for the city and county of San Francisco until I retired 44 years later on June 30, 2014, as operations depu- ty director of the Office of the Clerk of the Board of Supervisors. It was the excellent reputation of St. Paul¹s for turning out graduates prepared to enter the business world that resulted in the call from City Hall and my being hired. I recall during a school assembly that Sr. Ann Marie stated that in the twoyear business program at St. Paul¹s one could get a job without the need to spend more time and money to attend a business school. How true this was in my case. I am very grateful for the education and training I received from Sr. Ann Marie and that she sent me to that initial interview for a temporary position. Pat Conway Parks [email protected] Both of my parents, my siblings, my husband and his siblings were all educated by the BVMs. BVM values are deep in the fiber of my being. These dedicated educators were skilled at educating the whole being. We learned faith, hope, love, critical thinking skills, self-discipline, self-respect, selfconfidence, and the desire and willingness to make a positive difference in the world. I could name many BVMs to whom I am grateful, but I could not name them all. Sister Michail, head of the Math Department at Clarke University when I was a math major there, was a mentor and friend like no other in my life. We stayed in touch and I went to Dubuque to see her until the day she died. Sister Marius, Sister Katherine Ann, Sister Sheila O’Brien, Sister Peggy Nolan, Sister Judy Callahan, Sister CIndy Sullivan, and so many other BVMs who have participated in the CMT apostolate in Quito, Ecuador, co-founded by my own sister, Sister Miguel Conway, are all women whose example has inspired me to work to help the poor and to pass this legacy on to my own children. Naturally, Sister Miguel is the BVM who has had the greatest lifelong impact on my husband, our children, and me. Gwen Nilles [email protected] I have been gifted with the friendship of so many good “nuns” in my life it is difficult to know where to begin. I so appreciate all the wonderful religious communities we have in Dubuque. However, one nun story that I have recently thought of is when the Sisters of the Good Shepherd were in Dubuque (in full habit), I was in the hospital with my sixth child. And of course, worrying about the five at home since their father needed to be at work. One of the Good Shepherd Sisters went to our home, took over all the household duties, and managed to make the kids happy playing ball with them in the backyard. She not only impacted my life, but the lives of my children. I will always be grateful for this nun! Jeanne Hochstatter [email protected] I am not sure to whom I should be addressing this, but I would like the BVMs to know that I certainly appreciated their talent to make independent individual thinkers of us all, to demonstrate that we could do anything a man could do (and often better), and that their influence could be felt for a lifetime. I thank Sisters Adora and Lucilda for their Spanish assistance and for their participation in making me the person I am. It is their Spanish aid that propelled me along the Spanish route of being a language teacher, a translator, a court interpreter, THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 15 a principal of a Spanish Immersion School, a bilingual real estate person, and a board member of a Spanish/English School. There were other nuns whom I admired also: Sisters Cresentia, Mikhail, Phillipa, Francine and others. One could stop and talk with them about anything, anytime, anywhere. Jeanne Hochstatter Donna Merwick (Dening) [Sr. Dorothy Ann] [email protected] Dear Sisters, Thank you for the opportunity to “thank a nun.” My thanks are of a lifetime of gratitude to BVM sisters. But let me single out “a nun” who, with others with whom she and I shared a life for six months in 1956, deserves special thanks. On March 19, 1956, I took my first vows at Mount Carmel and was missioned to St. Callistus Parish in Chicago. On March 20, I was met in the snow at the train station by you, Sr. Mary Ann Kathleen, and our superior, Sister Mary (Something?) Therese. Her outstanding kindness and yours on that occasion (you were not on Retreat but the others were) began six months that were among the happiest times of my life. Ours was a convent of 10 sisters: you teaching first grade, Sr. Lucca second grade, Sr. Claire Marie third, and up to Sr. Edmond, eighth grade. After the hundreds of women at the Novitiate, the experience now was of a devout, happy, close and rewarding Christian life and family life too. I never wanted to leave the parish and school, though I was sent to Immaculata High School (Chicago) only six months later, in August—and came to love it there. I often think of those months. I could write a book about the joys of being at St. Callistus. So, thank you, Sr. Ann Kathleen. I know that God would have blessed you and the other sisters. Christ walked with us in that little Italian parish. 16 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Judith Anshin [email protected] Sister Julia Clare Green, now deceased, was my teacher at Xavier High School in St. Louis, Mo. I came from a very dysfunctional family with a physically and emotionally abusive mother. Xavier was a refuge for me and Sister Julia Clare was the rock on which I leaned. I never told her any details, but she was always there for me and she was the kind of mother I didn’t have. I don’t know what my life would have become without her support and encouragement. Our friendship continued until her death, and I miss her so much. Thank you for this opportunity to share my love for her. Keith Kraft [email protected] I’d like to thank all the sisters that taught at St. Thomas of Canterbury, Chicago, from 1944 to 1952. I’ve told many people over the years that the Catholic education and discipline I received over those eight years did more to make me who I am today than anything else. By the way, that’s a good thing. If all the kids today could experience their first eight years of school being taught by the sisters, this would be a far better, and smarter, country. Brother David Galinski, FSC [email protected] St. Patrick High School, Chicago I am what I am today thanks to the wonderful BVMs I had at Blessed Sacrament in Chicago. Even at an early age, I knew the sisters loved what they were doing and loved us. I think the seed to be a teacher was planted early and here I am now in my 50th year of teaching as a De La Salle Christian Brother. Like the sisters who got me started, I too love what I do and love the kids I teach and counsel! I wish kids today could have the same wonderful experience I had, but times are different and we do the best with what we have. class of 1954 in college. Bur I’m sure she would have helped even a stranger to her. Two lovely memories of the BVMs I have never forgotten. God is Good. My love and prayers go out to all my former BVM teachers both living and deceased. Thanks to: Sister Mary St. Paul Sister Mary Gracita Sister Mary Joannes Sister Mary Reparata Sister Mary Francita Sister Carl Loras Sister Mary Antoine Sister Mary Bernetta Sister Mary Rosalind I am eternally grateful! Love and prayers. Ed Krolak B.A. Loras College, 1954 [email protected] When I was a student at Loras College I was a fledging actor. Sister Xavier Coens was the Drama Department director. I got a speaking role in Arthur Miller’s “The Crucible.” She was helpful to fledging thespians. About 20 years later she came toward me in a hallway at Clarke. When she looked up and saw me, she said, “Giles Corey!” She remembered me from the part I had in the play! I had no idea I was that good. I am vain enough to think that my brief appearance had been memorable enough that she recognized me. I shall never forget her kindness in recognizing me. And I had had some success on the stage in college—five shows at Loras and two at Clarke University over four years. At a Loras Homecoming not too long ago, I was caught in rainfall while in a wheelchair at the entrance to a party in a private home. One of the guests was Sister Bertha Fox (Dolorose). She was assigned to dry my soaked head in a towel. She knew me because we were both in the Terry Miles [email protected] Here’s a link to a recent article in the Atlantic: http://www.theatlantic.com/education/ archive/2015/01/joy-the-subject-schoolslack/384800/ I help in music programs in two different neighborhoods in Chicago that use the local school facilities, but are independent from the schools in question. Both are Chicago Public Schools, but one is a charter school. I think I like the charter school better because there is order, but using the article above, it cannot be at the expense of love. There has to be balance. I learned of this human, and yet divine, balance by example from the BVMs, and I am grateful. Make that very grateful, and I intend to make good use of my training! www.chimop.org www. musicchicagoinc.org With loving kindness to everyone in Dubuque and beyond, Terry Miles, SM Carolanne’s nephew Coralia Rodriguez (now Diaz Salazar) [email protected] I want to thank Sister Mary Elizabeth Ann. She was my guardian angel. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 17 In 1954, I was a foreign student from El Salvador, Central America, and when I arrived at Mount St. Gertrude I did not speak, read or understand any English, only my native Spanish language. I was 15 years old and missed my parents and friends a lot. She helped me make the transition so swiftly and lovingly, and I finally graduated speaking English fluently. I live in Miami since 1984, since the guerillas took over in my country. I feel honored and am so proud to have the pleasure of knowing her and please tell her I remember her fondly and I have always loved her very, very much. I pray to God to bless her abundantly. Sincerely, Coralia Rodriguez (now Diaz Salazar) PS. Please let me know how she is doing. I would really appreciate. Blessings. Mike Mulholland [email protected] was firm on the outside but soft on the inside and a great teacher all around. I also want to say that she was the kind of person who stays connected to you and affects your life long after you have graduated. My husband died suddenly a few years ago and a classmate of mine informed her about it. A few months after he died, I got a call from her offering her condolences. We had stayed in contact initially through Christmas cards and a few reunions but that was the extent of it due to our busy lives. I was so touched that she reached out to me during this devastating time. In addition to that, I will never forget the advice she gave me which helped me so much. She told me that I had had a full life without him before we married and I could still have a full (if different) life now. I could build and draw on the life we had together. That was so inspiring. I can never thank her enough. God bless her and my other favorites: Sister Patricia “Patty” Peach and Sister Mary Ann Zollman, as well as all the BVMs. Roberta Velez [email protected] Here is a photo of my aunt, Sister Mary Ambrose Mulholland. My family and I made many trips to Dubuque to visit her years ago. Mike Mulholland Roseann Hughes [email protected] Sister Mary Frances was my Latin teacher at Xavier High School for Girls in St. Louis in 1971 and 1972. I remember “some” of my Latin to this day, even though I did NOT take Latin III (much to her chagrin). This was only because I was getting it confused with the Spanish I was taking! She 18 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK I attended The Immaculata High School in Chicago from 1958-62. I was a nervous freshman walking into room 100 and was greeted by Sister Mary Josepha Carton with a big smile and bright twinkling eyes. I was blessed to keep in contact with Sister through the years until she died and went to heaven. I visited her at the Motherhouse many times and was always greeted by her with the same smile and twinkling eyes. On one of my visits I was blessed to meet Sister Realino Lynch and we became friends. Every Monday for the 15 years we were friends, I called her and we spent many hours on the phone. Sister shared many stories of her life especially her teaching experiences. I was able to visit with Sister at the Motherhouse several times a year. I will never forget the last time we spoke. I would always tell Sister to get comfortable in her favorite chair. That night she told me that she was going on hospice. She told me, “No tears, my dear. I love you very much and just think how much more my prayers will mean coming down from heaven.” Sister died almost four years ago and I still want to reach for the phone on Monday night to call her. Central Park. I am laughing now as if it were yesterday! But we made it there and back with a lot of pushing, shoveling and mostly laughing. And of course Sister brought cookies home for everyone. Love, Eileen Crowley James Rebman [email protected] Eileen Crowley [email protected] My Mom, now 82 years old (Therese Mary Flynn/ Rebman) went to Our Lady Help of Christians on Leclaire Ave., Chicago. She graduated grade school in 1946 and went on to high school and graduated in 1950 from the Immaculata High School on Irving Park Road. The love and knowledge given to my Mom through many BVM sisters was passed on to me, her son James and my two brothers, three sisters, her many grandchildren and great grandchildren. I want to thank you all so much! You all have a very special place in my heart. Again, THANK YOU. God Bless. Sincerely, James Rebman. When I was a student at Mundelein College Sister Mary St. George (Helen Thompson) talked me into taking her “Inner City Education” classes. I did so reluctantly. In this class we walked through the city a lot. I remember walking down Kenmore Avenue from Sheridan Road to Wilson Ave. noticing the changes in the neighborhoods: from garbage collections to street repairs to potholes . . . you name it, Sister taught us how to be observant of city services. Some neighborhoods were totally neglected. P.S. She turns 83 on Oct. 5, 2015. It would mean a lot to her if you would send her a birthday greeting. Her address is: Therese Mary Flynn-Rebman 310 Osage Street Apt. # 303 Wauconda, IL. 60084 Eileen Crowley [email protected] On Jan. 26, 1967 I was a new teacher at Blessed Sacrament School in Chicago. The worst blizzard in history hit the city. This just made Sister Macarius even more energetic than usual. Sister decided to take a ride in the station wagon to pick up a few essentials for the convent: bread, eggs, milk, potatoes, spaghetti. Some of us were happy to join her and it was a joy ride of a lifetime. Sister had no fear of the huge amount of snow, or what would happen if we couldn’t get through. There were stopped autos and even CTA buses on This was 1965. Things have not improved. Sister taught us social justice. Sister made us aware of storefronts that dealt with runaway teens, battered women and children, the homeless, the hungry, the aged. I had lived my life in Chicago and had no idea we had these problems. I also had a math methods class with Sister. We taught math in a Chicago public school: Goudy Elementary, an inner city school in Uptown. I was hooked. My entire career as a teacher was in the inner city of Chicago: 1966-2007. Sister opened my eyes to life and I have had the best life! God bless you, Helen Thompson, BVM. Sister Ann Landers, CSJ [email protected] Danetta lived here at St. Therese Little Flower Convent in Kansas City with me from 1998 until we moved her to Mount Carmel. She was a wonderful spiritual and community friend. We could tell each other anything and be accepted. My years with her were a treasure! I still miss my pal. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 19 Rev. Walter (Wally) Helms [email protected] but the BVMs certainly made it that way. So, THANK YOU for such a wonderful four years that led to an outstanding and long career Thankfully yours, Pam Malkowski Kroll, Class of ’ 68 Janet Stevenson [email protected] As a student at Regina High School in Iowa City during the late 50s, I was privileged to enjoy the ministry and excellent teaching of several BVM sisters. They comprised a significant portion of the faculty at that time. Most memorable among them were: Sr. Mary Maurine (Gearen); Sr. Mary Paula (Kelly) [biology, geometry]; Sr. Mary Robert Emmett (Mary Alma Sullivan) [English]; Sr. Mary Christiana (O’Connor) [librarian]; and Sr. Mary Francile (Luking) [vice principal]. I also remember Sr. Mary Ita [history]. Because they were excellent teachers, I felt that my years of study at college were much easier. My memories of their care have always been warm and grateful. In recent months it has been my thrill to reunite with two of these teachers, Mary Alma Sullivan and Paula Kelly. Thank you, one and all! Pam Malkowski [email protected] Dear BVMs, All of the BVMs that I met during my time at Immaculata HS during the years 1964-68 will always have a special spot in my heart. My first job after high school led to a wonderful career in information technology which lasted 32 years at the same corporation due to the fact that the hiring manager lived across the street from Immaculata and she was always impressed by the way the Immaculata young ladies conducted themselves. So, it goes without saying that not only the Catholic school had good foundations 20 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK I have had the honor of being taught by two wonderful nuns. Sister Mary Christella and Sister Mary DeLourdes, my freshman and sophomore teachers. Unfortunately, since I graduated in 1955, they are no longer with us, but I am sure they know how important they were at that point in my life. [email protected] All nuns who were assigned to Rock Island—God bless you forever! Brenda Bittner Stanislawski [email protected] I graduated from Holy Angels Academy in Milwaukee in 1958. All the wonderful strong BVMs I had shaped my life. They were feminist in every good way before the word was ever used. They were great role models as well as great academic teachers. They encouraged you to develop your talents, be a leader and make the world a better place by serving others. I received a B.S. degree in psychology and philosophy. I went on to receive an M.S. degree in educational administration. I worked as a social worker, taught psychology and became an executive director of a prevention, intervention and referral counseling agency. None of this would have been possible if not for the BVMs instilling within me a love of education and a strong desire to help others. For that I will always be grateful. My high school was combined with another all girl school. It is now called Divine Savior Holy Angels High School. My daughter attended high school there. She was fortunate to have a few BVMs as teachers. My granddaughter will also go there. I only wish the BVMs were still there. I know it’s a good school but it could be so much better if the BVMs were still present. They were the VERY BEST! minister at our local hospital, co-chair of our community Thanksgiving dinner project, and board member and volunteer at our local food pantry. Making the world healthier and holier one soul at a time guides my days. I am forever grateful for my formative years under Mary Leo’s wise and watchful eyes. Louise & Pete Saari [email protected] Margaret Plotkin [email protected] Sister Margaret was our mentor. Unfortunately, she passed away, however, her spirit will continue to be with us forever. God bless! Sister Mary Faith at Holy Angels Academy in Milwaukee gave me the first encouragement in the field I ended up in, art education. My family thought art was not very serious, like many families. It’s been a long time since I was in high school, but I remember her calm and warmth. Rosemary Fredrick Bergmann [email protected] As you can see, I am from the old age when you start a letter with this heading. I attended a school run by the BVMs back in the 1930s-40s so I do not remember many of the teachers’ names BUT I had my godmother who was later to become a BVM and she is who I want to remember. Her name was Sister Mary Carolanne Miles. She has since passed away a few years ago. Srs. Mary Malakey, Clarence, Henrietta Frances of Assisi(?), and Paul Therese are just a few more I remember. BVMs are very special to me. Rosemary Fredrick Bergmann, Our Lady Help of Christians and Immaculata HS, both in Chicago Mary Ann Ceman Brauhn [email protected] Thank you, Sister Mary Leo, for your loving guidance during my novitiate and scholasticate years. Your Christ and Mary-centered spirituality has translated into all stages of my life. Even though I left the BVM congregation in 1968, those core values that I learned from Sister Mary Leo continued to guide my inner and outer lives. Now that I am retired from my profession as a clinical mental health counselor, I find my calling to feed the hungry through my roles as Eucharistic Maryanne Thacker [email protected] I still make a little money doing calligraphy, which she taught. I spent 25 years as an art teacher and she was one of the reasons why. Thank you, Margaret O’Connor , H.A. ‘66 While Sr. Judy Callahan was in Kankakee I had the privilege of sharing the joys of St. Teresa Parish with her where she worked in the Hispanic ministry and at whatever else was needed. Time is one God’s most precious gifts and I have always been in awe of the time that Judy gives to those around her. She has been a role model in teaching me to try and not be so selfish with my time. I love her never ending, fun loving spirit and amazing energy. It is an inspiration and a joy to know her. The world is a better place. Janice Godzicki Fleming [email protected] I am a 1970 graduate of Cathedral High School in Chicago. I remember with great fondness the sisters who taught there: Sr. Helen Jeanne Hurley, Sr. Jean Gabriel, Sr. Richard Marie, Sr. Bertrand, Sr. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 21 Mateo, our counselor Sr. Anne Marie Dolan and others whose names I can’t remember but I can picture them. (I’m getting ready to retire soon!) It was a great four years. I can remember Sr. Helen Jeanne Hurley quite expertly roller skating at the Hub Roller Rink and Sr. Jean Gabriel’s endless knowledge of all things historical and current. We don’t truly appreciate them until we’re older! A note to Sr. Anne Marie Dolan: Do you remember the whole crew that used to hang out together? The Murrays, the Borschkes, the Bryks, and me, Janice Godzicki Fleming. I’m sad to say that Paul Bryk and Cathy Bryk and their brother George passed away. Bob Murray (brother of Bill Murray) passed away along with Pat Murray, their sister. Hard to believe so much time has passed. Blessings on all the BVMs and the great work you do! Janice Godzicki Fleming, Cathedral High School class of 1970. Mary Ellen Reuter Schommer [email protected] A note of appreciation and gratitude to Sr. Coman for being such a wonderful role model to the young ladies at Our Lady of Peace High School in St. Paul, Minn., in the 1960s. She was kind, gracious and welcoming, always having a smile on her face! High school can be a tough time for some, but Sister made the experience as wonderful as she possibly could! For that I will be forever grateful! Thank you Sister and God bless you! Beth Horton Grigsby [email protected] Class of 1964 OLP: The nuns gave us a great education and showed us how to lead our lives. They gave us pride in ourselves and showed us how to be humble at the same time. I am grateful. 22 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Sharon Bacher Kreisberg [email protected] I was blessed to have Sister Mary Adele in my life at Our Lady of Loretto in Hempstead, N.Y. She enriched my life and was there to listen to me during troubled times. I guess I saw her as a friend and mentor, she was a real support system for me. We did keep in touch for many years; I have her picture in a heart frame in my living room. People ask “Who’s that?” and I am always happy to share that is Sister Mary Adele, an angel from my youth! Sent with gratitude and love, Sharon Bacher Kreisberg Margaret Christensen Ferber [email protected] Special thanks to Sister Mary Angelita! I was in her drama class for all four years and will be forever grateful for all she taught me, and for her inspiration and enthusiasm. All of my adult life I have been attending theater of all sorts; it’s a big part of my life and a great source of enjoyment. It’s usually thought provoking and stimulates great conversations as well. I will always remember special times with her, including a trip to the “new” Tyrone Guthrie theater! I’ve introduced my three adult children to theater as well. I’d also like to thank the BVMs as a whole for providing me with a great education along with values of importance to me, such as a love of learning, integrity, women’s rights, social justice, spirituality and women’s rights. I’ve come to appreciate my four years at OLP in St Paul, Minn., more and more over the years. Margaret Christensen Ferber, class of 1960 Patricia Eastman Benner [email protected] To the BVMs: I was fortunate to have Sister Ann Regina Doebel as a senior prefect at Mount St. Gertrude Academy in Boulder, Colo., during the 1963- 64 school year. I am proud to say that we have become friends and are still in communication. Sister Ann Regina is one of the strongest, wisest, most encouraging women I have ever known. She is the epitome of a woman of culture and of a woman of God. She taught me to be a lady besides teaching me academics. I still remember my senior year asking her how one decides a major in college. Her response was “find something you love and you will find a way in which to make a living.” For me, that was the study of languages, and her prediction turned out to be true as my career consisted of: Spanish teacher, supervisor of foreign languages, bilingual education, English as a Second Language (ESL), elementary assistant principal in a bilingual school, and, lastly, principal in a bilingual elementary school. I also credit her for helping me to strengthen and expand my faith which has carried me through life. Thanks, Sister Ann Regina. You are the best! Margaret Mathews Sankovitz – HAA ’51 [email protected] Sr. Julia Clare Greene, BVM and Sr. Ann Regina Dobel, BVM Sr. Julia Clare believed in me enough to appoint me editor of the school newspaper, and, at the end of my senior year, she helped arrange a scholarship for me to Marquette University. We were in contact regularly until her death a few years ago. Sr. Ann Regina, my tall, beautiful sophomore homeroom teacher, assured me that being tall was not only OK but good. I was growing fast and worried that I would be 6 ft. tall like my father. Alas, I stopped growing and never reached more than 5 ft. 2 inches! But I knew that it would be good if I grew taller. I remain in contact with Sr. Ann Regina—still tall and beautiful! These wonderful BVM sisters were my mentors at Holy Angels Academy, Milwaukee, where I attended 1947-51. Camille Donaldson [email protected] Dear BVMs, Without a doubt, Yes! The BVMs surely did make a tremendous difference in my life. I was fortunate enough to have the BVMs as my teachers for 11 years and one summer session. They worked tirelessly to get the information across to me. They were forever available for questions and clarifications. They taught me good study habits and most importantly, how to be a good Catholic person. If you can believe this, I was from a class of only 12 students in high school as Xavier High School had only started three years earlier. In fact, when I graduated from high school there were less than 50 students in the entire school. Now there are maybe 1,200 or more students. When I got to college, I discovered I had been very well prepared, possibly better prepared than most of the students there. I had to study hard, but I was able to do the work because I had been given an outstanding education in grade school and high school. I had decided I wanted to be a chemist so the subject was not easy but still doable because of the work the sisters had done to prepare me. Another thing that I discovered much later was that going to an all girls school meant that the girls all had to be leaders because they couldn’t sit back and let the boys take all the leadership roles. There were no boys and the girls really got to learn without the interruptions and distractions of having boys around. No matter the setting today, I am always asking more questions than anyone else, because of the experience the wonderful BVMs provided. I’m sorry to have to admit that none of the sisters that taught me are still alive because I am 82, but their influence on me will forever leave me indebted to them. Thank you, dear BVMs. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 23 Gratefully, Camille Donaldson, Xavier High School Class of 1949, and St. Francis Xavier Grade School Class of 1945 Phoenix Jann Ortega Phillips [email protected] Thank you, Sister Maureen O’Brien for all you have done for St. Pauls High School, the alumnae association, and for all the hearts you have touched. Our family is grateful for all you have done for us. Without the collective dedication of these women I know I would not have developed the confidence to first practice and now teach law. I only hope I can have as great an influence on my students as all of them had on me. David Mc Grath [email protected] Nancy Lawler Dickhute St. Joseph Academy Class of 1970 [email protected] Dear Sisters, I would like to thank all the BVMs who taught at St. Joseph Academy in Des Moines, Iowa, while I was a student there from 1966 until 1970. The education I received was outstanding: these bright, dedicated women taught me so much in such a wide range of subjects, all the while helping me develop as a person and a woman of faith. With their guidance I pursued my dream of attending law school and now serve on the fulltime faculty of Creighton University School of Law in Omaha, Neb. I also serve as the associate dean for professional development at the law school. Who to thank? Where do I begin? Sister Mira Mosle was an excellent journalism teacher. Her knowledge of effective, efficient writing and page layout later helped me learn to write a concise, persuasive appellate brief. Sister Jean Byrne taught a class on communism in the 20th century that piqued my love of both history and government. Sister Mary Adelita was a great guidance counselor and served as a role model for what women in the workplace could achieve. She taught me to be a true professional. Sister Hortense Kelly was a terrific biology teacher who was never afraid to roll up her sleeves and get dirty in a science lab. While dissection was not my favorite activity, her passion for scientific inquiry was infectious (no pun intended!) 24 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Here’s a picture of my lovely cousin, Sister Rosemary Sage (Sr. Mary Michael David), on the occasion of her diamond jubilee as a Sister of Charity, BVM in September 2008 at Mount Carmel. What a grand day that was. She was a fine teacher and alumnae came all the way from Saint Paul (San Francisco) to help honor her. I still have the very sweet note and prayer that she sent to my mother when I was born in 1942. Susie Tilton North Catholic Grade School, Clinton, Iowa [email protected] I had two nuns that really stand out in my childhood. Sister Mary Immacula DeVleiger was my second grade teacher and babysitter when my parents went away. She was a great teacher and opened my childhood tastebuds to a Pizza Hut thin onion pizza. It’s amazing! We remained in contact until she passed away. I came to Dubuque and went to her grave. What a gorgeous final resting spot. Sister Mary Ricardo taught me in sixth grade and taught our class the Memorare. We recited it every morning and it continues to be my all-time favorite prayer. Karen Herman DeMuro, Mundelein ‘80 [email protected] I have so much love for the sisters from Mundelein College, 1977-80! I am so very grateful to the BVMs for the Mundelein experience, and especially to these sisters: Don Hauser [email protected] Sister Ann Ida invited me to a freshman philosophy class which not only opened my mind to philosophy and spirituality but to life! She took us to a presentation by Phyllis Shafley, and that day I became a feminist! Sister Jean Dolores was my academic dean. She was always supportive and practical while being compassionate and caring about me as a person. From her I learned patience and that from a calm heart you gain strength. Sister Ann Harrington and Sister Mary Pat Haley were favorite teachers whose good humor and knowledge were infectious! Sister Mary Cecile, who I did my work study with in the LRC’s AV department (I showed a lot of movies!), gave me her trust and respect which gave me lots of confidence as I was learning to be an adult. My college advisor and teacher of all things film in the communications department, and my good friend for 35 years now, Sister Mary Alma Sullivan, loved me and nurtured me and helped me grow up! Thank you, Sisters!! Sister Margaret Rose Pollard, my teacher in junior year of high school and history teacher in my senior year at St. Paul Catholic Central H.S., Burlington, Iowa, had more influence in my life than she would ever have known. She was tough, rigid and knowledgeable and concerned for our future as Catholics. I was susceptible to influence and I thought her influence was good to follow. We named our second daughter Margaret Rose after Sister Margaret Rose Pollard. Not everyone in my high school class of 1948 shared my feelings about Sister. Sister Inazetta was my senior year teacher and specialized in algebra. She eventually went back to Immaculata HS in Chicago and later left the order. I was influenced favorably by her good example. The influence of the School Sisters of Notre Dame at St. John Elementary School, Burlington, and the Sisters of Charity, BVM, St. Paul High School, Burlington, made me want to be a good Catholic. When I was 20 years of age I enlisted for four years in the United States Navy. I visited port cities in Asia, Holland, Scotland and the Mediterranean Sea and was still a virgin when I married a girl from West Virginia in August 1954 and we have been happily married ever since. I credit the SSNDs and BVMs and my father and brother with this (not easy) accomplishment. In 1954, in a letter of commendation, my commanding officer confirmed that my good behavior was an influence on others when he wrote «his morals are absolutely above reproach.» I always liked that line in the letter. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 25 Attached is a photograph taken in October 2012 of an old man, now of 84 years of age, named Donald G. Hauser, St. Paul Class of 1948. Rosemary (Rustad) Stahl [email protected] All the good sisters who were at Our Lady of Peace from 1957 to 1961 were a good influence in my sister Theresa’s and my life. Theresa is now deceased, but I’m sure she would agree with me. Thanks to my parents who prayed for us to learn all we could from them and the BVMs; we grew to love Mass and Jesus more in our adult years. May Jesus continue to bless all you are doing now and in the future. Michael J. Gaichas [email protected] As part of National Catholic Sisters Week, I am writing you to thank Sr. Jean Dolores Schmidt, BVM. She is 95 years old and still going strong! I have known Sr. Jean since my days at Loyola University Chicago where she is based. I used to work with Sr. Jean at the 10:30 a.m. Mass at Loyola’s Madonna della Strada Chapel, and she and I have seen many Loyola Ramblers men’s basketball games. She is the chaplain of the men’s basketball team and offers a prayer before every home game. Beyond all that, what defines Sr. Jean is her unconditional kindness to everyone she encounters. That is the one thing that really makes Sr. Jean Dolores Schmidt, BVM the wonderful person she is. Kara.E.Rainey [email protected] Sister Mary Ellen Schulte touched our lives. My husband and I met Sr. Mary Ellen when we went through the Pre-Cana classes in Chariton, Iowa. We remained in touch even after she moved back to Dubuque. She was a very special person. I think of her often and feel very blessed we were touched by her. 26 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK Bob Goodwin [email protected] Yes, from Sr. Mary Hortense through eighth grade, when I had Sr. Mary Roberte—they instilled a strong faith in my life and I thank God every day for all the dedicated women that taught me at St. Philip School in San Francisco. God bless the BVMs. Margaret McCann Pike, OLP 1967 [email protected] Thank you, Sister Mary Stokes, for being a career mentor as well as a model for being. In your French class, I found humor right along with deep regard for other cultures. I have adopted both. I worked as a French teacher and an ESL teacher, but my respect for people has played out in all areas of my life. I’m also grateful for how faithfully you stayed in touch for close to 50 years! You made a huge impression on me. I feel gratitude. Jackie De Francis Hostetler [email protected] I was taught by the BVMs in Phoenix at St. Francis ES; in sixth grade in 1957 I was taught by Sister Mary of the Angels; in seventh grade I had Sister Mary Ehrentrude and in eighth grade I had Sister Mary Norette. At Xavier High School in Phoenix, I had Sister Mary Catherine Patricia, Sister Mary Ralph, and Sister Mary Gertrudette, who became my mentor. She ran the Glee Club at Xavier and I was elected president of it in 1963. I sang solos at concerts too. I entered the BVM congregation in 1963 at the Motherhouse in Dubuque, Iowa, but only lasted 6 and 1/2 years. I owe my teaching credential and college education to the BVMs and some teaching experience which got me jobs later on. Most of all I owe my closeness to Jesus and service to him to the BVMs. Without that, I don’t know where I’d be today. God bless you all for what you did for me. Jackie De Francis Hostetler (Sister Marie Therese). Bob Rabbi [email protected] SEVERAL SISTERS TOUCH MY LIFE, THEY ARE: Anne Marie Dolan Julia Acosta Helen Jeanne Hurley Maggie McGinn Diane O’Donnell Kate Keating Dorothy Gaffney Marcella O’Rourke Patricia O’Rourke Ann Ida Gannon Mary Sattgast and many more! Mary Ann Ludwig [email protected] I don’t think I realized it at the time but Sr. Mary Florine, BVM had a big influence on my life. She taught art at St. Joseph Academy in Des Moines and I was in her class. She gave us experiences with drawing, painting, ceramics, calligraphy, sculpture, and helping with the sets and posters for school plays. The atmosphere was friendly and productive. I went on to major in art at Clarke College and taught art for about 40 years, while along the way getting an M.Ed. in art and related disciplines at Loyola and then a Ph.D. in curriculum and development at the University of Illinois. I think it was her expertise and nurturing that encouraged me and my fellow classmates to develop our talents that led to fulfilling lives. Another vote for keeping the arts in all schools. Thank you, Sr. Mary Florine, BVM. Dolores Becker, BVM [email protected] This is for Sr. Incarnata Gephart, BVM who taught me in first grade at Most Holy Redeemer, San Francisco. She prepared my class for first communion and I’ve celebrated almost every day since, but two summers ago I said to her, “I wish you could remember what I did in your first grade class to merit my getting my mouth washed out with soap.” Sister just smiled widely and we both had a good laugh. Dolores Becker Bob Wahlert [email protected] I was born with only two fingers on my left hand and Sister Ricarda never mentioned it; she treated me like any other kid and expected me to do what she asked. She also guided me towards pieces that minimized the left hand, but didn’t let me know it—great lady! One of my memorable sisters was Sister Mary Ricarda, PBVM. She put up with me for almost 10 years of piano lessons. She was very patient, and helped me develop a great love of music. Saw her again late in life, but Alzheimer’s disease had taken most of her memory. Nancy Callahan Lohr [email protected] Last September I was diagnosed with lung cancer. It came as a huge surprise to me and was discovered when I went I to the ER for an unrelated issue. I am a very private person and wanted to keep this news among my immediate family and a select few friends and family. I really needed prayers and reached out to my aunt, Sister Judy Callahan. Within moments she had emailed me back telling me that the Sisters would be adding me to their daily prayers. I cannot tell you the sense of peace and comfort I felt knowing I had all of these amazing women praying for my reTHANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 27 covery. In addition to the BVM sisters, I also had the Sisters of St. Joseph, an order of Cloistered Nuns from our hometown, praying for me. I had an upper lobectomy, lower lobe wedge section in which they removed two malignant tumors on Nov. 7. Today I am cancer free and so very grateful to all of these nuns, so from the bottom of my heart, thank you so very much! God bless! Karen S. Sister Mary Ellen Meckley, on the road of life you meet many people, some who know Christ and show it in their life, and others who don’t. You do! Keep your life shining. Thank you for the mask and the card. Coleen Tilson McKean [email protected] The sisters that I encountered while at Mount Carmel Academy had a profound influence in my life. I thought I was so tired of them that I enrolled at West High, a public high school near my home where some friends of mine attended. I went for a day as a visitor to see how great it was going to be. Boy, was I in for an eye opening experience. Had to ask my friend how on earth did they learn anything in all this noise and confusion? So the next day I went to school with my cousin who had attended St. Mary Cathedral in Wichita, but dropped out and went to East High a few blocks from her home. It was even worse than West high. My cousin had to warn me to stay close to her in a very crowded corridor where a student had been stabbed a month earlier. I was so scared I was shaking as we passed through this area. There were no teachers to supervise that hallway and so much pushing and shoving you could barely hang on to your books. I went back to Mount Carmel for a meeting with Sister Mary Emily, our principal, who had the year before told me not to come back to Mount Carmel due to my forging my mother’s signature 28 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK on notes excusing me for sickness. Fortunately for me, Sister Mary Emily noticed a slight difference in the signatures so she called my mother, who then verified she had not written the notes and I had not been sick. So I was not nearly as clever as I thought I was and was told I was not welcome to come back. So with my heart in my hand, I went back that summer before school started and served six Saturdays all day in a classroom doing math problems until I was blue in the face to be able to come back to Mount Carmel. I learned it was my safe haven and I was so glad to have nuns watching my every move and making my wear my skirt at the appropriate length and gave up my makeup that I thought I had to have just to be able to get back in school. I graduated from Mount Carmel Academy the first year in the new location and before they united with Kapaun Boys’ High School. All my life I’ve appreciated what I had taken for granted for many years. Unfortunately, I was never able to send any of my five children to a Catholic school, as my husband of 47 years had moved us to Oklahoma for a job advancement. All five ended up graduating but never had the education I had. Many people in my life have asked me what college I attended so I am proud of my educational advantage and the sisters who faithfully stood by me through my teenage years when I was at times unbearable. Bob Meyer and family [email protected] There exists a “Sister” who to me was a gift of God. She is Mary Nolan, a Sister of Charity, BVM. She became my wife’s special pal and came to our home weekly. Sister Mary became a nurse, a maid, a cook, and most of all a friend. Together they made still life sketches and colorful paintings. Their conversations included events of each life as they recalled. This was of great importance to my wife’s dementia prognosis. At that time Sister Mary was learning to play the piano, actually taking lessons from a gentleman whom she was helping to recover from recent hospital stays. When it was known that at one time my wife had knowledge of music and had played our piano, presently in the living room. Sister Mary began to teach Mary Jane. It was something to witness Sister playing with the left hand and my wife with her right hand. My wife was suffering from the effects of a stroke. She was diagnosed with dementia and the beginning of Alzheimer’s. She utilized a walker. Sister aided my wife in walking sans walker, short distances in the house. I witnessed the two friends as my wife improved physically and mentally. In April 2012, after lunch, my wife walked unaided from the kitchen to the piano. While waiting for her teacher, she began to play, with both hands! A wonderful vision. In May 2012, Mary Jane passed away after a twoweek hospital stay. Sister Mary was at her side much of the time. Thank you, Sister Mary Nolan. May God reward you. Bob Meyer and family Eugene R. Callahan [email protected] focused to the very last day of high school. That is a rare talent, especially these days. I use the word memorable because, 66 years later, I still often think of her. Nancy M. VanAnne – BVM Associate [email protected] March 8-14 marks the dates for the second annual National Catholic Sisters Week (NCSW). This is a time to “stop, think, and remember” to give thanks to a nun who has had an impact on my life. I would like to extend my thanks to Betty Voss, BVM for the years of friendship, love and companionship she has given me in association with the congregation. Betty demonstrated to me early on what it means to be a BVM! She LIVES the core values! As a fellow educator I admire the way she calls forth the gifts and potential of her students. She is on the front lines when it comes to standing up for justice issues. I have become more faithful to myself because she has nurtured in me a deeper and more profound understanding of freedom. In summary, I enclose my sincere thanks to Betty and to all the BVMs who have had a profound influence on my life. I am deeply grateful. Colleen Schumacher [email protected] Some I’ve known for years and others not so long. They have listened to my fears and dried my tears. They have shared my laughter and I’ll sing their praises to the rafters. I only hope that we’ll all meet in the hereafter. (But not too soon!) I want to add Sister Mary Emmanual to the list of memorable and really effective sisters. She was the commandant of the junior and senior homeroom at St. Martin, and while she would remind you of a WWII battlefield commander, she also could become a tender-hearted minder of upper class potential adults and kept them THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 29 Rita Slater [email protected] I would like to take the time to thank all the sisters in the BVM congregation during the National Catholic Sisters Week. I would like to especially thank Sister Theresa Caluori for her perseverance, dedication and willingness to push things to the edge. A long time ago, I was separated from my biological father due to divorce and I lost contact with my Dad. Sister Theresa spent many years searching for my sister and me so we could reconnect with my Dad (Ted). She spent quite a bit of time convincing my dad to give her permission to contact us. He was reluctant because some of his friends had reconnected with their children and the experience was not a good one. Hence, he did not really want to take the chance of that happening with him. I had no information on how to contact my biological family. The added benefit of reconnecting with my Dad was reconnecting with that whole side of the family. My cousin Cindy and I, since I have gotten to know her, have become best friends. It is as if we have always known each other. I also learned I have a brother, Skip. We have gotten to know each other by sharing stories of our childhood and how we grew up. But my favorite part of the story is Sister Theresa, for Sister Theresa has also become known as Aunt Theresa. She is my Dad’s sister and I love her dearly and will always be thankful for the way the Lord used one of his servants to reconnect me to my family. I now have a family that I had not known before. All this is due to Sister Theresa and her persistence. If she had not done this, I would never have known what a great father my Dad was. Joanne C. Novarro [email protected] It’s not as if I had grown up without a dad, for my Mom had since remarried and my Stepdad was a great and wonderful man who had no trouble raising us girls. In the meantime, Sister Theresa was persistent in trying to find my sister Sherrie and me. She was visiting a friend of hers when her friend’s son came over. She was telling them that she was having no luck in trying to find us. Her friend’s son told her: “Hold on, I think I can find them.” Sure enough—he found my sister’s obituary online and therefore found me. She sent a letter (with a self-addressed envelope in case I did not want to contact her) with her phone number to call if I was interested. I called the number and before I knew it, I was talking to my Dad every day. It was like we were never apart. He told me stories about his life and we got to know each other very well. Before long, we were making plans to visit him in Montana. This was one of the greatest things I have done. I am so glad I had the opportunity to meet and get to know him before his death. We made a couple of trips to Montana before his death, which we really enjoyed. 30 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK I have wonderful memories of the BVMs at Our Lady of Loretto School in Hempstead, N.Y., and those dedicated women who taught me so much remain in my prayers. In second grade, I was chosen by my teacher, Sister Mary Martin de Porres, and the school principal, Sister Mary Bertha, to represent the school at the Diocese of Brooklyn’s celebration of Mission Sunday. I’m sure it was because I had a high forehead (they pushed my bangs aside back to check it). Attached are two photos: one of me and a second of me with my classmate Mary Mulligan, who was also chosen, taken before we left OLL for the celebration at what is now St. Agnes Cathedral in Rockville Centre, N.Y. I am thankful in particular for Sister Mary Adele, who taught me piano as well as welcoming me into the Glee Club where I learned to sing Gregorian chant; for Sister Mary Nicodema, who taught me so many things, including memorizing the prepositions (I can still recite them!) and how to make pebble mosaics; and most particularly for Sister Mary Michaelita, for her kindness, compassion and sense of humor. Mary P. Trotter [email protected] Dear Sisters There is so much to share, so many memories. As I began to reflect I realized that maybe Sr. Lucy’s mission really said it best. This is a reflection on the life of my sister, “Pinky” and it was also a tribute to Sr. Mary Lucy and our experience as children in Our Lady of Lourdes School in the 1940s, there are so many stories of this extraordinary time in my life with the sisters, but I didn’t think I could improve on this letter. Sr. Peggy Nolan called me to thank me and to encourage me to write. I was deeply touched by her personal phone call, her interest, and I truly felt her presence and love. A few weeks later I received a letter that Sr. Peggy had died and I was one of the last people she had contacted. Over 60 years, now over 70 years, the Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary are still touching my life. The words of Sr. Peggy continue to speak to me and encourage me to begin a new chapter in life, writing. The sisters at Mount Carmel and their example of continuing involvement in service to others into retirement and advanced age is an inspiration and model for all of us—continuing education! Their words from first grade are still embedded in my psyche and feed my soul even to this day. When will I die? When you’re work is finished (first grade, Sr. LaSalette) Faith is a gift not everyone will receive. God is everywhere, unfolding in new deep experience even to this day. And of course, one of my favorites: Pray for a happy death! We grow into all of the teachings. A memory of each of my sisters and brother taken in the grotto at Lourdes where the baptismal font was located. After the baptism they would form a “circle,” a sacred circle and consecrate this new life to the Blessed Virgin. All very mystical. So much, so rich—you are all a gift! I love you. Mary P. Trotter [email protected] Sr. Lucy was a BVM sister and teacher at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish School, Chicago, in the 1940s. I remember her on the playground as very serene and round; the skirt of her black habit was so full that Pinky, my little sister, would disappear in the folds of the worsted wool. Pinky loved Sr. Lucy. When she saw her during recess she would run up to her and hug her around her legs. Sr. Lucy responded with love, a pat on the head, and her sweet and gentle smile. We attended Our Lady of Lourdes during the 1940s, leaving in September 1951 when we moved to California. The years at Lourdes were the best years of our childhood and the memories and experiences were indelibly etched in our minds and hearts. Those were wonderful years of ritual and rhythm that formed and prepared us for our lives. The life of the parish revolved around the liturgy and school. The rectory was full of wonderful assistants: Fr. Cletus O’Donnell (later Bishop), Fr. Rogers, Fr. O’Reilly, and of course Msgr. Campbell, THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 31 who was very good to the school and the children. to guide and support her children and she never gave up on her husband. The May crowning was one of the most beautiful, memorable events of the year and we all looked forward to eighth grade when we would have a chance to be the May queen and crown the Blessed Virgin. 1951-52 would have been my eighth grade year and I was so disappointed when we moved. Eighth grade was a milestone. She loved books and worked in the public library. She could research anything and understood how the poor were constantly taken advantage of because of their lack of education. She became a true advocate for the poor and the homeless and for the alcoholic and drug addict. Three of her sons were destroyed by addictions; this made her study harder and work harder to help those suffering. Her daughter was diagnosed with diabetes when she was nine years old and she immediately began to study the disease, nutrition and medications. She read and studied all the time. She filed legal forms and would take on any institution or system. She helped people in the neighborhood understand their mortgage documents and loan papers. On one occasion she called the lender directly to complain about their tactics, then obtained an honest loan broker and helped the woman refinance her home. In those days Our Blessed Mother was a very important part of our life; the music, novenas, the rosary, and of course our personal altars. Interestingly enough, all the ecumenical spiritual movements and retreats today honor the Divine Mother and incorporate altars, candles, flowers, ritual, chant—all the things we grew up with as children at Our Lady of Lourdes. But this is about Pinky. She met her husband right out of high school and was completely infatuated with his rugged Irish charm. He was the son of migrant farm workers and she was shocked by his poverty and lack of opportunity. She thought she could teach him to read and everything else she had learned in the wonderful schools she had attended. Innocent and naïve Pinky had six children. Life was difficult. She went to work after the third child and always lived in the poorest neighborhoods, but she paid off her home and saved money. She understood money and the value of a dollar. Her husband worked but did not contribute. He drank and eventually became a drug addict. He even introduced drug use to his own sons. But Pinky never gave up and as she matured and realized the reality of her life she attempted to leave but she also knew she had a responsibility to her children who were suffering the results of her choices and naiveté. In spite of horrendous circumstances she went back and did her best Her wisdom, intelligence, tenacity and compassion amazed me. It was a hot July day when she buried her first son, the effects of alcohol. After the funeral her yard filled with close to 200 young people. Having five sons, it was mostly young men between the ages of 20 and 35. The demographics were Black and Hispanic. These young men surrounded her as she listened to their stories. She stood there for hours in the hot sun and if I would try to move her she would just tell me their stories. It was always about their pain, their recent loss, and their tragedy. At one point I looked at her, and I saw Sr. Lucy in the schoolyard. Pinky stood out in the crowd with her red face and red hair just as Sr. Lucy had once stood out in the playground with her black habit and round pink cheeks. At that moment I saw a sign over her door, “Sr. Lucy’s Mission,” and I realized that Pinky was in fact a missionary. She had brought faith and understanding and compassion to THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 32 people that really did not know God. No one could understand her gentleness, acceptance and faith. No one could understand her strength. Rather, they saw her gentleness and kindness as weakness. Up until that day I had seen her as victim, but that afternoon I began to understand that Pinky was in exactly the right place and always had been. She truly was doing God’s work and at great personal sacrifice. With every assault on her gentleness and sensitivity, she only grew stronger in her resolve. Five years later she buried her second son and again, everyone marveled at her resignation and faith. She had fought hard to save her sons but when I asked how she managed she simply said, “Mary, they are in heaven now and they are safe with their Father. After all, we are here to bring souls to God.” She continued to work to save her husband’s life and eventually he went into treatment, stopped drinking and drugs and has been clean and sober for several years. A third son still struggles and Pinky finally realized that she had done all she could do. Last summer she was diagnosed with lung cancer and died three months later. Again she modeled serenity, acceptance and surrender. She told me, “Mary, there is nothing left for me to do. I am ready to go home.” When I said, “Pinky you saved Tom,” she opened her eyes, smiled her gentle smile and nodded “yes.” She died at home with her family around her. Prior to her death, she witnessed daily to her faith. She continued to engage the visitor that needed to speak long after she told me that she wanted to be left alone in peace and quiet to pray—which I honored; we did not speak after that. But those that needed to be heard were comforted by her until the very end. She always understood their needs and listened to their stories. Only after her death did each one realize and recognize her tremendous strength, courage and service. After her baptism in the beautiful grotto, the sisters dedicated her to the Blessed Mother. Pinky learned her faith from our mother and the BVMs of Our Lady of Lourdes and she never forgot those early lessons. One of the things we remembered was praying for a “happy death;” this was lost on a small child but we did it and we grew into the wisdom of this prayer. We talked about this in those last days. She definitely had a happy death. What is important now is to honor the dear sisters of those days that gave us the foundation of our early years. They taught us our faith, ritual and celebration, reading skills, personal discipline, a sense of joy and wonder. In the end these earliest years of our formation have sustained us through all kinds of unimaginable experiences of two little girls from the north side of Chicago. When I saw Sr. Paulito’s name in the last issue of SALT I realized that there are few left from those days but perhaps all the BVM sisters will appreciate our gratitude and the fact that their efforts were not unrewarded and even passed along to our children and grandchildren. Gabriela Orozco-Fulton [email protected] I would much rather send a handwritten note, but I want to make sure this gets there in time. I went to grammar school at St. Charles Borromeo in North Hollywood, Calif., from first to fifth grade in the early 1960s. I have beautiful handwriting. I work today at an elementary school and it breaks my heart to see the cursive skills that the children have today. I try to impart to them as much as possible what I have learned and I thank the Lord every day for the skills I was taught as a child. All of those loops and hoops and loops have paid off. I didn’t see it then, but I see it now. It takes practice. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you, for the patience and perseverance you gave so that I could become who I am today. I was able to teach my children to have good penmanship. Stay well my old friends and remember the good times we’ve had. I remember the last time you saw my granddaughter, she was just a toddler and now she’s 12-years-old and five foot four. She’s a champion swimmer. Her brother Michael is soon to be 10-years-old. Both go to Blessed Sacrament School – no nuns. What a shame for them. Anyway, take care of yourselves. Joan and Jack Conley [email protected] I’m so sorry I didn’t get this to you sooner but feel a need to share this with you now. Pat O’Driscoll Therese Frelo/Joan Stritesky I am thanking the two nuns who are responsible for me being a BVM Associates these past 15 or so years. I’ve always been proud to be an Associate and it’s all because of our circle of friends coffee group so many years ago. I really wish there was something like that here. Madison is a strange place in many ways. I never hear anyone speak of nuns. I miss those days. I’m glad I can get to Milwaukee for cluster meetings. It helps to keep me in touch. I hope you two are well and staying out of trouble. I’ve talked to Nancy McCarville a few times and she seems like a real go-getter who will bring more Associates in the fold. While living in Dalton, GA I had the privilege of meeting a most wonderful Nun, named Sr. Irene Lukefahr. Sr. Irene is one of the most caring, compassionate, loving ladies one could ever meet. In 1982 our 21 yr. old son, Kirk, was killed in a drunk driving crash. Sr. Irene came to our home to console us in our grief. The most memorable time with Sr. Irene was on the anniversary of Kirk’s 22nd birthday which was Oct. 4, the Feast of St. Francis. That prayer was said during Kirk’s Mass in Dalton and in Cleveland. Sr. Irene was at Mass. Irene came up and asked if I’d like to go have breakfast with her. Jack went to work and off we went. We sat down at a table and Sr. Irene asked “What did you do 22 years ago? I was given the opportunity to talk about our son, his birth, his life and his death. What a gift Sr. Irene bestowed on me that day. Sr. Irene allowed me to talk about our son, which some people found this uncomfortable. However, I firmly believe, if those people who suffer a tragedy of losing a loved one, are allowed to tell their story they feel better sooner than those who feel they can’t share their story. Our friendship has lasted for over 30years. I thank God for bringing Sr. Irene Lukefar into our lives and into my heart. Love to my dear friend, Sr. Irene. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 34 Vielen Dank, Schwester Katrina, Joan Maas Holy Angels Academy ’59 [email protected] I would like to thank Sr. M. Katrina, my German teacher at Holy Angels Academy in Milwaukee in the 50s. Little did I know, when working my way through the complexities of German grammar/ literature/composition/prayers/songs, how grateful I would be later for the excellent foundation she gave us. Barbara Bollinger [email protected] I did not share a picture but do remember you all in prayers of gratitude. A group of women in Corvallis OR was fortunate to become friends and faithsharers with Sister Kathy Carr some years ago. The friendship and mutual prayers continue strong. Presentation. She guided and inspired us through 7th and 8th grade in Farley, Iowa back in the middle 50s. We were her favorite class... hands up. She helped me with social connecting with my teen clients...we didn’t get a class on discipline in college...but after pondering who might I use as a role model...it was her. I used her way of connecting with people all through my 30 years as an Occupational Therapy/art mentor and mental health advocate. Be sincere, be interested, have compassion and expectation and have fun. Sisters deserve recognition...they are wonderful women Helen Griffin Hartley, Two Harbors, Minnesota Mary Ann Krems [email protected] Helen Hartley [email protected] I would like to thank Sr. M. Katrina, my German teacher at Holy Angels Academy in Milwaukee in the 50s. Little did I know, when working my way through the complexities of German grammar/ literature/composition/prayers/songs, how grateful I would be later for the excellent foundation she gave us. One of my best friends is a BVM--met her in first grade...she was a true friend all these years....1946-2015...her name was Carol Spiegel. I used to help make cookies at her house when we were teens. I was there the day she left for Mount Carmel. I also have a wonderful cousin who has come to our farm when we having pumpkin patch...she is like a social and spiritual harp to our family...she’s fun...she loves and stays connected with us...She is respected more than she knows...her name is Sister Patricia Griffin. Another sister of great importance to many of us was/is Sister Catherine Winegart, a I would like to have Sister Gwen Farry honored on our list. I have known Sister Gwen Farry since her work at 8th Day and on our SEA board. This gentle sister is so wise and is a formidable source at advocacy for the poor and those in need. She has participated in School of the Americas and Sarah’s Walk in Chicago. She protests for those immigrants detained in Chicago and being returned. She brings a wisdom to the SEA board on investments with social purposes and I have seen her converse with CEO’s of Merkt and McDonalds among others. and she is viewed by them and Interfaith Center on Corporate Responsibility as a wise woman and resource. She is also a lot of fun when we go to ICCR meetings and knows the ins and outs of getting around in New York. She has truly been a mentor and a good friend. Mary Ann Krems Associate (this is a picture of her and me at the ICCR Meeting if you need one. It would be ok to clip me out if you wish. THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 35 Joan Simon Kuhn her Facebook page, which made me think about two sisters I had the opportunity to work with during my five years at Mundelein College Rosemary Shaughnessy and Vivian Wilson. I can’t express enough gratitude to the sisters who taught me and my kids. I started with the Sisters of St Joseph in La Grange, IL and had BVMs for 2 years at Mundelein, then 2 years of Dominicans at Rosary College; my kids had Franciscans at St. Louise de Marillac in La Grange Park and IHMs in Westchester. They were wonderful, all of them--well educated, professional, great teachers and role models, fun, even friends. They made the Gospel come to life while they prepared us for a tough world, and were so gracious about the occasionally necessary discipline....God sent angels into our lives! I just sent Rosemary an email - we haven’t been in touch in several years but I think about her often. I came to Mundelein to manage the financial aid office in 1984 when Julia Marie Green retired, and then took on the Weekend College as well. Rosemary was a wonderful colleague and a model for how to serve students. I had not managed an entire operation before and she was a huge help on many fronts. 53169 29 Palms Hwy, Morongo, CA 92256 [email protected] Irvin M Nauman [email protected] I would like to thank all the BVM’s I came in contact with at OUR LADY OF PEACE IN ST. Paul Minnesota. I was in the 2nd class It was a new school the Sisters were new to the city. It was wonderful Sister Mary Adorinus was my favorite. When I went to Clarke College sister retried to there. WE had many long talks When I married we went to see her And I brought our first child to her to be blessed. There are many times I miss her. Sister Rosina was my sewing teacher and to this day I do a lot of sewing thanks to her. There are many others. I went on to teach in BVM schools. Then there is Sister Catherine Jean who was a big influence on our daughter Sister developed A deep interest in science and Carolyn still works today in an animal science field with her husband. All the BVM’s I came in contact with have had a part in developing my value system so to all I say thank you!! Susan Grogan Ikerd [email protected] I found the BVM website in a very roundabout way - my sister posted the Thank A Nun info on 36 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK While working with the Weekend College, Vivian envisioned and spearheaded an organization for adult learners (REACh - Resources for the Education of Adults in the Chicagoland Area) that is still active 25 + years later. Her energy, drive and enthusiasm was loved and appreciated both by our students and colleagues in the higher ed community in Chicago. I just retired after over 33 years in higher education administration. Rosemary and Vivian both inspired me to persist in this field and focus much of my efforts on supporting working adults, particularly women. For that I thank them. Andrea A. Raila [email protected] I just wanted to send you a thank you note from myself and my family for the work and contributions Catholic sisters have had globally. I graduated from Catholic elementary and high schools and even graduated from Mundelein College one of the very few all women’s Catholic Colleges in the country before it was purchased by Loyola University. I was a Fines Arts major for 2 years until I took a course in public finance from Sr Paul Francis Bailey. BVM and that changed my life and my major to economics. I have operated my own tax consulting minority firm for 24 years and recently sold my firm to my sister, Paula Raila JD (U of C) where I continue to work. Catholic sisters continue to do great work. The world is a better place because of their service and sacrifices. Posted on Facebook Gerri Campbell Today I give thanks to God for all the BVM sisters who were a part of my faith journey during my childhood. To all the BVM sisters who lived in the Convent of St. Thomas the Apostle in West Hempstead, thank you for sharing your faith with me. And for being good neighbors, putting up with us kids playing football in your yard or cutting through your driveway. Thank you to Sisters Ann DeNicolo and Colleen, Dee and Bonnie for being my first experience of seeing the richness of being a nun. Thank you for being a part of my early church community experience. I remember with fondness Sr. Ann taking my brother, myself and other teens from the parish into Madison Square Garden to see Pope John Paul II for his first visit to the United States. Sisters Ann and Colleen truly touched my faith life, blessings to them both. Blessings upon all the living and deceased members of your BVM community. Susan Deal Pedersen: Sister Mary: Thank you for being there when I had my daughter and also when she had surgery right after she was born. Sister Agnes: Thank you for being more than a teacher, for being a friend. Mr. Phelps: Thank you for being there for everybody and caring so much. Cherie Murphy: I had Nazareth sisters in grade school, Franciscan sisters in high school and BVMs in college! Yes, they helped me be the strong independent woman I am today! Anyone that thinks a nun is subservient to a priest has never been raised by a NUN! Connie Duncan Birmingham: SO many great BVM teachers . . and my mother was schooled by them at Mt. St Joseph in Dubuque (boarding school) in about 1919. Tom Lynch: I had two great aunts who were sisters. One a BVM, the other a Franciscan. Both were genuine good people with a heart of gold! Jenny Porod To the numerous Sisters that have been a part of my life educationally and spiritually at Our Lady of Charity and elsewhere I send a heartfelt THANK YOU! Sharon Helmer My name is Sharon Helmer, former BVM, and I want to thank Sr. Mary Margretine Smith for helping me to become a better Catholic, and a better person. She was my mentor since 1957 and if it wasn’t for her, I don’t know where I would be to today...when I was a teenager when I first meant her, she taught me values, integrity, more about the Catholic faith...since I was a recent convert. I kept in contact with her through the years, even after I left the BVM’s, and have always learned from her wisdom and gracious personality. I miss her...but know she is still looking out for me;) I feel very blessed to have known her. And in addition to this and a bonus...she introduced me to her sister, Mary Dixon, who was my very best friend for more than 30 years. Both are deceased now...but I treasure their friendship and mentoring....still. Mary Ann Krems I am honoring Sister Mary McCauley who gentle way and ready smile has given us courage to stand up with the immigrants who are government doesn’t seem to understand and she does. Thank you Sisters for all you lives and contributions you have given so many. As a friend who wrote an article, you taught us all how to move away from the “me” to a “we” society. From Sister Mary Oramae who prepared me for First Communion, Sister Mary Clarice who, as friends THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 37 with my mom, shared a love of music, Sister Catherine Fay and Sister Virginia Healy who helped me become a mature responsible women to serve others...I thank you. ALL Felicia Moss Mayfield Thank God for the selfless service of the BVMs of St. Augustine in Memphis, Tennessee. Not sure of the spelling...but, thank you Sisters Mary Bennetta, Mary Serelle, Mary Josanne, Mary Etienne, Mary Rita, Mary Evangelest, Mary Killian... Holly Vlachos Beaty A never ending thank you to Sister Marie Greaney for making the possibility of Misericordia Home a reality for our daughter Dana....through her kindness, grace and love, she also made it possible for us to meet Sister Rosemary Connelly and become part of her Misericordia family as well...Gratitude beyond words to Sister Marie... Lourdes Guerrero Thank you, Sister Shirley Kryczyk. You taught my 8th grade class at Holy Family Catholic Elementary, Chicago (now gone) from 1968-69. You were kind and understanding yet demanded the best from us. You made a difference to one sad, skinny little girl who grew up to be a happy, loving woman. Thank you. Theresa Speciale Thanks and prayers Fran Kempster Britton My big “thank you” goes to the late Sister Mary Ann Evans, AKA Sister Mary Adelina, BVM. I was lucky enough to have her for both my first and third grade teacher in the 1950s at Christ the King in Kansas City, Mo. Then I became re-acquainted with her when I was an adult mom and grandma. She called me on January 1 of the year she died wondering how I was doing since Oklahoma was having wild fires at that time. She was a gracious lady who is part of the reason I am a life-long enthusiastic reader today! (And a big reason I still send money to the BVMs.) Teresa Wilson So grateful for the wonderful education and guidance I received at St. Joseph Academy in Des Moines. Sr. Mary Adeleita Healy gave me the support and guidance that has helped me my whole life. SJA was such a wonderful environment. Thank you, always. Jane OBoyle Thank you BVMs I can’t thank just one of u. You are All special for so many reasons. Love to u all Vivian Jhonson GOD GORY! Thank you all Nuns & Sisters : +) Jean Hald Mammone Thanks Sister Mary Helene....6th grade at Our Lady of Loretto, Hempstead NY 1956-57....hope you are well! Melinda Thompson Thank you all for the fantastic education I received. Thanks also to the sisters that used to come to our house in the summer to water ski and in the winter to ice skate. Made you all that much more reachable. Barbara Ower A big thank you to Sister Mary Claretta who was my 8th grade teacher and principal of St. Philip the Apostle school in Pasadena CA. That was back in 1962, a long time ago. Thanks also to Sister Mary Rose Petrine who was my 7th grade teacher at St. Philip’s. Back then there were 90 students in one classroom, and Sr. Mary Rose Petrine taught every single one of us with no problem whatsoever. God bless and keep you all! Eva Nowakowski Thank you - BVM’s taught me at Mary Quen of Heven, Cicero, IL - St.Jerome, Chicago, Il - The Immaculate HS, Chicago, IL - went to Loyola U, Chicago but also took some classes from BVM’s at Mundelein College. Patricia Gale Fantastic educators!!! I miss Sister Mary Lou Larkin. 38 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK In 3rd grade, Sr. M. Pauline mentioned that “any idiot can learn to spell.” I didn’t want to be an idiot so I made sure that I became a good speller and in 8th grade, I won the school spelling bee and got a medal. This was at Holy Redeemer School in Montrose, California - I graduated in 1954. Grace Ellen Brecht BVM. She was allowed to keep her baptismal names because she was named for her mother. She was fun while teaching. My life was solid. Others in my class were not so lucky. Decades latter they talk about what she meant to them. Mary Kay Dougherty Oh so many k-12 but I will list Sr. Anne Marie Dolan BVM formerly Cyrilita taking the name of her brother Cyril. Principal at Gesu Grade School Milwaukee Wisconsin. We started all school reunions in 1980. She and many others just kept attending and attending making us still feel special decades after we were taught by them. They had to travel to Milwaukee to attend. Anne Carr at Nundeline was the best teacher and thesis director that I have ever encountered. She encouraged me to be creative and to do my thing. Awesome Jo McIntyre Sister Mary Brian was a big part of my life in Missoula, Mt. She taught 4th grade at St. Anthony’s and I had just moved to Missoula. I knew no one and started the school year late. She was SO welcoming and teamed me up with another student and made sure I was okay with the new environment. She was young, vibrant and always smiled or laughed. She loved baseball and would come out to the playground and play ball with us, boys and girls. So fun to watch her run bases! I feel she was the best teacher I had up until college. I was blessed to have her as a teacher again in 6th grade. My class mates never forgot her either and followed her through the years. Sadly she has passed, but she is not forgotten. Skip Kuriger Smith Sister Isabella & Sister Leon Mary Quirk-Thompson Maybe close to setting the record for BVM longevity was Sr. Mary Erigena Kelly, BVM who lived to be 107. Her parish priest wanted her to be named for the great Irish I’ll say philosopher for lack of the right word. In an article in Irish American(she was one of 100 Irish Americans being honored that year), she said she got used to the name Erigena. She taught me in 1st grade. I imagine she was still teaching at Gesu Grade School in Milwaukee Wisconsin into her 70s. It closed in 1968. There was my dear friend and 6th grade teacher at Gesu Grade School in Milwaukee, Sr. Mary Anabel Flaherty How about my dear aunt, Sister Mary Isabella, Georgia Toher. Also, Sister Borgia and Sister Helen Ann for my love of English. Michael Lawlor hello Sister Kathryn Lawlor it is 7 above in Soldotna,Ak. snow likely Francie Cutter Sullivan Shout out to Sister Mary Frances Schaefer, BVM, from the grateful Vicars family from Pontiac, Illinois. Teri O’Brien I must thank Sr. Maureen O’Brien. She has been a guiding light to me since 1972, at St. Pauls High School and beyond. She believed in my abilities, in my life became important to someone. It is not an exaggeration to say that her steadfast kindness and love saved my life. By the way she lived her life, she gave us all at St. Pauls a model of a life lived for the good of others. She is a blessing. Jose L Bayron I thank all the BVMs who taught or administered at Holy Name Cathedral in Chicago, especially Sister Mary Barbara Ann (RIP), Sister Mary Magdala (RIP), Sister Mary of the Rosary (RIP) and my good friend Sister Frances Wohn (Alberic). Thanks, Sister Julia, BVM Sisters THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK | 39 Note Card Carol Walanksi Rossette Mundelien ‘65 There are no words to describe my gratitude to the Sisters who taught at Mundelein. Their dedication to the total development of us, the daughters of immigrants, created a world of possibilities that we didn’t know existed. March 8–14, 2015 Celebrating the lives and contributions of Catholic Sisters 40 | THANK A NUN | NATIONAL CATHOLIC SISTERS WEEK