May2012 newsletter - Bereaved Families of Ontario–Durham Region
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May2012 newsletter - Bereaved Families of Ontario–Durham Region
BEREAVED FAMILIES OF ONTARIO-DURHAM REGION NEWSLETTER “Bereaved helping the bereaved learn to live with grief” www.bfodurham.net ISSUE 2 ANOTHER SUCCESSFUL “WALK TO REMEMBER” 2012 UPCOMING EVENTS BFO-Durham held its annual event “A Walk to Remember” on Sunday, March 4th MAY 2012 where bereaved parents gathered together to share in the memories of the children they have lost. Approximately $9,600 was raised and will allow us to continue to offer Infant Loss Drop-In Monday 7th, 7-9 p.m. free support programs and services to bereaved families across the region. We would like to thank the generous donors and corporate sponsors who contributed to an unforgettable day for all. This year, The Carter family donated the banner in loving memory of their daughter, Julie Carter and their son, Paul Carter; Cathy and Fritz Wiener provided the refreshments. Fripps and Binky the Clown entertained the children with face painting and balloon making. The Charles Street Band provided live music for all to enjoy. One of the raffle prizes was an owl print donated by Colleen Timmins in memory of her son, Greg, who sketched this drawing. We would like to acknowledge the TOP PLEDGE EARNERS FOR THIS YEAR’S EVENT. BONNIE LANE WIENER FAMILY MARCIE MILES MAGDA ZOLEMAN STEWART FAMILY CHARLOTTE MCMORROW $1,539 $1,135 $1,010 $1,000 $ 960 $ 635 In memory of her Son Craig Beers In Memory their Son Karl Wiener In Memory of her Son Greg Miles In Memory of her Son Dennis In Memory of brother and Son David Stewart In Memory of Son Michael Upshaw Special thanks to the following organizations who donated prizes for the top pledge earners: Mark Geens, LaFarge Canada - the Raptor tickets; Margaret Fortune - a Day with a Personal Organizer; Armstrong Funeral Home - the Maple Leaf tickets; McIntosh-Anderson Funeral Home - Keg gift certificate and Oshawa General tickets; Barnes Memorial Funeral Home - $200 gift certificate; Newcastle Funeral Home $100. Evening Drop-In Wednesday 9th, 7-9 p.m. Afternoon Drop-In Monday 14th, 1-3 p.m. Evening Drop-In Thursday 24th, 7-9 p.m. Reconnect Drop-In for I/L Monday 28th, 7-9 p.m. JUNE 2012 Infant Loss Drop-In Monday 4th, 7-9 p.m. Evening Drop-In Wednesday 13th, 7-9 p.m. Afternoon Drop-In Monday 18th, 1-3 p.m. Reconnect Drop-In for O/C Monday 25th, 7-9 p.m. Last but not least, we would like to thank all our wonderful volunteers, staff, families and organizations who participated in this successful day. A special thank you goes to Evening Drop-In Sharon Sears, Director of Member Services and Bev Campbell, Co-chair, who both Thursday 28th, 7-9 p.m. worked above and beyond to ensure that everything ran smoothly on the day of the JULY 2012 event. Infant Loss Drop-In Monday 9th, 7-9 p.m. Evening Drop-In Wednesday 11th, 7-9 p.m. Afternoon Drop-In Monday 16th, 1-3 p.m. Evening Drop-In Thursday 26th, 7-9 p.m. Reconnect Drop-In for I/L Monday 30th, 7-9 p.m. (More photos on page 5) (continued on Page 4) A MESSAGE FROM THE EDITOR As I work on the May Newsletter, I am very much aware that Mother’s Day is fast approaching and that this is a very difficult time of year for you. Some of you know that I am not a bereaved mom—I am a bereaved aunt who has watched for the past 13 years as my sister struggles on this day and on her son’s anniversary date which is a week later. I cannot pretend to even understand the heartache that all of you are experiencing, but I hope that through my work as the Editor of this Newsletter and the Web Site, I have helped you in some small way through your grief journey. This has been a very rewarding time for me, more so in the past year, as I have retired from full time work and have become more involved with BFO-Durham, both as a Board Member and Editor. I have made many friends over the past 12 years and have come to think of BFO members as my extended family. Please keep your contributions and submissions coming as they are so needed and so deeply appreciated. Look for the Summer Bulletin sometime in July and the third 2012 newsletter by the end of September. My thanks to Sharon for meeting all my demands and for everyone who has contributed to this newsletter; I couldn’t do this without you. Have a great summer and stay safe. ~ Micheline Ball ‘THERE IS NO "I" IN TEAM BUT THERE IS A "U " IN VOLUNTEER!’ THE 2012 VOLUNTEER OF THE YEAR AWARD RECIPIENTS ARE DENISE LOVE AND MARGARET FORTUNE. THE 2012 SUSAN E. HENDRICK’S VOLUNTEER OF DISTINCTION AWARD RECIPIENTS ARE CHERYL CULLIS AND JOAN PEARSON. WE WOULD LIKE TO THANK THE FOLLOWING VOLUNTEERS FOR ALL THEIR HARD WORK. ONE-ON-ONE AND GROUP SUPPORT FACILITATORS - Jane Carter, Sharon Sears, Louise O’Donnell, Charlotte McMorrow, Margaret Fortune, Magda Zoelman, Joan Pearson, Nichole Dickhoff, Denise Love, Jackie Foster, Angela White, Cheryl Clarke, Michelle Murray, Zelda Plinte, Stephanie Agelopoulos, Joyce Foreman, Ron Spears, Gary Gosswell. LIBRARIAN - Denise Love FUNDRAISING - Denise Robinson, Jane and Jennifer Carter, Anna Moreino, Andrea Provenzano OFFICE VOLUNTEERS - Denise Love, Marlene Charewicz, Bev Campbell, Angela White ANNIVERSARY LETTERS - Joan Pearson WEB SITE - Ronda Evans, Micheline Ball NEWSLETTER - Micheline Ball “YOU MAKE A LIVING BY WHAT YOU GET, BUT YOU MAKE A LIFE BY WHAT YOU GIVE.” ~Winston Churchill UPCOMING FUNDRAISERS MAY 27TH ALL DAY RUN JUNE 1ST 7:30 P.M. BFO BEACH NIGHT—HEYDONSHORE PARK JUNE 7TH 5 P.M.—9 P.M. BOSTON PIZZA OSHAWA NORTH “CELEBRITY SERVER FUNDRAISER” “WHEN WE RECOGNIZE TO REMEMBER, WHITBY THAT A BETTER WORD FOR FUNDRAISING IS ‘FRIEND RAISING’, WE OPEN LIMITLESS DOORS TO CREATIVITY IN SUPPORT OF OUR CAUSES.“ ~ Sue Vineyard INSPIRATIONAL THE MEASURE OF A CORNER BY JOYCE SCHNEIDER LIFE A few weeks ago I attended the funeral of my dear friend Corrine. As a member of a Catholic religious order, she had spent some twenty years in Peru doing missionary work. After she left religious life, she spent her last few decades using her healing energies as a massage therapist. It was the gift of massage that Corrine offered me after my son David’s death. Under her magic hands I felt the first release from the great clench of new grief. She coaxed full breaths into my constricted lungs and gently guided me back into the flow of life. Such moments of connection were her deepest joy, she said, and her true life’s calling. At her visitation, one of Corrine’s relatives stated his belief that Corrine had been gypped. Life had short-changed her, he declared. With all the love she had to give, Corrine should have been a wife and mother, and from this position he would not be moved. In the eyes of this man, daring me, it seemed, to disagree with him, I saw my own reflection. Had I not also believed at one time that my own son had been robbed of a full and long life? In eleven short years, how much of life did he really get to experience? Oh yes, all those “should-have” thoughts had brought me to my knees plenty of times too. And it was quite a while before I had the courage to question them. Were they true? How could I know for sure? How could I know for sure that Corrine’s life had been somehow incomplete because it had followed a different trajectory than others would have wished? Was it my place to decide that David’s life was less fulfilling for having been short? At this point in my journey, believing such things about David just layers pain upon pain, which I’m sure is not his will for me. What I do know for sure is that David loved his life. So did Corrine. And they both taught me to love mine as well. And perhaps this legacy is the true measure of their lives. ~ Joyce Schneider is a bereaved mother who lost her son, David, in 1998 to Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. She has been a member of BFO-Durham for the past 13 years, has facilitated support groups, one-on-ones and is a past Director of the Board. “CELEBRITY SERVER FUNDRAISER” EVENT AT BOSTON PIZZA We're holding a special event at Boston Pizza in Oshawa on Thursday June 7th, 2012 from 5-9 pm, called “CELEBRITY SERVER FUNDRAISER” where family, friends and supporters of BFO Durham Region are invited to come out for dinner and be served by BFO Durham board members and volunteers of B.F.O. Our volunteers partner with the serving staff of Boston Pizza to serve you and 10% of all food sales is donated by Boston Pizza to BFODurham. This is also a great opportunity to promote our organization, including displaying banners or posters in the restaurant, and have some fun together at the same time. So please come out, bring friends and family, and support BFO-Durham in this fun event. Enjoy the experience of some of our BFO members being the 'CELEBRITY SERVER' of the evening, serving you and your family or friends dinner from the great menu Boston Pizza has to offer. WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU THERE! OUR CO-OP STUDENT BIDS US GOODBY For the past 14 weeks I have had the pleasure of interning at Bereaved Families of Ontario - Durham Region. In my short time here, I have learned so much beyond paperwork and textbooks. During this time, I was lucky to have had the opportunity of working every Monday with Sharon Sears, Director of Member Services. While interning, I had the pleasure of being closely involved with the planning of the annual Walk to Remember, which was a great success and I am so happy I was a part of the committee. I was incredibly lucky to work with the team at BFODurham and I will never forget any of you. Every strong person who walks through the doors of this organization has truly become my role model. It is admirable how strong you all are. I know your loved ones are looking down on you, smiling and proud. BFO-Durham was an amazing place to intern and I am sad my time here has come to an end. It has been a memorable 14 weeks and I cannot wait to come back soon and visit! ~ Brittney Mongeon UPCOMING EVENTS THE TREASURER’S REPORT AUGUST 2012 It is time to give thanks to all our members for their ongoing support in raising funds in order to keep our organization going. It is our pleasure to report on several of our events and fundraisers. Infant Loss Drop-In Monday 13th, 7-9 p.m. THE ANGEL’S TREE OF LIGHTS RAISED APPROXIMATELY $15,000; THE WALK TO REMEMBER RAISED APPROXIMATELY $9,500; AND DONATIONS THROUGH PAYROLL DEDUCTIONS WERE $1,770. Evening Drop-In Wednesday 8th, 7-9 p.m. Afternoon Drop-In Monday 20th, 1-3 p.m. A special thank you goes out to: Evening Drop-In Thursday 23rd, 7-9 p.m. The Carter Family who raised and donated $4,500 through the 2011 Beach Dance (another one is coming up on June 1st, so please keep this date open!); Reconnect Drop-In for O/C Monday 27th, 7-9 p.m. The Moreino Family who raised and donated $2,400 through the Valentine Dance; SEPTEMBER 2012 The Foster family who raised and donated in excess of $2,100 through the Brant Foster Memorial Event; Infant Loss Drop-In Monday 10th, 7-9 p.m. Vicki Davis D’Abreau who raised and donated in excess of $934, in memory of her son Tyler Davis; Evening Drop-In Wednesday 12th, 7-9 p.m. Margaret Devecseri, who organized the Toronto Welsh Choir concert in memory of her son Steve and raised approximately $6,000; Afternoon Drop-In Monday 17th, 1-3 p.m. The Run to Remember 2011 (part of the Win Marathon) in Whitby raised and donated approximately $6,000, organized by Denise Robinson in memory of her son Jeffrey Warne. Reconnect Drop-In for O/C Monday 24th, 7-9 p.m. Evening Drop-In We are also grateful for many smaller donations in memory of a loved one, which we have received during the past year. We will endeavour to acknowledge all donations on our web site in 2012. Thursday 27th, 7-9 p.m. Marian Rehr on behalf of the Board of Directors The Scent of My Baby When we think of babies, we think of that certain scent. The scent that newborns seem to have, for me - that came and went. The scent of my baby is a different one, it’s not shampoo or baby powders. It’s not that “newborn scent” but that of fresh cut flowers. For God chose my son to be with him and leave me down below. So the flowers I place upon his grave are the only scent I know. So when I smell a flower, my son always comes to mind and the delicate scent of a flower seems to suit my son just fine. For my son touched and brightened my life just like a flower may. And the true beauty of a flower was my son in every way. ~ Debby Root, excerpt from St. Louis Chapter Newsletter, Bereaved Parents USA THIS NEWSLETTER IS A VOICE FOR THE BEREAVED AND IS SEEKING YOUR CONTRIBUTION. PLEASE SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS, IDEAS AND REQUESTS. RECOMMEND A BOOK AND WRITE WHAT YOU LIKE ABOUT IT. SHARE YOUR STORY, SUBMIT A POEM, OR TELL OF THINGS THAT HAVE HELPED YOU ALONG YOUR GRIEF JOURNEY. THANK YOU FOR GETTING INVOLVED! BEREAVED FAMILIES OF ONTARIO — DURHAM REGION 1050 Simcoe Street North, 2nd Floor, Oshawa L1G 4W5 Tel: 905 905--579 579--4293 / Fax: 905 905--579 579--7403 / Toll Free: 800 800--387 387--4870 E-mail: [email protected] / Web Site: www.bfodurham.net Charitable Registration #861619880RR0001 OFFICE HOURS MONDAY TO THURSDAY — 10 A.M. TO 3 P.M. AND CLOSED FRIDAY A MOTHER’S PAIN You see me smiling. What you don't see is that I am screaming behind that smile. You see me go on with everything....work....groceries.....life in general. What you don't see is that it takes every ounce of energy I have just to breathe. You see me alone with my thoughts. What you don't see is me talking to him. You see me say "I am fine". What you don't see is the huge hole in my heart that can never be filled. You see me and think "she's back to normal". What you don't see is that there is no normal for me anymore. You see me and think "Oh my God, I hope this never happens to me". What you don't see is that as much as I long for you to understand me...I hope this never happens to you either. You see me joking and laughing with others and think she must be getting over what has happened. What you don't see is that I can never forget, nor would I want to, you don't get over the loss of a child. You see me sad and don't know what to say so you keep going. What you don't see is all I really want is for you to ask how I am doing, really, and give me a hug. You see that life goes on. What you don't see is the moment my child died, the life I had will never be the same. You see that I am strong...... do not be deceived. What you don't see is that I am weak and weary. Some days "I am 6 feet from the edge". What you see is a mask....a lie. The mask helps you cope with me and me cope with myself. What you don't see is the raw sometimes unbearable pain. You don't see me being unable to breathe. What you don't see is my despair. You don't see me screaming to Heaven for God to give my child back. What you don't see you could never understand anyway unless you walk a mile in my shoes. ~ author unknown WEB SITE UPDATE Special Day Anniversary / Birthday Honour your Child on his/her Anniversary or Birthday by sending in a photograph and dates which we will post on our Web Site, in the “In Memory” Memory” page for the month, for a minimum donation of $20.00 Start Date - Month of May Please contact BFO BFO--Durham office for more info - 905 905--579 579--4293 “WALK TO REMEMBER” PHOTO GALLERY DONATIONS IN LOVING MEMORY OF Tammy Brooke Martin and Kelleigh Brooke Martin -Thompson Donated by Susan Hendricks Kristina Nicole Hendricks on her birthday April 9th Donated by Parents Vincent and Susan Hendricks Jonathan Cameron Small Donated by Kristine Mason Craig Green Donated by Parents David and Marilyn Green Pat Gostlin Donated by her Mother Hendrietta Torok Hensely Dunkley , Brother of Vicky Jones Donated by Susan Hendricks NOTES FROM YOUR LIBRARIAN Books have been pouring in since the beginning of this year! BFO-Durham gratefully acknowledges the generous book donations by the following families in memory of their loved ones: Margaret Fortune for her daughter, Annette; Eva Gainer for her husband, Don and son, Bryan; The Charewicz family for their son, Kevin; The Raby Family for their daughter/sibling, Melissa and nephew, Antonio; The Campbell Family for their son/sibling, Michael; The Clarke Family for their son/sibling, Graham; The Foster Family for their son/sibling, Brent The Dickison/Melanson Family for their son, Daniel; The Agelopoulos Family for their daughter/sibling, Tessa; From one of our original founding members, still actively involved, though living in Manitoba, the Hendricks Family in memory their daughter, Kristina. Our Library is really growing according to our book records, but our shelves are not always reflecting the same. While we encourage members to make use of our resources, we currently have over 150 books not returned between the years 2003–2011. These books are mostly donated by our members in memory of a beloved child or other member of the family and often contain a loving inscription. It is upsetting that these books are missing. Many times in grief we push things aside, unable or unwilling to deal with them. It is with this in mind that we ask all members to consider us at this time of spring cleaning and the latest craze of decluttering. If you have books you have borrowed or bought over the years which relate to grief studies and our healing process, please bring them back or donate them in memory of your loved one. A special label will be placed on the inside cover of all donated books acknowledging this heartfelt distinction. ~ Denise Love LOOK FOR A REVIEW OF ONE OF OUR LIBRARY BOOKS IN THE SEPTEMBER NEWSLETTER LET’S ALL PARTICIPATE IN THE “RUN TO REMEMBER” On January 26, 2008, Jeff was suddenly taken from us in a violent act. This was more than the loss of a young life. It was the loss of a son, brother and truly loved friend. Words cannot describe the loss and heartache his family and friends continue to endure. The 4th Annual Run To Remember—in loving memory of Jeffrey David Warne (part of the Whitby International North Marathon) will be held on May 27th this year. “Team Jeff” will consist of runners and walkers of all ages and fitness levels. Our goal is to cross the finish line in honour of our beloved and dearly missed Jeff and to raise money for Bereaved Families of Ontario—Durham Region. Please join us! In the past three years we have raised over $23,000 for BFO-Durham by way of the Run to Remember. Our goal for this year’s run is to raise $11,111.11 - the number 11 is more than just a number. It was Jeff’s favourite number and he always wore it proudly on his hockey and soccer jerseys. We would like to ask for your sponsorship or donation to help us achieve our goal. All sponsorships of $250 or more will have their company name prominently displayed on the running shirts worn by all Team Jeff members and also printed in the quarterly newsletter distributed to more than 600 families through BFO-Durham. From the bottom of our hearts, we thank you in advance for your support and donations. For further information or to find out how to be part of this run, please email at [email protected] ~ Denise Robinson and family A MESSAGE FROM YOUR DIRECTOR OF MEMBER SERVICES In April, we celebrated our volunteers during the week of April 15th. To say 'thank you' seems to be insufficient in terms of my appreciation for all the support and hard work that our volunteers have contributed to BFO-Durham. This year, with all of our changes, I have relied heavily on our volunteers; whether the job was big or small, they were always there to lend a helping hand. From our various groups, drop-ins, fundraisers, office help, the one-onone support for our parents, and the tremendous job that our board members do to keep our operation running smoothly, all of our volunteers should be recognized as a valuable asset to our organization. This is especially true when new parents come into a drop-in or need to talk to another parent about the loss of their child; we can always rely on our dedicated volunteers to provide the kind of compassion and understanding to help them through their difficult time. I would like to express my sincere appreciation and gratitude to all of our volunteers for their long hours and their significant contributions this year in support of our organization. Despite the difficulty at times in our busy lives to find the time to contribute, we all appreciate the effort from each and every volunteer as we work together in loving memory of our children. ~ Sharon Sears “THE BROADEST, AND MAYBE THE MOST MEANINGFUL DEFINITION OF VOLUNTEERING: DOING MORE THAN YOU HAVE TO BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, IN A CAUSE YOU CONSIDER GOOD.“ ~ IVAN SCHEIER OUR MEMORIAL TREE In the fall of 2008, BFO-Durham, in recognition of its 15th anniversary, planted a tree in the Newcastle Memorial Forest in “Memory of All Our Children”. The Memorial Forest was established by the Newcastle Lions Club to provide a living memorial for a loved one. The Newcastle Lions Club would like to invite you and your family to the final dedication service to be held on Saturday May 12, 2012 at 2.00 pm. They advise that you bring along a lawn chair. OUR CHILDREN REMEMBERED Loved, missed and remembered APRIL Dante Keiller April 2, 2009 Ryan Hicks April 13, 2009 Hayden Sally Barbara Shelley April 2, 2009 Deacon Douglas Hunter April 13, 2011 Laura Kalinski April 3, 1995 Kimberly Van Den Oetelaar April 14, 1986 Kasiah Faith Grell April 4, 2010 Karl Frederick Wiener April 15, 1996 Mitchell Crandall April 6, 2000 David Kelly April 16, 2005 Richard Fujita April 8, 2004 Claudia Sierra April 17, 2010 Maureen Ann Thomas April 8, 2006 Jacob Purdy Murchison April 19, 2009 Daphne Ann Cox April 8, 2009 Michael Douglas Meagher April 20, 2002 Joshua Richard Lloyd Tyrrell April 9, 1992 Jordan Eva Menard April 23, 2001 Jeff Diluciano April 9, 1995 Aurora Teagan April 23, 2008 Ethan Craig April 9, 2007 Gordon McDougall April 25, 2011 Brett William Young April 10, 1995 Kenneth James Vanhaverbeke April 27, 1993 Martin Michael Rehr April 13, 1990 Avery Butler April 28, 2005 Crawford Wheller May 1, 2002 Rayna Simms May 17, 2005 Lisa Ford May 2, 2002 Jonathon Campbell May 17, 2011 Joshua Liscio May 2, 2008 Lynne-Marie Gordon May 19, 1991 MAY Stephen Cochrane May 3, 2003 Kevin James Charewicz May 20, 1998 Julie Helen Pasko May 6, 1995 Kevin Gregory O’Donnell May 20, 1999 Brittany Miller May 6, 2005 Hope and Desire Cockburn May 20, 2005 Nicholas Mitchell Williams May 6, 2011 Owen Walter Stinson-Collins May 20, 2010 Benjamin Tucker DeBaie May 8, 2001 Johnny Lucchetta May 21, 2006 Jasmine Stephan-Martin May 8, 2011 Cody DeNoble May 21, 2010 David Rines May 9, 2010 Gregory Brian Judzentis May 22, 1985 Michael Thomas Lynch May 10, 2002 Shawna Spindler May 22, 1997 Curtis Wahl May 10, 2005 Damon Fewer May 22, 2007 Lukas James Anderson May 10, 2007 Remianne Wabie May 24, 1994 Michelle Richard May 11, 2000 Blake Gill May 24, 2003 Ian Thomas Deatcher May 11, 2002 William Taggart May 25, 2005 Robin John Williams May 12, 1992 Taylor Venters May 25, 2010 T.J. Stutt May 12, 2004 Amber Finn May 26, 2002 Landon Murchison May 12, 2006 Andrea Sullivan-Martin May 29, 1994 Gregory Edward Timmins May 14, 1996 Colin McMillan May 29, 2002 Paul A.J. Gordon May 16, 1990 Steven Devecseri May 29, 2006 Erin Reed May 16, 2008 Tyler Davis May 29, 2011 Jeffery Paul Baran-Lalonde May 16, 2011 Allison Millar May 30, 2005 Wyatt Celsie-Swanton May 16, 2009 OUR CHILDREN REMEMBERED Loved, missed and remembered JUNE Christopher Logan Woods June 1, 2005 Susan Deborah Murray June 2, 2010 Taelyn Marie Peckford June 2, 2010 Laura Irene Macdonell June 4, 1994 Timothy Shane McDonald June 4, 2006 Tessa Agelopoulos June 6, 2007 Christina de Vries-Roach June 6, 2004 Nicholas David William Hutchison June 6, 1999 Chloe Mounsey June 6, 2007 Daniel Melanson June 7, 2009 Angelo Mazzotta June 8, 2010 Kathy Phelan June 8, 1985 Steven Dafoe June 9, 2004 Glen Micheal Bruce Monro June 9, 2002 Maureen Wright June 9, 2002 Margaret Nemeth June 10, 2003 Kimberly Ann Whitsitt June 10, 1994 Kelly Eileen Goswell June 11, 1992 Brooklyn Ilean Fogg-Conlin June 12, 2009 Gunner Aaron Terry Mayhew June 13, 2004 Christopher Dennis Penny June 14, 1995 Corey Grentz June 14, 2010 Michelle Marie Meagher June 15, 2009 Melissa Jean Wilson June 18, 1990 David Gregory Schneider June 20, 1998 Kohwyn Babcock June 20, 2010 Edward Erwin June 21, 2003 Lorna Ellen Buzzell June 22, 1998 Paul David Carter June 22, 1985 Ian Booth June 23, 2007 Gillian Berthelot June 23, 2010 Shane Rawlins Mahabir June 24, 2011 Connor Battah June 26, 2008 Christina Grace Glover June 27, 1999 Heather Coverde June 27, 2004 Olivia Kowalchuk June 27, 1993 Frank Benczenleitner June 30, 1989 Tanya Veinot June 30, 2006 Carter James Duncan July 18, 2004 Peter Hansen July 18, 2001 JULY Brian Haring July 1, 1994 Leith Hawker July 1, 1998 Johanna Mary Faith Nesbitt July 1, 1993 Shon Hart July 2, 2006 Kathleen Wels July 2, 1979 Michael Campbell July 3, 2009 Laurie (Foreman) Wilkinson July 4, 1998 Juliette Francis July 7, 2010 Jaedin Davis July 8, 2003 Jesse Comeau July 11, 2009 Joey Alton July 12, 2008 Michael Potter July 12, 2010 Craig Beers July 13, 2003 Christopher Swindell July 13, 2000 Danny Tkalec July 13, 2000 Amanda Richardson July 14, 2007 Mattieu Moriarity July 15, 2003 Brandon Niblett July 16, 2002 Derek Garner July 15, 2007 Lesley Blackmore July 18, 2009 Keena John Dobbie July 18, 2011 Alyssa Dryden July 18, 2011 Michael Watson July 19, 2008 Samantha Shirley Baird July 21, 1999 Sarah Burnham July 22, 2003 Samantha Brittney Babcock July 23, 1993 Bryan Matthew Gainer July 23, 2000 James Johnson July 24, 2001 Mark Van Den Oetelaar July 27, 1963 Beverly Warner July 27, 2002 Andrew Mason July 28, 2002 Andrew Gary McSweeney July 28, 1994 Sara Young July 28, 1994 Ryan Addison July 30, 2005 Shannon York July 30, 2004 Surinder Mehar July 31, 1999 Patricia (Trish) Peter July 31, 2004