March 2010 - Temple Beth Sholom
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March 2010 - Temple Beth Sholom
March 2010 Adar/Nissan 5770 And You Shall Tell It To Your Children..... Passover, First Seder, Monday, March 29, 2010 15 Nissan 5770 A Ziessen Pesach ! FROM THE RABBI’S DESK By Rabbi Alan B. Lucas Mazel Tov, we have a new Mahzor! Lev Shalem O more are now a part of our new Mahzor as opposed to being experiences we had to create outside of the prayer book that we held in our hands. Have things changed all that much? But as much as things have changed, much remains the same and Lev Shalem incorporates all of the traditional prayers that we were accustomed to as part of our High Holy Day davening. It is new in the ways that it needs to be new, and familiar in ways that it needs to be familiar. While no one prayer book can do everything and be everything to all people, we are excited that Lev Shalem will enable more of us to approach the beauty, awe and inspiration that is the High Holy Day davening in ways that were up until now unthinkable. n Tuesday, January 26 our board of Trustees enthusiastically endorsed the purchase of a new High Holy Day Mahzor for our Temple. As my mother z’l would have wanted to know, “Is this good for the Jews or bad for the Jews?” Well, for the Jews of Temple Beth Sholom, I think it is very good. For some time now we recognized that we were in desperate need of a new High Holy Day prayer book. Aside from the fact that our old Silverman prayer books were literally crumbling in our hands, they no longer spoke to the needs of a community of Jews who were coming together in worship in the year 2010. In some ways yes. Since the Silverman Mahzor was published in 1951, we have watched with excitement the growth of the State of Israel as an important pillar of contemporary Jewish life. The Shoah has integrated itself into our psyche and needs to be reflected in our prayers. We are a Movement that has gone through an exciting and dramatic integration of women and egalitarianism in our religious and communal life and yet on page 114 of the Silverman Mahzor we have a prayer for the congregation that reads: “May He who blessed our fathers…bless the people of this congregation…them, their wives, their sons, their daughters and all their dear ones…” For some time now we at Beth Sholom have considered women as “people of our congregation” and wrestled with the notion of a God who is more than He. Over the years we have added a number of significant innovations to our High Holy Day worship: we added prayers for healing; we opened our ark at Neilah and invited those with personal prayers to approach; we developed our Ohel and added study as a important component to our High Holy Day experience; we created a supplemental readings book to update the archaic English readings in Silverman; we dramatically altered our Avodah Service on Yom Kippur to make it more understandable and our Martyrology Serivce on Yom Kippur to incorporate not only the sad reminiscence of our rabbinic martyrs, but the countless Jewish martyrs throughout the ages culminating in our own generation’s experience with the Holocaust; we also use an alternative Yizkor service that was reprinted from our Sim Shalom Prayer book. All of these things and many 2 Lev Shalem is the name that was chosen for this new edition of our traditional Mahzor. Lev Shalem is an expression that is not easily translatable but means something like: full heart, or whole heart. It suggests one of our major hopes for the High Holy Days, which is to approach God with a Lev Shalem. By providing us with a prayer book that is overflowing with information and inspiration, a multifaceted resource that will enrich the time we spend in shul, I believe that it will enable many more of us to enter the High Holy Days with a Lev Shalem. We are indebted to the Spielman family, as the purchase of Lev Shalem is being made possible through a generous bequest left in the memory of Bill and Bette Ann Spielman. They were such a rich and dynamic part of our Beth Sholom past and now they will continue to be a rich and dynamic part of our future. We will also be giving you an opportunity to dedicate some of these new Mahzorim in memory or in honor of your loved ones. We will have an opportunity before and during the High Holy Days to introduce you to our new Mahzorim, to study and learn what they have to offer and to celebrate this new dimension of our High Holy Day experience. I look forward with great excitement to dedicating these new prayer books and I also look forward to the possibilities they offer in helping us learn and grow and worship together with a Lev Shalem. FROM THE PRESIDENT’S DESK By Louis Naviasky assover is about family, connection P and tradition. For the past 49 years I have had the good fortune to celebrate this wonderful holiday every year with family. As a young boy I looked forward to Passover with great anticipation. My memories of childhood Passovers are simply wonderful. I vividly remember my grandmother making her gefilte fish and calling the fish store when the horseradish wasn’t just right. Then there was the chicken soup…always sweet, some years with Matzah balls and other years with kreplach. If the Passover meal was not at my grandmother’s, it was held at Aunt Gertie’s and Uncle Sam’s house. They always hosted 25-35 guests. My relatives from Wilmington and Harrisburg usually came in for the holiday. Being the youngest wasn’t easy - I had the yearly pressure of singing the Four Questions. For me, one of the highlights was reciting the Ten Plagues…I loved those 10 sweet sips of Manischewitz heavy Malaga wine (I knew they were supposed to end up on the plate, but couldn’t resist). These memories of Passover are as fresh as if they happened yesterday, and every year we recall them and recreate them as best we can. As the years have passed by, Jill and I have taken over the family Seder, and what a wonderful holiday it has become. We generally have 30-40 guests. Both of us have a strong sense that this is the time when family should gather together. We hope that our children will see this and model it to their children in an unbroken chain. Yes, the table has changed over the years. There are now few infants and more adolescents; there are young adults, some with significant others, others without. At the end of our family Seder we make a special toast to Jill’s great Uncle Murray. Short in stature but strong in religion and dedication to family, Uncle Murray was the patriarch of the family. To respect to his memory, each of us has a glass of Slivovitz! These are just some of my Passover memories. Several years ago when here at TBS we started our “Re-imagine” project, we asked people to share something they remembered about their Jewish childhoods. The stories we heard were fascinating. From watching grandma cook Shabbat dinner and light candles, to enjoying Poppy’s Kiddush, the stories abound with beauty. We heard stories of relatives contributing to JNF boxes, going to neighbors to give them challah, or walking with parents or grandparents to shul. In the spirit of traditions like this, our “Re-imagine” project helped shape our Temple’s vision statement, defining family involvement as the cornerstone of our practice and educational programs. We offer Jewish educational opportunities for all adults and children, from traditional and non-traditional families to become knowledgeable, individually and together. Through various experiences we enable our families to feel comfortable in our schools, in our synagogue and ultimately, to empower them to integrate Jewish ritual and life into the homes. Temple Beth Sholom is dedicated to the pursuit of LIFELONG JEWISH LEARNING. Built on the principles of Torah, we strive to inspire learners at every age to live a vibrant Jewish life in the home, within the congregation and the greater Jewish Community. During this wonderful time of year, both at TBS and at home, tradition, memory and family guide us. As families and as a community, we celebrate the holiday upon which we became G-d’s chosen people. In those crucial, first years as a nation, G-d tangibly conveyed His love for us. We had no mitzvot and no merits - we didn’t even deserve to be redeemed. Yet, G-d showed us unconditional love that was not dependent on our spiritual strengths, talents or stamina. He chose us… not because of what we would accomplish in the years and millennia to come; not because we would accept His covenant, His rules, and His laws; not because of our dedication, self-sacrifice or commitment; not because we were to become a light unto all the nations. He chose us on Passover, in our youthful years as a nation, simply to convey His infinite love for us. He chose us just because we are His. On many other Jewish holidays, we commemorate, celebrate and rejoice in many aspects of our relationship and development as G-d’s chosen nation. But on Passover, the most widely observed holiday of all, we celebrate with a Seder that represents G-d’s timeless, steady, unconditional love for us; a love that is ever-present, simply because of who we are—His chosen people. Chag Kasher V’Semaech! A Happy Passover to All! Index to March 2010 From the Rabbi’s Desk . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 2 From the President . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 3 MBS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 4 Derech: Life Long Learning . . . . . . . . . p. 5 USY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 5 Religious School . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 6 Early Childhood Center . . . . . . . . p. 7 Pesah Guide . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 8 B’nai Mitzvah . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 12 Club TBS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 14 Men’s Club . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 15 Sisterhood Scoop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 15 Donations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 16 Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 20 Temple Family . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . p. 21 Temple Beth Sholom 3 FROM MBS By Gila Hadani Ward, Director of Lifelong Learning It was a great first night back after Winter Vacation. Our 10-12 graders on Monday Night had an opportunity to meet with and talk to a group of 17 MBS Alumni who came back to visit, see each other and share their college experiences with our current students. While I have always been impressed with these students, after not having seen some of them for a while - I was just so thrilled to see how much these students have grown they shared with us the choices they have made with their studies, how they are handling academics and managing llife on their own. They also shared with us about the extent of their Jewish involvement, ranging from participating in dinners and programs with Hillel to being a part of Jewish fraternities and sororities to taking Jewish studies courses. Two students were participating this March in “alternative Spring Break” programs where they will be involved in community service activities in Argentina and Guatemala and they will be doing this through the American Jewish World Service. Prior to MBS, Rabbi Lucas and I were privileged to share dinner with these students, At dinner we asked the students to reflect on their MBS experiences. They shared with us the sense of connection that they feel to TBS and to their Jewish identity. They talked about being able to ask questions at MBS, about it being a place to be with friends and to explore their Judaism. I am so proud of these students. I am so proud of the role MBS has played in their development. This is why we do what we do. I thank their parents for their commitment to our program, Jewish education and to I hope that our current students are developing in the same way and that they are open to the same experiences, discussions and learning. It will make their time at MBS so enriching and so special. If you have a child who is not involved with our Machon Beth Sholom program, now is the time to get them involved. Have them come try out our outstanding program. If my “look into the future” is any kind of barometer, it will be worth it! Next year in Jerusalem! 4 FROM OUR YOUTH DIRECTOR By Ravid Tilles, Youth Director Looking back on half of a year for the youth department of Temple Beth Sholom, we have a lot to be proud of and even more to look forward to. Our youth program has three separate youth groups: Machar, for students in grades 4 and 5, Kadima, for grades 6 and 7, and USY for grades 8 through 12. Each group meets monthly and participates in various activities at our youth lounge. Our programming has been very successful, drawing more participants at the events than we have ever had before! But here in the youth department, we don’t measure our success based only on the number of young people who attend, but rather the number of smiles that we see at every event. Based on that measure, we are the best game in town! Whether it be the Machar kids running around the synagogue, building human pyramids and counting pieces of art (there are over 400 pieces at TBS!), or the Kadimaniks playing indoor gaga and “Pictionary”, or the USYers hanging out and doing an Iron Chef event, this last half year has been full of fun! We also got out of the synagogue a few times and had USY programs for all different tastes. In November, we got together to watch a Jets game (when they weren’t going to make the playoffs) and we played touch football. A few weeks ago, we rode a bus into the city, ate a delicious lunch at Kosher Delight, and had free time to sight-see before we saw West Side Story on Broadway! We are looking forward to trips in March for all of the youth groups (March 7th for Kadima and Machar and March 14th for USY) to “Island Rock” for a day of rock climbing, which should be a blast. Also, as we look toward the second half of this year, we are excited to host a divisional lounge night in our very own Youth Lounge in February. USYers from the Chazak division (teens from all of the Conservative synagogues in Nassau County) will be invited to join. Speaking of our Youth Lounge, we are excited about the opportunity to do some remodeling. Now that we have more space in the building thanks to the development of the new ECC wing, the Youth Lounge is completely designated for youth activities. This gives us a chance to make the most out of our space and create a warm and fun environment that is accessible for all of the kids at TBS. Look out for more information about a redecorating event in the Youth Lounge! The TBS youth department is stronger than ever, thanks to wonderful kids, a dedicated and enthusiastic team of advisors and the unending support of synagogue parents and staff. Together, we have created a unique program that is designed to center around the needs and wants of the youth. If you are interested in having your child join us, please email the me at [email protected]. The TBS youth department has programming for all different types of young people, of all different ages, but the one thing that never changes is the size of their smiles! DERECH: LIFELONG LEARNING AT TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM By Gila Hadani Ward, Director of Lifelong Learning On Sunday January 10, while the weather dipped into sub zero cold – TBS congregants and students to help warm the day of over 300 homeless people. On January 10, 2010 Tikkun Alliance of the North Shore (TANS), a partnership of 8 synagogues and the JCC, provided the Jewish community with an incredible opportunity to feed the hungry – to be intimately involved with tikun olam (repairing the world). And, what an amazing day it was! “From Our Table to Yours” – a TANS food recovery initiative was officially launched. Through the hard work of our TBS co-chairs, Pam Cott and Linda Moskowitz, our community united to launch an incredible program which we hope will springboard into a synagogue wide social action initiative. The day started at Old Westbury Hebrew Congregation (OWHC) where Syd Mandelbaum, Founder of Rock and Wrap It Up! inspired the crowd and called on us to continue our work to fight poverty and share our commitment with the next generation. (You may remember Syd who spoke here at TBS last year). Then the group set out preparing sandwiches and packages to distribute to homeless people in 2 different locations – a parking garage in Glen Cove and a park in Hempstead. Meanwhile back at TBS… Our Hay class (5 grade) Religious School students, along with some wonderful parents and teachers, prepared and cooked 6 huge trays of baked ziti, salad, garlic bread and brownies which were all brought over to OWHC to serve th United Synagogue Youth and Kadima At-A-Glance March 2010 (does not include Hebrew High School Sessions Sundays 11AM – 1PM and Mondays 7:15 – 9PM) Thursday March 4 Chazak USY Lounge Night at TBS Meet teens from all over Long Island! Right here – in our own synagogue! 7PM – Grades 8-12 Sunday March 7 USY (Grades 8-12) Trip to Island Rock 12 – 3PM, $35 Sunday March 14 Friday – Sunday March 26-28 Kadima and Machar (Grades 4-7) Trip to Island Rock, 12 –3PM, $35 to homeless people. When we spoke to the students , they kept saying they couldn’t believe that people could survive outside on a such a bitterly cold day. For these students, this opportunity to help others provided a real awakening. This Spring, we are hoping to form a synagogue-wide Social Action Committee. We hope to help those who need help while educating our community about mitzvot and about righting the wrongs of the world. If you are interested in joining this group, please feel free to be in touch with me. Help us in the holy work of repairing the world! It is not an easy task, but it is so important. Best wishes for a chag kasher v’sameach, Gila Save the Date Sunday April 11th, 2010 Annual Yom Hashoah Program Keynote speaker: Rabbi Arnold Resnicoff Rabbi Resnicoff will be our Scholar in Residence that weekend (April 9th-11th) Topics will include: Friday Night: “Faith & Foxholes: Religion in the Miltary” Shabbat Morning: “Swords & Plowshares: Jewish Views of War and Peace” Sunday, Yom Hashoah Program: “The Holocaust: How to Remember as Americans and as Jews.” 401 Roslyn Rd • Roslyn Heights, NY 11577 • 516.621.2288 • www.tbsroslyn.org Celebrate with TBS on Friday March 26 for a Pre -Passover Friday Night Live & Dinner Chazak USY Spring Kinnus East Meadow Jewish Center For More Information Contact Ravid at [email protected] Temple Beth Sholom 5 RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER By Sharon Solomon, Religious School Director During the month of March our school community will be engaged in learning the rituals and customs of Passover. Students will reenact the Story of Yetziat Mitzrayim, the exodus from Egypt. Our younger students will have the opportunity to have mock Sedarim in their classrooms while our older students will learn, in depth, the meaning and significance of this holiday – the holiday of freedom. Kamberg, for chairing this dinner that took place last month. They took care of all the details, including the ordering of the food and setting up the tables. We are very grateful to our PTA volunteers and their dedication to all of our school programming. Last month the whole school was treated to Tu Bishvat treats, thanks to our PTA. Our Daled class had a very meaningful On Friday evening, March 5th we art class, learning about Hidur Mitzvah – look forward to our Gimmel students the glorifying of a Mitzvah. Each student leading the Kabbalat Shabbat. This is created his/her own beautiful Challah trays a very special evening as the students with different themes. It is amazing to see worked hard to learn the Kabbalat the children’s artistic creations! Shabbat Tefilot prayers. After the service the class and their parents will For our Mitzvah of the Month we collected Tu-Bishvat Seder enjoy Shabbat dinner as a community. I want money to buy a tree to be planted in the garden to take this opportunity to thank our Gimmel of our sister school – Yad HaMoreh in Jerusalem. teachers – Mrs. Shelley Sommer, Mr. Michael Witman We are very fortunate to have this close relationship with and our music teacher, Mrs. Gerri Blum, who worked so them. If anyone is planning to go to Israel and would diligently with our 3rd graders in order to teach them Tefilot, like to make contact with their pen pals and the school, the meaning of Tefilot and helping them to make a personal please don’t hesitate to call me and I will gladly make the connection. connection. Over the years many friendships have been formed and several families have maintained an on-going Many thanks to our communication with some of Yad HaMoreh’s families. Daled mothers – Mrs. Developing these family relationships is a real privilege Susan Sonstein and for all of us. It is truly a “win-win” situation! Mrs. Stacey Schwartz – and to our PTA co- A sizable amount of money was withdrawn from our presidents, Mrs. Barbara Tzedakah Fund and sent to UJA to be forwarded to help Levine and Mrs. Marci the people in Haiti. Tu-Bishvat Seder EDUCATION MINUTE: MIRIAM’S CUP RITUAL IN THE FAMILY SEDER Filling Miriam’s Cup follows the second cup of wine, before washing the hands. Raise the empty goblet and say: Miriam’s cup is filled with water, rather than wine. I invite women of all generations at our seder table to fill Miriam’s cup with water from their own glasses. Pass Miriam’s cup around the table(s); explain the significance of filling Miriam’s cup with water: A Midrash teaches us that a miraculous well accompanied the Hebrews throughout their journey in the desert, providing them with water. This well was given by God to Miriam, the prophetess, to honor her bravery and devotion to the Jewish people. Both Miriam and her well were spiritual oases in the desert, sources of sustenance and healing. Her words of comfort gave the Hebrews the faith and confidence to overcome the hardships of the Exodus. We fill Miriam’s cup with water to honor her role in ensuring the survival of the Jewish people. Like Miriam, Jewish women in all generations have been essential for the continuity of our people. As keepers of traditions in the home, women passed down songs and stories, rituals and recipes, from mother to daughter, from generation to generation. Let us each fill the cup of Miriam with water from our own glasses, so that our daughters may continue to draw from the strength and wisdom of our heritage. When Miriam’s cup is filled, raise the goblet and say: We place Miriam’s cup on our seder table to honor the important role of Jewish women in our tradition and history, whose stories have been too sparingly told. 6 Chodesh Tov! Have a wonderful month! SHABBAteeny! By Rabbi Cara Weinstein Rosenthal and Dr. David Rosenthal By Helayne Cohen, Early Childhood Center Director When children are enrolled in our Early Childhood Center, we not only welcome them, but their families as well. Family education is a valuable and vital part of our programming and one that welcomes parents, grandparents, siblings, and extended family members too. Some of our special family programs are: Pizza in the Hut for Sukkot, our Hanukkah Hero Party, our first ever PJ Shema Party, a fun filled Purim carnival, a family Pesach seder, Mom’s visiting day, Dad’s visiting day and Grandparents visiting day. One of our 4 year old highlights is Hooray for Havdalah! Our four year old children celebrate Havdalah weekly with Rabbi Friedman in the Temple Beth Sholom chapel. They learn all about Havdalah, and how to celebrate this tradition with their families. I hope you enjoy reading the article below that was on page 3 in the Roslyn News on January 21. We are so proud of all that is taking place at the Early Childhood Center. It certainly illustrates to readers how committed we are to Jewish education from our littlest learners through many ages and stages. It may have been a bitterly cold evening on Saturday, January 9, but there was plenty of warmth at Temple Beth Sholom’s Early Childhood Center. The 4 year old children, along with their families, teachers and rabbinic staff, celebrated “Hooray for Havdalah”, a ritual tradition What: An interactive song-filled experience with body movement, Shabbat songs and story time. Join us afterward in the Kiddush luncheon at a table specially reserved for families with children aged 2 years old and younger. This is a special new Shabbat program for our teeny children in 2009-2010, and a way for families with young children to meet one another and celebrate Shabbat with song, dance, and ruach (spirit). When: March 6, and May 8, 2010 Where: Shabbat morning from 11:15 am ~ 12 pm in the new Early Childhood Center RSVPs appreciated, but not required, to Rabbi Cara Weinstein Rosenthal and Dr. David Rosenthal [email protected] The evening began with a family style dinner, followed by an educational session with Rabbi Friedman and Gila Hadani-Ward, the director of Lifelong Learning to study together about Havdalah. While the grownups were busy, the children were entertained by the Early Childhood Center Director, Helayne Cohen and their teacher, Diane R u d m a n . The evening continued with children and families celebrating Havdalah t o g e t h e r with Rabbi Friedman, and ended with a make-yourown-sundae Families enjoy Havdalah dessert bar for all to enjoy. Registration for 2010-2011 school year is in progress as well as for Camp K’ton for children 2 and under. If you or anyone you know is interested in being a part of our school, please contact us at (516) 621-1171. We have so much to offer and would welcome showing off our incredibly wonderful new facility. Chag sameach. March Highlights Families enjoy Havdalah Who: Families with children aged 2 and younger marking the end of Shabbat and the beginning of a new week. March 10-11 24 26 29-31 Wed-Thur. Saturday Friday Mon-Wed School Pictures Early Childhood Center Family Seder Parents Invited 9:30-11:00 AM-Regular Classes Early Dismissal at 11:30 AM Passover and Spring Recess-No Classes L’DOR V’DOR-From Generation to Generation Create a lasting a legacy of your family’s connection to Temple Beth Sholom with the purchase of an engraved brick for the Courtyard in our new Early Childhood and Lifelong Learning Center. You can even choose between two sized bricks: Size 4x8: Cost: $180 per brick or 3 for $500 (Each brick can include 3 lines of text with up to 14 characters) Size 12x12: Cost: $540 per brick (Each brick can include 8 lines of text with up to 16 characters) Characters include letters, numbers, symbols, and spaces. For more information, contact Rebecca Altman at [email protected] or Rachel Schor at [email protected] Temple Beth Sholom 7 The Rabbinical Assembly Pesach Guide 5770 The Rabbinical Assembly Pesach Guide 5770 This guide is based on the Guide that was prepared for the Rabbinical Assembly Committee on Jewish Law and Standards by Rabbi Mayer. Rabinowitz and accepted by the Committee on December 12, 1984 with a number of changes that reflect subsequent decisions of the. Committee on Jewish Law and Standards and the ongoing changes in food production. Additional material on smooth top electric ranges,medicines, cosmetics, and toiletries has been added. This document has been prepared by Rabbi Barry Starr, a memberof the Kashrut. Subcommittee of the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards, and Rabbi Paul Plotkin, Chair of the Kashrut Subcommittee. Of all the festivals, Pesach is the one that not only requires the most effort to prepare for, but by halakhic standards is the most complex. Yet most Jews are committed to doing their best to observe the laws of Pesah. Here we are providing a set of guidelines for Pesah food and preparations. We will present some principles first and then proceed to specifics. Of course we cannot cover every possibility in this brief outline. Please contact your local Conservative rabbi or local religious authority if you have any questions. FOODS AND FOOD STUFF The Torah prohibits the ownership of hametz (leavened grains) during Pesach. Therefore, we arrange for the sale of the hametz to a non-Jew. The transfer, mekhirat hametz, is accomplished by appointing an agent, usually one’s rabbi, to handle the sale. It is a valid and legal transfer of ownership. At the end of the holiday, the agent arranges to repurchase the items on behalf of the owner, since the hametz is again permitted. If ownership of the hametz was not transferred before the holiday, the use of any such hametz remains prohibited after the holiday (hametz sheavar ha-Pesach). Since the Torah prohibits the eating of hametz during Pesach, and since many common foods contain some hametz, guidance is necessary when shopping and preparing for Pesach. An item that is kosher all year round, and that is made with no hametz, and is processed on machines used only for that item and nothing else may be used with no special Pesach supervision. White milk would be an example of such a product. In most cases however, since we do not know enough about the processing of products or the sources of ingredients products ought to have Pesach supervision. Those who wish to follow other opinions should check with their Rabbi. What follows is a general guideline. All kosher for Pesach items must have a label indicating the name of a recognizable living supervising Rabbi or kosher supervision agency. Items that have a label that is not integral to the package and does not indicate the product and current Pesach year,should not be used without consulting your Rabbi. Prohibited foods include the following: leavened bread, cakes, biscuits, crackers or coffees containing cereal derivatives i.e. anything made with wheat, barley, oats, spelt or rye. Any food containing these grains or derivatives of these grains (the five prohibited species for Pesach) are forbidden. Foods containing flavorings, which may be derived from alcohol produced from one of these grains which would be hametz, need Pesach supervision. Ashkenazi Rabbinical authorities have added the following foods (kitniyot) to the above list: e.g. rice, corn, millet, beans and peas. These and other plant foods (e.g. mustard, buckwheat and sesame seeds) are not permitted on Pesach. Although many rabbinic authorities have prohibited the use of peanuts and peanut oil, our Movement’s Committee on Laws and Standards has permitted their use and consumption on Pesach provided said items have proper kosher certification and no obvious hametz. Most Sephardic authorities permit the use of all the kitniyot foods other than those that might have come in contact with the prohibited grains. The further processed products whether liquid or solid from kitniyot are also forbidden by most rabbinical authorities. These might include but not be limited to: corn sweetener, corn oil, soy oil and ascorbic acid (vitamin C). Israeli products are often marked “contains “kitniyot” and, thus, Ashkenazi Jews who do not use kitniyot need to be vigilant when purchasing Israeli products. PERMITTED FOODS: a. The following foods require no kosher l’ Pesach label when purchased before or during Pesach: fresh fruits and vegetables that have not been coated (thesupermarket is required by the FDA to have a list of such products), eggs, fresh fish from a kosher source and fresh kosher meat or frozen, raw hekhshered meat other than ground products as ground products with prohibited materials could be made on the same equipment. b. The following products require reliable kosher l’Pesach certification (regular kosher supervision being not sufficient) whether bought before or during Pesah: all baked goods (matzah, Pesach cakes, matzah flour, farfel, matzah meal and any other products containing matzah, canned or bottled fruit juices, canned tuna, wine, vinegar, liquor, decaf coffee, dried fruits, oils, frozen uncooked vegetables, candy, chocolate flavored milk, ice cream, yogurt, all cheeses and soda. (These restrictions hold for Ashkenazic Jews; for Sephardic Jews, the presence in some of these products of kitniyot but not hametz may not present a problem. c. The following foods require no kosher l’Pesah label but do require Kashrut supervision if purchased new and unopened before Pesah: natural coffee without cereal additives, nonconfectioners’ sugar, pure tea (not flavored herbal or decaf tea), salt with no iodine, milk (in the absence of a kosher Pesah alternative), frozen uncooked fruit with no additives, and baking soda. d. Any processed food bought during Pesach must have a kosher l’Pesach label. e. Any detergent, because it is not a food and it is not eaten, may be used for Pesah as long as it has valid kosher supervision. MEDICINES: Since hametz binders are used in many pills, the following guidelines should be followed: If the medicine is required for life sustaining therapy, it may be used on Pesach. If it is not for life sustaining therapy, authorities differ in their approaches. Please consult with your Rabbi. Capsules, because they do not need binders, are preferable to pills. a. EARTHENWARE (china, pottery etc) cannot be kashered. However fine translucent chinaware that was put away clean and that has not been used for over one year, may be used after washing. The china is then pareve and may be designated for milchig or fleishig use. b. PLASTIC ITEMS generally may not be kashered. Consult your Rabbi for specifics. Temple Beth Sholom 8 c. METAL UTENSILS used in a fire must first be thoroughly scrubbed and cleaned and then must be subjected to direct fire. A blow torch and a self-cleaning oven are two ways to accomplish this purging (libbun). This is a complicated and potentially dangerous procedure and may result in discoloration of the metal being purged. Exercise caution when performing libbun. Metal baking utensils cannot be kashered because they require direct fire and this will warp them. cannot be kashered. d. METAL POTS USED for cooking and eating and silverware and utensils wholly of metal not used for baking, thoroughly clean the item, then following a strict 24 hour waiting period, where they are not used, immerse the item (hag’alah) in water at a rolling boil. For pots and pans, clean handles thoroughly. If the handle can be removed, do so for a more thorough cleaning. Each item must be completely exposed to the boiling water to accomplish hag’alah. Pots and pans are either immersed in a larger pot of boiling water (may be done one section at a time) or filled with water brought to a rolling boil and then a heated stone is dropped into the pot such that the boiling water overflows to cover the sides of the pot. In the case of silverware every part of each piece must be exposed to the water at a rolling boil. Following this process, each utensil is rinsed in cold water. k. ELECTRICAL APPLIANCES can be kashered if the parts that come in contact with hametz are metal and are removable, in which case they may be kashered like all other metal cooking utensils. If the parts are not removable, the appliances cannot be kashered. We recommend whenever possible that small appliances be used that are strictly for Pesah thus avoiding the difficulty of kashering these appliances. e. OVENS AND RANGES – every part that comes in contact with food must be thoroughly cleaned. This includes the walls and top and bottom of the oven. Then the oven or range should be heated as hot as possible. The oven should be heated at maximum heat for an hour; the range top until the elements turn red and glow. Then parts of the range top around the elements that can be covered should be covered, usually with aluminum foil. Self cleaning ovens are put through the full cleaning cycle while empty. Following this process the oven should be again cleaned to remove any ash. If the oven was very dirty to start, two cycles may be needed to assume a thorough cleaning. f. SMOOTH TOP ELECTRIC RANGES present a challenge. We recommend cleaning the top thoroughly and then turning on the burners to maximum so that it heats as hot as possible and then carefully pour boiling water on the surface area around the burners. g. MICROWAVE OVENS, that have no convection option should be thoroughly cleaned. Then an 8 ounce cup of water is placed inside, the oven is turned on until the water almost disappears (at least 6 of the 8 ounces is gone). Heating to complete dryness may damage the oven. A microwave oven that has a browning element cannot be kashered. j. DISHWASHER needs to be thoroughly clean including the inside area around the drainage. Then a full cycle while empty should be run with kosher detergent. After 24 hours of not being used the dishwasher is again run empty for the purpose of kashering. The dishwasher and the racks are pareve following this process. For enamel coated dishwashers, consult a rabbinic authority. l. TABLES, CLOSETS, AND COUNTERS should be thoroughly cleaned and covered for Pesach. The coverings can be contact paper, regular paper, foil or cloth that does not contain hametz (e.g. been starched with hametz starch). Alternatively, boiling water may be poured over the counters after they have been thoroughly cleaned. The use of this alternative method depends on the material of which the counter was made. Below is a list of materials for countertops that the Chicago Rabbinical Council affirms may be kashered for Passover. It is important to note that these materials may be kashered only if they are not stained,scratched, or cracked. Surfaces with a synthetic finish also must be cleaned and covered as they may not be kasherable. For questions contact a rabbinic authority. m. KITCHEN SINK can be kashered by thoroughly cleaning and scrubbing the sink (especially the garbage catch), letting it sit for 24 hours and then carefully pouring boiling water over all the surfaces of the sink including the lip. A porcelain sink cannot be kashered, so Pesach dish basins and dish racks must be used, one each for milchig and fleishig. n. NON-PASSOVER DISHES, POTS, UTENSILS and hametz food that have been sold as part of the selling of one’s hametz should be separated, covered or locked away to prevent accidental use. h. CONVECTION OVENS are kashered like regular ovens. Make sure to clean thoroughly around the fan. i. GLASSWARE is a subject about which the authorities disagree. One opinion requires that glasses be soaked in water for three days, changing the water every 24 hours. Another opinion requires only that the glasses be scrubbed and cleaned thoroughly or run through a dishwasher. Glass cookware is treated like a metal pot. See above for procedure. Glass bakeware like metal bakeware Temple Beth Sholom 9 MAKING A MEMORABLE SEDER: Try Something New By Dr. Ron Wolfson The seder need not--should not--stick to the script. Innovation is key for a memorable and fun educational experience. excerpts reprinted with permission from The United Synagogue Review. ..... the seder is designed to help us --remember--remember the story of the Exodus and, more importantly, our place in it. After all, the most important words of the Haggadah are, “B’khol dor vador hayav adam lirot et atzmo k’ilu hu yatzah mi-Mitzrayim”--”All people, in every generation, should see themselves as having experienced the Exodus from Egypt.” The seder is much more than a history lesson; it is our yearly re-enactment of the liberation and continuity of the Jewish people. Thus, seder night is the family education experience par excellence. The rabbis who created its structure and content were brilliant family educators, filling the ceremony with an array of multisensory methods of transmitting the messages of the evening. The seder is filled with symbolic foods, elaborate rituals, words and song, and most importantly, questions designed to keep even the youngest of children interested. Although the seder is the single most observed Jewish celebration of the year in North American Jewish families, many of us base our conduct of the seder on a model we knew as children--each person takes turns reading a paragraph out of the Haggadah. In some families, that is considered a “participatory” experience. It might be, but it’s hardly engaging. When I interviewed families for The Art of Jewish Living: The Passover Seder, I learned that the search for creative ideas for seder celebration is never-ending. So, here are ten tips on how you might enliven your family’s seder experience this year. 1) Give homework. When the Weber family invites the Wolfson family for seder, we are asked to prepare a presentation on some aspect of the seder ceremony. The presentation could be a d’rash-an explanation of what the Haggadah is trying to say. But, over the years, our presentations have also been given as a play, a song, and a take-off on a game show. Not everyone in your family may be able to do this, but there is no better way to encourage participation in the seder than by asking people to prepare something in advance to bring to the table. 2) Buy time. The seder ceremony of my youth never lasted more than 20 minutes. That’s how long it took to say Kiddush, do Karpas [the spring vegetable], break the matzah, and fight over who was the youngest grandchild who could say the “Mah Nishtanah” [the Four Questions]. After a few minutes of everyone-take-turns-reading-a-paragraph, my Uncle Morton would ask the infamous “Fifth Question,” “When do we eat?” End of ceremony. One way to buy time to spend on the telling of the story is to offer your guests something to nibble on between the vegetables of Karpas and the meal. My very creative wife Susie often prepares an edible centerpiece. She and the kids slice jicama very thin and with “Jewish” cookie-cutters, stamp out jicama Stars of David, Torah scrolls, and Kiddush cups. She places the shapes on the end of bamboo “sheshkabob” skewers and inserts them into a head of red cabbage placed in a wicker basket. She adds color to the display by cutting flowerettes of green and red pepper, carrots, celery, and other vegetables and placing them on skewers and into the cabbage. The result is a spectacular vegetable bouquet which we use as a centerpiece on the seder table. After Karpas, we invite our guests to “set the centerpiece” by taking the skewers out of the cabbage and dipping the vegetables into saucers of Pesahdik salad dressings placed around the table. Our friends Gail and Shelly Dorph buy time by using artichokes for Karpas instead of parsley. They then dip the artichoke leaves into dressings for nibbling until the meal is served. 3) Tell the story. The core of the seder experience is the telling of the story of the Exodus from Egypt. The traditional text of the Haggadah contains four different tellings of the story, each one beginning with a question (Mah Nishtanah, the questions of the Four Children, “Tzei u-l’mad,” and Rabban Gamliel’s questions), a response, and praise for God. Think of ways to tell the story that supplement the Haggadah. One year, we were invited to a seder where the host family put on a skit. Stan Beiner’s Sedra Scenes is a good source. Another family we know of uses puppets and story books. The most unusual telling, however, had to be the family who presented a magical version of the Ten Plagues in costume. The father played the Pharoah who, after complaining about how thirsty he was, asked one of the kids to fetch him some cool, clear water from the Nile. The child left the dining room and returned with a pitcher of water and an empty glass. As the “Pharoah” poured the clear water into the glass, it turned red! It turns out the father was an amateur magician who incorporated a variety of magic tricks into their telling of the story. It was amazing--and unforgettable! 4) Ask questions. The Haggadah invites questions. Encourage your guests to liberate themselves from the book and discuss what it is the Haggadah is trying to tell us. A favorite point to do this is Temple Beth Sholom 10 after the recitation of the Ten Plagues. “What are ten things that plague us today?” is a question anyone, no matter what their Judaic knowledge level, can answer. When the Haggadah tells us that we should feel as if we were redeemed from Egypt, what does that mean? What are we doing about Jewish continuity in our family, in our community? The discussion resulting from these questions can be the highlight of your seder. 5) Have fun. Having family fun is serious business, especially at the seder table. The seder was never meant to be dull. Quite the contrary, it is to be a relaxed, informal educational experience. Some families and favorite songs children learn in religious school: “Go Down Moses,” “One Day When Pharoah Awoke in His Bed,” and others. A favorite parody is “The Ballad of the Four Sons.” We read “Only Nine Chairs” by Deborah Uchill Miller (Kar-Ben Copies), a hilarious account of a family seder. 6) Be inclusive. Scratch the surface of most Jewish adults and you’ll find a child who was upset at not finding the afikoman. We created a way to include everyone in the afikoman search. We make a chart with the order of the seder (Kadesh, Urhatz, etc.) and select one letter from each word. We put these 14 letters on 3 x 5 cards and then hide them around the house. We tell the kids that each of them must find at least one of the cards for us to find the real afikoman. When the kids find all the cards, they bring them to the table. Then, we ask the adults to figure out a jumble-word-search two-word clue from the letters. The letters spell “at refrigerator.” Once the clue is deciphered, everyone runs to the refrigerator and finds the real afikoman! Then, of course, everyone who participated in the search gets a prize. 7) Use materials. One of the problems in keeping young children interested in the seder is that most Haggadot are not designed for them. When our kids were in nursery school, Susie created a “Pat the Bunny”-type Haggadah using the coloring sheets sent home from class. She added tactile materials to the sheets where appropriate: cotton balls on pictures of sheep, sandpaper on pictures of the bricks of the pyramids, grape scratch-and-sniff stickers on pictures of the Kiddush cups. She put these in a loose-leave notebook and made copies for the kids at the seder. Susie also gave each child a “goodie bag” filled with Passover symbols, frog stickers, a bookmark, even moist towellettes for the inevitable spills of wine! 8) Hiddushim (innovations). Each year, experienced seder leaders look for new ideas to incorporate into the ceremony. Here are a few of my favorites. Instead of filling Elijah’s Cup with wine at the beginning of the seder, wait until just before opening the door and pass Elijah’s cup to each participant who pours some of her/his wine into it. This is a demonstration of the need to act to bring the Messianic era. The Sephardim [Jews of Spanish and Mediterranean descent] pick up the seder plate and place it over every person’s head during the recitation of Ha Lahma Anya, the invitation to participate in the seder. Another Sephardic custom is to beat the leader with green onions during the singing of Dayyenu as a reminder of the plagues. Ask a set of modern “Four Questions” to discuss at the ceremony. Challenge your guests to sing all the verses to “Had Gadya” [the song “One Kid”] in one breath. Sing Had Gadya with sound effects: choose a person to create the sound of a goat, a cat, a dog, a stick, fire, etc., which they make after the words are sung. (The most interesting sounds will be for the “Angel of Death” and “Ha-Kadosh Barukh Hu”)! 9) Choose a good Haggadah. We have traditional unedited texts and greatly abbreviated liberal texts. We have new “family” Haggadot and that old standby, the Maxwell House Haggadah. In the Conservative Movement, we have the excellent Rabbinical Assembly Haggadah, The Feast of Freedom. Choose a Haggadah that fits your family’s needs. Since the cost of multiple copies is often quite substantial, pick one that will last a number of years in style, substance, and construction. Remember, the book itself should stand up to extensive use. 10) Prepare. Of course, the ultimate Haggadah may be one you yourself put together. With inexpensive printing widely available, it is not difficult to edit your own Haggadah text. You can easily combine traditional texts with modern interpretations and readings, songs, and information. By studying the Haggadah text with the help of guidebooks like The Art of Jewish Living: The Passover Seder, you can develop a text that reflects your understanding of the seder story and that fits the needs of your family. This will take some time, but the reward will be a seder experience that is meaningful and memorable. . 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Enjoy a great day while doing amazing work! Director: Ginger Bloom . 516.621.9257 . Bethsholomdaycamp.com To volunteer, contact Gila 621-2288 x129 or [email protected] Shabbaton Weekend Friday, April 9, 2010 Dinner and Dedication Ceremony In Memory of Rabbi Joseph Sternstein Keynote Speaker: Rabbi Arnie Resnicoff Details to Follow Our intrepid morning Minyan during the big storm 12 Temple Beth Sholom 13 MEN’S CLUB CLUB TBS: DISCO, DENIM & DINNER By Irving Chernofsky, VP Publicity By Richard Levine On Saturday, February 6, 2010, Temple Beth Sholom held its first ever Disco, Denim, and Dinner at Club TBS. The planning for this event started months in advance and its success can be credited to the committee chairs Lisa Levine, Amy Magid, and Jill Naviasky and member sRebecca Altman, Len Bergman, Marci Kamberg, Richard Levine, David Nussbaum, and Sandy Nussbaum. Anticipation for the event heightened when raffle tickets were mailed to every TBS member. Even those who could not attend could participate by purchasing the chance to win fabulous raffle prizes. When the night arrived, attendees enjoyed a delicious cocktail hour, accompanied by a silent auction featuring jewelry by Judith Ripka and furs by Frederick Gelb. Many happy partygoers went home with a new fur coat or a Judith Ripka keepsake. The doors opened to the ballroom and Club TBS was in full swing. United Floral Designs and Table Wraps donated magnificent table décor and cozy seating. Todd Barrie Productions provided the music that packed the dance floor, and Great Neck Games brought along some fun. The abundant buffet, by Newman and Leventhal, was both delicious and eye-catching. Great food and great music were the ingredients for a great evening. Are you always at a loss when looking for a Passover wine? Well, the Men’s Club is going to solve that problem for you. The Men’s Club is pleased to provide you with an opportunity to order a variety of wonderful ‘Kosher for Passover’ wines for your Seder and holiday. This year the Men’s Club is working with one of the largest distributors of Passover Wines on the East Coast. You will be able to choose from a complete kosher wine catalog. In addition, in conjunction with one of their wine experts we have also put together two different sampler “baskets” of fine varietals. You will be able to order the wines ‘a la carte’, by the case, or by the basket. Look for the mailing from the Men’s Club marked “PASSOVER WINES”. The forms will also be available at the Temple Office. In the spirit of Passover, a significant portion of the proceeds will be donated to the Temple. The Men’s Club will also be sponsoring a Passover Wine Tasting. On Thursday evening, March 18th from 6:30 PM – 9:30 PM representatives from the wine distributor will be on hand at Temple Beth Sholom, to give us their insights on how to choose wine, and ways to further appreciate the wine you choose. If you want to get the best tasting Passover wines – this will be the place to be! You will also be able to submit your orders to Men’s Club representatives at the Wine Tasting. Put April 10th on your calendars, as Men’s Club Shabbat is rapidly approaching. If you are interested in participating, in any manner, please contact Mansour Zarabi – we would love to have you. Spades, Hearts, Diamonds, and Clubs; Chicago, Miami, Hartford, and Denver. What do all of these have in common? Fun, that’s what!! What a great evening of fun was had by all who attended the Sisterhood and Men’s Club Military Bridge night. Where else can you visit 15 cities, and have dinner and dessert at the same time, all in the span of two hours? SAVE THE DATE February 5, 2011 Disco, Denim and Dinner at Club TBS SISTERHOOD SCOOP By Molly Chernofsky, Sisterhood President Club TBS Committee Club TBS Disco, Dinner and Denim was made possible by the generous donations of: Great Neck Games Table Wraps Judith Ripka Todd Barrie Entertainment Newman and Leventhal Caterers United Floral GRAND RAFFLE PRIZES BY: * Judith Ripka * Judith Ripka * Sony Corporation of America SILENT AUCTION BY: * Furs by Frederick Gelb SOLID GOLD SPONSORS Michael & Rebecca Altman Patrick & Marilyn Jacques Louis & Jill Naviasky Richard & Lisa Levine Marc & Amy Magid Bob & Norma Solomon Club TBS in full swing SATURDAY NIGHT FEVER SPONSORS Len & Felice Bergman Harold & Carrie Gordon John & Carolyn Canova Dorin & Ronit Kalman Gary & Bonnie Freeberg David & Sandy Nussbaum Dvir & Laura Gilady Steven & Hillary Schultz Robert & Linda Tepper THANK YOU TO ALL OUR GENEROUS RAFFLE DONORS: Albee Baby Amal Catering Angel Tips Nail Spa The Annex Shoppe Sherry Argov Bagel Boss Café Beautiful Kid Bonnie and Gary Freeberg Boulevard Magazine Carolyn & John Canova CHO-SEN Village Restaurant Shelley Cohen Colbeh Restaurant DeFranco Spagnolo Salon Deli-On-Rye Steven Dubner Landscaping Equinox Fred Marcus Photography F + W Media Gelmor Lace Susan & Herb Hoffman Integrated Fitness Solutions The Jewish Heritage Museum Lauren Lavelle Salon The Litt Family Maddy B’s Maddy’s 390 Michael Hammerman Mr. Bar B Q Dr. Ira Newman North Shore Optics North Shore Today Jay Nussbaum Palm Bay International Please Mom Roslyn Kosher Foods Rhonda Sadur/Prudential Douglas Elliman Real Estate Salon Pop Sherman Specialty Company Sorrell Salon Streit’s Dr. Steven Talerman TBS Summer Camp Victor Talbot White Lotus Spa 401 Roslyn Road | Roslyn Heights, NY 11577 | 516-621-2288 | www.tbsroslyn.org Enjoying the disco 14 The bright yellow daffodils are proudly announcing the start of spring so please warm up with our many spring programs. Pamper yourself at Ester’s Night of Indulgence, on Thursday evening, March 11th. Treat yourself to a mini massage and new make-up. Learn how to belly dance with the sensuous music of ancient Persia. Then enjoy decadent chocolates, cakes and Persian delicacies. Go home feeling utterly relaxed. What a great way to celebrate Purim! Get ready for Passover with our baking class. Look for the flyer and the announcement for date and time on TBSNet. Spring is just around the corner and so is our new Sisterhood Shabbat education class. Join us to learn the meaning of our Shabbat prayers and get ready to participate in next year’s Sisterhood Shabbat. All sisterhood members are invited to the new class. Date and time will be announced shortly. Share with us your ideas for new Sisterhood education classes. Please email me at [email protected] with your ideas. Winter was a great time for our Sisterhood members. We had a hamantashen baking class led by Rachel Prowler and her mom Laurie. Everyone went home with a goody bag of hamantashen. Yummy! In January, Daniella Klein led a de stressing workshop which helped us deal with the tensions that fill our daily life. One of her great tips was to envision your television set changing channels to the you that you want to become. Another great tip was to take a moment every day to envision the blessings in your life. Our daily morning prayers are perfect for this, because we thank God for every part of our body that works right! Thank you, Daniella, for a great workshop. If you were all excited when you received your mishloah manot goodies, please thank Cindy Katz and Amy Magid. They worked very hard on our Purim fundraiser. We hope you enjoyed the convenience of ordering on line. And we hope your college children enjoyed their Purim goodies prepared for them by Dori Appleman and her committee. Purim marked the end of February, but we also warmed up in February with our annual Military Bridge and Dinner night. Everyone had a great time, as they moved from table to table to play “War”. There were lots of laughs, because this was an easy game to play with easy going people to play with. Thank you, Irving Chernofsky, for chairing this evening. Thank you to Men’s Club for sharing this evening. February also felt spring like when Zahava Gold, our new young Sisterhood group, met for the first time in the Mercaz Early Childhood Center for an evening of socializing and planning of future events. We are thrilled to have you. Thank you to Rebecca Altman for chairing our new group. Sisterhood members enjoyed a thought provoking evening at Sisterhood Night at the Movies. The classic movie, A Civil Action with John Travolta and Robert Duvall highlighted a world in which our natural resources are in danger. Beth Eichenholtz facilitated a passionate discussion on the movie and the consequences of not protecting our earth. And of course, Sisterhood Shabbat was the highlight of our winter season. We are so proud of all the women who participated in the service and worked so hard to make this a great day. Thank you to Madeline Yousefzadeh and Sara Most for all your expertise and help. Thank you to Norma Solomon for helping Millie study Torah and Haftorah. Thank you to Mahvash Zarabi for bringing spring to us with the beautiful flowering plants for our luncheon. A hearty Mazel Tov to Millie Magid for becoming a Bat Torah. We are so proud of you. We invite all Sisterhood members to study with us, to participate in Sisterhood Shabbat and to become a Bat Torah, a daughter of the Torah. Have a sweet Passover. 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COHEN ENDOWMENT FUND In memory of Harry Brochstein Arlene & Danny Fisher Susan & Howard Braverman Bernice Cohen Lori & Stephen Beyer Rita & Leonard Nadel Leo Kornblath Ilene & Peter Rosenbaum In memory of Harry Brochstein, we will miss you Rita & Howard Golub In honor of Dr. Steven Zeldis Marilyn & Eric Blier In honor of Dr. Jay Merker Marilyn & Eric Blier In memory of Dr. Morris Lipton Bernice Cohen In memory of Joseph Huber Bernice Cohen Lisa & Richard Levine Roberta & Steven Zeldis Barbara & Larry Glass Arlene & Danny Fisher In memory of Rose Spielman Bonnie & Barry Epstein Amy & Marc Magid In memory of Louise Liebman Arlene & Danny Fisher In honor of Engagement of Stefani Marcus and Andrew Wiener Jill & Louis Naviasky In memory of Louise Liebman Lisa & Richard Levine In honor of Sarah & Alan Most on the engagement of their daughter Jennifer and Ruben Barbara & Larry Glass HAROLD KALB PRAYERBOOK FUND In memory of Joseph Zwillenberg Marla & Barry Shainman In memory of Ethel Schwam Dedee & Stephen Lovell Felicia Kalb In honor of Birth of Joely Elouise Kaplan, granddaughter of Ronnie Kaplan The Lipper & Walk Family In memory of Morris Isenberg Shirlee Roberts In memory of Harry Brochstein Sheila Barth Marjorie & Philip Adler Edith & Leonard Kliegman Judy & Arthur Goldberg Pam & Jack Shampan In memory of Joseph Zwisllenberg Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Ethel Schwam Eleanor & Morton Roberts In memory of Harry Brochstein Eleanor & Morton Roberts In memory of Anna Krolick Michael & Elane Krolick, Jonathan, Alissa and Jacob Krolick, Robert & Amy Krolick In memory of Esther & Samuel Cohen Janet Cohen Eder In honor of 60th Birthday of Nathan Halegua Michelle & Alan Cohen In memory of Sadie Riegel Elaine & Michael Krolick Jonathan, Alissa & Jacob Krolick Robert & Amy Krolick In memory of Joseph Riegel Elaine & Michael Krolick Jonathan, Alissa & Jacob Krolick Robert & Amy Krolick In honor of Ellen Walk, honored by JTS Nancy Jacob In memory of Ida Friesner Charlotte & Marvin Levine In memory of Louise Liebman Fay Ann & Darwin Dornbush Robin & Jay Merker In memory of Joseph Huber Bella & Barry Freedberg In honor of 50th Wedding Anniversary of Jean & David Bernstein Edith & Leonard Kliegman MILTON HOROWITZ RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND In memory of Morris Frankel Lila Horowitz In memory of Harry Brochstein Lila Horowitz In memory of Helen Redstone Barbara Heitner In memory of Robert Jaul Barbara Heitner RABBI STERNSTEIN MEMORIAL FUND In memory of Harold Swersky Robert Swersky 17 MALKA’S FUND FOR LIFE LONG LEARNING In memory of Ethel Schwam. She nourished us with her goodness. Ellen & Paul Walk In honor of Bat Mitzvah of Daphne Solomon Carrie, Harold, Arielle & Amanda Gordon In honor of Bar Mitzvah of Mason Balbera Nancy & Jay Feldman In memory of Ruth Wachtenheim Pearl & Nathan Halegua In memory of Grandmother of Gregg Balbera Dr. & Mrs. Lawrence Sirota Donation Karmel Elghanayan In memory of Joseph Huber Dorine & Robert Wulwick Laurie & David Prowler Marcia Kirschner In memory of Ethel Schwam Nancy Jacob In memory of Harry Brochstein Nancy Jacob In honor of Ellen & Ken Forrets’ daughters engagement to Dan Richards Nancy Jacob In honor of Bnai Mitzvot of Madeline & David Yousefzadeh’s grandchildren Cyrus & Sophia Ellen & Paul Walk In memory of Joseph Huber Ellen & Paul Walk RABBI ARIO S. AND TESS HYAMS JUDAICA MUSEUM FUND In honor of Bat Mitzvah of Bonnie Lerman Helene & Scott Lurie LIBRARY FUND In memory of Naftali Winter Eva & Sanford Gerber Phyllis & Elliot Pellman In memory of Joseph Huber Sheila Barth WILLIAM SPIELMAN SOLOMON SCHECTER SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Harry Brochstein Dedee & Stephen Lovell Daniela & Steven Klein In memory of Rose Spielman Cindy & Ronnie Katz BERNICE COHEN PRE SCHOOL FUND In memory of Marilyn Keslowitz aunt of Helayne Cohen ECC Staff MBS SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Harry Brochstein Dr. Joel & Mrs. Ann Brochstein In memory of Louise Liebman Cheryl & Mark Friedman Wendy & Scott Siegel PAUL SHIPPER MUSIC FUND In honor of Cantor Ofer Barnoy. With appreciation for all your help preparing Daniel for his Bar Mitzvah Pamela & Noel Cott In memory of Harry Wilner Miriam, Stephen & Ilana Silverman In honor of Bat Mitzvah of Jessica Naomi Barnoy Amy & Lennard Katz Laurie & Stuart Wilkins LISA AND JIM SCHLESINGER CAMP RAMAH IMO Ethel Schwam Lisa & Jim Schlesinger Speedy recovery to Jim Schlesinger Willie & Norman Walter Continued good health to Jim Schlesinger Nancy Jacob GENERAL DONATIONS Donation Self Help, Gina Goldman (continued on page 18) DONATIONS (continued from page 17) RUTH AND SIDNEY KAHAN CHESED FUND In memory of Harry Wilner Sharon & Lou Heisler & Family In memory of Joseph Zwillenberg, the kindest person Ellen & Paul Walk In honor of Ellen Walk Laura & Richard Rosenberg In honor of Ellen Walk, JTS honoree Pamela & Noel Cott In memory of Gloria Hindes Phyllis & Elliot Pellman In memory of Joseph Zwillenberg Lenore & Alan Rosenwasser Susan & Jay Kaplan In memory of Steven Rappaport Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Ahron Ostad Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Ethel Schwam Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Beatrice Schecter Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Florence Rosenerg Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memeory of Arnold Berger Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Pauline Grossman Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Dr. Morris Lipton Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Stuart Heitner Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Norman Samnick Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Annette Ostrow Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Harold Stein Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Sidney Rosenberg, Jack Markowitz & Harvey & Phyllis Markowitz Mindy Markowitz In memory of Joseph Zwillenberg Alice Zwillenberg In honor of Ellen Walk Lillian Litvack In memory of Steven Rappaport Pam & Jack Shampan In memory of Rose Spielman Pam & Noel Cott In memory of Joseph Huber Edith & Leonard Kliegman In memory of Rose Spielman Edith & Leonard Kliegman DARE In memory of Risa Hirschler Anne & Gene Pritz In memory of Helen Ulman & Joseph Ulman Adele & Irwin Flescher YAHRZEIT FUND In memory of Herman Hilf Phyllis & Elliot Pellman IMO Reuben Dorfman Lenore Rosenwasser IMO Ruth Wachtenheim Rose & Alan Schecter IMO Harry Brochstein Rose & Alan Schecter IMO Ethel Schwam Rose & Alan Schecter IMO Steven Rappaport Rose & Alan Schecter Serving Your Family Sinai Chapels respects all Jewish traditions and customs, has a compassionate staff that is second to none, and has three generations of experience serving New York’s Jewish families. 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When facing normal life-cycle transitions, crisis and change, we offer: • Short Term Counseling • Support Groups • Legal, Financial & Career Resources (UJA-Federation’s Connect to Care) • Information and Referral Services • Community Events and Synagogue Workshops Upcoming Support Groups • Bereavement • Separation and Divorce • Caregiver • Cancer Wellness – Strength to Strength • Singles (Age 45-69) Community Events • Empty Chair at the Seder: Facing Loss at the Holidays Tuesday, March 9 at 7:30pm • L.A. Law’s Michael Tucker & Jill Eikenberry: Balancing Life as a Caregiver Wednesday, April 14, 7:30pm • Strength to Strength – Cancer Wellness 5K Run Sunday, June 6, 2009 Partners In Community Care When You Need Us, We’re Here For You Services are a benefit of synagogue membership. All calls are private and confidential. Contact the clergy, any synagogue staff or call Partners In Community Care (516) 484-1545 ext. 196 FREE ALTERATIONS FOR THE LIFE OF THE GARMENT OFFICIAL CAMP OUTFITTERS FOR OVER 50 YEARS Boys’ & Menswear • Sizes 4-48 Regular, Slim, Husky, Stout 330 Wheatley Plaza, Greenvale (516) 621-1840 Located off the L.I.E., Exit 39, at the corner of Northern Blvd. & Glen Cove Rd. Coldwell Banker Claire Sobel 47 Years Family-Owned www.coldwellbankerclairesobel.com For All Your Real Estate Needs Buying • Selling • Renting To Find Out How Much Your Home Is Worth Call Today for a Free Market Analysis 516/621-6300 27 Powerhouse Road Roslyn Heights, NY 11577 [email protected] Roy Sobel Broker/Owner 20 Temple Beth Sholom 21 Hay Presentration & Lunch Susan and Stuart Brown on the marriage of their son Bennett Brown to Tracy Meyers daughter of Stefanie and Larry Meyers. Wende and Arnie Hyman on the birth of their grandson, Henry Liam. Proud parents are Joie and Josh Zizmor. Lena and Martin Greenfield on the birth of their grandson, Benjamin Alon Shahaf, proud parents are Elizabeth and Aviv Shahaf. Sara and Alan Most on the engagement of their daughter Jennifer Linda to Ryan Devlin. Melissa and Bradley Fishman on the birth of their grandson Benjamin Lev. Proud parents are Rebecca and Ari Roitman. 25 Second Day of Passover 31 24 Karen, Allison and Michael Rappaport and Sara and David Wolkoff would like to thank the Temple Beth Sholom clergy and community for the outpouring of love, kindness and support shown to us during this very difficult time after Steven’s death. Your presence, minyan participation and generous donations will always be remembered and appreciated. Alice Zwillenberg would like to thank Rabbi Lucas, Rabbi Solomon, Rabbi Friedman and Cantor Barnoy for their support during my very difficult time following Joe’s death. Cub Scouts First Day of Passover Second Seder Nadine Kesten on the death of her beloved father, Joseph Huber. 29 Morei Derech DD PTA Meeting MBS 28 Bridge Burning of Chametz First Seder Bridge DARE MBS Religious Affairs Cmte 21 Bridge DARE MBS Rabbi Emeritus Dr. Joseph P. Sternstein z”l Associate Rabbi Jeni S. Friedman Condolences to: 30 Bridge Executive Board Meeting Cub Scouts Walking with Life Scouts Board of Trustees Meeting 23 22 Bridge Adult Bat Mitzvah Cub Scouts Scouts 16 15 14 Bnai Mitzvah Family Program Yom Hashoah Candle Pcking Camp & ECC open house MBS Machar and Kadima Trip to Island Rock Young People’s Concert Pasta Dinner Rabbi: Alan B. Lucas Carol and Bill Denberg on the birth of their grandson, Jason Asher. Proud parents are Alina and Kevin Denberg We would like to thank Rabbi Lucas, Rabbi Friedman, Rabbi Solomon and Cantor Barnoy for their kindness and support after the loss of my beloved father, Joseph Huber. The outpouring of caring, visits, meals, donations and thoughtfulness from my Temple family was such a comfort to me and my family at this difficult time. I feel fortunate to be part of this congregation. Nadine Kesten and family. ECC Pictures Senior Luncheon Sisterhood Board of Trustees Morei Derech DD MBS USY Trip to Island Rock 7 Bridge Dare MBS Bridge DARE Sisterhood Executive Board MBS 9 8 Adult Bat Mitvah Class Cub Scouts House Commitee Walking with Life Scouts 2 1 401 Roslyn Road Roslyn Heights, NY 11577 (516) 621-2288 www.tbsroslyn.org Cantor Ofer Barnoy Thank you: Temple Beth Sholom 22 20 Temple Beth Sholom Rose and Alan Schecter on the birth of their grandson, Braeden Riley. Proud parents are Jordan and Amy Schecter. Sandy and Steve Seltzer on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Noah, son of Stuart and Danielle Seltzer. Bridge JTS Bridge Men’s Club Wine Tasting Morei Derech Mazal tov to: Museum Opening Friday Night Live! and PrePassover Dinner 27 26 Bat Mitzvah Jessica Barnoy 20 19 17 18 12 Bridge ECC Pictures Sisterhood Brunch & Learn with Rabbi Sidney Solomon Esther’s Night of Indulgence JTS 10 W T M S March 2010 Bar Mitzvah Joshua Gottlieb Bat Mitzvah Rebecca Stewart Religious School Family Study Mini Minyan Minyan Yeladeynu 13 Gimmel Shabbat and Dinner 3 T Bridge Board of Education 4 11 Bar Mitzvah Justin Goldberg Bat Mitzvah Carly Goldberg Mini Minyan Mishpacha Minyan Shabbateeny 6 5 S F Adar /Nisan 5770 GhhAj RST-GhhAj LXhB TEMPLE FAMILY Mark Goldman on the death of his beloved mother, Sonya Goldman. Meg Kahn on the death of her beloved mother, Louise Liebman. Janyne Spielman and the entire Spielman family on the loss of her grandmother, Rose Spielman and beloved mother of our Past President, William Spielman z”l The family of our dear, long time member, Michael Gold Ritual Director Rabbi Sidney Solomon Executive Director Donna Bartolomeo Director of Lifelong Learning Gila Hadani Ward Religious School Director Sharon Solomon Early Childhood Center Director Helayne Cohen Summer Program Director Ginger Bloom Endowment Director Bernice Cohen Museum Curator Bat-Sheva Slavin President Louis Naviasky Denise Gold on the death of her dear brother, Jack Litman. Executive Vice President Marc Magid Debbie Sutton and Robin Seyburn on the death of their father, Paul Nichols. President of Sisterhood Molly Chernofsky Sandra Geller on the death of her beloved husband Ralph Geller. Barbara Glass on the death of her beloved father, Milton Hirschhorn. David Fisher on the death of his dear sister, Andrea Fisher Hamakom Yinachem — May God comfort the mourners together with all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. Please check out our website at www.tbsroslyn.org Sign up for Temple Beth Sholom online! Be part of TBSNet! President of Men’s Club Mansour Zarabi Co-Presidents of PTA Barbara Levine Marci Kamberg Bulletin Editor Deborah Brosowsky Editorial Assistant Jennifer Khoda Temple Beth Sholom 23 21 27 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM 401 ROSLYN ROAD ROSLYN ROAD ROSLYN HEIGHTS, NY 11577 SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Friday Evening, March 5....................5:30 PM Candle Lighting Time.........5:31 PM Saturday Morning, March 6...............9:00 AM Shabbat Parah Parashat Ki Tissa Bat Mitzvah of Carly Goldberg Bar Mitzvah of Justin Goldberg Saturday Evening, March 6 Mincha/Ma’ariv....................5:45 PM Friday Evening, March 12...................5:45 PM Candle Lighting Time.........5:39 PM Saturday Morning, March 13.............9:00 AM Shabbat ha-Hodesh Parashat Va-yak·hel P’kudei Bar Mitzvah of Joshua Gottlieb Bat Mitzvah of Rebecca Stewart Saturday Evening, March 13 Mincha/Ma’ariv.....................6:00 PM Daylight Saving Time Begins MARCH Saturday Morning, March 27.............9:00 AM Shabbat Hagadol Parshat Tzav Saturday Evening, March 27 Mincha/Ma’ariv....................7:15 PM Sunday Evening, March 28 B’dikat Hametz: Search for Leaven Monday, March 29 Siyum Habekhorim: Fast of First Born.................6:30 PM Burning of Hametz............10:00 AM Candle Lighting Time.........6:57 PM Mincha/Ma’ariv....................6:00 PM First Seder Tuesday, March 30, First Day of Passover Morning Service..................9:00 AM Evening Service...................6:00 PM Candle Lighting Time.........8:10 PM Second Seder Friday Evening, March 19..................6:30 PM Candle Lighting Time.........6:47 PM Wednesday, March 31, Second Day of Passover Morning Service...................9:00 AM Evening Service...................7:15 PM Saturday Morning, March 20.............9:00 AM Parashat Va-yikra Bat Mitzvah of Jessica Barnoy Friday Evening, April 2......................6:30 PM Hol Hamoed Candle Lighting Time.........7:01 PM Saturday Evening, March 20 Mincha/Ma’ariv....................7:00 PM Saturday Morning, April 3................9:00 AM Shabbat Hol Hamoed Pesach Friday, March 26 6:30 PM Candle Lighting Time.........6:54 PM Friday Night Live!...............8:00 PM Saturday Evening, April 3 Mincha/Ma’ariv....................7:15 PM DAILY MINYAN SCHEDULE Sunday Mornings 9:00 AM ● Monday - Friday Mornings 6-45 AM ● Sunday - Thursday Evenings 8 PM 22 24