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Your
Venus
Unleashed
by Dana Gerhardt
Created for Diana Frances Spencer
Born July 1, 1961 at 19:45:00 BST in Sandringham,
Norfolk, UK
Koch Houses
Fifth house Venus in Taurus
Prepared: April, 2012
Transits calculated for: Sandringham, Norfolk, UK
“The Pursuit of Happiness”
may be the most miserable phrase in the English language
It implies that happiness exists somewhere outside of you,
that you must do something or go somewhere to get it.
Astrology pictures it differently.
As the planet of happiness, Venus appears in every chart.
This means the happiness you seek is already in your possession.
You were born with it.
All you need do is connect with your inner Venus.
And making that connection is what this report is about.
why must venus be unleashed?
Venus has always been my guilty secret. I have Venus
in Scorpio, which suggests I’ve got an intense, seductive, and
smoldering femininity. I wouldn't mind this at all. I'd even
accept Scorpio’s shadow reputation as a vengeful witch. Yet
the usual observations about Venus in Scorpio have never rung
true for me. Venus is my neglected planet. Years ago, my
husband left me for a woman who probably was a Venus in
Scorpio. She was dark, mysterious, and passionately sexual,
"Everything," he said, "you're not."
Absorbed in my own limitations, it was some time
before I lifted my head and discovered that many of you don't
have such a good relationship with Venus either. When I
admitted my failings in a Mountain Astrologer article, I heard
from hundreds of readers with similar confessions. As one
woman shared, “Where’s my Venus? I cringe when I look in a
mirror. I don’t have any fun. I’m tired, out of sorts, worried
about money, and oh yes, my relationship sucks.”
Astrologers promise that Venus brings happiness, love,
beauty, sexual passion, financial abundance, and healthy self
esteem—the very things that most people feel they lack.
Missing out on Venus goodies may seem like a personal
failure. But the problem is sourced much deeper than that. It
pervades the whole culture—stretching all the way back to
Adam and Eve’s punishing exile, when they were banned from
their pleasure garden because Eve talked with snakes and ate
ripe, delicious fruit. Their banishment was code for the real exile.
The Goddess of All Good Things was supplanted as the life-giving
fountain of our culture. Sexy Aphrodite, Freya, Isis, and Ishtar
were run from their temples by manly, more rational gods. We lost
our happiness and have suffered love troubles ever since.
A banished goddess never disappears. She goes underground and seeks her revenge. That’s why we’re taunted with
images of Venus everywhere: near naked babes beckoning from
ads and music videos. The goddess is selling yogurt and sports
cars, while porn sites proliferate, and teen girls starve themselves
into a confused ideal of beauty. All because we’re desperate to
return Venus to our lives.
Astrology can help. But first we must do as ancient diviners
did to remedy our life problems: we need to understand the
offended divinity and make an offering. Rather than passively
expecting our Venus in Leo or Cancer to bring goodies to us, we
need to ask what Venus in Leo or Cancer wants from us. We need
to find out what’s important to Her. Only then can we make the
proper offerings and receive her gifts.
To that end, I asked over four hundred people an extensive
list of Venus questions. Through their words, the Goddess spoke. I
learned what She truly desires in Virgo or in aspect to Mars. I
quote from these exquisite voices in the following pages (some
remarks have been edited or combined). I am endlessly grateful to
my survey participants, who taught me more about Venus than
any astrology book. They showed me that Venus is very much
alive… just waiting to be recognized and unleashed!
“Come to me…”
Ecstasy…
I receive the world, take it
in…pierced and
penetrated… I shimmy like a
belly dancer, tremoring with
delight. I live in joy. I am
open and full.
I’m attractive… irresistible.
What I desire, I draw to
me… I perfume… I pout… I
manipulate… I work my
wiles… How else does one
so vulnerable wield power?
SURRENDERED
SEDUCTIVE
Grace…
“Go away!”
I rot… I freeze… I seethe… I
rage… I petrify with my
gaze… I do not know
myself… I am gone… I am in
the dirt… under the ice… I
cannot take the world.
With flowing movement,
I weave beauty and
harmony…I listen. I
empathize. I civilize. I create.
With diplomatic and artistic
sensitivity, I smooth and
reshape the world
WITHDRAWN
ENGAGED
Venusian
Receptivity
MORE THAN A SEX GODDESS
Marilyn Monroe: luscious, vulnerable, inviting. Albert Einstein: brilliant,
original, audacious. What do these two have in common? Both have Venus in
Aries at the top of their charts—in the powerful Gauequelin sector—making
Venus the planet most responsible for their fame. Even in death, Marilyn
remains the object of countless fantasies. Albert—a scientist who worked more
like an artist, an avowed pacifist who wanted to know god’s thoughts—
reinvented our view of the world. Together they represent the alpha and omega
of Venus expression, the rich plenitude of Venusian possibilities. This archetype
is juicy, creative, intelligent, and might inspire you to write music, bake mouthwatering cupcakes, or take a skydiver’s leap from a plane. Reducing Venus to
sexuality alone—already evident in the depiction of the Greek Aphrodite—
resulted from a steady fragmenting of female deities across thousands of years.
Before that, Venus was Inanna, the Queen of Heaven and Earth. Before that, she
was the all-powerful fertility goddess, the source of everything alive.
To connect with Venus in her full potency, you must go to her altar—the
place within where she resides. Her altar is, quite simply, your receptivity—
your capacity to be open to life. I have a friend who likes to image his receptivity
as a goddess reclining on a couch while savoring chocolates. This is a good start.
But it’s important to understand that receptivity is also dynamic and changeable. Imagine each day doing nothing but lounging on pillows and receiving an
endless supply of gifts. After awhile, you may weary of ribbons and colored
paper, growing curious about the world outside your room, wondering how
you could dance or play with it. Maybe the FedEx guy bringing packages looks
sad one day. You ask to hear his story and it brings tears to your eyes. That night
you compose a song you hope will soothe his heart. On another day, despite the
huge pile of objects in your possession, you find yourself longing for something
that never arrives… a hot fudge sundae, a passionate kiss, tickets to Bali. Glued
to your pillow, you wonder, what can you do to make this luscious thing enter
the room? Bat your eyes? Drop hints? Send suggestive letters to friends? And of
course on many days, you find yourself groaning, “Oh no, not another package!
Leave me alone!” When the door swings open with yet another gift, you throw a
shoe at the deliveryman’s head.
We are all born sexual creatures, thank god. It’s a
pity so many people despise and crush this natural
feeling—because art comes from that, real art—
everything!
Marilyn Monroe
The state of mind which enables a man to do work of
this kind ... is akin to that of the religious
worshipper or the lover; the daily effort comes from
no deliberate intention or program, but straight
from the heart.
Albert Einstein
what puts you in a venusian mood?
One square of dark chocolate after lunch.
Venus in Virgo
Any moment of communion with the Divine.
Venus in Pisces
A good workout at the gym. It makes me more
aware of my body; it makes me stand tall and move
gracefully. I also become more aware of the physical
beauty of those around me.
Venus in Aries
After my husband leaves for work, I sit on my couch
with a cup of tea and stare out the window at the
trees for about an hour. Daydreaming.
Venus opposite Neptune
Color color color – seeing rocks, water drops in
sunshine, beautiful bright strawberries, or a glowing
pink raspberry.
Venus in Leo
Hanging clothes on the line. I enjoy feeling the fabric
against my skin while birds are twittering and the
smell of grass and flowers tickles my nose as the
sun shines on my body, and the soft breeze is a
caress. Venus in Cancer
Getting dressed up and looking so great people turn
around to look at me. Or just relaxing after a very
productive day.
Venus in Capricorn
Stimulating conversation with fine wine and terribly
decadent food.
Venus in Libra
Waking up late on a rainy Sunday morning, feeling a
perfect warmth under my covers, knowing I don’t
have to jump out of bed and go to work.
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Venus in the 5 House
Being in nature or anywhere beautiful, and of course
wearing lipstick—something pink, red or maroon.
Venus in Taurus
What really gets me in a feminine mood is attention
from men… especially a few men I find attractive…
Oh, I guess it’s called flirting!
Venus in Gemini
As the ancient fertility goddess, Venus was both loved and feared. She
brought forth earth’s bounty, but could rain down chaos and destruction too. This is
her essential teaching on receptivity and happiness. All states are impermanent. Like
the goddess, the part of you capable of pleasure is also vulnerable to pain. The part
of you that can beautify and harmonize will also erupt and rage. Your openness can
attract others, but it can also push them away. If you want desire without jealousy, if
you want bliss without breaking your heart, if you want creativity without any
fallow periods—your experience of Venus will be diluted. You might even wonder if
she’s present at all. Reject or suppress her more difficult manifestations and the
joyful ones likewise dim. Profound happiness requires the willingness to accept all
her states—as when a woman wants a man to acknowledge her not just in the
bedroom, but when she’s screaming with rage. Venus is a force of nature, both
beautiful and terrible. The ones who understand this, who learn how to dance with
all of her moods, become the priests and priestesses of her temple.
Venus is more than sexuality. But sex remains her central metaphor. This is
significant. It suggests the surest way to bring Venus into any moment is to go
toward pleasure. Even in the worst sorrow, there is something that can awaken
pleasure… following the path of a teardrop falling down your cheek, noticing the
tenderness of your aching heart, enjoying the warm socks caressing your neglected
feet. There is no situation so awful that Venus can’t receive it as a worshipper or
lover, to use Einstein’s words. Going toward pleasure is a movement toward union
and wholeness, toward harmony and communion with reality. Its opposite is
resistance. There’s a story from long ago. After the male gods had already forgotten
the goddess and her talents, the world suffered a great calamity. A giant phallus
raged over the earth, destroying armies, crushing mountains, draining rivers.
Nothing the gods tried could subdue its destructive force. Remembering the fertility
goddess, they sheepishly returned to her temple, begging for her help. The angry
phallus followed them and the warrior gods ran away. The goddess remained. She
dropped her robes. She reached for the phallus. She drew it inside of her. “Ah!” Both
the phallus and the goddess enjoyed themselves, dissolving in ecstasy. The world
was once again a paradise. Such is the power of Her magnificent receptivity. Meet
everything in your life with pleasure—and Venus will always be your guiding angel.
your morning star
You were born when Venus was the Morning Star, rising
before the Sun, herald of a new day. In Earth’s sky, Venus
appears to move with the Sun, never more than 48 degrees
away. This makes her visible only before sunrise or after
sunset—hence her two identities—Morning Star and Evening
Star, illuminating what I call, “The Two Happy Hours” of any
day. The French-American culture critic Clotaire Rapaille has
speculated that a good way to understand any culture is to look
at what its people do at 5 o’clock (he asserts that the English
pour tea, Spaniards fight bulls, hard-working Americans get
drunk, and the French take a hotel room to pleasure someone
other than their spouse). Rapaille’s 5 o’clock observation is
intriguing, but I would revise it this way: “You can assess
people’s relationship to Venus by looking at what they do at
dawn and dusk.” Being a Morning Star person, the quality of
your mornings is particularly relevant.
How do I know you were born under the Morning Star?
This is easy to see in a birth chart. Whenever Venus is further
along in the zodiac than the Sun, she’s an Evening Star. Whenever the Sun is ahead of Venus (like your Sun, at 9 Cancer 40
being ahead of your 24 Taurus 24 Venus), it means that on the
day you were born, the planet Venus rose before dawn and
disappeared before sunset.
Astrologers sometimes call your morning Venus “Venus
Phosphorus” or “Venus Lucifer” (“light-bearer”). They believe
she adds an energetic, impetuous quality to your nature. She’s an
act-first-think-later sort of Venus who more quickly bounces
back from emotional upsets than the evening Venus (who’s more
thoughtful and tends to simmer in her feelings). I find these
generalizations rather broad, however, and I was unable to
verify any personality differences through my research. But I did
notice something else. Those with a Morning Star Venus seemed
to have a special relationship with this time of day. Perhaps they
had a favorite morning ritual, like savoring their first cup of
coffee. Or maybe they found sex sweetest at this hour. When I
asked them to describe their most pleasurable sensation in the
past 24 hours, many reported a morning experience, like the
taste of buttered toast or the feel of a hot shower massaging their
scalp. They enjoyed smoothing moisturizer on their skin or
dressing themselves in a way that made them feel beautiful or
powerful. For many this was high priestess time, when they
could most easily sense the sacredness of their world. For the
next six weeks, I encourage you to make conscious use of your
mornings to connect to Venus. Focusing on pleasure is the most
direct route. But you can also strengthen her two energy centers
in your body. See what a difference this can make.
Your Morning Venus Chakra
THE VENUS CYCLE
Venus spends nine months as the Morning Star and
nine months as the Evening Star, disappearing into
the arms of the Sun as she transitions from one to the
other. Going from Morning Star to Evening Star, we
can’t see her for about a month and a half (she’s on
the far side of the Sun from our perspective). Going
from Evening Star to Morning Star, Venus is retrograde and disappears for about ten days (she’s now
in front of the Sun). Ancient sky-watching cultures
eagerly awaited her pre-dawn rise on the Eastern
horizon—this marked the beginning of a new Venus
cycle. The regularity of Venus’ orbit gives her cycles
an exquisite mathematical precision. She rises as the
Morning Star five times in an eight year period—five
and eight being her sacred numbers. At any point in
her cycle, count eight years forward or back and she
will be at the same degree relative to the Sun. Before
rising, retrograde Venus conjuncts the Sun (called
the “Inferior Conjunction”)—in the same five signs
every hundred years. The inferior conjunction before
your birth sets the tone for your Venus cycle and
indicates another layer of your Venus assignment.
Your Prenatal Sun/Venus conjunction was in Aries.
You’re meant to honor, in your own way, the fierce,
independent and passionate qualities of the Divine
Feminine. Venus retrograde periods though this
sign may have brought or will bring important
Venusian decisions or experiences.
Before emerging from bed in the morning, tune into your second
chakra—located in the lower abdomen, below the navel and above the genitals.
Scan this area for a sensation of greater heat or aliveness. Visualize a flame, a
flower, or a colorful spinning wheel there, but be sure to send the energy in a
clockwise direction. All planets except Venus rotate counterclockwise. Notice
how the clockwise Venusian movement brings more expansiveness and peace.
When the second chakra is functioning well, life feels more relaxed,
abundant, rich with possibility. Colors, smells, and textures are more vivid and
intoxicating. With a healthy second chakra, you walk with greater confidence
and grace. You take joy in connecting to the earth. If this chakra is weak or out
of balance, you feel unsatisfied, overcome with a restless craving for what you
lack. There is an intelligence in this chakra, a kind of “desire intuition.” If you
listen and let it guide your activities, you may discover a new efficiency,
superior to mental (and often agitated) planning. It’s called “flow.” I first
experienced this through Tantric dance, a movement akin to meditation. The
dancer tunes into her second chakra pleasure space and lets her dance source
from there. The moves are slow and often subtle. Yet to watch someone deeply
listening to herself this way is so absorbing, I don’t exaggerate when I say it’s
riveting. Each morning listen to your second chakra. Notice where it wants to
take you. Allow yourself to dance more beautifully through your day.
Your Twilight Venus Chakra
Recall Venus at dusk as well. Raise the energy from your second chakra
to your fourth, the heart chakra, spinning it clockwise. See it as a golden, bright
white, or rosy pink light that you send in ever widening circles to the furthest
reaches of the universe. This chakra opens you to universal love, increasing
your kindness, compassion, and connectedness. It fuels your higher chakras
and draws in divine wisdom. It puts a sparkle in your eyes. Your voice becomes
melodious, strong, and clear. Others perceive you as generous and welcoming.
When the heart is weak, you may be depressed or disconnected. If the fourth
chakra is out of balance, you may feel helpless, stuck, or alone.
Your Taurus Mystery School
Your Venus is in the fixed earth sign of Taurus, increasing
your Venusian sensitivity to beauty, nature, stability and the
comforts of touch. Perhaps you’ve already read a few Venusin-Taurus descriptions and contemplated how they did or
didn’t fit you. But have you ever wondered why your Venus
was in Taurus? That’s where the real story begins.
If birth didn’t bring forgetting, you might remember… an
eternal perfumed temple… its cool stone floor… how you
dropped your garments and were bathed in soft rose-petal
water, surrendering to the Divine Feminine as a chorus of
honeyed voices filled the air. Intimate and vast, nurturing and
alluring, here was wisdom beyond words. Lifetimes of training
could not exhaust these mysteries. Twelve doors appeared. The
one marked “Taurus” opened as you approached. This was the
facet of the Divine Feminine you most wanted to explore.
Crossing the threshold overwhelmed your senses. There were
scents on the wind, colors arranged in harmonious patterns, a
symphony of pleasing sounds… the deep lullaby of a distant
ocean, the quiet melody of a mountain stream. A tree limb
gently bowed and touched your hand, offering the grapes
entwined on its limbs. You absorbed it all, the plenitude and
the mystery, your heart quickening for the teachings to come.
This wasn’t a past life, but a “before life” experience. Edgar
Cayce and Alice Bailey report that in the in-between spaces
before incarnation, everyone is schooled in certain planetary
mysteries. We choose our birth times accordingly. That’s why
you were born when Venus was in Taurus—to bring your
Venus learning into manifestation. This lies behind your
yearnings to love, receive pleasure, create beauty and weave
harmony in a distinctly Taurus way.
What does Venus in Taurus most desire? To explore and
embody the Feminine gift of Equanimity, the serene abiding
quality of Love. Not easy in a fragile world where matter
crumbles, forces rush, and everything is susceptible to change.
Your Venus seeks Contentment and Ease. This prosperity
won’t be found on some distant mountaintop. It’s as near as
your senses, requiring nothing less than mastery in the art of
savoring. Let your body fully receive life’s goodies. This is not
to be confused with clutching, piling things up or locking them
down, fearing what can disappear or run away. Equanimity is
a solid ease with earth’s changing round. It’s an unflappable
smile, full of desire, yet needing nothing more than the
moment offers. That way the bliss goes on forever.
Venus is not the Moon
In astrology, the Feminine principle is shared by two
bodies—the Moon and Venus. Moon is Mother, the
nurturing, empathetic, intuitive and sometimes irrational
face of the Feminine. Venus is the Lover, passionate,
seductive, and creative. The Moon forms relationships based
on need—the protectiveness of a parent, the dependencies of
a child. Venus creates relationships based on desire. She
connects with others because she wants to—socially,
sensually. Through Venus, your heart opens beyond the
family unit, loving not just other people, but whatever you
see and do. You might love ideas, how the pavement smells
after it rains, or digging your fingers into the earth.
Whenever you feel delight, Venus is there. She’s the joy
factor—the seat of happiness—in your chart.
Astrology considers the Moon one of the three pillars of
personality, representing your instinctive emotional nature
and primal security needs. Being so powerful, she can
frequently overwhelm your Venus, creeping into your
relationships with her demands, clouding your happiness
with her fears. The more spontaneous and fickle Venusian
desires may get lost—along with your happiness. If Venus
could speak to you now, what might she want you to know?
Venus in Taurus Speaks
I am your radiance. I am the rosy golden light within.
Even on a dense or dirty city street, I am wonderstruck by
the abundance of earth. I whirl on its surface, a delighted
dancer. I can feel its strength stretching for thousands of
miles beneath my feet. Let’s visit an arboretum bright with
flowers, buzzing with bees. Imagine a soft brook bubbling by,
as I feed you cherries, or you feed me. Next we’ll go shopping.
Or spend a whole day at the spa. Mud packs, salt rubs, a
lavender oil massage. We’ll wear plush chenille robes and
choose just the right color to paint our toes. Oooh—there’s a
cart full of pastries: chocolate, caramel, whipped cream. So
much to enjoy! Turtledoves serenade us from a nearby tree.
Puffy clouds float across a tender blue sky. Life can be so
peaceful, so delicious, so luxurious, with me at your side.
I am sensuous and slow. I live in the body. It’s a shame
most people live in their heads—when the body offers such a
wealth of sensations, seducing us into infinite pleasures. I love
being touched. But understand this: I’m no harem bimbo. I’m
grounded, strong, nurturing and creative—I’ve got a green
thumb for beauty. And I know life includes both the sour and
the sweet. Wars rage. Orphans hunger. Loneliness drowns
love. I can hold these truths too. Nature is my teacher. Midst
all the coming and going, there’s something in nature that
just… endures. A tree stands tall through a storm. In the
charred ruins of a forest fire, green growth appears. Serene
elegance—this is how Nature keeps at her dance.
My patience causes trouble sometimes. Passivity
trumps my need for pleasure and I get stuck—with difficult
people in unpleasant situations. I’m loyal. Even when the
thing I’ve been longing for lies just around the corner, I’ll stay
planted where I am. Secretly, deep down inside, I sometimes
feel terrified. Earth is strong, but it’s fragile too. I fear our
paradise may disappear. Or the bliss I long for will never come
again. Like a blind woman I send out my hands searching for
some happiness! That’s when I must remember—not hate,
but fear is the enemy of Love. And
holding Love is my true mission— being
passionate holy joyful open—a sensuous
partner with a dancing universe!
Venus Journal
What do the astrology books say?
Taurus is the luckiest sign for Venus,
since this is her natural home. Astrology
books love your Venus and say things
like: “Venus in Taurus has the beauty,
talent, charm and self worth to achieve
material prosperity and long-lasting
romantic happiness. She enjoys luxury
and comfort, is gifted in the arts, lusty in
bed, and is usually pursued, without
having to chase her lovers. Her partners
are generally quite wealthy.” If this has
been your experience, read no further.
Just keep enjoying your happy life!
But if you feel slightly cheated, you may
find some comfort in what others with
Venus in Taurus have shared:
I don’t feel like the ‘very sexual woman’
one of my astrologer friends once
informed me I was.
I haven’t had the long term relationships
that are supposed to come with this
placement.
How come my Venus hasn’t made me
rich?
Don’t take my word for it. No matter how insightful this report, you know
your Venus better than I do. She’s alive, changeable, and perfectly unique. One
way to grow closer to her is by keeping a journal and occasionally posing
provocative questions/assignments. Here are a few to get you started.
1. Collect images from favorite magazines—gathering various pictures of women,
objects and scenes that inspire or delight you. Can you see how these images
reflect your Venus nature? What fits with your Taurus needs and tendencies?
As you read further in this report, you’ll learn about your Venus house and
aspects. These may also be reflected in your collection of pleasing images.
2. Think of women you’ve known—in your family, among your friends, or even a
celebrity you’ve never met. Who stands out and inspires you with her feminine
expression? Keep adding to this list whenever you’re struck with a woman’s
radiance or power. Know that it says something about your Venus—the beauty
and power that’s within you too.
3. My friend Rebecca once asked me, “Have you ever seen a goddess?” Her eyes
sparkled. “I once did,” she said. “Twelve years ago in a dream—a dakini was
standing in front of the most plentiful garden I’d ever seen. She was so radiant,
my breath was taken away. All normal thoughts ceased.” Have you ever met
such a being—whose beauty was so remarkable your thoughts disappeared?
Even if you haven’t—imagine one now. She could be standing before you,
floating on a cloud, or sitting in your body… small as a thumb or fully sized.
Describe what you see when you imagine a goddess.
That’s what happens when astrology books get carried
away. Raising expectations so high, they disconnect you
from what is indeed a beautiful placement. Venus in Taurus
won’t guarantee wealth or everlasting love. But the capacity
to enjoy simple pleasures—hiking in the woods, eating good
foods, playing, singing, loving, creating, being a new mother
nursing her babies—this is how your Venus showers you
with blessings. When you slow down and listen, she brings
you into the most exquisite relationship with the physical
world, an abundance others would envy. Notice how generously she works her magic in small and infinite ways.
Last night I dozed on my front porch on a chaise lounge while
the nearly full moon rose over the barn. A couple of owls were
calling each other. A chorus of coyotes on one hill were
answered by an excited solo coyote on another hill. The air was
fresh and cool on my skin.
I could feel an approaching rain storm, as clouds gathered on
the horizon. I was standing in the yard barefoot, feeling the
grass, as the first few tiny drops begin to fall. Later I sat inside
eating a meal of pungent pasta, listening to the steady rain
through open windows, feeling the moist air on my back.
Once I was by a lake in Italy after a stressful time. It was April
and warm, no one else was there. I bought some salami and
cheese from a local shop, sat in an olive field on a terraced slope,
read a book and fell asleep! I was finally able to breathe… In
moments like that (and I’ve had many) I feel like the world is
speaking to me.
For me, celebrating the Sabbath is a very sensual experience. It’s
a holiday that is all about enjoying and being grateful, stopping
busyness and ambition. Every week I get to remember what’s
really important. I get to delight in the gifts of my life. I slow
down, open and receive.
Venus is happy in Taurus. Being this sign’s ruling planet, no
other planet modifies her expression. But that doesn’t mean
she’s all sweetness and light. Goddesses have their dark side
too. And Venus is no exception. If you remember the myth of
Psyche and Cupid, Venus (as Aphrodite) went wild with
jealousy when she learned some mortal girl rivaled her beauty.
Your inner goddess can also become emotionally unstrung.
I guess my dark side is possessiveness and jealousy. I can be totally
unforgiving, capable of a cold hatred once a line has been crossed.
My dark side is a tendency to become jealous when my husband
gives attention to someone else. I want him to be passionately
attracted to me and only me. I want him to see me as the most
beautiful, sexy, wonderful woman.
Jealousy is a clue that your Venus needs attention. Your
attention. You may need to step away from whatever situation
is causing you distress and reset your dial to Equanimity.
Return to the temple of your body. Loving it, adorning it,
pleasuring it, and nurturing it with proper rest, food, and
exercise are all acts of Feminine devotion. Your body is the
gateway to an ease as deep and refreshing as Earth herself.
Feeling impoverished or trapped, stuck in a bad relationship,
going nowhere in a rotten job—these are also clues that your
Venus needs renewal. You must start moving—toward those
sights, sounds, people and activities that bring her joy.
Imagine giving your Venus the perfect gift. Just the thought
will make her smile!
Mmm… The perfect gift would be a beautiful hand-painted silk
robe with deep pockets. In one pocket I find an airline ticket to Bali
and an all expense paid reservation at an exotic resort. The other
pocket holds a small chocolate truffle wrapped in handmade paper
with a beautiful love poem written on it.
VENUS IN TAURUS: GODDESS REFLECTIONS
“I’ve seen many goddesses awake and in dreams. Sometimes I’ve been the goddess.
They’ve come in all sizes, colors and ages. Sometimes she’s a bag lady and other times she
seems like royalty. But there’s a feeling I have when I see one and when I am one. It is inner
peace and fearless love for everything. Every person, animal, flower, tree and rock is alive
with love when a goddess is around. Water is safe and alive.” –BL
“My goddess has got both feet firmly planted on the ground, a big smile, warm and
friendly, makes you feel at home, a slightly wicked sense of humor, full of energy and is selfpossessed. She’s sexy and charming.” –DJ
“My goddess? Infinite beauty: the feminine aspect of God. Beyond sex, beyond body.
Infinite love, infinite mercy, compassion and forgiveness.” –FD
“When I imagine a goddess, I think of many unseen females with flowing hair and confident, radiant faces helping us to enjoy
satisfying, fulfilling lives. I also see all the females in my life right now. I see my daughter sitting at the table eating a snack and suddenly
giggling uncontrollably. I see my friend smiling radiantly even though she has been on strict bed rest in the hospital for seven weeks due to
preterm labor. I see myself relaxing in the filtered sunlight sipping a decaf iced Americano with cream, breathing in the fresh air and
connecting with nature. One woman who particularly inspires me moves and looks graceful even when she is sixty pounds heavier than
she’d like to be. She holds her head high with confidence even when things are not going her way. I can learn a lot from her! When things
aren’t going my way or I am feeling chubby, I beat myself up and hang my head low. She reminds me that it’s these times that I should
pamper myself and face the world with my best even when going through my worst.” –ME
“When I first saw her I told my friend I had to have her. My friend looked at me quizzically. Ironically, her attire prevented others
from seeing what I saw. Rainbow head band, glasses unsuited to her face, acne, baggy overalls, and work boots unlaced. However
camouflaged she may have been, she was the most sensual, sexy and beautiful woman I had ever seen. She was the full and complete
embodiment of the feminine. I knew it within minutes and would never change my mind.” –BO
“Sheena, Queen of the Jungle, a TV show from the 50’s comes to mind. As a 9-year-old girl, I used to watch reruns of the show in my
country with awe. I thought she was the most perfect being on earth: beautiful, sensual, womanly, sexy, luminous with her blonde hair (even
on black and white TV). She had a beautiful figure, was tall, strong, athletic, and savage. She was one with nature, able to communicate with
animals. A true virginal goddess, possessed by no one. I imagine her enjoying an active sex life with men and gods alike, but she would not
belong to any, being a goddess of nature, a goddess of the wild.” –AM
VENUS AND SEXUALITY
Venus loves sex. So you might think that understanding her Taurus
placement will identify once and for all what sexually pleases you. Yet
if you’ve ever read astrology books promising to predict sexual
preference (based on Venus or any other factor), you’ve likely been
disappointed. Sexuality, like a wild and beautiful animal, can’t be
captured so easily. At least not by simple astrology formulas. There’s
a sexual component to every planet in the chart. The Sun turns you on.
Mercury has sexual opinions. Your Mars lusts. Venus alone has many
moods, depending on her sign, house, ruling planet and aspects. The
erotic you is complex! With such vibrant energies at play, it’s no
wonder your sexuality is a rich mystery, inviting—no requiring—your
constant discovery.
So how does Venus in Taurus influence your sex life? Likely she’s the
girl at the ticket booth, representing your preferred entrance into
eroticism. She can either let you in or keep you out. She controls the
gateway. But understand that once you’ve entered the theater, your
Venus is naked. By that I mean she’s unlimited, no longer defined by a
particular preference or style. To surrender deeply into Venus means
to experience the unbounded range of the Divine Feminine. At her
deepest level, your Venus is indivisible from all expressions. There’s
nothing in the Feminine experience she can’t embrace or understand.
She is every flower in the garden.
Following are sexual confessions from women and men with Venus in
Taurus. Let their admissions inspire your own. Stating your truth
brings movement, leading you to even deeper truths. How does it feel
to for you to be naked? What would the perfect lover need to know
about your body?
I have always felt comfortable being naked. My parents never had any taboos
about this and I have always been happy being naked. In fact I remember how
surprised I was when I discovered growing up that most people don’t walk around
their house naked. –GW
I don’t like quickies. I’m slowly warmed up. Sex is an experience I want to have
with all five senses fully engaged. –MK
Venus in Taurus likes to be fed. Eating in a relaxed setting puts me in a lovemaking mood. I heard that Venus in Sagittarius women feel more in the mood if
you’ve made them laugh. Not me. I don’t laugh easily, but I smile a lot. Being in a
beautiful setting helps, being near water, the ocean or a mountain lake. I do love
freshly washed sheets. One of my greatest joys is having my bedding changed
by my housekeeper. To get into a bed that someone else has made up… divine!
And best of all, being held in a full body embrace, lips locked, while lying on a
wonderfully large-enough sofa with my boyfriend. –AT
In my sexual fantasies I alternate between being playful and deeply intimate. I
feel totally seen and cherished. I explore every inch of my lover and take delight
through all my senses. I invite the Goddess to inhabit my body and experience
her power and vision.–CR
I like sex to be the last thing I do before I drift off to sleep. It’s like taking my love
with me to the other plane. –RR
I adore making love, but have never enjoyed having just sex. I tried it for a couple
of times but it does not work for me. I guess I need to feel that I am special to the
other one. It is like sex is something so private, something where you are so
vulnerable, so open, that I cannot let a perfect stranger in. I have to know I am
safe. –DN
I’ve had ecstatic sexual experiences when, close to my lover’s neck with my
breath, I can feel a change in her perceptions, feeling every part of her body and
knowing what she is thinking and feeling. We are both so very ready, yet I wait, to
make us both long for it even more (as if that were even possible). My touch
changes from light touches to heighten her sensitivity to firm grabs to somehow
bring her closer to me or into me, whispering to her that she is too far away and I
want her closer. Her wetness engulfs her, my hardness is forceful. I know entry
will define the moment so I take my time letting her first know that I am at the
door and that I am ready to come in. Sometimes I enter with the force of a
locomotive and the rush of ecstasy and the bracing of delight. Other times I inch
my way in, letting her be filled more in this moment than in the last. She arches
her back to give more room to what is expanding inside her. It is pure bliss. We
are the divine. We are one. –VM
I felt shame about my body when I was a teenager, but learned to love it in my
twenties. I enjoy being naked now—even more when I’m happy with my weight.
What would the perfect lover need to know about my body? Nothing in particular.
It’s not rocket science. He just needs to enjoy and worship it. –KS
Her Garden of Earthly
Delights
You were born. And celestial suitcase in hand, Venus quickly made her way to
a favorite spot—her garden—located in the house of your horoscope where she
resides. There are 12 houses in an astrology chart, each representing a
particular area of life—like relationships, career, creativity or health. Your
Venus house suggests a realm where you’re instinctively drawn for pleasure
and fulfillment, where you have the fine tastes of a connoisseur. Venus in her
house reminds me of the heroine of Chocolat1,Vianne Rocher, an attractive
single mother who, blown by a changing wind, arrives in a drab town run by a
grim priest. There she opens a magical chocolate shop—during Lent!—forcing
the townspeople to choose sides in what is essentially a man-made dilemma:
Should one serve Pleasure or serve God? The priest tries to expel her. The
widows dressed in black are indignant. But one by one, the townspeople sneak
into her shop, to be transformed by her recipes. Venus can have a similarly
transformative effect on your life, by sweetening the house where she resides.
What you enjoy, you tend to excel in, so you can be most attractive—and quite
seductive—in matters of this house. How goes it in your chart? Is your
Venusian chocolate shop busy with visitors? Or does a grim priest keep trying
to shut it down?
If you aren’t familiar with the book (by Joanne Harris) or its film adaptation (with Juliette
Binoche and Johnny Depp), I recommend this treat!
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Venus is in the 5th house of creative expression;
romance, children, amusements.
Classical astrologers used a lot more rules
than contemporary astrologers do. But one
ancient rule I still very much like is that each
planet has one or two houses that it governs and
another house where it has a good time—or
“joys.” Roman poet and astrologer Manilius said
that a planet in its house of joy is in its temple.
And that’s what it means to have Venus in the 5th.
She’s in her temple. The house of romance,
fertility, creativity, and fun is where she joys. She
may, as some astrology books suggest count her
abundance in lovers and children. However, the
abundance most often celebrated by my 5th house
Venus research participants was unstructured
time—to do exactly what they wanted to do,
whether that meant gossiping with friends,
A Venus Lexicon
Venus is a planet, an archetype, and a multitude of energetic sensations. The following
are a few portals into her presence.
Love: An ocean of energy that pours
through the heart chakra whenever you
open to life (or another) without
judgment or resistance. Your essential
nature, it can be obscured by fear.
Joy: A tremoring vibration charging every
atom in the universe—it’s in the sun, the
moon, a blade of grass, a drop of dew.
You can tune into this excitement
anytime, without needing a reason.
Pleasure: The natural state when you
surrender to and savor present moment
sensations. Flows more abundantly if
your 2nd chakra (sexuality, creativity, and
self esteem) is healthy and balanced.
Happiness: A positive attitude about your
circumstances. Just as Abraham Lincoln
once said, “Most folks are about as happy
as they make up their minds to be.“
Desire: This longing to possess is more
accurately associated with Mars (and
testosterone levels in both women and
men). But Venus, by being receptive,
allows it to build.
Passion: Intense engagement with life. A
willingness to feel your highs and lows.
eating a sumptuous meal, decorating a room, roaming through nature, reading,
writing, drawing, or what some would call “doing nothing,” like relaxing in a
hammock on a lazy afternoon. When Venus is in the house of pleasure, she has a
gift for finding pleasure almost anywhere.
What puts me in a Venusian mood? Shopping for gorgeous clothes! Being
pampered! Dancing! Dressing up to go out to dinner! Preparing a meal at home!
Breastfeeding! To be honest, it is rare that I don’t feel feminine and I am innately
creatively inspired. I express it in a hundred ways every day.
Happiness for me is having an extremely flexible schedule so I can indulge my
moods by doing what I want when I want.
Many of my happiest times are quite ordinary—I just feel happy. I might be alone
or with others, doing some activity or doing nothing. The events that are
supposed to make you happy—like getting recognition for a good performance,
meeting someone interesting, or because it’s a beautiful day—these often
heighten my awareness of how transitory happiness is, so I like the ordinary
happy times the best.
Many astrology books claim that a 5th house Venus promises you plenty of
wonderful romances. One of your Venus sisters called this “A load of crap.” I
tend to agree. Reading the questionnaires of my research participants, I began to
think the 5th house romance diva was a mythical creature living only in astrology
books. Yet at least one woman volunteered that she’d been blessed with
hundreds of affairs. She wrote, “I’m currently single and loving it. I have a
different man for different occasions, one to go fine dining with, one to watch
dvds with, one to play sports with, another to have drinks with. There are always
lovely men floating around me.” Passion-increasing aspects to her Venus from
Mars and Jupiter are no doubt helpful, for house position alone rarely guarantees
a particular fate. Important too is acknowledging the difference between romance
and relationships. One summer a Vedic astrologer noted a 5th house transit and
predicted I would have an affair. “An affair?” I said glumly. I wanted a
relationship! But he was right. I had a four-month affair that was perfectly
delicious until the day it ended and then vanished, swift as a summer rain.
Romance is a state of intoxication that’s quite Venusian—but having a lover isn’t
the only way your Venus enjoys the thrill of falling in love. Reading my 5th house
Venus questionnaires, I noticed this is a Venus who uses the word “love” a lot.
I love fine jewelry. I love my free time and being creative. I love romance—
flowers, candles, incense. I love sex. I love helping others. I love to take baths
with salts and oils. I love my bed, especially with lots of pillows around me, and I
love to wrap myself in soft fluffy blankets. I love being massaged. I love to meet
friends for lunch and hang out. I love watching movies and going shopping.
Quite simply, yours is a Venus who loves life! Children are particularly special to
her because they’re such a beautiful expression of life force—and because they
offer Venus her greatest gift—an opportunity to be someone loving. It’s said that
the 11th house is where you receive love and the 5th is where you give it. Your
Venus can love so many things—children, creative projects (“children” of the
mind), or even, as in the third quote below, a delightful puppy.
When my daughter was born, I fell in love with her immediately and could
not take my eyes off her for 24 hours until I finally fell asleep.
During the past year my daughter and I have taken up an evening drive. She
makes different music CD’s for us to sing along to, introducing me to music
from around the world—Russian, Japanese, and Latin American. We always
stop to swing at this one playground where the swings face the water and she
usually talks to me about herself at this time. Then we go get a cup of cocoa
and chat up our friendly neighborhood organic grocer. No matter my mood
when we set out, I feel better by the time we get home.
One of the happiest times was when I brought home my Labrador retriever
puppy, Emma. I had just moved out of a live-in relationship, was house-sitting
without a home of my own, and studying for the bar exam. I was feeling
lonely and vulnerable, like the world was a big scary place and I wasn’t sure
where I fit into it. It was perfect to have my sweet little Emma to lavish with
uncomplicated affection and care, and to watch her being completely present
at every moment—splashing in her little pool, smelling the grass and chasing
grasshoppers. It reminded me that joy is everywhere, no matter what the
external circumstances.
Natural Aphrodisiacs
Eroticism is so much more than getting naked.
Sexuality is the charged state when energetic
opposites meet—active and receptive, yang and
yin, electric and magnetic—creating a third
state of union or divine bliss. Because these
polarities already exist within, you can bring
yourself into a delighted state with or without a
partner. Following are some natural ways to
bring a sparkle to your eyes and new bounce to
your step.
Curiosity: Nothing awakens Venus more
rapidly than wondering (“I wonder what
will happen next?”) Allows you to see things
afresh, as though for the very first time.
Contentment: Do you fully appreciate the
life you now have? Metaphysicians often
recommend gratitude lists as a quick way to
summon Venus.
Compassion: Judgment blocks connection.
Feeling empathy for another opens your
heart and lets you expand into a more
peaceful, unified state.
Community: Venus knows how electricity
builds with likeminded others. Joining and
sharing alters your energetic field.
If your libido is dead, try turning yourself on
first. Don’t wait for a lover to seduce you.
Stress, isolation, and self-pity can destroy
sexuality long before you reach the bedroom. Cleansing your thoughts can charge
your body with new vitality and desire.
Jealousy
When your Venus has someone or something to love, her radiance and
confidence increase. She is a bold, dynamic, self-expressive Venus. Perhaps this is
why, more than any other Venus position, 5th house Venuses seemed to have the
most fun playing with their appearance.
Growing up, I loved wearing makeup. I felt like an artist applying paint to a
canvas. … I mostly dress for comfort, but I do like to dress up occasionally. It
feels like putting on a costume, and that’s how I treat it, a bit “over the top.” …
My style is my own, especially when I designed and created my own
wardrobe. Everyday I choose what to wear according to what best suits my
mood. … I like to play with my looks by dressing as different characters each
day: a romantic girl, a mystic fairy, a rock singer and songwriter or a skateboarder boy (my masculine side)—in other words, a modern young woman
with her own style.
When I asked participants in my Venus survey
to tell me about their dark side, a majority
confessed to feelings of jealousy. No surprise
there. Jealousy is a natural Aphroditic trait, so if
consumed by it, take heart. You’re in touch
with the goddess. She’s so tuned into beauty,
sociability, harmony and discord, that measuring and comparing what others have is an
Whatever her style, a 5th house Venus likes to be appreciated for who she is—
inevitable liability.
which may mean entering a room and becoming the center of attention. Her gaze
Aphrodite was incensed to discover humans
is often direct. She usually knows what she wants and how to get it. But of course there
worshipped Psyche for her beauty. When the
is a learning curve. Until your Venus discovers how to express and hold her own
goddess’ own son lay with this mortal girl,
Aphrodite conspired to split them up. A jealous
queen threatened by a young girl’s beauty is a
common fairy tale motif. Jealousy moves the
plot along. It performs the same function in
your life too.
When jealousy flares, take notice. It’s a signal
that something in you has grown old and
stopped developing. Rather than actually
changing, it wants to defeat your regenerating
feminine self. Jealousy is like the witch
disguised as a hag, offering Beauty a poisoned
apple. If you bite, your Out-of-Balance Stuck
Self wins. But if you recognize jealousy as the
warning it is, you can use it to grow, renewing
power, she may be attracted to strong and confident partners—only to find later
they’re just domineering and stifling. And that never works out!
The Descent of the Goddess
Truth didn’t warn her. Love didn’t protect her. Beauty couldn’t save her.
You take the plunge. You leap. You soar. But sometimes you find yourself in a
basement heap. Where the goddess resides there are gifts and ecstasies. But as the
ancients learned from Inanna, there is also despair. Such is the cyclical nature of
the Feminine. Preceding every ascent, there is a descent, a sundering, a rendering,
a hollowing out. You are stripped naked, left hanging upside down in the
underworld. Always unexpected, it is also necessary. Descent is how the goddess
renews herself and her creativity. Going into the underworld is the way that any
Venus grows, but it’s a particularly important journey for a 5th house Venus. If
trouble strikes, or when love affairs end, your Venus falls hard. But in the face of
even minor irritations, your Venus can rage like a scary winter storm. The 5th
house Venuses in my study were often disturbed and embarrassed by their dark
sides. Many confessed to overwhelming emotions of hatred, anger, jealousy,
arrogance, or pride. These are Venusian too. I’ve said it before: If you desire to
truly know Venus, don’t expect just the joy and none of her tantrums.
I recall a waking dream/vision I once had. I remember it because it had such a high
emotional intensity for me. In it… I… or someone I identified with strongly… was
breaking into an inner altar of some temple. She was dark and powerful and
tremendously angry. She trashed the place entirely without any thought or care
about what retaliation might happen to her because of what she was doing.
Whatever was being worshipped there… she hated it … and she was venting.
One of your Venus sisters told a cringing story about how she once struck her
daughter at a spiritual retreat. She was trying to be the perfect devotee with the
perfect devotee child, but when her daughter wouldn’t sit quietly and obediently
like the other children, the mother couldn’t repress her own wild emotions. She
was mortified at what she’d done. Only later could she forgive herself, after
hearing stories of the guru Ammachi, who spent hours in mad blisses and
wandered the woods falling into stupors and ecstasies. With tears, the mother
realized she had a passionate divine madwoman inside her too. “Perhaps I can
now let her loose and not be so scared she’ll get me thrown in the loony bin or
ridden out of town on a rail.” Dealing with your wild side is part of the 5th house
Venus learning curve. May you find how to fully embrace your wild heart. May
you continue to love life, both the sour and sweet, the songs and the noise.
I was driving somewhere with the window open, feeling aggravated and generally
tired. The radio was blaring some stupid bad song. There was the noise of traffic
around me. And then I heard it—this very loud sweet song of a bird—beautifully
crystal clear and perfect over all the noise. I slowed down and turned into a
parking lot, craning my neck left and right to look for where it was coming from.
Way up on top of a light post was a little bird, so high up, it looked like a little
round ball of feathers. I saw its belly expand out and in and then it sang again with
its sweet voice. I shut off my radio and just enjoyed that pretty bird in that ugly
asphalt parking lot.
Jealousy…
your inner harmony and peace. When jealousy
flares, let it flourish, like a signal sounding
through your soul. You may even find its sharp
sting and tender wounding a pleasurably
intense sensation—if you let go of the “less
than” storyline your mind wants to attach to it.
Allow the feeling to move through your body
without repression or obsession. It’s like
sending the witch on her way without eating
the apple. See her instead as a wisdom being
who came to wake you up.
Now decode jealousy’s message. What needs to
change in you? Perhaps you’ve been ignoring
your desires for greater abundance, not
allowing yourself to dream big enough. Maybe
you’ve lost touch with your innate worth and
given your power away to someone less
deserving. Possibly you’ve gotten caught on the
nail of feeling special or better than others.
Even the wealthiest can make themselves
miserable if they think someone else has more.
Restore your radiance with the following
healthy remedies. Rejoice in the good fortune of
the one who made you jealous. Through the
law of attraction, this good feeling will do more
than envy to bring the same to you. Visualize
your own success and take steps in that
direction. Maybe you need to renew your
spiritual practice. Refocus your eyes and heart
on the equality of divinity. See how joy lives
everywhere, in everyone and everything.
People sometimes worry when they first see their astrology
chart and notice that certain houses are empty. Yet to
astrologers, no house is without a planetary influence. That’s
because each has a ruler who is active in affairs of that house.
Venus Journal
Following are more questions from my original Venus
survey. Responses from my research participant taught me a
lot about the various Venus placements. Your answers will
teach you more about your Venus too.
WHERE VENUS RULES
Venus has authority over houses with Taurus or Libra on their
cusp, also any planets in these signs. She’s the Queen or Lord of
these placements, which means they must serve her desires for
beauty, creativity, and pleasure. Planets in or transiting a
Venus-ruled area are guests in her house; its territory will in
some way reflect her values and tastes. Taurus emphasizes her
sensuous earthiness. Are you productive or lazy in this area of
life? Honoring Venus may be the key to greater success. Libra
emphasizes grace and balance. Is this area harmonious? Is it
beautiful? Although it’s beyond the scope of this report to give a
more detailed analysis of these other placements, especially if
you know some astrology, you may enjoy meditating on her
influence. Any significant transits to your Venus may affect
these other placements as well.
TAURUS
th
5 house of creative expression; romance, children, amusements;
th
6 house of health and employment; also daily routines, co-workers,
pets
LIBRA
th
10 house of career and public reputation; social status, parents, and
authority figures
4. You live in a pleasure kingdom where everyone receives more
than enough money to work at something they truly love. To
find your calling, you must prepare a special resume that lists
the five to six activities you most enjoy doing and/or think you
do well. Appropriate pleasures can come from any realm of
experience, sexual, intellectual, emotional, physical, or spiritual.
If you love walking on the beach or organizing spice jars—if
you love waking up late or telling people what to do—these
would go on your list. What belongs on your pleasure resume?
5. Remember two or three times in your life when you were really
happy. What was going on? What most brought you joy?
6. Now recall two or three miserable times in your life. What made
these periods so unhappy?
7. Is there somewhere you experience abundance in your life right
now?
8. Is there anywhere you experience poverty or scarcity?
Wait a few days then return to your Venus Journal and
review what you’ve written. Can you identify which Venus
needs—her sign or house—are most involved?
VENUS AND MONEY: HER TRUE FORTUNE
“I supposedly have a great Venus, but so far the money
hasn’t materialized.”
I heard this complaint many times from my research
participants. Who can blame them? Plenty of astrology books
promise wealth as one of the goodies Venus brings. When Venus
appears in or rules the 2nd or 8th houses (the two money houses),
financial blessings may appear. But beyond that, I’m skeptical.
Venus is associated with fertility, creativity, and luxurious
pleasures, but I haven’t read any mythological texts that show
the goddess running her hands through piles of money. I asked
my respondents about their family financial histories and for any
dates they received large sums of money. No consistent Venus
patterns emerged.
It is perhaps the culture’s confusion between money and
happiness that inspires us to keep hoping for Venus dollars.
Venus does rule happiness. But as many have noted, having
money is no guarantee of bliss. If we want abundance from
Venus, we must first ask “What are her values?” instead of
expecting her to dutifully fund ours. What does Venus want
from us? An excellent answer appears in the following tale,
which occurred so long ago, I can hardly remember when I
made it up!
In the Heart of the Forest
Most witches prefer to live secret lives deep in the forest.
Yet in a world that craves magic, rumors of a powerful witch still
travel far. And so it was with Baba Yaga, a wart-riddled crone of
whom it was suddenly rumored, she could grant abundance and
happiness to anyone who asked her. But she was cranky. And
unpredictable as fate. If for any reason she did not like the
petitioner, she would toss them into her soup pot. That meant only the
brave would seek her out. Or the foolish. Or the desperate. Or those
with pushy noble parents who insisted on having nothing but the best.
It seemed the world was teeming with desires.
Soon there was a knock at Baba Yaga’s door. “What do you
want?” she barked from inside her hut. Outside stood a young man
with a fine coat, manicured hands, and a well-tooled leather purse. “I
want wealth—all the gold in the world,” he said. She opened her door
and the youth, along with his coat, purse, and manicured hands, flew
into her boiling pot.
Some days later came another knock. “What do you want?” she
barked. “I want power over women and men.” She opened the door.
The town’s mayor bounced into her pot. Another knock. “What do you
want?” the witch barked. A student replied, “I want to know all there is
to know in the world.” Soon the soup was sizzling with his learned
bones. Another knock. “What do you want?” A monk in plain robes
answered, “I want to know god.” The door opened and along with his
begging bowl, the monk flew into her pot. One fine morning when the
bird songs were especially sweet, another knock came at Baba Yaga’s
door. “What do you want?” she barked. A sad-eyed maiden whispered,
“I want my true love to make me happy.” Baba Yaga sighed as she
added the girl to her pot.
It was a long time before anyone came again. Baba Yaga grew
used to the silence. One morning she walked out into her garden to
gather herbs. There she found a young maiden walking down the path.
“What do you want?” she barked. “I don’t know that I want anything
at all,” the maiden replied. “Surely you’d like more abundance,” the
witch hissed. The girl thought for a moment, then shook her head. “No,
I don’t think I have any desires. Everything just as it is brings me such
pleasure. I love whatever I see or touch, or taste, hear or smell.”
On hearing this, Baba Yaga’s wart-filled face broke into a rare
smile. “Ah, you I can work with!” She knew the maiden was
already abundant with the greatest fortune of all: a heart filled
with love. Only that has the power to turn everything into
treasure.
Abundance Defined
Venus values love over dollars. Whenever we love what
we’re doing, we do it well. Whenever we love what we already
have, we feel abundant. A Tibetan master once identified two
types of good karma: the karma to attract wealth and the karma
to enjoy it. This ability to enjoy our lives comes from Venus.
Astrologers have called this the “lesser fortune,” though it is
easy to agree with the King that this may be the greatest
treasure of all. I’ll never forget the woman in my study who
lived below the poverty line in a modest apartment with a door
that opened onto a forest. This made her feel like one of the
wealthiest women in the world. Of course there were many in
my study who owned homes, traveled, and indulged themselves with luxuries, but felt there just wasn’t enough.
No one planet rules money; many play their part. Pluto and
Mars may increase our drive to acquire it. Saturn helps us work
hard for it. Neptune draws it to us through magical laws of
attraction. Jupiter opens us to new opportunities and lucky
breaks. Venus too plays her part. The day Venus transited over
my Ascendant I received a surprise in the mail. A reader had
sent me a crisp $100 bill as a gesture of gratitude for my articles.
So yes—Venus had brought me money. But her true currency
was the gift of appreciation. That’s a Venusian dollar. Giving
and receiving appreciation will make you rich. Want to feel like
a millionaire? Become a lover of the people in your life right
now. Love your talents and possessions. Understand that what
you don’t have today, you don’t need today. Become a lover
this minute. Open your heart to whatever you’re sensing now!
enjoying venusian abundance…
I’m running hard across the playground to get to the dorm before
the rain reaches me. I’m running ahead of the rain. I can hear it
sweep, clattering over the tin roofs of the Big School, smack onto
the paved quadrangle, spatter into the dry dust of the playground,
and I run as fast as my legs will carry me, excitement and
exhilaration bursting as I’m being chased by the storm. I don’t
make it to the shelter. I turn as I hear the rain almost upon me
and I see it approach in a thick sheet of fat rain drops. The rain
hits me and within seconds I’m soaked through. I feel clean. I
dance and shout and laugh and spin about with my arms out. It is
pure pleasure.
Venus conjunct Sun in Scorpio
I just had a lovely experience with a very ripe peach. As I was
passing the fruit bowl, its fragrance captured me and I had to
have it. I washed it. It was so heavy, ripe, and rosy. I actually
talked to it, told it how beautiful it was, how I was so honored to
be taking it into myself and making it part of me. I told it we would
do wonderful things together, and I felt that its beauty would now
become part of mine. I sat on my screen porch and ate it piece by
piece, enjoying its lushness and intensity. My fingers still smell of
st
it. Now it’s in me and I am more beautiful.
1 house Venus
Yesterday I was on the back of an ATV. My sister was driving,
fast. I glanced over and saw our silhouette in the afternoon sun
racing alongside us in the field and thought to myself, “Isn’t life
grand!!” I leaned back, looked at the sky and laughed. My sister
yelled back at me, “What’s funny?” “I said, “Just thinking about
how much I love you!” She laughed too, understanding exactly
what I meant. Venus conjunct Saturn/Neptune square Uranus
My favorite daily ritual is getting into a heated bed at night, lying
there, luxuriating, relishing the warmth and the sheer pleasure of
lying down. I LOVE my bed. My next favorite thing is to open a
book and begin the night’s journey of reading. Venus conjunct
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Jupiter in the 12 house
I was cutting dead blooms in my flower garden yesterday when I
noticed a bumblebee buried in a large bright yellow marigold. He
wasn’t moving. Was he dead? I tickled his fuzzy back and he
buzzed. Happily I realized he was in bee paradise, overcome with
the offerings of the marigold. In other words, he was in his Venus
th
place---delighted!!
12 house Venus conjunct Ascendant
December, 1965: Venus enters your 6th house of work and health,
bringing greater compassion and kindness to your days. Choose foods and
exercise that increase your beauty.
YOUR PROGRESSED VENUS
Your birth chart is a snapshot of the sky as you took
your first breath. But the planets kept moving. Astrologers
take particular note of the planetary movements in the first
three months of your life. They call these “progressions”—
and believe that each day after your birth was predictive,
showing how you’d evolve every year of your life. In other
words, the celestial alignments thirty days after your birth
would describe how you’d be at thirty years old.
As Venus progresses, she aspects other planets. She
may station direct or retrograde. Typically, she’ll change
signs, usually more than once. Think of this as her
continuing education courses. She’s studying new facets of
the Feminine experience. As your progressed Venus crosses
into new houses, you may find new and enduring interests.
The year of a sign change may bring a landmark event that
opens up a whole new direction. Or the shift may be subtle,
bringing a change in your tastes. You could adopt a new
approach to socializing, discover a passion for new colors,
alter your personal style, or become attracted to a different
type of partner.
If and when your Venus progresses into a new sign,
the year before she makes this change (when she is at 29
degrees of the previous sign), you may feel particularly
urgent about one or more Venus-related themes—restless
and impatient to make changes that seem slow to
materialize. It can feel like depressing the accelerator of a car
stuck in mud; the engine roars, the wheels whir, but you
don’t move. It can be a relief when the sign change occurs.
Life is new. You feel excited, more exploratory, and relaxed.
November, 1966: Venus enters quick-witted Gemini. Her curiosity and
communication skills increase.
December, 1983: Venus enters your 7th house of partnership, learning
greater balance. Without losing herself, she becomes more attuned to
others.
August, 1986: Solar Arc Venus crosses your natal Descendent or 7th house
cusp. The year a solar arc planet crosses an angle is significant. It’s like a
new birth in that area of life. An important relationship may enter your life
this year. Your experience and ideas about relationship may change.
May, 1994: Venus enters nurturing and protective Cancer. Feeling secure
becomes more important.
April, 2005: Venus enters your 8th house of sex, transformation, others’
resources. More aware of subtle energy exchanges, her power and
perception grow.
April, 2020: Venus enters creative, fun-loving Leo, bringing greater
warmth and dramatic flair.
November, 2037: Venus enters your 9th house of travel and higher
education. Her horizons widen. She’s ready for a bigger adventure.
May, 2045: Venus enters nature-loving Virgo. Sensuous and
discriminating, she’s attuned to high quality.
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PLANETARY ASPECTS
Imagine Venus on Mt. Olympus, preparing to incarnate in your form.
Scanning the sky maps, she chose that moment when the planets were
arrayed just so… depicting her connections to the other gods. Perhaps
Mercury had pressed his number in her hand, “Call me,” or Saturn
issued a warning, “I’ll be watching.” Aspects to Venus indicate both
benefactors and tricksters. Flowing relationships are described as
conjunctions, sextiles, and trines; prickly ones as squares and oppositions.
Yet in real-life experience, I’ve found these distinctions often break
down. What matters most is that the planets are connected. Whether
that’s favorable or challenging depends on how you choose to work
with the energies. If you’re conscious of Pluto’s benefits, for example,
you can turn your Venus/Pluto square into a trine. If you’re
unconscious of Pluto’s liabilities, your trine may act like a square. That’s
why in discussing planet connections, I downplay the specific aspect
and prefer to explore the full range of archetypal possibilities.
A note about orbs: “Orbs” signify how tight or loose the
planetary relationships are. “Separating” aspects were
exact before your birth. Some believe they indicate gifts or
liabilities brought in from a previous life. “Applying”
aspects became exact after you were born. Integrating
these energies may feel more urgent or important (you
may also have experienced their grace or friction as an
early life event by transit or progression). The tightest
aspect in your chart is usually considered most influential.
But often I’ve seen wider aspects exert greater pressure on
a life, especially when other placements reinforce the same
theme. One surprise in my Venus research came from the
planets sharing the same sign as Venus. No matter how
far apart their degrees, their influence was often like a
conjunction. I use wide orbs (up to ten degrees for
conjunctions, squares and oppositions) because they work.
Even wider orbs will work for some, but I’ve had to set
limits which are hopefully accurate for the majority.
Ultimately only you can decide whether a planet’s
influence has been strong or weak. Acknowledging how
each Venus aspect manifests in your life can be a
wonderful eye-opening exercise. Do pay special attention
to the tightest Venus connection. Sometimes this close
aspect gets lost in your blind spot. You may take its gifts
for granted or neglect to notice its liabilities. Bring this
aspected planet more fully into consciousness. Then more
of your Venus will shine.
Moon Square Venus (Orb: 0 degrees 38 minutes separating)
Squares are wild and wonderful—but difficult too. The power struggle between these planets was likely defined and
hardest to cope with in your youth. People are usually aware of their squares. They bring the issues that force you to
grow. They make sure you learn your lessons. And when you rise to the occasion, they bless you with energy, action,
and success. Venus is the focal planet of a difficult planetary configuration known as a “T-Square.” Developing her
capacity to love and harmonize the various parts of your nature is key.
The Goddesses: Moon and Love
Go back far enough in archetypal history, and there was no
difference between Goddess Moon and Goddess Love. Sensuality,
fertility, nurture and protectiveness were embodied in a single form.
That’s the bright promise of a Moon/Venus aspect—to reclaim this
ancient fullness. Both Venus and Moon are symbols of the receptive
feminine. With this aspect, you may have been raised to strongly
value women. You may feel passionately about women’s issues. Yet
this pairing isn’t always smooth. When patriarchal gods marched
into the archetypal mind, the once all-powerful Goddess was
splintered into lesser deities. The divided Feminine began
quarreling with itself, reflecting a new friction between mothering,
marriage and sex. Competition between jealous Hera, Goddess of
Marriage, and sensuous Aphrodite, Goddess of Pleasure, ignited the
Trojan War. But why should they oppose each other? Hera had no
reason to be jealous. She was the most beautiful goddess on Mt.
Olympus, so much so, that Zeus tried desperately to seduce her.
Failing at that, he turned himself into a pathetic cuckoo, frozen in
the winter cold, awakening Hera’s motherly instincts. To warm the
bird she held it to her breast. Zeus seized the opportunity to rape
her. Shame made Hera marry him. She was faithful to the bitter end,
but vowed never again to lose her body’s sovereignty. In contrast to
lusty Aphrodite, she discovered how to conceive her children
without sex, growing Hebe from a head of lettuce and Ares from an
Olen flower. With a Moon/Venus aspect, you may unconsciously reenact this conflict between security and pleasure—so it may be
brought to consciousness and healed. You are on the front lines of
what is a larger cultural dilemma, where the divided feminine flares
as eating disorders, poor body image, the inability of women to
share power with other women, the criminalization of prostitutes, or
men confusing wives with mothers and sneaking out on “mom”
with their mistresses.
The Gift: You’ve seen that beautiful rosy belt glowing on the
horizon at dawn and dusk? That’s Aphrodite’s magic girdle—which
even at the height of the Trojan War she loaned to rival sister Hera.
Its magical powers could make whoever donned it irresistible.
Beauty matters! You likewise have a gift for making things
beautiful—most of all, beautiful spaces that feel loving and serene.
You may create gardens and rooms that feel peaceful and divine.
You value nature and may have a passion for protecting the
environment, knowing deeply the importance of home.
The Lesson: Perhaps like me (I have a Moon/Venus square), you’ve
heard this line a few times: “You’re way too sensitive!” Maybe like
me, it was your mother who said it most often. It’s hard to tell
whether mom was indeed hurtful or your ears were fitted with a
special device that increased the volume of her criticism. Either
way, it’s true this aspect magnifies your vulnerability—to your
mother in particular, but not exclusively. Both receptive Moon and
Venus are porous placements, tripling your sensitivity, especially to
criticism. Even praise might sound like an attack to your ears. You
may also be more vulnerable to stress, which could be why you
have that knack for creating beautiful and peaceful environments.
Truth is, you have a knack for taking care of many things, Stand tall
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like the goddess you are and create your protective magic raincoat. Remember that the joyful union of pleasure, sexuality and nurture is the
goal of this aspect. For some it comes easily, for others, it’s a longer journey.
“When my Venus energy is flowing and I’m with my kids, I see the effect on them—seeing their mom so alive, they thrive too. They
sense the truth of it and are not afraid. I feel it nourishes them in a different way. I feel it heals the old virgin/whore thing. I hope it
inspires them to their greatness.” (Venus conjunct Moon)
“Growing up in a Catholic household, I remember as a preteen boy putting pin-up pictures of beautiful women on the walls of my
bedroom. Nothing prurient, but some sexy pictures of the Life magazine variety. My mother expressed discomfort with these, and I
soon took them down. I learned that it was not safe or comfortable to express myself in this way in my house.”
(Venus opposite Moon)
“I’ve had sensual desires even before knowing what sex was. When I was only four, my mother took me to the beach. Once she was
settled she noticed that my attention had gone to an incredibly handsome man who was sunbathing close to us. I suddenly got up
and walked straight to this man, kneeled beside him, stroked him gently from his upper thigh to his knee and said, “Hmmm, you
smell kike a man.” My mother was horrified. I’ve always had boys on my mind, but funnily enough “sex” scared me. I was a virgin
until the age of 19. … My relationships have been a disaster. As I have been on my own since the age of 16, I think I have confused
love and security… settled for second best because I did not feel I could do better. … I feel very self-conscious about my body, not
keen on being naked. I don’t want to feel shame, but I do; however, when aroused and during sex, this disappears. I no longer fear
not being perfect. My inner goddess takes over and it feels wonderful to be unclothed.” (Moon square Venus)
We can understand mother’s horror at her daughter’s early sexual awakening, but the child has no idea what it means, taking mom’s reaction
as a reason to turn against herself, feeling guilty for sexual feelings, or learning to compromise desire for safe commitments. Many with this
aspect battle against their bodies. “It’s not perfect,” “It’s disgusting,” or “It reminds me of my mother’s.” They tell stories of feeling criticized
by their mother or embarrassed by their mother’s flirtatiousness. Loving the body and reclaiming its sacredness can be a significant step
toward integrating these two feminine potencies. This was an important discovery for the following Moon/Venus square.
“I learned a valuable lesson while in a summer vacation in Brazil when I was 17. In Rio, they walk practically naked on the streets.
Men were those tiny Speedo bathing suits and women of all ages, shapes, ages, and sizes were bikinis or t-piece tangas, and no one
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takes a second look at them. They feel so free with their bodies. After the initial shock, something clicked inside about the beauty of
the human body and the different shapes it takes. If someone else doesn’t like it, he or she can just look the other way. “
Many with a Moon/Venus aspect feel a sweet connection to their mothers, even if the relationship is sometimes fractious. A positive feminine
influence—a mother, aunt, or grandmother who’s able to contain both Hera and Aphrodite with ease—can help to give this aspect a beautiful
expression: confident, creative, sensitive, sensuous, and nurturing. It is of course a greater challenge to integrate these qualities if one’s female
role model was more often moody, domineering, or neurotic.
“My grandmother was a wonderful communicator. She was warm, rich, quirky, passionate, vibrant, intelligent, curious about life,
immediate, colorful, had flair, was temperamental, musical, creative, flirtatious, exotic and beautiful (even when old). She had a
wonderful irreverent sense of humor. She was interested in astrology, alchemy and the occult and I now have her books as the rest of
the family scoff at this and describe her as mad. We had a very close bond—she became my “mother” and my confidante,
understanding my personal struggles without judgment. “(Venus conjunct Moon)
“As a child I learned not to trust everyone who claims to love you. When I was 14 I became deeply depressed and developed a
serious illness. Entering high school, my deepest concern had been what I was going to do with my life. Because of an unsupportive
and competitive relationship with my Mother (and sister), I felt I had no legs to stand on. The illness was an unconscious attempt at
suicide. But even then, I knew in my heart that if I checked out, I would still have to come back and face this karma. Betrayals by the
women in my life were frequent and to be guarded against.” (Venus square Moon)
“My appearance is very important to me… in a sense that I never stop finding faults about the way I look. My mother used to
criticize the way I dress, smile, etc. and still does. I don’t like to be criticized by her, but I’m the biggest critic of myself after all.“
(Venus conjunct Moon and Saturn)
Uranus Square Venus (Orb: 1 degrees 4 minutes separating)
Squares are wild and wonderful—but difficult too. The power struggle between these planets was likely defined and
hardest to cope with in your youth. People are usually aware of their squares. They bring the issues that force you to
grow. They make sure you learn your lessons. And when you rise to the occasion, they bless you with energy, action,
and success. Venus is the focal planet of a difficult planetary configuration known as a “T-Square.” Developing her
capacity to love and harmonize the various parts of your nature is key.
The Gods: You Don’t Own Me
As sky god Ouranos stretched himself over earth goddess Gaia,
ready to take her again in pleasure, Kronos swiftly drew his scythe
and severed his father’s genitals. The sky god tumbled into the sea.
The heavens were liberated. And from the foam surrounding his
severed genitals, something beautiful arose: Aphrodite. Given the
biologically intimate relationship between these two archetypes—
the goddess sprang from his sea-foamed semen, after all--we might
expect Uranus to be a comfortable connection for Venus. But
consider the particulars. She was born from an act of violence, not
love. Hers was an unusual, motherless birth. And Ouranos was a
tyrant who swallowed his own children to forestall change.
Strangely, astrologers now consider this despot a poster child for
freedom and unorthodoxy. He’s become a symbol for what took
him down—an act of rebellion. And that’s the urge that defines
this aspect. With Uranus, Venus often rebels against her own
nature, valuing independence over intimacy, insistent on her
personal space and freedom. She defies social norms, excites rather
than soothes, resists more than accommodates. To her what’s
unusual is beautiful. She’s provocative and abhors the predictable.
She can run hot or cold. She can party hard and take many lovers.
Or she can be distant, indifferent, aloof. Tolerant of all types, she is
a fierce advocate for universal love. She can, however, channel a
bit of Ouranos arrogance in declaring that whatever she believes is
best, new, or right. Her partners sometimes complain she’s
stubborn and willful.
The Gift: Dazzle. Electricity. Brilliance. The sky god had
magnetism and so does your Venus. When these planets are
paired, you radiate intensity and presence. Maybe at times
you’ve felt like an outcast or alien, but face it—you bring a
certain excitement to the room. Likely you prefer an unorthodox
style and a distinctive look. And you’ve got the sky-god-given
chutzpah to carry it off. The original lord of all things, Ouranos
had plenty of creative juice. Your Venus does too. Many artists,
performers, and innovators have this aspect in their chart.
Whenever you dare to be experimental and different, you can tap
into a heavenly genius.
The Lesson: Aphrodite’s birth was magnificent. But its violent
circumstance was traumatic. This is a telling legacy, for those
born with this aspect often suffer a traumatic introduction to
love. Maybe it was an accident. Or a sudden shocking view of
something a child shouldn’t see. Perhaps there was a pattern of
family conflict. Or a single but devastating abandonment. As
protection, you may have adopted a cynical attitude toward
romance, holding yourself back from love’s surrender. You may
subconsciously expect rejection and keep choosing partners to
prove you right. Sometimes with this aspect, there’s an addiction
to excitement, masking a deeper anxiety. All of these are
symptoms of post-traumatic love disorder. Go towards your fear
and soothe the incredibly sensitive still-wounded heart within.
Remember: it wasn’t your fault. (For clues toward healing, watch
or read the “Horse Whisperer.”)
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Fireworks and lightening may characterize your relationships. This can be exciting—also inconsistent and unstable. Sparks can fly with
instant attractions and disappear when it’s time for a deeper commitment. Long term relationships may follow an on-again/off-again
pattern—or like Goldilocks eating Mom and Papa Bear’s porridge, never taste exactly right.. Your liaisons may be wild or simply odd. At
the least, they’re probably unconventional, negotiated to give you and your partner the maximum freedom. You’ll do best with a partner
who craves as much personal space as you do. You may be ambivalent about a marriage certificate. Or fall for unavailable people. But
likely your life isn’t boring. Some of the most interesting love stories came from people with this aspect.
“I totally feel the conjunction of Venus and Uranus, even though they are 7 degrees apart. I value friendships but there is a
point where I can’t really go any further in my involvements with people. Too many expectations and responsibilities make me
feel somewhat uncomfortable. I sometimes feel trapped. My first love drew me to him like a moth to a flame. He was three
years older than me and had blonde hair and blue eyes and was a musician. He had been adopted, which really attracted me,
because even though I was not adopted, I never felt like I fit in to my own family. I broke up with him for no reason at all. Of
course I wanted him back almost instantly, but he wasn’t interested. I used to write to him everyday in a journal. Looking back,
the writing helped me to heal. I was really devastated. The one thing I took away from that experience was to never do
anything in a relationship that you are not totally sure of, including breaking up with someone for no good reason.”
(Venus conjunct Uranus)
“My partners… one was gifted spiritually but not connected emotionally or physically and the other was very available
physically but not emotionally or spiritually. I always get in too fast—instead of waiting and seeing if it’s right for me.”
(Venus conjunct Uranus)
“James made the waters stand still or me. But our relationship was not in the world—he didn’t tell people about me and I
didn’t tell others about him. He wasn’t interested in building a life with me. Rather he put me on a pedestal, keeping me far
enough away to admire. He loves me more than I thought a person could. He idealized me, which was intoxicating and
dangerous because it’s not living in reality. He was patient and accepting and would do anything for me—except commit to
me in a real-world way. I miss him. Lately I’ve been dating like a mad-lady. Some of it has been fun, some exhausting, some
frustrating, and some incredibly disappointing and sad. After joining the online dating thing, the drama pitched up to a new
wavelength—including one uncharacteristic-for-me fling. We met on a Wednesday, had a 12-hour lovefest, met up again
Saturday night, and said goodbye Sunday morning. No word from him since and it was amazing. Felt like a defibrillator. He
fell in love with me-as-Goddess and I fell in love with him-as-worshipper. Then he left. I felt everything I could feel in the
space of those few days. Goddess, hold him forever. “ (Venus sextile Uranus)
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“My parents fought a lot when I was a child and my father had many infidelities, so I struggled a lot with the concept of love
as a child. I learned that love wasn’t always faithful and that love involved fighting. Love wasn’t peaceful or calm, but a stormy
sea with lots of jealousy, anger and pain. Yet my parents stayed together despite the fighting, so I also learned that love is
commitment and unconditional.” (Venus sextile Uranus)
“I’ve chased men who didn’t like me; the men who liked me I wasn’t attracted to. The man I married is mentally unstable,
though I didn’t understand that for a long time. What I’ve learned about love is that you can end up hating people you used to
love, and come to realize that the people you have hated caused you to develop a better life.” ((Venus opposite Uranus)
“The thought of a commitment to live out my life with one person scares the hell out of me, though less so now than when I
was younger.”
“Love breaks your heart open to the discovery that love is the consciousness of the universe. What is not love is a cry for love.”
(Venus square Uranus)
Saturn Trine Venus (Orb: 3 degrees 25 minutes applying)
Michael Munkasey has dubbed this the “goddess aspect.” Identifying talents you perhaps perfected in a previous life,
a trine can bring you joy. There’s a nice flow of energy between planets in trine. They support and reinforce each
another, but without any struggle, you might take them for granted—neither using nor developing their gifts. An
unattended trine can sometimes trick you into negative behaviors.
The Gods: Beauty and the Blacksmith
The Gift
Promiscuous Venus. Hard-working Saturn. The original odd
couple. Astrologers usually underestimate the chemistry between
these two, convinced that dull Saturn can only limit the goddess’
pleasure and playfulness, bringing loneliness, inhibition, and low
self esteem. But there’s a deeper mystery behind their pairing,
suggested by the story of Venus and Vulcan, or as the Greeks
called them, Aphrodite and Hephaestus. Hephaestus was the lame
smith god who labored at a hot forge deep in the earth. The son of
Zeus and Hera, he was born with a deformity so disgusting, his
mother hurled him into the sea. Aphrodite‘s birth took her in the
opposite direction—from the sea she ascended to Mt. Olympus,
draped in kelp and provocatively cascading hair. The gods gasped
at her beauty. Jealous Hera demanded that Zeus marry her off
immediately. Many suitors stepped forward with eloquent
speeches and remarkable gifts. Poseidon offered pearls and hidden
grottos, fine horses and sailors, the devotion of the tides. Apollo
offered the love of poets and musicians, a fine gold chariot, a
crown made of sun rays. Hermes promised riddles and laughter,
the adoration of travelers, an endless stream of gossip and tales. To
each petition the goddess smiled, but said nothing. Hera kicked
Hephaestus from his hiding place. “Go ahead, idiot!” He
stammered, “Uh, I think I’d make a good husband. I’m faithful.
And I work hard.” Aphrodite walked up and down the line of
suitors, tapping her finger on her chin, deep in thought. Then she
wheeled around and pointed, “I’ll marry the blacksmith. There’s
something endearingly real about him.” She kissed the lame god
and he swooned.
This aspect fits you with pair of glasses opposite to rose-colored
ones. It brings a responsible “adult” attitude toward love, money,
and pleasure. You’ve got loyalty, stability and focus, which can
help manifest an enduring love. plus many of life’s finer things.
Aphrodite was adept at social relationships, a walking work of art.
Hephaestus was an artist of the forge, hammering intricate and
powerful pieces, exquisite jewelry for his wife, thunderbolts for
Zeus, and for Aphrodite’s mortal son, the greatest work of art in
immortal history, Aeneas’ magnificent shield. With this aspect, all
your labors of love—relationships or craft—are blessed when you
apply your skill and commitment to success.
The Lesson
Imagine what it felt like—to be so ugly even his mother discarded
him—and yet the most enticing goddess chose him. After the
euphoria, Hephaestus couldn’t help himself. Everywhere he heard
the muttering, “Why is she with… that?” He tried to make up for
it by working harder. He tried to please her with beautiful objects.
Yet he was afraid it was never enough, that he was never enough.
His own worthlessness was buried so deep, that when Aphrodite
moaned with delight in their marriage bed, he didn’t believe it.
Then he just got paranoid. He made a complete jealous ass of himelf, trapping the goddess in a tryst with Mars. This is what he had
to learn: Real love means living with your partner’s imperfections
and accepting your own. Venus had seen value in him. But until he
saw it too, the relationship was doomed. You’ve got a similar
challenge. Can you love the imperfect god and goddess in you?
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“I know your life has been hard, but you are what you are because of it. The best steel must go through the fire.
It is not enough to be loving, talented, or beautiful. We must be strong!” Charles Dickens
With Saturn aspects, early experiences with your father may have been particularly influential in your ideas about love, prosperity or
partnership (though for men, your mother may have played the key role). Exploring these relationships can be revealing. Some astrologers
believe that Saturn denies what he touches—in aspect to Venus, withholding love, affection and happiness. More often, I believe, Saturn
delays. The planets he touches get better with age. The older you get, the more fun you’ll have with Venus. You can heal lifetimes of
inadequacy with this aspect, but initially it may be rough. A lack of love and affection in early life may have caused you to identify more
strongly with Hephaestus, learning to brush off compliments, expect rejection, settle for less. You may have attracted partners who
“proved” your unworthiness and reinforced your fears of intimacy. You may have wondered if you’d be better off alone. You’re serious
and practical. That’s not bad. But whenever you wish you were thinner or smarter or more like somebody else, you’re the one who’s being
unfaithful—to your special gifts. One day, listening to the barrage of self-critical thoughts running through your head, you begin to realize
it’s all nonsense. That’s the day your true marriage to Venus begins. With awareness, you can change your inner chatter. Better yet, simply
become the gliding goddess easing through your world. Deserving has nothing to do with it. Send Hephaestus to his forge and let him fuel
your diligence and competence. Then relax into your radiance ; enjoy the compliments.
“I get enjoyment out of earning an income to provide my own creature comforts, though it sometimes disappoints me that I
can’t ‘let go’ and enjoy what someone else can provide.” (Venus square Saturn)
“Having my father constantly criticize me and yell at me for seemingly no reason made me very unhappy. It was extremely
difficult to live with him. My mother recently confirmed that I was a good girl and never did anything to cause my father to act
this way. It was very confusing.” (Venus/Saturn sign conjunction)
“My father never showed me his love, so it is very difficult to believe that someone would be interested in me if my parent
wasn’t. When I was a kid, my father bought me a Walkman for Christmas; after an argument, he gave it to my sister and
nothing to me. Later, I had a partner who did not come to visit me on my birthday as a punishment. I realized he did not want
to please me, which meant he did not really love me.” (Venus opposite Saturn)
“My darkest aspect is my deeply ingrained self-hatred and self-sabotage. Just can’t seem to shake it.” (Venus opposite Saturn)
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“My first love was my dad. I thought he was perfect when I was little. When I was older, and he was drinking, he broke my
heart. This made it very difficult to trust that anyone could love me. I thought they were lying. I do have close friends and
family who have continued to love me and support me as the years have gone by. I now know that I am loved by these people
and have been transformed by it. It took me many years to fall in love with my husband.” (Venus conjunct Saturn)
“’Love’ was not a word ever spoken in our household. I did sense that my parents loved my sister more. After all these years
and much work, I still seem to choose unrequited love (I’m attracted to married men and continually play out the ‘Mom/Dad
always like you best scenario.’” (Venus square Saturn)
“I have issues around work and income and self esteem and relationship which are very old and which I’m really chipping
away at—basic issues of worthiness and receiving abundance. What I learned about money from my family: Money is to be
earned with good honest labor and is not to be frittered away or played with. Money is serious business and has to be put
away for a rainy day. Money is to be used for practical needs and only occasionally for the pleasurable things that one really
wants.” (Saturn conjunct Venus ruling 2nd house of money)).
“My Venus is opposite Saturn and I assume that’s why I’ve never found a life partner. It seems hurtful to me that I’m made the
way I am. I’ve had lots of lovers, but no one has ever been able to make me lose my doubts and fears about love. Love
relationships tend to start strong and then stop as suddenly as they started. I have run away from more men than I can count
as soon as I could see they were interested in me.”
Love is perhaps one of the most tender and easily wounded aspects of anyone’s life—with or without a Venus/Saturn aspect. It would
be a mistake to think that this aspect dooms you to an unhappiness that the rest of the world gets to enjoy. Learning how to love freely
with an open heart is one of the great challenges and rewards of Venus/Saturn. But there are other benefits. With this aspect, one can
work quite skillfully with the material world, including managing money wisely. One also can also learn the secret treasures of
simplicity, of finding joy in small pleasures.
“Those in my family are savers and investors. They encouraged us to spend wisely after careful thought. My life is rich in love
and caring and I am doing okay financially. I just prefer to maintain a focus that says my life is full of abundance.”
(Venus trine Saturn)
“My family was pretty frugal. I was taught to first look at the price, before I even considered something. I learned the pleasure
of getting a bargain. I also like to enjoy small amounts of many different kinds of food and drink and drugs. Savoring just one
taste, one puff, one sip—each one is delicious and uniquely satisfying. (Venus opposite Saturn)
Mars Square Venus (Orb: 7 degrees 15 minutes applying)
Squares are wild and wonderful—but difficult too. The power struggle between these planets was likely defined and
hardest to cope with in your youth. People are usually aware of their squares. They bring the issues that force you to
grow. They make sure you learn your lessons. And when you rise to the occasion, they bless you with energy, action,
and success. Venus is the focal planet of a difficult planetary configuration known as a “T-Square.” Developing her
capacity to love and harmonize the various parts of your nature is key.
The Gods: Addicted to Love
A brute with battlelust. Even his parents, Zeus and Hera, believe
his warrior ways are crude. Yet Aphrodite finds Ares irresistible.
His manly courage. His decisive action. Most of all his passion. Oh
the hours of pleasure they share! Though not married to each
other, their adulterous affair is one of the longest lasting and most
celebrated relationships among the gods. Homer sang the tale of
how Aphrodite’s husband Hephaestus trapped them in a tryst.
Hanging naked in her hubby’s net with all the gods laughing and
leering , Ares and Aphrodite continued making love. They were
tempestuous and touchingly faithful in their way. When
Aphrodite fell for Adonis, Ares transformed into a wild boar that
killed the handsome boy. When Ares slept with Dawn, jealous
Aphrodite cursed the girl into becoming a nymphomaniac. Full of
fireworks, these two have been the archetypal template for many
legendary couples—Bogart and Bacall, Hepburn and Tracy, Taylor
and Burton. They are a fertile duo. Ares slept with many women,
but his five children were all birthed by Aphrodite. Their
progeny’s differing natures offer a tantalizing suggestion of what a
Mars/Venus aspect can bring. Though rare, too much Mars can
raise Deimos and Phobos, the twin gods of terror and horror, or
more commonly, Eris, goddess of strife and discord. When Venus
predominates, there’s Harmonia, the goddess of concord,
harmonious competition, and marital bliss. Mars and Venus in
perfect balance yields their most famous offspring of all—the joy
of all beings: Eros, or erotic delight.
The Gift: Erotic energy ebbs and flows. But with a Mars/Venus
aspect, the flows are usually livelier and more enduring than the
ebbs. Few consider this a problem. But the benefits don’t stop there.
You’re more charismatic with this aspect. Your eyes sparkle. People
feel like there’s something special in the air when you’re around.
The physicality of Mars combined with the social intelligence of
Venus can make you outgoing and popular. You may find it easier
to connect with the opposite sex. Let Mars intensify your Venus
charm and others will be drawn to you. This is a dynamic and
creative combination.
The Lesson: For centuries, sorcerers, ancient herbalists and modern
pharmaceutical firms have tried to bottle the magic between these
two. But an overdose can cause havoc. So can the wrong
proportions. More Mars than Venus can make you impulsive, pushy
and promiscuous, or confused about love and sexuality—unable to
separate friendliness from a sexual advance. You may drop the
“love” from love-making altogether, so that it’s more of a sport than
an intimate encounter. Too much Mars can put you perpetually on
the prowl. Too much Venus might make you overly sensitive, quick
to recoil from behavior that feels rough or crude. Sometimes a Mars
/Venus aspect can actually irritate or dampen your sexual rhythm—
so that erotic play with your partner becomes contentious or too
slack. There is a time to do Venus and a time to do Mars. Knowing
which is which and being able to dance back and forth between
these roles will increase yours and your partner’s delight.
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It’s not all about sex. Mars represents animalistic, muscular activity and Venus artistic expression. There are countless ways these two can
collaborate. Movement and speed are fine ways to keep this aspect happy and well tuned.
“I LOVE to dance. I go to creative free form group dance classes, where my Venus quite regularly busts loose—especially when
I get into my belly dancing moves! I am a devotee of movement as meditation and shamanic spiritual practice. My most recent
lover, who I met at a movement class, is a practitioner of Tantra. When we connected, magic happened and since then the
relationship has been on another plane altogether. Just hugging him felt ecstatic.” (Venus trine Mars
“Happy times in my life… My friends and I had planned a trip to the beach. We took my friend’s Subaru STI, which, being
designed as a rally car, has incredible acceleration and handling. The whole ride, twisting at high speeds through winding
canyon passes, put a smile on my face. The desert scenery was beautiful. And, to enhance the mood, we were blasting
Eurobeat, which is possibly the greatest type of music to play while driving. I also love to go for rides on my bicycle, a
lightweight touring bike that is an absolute pleasure to take very fast. Yesterday I went as fast as I could along the path. I felt
physically vibrant and alive and like I could keep on cycling indefinitely. I could taste the sea air in my mouth. I saw the
Venice boardwalk rushing by. I love feeling full of energy and capable of anything!”
If Scorpio or Aries is strong in your chart, Mars may dominate Venus; if Libra or Taurus is strong, Venus can dominate Mars. But this is a
dynamic aspect, which means its expression can change as you become more consciously aware of its assets and liabilities. If you don’t like
how your Mars and Venus dance together—or apart—meditate on new expressions. You’ve got plenty of creativity!
“It’s been very easy to seduce men and charm people. I can also be very competitive, which is probably my least attractive trait.
My current boyfriend was pretty shocked when he played me at Scrabble and actually made me realize just how out of control
it can be.” (Venus square Mars)
“With a Mars/square Venus, I’ve often been uneasy with my role in relationships—when to put out energy versus letting things be.”
Not everyone with a Mars/Venus aspect feels “hot.” Astrological sleuthing can help uncover why.
“I am a bit inhibited. It takes some time for me to get aroused. I am not a very sexual person, but I think I would enjoy learning
to be more sexual.” (Virgo Venus sextile 12th house Mars)
Sign, house, and aspect do make a difference. Here, Virgo is shyer, the sextile is softer, and a 12th Mars is less dynamic. Even so, the aspect
is present and wants to be used. Knowing you have a Mars/Venus connection can give you greater confidence in bringing these planets to
a positive expression. Let their charisma sparkle through your eyes.
Midheaven Quincunx Venus (Orb: 1 degrees 21 minutes separating)
Innately incompatible, bringing Venus and this point into harmonious expression requires constant adjustment.
This can be stressful, also motivating. You’ve got to keep changing your process, opinions or attitude—which
promotes highly creative solutions.
I cannot help myself; the window is inviting enough, but I cannot
resist the temptation to gild it a little, closing my eyes, to light the
whole with a sudden glow of welcome. An imaginary sign which
flashes like a beacon—COME TO ME. I want to give, to make people
happy; surely that can do no harm. --Vianne Rocher, decorating her
chocolate shop window (in Joanne Harris’ Chocolat)
When Venus aspects your Midheaven, she can’t help herself. She
wants to shine through you for all the world to enjoy. She may
inspire you to select a Venusian career, involving beauty, the arts,
or human relationships—or she may simply bring her charm and
flair to whatever field you choose. You may be attentive to
manners and social decorum. Likely you appreciate beauty and
are happiest when your profession puts you in surroundings that
are harmonious. This Venus aspect could indicate a special
artistic gift or strong creative drive—and/or excellent social skills
that may draw the attention of influential people.
I have a friend with Venus conjunct her Midheaven. Carol has
enjoyed good career success, having risen to a position of
authority with a nice salary, despite just a high school education
and being so much younger her peers. In the office, she's often
the center of attention. And she's beautiful, knows exactly how to
line and shade her eyes, and in a world that glorifies the anorectic
female, is unashamed of the voluptuous curves inside her skintight jeans. She can be both bawdy and proper. At formal
(Midheaven) occasions, she's quite keen on observing correct
social forms. At her bridal shower, I watched how with
remarkable grace and skill she transformed her modest living
room gathering into the most important, elegant event in the
world (it was to her). From Carol I’ve learned how Aphrodite's
confidence and commitment to beauty can shine like a beacon,
uplifting everyone in her radius.
All of this happens easily when Venus makes a harmonious
aspect to your Midheaven. It’s a bit more complicated when the
aspect is difficult. Then your Venus nature can work at crosspurposes to your success. The Midheaven indicates your career
and public reputation. It also rules your parents. Your
relationship with your parents may be a good indicator of how
smoothly this aspect is working. Don’t despair if you’ve
experienced more difficulty than success. It just means you need
to develop and fine-your Venus gifts, so they truly delight and
serve those around you.
“Creativity comes easily in any area of my life that I apply
myself. The natural flare has sometimes given me a sense of
entitlement, and it has taken a long time to realize that the
world does not always readily yield to mere talent or insight.
Venus trine my Midheaven gives me the ability to be successful,
but the rebellious nature reflected elsewhere in my chart
indicates my propensity to trip myself up.”
North Node Square Venus (Orb: 3 degrees 47 minutes applying)
Squares are wild and wonderful—but difficult too. People are usually aware of their squares. They bring the issues
that force you to grow. They make sure you learn your lessons. And when you rise to the occasion, they bless you
with energy, action, and success.
Oh Aphrodite, the divinity of your beauty is expressed in your
unself-conscious acceptance of it. Only a goddess could so naturally
and entirely delight in her own loveliness.
--Christine Downing, Goddess
The expression of Venusian values acquires profound importance
when Venus aspects your Nodes. Indeed, she does not aspect one
without touching the other (a conjunction to the North Node, for
example, brings an opposition to the South). The North Node
represent your soul’s chosen purpose this lifetime; the South
suggests karmic gifts and emotional baggage carried in from prior
lives. Venus aspecting these points articulates certain karmic
assignments, designed to further develop your already highly
practiced Venusian expression. Relationships may ignite instantly
and magically when you meet someone you’ve known before.
People usually have romanticized notions about meeting past life
partners, but often these reunions are meant to balance the karmic
scales, so the relationships may take inexplicable turns or bring
significant lessons. The goal is to maintain your open-heartedness,
whatever the outcome.
Some astrologers believe a positive Venus/Node aspect assures
wealth and a life of ease, owing to past life good works and
generosity. Unfortunately, this appears to be another astrology
myth, as I did not find a significant correlation. (All associations
between Venus and wealth seem generally overrated.) But your
wealth may indeed come in other ways. In particular, you may
have an artist’s eye for beauty or aesthetic symmetry, seeing and
hearing what others miss. You might often find yourself at odds
with the prevailing culture and its preferred Venus expressions.
You are a chosen ambassador for Love and Beauty, required to
believe in their virtue as fiercely as Venus does, even if others are
deaf and blind. Your attractions are primary clues to how this
aspect is working. When a past life pattern needs clearing, your
desires bring disharmony. When your attractions open doors and
bring success, you are integrating past life gifts with new and
necessary discoveries.
“I felt bad about my looks when I was young. My mother always
laughed at me ‘What terrible legs you have!’ Twiggy was in
fashion then and I had breasts. Even so, I am a connoisseur of
beauty. Some might think I’m a lesbian because I admire beautiful
women as much as men. Once I drew a picture of my school
fellow. She was very fat and had two plump cheeks, Yet I noticed
the sparkle in her eyes and drew her as beautiful. She was
impressed. Then she drew my picture and it was awful. She
enlarged all the defects on my face.
(Venus opposite North Node)
“You have to take the love that is around you and immerse
yourself in it. Love can’t be captured and bent to your liking. It is
there for the asking in so many forms, but if you persist in trying to
make love happen you will be very lonely.”
(Venus opposite North Node/ Saturn.)
“My art expresses feminine radiance. I also see beauty in a wide
range of people objects, situations, connections—whenever I open
myself to allow it. I think that’s the key. You have to open to that
energy within yourself before you see it in your environment.
When I do, I feel this shimmering sense of joy, as my energy joins
with the energy of those around me.”
(Venus conjunct North Node)
Sun SemiSquare Venus (Orb: 0 degrees 16 minutes applying)
There is some tension between these planets—though it may be buried deep in your psyche. The effects of this minor
aspect may seem sudden and surprising (“Where did that come from?” or “The devil must have made me do it!”)
Identify the friction between these archetypes and you can better direct their gifts.
The Gift
The Gods: A Radiant Heart
The Sun God Ra divided the great dark from the awesome light.
The creator of all things, Ra was the most powerful god in the
ancient world. But after a time he grew uncaring, consumed with
his own heat and glory. Isis was powerful too—she was a star
goddess, an earth goddess, a water goddess, a corn goddess,
Queen of the Underworld, and the first woman. She stole a drop
of the Sun God’s saliva, mixed it with mud, and made a
poisonous snake with her hands. She slipped the snake into Ra’s
bed; there it bit him. Now the Sun God was suffering! Isis
approached with compassion: “Please oh powerful Ra, let me
cure you of your pain.” It must have been difficult for the center
of everything alive to admit he needed help. “The cure requires
something I hope you can agree to. I need to speak your secret
name.” Ra’s secret name was the source of his power over life
and death! But his pain was so great, he reluctantly agreed,
whispering his secret into her ear. She mixed her potion, she
spoke his magic name, and Ra was instantly cured. But now Isis
possessed the knowledge of life and death. With her power equal
to Ra’s, she was able to bring wonderful new benefits to the
people.
Isis had many names, among them, “She Who Knows How To
Make Right Use of the Heart.” The Sun represents the ego. It also
rules the heart. Receptive Venus can soften the ego and make the
heart more generous. When these two are linked, each can boost
the other’s best attributes, so that your beauty shines, your
compassion acts, your charisma and charm are magnified. This
combination can increase your popularity and creative talent.
When you’re friendly, generous and warm, you’re blessed with the
X factor. If your Sun and Venus blend harmoniously, you’re
affectionate, kind, loving and lovable, also gifted in the arts.
The Lesson
To make the most of this aspect, you must let your inner masculine
and feminine sides share power (the moral of the Ra/Isis tale).
Whenever planets (or lights) are linked by aspect, you may be
innately more comfortable with one over the other. If your
masculine solar nature dominates, the will and egotism of your
inner Ra may diminish the cleverly compassionate magic of your
inner Isis. You may have a charm that quickly wears thin. Over
time you may become as grumpy and uncaring as Ra. If your
feminine Venusian nature dominates, your confidence and will
may be weak. You can become overly dependent, unable to live
without a relationship. If other chart factors reinforce the solar
weakness, you may be self-indulgent, addictive, or lazy.
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The Sun represents your ego, but according to traditional astrology, it can also (especially in a woman’s chart) represent significant men in
your life—thus the Sun/Venus aspect may be descriptive of your father or male partners. You may gravitate toward beautiful men. Or you
may be hard-wired with a pair of magic Venus glasses, quick to see the beauty in your partners. I like how the following woman expresses
her Sun/Venus nature. Not only did she have a gorgeous (ie: Sun/Venus) husband, she also wears those wonderful Venus glasses, which
allows her to keep growing her capacity to love.
“My first love was the man who became my husband. He was an answer to a prayer, very good looking, a dream come true.
Although I have been in love many times since my divorce, I have always loved each one more than the last.”
With a Sun/Venus aspect, it’s likely your father demonstrated Venus values. Can you identify how he carried the Venus influence? In the
following, from a woman with Sun/Venus in Taurus, the father expressed her Sun/Venus blend through his affections, his generosity, and
his insistence on a beautiful mate.
“My father was initially very generous and his legacy to me was that money can demonstrate affection or lack thereof. In Dad’s
later years, he got quite miserly with my mother, once she became a burden and less pleasing to him (he treated her in her
younger attractive years like a china ornament that one puts on a shelf for people to admire, but which is actually useless). Dad
tended to lavish gifts on people that he liked.“
Of course gender is a two-way street. Particularly in a man’s chart, a Sun/Venus aspect can be descriptive of significant women—perhaps a
mother with a strong will, or strong female partners. This is from a man with Sun/Venus in Aries:
“My mother was a single parent long before that was in vogue. She was a tough cookie—but she also insisted that we be polite
in public and always leave the house looking clean and well-groomed. I love fine shirts, good cologne, and am miserable with
a bad haircut—all of which, I suppose, comes from my mother.”
Integrating the masculine and feminine is the central task of this aspect. Your initial blending of these energies may have much to do with
your parents’ modeling. You may unconsciously repeat their successes and mistakes—or actively move in the opposite direction. Either
way, they’ve been a strong influence. The Sun/Venus aspect is an important one. It is the dance between these two that defines the Venus
cycle. You may have heard that when Venus is conjunct the Sun, she’s “combust”—supposedly a bad thing that makes your Venus
disappear. Indeed, in the sky when Venus nears the Sun, you can’t see her. But among my Sun/Venus research participants , I noticed she
was very much alive. “Combust” is a technique from horary astrology; applying it to people doesn’t hold true. If Venus feels like she’s
disappeared, it may be that she’s so like second nature to you, you just don’t notice her presence. I suspect that those around you do!
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It’s my job to
disturb you,
to rearrange you,
to delight you and
change you
to become who you
truly are.
Darsan...
is a Sanskrit word that means “to see.” It primarily refers to the relationship between god and devotee—of seeing and
being seen. The devotee beholds the god (or goddess) in reverence—and is in turn beheld by the deity. This seeing
goes beyond the eyes. It is transformative. Information is exchanged. An energetic transmission is received. I had such
a “darsan” experience with Venus during the first year of my research. Not usually an early riser, I awoke one morning
at 5:00 am. Something propelled me out of bed and took me to the front door. When I opened it, across the street and
between the trees, the planet Venus was glittering beside the crescent Moon. I was transfixed. I watched for several
minutes—as something happened that I couldn’t quite name. I just know that I was changed by what I saw. My feelings for my Venus project gained new confidence and momentum. My greatest hope is that by following the movement of Venus this next year, through the sky and through your chart, you’ll receive divine transmissions too.
The Venus Cycle: Venus offers countless opportunities for “darsan”—seeing a beautiful woman, a captivating flower, or
observing love exchanged. Consider all visions of beauty as visits from Venus and you’ll receive her transmissions. Watching
the planet is another form of “darsan.” In the pages that follow, you can keep track of Venus’ appearance in the sky over the
next year. Our culture has lost the art of sky watching, but keeping your eye on Venus is a great way to reclaim it.
When Venus changes sign: Venus has an infinite array of styles and moods. You can tune into these different expressions
throughout the year as she changes sign. Let her sign transits deepen your appreciation and expand your own feminine
expression (whether you’re male or female). An optimum time for goddess-watching is the day each month when the Moon
conjuncts Venus. I’ve listed these dates and times for you. Keep track of Venus’ status as morning, evening or underworld star
and you can predict whether their “kiss” will be visible. If it is, I hope you’ll make the effort to view it. The Babylonians
believed that the seven evening Moon/Venus conjunctions depict Inanna’s descent to the underworld, disrobing her seven
garments as she passes through seven gates. The seven morning Moon/Venus conjunctions describe her ascent and return
through these gates. These are potent times for rituals or spontaneous celebrations of the divine feminine.
When Venus changes house: Venus changing sign is a universal experience—it happens at the same time for everyone on the
planet. But her entrance into the various houses of your chart is a more personal rhythm, describing a changing orientation to
pleasure, love and beauty that is more organic for you. At least once during her transit through each house, meditate on how
you can bring more creativity or Venusian flair to matters of this house. Use the dates and times that Venus conjuncts personal
planets for special rituals or meditations.
Venus Progressions and Transits to your Venus: Transits to Venus or progressions from Venus (solar arc or secondary) are the
most personal and often dramatic experience of her celestial dance. Years with powerful transits or progressions signal an
important time to meet Venus with fresh curiosity and enthusiasm. Progressions and Solar Arc directions generally describe
inner growth or frustrations that demand expression in the outer world. You may be the catalyst for change. Transits can bring
surprises in your outer circumstances that inspire you to confront old patterns and make new and healthier choices.
Santeria Venus Ritual
I’ve performed the Santeria Venus ritual many times since. None have surpassed the sheer
drama of that first result. Yet my repeated petitions to Venus have brought something far
more profound: Venus is now a living presence in my life. My exquisite dream house has
since been sold, its profits funding a prosperity of ease and playfulness that was once only
a dream of mine. The man who materialized after that first ritual has since moved on,
allowing another man, even more passionate, to join my life. My days are more pleasurefilled than ever before. I have become her servant, by regularly celebrating what she loves.
Free-form Rituals
What sets rituals apart from mundane
activities is simply the higher consciousness
you bring to them. At the beginning of a
ritual, sounding a bell, lighting a candle, or
arranging a circle of stones to create sacred
space are all signals that you’re entering a
higher level of perception. What is your
purpose? What invisible presence do you
wish to invoke? Setting intention at the
beginning allows you to surrender to higher
energies (or divine surprise) in the middle of
a ritual. Closing the sacred space with a
sound, a bow, or blowing out the candle are
ways to contain and honor what just
occurred. With this simple shift of awareness,
you can turn many daily activities into Venus
rituals—arranging a bowl of flowers or
spritzing a room with scent. Even standing at
the bathroom mirror readying yourself for the
day can become a Venus-charged event.
The Ritual: Do this on Friday (this is Venus’ day). Get a round piece of bread, like a dinner
roll. Make a hole in it and put a nickel inside (the number five is sacred to Venus). Add
the folded piece of paper on which your desires are clearly stated. Pour a little honey on
top of that (as Casey always says, “for obvious symbolic reasons!”). Finally, place a small
candle in the hole (bigger than a birthday candle, but smaller than a taper—Casey suggests
a yellow candle, though I’ve found different colors fun to play with). Light the candle. As
it is burning, honor Venus: take a luxurious bath, go shopping, make love. This prepares
the way for Venus’ arrival. When the candle is completely burned down, so that only
melted wax is on the bread, take it to sweet flowing water. Toss this now ritually potent
(and fully bio-degradable) roll into the water, reciting a poem or prayer of your choice.
If you want to awaken a sleeping inner
Venus, try the following 5-Minute Goddess
Meditation. For best results, do it for eight
consecutive days. Start by entering a mindful
state. Explore a few rounds of conscious
breathing to feel into your body and quiet
your mind. (1) Then tune into the sensations
of your body’s sexual space, where there are
thousands of nerve endings designed purely
for pleasure. You may feel aroused. You may
“The invisible world wants to help us,” declares visionary activist and astrologer Caroline
Casey, “but spiritual etiquette requires that we ask.” One of the best ways I know to ask
for Venus blessings is the Santeria Venus ritual (described by Casey in Making the Gods
Work for You.) I like to perform this ritual at least once a year on a Friday during the
Taurus cycle. But you can do it anytime you feel the need to call on the goddess for help.
The first time I did it as a lark. I meditated on my desires—they seemed faraway, perhaps
impossible, but I knew exactly what I was dreaming of: I wanted a fabulous new home and
a man to share it with. Given the magnitude of my request, I figured it would take time to
create such bounty. But perhaps it wasn’t too soon to let Venus know. I performed the
ritual. Just six weeks later I found myself in escrow on a home so beautiful, with waterfalls,
French windows, breath-taking views, it was grander than my wildest dreams. And guess
what—the man arrived too, bringing a loan for the down payment and a desire to move in
with me! I was stunned.
5-Minute Goddess Meditation continued:. feel numb. It doesn’t matter. No judgment. Just enjoy and be with whatever you find. Now that
you’re present to your body, (2) close your eyes and visualize yourself as a radiant goddess. Select the dress and bearing you prefer that day.
Feel fully embodied as this divine being. Open your eyes and imagine an audience of gleeful followers praying, applauding or smiling at the
sight of you. Really take this in. When you’re fully charged with love and appreciation, finally (3) imagine as this goddess, you have the
power to make a dream come true. Wave a hand or nod your head and see a dream realized. This can be for yourself or others. It can be as big
as world peace or as small as a new purse. Venus doesn’t care what your inner goddess manifests. Just be sure you luxuriate in the results—
feel, enjoy and see your dream coming true!
Transits/Progressions: For transits or progressions to your chart, I offer a brief description
of archetypal potentials. For more about the type
of planetary event, consult this key.
Conjunction: Can be beneficial or stressful,
depending on the seeds that have been planted
(i.e., past decisions or actions). The optimum
approach is to integrate the needs of both
planets in one expression.
Sextile There may be opportunities around the
corner. Keep your eyes open and if none show
up, invent one. Waiting usually means that
nothing will happen.
Square: You are challenged to grow. This is a
tense aspect that may bring difficulties, but
looking back on this time, you’ll likely realize the
challenges were a gift.
Trine: Brings a nice flow. If you’ve been working
hard, you can easily win the marathon at this
time. But if you haven’t been training for
anything, don’t expect much.
Quincunx: You may be thrown of balance, but
the required adjustments may inspire new and
very creative solutions.
Opposition: Can be a direct challenge by
someone else. But think “integrate” rather than
“fight.” Opponents may reflect a neglected part
of your nature.
Your year with Venus begins… April 10, 2012
A beautiful way to begin your Venus journey is to make a visual sky connection.
Venus is currently an evening star. Pick a relaxed and auspicious evening to
commune with her, as she sparkles above the western horizon after sunset.
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Check ahead—Venus will station retrograde in about a month. She has now entered
April 11:
her pre-retrograde shadow period (having touched the degree she will later retrograde
back to: 7 Gemini). She is slowing down, reaching that time in her orbit when she
comes closest to earth. The area of your chart where she now appears is especially important—
as she’ll be evaluating your satisfaction here for the next three or four months. During this
shadow time—between now and the retrograde--you may get a taste of which Venus issues
you’ll be reviewing and rebalancing. Denied desires may come to the surface. You may feel
the need for new perspectives, particularly in finances, relationships, and creative pursuits.
What you’ve been simply tolerating—but not enjoying—may become more aggravating. Or
maybe to your surprise, you’ll find that matters are better than you recognized. It’s wise to
reconsider all your old assumptions about love, beauty and prosperity.
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April 13, 2012: It’s Friday the 13 —Freya’s special day! Forget that nonsense about bad luck.
Somewhere in heaven, Freya is riding joyously in her cat-drawn chariot, heading to meet her beloved
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consort Od, the god of ecstasy. Before the Church cast its gloomy superstitions on Friday the 13 ,
this was a pagan festival day, devoted to guiltless indulgence in pleasure and love-making. Both the
number 13 and Friday are sacred to the goddess, and fish, (also co-opted by the Church) was one of
her sacred animals. Eating fish on Friday was considered an aphrodisiac and fertility charm—but
today I hope you feel inspired to invent a few pagan rituals of your own.
April 26:
Transiting Jupiter Sextile
your progressed Venus:
this aspect is approaching
and will be exact on April 30,
2012.
Yumm… good days to focus on Venus! This can be a pleasurable transit, like getting a wonderful kiss
from the universe. According to sex experts Steve and Vera Bodanksy, the secret to a good kiss is to do
what makes your lips feel good. Keep them moist. Then feel with them. Most people work too hard, say
the Bodanskys, because they’re hoping to affect the person they’re kissing. That really spoils the fun.
What does this have to do with a Jupiter transit? Most people push or suck too hard, expecting Jupiter to
deliver colossal pleasure because that’s what astrologers generally predict. This can be a wonderful
feel-good transit-- if you meet whatever shows up with moist lips and the intention of really enjoying
yourself. You are the instrument—be the Jupiter transit you’ve been dreaming of.
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April 27 at 1:25 pm:
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your 7 House of partnerships
When Venus enters your relationship house, she wants to freshen it up—like an interior decorator who
aims to make things more beautiful and pleasing. Disgruntled souls may expect her to throw out the old
partners like chairs and drag in new ones. But that’s not her style. She puts her finger to her chin and
ponders the options. What about this great piece of relationship advice from the Sufi poet Rumi?
Every time your spouse or lover says something stupid
make your eyes light up as if you
just heard something
brilliant.
Try it and see what happens. Or even better, try this. Wherever you go, whomever you meet, assume the
other person loves you. Try this with strangers, loved ones, acquaintances. Move through a world in which
you’re utterly adored. No matter what people say, no matter the look on their face or mood they’re in,
assume each person loves you. See what happens then!
May 2:
Transiting Saturn Quincunx
your natal Venus: this
aspect is approaching and
will be exact on May 10,
2012.
Venus is buoyant, joyous, carefree. Saturn is hard-working, heavy, serious. Occasionally he brings
worries, limitations, or fear, What happens when these two meet? The possibilities are endless. Your
Venus could meet a serious new love. She might renew her commitment to a current partner. She could
feel productive and creative—reveling in the thrills of accomplishment, the rewards of hard work. Or she
could find herself walking under a gloomy sky. She may experience the loneliness and frustration of “not
enough”—not enough love, not enough appreciation, not enough money. Life dances between
expansion and contraction. Times of contraction allow you to sweeten your love of simplicity, to take
new joy in small pleasures. If your Venus is suddenly wearing lead boots, let it be an opportunity to learn
new dance steps.
A Venus festival day! The pagan holiday Beltane is devoted to everything the
goddess loves—merrymaking, dancing, and unabashed reveling. A spring
cross-quarter holiday, it is frequently celebrated on May 1. But I’m a purist.
Cross-quarter holidays actually occur on the day the Sun reaches 15 degrees of
a fixed sign (which in spring occurs during Venus-ruled Taurus). The “real”
Beltane occurs on May 5, 2012. Dance around a Maypole or something just as
fun!
May 14:
Transiting Jupiter Conjunct
your natal Venus: this
aspect is approaching and
will be exact on May 18,
2012.
Yumm… good days to focus on Venus! This can be a pleasurable transit, like getting a wonderful kiss
from the universe. According to sex experts Steve and Vera Bodanksy, the secret to a good kiss is to do
what makes your lips feel good. Keep them moist. Then feel with them. Most people work too hard, say
the Bodanskys, because they’re hoping to affect the person they’re kissing. That really spoils the fun.
What does this have to do with a Jupiter transit? Most people push or suck too hard, expecting Jupiter to
deliver colossal pleasure because that’s what astrologers generally predict. This can be a wonderful feelgood transit-- if you meet whatever shows up with moist lips and the intention of really enjoying yourself.
You are the instrument—be the Jupiter transit you’ve been dreaming of.
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May 15 at
Venus stations retrograde at 23 Gemini. As Venus shines bigger and brighter
3:31 pm
in the nighttime sky, so may her themes appear bigger and brighter in your life. At her
retrograde station, she lingers almost two weeks in the same degree—making her influence
on houses and planets at this degree stronger than transits at any other time in her cycle. If
you’ve studied Venus conjunctions to your own chart, you’ve likely noticed that a typical Venus
transit might bring a nice day or happy moment, perhaps a passing desire—an urge for chocolate,
a longing for romance. You may be inspired to smile at a stranger, dine at an exquisite
restaurant, plant new flowers in the garden. But during Venus stations, this Venusian mood
lasts longer. It’s as though Venus were following you everywhere, ready to provoke, pout,
or bring new harmony to your life throughout these weeks. You can see why her retrogrades
are such an appropriate time to explore your Venus nature!
Because Venus is your pleasure principle, this is primarily an opportunity to return more
pleasure to your life. But be aware, as with all retrogrades, the energy can be unconscious
and somewhat unstable. Sudden new impulses may be regretted later. Listen to your desires.
They bring important news. But consider your actions carefully. Be especially wary of large
purchases and investments—their actual value may be less than what you imagine. New
relationships may seem to offer what you’ve been hungering for—but recognizing and taking
responsibility for your needs may be more important. Check out new partnerships carefully
before committing. With retrogrades, old friends and lovers might re-enter your life. You could
discover new treasures among old and faded objects. If you’re experienced in assessing the
value of antiques, this can be a good time to check out garage sales. In all things Venus, this
is an excellent time to conjure fresh strategies.
Part of the Venus mystique is the mathematical regularity of her cycle, which astrologers often
plot as a beautiful five-pointed star. Translated into more practical terms, the regularity of her cycle
means she cycles back to the same point every eight years. That makes her prior retrogrades easy
to research. Eight years ago you experienced a Venus retrograde in the same degrees of your chart.
Eight years before that you experienced another, and so on. Often there’s a resonance between these
linked retrogrades—as when you pluck one string on a lute, the other strings vibrate. Are there any
similarities between your concerns now and issues you faced during the prior retrogrades?
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Venus disappears from the twilight sky. According to ancient Venus watchers, this is when
Venus enters the Underworld. What does this mean? I could make up a story. That’s all we’ve
inherited from the ancient cultures—their stories. In one she plays a fateful game of ball, then changes
gender, going from female to a man. I’m not sure what to make of that story. But I do think we need
to weave appropriate stories of our own. What does it mean when Venus disappears? Let this be a
question that drops into your mind like a pebble in a pool, sending energetic waves rippling out until
they reach Venus in the Underworld. Tune in. Let her to tell you what this moment means.
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This is a practical house, a dutiful do-gooder house; in other words, it’s dull. But not when Venus enters!
June 1 at 6:39 pm:
Cue the music. Bring a smile to your face. You’re about to enjoy your days. You’re going to glide through
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time like a goddess, riding the divine wave of “flow.” What’s “flow”? It’s being effortlessly absorbed in the
your 6 House of work, health,
moment,
like an athlete, artist, mystic, or musician who’s “in the zone.” When you’re flowing, you feel
service and daily routines
engaged, clear, alive, and strong. Hours pass in minutes. You rise to meet challenges with delight,
bringing all your skill to whatever task you’re absorbed in. You’re surprised at what you can do. Through
moments of flow, life becomes its own reward. Without flow, you might instead reach for pre-packaged
entertainment or substances that take you out of time—into the zombie zone. According to psychologist
and flow expert Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (pronounced “chick-sent-me-high), most people get into flow
several times a day, but rarely notice and acknowledge it as such. Flow can happen when you’re doing a
favorite activity, like reading, listening to music, cooking, or gardening, but often enough, it can be during
something mundane, like driving. Working also brings flow. Become a personal flow detective. Notice
today how many times you get so deeply involved with something that nothing else matters and you lose
track of time. I usually tell myself that writing is hard work. But I just noticed: while writing this paragraph, I
was in a state of flow. Ahh…
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June 6 at 2:09 Venus is in the heart of her Underworld journey. She rendezvous with the Sun and a new Venus
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cycle begins! Venus meets the Sun at 15 Gemini.
May 30:
Every eight-year Venus macro cycle brings five of these “interior” conjunctions (with Venus between
the earth and Sun). Each occurs in a different sign—yet over a hundred-year period, Venus meets
the Sun in only these same five signs. Each has a collective significance, pointing to the optimum
means for renewing political and artistic expressions of the divine feminine in contemporary culture.
The Sun/Venus conjunction has a personal significance too, suggesting how (the sign) and where
(the house) you can renew your feminine embodiment. Below are dates when you experienced this
Venus sign/house renewal before. Is there a continuing thread, a Venus story you’ve been working
on from different angles across the years? Especially when this conjunction is in the same sign as the
Sun/Venus conjunction before your birth (see page 8 of this report), your decisions, dreams, and choices
may be particularly important.
Eight years ago: June 8, 2004 at 17 Gemini
Sixteen years ago June 10, 1996 at 20 Gemini
Twenty-four years ago June 13, 1988 at 22 Gemini
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If you’re an early riser, watch the eastern horizon before sunrise. This week Venus emerges
as the morning star. Ancient priests would sit in watch, waiting for this moment, then announcing
her appearance with great celebration. The “new” Venus is revealed. Her energy is audacious,
impetuous, and fearless. When it was necessary, armies would march at this auspicious time.
Is there somewhere you need to take up arms in your life? Honor the power of this strong and divine
feminine rising within you. Think of a wonderful way to celebrate her emergence.
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June 27 at
Venus is at her brightest in the predawn sky—don’t miss her! And, Venus stations
4:08 pm
direct at 7 Gemini. Planets at this degree will be supercharged. At her stations,
Venus lingers almost two weeks in the same degree—making her influence on houses
and planets near this degree stronger than her transits during any other point in her cycle. If you’ve
observed the Venus conjunctions to planets in your own chart, you’ve likely noticed that a typical
Venus transit is fleeting, bringing a happy day, a bouquet of flowers, an extra sweet kiss. But
now she’s a more constant companion, following you everywhere, insisting on her priority in
your affairs. During her Underworld journey, she gave you a view of life through her looking glass. She
may have stamped impatient feet, shimmied with anger, whispered new dreams. Whatever she
inspired, it’s now time to move forward. With presence. That means you don’t have to rush. Venus
is in the shadow of her retrograde for about another month. Let this be a time for testing your new awareness.
June 12:
July 1, 2012: It’s your birthday! The goddess says, “Have fun!”
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July 13, 2012: It’s Friday the 13 —Freya’s special day! Forget that nonsense about bad luck.
Somewhere in heaven, Freya is riding joyously in her cat-drawn chariot, heading to meet her beloved
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consort Od, the god of ecstasy. Before the Church cast its gloomy superstitions on Friday the 13 ,
this was a pagan festival day, devoted to guiltless indulgence in pleasure and love-making. Both the
number 13 and Friday are sacred to the goddess, and fish, (also co-opted by the Church) was one of
her sacred animals. Eating fish on Friday was considered an aphrodisiac and fertility charm—but
today I hope you feel inspired to invent a few pagan rituals of your own.
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July 24 at 7:05 am:
Transiting Venus enters
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your 7 House of partnerships
August 11 at 3:22 am Venus conjunct
Mercury (intellect)
August 17 at 10:34 pm Venus conjunct Sun
(ego, identity)
When Venus enters your relationship house, she wants to freshen it up—like an interior decorator who
aims to make things more beautiful and pleasing. Disgruntled souls may expect her to throw out the old
partners like chairs and drag in new ones. But that’s not her style. She puts her finger to her chin and
ponders the options. What about this great piece of relationship advice from the Sufi poet Rumi?
Every time your spouse or lover says something stupid
make your eyes light up as if you
just heard something
brilliant.
Try it and see what happens. Or even better, try this. Wherever you go, whomever you meet, assume the
other person loves you. Try this with strangers, loved ones, acquaintances. Move through a world in which
you’re utterly adored. No matter what people say, no matter the look on their face or mood they’re in,
assume each person loves you. See what happens then!
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July 30:
Venus passes her retrograde degree (23 Gemini). We’re out of her retrograde
shadow period. In joy, it’s full speed ahead!
Venus is buoyant, joyous, carefree. Saturn is hard-working, heavy, serious. Occasionally he brings
worries, limitations, or fear, What happens when these two meet? The possibilities are endless. Your
Venus could meet a serious new love. She might renew her commitment to a current partner. She could
feel productive and creative—reveling in the thrills of accomplishment, the rewards of hard work. Or she
could find herself walking under a gloomy sky. She may experience the loneliness and frustration of “not
enough”—not enough love, not enough appreciation, not enough money. Life dances between
expansion and contraction. Times of contraction allow you to sweeten your love of simplicity, to take
new joy in small pleasures. If your Venus is suddenly wearing lead boots, let it be an opportunity to learn
new dance steps.
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The goddess is a chemical! Chemists have a name for Venus in Cancer: “oxytocin.” It’s the
August 7 at 2:43 pm:
“cuddle hormone.” Its presence was first noticed in nursing mothers, but was later identified as
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an active ingredient in romantic bonding for both sexes. It’s what transforms sex into love.
Cancer
Emotional support--caring, compassion, soothing touch, appreciation—all increase oxytocin
levels. This in turn decreases stress, depression and illness. Open-heartedness is the best way
8/13 at 8:45 pm: the Moon and Venus
to bring this goddess into your life. You don’t even need a partner to float in oxytocin. Just feel
*kiss* in Cancer
love and tenderness for every being you see, even the ants marching sweetly across your
kitchen counter.
August 1:
Transiting Saturn Quincunx
your natal Venus: this
aspect is approaching and
will be exact on August 9,
2012.
August 14:
Transiting Mars
Quincunx your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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Have you been enjoying Venus as the morning star? I hope you’ve been lucky enough to witness
August 15:
at least one of her predawn conjunctions to the moon—well it’s either luck or planning. Check her
“kisses” in each sign, mark your calendar, and unless the moon is dark, you can witness this
high holy darsan of the divine feminine. Bring your reverence and your current mysteries. Bathe
in the blessings. Ask for guidance. Venus has reached her maximum distance from the Sun—
which means she now appears in the sky for her longest duration—almost three hours before sunrise.
If you’re not an early riser, make it a long night and stay up late enough to see her rise.
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Venus has moved through your relationship house. Now her journey deepens as she enters your 8
house of sex, death, and taxes, also your partner’s money—an odd assortment of ideas that find their
unity in being matters you can’t control. This is a house requiring surrender and intimacy, though many
feel guarded, even anxious here. But not Venus. As she transits this house, she invites you to witness
your barriers to intimacy. She asks that you—imaginatively at least—dare yourself to shake them up. Try
this exercise created by spiritual/sexual guru David Deida. Imagine being at a public place with a
trustworthy group of friends. Suddenly you see someone who looks both sexy and psychologically
healthy. Imagine walking up to this sexy stranger, handing him or her a dollar, and while looking into this
person’s eyes, saying, “As part of an exercise, I’ve been asked to give a dollar to someone I find really
sexy, after which, I can have no further contact with you.” How does it feel to expose your desire this way?
Sex and money are complex areas for most people. Both are a form of energy exchange that, according
to Deida, represent most people’s least enlightened areas. Even in imagination, few can do this exercise
without encountering an emotional charge or resistance. Venus doesn’t have such charges, which is why
she wants you to challenge yours. Imagine yourself regularly giving dollars away to sexy people. How
would it feel to be so honest, vulnerable and generous?
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August 20 at 6:46 pm:
Transiting Venus enters
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your 8 House of transformation
and psychic energy exchange
September 6 at 3:48 pm:
Transiting Venus enters Leo
9/12 at 4:16 pm: the Moon and Venus
*kiss* in Leo
This goddess has a flair for the dramatic. Think Cleopatra, who drenched the sails of her ships in
the attar of Damascus roses, so that up and down the Nile, offshore breezes carried news of her
arrival. Don’t be shy now. Announce your inner goddess with an intoxicating detail. Experiment
with details from each of the five senses. Notice which most increases your confidence.
September 22, 2012: It is the Equinox—a day sacred to Venus as the Sun enters her sign
and night and day are poised in equal balance.
September 23:
Transiting Mars
Trine your
progressed
Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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Venus wants you to “sabsung” now. Pronounced “sob-soong,” this is a Thai verb for Venus’ favorite 9
September 25 at 12:08 pm:
house experience. Literally it means to immerse in liquid something that has become dry. Metaphysically it
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means to revitalize your heart and mind, to quench a thirst you didn’t know you had. This happens most
your 9 House of
often when you travel, leaving your parched and worried life for an unknown land. One morning, after the
long distance journeys
latte and the little pastry at the small café you’ll never forget, you head up a mountain and see such a
sight,
your whole body eases, your spirit blossoms, and the juice of the universe comes pouring in—
September 27 at 1:31 pm Venus conjunct
exactly the taste you’ve been craving for months, years, maybe your whole life. You don’t have to go to
Uranus (originality and freedom)
Tierra del Fuego or the south of France to “sabsung.” You can get the same experience from witnessing
October 1 at 6:14 pm Venus conjunct North
a work of art, by reading a poem, or truly seeing the smile on a loved one’s face. The beauty of long
Node (life’s purpose)
distance journeys is how they unlock your receptivity and make you available to the world’s bounty. Your
eyes are refreshed. Your mind is open and curious. Without hopping on an airplane, take a long distance
October 4 at 5:55 pm Venus conjunct Mars
(inner warrior: action, desire, assertion)
journey now. Step out of your routine, if just for a moment. Take a book of poems off a shelf. Or instead of
going to the gym, head for the hills. Pull over when your heart whispers “Here.”
October 8 at 12:08 pm Venus conjunct Pluto
(transformation, generational interests and
obsessions)
September 29:
Transiting Mars
Opposite your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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If only astrologers would stop maligning wonderful Venus in Virgo! Don’t think of her as a cold,
October 3 at 7:59 am:
constricted and barren goddess—or an uptight, disapproving school marm. According to the
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Sumerians, Venus (as Inanna/Ishtar) was most fertile in Virgo. See if you can discover why.
Virgo
Tune into her sensuous ease. Experience the way she enjoys her own nakedness. How she
loves the natural world. That’s because she has an eye for quality. Let her discernment increase
10/12 at 3:36 pm: the Moon and
the quality of your own life. If you have clothes with uncomfortable textures, give them away.
Venus *kiss* in Virgo
Everything should feel good or it shouldn’t be in your wardrobe. Cleanse your palate with a one
or two day fast. Then notice the foods you habitually eat. Do they really taste good? Quality
foods taste good. Let this Venus introduce you to the rich storehouse of the natural world.
October 9:
Solar Arc Jupiter Sextile your natal
Venus: this aspect is approaching and will
be exact on January 12, 2013.
Venus is joy and Jupiter is abundance. Old fogey astrology has a
somewhat hysterical response when these two get together. First they
inflate its happy benefits like a hot air balloon—then immediately
unleash the sandbags to bring you back to earth. “Watch out!” they
warn. “You’re gonna eat, drink or spend too much!” In my experience,
most people just don’t have enough fun. And that’s what this
progression is about. It’s a celestial opportunity to make pleasure your
priority. If you’re truly present when indulging yourself, you naturally
stop when you’re feeling full and satisfied. And if you usually put work
before pleasure, this may be an important time to ask yourself why.
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Aware and impressionable, this goddess is a Stradivarius of sensations, a fine-tuned instrument
October 28 at 1:04 pm:
of receptivity. Tomorrow morning awaken this goddess through awareness of scent. Bring your
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hand to your nose and smell your skin. Walk through your house and notice if one room smells
Libra
differently from another. Notice how the world demurs or speaks with subtle messages on
currents of air. See how your thoughts soften as you move this way. The next day awaken to
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touch, sight, or sound. Notice how your sensing can calm an agitated mind. If everyone paid this
Venus *kiss* in Libra
much attention, our world would never be rough, rude, or ugly. Most people mistakenly believe
themselves to be tender, easily hurt, and therefore more sensitive than everybody else. But not
this goddess. Venus in Libra is intimate with the delicate nature of everyone and everything.
November 4:
Transiting Mars
Quincunx your
progressed
Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
November 9:
Transiting Mars
Quincunx your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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E.O. Wilson is a microbiologist who patiently studied ants. He eventually changed the world with his at first
controversial then accepted theories of social biology. A curious nature-loving boy, poor hearing in the
higher registers meant he wouldn’t be studying bird calls. His defining moment came while summer fishing
on a pier. A pin fish leapt and blinded him in one eye. Now he had to pull the world up close—and his
destiny for studying nature’s tiniest footprints was set. Why do I mention him now—when lovely Venus has
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entered your 10 house? Venus is an artist. Today she’s a weaver, a painter, a composer, or a sensitive
Neptune (intuition, imagination, dream,
spirituality, escapism)
documentary film-maker--whose subject is you. She wants to capture all the details that led to you this
moment. The accidents that turned you down this road instead of that one. The passions that made you
different from the other kids. The peculiar childhood leanings and disappointments. All of this made you
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who you are. The 10 house indicates the piece of the world’s tent that only you can hold up. And Venus
is in love with this role you play. She appreciates your special celebrity, knowing the gods are aware and
grateful that you’re here. As Venus follows you with her camera or composes an aria in your honor, her
influence rubs off. You’re inspired to wear her joy as you work, attending to what brings delight. With an
easy laugh and radiant smile, just keep doing your wonderful thing.
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Transiting Venus enters your 10
House of career, status and
authority figures
November 22 at 1:20 am:
Transiting Venus enters
Scorpio
12/11 at 1:08 pm: the Moon and
Venus *kiss* in Scorpio
Nothing escapes this goddess. She’s on intimate terms with her own ecstasy. She regularly has
tea with her inner bitch, not intimidated by her own power. This goddess hides nothing from
herself, but is an expert at keeping secrets. When she was young, a wise crone whispered, “The
world loves a little mystery.” There’s something terribly erotic in holding back, which is one of this
Venus’ many powers. Like a volcano patiently waiting to erupt. Or Mona Lisa with that smile.
Venus in Scorpio stays in harmony with herself, never giving too much away, or pathetically
pleasing others first. She relishes the power of saying no—with a captivating smile.
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Transiting Venus enters your 11
House of friends, organizations,
hopes and dreams
Mystics consider the Divine their beloved. They often hear their Beloved whispering, “I am made whole by
your life. Every life completes me.” Perhaps you glimpsed this truth when Venus transited through your
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10 and you saw your own role through her artistic eyes. With Venus now in your 11 house, you get to
savor the secret of everyone’s celebrity. You are made whole by the others in your life. Every other soul
completes you. This is a house of friendship, the larger collective, and, love received. Consider how the
people in your life are like valentines, daily love letters sent to you. You’ve been cared for by people you
don’t even know. If you visit a restaurant, a stranger will have washed your plate. Who built the house you
sleep in every night? Who was the artist who designed your comforter? Who made sure your pillow was
soft? If you have a favorite shirt or pair of shoes, go to your closet and examine it. Study its material, color
and lines. Appreciate every detail. Someone you’ve never met created this gift you love. Look around the
room. How many delights have other souls brought you?
December 13:
Transiting Mars
Opposite your
progressed
Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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All beauties have flaws. A funny nose, gap teeth, wide eyes—it’s what makes a supermodel distinctive.
Yet most people believe their own distinctive (and often exaggerated) flaws render them undesirable.
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When Venus enters your 12 house, it’s time to journey through your own worst features, like a prince
hacking through brambles and thorns, to discover, awaken and possess your true beauty. There’s no one
exactly like you--which means only you can own your look with loving pride. That will be your assignment
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when Venus enters your 1 house. But for now, you get to pull down the shades and withdraw. Settle into
your cave. Listen to the quiet of your breathing. Arrange a plate of colorful, healthy foods. Scent the room
with candles or the fine mist of an atomizer. And whenever you’re ready, stand naked in front of a mirror,
with a clipboard in hand. Itemize every little feature that makes you cringe. Have at it. When you’re
complete, put the clipboard away. Refresh the room with new scents. Drape some fine loose fabric on
your skin—but don’t get fully dressed yet. Now take a walk through your house. Going slowly, in different
rooms, touch each perceived flaw. Caress it. Breathe into it. Send it loving energy. Chances are this area
has become disconnected as you’ve subconsciously withdrawn your life force. Like lovers separated far
too long, embrace it. Do this until every luscious flaw has been kissed. With particularly difficult features
you may need an extra step—take glitter, clay, or colored pens, and honor this flaw by portraying it in a
work of art. When you’re done (and this exercise could take days), you’ll walk, sit, and sleep in your skin
with new pleasure.
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December 15 at 8:56 am:
Transiting Venus enters
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your 12 House of spiritual and
psychological renewal
December 16 at 4:38 am:
Transiting Venus enters
Sagttarius
Mornings when this goddess awakens, she says, “Yummm… how will I fall in love with myself
today? Shall I pour the most delicious cup of coffee? Serve myself fresh raspberries and cream?
Shall I wear hiking boots to the office? Schedule an adventure for lunch? Or take a half hour right
now for nothing but self pleasure?” Don’t mistake her adoration for selfishness. Quite the
opposite. Because Venus in Sagittarius knows how to make herself happy, she takes everyone
else off the hook. If you’re lucky enough to spend time with her, you’ll feel so free in her
presence, you’ll keep coming back for more. If only everyone treated their inner goddess like
this, the whole world would be in bliss.
December 18:
Transiting Mars
Trine your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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Beauty. Charm. Approachability. That’s Venus in the 1 house. It’s time to restyle yourself. If it’s hanging
December 30 at 10:03 pm:
in your closet and doesn’t make you feel beautiful—let it go. Buy a special little something that makes your
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whole
wardrobe feel new. Experiment with color. Get a fresh look at the salon. And practice something
your 1 House of personality and
even
more
powerful: Move through the world with a smile. Make that an “inner smile.” When Elizabeth
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Gilbert (author of the very Venusian Eat, Pray, Love) met with her Bali shaman, he gave her a simple
alternative to rigid meditation practice. He offered a one-word instruction: Smile. Do this inwardly. Without
moving any muscles on your face. Notice how your whole body lifts. Your jaw relaxes. Your teeth too.
When others meet you, they will sense this very Venusian relaxed openness. Those who study the body’s
secret pathways have observed that the jaw is connected to the sexual organs. That makes sense. Who
wants to make love to a clenched jaw?
January 1, 2013: The goddess wishes you a happy new year!
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January 9 at 4:11 am:
Transiting Venus enters
Capricorn
1/10 at 11:31 am: the Moon and
Venus *kiss* in Capricorn
This goddess never turns away a compliment. If you admire her purse, her car, her coat, she
doesn’t say, “Oh this old thing?” That’s because whenever she buys something, she’s fully
present. She lets it catch her eye, like an admirer from across the room. She senses its energy,
runs her fingers down it, listens to the sounds it makes. She asks herself, ”Do I really love the
way this feels?” And, “Does it love me as much as I love it?” She doesn’t understand why some
people shop, eat, or go to meetings as if it were all a chore. Venus in Capricorn delights in the
goodies of a cultured life. She’s an earth goddess; she loves trees and mountains too. But she’s
also an urban connoisseur, studying the city like a botanist looking for orchids in the Amazon.
For you to behave differently now would starve her. Don’t let the beauty of civilization escape
you.
Astrology graffiti says, “For a good time call… Venus and Jupiter!” Now that
you’re in the heart of this progression, you’re either the life of the party or
wondering when the phone will ring. As pleasure diva Mama Gena says, “If you
wanna glow, you gotta have fun!” You can passively wait for Venus and Jupiter
to bring you goodies. But I recommend jump-starting the process. To “do” Venus
and Jupiter, you need to raise your appetite for fun and your ability to feed it.
Mama Gena has some great suggestions. Create a pleasure basket for
yourself—fill it with all the little goodies you enjoy. Be adventurous—say yes to
an invitation you’d normally decline. Or take a chore that’s normally not fun—like
doing the laundry or commuting to work—and turn this into a pleasure-filled
event, with snacks, entertainment, or whatever would bring you delight!
Progressed Venus and Jupiter will likely add a few surprises of their own.
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January 12:
Solar Arc Jupiter is Sextile your natal
Venus.
January 19 at 2:49 am:
Transiting Venus enters
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your 2 House of resources
January 31 at 8:54 am Venus conjunct
Saturn (discipline, structure, responsibility)
February 6 at 4:26 am Venus conjunct
Jupiter (wealth, optimism, luck and
prosperity)
January 21:
Transiting Mars
Quincunx your
progressed
Venus
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A proactive approach to your 1 house Venus transit may leave you feeling more confident. What if you
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raised your value even higher? That’s what actively working a 2 house Venus transit can do. This is your
house of wealth. Till the soil now, plant seeds, and your wealth can grow. Start with a little brainstorming
session. Get out a piece of paper, blank on both sides. On one side write: “What would make me feel
more prosperous?” On the other: “What would make me feel more productive?” Answer each question
with the wide-ranging free-associative style that’s useful in brainstorming. Jump around. Let one idea
trigger another. Keep going until both sides are filled—with smart, wild, silly, stupid, scary, and inspiring
ideas. Scan your responses with a quiet mind and soft-focused eyes. One or more ideas will step forward.
Either your eyes will keep returning to them, they’ll seem to rise from the page, or your body will somehow
signal its approval. Pick at least one idea from each side of the page and convert it into a goal. Go for it
with Venus’ blessings!
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
January 25:
Transiting Mars
Square your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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She’s sudden as weather, wild as a lightning storm, and kind as the clouds. From her sky god
February 2 at 2:47 am:
daddy, Aquarius Venus was blessed with an unlimited mind. She can think up ideas no one ever
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thought before. She can hold global conflicts without choosing sides. She’s gifted in the art of
Aquarius
telepathy, knowing what the email says before it arrives. She can hear every radio station playing
in the universe. So how does she keep her sanity? She tunes it all out. Except for one frequency.
2/9 at 10:25 am: the Moon and Venus
The one that’s playing her song. “Now find your own melody,” she invites “and dance to it.”
*kiss* in Aquarius
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Venus disappears from the morning sky. Fragments of ancient myths suggest that when
February 16:
Venus disappears, she enters the Underworld. During her 18-month cycle, Venus “disappears”
twice—like now, when she’s out of view for about six weeks, transitioning from morning to
evening star, and again, when she’s invisible for about a week, as she transitions from evening
to morning star. Modern astrologers are unsure of what these underworld visits mean— or even
if the current morning-to-evening transition was actually considered an underworld visit by ancient
priests. We do know that it is a turning point in her cycle. And it may bring a turning point in your own
experience of Venus themes—love, creativity or abundance. Observe how these areas of your life
unfold over the next few weeks and draw your own conclusions.
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Let Venus bring new magic to your 3 house with just three little words. Along with “I love you,” she loves
February 18 at 8:54 pm:
to say ”Tell me more!” Utter these three little words as often as possible. Work them into every
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conversation. Notice how they energize the one you’re talking to. Venus is a fascinating conversationalist
your 3 House of learning and
because she’s curious. She listens to others with real interest. And because she listens, she always
communication
knows just what to say. Venus is a social goddess, but even when you’re all alone, you can scan the room
or the street and let your eyes land somewhere. Inwardly say “Tell me more” to whatever you see. Your
February 22 at 2:46 am Venus conjunct
world will open up in surprising ways. I believe we are surrounded by “devas,” the invisible intelligence or
Moon (emotions, intuition, mothering)
spirits guiding all the forms you see—there is a deva of zucchini, a deva of the coffee beans in your coffee
February 24 at 3:00 pm Venus conjunct
cup, there’s a cloud deva in the sky. Open to them. Listen to them. How long they’ve been waiting to tell
South Node (past life talents and
you
their secrets!
unconscious tendencies)
March 3 at 6:18 am Venus conjunct Chiron,
the Wounded Healer (wounds and gifts)
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February 26 at 2:03 am:
Transiting Venus enters
Pisces
3/11 at 11:33 am: the Moon and
Venus *kiss* in Pisces
February 28:
Transiting Mars
Trine your
progressed
Venus
Aphrodite has a magic girdle that can make anyone & anything beautiful Venus in Pisces has
a similar gift. It’s called imagination. And it works like fairy dust, invisibly transforming what she
sees, so there’s nowhere she can go, no one she can meet that disappoints or displeases her.
A gloomy day? She sees the strokes of a master artist in the clouds. The shop is closed? She
imagines what fun the owner is having. This goddess knows just how to be with whatever is right
now—which means she doesn’t live in the past, mourn loves lost, and never, ever pities her bad
fortune.
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
March 5:
Transiting Mars
Sextile your
natal Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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This goddess makes things new. She lives in a vibrant aliveness, without boundaries. She goes
where she’s never been before. How can you do this without an unlimited budget or time? Just
look at life as though it were a fresh discovery. Forget your judgments. Your tired old concepts.
Let life become an adventure. What if you’d never seen a rose before? Wouldn’t it amaze you?
Wouldn’t you slow down and bring your nose into its exquisite center and inhale? What if you’d
4/10 at 5:25 pm: the Moon and Venus
never seen your lover before? It might be exciting to wake up and find this other person lying
*kiss* in Aries
next to you. With Venus in Aries, take nothing or granted. Like any adventurer, you’ll make some
surprising self discoveries.
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March 22 at 3:15 am:
Transiting Venus enters
Aries
March 28 at
5:05 pm
We have not seen Venus for weeks as she’s traveled with the Sun, but now she’s
reached her turning point. Conjunct the Sun at 8 Aries, she is in the heart
of her Underworld journey. What has been happening to her beyond the veil? Consider what’s
been happening in your own life. You are a special jewel in the countless reflections of her journey.
I tend to think of this of this meeting between Sun and Venus (often called their “superior” conjunction)
as her coronation. Throughout the months since her “interior” Sun/Venus conjunction, she has been
ascending to her throne through celestial gates (signified by each Moon/Venus “kiss”). Now as she
receives her crown, you see in your own life a fulfillment of earlier dreams—or a reckoning for hopes
dashed or deferred. Either way, you’ve learned a few things about love, creativity, and prosperity.
Venus will soon shine as an evening star, becoming a more mature, refined and civilizing influence.
May you become so too.
Meditate on what you have achieved since the beginning of this current Venus cycle: June 6, 2012.
There is another flowering—from seeds planted at the last Sun/Venus conjunction near this degree.
March 27, 2009 at 7 Aries. What were you dreaming of then? Is a celebration in order now?
April 8:
Transiting Mars
Square your
progressed
Venus
It’s a passion day. Somewhere deep within the recesses of your psyche, Ares and Aphrodite will meet today and
helplessly surrender to their desire. You may feel this as an energetic surge, or spontaneous passion—for a lover, or
simply your life! It’s a good day for romping in the wild or between the sheets. But if you’re feeling dull and
disconnected (it happens), you can wake yourself up by writing a seductive love letter—to a real or imaginary (and
maybe future?) friend. Choose sensuous paper and pens, with colors, scents, and textures that delight you. Arouse
your lover by using the word “you” more than “I,” describing the details of your lover’s body and mind that delight
you. Send, hand-deliver, or sneak your letter into your lover’s bed or laptop. Light a candle and imagine your lover
(or future lover!) discovering and reading your letter. May you both be as aroused as bees in summer.
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Venus in the 4 wants to live in the lap of luxury. Advertisers understand this. When they use the adjective
April 9 at 5:46 pm:
“luxury” to describe whatever they’re selling—whether it’s condominiums, cars, or chocolates--they know it
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will
increase consumer desire. You can celebrate Venus’ visit to this house by buying something luxurious
your 4 House of home and
for
your
home. Bring in new colors. Add something beautiful and natural. Or simply savor the luxuries you
emotional roots
already have. First try this visualization. Imagine yourself as any of the millions of people on this earth who
are living in conditions much less luxurious than yours. Imagine you are the one whose house burned
down last night. Or you’re the widow of a Ugandan farmer. You’re in a tent with your sister’s children in a
crowded refuge camp. Maybe you’re an abandoned orphan sleeping in the sewers of a major city. Or
you’re a housewife in a war-torn neighborhood in the Middle East. You have no water or electricity. And
you’re terrified to go to the market. Now imagine that as this person you are given a home just like the one
you’re living in right now. Through your imagined fellow human’s eyes, enjoy all the luxuries there. Savor
your blessings. Your foundations. This is a heart-opening exercise too. Feeling compassion for all beings
also raises your Venus.
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What would life be, what pleasure without Golden Aphrodite?
May I die when secret love and sweet gifts and the bed
mean nothing to me any more. Such things are the flower
of our prime, delightful to men and women.
Mimnermus