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Presorted Standard U.S. Postage PAID Princeton, NJ Permit #389 VOLUME 47 / No. 10 Monroe Township, New Jersey OCTOBER 2011 Rossmoor floods take toll on residents By Jean Hoban Although Hurricane Irene had been predicted to have a major impact on the East Coast and warnings were given by Governor Chris Christie, Mayor Bloomberg, and every newscaster and weather girl or guy on TV, no one was really ready for the devastation caused by massive flooding, downed trees, and a power outage that lasted more than a week in some areas of New Jersey and New York. Monroe Township was among the hardest hit localities in Middlesex County. During the storm the north- ern area of the township was cut off from first responders and general traffic because of flooded roads. In Rossmoor residents in Mutual 8, had no way to stop the water that washed over Applegarth Road and into their homes on the night of August 27 and the morning of August Flooding caused a waterfall near Onset Lane. 28. Pumps that had been put in place at the start of the storm were no match for the deluge that overtook the backyards and drains behind and beside the homes and carports on Nantuckett Lane and Nautilus Court. Mutual 8 directors asked residents living in those areas to evacuate their homes and seek shelter with family or friends, go to hotels, or to the Clubhouse. Some who did go to the Clubhouse found that though dry and safe it was not without drawbacks. Like most of the homes in Rossmoor the Clubhouse did not have electricity. Generators were installed to light the Red Room and the restrooms for those who sought shelter. Channel 3 had advised that during Hurricane Irene those who wished to relocate to the Clubhouse should bring their own pillows blankets and medication. Some complained of a lack of couches, food or coffee. When the power went out at midnight on Saturday most of us believed that it would be back on by Sunday morning. Of course this did not happen and that meant most of us went without our morning joe either in a cup or on TV. By now most of you have heard rumors and stories of incidents that occurred during the storm. We know that many of our neighbors in Mutual 8 were forced out of their homes; we saw the big green Serv-pro trucks parked on Nantuckett Lane and Nautilus Court and witnessed the huge amount of wet carpeting, furniture, and debris that was pulled out of first floor units. Maintenance and Millennium workers joined the crews of Serv-Pro in removing wet sheetrock and flooring from the condos. The homeowners of these damaged units were exhausted and frustrated by the demands of the clean-up and the knowledge that these same units had flooded in the past. They wanted answers and relief. This reporter met with some of those who had suffered the most loss. Walking through Joan and Joe Di Paolo’s Vermont manor at 327 B Nantuckett Lane was like stepping on a saturated sponge, the furniture that could be salvaged was piled in the middle of the living room. Joan was pale and tired, very tired. Terry McGinnis was sitting (Continued on page 15) Kiwanis Club of Rossmoor makes Citizen of the Year selections By Joan Avery Dan Jolly and Muriel Calvanelli have been chosen by the Kiwanis Club of Rossmoor to be “Citizens of the Year” for 2011. They are to be honored at a luncheon to be held at the East Brunswick Chateau on Cranbury Road in East Brunswick on Friday, October 21, at 12 noon. Tickets are $28 each and reservations must be made by calling Dr. Virginia O. Allen at 655-4641. Dinner selections are roast beef, chicken Francaise, and salmon. Please note that checks must be made out to the Kiwanis Club of Rossmoor and received by October 14, before reservations can be confirmed. All are welcome. “Citizens of the Year” are selected on the basis of their leadership in community organizations, administrative service in Rossmoor as well as other volunteer and charitable activities. Dan Jolly Since Dan and Barbara Jolly moved to Rossmoor in February of 2000, Dan’s commitment to serving his Inside this issue Clubs ...................... 17 Crossword Puzzle ... 21 Culinary Corner....... 19 Healthcare .............. 29 Letters to Editor ........ 3 Looking Back ............ 9 Mutuals ................... 24 RCAI Meetings .......... 2 Religion ................... 26 Sam’s Eye View ........ 5 Sports...................... 24 Tales of Rossmoor .... 8 community and its many organizations is extraordinary. Dynamic is the only word that can be used to describe this man of many talents. Dan became a Director of Mutual 5 immediately upon moving here and was elected president of Mutual 5 three months later. He is still in that position and the residents of Mutual 5 have great pride in living there since Dan has made significant positive changes in that Mutual. Dan started his commitment to Rossmoor by serving on the Renovation Committee for the Village Center; the Club House Renovation Committee; the Pool Renovation Committee in 2005; and the Ballroom Renovation Project (CRABS Committee). Dan was skilled in contract negotiations; therefore, he was involved in the Trash Contract Committee; the Bus Committee and Bus Contract (Continued on page 33) Kiwanis Citizens of the Year, Muriel Calvanelli and Dan Jolly. 2 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS Rossmoor News Editorial By Joe Conti Mollie Fitzpatrick, RCAI President, opened the monthly Board of Governors meeting at 9:05 a.m. with the Pledge of Allegiance. gm Joan Avery gave the Community Affairs report on the E&R events. Moya Brady reported on the HealthCare Center statistics and the future caregivers program. Ms. Brady announced that flu shots will be given on September 21 and October 5. Muriel Calvanelli reported that there was some discussion on creating a committee to work on emergency evacuation plans for the community. Ms. Avery announced that the Committee approved the proposed Channel 3 Policy and Procedures. Vincent Marino, Jr. reported on the resolution voting outcome of the Maintenance Committee meeting and stated that representatives from RM Termite and Pest Control gave a presentation to the Committee. Gerald McQuade reported that the Financial Analysis reports and year to date expenses were reviewed at the Finance Committee meeting. Mr. McQuade reported on the resolution voting outcome of the Finance Committee meeting. Peter Kaznosky reported that the Golf Course Committee recommended one resolution to the Board of Governors and that the Lance Corporal Colin Pascik golf tournament is being held tomorrow. gm The Governors supported the Community Affairs recommendation to accept the proposed Channel 3 Policy and Procedures. gm The RCAI Reserve Study has scheduled to set aside $34,480 in 2017 to resurface the swimming pool and hot pool. The Board of Governors approved a resolution to resurface the pool and hot pool, including the removal of up to 50 feet of delaminated plaster; cut under the tile line and around all fittings; cut around race lines; apply bond coat for better plaster adhesion; install transition lines on edge of each step; and apply one coat of Diamond-Brite pool plaster at a cost of $41,789.35 including $32,905 for the project; $2,303.35 for sales tax and $6,581 contingency of 20%. The expenditure will be charged to the RCAI Reserve Fund Account. gm The RCAI Reserve Study set aside $6,800 for the replacement of the air conditioning system for the Maintenance Office Building. The Board of Governors approved a resolution to replace the 3.5 ton air conditioning system with one new Trane 3.5 ton high efficient 16 Seer air conditioning system and fabricate and install a new trunk duct Open RCAI meetings in October Wednesday, October 12 Golf Course Committee ..................................... 1:30 p.m. Thursday, October 13 Community Affairs Committee ........................... 9:00 a.m. Thursday, October 13 Maintenance Committee ................................. 10:00 a.m. Thursday, October 13 Finance Committee ......................................... 11:00 a.m. Thursday, October 20 Board of Governors ........................................... 9:00 a.m. All meetings are held in the Village Center Meeting Room News Board: Joe Conti, Chair Carol DeHaan, Jack Seiber, Madeline Reed, Sam Newman, Jean Hoban, and ex-officio, Jane Balmer, General Manager. News Coordinator: Sue Ortiz as space permits. All copy and pictures are subject to editing and are accepted with this understanding. Letters to the Editor must be emailed to PES at [email protected] and clearly marked Rossmoor News. Editorial Office: The Rossmoor News is 2 Rossmoor Drive, published monthly and is mailed Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 to every home within the Rossmoor community. News items are welcome. Appropriate news items from outside organizations will be considered E-mail Sue Ortiz: [email protected] the length of the attic at a cost of $16,240.76 including $12,788 for the project; $895.16 for sales tax and $2,557.60 contingency of 20%. The expenditure will be charged to the RCAI Reserve Fund Account. gm The RCAI Capital Budget set aside $1,200 to purchase round tables. The Board of Governors approved a resolution to replace one 6’ table with a 5’ speckled beige circular table and three additional 5’ circular tables at a cost of $1,319.32. The expenditure will be charged to the RCAI Capital Expenditures Account. gm The Golf Course Capital Reserve Study funded for the anticipated expenditure of $11,492 for the 17th hole greenside/fairway bunker renovation. The Board of Governors approved a resolution to rebuild the 17th hole bunker including, but not limited to, grading, drainage, new sand and new sod around the bunkers at a cost not to exceed $11,492. The expenditure will be charged to the Golf Course Capital Reserve Fund Account. Hurricane Irene hit our community with all her fury on Saturday, August 27. However, it did not come without warning. As a matter of fact, we all had almost a week to prepare and therein lies the dilemma. To their credit, staff and RCAI issued a TV bulletin on Thursday, August 25, advising residents that before the hurricane they might consider leaving Rossmoor and staying with relatives or friends. RCAI also let viewers of Channel 3 know that the Clubhouse would be available for those who preferred not to be alone. Residents seeking to sleep in the Clubhouse were told to bring their own bedding, food, and medicine. The fact is however, that Rossmoor is not an evacuation center, and was never designed as such, but when members of the community get displaced by flooding and have to be relocated immediately there is only the refuge of the Clubhouse to house them. It is the opinion of this newspaper and many in the community that our staff and management team could have been better prepared. When 38 residents were first evacuated to the Clubhouse they were without water, cups, or food of any kind. No one expected to be served hot food but cookies, crackers, peanut butter, and other staples that do not require refrigeration could have been stocked in one of the kitchen pantries in anticipation of the storm. Poor lighting was also a concern. Dealing with flooded homes, displacement, no food, no coffee, and no electricity was very hard on the evacuees. We know that those of us who had only to deal with the power outage were less than happy campers. As a result of this lack of preparedness the Rossmoor News has learned that a committee will be formed to develop procedures to handle similar situations. We hope that it will never have to be used, but we now realize that an occurrence where we are without power and at the mercy of Mother Nature can be made more tolerable with just a minimum of effort. For every experience, good or bad, there’s a lesson to be learned. So pardon the cliché but “If we don’t learn from history, we are likely to repeat it.” Letters to the editor The Rossmoor pamphlet that is distributed to perspective buyers of homes states that Rossmoor has “the charm of colonial New England.” In the description it further states that “Rossmoor has an old New England serenity.” “A steepled Meeting House soars above the community to complete the appearance of a colonial town set in central New Jersey.” This description was accurate until a few weeks ago. The colonial style Meeting House now has two huge contemporary style black planters in front of it. These planters ruin the ambience of The Rossmoor News and Princeton Editorial Services (PES) are not liable for any typographical or printing errors that may appear, including in its display or classified advertising, over the cost of the space of the advertisement. The advertisements here are, to the best of the publisher’s knowledge, accurate representations of the products and services offered. However, no endorsements are intended or implied. Acceptance of all advertising materials is at the discretion of the publisher. the Meeting House. They are now the dominant features of the once beautifully serene white Meeting House. The August issue of the Rossmoor News contains an article and pictures documenting the reconstruction of the Meeting House steps. The article states that bluestone will be used and “will maintain the same appearance as before.” Nowhere is there any mention of the two planters. I have spoken to numerous members of the Board of Governors and none of them recall the mat- ter of the planters being presented and voted upon. The members were told that the landscaping at the Meeting House had become overgrown and the planters were put in place as an answer to that problem. No one I have spoken to knows how much the planters cost. Additional funds will be needed to provide for plantings in the boxes. It is very upsetting to know that someone has the power to cause such a major change on a Rossmoor icon. (Continued on page 3) Meeting House before... Email display ads to: [email protected] Telephone: 732-761-8534 ...and after. Visit the Rossmoor website at www.rossmoor-nj.com Photos from www.rossmoor-nj.com The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Reducing your electricity costs? (Choosing an alternative electricity supplier) By Ken Meyers That statement is a fallacy! Under New Jersey Energy De-Regulation, the SUPPLY (Generation) portion of your electric bill is calculated separately from the DELIVERY portion. Since the supply portion is open to competition, all customers of JCP&L (the utility), can shop for the best price from an ever-growing number of suppliers who have gone as far as suggesting you can save 20% of your electricity bill by signing with them. How It Works Each February, utility companies — and those registered as suppliers — bid for bulk electrical service. This is the basis for the rates charged for generation to consumers for the kilowatts used. The current bulk auction pricing is blended with the previous two years of auctions to determine the current cost. Those figures are sent to the Board of Letters ________ (Continued from page 2) People in power need to remember that they represent the entire community and are bound by the wishes and standards of that community. We need an Architectural Design and Review Committee composed of knowledgeable and qualified members to protect the community from the whims and tastes of a few. Any recommendations made by the committee must be approved by the Board of Governors. The entire community should also be given an opportunity to provide input. Rossmoor is a well planned and lovely place in which to reside. We need to provide safe guards to keep it that way. Marianna Sandor Mutual 10 FERNS Ferns at the North gate, I don’t know what to do. To make a left turn, They tend to block my view. Last year I made a request And upon my advice They cut the ferns down. That was very, very nice. It is a safety issue When leaving the North gate. I can’t see oncoming traffic. Cut down the ferns; don’t wait. Herb Junker Better Late than Never Thanks to E&R for offering the Fitness Center orientation to residents. A knowledgeable young man named Eric representing Public Utilities for review and to determine overall applicability to competition, regulatory responsibility and de-regulation. The BPU then approves or denies a supplier’s request for the new proposed rate schedule. If denied, the supplier asks for a hearing and attempts to justify its cost structure for the rates charged. Choosing a Supplier Prior to deregulation, your (Continued on page 4) Fitness Lifestyles of Asbury Park gave a comprehensive lecture/demonstration of all the equipment. He cheerfully responded to all questions, ensuring that everyone present could visit the facility again with confidence. A trained and (hopefully) certified fitness instructor can demonstrate and monitor any initial attempts. This is not a situation for trial and error. With the benefit of the orientation, now I can take advantage of this amenity, keeping in mind Eric's advice to do more repetitions at lower resistance rather than plunge ahead on too demanding a challenge. Lorraine Sarhage Mutual One The deadline for The Rossmoor News is the 7th of every month. 3 4 October 2011 Electricity _______ (Continued from page 3) only choice for electricity was your utility (JCP&L). Now, under deregulation, the consumer can choose a supplier other than his current utility, and nothing should change except a reduction in the cost per kilowatt hour. Electricity service will continue to be fully serviced by the The Rossmoor NEWS consumer’s utility (JCP&L), including the billing and maintenance of any faulty transmission lines. If the consumer currently has budget billing with his or her existing utility, it should continue with the new supplier. If not, the consumer should choose another supplier. How to Choose All electric supply companies fall into one of three categories 1. Subsidiaries of utility companies who market directly to the consumer; 2. Independent companies that use agents for marketing their services; or 3. Independent companies that market directly to the consumer. Every supplier has alternative programs available to consumers and these programs can change monthly. It is imperative to comparison shop for service with several suppliers. (See website below for information on the various suppliers). Current programs for all suppliers fall into one of the following categories: 1. Fixed Rate Plans Contract terms can vary from three months to two years depending on the supplier. At the end of the contract period, you may be offered a variable plan unless you sign another contract. Some vendors automatically renew for the same period so make sure you are aware of supplier’s new pricing before the end of your current contract. 2. Floating or Variable Pricing – Will rise and fall on a monthly basis as it tracks the wholesale cost of electricity. Since the customer’s price is a percentage of the wholesale cost, there is a guaranteed built-in saving regardless of the direction of the wholesale price movement. 3. Hybrid - as the name implies, it is a combination of fixed and variable pricing. In most cases the customer pays a fixed price for a specific period of time and a variable rate for the balance of the contract period. There are currently 21 alternative electricity suppliers offering discounts of between seven and 15 % to residential customers. JCP&L’s published residential summer kilowatt rate is .1123 cents / kilowatt hour. Summer is May through September. Last year’s winter rate was .1195 cents / kilowatt hour. If your proposed supplier says its rates are 10% below JCP&L, you will save 1.1 cents per KWH. If you use 1000 KWH per month, your saving will be approximately 11 dollars. Do not expect huge savings, unless you use huge amounts of electricity. The supplier names, address and phone numbers can be found at the following website; www.nj.gov/bpu/commercial/ shopping Click on JCP&L to view alternative suppliers in their area. Important Questions To Ask a Potential Supplier! 1. What are my contract choices? 2. What penalties will I incur if I break my contract? 3. Does your price include New Jersey tax? 4. Are their any other charges or fees included in your price? 5. Can I budget bill with you? 6. Can I review your contract before accepting your offer? How? 7. How long are your current offers valid? 8. Can I try your service before committing to a long-term contract? 9. How long after signing a contract will service begin? 10. How long has your company been in the electrical business? 11. Why should I choose your company as my electricity supplier? Conclusion Several Mutuals are either looking or have chosen suppliers that fit their requirements and there are residents that have chosen to sign contracts with alternative suppliers. To date there has not been huge savings by switching suppliers and there is no evidence of significant electricity savings just by switching suppliers. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Caveat emptor ...buyer beware! Do your homework and contact as many suppliers as you can. You will save money but it does require some effort to evaluate the suppliers If you are not sure how to proceed, try the following approach: Choose a supplier with the lowest published Kilowatt rate (as compared to JCP&L); Ask for the shortest contract period (usually month-to-month), with no penalty for termination and try it out. You can always go back to JCP&L. Stay comfortable. IMPORTANT NOTICE The Rossmoor Health-care Center is now open from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. St. Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, furnishes professional nursing services by registered nurses for our residents during these hours. The Rossmoor NEWS 5 October 2011 Sam’s Eye View By Sam Newman When I was growing up, neither I, nor my peer group, would likely have been called members of the intelligentsia (surprises you, doesn’t it?) Consequently, any word consisting of more than four or five letters didn’t exist in our vocabulary. So it wasn’t shocking that none of us kids ever uttered the word “genealogy.” Even if we had known the meaning of the word, it is doubtful that it would have had an effect on us. It was a different era and we weren’t as curious then, perhaps because we didn’t have the means to satisfy our curiosity that we have today. How did we kids go about trying to learn something of our ancestry? The only Google familiar to us was a comic strip character by the name of Barney Google. That Google wasn’t going to help find out who our grandparents were and where they came from. The best source of information, if not a parent, was usually an aunt or uncle who would ponder a bit and then respond something like this, “I think.” They never really “knew” but they “thought” your grand- father was a carpenter or “could have been” a doctor. By the mid 20th century, our sedentary technology exploded and new worlds opened. We explored space. TV picture tubes were no longer a necessity. (10% of my salary went for TV tubes). Microwave ovens came into existence to make life easier in the kitchen. The rotary phone vanished into oblivion although when making a business call, I am sometimes asked if I am using one. But in all probability the computer is what has altered our lives more than anything else I can think of. And that brings me back to genealogy. People everywhere are searching for their family history and in most cases it does not pose a problem. I don’t fall into that category. My family was very small. Both of my parents passed away when they were quite young. I was 12 years old when I lost my father. They were gone before I had the desire to explore my roots. Only an aunt remained who might have been some help except for the fact that she adamantly refused to bring up any part of her past in what she called the “Old Country.” She was in love with America (who could blame her?) and wanted to forget her past in Europe. Years later, with the advent of the computer and a longing to learn more of my family history, I sought the aid of computer wizards (including my two sons) to find whatever they could. No one was able to come up with anything. There wasn’t a bit of evidence that my family, beyond my parents, ever existed. Then Ellis Island opened to the public and hordes came from everywhere to find the names of immigrant relatives posted, dating their arrivals and other information. I thought this was my chance at last to find when my parents arrived in America. Such was not to be the case. No mention of a Benjamin or Lena Newman at all. The one thing I was absolutely sure of was that they did indeed come through Ellis Island. Yet no mention. Did they swim across the ocean? I gave up searching a long time ago realizing that the names of many immigrants, upon entry to our shores, were changed when recorders couldn’t spell them. Who really knows what my father’s name could have been? I sometimes wonder what might have happened in my life had my parents, on the day I was born and given the name Sam, taken a lead from Ellis Island and changed it to Paul. Exp. 10/31/11 6 October 2011 Happy Halloween By Bob Huber Just as we bid farewell to our ten-year association with Harry Potter, we turn to find Halloween is fast approaching, with its own assortment of ghosts, goblins and things that go bump in the night. Halloween, October 31st, is the one night in the year when parents allow their children to engage in a mild form of extortion known as “Trick or Treat.” Happily, for both tricksters and treaters, it is a harmless once-a-year event, except for those individuals, such as gas station operators and bankers, who decide to take up extortion as a career. Like so many occasions, the origin of Halloween is a little obscure. Some say it dates back to a Roman festival celebrating Pomona, the goddess of fruits and seeds, but the more accepted version links Halloween to the Celtic festival of Samhain, roughly translated from Old Irish to mean “summer’s end.” At one time, the event also had religious significance. The ancient Gaels believed that October 31 was the day that the boundaries overlapped between the worlds of the living and the dead, and the deceased would come back to life and cause havoc. Dressing up in spooky costumes was an attempt to scare them off. We have the 16th century Scots to thank for the term “Halloween,” which was their version of All-HallowsEven, (the night before the mass-day of all saints). It was the Scottish and Irish immigrants who brought Halloween to America in the nineteenth century, but the artifacts and symbols associated with the occasion have changed over time. The European custom of carving turnips into lanterns as a way of remembering the souls in purgatory became the jack-o’lantern carved from the American pumpkin. The custom of children dressing up in costumes and going from door-todoor begging for treats dates back to the Middle Ages and included other special events such as Christmas. Initially, the practice was called “guising.” The term “trick-or -treat” didn’t appear until the 1920s, and unfortunately, the “trick” often involved outright vandalism. In rural America, tipping over outdoor privies was a classic prank. We recall the story of a farmer who came home to find that, not only was his privy on it side, but his buggy was perched on The Rossmoor NEWS Musings & Memories By Betty Emmons his roof, and his horse was munching apples from a bowl on his dining room table. But trick-or-treat didn’t really hit its stride in America until after WW II when sugar was no longer rationed. Candy bar manufacturers discovered a whole new market by packaging their products in small bite size amounts to be handed out to the ghosts and goblins who showed up at the door on Halloween. For the most part, this has been a successful practice, since there is very little vandalism associated with trick-ortreating these days. The ancient rituals that spawned Halloween have mostly been forgotten, and the event survives on its own. Come the dawn of November 1st there will be millions of children with belly aches from eating too much candy, and millions of adults will be hung over from drinking too much “cider” at local house parties. This, too, shall pass, and we can excuse these mild indiscretions by saying, “The devil made me do it.” Happy Halloween! Memories of Mother or MOM Always at this time of the year when the leaves start to fall I think of a song my mom used to sing to me: Come little leaves said the wind one day, Come o’er the meadows with me and play. Put on your dresses of red and gold, For summer is gone and the days grow cold. There were more verses but this is always enough to set my thoughts of my mom in motion. She made life for me as gentle as the leaves she sang about despite any and all circumstances. It wasn’t always easy but she lived life in a positive way and every task was done with love and caring and our home reflected who she was. Take for instance her cooking. It wasn’t fancy, but it was good and, no matter what we had, it was always served beautifully. And there was always enough to share with anyone who might stop by. Her baked lima beans, sweet and sour red cabbage, and a kale dish made with oatmeal and bacon were only topped by her homemade vegetable soup which I think was made in a bottomless pot because we never seemed to run out of it. No matter, it was delicious and I never tired of it. And, let me tell you, to open the back door on a cold winter’s night and be greeted by the aroma of the soup and the warmth of the kitchen – well there was nothing quite like it and this memory warms my heart to this day. Next, I would like to tell you about her sparkling clean windows and the dotted Swiss curtains with the fluted ruffles. Truly a sight to be seen but, too, I remember the patience and painstaking effort it took to stretch those curtains on an old-fashioned frame. Why, just to put the frame together you had to be some kind of genius and, from my observation of this inanimate object, I would swear it had a nasty disposition all its own that inflicted pain that would make a pin cushion cry. In any case, pin pricks and all, it made my mom happy and the end result was the windows were beautiful and a sight to behold. At the time I just took it all for granted but I now know it was a labor of love and it showed. Now, the third thing I think (Continued on page 7) The Rossmoor NEWS Musings ________ (Continued from page 6) I will tell you, to complete this vignette of my mom, was her driving ability or lack thereof. My dad taught her to drive on the long driveway to our house and I distinctly remember him saying, one evening, “Let’s go out and practice some more, there is still one bush left standing.” In time she actually did learn to drive but she never really got the part that a car ran on gas and so on a Saturday morning when downtown Christmas traffic was quite heavy, we turned a corner and the car stopped in the middle of an intersection. Cars were stuck behind us and on either side of us, and it wasn’t long before horns began to blow and a policeman appeared at the window and told mother to move on. She then got out of the car and politely handed him the keys and suggested he move it if he could. Well, of course, he couldn’t so he had it pushed to the side of the road and she called home. Now my dad, who was not a mechanic by any means, realized the problem and arrived with a can of gasoline and very quickly we were on our way. My mother was a lovely lady who took each day as it came: A really gentle soul from another era. (Today they would say she didn’t sweat the small stuff.) I was blessed by who she was and, to quote my dad, she was truly the best of mothers. 1 Rossmoor Drive Monroe Township NJ 08831 609-395-6806 Drive carefully around hikers and bikers! October 2011 7 8 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS Tales of Rossmoor By Tom La Cascia Tails from Rossmoor October 29 is National Cat Day - cats everywhere, however, know that every day is cat day. It is my contention that it is no coincidence that National Cat Day is celebrated only a day or so before Halloween. There is an unwarranted suspicion and legend that black cats are bad luck. Please, if you think about it, black cats being bad luck really depends on whether you are a man or a mouse. The legend stemmed from the belief that witches could transform themselves into cats so that they could perform evil deeds incognito during the night. This is typical nonsense - as everyone knows, witches turn into wives of husbands who do not listen to them. Cats prefer a more positive image – early Egyptians worshipped cats as deities, especially black ones, and would execute anyone who harmed them. This is a practice that my wife, Ann and our two cats Cyrus and Scipio, consider quite fitting. As you all know, our cats join us for breakfast every morning however, they also join us on those evenings when we have our cocktail hour – an event which is usually accompanied by hors d’oeuvres. Ann, on today’s cocktail hour, is having 15 year old single malt Glenfiddich Scotch on the rocks which may be followed by a Rusty Nail which is a drink composed of Dewar’s Scotch and Drambuie. I have an icy cold Margarita straight up with a thin slice of lime on the rim. The hors d’oeuvres are those silver dollar size crab cakes we get from a restaurant nearby. Cyrus and Scipio are enjoying catnip and their favorite salmon flavored cat treats. On the wall across from us is an oil painting of Ann that I had commissioned during our honeymoon and was painted by a well known artist and friend. In my mind’s eye, I picture the four of us on a Norman Rockwell cover of the Saturday Evening Post magazine. This setting simply would not be complete without our two cats – we are family. When we return from shopping or a “night on the town,” Cyrus and Scipio greet us at the door. When we read a book or watch TV, they are in the room with us, and, often, sit with us on the couch. When we go to sleep, they may also join us on the bed. Warning, if they are sleeping on your place on the bed before you arrive, they take a very dim view of being moved to another spot. If you are not used to sleeping alone however, they make a wonderful companion. Cats also seem to have a great knack for knowing when their owners are upset or ill. They are very intuitive and gentle creatures! When Ann or I are in bed or on the couch with an ailment, one of the cats will always be at our side – they seem to know that we need comforting. Another great thing about cats is they are also very independent they appreciate your cuddles and care but can go off and do their own thing too. They are so elegant and have a great personality of their own! Of all the cats we’ve known - no one cat ever has had the same personality! They are like humans that way – they even have the same emotions that we do. They can joke, tease, cajole, be playful, show anger and disappointment, be indifferent, but, mostly, they are affectionate and loving. The 29th of October is going to be an extra special day not just about showering our cats with affection, but recognizing all the cats out there that are in need of being rescued! Did you know that nearly four million cats in the US are put into shelters every year? And between one and two million of those cats are put to sleep. So if you are lonely or need to expand your family, consider adopting a cat. Princeton Animal Shelter 900 Herrontown Road Princeton, NJ 08540 Telephone: (609) 921-6122 Fax: (609) 921-3040 E-mail: save@ savehomelessanimals.org The Princeton Animal Shelter has this message for seniors: “In an attempt to connect senior citizens with our animals who need love and a new home, SAVE, A Friend to Homeless Animals offers a ‘seniors for seniors’ program. Through this program, SAVE will waive adoption fees for senior citizens (65 years and older) who are willing to welcome one of our mature (five years and older) cats or dogs into their heart and home. “This program was developed to help find new homes for the numerous mature cats and dogs at our shelter that are often overlooked by potential adopters. Puppies and kittens are certainly cute, but an older dog or cat has a lot to offer a new owner too. These cats and dogs are usually already trained and housebroken and can be a lot calmer and easier to handle and care for, especially for older people. The personality and size of the animal is fully developed, so what you see is what you get. And, of course, these dogs and cats who have known true hardship will be eternally grateful to their new owner for giving them a second chance. “Seniors benefit from SAVE’s ‘seniors for seniors’ program also. Studies have actually proven that pet companionship can improve senior citizens’ health and outlook on life. By offering companionship and love to an often-lonely individual, pets can actually help to lower a person’s blood pressure and stress level and reduce the number or duration of illnesses. Pets allow the senior to feel happier, safer, and more needed.” The Princeton Animal Shelter also welcomes volunteers. Cyrus, Scipio, Ann and I wish happy tails to you. The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Looking Back By Jack Seiber 5 years ago – October 2006 Mayor Pucci’s column states that statistics recently released show Monroe Township’s crime rate for 2005 was 7.4 offenses per 1000 residents. Compared to the other 24 municipalities in Middlesex County, the crime rate is the second lowest, beaten only by tiny Helmetta. 10 years ago – October 2001 The new lights on the south side of the croquet court, which were expected in early June, were finally in place on the 5th of September. The new lighting makes evening play much more feasible. 20 years ago – October 1991 The Rossmoor Board of Governors held its first open meeting under the state’s condo sunshine law in a crowded Ballroom, September 12. The meeting was longer than usual as residents sitting in the audience were given the opportunity to step up to an open microphone and provide their input. 25 years ago – October 1986 RH Development Company, owners of the South Middlesex Industrial Park, announced recently that the 900-acre site in Monroe near Rossmoor is being renamed. Henceforth, it will be known as Center Point, according to Randy Hack, RH Development President. Political activity by both the Republican and Democratic clubs is underway with well attended September meetings of both clubs hearing pitches for the Congressional candidates for the 4th Congressional District. MONROE TWP. FIRE DISTRICT #3 AT YOUR SERVICE, ANYTIME. www.mtfd3.com 609–409–2980 On August 28, the Stony Brook-Milltown Watershed Organic Farm became the first Mercer County farm to be accepted into the New Jersey Farmland Preservation Program. The Farmland Preservation Program was created to encourage the continuation and development of agriculture in the Garden State, where the pressure to develop is increasing. 30 years ago – October 1981 Wendell A Smith, Rossmoor’s attorney for the recent court hearing, reported that approval was given by the court for the Heritage Bank to resign as Trustee, and for the Rossmoor Community Association, Inc. to serve as successor Trustee. Mr. Smith indicated an amendment is required in the bylaws, which would define more clearly the functions of the Executive Committee. Barbara Zweig and Monroe Drew sang the leading parts in Gilbert & Sullivan’s “Trial By Jury,” the musical production presented by the Rossmoor Players Choristers at the Meeting House on September 23-24. The house was packed with the Players receiving standing ovations both nights. September 27 began a new era in the history of Monroe Township with the dedication of a centralized administration center that truly represents the forward movement and vitality of this rapidly growing community. Monroe Township was one of seven New Jersey communities to have a rapid transit passenger car of the Port Authority Trans-Hudson (PATH) line named in its honor. Ceremonies were held September 18 at the Path Journal Square Transportation Center in Jersey City. 9 10 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS (s)milestones Rod Brown and Evelyn Russo (center) celebrating their birthdays. With them on the Terrace are Rod’s wife Jo and Evelyn’s husband John. Now Servicing the Rossmoor Community apartment and continued working in the Legal Department of Swift & Co. as the Navy sent Ed to Boston for an assignment to Europe and back. He heard of a possible transfer to San Francisco but instead qualified Ed and Alice Ryan for the Navy basketball team. Ed Alice and Ed Ryan of New Haven Way recently cele- was one of the players who brated their 66th wedding won the Third Naval District anniversary at a gathering of Championship, under Coach Neil Cohalan, who later befamily and friends. They were married on Au- came the first coach of the gust 18, 1945, in Saint famous New York KnickerSavier’s Church, Park Slope, bockers. On discharge, Ed went Brooklyn. At the time, Ed had 25 days’ leave from the Navy back to his former employer, and they went off for a hon- Todd Shipyards in Brooklyn, eymoon to Greenwood Lake, that is, until he heard that New York Mayor LaGuardia New York. On their return, Ed re- needed 3,000 new policeported to the Navy’s Brook- men. Undaunted by the lyn Armed Guard Center 27,000 other applicants, Ed where he worked as a signalman on the bridge. His job was to receive Morse code messages from ship convoys moving across the perilous North Atlantic. (Remember those Nazi U-boats?) Alice returned to their new passed the physical and mental tests for a career in the New York Police Department that took him to sergeant and eventually to lieutenant at the 18th Precinct on West 54th Street. On retiring from the Police Department, Ed became chief of security at the New York State Theater in Lincoln Center and eventually its general manager. That became a 22-year stint until he finally decided to retire for good. What was Alice doing all those years? Just keeping body and soul together for a family of six: the Ryan clan now included two daughters and two sons. Ed (having kept NYC on the straight and narrow for many years) and Alice (having kept four offspring on the straight and narrow at the same time) moved to Rossmoor in 1988. They have been our good neighbors ever since. Cead mile failte! Edison Township 9/11 Memorial Chauncey Ian Scott, grandson of Helen Ward DeMuro of Providence Way, and son of Ernest and Chauncey Ian Scott Donna Scott of Plainfield, won the design competition for the 9/11 Memorial for Edison Township, which commemorates the 11 local residents who were killed at the attack on the World Trade Center. Chauncey accomplished this while he was a senior at Bishop George Ahr High School in Edison. He went on to earn a degree from Rutgers University in New Brunswick and is now employed in the Information Technology Department of Johnson & Johnson. The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Dastardly deeds do gooders return October 22 By Tom La Cascia If you are a Rossmoor resident who n e e d s household cleaning in the form of vacuuming, w i n d o w cleaning, bathroom or kitchen cleaned, etc. or minor household repairs, it is available to you on October 22 – FREE! This will be accomplished for you by real sincere “do gooders” from the Sayre Woods Bible Church who are dedicated to doing God’s work. Yes, this group is coming back to Rossmoor, as they do twice a year every year, to help where help is needed. They are truly eager to help – Ann and I have let them loose in our home, and they did wonders. Below is a letter from their spokesman. Dear Rossmoor Community, For the past seven years friends and members of Sayre Woods Bible Church have been coming to Rossmoor to minister to the needs of seniors in any way they can. Every April and October, we contact our friends at Rossmoor and wash their windows, clean their blinds and do light housekeeping. We call our ministry “The Love Your Neighbor Outreach,” and that is exactly what we try to do “love our neighbors.” On October 22, we again will be coming to your community. If you or anyone you know has a true need, you may contact Michael DeRisi At the Hammer Museum By Ed and Shirley Muench Where would you go to visit the world’s only museum dedicated to hammers? You would end up in Haines, Alaska, just as we did in July. We met with the owner and craftsman, Dave Pahl, who built the “hammer bike,” truly one of a kind. He used 16 hammers for the front wheel spokes, five for the smaller wheel, two hatchets for the handlebars, and two crowbars for the backbone. There are 26 hammers in all. According to Dave, his wife won’t let him ride it until he buys more life insurance. He has already built two wheels for a modern bike. Work on that bike might have to wait until he has his next bout of cabin fever. He promised to send me pictures of this new bike when it is complete. at 908-420-6195 or Mark Scott at 908-217-6336. Thank you for the opportunity to show God’s love. Always in His service, Michael DeRisi Mark Scott This group is dedicated to help the elderly in Rossmoor and they will be truly grateful to be of service. Your need will fulfill their need to be of service to you and their fellow man as well as doing God’s will. This group will not accept food, drink or gratuities. Their reward is helping you. 11 12 October 2011 On Saturday, August 27 Rossmoor residents, as well as many other families in Monroe Township, experienced the wrath of Hurricane Irene. Seventeen manors were flooded and many lost some, if not all, of their personal belongings. Emergency clean-up efforts were completed quickly and timely and restoration of the manors is underway. October 2011 John & Nancy Ivan, 155-B Pelham Lane, from Edison, NJ Arthur & Laura Lifshutz, 586-B Old Nassau Road, from North Brunswick, NJ Judy Brown, 320-B Sharon Way, from Plainsboro, NJ Marie Martino, 737-A Victoria Court, from Franklin Park, NJ Mark Schneer, 508-A Springfield Way, from Monroe Twp., NJ Jill Helmstetter, 277-N Milford Lane, from Old Bridge, NJ Edward Eagen, 147-C Old Nassau Road, from East Brunswick, NJ Sandra Suter, 10-A Sus- The Rossmoor NEWS I would like to extend many thanks to our wonderful residents and their families for their courage, patience and understanding; staff for their dedication to the community and going beyond the call of duty; the RCAI Board of Governors and Mutual directors for volunteering extra time in assisting where and when they were called; the North Gate sex Way, from Princeton Jct., NJ Fahim Mikail & Isis Ibrahim, 371-A New Bedford Lane, from East Brunswick, NJ Dale Rals ton, 70-B Gloucester Way, from Spring Hill, FL Cecilia Sasso, 480-A Newport Way, from East Windsor, NJ Walter Koedatich, 243-N Mayflower Way, from Plainsboro, NJ Eileen Masterson & Timothy Laffey, 353-N Old Nassau Road, from Monroe Twp., NJ Tracy Bronner & Gisele McLaurin, 340-D Narragansett Lane, from Lawrence- personnel for being there for us and helping in every which way possible; Mayor Pucci and the Monroe Township staff, police, fire, first aid, senior center and public works for responding to our needs during the hurricane and well after; and our insurance broker, Cappy Stults, for his knowledge and guidance during these trying times. Thank you. ville, NJ Mollie Licciardo, 4-C Village Mall, from Suffern, NY Francis & Laura Fealey, 446-B Roxbury Lane, from Flushing, NY Jack Petzko, 426-B Redding Lane, from Cranbury, NJ Rita Galgano, 136-B Plymouth Lane, from Manalapan, NJ The following person(s) have given their permission to put their phone number in The Rossmoor News: Linda Howland – 619-3822 Arlene Katzenell – 619-3811 Gene & Diane Procopio – 655-7639 Robert & Helen Scheper – 856-327-6904 George & Betsy Coyne – 619-3828 Marge Francisco – 609-7608100 The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Mayor Pucci Writes Dey Farm Update In the late 17th Century, Scottish farmers first settled Monroe Township, finding land along and near the Millstone River and Manalapan Brook, planting crops and harvesting their yield. Nearly 300 years after being settled by farmers, we still pay homage to our farming roots at the official Township Museum – the 20 -acre Historic Dey Farm. Located on Federal Road, between Applegarth and Perrineville Roads, the 40-acre site includes the Dey Farmhouse, the England House, two historic barns, a potting shed, and acres of open fields. The historic farm is not only a symbol of the Township’s dedication to its farming roots – it also serves as a reminder of our ranking as having the most farmland in Middlesex County. We cannot thank the County enough. Last year the Middlesex County Freeholders gave a $1 million grant to the Township for improvements to the Dey Farm, which will include renovations to the barn and house, construction of a parking lot and much, much more. The work will be done in an effort to make the Historic Site more accessible to schools and groups from throughout the County to visit the farm. In the coming years, the farm will be transformed into a working historic farm, so visitors will be able to see first-hand how farm work was done in the past. The Historic Commission already displays historic farm equipment in one of the barns and it will be nice to see it in use when work on the farm is complete. October will be a busy month for the Dey Farm, the Historic Preservation Commission and the Department of Public Works, who work together on the upkeep of the property. On Oct. 1, the Flemington Neshanock will once again take on the Philadelphia A’s in an old-time baseball double-header. Last year the two teams duked it out on a make-shift ball field, built almost “Field of Dreams” style on the farm field adjacent to the England House. The teams will play the games, scheduled to start at 3 p.m., wearing replica uniforms, which included going barehanded when on defense. Then on Oct. 29, starting at 10 a.m., the Historic Preservation Commission will hold a Living History Event at the Dey Farm. Attendees at the weekend event will witness Civil War troops preparing for combat, watch military drills and observe the camp life of Civil War troops. There will also be a band performing music of the civil War period as well as a women’s fashion show. Just as always, these events are free, and along with the activities on the property the Dey Farm House will be open for tours. On the tours commission members and commu- nity volunteers, take visitors room-to-room to see artifacts from Monroe’s own history. Township Historian John Katerba and the Historic Preservation Commission should be commended for their work in keeping Monroe Township’s History alive. For more information visit www.monroetwp.com. 13 14 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS Hurricane Irene: the aftermath A car is stranded on Applegarth Road. Mayor Richard Pucci, second from right, at Mutual 8 with Bob Brubaker, Wayne Hamilton, Bob Macchiarola, and Jane Balmer. Photos by Lynn Branson, Ernest Mogor and Joe Conti Backed-up drain in Mutual 8. Mayor Pucci addresses Mutual 8 residents. Nautilus Way Mutual 16 “Lake” Applegarth” (south) on Sunday morning. Kip Bartholomew of 346-C Norwich Lane holding on for dear life. “Lake” Applegarth” (north) Sunday morning. “The Pond”—Monroe Township’s plan is to increase pond by 15%. Servpro to the rescue. The Rossmoor NEWS Floods __________ (Continued from page 1) on a chair in front of her unit surrounded by furniture, shoes, pictures, and mementoes that were laid out to dry on her front lawn. She had managed to rescue a framed picture of her handsome son looking sharp in his Marine uniform. Fran Klinsky, of 327 A Nantuckett Lane, said, “I’ve had it!” A resident of Rossmoor for 11 years, Fran has been through three floods in six years. She is currently carrying two home equity mortgages that were used to cover the expenses incurred during the previous floods. Fran had had flood insurance, but after she filed a claim, the cost of continuing to carry the flood insurance policy was prohibitive. Marion Fauske of 741 B Nautilus Court, returning to survey the damage, said that she and her husband Henry were staying at the Marriott. The question most often repeated by members of Mutual 8 and others was, “Why hadn’t something been done to avoid this tragedy in the years following the massive flooding of July 17, 2005?” At that time the Monroe Township fire department had brought in rowboats to rescue several residents in the same area. Some background is necessary to understand that though the problem was addressed, the steps taken were not enough 15 October 2011 to avoid a recurrence of what had happened in the past. Beside the strip mall across Applegarth Road, there is a pond that is owned by Rossmoor and Matrix. According to Director Bob Macchiarola, the pond is supposed to self-drain into the brook on Newport Way and be carried out to Prospect Plains Road. During these events of severe rain and storms this pond overflows and the water washes over Applegarth Road and floods the Nantuckett Lane and Nautilus Court yards and drains. After the flood of 2005, RCAI installed additional storm drains behind building 327 B-N Nanuckett Lane and Mutual 8 put in a larger drain at the end of the carport. In September 2008 Middlesex County and the USDA Natural Resources Conservation Service made an agreement to develop a preliminary watershed study and create preliminary solutions for flood reduction. The Manalapan and Matchaponix Watershed Preliminary Flood Damage and Mitigation Report can be found at www.nj.nrcs.usda.gov/ programs/watershed special projects.html Page 85 relates directly to Monroe Township. It states, “Attendee was Ernest Feist, Township engineer.” He noted that the July 17, 2005, flood was due to overland flows not due to the brooks. He noted that flood locations Fran Klinsky stands by her furniture that was ruined by flooding. Photos of Terry McGinnis's son saved from the flood. included Rossmoor (2004 and 2005), Old Forge Road and a couple of homes first floors. A study was done on the Old Forge Road problem with recommendation for improvement projects for retention and efficient water removal. Also, Forrest Park Terrace had a levee constructed in the 1970s and a pump station in 2008. He noted that the Township has been doing considerable land use planning/zoning as follows: -Non contiguous cluster -Significant open space preservation -Open space tax -High density residential zoned property On Thursday September 1 Jane Balmer, Mollie Fitzpatrick and Dan Rush (engineering consultant to Rossmoor) met with Mayor Pucci, Wayne Hamilton, Ernie Feist, Mike Rodgers of Monroe Municipal Authority, George Reid and Hank Miller. The outcome of that meeting led to the Mayor’s decision that Monroe Township would take over Rossmoor’s portion of the pond on Applegarth Road, and all future responsibility for the pond. The next day Mayor Pucci and Wayne Hamilton met with residents of Mutual 8 and Directors Bob Brubaker, Bob Macchiarola, and Evelyn Russo in front of the carports on Nantuckett Lane. The Mayor discussed the problems that the Township had during the storm, and said, “We will work with Rossmoor to get things back to normal.” He also said, “Monroe Township is taking over the pond on the opposite side of Applegarth Road. The Township intends to make the pond 15% deeper and larger.” He assured the residents that he would continue to have trucks from Monroe’s Department of Public Works available to Rossmoor for the clean-up of damaged furniture, personal items, wet carpets, padding, etc. The Mayor told those assembled that there would be funds available to flood victims through FEMA, Monroe Township (grants) and RCAI’s flood insurance policy to help cover the cost of the damages. He did note however, that the distribution of Township funds was based on need. He stressed the importance of guarding against scams and unlicensed contractors. He noted that when filing claims the insured should deal directly with their insurance company, not with third parties. Wayne Hamilton reiterated the impact the storm had had on Monroe, and said that there had been rooftop rescues by boat on the other side of town. He said that a group of FEMA representatives would work with individuals on a case-by-case basis. After a round of questions and answers the Mayor visited some of the manors that had been flooded. Hurricane Irene did tremendous damage to the State of New Jersey and to many of our neighbors not just in Rossmoor but throughout the Monroe, Jamesburg and Helmetta area. The Rossmoor News staff wishes to express our sympathy to all those who were affected by the flooding and we wish you good health, strength and patience during this trying time. If you wish to help your Rossmoor neighbors you can donate through RCAI. Please make checks payable to RCAI with a notation on the envelope that the check is for Rossmoor flood victims. 16 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS This month in pictures Joe Conti Millie Groves…Nice hat! Your 2011 Bocce champs, from left, Tony Pagano, Barbara Catanese, Cal Schwarz, Millie Groves, and Captain Joe Heyer. Rossmoor cheerleaders enthusiastically cheering for their favorite Bocce team. Lou Russo…Almost a hole-in-one! Residents of Mutual 4B honor Gene Carroll, who served as president for four years. In this picture, Doug Martin, the current president, is presenting Gene Carroll with a plaque of appreciation and gratitude during a Social of Mutual 4B at the Club House. On the left is Joe Panicker, Secretary and Treasurer of the Mutual. Rossmoor basketball spot-shooting team, winners of a gold medal in Condo Olympics, “B” Division. From left, Harry Lemmert, Lynn Fertonardo, Charles Fertonardo, Tom Norton, and Ed Rosen. Arnold Jasper was voted Jewish Congregation’s Man of the Year. From left, daughter-in-law, Kim; granddaughters, Kiera and Lily; son, Kevin; Arnold and his wife Gloria. The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 How we survived Hurricane Irene and met someone nice By Tom La Cascia Hurricane lanterns in almost every room, canned foods stacked up on the counter, enough bottled water to bathe in if necessary, cat food and bags of litter, battery operated radio - well, you know the Boy Scout motto. An Eagle Scout couldn’t have been more prepared. Even a mild rain may cause Jersey Central Power & Light to break down and put thousands back into the dark ages - strangely, the electricity stayed on in the La Cascia Manor. However, Comcast cable completely shut down. We have what is known as the “Triple Play” from Comcast - that means that television, computer and telephone are serviced through their cable. We were completely shut off from the outside world -okay we had this 35 year old battery operated radio that was 90% static. The cats, Cyrus and Scipio, tried to ignore the storm by playing with their toys. At times they looked out the large patio window and across the patio at the torrential rain as it caused an unrelenting Niagara type flow down the slight rise between the manor and the golf course. Sixty mile an hour winds set forty foot high trees in our arboreal setting swaying and whipping viciously - not a rabbit, chipmunk, squirrel, red fox, or bird to be seen. With all communication shut down, there was nothing to do but read. When I tired of that, I wandered about the manor and found a very nice lady living there. It was a little awkward at first, but we slowly became acquainted. You know how it is in a crisis situation and you meet someone - well, you become fast friends or acquaintances at least. She was pretty, and her name was Ann. It was an exciting chance meeting, and we found comfort in each other’s company. We seemed to like the same things - discussed our likes in music, food, books and our general philosophy of life. We appeared to be a compatible couple well, hopefully for the duration of the storm. She accepted when I invited her to dinner - I cooked up chicken paprika and Dutch noodles, and made a green salad. A bottle of Pino Grigio helped set a romantic mood, as did the red rose in the bud vase. And, we talked about summer at the beach, picnics by a mountain stream, bicycle rides, concerts in the park, cuddling at a good movie, the changing color of trees in autumn - it was fun getting to know each other. After dinner we walked hand in hand, stopping occasionally to discuss the virtues of a picture on the wall. There was an oil painting on the living room wall that looked just like this pretty lady Ann - we admired it and noted that it was painted by the famous Baltimore artist, Bob Browne. Oddly, it seemed that we both knew him and his lovely wife Joan. W e stopped for a moment before a window and looked into each other’s eyes – the storm continued outside unabated. We kissed, and…the camera moves to the window and the raging storm. At breakfast time the storm was over, and the television and phones were working again – the pretty woman, Ann, is very happy and we plan to meet again soon to resume our budding relationship. The cats seem happy for us. 17 18 October 2011 “You see that fellow up there with his hand on the Bible?” she asks. “Yes, indeed,” responds Councilman Irwin Nalitt honored By Carol De Haan Several hundred friends and admirers of retiring Monroe Councilman Irwin Nalitt gathered at the Clearbrook Community Center on Tuesday, September 13, for an evening of testimonials, dinner, and of course, jokes. Nalitt, who recently celebrated his 93rd birthday, was being recognized for his 24 years of dedication to the Monroe Township community. Among the dignitaries who honored the Councilman was United States Senator Frank Lautenberg who sent Nalitt a flag that had flown over the White House within the past week. Congressman Rush Holt sent a paean of praise that he had read into the Congressional Record citing Nalitt’s years of extraordinary public service. State Senator Linda Greenstein expressed her high esteem and affection for Nalitt, as did New Jersey Assemblymen Wayne De Angelo and Dan Benson. Carole Barrett and Pete Dalina spoke on behalf of the Middlesex County Board of Chosen Freeholders. Also present to honor the Councilman were Carteret Mayor Dan Reilly, Middlesex County Sheriff Millie Scott, Monroe Council President Gerry Tamburro and Vice President Hank Miller, Council members Mike Leibowitz and Leslie Koppel, Business Administrator Wayne Hamilton and Environmental Commissioner John Riggs. Not least among valued guests were Nalitt’s two daughters, Celia and Lois, who spoke fondly of their Dad, but also exhibited the Nalitt family tendency to keep the audience chuckling. Mayor Richard Pucci introduced Nalitt by citing his tireless municipal work, which had some people calling him, “Mayor Nalitt,” and also the “honesty and integrity” with which Nalitt had always handled township funds. Pucci concluded by calling Nalitt a “shining example” of good citizenship, and “the pride of Monroe.” With the microphone now in hand, Nalitt began by quoting Samuel Goldwyn: “Before I speak, I want to say something.” What Nalitt wanted to say was that the past 24 years had been the “most productive, most rewarding years of my life.” He was sure that “all I have worked for will be safe in the hands of Steve Dalina,” (who is running for Nalitt’s Council seat,) because of Steve’s “energy and intelligence.” But, warned Nalitt, “If you don’t live up to my expectations, Steve, I’ll run against you next time.” To thunderous applause Next Auction — November 6 at Helmetta The Rossmoor NEWS the Justice. “Well,” announces the mother triumphantly, “His brother is an M.D.” Imam to discuss “Islam and Muslims in America” at Rossmoor Councilman Irwin Nalitt and cheers from a standing audience, Nalitt waved to all his friends, but not before delivering some of the jokes for which he is famous. A few “Irwinisms”: On guilt: A fellow called his Jewish mother. “Why do you sound so weak?” he asked. “I haven’t eaten in 32 days,” she replied. “Why haven’t you eaten in 32 days,” he demanded to know. “I didn’t want to have a mouthful of food in case you called,” said she. *** Three men were marooned on a desert island that had no sign of life. The Catholic took out his rosary beads and began to pray. The Protestant knelt and pleaded for deliverance. The Jewish fellow sat back and smoked his cigar. “Why aren’t you asking for us to be saved?” demanded the first two. “Last year,” said the Jew, “I gave a million dollars to the United Jewish Appeal. This year I gave them only a few thousand. Don’t worry. They’re going to find me.” *** At long last, the first Jewish man has been elected president of the United States. His little mother comes to Washington, D.C. for the inauguration ceremony. She finds herself seated next to a Justice of the Supreme Court, whom she pokes in the rib. He leans over to listen to her. Members of the Interfaith Council Committee for the program on "Islam/Muslims" are, from left, Gladys Petrilla, Marge Knipper, Jacci Herrick (chair), Roberta Ambler, Florence Stein and Lucille Conti. By Gene Horan On Monday, Oct. 10, Imam Hamad Ahmad Chebli of the Islamic Society of Central New Jersey will present a program at Rossmoor on “Islam and Muslims in America.” The program, sponsored by the Interfaith Council of Rossmoor, will take place at 7 p.m. in the Meeting House and all residents are cordially invited to attend. Imam Chebli will take questions from the audience following the talk. Refreshments will be available after the program. A mentor Chebli was born in northern Lebanon in 1948, the son of a sheep trader. He went to a religious boarding school in Beirut where he was mentored by Hassan Khalad, who would later become Grand Mufti of Lebanon. As Grand Mufti, Khalad moved freely among Muslims and Christians. He advocated non-violent solutions to Lebanon’s civil strife. Tragically, he and 21 others were murdered in 1989. The whole nation, Muslim and Christian, mourned his death in an unprecedented display of unity. Islamic scholar Chebli studied Islamic theology at the prestigious Al-Azhar University in Egypt. He knows all 6,000 verses of the Koran by heart. In 1982, on Hassan Khalad’s recommendation, Chebli was sent by the Muslim World League to the United States to serve the growing Muslim population here. In 1986, he became imam (religious leader) of the Islamic Society of Central Jersey, which is situated on six acres of land on Route One in Monmouth Junction. The large congregation has a school with 500 students from kindergarten to the 12th grade. Interfaith dialogue Since assuming his responsibilities at the mosque, Imam Chebli has been deeply involved in interfaith dialogue. He is a member of the South Brunswick Clergy Association, serves on two interfaith groups on Middle East peace and has been a participant in the Muslim/Catholic dialogue sponsored by the Archdiocese of New York. Moreover, members of the Islamic Society of Central Jersey are building bridges with the wider community, serving on library boards, sponsoring educational programs and organizing a weekly health clinic that is free and open to all. Popular speaker A popular speaker, Chebli recently addressed the national convention of the American Muslim Council. He has also offered prayers on the floors of Congress. The father of six children, Chebli is an imposing figure, standing 6 feet 6 inches in his turban. He warmly welcomes Christians and Jews to his mosque. Thanks I want all my friends and neighbors to know that I’m doing well and that I thank them for their cards and telephone calls and many kindnesses. Words are hardly enough to express my gratitude. – Betty Schneider The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Monday morning discussion group By Barry Shandler For a quarter of a century the Jewish Congregation has sponsored a discussion group that has been meeting every Monday morning at 9:45 in the Clubhouse. We examine the different cultures in the United States and throughout the world. We learn how to understand and appreciate those who are different from us. Increasing our knowledge helps us to navigate through the thorny issues that are so unsettling in these distressing times. We discuss religion, social issues, the economy, politics, and themes that affect us as Americans and senior citizens. We examine the institutions that impact our daily lives; the government, the Constitution, our individual and group rights. There are comparisons with the past and the present over, for example, morality. There are regional differences in our nation that affect thought, belief, and behavior. We are a nation composed of diverse peoples, diverse ideology, diverse religions, diverse lifestyles. Sometimes this diversity breeds lack of acceptance, anger, misunderstanding, and animosity. Our Monday morning discussion group addresses these issues, articulating different points of view. Some just listen. Naturally, coming from different backgrounds, life experiences, beliefs, and philosophies, we enunciate different opinions. This is what our democracy is all about. We do not attack each other. We simply express our agreements or dis- Culinary Corner By Sidna Mitchell When Ken and I were in Oxford for the 100th anniversary of The Mississippian, I was able to reconnect with old friends and meet some former editors of the Ole Miss student newspaper. We exchanged cards and addresses and somehow food always came up in the conversation. A few weeks later, I received a letter from one of those editors along with some recipes. Lawrence “Larry” Franck was, as my friend Ed Williams noted, an editor who stayed in Mississippi but turned to the practice of law. Ed claimed those who stayed in journalism left the state and those who remained in Mississippi became attorneys. Shrimp and Sausage Jambalaya Larry wrote: “Your tenure as editor was much more tumultuous than my 1952-53 stint; our most serious concerns were dances at the gym, football and college love lives.” He continued, “I’m a cook, not a chef, so I find recipes I like and use them sometimes with some embellishments of my own making.” I chose to try his recipe for jambalaya that he said was from a cookbook put out by the Junior League in New Orleans. I cut the recipe in half and prepared this for my Three “M’s” (Meredith, Michael and Maggie); we all enjoyed the dinner. Of course, I made some changes in the recipe; here’s my version. Culinary corner 1/2 pound smoked sausage, thinly sliced 1½ tablespoon olive oil 2/3 cup chopped green pepper 2 cloves garlic, minced 1/2 cup chopped scallions 1/4 cup chopped fresh parsley 1/2 cup chopped celery 16-ounce can tomatoes 1 cup chicken broth 3/4 teaspoon thyme one bay leaf 1 teaspoon oregano 1½ teaspoons Creole seasoning 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper 1/4 teaspoon black pepper 1 cup rice 1½ pounds raw shrimp, peeled In a large heavy pot, sauté sausage; remove with slotted spoon. Add olive oil to drippings and sauté green pepper, garlic, scallions, parsley and celery. Chop tomatoes and add along with their liquid. Add broth and stir in spices. Add rice and sausage; cook for 30 minutes, covered, over low heat, stirring occasionally. After most of liquid has been absorbed by the rice, add shrimp; cover and cook until pink. Serves four. NOTE: The original recipe said to transfer mixture to baking dish and bake for 25 minutes. I thought that was a bit overcooking, so I didn’t bother. I can be reached by e-mail at [email protected]. agreements with stated points of view in an atmosphere of civility. Participants are male and female, and come from the Jewish Congregation and from other religious groups. The discussion group is open to everyone. We encourage more people to join. Different opinions are what make us tick, and create the stimulation and excitement that permeates the group. We learn from each other. In its own way, tangentially, it is a form of continuing education without the formal trappings. You can vote by mail By Carol De Haan If you are already a registered voter in Middlesex County, you can apply to vote by mail up to seven days before an election. Go to the Clerk’s office in the Monroe Municipal Building off Perrineville Road and ask for a form titled “Application for Vote by Mail Ballot.” Fill out the application and sign your name wherever indicated. Deliver or mail the completed application to the Middlesex County Clerk: Hon. Elaine Flynn, 75 Bayard Street, New Brunswick, NJ 089031110. A ballot will then be mailed to you with instructions for voting. Make sure you send your completed mail-in ballot early enough to be received by the County Board of Election before the close of polls on Election Day. It goes without saying that if you vote by mail, you will not be permitted to vote by machine at your polling place in the same election. Election Day will fall on Tuesday, November 8. As usual, the polling place for Rossmoor residents will be in the Clubhouse. Who’s running? You will be asked to vote for state senator for the 14th Legislative District. Incumbent Democratic State Senator Linda Greenstein will be opposed by Republican candidate Rich Kanka. For the position of assemblyman in the 14th Legislative District, Republicans Sheree McGowan and Wayne Wittman are vying for the seats held by incumbent Democratic Assemblymen Wayne De Angelo and Dan Benson. For the Board of Chosen Freeholders, Democrats Carole Barrett and Charles Tomaro are being challenged by Re pu b licans Jo hn O’Sullivan and Avi Duvdevani. Locally, incumbent Democratic Mayor of Monroe Township Richard Pucci is being opposed by Republican Carlos Lopez. For positions on the Monroe Council, Republicans Brian Hackett and Phil Kaufman are hoping to unseat incumbent Democratic Councilwoman Leslie Koppel and are vying against Democrat Steve Dalina for the position being vacated by retiring Democratic Councilman Irwin Nalitt. 19 20 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS Clubs and Organizations Rossmoor Chorus honors Jack Regan, invites new members By Alyce Owens The Rossmoor Chorus recently honored Jack Regan with a plaque for his “faithful service to our Choral Group and to Music in Rossmoor from 1987 to 2011.” Jack also sang in the Rossmoor Barbershop Chorus and Quartet in the 1980s and 90s, as well as in many church choirs. He continues to study voice and do church solo work. Jack’s thrilling rendition of “Danny Boy” is much in demand around St. Patrick’s Day. The Rossmoor Chorus, under the direction of Gloria Montlack, is seeking new members in all voice parts. Membership is open to all Rossmoor residents who love to sing — especially those with some chorus experience, even if that was back in high school. The Chorus has a broad repertoire and performs at various venues both in and outside of the Rossmoor community. They have participated in the Thanksgiving and Memorial Day services sponsored by the Rossmoor Interfaith Committee, and presented concerts for the Rossmoor Sisterhood and Women’s Guild. For many years, the Chorus has officially opened the Christmas season with great holiday spirit and traditional carols at the lighting of the holiday tree at the Forsgate Country Club. Other performances outside of Rossmoor have included performances for residents at Monroe Village and several Monroe Township 9/11 Memorial Ceremonies. If this sounds like something you’d like to be a part of, come and sit in on a Rossmoor Chorus rehearsal held every Wednesday at 4 p.m. at the Meeting House. It’s fun and a rewarding way to express yourself and meet new people. Jack Regan honored by Rossmoor Chorus. From left, Lois Smida, accompanist; Dorothy Thomson; Jack Regan; Gloria Montlac, director; and Eileen Parker, president. Rossmoor Music Association The Chin Yun Chorus will perform at the Meeting House on October 21. By Joan Higgins As Rossmoor music lovers have said their goodbyes to earthquakes and sung Good Night Irene, we welcome the coming holidays and look to the second performance of the season. This will be a real treat as we are pleased to present a unique chorus. Chin Yun Chorus, Inc. was established in 1985 and consists of amateur singers living in New Jersey. In its 25th year, the chorus is still committed to performances, which provide cultural, educational and charitable services to local communities. This includes performances at hospitals, nursing homes and senior centers. The artistic and music director is Dr. Victor Shen. It is the Music Association’s hope that many residents of Rossmoor will enjoy a pleasant evening on Oct. 21, at 8 p.m. at the Meeting House. Remember, you do not have to be a subscriber to be in the audience. For $15 at the door, a magical evening of music is yours. At this time we do not have a complete program from the Chorus. We hope that a medley from Fiddler on the Roof will be part of the presentation. The Rossmoor NEWS Books ordered for October Fiction Zero Day by David Baldacci A military investigator and his family are found dead in their home. John Puller is assigned the case and, digging through layers of deception, discovers that no one in the small town is what they seem. The Drop by Michael Connelly Nearing retirement, Henry Bosch is assigned two cases in one morning - one investigating how DNA from a 1989 murder matches a 29year-old rapist and the other a suicide or murder of a city councilman’s son. Bosch makes startling discoveries about both cases. Lost December by Richard Evans When Luke graduates from college he begins to pursue a life of pleasure seeking. When his trust fund runs out - along with his friends - he takes a job at one of his father’s company stores and learns about personal joy. Kill Shot by Vince Flynn Mitch Rapp is on a mission to track down every person responsible for the downing of the Pan Am plane over Lockerbie. He soon finds that he has become the hunted and his handlers decide he’s an expendable liability. The Litigators by John Grisham The only info released at press time is that Grisham takes readers deeper into the labryinth of the American justice system & there’s a knock-out conclusion. 21 October 2011 Hotel Vendome by Danielle Steel The Vendome, a glamorous New York Hotel, and Heloise, the owner’s young daughter, are the owner’s entire life, and Heloise is the queen of the hotel from childhood. Trouble brews when a grown Heloise moves to France and her father meets Natalie, who understands him and loves the hotel Mysteries V Is For Vengeance by Sue Grafton Hoping to have a happy (Continued on page 22) Waiting room distractions See crossword answers on page 34 Across 1. Cores 6. Tacky chic 10. Enhances 14. Courtyards 15. Sea position 16. Hawaiian tuber 17. Mags 20. Increase, with “up” 21. Poetic palindrome 22. WWII battle site 23. Crackers 26. Mandela’s org. 27. Stimulant ingredients 29. Kuwaiti, e.g. 31. Land of leprechauns 35. Profits 37. Indonesian roamer 39. Australian runner 40. Rags? 43. Addition 44. Affectation 45. Cow fuel 46. Some beans 48. Campaigns 50. Some bays 51. Family dog, for short 53. Psychoanalyzed? 55. Cooling-off periods? 59. Bit in a horse’s mouth 60. Ripen 63. Mags 66. Algonquian Indian 67. Brown shade 68. Fat units? 69. Frau’s partner 70. Blabs 71. Nobel, for one Down 1. Perry Como’s “___ Loves Mambo” 2. Any thing 3. In Aruban fashion? 4. Cool 5. Vendor’s mistake? 6. Linked series of writings 7. “Aladdin” prince 8. Exec’s note 9. Gotcha moments 10. Immediately 11. “Two Years Before the Mast” writer 12. Attracted 13. Bean used to make miso 18. Time piece? 19. Time div. 24. Catch 25. Alain RobbeGrillet novel, with “The” 27. “Who ___?” 28. Kind of molding 30. Aardvark’s tidbit 32. Worthy of comment 33. Candidate’s concern 34. Certain posers 36. Quail food 38. Disney workers 41. Fed. construction overseer 42. Brio 47. Sirhan Sirhan, e.g. 49. Fuse mishaps 52. Back when 54. Churchill’s “so few,” (abbr.) 55. Creep 56. Bird beak part 57. The America’s Cup trophy, e.g. 58. Gull-like bird 61. Neuter 62. To be, to Tiberius 64. Paranormal ability 65. Line 22 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS Women’s Guild plans fall activities By Edith Benning The Women’s Guild of the Rossmoor Community Church will hold its general meeting on Thursday, October 20, 2011 at 1:30 p.m. in the Hawthorn Room. A fashion show by Bon Worth of Princeton will be presented in comfort. You can imagine yourself in a fancy department store as the models walk around the tables while you enjoy Rental library ____ (Continued from page 21) 38th birthday, Kinsey gets punched in the face and left with two black eyes and a broken nose. She also deals with a woman who may or may not have killed herself, a brutal gangster; a widower mourning the death of his lover and a businessman whose dealings are outside the law. Kill Alex Cross by James Patterson When the President’s son and daughter are abducted, Cross discovers someone very high up is using the FBI, Secret Service and CIA to keep him from the case. Then a deadly contagion is discovered, and Alex realizes that someone is about to attack the U.S. Library Hours: Monday – Friday: 10 a.m. to 12 noon 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Saturday: 10 a.m. to 12 noon snacks. The traditional cake and beverages will follow the show. Come enjoy the show! Perhaps you will win one of the prizes offered by the ladies from Bon Worth’s. On November 5, the Guild will hold its Annual Bazaar. Donations may be delivered to the Clubhouse on Thursday and Friday. Exact times will be announced next month. Please save clothing, knick knacks, books, puzzles, toys, and household items that are in good condition. You will receive an acknowledgement of your contribution. The Guild chefs will use their talents to present a room full of gourmet delights. Morning beverages and snacks will be offered along with a casual lunch. We will have a children’s area so bring your grandchildren. The other communities will be invited to come and enjoy the day at the bazaar. Your friends are also invited. The Guild gives scholarships to Monroe graduates each year. In order to offer as many scholarships as possible we need to raise funds. Therefore we will hold a bake sale on Election Day, Tuesday, November 8th. Stop in when you cast your ballot and enjoy a cup of coffee with a homemade snack. The December 15 meeting will be held in the Meeting House so we can enjoy the Rossmoor Chorus as they sing songs of the holiday season. We also will enjoy delicious holiday treats. It’s a photo finish at computer club By Alec Aylat Computer club members will race to the Gallery on Monday, October 17, in a major effort to be there on time at 10 a.m. in order to hear David Schneider’s informative and graphic talk about better photography, including Photoshop, and to answer general photography queries. Tying for photo-finish spots will be those who arrive for coffee and cake at 9:30. You can read the club’s monthly Newsletter, President’s Message, and other newsy items edited by Barbara Thompson on the club’s w e b s i t e a t www.rossmoor.org. Dance club celebrates Halloween By Carol Mogor The Dance Club of Rossmoor will hold its Halloween Dance Social on Saturday, October 22 at 6 p.m. (Please note date and time change.) Get out your costumes for another night of fun and prizes. Keyboardist Carmine will provide the music. Sandwiches, salads, beverages, coffee and desserts will be served. Cost is $14 per person. Call Anne Azzinaro at 655-5799 for reservations. Checks should be made out to the Dance Club of Rossmoor and mailed to Anne. This is always a really enjoyable evening. Be creative with your costume or just enjoy watching the costume parade. Some of last year’s participants are shown here. It will be lots of fun! NJ Club of Rossmoor By Eileen Parker The next meeting of the New Jersey Club will be held on Friday, October 21, at 1:30 p.m. in the Ballroom. Rick Mikula, the noted butterfly expert, will be with us again with a different program. His “Spread Your Wings and Fly” seminars have trained hundreds of people world-wide to become professional butterfly producers. He also teaches a semiannual landscaping work- shop at Rutgers University, conducts writing courses, and trains park naturalists in the art of presenting “unforgettable” programs throughout North America and Canada. When contacted, he replied: “Everyone was so nice last time that I would very much like to return to Rossmoor!” Refreshments will be served, and all Rossmoorites are welcome. Emerald Society celebrates the fall By Joan Avery In September, Vincent Talarico, from the Club in Asbury Park, entertained the Emerald Society. Vincent always gives a wonderful show. Members of the Emerald Society who went on the fabulous trip to Cape Cod certainly enjoyed the trip, which lasted from September 19 to September 22 and included tours of Hyannis and Provincetown. Members have signed up for the Christmas Show at the American Music Thea- ter and Amish Buffet at the Shady Maple Inn on November 11. The bus is full and there is a waiting list. The cost is $73 per person, which includes the round trip bus ride. The bus will leave poolside at 8:30 a.m. Election of officers of the Emerald Society will be held at the October 26 meeting. There is no meeting in November. The December meeting is scheduled for December 7 and the Christmas dinner is scheduled for December 10. The Rossmoor NEWS Italian-American club news By Lola Calcagno The following officers were elected for the year 2012 at our September meeting and will be installed in December: Lucille Ricci, president; Philip Grassia, first vice-president; Joseph Conti, second vicepresident; Maio Craver, treasurer; Ruth Chisena, secretary; John Russo, sergeant-at-arms. Additionally, Gloria Cantone has accepted the position of socials coordinator. Joan Russo stays on as membership coordinator. What better way to celebrate Italian Heritage Month than by attending the Columbus Day Dinner-Dance being held in the Ballroom on Sunday, Oct 9, at 5:30 p.m. In addition to the sit-down dinner, Carmine, Rossmoor’s favorite DJ, will provide music for dancing. The cost is $38 and Ann Azzinaro will be taking reservations at 655- Bagel Rally to feature Democratic candidates By Betty Schneider The Democratic Club cordially invites Rossmoorites to its annual bagel rally on Tuesday, October 18 at 9:30 a.m. in the Ballroom. Our invited guests include Democratic candidates for office in the upcoming election on Tuesday, November 8: incumbent State Senator Linda Greenstein, incumbent Assemblymen Wayne De Angelo and Dan Benson, incumbent members of the Board of Chosen Freeholders Carole Barrett and Charles Tomaro, incumbent Mayor of Monroe Richard Pucci, and for the Monroe Council incumbent Leslie Koppel and also Steve Dalina, who is running for the position being vacated by retiring Councilman Irwin Nalitt. Our menu includes bagels, cream cheese, tuna and egg salads, coffee and tea. We promise you an interesting event. All residents are welcome. No charge. “Getting my vote to count” is topic at Republican Club By Sidna B. Mitchell “Getting My Vote to Count” will be the topic for the Rossmoor Republican Club’s Tuesday, October 18 meeting starting at 7:30 p.m. in the Gallery. • Once I’m registered to vote, how does that vote get counted here at Rossmoor, at the municipal level, at the county level, at the state level and at the federal level are questions to be answered. I just moved to Rossmoor, how do I register to vote? Who gets to vote in Primary Elections? • If I’m a registered Democrat, how can I vote Republican? (Continued on page 24) 23 October 2011 6799. Reservations are still being taken for the trip to Villa Vosilla, a lovely resort in the Catskill town of Tannerville for the period June 5-8 in 2012. The cost for the trip is $450 double and $500 single. Call Philip Grassia at 655-1078 for further details and method of payment. The trip to Eataly, the New York super-store scheduled for November 3 is a go. The annual Memorial Mass for deceased club members will be held on Thursday, October 13, at 7 p.m. at the Meeting House. The celebrant will be Father Edward Flanagan. Rita Villiarola is coordinating the baking of goods being presented by the members for the reception after the Mass. Volunteers should call Rita at 655-2875. All members are encouraged to attend the Mass. Bingo will be played in the Ballroom on Friday, October 28, at 6:30 p.m. Rossmoor Players news By Linda Kaucher Happy fall, everyone! I hope you all had a great summer. I sure did, however, closing the pool on Tuesday, September 6 was sad for me, even though it rained. The Variety Show VIII performances for this year will be held on Friday, December 9 at 7 p.m. and Saturday December 10 at 2 p.m. in the Meeting House. Open auditions will begin on Tuesday, October 25 from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. in the Live and Learn revisits Dean Martin’s greatest hits By Penny North Live and Learn’s own Dottie Haff will present another in her series of programs on popular American musical figures of the past seventy years. On Friday, October 14 at 1:30 p.m. in the clubhouse Gallery, Dottie will explore the life and career of Dean Martin. Following her usual format of biographical narrative mixed with recordings of the entertainer’s biggest hits, Dottie will trace Dean’s ca- reer from his days as straight man and crooner with the Martin and (Jerry) Lewis comedy team to his long career after the duo’s breakup. Dean became a major star in nightclubs, television and movies, and for three decades was one of the most popular acts in Las Vegas. Join Live and Learn and revisit Dean’s career. Sheila D’Atri will present her final lecture on Homer’s “Odyssey” on Friday, October 21 at 1:30 p.m. in the Clubhouse Gallery. Each month, an ever-growing group of Rossmoorites has gathered to explore the classic tale. Odysseus has now returned to Ithaca after twenty years and prepares to battle the suitors who have gathered around his wife, Penelope. Find out how Odysseus exacts his revenge and learn the conclusion of the famous story. Join Live and Learn on October 14 and 21 for these outstanding programs. Meeting House. The show will have a holiday theme. We are looking for singers, dancers, musicians, comedians — and all other talents are welcome, too. Please feel free to come and audition for us. You can contact Dottie Haff at 609-4097159 for details. And don’t forget our annual Halloween party on Monday October 31 at 1 p.m. in the Maple Room. There will be fun for all with prizes for best costumes, games and refreshments. Contact Willie Kayser for details at 609-860-8398. Due to Hurricane Irene and closing the Clubhouse because of lack of power, we did not have our monthly meeting on Monday August 29. Therefore, we could not enjoy the improv program that was to be hosted by Norman Perkus. Hopefully, this will be scheduled for the near future, because it is always enjoyable. I hope this fall will bring new prospects and wonderful times for all and hopes for a great beginning of the 2011 holiday season. 24 October 2011 Mutual News for October Mutual 14 By Lee Randolph Here is hoping that you all came through the summer and Hurricanes Irene and Lee without too much damage. I know the electric problem didn’t bother us as much as the loss of food from our freezer. That really hurt. We had a neighbor who had electric and were able to save a few costly items. At least where I lived before, we had a gas stove so that we could cook and I really The Rossmoor NEWS SPORTS missed that. Just a reminder, there will be an Open Board Meeting at 10 a. m. on October 10 in the Cedar Room. Come on out, we can always use your input. Anyone interested in putting together a holiday party should probably start now. Most Mutuals had picnics, and it would be nice if we could do something to get everyone together. Columbus Day and Halloween this month, so enjoy! 18-Hole Golfers, from left, are Arlene McBride, Joan Semen, Carolyn Glosser, Carolyn Meyer, Carol Faraci, and Carol Sprout. Rossmoor Ladies’ 18-Hole League’s end of summer activities By Arlene McBride Forgive me for not mentioning in the previous issue, the league’s July 7 annual “Member/Guest” tournament with the format of 2 -best balls of the 4-man team. We had a beautiful “hot” day for golf, but we kept on golfing. A big thanks to Pat Mueller, for shopping and selecting lovely Vera Bradley handbags, awarded to the winning teams. Many thanks to the social committee, Gail Dimaio and Jane Adams, for shopping, setting up and decorating the Ballroom for this annual event. On August 9, we began the two-week Club Championship tournament, which concluded on Aug. 23. The winners of the tournament are as follows: Championship Flight A, 1st place winner was Carolyn Meyer, 2nd place winner was Carolyn Glosser. Flight B, 1st place winner was Carol Faraci, 2nd place winner was Arlene McBride. Flight C, 1st place winner was Joan Semen, 2nd place winner was Carol Sprout. After an exciting Championship match held on Aug. 26 between Carolyn Meyer and Carolyn Glosser in Flight A, a cele- Clubs and Organizations Trips of Distinction By Jocelyn Boyd Trips of Distinction started the fall season with two great trips. The annual trip to Woodloch Pines was won- Republican Club (Continued from page 23) • How are poll workers cho- sen? How much are they paid? Can I be a poll worker? Who supplies the food for the poll workers? • Can people go door-to-door soliciting votes here in Rossmoor? • Should I vote by absentee ballot? How do I get a ballot? When is that ballot counted? • How can I help get a candidate elected? Where do I volunteer? These are just some of the questions to be answered at the Republican Club meeting. You may have additional questions or concerns that you would like to express. All Rossmoor residents are invited; you do not have to be a registered Republican to attend the meeting. Refreshments follow the program. derful as usual. Plans have been finalized for the trip next year at the same time (day after Labor Day). The second trip was for four days to Nashville. We visited the Grand Ole Opry and toured Graceland. We had a wonderful stay at the Gaylord Opryland Resort. At the meeting it was stressed that putting your name on a sign-up sheet is a commitment. This is the only way that trips can be planned. Final payment is due 60 days before a scheduled trip. Checks may be mailed to “Trips of Distinction” c/o Dot Prouty. We are doing one trip to paper Mill Playhouse on Thursday, March 22 to see “Damn Yankees” and one trip to McCarter to see Florence Henderson on Saturday, April 4. Don’t forget “Sister Act” on January 18 and “Wally’s Café” on February 12. We hope to see old and new members at the next meeting. Remember family and friends are always welcome on our trips. bration with the winners in each of the above flights was held in the pro shop lounge. Thanks to the social committee, Carol Faraci and Nancy Nita for organizing the food and refreshments. On August 19, a large number of members from both ladies’ leagues and the men’s league participated in a twilight 9-hole golf tournament, organized by PGA Professional, Ted Servis. Threatening thunderstorms were all around, but we were able to finish before the downpour began. Afterwards there was a barbeque in the Clubhouse and many prizes were awarded. On Sept. 6, our league hosted the “Rally for the Cure,” golf tournament with a brown bag lunch following in the ballroom. I was pleased to see so many members of both leagues signed up to participate in this annual fund-raising event. Unfortunately, the golf round was cancelled due to rain, but the day was highlighted when all the participating league members met in the ballroom for lunch. We picked names randomly out of the basket, announced the winner for closest to the line and raffled off a few small appreciation gifts the Rally office had included for our event. Congratulations to the winner, Tori Meiselbach, member of the 9-hole league who won a pair of Etonic golf shoes. All in all, a fun day despite the rain. Many of our members had been asked to participate in the ladies’ 9-hole league “Member/Guest” tournament on Sept. 20. Therefore, the ladies’ 18hole league did not have tournament play that day. I’ll be reporting on the remainder of our fun tournaments in my next article. Closing day for our league is October 11. The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 25 Joy Bradford to direct the Hi-Lo Croquet tournament By Betty Anne Sullivan-Szuts The Rossmoor Croquet Club annual Hi-Lo Tournament will be played from Friday, October 14 through Sunday, October 16 with team assignments being given out on Thursday, Octo- Women’s NineHole Golf Association By Doris Herron The final weeks of our great 2011 season involved our Championship Tournament Days, with the following winners being cheered and toasted on the Clubhouse patio accompanied by Jeanne Ruby’s and Gina Olivier’s delicious refreshments and bubbling punch. In flight A: 1st place Joan Lundy; 2nd place Carolyn Murphy: In flight B: 1st place Muriel Calvanelli; 2nd place Janice McCambridge: In flight C: 1st place Luci Poulin; 2nd place Joan Wilhelms and in flight D: 1st place Ruth Dowdell; 2nd place Connie Moore. On September 6th we all participated in Rally for the Cure hosted this year by the 18-hole lady golfers. This was a fun tournament which also gave us the satisfaction of helping a very worthy cause. The highlight of our month was the Member-Guest Day chaired by Marilyn Shanks and her fine committee. Attired in this year’s colors of black and white, all participants enjoyed the golf with a Calloway system of scoring, the wonderful luncheon, and the distribution of prizes that followed. This event was enhanced by having each person presented with a memento of a fun-filled golf experience. The pictures were taken by members of the Rossmoor Computer Club, Digital Photography, SIG (special interest group), led by Art Segal. We appreciate the club’s genial cooperation. On August 30, despite the aftermath of Hurricane Irene, many brave 9 hole ladies participated in the Low Gross tournament with the following winners: Flight A- 1st place, Joan Lundy: 2nd place Danielle Salti. Flight B- 1st place, Tori Meiselbach; 2nd place, Marilyn Shanks. Flight C- Lucy Poulin; 2nd place Marie Bills. Flight D- 1st place, Marie Eppinger; 2nd place Zelda Bayer. We now look forward to our Scramble and Closing luncheon on October 11, chaired by Joan Lundy. Prizes won during the season will be awarded at that time. Our Board Meeting on October 18, at 10 a.m. in the Hawthorn Room will wind up all business and social details for this very successful year, and formulate some plans for next season. All Board members and Committee chairmen are requested to attend this meeting. The women’s 9-hole group enjoyed this past season and look forward to more of the same in 2012. Remember the words of advice from all the famous Pros—-"If you want to get better at golf, go back and take it up at an earlier age." ber 13 at 7 p.m. in the Willow room where the tournament will be explained at that time. Joy Bradford has volunteered to direct this tournament. The deadline for signup is October 6. Following the Hi-Lo Tournament the members will meet for the Croquet end- of-season meeting with dinner following on Sunday, October 16 from 5:30 to 7 p.m. in the Ballroom. Prior sign-up is required for the dinner. Board members will give their annual reports at this meeting. Ruth Dowdell, co-founder of the club, announced at the social following the Singles Tournament, which was played from June 10 through June 12, that the club had the largest participation in its history for that tournament. The members are looking forward to another very successful tournament in October. The 2011 croquet season was played on a beautifully manicured court thanks to Tom Tucci, golf course superintendent and his crew. Much appreciation is also due to Ken Northrop, the croquet club’s greens warden, who faithfully filled the divots and moved the wickets and the boundaries to keep the court in tip-top shape. "Waiting our turn." From left, Betty Ann Szuts, Joan Higgins, and Ivan Szuts at the Croquet Court. 26 October 2011 By Ted Servis What’s going on at the Golf Course? Golf is in its fall season now and there is lots of great weather left to play golf. We hope to see everyone on the links. Despite all the rain the Golf Course is in fantastic condition thanks to Tom Tucci and his staff. The hot dog guy is here serving hot The Rossmoor NEWS dogs and sandwiches on Saturday and Sunday so please stop by and enjoy some tasty food. I would like to thank everyone who helped make the Lance Corporal Colin Pascik golf outing such a great success. The Pro Shop has plenty of merchandise for all your shopping needs so please stop in and take a look If there is anything we can help you with or any questions we can answer please give us a call 655-3182. Thank you, and enjoy the remainder of the 2011 Golfing season. Reminder that the Golf Course is currently offering a referral incentive of $200 in Pro Shop credit for bringing in new members. Men’s Golf Club schedules fall meeting By Bill Biache The Rossmoor Men’s Golf Club annual fall meeting will be held Thursday, October 13 at 6 p.m. in the Ballroom. There will be an election of officers for the 2012 season, award presentations, and a brief meeting followed by drinks and an excellent dinner. Hurricane Irene caused extensive damage to many Rossmoor manors. Our golf course was fortunate to have had limited damage with no disruption of play. Golf course superintendent Tom Tucci and his staff did their usual great job of getting the course back into good shape in a matter of days. Many thanks to Tom Tucci and the staff for a job well done. As we wind down another year of golf, we wish bon voyage to all the snow birds who will be leaving soon: Have a safe and happy time. Now is the time to think about preparing your golf cart for the winter months. Make sure the batteries are filled with distilled water, tire pressure is according to recommended standards, and Religious Organizations Catholic Society By Lucille V. Conti The Italian American Club will host a Memorial Mass on Thursday, October 13 at 7 p.m. in the Meeting House. Father Edward Flanagan will be the Celebrant. This Mass traditionally is celebrated for the deceased members of the Italian American Club and we invite you to attend, especially if you have not had the opportunity to visit or attend the funeral of someone you know who has recently passed. We wish to thank all those who helped in the preparations for the September Holy Mass for Life, especially our Celebrant, Monsignor William McCarthy, who assured us of our Blessed Mother’s abiding love. His very cordial demeanor created a warm atmosphere as he asked Sister Marilyn Minter to share her experience at the World Youth Rally in Madrid, Spain. She in turn gave witness to the promise and reverence of the youth of the world who are the future Church. How reassuring and truly inspiring she was as she led us in prayer and song. It was a particularly intimate celebration. The refreshments and fellowship were outstanding, as always. Bible Study, conducted by Dr. Frank McGuire will begin on Thursday, October 5 at 1 p.m. in the Meeting House parlor. The Prayer Shawl Gatherings will be held on Thursday, October 6 in the Maple Room and Thursday, October 20 in the Craft Room. They meet from 1:30 until 3:30 p.m. The Chaplet of Divine Mercy will be recited on Tuesday, October 18 at 3 p.m. in the Maple Room. If you wish to join the Clearbrook Catholic Society bus trip to St. Joseph’s Retreat House in Stirling, New Jersey for a Day of Renewal on Sunday, October 9, you may call Eileen Farragher at 609-860-0641. The November Remembrance and Healing Mass will also be celebrated by Father Edward Flanagan. Father will administer the Sacrament of the Sick at this Mass. If you know of anyone who would like to receive this Sacrament offer them a ride if necessary. Remembrance cards will be available at the October Mass. These cards will be placed on the altar and the names will be offered in remembrance. Our next Council Meeting will be held on Tuesday, October 11 at 7 p.m. in the Meeting House parlor. You are always invited to attend. Jewish Congregation semi-annual meeting Oct. 11 selects Nominating Committee members By Ben Wistreich The Rossmoor Jewish Congregation’s Semi-Annual Meeting will be held on Tuesday afternoon, October 11 at 1 p.m. in the Gallery. The main Congregation business (in addition to committee reports) will be the election of two nonBoard-Member congregants to serve on the 2011-2012 Nominating Committee with the three Board Members who have been previously selected. This important full committee selects new officers to serve on the Congregation Board for the 2012-2013 year. It is very important to have a quorum of the Congregation present for this meeting, and, of course, refreshments will be served following the short meeting. The High Holiday services in October include the most sacred Kol Nidre services on Friday, October 7 at 8 p.m., The Day of Atonement – known worldwide as Yom Kip- pur – on Saturday, October 8 starting at 10:30 am, and ending with a solemn Yizkor service (Yizkor Ne’ilah) at 5 p.m. All services are held in the Meeting House and involve several members of the Congregation, who will either carry the sacred Torah, open and close the Ark doors, recite prayers in both English and Hebrew, and both undress/ dress the Torah so that sections of it may be read to the Congregation by experienced “readers.” Throughout the High Holiday services, it is important to note that Men’s Club members will serve as ushers, and each will have a current list of paid-up members – and will check all tickets at the door of the Meeting House. There is no admission without either a 2011 Member or Guest ticket, which must be shown to the ushers. Following the conclusion of the Saturday, October 8 High (Continued on page 27) The Rossmoor NEWS Gardening tips from Mel Moss October is the best month to plant bulbs for early next spring blooming. As the ground slowly cools down, the bulbs will want to start growing roots, which will supply them with water and nutrients needed for next spring’s flowers. These roots will continue to develop through most of November. Always plant the pointed end of the bulb facing up. If the pointed end isn’t obvious, lay the bulb on its side. Make sure the location gets at least a half day of sunlight. Keep in mind – if planting under deciduous trees – while it might be shaded in early fall, it will be sunny in the spring when the bulbs are blooming (except possibly for late-blooming varieties of tulips that might come up after the tree has leafed out). Bulbs like a well-drained soil, so don’t plant in poorly drained locations. Add a handful of organic, slow-release fertilizer when planting. Bone meal is the one used most often. The most commonly planted bulbs are tulips, daffodils, hyacinths, crocus, and snow drops. The depth the bulbs are planted depends on the size of the bulbs. Daffodils and hyacinths are the largest and should be six to eight inches down, tulips about four to six inches down, crocus and snow drops about two to three inches down. Snow drops are the earliest bloomers. They can be in flower by the end of February depending on the location and weather. Crocus would be next, followed by daffodils, hyacinths, and tulips in that order. After the plants are finished blooming, cut the flower stems off and leave the foliage until it turns yellow. The green leaves help the bulbs store up energy for next year’s blooming. It might take quite a while for daffodils in particular to finish this part of the cycle. If you want to plant summer annuals in the bulb area, leave enough room between the bulbs when planting so you can place your annuals in between. Then cut off the dying bulb leaves later. Did you know that: Tulips were cultivated commercially in the Ottoman Empire. The name derives from the Persian dulband, meaning turban. Originally, tulips were native to parts of Africa, Asia, and Europe. Introduced to Western Europe in 1558, they became such a status symbol that by 1637, “tulip mania” arose in which a single bulb sold for thousands of florins, ten times the annual salary of a skilled craftsman. Economists consider this the first speculative economic bubble in western history. Daffodils originated in the same areas as tulips. They proliferate from year to year because the root and leaves contain an alkaloid poison. Deer, rabbits, and insects keep their distance while the daffodil grows fuller every season. Hyacinths, with their powerful perfume, came from the eastern Mediterranean, Iran, and Turkmenistan and are popular all over the world. These bulbs also contain a natural toxin, making them safe from predators. Crocuses are native to all the places mentioned above, but also as far away as the Aegean Islands, Central Asia, and western China. Their name derives from Sanskrit. One variety gives us the costly spice, saffron. Snowdrops, flowering in winter and early spring, are native to Europe and nearby mountainous areas. Although endangered in the wild, snowdrop carpet gardens are popular in England, Scotland, and Ireland. Modern researchers believe that a substance in snowdrops was the mysterious “moly,” the antidote to Circe’s poison in Homer’s Odyssey. Religious Organizations Sisterhood meeting By Judy Perkus On Monday, October 17 at 1:30 p.m. in the Ballroom, the Rossmoor Jewish Congregation Sisterhood will feature President Hadassah Aylat presenting the true story of her husband’s journey from Scotland to Israel with the Jewish Brigade and during the War for Independence. Everyone is invited. Refreshments will be served. Please continue to bring nonperishable foods to the meeting. Donations will be taken to the Monroe Township food pantry to help those in need. Inscribe a Leaf to help our Tree of Life to grow. For further information, contact Judith Wistreich at 860-9580. ROSSMOOR COMMUNITY CHURCH Sunday services SUNDAY, OCT. 2, 11 a.m. The Rev. Dierdre L. Thomson will preach. Communion will be celebrated. Please remember to bring nonperishable food, or funds, for the Kiwanis Community Food Pantry. SUNDAY, OCT. 9, 11 a.m. The Rev. Dierdre L. Thomson will preach. Stephanie Pervall will be the soloist. SUNDAY, OCT. 16, 11 a.m. The Rev. Dierdre L. Thomson will preach. The Singers of the Rossmoor Chorus, directed by Gloria Montlack, will be part of the service. Please stay after the service for fellowship time. SUNDAY, OCT., 23 a.m. The Rev. Dierdre L. Thomson will preach. Suzanne Hickman will be the soloist. SUNDAY, OCT., 30 a.m. The Rev. Dierdre L. Thomson will preach. Stephanie Pervall will be the soloist. (Church office: 609-655-2321) Congregation __ cheeses, plus coffee, tea, soda and both regular and sugar-free cakes. The cost for everything is just $17 per person. (The September Bulletin had the reservation form and all details). The Hurricane-cancelled Bagel Breakfast will now take place on Sunday, October 16 in the Ballroom at 10 a.m. It features Barbara Thompson, who will reveal a little-known conspiracy. This will be the final bagel breakfast of the year. (Continued from page 26) Holiday services, those who have reserved in advance (by Sept. 30) will participate in a “Break-The -Fast” in the Ballroom, starting at 7 p.m. This traditional dairy meal follows a 24-26 hour fast on Yom Kippur for those who are still able to fast. The “Break-The-Fast” includes platters of whitefish, herring, tuna salad and egg salad, bagels and nova lox, regular and vegetable cream 27 October 2011 FALL FOLIAGE WALK Sunday, October 16, 3 p.m. Gather at the Meeting House for a leisurely stroll to enjoy our beautiful trees. Refreshments after the walk. Rain date is October 23. Caregiver Support Group Focus: Spouse/Partner Thursdays at 1:30 p.m. Location: Saint Peter’s Adult Day Care Center Monroe Township Meetings are 90 minutes Registration is not necessary. Questions may be directed to Stephanie Fitzsimmons, RN, NP at 1-800-269-7508, press 1, press 8662 28 October 2011 HEALTH CARE CENTER NEWS Color your imagination on the fall foliage walk The Tree Committee encourages residents to come to a fall foliage walk at 3 p.m. on Sunday, October 16. Walkers should gather at the Meeting House parking lot for a gentle stroll of approximately 30 minutes around that immediate area. A guide from the Tree Committee will identify selected species and offer fascinating bits of arbor lore along the way. Afterwards, participants are invited to Kaytie Olshefski RNC, BS Lactose intolerance By Lorraine Sarhage By Kaytie Olshefski, RN, C, BS stay for light refreshments in the Meeting House parlor. The rain date is Sunday, October 23. Among the good reasons to join the fall foliage walk, fresh air improves one’s health and surveying autumn’s glory lifts the spirit. For further information, phone Rosemary Gasik at (609) 409-8179. The Rossmoor NEWS Lactose intolerance is the inability to digest and absorb lactose (sugar in milk and milk products) causing gastrointestinal symptoms when ingesting milk or food products containing milk. Approximately 30 million American adults suffer from some amount of lactose intolerance. Lactose intolerance has a higher incidence in older adults. It is found to be higher in Asian Americans, African Americans, Hispanic Americans, Native Americans and Mediterranean populations. It is least common among Americans of northern European descent. Lactose intolerance is caused by a deficiency of an intestinal enzyme lactase that splits lactose into glucose and galactose which then allows lactose to be absorbed from the intestine. Primary lactase deficiency develops over time and usually begins after age of two. Symptoms may start in adolescence or in adulthood. Secondary lactase deficiency is from diseases that destroy the lining of the small intestine along with lactase such as celiac or Crohn’s disease, gastroenteritis, bowel surgery, or chemotherapy. The primary symptoms occur 30 minutes to two hours after consuming milk and milk products. Symptoms range from mild to severe based on the amount of lactose eaten and the amount a person is able to tolerate. Common symptoms include abdominal pain, bloating, cramping, diarrhea, flatulence (passing gas), nausea, and weight loss. Most people with low levels of lactase can tolerate two to four ounces of milk (up to ½ cup) at a time. Lactose intolerance can be hard to diagnose just based on symptoms as these symptoms also mimic irritable bowel syndrome. How is it diagnosed? Your doctor will make a diagnosis based on symptoms and perform a history and physical. The doctor may first eliminate all milk and milk products from one’s diet. Other tests include a milk challenge test, a lactose-hydrogen breath test that tests for amount of hydrogen in one’s breath, a stool acidity test, and an endoscopy. Lactose intolerance is managed by dietary changes. Some people find by gradually introducing small amounts of milk or milk containing products in their diets, they are able to tolerate larger amounts of lactose without developing symptoms. Studies have shown that symptoms are reduced if ingesting milk or milk containing food with meals. There is lactose free and lactose reduced milk and milk products with the lactase enzyme added to the product. There are over-thecounter tablets of lactase available to take with milk containing foods. Complication of not consuming enough milk products from one’s diet can lead to a shortage of calcium, vitamin D, riboflavin and protein. Without enough calcium and vitamin D in the diet can lead to osteoporosis. To try to avoid this condition: Calcium and vitamin D supplements are needed besides eating foods that are known to have high calcium content such as leafy greens, oysters, sardines, canned salmon, shrimp, and broccoli. There are foods fortified with calcium such as orange juice, cereals, cereal bars, protein bars, waffles, instant oatmeal and bread. If you suspect you are lactose intolerant or if your symptoms worsen or do not improve with treatment — or if you develop new symptoms — see your physician. In our lecture series from Saint Peter’s University Hospital, one lecture will be on "Sure & Steady - All about Balance," by Beth Ando Brennan, physical therapist on Monday, October 10 at 1 p.m. in the Maple Room. If you are interested in attending, please call the Health Care Center at 655-2220. Our last scheduled flu clinic will be on Wednesday, October 5, 2011, in the Ballroom from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. No appointments are being taken. If you need a ride to the Clubhouse to get your flu shot, please call E&R and make a reservation on the morning shopping bus. If you are unable to make this flu clinic, please call the Health Care Center and we will let you know of other available options. Remember at our flu clinics we are only able to accept Medicare insurance for it to be covered under the Medicare program. If your primary insurance is a Medicare HMO, commercial insurance, or any other type of insurance other than straight Medicare, you have the option of getting your flu vaccine at your doctor’s office, at another facility offering flu shots or paying for the flu shot at our flu clinic. If Medicare should deny payment stating that Medicare is not your primary insurance, you will be billed for the vaccine. If you would like to get the flu vaccine at our flu clinic, a receipt will be issued to you for you to submit to your insurance company. As we have done in the past years, we will continue to offer flu shots to residents who are homebound. If you are interested in this service, please call the Health Care Center at 655- 2220 for more information. A Support Group is being offered at Rossmoor for the first time. The Support Group will be meeting the 3rd Wednesday of the month, from 10 to 11:30 a.m., in the Maple Room. The Support Group will be lead by Stephanie Fitzsimmons RN, GNP. For more information, please contact Stephanie at 1-800-269-7508, ext: 8662. FURNACE STARTUP $69.95 The Rossmoor NEWS October 2011 Maintenance Department News Maintenance Department helpful reminders As the weather starts to become colder, it is important that residents prepare for the winter. • Make sure all windows are closed properly; • Check all weep holes, make sure they are open; • Drapes & electrical cords should not hang on the baseboard heaters; • All outside hoses should be disconnected and drained; • If you have an inside shutoff valve for your outside faucet, you should turn it off; and • Have a can of de-icer on hand, for those frozen door locks on your car and manor doors. Please schedule your winterizing as soon as possible. The calendar is already getting full Maintenance Department October specials Lights: Are the fluorescent lights in your kitchen (or anywhere else) flickering or burned out? Plastic light panels: Is your kitchen looking dark? Are the light covers old, discolored or even cracked? Cooktop: Are your rings and pans on your cook top showing some signs of wear? Symmons valve: Are you having a problem with the shut off valve for your wash- ing machine? Washing machine hoses: Have you checked your washing machine hoses lately, are they the original? Screens: If you enjoy the fresh air, you should check your screens: Are they torn? Water filter cartridges: When was the last time you had your cartridge replaced? Take 10% off the above material for the entire month. Just mention this add when you call or stop in. MILLENNIUM By Vincent Piccoli, president Activities for the month of October: Mowing/leaf cleanup of the lawns, edging sidewalks, spraying for weeds on the lawns, blowing out three-foot beds, blowing out carports twice a month, and pruning three foot bed bushes. Tip for the month: October is a good month for reseeding grass. Start to prepare for winterizing your irrigation system. If you removed bushes or large branches please tie them and put them on the curb for pickup on Mondays only. Do not put them in bags. If you have a landscaper remove bushes, he must take them away. If you choose to have your own landscaper or do your own landscaping please use the yellow stake and ribbon procedure. Directions, ribbons & stakes are available at the Maintenance office. If you have clippings or other debris, please bag and put them in your Mutual’s dumpsters. There will be a representative from Millennium at the Middlesex County eligible for Federal Assistance to mitigate impacts from Hurricane Irene Sayreville, NJ - September 7: Middlesex County Freeholder Director Christopher D. Rafano and the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA) announced jointly that Federal assistance has been made available to residents of Middlesex County impacted by Hurricane Irene. Eligibility allows residents to apply for different types of assistance, including temporary housing, repair, replacement or other needs such as Disaster Unemployment Assistance, and Small Business Administration disaster loans. “I encourage all residents and business owners who have suffered losses to apply for this aid to help them repair and rebuild their homes and livelihoods,” said Freeholder Director Rafano. “The hurricane’s impact will be felt for some time to come, but with the help of this aid and these programs, our residents and businesses can start on the path to recovery.” Residents can register by phone at 800-621-FEMA (3362) or TTY 800-462-7585 for those with hearing or speech impairments. Specialists are standing by at the toll-free numbers seven days a week, 7 a.m. to 10 p.m. local time, until further notice. Alternatively, registration can be completed online at www.disasterassistance.gov or through a Web-enabled mobile device or smart phone by visiting m.fema.gov and following the link to “apply online for federal assistance.” To register with FEMA, applicants need to provide: • Social Security number • Address of the damaged home or apartment • Description of the damage • Information about insurance coverage • A current contact telephone number • An address where you can get mail • Bank account and routing numbers if they want direct deposit of any financial assistance This Federal assistance was made available to Middlesex County after FEMA assessment teams consisting of personnel from FEMA, the State’s emergency management agency, Department of Human Services, Department of Community Affairs, Middlesex County Office of Emergency Management as well as county and local officials worked tirelessly through the weekend to complete the survey of areas impacted in Middlesex County by Hurricane Irene. “I want to thank the as(Continued on page 30) East Gate office every Monday through Friday from 8:30 to 10:30 a.m. to meet with residents. If you have any questions or concerns in reference to landscaping services, please feel free to stop in or call. The phone number for Millennium is 655-5134. If no one answers, leave your message on the answering machine and we will get back to you as soon as possible. If you have an emergency, call Maintenance at 655-2121 and they will get in touch with someone from Millennium. The main office phone number 1-877-717-4300 is for Irrigation calls only. All monthly activities are subject to weather conditions. Please watch Channel 3 for our list of daily activities. 29 30 TRANSPORTATION TIDBITS Important phone numbers: Rossmoor Bus ..........................................609-655-4401 Hours 10:00 -11:00 a.m. and 2:30 p.m.- 4:00 p.m. Monroe Township Transportation .............732-521-6100 Middlesex County Area Transportation (MCAT) ............... 1-800-221-3520 St. Peter’s University Hospital On Time Transportation ....................... 1-800-858-8463 All schedules are available outside the E&R office (near the copy machine) or via the Web at www.rossmoornj.com and following the links Facilities, Clubhouse and Activities, and Bus Info. October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS See Civil War living history at Dey Farm On Saturday, October 29, the 150th anniversary of the Civil War will be commemorated when a group of professional re-enactors present a living history event at the Dey Farm Historic site. Attendees will see Civil War troops preparing for combat, watch military drills, observe the camp life of the time, and hear period music. They will also be able to browse through the historic buildings of Dey Farm and to enjoy a ladies’ fashion show. Students, history buffs, and interested persons will have an excellent opportunity to “relive” America of the 1860s. The re-enactors will be happy to explain the equipment, how things were made, and other aspects of life in that time. Please join us on the 29th, between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. at Dey Farm on Federal Road near Applegarth Road. Admission is free. This event is sponsored by the Monroe Township Historic Preservation Commission and the 2nd New Jersey Brigade. Vintage baseball, Anyone? Remember Shoeless Johnson, Abner Doubleday, and Cooperstown? You can see baseball as it was played in the 1800s when gloves were optional, foul balls a strategy, and nine balls constituted a walk. In those days the batter could request where he wanted the ball to be pitched! The game was faster, fun, and very different. Join us on Saturday, October 1 at 12 noon on the north pasture of historic Day Farm, located on Federal Road near Applegarth Road. You’ll see a double header between the Flemington Neshanics and the Philadelphia Athletics. The likes of Maddog, Thumbs, Bootleg, Hammer, and Shoeless will be playing. So pack a picnic basket, bring a lawn chair, blanket, or sit on a bale of hay. Just relax and enjoy vintage baseball. This event is sponsored by the Monroe Township Historic Preservation Commission and is free to all. Parking is available on Federal Road. In the Aftermath: Tropical Storm Irene By Jerry Tamburro Monroe Township Council President More than 150 families in Monroe had their lives turned into turmoil as a result of tropical storm Irene. Worst hit was the northern portion of the Township where at least 12 homes were declared uninhabitable or destroyed beyond repair. Several had the foundation ripped out from under the house and many more were severely water damaged. One such house was the home of a young boy who is undergoing treatment for cancer. Not only the house itself had damage but most of their household possessions were water logged and had to be thrown out. The scene in that part of the Township looked very much likes the pictures we saw when hurricane Middlesex County (Continued from page 29) sessment teams from the Federal and State governments and our municipal partners for their time and efforts on behalf of the people of Middlesex County,” said Freeholder Deputy Director Ronald G. Rios, Chair of the County’s Law and Public Safety Committee. “Most importantly, I wish to thank and commend all the County offices, especially the Office of Emergency Management, employees and volunteers and the local first responder personnel who supported our response and recovery efforts. They displayed an incredible dedication to the health and safety of all who live and work in Middlesex County, and for that, we are eternally grateful.” The Middlesex County Office of Emergency Management will continue to monitor the progress of Hurricane Irene relief efforts and provide additional updates as needed. Katrina hit New Orleans. To add insult to injury the police arrested three people who stole the damaged property from the front of the affected houses before insurance adjusters could estimate the amount of loss. In one case, the individual arrested, falsely claimed to be a policeman! Because of the volume of water in such a short period of time, that portion of the town was isolated until the levels receded. In one case, a person needed to be transported by ambulance and due to the level of water in front of the house had to be lifted through the water in a front-end loader and then placed in the waiting ambulance. Beside that section of the Township there were 40 families in Rossmoor that experienced flooding and had to be displaced until the damage could be assessed and repairs started. The Township had been working almost around the clock to bring some semblance of order to those families affected. However, there is a need for help, from a financial standpoint, so that some of the basic necessities can be purchased for those families affected. I have reached out to each of the adult communities for assistance in gathering monetary donations and the reception has been extraordinary. If you have not already been asked to donate please consider doing so. Contributions can be made payable to Friends of the Monroe Senior Center, a 501 3c charitable organization, and mailed to Bonnie Leibowitz’s attention at the municipal building, 1 Municipal Plaza. Please note in the memo section of your check Irene Disaster Fund. Gift credit cards will be purchased by the senior center so that food, clothing, building materials, and other goods can be purchased for those who need our assistance. Thank you for your anticipated help in this cause. Mail checks or money orders to: Friends of the Monroe Senior Center Attn: Bonnie Leibowitz 1 Municipal Plaza Monroe Township, NJ 08831 Henry Ricklis Holocaust Memorial Committee Annual Library Program The Holocaust as Seen through the Eyes of a Survivor, Prisoner of War, and Liberator is the subject of this year’s annual Henry Ricklis Memorial Committee and Monroe Township Public Library program. The program is at the Monroe Public Library Sunday, October 2 from 1:30-3:30 p.m. The library is located just off Perrineville Road in the Monroe Township Municipal Complex. The program focuses on the personal Holocaust experiences of each panel Presenter and also memorializes all those who suffered and were murdered in the Holocaust. What can we learn and how can we prevent future Holocausts will also be considered. Sol Lurie was sent to a concentration camp at age 11 and somehow survived several camps until liberated in 1945. Sol is active in Holocaust Education and dedicated to not only bear witness, but to stress the lessons and actions to be learned from the Holocaust. Born in Lithuania and living in Monroe Township, Sol is a fervent American patriot. He (Continued on page 31) The Rossmoor NEWS 31 October 2011 Protecting Voter Rights To Be Focus of LWV MT Coalition for Peace In to meet October 24 Meeting By Ellen Norman Memoriam By Ruth Banks Protecting the right of every citizen to vote has become a challenge in the U.S. because of the many attempts by states to tighten rules and restrict access to registration and voting. Protecting this right has been a basic League principle since its origin in 1920. Here in New Jersey, in our own Middlesex County, a legal challenge to NJ law is even now pending in Middlesex County Superior Court. To discuss the many statewide efforts to prevent access to registration and voting, Professor Frank Askin, professor of law and director of the Constitutional Litigation Clinic at the Rutgers School of Law-Newark, will be the League’s guest speaker. The program is being co-sponsored by the Monroe Township Library and will be held at the Library on Monday, October 24, at 1 pm. The program will also be the fourth in the Dr. Deborah Partridge Wolfe Legacy Project. Dr. Wolfe, who considered herself a “teacher and a preacher,” was passionate about the right of every American citizen to vote. She, as Head of the Department of Elementary Education and Director of Graduate Work at Tuskegee University, was consistently denied the right to register and vote, and this left a lasting imprint on her life. Efforts by several states during the past several years to restrict access to registration and voting have been challenged by the LWVUS, among other groups. During 2011 alone, 12 voter ID bills across the country have been challenged in court and defeated. They were CO, DE, IA, ME, MO, MT, NC, NH, NM, OR and VA. However, eight new suppression bills did pass in AL, FL, KS, RI, SC, TN, TX and WI. The fight continues in all these states and the impact of new laws is already being felt by voters. The Florida League of Women Voters called it a “state-by-state crusade to disenfranchise voters.” The League believes that increased accessibility to the electoral process is integral to ensuring a representative electoral process and the right of every citizen to vote. On the national level, the LWVUS continues to moni- Memorial ________ 1945, he participated in the liberation of Gunkirchen Camp, a subcamp of Mauthausen Concentration Camp. Profoundly affected by this experience, he speaks widely to schoolchildren and other audiences on radio, TV, the PBS documentary The Jewish Americans, Russian TV, West Point Military Academy and many more. Alan was born in Englewood and lives on Long Island. All three are very proud of their families and feel blessed in spite of their wartime traumas. Renee Balaban, program chairperson, will welcome the audience. Ronnie Ricklis Rothschild, whose father Henry was a liberator and founder of the Ricklis Committee, will briefly describe the mission of the organization. There will be a question and answer period. The program is free and older children are especially welcome to hear these eyewitness accounts. For further information contact Renee Balaban at 609-409-2918 or the Library at 732-521-5000. (Continued from page 30) feels very strongly about the importance of sharing his experiences with schoolchildren. Irving Lautman was drafted into the U.S. Army at age 18. While fighting with the U.S infantry in Normandy he was cited for bravery and received the Bronze Star. Upon reaching Germany he was captured in a German counter attack. After four months of imprisonment, the Germans discovered that he and 18 other POW’s were Jewish, separated them from the rest of the prisoners and marched them through fierce cold and snow to a special labor camp for Jews. Severely treated and starved, he escaped prior to liberation and rejoined American forces. Irving was born in Brooklyn and lives in Monroe. Alan Moskin was drafted into the U.S. Army. As part of General Patton’s 3rd Army he fought through France, Germany, and Austria. In May tor, educate and challenge violations of national and state voting laws. The League is a nonpartisan political organization, open to men and women, and does not support or oppose candidates for public office. The meetings are free and open to the public. Please note that the October meeting is being held at the Library on Monday, October 24, instead of its usual venue at the Municipal Building. Its annual Holiday Luncheon will take place on November 14 at the Forsgate Country Club at 11:30 and will feature as its guest speaker Ms. Ingrid Reed, formerly head of the NJ Project at the Eagleton Institute, Rutgers, and now affiliated with Spotlight NJ. For more information on League programs and activities please contact Ruth Banks, 609-6554791, or Judy Perkus, 609395-1552, and for information on the luncheon call Doris Altman, 609-655-5932. The Reverend Robert Moore, who is Executive Director of the Coalition for Peace Action, will address the group at its next meeting. His topic will be, “Together we can meet the challenges of peace.” The Coalition for Peace Action will meet on Wednesday, October 19, at 10 a.m. in the Monroe Township Municipal Building. Everyone is welcome. For more information, call Ellen Norman at 609-655-9113. Edmund J. Mitchell Mr. Edmund J. Mitchell died on Tuesday, Aug. 30, 2011. He is survived by his wife Violet, his daughter Susan Fox and her husband Garry, two sons, Scott Mitchell and his wife Kathleen, and Gary Mitchell and his wife Sharon, three sisters, and six grandchildren, Jeffrey and his wife Lindsay, Michael, Andrew, Jessica, Madison, and Scotty. 32 October 2011 Nonperishable Food Donations Needed Emergency food providers are seeing an increase in need for supplies due to the effects of Hurricane Irene. So many people in Middlesex County have been displaced from their homes and are in shelters; others have lost food and other items due to flooding or having no electricity. Supplies at local food pantries and soup kitchens are already low as they usually are during the summer months. The additional demand for necessities is putting a real strain on local agencies trying to provide assistance. If you can, please consider donating nonperishable foods including: rice, cereal, pasta, soup, macaroni and cheese, tuna fish, canned fruits and vegetables, personal products, diapers and wipes. You may drop your donation at any of the local libraries in East Brunswick, Edison, Milltown, Monroe, Metuchen, North Brunswick, Perth Amboy, Piscataway, Plainsboro, South Amboy, South Brunswick, South Plainfield, Spotswood or Woodbridge. If you have a business, school, place of worship, club or group that would like to sponsor a food drive, please let me know and we can provide you with containers in which to store the food and can pick up the donations once they’ve been collected. Monetary donations are also accepted in the form of a check made payable to M.C.F.O.O.D.S. and can be mailed to the address listed below. Thank you for your anticipated support and generosity. Jennifer Apostol MCIA Project Manager MCFOODS Coordinator 101 Interchange Plaza, Suite 202 Cranbury, NJ 08512 Phone 609-409-5033 The Rossmoor NEWS Senior Center Highlights Attention: Senior Center Participants Please note that our name has officially changed to: The Monroe Township Office of Senior Services ...with the Senior Center housing our activities and special events as always. For the month of October, the following programs are being offered in the Monroe Township Senior Center, located in the Municipal Building, on Perrineville Road. Individuals, who are 55 years of age and older, reside in Monroe Township, and who are registered with the Office, are eligible to participate in these activities. For more information, please call: 732-521-6111. Walk-In Option Eliminated As of September 1, we wished WALK-INS (individuals who do not register in advance for programs) a fond farewell. Thus, please keep in mind that your admission will be denied if you do not register in advance for our special monthly programs. We strongly recommend that you call to register in advance for desired activities. New Building = New Building Fund The Friends of the Senior Center, Inc. is sponsoring an array of fundraising projects to support the “extraordinary” needs of the new Senior Center. Raffle tickets and books are available for purchase at the Senior Center. Tickets are $2 each. Books are $20 each. Winners need not be present on Tuesday, January 10th, during the Friends’ New Year’s Gala, to be eligible to receive cash prizes. Besides the raffle, there will be a Dedication Wall in the new building created with donor bricks that are available to order now. Two different size bricks are offered, starting at $50 each. For more information, please call the Office of Senior Services: 732-521-6111. Take It To Heart: Carotid Artery Disease On Wednesday, October 5, at 2 p.m. Dr. P. Haser, from Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital, discusses the importance of carotid disease — diagnosis, monitoring, and treating — as well as how to reduce your risk of a stroke. Judge for Yourself On Thursday, October 6, at 2 p.m., join Judge Jenn’s court to discuss and debate true, sometimes controversial stories and cases. Space limited. Now, That’s Italian with The Friends of the Senior Center, Inc. On Tuesday, October 11, join the Friends of the Senior Center, Inc., for a fun afternoon at the “Now, That’s Italian” luncheon complete with pizza, Italian desserts, and a DVD presentation of “The Best Of The Dean Martin Show”. Tickets: $8 p.p. Register in-person at the Senior Center. Watercolor Studio Starting on Wednesday, October 12, from 1 to 3 p.m., join Clare Godleski, Artist/ Teacher, for this watercolor class that meets on October 12, 19, 26, November 2, 30, and December 7, 14, 21. (Breaks in the schedule en- able students to do homework for class.) Space limited. Course Fee: $80 — due upon registering in-person. (Please make your check payable to “The Friends Of The Senior Center, Inc.” Artist Grade Kit available directly from the instructor. Or, you may purchase your own student-grade supplies. A Stand-by List will be taken in case of cancellations or for the formation of a future class. Love the Skin You’re In On Thursday, October 13, at 1:30 pm., Dr. Kathleen M. Rossy, board certified dermatologist, discusses the latest information on how to keep your skin radiant and healthy, from anti-oxidants and skin repair, to skin concerns and sun protection. Smile, You’re On Candid Camera On Friday, October 14, at 10:30 a.m., enjoy the greatest moments of catching people off guard and being themselves. Smile as you watch classic sequences (Continued on page 33) The Columbus Controversy By Tom La Cascia The second Monday of October is celebrated in the United States as Columbus Day. Every year about this time a question is posed in casual discussions, articles in newspapers, magazines, television, and radio – that questions is, Was Columbus the first to discover the Americas? Well, obviously he wasn’t. There were Indians on the shore when he arrived – lots of them. Then there was Viking explorer, Leif Eriksson. Although it is unclear where he landed—or if he was the first European to land here— Eriksson is often credited as the first European to discover North America. Okay, what about the Indians? Anthropologists and archeologists have differing views as to when and where they came from, but it is generally accepted that they came over from Asia several thousand years ago by crossing (walking) what is now the Bering straits–back then it was solid land or ice. I’ll even allow that maybe the Egyptians came over too– those pyramids in South American have a very strong resemblance to the Egyptian variety. The picture writing (hieroglyphics) on the South American pyramids have some similarity to the Egyptian writing. So, the politically correct view is that Columbus did not discover America, because people had lived here for thousands of years. Re- gardless, prior to 1492, what is now the United States was sparsely inhabited, unused, and undeveloped. The inhabitants were primarily huntergatherers, wandering across the land, living from hand-tomouth and from day-to-day. There was virtually no change, no growth for thousands of years. Did Columbus “discover” America? One scholar on the subject says, “Yes— in every important respect. This does not mean that no human eye had been cast on America before Columbus arrived. It does mean that Columbus brought America to the attention of the civilized world, i.e., to the growing, scientific civilizations of Western Europe. The result, ultimately, was the United States of America. It was Columbus’ discovery for Western Europe that led to the influx of ideas and people on which this nation was founded—and on which it still rests. The opening of America brought the ideas and achievements of Aristotle, Galileo, Newton, and the thousands of thinkers, writers, and inventors who followed.” Though Asians came over several thousand years ago and became the American Indians, and the Viking, Leif Eriksson, may have arrived here five or six hundred years before Columbus, they did nothing to inform the people of Asia or Europe–no one followed them and developed the New World. Columbus Day should be used to honor a man who changed the world. So this October 10 raise a glass of Asti Spumanti, and let us celebrate the man who made it possible for us to be in America today. The Rossmoor NEWS Senior Center Highlights (Continued from page 32) from Candid Camera, America’s longest-running entertainment series, during this 2 hour DVD presentation. “Laughter’s on its way!” Laugh Out Loud On Friday, October 14 at 1:30 p.m., join Yvette Halpin as she plans for an afternoon of fall fun! What she has in store for you is a mystery; but, laughter and a good time are always on the menu...with an autumn twist! Assisted Living Options and B-I-N-G-O On Thursday, October 20, at 1:30 p.m. Carole Cieless, Outreach Marketing, Acorn Glen Assisted Living, provides an overview of assisted livings and explores housing options. Immediately following, enjoy Bingo with plenty of prizes. Art of the Masters: Wassily Kandinsky On Friday, October 21, at 2 p.m., after the brief lecture on the life and work of Russian painter, Kandinsky, 16 participants will work in the artist’s style to create a personal masterpiece in tempura paint.. To participate in the project, please register in -person and obtain a coupon — while supplies last. Spun Cotton Ornaments: Halloween Theme Starting on Monday, October 24, at 1:30 p.m., join Clare Godleski, Artist/ Teacher, as she introduces you to art-making, Victorianstyle, during this 2-day class (Oct. 24 & 31). A brief history lesson will be followed by creating a Halloweeninspired ornament. Preregistration is required, inperson, by October 17, while openings last. Space limited. Course fee: $20 p.p. (includes instruction and materials). Additional supplies subsidized by the Friends of the Senior Center, Inc. Flavian’s Mind Power Show On Tuesday, October 25, at 1:30 p.m., we welcome back Flavian and his magical mental abilities as he presents his Mind Reading Monroe Township Library October Calendar of Events Artist in Residence featuring portrait artist Scott Nickerson 1-4 p.m., Saturday, October 1. Watch portrait artist Scott Nickerson at work on his latest creation. This event is offered in collaboration with the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission. Registration is not required. Timely Topic Chat Series: Young Adult Literature for Adults 2:30 p.m., Wednesday, October 5. Stop by and chat with a professional librarian about resources and services that can enrich your life. Discover YA titles for adults with Sue Grotyohann. Registration not required. Cultural Arts Commission Annual Juried Art Show Opens Tuesday, October 11. Applications are available at the Circulation Desk. Books with Sylvia Deutsch 10 a.m., October 11. A discussion about The Invisible Wall by Harry Bernstein. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Timely Topic Chat Series: Bookmobile & Outreach Services 2:30 p.m., Tuesday, October 11. Lisa Dipierro will talk about the bookmobile and outreach services, including the homebound program. Registration not required. Annual Jazz Event 7 p.m., Friday, October 14. Join us for an evening of music featuring pianist John Bianculli and friends. Light refreshments will be served. Tickets are $12 each and available at Circulation beginning Wednesday, September 21. Event cosponsored by the Friends of the Library. Saturday Morning Review 10:30 a.m., Saturday, Oc- 33 October 2011 tober 15. A discussion about The 19th Wife by David Ebershoff. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Library Board Meeting 6:30 p.m., Monday, October 17 350+ Year Evolution of Salsa 1 p.m., Saturday, October 22. José Obando, consultant for the Department of Musical Instruments at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, will trace the development of salsa and share instruments from the Museum’s collection in this interactive lecture. Free tickets available at the Welcome Desk. Timely Topic Chat Series: Paying for College 2:30 p.m., Saturday, October 22. Stop by and chat with a professional librarian about resources and services that can enrich your life. Jim Shearer will present early college planning tools including practice test websites, grants, and scholarship information. Registration not required. Read, Reflect, Review with Mildred Goodwin 1:30 p.m., Sunday, October 23. A discussion about Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Coffee & a Book 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, October 25. A discussion about The Wolves of Andover by Kathleen Kent. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Friends of the Library Meeting 7 p.m., October 25 Timely Topic Chat Series: Universal Class 2:30 p.m., Wednesday, (Continued on page 35) Game Show. This year, one lucky audience member will have the chance to possibly win $100. So, take a chance and join the mindful fun! Refreshments, too! Tickets: $2 p.p. — due upon registering in-person. Kiwanis ________ (Continued from page 1) Committee; the Nursing Committee and Nursing Contract Committee; the Cable Contract Committee and the Landscaping Contract Committee. His involvement in these areas has made a real and positive difference in Rossmoor. In addition to all these activities, Dan was the chair of the Maintenance Committee for four years and co-chair for another four years. He was the secretary of the RCAI Executive Committee of the Board of Governors and vice president for another two years. Dan has also been on the Traffic and Safety Committee, the Community Relations Committee, the Finance Committee and is currently on the Maintenance Committee and the Community Affairs Committee. All the members of the Rossmoor Emerald Society have certainly benefited from Dan’s involvement in this organization. Since becoming president the membership is now over 350 members. Dan has managed to organize fabulous trips, wonderful dinners, and entertainment each month in the Ballroom, and day trips to plays and restaurants for the Emerald Society. As president of the Emerald Society, Dan encouraged contributions to be made through the Emerald Society to many charitable organizations including the Kiwanis Food Pantry, the Smile Train, the American Cancer Society, and the Marine Lance Cpl. Colin Pascik Foundation. While undergoing several surgeries, Dan still managed to collect over $1400 in 2010 and another $1300 in 2011 for the Kiwanis Club’s March of Dimes Golden Mile Walk. These amounts were instrumental in helping the Kiwanis March of Dimes Committee attain their goal for both 2010 and 2011. Dan Jolly was born and raised in South Brunswick and later moved to North Brunswick. He attended Middlesex County Vocation School in New Brunswick and the Monmouth County Police Academy. He later attended the National Transportation Safety Academy in Albany, New York with a degree in Traffic Safety Inspection, which Dan utilized for numerous trucking companies. He was a North Brunswick Fire Department Volunteer and on the Milltown Rescue Squad. Dan was a Special Police officer in North Music and Dance: A Monster of a Bash On Thursday, October 27, at 2 p.m., we welcome back Jerry Castaldo, entertainer, as he sings and schmooze’s as he gets us into a party mood. Assorted desserts, too! Tickets: $2 p.p. — due upon registering in-person. Space limited. Halloween Costume Optional — in order to be entered into our contest! Chime Choir On Friday, October 28, 1:30 p.m., enjoy the sweet sounds of chimes during the Rossmoor Community Church’s Chime Choir performance. This half-hour performance will put you in a happy mood. Space limited. Brunswick for 28 years. Dan also served as a Democratic committeeman in North Brunswick for 18 years and is a member of the Rossmoor Democratic Club and Monroe Township Democratic Club. Dan and his wife Barbara were married in September of 1962 and have been blessed with four daughters, one son and eight grandchildren. While bringing up their children, Dan and Barbara joined Sacred Heart Church where he was a Eucharist Minister and church trustee for 15 years. Later they transferred to St. James Church in Jamesburg where he is currently a Eucharist Minister. For many reasons, Dan’s strong desire to do what he can to help in his community will be continually felt here at Rossmoor. past vice-president of the Emerald Society of Rossmoor and arranged all the fabulous dinners everyone so enjoyed. As if all that were not enough, Muriel is presently the president of the Women’s Nine Hole Golf Group. In that capacity, she works with the tournament chair, the pairing chair and the vice president for hospitality. As president of the Women’s Nine Hole Golf Group, Muriel serves on the Golf Course Committee. Muriel is also a member of the Republican Club and a former secretary of the Italian American Club. One of Muriel’s most outstanding contributions to Rossmoor was a proposal to form a resident caregivers support group. Muriel is working with Stephanie Fitzsimmons, R.N. from St. Peter’s to have group support sessions every month for spouses and loved ones of those who are handicapped and at home. Muriel Calvanelli has the gift of compassion from her own experience and understands the needs of others. Knowing Muriel is knowing that everything is right with the world because with grace, fortitude and a wonderful sense of humor, she makes us all believe we can succeed in all things today. Muriel graduated from New York City public schools and later graduated from Middlesex County College. After working for several years for the Rockefeller Brothers Fund for Theological Education, she found her way to the South Brunswick Township Police Department. She started as a secretary and worked her way up to executive administrator and a member of the department’s Command Staff. She volunteered and served as the coordinator and counselor for the police department’s Domestic Violence Response Team. Her professional memberships during those years included chair, N.J. Advisory Commission on the Status of Women; member, N.J. Advisory Commission on Women; liaison, Middlesex County Domestic Violence Response Team; member, Association of Records Managers/Administrators; Treasurer of the Professional Secretaries International and the South Brunswick Mayor’s Task Force on Women. The residents of Rossmoor are certainly fortunate to have such a vital and dedicated member of this community to speak for them at Rossmoor Muriel Calvanelli When Joe and Muriel Calvanelli moved to Rossmoor in June 1999, they saw the wonderful golf course and knew they would be happy here. Joe and Muriel were both raised in Brooklyn. They met in 1950 in high school, fell in love and were married in 1953, beginning a life-long love affair. They eventually moved to the Kendall Park section of South Brunswick, where they raised two daughters and a son. They are the proud grandparents of four grandsons. Muriel’s contributions to Rossmoor are numerous, but because her beloved Joe has been in The Gardens Nursing Home for the last three and one half years, her time has been limited. However, Muriel is committed to serving her community and has found the time and the energy to make outstanding contributions to many organizations. In 2008 Muriel was appointed director of Mutual 12. Later in 2010, she ran for a three-year term and was elected as secretary/ treasurer of the Mutual. Muriel writes the monthly newsletter for Mutual 12 and keeps all the residents up-todate on the Mutual activities. As a director, Muriel serves on several committees including having been a former chair of Traffic and Safety. Currently she is vice-chair of Community Affairs. Muriel organized the Pace Car Committee and implemented its goals; she is also on the Bar Code Committee to change the security access to Rossmoor; and she is on the Channel 3 Rules and Regulation Committee. Muriel is a member and a 34 October 2011 October at the State Theatre The State Theatre, 15 Livingston Ave, New Brunswick, NJ, is a premier nonprofit venue for the performing arts and entertainment. Ticket Office - 732-246SHOW (7469). Online www.StateTheatreNJ.org Mariinsky Orchestra Tue, October 4 at 8 p.m. Valery Gergiev, artistic director and conductor Program: Piotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 1 in G minor, Op. 13, “Winter Daydreams” and Symphony No. 6 in B minor, Op. 74, “Pathetique” The orchestra, led by Valery Gergiev, one of the most sought-after conductors in the world today, celebrates its 228th Anniversary this year, making it one of the oldest musical institutions in Russia. The London Times says “The orchestra, under musical director Valery Gergiev, moves as if with a single mind and always with purposeful passion.” The New York Times says “The gripping performances these musicians from St. Petersburg offered had such intensity, character and insight that it was hard to imagine the music played with more authority.” Tickets: $36-58 Wanda Sykes Presented by State Theatre and AM Productions Fri, October 14 at 8 p.m. Co-presented by State Theatre and AM Productions.Comedian and actress Wanda Sykes has been called “one of the funniest stand up comics” by her peers and ranks among Entertainment Weekly’s 25 Funniest People in America. Her smart-witted stand-up has sent her career in many different areas. In addition to her two HBO® stand-up specials—”Wanda Sykes: Sick & Tired” and “I’ma Be Me”— Sykes is well-known for her appearances on The New Adventures of Old Christine, Curb Your Enthusiasm, as well as The Chris Rock Show, for which she spent five years. As a performer and writer on The Chris Rock Show, she was nominated for three Primetime Emmy’s® and in 1999 won the Emmy® for “Outstanding Writing for a Variety, Music or Comedy Special.” In 2001, she won the American Comedy Award for “Outstanding Female Stand Up Comic.” She also won three more Emmy’s®, in 2002, 2004, and 2005, for her work on Inside the NFL for “Outstanding Studio Show.” Tickets: $35-95 Lewis Black In God We Rust Co-presented by State Theatre and Live Nation Thu, October 20 at 8 p.m. Lewis Black is one of the most prolific and popular performers working today. He executes a brilliant trifecta as stand-up comedian, actor, and author. The Grammy® Award-winner and star of Comedy Central’s hit The Root of All Evil gained fame with his scathing commentaries on the network’s “Back in Black” segment of The Daily Show. Lewis’ live performances provide a cathartic release of anger and disillusionment for his audience. Lewis yells so they don’t have to. When Lewis Black lets loose his frustrations on stage, you better be ready Waiting room distractions for his rants on the absurdities of history, politics, and life’s little mysteries will keep you laughing all night long Tickets: $35-75 An Evening with Chris Robinson Brotherhood Fri, October 21 at 8 p.m. Chris Robinson, lead singer of the Black Crowes, is taking his band Chris Robinson Brotherhood on the road! Robinson and the band will be performing new Brotherhood songs as well as Robinson’s hits with the Crowes such as “Hard to Handle,” “She Talks to Angels,” “Jealous Again,” “Twice As Hard,” and “Remedy.” Joining Robinson for the Brotherhood tour will be Neal Casal on guitar, Adam MacDougall (of the Black Crowes) on keyboards, George Sluppick on drums, and Mark “Muddy” Dutton (of Burning Tree) on Bass. Tickets: $22-40 The Rat Pack is Back! Sat, October 22 at 8 p.m. Sun, October 23 at 3 p.m. The Rat Pack is Back! recreates the free-wheeling, noholds-barred nightclub act starring Vegas’ four favorite sons: Frank Sinatra, Sammy Davis, Jr., Dean Martin, and Joey Bishop. This spirited show features uncanny vocal recreations, unbridled humor, and a hot, live 12-piece orchestra that sends audiences straight back to one of the coolest times in history. Hits include “That’s Amore,” “My Way,” “Mr. Bojangles,” and many more. See why The Las Vegas Sun writes, “This is as close as anyone has come to capturing the feeling of the real thing,” and the Chicago Tribune raves, “Classic comic material. Excellent!” Tickets: $25-57 The Rossmoor NEWS HOME SAFETY TIPS How To Deter Home Burglary • Invest in good quality locks on doors and windows. This includes all sliding glass doors as well. Make it difficult and time consuming for a burglar to gain entry. • Whenever you go outside, lock the door and take the key with you, even if you are just stepping next door or out in the backyard. • Don’t put valuables where they can be seen from the window, especially items that can be easily carried. • Be sure your garage door can be secured. Do not leave it open when you are away; an empty garage broadcasts your absence. • When you aren’t home, use a timer set to turn interior lights on and off at varying intervals as though your home was still occupied. • Don’t keep large amounts of cash or really valuable jewelry around the house. • If a stranger comes to your door asking to use the telephone, make the call yourself. Don’t invite them in. • Don’t hide a spare key under the doormat or flowerpot. Thieves know all the good hiding places. • Invest in a good security system along with motion sensor lights installed out of reach. • Keep any tools that could be used to break into your home locked away in the garage. • Always double check that doors and windows are locked even during daylight hours. • Videotape the contents of your home. Keep the video and the list of all valuables in a safe place, such as a safe deposit box. How To Safeguard Your Home While on Vacation • Strive to make your home look as lived-in as possible while you’re away. • Don’t broadcast your plans but do let your neighbors and local law enforcement know. • Arrange to have your mail and newspapers either stopped or picked up daily. • Use automatic timers to turn on a radio and lights at different intervals to hide the fact you aren’t home. • Turn down the ringer on the telephone. An unanswered telephone is a dead give-away. • Be sure you don’t announce your absence on your answering machine message or email. • Leave your blinds as you normally would if you were home. Only close them all the way if that is what you would normally do. • Move valuables away from windows. • Be sure to close and lock the garage as well as any storage sheds, etc. • Be sure someone knows your itinerary and your estimated time of arrival and return. • If you get lost while traveling, ask directions of local law enforcement, not complete strangers. • Be sure your vehicle is in good working condition and that you have taken enough money. Do not carry large amounts of cash, use credit cards and travelers’ checks. • Arrange for a friend or relative to inspect your property periodically. • Do not leave a key in a hiding place. • Check and double-check all windows and doors on every level and garage doors before leaving. Car Safety • • • • • • • • • • • • • Answers from page 21 • In traffic, keep doors locked and windows up Park and lock your car and remove the keys Park in areas that are well lighted Cruise around a bit in shopping centers parking lots until you find an open parking place close to a well-lighted entrance. When you return to your car, check in and around it, and have your keys in your hand and ready to use. If you are followed by another vehicle, go to a public place or, better, police station. If near home, stop at the staffed gate house to alert security. Keep valuables in trunk or hidden in the car and do not keep valuables in the glove box BE COURTEOUS! Confrontations often occur when drivers become frustrated about how others drive. If you have car trouble: Raise the hood, use emergency flashers, tie something white around your antenna or mirror. Carry a ‘HELP’ sign and keep a can of tire inflator in trunk. Stay inside the car, lock the doors and if help is offered, ask for the police. Do not allow strangers to help you “fix that flat.” Thieves, especially near banking institutions, are known to ice pick car tires, so they’ll go flat in a short distance then come to your “rescue” with theft in mind. Remember to check your car’s oil, gas, water and tires regularly. Service your car regularly. Invest in an auto club membership, such as AAA, so you may have roadside assistance help you in any emergency, from fixing a flat to towing. Keep a charged cell phone with you when away from home. You can preprogram important numbers so that they are immediately available. Keep a flash light in your auto and attach a light-weight, slimline flashlight to your keychain. The Rossmoor NEWS 35 October 2011 Classified Advertising Transportation CAR SERVICE – For a comfortable ride I hope you decide to call John (609) 655-2015. Airports, doctors, shopping. CALL DOREEN – If you need a ride. Rossmoor resident. (609) 655-8489. A. HARRINGTON LIMOUSINE – Owners are Greenbriar Whittingham residents. Call (800) 458-5466. TRANSPORTATION DOCTOR – Airports, trains, piers, doctors, local service, NYC. Reliable and references. Call Lon J. (732) 423-1847. ANYWHERE/ANYTIME– Doctors, NYC, airports, nursing homes, shopping. Joe (908) 433-8188. FOR YOUR DRIVING and shopping needs, no airports. Call Judith. (732) 266-7465. FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE Shopping, errands, airport service, doctor’s appointments, bank reconciliation, household organizing and more. Bonded, reasonable and reliable. Call Carol (609) 448-9188. Home Improvement & Services AAA PROFESSIONAL PAINTERS – In business since ’93. $70/room. And up. Interior painting only. Wallpaper removal. 1-800-PAINT-93/ (732) 521-8311. Fully insured. Lic. #13VH04963400. CUSTOM CARPENTRY/ HANDYMAN – Quality craftsmanship, moldings, paint, tile, closets, repairs. References. Call (609) 851-3622. TKS HOME IMPROVEMENTS and handyman services. Painting to total remodeling. No job too big or too small. We do it all. Free estimates. Lic# 13VH05970500. (609) 2592574. LEN’S HANDYMAN SERVICE, LLC – Fall is here – time for fix-ups and repairs. Specializing in home improvements. We do it all. We paint one room or the whole house. Sheetrock and wall repair. Crown moulding. Renew or repair that bathroom or kitchen. Doors, medicine cabinets, closet doors and closet remodeling. Bath tile and grout, caulking, shelving, Pergo flooring and ceramic tile, electrical work – anything in your home. Monroe Township resident .All major credit cards accepted. Licensed and insured. NJ License # 1 3 V H 0 3 7 0 1 8 0 0 . www.lenshandyman.com Call (732) 353-6031. RELIABLE HANDYMAN SERVICES – Local resident. No job too small. All labor guaranteed. Call me to discuss – no obligation. Reasonable rates. Call (609) 4097096 or (908) 385-5869. CAREGIVER/HELPER – Available daily. Call Mary (732) 227-1432. J.G.S. HANN D MANN HOME IMPROVEMENTS – State licensed-EPA certified. Basements to baths, closets to kitchens, mudrooms to porches and more. All your interior needs also. Doors, mouldings, windows, etc. Call office (732) 679-4108, cell (908) 930-3767. AIDE/COMPANION – Very experienced, kind. Cooking, shopping, cleaning. Long-term -shot. Live-in. references. Call (732) 809-1001. EXPERT HOME REPAIRS. Kitchen, bath, closet remodeling, tiling, painting. Call Bob Katz – (609) 490-9522.for details. J. E. MOVERS – No job too small. House, garage cleanouts. Jamie Hulick. (732) 5980220. Miscellaneous/ Services CUTS & PERMS in your home. Wednesdays/Sundays. Licensed. Anne at (732) 5583704. HAVE SCISSORS, WILL TRAVEL – Hairdressing services. Will come to your home. Licensed hairdresser. Call Georgianne (732) 985-8129. REVERSE BEEPER SIGNAL installed on all vehicles. Materials and labor included. Complete cost - $25. (609) 3959508. EXPERIENCED LPN available for private care. Call Kathy (732) 277-2016. CALLING ALL ARTISTS, WRITERS, MUSICIANS – Would you like to return to your passion? This Occupational Therapist can get you back to your creative activities. I meet in your home for one hour each week. Call Audrey for details. (732) 9679822 or (917) 301-6440. HOME COMPANION for daytime. Clean, cook, drive, shopping. Ana (732) 789- Special Events PIONEER GRANGE CRAFT FAIR on October 29 from 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Come join us at 410 Ridge Road in Dayton, NJ. Call (732) 666-8592. Help Wanted HOME HEALTH AIDES WANTED – Buckingham Place Home Health Care interviewing experienced certified home health aides (CHHA). Call Hilary for more information at (732) 329-8888 or stop in to fill out an application at 155 Raymond Road off Route 1 in South Brunswick. MONROE COMPUTER SERVICE (formerly Len’s Computer Service). Is your computer running slow? It may need a tune-up. Desktop and laptop repair in your home. Virus removal and protection. Monroe resident with 15 years of computer experience. All major credit cards accepted. www.monroe-computer.com (732) 967-3400. CASH FOR YOUR COLLECTION – Lladro, Hummel, Royal Doulton, Royal Copenhagen, Boehm, Herend, Meissen, Anri, Lenox, Swarovski, Lalique, Waterford, Baccarat, Sterling Silver and similar. (732) 261-6298. JEWELRY SERVICES – Rossmoorite picks up, delivers to you. Repairs, batteries, appraisals. We buy gold, best price. Bill (609) 409-7255. NANNIE’S PRETTIES ANTIQUES – We buy antiques and used furniture. Call Elliott – “The Friendly Dealer.” (609) 462-2299. ALTERATIONS/SEWING NEEDS – I can come to you. Joan (609) 655-4363. PROFESSIONAL PET CARE upon request. Bonded and insured. Call (609) 860-9696. Help & Health Services CALLING ALL ARTISTS, WRITERS, MUSICIANS – Would you like to return to your passion? This Occupational Therapist can get you back to your creative activities. I meet in your home for one hour each week. Call Audrey for details. (732) 9679822 or (917) 301-6440. Wanted To Buy Real Estate for Rent MAINE – 2 bedroom, 1 bath. Enclosed porch, remodeled kitchen and bath, new appliances, carpet and tile. Very clean. (609) 933-7881. Real Estate for Sale IMMACULATE ROSSMOOR “PLYMOUTH” model in woods. Attached garage. $215,000. Call Shirley Olsen, Weichert Realtors. (609) 4481400/(609) 448-8388. For Sale GLASS TOP COFFEE TABLE with matching end tables. $230. (609) 395-9916. Housecleaning Services CATHY’S HOUSE CLEANING - Great rates. 20 years experience. Reliable. (732) 251-2907. HOUSE CLEANING – Experienced and honest. Call Henryka (609) 586-0806. IZABELA’S CLEANING SERVICE - Professional house cleaning. Quality work. References available. Reasonable. 2 bedroom/2 bath $55. Experienced. Free estimates. (609) 954-0181. Library __________ (Continued from page 33) October 26. Stop by and chat with a professional librarian about resources and services that can enrich your life. Monica Teixeira will demonstrate “Universal Class”, the free online course program available through the Library’s Website. Registration not required. International Film 2 p.m. and 6:30 p.m., Thursday, October 27 Film title TBA. All movies NICE JEWISH GIRL’S HOUSE CLEANING - Bargain rates. Insured and bonded. Serving Rossmoor 17 years. Eileen (609) 860-9050. CLEANING SERVICE – Experienced, trustworthy and reliable. Call Linda, your Rossmoor neighbor. (908) 6700937. PLEASE NOTE: All classified ads are placed through the mail and must be received by the 14th of the month. Kindly, do not telephone or email. Please use coupon. Absolutely no classifieds will be taken over the phone. Ads are rotated monthly. No preferred position or special discounts apply. are shown with English subtitles. Tickets are $1 and available at Circulation. Meet the Musician: Chopin 1 p.m., Saturday, October 29. Pianist Dennis Kobray becomes the musician for an hour-long dramatic presentation. The audience discovers first-hand the music, feelings, life and history of Chopin, one of the world’s most famous composers. This event is offered in collaboration with the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission. 36 October 2011 The Rossmoor NEWS
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