Remembering Dr. Ann Conjura
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Remembering Dr. Ann Conjura
Sharing a publication of Hospice of Huntington, Inc. The Places We Go | 8 Nursing home and facility partnerships Having Faith | 12 A mother’s devotion Remembering Dr. Ann Conjura Fall/Winter 2011 1 1 3 # # Top in in West Virginia in the Tri-State % in the Nation Cancer Care CareChex recently named the Edwards Comprehensive Cancer Center at Cabell Huntington Hospital as having the best cancer program in West Virginia and the Huntington/Ashland/Ironton area. It also ranked the Edwards Comprehensive Cancer Center in the Top 3% of all hospitals in the country for cancer care. The CareChex quality rating service provides a comprehensive evaluation of all components of medical quality, including process of care, outcomes of care, patient safety and patient experiences. No other health care provider in the Tri-State even comes close to the Edwards Comprehensive Cancer Center in the CareChex quality ratings for Cancer Care. So, if you’re looking for cancer care that’s not only the most advanced and comprehensive in the region – but also the highest in quality, look no further than the Edwards Comprehensive Cancer Center at Cabell Huntington Hospital – where you’ll find a distinct difference in cancer care. This data is from The Delta Group, an independent health care information company. The Delta Group, through its CARECHEX® rating service, uses both public and proprietary information to compare the quality of hospital and physician care to national, state and local standards. The program analyzes a variety of process, outcome and patient satisfaction measures to assign a composite quality score and rating. patient care inside Having Faith | 10 A mother’s devotion In search of hope | 11 Hospice care encourages living Heart Strings | 12 A composer’s gift of gratitude Joe’s Kitchen | 14 Bringing warmth inside cover Remembering Dr. Ann Conjura | 5 spotlight The Places we go | 8 Nursing home and facility partnerships also inside >> 3 A Message from the President & CEO 4 Hospice Happenings 24 Community Corners 32 Dame Cicely Saunders Society 33 Memorials & Donations 40 The Last Word A Call to serve | 17 A spiritual response to caring bereavement Bereavement Activities | 18 Helping those who grieve | 19 Knowing what to say volunteers Bedside Vigils | 20 Comfort at the right time On Wings of faith | 22 A pilot’s final flight fundraising Neighborhood investment program | 27 Program encourages donor support through tax credits heating up the Greens | 28 Annual golf scramble a success Holiday Tree Campaign | 30 Season inspires giving to remember Fa l l /W winter 2011 1 Sharing a publication of Hospice of Huntington, Inc. 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Campbell, Deborah Cooley, Terry Deppner-Hardin, Olive Hager, Fern Jones, Ed Marshall, John Oxley, Beverley Pofahl, Todd Shell, Glen Washington, Dr. Tom Wilkinson A Message from C h a r l e n e Fa r r e l l , P r e s i d e n t & C E O The Impact of One Life We all have been influenced by special people in our lives. When I got married, Anita, my sisterin-law embroidered an expression, “I am a part of all that I have met,” and framed it for me. Over the years, I have pondered that message and wholeheartedly believe in its truth. House was one of her special loves. There, she felt she could make the most difference. The environment, the trained hospice staff and her constant availability made it possible for patients to be comfortable surrounded by their loved ones. One of Dr. Ann’s legacies was to pass her Our former chief medical director, Dr. Ann knowledge on to the next generation of medical Conjura, was one of those people whose life’s students. She loved to lecture to them and bring work became a part of not only me, but also the them along on rounds at the Emogene Dolin fabric of Hospice of Huntington, Inc. In truth, Jones Hospice House. She was many things to I think she would have said that our founding many people: wife, mother, sister, daughter, medical director, Dr. David Daniels, influenced teacher, doctor, and friend. her passion for hospice care. She loved to post a “Thought of the Week” on When a patient was referred to her, she researched her office door. One of my favorites was a quote the medical record as well as talked to the by Erma Bombeck: “When I stand before God at attending and consulting doctors and nurses. the end of my life, I would hope that I would not Most importantly, she talked to the patient and have a single bit of talent left, and could say, ‘I family. Afterwards, she developed a plan to meet used everything you gave me.’” Dr. Ann Conjura the patient’s goal and closely monitored the used every bit of talent that God gave her, until progress. She often went to the hospital in the her last breath. That is the final lesson for us all. evening or on weekends to make sure the patient The impact of her life will always be part of me. was comfortable. She made home visits to reassure them. The Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice Fa ll/w inter 2011 ALL WINT 3 hospice happenings Special Presentation: Myths & Facts About Hospice Care Learn about the 10 most common misperceptions of hospice care and how we can help sooner than you think. November is National Hospice Month We invite you to lean more about the benefits of hospice care by visiting www.hospiceofhuntington.org. Appreciating Our Veterans Join us in honoring those who have served our country. The community is invited to bring a photo of a loved one to display as part of a photo gallery during this special occasion. A recognition program is planned. Please bring a photo copy, as originals will not be returned. Wednesday, November 2 | 11 am Lincoln County Courthouse Hamlin, WV Thursday, November 10 | 11 am Lawrence County Courthouse Ironton, Ohio Tuesday, November 22 | 11 am Cabell County Courthouse Huntington, WV For more details contact Shelly Betz, Director of Marketing & Community Relations at (304) 529-4217. 4 sharing Join us in your community throughout the month of November at one of these locations. Tuesday, November 1, 2011 Cabell County Public Library | 10 am 455 9th Street, Huntington Thursday, November 10, 2011 Sybene Center | 11:45 am 97 Private Road 80, South Point, OH Wayne Senior Center | 11 am 440 Cleveland Street, Wayne Fort Gay Community Center | 11:30 am 3135 Louisa Street, Fort Gay Barboursville Public Library | 2 pm 728 Main Street, Barboursville Fort Gay Library | 2 pm Vancouver Street, Fort Gay Wednesday, November 2, 2011 Barboursville Senior Center | 9:45 am 721 Central Ave, Barboursville Monday, November 14, 2011 West Huntington Public Library | 10 am 901 14th Street West, Huntington Milton Public Library | 2 pm 1140 Smith Street, Milton Southern Branch Library | 2 pm 317 County Road 18, South Point, OH Thursday, November 3, 2011 Gallaher Public Library | 2 pm 368 Norway Avenue, Huntington Tuesday, November 15, 2011 Dunlow Senior Center | 11 am US Route 152, Dunlow Friday, November 4, 2011 Salt Rock Senior Center | 10 am 5490 State Route 10, Salt Rock Thursday, November 17, 2011 Harts Senior Center | 11 am 3 Freedom Lane, Harts Monday, November 7, 2011 Ceredo Kenova Library | 10 am 1200 Oak Street, Kenova Chesapeake Branch Briggs Library | 2 pm 11054 County Road 1, Chesapeake, OH Ironton Public Library | 2 pm 321 South 4th Street Ironton, OH Wednesday, November 9, 2011 Lincoln Primary Care Center | 11:45 am 7400 Lynn Avenue, Hamlin Guyandotte Public Library | 2 pm 203 Richmond Street, Huntington Friday, November 18, 2011 Eastern Branch Library | 2pm 410 Elizabeth Street, Proctorville, OH cover story Gone Too Soon: Remembering Dr. Ann Conjura By Shelly Betz, Editor “Dr. Conjura was one of those people who you wanted to have in your corner when you were facing a crisis at the end of your life. You knew she would fight to make sure you were as comfortable as possible, and that she would navigate the complex medical system and get everybody on the same page.” - Charlene Farrell, Hospice of Huntington President and CEO Fa l l / w Winter 2011 5 Sitting next to Dr. Rodger Blake in the office conference room at Radiology, Inc. in Huntington, there is an instant reminder of his loss. His hand bears the wedding ring that his beloved wife, Dr. Ann Conjura, gave him nearly 27 years ago on their wedding day. When the two first met at the University of Virginia, the chemistry majors had the same academic advisor. Ann was a fiercely competitive rugby player who displayed her broken fingers from a recent match during class one day. “I said to myself, ‘Wow! She’s tough. I’m going to stay as far away from her as I can,” Rodger remembers. Of course, that did not happen. It wasn’t long before the two were inseparable. According to Rodger, Ann had a thirst for knowledge, including such subjects as astrophysics and astronomy. One of their favorite vacations was a trip the family took to Libya in 2006. Ann researched everything about the location and made plans to go during the eclipse. She wanted to go to new and different places all the time. “She was incredibly bright and talented. She was much smarter than I am. I learned pretty early that the wife is always right,” he said. While it may seem that nothing could have prepared Rodger for what happened to his wife, for nearly two years he was unwavering in his dedication to ensure that she received the best medical care possible. “It’s almost as if she knew she had to cram a lifetime of work into less of a lifetime,” he added. In and out of the hospital for various medical procedures and infections since fall of 2009, Dr. Ann Conjura died this past July at the age of 53. sharing Her loss was felt in many other ways, too. From the hospice team she worked with so tirelessly, to the families of former patients she helped, and doctors and others in the medical community, Dr. Conjura left an incredible example for others to follow. “Dr. Conjura was one of those people who you wanted to have in your corner when you were facing a crisis at the end of your life. You knew she would fight to make sure you were as comfortable as possible, and that she would navigate the complex medical system and get everybody on the same page,” said Hospice of Huntington president and CEO Charlene Farrell. Pictured top to bottom: Dr. Ann Conjura with husband Rodger Blake, daughter Brittany and son Justin; Dr. Conjura meets with the Cabell Huntington Hospital Palliative Care team For Rodger, it was the end of a long road in advocating for his wife, much like any caregiver would. But it was a little different. As a medical professional (a radiologist), Rodger admits he had access to information and other resources that the average person may not. Still, it was difficult at times to navigate the healthcare system and deal with insurance issues. It was an experience he will never forget 6 or regret. “I went to the hospital to pick up supplies, I tracked the (use of) supplies and ordered them. At times, I played the roles of intern and even groundskeeper. It was all consuming for me,” he said. On a sunny day in early August, a butterfly garden at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House was dedicated in memory of Dr. Conjura. Donations were collected from staff at St. Mary’s Medical Center, Cabell Huntington Hospital, Hospice of Huntington, and others who knew and respected her. There’s a common expression that “the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.” In many ways, this applies to Dr. Conjura. She was more than an excellent doctor. She was a wonderful daughter and sister; wife; mother to children, Justin and Brittany; and a friend to many. She was filled with compassion and wholeheartedly believed in the common good. From the time she and Rodger moved to Huntington from Baltimore, Maryland, in 1992, Dr. Conjura began making an impact. She made the decision to take time away from practicing medicine as an internist in hematology to tend to her two small children. She became involved in the Huntington YMCA, where she helped raise much-needed funds to upgrade the nursery. She felt this was important to young mothers like herself, who needed a safe environment for their children so that they could exercise. We miss her. She had an indominable spirit. Dr. Ann Conjura’s daughter Brittany and son Justin visit the garden dedicated to her at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House I know she’s in a better place. If she were here, she would tell us all to live and have a purpose— don’t be idle.” She was also involved in the United Way, Huntington Junior League, Huntington Museum of Art, and received the Zack Binkley Award for Community Service in 1999. Dr. Conjura first became involved with Hospice of Huntington as a Board member in 1996, and later volunteered as a physician. In 2001 she joined the medical team staff, taking the helm as chief medical director in early 2009 following the retirement of Dr. J. David Daniels. Her compassion and commitment to providing the best care for patients was evident. She often made rounds at the hospital and Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House late into the evenings and on weekends, because she wanted to make sure her patients were comfortable. Simply put, Dr. Ann Conjura left nothing to chance; she was deliberate in her words and her approach to care. “Ann had the ability to give bad news without being devastating,” Rodger said. On several occasions, he asked his wife if she wanted him to put her under hospice care. She said she did not. He believes that she held onto the belief that she would eventually get better although there were many times when she got depressed about her condition. For Charlene Farrell, the reality of losing Dr. Conjura is still felt by her and the agency’s staff. Shortly after she became sick, a team of medical directors was put into - Rodger Conjura place to ensure that patients continued to receive the best care possible. There was always hope that Dr. Conjura’s condition might improve. “One day while visiting her in the hospital, Ann asked me to ‘leave the door open’ for her. I knew exactly what she meant and decided to honor her request for as long as possible,” said Charlene. For husband Rodger, it was a rollercoaster unlike anything he had ever seen. He prepared himself and their children for the worst. “The toughest part was not knowing what would happen. On multiple occasions I was told that Ann wasn’t going to make it. But she always found a way to bounce back,” he said. These days, the home that Rodger and Ann shared with their children is eerily quiet most days. Both kids are away at college, and Rodger’s primary companions are three Italian greyhounds that are part of the family. He wants people to remember that his wife was passionate about hospice, her children and community service. “We miss her. She had an indominable spirit. I know she’s in a better place. If she were here, she would tell us all to live and have a purpose—don’t be idle,” Rodger said. Fa l l / w Winter 2011 7 spotlight The Places We Go By Christy Davis, MSW Hospice of Huntington is committed to providing compassionate physical, emotional, and spiritual care for those with a life limiting illness wherever the patient calls home. As the facility liaison for Hospice of Huntington, on a daily basis I hear the words, “I did not know that Hospice of Huntington could provide care in the facility.” This is typically followed by the question of “Why do you go there?” The simple answer is that Hospice of Huntington is committed to providing compassionate physical, emotional, and spiritual care for those with a life-limiting illness wherever the patient calls home. family and facility to assist with any crisis that may arise. Hospice of Huntington also provides supplies, medications, and equipment related to the illness. As with all of our services, Medicare, Medicaid, Veterans Administration, and most major insurance companies pay for our services in the facility. We combine our expertise in end-of-life care with that of each facility in providing geriatric care to maximize comfort and life quality for the patient. We provide the same level of service to our hospice patients in the facility as we do for those who reside in their own home. Just like our home care program, the nursing home hospice team includes a nurse, social worker, hospice aide, clergy, and volunteers who will visit as often as the individual’s plan of care indicates is necessary. Our nursing and social work staff are available twenty-four hours a day to the Many of the patients that we serve have lived in a facility for quite some time—it became their new home with an extended family of facility staff. In a time of illness, we all want to be surrounded by a familiar environment and trusted caregivers. Hospice of Huntington provides an additional level of support and expertise right where they live. National research studies show that hospice care in nursing facilities can improve pain management, as well as reduce hospitalizations. Hospice of Huntington also supports family members as they make difficult decisions 8 sharing Our Partners in Caring WEST VIRGINIA Genesis Healthcare Heritage Center 101 13th Street Huntington, WV (304) 525-7622 Huntington Health and Rehabilitation Center 1720 17th Street Huntington, WV (304) 529-6031 Lincoln Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, LLC 200 Monday Drive Hamlin, WV (304) 824-3133 and balance many responsibilities. Our efforts to keep the family informed and involved in their loved one’s care ensures that even those who cannot be present, due to other responsibilities, feel confident and included in the plan for care. We have wonderful care partners in the communities that we serve. I cannot tell you how many times I have entered a person’s room to find a facility staff member giving the extra hug or smile, and perhaps shedding a tear while caring for someone who has been entrusted to them. We are privileged to be invited into “their home” to utilize our specialized knowledge to support the person who is ill, their family, and their facility staff in making every day the best that it can be. If you have a loved one in a nursing facility and would like a free evaluation to see if Hospice of Huntington can become involved in their care, please call us at (304) 529-4217. Wayne Nursing and Rehabilitation Center, LLC 6999 Rt. 152 Wayne, WV (304) 697-7007 Wyngate Senior Living 750 Peyton Street Barboursville, WV (304) 733-6800 Midland Meadows Senior Living 100 Weatherholt Drive Ona, WV (304) 743-4800 Chateau Grove Assisted Living 6 Chateau Grove Lane Barboursville, WV (304)736-3443 Madison Park 700 Madison Avenue Huntington, WV (304) 522-0032 Grayson Caring Hands 828 Washington Avenue Huntington, WV (304) 529-0466 Grayson Assisted Living 3455 Route 75 Huntington, WV (304) 972-0815 Woodlands Retirement Community One Bradley Foster Drive Huntington, WV (304) 607-1620 OHIO Heartland of Riverview 7743 County Road 1 South Point, OH (740) 894-3287 Close To Home 617 Center Street Ironton, OH (740) 534-1100 River’s Bend Health Care, LLC 335 Township Road 1026 South Pont, OH (740) 894 3476 Sunset Nursing Center 813 ½ Marion Pike Coal Grove, OH (740) 532-0049 Diversicare Rose Terrace 30 Hidden Brook Way Culloden, WV (304) 390-5790 Fa l l /W winter 2011 9 patient care Having Faith By Shelly Betz, Editor Tina and Dennis Fry believe in miracles. It was a little more than nine years ago that their daughter, Faith, was born with a rare condition that threatened her tiny life. The next day, the couple celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary. With each passing day, they are reminded that God works in mysterious ways—and they do not question Him. Trisomy 18, also known as Edwards syndrome, is caused by a chromosomal defect. It occurs in about one out of every 3,000 live births. In fact, 50 percent of babies who are carried to term are stillborn, with baby boys having higher stillbirth rate than baby girls. When Faith was diagnosed shortly after birth, the family prepared for the worst, as Tina held vigil at her newborn’s bedside in the neonatal intensive care unit at Cabell Huntington Hospital. There were plenty of prayers. Also, the developmental issues caused by Trisomy 18 are associated with medical complications that are more potentially life-threatening in the early months and years of life. Faith has a hole between the upper and lower chambers of her heart. “She could have had many more problems related to her condition. I’ve never been angry with God. I accept her as she is and wouldn’t change God’s will,” said Tina. For the past five years, Hospice of Huntington has visited weekly in caring for Faith. Nancy Wallace, the social worker assigned to the family, says the experience has been a highlight in her own career. When the family needed help in getting a special chair to be able to transport Faith to and from doctor appointments, she sprung into action and contacted the “Make-A-Wish” Foundation. Together with National Seating & Mobility of Dunbar, West Virginia, Faith got her special chair. “It has been such an honor to participate in her care and advocate for her needs to provide a better quality of life for her,” Nancy says. Tina is vigilant about maintaining a clean home to ensure that Faith’s immune system is not further compromised. The entire family has a daily regimen that puts Faith at the center of attention. When her husband and children, Derek (age 22) and Kyra (age 9), come home, their clothing and shoes are removed and a can of Lysol awaits them before they enter the house. They know to shower before either of them gives Faith a hug or kiss. It’s just their way of life— nothing out of the ordinary for them. Her nurse, Brenda Bassett, has also been with the family since the beginning. “I believe Faith is still here due, in part, to the devotion of her mother and father. They take such good care of her 10 sharing and make sure her environment is as clean and germ-free as possible,” she said. Her immunizations are also done in the home to minimize trips to the doctor or hospital where germs may be lurking. Still, there have been times when Faith needed medical attention in the hospital. She contracted pneumonia last year, and also had to be hospitalized for a bad reaction to a new medication. It’s those moments that cause Tina the most anxiety. Having the added support from Hospice of Huntington has made a world of difference in caring for Faith. “They’ve been wonderful. Brenda knows me. I’m sure there’s more they could do, but I want to do it myself. I have peace of mind just knowing that if I need them, they’re a phone call away,” Tina said. Brenda Bassett says that neither she nor the family has any illusions about Faith’s condition. She is a critically ill child on a day-to-day basis. Faith has endured so much physically, but is a loving child who enjoys watching cartoons like SpongeBob SquarePants. “It’s a blessing to take care of her. She’s tough,” adds Brenda. Tina Fry’s days are filled with caring for Faith and their other children. But, it’s Faith who requires her full attention. The two are inseparable. So much so, that she struggled with having to leave Faith at home while attending son Derek’s high school graduation a few years ago. Again, Hospice of Huntington was there to help by sending a nurse to stay in the home with another family member, so that Tina and Dennis wouldn’t miss their son’s big day. Watching Faith smile and laugh as Tina holds her is precious. Mother and child share a special connection. “There are days when I’m sitting here feeding her that I think about what life would be like without her. I give myself a pep talk and am thankful for that moment in time that she’s here with me. She’s my hero. Her strength is a blessing,” Tina said. What is hope, and where can I find it? By Kit Jenkins, Hospice of Huntington Chaplain How many times have you heard someone say, “There’s no hope for a cure, so we might as well call hospice.” This is more common than we care to admit, but hospice care is all about living. Hope can be found here. My definition of hope is the ability to look forward ,not knowing what to expect, but anticipating positive growth. Hope coaching can make living with a terminal illness easier, because it can provide life with meaning. What often happens in our busy lives is that we put off any meaningful thoughts about why we are here and what difference our life makes. As we get older, this becomes more important, and we reflect on what we have or haven’t accomplished. Hope enters the picture when we determine to make the most of our lives and look forward to what we can still do. Spiritual Care at Hospice of Huntington provides hope coaching for those who desire it. Hope provides a new attitude that can lead to healing personal relationships and setting aside personal prejudice and fear. It’s healthy, joyful and can make the time with friends and family much more pleasant. Hope can make life better and death the earthly end of a life well lived. Hope is not wishful thinking. Hope requires practical planning, humility and a realistic view of your present circumstances. If you seek comfort in faith, now is the time to develop that connection with your preferred congregation or practices. Is your family cared for? Do you need to appoint someone to make your decisions should you become incapacitated or make a written will? Hope coaching can help you discover what means the most at this stage of life. Fa l l /W winter 2011 11 Heart Strings By Angela Henderson-Bentley W “Hospice fills in the gaps when you can’t do it yourself, or are not qualified yourself,” - Keith Barnhart hen professional musician and composer, Keith Barnhart, was asked to write the music for Hospice of Huntington to use in its advertising campaigns and other projects, he didn’t have to ask a lot of questions about hospice in order to gain a better understanding of the type of music they wanted. He was already familiar with the organization, because of the great care provided by their staff to his mother and the tremendous support that his father received. “My parents made a wonderful home for themselves,” Keith said. “They’d been there going on 40 years now. On the outside, they would plant bushes and flowers and shrubs. It was like a miniature Garden of Eden in the backyard.” So when Keith’s mother, Gloria, had a stroke and needed care, it was only natural that he and his father, Robert, would want her care to be at that beautiful home. “I think as long as the person is conscious or partly conscious of what they were and their thoughts, they want to be home,” Robert said. “Most of us love our home and we hang onto that.” Before Hospice of Huntington entered their lives, Robert was told he wouldn’t be able to give Gloria the care that she needed, but he did. And hospice was there to help. “They said I couldn’t do it. But I did. Hospice did everything they could, and it was very nice to have them. Johnny on the spot; they were there,” he said. “I think the big thing was they [hospice] helped my father out a lot,” Keith said. “As far as I’m concerned, my dad was able to prolong the quality of my mother’s life substantially, because he had the time and the energy to give her around-the-clock attention. But even with that, sometimes you need a break. When they came over it was a much needed break for my dad.” “We’d been married for 61 years,” Robert said. “We needed each other and were closer together. It was one of the happiest times of our married life.” 12 sharing His mother’s health was the main reason Keith moved back to his native town of Huntington after 28 years of living in places like Manhattan, New York and Nashville, Tennessee. “Talk about coming back home because it’s familiar,” Keith said. His sister, Pam Urban, credits hospice with helping their mom have a better quality of life. Gloria Barnhart graduated from hospice care and did very well for a period of time, until she contracted pneumonia and was hospitalized one last time. “The main thing was to have someone to help with things like bathing and getting her dressed. Plus, Dad had someone to talk to and ask questions. If there was a medical issue, the nurse was able to recognize things that we weren’t trained to know,” she said. Keith, or “Plex” as he is known professionally, opened his own studio, The MusicPlex, in downtown Huntington. Although he worked as a session player for the majority of his career, allowing him to work with such big names as Paul Simon, Sting and Stevie Wonder, it’s composing that Keith truly loves. Keith has composed for a number of television shows and commercials, including the familiar AT&T “True Voice” campaign, featuring mega recording songstress Whitney Houston. He also had a number one R&B single in 1993 with Vertical Hold’s “Seems You’re Much Too Busy.” Gloria and Robert Barnhart “I’ve loved every minute of it,” Keith said. “It’s what I love to do. I’ve been very successful at it. My parents have been very supportive in all ways. I’ve been jackpot lucky in that respect.” Keith is currently working with a number of local television and radio stations, ad agencies and other local businesses on musical compositions, in addition to the music he created for Hospice of Huntington. Whether the music he created for Hospice of Huntington is being used in the background of a commercial or for an outgoing voice message, Keith says it’s important to understand the tone of the project. For him, it’s all part of the creative process. “The topic in general is a delicate one, so the music has to reflect that,” Keith said. “It has to reflect the seriousness of it, but it can’t be heavy handed. Otherwise, it starts sounding melodramatic or comical. You don’t want that. So the mood of the music has to reflect the attitude you’re trying to convey with the message.” And the Hospice message is one Keith understands very well. “Hospice fills in the gaps when you can’t do it yourself, or are not qualified yourself,” he said. “Hospice was definitely invaluable to Dad.” Keith Barnhart with his father Robert Fa l l / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 13 Fall for Food with spice-filled recipes Recipes by Joe Smith, Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House Chef Palliative Pepper Chili Autumn has arrived in all its splendor with the vibrant colors and crisp air and falling leaves. It’s the time of year where we try to squeeze in some last bits of outdoor fun before the weather turns icy cold and snowy. Whether you prefer the colors of fall or the chill of winter, don’t miss out on the beautiful outdoors. Let’s not forget this is football season. So, while tailgating or watching from your favorite chair, enjoy these recipes with friends and family. They are sure to fill your kitchen with warm aromas of the season. 14 sharing 2nd place winner • 2011 Heat’n the Hills Chilifest, Hamlin • 1 flat iron steak (1–2 lbs) • 1 lb ground pork (coarse grind) • 1 lb ground chuck (coarse grind) • 1 large yellow onion, diced • 1 poblano pepper, diced • 2 jalapeño pepper, diced • 1 yellow or orange bell pepper, diced • 1 can diced green chilies • 1 can diced tomatoes w/green chilies • 1 – 28 oz can petite diced tomatoes • 1 large jar chipotle flavored salsa • 1 can spicy V-8 juice • 1 – 28 oz can tomato sauce • 5 each – dried ancho, japone, and New Mexico chiles • 2 Tbsp each – ground cumin, chipotle chili powder, Mexican chili powder, mesquite seasoning, ancho chili powder, chopped fresh cilantro • 1 Tbsp chopped garlic • 1 qt beef stock • 1 bottle Negro Modela (dark Mexican beer) • 1 can chipotle peppers in adobo sauce chopped, use less if you like it milder In a pot bring beef stock to a simmer, add dried chiles, remove from heat and let steep. Cut steak into small chunks, place in a heavy pot with some olive oil, add the ground pork and chuck. Cook meat over medium heat until it is grey. When meat is cooked, drain any grease; then add onion, garlic and peppers. Cook until tender. Strain broth from steeping peppers. Pour broth into chili pot, and puree the peppers and add them to chili pot. Add spices and stir. Then, add diced tomatoes, salsa, beer, juice and tomato sauce. Simmer for 15 minutes. Optional: Add canned beans and simmer for another 15 minutes or put in crock pot on low for 1 – 2 hours. Serve with tortilla chips and shredded cheese. Schweinebraten (German roast pork) Roast pork is a popular Sunday meal, most often served with mashed potatoes, sauerkraut, peas and applesauce. • 4-6 lb pork loin or shoulder • 2 Tbsp oil • 1 Tbsp salt • 1 tsp black pepper • 2 Tbsp caraway seeds • 1 medium onion, rough chopped • 3 carrots, rough chopped • 2 stalks celery, rough chopped • 2 cups chicken stock • 1 Tbsp corn starch Rub meat with salt, pepper and caraway seeds and let rest for 1 hour at room temperature. Preheat oven to 350°. In a roasting pan place the rough chopped onion, carrot and celery. Pour the chicken stock over the vegetables; then, place the pork roast, fat side down on top of vegetables. Cover pan with lid or foil and place in oven and roast for one hour. Remove lid or foil and turn roast fat side up. Uncovered, place back in oven for another hour to a hour and a half. Remove roast to a cutting board and cover tightly with foil and let rest. Strain juices into a pot (may add chicken broth to bring to 2 cups) and bring to a simmer. Take ½ cup of cold water and add 1 tablespoon cornstarch. Mix and then, add to simmering pan drippings, stirring until it thickens. Slice meat and pour gravy over meat to serve. Baked Pears with Almond Crunch • 2 medium ripe pears, peeled, halved lengthwise, and cored • 1/2 cup apple juice • 1/2 cup slightly crushed almond or amaretti cookies • 1 Tbsp packed brown sugar • 1/8 tsp ground cinnamon • Vanilla ice cream (optional) Preheat oven to 350°. Place pear halves, cut sides up, in a 2-quart square baking dish. Pour apple juice over pears. Combine cookies, brown sugar, and cinnamon; sprinkle over pears. Bake uncovered for about 20 minutes or until pears are tender. If desired, serve with ice cream. Italian Apple Torte • 3 cups day old good Italian bread, cubed • 2 cups milk • 3 eggs beaten • 1 Tbsp butter • 1/2 cup sugar • 3 Tbsp flour • 1 Tbsp lemon zest • 1/4 tsp salt • 1 tsp vanilla • 3-4 Granny Smith apples peeled, cored and sliced into thin wedges Soak the bread in 1 cup of milk for 20 minutes. Work it with your hands to form a doughy paste. Squeeze out excess milk and set aside. Preheat oven to 350°. Butter a 9 or 10 inch springform pan. Press bread paste into F aF a l ll l/ / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 15 bottom of pan to form a crust. In large bowl beat eggs with remaining cup of milk, sugar, flour, lemon zest, salt and vanilla. Lay apples overlapping in circles over the bread crust. Pour enough of the egg mixture over the apples to cover half way (may not need all of egg mixture). Place in oven for 45 to 60 minutes. Let cool and remove from pan to serve. and water. Beat together until smooth. Set aside. Place pumpkin batter in muffin cups about 1/4 full. Then add one to two tablespoons of the cream cheese filling. Top with more pumpkin batter and sprinkle with pecan topping. Bake for approximately 15 minutes or until done. Makes 12 moist muffins. Lite Pumpkin Cream Cheese Muffins Cider • 1/4 cup heavy cream • 1/4 cup brown sugar • 3 cups apple cider • 1/2 cup water Caramel whipped cream • 1/2 cup heavy cream • 1 Tbsp brown sugar Topping • 1/3 cup chopped pecans • 1/4 cup Splenda • 1/4 cup brown sugar (or Splenda brown sugar blend) • 1 Tbsp cinnamon Batter • 1 – 18 oz box spice cake mix • 1 - 15 oz can pumpkin • 1/2 cup water • 1/2 cup applesauce Filling • 1 – 8 oz package fat-free cream cheese • 2 egg whites • 1 tsp vanilla extract • 3 Tbsp Splenda Preheat oven to 350°. Place cupcake liners in muffin pan. Mix topping ingredients together in a separate bowl and set aside. In a small bowl, beat cream cheese until soft. Add egg, vanilla and Splenda. Beat until smooth, then set aside. In a large bowl, mix cake mix, pumpkin, applesauce 16 sharing Caramel Apple Cider Cider: In a medium saucepan, bring the cream and brown sugar to a boil over medium heat. Stir in the cider and water and raise the heat to medium high, heating just until the cider begins to steam, about 4 minutes Caramel Whipped Cream: In a small chilled bowl, whip the heavy cream with the brown sugar until soft peaks form. Pour into 4 mugs, topping each one with 2 tablespoons of caramel whipped cream and serve immediately. A Call to Serve By Kit Jenkins, Hospice of Huntington Chaplain Our everyday lives are sometimes interrupted by a desire for something more fulfilling. This tugging at the center of our conscience may be characterized as a “call to serve.” For some it’s answered by joining the military or missions sponsored by a faith group. Whatever the urge, it is like an itch; scratch it or live in a state of unfulfilled existence. This call to serve may be easier to answer than you think, with no money down, four hours a month, and huge returns for yourself and community: a clergy volunteer. Hospice of Huntington is fortunate to have many volunteers who help support our mission of caring. They sit bedside with patients, knit prayer shawls, perform clerical tasks, answer phones, and provide spiritual care to patients and families. The majority of the day-to-day provision of spiritual care, religious rites, prayer and comfort is provided by clergy volunteers. These dedicated men and women make it possible for Hospice of Huntington to provide spiritual care to our patients on a daily basis. They go to area nursing homes, the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House, and the homes of our patients in Cabell, Wayne, Lincoln, Mason counties in West Virginia, as well as Lawrence County, Ohio. If you are an ordained minister and are willing to spend three days training in the company of others who feel the “call to serve” your neighbors, please consider becoming a clergy volunteer. The great benefit for our clergy volunteers is the training we offer. This will fill the gap between what you didn’t learn at seminary or in supervised apprenticeship, and your work in your faith community. This is specialized training to work with persons who have a life-limiting illness. If you are interested in learning more, please call Chaplain Kit Jenkins at (304) 781-8420. Fa l l / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 17 bereavement Free Sessions Grief support sessions are free and open to the public. Every session is professionally facilitated by Hospice Bereavement Counselors. Dating After the Death of a Partner Discuss the questions and issues regarding the loss of a spouse or significant other. Monday, November 7 | 10:30 am Hospice of Huntington Main Office | 1101 Sixth Avenue | Huntington, WV “Life-A-Life” Tree Dedication Services Coping With the Holidays Discover ways to deal with the loss of a loved one during holidays and other special occasions. Advance registration is required. Call (304) 529-4217. Wednesday, November 16 | 10:30 am First Baptist Church 627 County Road 411 | Proctorville, OH Honor the memory of a loved one during our “Light-A-Life” Annual Holiday Tree Campaign. An informal remembrance service will be offered, along with a dedication ceremony. Tuesday, December 6 | 6 pm Huntington Mall Monday, November 21 | 2:30 pm Center Point Baptist Church Route 3 | Hamlin, WV Thursday, December 8 | 12:30 pm Lincoln Primary Care Center Thursday, December 1 | 2:30 pm Wayne Baptist Church 510 River Street | Wayne, WV Tuesday, December 13 | 2 pm Wayne County Courthouse Silver & Gold: For Traditions New and Old Learn ways of coping with loss and grief during the holiday season. We will offer a video presentation, discussion, and an upcoming opportunity to create a holiday keepsake in memory of your loved one. Reservations required. Thursday, December 15 | 2 pm Lawrence County Courthouse Ironton, Ohio Saturday, December 10 | 10:00 am Hospice of Huntington Main Office | 1101 Sixth Avenue | Huntington, WV For a complete listing or more information about our bereavement services, contact us at (304) 529-4217 or [email protected]. “Grief is not a disorder, a disease, or a sign of weakness. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. The only cure for grief is to grieve.” - Earl A. Grollman 18 sharing What Do I Say? How to Help Those Who Are Grieving By Jaimie Armentrout, M.A., Licensed Psychologist, Bereavement Coordinator “What do I say?” This question often stops us in our tracks when someone we know loses a loved one. Perhaps some people feel that acknowledging the loss will make the person sad or even cry. Maybe it is because, if we acknowledge their loss, we must also face the possibility that it could be us in that situation. Also, we acknowledge that we are not immortal and begin to evaluate our life’s accomplishments and whether we are where we want to be. Regardless of the reasons for our hesitation, reaching out to loved ones in a supportive and helpful way is possible. Here are some helpful and meaningful suggestions that I have learned over the years: 1. Listen. This may be the single most important thing you can do. Give the bereaved permission to tell their story. Take in what they say and the feelings they are having even if you do not completely understand. Try not to judge them or offer unsolicited advice. They often just want to express their feelings, without worry of how it sounds or what people will think. Remember, we may not be fully aware of their relationship with the deceased. Also, the bereaved may need to share their story over and over. You may think they are having difficulty when they do this, but this is often a sign that they are working through their grief and incorporating this loss into their “new normal.” 2. Avoid cliches. Please try to avoid such phrases as, “It was God’s will,” “Time heals all wounds,” and “You are holding up so well.” They can be very hurtful to someone who is grieving. Some people may be angry with God after losing a loved one. Some may feel so distraught by their pain that the thought of one more minute is unbearable, let alone being told that everything will be okay in an undefined period of time. Some may feel alienated because people around them do not truly understand their grief. If told they are handling the loss well, feelings of isolation and anger may increase. Just speak from your heart. If you do not know what to say then tell them that. Also, tell them there may be times when you say the wrong thing, but mean no ill will. Let them know that you are there for them. 3. Offer practical help and support. There are many ways you can offer assistance to those who are grieving. One way is to maintain contact with them. Visit or call on a regular basis to ensure that they know you are available to help them if they need it. Do not be offended if they do not take your call or cut the visit short. Grief changes us, and sometimes people cannot emotionally handle a great deal of social interaction with others. Just keep calling. Choose a day of the week when the two of you can go out for lunch or dinner, or when you can bring them a meal. Try out a new hobby or activity together, such as a walking in the park or taking a cooking class. It can make it easier to try new things when you have someone with you rather than doing it alone. 4. Acknowledge holidays and other special days. With the winter holidays approaching, take a moment to think about ways you can help those dealing with their first holidays without their loved ones. Offer to help with holiday shopping, cooking meals, addressing Christmas cards, putting up decorations, etc. Just helping them to develop a plan of how they would like to spend the day can be of benefit. Talk about their traditions, and whether or not they want to continue to keep them this year. Help them develop new traditions this year. This may include going to the movies on Christmas Day or playing board games on New Year’s Eve. 5. Commit to being supportive. The final thing you can do for a loved one who is grieving is to commit to support them throughout their grief journey. By doing this you are letting them know that you understand the significance of their loss and how it will take time for them to transition into their new world. By giving them this continued support, they will be more successful in dealing with and managing their grief. This will mean giving them unspecified amounts of time, but in the end, it will be worth it to see their growth and reinvestment back into life and living. n Fa l l / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 19 By Lisa A. Floyd, Director of Volunteer Services The thought of dying often evokes apprehension and fear within people, bringing our own mortality to the forefront at times. The prospect of dying alone can be a paralyzing thought for some people, worried that they may be isolated and alone as death nears. The philosophy of hospice is that no one should die alone. Recently we began a special vigil volunteer program to help ensure that our patients have companionship in the final days or hours of life. Our first training welcomed nearly 25 participants, all of whom recognize the importance of a human presence during the dying process. They learned how to conduct a vigil by offering such things as a calming presence, listening skills, and the importance of shared silence, healing touch, and reading inspirational text or scriptures. There is a growing population living in nursing homes and other long-term care facilities who may have limited or no family nearby. This can be a real challenge for their staff to be present when one of their residents is in their last days or hours of life. Hospice of Huntington’s vigil program is designed to support that need. Pictured left to right Cheri Adams, Carole Newman, Consuelo Jeffreys, Virginia Thompson Carole loves to laugh and is someone who lives each day to the fullest. “I was very active at one time with my church in visitation to the nursing homes and hospitals, but I could no longer manage the long walks and being on my feet. Not being able to participate in this left me sad and I had a void in my life. A voice kept telling me to call hospice. I felt a huge cloud lift away. This was where I was supposed to be,” Carole said. Currently our volunteers hold vigil in skilled nursing facilities, as well as the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. They provide peace of mind to family and friends, who know that a kind and loving individual is their holding watch and comforting their dying loved one with a calming presence. These special volunteers may also give reports by phone to family or friends who want an update on the patient. During training class, Carole mentioned a friend who was discharged from hospice to seek curative treatment. Months later I received a call from one of our social workers that a nursing home patient had repeatedly expressed that he did not want to die alone. Carole was at his bedside when I called her that day. It was meant to be. Carole and the patient’s niece set up shifts to hold vigil with him. “I felt very blessed to have been with him. I was ready to take a break and told him I was leaving, and right away his respirations went way down. I felt he was ready to pass, and I stayed. I actually felt angels in his room. It was very peaceful.” Vigil volunteers Carole Newman, Cheri Adams, Consuelo Jeffreys and Virginia Thompson are among the first to become actively involved in this program. Ironically, Carole and Cheri are best friends and Consuelo and Virginia are best friends. They are all either retired nurses or emergency medical technicians. Carole and Cheri went on another case in a different facility a few weeks later. This patient was a ward of the state and had been a resident of this facility for 19 years. The staff was very fond of her and asked our social worker if we had volunteers to come and be with the patient as she neared the end of her life. I called on Carole to be the first front line volunteer, 20 sharing followed by three others (Emogene Roe, Rebecca Hayes and Cheri Adams). “My intuition told me not to leave. I felt I really needed to be there for the sister and her husband. They were having a very hard time. When she passed it was peaceful, and I stayed and comforted the family as best as I could. You never walk away from these assignments patting yourself on the back. It’s just a good feeling that you did your job and were there for someone in need,” Cheri said. Consuelo Jeffreys and Virginia Thompson had a vigil assignment for a gentleman in an Ohio skilled nursing facility. Although he had a loving family, he expressed a need not to be left alone. They held vigil with this patient for several days. Virginia knew how meaningful volunteers could be for a family. Fortunately she and her husband had a good support system with family and friends to help with caregiving until his death. “Vigil volunteering and sitting at bedside being a comfort was something you simply were not able to do in traditional nursing as much as you needed to, due to the job demands. This gave me an opportunity to go and just be a comfort to another person in need,” adds Consuelo. The family was so deeply thankful for the vigil volunteers. The staff at the facility also deeply appreciated them, because it gave them peace of mind that a loving person was present as one of their own was entering his last days and hours. These ladies offer the gift of their time and give from their hearts. If you are interested in becoming a vigil volunteer or a patient care volunteer, call us. You, too, will be blessed by your experiences. Consuelo experienced the gift of support when her husband was in the hospital. His two best friends practically lived in the waiting room area, so she could go home to rest. She also had a sister-in-law who went to our Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. Her family could not praise the care enough. Also, her brother-in-law felt at peace with his decision to take his wife to our Hospice House during her last days. It was important to both ladies to feel like they were doing something meaningful in their lives. “Consuelo and I went together on our first visit and right away he was talking about when he first moved to Huntington. I found out he even went to the same church that I did when I first moved to the area. We all felt comfortable right away, and he was having a good day,” Virginia said. Fa l l /W winter 2011 21 By Ruth Swanson, Hospice of Huntington Volunteer (with Sue Rosier) Dick Rosier was a giant of a man. He was a natural leader with an abundance of courage and faith, as well as a gigantic heart and a wonderful sense of humor. He loved his family, flying, friends, and helping others. He lived his life well, and made the world a better place. He left his imprint of love upon everyone he touched. Your Last Flight We know that God is in control As through life we explore. Journeys made along the years We learn to trust Him more. We know that God has loved you, And you are in His hands. He’s given you His watchful care As you’ve flown o’er many lands. A pilot must feel close to God Soaring through the blue. Above the clouds, into the sun – His presence there with you. “God is my co-pilot,” This slogan we often read. But you made God the pilot And let Him take the lead. God took you from this earth below To be with Him in heaven; How fitting that the date He chose – Was seven-four-0-seven. (747) As God has now launched your last flight, We’ll miss you as you’ve gone. But this we can be sure of – This last flight takes you home. Ruth Swanson • July 2007 22 sharing Born Richard Frederick Rosier in Grafton, WV, Dick served God, his country, and his family. His love of flying began shortly after high school graduation, when he enlisted in the U.S. Air Force. Following basic training, he was sent to special training, and then became an Air Commando and pilot in the Special Forces. In 1965 he was sent to Vietnam for thirteen months, flying missions out of Na Trang. On one mission, his plane was shot down, leaving him and his troops stranded. With his innovative and creative mind, Dick used the aluminum from discarded beer cans to patch the multiple holes. With each patch, Dick fervently prayed that God would get them out of their dilemma. Those prayers were answered when Dick flew the plane, getting himself and his comrades safely back to base. This bravery earned him the President’s Medal of Honor. While in Vietnam, some of his flights were distributing pamphlets of information to educate the Vietnamese that the Americans were trying to help them. Because of the nature of these trips, the planes became known as “litterbugs.” Dick’s artistic expertise was displayed when he designed a comical caricature of a “litterbug.” It became so popular; it was painted on everything involving the distribution of the material. During Dick’s tour of duty there, John Wayne made some visits with the USO to entertain the troops. On one visit, he spotted Dick, who just happened to be the exact height he was, both standing head and shoulders above the rest. He called out to Dick, asking him to come to him. He was sporting his Green Beret, and Dick wore his Air Commando cap. Wayne requested they exchange hats, which they did (temporarily, of course!) Dick treasured the home movies featuring his own “adventures” with “The Duke.” Dick received the Vietnam Service Medal and the National Defense Service Medal. As a result of the length of time spent in the war without furlough, he was awarded an early release of six months. On arriving home, Dick’s first big purchase was a new Mustang convertible. He renewed many friendships, one being a former classmate, Charlotte Sue Clelland. Some mutual friends had made a bet with her; she lost and had to help Dick wash his car. Sue was a young widow with an infant son, Nathan. It was “love at first sight.” They married before Christmas 1967, and Dick adopted Nathan. Their daughters, Giselle and Renae, completed their family. Their children later blessed them with eight precious grandchildren. Dick sought employment with B&O Railway, working his way up to Track Supervisor in Buckhannon and later in Grand Rapids, MI, where he and Sue were instrumental in starting the Lake Bella Vista Christian Church. From there they moved to Cincinnati, OH. With each move, they worked with the youth, organizing groups in church, taking them on outings, and often having them in their home. They eventually moved back to WV. With his love of flying intensifying, Dick acquired both private and commercial pilot licenses. He became a private instructor, purchased a “Piper Colt,” then a “Cherokee Six.” He gave many flight lessons over the next twenty years. Dick often related skills in piloting to having faith. He talked of “clearing your mind and focusing on the instruments. Concentrate on what you’re doing, and then just fly the plane.” He often applied these principles to difficulties in life. To this day, when Sue is facing problematic situations, she can hear his admonition, “Just fly the plane, Sue.” Throughout life, Dick was a talented “handyman.” After retiring, he worked full time at Howell’s Mill Christian Assembly building, repairing and restoring – not just with things, but also young lives. Above: Rosier and his “Litterbug” logo. Right: Working on Vietnam aircraft. During the last months of his life, Dick confronted brain cancer like a dutiful soldier, fulfilling God’s plan. He seldom complained and enjoyed each day as much as possible. Hospice of Huntington enabled him to be at home with Sue, the children, and grandchildren who adored him. Just as he had met battles in war, he bravely faced death. As his thoughts turned to flying, his faith prepared him for his final flight. So, on wings of faith, God took him home on July 4th of 2007 – very fitting for this patriotic pilot. n Join the Winning Team www.firstsentry.com Troy Brown 3-Time Super Bowl Champion College Football Hall of Fame Son of Marshall Fa l l /W winter 2011 23 community corners Hospice of Huntington welcomes opportunities to be involved in our local communities Cabell County Motorcycle Group Supports Camp Good Grief Members of the Blue Knights West Virginia III Law Enforcement Motorcycle Club donated $6,000 to Hospice of Huntington in support of our annual bereavement camp for children, Camp Good Grief. The money was raised during an August fundraiser at the Huntington Police Recreation Farm. The newly formed group arrived at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House on their motorcycles, led by a police escort. “It’s all about the good and positives that Hospice of Huntington does for numerous families and kids,” said Blue Knights president Cass McMillian. Prayer Shawl Volunteers Receive Thanks Hospice of Huntington hosted a Prayer Shawl Volunteer Reception for the ladies who knit and crochet shawls for our patients and families. During 2011 this very special group of volunteers put in over 12,000 hours of time making these very special gifts of love and faith. Elks Donation Supports Care The Huntington Elks Lodge 313 made a $1,000 donation to our organization as part of the Elks National Foundation “gratitude grant.” “This community, including many of our members and their families, have received assistance from Hospice of Huntington, and this is our opportunity to tell them ‘thank you,’” said Richard Maack, exalted ruler of the lodge. The presentation took place at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. “Day of Service” Volunteers Lend Helping Hands Members of the local Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints celebrated the 75th anniversary of the Church’s welfare program by performing a “Day of Service” for many local organizations. Hospice of Huntington received their help in cleaning up around our main office building and re-painting the parking lots. Thanks to everyone! 24 sharing LINCOLN COUNTY Fouth of July Parade Delights Residents In July we participated in the Lincoln County Fourth of July Parade. Nurse Rana Watson generously offered to let our staff and Lincoln County Advisory Board member, Olive Hager, ride in her monster truck. We had a great time celebrating with the crowd and shared candy treats along the parade route. Annual Health Fair Helps Educate the Community We attended the Lincoln Primary Care Health Fair, where we distributed information and had a chance to hear some wonderful hospice stories from local residents. Also, our chef at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House, Joe Smith, won second prize for the Heat ‘n the Hills chili cook-off in Hamlin the same weekend. Rummage Sale Benefits Lincoln County Patients Lincoln County Advisory Board members Olive Hager, June Adkins, Janet Sebert, Tammy Adkins, and volunteers Tina Hager and Carissa Daily held a rummage sale and hot dog fundraiser to benefit Lincoln County Hospice patients. Thanks to the Center Point Baptist Church in West Hamlin for lending us their kitchen and outdoor shelter for this event. WAYNE COUNTY “Wall of Honor” Offers Tribute A special recognition reception to honor Veterans and active duty military personnel was held in the Wayne Courthouse. The occasion paid tribute to a “Wall of Honor” photo gallery on display in the building, organized by Wayne resident Dina Queen. Special thanks to Advisory Board member and County Clerk, Jim Booton and his granddaughter Hannah for singing the Star-Spangled Banner. And to the Wayne High School Jr. ROTC for the Presentation and Retiring of The Colors. It was wonderful to be able to celebrate our military heroes—past and present. What an incredible show of support. Rummage Sale Benefits Wayne County Patients Our Wayne County Advisory Board held a rummage sale in a space donated by Arthur Browning. Advisory Board members Jean Artis and Pat Perry were joined by volunteers Arthetta Browning, Joyce Watts, Trish Ferguson, and Dicey Hall in raising money for Hospice of Huntington patients in Wayne County. Way to go, ladies! Thanks to everyone in the community who supported this effort. Wayne County Fair Offers Summer Fun Hospice of Huntington had a booth at the Wayne County Fair. Wayne Advisory Board member Bruce Finley organized the Fair, and Outreach Coordinator Pamela Grandstaff and Advisory Board member Joy Ferguson helped get the word out about Hospice. It was a wonderful time on the fairgrounds and the gospel music performances were a real blessing. Southern Ohio Lawrence County Fair - A Popular Attraction Hospice of Huntington in Ohio had a booth in this year’s Lawrence County Fair. Eastern Lawrence County Advisory Board member Rick Slack, Hospice of Huntington Chaplain Kit Jenkins, Western Lawrence County Advisory Board member Jan Williams, Medical Records & Data Management Supervisor Missy and Ray Burns, Matt Bess and Operations Manager Rachel Sargent, Eastern Lawrence County Advisory Board members Anne Dennison and Becky Smith, Bereavement Counselor Leah Losh, Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House Director Renee Snyder and Outreach Coordinator Pamela Grandstaff represented Hospice of Huntington at the Lawrence County Fair. We’d like to thank Eastern Lawrence County Advisory Board member Eddie Marshall and his staff for their help in pulling it all together for the event. If you have an event or activity in your community that we can become involved in, contact Pamela Grandstaff, Community Outreach Coordinator, at (304) 529-4217. Fa l l /W winter 2011 25 Donor Wall Celebrates Generosity May 5, 2011 marked the fifth anniversary for the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. That day was also special for another reason. A new donor wall was unveiled during a special program and reception to give thanks to the generous donors who have given $25,000 or more in support of our mission of caring for those nearing the end of life. These donors are now part of our Dame Cicely Saunders Society. The beautiful glass structure features etched glass with donor names engraved upon it, as well as a special tribute to Dame Cicely Saunders. As an English doctor in the 1940s, Dame Cicely is known as the founder of the modern hospice movement. She recognized the inadequate care being provided to those nearing the end of life. She went on to found St. Christopher’s Hospice in England in 1967, becoming the first hospice to link expert pain and symptom control with compassionate care and research. When Hospice of Huntington was founded in 1982 by a senior nursing student, Laura Darby, at Marshall University, the agency had barely $20,000 in the bank and a handful of volunteer nurses to care for a dozen or more patients. Today, due in part to the generosity of the community, Hospice of Huntington to provides care to as many as 175 patients a day in Cabell, Lincoln, Mason and Wayne counties in West Virginia, and southern Ohio, regardless of their ability to pay. Bill Dolin chose to honor the memory of his mother, Emogene Dolin Jones, with a $1 million donation. During the unveiling of the new wall, he reaffirmed his commitment. “Whenever I talk to people from the Huntington area, I hear nothing but wonderful things about the care given to patients and the families. I feel 26 sharing honored to be associated with this place, because it means so much to so many people. Hopefully, creating the Society will help gain support forever,” he said. “The underpinning for our success is donors who help sustain us over a long period of time to make sure Hospice of Huntington continues for those in need, forever. The wall is a way to say thank you and tell them how much their gifts have meant to patients and families,” said Charlene Farrell. STAY MOTIVATED. GET HEALTHY. GET FIT. FOR MORE INFORMATION: Huntington YMCA 304.525.8127 www.huntingtonymca.org fundraising Giving Back to Our Donors Potential federal savings resulting from a $10,000 contribution (NIP) to the non-profit are as follows: Federal Tax Savings - $1,650* State Tax Savings - $5,000** Total Savings - $6,650 By Karen Dickson, Director of Planned Giving and Major Gifts Hospice of Huntington, Inc. is excited to announce our participation in the 2011-2012 West Virginia Neighborhood Investment Tax Credit Program. The Neighborhood Investment Program (NIP) is a program overseen by the West Virginia Development Office. Each year approved 501(c)3 non-profit organizations are allotted state tax credits that can be given to eligible donors who file taxes in West Virginia. This year Gov. Earl Ray Tomblin and the West Virginia Legislature extended the Neighborhood Investment Tax Credit Program through 2016 and increased the overall tax credit allocation from $2.5 million to $3 million. There were 182 non-profits requesting $8.7 million for the $3 million in tax credits available. Hospice of Huntington received $36,000 in tax credit. They are available on a first come first serve basis. What does this mean to you? This is an opportunity for our donors, both businesses and individuals, to contribute to Hospice of Huntington, Inc. and receive up to 50 percent of the contributed amount in the form of state tax credits. The tax credits may be applied to the West Virginia Corporate Net Income Tax, Business Franchise Tax, or Personal Income Tax. A tax credit is used to reduce the total tax liability. These credits are in addition to any federal tax deductions for charitable donations, thus, greatly reducing the cost of the contribution to the donor. Contributions can be in the form of cash, personal property, real estate, stock and in-kind professional services. * Federal tax savings are based on the assumption that the contributor is in the 33 percent federal tax bracket and itemizes deductions. Participating organizations are designated 501(c)3 by the IRS, and, as such, contributions are deductible on federal taxes. ** State tax savings of $5,000 in the form of NIP tax credit may be taken in one year or over a period of a five-year period. Some Limitations Apply The Neighborhood Investment Program provides the donor an excellent way to stretch the value of their charitable contributions while helping to carry out the mission of Hospice of Huntington in our West Virginia service areas that include Cabell, Lincoln, Mason and Wayne counties. What makes the NIP program a success is the opportunity for Hospice of Huntington, Inc. to give back to our donors who support our mission. If you are interested in NIP tax credits or have questions, please contact Karen Dickson at 304-633-2169 or [email protected]. Fa l l /W winter 2011 27 Heating Up the Greens Golf Scramble By Ashley Mannon, Marketing & Development Assistant A great day was had by all at the 9th Annual “Heating Up the Greens” golf scramble. Twenty-six teams took to the links at Guyan Golf & Country Club in Huntington to raise more than $25,000 towards the mission of caring for our patients. Golfers were treated to a picnic-style lunch of cold cuts and pasta salad, prepared by Hospice House Chef Joe Smith. A practice green was also available for the golfers to warm up their swing before tee time. Though the skies looked daunting at times, the rain did not reach the golf course, providing a release from the stifling heat of the past few months. The partly sunny, warm day was ideal for golfing. Congratulations are in order to the golf team from Hall Funeral Home who took the top spot. Their victory was announced at an awards dinner featuring a Mexican buffet. Each team member received a first place trophy and a prize package. Hall Funeral Home 1st place Golfers purchased tickets for chances to win baskets graciously donated by patrons of Hospice of Huntington. Names were drawn during the dinner, and the winners were awarded their prizes. Some donated baskets were sold in a live auction, which raised over $1,300 in additional funds for hospice. We would like to thank everyone who participated in the golf tournament in any way for contributing to its success and helping our organization provide the best care possible to better the lives of our patients. 2011 Sponsors Presenting sponsor 28 sharing Team Rankings: First Place: Hall Funeral Home Second Place: Lamar Outdoor Advertising Third Place: First Sentry Bank Individual Contest Winners: Closest to the Pin – Hole #6: John Johnson (Baker Petrolite) Closest to the Pin – Hole #15: Dan Wolfe (Barboursville Class of ’66) Longest Drive: Zach Goad (Moses AutoMall) thanks for your support! Putting Contest: Bill Blevins (State Electric Supply) Golf Carts 2011 Teams Baker Petrolite BB&T Bank BrickStreet Insurance Bulldog Creative Services Cabell Huntington Hospital Chapman Printing Company Huntington The C.I. Thornburg Company, Inc. City National Bank B & A Golf Barboursville Class of ‘66 Dot Hicks First Sentry Bank Guyan International Hall Funeral Home Lamar Outdoor Advertising Lincoln Primary Care Center Moses Auto Mall Pritchard Electric Company (Team 1) Pritchard Electric Company (Team 2) River Park Hospital Somerville & Company CPAs, PLLC State Electric Supply Tri-State Building & Construction Trades Council Walker Transfer, Atlas Van Lines WSAZ White Way Laundry & Dry Cleaning Awards Dinner Hole-in-One Contest Practice Range Photography Alan & Catherine Morrison Campbell Woods, PLLC Golfer’s Lunch Golfer Snacks Trophies Billboard Advertising Bag Tagging Beverages Pepsi Bottling Group ATOMIC DISTRIBUTING, INC. Fa l l / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 29 2011 Light-A-Life TR E E CAM PAIG N Are you looking for a way to give back? Hospice of Huntington needs volunteers to collect donations during the upcoming holiday season for our annual Light-A-Life campaign. Various shifts are available at the Huntington Mall tree location throughout December and Marshall University’s Memorial Student Center in November. If you are interested, please contact Ashley Mannon at (304) 529-4217 or [email protected]. Since 1982, Hospice of Huntington has provided quality care for nearly 15,000 patients. Our goal is to make sure that every person in our community receives our help, regardless of their ability to pay. Join us in making a difference. 30 sharing With each tax-deductible donation made in honor or memory of someone, a symbolic candle-of-life is hung upon one of our holiday trees. R Ways to Donate To request a donation card, call (304) 529-4217 or visit www.hospiceofhuntington.org to make a donation by credit card or call the Marketing Department. You will be asked to provide the name of the person to remember or honor. Hospice of Huntington staff will ensure your candle is placed upon one of our trees. Hospice of Huntington’s Speaker’s Bureau is Spreading the Word Did you know Hospice of Huntington has a speaker’s bureau? In addition to our community outreach efforts at area health fairs and festivals, we also have a team of experts who are available to visit your workplace, club meeting, place of worship, or civic group to share information about the benefits of hospice care and helpful information on many topics. Myths and Facts about Hospice Care The number one fear people have about Hospice care is that their loved one will be over-medicated or their death will come quicker if they call hospice. The fact is it’s up to the patient, along with his/her physician to decide how much pain medication is desired. Some people are willing to tolerate more pain in order to stay coherent longer. At Hospice of Huntington it is our goal to make the patient as comfortable as possible, and to make the quality of life as good as possible for as long as possible. Advance Directives and Medical Power of Attorney An advance directive is your legal statement of what you want to have happen to you when you are no longer able to communicate those preferences. If you have a major stroke and as a result are brain-dead, and you don’t want to be kept alive with breathing and feeding tubes, this is how you make that choice known to health care providers. Your medical power of attorney is the person you designate to make decisions for you in the event that you can’t. This person will make sure your advance directive wishes are honored. Hospice of Huntington can provide forms and walk you, your staff, or members of your organization through this procedure. With enough advance notice we can also provide a notary. Caring for the Caregiver Caring for someone with a terminal illness is difficult and exhausting. We can help you find ways to ease your burden, find local resources, and protect your physical, mental, and emotional health. Dealing with End-of-Life Issues Choosing hospice care may be the toughest decision to make for yourself or someone else. However, the help you receive from hospice experts will make the experience less difficult. It may improve your loved one’s quality of life for whatever time they have left. Hospice of Huntington helps caregivers and family members cope with medical, emotional, financial, and practical issues related to the end of life. Help for Grieving Families Families experience grief even before a loved one dies. We can help you learn how to cope with this anticipatory grief. We provide tips on ways to deal with bereavement as well as helping someone you know who is grieving. Through the Hospice of Huntington Speaker’s Bureau you can learn very valuable information that may help you or someone you know. To schedule a speaker for your group, company, or organization, please contact Pamela Grandstaff, Community Outreach Coordinator, at (304) 529-4217. Fa l l / w i n t e r 2 0 1 1 31 Honor Member 1 Million+ William C. Dolin Grace Members $250,000-$499,999 Anonymous Donor Anonymous Donor Garland C. Frasher Estate Devotion Members $100,000-$249,999 Cabell County Excess Senior Levy Fund Laura G. Darby The Darby Family Foundation Lydia Anne Carver Estate Jeffrey Morrison Inspiration Members $50,000-$99,999 Margaret K. & Frank L. Adkins The Earleen Heiner Agee & Robert W. Agee Fund of the Foundation for the Tri State Community, Inc. Orpha Beckett Estate Claude Worthington Benedum Foundation Charles Clay Estate Nancy & Earl Heiner, Jr. Cabell Huntington Hospital, Inc. Huntington Clinical Foundation The Huntington Foundation, Inc. Ourania G. Forbes Nancy Francis Sally & Bill Gibson and Verna & Jim Gibson Mary Elizabeth & Lewis Glick Marcia & Steve Hatten Linda and Fred Haughey Charles D. Henson Fern & Bartow Ned Jones 32 sharing Florine Keesee Catherine & Alan Morrison The Sue H. Moses Family Trudy Phillips Estate Radiology, Inc. St. Mary’s Medical Center Sally Wilson Residuary Trust Caring Members $25,000-$49,999 1st and 10 Foundation Jean Ann & David M. Adkins Advantage Toyota BB&T WV Foundation Janet E. Bromley Joseph Cooke Joan C. Edwards Equity Trust The Earle S. Dillard Family Charlene & Paul T. Farrell Michael J. Farrell Bob Fouch Larry D. Fouch Laurie & David Fox III The Hamer Foundation William Douglas Hamilton Estate The Mary H. & J. Churchill Hodges Fund of the Foundation for the Tri-State Community, Inc. Helen & Ronald Hooser Huntington Federal Savings Bank McDonalds of Huntington Kreps and Zachwieja Architects/Consultants, Inc. Adelle Morrison Mary Moser Estate Sally B. Oxley Jane & Jack Rardin Rubberlite, Inc. Robert W. Simmons Mellanie B. & Thomas R. Wilmink II Memorials & Donations February 1, 2011 - July 31, 2011 MEMORIALS Eloise Baumgardner Nat Baumgardner Jeanette & Ron Adkins Graydon & Juliabel Bazell Jennifer Adkins BB&T Wealth Management Justin Adkins Judy Beckett Theresa Adkins Nancy Beckett William Adkins Beckley Area Shag Club Mr. & Mrs. Robert Agee Lorna Belcher Ijaz Ahmed Lawrence & Nancy Bell John & Wilma Akers Tom & Mary Plyde Bell Michael & Pamela Akers Cindy Bennet Gene & Gina Alessandrini Carrie Bennett Ann Allen Thomas Bergquist Helen Allen Carol Berry Walter Allen Beta Sigma Phi Laureate Joe Alley Alpha Omnicron John & Middy Aluise Robert Beymer Ari, Mangalika, & Dilum Alice Bias Aluthge Joyce & Paul Bias John & Dora Aman Martha Bidal Joseph & Jenny Amsbury Ron & Roberta Bieber John & Patty Anderson Heather Bills Jeffrey Arnett Mary & Tom Billups, Gloria Jean Artis Jeff & Drew Hazel Asamoto Reco & Lucille Bishop Kelley & Bonnie Asbury William & Anna Bissett Kasey Austin Valerie Black Jean Backus Cynthia Blaine Carolyn Bagby Rosemary Bagby, Linda & Gary, Larry & Dottie Blankenship Anita Blasius Jimi & Patrice Sara Blethen Jim & Judy Bailes Bluegrass Raceway, Inc. Robert Bailey Sally Bogers George Barr Beverly Johnson-Boldy & Jane & David Bartram Dan Boldy Steven & Julie Bartram Bob & Callie Boley Janet Boley Glenna Bondurant Carol Booth Keith & Lois Booton Brian & Barbara Boren Bouchillon, Crossan, & Colburn, L.C. Bob & Jimelle Bowen Pamela Boyd Stacey & Benjamin Brabbin Lisa Brickey Nancy Bright Barbara Brimer Kay & Larry Britton William Bronosky Joanne Brooks Carrie & Travis Brown Louis Brown Dorothy Brownfield Judi Bruce G. David & Martha Brumfield Glenn & Nell Brumfield Ilene Brumfield Elizabeth Buffington Amy & Charles Bullock Virginia Burcham Jane Burdette Ruth Burke Teresa Burke James Burkhardt Victoria Burrows Helen Bush Sue & Don Buss Charles & Betty Buzzard Cabell Huntington Home Health Cabell Huntington Hospital Cabell Huntington Hospital Laboratory Employees Joy Cain Paula Cain Dorothy & Jim Call Colleen Callahan Myrta Callicoat Campbell Woods, PLLC Rodney Campbell Sarah Carey Barbara Carico Larry Carrico John & Catherine Carter Linda Carter Thelma & Fred Cartmell Martha & Sam Casne Susan Castle Mike & Judy Catron Mary Caul Ceredo Historical Society Joan Chambers Bette Chandler James & Mary Chandler Arthur & Joyce Chaney Johnny & Mary Chapman Elmie Chase Sue & Steve Chick Catherine & Terrance Childers Peachie Childers Linden Chiles Albert & Mary Clark Catherine Clark Fa l l / W winter 2011 33 33 Diann Clark Ellen Clark Larry & Delphia Clark Gertrude Classing Terri Clay Michael Clowser Leanne Cochran John & Rebecca Cochrane Billie Cofer Jennifer Coffman Marilyn & David Cohen Roscoe Conner Dolores Cook Jill & David Cook Sally & Don Cook Lynda Corea Fred & Mary Lou Corman Roger Cornwell John & Carolyn Crabtree Alka Crews Shane, Stephanie, & Aaron Crum Ewell & Avenelle Cummings Tavia Cummings Sheila Cupp Byron Curry William & Rosemary Curtis Anna Damron Willard Daniels Joan Darkenwald Becky DeAlba & Carol Newman Jona Dean DeAngelo Brothers, Inc. Anita DeHart Bill & Sarah Denman Department at the School District of Palm Beach County – Federal & State Programs Joseph Derosa Betty Deskin Shawn & Cary Dixon Fred & Delores Donohoe Lena Douglas Virginia Dowdy Frank & Doralene Dowis Nancy Dowless Kevin & Cathy Doyle Janet Draper Lavonna Draper Paula Duckworth James Duncan & Celeste Fraley William & Gladys Dunkle Dr. Lawrence Dunworth Irvin & Joan Eannaccone Dr. & Mrs. Jack Eblin 34 sharing Jerry & Edgar Edwards Lawanna Edwards Terri Effingham Mona Ellis Lawrence & Janis Eplin Carla Erwin Nellie Ettling Chreed Evans Terry & Bob Fahner Connie & Adam Farley John & Connie Farrell Michael & Anita Farrell Paul & Charlene Farrell Larry Felts Ferguson Monuments Julia Ferguson Mary Ferguson Virginia Ferguson Fifth Avenue Baptist Church Agape Class First Sentry Bank First United Methodist Church Kathy Fisher Mary Fisher Rachel Fisher J. H. Fletcher & Co. Ronald Flora Florida Street Baptist Church Diana Fluri Maurice & Hazel Flynn Marian Folk Fonduk Auto Center Katherine Forbes Peyton & Anna Forbes Fortune Brands Amber Foster David & Laura Fox L. W. & K. A. Franks Becky & Dennis Freeman Friends & Neighbors of Lakeview Heights Friendship Sunday School Class Helen Frye Arlene Fuller Mike & Pat Fullerton Jerry Furbee Phyllis Gable Genesis Education Services Department Nancy Gill David Glick Paul & Sandy Goad Karen & Thomas Godlewski Charles & Nicolette Goheen Good Samaritan Church Gordon Food Service Ayshia Gore Laura Gray Marlene Gray Norma Gray Donald Greenwell Mike & Donna Griffith Marcella Grim Mary Grim Tony Gygi Jack & Mary Hagan Mr. & Mrs. Jack Hagaw Cardis & Lelia Hall John & Jo Ann Hall Jean Hamilton Sherry Hamilton Julia Hampton James & Linda Hanna Patricia Hanshaw Sondra Hanshaw Tom & Nancy Hanshaw Terry Deppner Hardin Doug & Sue Hardman Todd & Cleta Harless Robert & Meredith Harman Daniel Harmon Katrina Harmon Harold & Norma Harper Gaytha Harris Mike & Amy Harrison Norma & Scott Harrison Richard Harshbarger Mary Hartley Mary Hartsuch Steve & Marcy Hatten Jason Haught Willie Haught & Linda Holmes Mary Hawes Sara Hawkins Lee Anne Haynie & Kari Price Kathleen & Sam Hazlett Karen Heffner Dee & Beth Heinz Lisa & Brad Henry Carlos & Wanda Hensley Gloria Hensley Hess, Stewart, & Campbell, PLLC Marty & Wendy Heyne Highlawn Baptist Church Friendship Class Mr. & Mrs. J. Churchill Hodges Elaine & Barry Hoffman Ralph Honaker Jeff & Linda Hood Ronald & Mary Hoopper Kathleen Houck Sherry & Tom Houvouras Glenn Hulcher and Hulcher Family of Companies Patricia Humphreys Willard & Carolyn Hunter Independent Insurance Agents of West Virginia, Inc. Georgia Ingwerson Ironton High School Class of 1971 Jewel Jackson Barbara James Judy James Karen Jarrell Alex & Maxine Jenkins Homer Jimison Alberta Johe C. Bosworth & Dorothy Johnson Josephine Johnson Rita Johnson Sheila & Bruce Johnson T. R. Johnson & Son Theodosia Johnson William Johnson Mr. & Mrs. J. Jones Staci & Jeff Joy George & Margaret Kastanas Ryan, Rebecca, & Noah Keaton Arlene Kelly Bettina Kelly Kentucky Organ Donor Affiliates – Huntington Office Jean Kincaid Alison & Jon King Edgar & Suzette King Dave & Ruth Kirkland Tim, Steve, John, & Matt Kirtley Doug & P. J. Kitchen Kiwanis Club of Huntington Martha Klasing Dr. Stephen & Jane Kopp Ann & John Krieger Robert & Donna Kurucz Diana Kyle Jack Kyle Ladies Auxiliary to So. Ohio VFW Memorial Post 6878 John LaFear Denise & David Lahrman Patricia Lake Michael Lakin Peggy Lang Ted & Dolores Langdon Debra Leonard Lydia Leslie Robert & Joyce Levy David & Ann Lewin Lexa & Lawrence Lewis Lexington Coal Exchange Helen Licata Penny Lilly Jim & Kathy Linsenmeyer Ashley Lockwood Denise & David Lohrman Ross Love Shirley Lovett Sara Lowe Dr. Christopher & Pamela Lynch David Lynd Bill & Sue Mack Eleanor Mallory Linda Markham Mabel Marshall Carol Martin Doug & Nan Martin Fred & Donna Martin Richard & Tammy Martin Tracy Martin Wilma Martin James Mathis Jewell Matthews Dan & Malinda Maynard Deborah Maynard Wateka Mc Innis James McAllister David & Elizabeth McCabe Mrs. Aubrey McCaleb & Family Paul McCalvin Florence McCarthy Robert & Agnes McCaskey Jessie McClain Lynne McConkey Ralph & Francis McDonie J. Grant & P. Kheng McGuire Mr. & Mrs. Bill McIntyre Richard & Jane McLeod The McMellon Family Janet McMullen Judith Melton Ruth Meredith Kathryn Merry Emory Miller Mr. & Mrs. Carl Mills & Kimberly Mary Frances Miniaci Family J. Monte Jane Montsinger Cam Moore Kathy & Chuck Moore Morning Pointe Ridge Adelle Morrison Billy Morrison & Family Edward & Karen Morrison Steve & Mary Morrison Mt. Calvary Non Denominational Church William & Marilyn Murdock Terri & Robert Murnahan Anne Myers Bob & Poochie Myers Myra Methodist Church Jim Nash Brenda Naylor The Naymik Family Roger & Linda Neighborgall Duane Nelson Mary Nenni Dr. Robert & Deborah Nerhood Joseph Ney Betty & Chick Nikolaus Elizabeth Nordeen Donald O’Dell Douglas O’Dell Raedean Ogg Joyce Paden David Pancake Chris & Kim Parsons Al & Rosemare Pate David Patton Stephen Pauley Jewell Paxton Jewell Payne Harry Peck William Peck Peoples Bank Michael Perilli Elsie Perkey Jack & Claren Perkins Margaret Perkins Maggi Perl & Dottie Adkins Geraldine & James Perry Leslie Pettys David & Carolyn Plants Linda Pleasants James & Jennifer Plyburn Georgia Porter Wayland & Patricia Porter Jennifer & Timothy Potts Birdie Pratt Precision Pipeline Solutions Barbara Price Mary La Rosa Pritt Dr. Bernard Queen Linda Raines Margaret Ramey Edward & Pamela Rawn Matt, Madeline, Susan, & Christine Rawn & Families Carl & Anne Ray Ilene Ray James & Betty Reed Mickie & Billie Reed Brent Reedy Resident Council of Woodlands Retirement Community Dr. David Revell & Linda Holup Randall & Lisa Rhoades Jim & Betty Rice Jim & Sue Richards, Bobby & Lyle, Bill & Ruth, Fran & Don Jack & Ann Riggs Emy Riley River Cities Community Church Roach Baptist Church Molly Robertson R. Robertson, Jr. Wilma Robinson Rockwood Missionary Baptist Church Teresa Rogers Joan Rohde Hope Romine Lorene Rooper Joey & Hope Roy Ann Rudd Clara Sadler Elizabeth Sammons Billie Santrock Peggy Saunders Kreidler-Shell Professional Women’s Club Scott Orthopedic Center Linda Scott Margarette Sellards Seventh Avenue Baptis Church – Ruth Circle Marjorie Sexton Pamela Sharp Anne & Mike Shaw John Shawkey Linda Shelton Kathleen Short Walt & Vicki Sibley Lillian Simpson Ross & Ruby Simpson Mr. & Mrs. Jonathan Skean Betty Skeens Paula Slone General Lee & Patricia Smith Gladys Smith Roger & Brenda Smith Somerville & Company, PLLC Stephen & Elizabeth Songer Alicia Sparks Special Metals Bar Wire Dept. Spring Valley Athletic Boosters Association, Inc. Sherri Springer William Spurlock St. Mary’s Center for Education Sara Staats Staff of Chesapeake Elementary School Carrie & Landon Stanley Kathleen Stanley William & Eleanor Stark Carol Stein Lynda Stephens Owen & Betty Stephens John & Betty Stepp & Stephen Billie Stickler Rosemary Stover Gloria Stowers Garnet Sturgill Margery Sturm Lucy Sullivan Lillian Swann Martha Swisher James Tackett Rennie & Amy Talbert Kenneth & Linda Tanksley Margaret Taylor Teays Valley Newcomers Club Teays Valley Presbyterian Church Cora Teel Jack & Carolyn Templeton Patricia Thacker The Regency Club The Rehabilitation Staff at Cabell Huntington Hospital The Resident Council of Woodlands Retirement Community Joyce Theus Tina & Tommy Thomas Fa l l / W winter 2011 35 35 Donald Thompson Theo & Tom Tippett Helen Toothman Trinity O.P.C. Mission Tri-State Pilot Association Robert & Martha Trocin Trowbridge Manor Resident Council Nick & Louise Tsismanakis Dr. Charles & Linda Turner Ryan Turner Union Baptist Church Adult Sunday School Union Chapel Community Church University Obstetrics & Gynecology Faculty & Staff University Pathology Services Richard & Carol Valentine Robert Vass, Sr. Doris Vickers Carmella Vigilante Becky & Glen Vinson Bob & Janet Vital Dr. John Walden John & Peggy Walker & Family David & Sharon Wallace & Laura & Morgan Dave & Jenny Walton Linda Warner Warren Township Department of Special Services Lanna Waugh Matt Weiland Nora Welch Patricia Welch Wells Fargo Ins. Services USA Craig Wessman Rick & Lynne Weston Nancy Wheeler Billye Whitaker Jennifer White Paul White Tim & Shirley White Donna Whitley Heather Widdifield Jim Wilcox Dr. Marc & Holly Wild Tom Wilkinson James S. & Gail Williams Tom & Peggy Wilmink C. E. & Kim Wilson Glen “Hack” Wilson Randy Wilson Richard & Margaret Wilson 36 sharing Stephanie Winfrey Sandra & David Winters Mr. & Mrs. Charles Wise John & Jan Wolfe Womens Club of Beverly Hills GFWC Elmer Woods David & Martha Woodward Wooten Machine Co, Inc. Betty Wright Bill & Erin Wright WV Alpha Delta Kappa Beta Chapter WV Music Teachers District 5 Xentris Wireless, LLC Xi Gamma Sigma Chapter 6763 Bob & Janet Yost Roderick & Barbara Young Julie Younglove-Webb Dr. William & Mary Lind Zitter DONATIONS Alcon Alley, Joe Alley Anonymous Eileen Asbury Beulah Baisden Bank of America Matching Gifts Barboursville Lions Club, Inc. Beverly Hills Presbyterian Church April Blair Willard Bowen Carol Brodtrick Jonathan & Nancy Broh Blanche Browning Charles & Vicki Buell James Campbell Jason Campbell Maida Chapman Combined Federal Campaign CSX Good Government Fund Pacmatch Charles Cupp James Curnutte Paula & Donald Davis Glenn Drees Cordell Edwards Ferguson Monuments First Presbyterian Church Sandy & Mary Lou Fricke Good Shepherd Freewill Baptist Church Ladies Auxiliary Greenbrier Heights Garden Club Allison Henson Alleda Hiller Maxine Hoke Huntington First Church of the Nazarene Huntington Lodge No. 313 B.P.O. Elks Maurice Hylbert Thomas & Karla Hysell JP Morgan Chase Foundation Marvin Kelly & Robin Linkfield Helen Killeen F. V. Kyle Wayne Legg Sheldon Levine Stacey Lindsay Jack & Mary Ann Lipps Teresa Lowry Helen Mathis Maxine McComas Joseph McDonie Oak Hill UBI Church O-I Lunch Bunch Open Door Baptist Church Robert Overmoyer James & Teresa Pickett Walter Pofahl Richard & Thelma Preston Ladonna Price Patricia Ramey Ranson, Mary Ranson Dr. Roberta Rice Virginia Ritter David & Kim Robinson Salem United Baptist Church Marvin Slomke Sunshine Freewill Baptist Church Teresa Chapter 257, O.E.S. Jane Terrell Beth Thomas Theo & Tom Tippett Lester Toler Kenneth & Connie Turley Minnie Wentz White, Terry White Roenna Womeldorf Women of the Moose Barboursville Chapter 2223 Roger & Norma Wooten C. E. Yeager EMOGENE DOLIN JONES HOSPICE HOUSE (MEMORIALS) David & Jean Ann Adkins William R. Adkins John & Wilma Akers Bill & Frances Allen Helen Allen Armstrong Larry & Joann Ruthelaine Bays Thomas Bergquist Patricia Billups Dale & Mary Black Cynthia Blaine Neal & Barbara Blake Jane Bradley Julie Bruns & Family Maxine Burcham Sue & Don Buss Bethel & Brenda Butcher Cabell Huntington Hospital Laboratory Employees Bob & Janice Call Scott Call Bill & Helen Callahan Heather Carter Richard & Billie Cassell Patricia Casto Centralized Transcription Department at St. Mary’s Medical Center CHH Mother/Baby Unit Churchill Oaks Homeowners Association Gregory Clay Howard & Sharon Clay Dr. Ann & David Coffaro Janice Crone Betty Curry Helen Curry Susan D’Aoust Beth & Norman Daniels Timothy & Jill Dayhoff Discount Emporium, Inc. Sarah Dixon Beatrice Eagleston Janice Eddy Mona Ellis Jo Ann Escue Family of Milt & Opal B. Adams Charlene Farrell Fifth Avenue Baptist ABW Circle #7 Jeanne Fletcher Sandra Folsom Peyton & Anna Forbes Friendship Sunday School Class Pauline Gilkerson David Glick Ayshia Gore R. Hall Bette Hammer Dr. J. R. & Betty Hannan Sondra Hanshaw Greg & Terry Deppner Hardin Gaytha Harris Marion Hayes Mr. & Mrs. David Hezlep Mr. & Mrs. Michael Hezlep Betty Lou & Chester Holbrook Dale Holschuh Robert & Sara Hubbard Huntington Cabell Republican Women Jewel Jackson Kit Jenkins Gary & Linda Johnson Katherine Johnson Lucia Johnson Josephine Kendall Alison & John King Wesley King Doug & P.J. Kitchen Patricia Lake David & Madeleine Lithway Marcia Lytton Richard Mackel Chris Maniskas Craig, Carol Ann, John, & Samuel Martin Jewell Roark Matthews Hester McCallister Midge McClellan Pamela McDaniel Jack & Betty McFann Matt & Nancy McGowan Peggy McMillian Ralph & Betty Midkiff Jennifer Miliano Ann Miller Winston & Sandra Miller Mineral Labs Helen Muncy Bing & Phil Murphy & Family Mary Ann Nash Vernon & Patty Norris Robert Null Susan O’Connell Joe & Nina Overby Cindy Pancake Rhonda Perry Gloria Porta Jenny & Tim Potts & Family Mary Emily & Paula Pow Red Hat Divas of Barboursville Petie Romano Vicki & Michael Rosenberg Brett & Shelley Rowe Dennis & Patsy Ruffner Dr. & Mrs. Maurice Saleme Salt Rock Community Church Gladys Sargent Bob & Barb Schildman Betty Setliff Anne & Mike Shaw Dr. & Mrs. Jeffrey Shaw Carl & Janet Simmons SMMC Chart Completion Room Staff Sonshiners SS Class – First Baptist Church Waverly St. Mary’s Hospitalist Physicians John, Betty, & Stephen Stepp Michael Steward Supervalu Martha Swisher William & Florence Tackett Gerry Thompson Betty Triplett Trowbridge Manor Resident Council Ann Urling C. Urling Becky & Glen Vinson & Family Jeanne Wagner Linda Warner Waterloo Coal Co., Inc. Mrs. Nedwin Weekly Matt Weiland Janet Wetherholt Wandel & Deloris White Susan Wilkes Jim Willcox Minnie Williams EMOGENE DOLIN JONES HOSPICE HOUSE (DONATIONS) Barboursville Lions Club Patricia & David Carlson Diana Kipp Open Door Baptist Church Ann Wade CAPITAL CAMPAIGN Bob Fouch Charles Henson Ned & Fern Jones Alan and Catherine Morrison MEMORIAL BRICK CAMPAIGN Joy Adkins John Aluise Nancy Aluise Tony Aluise Phyllis Bell Alice Bias Barbara Booth Steve Briscoe Sandra Byrd Sandra Kay Byrd Timothy Callahan Barbara Cassidy Patricia Casto William Chapman Patty Cole Randall Collins Jane Cooper Nancy Fisher Darrell & Gary Fonduk Dr. Arthur & Alice Fricke T. Hanshaw Robert E. Hardin Herbert Karlet Kathleen Kilen Harry & Vanessa Marks Betty McCallister Shawn Mount Judy Nelson Charles Norris Debby Ours Sally Plybon Vanessa Price Ivan Scarberry & Mareia Holland H. Paul Shultz SK Lubricants Americas, Inc. Deborah Stover Gerry Thompson Margaret Turner Rosemary Watts Carl White Women’s Health Services, LLC Fred Wood, Sr. Jacqueline Woody Thomas Worley E. Worrell & Family “GIFTS FROM THE HEART” CAMPAIGN (MEMORIALS) Delores Adkins Rodney & Karen Adkins Joe Alley Gloria Jean Artis Charles Astle Alyce Ball James & Avenell Booton Clarence Bryant Kimberley Burcham Phyllis Burd Letha Campbell Maureen Carbone Margaret Carson Sharon Clagg Betty Lee Craig Lula Cremeans Lois Dickson Jerry & Virginia Earwood Brandi Ebert Terry & Sandra Fenger Linda Giles Diana Griffin Mary Hammond Phyllis Hammond Sue Hanshaw Diana & Charles Hatton Dottie Head Chauncey Henry Linda Hensley John & Sandy Hinshaw Brenda Houchin Deloris Jarrell Norton Kaplan George & Margaret Kastanas Rosery Kingrey Rosemary Knight Dr. Stephen & Jane Kopp James & Sylvia LaFon Lois Litz Carolyn & L. Dale Manns David & Joanne McCown John Meadows Ruth Meredith Marsha Mohr Mr. & Mrs. Spencer Moore Eva Moreland Evelyn Paugh Lawrence Pauley Drema Perry Geraldine Perry Dorothy Preece Myrtle Prichard Fa l l / W winter 2011 37 37 Mary Rakes Rice, L. Dale Rice Kenneth Richardson James Rife Mr. & Mrs. Jack Riggs Patricia & Ralph Rood Nina Shaffer Deborah Sheley Irma Shy Tom & Dottie Simpkins Glenn Smith Lindon & Mary Smith Patricia Spradling Lillian Swann Dianna Taylor Wanda Tenney Theo & Tom Tippett Helen Toothman Anne Turman Steve & Kathleen Turner Janet Wallace Hack Wilson Janice Wise Vicki Wiseman Craig Young Ed & Becky Zimmerman “GIFTS FROM THE HEART” CAMPAIGN (DONATIONS) Herbert & Reda Alford Willoe Ashworth Mary Babcock Larry & Linda Bias Beverly Billups Bruce Billups Henry & Sharon Blume James & Avenell Booton Sheila Booton Patricia Boster Charles Budd Charles & Vicki Buell Sandra Burton James Butler, DDS Patrick & Katherine Caldwell Nancy Campbell Canada Chapel Church Jack & Ann Cappellari Charles & Norma Carroll Nancy Carter Amy Cassidy Brenda & Ed Chapman Patricia Chapman Mary Childers 38 sharing Ms. W. Christian Martha Churton Elsie Copley Mrs. J. Core Phyllis Crawmer Stephen & Deborah Cremeans John & Peggy Crowder Charles Cupp Betty Curtis Royce Damron Willis & Bertina Damron Beverly Davis Paul & Martha Day Kenneth & Rosemary Dillon Mary Dodrill T. K. Dodrill Jewelers John & Judith Dorsey William Dorsey Brandi Ebert Patricia Eisel Mona Ellis Sharon Fizer Walter & Norma Fleming David Glick John & Ellie Grigsby Kaye Hamlin Nancy Hanger Debbie Henderson Marjorie Hollandsworth Ernest Holley Milton Huffman, Jr. Judith Jackson Pauline Jackson Alberta Johe Melinda & Joseph Kahn Phyllis Keith Roger & Elizabeth Kimber Joye & James Lamp Vaughneda Lawson Charlene Leist Bob Lieving James & Marjorie Lilly Ruby Lundy Ruby Lycan Helen Mathis Judy Midkiff Richard & Kay Mobayed Dolores Moore Lawrence Moore R. Morgan Fred & Vicky Murdock Paul & Carlyn Napier Donald & Barbara Perry Geraldine Perry John & Sue Persinger Charles Pletka J. Powers Mary Powers Dorothy Preece Billy Price Margaret Ramey Clara Reese Sherry Rowe Rose & Tony Saad Mabel Shafer Deborah Sheley Mark & Janet Sheridan Mr. & Mrs. Samuel Shimp Janice Shrewsbury Irma Shy Becky & Steve Simmons Tom & Debbie Simpkins Geraldine Simpson Frances Sleeth Carolyn Smith David Smith Jesse Southall Tom & Dottie Spry Troy & Merilyn Spry Beatrice Stiltner Priscilla Stone Mary Sutfin Mary Swepston Patricia Sydnor Katie Thompson Albins Tillers Betty Tippett Helen Toothman Ted & Karon Turley Sidney Turnbull Robert Vanatter John Via Michael & Vickie Watts Nancy Weider Betty White Roenna Womeldorf Roger & Norma Wooten C. E. Yeager “SPRING FEVER” BEACH PARTY Anonymous Donor Melanie Beckett Billie Brooks Sheila Brownfield James Butler Brian Byrd Mark Call Christy Carr Serena Clements CompreCare Rebecca Compton Leo & Paula Cremeans Charlene Farrell James & Frances Ferguson Susanne Ferguson Fifth Third Bank Sharon Fuller Jill Griffiths Charles & Pamela Gruber J. Hannan, Jr. Tara Hartwick Christina Hofmann Kit Jenkins Keaton’s Collision Center Verena Kimler Lora Lavery Leo Cremeans, Inc. Amy McGinley Chuck McKenzie Melanie Moore Dr. Richard & Sally Oakes Patricia Perry Pritchard Electric Company, Inc. Nina Rakes Rebecca Randolph Fred Ranson John Reid Molly Robertson Rachel Sargent Becky & Steve Simmons Michael Snyder Candis Stout Sarah Walling Wayne Windle Jack Wise, III Daniela Woodyard Mr. & Mrs. Carl Wray HOSPICE HUGS Friendship Class – Kenova United Methodist Church Wanda & John Skidmore Wesleyan Class – Kenova United Methodist Church CAMP GOOD GRIEF Anonymous Donor Michele Ramey Tom C. Smith Trust Fund “HEATING UP THE GREENS” GOLF SCRAMBLE Dan Booth Cabell Huntington Hospital City National Bank of West Virginia T. K. Dodrill Jewelers Guyan International Ernie Hall Pryce Haynes Associates Dorothy Hicks River Park Hospital Somerville & Company, PLLC State Electric Ann Tao Tri-State Building & Construction Trades Council Walker Transfer, Inc. Daniel Wolfe WSAZ MEMORIAL TREE CAMPAIGN Ann Allen Carissa Dreher Wanda Keaton Helen Mosley Michael Riley Debra Salmons Bridge of Caring Nestled on the banks of the Ohio River with a view of the 31st Street Bridge, the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House offers the perfect location for our “Bridge of Caring.” The leaves, clouds and stones can be inscribed in perpetuity in remembrance or honor of a special person. It chronicles the growth of philanthropic support for Hospice of Huntington. This “Bridge of Caring” Donor Wall is much more than a beautiful sculpture. In addition to recognizing significant naming gifts in a permanent and meaningful way, it also symbolizes our long-standing tradition of excellence in providing compassionate physical, emotional and spiritual care for those with a life limiting illness and continued support for their families. If you are interested in supporting this project through your special gift, please contact Karen Dickson, Director of Planned Giving and Major Gifts, at (304) 633-2169 or by email at [email protected]. Thank you to those who have supported our Bridge of Caring through your donations through August 31, 2011. Bertha Allen Robert Bailey James and Joyce Baisden C-K Florist, LLC San and Vivian Collins John & Betty Cook Kerry Crawford Ron and Jo Anne Cyrus Jeffrey and Patricia Greenhill Fred & Linda Haughey Elizabeth and Michael Hensley Scott Hensley Kit Jenkins Alberta Johe James and Kathleen Linsenmeyer Mark Mauldin Buck and Eileen McComas Jerry and Shirley Midkiff Edward and Karen Morrison Earl and Frankie Newman Charles D. Pratt Jim and Gaynelle Smith, Jordan-Smith Electric Company, Inc. Donna Underwood Jeffrey A. Strickland and Janet Wolcott Wayne County Advisory Board Kristen Weekley-Cooley Luther Woods Fa l l / W winter 2011 39 39 the last word A Son’s Journey By Frank D. Vance, Jr, Son of Franklin D. and Arlene C. Vance My father, Franklin D. Vance, passed away at the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House on June 13, 2011. In October of 2010, it became obvious that both my parents were in need of additional care because of their continued decline. Both had been battling lung cancer and other peripheral issues. As an only child, seeing both parents in such a state left me feeling frightened, isolated and alone. It was quite an uncertain time. As a result of my prodding and the compassion of the hospice nurse and social worker, both of my parents willingly joined the hospice program. Mom’s involvement was relatively brief. Following her funeral, it was apparent that Dad could not live on his own. After many discussions and arguments, he finally agreed to move in with me in Alexandria, Virginia. I got him involved with the program in my area. Whenever we came to Huntington, Hospice of Huntington continued to watch over him. When we came back (to Huntington) for a family reunion last June, Dad took a decidedly bad turn on the day we were to return to Virginia. The nurse recommended the Emogene Dolin Jones Hospice House. There, Dad received excellent care. All the staff members were kind, gentle and compassionate, not only to Dad, but also to my daughter and me. Dad passed away one week later. We are so grateful for your kind compassion. I have now become one of your organization’s biggest fans. Throughout my ordeal with my parents, I have been struck by the negative concept a lot of well-meaning people have of hospice. So, I am willing to give back by doing whatever I can do to change this perception. From left to right: Laura F. Vance, Franklin D. Vance, Frank Vance, Jr., and Jessica H. Vance 40 sharing THE TRI-STATE’S ONLY COMPREHENSIVE CANCER CENTER WITH CYBERKNIFE TECHNOLOGY St. Mary’s Ad by the Most Experienced Delivered Radiation Oncology Team in our Region Philip Lepanto, MD If you’ve gone to another cancer center and they’re trying to send you out of town for treatment, call St. Mary’s Regional Cancer Center for a second opinion. Everything you need is at St. Mary’s. 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