The Shofar - Beth Am Shalom
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The Shofar - Beth Am Shalom
The Shofar Beth Am Shalom - A Reform Jewish Congregation A New Beginning . . . to an Old Tradition www.bethamshalom.org Message from Rabbi A RIDDLE When can international diplomacy go so awry and yet be so right? For an answer, read on. Dr. Jonathan D. Sarna (Professor of American Jewish History at Brandies University) was interviewed on National Public Radio about the flap over Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s address to Congress. My former teacher described the U.S.—Israeli relationship as a “marriage.” We are having, Sarna said, “lover’s quarrel.” Relations will return to normal, he assured listeners. I think Dr. Sarna is correct. Moreover, I find it instructive that so many breaches of diplomatic etiquette still add up to the right conclusion. A review: April 2015 Nisan – Iyar 5775 Volume 8, Issue 10 Check out our WEBSITE! www.bethamshalom.org What’s Inside: Rabbi ................................... 1 Worship Services .................2 Cantor ...................................3 President ............................ 4 Religious School .................4 Tzedakah ........................ 7 Refuah Shleima ....................8 Yahrzeit ............................... 9 Memorials ........................... 10 Sponsors ...................... 13-14 Calendar........................... 15 Speaker John Boehner invites Israel’s Prime Minister to address a joint session of Congress with nary a word to the White House. Prime Minister Netanyahu accepts, again without diplomats consulting or coordinating. And the timing! Two weeks before elections in Israel—that’s when our Speaker invites this head of state to our capitol? Bibi doesn’t tactfully bow out? And his topic! He comes to tell our government and the American people that President Obama and Secretary Kerry are naive and they are negotiating a “bad deal” with Iran’s leaders… (more on the timing) while they are engaged in those very negotiations! These faux pas fail every test of diplomatic protocol, both modern and ancient. The Psalmist instructs Israel not to render evil to a nation at peace with it (Ps. 7:4-6). Can it be that the Prime Minister of the Jewish state is given and accepts so grand a stage to meddle in our President’s conduct of foreign policy while he is at that very moment so engaged? In fact, God instructs the Israelites on their journey through other nations, that we may buy and sell with them but must not meddle in their affairs (Deut. 2:5-6, 19, 28). Israel’s past, present and (it seems) future Prime Minister was not the only one meddling in our President’s foreign policy work. The very junior Senator Tom Cotton, who has probably not learned his way around D.C. let alone the complexities of foreign policy, writes a letter to Iran’s leaders. 47 of his fellow Republican Senators sign it, and it inform them that any deal will last only as long as Obama’s Presidency. I do not say “so what?” lightly in the face of these diplomatic blunders. Diplomatic protocol exists for a reason. It helps nations interact and communicate clearly through established channels and customs, so that there are no misunderstandings and surprises. Not a few misunderstandings and surprises have led to wars. Yet, here, all these breaches of protocol were right— right because the invitation, the speech and even the letter were all about denying Iran nuclear weapons. That goal is first and foremost. Simply put, there are good reasons we try to keep guns out of the hands of the criminally insane. There are good reasons we must keep nuclear weapons out of the hands of Iran’s leaders. Without denigrating the Iranian People, with whom I have no complaint, we know the kind of government under which they endure: theocratic, brutal, extreme, secretive and unpredictable are just a few adjectives that describe it. Their leaders often declare their goal to destroy the State of Israel, and I cannot think of a reason not to take them at their word. While promising a nuclear holocaust, they also deny the one earlier this century. In addition, they have made no secret of their desire to be the undisputed Muslim power in the world. Which Middle Eastern nation will want the bomb next? Tom Lehrer will need to add more verses to his song, “Who’s Next” [to get the bomb.] Continued on Page 11 The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10/ Page 2 WORSHIP SERVICES Friday, Apr. 3 5:00PM Brief Minchah (Afternoon) Service (No Oneg) Friday, May 1 6:00PM Pot Luck Dinner 7:00PM Erev Shabbat Family Service With Grade 3 & R.S. Awards Shabbat Pesach Shabbat Acherei Mot-Kedoshim Exod. 12:37-42, 13:3-10 Haftarah: Isaiah 43:1-15 We are now collecting food for the pantry at Jesus is Lord Fellowship in Lakewood Lev. 16:1-20:27 Haftarah: Amos 9:7-15 Friday, Apr. 10 10:00AM Passover / Yizkor Service ===== 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service Friday, May 8 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service w/Torah reading Shabbat Emor Shabbat Shemini I Please use the bins in the foyer THIS MONTH Sunday, April 19, 2015 1:30PM Yom Hashoah Program being held this year at Cong. Ahavat Olam in Howell Sunday, April 26, 2015 1:05PM Jewish Heritage Night at the Blue Claws Stadium (See Page 5 & flyers for all the info) Lev. 21:1-24:23 Haftarah: Ezekiel 44:15-31 Lev. 9:1-10:11 Haftarah: II Samuel 6:1-23 Saturday, May 9 10:00AM Morning Shabbat Service and Bat Mitzvah of Breanna Durkas Friday, Apr. 17 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service Shabbat Shemini II Friday, May 15 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service Lev. 10:12-11:47 Haftarah: II Samuel 7:1-17 Shabbat Behar-Bechukotai Saturday, Apr. 18 10:00AM Morning Shabbat Service & Bar Mitzvah of Max Friedeman Friday, Apr. 24 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service with Anniversaries Lev. 25:1-27:34 Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19-17:14 Saturday, May 16 10:00AM Morning Shabbat Service and Bar Mitzvah of Michael Lee Friday, May 22 7:30PM Erev Shabbat Service with Anniversaries Shabbat Tazria-Metzora FUTURE MONTHS May 28, 2015 Annual Mahjongg/ Card/Game Party Watch for further info on this very popular event! Saturday, June 6, 2015 Save this date! You won’t want to miss our temple fundraiser: A Musical Concert More info on this next month Shabbat Bemidbar Lev. 12:1-15:33 Haftarah: II Kings 7:3-20 Num. 1:1-4:20 Haftarah: Hosea 2:1-22 TEMPLE AMBASSADORS NEEDED As Many of you know, I am but one of the Membership Committee for Temple. Jennifer Sachs, Max Schloff and I are seeking the assistance of members from the various active adult communities throughout the area. Our hope is that, as residents of these communities, you could reach any and all Jewish residents seeking a spiritual home. We will provide you with newly revised trifold brochures to aid you in this role. Call me at 732-505-8204 if you are interested in helping us to grow our temple “family”. Pam Ligorski The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 / Page 3 CANTOR’S MESSAGE On Teaching the Holocaust —The Educational Philosophy of the International School for Holocaust Studies as told by Shulamit Imber, pedagogical director, and other educators, including Yael Eaglstein-Benayoun and Shanie Lourie, at The International School for Holocaust Studies, Yad Vashem, transcribed from a video on the Yad Vashem website, yadvashem.org This year Yom Hashoah, the day commemorating the victims of the Holocaust, corresponds to the English date of April 16. The Holocaust is a trauma and the question for the teacher is: How do you teach the trauma without traumatizing your students. If a teacher doesn’t have the philosophy and tools, he can be stuck. Here is the applied model we developed at Yad Vashem of how to teach the Holocaust. Rescuing the Individual from Anonymity—Six million Jews were killed in the Holocaust. People cannot grasp this huge number. Therefore, we focus on individuals, families and communities that were lost in the Holocaust. Pre-war life—Our approach to teaching the Holocaust is to start with the Jewish victim, because that’s the essence of the Holocaust story. In order to do that, we start with life before the war. We’re trying to understand their life before, the rich life they had, the culture. They had different political movements, youth movements and sports clubs, and together with that we can give back the faces and names to the victims. We also deal with topics that the students can relate to, for example: tradition versus modernity, children rebelling against parents, and in that way, we want to present the Jews as living people. Life in a World of Chaos —Focusing on everyday life during the Holocaust does not mean we avoid the topic of death. People who lived through the Holocaust were in constant contact with death. People were constantly confronted with the need and necessity to make very crucial decisions and every choice they made essentially, was a bad choice. As the scholar Lawrence Langar said, they were living in a world of “choiceless choices”. When teaching about daily life in the Holocaust, we present different dilemmas. For example: Is it justifiable to send a young child outside of the ghetto to bring food for his family, when he’s risking his life? The child is risking his life, not the adult. Is it right to give up your portion, your food ration, which is very, very small, to purchase a prayerbook? What is more important? A lot of parents were confronted with the question of should I send my child into hiding? Not knowing what’s happening to him, not knowing what care he’s going to get, not even knowing if it was going to lead to saving his life. We teach dilemmas for empathy, not for judgement. Teachers shouldn’t role-play with Holocaust education. Students can’t put themselves in the extreme situations these people were in the Holocaust. The Survivors’ Return to Life—It isn’t obvious that after the Holocaust the survivors would return to life. We would have expected that maybe they would be obsessed with revenge, but instead they found the strength and chose to rebuild their lives and get an education, to contribute to society - and in that way to rebuild what the Nazis tried to destroy. One of our ways to deal with this topic in class with our students is bringing a survivor and listening to his story in person or watching a documentary where we have stories of individual survivors, and through that we learn about their life before, during, and after the Holocaust. To summarize, the Jewish victim is the center of our educational approach. We start with life before the Holocaust, showing the Jew as a living person in society. Then we explore how they survived and lived in a world of chaos, and we end with the survivors returning to life with strength and energy. Murderers, bystanders, and rescuers —The Holocaust took place in western society, in the midst of Europe, in the modern era at the hands of people who were living together for generations, who later became murderers, bystanders and rescuers. Because of this humanistic, universal aspect of the Holocaust, it should be relevant to every person in every society. From an educational point of view, we start with the bystanders before we start with the perpetrators. The bystander represents the majority of people during the Holocaust. Some of the people who are recognized by Yad Vashem as Righteous Among the Nations, didn’t start off that way. Ultimately they were bystanders, but at some point they made a choice. A good example is Jan Zabinski, he was the director of the zoo and he made a choice — to use the cages of the animals to hide the Jews. He said: “I didn’t save their lives because they were Jewish, I saved their lives because they were human beings. I simply fulfilled my human duty.” When we deal with the perpetrators- the Germans and the people who helped them- we have to keep in mind that these people performed the evils of most evils. But we also as educators have to ask ourselves the question: Were they ordinary people, or were they some kind of monsters who emerged from nowhere? Of course the answer would be that they were ordinary people… We also have as teachers to keep in mind, and to remind our students, that we are not going to have a clear-cut answer to this huge question: How is this humanly possible? Cantor Forman The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 / Page 4 PRESIDENT'S MESSAGE What a welcome sight -- spring has sprung. Welcome back to all of our Snow Birds. We hope you had an enjoyable winter. As we celebrate the Festival of Pesach, we are reminded that this is the Season of Our Liberation and is not merely the Liberation from Egyptian bondage, but also our freedom to exercise our free will and to be able to practice our Jewish faith without any restrictions. This is the meaning of the highly significant passage in the Haggadah: "In every generation a Jew should see himself as though he personally has been liberated from Mitzrayim [Egypt]." Let's not take our Jewish faith for granted and let's remember to promote Jewish causes. There is still anti-Semitism, even in our own towns, local high school students in Jackson were recently reprimanded for ignorant anti-Semitic comments. We have to cherish our freedom to be able to worship and study Torah and we have to work together to preserve our Jewish community. The Jewish children in Egypt received the proper Jewish education (under the most adverse conditions!), and our whole Jewish people grew strong and numerous and we were able to be liberated from Egyptian slavery. So let's continue to make Beth Am Shalom a place where our children can flourish and not only receive a Jewish education, but learn Jewish values of strength and unity. We can grow strong as a congregation. We are liberated, but let's remember why we were held as slaves and set our goals high enough to meet the challenges and opportunities of these times. I thank all those who tirelessly give of themselves and volunteer to help make Beth Am Shalom the special place it is. I want to reach out to all of our members to become more involved with our synagogue. Come and enjoy a Shabbat service, mingle with your fellow congregants during the Oneg, join a club or volunteer to help. Let's cherish our freedom to worship and let’s worship together. As I quoted previously, Rabbi Tarfon said "It is not for you to finish the work, yet you are not free to avoid it". On behalf of the Executive Committee and Board of Trustees, I want to wish all of you a happy and healthy Passover. B'Shalom, Francine Gimpel, President RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Cell Phone: (732) 551-4054 April Birthdays: Yom Wholedit Samayach – Happy Birthday to: Abigail Bell, 10 Iyar**Lindsay Boterus, 28 Adar II**Jacob Bussell, 28 Adar II Jack Capecci, 26 Nisan**Jordan Craig, 8 Nisan**Caitlyn Eisenstein, 5 Iyar**Ruth Fossetta, 1 Iyar Marissa Fox, 25 Nisan**Anthony Giudice, 15 Nisan**Jacob Lakatos, 5 Iyar**Paulina Manekas, 21 Nisan Daniel Mopsick, 21 Nisan**Dana Shafranek, 27 Adar II**Ilana Vasslides, 7 Nisan Jessica Wishnick, 26 Nisan**Rebecca Witkin, 4 Nisan**Julia Yuson, 2 Iyar**Evan Yuson, 6 Nisan Mazel Tov to Max Friedeman and his family on his becoming Bar Mitzvah this month. Many thanks to those of you who continue to support our Religious School with your generous donations. Shelly Newman Religious School Chair The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 / Page 5 The Men’s Club of Beth Am Shalom and the Blue Claws are joining forces in a Temple fundraiser. Purchase vouchers and choose from over 70 games this season – many with promotional giveaways. Vouchers can be redeemed for same day or advance game tickets (your choice) at the Blue Claws box office or may be redeemed by calling Kyle Volp at (732) 901-7000 Vouchers are $11.00 per ticket. Please make your checks payable to: BAS Men’s Club To purchase vouchers, contact: Carl Nelson: [email protected] or (732)929-0866 Marvin Wasserman: [email protected] or (732)575-8539 JEWISH HERITAGE NIGHT At the Blue Claws Sunday, April 26, 2015 at 1:05PM (Gates open at 12:00PM) “Israel Matters” presented by Stand with Israel Kosher food Autograph signing by NY Yankees Great, Ron Blomberg Israel National Anthem Parade on field And more! To purchase your voucher ($11), contact: Carl Nelson: [email protected] or (732)929-0866 Marvin Wasserman: [email protected] or (732)575-8539 Please make checks payable to “BAS Men’s Club” The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 / Page 6 MEN'S CLUB At our March meeting, Rabbi Gold asked if the Men’s Club would make a barbecue for the Religious School. The vote was negative due to the fact the Religious School has money in their treasury. The Men’s Club would consider helping with the labor but not expend any of its money. The April 19th meeting will have a guest speaker discussing the pros and cons of "reverse mortgage." Is it for you? The program will include questions & answers. We request that you call the office advising us of your intention attend. We welcome Men’s Club members in addition to all members of Beth Am Shalom. Your notification will help us plan of size of the meeting room. In the future, each meeting will have a guest speaker on topics that will interest all. We welcome non-members to the Men’s Club. Don't forget that new members of Beth Am Shalom are entitled to join the Men's Club free of dues for the first year. All meetings will be held on the third Sunday of each month, unless otherwise notified of a change. All meetings will start at 9:15 with a free breakfast: bagels with all the fixing’s, coffee, tea, or water. Regular business follows at 9:30am and ends at 11am. Look forward to see y'all. Get the most out of temple by being involved. Respectfully, Marvin Weiss, President The Men’s Club’s main purpose is to help and assist Beth Am Shalom and to foster goodwill and friendship among its members. Initial annual membership is free. Thereafter, dues are $30 per fiscal year which starts on July 1 and ends on June 30 of the following year. SISTERHOOD Mark the date for Sisterhood’s Annual Mahjongg/Card/Game Party: May28, 2015 from 12:30 – 4:30PM (Details to follow) Women of Beth Am Shalom On Monday, March 16th, Rene Lomell came to the Women of BAS Book Club meeting to share stories about her father, Bud Lomell who was one of the WWII heroes described in Tom Brokaw's book, The Greatest Generation. The Book Club’s next meeting is scheduled for April 9, 2015 at 7:15PM. The book is: “Still Alice” by Lisa Genova Lisa Gertner would like a volunteer to lead the April meeting as she will be unavailable. Please contact her. The Shofar / Volume 3, Iss5 Page7 The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 //Page TZEDAKAH YAHRZEIT FUND Harriet Reisberg in loving memory of Ilse & Paul Wolff Myrna & Irwin Sachs in loving memory of her father, Israel Balous Myrna & Irwin Sachs in loving memory of his mother, Lillie Sachs The Sacks Family in loving memory of Sidney Bauman Lynn Silverman in loving memory of her brother-in-law, Alex Silverman Francine Gimpel in loving memory of her mother, Helen Hill Howard & Lois Geschwind in loving memory of her beloved father, Harry Isaacs Robert & Roberta Krantz in loving memory of his mother, Henrietta Krantz Carl & Tama Nelson in loving memory of his mother, Marion Nelson Helen & Harold Wechsler in loving memory of her father, Max Leff Norman Katz in loving memory of his father, Louis Katz Lois & Larry Benjamin in loving memory of her mother, Lily Albert Pearl Epstein in loving memory of her sister, Jeannette Gilbert Barbara Woldow in loving memory of her father, Abraham Hendler Marilyn Gilbert in loving memory of her grandson, Scott Avella Dr. & Mrs. Joseph Gluck in loving memory of his mother, Rose Gluck Phyllis & Arnold Schlisserman in loving memory of his mother, Ida Schlisserman Lynn & Steven Kaban in loving memory of her mother, Miriam Radow Gloria Safran in loving memory of her husband, Burton Safran Rose & Sheldon Fialkoff in loving memory of her mother, Helen Farbman Helen & Howard Koslow in loving memory of her mother, Ester Feldman Helen & Howard Koslow in loving memory of her brother, Harold Feldman Florence Markowitz in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Francine Gimpel in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Vallerie & Brian Magory in loving memory of Lucena Yuson Vallerie & Brian Magory wishes a speedy recovery to Richard Eisenstein Hy & Judy Rabiner in loving memory of her father, Monroe Saul Mike & Jacky Philips in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Irene Strausberg in loving memory of her mother-in-law, Dorothy & Fischel Myers in loving Fanny Zarodnick memory of Ellen Shurak Irene Strausberg in loving memory of her mother, Sarah Silver Pearl Epstein in loving memory of her husband, Lawrence Epstein Jerry & Corinne Ledbetter in loving memory of Bernice Salowe Francine Gimpel Sends Get Well Wishes to Richard Eisenstein The Klapouchy Family in loving memory of Holli’s father, Joseph Panzer Mike & Jacky Philips send Get Well Wishes to Harriet Frankenberg David & Yvette Atkins his grandmother, Pauline Krauss Mike & Jacky Philips send Get Well Wishes to Richard Eisenstein Lucille & Seymour Berger in loving memory of her mother, Farncine Share TREES Helene Mandelbaum in loving memory of her husband, Arthur Mandelbaum The Friedeman Family in loving memory of Steven’s grandfather, Erich Friedeman Helene & Harold Wechsler in loving memory of Rachel Postman Helene & Harold Wechsler in loving memory of Stanley Rubenstein Maxine & Joel Albaum in loving memory of Hugh Bleiweis The Friedeman Family in loving memory of Samantha’s grandfather, Salvatore Pergola Jacky & Mike Philips in honor of the 50th Anniversary of Harriet & Murray Weinberg Arlene Grasso in loving memory of her husband, Joseph Grasso Francine Gimpel in loving memory of Sharon Pihonack Gloria Safran in loving memory of her mother, Shirley Forman Francine Gimpel in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Al & Sue Rutsky in loving memory of his father, Herman Rutsky Judy & Yaacov Eisak in loving memory of Lorraine Caris Francine Gimpel in loving memory of Gerry Diament GENERAL FUND Mary Ann Pastino in loving memory of Dustin Joseph Friedland Diane Hyra in loving memory of Lila Simms Caren Bonadies in loving memory of Gerry diament Carol Steinmiller in loving memory of Bernice Salowe Continued on Pages 8 & 11 The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 /Page 8 TZEDAKAH cont'd MERRILL POLLINGER SCHOLARSHIP FUND 2014 – 2015 RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY MildredFUND Drukaroff and CEMETERY FUND CIRCLE OF FRIENDS David Drukaroff in honor of their neighbors who remembered them on Purim Wayne & Rose Friedland Sonya Wallace: “Mazel Tov Sally & Bill Bassoff on your new home” to Lucille & Seymour Berger Barbara Woldow in loving Fran Gimpel Wayne & Rose Friedland memory of Frances Goldstein Howard & Lois Geschwind Francine Gimpel RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND Ben Goldberg Dwight Halpern YOUTH GROUP Sonya Wallace & Family Judy & Marty Lefsky in loving memory of Joan & Marvin Weiss in loving Jacky & Mike Philips Milton Itell memory of the mother of Marilyn & Jack Sabo Eileen Reed Max & Barbara Schloff Sonya Wallace sends a Mazel Tov Dollie Sussna to Lois Pollinger on the marriage Joan & Marvin Weiss in loving of her grandson Jeffrey to Alison memory of the grandmother of Mark Eiger SUSTAINING MEMBERS BINGO FUND William & Dorothy Freiman Wayne & Rose Friedland The Ligorski Family Vallerie & Brian Magory Dennis & Shelly Newman Helene & Harold Wechsler Joan & Marvin Weiss in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Mike & Jacky Philips: “Mazel Tov on your new home” to Mike & Jacky Philips REFUAH SHLEIMA Delores Ackerman Maxine Albaum Andrea Avella Lillian Bauman Linda Bell Phyllis Berger Jeff Besougloff Brandon Bravo Tim Burkhardt Scott Bussell Karen Castor Barbara Chester Roy Craig Sr. Bill Davis Roslyn Davis Mildred Drukaroff Brooke Ducey Dov Eisak Richard Eisenstein Trish Frankenberg Charlotte Freedman Shawn Friedman Lane Galloway Leonard Gibel Marilyn Gibel Marilyn Gilbert Linda Gillick Michael Gillick Alan Goodman Jessica Guber Caryn Habermann Walter Jackowski Mark Kaban Stacey Kalb Rob Kalp Steve Kayne Tyler Keats Barry Koopersmith Claire Kramer Rayna Kravetz Marty Lefsky Rose Levine Linda Lutkiewicz Ira Matthews Linda Millet Rosemarie Moore Marie Morgadonna Judy Nadler Ava Nebbia Lynn Palin Nikhil Patten Rubie Puritz Robin Ratliff Wendy Rubenstein Ron Salsbury Sigmund Schwartz Roz Terzi Donald Thailer Joyce Tirandola Deanne Tolchin Melody Triano David Vienick Alexandra Warren Michelle Watkison Barbara Woldow Lilyan Wolf The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 /Page 9 YAHRZEITS April 17 April 3 Fannie Deutch Barbara Gelbein Joseph Grasso Belle Goldman Himmelstein Nathan Moss Sarah Padgursky Irving Pukel Morris Ritzer Herman Rutsky Georgette Sayah Francine Share Susan Broth Emil Frankenberg Richard Gartenberg Regina Goldberg Mollie Isaacs Hannah Kostick Dorothy Lesson Abraham Levy Morris Lustgarten Frieda Newman Irving Padgursky Ida Rutskly Nathan Sacks Leonard Silber Louis Silver Arthur Strausberg Jack Strausberg Jesse Vertun George Weinberg April 10 Martha Baker Max Baker Joann Freiman Morris Kirshen Faye Meyers Anna Myers Miriam Radow Martin Rudenstein Abraham Sasson Joel Schnitzer Sally Wiener April 24 Eva Atkins Lottie Balous Alexandra Ganezer Samuel Kushner Celia Leff Bertha Levine Arthur Mandelbaum Sylvia Pergola Walter Silberg Blanka Strauss Leonard Wallace Rebecca Wechsler Ada Weiss When observing a Yahrzeit, please check the Kaddish list to be sure your loved one’s name is included. If omitted, please inform Rabbi Gold so he can add it to the list. The Kaddish list is displayed on the Yahrzeit Wall. The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 /Page 10 MEMORIALS Beth Olam Cemetery Located at 1235 Highway 70 in Lakewood A perpetual care memorial park with ground level grave markers only. For information and availability, contact: Sonya Wallace – (732)323-8722 or Temple Office – (732)363-2800 * * * * * * * * * * Toms River Jewish Cemetery Whitty Road, Toms River Section One reserved for Jewish decedents, with traditional upright grave markers. Section Two reserved for non-Jewish decedents, with ground level grave markers only. Section Three reserved for Jewish decedents, with ground level grave markers only. For information and availability, contact: Michael Philips – (732)323-0012 or Temple Office – (732)363-2800 When Tragedy Strikes Tragedy often comes suddenly and unannounced, therefore, it is wise to plan for the eventuality when death touches us. We want to be there for you, and accordingly, we have prepared this emergency guideline, which we hope you will save: 1. 2. 3. If a loved one becomes seriously ill and is taken to the hospital, please call Rabbi Gold at his temple office. If the situation is grave, do not hesitate to call Rabbi Gold at his home: (848)222-4912. If the Rabbi is unavailable, we do have contingency plans. Please call a Temple Officer or Committee Chairperson listed below: The Rabbi, Cantor, Officers and Members of the Congregation extend their heartfelt sympathy to . . . The Itell Family on the loss of Milton Itell The Salowe Family on the loss of Bernice Salowe Stan Lechner & Family on the loss of Ellen Shurak The Philips Family on the loss of Sharon Pihonack The Yuson Family on the loss of Lucena Yuson Memorializing Our Loved Ones Temple has different ways for you to keep alive the memory of your loved ones. STONE “HONOR WALL” Large Tile.........................$10,000 Medium Tile..........................5000 Small Tile.............................2500 BRASS PLAQUES Large Plaque.......................$1250 Sanctuary Seat ......................500 Honorial/Memorial ....................250 BRONZE YAHRZEIT PLAQUES.....$250 PATIO PAVER .............................150 TREE OF LIFE LEAF......................125 Francine Gimpel..................... (732)657-7120 Bill Mullis .............................. (732)276-7483 Vallerie Magory..................... (732)295-1150 Cemetery Committee: Sonya Wallace ...................... (732)323-8722 Mike Philips........................... (732)323-0012 EXTERIOR TREE MEMORIALS.......500 Please contact the Temple Office: ( 732)363-2800 or [email protected] The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 /Page 11 RABBI’S MESSAGE cont’d from Page 1 Some will argue that the principle of mutually assured destruction will temper Iran’s behavior, so we need not worry about its rhetoric. Oh, but I do worry. We are not here talking about the good old Cold War Days. As despicable as Soviet regimes were, their leaders operated with calculated reason. Not so with Iranian governments. Religious extremists are not shy about sacrificing themselves and their own people to exterminate the infidel. Today, we witness Iranian militias battling ISIS—not because they wish to help U.S. efforts or because they hate extremists, it is because they hate Sunnis. In fact, they are committing atrocities against Sunni Muslim non-combatants. Finally, we must not forget that as a State Sponsor of Terrorism, they have been Hezbollah’s patron for decades. While some argue that Netanyahu is pushing us into another war, I would argue that he is sounding an alarm that our government should heed and act upon. As he said, the alternative to a bad deal is not war; the alternative is a better deal! If Iran’s leaders will not accept a better deal, then we should walk away and add sanctions. I hardly wish to add to the suffering of ordinary Iranians, but since sanctions brought Iran to the table before, additional ones will bring them rushing back, since I doubt they want to risk a revolution. They will be happy to sacrifice Iranian lives, but not their hold on power. So, when can international diplomacy go so awry and yet be so right? When it is to deny nuclear weapons to Iran. Rabbi Steve TZEDAKAH cont'd from page 8 ONEG SHABBAT FUND Lynn & Steve Kaban in loving memory of her sister, Susan Broth Fern Frankenberg and Sondra & Joe Ranoff in loving memory of Ellen Shurak Fern Frankenberg and Sondra & Joe Ranoff send Get Well Wishes to Richard Eisenstein Fern Frankenberg and Sondra & Joe Ranoff say Mazel Tov to Mike & Jacky Philips on moving into their new home Fern Frankenberg and Sondra & Joe Ranoff say Mazel Tov to Fran Gimpel on moving into hernew home Joan & Marvin Weiss in honor of their Anniversary March 24 Alvin & Susan Rutsky in honor of their Anniversary April 15 MUSIC FUND An anonymous donation in appreciation for making the Friday night services so special MERRILL POLLINGER SCHOLARSHIP FUND Pearl Epstein congratulates Lois Pollinger on the marriage of her grandson Jeffrey Greenberg to Alison Howard Joyce Himelman congratulates Lois Pollinger on the marriage of her grandson Jeffrey Greenberg to Alison Howard Lenore & Dick Turteltaub in loving memory of his mother, Dora Bloom Turteltaub Lenore & Dick Turteltaub in loving memory of her mother, Mollie Lehman Huckman The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 /Page 12 Trees in Israel Beth Am Shalom is now selling trees in Israel through the Jewish National Fund. Do you have a simcha such as births, birthdays, engagements, weddings, bar/bat mitzvahs or anniversaries that you wish to honor, and/or a death that you want to memorialize? The cost is $18.00 per tree. You can purchase individual trees, a ring of trees (3), a circle of trees (5), or an orchard of trees (10). Please contact Fran Gimpel, 732-657-7120 and give her the name of the honoree or decedent, and the name and address where to send the acknowledgement. (Donations to this program will be listed on the Tzedakh Page) MAKING A DONATION IS EASY In an effort to make it easier for you to help make the office run more efficiently, we request that the form below be used when making a donation. Please fill it out and mail or drop it off at Temple, along with your check. Thank you for your cooperation. (The minimum donation for an acknowledgement card to be sent is $10.00) Funds to which donations can be made are: Rabbi Stanley & Myra Yedwab Adult Academy of Judaism, Merrill Pollinger Scholarship Fund, Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund, Cantor’s Discretionary/Music Fund, Building Fund, General Fund, Oneg Shabbat, Religious School, Cemetery Beautification Fund, Honorial/Memorial, Yahrzeit, Jr. or Sr. Youth Group, Prayer Book* *Please note: while lesser donations are welcome, the cost of a Prayer Book is now $35.00 & large print is $45.00 Please accept the following donation(s) to the fund indicated below: From:______________________________ Please send acknowledgment card to: Address:____________________________ Please send acknowledgment card to: In memory of/in honor of/on the occasion of: In memory of/in honor of/on the occasion of: Fund: _____________________ Fund: __________________ $______ $_______ The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10 / Page 13 BLOOMFIELD-COOPER JEWISH CHAPELS, Inc. Since 1978, the Bloomfield Family has managed And operated funeral Chapels with traditional Jewish values, dignity, care and respect. Located in: Lakewood • Ocean • Manalapan 1-800-247-5235 L. Bloomfield Dir/Mgr. NJ Lic. #3357 A. Bloomfield Mgr./Dir. NJ Lic. #4074 CEMETERY BEAUTIFICATION FUND The Toms River Jewish Cemetery on Whitty Road: We would like to pave the driveway from the entrance into the cemetery itself making it more accessible. Beth Olam Memorial Park on Highway 70: We have beautiful pillars at the entrance way that have deteriorated through the years and are in need of resurfacing. They are an important part of the entrance to the cemetery as well as to the temple. You may specify to which cemetery you would like to donate, and also if you would like it to be in honor of someone. Let’s all get together and make these improvements in memory of our loved ones. Contact the office with any questions: (732) 363-2800 Beth Am Shalom Memorial Park Toms River Jewish Cemetery Cemetery Committee The Shofar / Volume 8, Issue 10/ Page 14 By Invitation Only Complete Party & Design Service Invitations * Calligraphy * Centerpieces * Decorations Balloons * Party & Wedding Favors * Sign-In Boards Unique & Custom Giftware * All Business Printing Tel. (732) 363-4754 Fax (732) 364-4441 Cell (732) 600-9897 Judie Singer 11 Cathedral Drive Lakewood, NJ 08701 BETH AM SHALOM CHAVURAH GROUP Meets the 3rd Thursday of every month at 1:00PM For information call: Jacky Philips at (732) 323-0012 or Charlotte Ehrmann at (732) 349-2715 BETH AM SHALOM 1235 Highway 70 Lakewood, NJ 08701 BETH AM SHALOM Religious School Calendar Emergency number during school hours: (732) 551-4054 1235 Highway 70 Lakewood, NJ 08701 Ph: 732-363-2800 Fax: 732-363-7823 Religious School Cell: 732-551-4054 2007-2008 Religious School Calendar 2007-2008 Religious School Calendar MONTH CLOSED Wed. 4th: Erev Purim Service & Megilla Sun. 8th: Purim Carnival at Temple Beth Or Sun. 29th: Model Seder, L-3 & 6 Tue. 31st: Model Seder, 4 & 5, 7-9 Friday, 6th: 4th Grade Service March Rabbi Stephen D. Gold Cantor Alisa T. Forman Rabbi Stanley Yedwab, Rabbi Emeritus Francine Gimpel, President April 5, 7 May 10 Bill Mullis, Vice President Vallerie Magory, 2nd VP Joan Weiss, Financial VP David Friedman, Treasurer Rochelle Newman, Secretary Barbara Hankins, Office Admin / Editor Barbara & Henry Yuson, Webmasters Glenn Nozek, Facebook Check out our Website & Facebook Page: www.bethamshalom.org https://www.facebook.com/BethA mShalomLakewood SPECIAL EVENTS Tues. 21st: Israel Independence Celebration Friday, 2nd: Family Service Friday, 1st: 3rd Grade Service Friday 29th: Confirmation Last Sessions: Sunday, May 17th, Grades K-6 Tuesday, May 19th: Grades 7 & 8 * Grades K-3 will be participating in all family services. Although attendance is not mandatory, it is a learning experience, enjoyable for the children, and an honor to be called up to the Bima. Please help your children to have this wonderful experience as often as possible. Beth Am Shalom: Reform Jewish Congregation, Est. July 2007 by the merger of Temple Beth Am and Temple Beth Shalom. Member of the Jewish Federation of Ocean County and Union for Reform Judaism. The Shofar is a monthly periodical. Annual Subscription cost for mailing is $35. Issue Date: April 2015, Volume 8, Issue Number 10
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