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Healing the JOHN PAUL II Healing Center Transformation in the Heart of the Church Whole Person Workbook & Journal Dr. Bob Schuchts JPII HEALI NG CENTER 2927 Kerry Forest Parkway Tallahassee, Florida 32312 www.JPIIHealingCenter.org Copyright © 2015 by Dr. Bob Schuchts All Rights Reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the expressed written permission of Dr. Bob Schuchts. Printed in the United States of America. All images used with permission. Scripture texts, unless expressed, are taken from the New American Bible with Revised New Testament © 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Washington, D.C. and are used by permission of the copyright owner. All Rights Reserved. No part of the New American Bible may be reproduced in any form without the permission in writing from the copyright owner. Cover, The Incredulity of Saint Thomas by Michelangelo Merisi da Caravaggio, 1601. ii “Healing is an essential dimension of the apostolic mission and of Christianity. When understood at a sufficiently deep level, this expresses the entire content of redemption.” Pope Benedict XVI, iii Jesus of Nazareth “May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.” 1 Thessalonians 5:23 “Before {Jesus’} gaze all falsehood melts away. This encounter with him, as it burns us, transforms and frees us, allowing us to become truly ourselves…. His gaze, the touch of his heart heals us through an undeniably painful transformation “as through fire”. But it is a blessed pain, in which the holy power of his love sears through us like a flame, enabling us to become totally ourselves and thus totally of God.” POPE BENEDICT XVI, Spe Salvi, 47 iv Healing the Whole Person Talk 1 Healing the Whole Person Talk 2 Wholeness in Christ Talk 3 Facing our Brokenness Talk 4 Prayer for Inner Healing Talk 5 Redemptive Suffering and Healing Talk 6 Healing Grace and the Sacraments Talk 7 Spiritual Gifts and Healing Talk 8 Living in Freedom Appendix A Meditation on Healing and the Cross The tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil The Tree of Life John Paul II Healing Center Available Resources PAGE 1 Healing the Whole Person Talk #1 Healing the Whole Person A. Wholeness and Communion A.1. Catholic means “according to the whole” “The word ‘catholic’ means ‘universal,’ in the sense of ‘according to the totality’ or ‘in keeping with the whole.’” — Catechism of the Catholic Church, #830 A.2. We are destined to share in holy communion with the Trinity “God’s very being is love. By sending his only Son and the Spirit of Love in the fullness of time, God has revealed his innermost secret: God himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and he has destined us to share in that exchange.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church, #221 B. Broken Communion and Fragmentation B.1. At the fall of mankind, we experienced five broken communions • Between us and God (spiritual) • Between us and others (social) • Within us ... mind and heart (psychological) • Within us ... body and soul (physical) • Between us and nature (ecological) B.2. This resulted in concupiscence and the fragmentation of our personhood “In the loss of grace that was the Fall, in our rebellion against God, all marriages, all the harmonies, disintegrated.” — Steve Kellmeyer, Sex in the Sacred City, page 31 C. Salvation and healing C.1. Healing is central to the Christian faith and our Redemption “Healing is an essential dimension of the apostolic mission and of Christianity. When understood at a sufficiently deep level, this expresses the entire content of redemption.” — Pope Benedict XVI, Jesus of Nazareth, page 176 NOTES PAGE 3 NOTES C.2. The word “salvation” is variously translated as ... save, rescue, deliver, heal and make whole “In the Gospels, the word therapeuo (which means to heal) appears 36 times… the word sozo (which is literally translated ‘to save’) is used to mean ‘to heal’ 12 times … Salvation includes the action of healing … ‘and as many as touched it were made well (saved)’ (Matthew 14:36).” — Fr. Emiliano Tardif, Jesus Lives Today, pages 55—56 D. Jesus’ Mission of Healing D.1. Jesus’ name means “God saves.” The whole history of salvation is God’s intervention into the world to bring healing to our entire being. “Jesus offers a salvation that embraces the whole person. He didn’t come just to save souls. He is concerned with the total person, which means both the soul and the body.” — Fr. Emiliano Tardif, Jesus Lives Today, page 56 D.2. Isaiah prophesied that the Messiah would heal us completely Physically “Say to those whose hearts are frightened: Be strong, fear not! Here is your God, he comes with vindication; With divine recompense he comes to save you. Then will the eyes of the blind be opened, the ears of the deaf be cleared; Then will the lame leap like a stag, then the tongue of the dumb will sing. Streams will burst forth in the desert, and rivers in the steppe.” — Isaiah 35:4—6 Spiritually “But he was pierced for our offenses, crushed for our sins, upon him was the chastisement that makes us whole, by his stripes we were healed.” — Isaiah 53:5 Psychologically “The spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me; He has sent me to bring glad tidings to the lowly, to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives and release to the prisoners, To announce a year of favor from the Lord and a day of vindication by our God, to comfort all who mourn.” — Isaiah 61:1—2 E. Healing and Mercy E.1. Jesus’ healing is an expression of God’s merciful love and compassion PAGE 4 “The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in love. The Lord is good to all, compassionate to every creature.” — Psalm 145:8—9 E.2. “In the study of the Lord’s compassion we have a complete revelation of the Lord’s willingness to heal. During his earthly ministry He was everywhere moved with compassion and healed all ‘them that had need of healing’ ... In the Scriptures, compassion and mercy mean the same thing.” — F.F. Bosworth, Christ the Healer, page 70 E.3. God’s love sees us in our wholeness “Whoever truly wishes to heal man must see Him in his wholeness and must know that His ultimate healing can only be God’s love.” — Pope Benedict XVI, Jesus of Nazareth, page 177 F. Types of Healing F.1. We are comprised of a body, soul, and spirit in unity “Although a human person is composed of Body, Soul and Spirit (1st Thessalonians 5:23), the person is one and indivisible. We distinguish these three aspects only for clarity of understanding. It is impossible to distinguish exactly how the body, the soul and the spirit interrelate, but it is certain that each part affects the others in a variety of ways and that we must look for health in each of these parts if we want a fully healthy human being.” — Fr. Emiliano Tardif, Jesus Lives Today, page 54 F.2. Basic types of healing and integration “While there are different kinds of healing, it is important to see their interrelatedness, as Dr. Philipe Madre has insisted: ‘it is always the whole person, in his or her deepest unity, that receives a grace of healing and not just a part of them, be that physical or psychological or spiritual.’ While one cannot draw a direct line from sickness to sin (c.f. John 9:2), there are many instances where forms of sickness, physical or psychological, have their origins in sin and in resistance to the will of God: • Physical healing (healing of physical body, inside and out) • Psychological healing (healing of wounds to human psyche: mind, heart) • Spiritual healing (deliverance from sin and evil, filling with Holy Spirit) • Spiritual blessing, reconciliation with God” — Doctrinal Commission of ICCRS, Guidelines on Prayers for Healing, pages 37—38 F.3. We may also speak of other types of social and ecological healing • Healing of relationships (marriage, family, community) • Intergenerational healing (family tree) • Healing of Body of Christ (from division to wholeness) • Healing of society (justice ministries regarding poverty, discrimination) • Healing of spaces and territories or nature — Doctrinal Commission of ICCRS, Guidelines on Prayers for Healing, pages 38—39 NOTES PAGE 5 NOTES G. Fragmentation in the Healing Professions G.1. In our theology, we may insist on the integration of the person, but in practice we are all too willing to accept fragmentation. In practice we often think of a physical illness as just that—physical—and we look for help strictly at a physical level. Similarly we do the same for emotional and spiritual problems. Too often, we treat these as totally distinct illnesses and seek help from totally different sources. G.2. Healing, which has always been the domain of the Church, has become a “professional” enterprise over the years. Presently we have “professional healers” who rely on science as the source of healing. God is often nowhere in the picture. • Physicians and other medical personnel ... treat the physical body • Mental health professionals ... treat the “psyche” (soul) • Priests and Ministers ... treat the spiritual dimensions G.3. Professional healing further fragments the person into parts. Think of all the specialty areas that treat the human body when it is ill: • Neurology • Ears, Nose and Throat • Digestive • Endocrinology G.4. There are five distinctive classifications in Florida for healing “psyche” • Psychiatrist—Focusing on the intersection of mind and body • Psychologist—Focusing primarily on testing and mental illness • Marital and Family Therapist—Focusing on relationships in the family • Social Worker—Focusing on social networks and community healing • Mental Health Counselor—More of a generalist category G.5. “For 100 years, western culture has wrongly regarded soul disease as a psychological disorder. ... Behind all soul disease lies a determination to avoid worship (requiring the humility of brokenness and the central value of forgiveness) and service (requiring that our passion for God’s glory be PAGE 6 stronger than all other passions) in search of personal wholeness.” — Dr. Larry Crabb and Dwight Edwards, The Power of Connecting, page 7 H. Healing and the Church H.1. We need to fully restore the ministry of healing to the Church “Your experience of prayer and healing, particularly inner healing, will be NOTES valuable, for it will help re-actualize a charism which was very familiar to the primitive Church and forms part of our Christian heritage” — Cardinal Leon-Joseph Suenens, Renewal and the Powers of Darkness, page 102 H.2. Health Care has always been associated with the Church throughout history “The history of health care has been intimately interwoven with the history of the Church. The Church has always been involved in the care for the sick and in their restoration to wholeness. One example is nursing care, always the domain of the church until 20th century. Most often nuns were nurses, more than a profession—a vocation.” — Dr. Harold Koenig, Lecture H.3. New Age sees wholeness, but fails to see the ultimate source of healing Ironically the New Age Movement, which is rooted in the heresy of “Docetism,” is much more integrated in its view of healing the whole person. Yet, New Age healing also fails to see persons in relation to a personal transcendent God. I. Love is Healing I.1. Deprivation of love is the source of our illnesses “The avoidance, rejection, or deprivation of love is the source of all functional (physical, psychological, and spiritual) illness.” — J. Brennan Mullaney, Authentic Love, page 17 I.2. Only love heals “Love heals. Healing is an integral part of human love. Where love is, healing is constantly occurring.” — J. Brennan Mullaney, Authentic Love, page 17 PAGE 7 NOTES I.3. Love transcends the boundaries of self “When I love you, my heart, the center of the center of me, the spirit of me, leaves the confines of my body and I move into you. If you are lost, even unto yourself, I go in search of you. It is strange this power of love, for sometimes I find you even before you have found yourself, and finding you, I will never let you go.” “Finding you, I stand inside in your shoes, inside your skin, looking out at the world through your eyes, seeing what you see, hearing what you hear, feeling what you feel, not just understanding your heart (empathy), but suffering the pain of your hurts right along with you. When there is grief unwept, buried in your heart my heart grows heavy as I fight away tears with you. You want to cry, but cannot so my throat hurts.” “When you recount the agony of childhood rejection, my chest hurts. When you are unjustly treated, I rage even when you cannot. And when you remain bewildered, still lost, I speak to you with my eyes, silently saying, ‘Here you are - right here! See? You are the one I am loving.’” “Sadly though, as you discover yourself, you rediscover the wounds that sent you into hiding, and with those wounds comes pain boiling up from the deep, and my heart suffers right along side of you. Finally then, you cry, and I taste salt.” “But when you sing, my heart burns along in harmony. Inside you, I can see clearly the beauty, the courage, the honesty, all your virtues - the unique goodness that you are. Here inside you, I can see, absorb, and unite with the spirit of you that may not have been apparent at all from the outside.” “Here, within, I can see unique value, strengths, and wonderful yearnings that no one could see from the outside—goodness buried beneath pain and pain’s obnoxious symptoms and defenses that may have pushed people away. Loving you, I experience you from outside in and inside out simultaneously; I remain me while growing in oneness with you, uniting with you, and in a very real way, albeit mysteriously, PAGE 8 becoming you.” — J. Brennan Mullaney, Authentic Love, pages 18-19 Journaling Activity: Encountering Jesus 1. NOTES Read Isaiah 61: 1. Isaiah 61: 1-2 The spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me, because the LORD has anointed me; He has sent me to bring good news to the afflicted, to bind up the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, release to the prisoners 2. Apply the promise of Jesus to your life. 2a. In what ways has your heart been broken? Be specific. 2b. Where have you been imprisoned, or spiritually bound? Be specific. 2c. What personal afflictions do you need healed? Be specific. PAGE 9 Journaling Activity continuted JOURNAL EXERCISE 3. Meditate on the image entitled The Good Samaritan. The artist, Johann Karl Loth, depicts the Good Samaritan as an image of Jesus. Notice the details of the painting. Notice the thoughts, feelings, and desires that stir in your heart as you pray with the painting. Write out a prayer acknowledging the areas you mentioned in question #2. Ask Jesus to speak to your heart about what he desires to do for you. PAGE 10 Healing the Whole Person Talk #2 Wholeness in Jesus Christ A. Wholeness in Christ in Saint Paul’s letter to the Ephesians A.1. Ephesians chapters 1—3 establishes our identity and security in Christ “For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven NOTES and on earth is named, that he may grant you in accord with the riches of his glory to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in the inner self, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the holy ones what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” — Ephesians 3:14-19 A.2. Ephesians chapter 4 lays out a vision for our growth and maturity in Christ “But grace was given to each of us according to the measure of Christ’s gift … for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of faith and knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the extent of the full stature of Christ. ... living the truth in love, we should grow in every way into him who is the head, Christ ... from whom the whole body ... brings about the body’s growth and builds itself up in love.” — Ephesians 4:7-16 A.3. Ephesians 5-6 describes our life of purity in Christ “So be imitators of God, as beloved children, and live in love, as Christ loved us and handed himself over for us as a sacrificial offering to God for a fragrant aroma. Immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be mentioned among you, as is fitting among holy ones, no obscenity or silly or suggestive talk, which is out of place, but instead, thanksgiving. Be sure of this, that no immoral or impure or greedy person, that is, an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.” — Ephesians 5:1-5 PAGE 11 NOTES B. Human Development and Wholeness purity The fruit of love maturity Growth in love security Rooted and grounded in love B.1. Security ... “rooted and grounded in love” “The root of the word ‘affirmation’ is ‘firm.’ In the language of Saint Paul, affirmation means to help the ‘hidden self ’ of another ‘grow strong’ or firm, through the quality of our presence (Ephesians 3:16). “Our sense of belonging comes from what psychiatrist Dr. Conrad Baars calls ‘affirmation.’ … ‘Unaffirmed’ ... is another way of describing a person whose inner core is not firm and who feels disconnected, first of all from his or her real self … Unaffirmed people cannot ‘grow up’ until their core is made firm through the gift of affirming, unconditional love. … Unaffirmed people did not make themselves so. No human being chooses to feel insecure and inferior.” — Dennis Linn et al., Belonging, page 87 PAGE 12 “We cannot affirm ourselves … we can open ourselves to receive affirmation and we can build on what we receive, but first it is a gift that we receive from others. “We cannot become our true selves until another person affirms us. ... We become our true selves when we see our goodness reflected back to us in the eyes of another person who loves us. ” — Dennis Linn et al., Belonging, page 90 B.2. Maturity ... “growing up into the fullness of Christ” “Maturity is about reaching one’s God-given potential. It means maximizing our skills and talents and using them effectively, while growing into the full capacity of our individual design” — Dr. James Friesen et. al, The Life Model, page 29 “It is characteristic of mature love that it calls into play all man’s potentialities; it engages the whole man, so to speak. Contact with the visible manifestations of God’s love can awaken within us a feeling of joy born of the experience of being loved. But this encounter also engages our will and our intellect. ... But this process is always open-ended; love is never ‘finished’ and complete; throughout life, it changes and matures, and thus remains faithful to itself ” — Pope Benedict XVI, Deus Caritas Est, #17 B.3. Purity ... “glorify God with your body” “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, which you have from God? You are not your own; you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” — 1 Corinthians 6:19—20 “The reason for Christian purity is precisely in consecration. We are not our own; we belong to the Lord. We cannot use our bodies for our own pleasure, for some personal satisfaction as an end in itself. That is a defilement of the temple of God; it is desecration, the exact opposite of consecration. And how much defilement and desecration we see in the world today?” — Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, Sober Intoxication of the Spirit, page 90 “Christian purity is not a refusal of or a disdain for love. On the contrary, it is the cultivation of love—of true love that is. What the world calls love is usually nothing more than empowered egotism most of the time. No one lives in love without sacrifice, without renunciation. The capacity that people have to give to another is equal to their readiness to deny themselves. Eroticism is the real tomb of love, for it is only an unbridled pursuit of oneself for oneself. … Keep yourselves pure; fall in love with purity! Be the fragrance of Christ.” — Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, Sober Intoxication of the Spirit, pages 91—92 C. Primary Identities C.1. Jesus models the four primary identities of every man NOTES • • • • Son—He is both Son of God and Son of Man (Joseph and Mary) (Luke 1) Brother—Jesus is our brother in sharing a common humanity (Hebrews 4) Bridegroom—Jesus is the Bridegroom that comes to marry the Bride (Ephesians 5) Father—Jesus reveals the Father and has many children (John 14) PAGE 13 NOTES C.2. Mary models the four primary identities of every woman • Daughter - She is daughter of the Father, and of Joachim and Anna • Sister- Mary is our sister in sharing our humanity fully • Bride - Mary was bride of Joseph and Holy Spirit, imaging the Bride, the Church • Mother - Mary is the mother of Jesus, and also our Mother C.3. Every man and woman also matures through these four primary identities • As Sons and Daughters we learn to trust, receive, enjoy, play, and obey • As Brothers and Sisters we learn to share, challenge, support, and belong • As Husbands and Wives we learn to be intimate, chaste, self-giving and united • As Fathers and Mothers we learn to generate, provide, guard, guide and bless D. Psychosexual Development • Attachment (womb to 2)—Develop secure love bonds with mother/ father • • • • PAGE 14 Identification and Attraction (3-5)—Identifying with same sex parent and healthy bond with both parents. Exploring opposite sex attraction. Sex-Role Identification and Peer Group Belonging (6-12)— Social identification and development with peers of sexual identity and relationships Sexual Exploration, Self-Control, and Identity Development (13-22)—Learning how to manage relationships and sexual arousal and attraction; developing a social and personal identity with our sexuality Sexual Fidelity and Fruitfulness (adult)—Living out sexual identity in intimate relationships in family and community as celibate or married persons and being fruitful in that love by reproducing and caring for offspring (Spiritual and natural children). Helping to shape sexual development of others as parents and parental figures. Ages & Stages Primary Identity Psychosexual Challenge Womb to 2 Son or Daughter Bonding 3-5 Son or Daughter Identity and Attraction 6-12 Brother or Sister Belonging and Assimilation 13-22 Brother or Sister Exploration and Self-Mastery 22+ Spouse and Parent Intimacy and Fruitfulness E. Core Questions E.1. Core questions for boys “Little boys want to know, ‘Do I have what it takes?’ All that rough and tumble, all that daring and superhero dress up, all that is a boy seeking to prove that he does have what it takes. He was made in the image of a warrior God. Nearly all a man does is fueled by his search for validation, that longing he carries for an answer to his question” — John and Stasi Eldredge, Captivating, 46 E.2. Core questions for girls “Little girls want to know, ‘Am I lovely?’ The twirling skirts, the dress up, the longing to be pretty and to be seen - that is what it is all about. We are seeking to answer our question. “God gave Eve a beautiful form and a beautiful spirit. She expresses beauty in both. Better, she expresses beauty simply in who she is. Like God, it is her essence” — John and Stasi Eldridge, Captivating, 36 E.3. Rituals of Blessing ... African tribe ritual into manhood — Gordon Dalbey, Healing the Masculine Soul F. Developmental Wounds F.1. Wounds against Security “If the wounds of our childhood were left uncomforted by your earthly father, you may never feel comforted in God’s presence. And you may spend your entire life looking for a place of safety and belonging, longing for a home. “And without mother’s ‘strong’ love, children may grow up with an inherent fear of relationships and life that may be difficult to uproot. “Breaches in the mother’s love whether they were caused intentionally or unintentionally, can leave a wound in a child’s heart that can last a lifetime.” — Jack Frost, Experiencing Father’s Embrace, pages 98, 118, 122 F.2. Wounds against Maturity “The degree of trauma associated with abuse will be related to many factors…. But in every case of abuse the dignity and beauty of the soul has been violated. … With all the factors being equal damage will be in direct proportion to the degree it disrupts the protection and nurturance of the parental bond” — Dr. Dan Allender, The Wounded Heart, pages 36-37 NOTES PAGE 15 NOTES F.3. Wounds against Purity “C. S. Lewis on Masturbation: For me the real evil of masturbation would be that it takes an appetite which, in lawful use, leads the individual out of himself to complete, (and correct) his own personality in that of another and finally in children (and even grandchildren) and turns it back; sends the man back into the prison of himself, there to keep a harem of imaginary brides. And this harem, once admitted, works against ever getting out and really uniting with a real woman. For the harem is always accessible, always subservient, calls for no sacrifices or adjustments and can be endowed with erotic and psychological attractions which no real woman can rival. Among these shadowy brides he is always adored, always the perfect lover; no demand is made on his unselfishness, no mortification ever imposed on his vanity. In the end they become the medium through which he increasingly adores himself… And it is not only the faculty of love which is thus sterilized, forced back on itself, but also the faculty of imagination... Masturbation involves this abuse of imagination in erotic matters... and thereby encourages a similar abuse of all the spheres. After all, almost all the main work of life is to come out of our selves, out of the little dark prison we are all born in. Masturbation is to be avoided as all things are to be avoided which retard this process. The danger is that of coming to love the prison.” — Leanne Payne, The Broken Image, pages 81-82 G. Sacraments Restore Development G.1. Restoring the stages of life “The seven sacraments touch all the stages and all the important moments of Christian life: they give birth and increase, healing and mission to the Christian’s life of faith. There is thus a certain resemblance between the stages of natural life and the stages of the spiritual life” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1210 G.2. Restoring communion with Jesus “God is invisible. Sacraments allow us to touch him. God is incommunicable. Sacraments are our communion with him ... The communion of God and humanity is a living reality in the person of Jesus Christ.” — Christopher West, Good News About Sex and Marriage, page 48 PAGE 16 Baptism United with Jesus through Holy Spirit Reconciliation Restoring purity in Jesus Eucharist Abiding communion with Jesus Confirmation Blessed by Father in union with Jesus Anointing of the Sick Restoring wholeness in Jesus Matrimony Restoring family life in Jesus Holy Orders Restoring Church in Jesus H. Restored Wholeness in Christ H.1.Restored Security NOTES in Christ “To the extent that true Christian community is being formed we can expect the growing presence of healing power. ... A true community is one where the giving of each member is to the point where each accepts responsibility for the other and shares his very self. The teaching of the New Testament is that there is a special power available to those who come together in the name of Jesus” — Fr. Michael Scanlon, T.O.R., Inner Healing Prayer, pages 63-68 H.2.Restored Maturity in Christ “Life brings each of us inescapable traumas that block maturity. God’s redemptive activity comes to us in two ways. He brings healing to our trauma (fear based bonds) and adopts us into his family (love based bonds). Both ways boost us through our blocks to maturity, along the way to wholeness. With these boosts we will be able to live from our hearts He gave us, our true identities will emerge and our relationships with family and community will be characterized by joy” — Dr. James Friesen et. al, The Life Model, pages 26 H.3.Restored Purity in Christ “Purity is a virtue, an aptitude that we acquire through consistent ‘abstention from unchastity.’ In this sense it demands a painful process of crucifying the flesh. But at the same time purity is a gift of the Holy Spirit, given only through redemption in Christ. Purity matures in the heart of the person who cultivates it, to the point that the person enjoys the fruits of the victory won over lust. ” — Mary Healy, Men and Women Are from Eden, pages 48-49 “Chastity is the joyous affirmation of someone who knows how to live selfgiving, free from any form of self-centered slavery ... Chastity makes the personality harmonious. It matures it and fills it with inner peace.” — Pontifical Council for the Family, The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality, #17 PAGE 17 JOURNAL EXERCISE Journaling Activity: Assessing Your Wholeness in Christ 1. Read and Meditate on Hosea 11: 1-4 “When Israel was a child I loved him, out of Egypt I called my son. The more I called them, the farther they went from me, sacrificing to the Baals and burning incense to idols. Yet it was I who taught Ephraim to walk, who took them in my arms; I drew them with human cords and the bands of love; I fostered them like one who raises an infant to his cheeks; yet though I stooped to feed my child, they did not know that I was their healer”. a. Read the passage once to get familiar with the text b. Slowly read the passage a second time c. Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart...and listen...What is he speaking to you through this passage? 2. Describe your attachments with your parental figures (mother, father, grandparents and siblings or others) while growing up. Were you secure in their love? Who was affirming in your life? PAGE 18 Journaling Activity continued 3. Look over the table on Stages of Development. Apply this to your own development. 3a. In what ways did you grow in development according to God’s design? JOURNAL EXERCISE Primary Identity Womb to 2 Son or Daughter Bonding 3-5 Son or Daughter Identity and Attraction 6-12 Brother or Sister Belonging and Assimilation 13-22 Brother or Sister Exploration and Self-Mastery 22+ Psychosexual Challenge Ages & Stages Spouse and Parent Intimacy and Fruitfulness 3b.Where was your growth disrupted? 4. In what ways is purity revealed in your life? 4a. When and how have you experienced losing your sexual purity? 4b. How and when has your sexual purity been restored? 4c.In what specific areas of your sexuality do you desire God’s healing? PAGE 19 NOTES / JOURNALING PAGE 20 Healing the Whole Person Talk #3 Facing our Brokenness A. NOTES Sin A.1. Sin is an offense against God, self and others “Sin is an offense….it is failure in genuine love for God and neighbor caused by a perverse attachment to certain goods. It wounds the nature of man and injures human solidarity.” - Catechism of the Catholic Church, #1849 A.2. Concupiscence, a consequence of sin, diminishes our freedom “Concupiscence brings with it the loss of …. interior freedom…. - St. John Paul II, Theology of the Body, 32:6 A.3.“What I do, I do not understand. For I do not do what I want, but I do what I hate ... For I do not do the good I want, but I do the evil I do not want.” — Romans 7:15, Romasn 7:19 B. Roots of sin B.1. “The root of sin is in the heart of man” — Catechism of the Catholic Church, #1853 B.2. “The tree of knowledge of good and evil…[is a] symbol of the covenant with God broken in man’s heart” — St. John Paul II, Theology of the Body, 4:1 B.3.“To reach it, it is not enough to stop at the surface of human actions. It is necessary to penetrate inside.” — St. John Paul II, Theology of the Body, #24:3 C. Seven Deadly Sins C.1.The early Desert Fathers’ identified seven deadly sins (strongholds of sin) PAGE 21 NOTES C.2. Deadly Sin Idolatry Pride Self Envy Status or Possessions Gluttony Food or Drink Lust Sex or Relationship Anger Control Greed Security or Wealth Sloth Comfort Each of these deadly sins bears bad fruit. “A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known by its fruit.” — Luke 6:43-44 Tree of Anger ... Root, Sin & Fruit fruit—sins of flesh Self-righteousness, judgment, bitterness, resentment, depression, passive-aggressive behavior, gossip, sarcasm fruit—sins of flesh Rage, revenge, retaliation, murder, violence, malice, verbal abuse, insults, slander deadly sin Anger root of sin Ungodly Self-Reliance Each of the deadly sins has a similar root and fruit structure PAGE 22 NOTES D. Sin and Wounds D.1.Sin and wounds have different sources and effects “The source of personal sin is choice: ‘We all like sheep have gone astray …’ (Isaiah 53:6). Wounds were {frequently} inflicted apart from our choice. Sin is an act of self-infliction while a wound is inflicted by the sinful acts of others … and result in a state of emotional woundedness due to misinterpretations made about the act. We did not choose to be hurt, rejected or violated; nevertheless the wound is present.” — Dr. Ed Smith, Theophostic Beyond Tolerable Recovery, page 221 D.2. Sin and wounds have different sources and effects • Personally—the one offending and the one offended (including God) • Socially—“Every sin harms the communion of persons (CCC #953) • Generationally—The consequences are intergenerational (Exodus 20:5) D.3. David’s sin with Bathsheba illustrates all three effects ...Thus says the Lord God of Israel: “The sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised me and have taken the wife of Uriah to be your wife.” Thus says the Lord: ‘I will bring evil upon you out of your own house. I will take your wives while you live to see it, and will give them to your neighbor. — 2 Samuel 12:10-12 D.4.The story of Amnon and Tamar illustrates the consequences “But she answered him, ‘No my brother! Do not shame me! That is an intolerable crime in Israel. Do not commit this insensate deed. Where would I take my shame? And you would be a discredited man in Israel. So please, speak to the king; he will not keep me from you.’ Not heeding her plea, he overpowered her; he shamed her and had relations with her.” — 2 Samuel 13:12-14 “Tamar put ashes on her head and tore the long tunic in which she was clothed. Then, putting her hands to her head, she went away crying loudly.” — 2nd Samuel 13:19 PAGE 23 NOTES E. Seven Deadly Wounds E.1. Wounds are strongholds of mind and emotion based in identity lies “More often than not, the emotional pain we feel in the present tense has been triggered by lie-based thinking, which is rooted in memory. Lie-based thinking is the false belief one holds in memory learned during a specific life event” — Dr. Ed Smith, Healing Life’s Hurts, page 27 E.2. Seven deadly wounds are each a personal taste of hell • • • • • Hell is the experience of complete separation from God. The seven deadly wounds are tastes of hell. They are reflections of experience where we are disconnected from God. Each of the wounds has an “identity distortion” or lie associated with it. Each of these “identity lies” is true of the demons who speak them, but they are not true of us in Christ. Yet these lies often get planted in our hearts as young children through our misinterpretation of painful events. Wounds How they Distort our Identity Abandonment “I am all alone. No one understands me” Shame “I am bad, dirty, perverted ... it’s my fault” Fear “If I trust, speak, confront, I will be hurt or die” Powerlessness “I feel overwhelmed ... I don’t know what to do” Rejection “I am not loved or wanted ... I have no value” Hopelessness “It’s never going to change ... there is no hope” Confusion “I don’t know what is happening to me” — Dr. Ed Smith, Beyond Tolerable Recovery, Appendix E.3. Seven deadly wounds are interrelated with the seven deadly sins • Sin not only causes wounds, it also grows out of wounds. Remember Jesus said, “woe to those who caused these little ones to sin” by wounding them (Matthew 18). • We often sin as a way of trying to escape the suffering caused by the wound. • PAGE 24 We need to examine the area of sin pattern and see behind the sin to the wound that is giving power to the sin. The following example with anger demonstrates (page 37). “When God sees sin He sees pain in us.” NOTES — Saint Julian of Norwich fruit—sins of flesh Self-righteousness, judgement, bitterness, resentment, depression, passive-aggressive behavior, gossip, sarcasm fruit—sins of flesh Rage, revenge, retaliation, murder, violence, malice, verbal abuse, insults, slander deadly sin Anger root of sin Ungodly Self Reliance wounds Rejection, fear, powerlessness lie “I am not loved ... no one wants or desires me ... I am not good enough ... I am not valued or important. lie “I feel helpless ... I don’t know what to do ... everything is out of control” lie “If I trust I’ll be hurt ... I need to protect myself or something bad will happen.” PAGE 25 NOTES F. Bitter Root Judgments and Inner Vows F.1. Bitter root judgments are ways we respond to the hurt of sin “See to it that no one be deprived of the grace of God, that no bitter root spring up and cause trouble, through which many may become defiled.” — Hebrews 12:15 “Stop judging, that you may not be judged. For as you judge, so will you be judged, and the measure with which you measure will be measured out to you” — Matthew 7:1-2 “When we experience a wound and close our hearts in un-forgiveness we inevitably form judgments about the other person, ourselves, or life. These judgments then become restrictions to our heart that cause us to perceive reality with distortions, and limit our ability to experience God’s merciful love and healing presence. We reap what we sow in the areas of judgments. — John and Paula Sandford, The Transformation of the Inner Man, pages 237-266 F.2. Inner Vows are decisions we make to save ourselves from hurt “Again you have heard that it was said to the men of old, ‘You shall not swear (vow) falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn (vow).’ But I say to you, do not swear (vow) at all ... And do not swear (vow) by your head ... Let what you say be simply ‘yes’ or ‘no’; anything more than this comes from evil.” — Matthew 5:33-37 “An inner vow is a determination set by the mind and heart into all the being in early life … There are good and helpful vows as well as destructive ones. Even the good ones need to be released, so that we are not impelled by the flesh, but by the Spirit in freedom. … We must discern in each case whether a vow is in fact at the root of trouble. Where inner vows do lie at the root, seldom are they the sole factor even if major. They work in tandem with bitter roots, resentments and fears, etc.” PAGE 26 — John and Paula Sandford, The Transformation of the Inner Man, pages 191-204 inner vows Promises we make to ourselves out of fear, wounds, or judgments. “I will never be like my mother, father, brother, abuser” “I will not trust or be vulnerable” NOTES beliefs Lies - what we believe about us Judgments - what we believe about others wounds filled with pain G. Spiritual Strongholds G.1. Strongholds are fortresses of our minds and hearts that become prisons “Strongholds are like concrete fortresses we’ve constructed around our lives block by block, ordinarily over the course of years. We created them, whether or not we were aware, for protection and comfort. Remember the shelters in Gideon’s day? Inevitably, however these fortresses become prisons. At some point we realize we no longer control them. They control us.” — Beth Moore, Breaking Free, page 226 G.2. Unconfessed sins and unhealed wounds become strongholds “If you don’t conquer Satan’s temptation right at the threshold of your mind you will begin to mull his thought over, consider it an option and eventually choose to act it out. Repeated acts form a habit and if you exercise a sinful habit long enough, a stronghold will be established in your mind. Once a stronghold has been established you have lost your ability to control your behavior in that area.” — Dr. Neal Anderson, The Bondage Breaker, page 54 PAGE 27 NOTES G.3. Strongholds affect spiritual, psychological, physical and relational health • Spiritual strongholds destory trust and communion with God; distort our perception of who God is • Psychological strongholds fragment our souls, minds, and emotions • Physical strongholds • Relational strongholds may harm our bodies through stress and disease damage trust and intimacy in relationships H. Demonic Strongholds H.1. Demonic influences may hinder our freedom in a particular area of life “Loss of control normally starts small and grows over time in visible control. A lie is planted and believed. A temptation is acted out. A wound is incurred and left to fester. Our life changes according to what we believe—to us it is true. We see the world as we are, not as it is. Just as there is an instant in time when a person with a cold caught it, there is an instant in time when a demon begins executing its plan against a person, when it enters a person, etc... ” — Andy Reese, Sozo Training Manual, page 25 H.2. We need to be able to identify the entryway for these demonic strongholds “I ask the Lord to show me the entryway, the faulty foundations, the lies on which the person has based his thinking … following are some of the most common points of entry: • Response to trauma • Involvement in the occult • Self-inflicted curses (or pacts with the devil) • Circumstances of birth (abandonment and rejection) • Association and environment (friendships or entertainment) • Willful sins (repeated sexual sins out of lust can lead to bondage) • Family sin (family of origin and generations) PAGE 28 — Neal Lozano, Unbound, pages 42-48 I. Barriers to Facing Our Brokenness I.1. Shame keeps us hiding in fear “‘Then the eyes of both were opened, and they realized that they were naked; they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths’ NOTES (Genesis 3:6). This passage, which speaks about the reciprocal shame of the man and the woman as a symptom of the fall … should be considered in its context. Shame touches in that moment the deepest level and seems to shake the very foundation of their existence. ‘I heard the sound of your step in the garden, and I was afraid, because I am naked, and I hid myself ’ (Genesis 3:9-10). A certain fear is always part of the very essence of shame.” — St. John Paul II, Theology of the Body, #27:1 I.2. Pride leads us to put on a false front “Before we examine the advantages of admitting our broken state, let’s look at the disadvantages of pretending. This is what your life will look like if you deny your brokenness: • You will lie constantly for fear that someone will see how ‘messed up’ you are • You will lead a double life - one that is ‘Christian’ and one that is hidden • You will be super spiritual and moralistic in order to throw people off your trail • You will be superficial in your relationships and be what others want you to be • You will feel constantly guilty • You will project a false self because the real self is unacceptable to you • Sometimes you will hate yourself and believe that God hates you These are the characteristics of someone who needs to ‘have it all together’. He is not free to be who he really is.” — Russell Willingham, Breaking Free, page 126 PAGE 29 NOTES J. Facing Our Broken Condition J.1. Admitting our broken condition “You may be wondering what advantage there is to admitting your broken state. Doesn’t that just empower the problem and give glory to Satan and keep you stuck in the victim role? The answer is no. The fact is all of us are broken. We have no choice in that matter. (Romans 8:20). We only have two choices—what form our brokenness will take and whether or not we will admit our brokenness. “However the man who understands the grace of God and admits his broken state has great advantages. If you move in the direction of truth and honesty, this is what your life will look like: • You will not need to hide • You will seek out other honest people whom you can trust with your brokenness • You will know that brokenness is a permanent part of the human condition • You will know that your sexuality is broken and will take time to heal • You will be gracious toward other broken people instead of critical and self-righteous • You will know that change, growth, maturity and wholeness are a process and not an event • You will be patient with yourself, but not permissive • You will live in constant gratitude for a God who accepts you, brokenness and all • That gratitude—not fear and guilt—will be the motive for your obedience” — Russell Willingham, Breaking Free, pages 126-127 J.2. Facing our Negative Emotions “God has created us with the ability to experience negative emotions for a reason! If we can learn to recognize their purpose, negative emotions can be very constructive. Having a negative emotion can actually be a positive experience, if we can learn to return to joy and respond to it appropriately” PAGE 30 — Ed Khouri, Restarting, page 37 Journaling Activity: Facing Your wounds JOURNAL EXERCISE 1. Pray with Psalm 139. O Lord, you have searched me and known me! You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O LORD, you know it altogether. You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high; I cannot attain it. Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence? For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in our book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them. How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you. Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting! 1.a.Read the passage once to get familiar with the text 1.b.Slowly read the passage a second time 1.c.Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart ... and listen ... 2. Using the handout of the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil (See page 87), see how your sins and wounds are interconnected. To do this: 2.a.Reflect upon your habitual sins. What are sins you continue to fall into? Write these on the top of the tree where it reads, “Fruit, Manifestaton of Sin.” Deadly Sin Pride 2.b.Identify the primary deadly sin(s) that keep(s) you bound. Write those in on the trunk of the tree. Envy Gluttony Lust Anger Greed Sloth PAGE 31 Journaling Activity continued ... JOURNAL EXERCISE inner vows 3. Promises we make to ourselves out of fear, wounds, or judgments. “I will never be like my mother, father, brother, abuser” “I will not trust or be vulnerable” beliefs Lies - what we believe about us Judgments - what we believe about others Using the diagram to the left, identify your wounds, beliefs, and vows and record in your journal: wounds filled with pain 3.a.Identify an event where you were wounded. Describe it. What happened? 3.b. Which of the Seven Deadly Wounds did you experience through that event? Wounds Abandonment Shame Fear Powerlessness Rejection Hopelessness 3.c. What beliefs about yourself are held in those wounds? (e.g. Abandonment: I am alone, unprotected, not understood). PAGE 32 Confusion Journaling Activity continued ... JOURNAL EXERCISE 3.d. What judgments did you hold against others from that event? (“Men are selfish; Life is dangerous; etc.”) 3.e. What inner vows did you make in to protect yourself in that wound? (“I will never trust anyone again; I will not be vulnerable; etc.”) PAGE 33 NOTES / JOURNALING 4. Return to the handout of the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil. Fill in the bottom part of the tree by writing in the wounds, beliefs and vows. • Can you see how your sins and wounds are interconnected? Describe this in your journal. 5. Write a prayer in your journal asking for God to free you from your sins and heal your wounds. PAGE 34 Healing the Whole Person Talk #4 Prayer for Inner Healing A. Contemplative Prayer A.1. Contemplative prayer is focused on Jesus and in Him the Father “Contemplative prayer seeks him ‘whom my soul loves’. It is Jesus and in him the Father. We seek him, because to desire him is always the beginning of love and we seek him with the pure faith which causes us to be born in him and to live in him. In the inner prayer … our attention is fixed on the Lord himself.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2709 A.2. It is an intense experience of prayer, seeking healing of our inner being “Contemplative prayer is also the pre-eminently intense time of prayer. In it the Father strengthens our inner being with power through his Spirit ‘that Christ may dwell in our hearts through faith’ and we may be ‘grounded in love.’” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2714 B. Prayer of the Heart B.1. Inner healing prayer is an encounter with Jesus in our hearts “According to Scripture it is the heart that prays. …The heart is our hidden center, beyond the grasp of our reason and of others; only the Spirit of God can fathom the human heart and know it fully. ... The heart … is the place of truth … the place of encounter.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2562-2563 B.2. In our hearts we see our experiences in light of His truth and compassion “Contemplation is a gaze of faith, fixed on Jesus. ‘I look at him and he looks at me’ ... His gaze purifies our heart; the light of the countenance of Jesus illumines the eyes of our heart and teaches us to see everything in the light of his truth and compassion.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2715 NOTES PAGE 35 NOTES C. God’s Power C.1. Inner healing prayer is empowered by the Holy Spirit “The spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed me; He has sent me to bring glad tidings to the lowly, to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives and release to the prisoners, To announce a year of favor from the Lord and a day of vindication by our God, to comfort all who mourn; To place on those who mourn in Zion a diadem instead of ashes, To give them oil of gladness in place of mourning, a glorious mantle instead of a listless spirit. They will be called oaks of justice, planted by the Lord to show his glory.” — Isaiah 61:1-3 C.2. Inner healing relies on God’s power to restore our souls “The essential action, that which differentiates healing of memories from psychological methodologies, is the action of the Holy Spirit, pointing to the presence of the Lord who is there. He has, as it were, walked into the darkest hell of our existence; and even in the midst of the unfolding memory drama, we look with the eyes of our heart and (as so often happens) are enabled to see Him. We received from Him that healing word, glance, or embrace we’ve so long needed. We forgive others their darkest sins against us and He forgives us our sins and we receive from Him who manifests the very love of God the Father the healing grace we’ve been unable to receive before. We find out that He was there all along and that healing action, had we only been able to look up and receive it.” — Leanne Payne, The Broken Image, page 24 D. Healing of Wounds D.1. In inner healing we ask Jesus to heal our psychological wounds “You may ask just what is inner healing? What is healing of memories? It is Jesus healing hurts and setting captives free. ... Inner healing is the healing of the inner man: the mind, the emotions, the painful memories, the dreams. It is the process through prayer whereby we are set free from our feelings of resentment, rejection, anger, self-pity, depression, guilt, fear, sorrow, hatred, feelings of inferiority, condemnation, or worthlessness. Inner healing is the renewing of your mind (Romans 12:2).” PAGE 36 — Betty Tapscott and Fr. Robert De Grandis, Forgiveness and Inner Healing, page 13 D.2. We ask Jesus to walk back into our life experiences to shine His light there “In praying for inner healing we ask Jesus to walk back into our past and heal every hurt. ... It is not seeing how much garbage we can remember. It is throwing away all the garbage that is there. It is having Jesus shine His divine light in all those dark places where Satan has hidden hurts and painful memories. It is having Jesus walk hand in hand with us through every second in our lives and being right there with us during unpleasant situations and times of trauma. ... Every experience we have ever had has molded our personalities. ... All of us need inner healing to some degree or another.” — Betty Tapscott and Fr. Robert De Grandis, Forgiveness and Inner Healing, pages 14-15 E. A “New Heart” E.1. In salvation, we are promised a “new heart” by God “Therefore say to the house of Israel: Thus says the Lord God: Not for your sakes do I act, house of Israel, but for the sake of my holy name, which you profaned among the nations to which you came. I will prove the holiness of my great name, profaned among the nations, in whose midst you have profaned it. Thus the nations shall know that I am the Lord, says the Lord God, when in their sight I prove my holiness through you. For I will take you away from among the nations, gather you from all the foreign lands, and bring you back to your own land. I will sprinkle clean water upon you to cleanse you from all your impurities, and from all your idols I will cleanse you. I will give you a new heart and place a new spirit within you, taking from your bodies your stony hearts and giving you natural hearts. I will put my spirit within you and make you live by my statutes, careful to observe my decrees. You shall live in the land I gave your fathers; you shall be my people, and I will be your God. I, the Lord, have promised, and I will do it.” — Ezekiel 36:22-28; 36 “The Lord’s anointing is ‘to heal the broken hearted’ (Isaiah 61:1); ‘we pray for a clean heart and a steadfast spirit’ (Psalm 51:12). We are promised ‘a new heart and a new spirit.’ (Ezekiel 36:22-28). The Lord intends us to know a new heart, a clean heart and a fleshy heart in place of a broken heart, a wounded heart and a hardened heart. This is the Lord’s work and in his time we know it.” — Fr. Michael Scanlon, Inner Healing, page 54 E.2. Inner healing prayer eventually transforms and restores our hearts NOTES “In a moment of grace that appears to be a climax of memory healings— there is a crumbling of the hardened stony heart, or there is a washing clean and new wholeness to the wounded heart, or there is a replacement of the broken heart with the Lord’s pastoral heart.” — Fr. Michael Scanlon, Inner Healing, page 54 PAGE 37 NOTES F. Healing of Root Issues F.1. Wounds of un-love are at the root of our brokenness “Wounds caused by a lack of love, or a distortion of love, are often at the root of our brokenness. That’s why we call it ‘healing broken hearts’ … healed by a positive experience of love. It is not enough to discover the roots of the conflict. We must fill the emptiness with the merciful love that flows from the heart of Jesus.” — Fr. Emiliano Tardif, Jesus Lives Today, page 73 F.2. Wounds from early childhood are often the deepest roots that need healing “We have made frequent reference to the healing of father memories. This is because the scars of an unloving father relationship are so much at the root of other problems. Normally children are introduced to God as Father. If ‘Father’ means judgment, punishment, distance and abandonment, then the child accepts God as such. Therefore a lifetime of spiritual activity can be built on a sick foundation. ... The person accepts neither that God loves him nor that intimacy and union with God are possible.” — Fr. Michael Scanlon, Inner Healing, page 50 “Our experience coincides with the findings of psychologists; that many of the deepest hurts go way back to the time when we were most vulnerable and least able to defend ourselves. There is a good deal of evidence that some hurts go back before birth while the child is still being carried in the mother’s womb. Just as John the Baptist leapt in Elizabeth’s womb when she heard Mary’s greeting, so every child seems sensitive to the mother’s moods.” — Francis MacNutt, Healing, page 147 G. Deeply Held Beliefs G.1. Emotional pain is rooted in identity lies contained in our hurt memories PAGE 38 “In the healing ministry we are not dealing with the symptoms, but with the cause of problems. We shouldn’t spend too much time on the symptoms, since they are only the surface aspect of the problem. We should work to try and discover the basic cause. When Jesus healed it was effective at every level because he untied the basic knot that caused all the other complications.” “What we truly believe is made evident through our feelings. ... The present emotional pain is an indicator that a lie-based belief is being exposed. All lies have their original root in a memory source. When the lies contained in these memory sources are identified and exposed to the light of Christ, freedom can follow.” — Dr. Ed Smith, Healing Life’s Hurts, pages 30-31 G.2. The Holy Spirit brings truth and love into those root wounds “When the Spirit of Christ brings truth into my thinking, He replaces the NOTES lie with truth, and I find genuine release and peace where I once only knew pain. ... God is not limited in the way he chooses to deliver His truth to us. Theophostic Prayer Ministry is but one method He uses. ... [But] Cognitively receiving truth may have little or no impact on releasing a person from the lie-based emotional pain in his or her life unless it is delivered to the heart by the Holy Spirit” — Dr. Ed Smith, Healing Life’s Hurts, page 31 H. Forgiveness H.1. Forgiveness is central to inner healing “God wants you to be free. He wants to heal you—spirit, soul and body. However, we can never be completely free and healed until we forgive. Forgiveness is the foundation for all healing. ... Many times unforgiveness is also accompanied by hate, resentment, revenge, anger and bitterness. If we allow these negative emotions to remain in our spirits, we perhaps will end up with a physical problem such as arthritis, high blood pressure, stomach problems, colitis or heart problems.” — Betty Tapscott and Fr. Robert De Grandis, Forgiveness and Inner Healing, page 1 H.2. Genuine healing requires forgiveness from the heart “Forgiveness is a necessary part of the renewing process, but one should not attend to it first. Before true forgiveness can be given, a wounded person must understand clearly what the debt is that needs to forgive and why he needs to release it. True forgiveness is a consequence of taking an account of the debt that a person is owed and identifying the lie-based thinking that has ‘joined’ the person to the debtor. The person must also find genuine release from his own pain so that he can have compassion, toward the one who has hurt him. …When the lies are removed and replaced with divine truth, people are liberated from their old ‘victim’ mentality and freed to find compassion and forgiveness for those who harmed them.” — Dr. Ed Smith, Theophostic Prayer Ministry, page 99 PAGE 39 Praying for Inner Healing 1. Identify the current distress symptoms • What is currently distressing the person? What do they desire? • What is the current trigger event and what are they feeling in that situation? • What do they believe in their heart about themselves? (stronghold lie) • What do they believe in their heart about other person? (judgment) 2. Ask Jesus (Father or Holy Spirit) to show you the root of problem • Encourage person not to try to pray or figure out—just listen and receive. • The root may be one memory or a series of memories, or a feeling. • The root may also be a womb experience or generational problem. 3. Identify the painful experience and corresponding belief (lie) • The pain and lie should match with initial distress and lie. • If there is more than one memory identify the common thread. • If the root problem is pre-verbal, there may not be memory only feelings. • If the root issue is generational there may not be any emotion. 4. Ask Jesus to reveal what he desires the person to know • Some see pictures (Jesus revealing Himself to child). • Some have a revelation of truth (“I am not to blame”). • Some have a release of pain (I am not feeling alone anymore). • Some have just a sense or an inner knowing (I am loved). 5. If a person does not receive anything from Jesus—look for barriers • The problem may be control due to an inner vow or judgment. • The problem may be dissociation due to early trauma. • The person may experience abandonment from God. • The barrier may be a wall of anger, fear, denial or hopelessness. • Ask the Lord to reveal and minister to the barrier and its source. 6. When the person receives the healing from Jesus • Check to see the fruit in the memory and original issue (compassion, peace, joy). • Check the belief connected to original lie and judgment. • Give thanks to Lord and seal the healing in His Blood and Spirit. PAGE 40 tree of life fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, selfcontrol) virtue (faith, hope, love, prudence, justice, fortitude, temperance) fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, selfcontrol) virtue (faith, hope, love, prudence, justice, fortitude, temperance) fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, selfcontrol) Seven Contrary Virtues Patience overcomes anger Humility overcomes pride Chastity overcomes lust Diligence overcomes sloth Abstinence overcomes gluttony Kindness overcomes envy Liberality overcomes greed root of grace {communion with god} “I will let God love me in the places where I feel most vulnerable and dependent” renunciation of the vows the truth about my identity renunciation of the Judgment SEVEN SIGNS OF HEALING Connected and understood replaces abandonment Pure and worthy replaces shame Safe and secure replaces fear Empowered and liberated replaces powerlessness Accepted and valued replaces rejection Hopeful and encouraged replaces hopelessness Understanding and enlightenment replaces confusion PAGE 41 Prayer for Sealing and Blessing Father, I thank you for this healing through the name of Jesus Christ and by the power of your Holy Spirit. I praise you for your great mercy and power, and for sending Jesus in the power of the Spirit to heal our broken hearts and to free us from all bondage. I ask now for you to seal this healing and to close any remaining doorways, by the precious blood of Jesus, and the gentle ministry of your Holy Spirit. I pray that you will bless (me or other person) now with a new infilling of your Spirit and with a new understanding and authority of (my/their) identity in Jesus Christ. Please especially bless (any area of wounding). PAGE 42 Healing the Whole Person Talk #5 Redemptive Suffering and Healing A. Suffering and Redemption A.1. Human suffering is an experience of evil “Man suffers whenever he experiences any kind of evil. … Man suffers on account of evil, which is a certain lack, limitation, or distortion of good. We could say that man suffers because of a good in which he does not share, from which in a certain sense he is cut off, or of which he has deprived himself.” — St. John Paul II, Salvici Doloris (On Human Suffering), #7 A.2. Redemptive suffering is a means of grace “Everyone knows pain is evil, but most do not realize pain is also very important work. Instead, many people see only the pain of the Cross and mistakenly think Christians view pain as good. They see only the pain, and cannot see beyond it to grace. Thus they do not understand why one man chose to dwell in the center of our desert of pain. One man stood tall in the thrashing, fractured world, stood still and absorbed into Himself all the pain the world could deal out. He did this so grace, the power necessary to heal the world, could pour through Him like water through a pipe, like water to a dry desert, to heal a dying world.” — Steven Kellmeyer, Sex in the Sacred City, page 46 B. Jesus’ Active Redemption B.1. In Jesus’ suffering and death on the Cross, human suffering is redeemed “In the Cross of Christ not only is the redemption accomplished through suffering, but also human suffering itself has been redeemed, Christ— without any fault of his own—took on himself ‘the total evil of sin.’ The experience of this evil determined the incomparable extent of Christ’s suffering, which became the price of the redemption. The Song of the Suffering Servant in Isaiah speaks of this.” — St. John Paul II, Salvici Doloris (On Human Suffering), #19 NOTES PAGE 43 NOTES B.2. Jesus bore our sins and our wounds on the Cross “He was spurned and avoided by men, a man of suffering, accustomed to infirmity, One of those from whom men hide their faces, spurned, and we held him in no esteem. Yet it was our infirmities that he bore, our sufferings that he endured, While we thought of him as stricken, as one smitten by God and afflicted. But he was pierced for our offenses, crushed for our sins, Upon him was the chastisement that makes us whole, by his stripes we were healed” — Isaiah 53:3-5 Jesus Christ Our Redeemer: Isaiah 53 our need for redemption Our Redemption through Christ’s Sacrifice He was accustomed to infirmity, spurned and avoided by men, He was spurned and not esteemed He bore our infirmities By His chastisement we are made whole He was a man of suffering and acquainted with grief He endured our sufferings By His stripes we are healed Offenses He did no wrong, oppressed and condemned, He was taken away, He submitted to harsh treatment He was pierced for our offenses, He won pardon for our offenses, the will of God is accomplished through Him Guilt He was innocent but falsely accused, He opened not his mouth, spoke no falsehood Upon Him was the guilt of us all He bore our guilt and many are justified Sins Smitten for the sin of the people, gave His life as an offering for sin He was crushed for our sins, our sins are taken away Death Cut off from the land of the living, a grave assigned among the wicked He shall see the light in fullness of days He shall see his descendants in long life Wounds Sufferings PAGE 44 Jesus’ Identification with our Condition C. Jesus Suffers in Truth and Love C.1. Jesus “descended into Hell”, and tasted the full effect of sin and wounds NOTES • abandonment—He experienced abandonment by his friends and by God • • • • • • C.2. shame—He was publicly condemned and humiliated fear—He faced the fear of violence, death, rejection, and abandonment powerlessness—Jesus willingly submitted to powerlessness on the Cross rejection—Jesus was despised and rejected by the people hopelessness—Jesus faced his death without giving in to despair confusion—Jesus’ identity was totally confounded in the public eye Jesus left us an example of how to suffer without sin or losing our identity • Jesus continued in his suffering to receive His true name from the Father • He did not believe the lies - the messages of the wounds • He did not sin in response to being wounded - breaking the cycle of sin and wounds “For whenever anyone bears the pain of unjust suffering because of a consciousness of God, that is a grace ... For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example that you should follow in His footsteps. ... He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth. ... When he was insulted, he returned no insult; when he suffered he did not threaten; instead he handed himself over to the one who judges justly. He himself bore our sins in his body, so that, free from sin, we might live for righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.” — 1 Peter 3:19-24 D. Mary Exemplifies our Receptive Redemption D.1. In communion with Jesus, we are called to share in His sufferings “The Redeemer suffered in place of man and for man. Every man has his own share in the redemption. Each one is also called to share in that suffering through which the redemption was accomplished. He is called to share in that suffering through which all human suffering has also been redeemed. In bringing about the redemption through suffering, Christ has also raised human suffering to the level of the redemption. Thus each man, in his suffering, can also become a sharer in the redemptive suffering of Christ… .” — St. John Paul II, Salvici Doloris (On Human Suffering), #19 PAGE 45 NOTES D.2. We are united with Jesus sacrifice through Mary (icon of the Church) “That supreme act of sacrifice took place on Calvary and we ourselves were there united with Jesus as his other self and bride in Mary. There we offered ourselves with him by giving our consent and acceptance through Mary. On Calvary Mary is no mere spectator; she was deeply involved in that supreme act of Jesus. She alone saw Calvary as a sacrifice; others saw it only as the cruel and unjust sacrifice of an innocent man. Jesus alone is our Savior, for he alone was the priest and victim of sacrifice, offering himself as the head of all mankind to remove the debt of sin and reinstate us into friendship with the Father. But to do that he needed our consent and acceptance, and that is what Mary gave in the name of all mankind …” — Fr. Bartholomew Gottemoller, Mary: God’s Supreme Masterpiece, page 43 E. Redemptive Suffering and Healing E.1. Jesus suffering and death is the means for our healing “When it was evening, they brought in many who were possessed by demons, and he drove out the spirits by a word and cured all the sick, to fulfill what had been said by Isaiah the prophet: ‘He took away our infimities and bore our diseases.” — Matthew 8:16 - 17 E.2. Our Healing is dependent on facing our own suffering with Jesus “We are told that Jesus died for our sins, yet we are also told in Isaiah 53:4, “Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows.” The truth is that any wound of the soul so deep that it is not healed by our own self- searching and prayer is inevitably connected with a subconscious awareness of sin, either our own sin or our grievous reactions to the sins of others. The therapy that heals these deep wounds could be called the forgiveness of sins or it could be called the healing of memories. Whatever one calls it, there are in many of us wounds so deep that only the mediation of someone else to whom we can ‘bare our grief ” can heal us.’” — Agnes Sandford, The Healing Gifts of the Spirit, page 110 E.3. Our redemptive suffering helps us overcome our tendency to sin “Therefore, since Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same attitude (for whoever suffers in the flesh has broken with sin), so as not to spend what remains of one’s life in the flesh on human desires, but on the will of God.” PAGE 46 — 1 Peter 4: 1-2 F. Demolishing Strongholds F.1. By His death and resurrection Jesus gives power to demolish strongholds “For though we live in the world we are not carrying on a worldly war, NOTES for the weapons of our warfare are not worldly but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every proud obstacle to the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:3-5) … Now let’s consider what Saint Paul meant by demolishing strongholds. The word demolish implies a kind of destruction requiring tremendous power, to be exact, divine power. Much of the reason believers have remained in a yoke of slavery is because we swat at our strongholds like they are mosquitoes.” — Beth Moore, Breaking Free, page 226 F.2. Human effort is useless in demolishing strongholds “No amount of discipline or determination will do it. Satanic strongholds require divine demolition. • Every stronghold is related to something we have exalted to a higher level than God in our life. • Every stronghold pretends to bring something we feel we must have: aid, comfort, the relief of stress, or protection. • Every stronghold in the life of a believer is a tremendous source of pride for the enemy. Let that make you mad and determine to stop giving him satisfaction. Often the enemy will stir up pride in us to keep strongholds from being broken. Humility is a necessary part of the mind—set for someone ready to be free… the proud are never the free.” — Beth Moore, Breaking Free, page 226-229 F.3. Strongholds are broken when the lies supporting them are replaced with truth “Demolition of strongholds really begins when we expose and tear down the lies fueling our strongholds. We cannot repeat this enough deception is the glue that holds a stronghold together. By the time a stronghold exists, our minds are covered with lie.” — Beth Moore, Breaking Free, page 229 F.4. In place of demonic strongholds, Jesus himself becomes our stronghold “My strength, your praise I will sing; you, God, are my fortress, my loving God.” — Psalm 59:18 PAGE 47 NOTES G. Virtues and the Fruit of the Spirit G.1.The Tree of Life is filled with virtues and spiritual fruit “Baptism is the foundation of our Christian identity. When we were baptized, God gave us some incredible gifts. In addition to washing our souls clean of original sin, he infused us with sanctifying grace, gave us the three theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity, bestowed on us the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit (wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety, fear of the Lord), granted us moral virtues (prudence, justice, temperance), and empowered us to bear the twelve fruits of the Holy Spirit (charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, chastity). To have an identity in Christ is to live out these freely given virtues and qualities in the unique way the circumstances of our lives demand. To have an identity in Christ is also to pursue the reason God put us on this earth. What are we here to do? What is our mission.” — Gregory Popcak, For Better … For Ever, page 21 Tree of Life: Life According to the Spirit Love Patience Peace Gentleness Faithfulness Goodness Kindness Joy Self-control Seven Contrary Virtues Patience overcomes anger Humility overcomes pride Chastity overcomes lust Diligence overcomes sloth Abstinence overcomes gluttony Kindness overcomes envy Liberality overcomes greed Cardinal Virtues Prudence Fortitude Temperance Justice PAGE 48 Theological Virtues faith, hope, & love G.2.Self-reliance seven deadly sins are overcome with the seven contrary virtues The Contrary Virtues were derived from the Psychomachia (“Battle for the Soul”), an epic poem written by Prudentius (c. 410). Practicing these virtues is alleged to protect one against temptation toward the seven deadly sins. These are under the larger umbrella of the cardinal virtues. G.4. The fruit of the Spirit replaces the manifestation of sins “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and do not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to prevent you from doing what you would. But if you are led by the Spirit you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are plain: fornication, impurity, licentiousness, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger, selfishness, dissension, party spirit, envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.” — Galatians 5: 16-21 H. Healing Graces H.1. Healing is evidenced by the fruit of the Spirit “You can really know the ‘peace of God, which passes all comprehension’ (Philippians 4:7), walk in genuine victory and release those who have hurt you. I say this because I have found peace in places that I have never known peace before as I have allowed the Spirit of Christ to lead me into places that I did not want to go in my memories and have felt the pain those memories contained. I have found peace in every memory that I have visited, and look forward to the freedom that is still yet to come. ... In summary, genuine healing will exhibit characteristics that demonstrate its validity. The healing will be permanent and will not require maintenance to sustain it. It will result in lifestyle changes and enhanced personal relationships. The final outcome will be the presence of true compassion and forgiveness of those who have hurt us.” — Dr. Ed Smith, Healing Life’s Hurts, pages 108-109 NOTES “God’s greatest gift to mankind is our call to share in his own divine life of friendship: to be united with God, as he is in himself, in all the riches of his ineffable being, and not merely as he can be known through his creation. But in this life we can only know God, as he is in himself, though Faith, that is, through believing what He has told us about Himself, especially through Jesus. And we can only unite ourselves with Him as such, only through Hope and Love based on that Faith. Hence, in this life, our friendship with God can only be lived through the three theological virtues of Faith, Hope and Love.” — Fr. Bartholomew Gottemoller, Mary: God’s Supreme Masterpiece, page 135 G.3.The (root sin) is overcome with theological virtues PAGE 49 NOTES H.2. Seven signs of healing (and communion) replace the seven deadly wounds When we are healed in a particular area of our life we find freedom in the areas where we were wounded. To illustrate, if we have experienced a wound of abandonment (with feelings of being alone or not understood), we will experience the opposite after the wound is healed. Rather than abandonment we will experience communion with feelings of being connected and understood. Signs of Healing and the Fruit of the Spirit Love Patience Peace Kindness Faithfulness Self-control Goodness Joy Gentleness truth I am not worthless—I am loved and accepted truth I am not alone—God is always with me truth I am not dirty—Jesus cleansed me Seven Signs of Healing Connected and understood replaces abandonment Pure and worthy replaces shame Safe and secure replaces fear Empowered and liberated replaces powerlessness Accepted and valued replaces rejection Hopeful and encouraged replaces hopelessness Understanding and enlightenment replaces confusion PAGE 50 JOURNAL EXERCISE Journaling Activity: Inner Healing Prayer 1. Pray with Romans 8:31-39 What then shall we say to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but handed him over for us all, how will he not also give us everything else along with him? Who will bring a charge against God’s chosen ones? It is God who acquits us. Who will condemn? It is Christ [Jesus] who died, rather, was raised, who also is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us.What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will anguish, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or the sword? As it is written:“For your sake we are being slain all the day; we are looked upon as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. — Romans 8: 31 - 39 a. Read the passage once to get familiar with the text b. Slowly read the passage a second time c. Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart ... and listen ... 2. Reflecting on your time receiving ministry these past 2 days (during inner healing prayer, reconciliation, adoration, journaling, interaction with others) a. In what way did you experience “the love of Christ” and His “intercession” for you? PAGE 51 JOURNAL EXERCISE Journaling Activity continued b. In what ways are you now free from condemnation? c. In what way has “Christ conquered overwhelmingly” through His love in the midst of your suffering? 3. Review your prayer ministry experience by addressing the following questions: a. What was your “current dilemma” where you experienced emotional pain? b. What “root memories” were revealed to you? c. What “core beliefs” (lies, judgments and inner vows) about yourself or others kept you bound? PAGE 52 JOURNAL EXERCISE Journaling Activity continued d. How did Jesus reveal his love and truth to you in that memory (or those memories, if more than one)? e. What is the “new identity” that you received from Jesus in the healing? f. Describe the suffering you experienced in this time of ministry? How was it redemptive and healing? 4. Using the handout of the TREE OF LIFE (See page 88), fill in the areas of the tree corresponding to what you received in prayer. Start at the bottom of the tree: a. Record the “Truths” you received about your “Identity in Christ” in the space below and them write them on the Tree of Life diagram at the roots. b. Check the fruit of the healing in your emotions. Circle the ones below in the “Seven Signs of Healing” and then record them underneath the root systems in the tree diagram. Seven Signs of Healing Connected and understood replaces abandonment Pure and worthy replaces shame Safe and secure replaces fear Empowered and liberated replaces powerlessness Accepted and valued replaces rejection Hopeful and encouraged replaces hopelessness Understanding and enlightenment replaces confusion PAGE 53 JOURNAL EXERCISE Journaling Activity continued c. Which of the “Theological Virtues” (Faith, Hope and Love) were experienced in the ministry time? In what ways? Write them at the base of the tree diagram. d. Which of the “Cardinal Virtues” (Prudence, Fortitude, Temperance or Justice) or “Seven Contrary Virtues” (Patience, Humility, Chastity, Diligence, Abstinence, Kindness, or Liberality) were evidenced during or after your ministry time. Record that at the trunk of the tree. e. Identity which of the “Fruit of the Spirit” (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Faithfulness, Goodness, Gentleness and Self-Control) you experienced through the ministry or after. Write those down here - and then place on the top of the Tree of Life diagram. PAGE 54 Healing the Whole Person Talk #6 Healing Grace and the Sacraments A. Oil and Wine A.1. Jesus as the Good Samaritan NOTES “A man fell victim to robbers as he went down from Jerusalem to Jericho. They stripped and beat him and went off leaving him half-dead. A priest happened to be going down that road, but when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. Likewise a Levite came to the place, and when he saw him, he passed by on the opposite side. But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight. He approached the victim, poured wine and oil over his wounds and bandaged them. Then he lifted him up on his own animal, took him to an inn and cared for him.” — Luke 10:30-34 A.2. Wine and oil are Biblical images of love and Sacrament In his commentary on Luke’s Good Samaritan, Saint Cyril of Jerusalem describes wine as an image of love (charismatic movement of God) and oil as an image of Sacrament (institutional movement of God). “This mystery of blessed communion with God and all who are in Christ is beyond all understanding and description. Scripture speaks of it in images: life, light, peace, wedding feast, wine of the kingdom, the Father’s house, the heavenly Jerusalem, paradise: ‘no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man conceived, what God has prepared for those who love him.’” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1027 A.3. Healing requires both the charismatic and Sacramental “The institutional and charismatic aspects are co-essential as it were to the Church’s constitution. — St. John Paul II, Lay Members of Christ’s Faithful People, December 30, 1988 PAGE 55 NOTES B. Grace B.1. Sanctifying Grace “Grace is first and foremost the gift of the Spirit who justifies and sanctifies us. But grace also includes the gifts that the Spirit grants us to associate us with his work, to enable us to collaborate in the salvation of others and in the growth of the Body of Christ, the Church. Sanctifying grace is the gratuitous gift of his life that God makes to us; it is infused by the Holy Spirit into the soul to heal it of sin and to sanctify it.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1027 B.2. Sacramental Grace “The Church affirms that for believers the sacraments of the New Covenant are necessary for salvation. ‘Sacramental grace’ is the grace of the Holy Spirit, given by Christ and proper to each sacrament. The Spirit heals and transforms those who receive him by conforming them to the Son of God. The fruit of the sacramental life is that the Spirit of adoption makes the faithful partakers in the divine nature by uniting them in a living union with the only Son, the Savior.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #112 B.3. “Charismatic Grace” “There are furthermore special graces, also called charisms after the Greek term used by Saint Paul and meaning ‘favor,’ ‘gratuitous gift,’ ‘benefit.’ Whatever their character—sometimes it is extraordinary, such as the gift of miracles or of tongues—charisms are oriented toward sanctifying grace” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1129 B.4. Healing requires both the charismatic and Sacramental “The institutional and charismatic aspects are co-essential as it were to the Church’s constitution. — St. John Paul II, Lay Members of Christ’s Faithful People, December 30, 1988 C. Effects of Grace C.1.Grace PAGE 56 cleanses us “Sanctifying grace is the gratuitous gift of his life that God makes to us; it is infused by the Holy Spirit into the soul to heal it of sin and to sanctify it.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1027 “Sanctifying grace cleanses us of sin and its effects” — Pope Benedict XVI C.2.Grace fills us “What is the difference between sanctifying and Sacramental grace? Sanctifying grace cleanses us of sin and its effects; Sacramental grace communicates the indwelling of God Himself into the cleansed soul; which NOTES in turn results in more sanctifying grace, which allows more indwelling, until at last we reach heaven fully cleansed, and are fully permeated with the indwelling of God. … What develops to maturity is the life of God in us, which we touch and receive and enter into during the mass, in the Eucharist, configuring and conforming us to Christ.” — Pope Benedict XVI C.3. Grace allows us to radiate Christ to the world “Sacramental grace then delivers to the cleansed soul, the indwelling presence of God, the indwelling of the Trinity that, if we are without resistance or objection truly living the full life of faith as given to us by the Church, should be growing in us our whole lives long. And in passing through us, Sacramental grace can then make us like windows of seven different colors, stained glass windows depicting the life of Christ in us even as much—no, more, because it is real—as the stained glass windows in a cathedral.” — Pope Benedict XVI D. “He poured wine over his wounds” D.1. Jesus and wine “On the third day there was a wedding in Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” — John 2:1-4 “This mystery of blessed communion with God and all who are in Christ is beyond all understanding and description. Scripture speaks of it in images ... wine of the kingdom.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1027 D.2. The “wine” is restored in Jesus’ fulfillment of the Bridegroom Messiah and subsequent gift of the Holy Spirit “Through his grace, the Holy Spirit is the first to awaken faith in us and to communicate to us the new life” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #684 PAGE 57 NOTES D.3. The “wine” helps us receive the “oil” where we need it the most “With ever more accurate darts of love the Holy Spirit opens our consciences before God so that deeper and more effective healing can occur; at times his coming is so pure that it causes us to have pain and recoil at the level of intimacy God wishes his Son to achieve in our being.” “Something greater than the mantras of self-help gibberish and post-modern syncretism is demanded if spiritual healing is to occur. An encounter must occur. We must be seized with the presence. In this presence, perhaps dramatic at first, perhaps not, we appropriate meaning, love, and healing at ever expanding levels of integration throughout our life.” “The work of the Spirit must be met with a vulnerable faith so as to receive the truth of who Christ is from within the poverty of our being. ‘He must increase and I must decrease’ (John 3:30).” “To receive the healing of sinful affections, we must be in line with the truth about our interior state and seek reconciliation where necessary.” (Quoting Jean Corbon, O.P) “The healing of sinful affections may happen at such deep levels as to escape our capacity to articulate our real needs. God answers our groans, our sufferings, with the silent coming of the Holy Spirit ... instilling within the reality of Christ living his mysteries over again in our lives. Our groans, our pain, our need for healing is met by the silent power of love itself taking up residence within us. Our free ‘yes’ meets the free gift of the mystery of Christ’s Passover, reaching ‘depths not touched by the wounds death has inflicted on us’; thus in holy communion we are healed in peace, not with emotional upheaval or storm ... but as quietly as the epiclesis (the renewing Spirit) itself.” “It is this divine self-giving and the positive human response to accept such love that healing is known. Trust, vulnerability, rapt listening, integrity all precede the fullness of healing; otherwise God could incorrectly be seen as entering a magic relationship and not one of human freedom and fullness. We must present ourselves in such a way that Christ can enter our hearts with truth. And such a way of presenting ourselves is encapsulated in the virtue of humility.” (Quoting Thomas Dubay, S.M.) “the healing of our deepest wounds comes from contemplative intimacy with the indwelling Trinity and the deep conversion that makes such intimacy possible. Only a contemplative intimacy can continue to receive the healing benefits of the Eucharist throughout the day.” PAGE 58 — Deacon Jim Keating, The Eucharist and Healing the Affection for Sin, D.4. Objective grace subjectively received NOTES “Pope John Paul II implies that the face of Christ can be obscured even in the Sacrament of Reconciliation and must be secured by the objective rite itself in combination with the subjective dispositions of both priest and penitent. Such dispositions can carry or prevent the deeper reception of moral and spiritual healing that is the sacrament’s end.” — Deacon James Keating, Mystical Metanoia: The Sacrament of Reconciliation “The sacrament is subjectively meaningful to penitents when they can prayerfully experience this passionate meaning of the Sacrament; the Father desires them, God wants to be in communion with them. Rushing the Sacrament to accommodate those who are waiting outside the reconciliation room appears ill conceived. ... To follow the form with the right intention brings about forgiveness objectively. It is just as true, however, that the prayerful presence of the priest facilitates the subjective appropriation of this work of divine forgiveness.” — Deacon James Keating, Mystical Metanoia: The Sacrament of Reconciliation D.5. The importance of contemplative prayer “Contemplative prayer is a communion in which the Holy Trinity conforms man, the image of God, ‘to his likeness.’” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2713 “Our heart, our conscience must first pass through our love of the Paschal Mystery if the sacrament is to be subjectively meaningful ... To simply remember our sins and feel bad about our human failures is not enough. This selfknowledge must be placed in the context of ‘the blood’ and ‘of mercy.’ If we do this we will not be ‘confused’ about our sins, rather we will experience the healing of our affection for sin and the drying up of the roots of specific temptations. — Deacon James Keating, Mystical Metanioa: The Sacrament of Reconciliation “Tell me where it hurts.” — Wilma Toups, Fr. Mark’s grandmother E. “He poured oil over his wounds” E.1. The Sacrament of Reconciliation “The sinner reveals wounds so that the medicine of reconciliation can be effective. In the Sacrament of Penance, binding of wounds with the right medicine of advice, consolation, and correction is a genuine work of the priest before the absolution of the penitent is given, an absolution where the priest acts in the Person of Christ ...” — Daniel Cardinal DiNardo, The Priest: Physician of Souls PAGE 59 NOTES E.2. Reaching the root issues “It is precisely through the Sacrament of Reconciliation that inner healing can reach the roots of sins most easily. If priests were fully aware of the healing power of the Sacrament of Reconciliation they would use it in every possible case. The priest who reduces the sacrament to mere absolution is sadly reducing the power of the Sacrament.” — Fr. Emiliano Tardif, Jesus Lives Today, page 76 E.3. PAGE 60 The power of the Sacrament of Reconciliation “The Devil fears one good confession more than anything else.” — Fr. Gabriele Amorth, Chief Exorcist in Rome F. Celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation F.1. Identify the root wound and ask Jesus to reveal which sins were born out of the wound. Make a general confession through the “lens” of the wound so the Sacramental grace cleanses the wound. F.2. Practical steps 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Confession of sins Identification of wound Confirmation of difficulty (by Holy Spirit) Explanation and spiritual direction Penance and absolution Praying for healing, deliverance, strengthening • Step 1 • Steps 2 & 3 • Steps 4 & 5 • Steps 6 Priests can help with examination. Empty your mind. Let the Holy Spirit convict you and show which areas of your life need repentance. Now ask the Holy Spirit to show you what you are doing that is blocking or impeding his love. Two questions in identifying root sin and wound: 1. “What do you think caused the problem?” 2. “Where did the problem first begin?” Not necessarily long process as in counseling ... Sacrament of Penance can be brief listening to Spirit. The priest is instrument of Holy Spirit. Explanation and absolution. Once there has been a confirmation of the root problem or sins, the priest explains to the penitent that the Lord Jesus Christ will forgive or confirm the forgiveness already received through the absolution of the Sacrament. The priest mentions that a prayer for healing and possibly deliverance will follow the absolution. Praying for healing, deliverance and strengthening. The priest introduces these prayers simply, quietly and naturally. It is most natural that the Lord Jesus would touch the penitent with his healing, freeing and strengthening love. — Fr. Michael Scanlon, The Power of Penance, pages 25-49 G. Generational Eucharist G.1. The Eucharist is a powerful source of healing grace NOTES “The healing power of the Eucharist has been attested to by many of the great champions of Christianity, great saints such as Saint Elizabeth of Hungary, Saint Malachy, Saint Thomas Aquinas, Saint Bernard, and Saint Theresa of Avila … Many of the terminal illnesses that were instantly cured through the intercession of Saint Augustine of Hippo occurred in the post communion period of the Mass he was celebrating. There were not only obvious signs of healing among the living, during the Eucharist, but also countless revelations that affirm that the dead had been ‘healed’ in some way; and the living released from transmitted bondage within their family tree by this Sacrament.” — Fr. John Hampsch, Healing Your Family Tree, pages 275-276 G.2. A generational Eucharist is offered for the sins and wounds of ancestors “We have to keep in mind that the persons included here must be not only those who are alive, but those who are deceased. We pray that each person related to us, proximately or remotely, be brought under God’s light and love, requesting and receiving God’s forgiveness. “This includes situations like infant deaths in abortion and miscarriage; also sudden deaths of victims of murder, fire, drowning, earthquakes, crashes, etc. For those persons who at the moment of death perhaps were not completely aligned with God’s will, there may need to be a healing, even after they have crossed the threshold of life into eternity. “Normally, the healing service concludes with a Eucharistic service in which prayers are offered to God to cut any negative bondage between ourselves and past generations and between presently living generations and future unborn generations. The participants in the program are encouraged to offer prayers of real forgiveness for those who have offended them, living or dead, since your own resentment will induce a curse on your own offspring (Job 5:2-4).” — Fr. John Hampsch, Healing Your Family Tree, pages 29-30 H. He “Bandaged” his wounds H.1. The wound must first be healed “When an unclean spirit goes out of a person it roams through arid regions searching for rest but finds none. Then it says, ‘I will return to my home from which I came.’ But upon returning, it finds it empty, swept clean, and put in order. Then it goes and brings back with itself seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they move in and dwell there; and the last condition of that person is worse than the first.” — Matthew 12:43-45 PAGE 61 NOTES H.2. Bandaging the wound with virtue “Sanctifying grace is an habitual gift, a stable and supernatural disposition that perfects the soul itself to enable it to live with God, to act by his love. Habitual grace, the permanent disposition to live and act in keeping with God’s call, is distinguished from actual graces which refer to God’s interventions, whether at the beginning of conversion or in the course of the work of sanctification.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2000 “The human virtues are stable dispositions of the intellect and the will that govern our acts, order our passions, and guide our conduct in accordance with reason and faith. They can be grouped around the four cardinal virtues: prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1834 H.3. Bandaging the wound with discernment “Rules for becoming aware and understanding to some extent the different movements which are caused in the soul, the good, to receive them, and the bad to reject them” — Spiritual Exercises #313 • • • PAGE 62 Aware Understand Act “In persons who are going from mortal sin to mortal sin, the enemy is ordinarily accustomed to propose apparent pleasures to them, leading them to imagine sensual delights and pleasures in order to hold them more and make them grow in their vices and sins. In these persons the good spirit uses a contrary method, stinging and biting their consciences through their rational power of moral judgment.” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #314 “In persons who are going on intensely purifying their sins and rising from good to better in the service of God our Lord, the method is contrary to that in the first rule. For then it is proper to the evil spirit to bite, sadden, and place obstacles, disquieting with false reasons, so that the person may not go forward. And it is proper to the good spirit to give courage and strength, consolations, tears, inspirations and quiet, easing and taking away all obstacles, so that the person may go forward.” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #315 “Likewise he conducts himself as a leader, intent upon conquering and robbing what he desires. For, just as a captain and leader of an army in the field, pitching his camp and exploring the fortifications and defenses of a stronghold, attacks it at the weakest point, in the same way the enemy of human nature, roving about, looks in turn at all our theological, cardinal and moral virtues; and where he finds us weakest and most in need for our eternal salvation, there he attacks us and attempts to take us” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #327 Journaling Activity: Preparing for Reconciliation JOURNAL EXERCISE 1. Pray with Daniel 9:3-19 “I turned to the Lord God, pleading in earnest prayer… I prayed to the Lord, MY confessed, ‘Ah, Lord, great and awesome God, you who keep your merciful covenant toward those who love you and observe your commandments! We have sinned, been wicked and done evil; we have rebelled and departed from your commandments and your laws…. Justice, O Lord is on your side; we are shamefaced even to this day… like our kings, princes and our fathers, for having sinned against you. But yours O Lord, are compassion and forgiveness! …On account of our sins and the crimes of our fathers… your people have become a reproach of all of our neighbors. Hear therefore, O God, the prayer and petition of your servant; and for your own sake O Lord, let your face shine {on us} When we present our petition before you, we rely not on our just deeds, but on your great mercy. O Lord, hear! O Lord, pardon! O Lord, be attentive and act without delay, for your own sake. a. Read the passage once to get familiar with the text b. Slowly read the passage a second time c. Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart… and listen…What is he speaking to you through this passage? PAGE 63 JOURNAL EXERCISE 2. Prepare for the Generational Eucharist by circling all that applies in your family. Remember to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal His Truth. He may give you an area that is not listed below, but it is essential to put down all areas revealed to you in order to break the patterns of generational sin. Unusual and Violent Deaths or Severe Trauma Identify, by name, the people in your family who: • Committed or attempted suicide • Murdered or died in tragic ways such as accidents or wars • Committed an abortion or participated in/sponsored an abortion • Repeated miscarriages • Died in a mental institution, nursing home or prison (especially those who felt lonely, unloved and/or abandoned) • Those who were not given a Christian burial, including committal services or prayer, or were unmourned. • Those who were unnaturally grieved • Untimely deaths • Severe trauma, with evidence of effects passed on through the family (e.g., drowning, resulting in fear of water in other members, especially descendants) Evidence of Occult or Demonic Activity • • • • • Superstitions Involved in the occult (e.g., witchcraft, astrology, spiritualism or divination) Opening one’s self to powers of the spiritual realm, such as pre-cognition or other psychic abilities Made a blood covenant with Satan or involved in satanic worship Involved with a witch or other persons involved in the occult Sexual Sins • • • • • • • • • Adultery/fornication Prostitution Homosexuality/lesbianism Incest Pornography Lust Sexual promiscuity Sexual perversions Sexual addictions Be sure to list all sexual partners and/or any soul-ties you have with another. This is extremely important. Even if it was not sexual you may be tied spiritually, emotionally or mentally. If you are enjoined to another, you must be cut free from this relationship. Remember that Jesus does not separate us from a person when we have been tied to him or her in ways that are holy and within God’s plan and will. He only sets us free from the unholy or destructive part of the relationship. This is an especially important step when you are married or planning to marry. Your marriage bed should only include you, your spouse and God. PAGE 64 Other Habitual Sins • • • • • • • • • • • • • Violence Abuse (physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual) Addictions (alcoholism, nicotine, drugs, food, etc.) Selfishness Judgments Destructive or abnormal patterns of relationships Divorces Hostility Control Manipulation Domination Revenge Unforgiveness Source: Christian Healing Center Diagram the family tree and generational sins in your journal 3. Pray the follownig prayer in preparation for the Generational Eucharist- inserting all you identified in #2 Prayer for Renouncing Generational Sin I stand as a representative for the generations of my family in the past and the future, representing both sides of my family and myself. Lord God, I ask for Your Mercy upon me and my family, to free us from the bondage of these generational sins and curses that have been passed down through the family lines. In the name of Jesus Christ, and by the power of His blood shed on Calvary, I renounce ( ___________________________________________________________________ etc). Lord, I ask on behalf of my entire family for your forgiveness and healing. We ask You to release us from any curses of sin, sickness, or disease, that may have come down through the family line. We ask you to release us, our children of this family. In the name of Jesus Christ, I take the Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God, and I break every curse upon this family line, and I cancel every familiar spirit that has had assignment in our family. I now pray for blessings where there have been curses, and healing where there has been any sickness or disease—physical, psychological, or spiritual. Lord, we thank you for all of this, and offer our praise for your mercy and kindness towards me, and all my family. Amen. (For those with Satanic or Witchcraft cult involvement, or those with family backgrounds in Santeria, and similar tribal cults, Kabala, or Masonry (Masons, Eastern Star, etc.) you will need additional prayer for breaking specific vows and curses associated with them.) PAGE 65 JOURNAL EXERCISE 4. Reflect on your experience in the Sacrament of Reconciliation a. Identify the specific sins you confessed and place in branches of TREE OF KNOWLEDGE OF GOOD AND EVIL diagram (See page 89). b. Identify the “Deadly Sins” that are underlying these sin behaviors (and place on trunk of tree) c. Identify the “Inner Vows” and “Bitter Root Judgments” that promote self-reliance (and write them at the base of the tree). d. Did your confession address all three of these areas - specific sins, deadly sins underlying them, inner vows and bitter- root judgments? What was included and what was left out? Whatever was omitted, bring to the Generational Healing Eucharist. PAGE 66 Healing the Whole Person Talk #7 Spiritual Gifts and Healing A. Baptism in the Holy Spirit A.1. Jesus baptizes with the Holy Spirit and fire “I am baptizing you with water, for repentance, but the one who is coming after me is mightier than I. I am not worthy to carry his sandals. He will baptize you with the holy Spirit and fire.” — Matthew 3:11 A.2. Jesus is anointed for preaching, healing and deliverance NOTES “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, and to proclaim a year acceptable to the Lord.” — Luke 4:18-19 A.3. Jesus promised this same power of the Holy Spirit to His disciples “John baptized with water, but in a few days you will be baptized with the holy Spirit” — Acts 1:5 A.4. The “baptism in the Spirit” is a release of our Baptismal graces “The term ‘baptism in the Spirit’ indicates that there is something here that is basic to baptism. We say that the outpouring of the Spirit actualizes and revives our baptism … Catholic theology can help us understand how a Sacrament can be valid and legal but ‘unreleased’ if its fruit remains bound or unused, because of the absence of certain conditions that further its efficacy.” “Sacraments are not magic rites that act mechanically, without people’s knowledge or collaboration. Their efficacy is the result of a synergy ... between divine omnipotence (that is the grace of Christ and the Holy Spirit) and free will. ... The fruit of the Sacrament depends wholly on divine grace, however this divine grace does not act without the “yes”—the consent and affirmation of the person … God acts like the bridegroom, who does not impose his love by force, but awaits the free consent of the bride.” — Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, Sober Intoxication of the Spirit, pages 40-43 PAGE 67 NOTES A.5. Personal experiences with baptism in the Spirit (John G. Lake story) B. Communion with Jesus B.1. Through our Baptism we are brought into communion with Jesus “Living in the risen Christ, we baptized Christians have new powers. We have become adopted children of God (Galatians 4:5; 3:26) and are aware through the Holy Spirit that we live in a relationship similar to that which exists between God the Father and his only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, because we now have same life within us. In Baptism we become like Christ” — Fr. George Maloney, The Mystery of Christ in You, page 27 B.2. Living in Christ through the Holy Spirit “Christians in Baptism receive the power of the Holy Spirit so that they can live in Christ and in the Spirit. …The intimate union with Christ is brought about and lived through the working of the Spirit who gives us the power to turn away from the flesh and lovingly embrace the will of God (1st Thessalonians 5:19).” — Fr. George Maloney, The Mystery of Christ in You, page 51 C. One Indivisible Church C.1. Two Dimensions The Church is one indivisible reality: her visible and sacramental institutional dimension is inseparable from her invisible dimension, to which the many and varied Charisms of the Spirit belong. “...the whole Church is Charismatic, and so is each Christian by virtue of his Baptism” -Cardinal Leon Joseph Suenens, Renewal and the Powers of Darkness, 51 C.2. The Holy Spirit reveals Himself in two ways PAGE 68 “All through the Bible the Holy Spirit reveals Himself in two ways: through His sanctifying work, which transforms a person who receives Him and infuses him or her with a new heart, or through His charismatic actions. In the latter case, He empowers certain people not so that He can dwell in them and sanctify them from within, but so that He can act through them in the community and for the good of the community.” “If the sacraments are the established outlets of grace, the charisms are the surprise outlets of grace and of the Holy Spirit.” — Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, Sober Intoxication of the Spirit, page 62 NOTES C.3. The Church is given life by these two channels of grace “The complete Church—the living organism that is watered and given life by the Holy Spirit—is the combination of the two channels or the result of these two directions of grace. Sacraments are the gifts given to all for each one’s use, while the charisms are gifts given to each one for the use of all. The Sacraments are gifts given to the Church as a whole to sanctify individuals; charisms are gifts given to individuals to sanctify the Church.” — Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, Sober Intoxication of the Spirit, page 62 D. Sanctifying Gifts D.1. The Sanctifying Gifts are manifestations of our union with Christ in holiness “The prophet Isaiah in announcing the coming of the Messiah declares that ‘the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him; the spirit of wisdom and of understanding, the spirit of counsel, and of fortitude, the spirit of knowledge of godliness’, and since by Baptism we are incorporated into Christ, we share in these same gifts, which according to Tradition are seven in number.” — Fr. Adolphe Tanquerey, The Spiritual Life, pages 616-617 Sanctifying Gifts of the Holy Spirit Isaiah 11:2 Intellectual Gifts Description Knowledge Revelation of Divine mysteries Understanding Relation between mysteries Wisdom Insights into God’s ways Counsel Follow inspirations of the Spirit Affective Gifts Description Fear of the Lord Reverence toward God in love Piety Heartfelt devotion toward God Fortitude Strength to do God’s will PAGE 69 NOTES E. Charismatic Gifts E.1. Charismatic gifts are manifest demonstrations of the power of the Spirit “To each individual the manifestation of the Spirit is given for some benefit. To one is given through the Spirit the expression of wisdom; to another the expression of knowledge according to the same Spirit; to another faith by the same Spirit; to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit; to another mighty deeds; to another prophecy; to another discernment of spirits; to another varieties of tongues; to another interpretation of tongues. But one and the same Spirit produces all of these, distributing them individually to each person as he wishes” — 1 Corinthians 12:7-11 E.2. Charismatic gifts empower our mind, will, and speech PAGE 70 “Notice the complete person will function in three areas of life. He will have mind ability, communication ability and action ability. Now these nine spiritual laws of God’s Spirit can be categorized in these three main aspects, namely: mind gifts (revelation), which include gifts of: word of wisdom, word of knowledge, and discerning of spirits; secondly communication gifts, gifts of tongues, interpretations of tongues, and prophecy; thirdly action gifts (power), which includes gifts of healing, gifts of miracles, and the gift of faith. There are a total of nine supernatural manifestations of the creative ability of Jesus Christ that will function through every Christian believer ” — Gerald Derstine, Destined to Mature, page 96 Type of Gift Description of Gift Revelation Gifts Holy Spirit Working through the mind Words of knowledge Supernatural revelation of facts given by the Spirit Words of wisdom Supernatural insight by the Holy Spirit for guidance Discerning of spirits Supernatural ability to see into the spiritual realm Sign Gifts Holy Spirit Working through the body Miraculous power Supernatural acts of power transcending nature Gifts of healing Supernatural interventions to restore health Gift of faith Supernatural ability to actively trust in God Speaking Gifts Holy Spirit working through speech Gift of prophecy Supernatural ability to speak God’s message Varieties of tongues Supernatural ability to speak unknown languages Interpreting tongues Supernatural ability to interpret unknown languages F. Spiritual Gifts and Healing F.1. All the gifts of the Spirit are healing gifts All of the gifts of the Spirit are healing gifts. They are very beneficial to facilitate inner healing, physical healing, spiritual healing, relational healing, cultural healing, the healing of the Body of Christ. F.2. Words of knowledge help us to know what the problem is F.3. F.4. The following are ways to receive revelation from the Holy Spirit: feel it, hear it, see it, read it, smell it, sense it, think it, dream it, experience it, know it. Words of Wisdom will help in discerning roots and how to pray Discern when and how to share the revelation. Discern what the deeper roots are. Discern how to pray. Offer the revelation with confidence but not absolute certainty—allow their discernment. If a person is open to receiving prayer, pray for the need revealed. Discerning of spirits allows us to know the spiritual forces involved Again these may be seen or smelled or felt or sensed or known. A presence of an angel may increase faith for healing, or reveal how to pray. A demon may need to be renounced or commanded to leave. It may also reveal something about the roots. Seeing a person’s heart may show what the barriers are to receiving healing. F.5. Gift of tongues may be helpful in praying for person Praying in tongues may bypass need for understanding on both sides. It may assist in more direct and powerful prayer. It may also assist both minister and recipient let go and rely on God more. F.6. Gift of faith may assist both minister and recipient trust God F.7. F.8. NOTES Many times God will give a supernatural expectancy of faith for either the one(s) praying or the one receiving prayer, allowing them to receive, or step out boldly. Gift of prophecy, or interpretation may encourage and heal Often, the Lord may use prophecy to build trust and to encourage the person being prayed for. It may also bring inner healing to the person in an area that only He knows. Gifts of healing and miracles Ministry may require several types of healing so multiple gifts of healing may be used on a team or in a particular individual. The healing may be gradual or miraculous. PAGE 71 NOTES G. Blessing of Identity G.1. Blessing through prayer “Jesus received special blessings of His identity and destiny at His conception, during his time in the womb, at His birth, through His circumcision and dedication, at His baptism and at the major points of His life, prior to going to the cross. Similarly, God desires our parents, the Church and even society to be a channel of His blessing and protection to us. But we know that none of us was blessed as Jesus was. Some of us were even neglected or abused.” — Neal Lozano, Unbound, page 108 G.2. Our identity in Jesus “As we find our identity in Jesus, we receive the very blessings that He received from the Father when he took on our humanity. Just as Mary was an instrument of that blessings to Jesus, speaking to Him the things she treasured in her heart, so the Church, the ‘body of Jesus’ is meant to be an instrument of the blessing that is ours in Christ.” — Neal Lozano, Unbound, page 109 G.3. Blessing through prophecy “God’s blessing sometimes comes through a prophetic word. The New Testament tells us that the gift of prophecy is meant for encouragement. Most people would seek the gift if they understood how much Jesus wants to bless His people by the power of the Spirit. He wants to speak His word into our hearts and affirm our identity in Him.” — Neal Lozano, Unbound, page 110 G.4. God speaking into our hearts “Such prophetic blessing involves two basic things. One is the awareness that it is God who speaks. ... Second, prophetic blessing speaks deep into PAGE 72 a person’s heart. God knows my name. He knows who I am. God understands me like no other. Encouragement comes because God speaks to the meaning and purpose of my life.” — Neal Lozano, Unbound, page 111 Journaling Activity: Preparation for Blessing 1. Pray with Luke 3: 21-22 and Luke 4:16-20 “After all the people had been baptized and Jesus also had been baptized and was praying, heaven was opened and the Holy Spirit descended upon him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, ‘You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased’.” “He came to Nazareth… into the synagogue on the Sabbath day. He stood up to read and was handed the scroll of the prophet Isaiah. He unrolled the scroll and found the passage where it was written: ‘The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, and proclaim a year acceptable to the Lord.’ Rolling up the scroll.. He said to them, ‘Today this scripture passage is fulfilled in your hearing’. a. Read the passage once to get familiar with the text b. Slowly read the passage a second time c. Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart… and listen…What is he speaking to you through this passage? 2. Do you see yourself as the “Beloved Child of the Father”? Why or why not? PAGE 73 Journaling Activity: Preparation for Blessing 3. Look back through your life and see where your identity was blessed by God or Others? 4. In what ways was blessing lacking in your life? 5. Are you willing for God to bless you today in a new way? Write out a prayer asking God for the openness to receive what he wants to give. Be honest with both your fears and desires and then give Him permission to bless you in some specific way. PAGE 74 Healing the Whole Person Talk #8 Living in Freedom A. Freedom vs. Maturity A.1. When the wound is healed—evidence of inner healing • • • • Freedom from compulsion to sin Increase fruit of Spirit—peace, joy, self-control Removal of pain from memory and current events Freedom to grow A.2. Maturity is a process What to do after an experience of healing • Develop emotional self-awareness (monitoring fears) • Keep the doors closed to areas of temptation • Cultivate the fruits of Spirit—active spiritual disciplines • Rules for discerning of spirits • Change habit patterns—invoking the will • Invest in opportunities for growth B. Cleaning the Wound: Healing and Deliverance B.1. Demolish the stronghold by inner healing prayer • • • • Experience the Pain Identify the Lie Release the Trauma Experience the Lord’s Healing Touch B.2. Close doorways and seal with blessings “I want to place in your hands five keys. Picture a locked door. Opening that door represents liberation from spiritual bondage. This door has five locks, each requiring a key. As a believer in Christ you have all the keys you need to be free from the influence of evil spirits. If one key has not been used the bolt remains in place and the door will not move” — Neal Lozano, Unbound, pages 49-54 NOTES five keys • • • • • Repentance and faith Forgiveness Renouncing the work of the Enemy Standing in the authority you have in Christ Receiving God’s blessing of your identity and destiny PAGE 75 NOTES C. Bandaging the Wound: Virtues and Disciplines C.1. Trials and temptations “The Holy Spirit makes us discern between trials, which are necessary for the growth of the inner man, and temptation, which leads to sin and death. We must also discern between being tempted and consenting to temptation. Finally, discernment unmasks the lie of temptation, whose object appears to be good, a ‘delight to the eyes’ and desirable, when in reality its fruit is death.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2847 C.2. Living in freedom • Daily contemplative prayer • Daily discernment (Saint Ignatius of Loyola’s Rules for the Discernment of Spirits and Consciousness Examen) • Community and accountability • Frequent reception of the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist D. Bandaging the Wound D.1. The wound must first be healed “When an unclean spirit goes out of a person it roams through arid regions searching for rest but finds none. Then it says, ‘I will return to my home from which I came.’ But upon returning, it finds it empty, swept clean, and put in order. Then it goes and brings back with itself seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they move in and dwell there; and the last condition of that person is worse than the first.” — Matthew 12:43-45 D.2. Bandaging the wound with virtue “Sanctifying grace is an habitual gift, a stable and supernatural disposition that perfects the soul itself to enable it to live with God, to act by his love. Habitual grace, the permanent disposition to live and act in keeping with God’s call, is distinguished from actual graces which refer to God’s interventions, whether at the beginning of conversion or in the course of the work of sanctification.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #2000 PAGE 76 “The human virtues are stable dispositions of the intellect and the will that govern our acts, order our passions, and guide our conduct in accordance with reason and faith. They can be grouped around the four cardinal virtues: prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church #1834 D.3. Bandaging the wound with discernment “Rules for becoming aware and understanding to some extent the different movements which are caused in the soul, the good, to receive them, and the bad to reject them” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #313 • • • NOTES Aware Understand Act “In persons who are going from mortal sin to mortal sin, the enemy is ordinarily accustomed to propose apparent pleasures to them, leading them to imagine sensual delights and pleasures in order to hold them more and make them grow in their vices and sins. In these persons the good spirit uses a contrary method, stinging and biting their consciences through their rational power of moral judgment.” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #314 “In persons who are going on intensely purifying their sins and rising from good to better in the service of God our Lord, the method is contrary to that in the first rule. For then it is proper to the evil spirit to bite, sadden, and place obstacles, disquieting with false reasons, so that the person may not go forward. And it is proper to the good spirit to give courage and strength, consolations, tears, inspirations and quiet, easing and taking away all obstacles, so that the person may go forward.” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #315 “Likewise he conducts himself as a leader, intent upon conquering and robbing what he desires. For, just as a captain and leader of an army in the field, pitching his camp and exploring the fortifications and defenses of a stronghold, attacks it at the weakest point, in the same way the enemy of human nature, roving about, looks in turn at all our theological, cardinal and moral virtues; and where he finds us weakest and most in need for our eternal salvation, there he attacks us and attempts to take us” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises #327 PAGE 77 Journaling Activity: Reflecting on Graces 1. Pray with Psalm 136: O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures for ever. O give thanks to the God of gods, for his steadfast love endures for ever. O give thanks to the Lord of lords, for his steadfast love endures for ever; to him who alone does great wonders, for his steadfast love endures for ever; It is he who remembered us in our low estate, for his steadfast love endures for ever; and rescued us from our foes, for his steadfast love endures for ever; O give thanks to the God of heaven, for his steadfast love endures for ever. a. Read the passage once to get familiar with the text b. Slowly read the passage a second time c. Very, very slowly read the passage a third time Pay attention to which word, words, or phrases rest in your heart Talk to God about what is on your heart… and listen…What is he speaking to you through this passage? PAGE 78 Journaling Activity continued 2. Review your journaling from the week. a. After Talk 1-“Healing the Whole Person”-what did you ask Jesus to heal? b. After Talk 2- “Wholeness in Christ”- where did you desire healing in security, maturity (development), and purity? c. After Talk 3- “Facing your Brokeness”- What wounds needed healing? What sins needed to be repented of and forgiven? What inner vows and bitter-root judgments needed released? What “identity lies” needed truth? PAGE 79 Journaling Activity continued d. During your time of receiving ministry what healing took place?. Review your journaling after Talk 5 and Talk 6 to see what you wrote down. e. What healing did you ask for during the Generational Eucharist? Did you experience any noticeable graces from that? Review your journaling from Talk 6 to aid your reflection. f. After Talk 7-“Spiritual Gifts and Healing” what did pray for? Did you receive a blessing of your identity? What other graces did you receive in the prayer time? PAGE 80 Journaling Activity continued 3. Write out a prayer of thanksgiving to God for the graces you received this week. 4. Write out a short summary of the graces you received. If you desire and feel called, you may have an opportunity to share this after Mass this morning. PAGE 81 Appendix A Meditation on Healing and the Cross Dr. Tom Neal, Professor of Spiritual Theology Notre Dame Seminary, New Orleans La. Healing, or the restoration of the human person to the integrity of God’s original intention for fulfillment in Christ, is clearly a core Gospel truth; a dynamism built into the entire economy of salvation that marked Jesus’ earthly ministry and continues to mark his active presence in the sacraments. But what healing means is not selfevident, and so requires some exploration buoyed by some good questions. What healing is for a Christian is rooted in the meaning of sin, and the remedy to sin God has offered humanity in Christ’s paschal mystery. The Catholic Church proffers a vast and rich tradition that reveals a common core of sacred strategies that divine revelation has graced us with for overcoming sin’s distorting effects on humanity. That core, revealed fully in Christ, evidences the primacy of divine grace at the heart of the work of healing and restoring the human person to the image of invisible God, Christ Jesus. The whole sacramental economy, by which we access the fullness of Christ’s saving work, is built on divine initiative; on the gift of grace. But grace, as God works it, is always synergistic, drawing into God’s marvelous works the free collaboration of human beings so that, as St. Augustine phrased it, ‘the God who created us without us will not save us without us.’ This divine logic is written into the Incarnation of God, making the centerpiece of God’s creative and redeeming work in Christ a wholly divine-human activity. Thus, we must collaborate, in the limits of our particular circumstances, with divine grace in order to be redeemed, recreated, restored, renovated, and healed. Hence, while we rightly say, ‘the battle belongs to the Lord,’ we simultaneously affirm that the battle belongs to us. From the moment of Mary’s fiat, by which the Word was made flesh, divine laboring is always and ever human laboring. This truth of Christian faith gives fresh power to a haunting phrase used by the Council of Trent, ‘God left behind the desire for evil after baptism for the sake of the battle.’ In other words, in the work of saving grace, the very struggle, suffering, pain, and bloody death of the sinner contending against sin, within and without, is itself essential to the ‘labor’ of synergizing with divine grace flowing from the pierced Heart of Christ. Engaging in this battle is not an obstacle to healing, but rather is the substance of the process of healing. The final fruit of that battle, when waged according to the divine terms of combat, is a Christian character – that amalgam of Christ-like virtues that are the true goal and authentic fruit of healing. Thus conceived, healing refers not to the ‘spiriting away’ of the struggle to overcome the wounds and habits of sin, but rather the en-gracing of that struggle to cultivate all of the natural and theological virtues so that one’s ‘pugilistic love’ might become life-bearing for oneself and one’s neighbor. In a culture that largely conceives of healing as anesthesia, as freedom from all pain and struggle, the Christian ideal that likens healing to the struggle of martyrdom – as dying and rising with Christ – can seem harsh and distant. But for Christians there is simply no other way of conceiving of salvation than in the light of the mystery of the Cross of Christ, and of a Resurrection that shines glory only through Christ’s open wounds. PAGE 82 In the Catholic tradition, this conception of cruciform healing grounds our theology of ‘redemptive suffering,’ making the prime Christian model for healing not the restoration of a prior state of wellness, but rather a paschal death-and-resurrection that gives birth to a new state of wellness overflowing with the panoply of virtues. The paschal mystery of Christ’s dying and rising, into which we are plunged in Baptism, is a laborious, agonizing and bloody mess precisely to serve as a living model for our journey from death to life. The brutal realism of the Passion binds human suffering in this ‘valley of tears’ to the transcendent glory of Christ’s Risen life, and Christ’s Risen life roots the brutal reality of the Passion in the hope of glory. The balance of that tension allows Christians to face the challenges of walking along the ‘narrow way that leads to life,’ and the gift of the Spirit that flows from the Heart of the crucified Christ empowers us to transform what is lowest in life into what is highest, e.g. sin into pardon, suffering into heroic endurance, hatred into charity, vice into virtue, death into life. Here we can gain deeper insight into this life-giving struggle by looking at St John of the Cross’ particular model of healing sin and growing virtue in the soul. For St. John, the goal of divine grace given in Christ is to purge the soul by progressively unmasking and unmaking the whole machinery of the incurved, ego-centered life that is the dysfunctional, marring sign of sin’s nefarious dynamism. The path toward the healing of this self-destructive dynamism includes, for St. John, the arduous ascetical way of renunciation and virtue-praxis, as well as embracing in faith the God-imposed fast within the soul – the ‘Dark Night’ – that progressively dries up the foul streams of disordered, sinful desire at their deepest source. He argues that it is only when the soul, according to its ability, and under competent spiritual direction, labors long and hard that the more ‘passive’ effects of grace can begin to work more deeply in the sources of desire within the soul. You might say that, for St. John, if God began this passive work of healing and liberation too soon, before we have long engaged in ascetical labor, then what would be accomplished in the soul would not truly be its own. God wills that who we become should emerge from a co-creative act. Though he rightly acknowledges that each person is different, and that God can move some along more rapidly, the ordinary way of saving grace invites one to wage the redemptive battle by engaging freedom (i.e. virtue) to the fullest extent. It is in that very act of ‘waging battle’ that we are redeemed and healed, and become someone we never would have become apart from our unique story of battle, of struggle, of suffering. It is in the arena of martyrdom that saints are made. It is important to add here that suffering and struggle of themselves are not good or fruitful. They only become sources of good fruit when they are placed in service to the work of transformation, and are endured apart from the goal of God’s redeeming grace in a soul – the re-creation of a selfless capacity to love God and neighbor that is embodied in the pregnant symbol of the Cross. Here we can emphasize the crucial importance of those who guide souls through their own struggle to find healing in the midst of their suffering and sin. Walking someone into the healing of psychological, moral and spiritual wounds is inextricably bound to the via crucis, the way of the Cross. In other words, embracing the truth that, in this life, a Christian conception of authentic healing does not seek to free one from all suffering and struggle, but rather to strengthen one in successfully facing, with greater peace and joy, life’s ongoing struggles in a spirit of redemptive grace, inner freedom and growing virtues that steel oneself for walking along the way of perfection. PAGE 83 For example, if a ‘healed’ man says, ‘I struggled for 23 years with this sin/wound, but finally I have found healing, freedom from pain and from struggle’ – a Catholic-minded therapist would counsel in reply, ‘Well, yes and no; let’s say, rather, that for 23 years you have been healing, that your hardships, your struggles, your falling and rising again have been essential to the healing process that grace has worked in concert with your own efforts; and these have brought you, even at this singular moment of healing grace, to a new stage in your growth nearer to that final and only true healing: death and resurrection. Now you are more ready than ever for the other struggles, pains and sufferings that await you in life. ‘Quo vadis, Petrus? Where are you going, Peter? Back to Rome to suffer with you, O Lord!’ Then you would read Romans 5:3-5, and send him off encouraged, and counsel that he pray the Stations of the Cross often to fill his imagination with a paschal vision of the good life: more healing, more holiness, more dying and rising. Another example, this time taken from real life, comes from a mother of four in her mid-30s who had been struggling with a series of protracted, traumatic trials in her family, as well as a series of miscarriages. She often expressed how unfair she felt this all was, how her prayers for better days were to no effect, how puzzling it was that her lukewarm Catholic friends seemed to be thriving, and how angry she was at God for laying these burdens on her and on her husband when they were striving mightily to be faithful in their marriage and in their parenting. Her faith, she said, had been swallowed up in the pain. She sought the advice of a local spiritual advisor, who invited her to wrestle with the Christian vision of evil, suffering and fulfillment in Christ: First, I am, as always, pained to hear your pain. You have such a joyful and open and caring heart that I know you bear deep within whatever hardships have come on your family, and on those around you. You are compassionate in an extraordinary way, which is what makes you a person others naturally gravitate toward in their own suffering and need, finding in your heart a sure refuge. Because I don’t understand all of the intricacies of what has led to your husband’s challenges with steady employment, I cannot offer wisdom on the ‘natural causes’ that may underlie this painful and burdensome pattern; and what might be done to rectify it. When things go wrong for me, I always begin by exhausting all natural, common-sense explanations, seeking wisdom from those wiser than me. But what you are really getting at here in your beautiful email is, why does God permit such hardship to befall a family trying to life their faith in a serious way. Here are a few random thoughts, all of which I have either learned the hard way, or have learned from the everyday saints I have been privileged to know along the way. It is true to say that doing the right and the good itself constitutes a reward – being a person of integrity and honesty and justice, etc is itself worth the effort and the struggle without looking for external rewards. My grandfather used to say it this way – “it’s enough for me to know that I did what was right.” Or like that Martina McBride song, “Anyway” that is based on a favorite aphorism of Mother Teresa, “Do It Anyway.” Yet it is also true to say that from our struggles and sufferings come goods, spiritual and temporal, that we never fully know in this life – goods for your children, for your friends, for your enemies, and for all those whom God has ordained to benefit from your spiritual sacrifices. As Fulton Sheen often said, in heaven there will be countless strangers who will be waiting, hoping to be the first to thank us for helping them along the way. PAGE 84 Neither you nor I could imagine any of the saints, who suffered innumerable hardships, thinking that those who lived ‘lives of ease,’ thinking that all their labors for love of God and neighbor were really in vain and could have been gained without any real effort. In fact, in imitation of St Paul (Romans 9:3), some saints went so far as to say that they would happily have given up their own heavenly reward – were that possible – if their neighbor could have been saved in their stead. Why would anyone conceive such a thought? Love alone explains such logic, but only that love that we revealed on the Cross, or descending into Hell for us and for our salvation. I was watching a BBC documentary on Mother Teresa, and there was an extraordinary exchange between Mother and a hostile reporter. The dialogue was essentially about the problem of evil, and the tininess of Mother’s attempts to stem the tide of human suffering. She answered with wonderful simplicity, and emphasized the stunning truth that God in Christ has endured and redeemed all human suffering and evil; and that he has entrusted to the Church the privileged mission of sharing in his redemptive engagement with evil/suffering for the rest of humanity. The reporter ended with a stinging indictment: ‘But you, you don’t suffer. You tend the suffering and love them, but you are well and healthy, have food and do not suffer. What do you have to say to that?’ Mother replied with brutal and gentle directness, ‘I know. You are right. I am not worthy to suffer, so God has been pleased to allow me to walk with those who do.’ And what’s remarkable about this is that this same woman who embraced such a startling and seemingly harsh vision of faith and life was universally experienced as a most joyful person. Why? Because her faith draws her into the worship of a God who suffers ‘through, with and in’ the humanity. Many years ago I was startled to find a woman in a parish church lying on top of the altar, crying, praying and offering her recently revealed cancer diagnosis to God. As she wept, she said, ‘I give my cancer to God; I trust whatever he does, it’s for the good.’ She’s an icon of the fullest Christian response to hardship and evil: even while we strive to overcome evil, we consecrate our suffering as a living sacrifice for the praise and glory of God, for our good and for the good of God’s holy Church. We seek support from community, from friends, from family. But above all, we sit, stand, kneel, lay prostrate in silence before the Cross with Christ, awaiting the third day. In the end, what would I say to your cry of pain is…silence. I would simply bid you to enter the mortal silence of the Cross…. Stay, stay with Him at the cross…no promises of money or babies or ‘better days,’ just the shear reality of what Christ received upon the Cross; a deeper intimacy and solidarity with those innocents who suffer everywhere. It is no part of orthodox, Catholic Christianity that makes God a dispenser of peace and only peace, when in fact He came to enter the battle of evil, and remain there suffering with us. He invites you to stay at the cross, hold it, embrace it, let it tear you open even as you see the evil flourish. The Spirit is wondering…will you stay at the Cross, will you be ‘happy’ with what you named so beautifully and accurately: ‘my faith has grown by leaps and bounds?’ Seek faith, which is most at home in the night. At any one time in the Body of Christ, which is us, He is rising and He is dying…we cry with the disciples on the road to Emmaus, ‘Stay with us Lord as the Night draws near!’ (Lk 24:29). PAGE 85 Two weeks after receiving this note, she wrote this note back: ‘The other night I really took what you said to heart and quieted my mind and my soul, I sure fell asleep fast…in adoration last night I imagined myself sitting at the foot of the cross in silence, I cleared my mind and imagined Christ’s blood dripping on to my head, drop after drop...I swear I felt it. I felt for the first time I could accept the crosses and not throw them away; and be at peace. I told all of the saints I was begging for prayers in my novenas at adoration that I had to take the night off and focus on the cross itself. They understood, I think.’ In any healing ministry, the fundamental question must be: what is the purpose and meaning of obtaining healing for wounded, burdened, sinful souls who come seeking liberation from their pain? What impression are they left with in regard to the struggles they have already endured, or those still yet to be endured once their ‘experience’ of inner healing has been received? Does the claim to healing lead to a deeper embrace of the Cross, a more realistic picture of what one is to expect from life in Christ, a fuller experience of conversion that turns the ego ever-more toward love of God and neighbor? Is the pursuit of that ‘event’ of healing carried out in a way that assigns the ‘singular moment’ a modest role, embedding it firmly in the larger work of healing that is the entire Christian journey lived out in cruciform fidelity to the present demands of real-life holiness? Is healing seen as a fast-track to wholeness that bypasses years of ‘useless’ or ‘unfortunate’ struggle and suffering, or is it the empowering of an en-graced soul to cooperate with God’s redemptive plan? The only authentic answer for a Catholic Christian is one informed by the central truth of story of salvation: we are saved by being plunged into the dying and rising of Christ, and we are saved so that we might love with the same love that flowed from the open side of Christ crucified and risen. Let us enter that Wound that alone heals the world. PAGE 86 The Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Deadly Sins _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Root of Sin (Self Reliance) “I rely on myself when...” _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Vows _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Lies _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Wounds (Strongholds) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ PAGE 87 Judgments _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ The Tree of Life fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, selfcontrol) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ virtue (faith, hope, love, prudence, justice, fortitude, temperance) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, selffruit of the spirit control) (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, _______________________ generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self_______________________ control) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ virtue _______________________ (faith, hope, love, prudence, justice, fortitude, temperance) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Seven Contrary Virtues Patience overcomes anger Humility overcomes pride Chastity overcomes lust Diligence overcomes sloth Abstinence overcomes gluttony Kindness overcomes envy Liberality overcomes greed _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ root of grace {communion with god} “I will let God love me in the places where I feel most vulnerable and dependent” _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ renunciation of the vows _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ the truth about my identity _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ SEVEN SIGNS OF HEALING Connected and understood replaces abandonment Pure and worthy replaces shame Safe and secure replaces fear Empowered and liberated replaces powerlessness Accepted and valued replaces rejection Hopeful and encouraged replaces hopelessness Understanding and enlightenment replaces confusion PAGE 88 renunciation of the Judgment _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ The Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ fruit Manifestation of Sin _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Deadly Sins _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Root of Sin (Self Reliance) “I rely on myself when...” _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Vows _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Lies _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ Wounds (Strongholds) _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ PAGE 89 Judgments _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ _______________________ John Paul II Healing Center Available Resources Be Healed: A Guide to Encountering the Powerful Love of Jesus in Your Life By: Dr. Bob Schuchts This renowned program for spiritual restoration is steeped in scripture and the wisdom of the Catholic Church. 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