Magzine 2015
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Magzine 2015
prerna inspiration to excel ICS/ IAS OFFICERS’ WIVES ASSOCIATION May 2015 President’s Message Happy thoughts attract happy people into our life and fill it with happiness. And IASOWA is one such platform where beautiful people from different backgrounds blend together as a close knit family, and here begins the magic of happiness!!! It gives me immense pleasure and tremendous gratification to see this vibrant organization growing and shaping itself with changing times but yet retaining its core ethics of “We Care!” I take this opportunity to convey my best wishes on the release of the 4th edition of Prerna. Prerna is a creative amalgamation of our fraternity’s thoughts, views and experiences. And yes, it provides our readers plenteous information, innovative writings and mesmerizing musings and anecdotes. My heartfelt compliments to all members and officers who have contributed towards this edition. IASOWA brings both old and new members together. If seniors have the experience, the understanding and skill then the new members have the keenness and enthusiasm. And the splendid combination of experience and zeal creates a difference. I am delighted that all our members participate with excitement and eagerness in all our activities. Your presence and support has gone a long way to strengthen our Association. I sincerely express my happiness and look forward to a more fruitful involvement in the coming years. IASOWA has always attempted to be the catalyst of social change in a small way and tried to make a difference in the lives of the underprivileged. We need to touch the lives of many more people around us, offer support and provide them with a sense of purpose. I am confident that all the members will individually and collectively make this happen. IASOWA’s efforts in its various social projects have to be bolstered with innovative ideas and unparalleled conviction of our members. I urge each and every member to whole heartedly participate in our social welfare programmes and make a difference and bring a smile into the lives of the disadvantaged. With profound happiness, I congratulate the dedicated efforts of our IASOWA volunteers. I again take this opportunity to convey my best wishes and gratitude to every IASOWA member. I express heartfelt appreciation to the Executive Committee who has transformed ideas into actions and which have not only been a visual delight but enriching too. Happy reading ……….So long for now and we have promises to keep and miles to go!!! Amal Seth 1 Message of Arpana Caur I had a very fruitful interaction with IASOWA’s women artists a few weeks ago and saw their works on display. Art is a huge joy and freedom of expression of dreams, thoughts, imagination and experiences, a truly uplifting experience. I was happy to share my own journey too, to a very attentive audience, my various subjects of environment, violence, and spirituality and the very fabric of life, particularly my inspiration from our centuries old Indian traditions of painting and sculpture blended with contemporary issues, for that is what we are, a marriage of Old and New. I was also happy to share my struggles as a part of society and the everyday issues here. I wish IASOWA the very best in its endeavour to encourage the creativity of its members. Arpana Caur Contemporary Indian Artist Message of Arunima Sinha Arunima Sinha Padmashree, First Indian Woman Amputee to climb Mount Everest 2 3 CONTENTS Social Initiatives of IASOWA 6-7 Rhapsody of Réflexions – Contribution From Members 8-37 Picturesque Mosaic of IASOWA Activities 38-59 Wholesome Wellness 60-69 What the Stars Foretell 70-71 Recipes Corner 72-79 Team IASOWA 80-81 IASOWA Members' Directory 82-90 Paintings by Members of Team IASOWA 95-96 Front Cover courtesy Renuka Sondhi Gulati 4 5 Social Initiatives of IASOWA Prerna School – School for the Underprivileged Prerna was started in 2007 with the aim to bring about holistic development amongst the underprivileged children and empowering children with knowledge, skills and proactive information. Prerna has a strength of nearly 70 students. Students are divided into separate groups on the basis of their ages and a team of 5 teachers guide them with their studies and assignments. A nutritious meal ranging from kichdi, dalia, upma, pulao is cooked and served to all children. IASOWA has hired a cook and supervisor to ensure cleanliness and hygiene. Our volunteers attend the school every day for overall supervision and conduct daily activities to enhance social skills. Activities range from yoga/meditation, talks on health/ hygiene, enhancing drawing skills and general awareness and strengthening mental math. IASOWA has organized theatre workshop to enhance children’s creativity and we celebrate important days with plethora of activities in which children participate with fervor and enthusiasm. Spreading smiles and happiness!! Prerna Stitching Centre The Prerna Stitching Centre located at New Motibagh conducts short duration courses in stitching for young girls and women. It provides a platform for young girls and women to enhance their skills. Various items of home furnishings like cushion covers, dining table covers, runners, napkins, tea cozy, designer Kurtas, blouses are designed by our volunteers and made by Prerna trainees. Their products are sold under the Prerna tag. Cultivating Skills, Providing Livelihoods!! Computer Centre & Partnership for Teach India Programme Our volunteers help run a computer centre and about 60 young boys and girls, belonging to the Economically Weaker Section of society were trained in basic computer skills in 2014. Certificates were given away by our President on successful completion of the course. IASOWA has also partnered with the Times Foundation for its Teach India Programme. English Language and Conversation classes are conducted which greatly increases the employability opportunities of young people, especially from the weaker sections of the society. Classes started in the month of December, under Teach India’s Corporate Social Responsibility Initiative in collaboration with the British Council. The classes aim at improving English for better job opportunities for people who are above 18 years, 10th or 12th pass. Teach India organizes job fairs and has a consistent placement record and through these job fairs, around 90 percent of our students have attained employment in various big companies like Bata, Mcdonalds, Pantaloons, Big Bazaar. Enhancing Employability Skills Aanchal – School for Differently Abled With the objective of promoting holistic development for the differently abled and to tap their potential, IASOWA runs its candle making and carry bags from recycled paper projects at Aanchal school. Our volunteers at Aanchal School help the differently abled students to make Diyas, candles carry bags which were sold at the Diwali Mela. 6 7 AYESHA Rhapsody of Réflexions Contribution from Members • Ayesha – Sulu Mathew • The Cocktail Circuit – Pushpa Sundar • 'Master' Chef of Another Kind – Leena Nandan • Karappaya – Lippi Parida • Sixteen Fever – Kanika Chatterjee • Random Musings – Gita Mehta • Being a VIP Spouse – Suchita Malik • Time's Winged Chariot – Madhuchanda Mishra • Bird’s Paradise – Sanjana Kumar • LUMIÈRE – Priti Gupta • जीवन – Shailja Dutt • Changing Patterns of Family Relationships -The Indian Context – Krishna Singh • The Bridge Within – Swati Agrawal • Sexual Harassment at Work Place – Prajakta Neelkanth • Lawerence School- Jogging a Great Experience – Dr Rajalaxmi Rath • Do You Know? – Manju Prasad • Of Sahibs and Memsahibs 'Vignettes from the British Raj' – Smita Shah • Manipur, The Cynosure Of North East – Kiran Bala Dewangan • A Memorable Experience – Manju Moitra • Day one … Devikulam… – Usha Srinivasan • The Joy of Flowers – Mimi Ghosh Sulu Mathew I t was a parched summer. River Ganga was just miles of burning thirsty sand. The blazing sphere was right above, sending the town into a drowsy daze. The usually bustling market place looked eerie with everyone retreating indoors for these few hours. Brittle leaves crackled under her feet. Ayesha passed the deserted cigarette and pan dookan. The chulha lit for lunch in the food stalls were doused. Flies settled in crevices waiting for the sweet balushahi to be put out and tea to be brewed with dollops of sugar laced with cardamom. Silent salivating street dogs watched her progress with half closed eyes. The sun seemed to char her downcast head. She could feel the sweat combined with scented hair oil trickling down her nape. She crossed some official looking buildings and there was the Deputy Commissioner’s bungalow sprawled in front of her. It was not difficult to spot it. Right in the centre with the entire town built around it. She quickened her steps, shuffling like an old lady with the cumbersome burka clinging to her. She had to get back before her daughter came back from school. She had left her home in a mess tear stained pillow on the floor, clothes soaking in the bucket, dal still in the pressure cooker, half mashed potatoes for aloo chokha. It was as if time had stood still after Rehana had spoken to her. She kept praying that the rumours she heard were not true. Was her husband going to take a young new bride? Haveldar sahib as everybody called him was the official body guard of the Deputy Commissioner. Yes! Tall and well built, though pot-bellied he was an eligible catch. Age was catching up with her, she was no beauty and she had not given him a son. But she was not going to give up without a fight. Her head jerked up with resolve. She was going to ask Memsahib to help her. She walked in through the gates and through the burgeoning banyan and peepal trees lining the drive way. Nectar searching bees and insects buzzed busily among the lychee and mango trees - the only ones to have forgotten to take their afternoon siesta! Sprinklers sprayed their magic in the dust filled air. The overpowering smell of jasmine assailed her. In the scorching sun the garden was in bloom. She entered the veranda that ran around the white stately bungalow. Her feet followed the soft voices wafting through. Oomph! She thought-‘she had come this far without anyone noticing her. Is this what they call security?’ Her heart skipped a beat. She heard the endearing cajoling voice “beta, 9 please only one more spoon of halwa”. Ayesha thought of how she would slam a plate of roti and dal in front of her daughter and shout at her to eat it. She jerked out of her reverie when a startled voice asked “aap khaun?” Memsahib had instinctively clutched her son and her face showed her confusion and disbelief that someone had come into the house unannounced. Just then the car roared in with the flashing orange light and there was slamming of doors. Haveldar opened the door for the DC Sahib and saluted. There were shrieks of joy from the little boy on seeing his Dad. Anita turned around and the lady in the burka had disappeared. Did she imagine her presence? The Cocktail Circuit Pushpa Sundar, IAS I f the men of the steel frame have to be ‘sub-jante-wallahs’ jobhopping from inspection of jails to family planning, and foreign aid, their wives have to be ‘take-everything-in-your-stridewalis’, however that is translated into Hindi. It can mean adjusting your meager camp furniture to regal drawing rooms with chandeliers and scores of empty haunting rooms echoing with silence, or making that same furniture fit into a handkerchief sized flat, such that it doesn’t put out a leg to trip you every time you move from point A to point B. It can mean being Queen of all you survey, even if it is only a couple of acres of scrubland, a few chickens and the dhobi’s children playing in the mud near the out-house and ‘koi-hai-ing’ for someone to pick up the handkerchief you just 10 dropped. Or it can mean rubbing shoulders with the hoi-polloi in a ration Q. It can mean a shift of orbit from pottering among the pigs a la Lord Emsworth, to a vista of bare backs, red talons and slender stemmed glasses at a cocktail in a five-star hotel, where the Oxford ‘Oh deahs’ and American ‘Hi—s’ strike a jarring note a to an ear accustomed to hearing Indian English only. Plunged first time into the cocktail circuit of Delhi, straight from one of India’s best backwoods, I came up gasping for air from the culture shock. Attired in what I thought was suitable garb for the Delhi winter – thick woollen socks under a contrast Kanjeevaram saree, topped by a sweater and a shawl – I had been just about persuaded to leave the muffler behind by a husband well versed in the art of negotiation, thanks to the need for prising foreign aid out of reluctant donors. Imagine my dismay, then, at seeing bare arms and cleavages flaunted all round. It wasn’t long either before I moved around in an aura of steam, the way the other women moved in an aura of exotic perfumes, thanks to the woollen layers. I was unaware then, as I am now, that two of the most important qualifications for a Confirmed Cocktail Goer (CCG) are a strong bladder, able to put away enormous quantities of liquid nourishment, and strong sturdy feet which can stand, and stand and stand, without keeling over. I gave at the end of the first half hour and a nimbupani, two orange juices, a Coca-Cola, a tomato juice, a pineapple juice and two mango juices later, an excellent imitation of the hermit heron, standing on one leg, eyes closed in meditation. However, through the agony, one exhilarating thought sustained me. My career as a CCG had been launched! Successive parties saw me wiser about another fundamental rule which the CCG must follow. Don’t be possessive – in fact be detached – about conversation. In the early days, I worried when the person I was talking to, appeared more interested in the cleavage next door (yours truly, being swaddled as mentioned before, offering no such scope for landscape explorations) than in my narration of Mrs. A’s suffering on account of red, frostbitten chilblained toes. Now, of course, I take not only this in stride, but also the fact that my audience is likely to be captive for precisely one and a half seconds, i.e., until he sees a VIP he wants to hail urgently. I know that I shall be left with a murmured “excuse me,” just when I am in the middle of the interesting bit about the remedy recommended by my neighbour for those wretched chilblains of Mrs. A. No matter. I know that by the constant law of motion which operates at every cocktail party. I shall soon have another unsuspecting victim in front of me. I also know better than to start filling him in on the background of Mrs. A’s chilblains, for otherwise I will never get to the really exciting bit, about how I dealt much more successfully with the complaint. So, I carry on serenely, knowing I can count on a response of “Oh, how terribly exciting/ interesting/ wonderful. I must try it out tell somebody about it,” that being the stock in trade of all CCGs. Nor do I worry any more about not being able to finish my story at one sitting – I beg your pardon, I mean standing – I know that I will meet the same people at every other cocktail party. It adds to the charm of conversation if it is carried on in small serialised bits. Think of the exquisite suspense and excitement of having to wait for news of Mrs. A’s chilblains till the next cocktail party! Published in The Indian Express, August 1977 11 'Master' Chef of Another Kind between a quiet twenty-two year old doing her summer training in computers, and a garrulous aunt, who, despite two and a half decades of running a household, had still not mastered the art of doing it smoothly. Leena Nandan, IAS M ost women, blessed as we are with natural loquaciousness, can launch into impassioned speeches about the multi-tasking required for successfully running home and office. At a dinner the other day, I happily held forth on the subject, reminiscing about the myriad times I have remained awake all night with a fractious baby on the eve of a punishing office schedule. Martyred expression firmly in place I waxed lyrical about how managing the house and kitchen and kids’ school has been so very taxing. Nothing has ever been allowed to come in the way of duty I added, amidst gasps of admiration. Just then, my antennae, sensitively attuned to picking up the faintest murmur on the office grapevine, detected a stifled giggle. It was at odds with all the appreciation that my latest anecdote had elicited, so I squinted across the room to behold one of my two not-so-little darlings telling her friends about how her predictable Tiffin of jam and butter sandwich would ever so often be wrapped up in an old newspaper because Mummy had forgotten to get the aluminum foil. My tryst with the kitchen has, more often than not, been disastrous and the odd encounter has generally ended with us not even being on talking terms. The shelves have the mysterious habit of 12 playing April fool with me all through the year. So, the garam masala jar craftily emptied its contents at midnight into some other similar looking container. End result--the chicken curry I enthusiastically dished up tasted like the country cousin of pav-bhaji. Knowing how the kitchen sets a trap for me to walk unsuspectingly into, I would not have attempted the impossible, but was coerced into it by my inner voice which said I had to regain lost ground after failing to find the onions when my siblings came over for dinner. Neither they nor the master of the house have let me forget that epic moment when in my frantic search for the elusive vegetable, I even opened the refrigerator door! But the younger generation is far more adaptable than we give them credit for. Instead of being bored by the predictable breakfast of bread-butter-egg, she came up with variations of the model, and approached the first meal of every day with admirable gusto. She even managed to look shocked at the statement of her dear uncle, that the meals churned out were barely better than railway canteen stuff, thus endearing herself for all times to the selfsame aunt. The best was when she asked me the recipe for the kheer, so that she could get it replicated back home. I couldn’t resist looking pointedly at hubby dear, but being the quintessential bureaucrat, he let that one pass without comment. With these success stories up my sleeve, I was naturally in a state of full alert when a nieceby- marriage quite different in disposition from me-- the aunt in question--came to stay with us for a two- month training programme. I thought the prolonged interaction would be torturous for the youngster, given the complete contrast Where she scored 150 out of 100 was at the dinner table. Yours truly has the gift of the gab, and is inclined to burst into song without provocation. It surely must have been an ordeal for the guest, more used to peace and sanity, but not once did she betray with even a tremor, her deepest feelings on the matter. On the contrary, she gave every appearance of enjoying the trivia, and unlike her uncle, never did the disappearing act the moment the threat of yet another song loomed large. Between the songs and the alternately bland and burnt offerings at meal times, she managed to enjoy herself thoroughly, thus confirming my theory that the relationship quotient doesn’t require gastronomical feats for sustenance. My many friends are testimony enough, and the office is also plodding along merrily—so three cheers to this woman without substance and to her bhagwan-bharose household! Karappaya Lippi Parida L apped by incessant white foamed crested waves, the Nicobar islands lay south to the Andaman Islands in the centre of the Bay of Bengal. On it the evergreen pandanus forests, along with their creatures’ great and small have thrived ever since time began. A single pucca road runs around the island of Car Nicobar and in the centre of the island is the district magistrate’s house. Made partly of wood and partly concrete, it is a simple white bungalow set amidst idyllic surroundings. It is summer in Nicobar and the papaya trees are loaded with red juicy fruit. Coulourful orioles fly from afar to come and sing amidst the flowered creepers behind the white coloured house. Here lives Karappaya, the resident cook. Karappaya comes out of his room to pluck some tomatoes for the afternoon’s rasam from the backyard as the sun reaches its zenith in the sky. Nights in summers mean thunderstorms in Car Nicobar. The electricity goes and water drips from the corrugated tin sheets. Karappaya places a bucket under the dripping water and 13 drunk on toddy after helping ships unload. And then he sits and cries. Cries for his disoriented life, for his lost family for the rumours that reach him that his wife has remarried and has two more children. He tears the letter written last night and throws the pieces away soaking his checked towel with his tears. continues with his letter writing by candlelight. He tells his wife Mariamma how much he misses her. How is little Chitti? Does he go to school? Today I cooked Biryani for fifty people. When we meet, I’ll cook the best biryani in the world for both of you. Rest ok writes Karappaya. In the afternoon Karappaya cycles down to the jetty sometimes and comes staggering home Once in a while Karappaya takes out a gold bordered silk saree that he has bought from his trip to Port Blair. This is for Mariamma says Karappaya, showing it to the gardener and Murugan, the helper. In Karappaya’s dream world, Mariamma is still twenty and his beloved wife who is eagerly waiting for the gold bordered saree which Karappaya has managed to acquire with so much difficulty. Then smilingly Karappaya goes back to reading the newspaper, in the verandah of the kitchen, his legs outstretched. The sky is clouded and it is going to rain again. He loves the thunderstorms of Nicobar. If there is paradise it is here here here, thinks Karappaya. Sixteen Fever Kanika Chatterjee I t is a great pity that I am not entitled to sing that all-time favourite song –“I am sixteen going on seventeen”—from the movie The Sound of Music anymore. “I am fifty-five going on fifty-six” does not have that romantic ring especially when one is fat and not oh-so-beautiful. Unfortunately, the latter is a stark truth that I can hardly deny. Now that I have developed fat in all the wrong places, got bulges around my eyes and a head full of 14 grey hair (and that too, in spite of expensive hair dyes and regular facials), nobody ever cat calls or addresses me as “hi pretty” anymore. Those days are gone along with my skirts and jeans. But left over from my days of youth, I do possess a voice that is girlish (and if truth be told, bordering on the shrill). I would like to call it sexy but that might be a bit much. People do say though, that my daughter’s voice is a ditto copy of mine. While, when speaking to people face-to-face, my lilting voice can never hide my identity, it can successfully do so over the phone. This fact, however, does not thrill me. For initially, when my daughter was a teenager, this mistaken identity caused much mirth in our family circle. It became a standing, oft-repeated and often irritating joke. “You need to grow up”, “Have you considered a voice-change or some deep-belly exercises?”, “Do give some warning when either of you say hello—after all, the person on the other side may make some tremendous faux-pas”—these are only a small sample of the exhaustive repertoire of comments I had to grit my teeth and smile at. Even worse, some of our friends and relatives who regularly called got noticeably irritated and peevish on the phone when mistaking one for the other (expressed in a series of “oofs”, “stop its” and “not agains”)—as if the whole business was somehow our fault and we had been deliberately perpetrating a childish joke! Gradually, both of us, mother and daughter, got accustomed to being mistaken for each other. I got used to the cooing voices of her various boyfriends and she got used to the gruff voice of my husband. Moreover, we tried to liven up the monotony of having to correct the caller—my daughter would pause (pretending that she was passing the receiver to me) and then carry on the conversation using my language and idioms. Generally, she was successful but once in a while, her identity would be revealed and there would be a peel of laughter or more usually, a grunt of frustration on the other side. A few would go a step further and coo dulcetly “Beti, how are you? You’re growing up so fast—seems like ages since we last met. Is your Daddy there?”—honestly, how syrupy can some people get?! At first, I would disillusion them much to their embarrassment but my patience also has some limits. After a point, out of sheer disgust whenever I was asked for my “Daddy”, I would ask them to hold on and promptly fetch my husband. “The last straw was a couple of days ago. A caller was extremely persistent that I call my Daddy as he has some urgent work with him. I desperately kept saying “But he is not at home right now”. Finally the caller decided he had had enough and commanded me to “go and call Mummy”. At this point, I got extremely nervous and vowed to consider seriously doing some deep belly exercises!! This single phone call transited me from my virtual sixteen fever to actual fifty five reality!! Published in Pioneer. But after my daughter went abroad, my voice created real problems for me. First, there was the unending flow of admirers who, unaware that she had left, would start pouring their hearts out to me. They had to often be stopped with severe rebuffs. Then there were the wits— “Hi, can you talk or is Hitler home?” asked one wise guy boyfriend. “No he isn’t, but this is Mrs. Hitler speaking” was my reply. Then there were the anonymous callers who would call at any time of the day or night and insist on cracking bawdy jokes. Last, there were the truly innocent callers who would politely ask me to “Call Daddy”. 15 Random Musings Being a VIP Spouse Suchita Malik Gita Mehta A remote place in Himachal Pradesh called Shillai, the year 1986 and my husband posted as the BDO. We would be setting up house for the first time since getting married. I had been busy with my M.Phil course and hubby with training so we hadn’t felt the need to have an establishment before this. Needless to say, I was hugely excited. The only dark cloud was the thought of leaving my parent’s home, irrevocably. But then, I had been luckier than most in that, I had continued to stay with my parents even after getting married. After much tear shedding on both sides, I left my mother, armed with all that she thought I would need in our house in Shillai. We finally reached late in the evening, weary in body and mind to be welcomed by this quaint, sturdy looking cottage which would be our first home together. It was an idyllic period. There being no telephone lines, my husband was answerable to no one but himself. Since our house was built on the top of a hill with a commanding view of the valley below, I could see the BDO’s office from our garden. Come evening and I would be waiting for my husband to leave his office at five o’clock dot and watch his progress as he made his way home up the meandering path. Shillai being situated in the interior was not as developed as other places. This was also the time that colour television had just come to India. So, when we came to Shillai we were the proud owners of a colour television which had been a gift from my parents in law. Word spread, 16 as is wont to in such closed communities, that the BDO residence had a television and that too, colour! To top it all, we had also brought our Kelvinator refrigerator, a present from my parents, with us. It was one of the two refrigerators in Shillai, the other being the one owned by the BMO. Much to my chagrin, I would have a flurry of visitors throughout the day, who, on some pretext or the other would try to enter the bedroom to see what the television looked like! The refrigerator was placed in the room at the entrance since it was too wide to go through the doorway to the dining area. Willy-nilly, it became the central showpiece in the drawing room. The Dyanora television and the Kelvinator refrigerator have long found their abodes elsewhere but their memories linger, fond and evergreen. Looking back, our lives were so uncomplicated. To imagine that we lived for a whole year without telephonic connectivity! Electricity was of low wattage. The source of water was a hand pump outside the house. Our possessions have increased manifold since then, but friends, those were the days... “Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown” is an old adage. Who says it is great fun being a VIP? The syndrome may have its touch of glamour apparently, yet the grind involved in it often goes unnoticed by the general public. You may be a very important person while the going is good but are obliged to sit on the other side of the fence and can be an object of ridicule once the going gets tough. Thus, the line of demarcation between being a Very Important Person (VIP) and a Very Ignored Person (still VIP) is indeed very thin. And, in case you happen to be a VIP spouse, it’s is indeed a tight-rope walk for you. Let alone being denied your normal reflexes, you are expected to behave like a perfect robot that has to carry out his brief with almost mechanical precision. And, by God’s grace, if you are a VIP spouse and a working woman on top of it, the combination can be deadly. You are an easy prey for long sermons on flouting of all norms and nothing seems to come to you in normal routine. You are denied the right to exist in your own individual capacity and are constantly slighted as “that VIP’s biwi.” As a VIP spouse, you generate pre-set notions of bias and a hostile environment at the outset itself. Invariably, your colleagues get all set to “fix” you in the first place whenever the occasion presented itself. It is presumed that you do not have any merit or standing of your own; and you happen to be in there ‘courtesy your VIP husband’ alone. You are looked down upon and ridiculed as being the ‘black sheep’ who might have trampled over the rights of others to make a place for yourself. So, you are often lambasted as ‘bourgeois’ while all others taken to be the ‘proletariat’ in Marxian terms. And, who said that the so-called ‘proletariat’ were all idealists or had a devotion to duty par excellence? Take, for instance, teaching profession! (Let me use “You” for the ‘bourgeois’ and “they” for the ‘proletariat’.) If ‘they’ absented themselves from taking regular classes or were compulsive shirkers, it was all right since they did it themselves and were well within their democratic rights. But, if you happen to perchance miss a single class, all hell would break loose since you are there in your job ‘primarily to while away your time’ and that too, dressed in all your finery. When it comes to perform some other duties at your workplace, you are among those ‘chosen few’ who have to be shown their proper place every time; it does not matter that there are a number of those who would never be seen. As a VIP spouse, you are strictly forbidden to have any aspirations of your own. You must never try to raise your individual status lest your husband may be accused of illegally 17 ‘pressurising’ the ‘powers that be’ for vested interests. Ambition may be lethal to you and vanity a sin. You are expected to dwell in your own ‘ivory tower’ and any attempt to venture out of it may be taken as a sign of arrogant sinister overtures. If you dress well, you obviously are the ‘rich-n-famous’! If you joke well with others, you obviously are in a ‘position’ to do so. If your write-ups are published, you have obviously ‘managed’ it with your connections. You and your actions are under constant scrutiny and you are unable to lead a normal, healthy life. So attuned you are to the public glare and gaze! Being a VIP is like a finished product of the cinematic world where the glamour is reflected on the screen while the grind comes to a halt once the ‘show is on’. I often wonder…where will it end? …This VIP syndrome. Are they really VIPs? These so-called VIPs, like ‘bourgeois’, are the creation of the ‘proletariat’. Be that as it may, don’t the VIPs (so called) have a right to live a life of their own … don’t they want a whiff of privacy sometimes… Aren’t things ‘managed’ and ‘fixed’ outside this rung of VIP syndrome. Hasn’t ‘fixing’ come of age globally and internationally? Time’s Winged Chariot Madhuchanda Mishra T ime is an integral part of our life, every breath we take, every heartbeat measures it its progress is inexorable, unstoppable. We are bound by time from the moment we open our eyes in this world till we breathe our last . But how do we measure it? It is not only by watches and clocks, day and night, months and years hours and weeks. All these are a part of chronological time which we can measure and quantify. The changing season and colours of the landscape all remind us of its passage . Yet we also perceive time within our mind , this is psychological time . The duration of hours and days does not change but it alters according to our mood. When a man is happy time flows 18 along, for a contended man it goes by very swiftly, for someone who is bored, it crawls very slowly. Some days and nights stretch endlessly, and we count the minutes, especially when we are grieving. But it also flies when we are doing something we enjoy and love . Time heals many wounds, the physical cuts, bruises and broken bones to the deep pain of loss, grief and broken hearts. Bird’s Paradise Sanjana Kumar Birds are the creature Composing songs of the nature In the month of spring They fly high and spread their wings And oh! How beautiful the humming bird and bulbul sings With the song of the cuckoo there comes the summer They start searching for shade and shelter The chanting of the thirsty crow The hoopoe, the babbler all in a row. With the onset of the rain Turning green of the beautiful terrain The dancing of the peacocks And all others gathering on the mountain rocks All singing and rejoicing When the owl looks fluffy And the larkspurs chafe Here the winter comes with cool breeze The white of the snow and the pigeon All mingle and freeze Parrots hiding in the wood The birds feel with the nature And express their changing mood. We are bound by it, yet free to stretch or shrink it. Every moment changes us. We are slaves of time governed by changing seasons and perceptions. Does time end with us? Do we end in time? No one knows. But at my back I always hear, time’s winged chariot drawing near. 19 LUMIÈRE Priti Gupta Shailja Dutt I groped in the woods Rummaged and toiled in the pastures Scanned the fathomless oceans For that ray of light That would illumine and make my life bright. The ray that traversed the universe The Lumière that lighted poets’ verse The iridescence that enlightened sages and saints The effulgence that brought smiles to infants. I invoke thee to show me the path Into the dark crevices of my heart Into a life of discipline To delve deep amongst the victims of penury. I humbly request thee to open the avenues To the treasures of knowledge To the wealth of virtues To the sweet fruit of generosity. Thou should enlighten me about The futility of materialism The triviality of narrow mindedness The pettiness of revenge I entreat thee to lead me To the path of peace and purity To the path of truth and serenity To the path of righteousness & humility The humility with which you Caressed the farmers in the fields Supported the down trodden in the streets Nursed the bleeding crushed by the hands of pseudo power Consoled the weeping in the din of war. I beggeth thee to help me perceive That ray that traverses the universe. 20 21 Changing patterns of family relationships- The Indian context Krishna Singh , IAS C hange is the prerequisite for healthy survival. In a vast beautiful world when mankind has reached the moon, major scientific break throughs are routinely affecting individuals in numerous ways, when globalization accompanied by environmental/climate changes are so visible how interpersonal relationships can be kept immune from change. However along with several positive happenings, there are a large number of concerns that are touching individuals’ societies and communities. It would be fair to say that some of these are dictated by circumstances and new emerging challenges. Others are not. On top of it all is the changing pattern of interpersonal relationships. Should this be largely attributed to the breakdown of the old traditional joint family system when family members took each other for granted in hail, thunder or storm. Not only did this warmth get displayed in the less urbanized/rural settings, nobody declined hospitality even in cities. There is now a paradigm shift due to repriortisation of family values. The display of hospitality is directly propotional to the success or failure of the individual concerned both within and outside the family. Hand holding once a virtue is dispensable and the laggards are termed liabilities. Contact between cousins is minimal especially the poorer cousins. Even preparations with regard to festive occasions like marriages etc. are kept closely guarded secrets not to speak of day to day concerns. In short distancing is taking place continuously. The paradox is that nobody enjoys this changed 22 scenario as unconscious isolation is taking place but everybody is accepting it as something to be put up with. I recall that in one of my visits to U.K. in a get together hosted by Leeds University a British lady candidly questioned the concept of a joint family system since this meant that young couples had to adjust with ageing parents within the same dwelling unit. It surprised her that this came very naturally to us. Today, however the scenario in India is vastly changing. The warmth we enjoyed is being replaced by a highly functional relationship. It’s not without reasons that old age homes are sought without societal embarrassment and builders advertise these with full confidence that there would be many takers. And there are. However along with these happenings certain positive developments are visible with an increase in the number of working women who are able to assert themselves better viz a viz their male counterparts and play a more participatory role in household management. This does not however mean that there are no instances of harassment of women and that the attitude towards the girl child does not need a radical change. Increased economic independence of many women in rural and urban areas has also lead to several societal changes. Married daughters are viewed with greater attention and respect within parental homes. Sometimes families tend to lean more on daughters than sons for emotional support and conduct of family rites. The above observations need not cause despair. An extremely bright educated energetic generation is coming up providing hope for a better quality life for large sections of the population. What may be required is to restore the balance between modernisation progress and respect for values and established traditions. The adverse effect of better communication which is leaving little time to individuals to have friendly meets needs a rethink. Also the older generation that is admittedly feeling the pangs of change in attitude by the younger generation need to rethink and modify their level of expectations. This will restore the balance between the different generations and reduce the sense of loss being felt by many. The Bridge Within Swati Agrawal T he greatest wealth and strength of any nation is its youth. The future of a nation lies in the hands of its posterity. The quality of its youth determines the kind of future, the nation will have. Today, we are the youngest nation in the world more than half of our population below the age of 25 years. The young today do not lack clarity. They have a lot more direction than their predecessors. The young do dare to think different and operate with a can-do attitude and confidence. Needless to say, the second India is what I have a lot of faith in. It is a force that is gaining momentum and it won’t be too long before it becomes unstoppable (if it hasn’t already). Nevertheless, in the time constrained lives they live, they seem to be losing the significance of traditions and the social beliefs. It seems as if today we are living in two India -- one that belongs to the older generation and in some ways is seen as regressive; and the other that belongs to the same young which is its exact opposite. We are in the midst of a generational divide like we’ve never seen before. The divide between the trendy, tech-enthusiastic and risk-taking youth and the thoughtful, wise and mature older generation. The youth would like to be known, be seen and be heard; they’d like to be at the center of action and be the stars of their lives. Now, none of this is unusual for people at this stage of life. Our parents, when they were There is no gap in the generation today, there is a gulf. The challenge is to bridge this divide in a way so that good of both can coexist 23 young, probably would have wanted the same. What sets this generation apart is that unlike the earlier generation it has access to far, far bigger platforms. To list a few, Facebook, Twitter, blogs, television shows etc. help it see the big picture, be aspirational and even express itself to the world. These sometimes also get them a quick recognition and fame, which is so important to keep going. Overall, as a nation today, we seem to be poised for a big leap ahead. However, there is a lurking fear. Fear that the leap might also leave behind a lot many things close to our hearts as a nation. Will we as a nation with glorious past and rich culture, be able to keep our roots intact, not for the world but for ourselves, our identity. In the world of modern technology and modern outlook, hope that this gen X take the same pride and inherit the same values that has guarded our cultural heritage for so long. It is so important to instill the values and educate our children about our roots or else they will have nothing to fall back upon. Faith is missing....children lack empathy...it’s our thoughts that shape our destiny. It is very important for individual to understand, appreciate and take pride in their own culture and inheritance. Only if we understand our very own rich cultural heritage, our past, we will be able to appreciate the varied rich world culture. Our present education systems also do not seem to be helping the cause. Let’s not forget Bharat in the process of aspiration and growth. Let not this generation lose the roots in their quest for better economic well-being. Social and economic well-being is not exclusive of each other. They can co-exist, lest we keep intact the bridge within. Sexual Harassment at Workplace Prajakta Neelkanth N owadays this subject is discussed more often due to some high profile cases like Tahalka and TERI. This issue first came into limelight with Hon’ble Supreme Court’s Directives of 1997 through Vishakha Vs State of Rajasthan. After the famous Bhanwari Devi case [1992] the attention was drawn to the said issue that sexual harassment exists in work place, 24 it affects women’s lives, their human and constitutional rights. These guidelines were replaced by Sexual Harassment of Women at Work Place [Prevention, Prohibition and Redressal] Act 2013. Following are the important points of the Act which need to be understood by each one of usA) The Workplace - The definition of workplace has been widened. It refers to all the places including the Office and the other places where the employee visits during the course of employment including transportation. Work place includes Government and private offices, organizations, hospitals and sports complexes, dwelling places or homes and work places of unorganized sector. B) Employee- A person employed on regular, adhoc, temporary, daily wager and even domestic maids are covered under this act. People employed through contractor, volunteers will also benefit under these provisions. C) Policy Formation- It is binding on employer to make a policy on prevention of sexual harassment in his/her workplace. The major emphasis is put on the employer’s role to make a policy, create a gender neutral environment, and arrange training programs for gender sensitization purpose. D) Constitution of ICC - It is mandatory for every organization having more than ten employees to have An Internal Complaints Committee. Its presiding officer will be a senior lady officer from among the organization, two members –at least one female among them from the same organisation and one member from an NGO associated with women’s cause will be there as a third party. The ICC will have tenure of three years. A provision of Local Complaints Committee [LCC] under District Officer has been to deal with the complaints from the workplaces where ICC can’t exist due less than ten employees/for unorganized sector. E) Definition of Sexual Harassment- Act has widened the definition of sexual harassment. It includes not only physical abuse but also verbal remarks, showing pornography, sending emails/messages .Similarly Any kind of unwelcome behavior from a male colleague/ superior/subordinate staff will be treated as Unwelcome behavior. F) Some other important provisions are- The act also has safeguards against false and malicious complaints. Provisions are being made to punish not only the person making false complaints but also to the person giving false evidence or record false statements. No court inferior to that of a Metropolitan Magistrate of the first class, shall try any offense punishable under this Act. Every offense under this Act is non-cognizable. There are many misunderstandings in organizations and among people about how to tackle the said issue. It can be dealt more effectively if it is understood as a form of discrimination at workplace which ultimately transforms into a big hurdle to women’s right to work and right to equality. With increasing percentage of women entering into workforce even in the fields which were traditionally considered as male bastion open dialogue on gender issues, sensitization on gender matters there is certainly a need to unlearn and relearn new concepts, shed stereotypical notions. Strength “The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me” ~Ayn Rand Endurance “A woman is like a tea bagyou never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water” ~Eleanor Roosevelt Substance “A woman is the full circle, within her is the power to create, nurture and transform” ~ Diane Mariechild Women of Pure Strength “The wind drops us where it will and there we have the choice to either fight our fate or grow roots and bloom” ~Jane Castel Compiled by Manju Prasad 25 Lawrence School- Jogging a Great Experience Dr Rajalaxmi Rath The convent in the small town of Cuttack in the State of Odisha was one of the best schools of the area and luckily I was a student of that school. I had already spent six good years learnt a lot, which I would have not been able to learn if I was in any local school. I was rather smug, satisfied and happy and never ever aspired to go to any residential public school and be a burden on the family resources. We were many siblings and everyone was rather bright, no special treatment could be meted out to anyone of us in particular. But my genius of an elder brother had different dreams for my younger sister and me. We should sit for scholarship exams of several difficult rounds, qualify and get a gateway to the best schools of the country. Such faith he had in our calibre and competence. Forms were filled and tests started one by one. Most reluctantly we appeared but held no hopes. Result was declared in three months and by God’s grace I had qualified for three top schools of India. The family rejoiced but I was filled with remorse and there was a doubt in my nine year old mind as to whether I would be able to manage as a boarder. Several rounds of discussion was held to zero down to the best of the three schools Finally all elders zeroed down to this school as it was located in a hill station called Lovedale in the state of Madras, the modern Chennai and just three kilometres from Ootcamund. The school was, The Lawrence School, Lovedale. It was a purely residential school ensconced in the lap of the beautiful Nilgiri Hills. Al this was music to the ears and certainly the biggest incentive to take the decision to switch school in class five. The process had to start fast as the new school would start the session soon. Preliminary submission of papers in the old school and dispatch of documents to the new school had to be done real fast. Farewell from school friends, packing according to the list provided by school had to be done, purchases had to be done too. All this was jointly done by family members and very soon all essentials were meticulously ready and before one could take a breather the day of departure dawned. We reached the railway station in advance and waited patiently for the then Madras Express to reach the platform in its scheduled time. In half an hour we were in our seats and ready to start on the onward journey. It was my maiden journey in a train, hence some amount of fear and doubt remained. After a memorable journey of two nights and two days and a lovely roller- coaster ride in a toy train we reached the quaint little station Lovedale . One last lap of a taxi drive and we 26 were dropped at the portico of the Girl’s Hostel. The journey till the school had come to an end but the journey in the new school had yet to take–off. I was in a temporary arrangement for one night and a day until allotment of the proper House and dormitory. I had seen all the Houses during my rounds of the hostel on the first night that I had landed here. I had been enamoured by the Pankaj House and its pink colour. Pink small window curtains, pink counterpanes, all neatly tucked on the beds. Total symmetry and the aura of the pink was refreshing and soothing. I had set my heart on this house. No choice was asked for. I was too lucky for I was allotted the House I wanted. My only friend and appointed guide helped me in shifting with bag and baggage to the dormitory. This had to be done fast as I had to settle in and stabilise as the next day would be the first day of school. Instructions by Meenu my new friend as she wished me good-night ran through my dream as I fell into a slumber. I was woken up by the melodious ringing of a bell, which someone rang as she walked through the corridor. I woke up with a start to the morning chill. Morning chores had to be finished fast and we had to rush down to line up for jogging. I got into my jogging shorts, shirt, pullover and jogging shoes. Downstairs there was a din as everyone was chatting happily and exchanging notes. All the girls’ assembled in the dining hall greeted me with smiles and offered me tea and buns. On a table were two huge kettles filled with piping hot tea and two helpers were pouring out tea into nice big ceramic mugs. I had never tasted tea and I wondered whether I would be able to drink the tea in proper style. I picked up my mug and also one bun and sipped slowly, each sip burnt my tongue and I shuddered. But this hot cup of tea was soothing was invigorating and above all essential for this cold hill-station and also the real chilly morning. My first cup was extremely memorable and the taste and feeling lingers till date. I somehow had my bun and tea and went out to join the girls’ who had assembled as per their houses to go for the morning jog. The discipline was unimaginable and in about ten minutes everyone was out and in their respective files waiting for the signal to start on the onward journey. From nowhere the teacher was out and blew a whistle. All the girls started doubling in their place and in a moment started moving up the road and then took a turn and doubled ahead onto the main road. As we were forging ahead I breathed in the clean morning air, and felt totally refreshed. All along I took deep breaths and looked around at nature’s bounty. We crossed the church, which I had observed on my way to the hostel on the day of entry to the hostel. As we jogged ahead I said the same prayer once again and thanked the Lord for his grace. The group moved ahead in the beautiful chilly morning on the daily route. Of course then I had guessed it would have been the daily route, and it turned to be so. What a sight every inch of the road was a creation of some artist, God had been extra kind to this hill- station. It was nothing short of a Heaven on earth. The road was clean and plain and the macadam road did not have a single hump or bump. I later knew that Lovedale housed the school and its staff only, hence maintenance was by school fund. In our thirty minutes of jogging not a single vehicle crossed us. The tall pine trees on both sides of the road added to the glory. We then crossed the entry point the square, which had the principal’s house. It looked regal in the daylight. We forged ahead silently no one talked only our feet went pitter- patter on the road. Pin drop silence prevailed and I was enjoying the view and the pine fragrance. Of and on the silence was broken by a woodpecker pecking into a tree. The twittering of birds also was music to the ears. My heart’s desire was to pen all this to my siblings back home. I was sure my description would prompt them to believe that I was in some fairyland. We had already jogged for one and half kilometer away from the hostel when the whistle blew loud and clear. With army precision the whole group about turned and doubled towards the hostel. 27 The journey back was equally invigorating and joyous. This beautiful experience of doubling in synchrony early in the morning in God’s own land was novel and awe-inspiring. We had already jogged so much and with such speed that in spite of the morning chill most were wiping away drops of sweat. Where was I and what was I doing here. These thoughts came crowding to my childish mind. We did double around in the play- ground in our physical training classes back home in my old school but all of this under the hot after-noon sun, hating every moment of this regime. Oh! I must write to my school mates back home and up-date them about jogging and its fun. I felt perfect and pure in this short while. The fresh air had also freshened the mind and I was making up my mind about getting back and getting ready quickly with the new schooldress, books and satchel et al, so that I could make a good impression on the first day of school. Before my thoughts could end we were back in the hostel. I was now perspiring on a cold February morning in Lovedale. Of course most lawrencians who were jogging were perspiring too. Strange but true no tiredness, no rest, straightaway I got ready and in half an hour I was down in the dining hall for breakfast. Keeping to routine and time was the motto of the school. Students had trickled in, I cozied to Meenu my guide and new friend but she showed me my seat, which was different and a little away from hers. Sharp at eight the bell tingled and jingled pin-drop silence prevailed. All stood up and said a prayer and sat down for breakfast. Twenty five minutes later we all went to the study picked up the satchels came out and lined up to march to school. As I stood in the file I was supposed to ( Pankaj House file), I once again thanked God for the exposure to this discipline and this super elite school. I felt bad for one small thing. I realised in my heart of hearts that if I had maintained the discipline till date I would have been a healthier person. Long live Lawrence School for it had taught me a lifetimes lesson, to be treasured for a lifetime too. Do you Know? Manju Prasad • If you are right handed, you will tend to chew your food on your right side. If you are left handed, you will tend to chew your food on your left side. • If you stop getting thirsty, you need to drink more water. For when a human body is dehydrated, its thirst mechanism shuts off. • The reason honey is so easy to digest is that it’s already been digested by a bee. • Chewing gum while peeling onions will keep you from crying. • Every time you sneeze some of your brain cells die. • Bats always turn left when exiting a cave. • The verb “cleave” is the only English word with two synonyms which are antonyms of each other: adhere and separate. • Men’s shirts have the buttons on the right, but women’s shirts have the buttons on the left. • The owl is the only bird to drop its upper eyelid to wink. All other birds raise their lower eyelids • When you blush, the lining of your stomach also turns red. • The lion that roars in the MGM logo is named Volney. • Google is actually the common name for a number with a million zeros. • It cost 7 million dollars to build the Titanic and 200 million to make a film about it. • The plastic things on the end of shoelaces are called aglets. • The only part of the body that has no blood supply is the cornea in the eye. It takes in oxygen directly from the air. • The only 2 animals that can see behind itself without turning its head are the rabbit and the parrot. • Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair. 28 29 Of Sahibs and Memsahibs 'Vignettes from the British Raj' Smita Shah T he Brits have left long ago. Mercifully, times have changed for the better. However, some vestiges of the past still remain mostly in the form of old bungalows of Commissioners and Collectors all over India, where most of us have spent some part of our lives. I am sure we can relate to some of the anecdotes I have recapitulated here. The Brits have left a large legacy by way of writings which is like a portrayal of the social history of the period as seen through their eyes. We all know that there existed a deep hiatus between the Men Who Ruled India and their subjects, the so called “natives”. But gradually they started interacting with the high ups of Indian Society in various fora like clubs, garden parties, institutes, bridge games, hunting expeditions, polo matches etc. Here, limited interaction would take place. The Sahibs lived in big bungalows with big gardens and an army of domestics - cooks, khansamas, bawarchees, bhishtees, bearers, ayahs, orderlies and jamadars to run the household for them. The Memsahibs lived in a dream world of their own, imperiously commandeering their retinue, often treating them as subhumans. They loved to treat them as slaves. The snippets, I am about to recount, have been gathered from here and there, through the years, and I would like to share them with you. North Indian summers were as scorching then as they are now. So it was customary to pack off Memsahibs and children to back home or 30 to hill stations like Nainital, Mussoorie, Simla or Darjeeling. In those days without electricity, all you had was pulley fans. Then Khas curtains came up where one could sprinkle some water and bring down room temperatures. So the Sahib was left high and dry. In order to quench his needs he depended on the women of the Sagarpesha or servants quarters. The obsequious servants were often too scared to protest and willingly or unwillingly sent their wives or daughters submissively. What could they do but bow down to the authority of the sahib? There is one such tale doing the rounds about one such lascivious Sahib. Returning from a tiring day at office he would call out for his head orderly, Abdullah and say “ Abdaal. Ik Chota Bara Lao and Jamadar ki Larki ko Saaf Karao”. Translated literally this would mean, Abdullah, bring a small and large peg and get the sweepers daughter cleaned up. Every dog has his day, and so did this docile servant who had not forgotten this insult to his pride. Writhing in agony of hurt pride he waited for his opportunity. As summers ended the Memsahib returned. The nights had become pleasant but not quite so, indoors. So they used to sleep in the garden with separate cots, each with a mosquito net on them. One such night there was a huge commotion, waking up the Sahib and the Memsahib. The staff came running up to them and what they saw was startling. There was a pair of rustic chappals by the side of Memsahib’s bed and the mosquito net on her cot was lifted from one side. The suggestion was obvious that someone was in the bed with the memsahib and on being discovered had scampered “There is no such thing as a private life for an official, in India, whether Civil or Military. --- I don’t mean to say, for a moment, that a man who was a duffer at his work would get plum postings, just because his wife was well bred and charming- though I admit that has happened in some cases. But if there were two fellows with equal capabilities and one had a lady for his wife while the other did not, the man with the lady would be given preferment and quite rightly too. Women count for a great deal in official life out here.” by Alice Perrin leaving the chappals behind! The whole retinue witnessed this sight and what tales they might have carried is anybody’s guess! There were whispers galore and Memsahibs reputation was mud by next morning. Memsahib must have got to the bottom of the story too. As far as the father of the girl was concerned the Sahib had got his just desserts. He had surely plotted his revenge in such an ingenuous way. Another story that I remember is of a friendly and gentle Collector who was very sympathetic to the locals and was loved by them. Unfortunately he had to suffer one day because of a goof up by his staff. This was somewhere in Bengal during Indian National Movement. There were demonstrations against the British Raj in most districts by patriotic nationalists. But in this district, things were peaceful because of the gentleman Collector, who was admired by the people. One day, a group of local Congressmen wanted to meet him and he gave them time. He was going to the club for his game of tennis so he told his Jamadar or head orderly to welcome them and serve them tea as he might get a little late. Upon return he greeted them and unwittingly got angry at his bearer , “Oh God, you have served them dog biscuits with tea. Good Heavens! Get them other ones.” All hell broke loose. The Nationalists got up angrily.” So you treat us like dogs,” they said. And that is how the national movement came to that district. There is this snippet about the Joint Magistrate or Junt Sahib as he was popularly called, straight out of the boat. It was his first contact with India. Small things fascinated him like the Dhobi or washerman caring loads of clothes on his donkey’s back. He was also practising his flirtation with Hindi language. He saw the washerman carry the load of clothes on the back his donkey and deliver it to the District Magistrate’s House. He saw him do the same at the ADM’s House. When his turn came, he was deeply disappointed to find that the washerman was carrying a head load of his clothes to his house. Being very hierarchy conscious he felt insulted that his clothes did not get the honour of being carried on the donkey’s back. Angrily, he accosted the Dhobi and admonished him and said- “Bara Sahib Gadha, Chota Sahib Gadha, Hum Gadha Nahin? Bolo Hum Gadha”. The dhobi stammered - “Aisi gustakhi main nahi Kar Sakta”, he insisted submissively that there was no way he could utter such profanity and call the Junt Sahib a Gadha. This went on for a while, till one of the orderlies intervened and interpreted the Junt Sahib’s injunctions to the Dhobi! The poor dhobi realised his mistake. Since the Junt sahib was alone and the size of his wash was small he had not brought it on the donkey. 31 Manipur, The Cynosure Of North East Kiran Bala Dewangan B eautiful clear skin, shining straight hair, perfectly manicured hands, not to forget their chic dressing – were some of the things that caught my attention when I was in Miranda House, my alma mater. These charming girls from North East rarely engaged with others or sought our friendship. However, once they opened up, they would long for their native place, showered praises with such beautiful adjectives that it was hard to digest. We would ignore them as pure concoctions since we could hardly relate to our distant inaccessible North Eastern belt or its unexplored pristine beauty. All my doubts and trepidations were brought to rest, though after a decade, when I visited Manipur after my marriage. The first impression after my landing is nothing to brag about. The airport and the road leading to Imphal city were full of convoys of army patrolling the city as if I have reached a beleaguered city marred by insurgency. All my initial euphoria died seeing the ramshackle houses, potholed roads, long queues for petrol/diesel, no electricity for days and frequent bandhs that threw normal life out of gear. Remarkably, amidst all this chaos, the people were totally unperturbed about this disorganized state of affair. As strife torn state gave way to peace and development, it turned into heaven for adventurous tourists. Manipur, an oval shaped valley is surrounded by nine ranges of bluish green hills intertwined with cascading rapids, tripping rivers, carpets of flowers, exotic blooms and lazy lakes. It has aptly inspired descriptions such as “Switzerland of East”. Manipur boasts of both, hill and valley districts, its inhabitants both Hindus (Meities), Christians and tribal living in harmony. Its green pastures and meadows coupled with a pleasant climate through out the year beckon all the nature lovers as well as its rugged mountains with its welcoming chill away from the heat of the valley is very conducive for trekking and mountaineering. Before, I goad you with all the enchanting locations of this heavenly abode; let me tell you that Manipur is a paradise for adventure seekers. The Manipur Mountaineering and Trekking Association (MMTA), The Manipur Adventure and Allied Sports Institute (MAASI) and Adventure Academy of Manipur are engaged in promotion of these facilities. There are numerous land, water and air based adventure sports sites across the state, such as the Loktak Lake: for water sports, the Barak river for river rafting, the Mount Iso along with Dzuko valley and Shirui Hill famous for the rare Shirui Lily: for mountain climbing and trekking, the Tharon Khangkhui Caves: for caving adventures and the Koirengei Old Airfield and Nongmaiching foothills at Wakha: for hand gliding, parasailing and paragliding. I know the names of these places sound very intimidating, but Manipur is establishing itself for some of these celebrated adventure sports and eco-tourism. Following my fetish for adventure and sports to allure the youths, let me now take you through 32 its serene and mesmerizing landscapes. Moments after landing at Imphal, the capital city, its pleasant clear skies which is sometimes overcast or could be accompanied with light drizzle simply livens up your spirit. The best season to travel being October to March, one can walk through the city’s IMA market (all women’s market), visit the Kangla Fort, Zoological garden to see graceful brow antlered deer (Sangai), Khonghampat Orchidarium housing rare varieties of Orchid and its endemic species among other things. Once we move forward, basically it’s a road journey, serenading through picturesque terrain, our first halt is at Loktak Lake, 48 km from Imphal. It’s the largest fresh water lake in India’s North East, a great picnic spot and absolute fun for the kids. Bunglow set atop Sendra Island gives a spellbinding view of life on the lake on small islands that are actually floating weeds. One can savour a luxurious break at the cafeteria there after enjoying boating and other water sports. The only floating National Park - Keibul Lamjao is located on the Loktak and is natural habitat for Sangai, Hog deer, Otter, water fowls and migratory birds. Its soul stirring view in the early hours of morning is not to be missed while enjoying the hospitality of the rest houses by the Forest Department. Moreh, in Chandel District offers the experience of a commercial town located on Indo Myanmar border. One can have a peek into the foreign city of Tamu in Myanmar, just 5 km away across the border. While Moreh is flooded with all electronic items to daily consumables, Tamu proudly displays its jewelry made from unadulterated 24 carat gold as well precious and semi precious stones like ruby, emerald, and amethyst among other things. One needs to be loaded with cash (Indian rupee is accepted) as cards are useless here. Adventure Sports at Lamdan Loktak Lake Sadu Chiru Waterfall Handloom and Fashion The hill district of Manipur like Ukhrul, have unique Shirui Lily growing at the height of 8500 feet. Deep gorges, mysterious cave (Tharon), splendid Barak waterfalls, Buning Meadow and exotic orchids in Tamenglong district are simply breathtaking, making you feel living in the lap of nature which is undisturbed and unblemished. 33 Matching the stunning and formidable aura of the region, are its liberated and uninhibited womenfolk. Mary Kom is the shining example of their strength, courage and individuality. Women, here run cooperatives for silk/ cotton weaving and market their own exotic pieces of silk/cotton sarees, cotton bed sheets having traditional Manipuri stamp on them. Possessing one of these is a mark of pride. Here modern fashion is about creating a balance between traditional handloom and foreign fabrics. Imphal to Mandalay and then to Bangkok in Thailand would become a reality in near future. If you are looking to escape from the humdrum of city life, you can safely choose North East as your destination to relax and rejuvenate yourself. Manipur hogs the limelight amongst other North East states because the people here are quite open for new ideas and progressive. While one touches Manipur, they can easily visit Nagaland via Mao through Senapati district and from there to Meghalaya, Arunachal Pradesh. The scope and choices of travelling further east are endless. Moreover, travel by road from My humble attempt to bring these less travelled parts closer to the mainstream and to bridge the gap between the two societies, which are like part of the same family but unaware of each other’s presence will hopefully, strike a chord with my readers. I have yet to delve into their culture, folklore, dances, indigenous games, martial arts, cuisines, exotic handicrafts that are invested with the mystiques of nature. However, I would leave that for our next encounter. Till then, its happy travelling, bon voyage…… If connectivity is bothering you, kindly note it is well connected by both Airways and Roadways. New luxurious hotels are coming up to meet the needs of inflow of tourists. Once this unexplored part of North East catches the fancy of our high flying tourists, days are not far when Manipur and its neighbouring sisters will be considered as the most treasured, sought after picturesque locales dotting the map of India. A MEMORABLE EXPERIENCE MANJU MOITRA Lansdowne is one of the most beautiful hill stations, still retaining its old world charm. Much of it is an army cantonment. That is, no doubt, the main reason why it has retained its pristine purity. The incident I am going to 34 narrate took place during a weekend trip to Lansdowne. There were five of us in the team, my elder brother, his wife, my husband, our daugher and myself. The journey was quite an experience. The road winded through valleys and steep hills, without any sign of human settlement once we left the plains. On one side was a swift flowing river. On the other side was the hill full of cider, spruce, pine, deodar and many other nameless trees. It took us about an hour and a half from the railhead-Kotdwar to reach our hotel. It was an old bunglow overlooking the valley. In the cool salubrious mountain environment, it did not take us long to shake off our travel weariness. After lunch and a short rest, we decided to visit the main bazaar. It wasn’t easy for us to persuade our male companions to stay back. Three of us ladies were keen to try the walk to the bazaar and back on our own. It was about three kilometers, which, in hill stations, with all its ups and downs could be quite an ordeal. On the way we didn’t feel anything, for it was mostly a downhill walk. We spent a while in the market, buying a few trivial things and a cup of tea. It was then time for us to leave. The manager of the hotel had warned us about the danger of venturing out in darkness. But we were comfortable with time. There was still an hour to go. We did not, however, anticipate the unpredictable weather conditions of the Kumaon Himalayas. We hadn’t noticed the dog till then. Or even if we had, it did not appear to be anything out of the ordinary. It was like any other black mountain dog, quite furry and healthy looking. The few locals, who were busy closing down their shops, were also getting little worried about the plight of the three ladies who were obviously tourists unaware of the the local conditions. They also repeated the oft quoted warning about leopards venturing out in the dark and occasionally straying in the locality. We then recalled the warning signs while coming that it was not unusual for leopards to be cited along the road. We soon fell into a rhythm. The silence broken only by our foot-steps and the occasional cry of a night-bird. We were both worried and exhausted and somehow did not have the energy to converse with each other. Slow and steady our walk continued. We realized that without our canine companion there was not a soul around. The dog knew what it was doing. It showed no sign of familiarity or affection. It was just carrying out the task which it was destined to do. At last our long walk came to an end. We could see the hotel light. Soon we were inside the hotel gate. There we found everyone huddled in an excited conversation. It is beyond me to describe the look of relief on their faces on seeing us. After a while, we suddenly realized that in all the commotion we had forgotten all about our protector, the mountain dog. Then we noticed that it was sitting quitely on its haunches. It sat for a while, no doubt enjoying the praise we heaped on it, narrating our experiences to those present. Out daughter went inside and brought a few biscuits. It looked disdainfully at the biscuits offered, gave a last look of approval towards us; as if to say well I have now brought you safely home and it is time for me to go to my home. It turned back, casting a parting look at our grateful faces and started its trot back. Many years have passed since then. Even now whenever there is a heavy thunder-shower, I recall our near super-natural experience. Who knows at that very moment perhaps the dog was in the midst of escorting another group of weary travellers on their way home. But then there was nothing else we could do and started our slow walk back. It had grown quite dark by then. Fortunately we had a torch. It was pitch dark all around. After a few steps we realized that the dog had started walking ahead of us. At first we thought that after a while it would go on its own way. But, the dog continued to walk along, no doubt guarding us and acting as our guide. It appeared as if our prayers have been responded and the dog was the answer. 35 Day one … Devikulam… THE JOY OF FLOWERS Mimi Ghosh Usha Srinivasan W aking upto the sounds of birds and waterfalls and smells of cardamom and wild flowers…..that was my first day, rather morning of my life as sub collector’s bharya(wife) at Devikulam. Married just as I was completing my teens and my graduation (B.Sc. Hons., Chemistry) from Miranda House, Delhi University, moving straight from Delhi to Devikulam was a huge, pleasant fairy tale adventure for me! Devikulam - the lake of the Devi, is a small hill station about 16 kilometres from Munnar in Idukki District, Kerala. It lies 1,800 metres (5,900 ft) above sea level. According to legend, goddess Sita bathed in the beautiful Devikulam lake waters surrounded by lush, green hills, now named Sita Devi Lake. The sub collector’s residence was built in the colonial style on a small hillock amidst lush green forest and surrounded by a moat and a wooden draw bridge leading to the gates! Was it real or a dream? As I came out of the front porch, the sight around me was amazing- Rose bushes and climbers, Dahlias, Magnolias and other wild flowers in various hues and shades spreading their fragrance in the backdrop of dense foliage of trees. There was the November chill and the cool breeze carried the fragrance of green cardamom. I could really say” If there is a heaven on Earth, it is here, it is here and it is here….” There were no other habitation or human settlements within a radius of five km. And we had the company of our Jeeves, Mr. Krishna Iyer, the cook .When my husband was leaving for work, I was given strict instructions that I should not venture out alone as there were wild elephants, boars etc. in the surrounding forest. But that did not deter me from sneaking out as 36 soon as his jeep was out of sight. I informed Jeeves that I was just going to cross the bridge and see what is beyond. He muttered”Sir said you should not go out….You are new to the place..”. Before he could complete, I had already run out of the gate and crossed the bridge. As I walked into the forest, I crossed many small waterfalls and rivulets, trees and plants and of course the cardamom plants. As I walked, I started collecting flowers, leaves and small twigs, thinking about the flower arrangements that I would make in the various cut glass and ceramic vases (They were a part of the furnished house) as a surprise for my husband. But soon I was getting into very thick forest and I came across fresh elephant dung and the sounds of breaking tree branches and sensed danger. I started running - I did not know the way back to the house or even way out of the thick forest. I kept running and thank god I saw a clearing and breathed a sigh of relief. As I was wondering how to find the way back home, I came across a cowherd- god in human avatar! He soon enough understood I was new to the place and looking at me holding twigs, leaves etc., asked me “why are you walking in the forest collecting Jadi booti? Are you a vaidh?” I laughed both at the question as well as with relief. When he came to know that I was sub collector’s wife, he was stunned and helped me to find my way home. Evening was approaching and Jeeves had lighted up the living room chimney with logs and he welcomed me with hot tea and reprimands. I shared my experience with my husband leaving out “the irrelevant” details. An eventful day indeed! This is not the end Mere dosthon, …Abhi kahani bakhi hai… I love the months of Feb and March, of sunny April too , I love to see the dahlias bloom and sweet peas peeping through the tendrils clinging rapturously to the wire netting . A rush of colours of the phlox provide a lovely setting. The chrysanthemum’s a splendid flower that fills my heart with pleasure Its curled-up petals and tinted hues I watch in unhurried leisure! The antirrhinum’s hard to spell but it’s a pretty sight with a bunch of them wrapped round a stem as if they’ve had a fright! And pansies grow in marvellous shades of purple, mauve and white When they bloom together, they make the flower-bed bright! Slender’s the stalk of the gladiolus which grows on a stem by the dozen, And on a thick green stem the tuberoses appear all white and frozen! I see the sun shining down upon their scarlet crest . I like to see the roses with petals curled to form a pitcher or a tapered bowl well protected from a storm ! Who can miss the petunias, those flowers in the beds below in different tones of white and mauve they cause the place to glow! Flowers fill our mind and heart with happiness and joy, Why pluck them, then throw them like a discarded toy? In spring they flourish, they’re God’s gift to admire. They’re an artist’s dream, a lover’s gift, not to be thrown in the mire. What would this Earth be sans flowers, sans bunches of bright hanging bowers? Without blood-red poppies and lilies on their stalk, Did I forget the red, red salvia that’s a feast for anybody’s eyes? Without flowers brightening up the sidewalk? If I were a judge I would give it a welldeserved prize! No place for gentle people like thee ! A dull grey Earth this would be The salvias grow, row ‘pon row looking their majestic best 37 Picturesque Mosaic of IASOWA Activities Megh Malhar – Invoking Rain God - With rhythmic notes of songs, exquisite dance on harmonious beats, hues of blue and green, flowers of spring……….. 40 41 Prepare and Serve Salad in Style- healthy, nutritious, wholesome 42 43 Diwali Mela- Showcasing an array of beautiful products 44 45 Annual Dinner – Sufiana sama, Awadhi cuisine, mesmerizing ambience…. The Royal Nawabi Feel 46 47 Picnic at Humayun’s Tomb – Pleasure Jaunt at the architectural marvel 48 49 Vibrant Colours – Different strokes, Showcasing myriad of hues, expressions on life, harmony and rhythms of colours by IAS officers’ and their spouse 50 51 Annual Lunch – A Perfect afternoon with peals of laughter on the Musical satire 'Red Tape Hit Parade, 32.2FM' 52 53 My fair lady – A perfect European Afternoon ……… High Tea with Respected retired officers’ wives 54 55 Talk Show with Smriti Irani – A candid interface with a woman of substance 56 57 Cook Easy, Eat Healthy Cooking techniques by Meera Dutt 58 59 Snack-all-day Diet Plan Nidhi Prakash T Wholesome Wellness •Snack - All -day - Diet Plan – Nidhi Prakash he stress of modern day living is causing enormous burden on healthcare globally. Poor eating habits, sleep deprivation and sedentary lifestyle have contributed to the growth of lifestyle diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, cardiovascular diseases and obesity. All of these diseases can seriously impact a person’s quality of life. People who are obese are twice as likely to have hypertension. Obesity leads to many diseases such as Type 2 diabetes, infertility, arthritis, heart diseases, GERD and Cancer. W.H.O has defined obesity as a lifestyle disease. A BMI of 30 or more is Obese. A BMI of 36 or more along with co-morbidities and life-threatening chronic illness is called Morbid Obesity. Obesity is measured using several parameters and the most common one is Body Mass Index. BMI= Weight (kg)/Height (m)2 W.H.O classification of BMI for Adults – •Guide to Choosing Cooking Oil – Sapna Agarwal •Concept and Methodology of Yoga – Anita Dua •Meditation: Food for the Soul – Savita Bhutani How do we gain Weight? Any extra amount of food consumed gets converted into fat and gets accumulated in the body. The recommended daily allowance for overweight or obese person having sedentary lifestyle is 1200 kcal/day for women and 1400 kcal/day for men. Eating only one extra piece of mithai or fried cutlet containing approx. 100 calories everyday over and above the recommended 1200 kcal daily meal plan will result in the following: As 7000 calories energy is given by 1 kg of Adipose tissue (Fat) Therefore 100 calories will give ____________ = 100x1 7000 = 0.014 kg /14 g In 1 month it will be _____________________ = 0.014 x 30 = 0.42 kg /420g In 1 year it will be ________________________ = 0.42kg x12 = 5.04 kg In 5 years it will be_______________________ = 5.04 kg x 5 = 25.20 kg 61 Many behavioral factors play a role in obesity, including our eating habits and daily activity level. Other factors, such as stress, anxiety, lack of sleep and genetic factors can also lead to weight gain. Women may also have trouble losing the weight they gain during pregnancy or menopause. Certain medications, such as birth control pills and antidepressants can also cause weight gain. Medical conditions such as hypothyroidism can lead to weight gain. Benefits of Weight loss Programs •Life span increases by 10 - 20 years •Co-morbidities (Type 2 Diabetes, Thyroid, Migraines etc.) reduce by 7080% •One Feels very light and becomes active •Social life improves drastically •Overall Quality of life of a patient improves by 90-95%. Jogging for 30 min are burnt. >> approx. 300 calories >> To burn 1 kg fat >> 23 days are required. >>for a loss of 30kg are required. >> 690 days or 1.9 years Therefore, one has to follow regular exercise and restrictive diet pattern to be followed for 2 years to get the desired result in weight loss. 3.Medication- Use of weight reducing pills and skin creams are banned by W.H.O as they have steroids and chemicals, which have various side effects on your body and skin. 4.Change in Behaviour – As people get hungry, they are more likely to ‘binge’ during their next meal, which leads to weight gain. Various books and software programs are available but are effective only for people having BMI < 35. Treatment Procedures b) Surgical Treatments a) Non-Surgical Treatments Surgery is an option left to treat obesity when one has tried other methods for losing weight but has not been successful in maintaining long-term weight loss. 1. Diet- One has to follow Low-Cal, High Protein, and High Fiber Diet program under close supervision of a qualified dietitian for a significant and sustainable weight loss. For Morbid Obese people ‘Dieting’ is not very effective because: •According to scientific studies, approx. 90% people regain weight after 1 or 2 years. This is called ‘Yo-Yo effect’ and this time they gain 5-6 kg more than they had lost. •It is practically impossible for them to starve/ eat only salads and fruits everyday to cut even 500 calories/day. •Though various weight-loss plans are available but none of them provides longterm weight loss maintenance to people of BMI >35. 2.Exercise- Possible for obese people only morbid obese people cannot exert so much. 62 Scientifically 1 kg of fat is lost when 7000 calories are burnt. 1.Liposuction – A Cosmetic Surgery, Only 2-5 kg fat is removed from the surface. It has no medical benefit in resolution of co-morbidities. Patients regain the lost fat in a short term since it does not impact their basic diet. 2.Bariatric Surgery – The bariatric operations are done using minimally invasive (laparoscopic) surgery on the stomach. 3-4 very small holes, measuring only half to 1 cm diameter, are made on the lower abdomen, which causes negligible pain. The surgery is done in many ways like Lapaparoscopic Gastric Banding, Gastric bypass, Sleeve gastrectomy etc. Among all these LSG is becoming the most popular method in India and abroad. Laparoscopic Sleeve Gastrectomy (LSG) In this type, the Surgeon removes 75% of the stomach leaving the stomach shape of a ‘Sleeve’. The capacity of the stomach reduces from 1.5 liters to 200 ml only. The food is absorbed normally along with all the vitamin and minerals we eat. The Small stomach gets full quickly with less food and brings early satiety. Hunger hormone ‘Ghrelin’ that is secreted by the part of the stomach is now removed, resulting in ‘disappearance of hunger pangs’. Only the eating pattern changes from 3 large meals to 8-10 small frequent meals (low calorie and low fat) including nutritious liquid, semi solid and solid diet. Advantages of LSG: •Stomach size is reduced, so the amount of food intake too. C.G.H.S approval The Central Government Health Services has approved Bariatric Surgery after recommendation of an expert panel. A person having BMI 37.5 with co-morbidities or having BMI 40 or more can avail the facility of getting the surgery done for free of charges in any of the empanelled hospitals in Delhi. The current rates for Bariatric surgery start from 2.25 lakhs with only 3-4 days of hospital stay. Outside India, the same surgery costs more than $5000. ‘Robotic Bariatric surgery’ which is also gaining popularity now a days, costs above 5 lakhs in India, which in my opinion, is not at all worth as it gives the same results as any of the Laparoscopic Bariatric surgery does. Life style changes required after surgery •Do regular exercise to burn accumulated fat. •Take small and frequent meals/Snacking allday (fruits, vegetables, pulses, whole grains, egg whites and low-fat dairy products). •Avoid long gap between two meals otherwise rapid or excessive eating will induce vomiting. People are generally scared of the term SURGERY but now days it is done by laparoscopic procedure causing least pain and zero side effects. One can resume his/her daily routine within a week’s time after surgery. •Vitamins and Minerals are fully absorbed as earlier through stomach. •Patients loose 55% of excess weight, which is highly sustainable. •Highly effective in Type2 Diabetes, Thyroid, HTN and Arthritis. •Women facing infertility, PCOD etc. are able to conceive after 2 years of Bariatric surgery. •Chances of Gastric leakage is less than 0.01 % as Stapling (a procedure in which staplers are put on the remaining cut sides of the stomach) is tested twice or thrice by the surgeon. 63 Guide to Choosing Cooking Oil Other Seed & Vegetable Oils (Soyabean, Sunflower, Corn, Canola Oil) These should generally be avoided as they undergo a lot of processing which reduces their nutrient value. They are high on Trans fats to enhance their shelf life. They have been wrongly advertised as heart healthy and are linked to cancer and heart-ailments. Sapna Agarwal C ooking oil is inevitable while preparing a dish. Whether it is a salad or main course, you need to use oil. Technically, cooking oil is plant, animal, or synthetic fat used in frying, baking, and other types of cooking. It is also used in food preparation and flavouring that doesn’t involve heat, such as salad dressings and bread dips, and in this sense might be more accurately termed edible oil. Choosing the right cooking oil can save you from heart diseases, cholesterol blockages, obesity and digestion problems. Heating oil changes its characteristics. Different types of oils have different smoking point (the point beyond which oil becomes useless because fats in the oil start breaking down) and therefore may not be suitable for all cooking purposes. When choosing cooking oil, it is important to match the oil’s heat tolerance with the cooking method. When you’re cooking at a high heat, you want to use oils that are stable and don’t oxidize or go rancid easily. When oils undergo oxidation, they form harmful compounds that you definitely don’t want to be consuming. Saturated fats and monounsaturated fats are pretty resistant to heating, but oils that are high in polyunsaturated fats should be avoided for cooking at high temperatures. The fats in cooking oil can be broadly classified as good fats and bad fats. Good Fats- They are generally liquid at room temperature. Monounsaturated fats, Polyunsaturated fats, and Omega-3 fatty acids are known to help prevent heart diseases, cancer, inflammation, Alzheimer’s etc. They also lower bad cholesterol, has anti-ageing benefits, and 64 Olive Oil enables absorption of certain vitamins. Bad Fats- Saturated fats (generally solid at room temperature), and trans-fat (used to elongate shelf-life of products) are examples. These are linked to heart diseases and diabetes as they reduce your good cholesterol and shoot up your bad cholesterol. Here is a comparative study of some commonly used cooking oils - Olive Oil (Types-Extra Virgin, Virgin and Light Olive Oil) It’s rich in monounsaturated fats and anti-oxidants. It is known to lower risk of heart diseases and breast cancer. Extra virgin oil is the richest in good fats but has a very low smoking point and hence not suitable for cooking, frying, sautéing or baking; best used for salad dressing and drizzling. Virgin oil can be used for sautéing or cooking at low and medium temperatures. Light olive oil can be used for baking and high temperature cooking. Coconut Oil (Types – Refined and Virgin) It’s rich in Omega-3 fats, and saturated fats that make it the best for high heat cooking and impart long shelf life. It lowers the risk of neurological disorders, cancer, and also helps fight pathogens. However, it increases both good and bad cholesterol levels. Virgin coconut oil should be preferred for its higher nutrient value. Ghee Being an animal fat, it is high on saturated fats and monounsaturated fats. However, it is much better than butter as it does not contain margarine. It is known to add flavor and compliment Indian food very well. Canola Oil It is the best out of this category with the highest amount of mono and polyunsaturated fats. This comes closest to olive oil in terms of health benefits but is highly refined. It compliments Indian food pretty well. Coconut Oil The above comparison shows that different oils cater to different needs and cooking styles. According to leading health expert Shikha Sharma, “changing or rotating oils is healthy as it gives the body the different essential fatty acids it needs; a healthy combination of mono (50%), poly (30%) and saturated fats (20%).” Quick Tips •Use Olive for breakfast, pastas, salads, eggs, Sunflower and Coconut for deep-frying, Canola and Ghee for Indian dishes •Daily consumption per person should not exceed 3-4 teaspoons •Keep oil in cool, dry, dark place to avoid oxidation; buy smaller batches to avoid damage •Don’t reuse oil that has been used for deep frying Other Seed & Vegetable Oils The issue of recycling Proper disposal of used cooking oil is an important waste-management concern. Cooking oil should never be dumped in the kitchen sink as it contaminates water and causes blockages. Proper way to dispose is to seal it in a non-recyclable container and discard it with regular garbage. It can also be recycled for use as animal feed or fuel for biodiesel, soaps and other industrial products. Canola Oil 65 Concept and Methodology of Yoga Anita Dua T he concept of Yoga is simple and a balanced one. Yoga as understood and practiced today is essentially Yoga Asanas or hatha yoga, purely, a physical discipline! It has its tremendous benefits. If practiced correctly with right alignment, timing and sequencing yoga asanas make us physically and mentally alive in a unique way. Medically proven, Yoga is a prevention and cure for numerous ailments. Indeed a wholesome approach to healthy mind and body as we advance in years. However, the science and art of yoga goes much beyond physical discipline. Physical asana being the third step, there are further five steps which completes the Yoga Practice. The ultimate goal is to attain Samadhi, the final limb of yoga. That is why Yoga cannot be mastered in 7 days, 7 months, it is a constant process! Ultimately it grows on you and becomes a lifetime habit. As our practice continues regularly over the years, so does the advancement of the steps or the limbs in our own unique individualistic way. Eight Limbs or Ashtanga Yoga The basic tenets of yoga are described in the form of eight limbs, or steps, explained by the founder of yoga, Sage Patanjali, in the yoga sutras around 2000 BC. These tenets outline the fundamental code of correct conduct for a Yogi. It is a path that we should follow with some awareness for a successful yoga session. YAMA Yama refers to general ethical principles – Non violence, truth, non-stealing, self control and unselfishness. A tall order indeed. 66 NIYAMA: Niyama refers to self restraint and personal discipline – cleanliness, contentment, earnest effort, self-study and faith in God. An important facet. As we continue with our yoga practice, some of these qualities get automatically incorporated. ASANAS: Asanas are the various physical pos- tures. They not only purify mind and body but also have preventive and curative effects on our body, of which we may be totally unaware of. As Sage Patanjali writes in Yog Sutra 11.28 “ The practice of Asanas destroys, the impurities of the body and mind, after which maturity in intelligence and wisdom radiate from the core of the being to function in union with the body , senses, mind, intelligence and consciousness” PRANAYAMA: Prana means breath, life, vitality, energy and strength. Ayama means to stretch, expand, contract, regulate, retain and control the breadth. Patanjali in his Yogasutra ( Ch.2, Sutras49-51) describes pranayam as “The controlled intake and outflow of breath in firmly established posture” Posture refers to Padama Asana (Lotus pose) or Sukhasana (easy pose) and Gyanmudra, could be chinmudra for pranayams like Kapalhati and Bhastrika. Chapter 11 further states “When breath is steady or unsteady, so is the mind and along with it the person. Hence the breath should be controlled.” PRATYAHARA: PRATYAHARA refers to the control of the senses – taste, touch, smell, sight and hearing. DHARNA: Dharna means concentration. DHYANA : Dhyana means meditation SAMADHI: Samadhi is the final goal of yoga, a state of total absorption and union with God. The first four steps are generally followed, to some extent due to time constraints, in our busy world. These steps make our bodies healthy, free from physical/mental ailments and we are in a state to proceed further. The fifth step onwards, the cycle is somewhat as follows: Pratyahara leads to mind control, which is further intensified in Dharna through single-minded concentration. Pointed concentration is normally spiritual. Prolonged concentration/Dhayana leads to meditation. In meditation/ Dhyana, you may experience release from attachments freedom from pain or sorrow, leading to total sense of peace and well being. A blissful state indeed! A condition where self awareness is lost, what remains is the pure brilliance of spiritual intelligence. In short, Smadhi, the ultimate state is personal and individualistic and cannot be effectively explained in words. “Undisturbed calmness of mind is attained by cultivating friendliness toward the happy, compassion for the unhappy, delight in the virtuous, and indifference toward the wicked.” ― Patañjali, The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali 67 MEDITATION: FOOD FOR THE SOUL Savita Bhutani Meditation is the most simple and natural phenomenon yet the most misunderstood too. People think meditation is for people who are mentally disturbed or that we need to go to Himalayas to meditate or that it’s very difficult to do. So many doubts linger in the mind about which is the best technique of meditation or when one should do it or where to learn it. Most of the people find meditation very abstract and vague. The reality is that meditation is as natural and as essential as breathing. It is the food for the soul ...unless we can connect to our inner source or life or higher consciousness of which we are a part, we feel incomplete, lost and unhappy. Meditation leads to a very deep state of relaxation, much deeper than relaxation that we get during sleep, much deeper than any rest we can ever have. Our inner self is full of joy, peace, love, wisdom and enthusiasm. When we let go of all that we hold on to, relax and rest deep we can experience real peace and happiness. We often think that meditation is concentration, but it’s just the opposite, it’s deconcentration, an art of doing nothing, relaxing in our being. In fact a good concentration is a result of meditation. Through meditation we can achieve a balance of a sharp and focused mind with a relaxed and expanded consciousness and that is what leads one to awakening of divinity. Mediation is accepting a moment without any anxiety, worry and doubt. It is living the moment totally with depth and full awareness. Is meditation foreign to us?. Absolutely not! We have been in meditation for a couple of 68 months before our birth. We were in our mother’s womb doing nothing. Everything was done for us. That is meditation. So there is a natural tendency in every human being, in every soul, to crave for that state of absolute comfort. You know why you want comfort? It is because you were comfortable at one point, because you have already experienced a state of comfort called meditation. Meditation is absolute comfort. So getting back to that state which you have experienced before coming into the hustle, bustle of this world is very natural because in this universe everything is cyclic. Everything wants to go back to its source. That is the nature of the world. From the moment we wake up in the morning we are with people, our mind is busy with thousands of worldly thoughts, so sometime during the day it’s important to sit for a few minutes, close our eyes, set aside everything outside for that period of time and rest in the serene and quiet space within. The natural tendency to re-cycle all that you have collected every day of your life as impressions, to get rid of them and to get back to the original state that you were in when you came to this planet, is meditation. Becoming fresh and alive is meditation. Getting back to that serenity which is your original nature is meditation. Absolute joy and happiness is meditation. A pleasure without excitement is meditation. A thrill without anxiety is meditation. A love without hatred is meditation. Meditation is food for the soul. There is a natural craving for food. When you are hungry, spontaneously you eat something. If you are thirsty you want to drink some water. In the same way, the soul yearns for meditation and this tendency is in everyone. In meditation you get access to the quiet mind, do that something which can bring more energy to you, you get access to the intuitive ability which is deep within you. The main thing is to experience that something that doesn’t change, that doesn’t die and that doesn’t decay in you. When you meditate it sends out such a peaceful radiation, waves of light....like a laser light, reaching the other side. There are many schools of mediation, many techniques and methods but one thing common to all is taking body to a very relaxed state and as the body relaxes mind expands and dissolves in our deeper self. Most of the Buddhist meditations use fusion of visualization, images and practices and sometimes meditate on certain themes. Zen meditation requires certain discipline usually based on questioning or silent observation of the self. In Vipasana, we begin with observing our breath and in Sahaj samadhi, we slip into mediation just by chanting a small mantra. Inspired by H.H. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar Ayurvedic Cooking – a healthy way of life • Ayurvedic cuisine encompasses dishes made with the combination of food that balances vata, pita and kapha elements in the human body • Ayurvedic cooking discovered how cooking and the time taken to cook, can change the composition of food and its effect on the body • Preserves the healing and medicinal properties of food • Steaming is the best way of cooking vegetables • It’s good to cook food in iron, steel, copper and clay utensils. Aluminium and nonstick are not good • Cooked food should be eaten in 4-5 hrs • We shouldn’t eat fruits with milk Kaushani Y Desai Ayurvedic Cooking Expert 69 What The Stars Foretell GEMINI (May 21 – June 21) •You will be getting help from others in the form of charity and gifts •A woman is going to be very important in your life •Love and understanding between you and your spouse •End to problems and marked strokes of luck CANCER (June 22 – July 22) •You will have self-confidence, stability and strength in times of stress •Harmonious relations and emotional contentment •Rely on your instincts •An important new business or relationship is indicated •An unstoppable movement will start in your life QUARTERLY HOROSCOPE (APRIL-JULY) Lippi Parida •You will be completing a project successfully •Victory and conquest over difficult odds •Unexpected good news •You will be given an opportunity which you must not ignore •Use your intuition to deal with a deceptive situation •The start of love in your life •Things will turn to the better •At a time of adversity it is important to stand your ground and not to give an inch •A happy relationship in personal life or business •Ills are healed and harmony achieved SAGGITARIUS (November 23 - December 20) •End to current problems and marked strokes of luck •Doorways of opportunity open •You need to develop intuition to know which one to go through •A windfall awaits you •Heavy duties and difficult tasks to complete LEO (July 23 – August 23) CAPRICORN (December 22 – Jan 20) •The path you are on may seem difficult but continue along it because eventually everything will turn out well •An exciting challenge which raises the adrenalin comes your way •A friend helps you at a time of adversity •Long term plans will bear fruit but be persistent •Renewed optimism and motivation in your life •Your current worries will soon be resolved •Wealth, success and honour. •Peace, friendship and family happiness that is going to last •A wish will be fulfilled and everything will work out for the best VIRGO (Aug 24 – September 23) ARIES (March 21 – Aril 20) SCORPIO (October 24 – November 22) •Good health, happiness and popularity •All affairs of the heart will prosper •You will be having a successful and prosperous partnership with somebody •You will complete a project successfully •Prosperity begins in your life TAURUS (April 21 – May 20) LIBRA (September 24 – October 23) •You have to sacrifice something to get something better •Destiny drives you on to achieve great things •There will be a sudden change in your life which will make you a better person •Excellent social life •An obstacle that stood in your way will be removed •A happy relationship in personal life or in business •A good friend brings offers and opportunities •A new decision will affect the rest of your life •Happiness and reunions are foreseen AQUARIOUS (January 22 – Feb 19) •Your life is going to be transformed •Enjoyment of the comfort that money can buy •Something has to be sacrificed so that something greater can be gained •An obstacle stands in your way and you need to work around it PICES (February 20 – March 20) •Your luck will be picking up •Travel is foreseen for you •A good family life •Use your intuition to deal with a deceptive situation •Gifts come your way 71 Savoury Snacks Smita Pande CUP-A-BOONDI Ingredients Recipes Corner •Cup-a-Boondi – Smita Pande •Spicy - Saucy Cauliflower Chops – Smita Pande •Spinach Kebabs – Meenakshi Aggarwal •Chhena Jhilli – Anuradha Panda •Broccoli Pesto Pasta – Geeta Goyal •Mediterranean Couscous Salad – Kiran Bala Dewangan •Rang Biranga – Shashi Kapoor •Mushroom Cocktail Salad – Ashima Deepak •Tiranga - Rangon ki Umang – Shalini Sharma Potatoes..........................................................6-8 Dry boondi.......................................................150 grams Green peas (boiled).........................................250 grams Tomato puree..................................................4 tomatoes Cumin seeds (roasted and powdered) - 2 tsps Black salt and pepper......................................½ tsp each Red chilli powder.............................................¼ tsp Coriander leaves..............................................a few sprigs Green chillies (optional)..................................2-3 Salt to taste Method Take the tomato puree and add salt, chilli powder, boondi and boiled peas. Keep aside for 20-25 minutes (or till the boondi soaks up the puree). Now add green coriander and green chillies (cut fine). This is the filling for the cups. Boil potatoes al dente (not too much) and cut each one into half lengthwise. Scoop out the centre portion. Cut a little from the bottom too so that they can stand well on a plate. Take the powdered masalas – cumin, black pepper, black salt and red chilli on a plate and mix well. Now take the prepared cups and roll out the outer surface on to the ground masalas so that the masala can stick to the outer side of the cup. Fill these cups with the already prepared mixture of the boondi. Garnish with green coriander leaves, sprinkling of grated cheese to add more taste. Serve immediately so that boondi and the potatoes do not become soggy. Serve with green chutney and tomato sauce. A TIP: For a slightly different taste, one can also try putting pomegranate seeds in the cups. The potato cups can even be deep fried to get that extra zingy, crispy taste. ENJOY!! 73 Super Antioxidants SPICY – SAUCY CAULIFLOWER CHOPS Ingredients Cauliflowers.........................2 Cheese.................................1 cup (grated) Onion...................................1 big (chopped) Green chillies.......................chopped (fine) Ginger..................................3 cms pieces Garlic ...................................8 cloves Flour.....................................3 tbsps Garam masala......................1 tbsp Cumin seeds........................1 tsp Black pepper........................½ tsp Oil ........................................for frying Eggs.....................................4 Salt to taste For the sauce: Apples..................................2-3 Lemon..................................1 (juice) Vinegar.................................1 tsp Sugar....................................1 cup Salt a pinch Method To prepare the sauce – peel the apples and cut into small pieces. Soak them in salted water. After 10-15 minutes, cook in about 2 cups of water for 10 minutes or till the apples soften up. Mash. Add sugar and the juice of lemon. Simmer for another 5 minutes. Add vinegar and stir. Remove from the fire. To make chops – cut the cauliflower into large pieces. Discard the thick, centre stalk. Soak in salted water. Wash thoroughly after 10 minutes. Grind onion, ginger, garlic, chillies and spices to a fine paste. Take a non-stick pan. Heat 3 tbsps of oil and sauté the paste. Add the cauliflower pieces. Stir for 7-8 minutes. Add salt and let them cool. Beat the eggs. Add flour, salt and cheese. Mix. Heat some oil in a deep pan. Coat the cauliflower pieces with the egg batter. Fry them over low flame till golden and crisp. Drain well. Serve hot with the prepared sauce. Can garnish with onions cut in circles and kept on top of nicely washed lettuce leaves. 74 Meenakshi Aggarwal I magine a harmful substance roaming around freely in your body. These are called free radicals. If left unchallenged, they have the potential to cause various chronic diseases and in many cases, cancer. Now if a substance comes in which would react with these free radicals and form a harmless chemical, wouldn’t that be great?! This is where antioxidants come into picture. They themselves fight the free radicals to protect you. They act as your shields! Some foods are packed with antioxidants. We shall call them “super foods”. Think “chotta packet, bada dhamaka”. To get enough nutrients in our body, we must go the natural way since supplements have side effects as well. Super foods not only provide antioxidants, but also taste good. Fruits such as grapes, blueberries, red berries etc. are super foods. Nuts and various vegetables like green leafy veggies (also endorsed by Popeye!) are also rich in antioxidants. Organic green tea is another super food item. Spinach Kebabs is one such super food, which is not only full of antioxidants but also delicious and easy to make. Time for you to become SUPER MUMMY! SPINACH KEBABS Ingredients Spinach leaves (plucked)...... 1 kg Hung Curd.............................. ½ cup Garlic...................................... 1 to 2 cloves Green Chillies......................... 1 to 2 Bread...................................... 1 slice Honey..................................... ½ teaspoon Salt – to taste Method Wash spinach leaves thoroughly. Blend the raw spinach leaves, garlic and green chillies together in a blender. Cook the mixture on high flame till it becomes dough-like consistency (it gets reduced to half a cup of spinach). Add hung curd, bread, honey and salt and mix thoroughly. Make small flattened balls (kebab shaped). Cook both the sides with a little oil on a hot griddle till golden brown. Serve hot with green chutney or tomato ketchup. 75 Italian delicacy Cottage Cheese Dessert Geeta Goyal Anuradha Panda Chhena Jhilli O Broccoli Pesto Pasta Ingredients disha has a rich tradition of preparing variety of sweetmeats from homemade cottage cheese - Chhena in Odia. Chhena is used in innumerable delicious ways, be it baked, steamed, shallow or deep fried and the outcome is a finger licking gastronomic delight. Chhena Jhilli is basically a cottage cheese based sweet which can be easily prepared at home and in a jiffy. Though a rich preparation, it’s a delight to savour. The word Jhilli is essentially the shape of the sweet, like that of a jalebi, except that it is thicker with lesser turns. Nimapada, a small town in Puri district, is famous for its variety of delectable Chhena based sweetmeats including Chhena Jhilli. Grated Parmesan Cheese.......................... 4tbsp Ingredients Oregano..................................................... 1tsp Chhena (Cottage Cheese)..............500 grams Maida/Refined Flour.......................50 grams Broccoli...................................................... 500gms Fuseli Pasta................................................ 500gms Loosely Packed Mint Leaves..................... 1cup Olive Oil...................................................... 3tbsp Roasted Almonds...................................... 3tbsp Garlic cloves............................................... 4-5 Salt and pepper as per your choice Sugar...............................................700 grams Method Water..............................................1 ½ ltr Boil Broccoli in enough water, till just tender. Drain it and reserve the water. Ghee................................................700 grams Cardamom powder........................¼ tsp Bay leaves.......................................3 to 4 Boil pasta as per the instruction on the packet till al dente with the reserve broccoli water and reserve the water again. Method Heat a pan, add 1 tbsp olive oil and sauté the garlic Squeeze out the whey from chhena completely. Mix the chhena and cardamom powder on a big plate and knead well. Add the maida and knead again thoroughly for sometime. Blend garlic, broccoli, mint, oil, salt, pepper and 2 tbsp almonds in mixer to make coarse paste. Melt the ghee in a shallow pan until it warms up. Make sure it does not become very hot. Take a thick piece of clean cloth and make a small hole in the middle. Put some of the chhena on the cloth and hold it in one hand like a piping bag. Grease your other palm; squeeze the chhena out by twisting the cloth while making circular movements of the hand. The chhena will come out in shape of a jhilli on the greased palm. Slip the jhilli into the pan for frying. Repeat the process to add more jhillis to the pan. Allow to cook on a low flame until they become golden in colour, then raise the flame until they have turned brown. Drain well and put them into the syrup. Let the jhillis soak for a while in the syrup. In a pan mix broccoli puree mixture and boiled pasta with 2 tbsp of reserved water and toss. Check the seasoning. Add Parmesan cheese, left over almond slices, chili flakes and oregano. Serve hot. For syrup - Boil the sugar and water and bay leaves together for sometime to form a slightly thick consistency. The syrup is ready when it forms a thin thread when touched with fingers. Serve Chenna Jhilli hot for the perfect taste. 76 77 Prize winning salad recipes 1st PRIZE 2nd PRIZE 3rd PRIZE SPECIAL PRIZE Mediterranean Couscous Salad Rang Biranga Mushroom Cocktail Salad Tiranga - Rangon ki Umang Kiran Bala Dewangan Ingredients: 100 grams Couscous 200ml vegetable stock 2 spring onions 1 red pepper/yellow 1/2 cucumber 50 grams feta cheese cubed 1/4 cup fresh chopped basil Dressing 1 lemon juice 2tbsp olive oil 1 clove garlic minced 2tbsp chopped oregano 1 tbsp chopped basil Salt and pepper to taste Preparation Tip couscous into a large bowl and pour over the stock. Cover and leave for 10 minutes, until fluffy and all all the stock has been absorbed. Meanwhile dice cucumber, pepper and onions. Pour the dressing over the couscous and stir until well combined. Cover and refrigerate for 1 hour to blend flavours. Mix in the rest of the ingredients before serving, sprinkle with cheese. 78 Shashi Kapoor Ashima Deepak Ingredients Ingredients Red, Green and Yellow Capsicum Carrot Cucumber Apples Grapes Guava Lemon Juice Honey Salt to taste Black Pepper, Oregano Groundnuts, Walnuts Method Cut the fruits and vegetables. Add all the seasonings. Mix Well and Serve. Button mushrooms blanched & quartered 450 grams Hung yogurt 1 cup Fresh cream 1/4 cup Tabasco sauce 2 teaspoons Tomato ketchup 2 tablespoons Olive oil 1/2 teaspoon Lemon juice 1 tablespoon Honey 1 teaspoon Chives chopped 2 tablespoons Parsley chopped 1 tablespoon Salt to taste Lettuce leaves shredded 5-6 Chilli flakes 1/2 teaspoon Method To make the dressing- blend together the yogurt, cream, Tabasco sauce, tomato ketchup, olive oil, lemon juice, honey, chives, parsley and salt. Shalini Sharma Ingredients Cucumber Olives Apple Macaroni whole wheat Pomegranate Lettuce Olive oil Homemade dressing Method Chop fruits, olives and cucumber. Boil macaroni keep aside. Mix all ingredients in a bowl . Add honey, olive oil, chilli flakes and dressing. Serve in a salad plate with some sandwiches and juice. Take four individual martini glasses, place some lettuce leaves at the base. Combine the mushrooms and dressing in a bowl and mix well. Spoon this mixture into the glasses and top with a pinch of chilli flakes. Serve immediately. 79 Team IASOWA Executive Committee 2014-15 Amal Seth Archana Singh President Geeta Goyal Secretary Lippi Parida Joint Secretary Cadre Rep AGMUT Babita Sisodia Rupam Jha Anuradha Panda Haryana 80 Savita Bhutani Assam & Meghalaya Himachal Pradesh Kiran Bala Dewangan Prajakta Neelkanth Priti Gupta Manipur and Tripura Meenakshi Agarwal Maharashtra Namrata Tripathy Odisha Treasurer Renuka Sant Punjab Joint Secretary Cadre Rep UP Cadre Representatives Andhra Pradesh & Telangana Vanita Khaitan MP and Chhattisgarh Tamil Nadu Shanta Ravishanker Uttaranchal Rashmi Chopra West Bengal IASOWA Volunteers Anita Aggarwal Bihar and Jharkhand Sapna Agarwal Jammu and Kashmir Chanchal Sharma Gujrat Shailja Dutt Karnataka Ashima Deepak Aanchal Tita Patnaik Computer Centre Neha Kumar Web Manager Sadhna Mishra Aanchal Manju Prasad Stitching Centre Abha Jain Stitching Centre Abha Garg Prerna School 81 IASOWA Members' directory Name Spouse Batch Mobile No Email Id Monica Kumar Vijay Kumar 1992 9892329320 [email protected] Seema Goyal Prashant Goyal 1993 9868835075 [email protected] Sumitra Bagchi J.K.Bagchi 1963 9810206035 [email protected] Neelam Sinha K.K.Sinha 1963 9810508629 [email protected] Manju Sinha R.P.Sinha 1965 9899105976 [email protected] Chhanda Dutta Rangan Dutta 1966 9871321406 Anjana Prakash J.P.Parkash 1966 9871933189 [email protected] Gyanvati Singh J.P.Singh 1966 9899670000 [email protected] Nirupama Mishra C.P.Mishra 1966 9818292527 [email protected] Anusuya Misra B.K.Misra 1967 9717105133 [email protected] Ranjana Saikia Late Ashok Saikia 1971 9811043319 [email protected] Poonam Arora Ashok.k.Arora 1974 9810229280 [email protected] Meenakshi Gupta Sharad Gupta 1977 9999567491 [email protected] Raminder Kaur J.B.Singh 1983 9899539055 [email protected] Jyoti Bhalla Ajay Kumar Bhalla 1984 9810282772 [email protected] Sanjana Kumar Sanjeeva Kumar 1986 9968289702 [email protected] Shefali Chaturvedi Atul Chaturvedi 1986 9717768327 [email protected] Kusum Singhi L.C.Singhi 1990 9313439601 [email protected] Niti Singh Vijayendra 1991 8750222025 [email protected] Savita Bhutani Dr. Ashish Bhutani 1992 9873687577 [email protected] Dr.Saroja Vaidyanathan C.R.Vaidnathan 1953 9810546646 saroja_vaidyanathan@ hotmail. com Usha Bhardwaj Lt. N.K.Bhardwaj 1956 9810637590 [email protected] Kusum Jaitley J.C.Jaitley 1957 9810337477 [email protected] Renu Arora R.C.Arora 1957 9313624269 Sheila Sahay B.B.Sahay 1958 9810707322 Asha Mishra P.K.Mishra 1959 9871860397 Iffat Hoda Anwarul Hoda 1962 9810101615 [email protected] Meera Jakhanwal S.P.Jakhanwal 1963 8130907262 [email protected] Nikhat Mahdi Shahid Mahdi 1963 9810367869 Krishna Singh I.A.S. N.P.Singh 1966 9810971204 [email protected] Amrita Datta J.K.Datta 1970 9716725224 [email protected] Abha Ghosh A.Ghosh 1971 9650001674 [email protected] Meera Dutt G.S.Dutt 1973 9871118363 [email protected] Neera Seth S.P.Seth 1975 9868143163 Renu Upadhyay Anil . K. Upadhyay 1975 9810502735 Shobha Kumar Naveen Kumar 1975 8826105550 [email protected] Monmayee Basu N.Basu 1976 9818097258 [email protected] ASSAM- MEGHALAYA Name Spouse Batch Mobile No Email Id ANDHRA PRADESH Chander Vepa Dr Ram K Vepa 1954 9810193481 Karuna Dar V.K.Dar 1955 26442840 Shantha Krishnan P.S.Krishnan 1956 9910039596 [email protected] Usha Kumar Late Sushil Kumar 1957 9650524582 [email protected] Sanghmitra Mohanty Satya N. Mohanty 1980 9650972958 [email protected] Noopur Kumar Binoy Kumar 1983 9818259264 [email protected] Usha Vijay Kumar T.Vijay Kumar 1983 9868829196 [email protected] Seema Chandra Satish Chandra 1986 9899951050 [email protected] Suchitra Sameer Sharma 1987 9560550649 [email protected] Babita Sisodia R.P.Sisodia 1991 9810163206 [email protected] Jyoti Jaju Sanjay Jaju 1992 9849904722 [email protected] AGMUT 82 Indra Prakash Virendra Prakash 1959 9811556674 [email protected] Aruna Mathur K.K.Mathur 1960 9013289861 [email protected] Shukla Ahuja R.K.Ahuja 1962 9013097616 [email protected] Meera Mishra D.C.Mishra 1965 9810891700 [email protected] Pramod Kapur R.D.Kapur 1966 9811066500 [email protected] Kamal Pradhan Ashok Pradhan 1967 9871254731 Sudha Prasad Narendra Prasad 1968 9811425906 Geeta Singh Virender Singh 1969 9868986858 Mala Bhattacharya Dr.G.K.Bhattacharya 1969 9899215751 Shashi Sankhla D.C.Sankhla 1969 9871232222 Kumkum Chandra Satish Chandra 1970 9810877644 Jaishree Ramesh Ramesh Narayanaswami 1971 9818320201 [email protected] Chitra Saxena B.B.Saxena 1972 9899174950 [email protected] Kamal Kelkar O.P.Kelkar 1972 9717864399 Simran Kaur J.P.Singh 1977 9910282563 [email protected] N.Dadoo J.K.Dadoo 1983 9868304215 [email protected] Madhumeeta Jalaj Shrivastava 1984 9871074147 [email protected] Lippi Parida Manoj Parida 1986 9650980318 [email protected] Swapna Sundari Anshu Prakash 1986 9810099309 [email protected] Amita Das S.C.L.Das 1992 9910107171 [email protected] [email protected] BIHAR [email protected] 83 Name Spouse Batch Mobile No Email Id Name Spouse Batch Mobile No Email Id Nilima Thakur Ajay Kumar 1976 9899558479 [email protected] Anita Chaudhary IAS V.K.Chaudhary 1976 9899111169 [email protected] Sandhya Sharma Shahikant Sharma 1976 9810422166 [email protected] Neelam Sharan Ajit Sharan 1979 9871148489 [email protected] Roopa Sinha B.K.Sinha 1977 8860181951 Manju Singh Chhatar Singh 1980 9999456444 [email protected] Dr Rashmi Kumar Ajit Kumar 1980 9899303477 [email protected] Novel Lavasa Ashok Lavasa 1980 9810621356 [email protected] Manju Prasad Dr.Arbind Prasad 1980 9818831566 [email protected] Sapna Prasad Madhusudan Prasad 1981 9810444216 [email protected] Prof. Rama Patnaik P.K.Patnaik 1980 9811554662 [email protected] Hemlata Dr.Dalip Singh 1982 9971540888 Charanjit kaur J.P.Singh 1981 9868140986 [email protected] Kanchan Jalan K.K.Jalan 1982 8527929666 [email protected] Sulu Mathew A.Santhosh Mathew 1985 9810207679 [email protected] Rajni Sekhri Sibal 1986 9958822519 [email protected] Shashi Panwar Rabindra Panwar 1985 9910658380 [email protected] Veena Singh Devinder Singh 1987 9958533377 Aradhana Sunil Baithul 1989 9810271583 [email protected] Bindu Bajaj Tarun Bajaj 1988 9711067661 [email protected] Nidhi Singh Udai Singh 1993 7838593095 [email protected] HIMACHAL PRADESH Shikha Vipin Kumar 1996 8512055565 [email protected] Anjula Tandon B.B.Tandon 1965 9868894483 [email protected] Vandana Mohapatra Asok Mohapatra 1972 9650057776 [email protected] Renu Kumar Arun Kumar 1965 9910640388 [email protected] Neera Dhingra Ravi Dhingra 1972 9810088224 [email protected] Vanita Khaitan C.K.Khaitan 1987 8130919092 [email protected] Shobhana Vijay Kumar S.Vijay Kumar 1976 9871052828 [email protected] Rajlaxami Pingua Manoj Kumar Pingua 1994 9425210033 [email protected] Abha Jain R.K.Jain 1981 9810364983 [email protected] Gita Mehta Arvind Mehta 1984 9717869509 [email protected] Azra Khan H.K.Khan 1956 9811677808 [email protected] Sadhana Agarwal B.K.Agarwal 1985 8826123965 [email protected] Chanchal sharma Late Vinay Sharma 1961 9868049482 [email protected] Meeta Pant Kamlesh Pant 1993 9560627377 [email protected] Juhi Sinha Late Arun Sinha 1962 9811014820 [email protected] Anuradha Panda Subashish Panda 1997 8447919192 [email protected] Mimi Ghosh Shyamal Ghosh 1965 9868204242 [email protected] Dolly Garg Rajneesh Kumar 1997 8130077248 [email protected] Aparna Basu Dipankar Basu 1966 9818405134 [email protected] Charu Singh Rajput Puspendra Rajput 1999 9650065556 [email protected] Vibha Bajpai D.C.Bajpai 1966 9718815186 [email protected] Madhu Mishra P.K.Mishra 1972 9825792959 [email protected] Aarti Khosla M.P.Kosla 1962 9868104343 Nalini Chawla Ashok Chawla 1973 9873888704 [email protected] Vandana Jain Pankaj Jain 1978 9650918796 Ritu Varma Keshav Varma 1976 9999219117 [email protected] Rekha Jain Pramod Jain 1985 9999402446 Devina Takru Rajeev Takru 1979 9313778134 [email protected] Sapna Aggarwal K.B.Agarwal 1985 9871530958 [email protected] Soma C. Bannerji Ranjit C. 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