Tennyson Visitor-Spring 2012 - Tennyson Center For Children
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Tennyson Visitor-Spring 2012 - Tennyson Center For Children
Spring 2012 The official newsletter of www.childabuse.org or www.tennysoncenter.org SPRINGING FORWARD TO UPCOMING EVENTS... APRIL IS CHILD ABUSE PREVENTION MONTH! KOOL 105 “For the Love of a Child” Radiothon, benefiting Tennyson Center for Children Wednesday, April 25 6:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. For details, call 720-855-3326 17th Annual Northern Colorado Dinner Friday, April 27 Hilton Ft. Collins. For details, call 720-855-3307 2nd Annual Highland Running of the Bulls, benefiting Tennyson Center for Children Saturday, July 7. For details, call 720-855-3307 11th Annual Red Lion Run Car Show benefiting Tennyson Center for Children Sunday, July 15. For details, call 720-855-3307 For detailed Information on all upcoming events: childabuse.org/events Contact Tennyson Center for Children: 303-433-2541 The Power of Speech /Dave Sevick “There are always three speeches, for every one you actually gave. The one you practiced, the one you gave, and the one you wish you gave.” ~ Dale Carnegie Studies have shown that for most people, the fear of speaking in public outweighs the fear of spiders, heights, flying, darkness and even death---which makes it even more impressive that, one snowy morning in February, nine students at Tennyson Center for Children (TCC) recently conquered most people’s top fear. And in the process, they absolutely amazed us. For the past six years, the Colorado Chapter of the National Speakers’ Association (NSA) has sponsored the Tennyson Center speech contest where any interested TCC student is encouraged to take part in the annual event. Beginning in early January and working with Tennyson staff as coaches, the students composed and rehearsed their verbal creations A Tennyson Center student receives her critique from the judges following her performance in the 6th Annual TCC Speech Contest. on a topic of their choosing before final delivery a month later. This year, the speeches ranged from the comical to the sincere and from the educational to the emotional. Topics included, among others, a lighthearted spin on the importance of recycling and a humorous look at people who suffer from a Star Wars addiction. On the more serious side, one spoke about overcoming the traumatizing effects of bullying and another gave a personal and humbling overview of the emotional wounds caused by child abuse and neglect. A four-person judging panel, comprised of members of the Continued on page 4 Regis: Learning How to Make an Impact / Nancy Slyter INSIDE THIS ISSUE Speech 1 Regis 1 Bob Cooper 2 Advocacy Council 2 Program Expansion 3 Spirit of Radio 6 Kathy Parker 7 Safely Home Update 7 We often hear that volunteering at Tennyson Center for Children (TCC) can be a life-changing experience, even more so from our younger crew of volunteers. Not only does such an opportunity introduce many of them to the world of charity and philanthropy, it also helps them understand how their actions can have a profound and positive impact upon the lives of others. Every year at TCC, a group of students from Regis Jesuit High School proves that to be true. As part of the required “Learning Service Program” at Regis, students get involved with a local charity or non-profit of their choice. And every year, Tennyson Center is among the top choices. Students are required to serve for two weeks volunteering in a variety of capacities in the TCC classrooms. The Regis boys spend their time with the middle and high school classes while the girls volunteer with the elementary level children. They work as tutors, mentors and teaching assistants; but to all of the Tennyson students, they are big brothers and big sisters. They help students understand that learning can be fun. Even after their two-week service period is over, many of the students at Regis come back on their own time to not only volunteer on their own at TCC but to keep the positive relationships alive with the children who have Continued on page 5 Spring 2012 Two A Message from the President/CEO The Power of Volunteering / Bob Cooper Bob Cooper President/CEO “ People of all ages and all walks of life see our mission as an important part of their lives. “ Editor: Dave Sevick What do you call a group of volunteers? They are not a pack, or a herd or a swarm – but they often attack a project with the full force of a pack, a herd or swarm! We call them dedicated, invaluable, hardworking, essential, and a blessing! Every few days I am amazed again by a group of volunteers here on campus at Tennyson Center doing everything from construction and painting to partying, reading and praying! Dedicated individuals coming in groups from places like Target, DaVita, PCL Construction, Central Christian Church, Regis High School, Concerts for Kids, Pomona Poms, Denver Friendship One, Brown Palace, National Speakers Association, Noble Energy, Foothills Fellowship, Denver Broncos, Orphan’s Bridge, All Saints Lutheran, Johnson & Wales University, Highlands Christian Church, Girl Scouts, Level Three Communications, Lockton Companies, The House, Regis University Alumni, Legacy Christian…and the list goes on! People of all ages and all walks of life see our mission for children as an important part of their lives. These groups do activities and complete projects we simply could not do on our own. They’ve built a shed for storing bicycles, painted bedrooms, wrapped Christmas presents, planted flowers, cooked special meals, re-painted bedrooms, led worship, helped in the classroom, judged speech contests, raked a million leaves, re-painted bedrooms (yes, our bedrooms need and soak up a lot of paint) and sometimes just played a game of Bingo! The list of all of the businesses and organizations who have done so much to help support our efforts to care for children is much too long to mention in this brief space. If your company or organization hasn’t been able to visit our campus yet, we invite you to. We also want to recognize the fact that so many companies have stepped out of the box, so to speak, and created innovative ways to raise funds which help us to accomplish even the simplest tasks of feeding, clothing and educating the children at Tennyson Center. We hope others will consider doing the same so that we can welcome you into our growing family of corporate and volunteering supporters. On behalf of the kids, I just wanted to say thanks. We couldn’t do it without you! Educate and Advocate / Katie Facchinello The Children’s Advocacy Council: Helping to Shape the Future We want to do more to make a difference for all of Colorado’s most vulnerable children. That’s why we are building on the success of our Tennyson Impact networking events to begin the Children’s Advocacy Council (CAC), bringing together the passion and philanthropic power of child advocates, nonprofit professionals, government employees, and business and community leaders to prioritize the prevention and treatment of child abuse and neglect. The Children’s Advocacy Council helps shape public opinion that directly impacts the safety and well-being of Colorado’s most vulnerable children. February, the Colorado Department of Human Services released its 2011 Annual Evaluation Report of the Division of Child Welfare which indicated that reports of child abuse and neglect are increasing. In fact, Colorado received 80,094 reports of possible abuse and neglect of a child, an increase of nearly 10,000 since 2007. Of these referrals, social services conducted 35,832 investigations into the safety and well-being of 60,791 vulnerable children. As a result of an investigation, 39,403 children were identified as having been abused or neglected. These are the children we serve. The mission of the CAC is especially timely, given the most recent statistics regarding abuse and neglect in our state. In The trauma that these children have endured comes at a high cost and we need the public’s support to continue to invest in our kids. A CDC study released in February 2012, found that the lifetime cost for each surviving victim of child maltreatment was $210,012, including $32,648 in childhood health care costs; $10,530 in adult medical costs; $144,360 in productivity losses; $7,728 in child welfare costs; $6,747 in criminal justice costs; and $7,999 in special education costs. The Children’s Advocacy Council meets monthly at Tennyson Center for Children. Upcoming CAC events: April 11, 2012 11:00 am – 1:00 pm. Please join us and get involved in our advocacy program at www.childabuse.org. w w w . c h i l da bu s e. o r g Three Program Expansion Continues to Better Serve Community The Return of the Special Services Unit in Huston Cottage / Nancy Slyter Tennyson Center has continually grown over the years to encompass the changing needs of the children and families in our community who need support. Due to the recent budget cuts in public systems of care for children, treatment services are sometimes unfortunately delayed, shortened or minimized. As a consequence, we are seeing families being forced to take care of children that they may not have the proper training or support to respond to effectively. term respite care to assist families and children in crisis who need immediate help but not necessarily at the level of psychiatric hospital care. The agency has ten years of experience in running a unit with emergency access and is well equipped to answer this need for support. Our Huston Cottage will open its doors to provide services for children and youth who need a short term place to receive timely interventions including therapy, case management, advocacy, and support. After much planning and assessment, Tennyson Center will address the need of short To do this we will focus on practical, solution-focused services that help parents to improve their relationship with their child, reduce family conflict, and address basic needs. This brief “time-out” will help children quickly recover and parents feel confident in their abilities to live successfully together and move forward positively in the community. For more information about programs and services, please contact our Admissions Department at 303-433-1232 or email at admissions@ tennysoncenter.org. New Educational Program Captures a Teacher’s Passion Once Again / Nancy Slyter In our ever growing expansion to support the needs of the children in our community who need unique services and specialized education, Tennyson Center opened a new classroom last fall for students with a dual diagnosis of educational disabilities (including emotional behavioral issues and limited intelligence capacity) combined with specific mental health and/or behavioral challenges including children with Autism or delayed learning abilities. The curriculum in the selfcontained classroom focuses on personal/social skills, hygiene, and life skills as well as work competencies and functional academics. The program also offers the potential for the student to enroll into our ongoing secondary education program if appropriate. The program serves students in grades 7 through 12. Twelve year-old Sean who has exceptional social and communication skills but is only able to read at a first grade level, primarily due to the neglect he suffered in his home life. Fourteen year-old Abby has a learning disability and needs a little more structure in her day to day routine. The skills learned in this program will allow them to successfully re-enter the public school system at some point in the future as well as increase the student's independence which will help them better integrate into the community after high school. Maria Snitily is the program’s teacher. With a certification in Special Education, Snitily returned to Tennyson Center to help open this classroom because of her affinity for and expertise in programs such as this. She had previously taught at TCC but left in 2010 to pursue work in the public school setting, primarily with kids who had cognitive disabilities and low IQ. However, she felt the teachers in her new environment were not getting the support they needed to be successful. She returned to TCC because of the opportunity to not only work with students who have these special needs but to also receive the necessary support in the classroom in order to facilitate the education and skills successfully to her students. “The advantage of working at Tennyson Center for Children is that here it is truly about treating the kids, addressing ALL their problems and ensuring their academic success in the future, pushing them to their greatest potential.” she expressed. “My challenge as their teacher is to balance and address either or both the organic and the environmental based problems.” Above: Teacher Maria Snitily is back at Tennyson Center in Classroom 205 which serves students dealing with dual diagnosis of educational disabilities. Spring 2012 Four “ We are so pleased knowing that the skills they’re developing through participation in this contest will be of great value as they move forward later in life. “ Below: NSA-Colorado members served as the judging panel for the Tennyson Center Speech Contest. Left to right: Christie Ward, Dick Bruso, Colleen Stanley and Don Cooper. Speech... (cont’d. from 1) NSA-Colorado, offer each participant a post-performance critique, primarily highlighting the positive aspects of their content and delivery. Scores are based on six categories: overall content, speech organization and structure, style (how well the presenter used emotion and stories to convey his or her idea), energy (presence and focus), voice (enunciation and proper usage of verbal pauses), and overall impression. For the kids, participating in the speech contest is so much more than simply a chance to overcome their fears and hone their skills. It’s also a chance to tell their stories in the most compelling way possible. As part of that process, their coaches help them with all aspects of public speaking, including inflection, audience eye-contact, voice projection and breathing. And the final results showed that these kids had plenty to say while leaving the audience speechless. the audience as well as the judges in stitches. This year’s winner was 11 yearold Joseph whose speech, titled “PTSWD (Post-traumatic Star Wars Disorder”), offered a truly hilarious take on people who are obsessed with the resurging Star Wars phenomenon. With a style and delivery which many standup comics would envy, he had After winning the top spot, Joseph said, “This is so cool to win, but I know that all the kids worked really hard on their speeches and they were all really good. So anybody could have won. But I’m really proud of myself. All the hard work paid off.” 11 year-old Joseph proudly holds his first-place trophy after winning the 6th annual Tennyson Center Speech Contest. The event was the brainchild of longtime NSA-Colorado member and former President Dick Bruso, who has served on the judging panel for all six Tennyson Center contests. Working with TCC board member Colleen Stanley, also a member of the NSA, Bruso and Stanley had been looking for a unique way for their organization to give back to the community and help support Tennyson’s mission. With the help of fellow NSA members Don Cooper and Christie Ward and after a few conversations with Tennyson staff, the idea for the speech contest was born. All four served as judges. “This is truly a labor of love for us,” said Bruso. “We weren’t sure how it would all play out at first, especially when you realize what so many of these kids have had to endure in their young lives. But every year, these kids blow us away and the talent just keeps getting better and better. And we are so pleased knowing that the skills they’re developing through participation in this contest will be of great value as they move forward later in life.” Although the event contains the word “contest” within its name, it’s never really about winning. In fact, if the phrase “everyone who participates is a winner” ever applied to a situation, this would be it. It’s an event filled with courage, dignity and determination---where simply standing in front of a room full of people is more than these kids ever thought they were capable of just a few months earlier. And when it’s all over, the sense of pride they experience for themselves is only outweighed by that of the judges and members of the audience. w w w . c h i l da bu s e. o r g Five The poem below was written by a Regis Jesuit High School senior about the profound experience of volunteering at Tennyson Center. Regis... (cont’d. from 1) impacted their lives so much and upon whose lives they have made an equally profound impact. “I have been lucky enough to experience a week at Tennyson Center and I already know that I will be coming back after my service project is over. The work that is being done here is truly remarkable. The teachers and staff deserve an infinite amount of praise for all the love and time they put into helping these children. I will carry the things that I have seen and heard here with me always. The Tennyson Center is my charity of choice” shared one of the Regis boys. A few years ago a similar feeling and bond formed between a Regis student and a child being served at Tennyson. The experience was so profound that after his service project was completed, he encouraged his entire family to volunteer at TCC. The family continued to work with TCC children, but their primary focus was to continue to nurture the relationship with the one child whom their son befriended. Upon leaving Tennyson Center this child transitioned into their home to be fostered. Cindy McKinney, Manger of Volunteer Services, has witnessed firsthand the impact the Regis students have had on the children at Tennyson Center. She meets with the Regis students at the end of each day to discuss their assignments in the classrooms, their interactions with the children, and allows them to decompress and express how they are feeling about their challenges. A Gift of Self By Hayden Schwarz Sponges arrive on a school bus yellow, With inner flames opposite to my matured mellow. Tennyson PE Teacher Bill Feeley (left) and Principal Kelly O’Shea (back) praise the volunteering efforts of two Regis Jesuit seniors. students and their parents at a pizza party to thank and praise them for their hard work. The impact made, the level of patience showed, and the friendships created are such assets to staff and children alike that it’s hard to let them go. “The Regis kids have been such an incredible help to the entire staff. Sean has done an awesome job getting to know one of our new students. He has really helped bring him out of his shell. We’ve seen a whole new side of this kid the last few days. Sean has also been willing to do any task and offer support to a student when asked,” praised teacher Jacob Fehr. “We were very fortunate to have Austin and Ryan in our class. They displayed strong leadership and always asked what more they could do. Thanks to them, we now have some cool science models put together that had instructions none of us could quite grasp,” laughs teacher Karen Davis. When asked to share what they were going to take away from this experience, the same reply from the boys resounded throughout. “Even though these kids have been through awful situations, they are still people and want the same things just like everyone else. They are just like any other kid.” Appealing to rancid fear to which I clung. Infant emotions, past internal storms they carry, Which I counter with my soul merry. Futures reserved in this decaying world so real, No dripping wound too drastic to heal. On tangents of ignited memory expressed with outbursts, Neglect-induced attention satisfies its continuous thirst. Society and rudimentary choice the subject; The enigma of normality the resulting object. The lesson I teach – the wonder of connection; Interactive memories committed to my collection. A cry for help tattooed to damaged eyes; My impulsive embrace choked, left hiding in plain disguise. “They’re engaged with the kids in a way other volunteers might not be able to because they are so close in age with our students here. They are always quick to see the positive in our kids and not to focus on what their pasts have been,” McKinney says. At the end of the two weeks, TCC staff celebrated with the Regis They balance torturous pasts with intense sense of young, So the utmost offer – my gift of love, Placed in soul by some power above. Hopefully, I blocked the rearview mirror, The 2012 boys’ class of volunteers from Regis Jesuit High School. So their futures bright become ever more clearer. Spring 2012 Six “ Doing this broadcast is truly an honor for me. It’s a labor of love. The Spirit of Radio / Dave Sevick Peter Boyles Brings his Show to Tennyson As people throughout Colorado become more and more familiar with the work being done every day at Tennyson Center for Children (TCC), it’s not surprising that more and more people want to get involved in a supportive capacity. And every once in a while, we’re privileged to get someone with “celebrity” status who wants to help out. Recently, Denver’s longestrunning radio talk-show host eagerly joined the ranks of TCC supporters in a way that took the Denver airwaves by storm. Peter Boyles, morning show host of 630 KHOW, decided that the world needed to know about Tennyson Center and that the most effective way to do that was to take his show on the road, right to the campus of TCC. Just a few days before Christmas, the TCC library was converted into a makeshift broadcast studio as Boyles and his crew arrived in the middle of the night to get ready for the 5:00 a.m. kickoff of his weekday morning show. He had been excitedly promoting the Tennyson broadcast for two weeks and even invited listeners to come down and be part of a live studio audience in order to become a bit more familiar with the work being done every day at TCC. A festive atmosphere was created as nearly 200 guests were greeted with holiday cookies and fresh, hot Boyers’ coffee along with freshly roasted nuts and other treats, courtesy of Colorado’s Amadeus Nuts. Onair guests included key Tennyson staff, alumni and volunteers who spoke about the many ways TCC changes the lives of children and families while, among the surprise guests, were former Denver Bronco Randy Gradishar, Columbine High School principal, Frank DeAngelis and fellow Colorado broadcaster Tom Martino. Listeners were encouraged to support Tennyson with cash donations, both online as well as in person. At the conclusion of the four hour show, more than $10,000 had been raised in addition to nearly $3,000 which KHOW listeners had donated in the days prior to the broadcast. “ “Doing this broadcast is truly an honor for me. It’s a labor of love. This is an incredible place and the work you all do is amazing,” said Boyles. “I’m now hooked on Tennyson Center and I want to do this every year.” We are grateful for the support of Peter Boyles, his listeners and everyone at 630 KHOW. Above: The KHOW morning show broadcasting live from the Tennyson Center library in December. Left to right: KHOW co-host Kenny Dhainin, host Peter Boyles, Columbine High School principal Frank DiAngelus, Tennyson CEO Bob Cooper and Tennyson Marketing Director Dave Sevick. Tennyson Center and KOOL 105 Team Up for Radiothon In honor of Child Abuse Prevention Month, Denver’s Classic Hits KOOL 105 (KXKLFM) will host the first-ever “For the Love of a Child” radiothon, exclusively benefiting Tennyson Center for Children. Tennyson Center, while encouraging listeners to call in, go online or send a text to make a donation. Listeners will be encouraged to help meet hourly goals as well as an overall goal for the entire program. On Wednesday, April 25, KXKL morning show host Kelly Randall, will broadcast for twelve straight hours (6 a.m. to 6 p.m.) giving listeners insight into the work being done every day at “We are so excited about this opportunity to spread awareness and raise much-needed funds for Tennyson Center and the fight against abuse and neglect,” said Randall. The radiothon will feature a wealth of information about child abuse and the mission of Tennyson Center in healing crisisaffected children as well as its efforts to end abuse and neglect in Colorado and across the United States. The program will include interviews with special guests including Tennyson Center alumni, staff and volunteers along with a few surprise celebrity guests. w w w . c h i l da bu s e. o r g Seven Safely Home Update / Kathy Parker “We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.” Sir Winston Churchill This quote is embedded in the sidewalk across the west entrance of Tennyson Center for Children at Colorado Christian Home. Changing the life of a child is one of the greatest accomplishments anyone can aspire to, and Churchill’s words are a daily reminder of what is at stake for the kids in our care. That’s what the Safely Home Campaign was designed to do – change the lives of the children at Tennyson Center. Below is just a sampling of what Safely Home has done so far. Our original plan was to secure enough capital funds to purchase our property from the Urban Land Conservancy for $4.45M within a five year time period. We did it in 12 months and closed on the property in January 2011 with the help of a $1.6M bridge loan from Church Extension. On January 8, 2012, we paid off the loan in full and are now within $150,000 of reaching our goal of being able to finish badly needed cottage renovations for the children. We are planning a ceremony in May to celebrate our early success of completing the purchase of our property. One of the naming opportunities for the capital campaign is “Paving the Way Safely Home.” We are renovating the east area of the campus and creating a multipurpose outdoor classroom featuring flower planters, benches, natural grasses, and a built in grilling and picnic area. We secured a grant for half of the cost from Colorado Garden, Inc. and will fund the remaining costs with dollars raised from selling naming rights on bricks and benches. To date we have 61 bricks and five benches. These will be installed in mid-March, and second wave will be installed in 2013. Our capital plan included upgrades in the cottages. We put new roofs and skylights on the four cottages on the south side of campus, installed new flooring and carpets and we will replace the cabinets in the common rooms within a few months. We hope to replace the furniture in the common rooms next. This will greatly improve the appearance in the cottages and increase security and safety for the children. In April we will open Huston Cottage as a special services unit to provide crisis intervention, respite care, assessment, and/or hospital diversion for children who need assistance in one or more of these areas. continue to explore matching opportunities from either an individual or foundation in Colorado. To date we have raised $11.1 million toward our total $15 million goal. We are poised to secure the remaining endowment to provide scholarships for children who need to be here but the referring dollars aren’t there due to state and federal budget cuts. Endowment funds will open the door for these deserving children and guarantee the future of the Tennyson Center for Children into the next century and beyond. Indeed, Safely Home is changing lives! Kathy Parker Chief Development Officer We are in the midst of exploring the potential for opening a Foster Home with Jefferson County to work directly with the foster parents and children. The home is located near Tennyson Center and will be easily accessible. We have received a challenge gift from a donor who is matching 1:1 dollars from churches and individuals in Kansas. We The inset photo shows how the Tennyson Center “back yard” amphitheater used to appear. Thanks to a grant from Colorado Garden, Inc., construction began on March 1st (as shown in main photo) to transform the area into an outdoor amphitheater, multipurpose outdoor classroom and a space which students, staff and Tennyson supporters alike can enjoy throughout the spring, summer and fall. Be sure and look for the “after” photos of the completed project in the next issue of Visitor. NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION PERMIT NO. 1205 U.S. POSTAGE PAID DENVER, CO 2950 Tennyson Street | Denver, CO 80212-3029 Spring 2012 www.c hildabus e.or g Tennyson Center for Children at Colorado Christian Home Our Mission Tennyson Center serves children, youth and their families to overcome a variety of life crises, including abuse and neglect. Our community of professionals and advocates are dedicated to providing competent and caring treatment and education, both at our campus and within the community. Services are provided regardless of religion, creed, age, race, color, gender, national origin, sexual orientation, disability status, or military status. Colorado Combined Campaign (CCC): #0955 Combined Federal Campaign (CFC): #38586 MARK YOUR CALENDAR!!!