Current Newsletter - Temple Beth Sholom
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Current Newsletter - Temple Beth Sholom
Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ “Our Spirit” TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM…The Place To Be Volume 56 Issue 2 October/November 2016 Elul 5776/Tishrei/Cheshvan 5777 Rosh Hashanah October 2-4 Yom Kippur October 11-12 Sukkot October 16-23 Shemini Atzeret October 24 Simchat Torah October 24-25 November November 11 11 October 12 Thanksgiving www.beth-sholom.org November 24 http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be Temple Beth Sholom 50 Pamela Road, Framingham, MA 01701 www.beth-sholom.org 508-877-2540 A Member of United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi Laurence Bazer Rabbi Emeritus Murray Levine Cantor Scott Sokol President David Levinson Vice President David Krendel Vice President Eric Weinstein Vice President Dianne Wolpert Treasurer Daniel Mainzer Financial Secretary Marc Shapiro Recording Secretary Brett Berkman Immediate Past President John Herrera Education Director Fredda Hamilton Office Manager Fern Elinoff Bookkeeper Marla Levin [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext 201 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext 210 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext, 255 www.beth-sholom.org Ruchenu Deadline The deadline for submitting articles to appear in the Ruchenu is the 10th of each month for the following month’s issue. The deadline for all ads is the 2nd Friday of each month for the following month’s issue. All ads should be submitted in Word format, camera ready. Please e-mail all materials to [email protected] and [email protected] Next Issue Information: Deadline for December issue: November 10th [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext, 215 Temple Beth Sholom Hours [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext 202,3 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext 205 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext 206 Committee Chairs Adult Education Norman Finkelstein Brotherhood Stephen Golden Robert Haberman By-Laws Evie Shorey Caring Volunteers Lee Bauer Education Ilana Downes Event Planning Dianne Wolpert Hall Rental Fern Elinoff House Marc Shapiro Membership Richard Davino Publicity Norma Kramer Sara Kramer Ritual Norma Kramer Sisterhood Stacy Edinburg Strength To Strength Jody Comins Social Action Ronnie Pologe Strategic Planning Deb Frank Web Site Mark H. Granoff Young Families Nurit Lieberman Youth Gayle Seletz 2 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 250 508-877-2540 ext. 250 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 213 [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 205 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 208 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 211 Building Sunday 8:00 am to 2:00 pm Monday & Wednesday 7:00 am to 10:00 pm Tuesday & Thursday 7:00 am to 8:00 pm Friday 7:00 am to 9:30 pm Saturday 8:00 am to 1:00 pm Hours subject to change ____________________________________ Office Monday-Thursday 8:30 am to 3:00 pm Friday 8:30 am to 12:00 pm ____________________________________ Religious School Sunday 9:00 am to 12:00 pm Wednesday 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm Thursday 5:00 pm to 7:30 pm (7th and 8th Grade) ____________________________________ MetroWest Jewish Day School Monday - Friday 7:30 am to 5:30 pm Friday 7:30 am to 4:00 pm [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 263 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 260 [email protected] 508-877-2540 ext. 209 [email protected] [email protected] Ruchenu Staff [email protected] Editors: Lee Bauer Norman Finkelstein Sara Kramer [email protected] [email protected] Editor-in-chief/Layout/Design: Norma Kramer http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ Rabbi’s Message… Our five senses help us perceive the world around us. Taste, hearing, smell, sight, and touch provide the stimulus for living life. These senses can even create “memory cells" that can be recalled when wanted or needed. I want to connect our five senses to the Fall Jewish holidays. From Rosh Hashanah through Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah, each sense can give extra meaning to our experiencing the Holy Day or Festival. And each sense can create positive memory cells that can be recalled, taught, and experienced years from now. Taste and Rosh Hashanah: It would be easy to connect hearing and the shofar with Rosh Hashanah. Yes, we hear the shofar to awaken within ourselves the urge to do teshuvah (repentance). Another name for Rosh Hashanah is Yom Teruah: the day of the blowing of the horn. While we hear the sounds of the day, I believe most people connect Rosh Hashanah to the family meal after services. It's the foods and more specifically the tastes of the food that stand out. One can eat a piece of challah or a slice of apple drizzled with honey any time of year, but most people don't. Only on Rosh Hashanah do we deliberately eat these combinations of sweetness. They are 3 the taste of what we want for the New day of Sukkot, so too do we gather Year: a sweet and good year ahead. together as a kehillah. The most recognizable part of the service is Hearing and Yom Kippur: Hearing Yizkor. It is here where our sense of Kol Nidre by our wonderful Hazzan sight comes into play. Seeing one and Meshorerim is one of the other allows us to remember that we powerful and moving sounds of Yom are not alone but connected to a sacred Kippur for me. It is not just Kol Nidre, community. The comfort of saying there are numerous prayers on Yom kaddish happens when we see others Kippur that move us to reflect on the sharing the experience together on meaning of Yom Kippur. It is the day Shemini Atzeret. when we look inward in silence while hearing the prayers that can move us to Touch and Simchat Torah: It is simply do teshuvah. carrying, touching, dancing with Torah that brings the meaning of this fifth Smell and Sukkot: The festival of sense to light. Torah isn't just to be Sukkot is an olfactory revelry. No seen or heard, it is to interact with. other Jewish holy day is directly Carrying Torah is to carry our heritage, connected with the sense of smell. The our peoplehood, our history, and our etrog is my favorite scent source. It’s tradition. Touching Torah brings all the strange lemon-like fruit, with a this alive. tantalizing fragrance. Only the etrog and hadas (myrtle) of the luluv are Our five Holy Days and festivals are fragrant. And while dwelling outside vehicles for us to experience our lives in the sukkah, we are surrounded by and our Judaism to the fullest. May the smells of Autumn, especially this we all revel in our five senses and holy October as Sukkot falls right in the days over the next month. middle the change of leaves. From my family to yours, Sight and Shemini Atzeret: Officially Shanah Tova and may we all be Shemini Atzeret has no intrinsic inscribed B'sefer Hachayim--the Book symbols, save being called the Festival of life, for health, happiness, peace, of Assembly. As our ancestors and love. gathered once more in the Great Temple on the eighth and concluding Rabbi, Dr. Larry Bazer Rabbi Bazer’s Office Hours Rabbi Bazer will be available to meet with congregants on Monday mornings October 31st — 10:00-12:00 Noon November 7th and 21st — 10:00-12:00 Noon Please feel free to stop by. Also remember that the Rabbi is always available by appointment by calling 508-877-2540 ext. 201, to set up a time, or by e-mail: [email protected] www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be President’s Message… Shalom, The High Holidays have to be my favorite time of the year: more people come together as a Jewish community than at any other time of the year. The clergy recognizes this as an opportunity to speak on important topics and provide inspiration and meaning. Here, at Temple Beth Sholom it’s also the time of year when we kick-off our annual Strength to Strength Campaign. Last year’s campaign exceeded our budgeted amount even at a time when we had to do extra fundraising for our broken air conditioner. Our members really know how to answer the call when called upon! 70% of the congregation donated to the Strength to Strength campaign, and 70% of those donations were either the same or higher than the previous year! 4 While you are davening in Shul on Kol Nidre, and listening to the Strength to Strength campaign speech, surrounded by beautiful new air conditioning, please consider donating to the campaign. The popular saying is “No gift is too small.” Our goal is 100% participation this year so even $18, $36, $50, or $100 means a great deal to the campaign. If you gave in previous years, thank you! If not, please consider a token amount; every dollar of your donation goes straight to our bottom line and strengthens our community. Jody Comins has graciously accepted to chair the committee this year and John Herrera will assist her in our efforts. I look forward to seeing everyone at services this year and get the chance to not only pray with you but to welcome you and shake your hand as I walk around the sanctuary prior to the Torah service. Thank you, and may you and your family have a happy and This years’ Budget committee worked hard not to increase healthy New Year and an easy Fast! the amount needed by Strength to Strength to fund our L’Shanah Tovah! operations. The amount for this years’ campaign remains the same as last year; $104,000. David Levinson, President to keep up with events of interest in the Greater Boston area. Also, throughout the year, Hebrew College offers a variety of programs for the community. Go to www.hebrewcollege.edu for information. The Adult-Education Committee members, Milt Coleman, Rona Kahn, Ruthann Ruthfield and Norman Finkelstein wish you a G’mar Hatimah Tovah. Adult Education: It’s never too late to learn. Our Wednesday and Thursday classes offer exciting ways to expand your Jewish knowledge in a friendly atmosphere. (No tests or grades to worry about!) Beginning on Wednesday, October 19 for nine-weeks is Unsung Heroes in American Jewish History. The class meets from 9:45-11:30. On Thursday evening, October 20, join fellow congregants in Rabbi Bazer’s class, Norman Finkelstein From Idols, Arks, and Kingdoms to Exiles, Greek Games, Adult-Education Chair and Rabbinic Thoughts: The World of Judaism vs. Ancient History. The class meets weekly at 7:45 PM. (Come a bit earlier at 7:15 for Minyan. It’s a mitzvah.) To register, please contact Fern in the Temple Office at 508 877-2540, ext.205 or [email protected]. We are fortunate to live close to many Jewish educational and social activities. www.jewishboston.com is a great way New Members: Returning Members: Karen & Bruce Cohen Margie & Eric Pell www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ 5 also by our Ha’Zamir Choir members, service with Rabbi Bazer and Aaron Benjy Sokol, Mykalah Jacob and Zwicker for making sure people are What do the High Holidays mean to Jessie Wulf. where they should be! Thank you to me? On a personal level, they mean all of you who volunteered and helped spending time with family and friends. Behind the scenes of every High with the greeting and ushering. There’s always lots of cooking and Holidays there are the people who cleaning in advance and then enjoying make it happen seamlessly for all who Our children have wonderful services the company. It means reflecting on come. We have Fern Elinoff and of their own, thanks to Cheska the past year to determine what I could Marla Levin in the front office making Komissar, Nina Gursha and Geri have done better and how to make the sure the applications go out and come Segal. This year we also thank our necessary changes. It also means back, and are processed in a timely USYers for helping with the children’s thinking about how to improve manner. After the applications come services. Our younger children have back, we have Eric Weinstein and babysitting, which is arranged for by relationships within my life. Mark Granoff performing the dubious Jackie Krendel. Thank you!! The High Holidays are a time to task of arranging for all our seats. remember those who are no longer Once the seating has been assigned, During our services, we have here and to “visit” them before the the tickets are then prepared to be sent motivating speeches by our President, New Year begins. I look back at what out by Sara Kramer. Then, we have Dave Levinson, Brotherhood President they taught me and realize they are our custodians, Rob Crowley and Steve Golden, Sisterhood President still guiding me to be a better person. David Bacon setting up the Social Hall Stacy Edinburg and Strength to S t r e n gt h r e p r e s e n t at i ve , E r i c It is important to take those lessons with all the chairs. Weinstein. These are in addition to the and pass them on to others. I hope that I have been able to do that and will Another important part of our High inspiring sermons from Rabbi Bazer. Holiday services is arranging for all continue to do so. the Aliyot, Torah and Haftorah Please know that if I have missed On a Ritual level, there is always much readers, people to open and close the anyone, I apologize in advance. You planning for the High Holidays and so Ark during the Torah service, and are all important to our success! many people involved. We have to people to carry the Torahs. Thank you Most of all, I want to thank you, our thank Rabbi Bazer and Cantor Sokol to Paul Kaufman, Aaron Zwicker and congregation, for being a part of our for the wonderful services, Larry Marc Shapiro for help contacting all High Holiday services. All the work Sandberg for davening shacharit on all the congregants involved. in the background is to make the High 3 days, Lee Gartenberg for starting us Holidays meaningful to you and your off, Dan Wulf for helping with Yom It is always a pleasure to walk into our families. May we all be inscribed in Kippur Mincha, and Larry Sandberg services and be greeted by members of for bringing us home. Let us not our Board of Trustees, Committee the book of life for a good year. Ritual News… forget Eric Weinstein blowing the Shofar once again this year, always a pleasure to listen to him! And of course, the Meshorerim choir with Francene Sokol, Jill and Larry Sandberg and Dan Wulf, accompanied Chairs and Sisterhood Board. Once inside the service, our ushers, arranged by Jonathan Hochman and the Brotherhood, help to keep the service running smoothly. We also thank Mike Bromberg for working on the L’Shanah Tovah from my family, David, Sara and myself, Norma Kramer Ritual Chair Mazel Tov: To Judy & Stuart Rhein on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Matthew Steiglitz To Pam & Gary Yunker on the birth of their grandson, Gabriel Kail www.beth-sholom.org To Margie Pell on the loss of her brother, Michael Gilbert http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 6 of classroom technology, and we are educational technology which she has looking forward to putting everything been sharing with our other teachers. When we start to read the book of together. I would be remiss without also Deuteronomy, we know that Fall is upon us. This fifth book of the Torah We are hoping that these new tools welcoming Geri Segel, our long time is Moses’ farewell address to the will continue make our classrooms teacher into her new role as Lead people of Israel, standing assembled more engaging learning places for all Teacher. Over the course of the next before him, ready to cross over into the our students. We believe that they will two years, Geri will be taking on more Promised Land. The text reviews and also present us with opportunities for and more of a leadership role with our expands on the story told in the books each child to receive a higher level of staff, as I move toward retiring from of Exodus, Leviticus and Numbers. It individual attention from their my position as Director of Education We look forward to here at TBS. repeats and amplifies many of the teachers. presenting our older children with the commandments, including a complete The French are known for saying, “the recapitulation of the original ten o pp or t uni t y f or t he ki nd o f more things change, the more they commandments—with a change. The collaborative learning that the remain the same.” As I think about commandment regarding Shabbat is technology can offer, especially in the the changes we have planned for the altered to read: Keep the Sabbath day area of project based learning. coming year, I also want to remind us holy, rather than remember the Another change will involve our all about the things that will not Sabbath day. increased participation in SholomPlex change. We are still committed to a Personally, for me that change is programs. This year, our Religious curriculum which emphasizes Jewish representative of the change in mood School will attend the first 3 values, and the importance of being a that Devarim brings. Memory is a SholomPlex Shabbatot in lieu of their mensch. Your children will still be mental state, precursor to action. Sunday programming. We are excited mastering synagogue skills, and doing Similarly, the summer is a time for to be part of the greater TBS so in a fun, engaging way. And you will still be our partners in this process, memory and assessment, getting ready community in this new way. a critical role for which we are very for the next year’s work. By the time Speaking of changes, I would also like grateful. we read Devarim, we are ready to to take this opportunity to welcome move into the mode of action. As we Dena Feldman to our teaching staff. Shanah Tovah, move toward the book’s completion, Dena is a graduate of TBS religious school has already begun, and the school, and comes to us with Fredda Hamilton, changes we envisioned are in the experience teaching and tutoring, as Director of Education process of being implemented. The well as a vast knowledge of staff has acquired new skills in the use Religious School News… Upcoming Religious School Events: TBS Preschool Dates: October 9: No Religious School, Columbus Day weekend October 30 October 19: Second Grade afternoon classes begin November 20 October 20: Orientation for students and parents, Grades 7 & 8 6:15-7:00 p.m. October 24: Simchat Torah 6:15 p.m November 13: Pre-Bar/Bat Mitzvah Program 10:30 am November 23-27 No Religious School: Thanksgiving weekend www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ 7 women spanning all age groups and from all stages of life. Our goal – to support each other, the Temple, and to have fun! If you haven’t come to one of our events before, please take a look at our calendar, and try something new! Even if you belong to other groups, consider joining us for Ladies Night Out (November 1) or a Bollywood Dance Class (November 6); one an old favorite- and one a brand new event! We hope to see you there! Sisterhood News… As we prepare for the High Holy Days, it is a time to take a look back and reflect on the past year. After attending the Sisterhood Paid-Up Membership Dessert Reception with our amazing guest speaker, Judy Izenberg from the Jewish Genealogical Society of Greater Boston, I will be looking back – way back! There is so much history in my family and now is the time for me to get it documented. I can’t wait to get started! Sisterhood also took a look back. Stacy Edinburg When planning our events for this year, we looked back Sisterhood President over the last few years to see what was popular, and what wasn’t. Which events were successful, and which ones didn’t maybe go quite as we thought they would. Using that information, we planned a schedule of events for the upcoming year which we hope will continue to be as great as our first event of the year! Sisterhood is a group of Do we have your correct email address???? In an effort to keep you informed of all our wonderful activities at TBS, please make sure we have your correct email address. Please notify Fern, 508-877-2540 ext. 205 or [email protected], of any changes. Catering is continuing in full force. We are already scheduled to cater several events continue our barbecuing Summer has drawn to a close and we hope that everyone for many Brotherhood and temple events. ur Heritage has had a great time. Over the summer the Brotherhood program will continue as we lead Friday night services at continued its barbecues for various good causes around the the Heritage assisted living center on Water street. The temple. There has been a lot of fun, schmoozing and good residents really appreciate what we do. We are always food! looking for more help. If you would like to help contact us: While all this has been happening, the Brotherhood Board [email protected]. has been hard at work preparing for a new year of fun and The programming committee is hard at work planning activities and we are still looking for your requests and events, breakfasts, and speakers. If you have any wants or suggestions. ideas email us at [email protected] or tell one of the Board members. We welcome questions, complaints Once again we are working hard at scheduling our ushers for the High Holidays. The ushers are here to provide any and especially compliments. Please look for our fliers and announcements for upcoming events. help that is needed and to help services flow smoothly. Brotherhood News… On Sunday October 9th at 8:00am we start the first phase of erecting the Sukkah by building the walls and roof. On Sunday October 16th at 8:00am we start the second phase.. We will complete building of the Sukkah with the roofing and have the Sukkah ready for our Religious School students to decorate.. Please plan to join us (men and women) as we do the mitzvah of building the Sukkah. No building experience is necessary but it is always a fun time. Bourbon and Brisket. Yes I did say bourbon! We are planning a Bourbon Tasting with dinner (smoked brisket with all the fixings) in the Sukkah on October 16th. www.beth-sholom.org It’s time to renew your membership for the new year. Dues for the year 5777 is $56. To pay by Paypal go to: www.beth-sholom.org. On behalf of the Brotherhood Board, my family and myself I would like to wish everyone a Happy and Healthy New Year. L’Shanah Tovah Steve Golden Brotherhood President http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 8 Young Families… The Young Families of Temple Beth Sholom are excited to follow up our apple picking excursion with more exciting activities to welcome in the New Year and bring us together. Mark these on your calendar and be sure to join the fun! Sunday, October 23, 2016 Sukkah Decorating Party Friday, November 4, 2016 Shakin’ Shabbat, Family-friendly Shabbat service featuring fun-filled singing, dancing, and storytelling We hope you will join us at these and all our Young Families events. Sharing special experiences together helps strengthen our bonds to Judaism and our community, and we would love to get to know you! If you would like to share your ideas with the Young Families committee, or if you would like to join the committee, please contact me . Nurit Lieberman, Chair [email protected] Thank You: Kiddush & Oneg Sponsors: Margie & Aaron Zwicker, Lisa & Scott Feldman, and Charles Winer & Debbie Kurlansky Winer To TBS shoppers : Milt Coleman, Lee Bauer, and Dinah Moeller To Ruthann Ruthfield, Lee Bauer and Richard Diamond for beautifying the sidewalk gardens Sponsoring an Oneg Shabbat or Kiddush Luncheon? If you are interested in sponsoring an Oneg Shabbat or Kiddush luncheon, please let Fern know by Tuesday of the week you are interested in sponsoring. Watch for these upcoming December events: December 3— SholomPlex December 9 — 2nd Soul Shabbat December 10 — Lunch & Learn December 17 — Student led service December 18 — Young Families Party December 25 — Family Game Night Come join us for all the excitement and fun! www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu Youth News… “Our Spirit’ 9 themselves, both in the USY community and the greater Jewish community. I think that's one of my favorite parts of engaging with our youth -- helping them grow as people and be excited to inspire the younger kids. We have some great programs and outings planned this year, from getting lost in the (Big Papi-themed) cornfield Mega Maze to minigolf to pre-Pesach fondue party, as well as some great social action/tzedakah projects throughout the year. Please join in on the fun! TBS Youth had a very successful and exciting launch to our 2016-2107 year. It was wonderful to see so many Kadima, Jr. and Sr. USYers at our kickoff event in early September. We played games outside, had a delicious BBQ (thanks to the support of our Brotherhood!), and we got to know each other better and our advisors, Ben and Julie! Our Advisors and the Sr. USY Board have been busy planning our events. Please remember it is NEVER too late to get your child involved in USY! Try Kadima/Jr. and Sr. USY Save the Dates: one event and see how much fun we have! Bring a friend October 8th: Jr. USY and Sr. USY is going to see the off from outside our temple community to come along with Broadway musical Wicked in Providence you! October 16th - Kadima and Jr. USY Pre-Sukkot Harvest Our Jr. and Sr. USYers had a fantastic time at their first Fun at the Megamaze NERUSY regional event on September 25th at the United October 30: Our Regional youth organization, NERUSY is Skates of America. NERUSY regional events are a great hosting their first Kadima (3rd - 5th graders) event right place to meet new friends or perhaps meet up with friends here at Temple Beth Sholom! from overnight camp in other chapters. 1st Friday of each month - Jr. and Sr. USYers will be Now a word and introduction from our wonderfully leading a Friday afternoon service at the Shillman talented Kadima and Jr. USY Advisor, Julie Koven House. This is a brief but extremely rewarding Levine: experience. I'm Julie Koven Levine, and I'm thrilled to be back working with TBS Youth, this year with our Kadima (3rd-5th grade) November 13th - all youth Sky zone at Westborough and Junior USY (6th-8th grade). I've worked with our Gayle Seletz synagogue youth program in various capacities over the Youth Chair past 15+ years, and it's been amazing to see former Kadimaniks and USYers grow and become leaders www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 10 Temple Beth Sholom Book Club The Temple Beth Sholom Book Club meets the second Tuesday of each month from 10:00 am to 11:00 am September through May. If a meeting is cancelled due to a Temple event or inclement weather, we will meet on the following Tuesday at the same time. If you would like more information, please call Jackie Shina at 508-877-6109 or Charlotte Lastnik at 508-877-0036. The following list represents selections chosen by the book club members. Some books are new and may need to be reserved at the library; some are old and may be available only in paperback. Some selections may be found in other libraries in the Minuteman system. We suggest that you go to the library and reserve as many as possible. If you haven’t read the current book, you are still welcome to join us. The Book Club schedule is as follows: Date: November 8 December 6 January 10 February 14 March 7 April 4 May 9 June 6 Title: A Man called Ove The Burgess Boys Where the Heart Is Life After Life All I Love and Know The Art of Hearing Heartbeats The Guest Room The Fortune Teller’s Kiss Author: Fredrik Backman Elizabeth Strout Billie Letts Kate Atkinson Judith Frank Jan-Philipp Sendker Chris Bohjalian Brenda Serotte Some suggested reading: Friends Indeed ~ Norman Finkelstein PsychoSemitic ~ Ellen Golub The Muralist ~ B.A. Shapiro The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry ~Gabrielle Zevin City of Darkness, City of Light ~ Marge Piercy The Screening Room ~ Alan Lightman Abraham: The World’s First (But Certainly Not Last) Jewish Lawyer ~ Alan M. Dershowitz Miller’s Valley ~ Anna Quindlen On This Foundation ~ Lynn Austin Probable Future ~ Alice Hoffman Many thanks to all our advertisers….their ads help defray the cost of the printing of the Ruchenu! 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Join the Kiddush Klub Sometimes, we have a Shabbat during the year when we are left without sponsors for a Kiddush because there are no life cycle events being celebrated. At these times we need to have a fund to help underwrite a meaningful Kiddush. Please remember, you can always sponsor a Kiddush for your special event on a special date...just contact the office at 508-8772540 ext. 205. Thank you for helping enhance our Shabbatot. Will you help by joining The Kiddush Klub? ——————————-—————————————————————————————— Kiddush Klub Membership (PLEASE PRINT) Name: ————————————————————————— Membership Level: Monthly Quarterly Annually One Time $18 $36 $54 $118 $180 Other $ ——— OPTIONAL: I would like to sponsor a Kiddush In honor of: In memory of: Date of Sponsorship: Please drop form off or mail in with payment to: Temple Beth Sholom, 50 Pamela Road, Framingham, MA 01701 www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM www.beth-sholom.org The Place To Be http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA 24 October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ 25 Community Information MetroWest Jewish Day School… MWJDS wishes the Metrowest Jewish Community a sweet and happy 5777! Shana Tova! Building the Sukkah at Shillman House Sunday, October 16, 2016 11am-2pm Shillman House, 49 Edmands Rd. Framingham MWJDS will erect its sukkah at Shillman House for the enjoyment of the residents. If you have never helped raise a sukkah before, this is a great opportunity to learn! No experience or tools needed. Please RSVP to Beth Null ([email protected]) by Friday 10/14 if you are able to help out. We will reschedule in case of rain. Mom’s Night Out: Sweets in the Sukkah Wednesday, October 19, 2016 @ 7pm 50 Pamela Road, Framingham Moms deserve a fun night out! Join us in the Sukkah for a delicious dessert reception. We will provide a wide selection of chocolate and fruit desserts, coffee and tea for your eating pleasure. So join us for dessert and schmoozing, and leave the kids at home with dad. This event is open to the community so bring your girlfriends. Dietary laws will be observed. Cost: $5 per person. RSVP required. Email Beth Null ([email protected]) to RSVP and with any questions. Boston Jewish Film Festival Movie & MWJDS Dessert reception Wednesday, November 16, 2016 @ 7pm AMC Theaters, Flutie Pass, Framingham (behind Natick Mall) Tickets available soon at BJFF.org and MWJDS.org. Contact Solomon Rosenberg (508-620-5554) with any questions. Film Title: Moos Moos’ life consists of cooking, cleaning, and helping out in her dad’s textile shop. But when her childhood friend, Sam, returns from Israel for a surprise visit, he inspires her to revisit her dreams and to apply to the local academy for performing arts. Moos’ fails the audition, but she tries to save face by telling everyone she got in, and begins taking private singing lessons to prepare to re-apply. As Moos begins a secret affair with her handsome singing teacher, Sam realizes that his feelings for Moos may not be purely platonic, and Moos finds herself trying to stay grounded within her web of lies. MWJDS Winter Lights Gala Celebration Sunday, December 4th, 2016 at 5pm Temple Israel of Natick The date has been set for the gala event of the season. MWJDS will hold its annual Winter Lights Gala on Sunday, December 4th at Temple Israel of Natick, where we will honor Robin Kaye & Charlie Sisitsky for their contributions to MetroWest Jewish Day School and the Jewish community of Greater Boston. We will also present Combined Jewish Philanthropies (CJP) President Barry Shrage with the Elovitz Keter Shem Tov (Crown of a Good Name) Award in recognition of his tireless efforts to build the Greater Boston Jewish community. Join us for a wonderful evening of celebration, dinner and music. For tickets or sponsorship information, please contact Solomon Rosenberg, [email protected] or 508-620-5554. www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 26 Community Information Solomon Shechter Day School… OPEN HOUSE Thursday, November 3 • 9:30 a.m. • Open House Learn how Schechter's rigorous academic program ignites a spark in Judaism and love for Israel, nurtures self-discovery through an innovative curriculum and fosters a collaborative and joyful culture and community. Families will meet members of the school community, visit classrooms and hear about financial assistance programs. 60 Stein Circle, Newton. Babysitting provided. For more information about Schechter's Early Childhood Program and kindergarten or to RSVP, please contact Jacqueline Shahrabani at [email protected] or 617.630.4608. For more information on grades 1-8, please contact Stephanie Maroun at [email protected] or 617.630.4625. Visit our website at ssdsboston.org. SCHECHTER PALS (Preschoolers and Little Siblings) PROGRAMS PALS is a free, family-friendly series of programs of the Solomon Schechter Day School. At every PALS event, preschoolers enjoy entertainment and projects that are designed to be engaging, educational and interactive. Hands-on activities that teach Jewish values are woven into every PALS. Please join us for the fun! All PALS programs are held at 60 Stein Circle, Newton. For more information, contact Stephanie Maroun at 617-630-4625 or at [email protected] Sunday, November 20, 2016 • 4:00-5:30pm • Light Your Campfire! A Josh & the Jamtones Concert & Dinner Come camping indoors! Songs, spirit and s’mores… enjoy all the fun of camp with no mosquitoes or bears! In the tradition of campfire sing-alongs, put your arms around your neighbor and camp out until it’s time to line up for kosher franks and beans, tofu hot dogs and corn bread...and s’mores for dessert, of course! Jewish Family Services of Metrowest… Patient Navigator is looking for volunteers! If you have an interest in helping frail older adults maintain their independence, contact JFS (www.jfsmw.org) at 508-875-3100 x110 to learn more about this flexible, rewarding opportunity. Adoption Choices: Are you interested in growing your family through adoption? Do you have questions about adoption? We can help! Since 1982, Adoption Choices, a non-profit, licensed adoption program, has been providing Massachusetts families with comprehensive adoption services. Our program is designed to meet the needs of the adoptive parents, birth parents, and adopted persons by providing a wide range of educational and counseling services in a progressive program. Contact us today to speak with an expert. (800) 872-5232 Workshop: November 15th Daily Challenges Facing White Parents Raising Children of Color Whitney Place, 3 Vision Drive, Natick, MA 01760 Contact Dale Eldridge at: 508-875-3100 x150 OR [email protected] with any questions. Family Assistance: The JFS Family Assistance Network provides confidential and respectful assistance to individuals and families in Metrowest to help them meet the short-term challenges resulting from urgent financial difficulties. Our goal is to help households remain independent and financially self-sufficient. Diana O’Brien [email protected] Geriatric Care Management The experts at JFS Elder Care Solutions understand the challenges that come with aging. Whether you or someone you love needs help after a stay in the hospital or assessing housing options, coordinating services, understanding benefits, or adapting to healthrelated barriers, our care managers can give you expert advice that meets your needs and preferences. Call JFS and speak with an expert today. 800-655-9553, [email protected] www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ Yahrzeits for October October 3 Lillian Beck, mother-in-law of Sylvia Beck Jack Fisher, father of Rona Kahn October 4 Joan Kovar, mother of Geoffrey W. Kovar Hannah Kahn, mother of John Kahn Isaac Strachman, uncle of Herbert Strachman October 5 Aaron Daniel Franzblau, father of Renee Finn October 6 Julia Fay Regan, granddaughter of Ronnie and Roy Pologe October 7 Sidney Goldman, father of Janice Marmer Pearl Gordon, grandmother of Nancy Bayer October 8 Leon Kovar, father of Geoffrey W. Kovar Charles Wilkes, father of Sherryl Cohen October 9 William L Hirsch, father-in-law of Vita Hirsch Joseph Rosenbloom, father of Beth Rosenbloom October 10 Julius Feierstein, father of Hinda Drotch Sidney Robinow, father of Douglas Robinow October 11 Paul Paper, father of Dena Hochman Carolyn Gordon, mother of Nancy Bayer Mitchell Levin, brother of Rita Hettinger October 13 Jules Seletz, father of Jay Seletz Ira Coleman, father of Milton Coleman William Cooper, father of Howard Cooper Genia Zwicker, mother of Aaron Zwicker October 15 Eve Luft, mother of Helene Sotsky James Flink, brother of Joanne Silver 27 October 18 Gerald Cohen, husband of Rosalyn Cohen Alec Cohen, father of Irene Hill October 20 Martin Brown, father of Selma Durschlag October 22 Herman Plotnik, father of Irv Plotnik Esther Mason, mother of Arthur Mason October 23 Steven Rubin, brother of Elaine Seigal Fanny Peller, grandmother of Helene Sotsky October 25 Evelyn Gruber, mother of Andrea Gruber Steven Sotsky, husband of Helene Sotsky Oscar Machlis, father of Sharon Gartenberg Steven Sotsky, father of Tara Sotsky Kent Mollie Finkelstein, mother of Norman Finkelstein October 26 Shirley Mason, wife of Arthur Mason October 27 Sidney Gorden, brother of Paul Gorden Anne Kline, mother of Judy Rhein October 28 Ralph Rhein, father of Stuart Rhein Herbert Steier, father of David Steier October 29 Sarah Petkun, mother of Thelma Brody Henry Krendel, father of David Krendel Harry Reichel, father-in-law of Charna Reichel October 30 Herman Gorden, brother of Paul Gorden Lawrence Wallenstein, father of Karen Kane Alice Finn, mother of Steven Finn Arthur Kurlansky, father of Debra Kurlansky Winer October 31 Barney Eli Petkin, father of Thelma Brody Leon Stone, father of Carole Pozmanter October 16 Fannie Hirsch, mother-in-law of Vita Hirsch Nancy Kramer, daughter of Miriam Kramer October 17 Aaron Glovinsky, father of Irma Andrus www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be Yahrzeits for November November 1 Louis Seigal, father of Morris Seigal Myer Zwicker, father of Aaron Zwicker Harry Efros, grandfather of Paul Kaufman Miriam Kane, mother of Edward Kane November 2 Hyman Kates, father of Marlene Kriegsman Ida Rabitz, mother of Ronald Rabitz Ethel Kates, grandmother of Louis Kates November 3 Jacob Komissar, father of Jan Komissar William Spivak, father of Herbert Spivak Lillian Futerman, mother of Carol Chudnofsky November 4 Doris Glovinsky, mother of Irma Andrus November 5 Martha Brody, relative of Thelma Brody November 6 Lillian Sher, mother of Melvin Sher Louis Katz, father of Sidney Katz Sadie Kramer, grandmother of David Kramer November 7 Sarah Smoller, mother of Stephen Smoller Ellen Finkel Lurie, mother of Amy Lurie Schulman George Marcus, husband of Norma Marcus Israel Geller, father of Philip Geller November 8 Samuel Lastnik, father-in-law of Charlotte Lastnik Beatrice Ambuter, mother of Norma Kramer Sylvia Beatus, aunt of Norma Kramer November 9 Robert Wazbinski, father of Penny Cooper Sylvia Rosenstein, mother of Joan Sandman November 11 Erwin Weinberg, father of Jody Troderman Arlene Rothenberg, sister of Ronnie Pologe Abraham Ruthfield, father-in-law of Ruthann Ruthfield November 12 Larry Sugarman, husband of Arlene Sugarman Isabel Bernstein, mother of Lee Bauer November 13 Naum Bolkhovsky, father of Vladimir Bolkhovsky Ina Seidman, mother of Robin Seidman Ina Seidman, mother of Gayle Seletz November 15 Hannah Green Corwin, mother of Ellen Bloch www.beth-sholom.org 28 November 16 Eunice Rapoport, mother of Joyce Habalow Gloria Stein, mother of Rhoda Stought Irwin Brown, brother of Selma Durschlag November 18 Joseph Segal, uncle of Marvin Segal November 19 Sam Kay, father of Carol Sokol November 20 Iosif Mirsky, husband of Dora Mirsky Sidney Wainer, father of Deborah Abrahams Paul Morson, father of Ronnie Pologe Berta Minkovich, mother of Alla Bolkhovsky November 21 Clara Esther Golan, mother of Edna Supnik Betty Nathanson, mother of Diane Modest November 22 Jacob Rebisch, relative of Helene Sotsky Howard Hill, father of Marjorie Menachem Howard Hill, husband of Irene Hill Mary Greene, grandmother of Nancy Bushinsky November 24 Harold Grossman, father of Robert Grossman Bessie Lovitz Beltzer, mother of Leonard Lovitz November 25 Ronda Kramer, sister-in-law of Miriam Kramer November 26 Gloria Levitt, mother of Linda D. Levitt Adam Brody, friend of Matthew Barach November 27 Jeannette Malkin, step-mother of Lesley Bielawski Harold Share, husband of Barbara Share Harry Bloom, father of Sidney Bloom November 28 Celia Pologe, mother of Roy Pologe Arnold Kramer, brother-in-law of Miriam Kramer Stuart Hettinger, husband of Rita Hettinger Dora Sandman, mother of Louis Sandman November 29 Israel Chudnofsky, father of Carl Chudnofsky Rose Katz, grandmother of Marlene Kriegsman Bernard Weiner, father of Roni Davidi November 30 Leo Kramer, father of Susan Berkowitz Fanny Spivak, mother of Herbert Spivak Judith Nan Schulz, sister of Leonard Lovitz http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ RABBI’S TZEDAKAH FUND 29 DR. GEORGE H. MARCUS CENTER FOR JEWISH LEARNING Marsha & David Dresner Thank you to Rabbi Bazer and everyone at Beth Sholom for all their help and support when it was most needed Norma Marcus In memory of Ronald Shapiro, brother of Marc Shapiro Vita Hirsch Yahrzeit of mother, Dora Harris NORMA & GEORGE MARCUS CAMP FUND Shifra Rosoff Yahrzeit of father, Louis Goldman The Tursky Family In loving memory of Karl Tursky In memory of Debbi Brady STRENGTH TO STRENGTH FUND Rona & John Kahn In honor of Lucy Press’s granddaughter being accepted to Harvard Fran Nigberg In honor of Irene Hill’s special birthday RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Dinah & Martin Moeller Donation KIDDUSH FUND Harry Kushnir Yahrzeit of father, Samuel Kushnir Lisa Trompeter Yahrzeit of mother, Helen Neumann LIBRARY FUND Arnold Beberman & Family Yahrzeit of Selma Beberman GENERAL FUND Miriam Schuldman Yahrzeit of sister, Beatrice Katcher Marvin Segal Yahrzeit of mother, Gertrude Segal HOWARD ROBINSON LIBRARY FUND Ruth & Alvin Nathanson In memory of Dr. Herbert Kreevoy Susan Robinson Yahrzeit of mother, Phyllis Robinson Sylvia Beck Mazel Tov to Dinah & Martin Moeller on their wedding Yahrzeit of sister-in-law, Ruth Balkin STEVEN SOTSKY ENDOWMENT FUND Steve Goldstein & Sheila Lynch In memory of Herm Libman Susan Berkowitz Yahrzeit of mother-in-law, Natalie Berkowitz Andy Gruber Yahrzeit of mother, Evelyn Gruber DR. BENJAMIN GAYNOR FUND Paula & Harold Homonoff In memory of Jerry Meister Edna & Ross Supnik Mazel Tov to Norma Marcus on the marriage of her granddaughter, Alyssa Freedman to Jason Safer Cheryl & Dennis Hunt In memory of Herm Libman ESTHER & SIDNEY GOLDMAN FUND Judith Itzkowitz Yahrzeit of grandmother, Molly Rechtman Sonia Keats In memory of Bessie & Joseph Hurwitz Lisa Trompeter Yahrzeit of mother, Helen Neumann Jan & Ed Marmer In memory of Barbara Brustin LILLIAN & SAMUEL HILL FUND MURRAY SCHOEM FUND Doris Oser & Family In honor of Irene Hill’s special birthday Linda Miller Yahrzeit of father, Herbert Corman www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 30 CARING VOLUNTEERS FUND Sylvia Beck Yahrzeit of sister, Charlotte Resnick Yahrzeit of mother, Dorothy Neiterman Joseph Cooper Yahrzeit of father, Irving Cooper Elaine Darman Yahrzeit of husband, Michael Darman Rena Finder & Family In memory of beloved husband & father, Mark Finder Miriam Kramer Yahrzeit of mother-in-law, Anna Kramer Shirley & Sumner Sachs Speedy recovery to Rona Kahn In memory of Ronald Shapiro, brother of Marc Shapiro With gratitude for good health Additional ways to honor your loved ones, special occasions, and/or special memories and support Temple Beth Sholom: Saturday Kiddush for 50 people—$150 Friday night Oneg for 30-40 people—$100 Inscribed Siddur—$36 each Inscribed Bible—$85 Yahrzeit plaques—$360 each Name inscribed on Bar/Bat Mitzvah Plaque—$180 Tree of Life — Small leaf—$250 Mid size leaf—$650 Large leaf—$1000 Donations to other Temple Beth Sholom funds start at $8. Please check with the Temple Office for a listing of funds ESTHER & JOSEPH COHEN FUND Eileen Avers In honor of Melvin Kravitz’s special birthday In honor of Gladys Safer’s special birthday Edna & Ross Supnik Mazel Tov to Eileen Avers on the marriage of her grandson, Jason Safer to Alyssa Freedman Please remember to leave your cell phones in your cars during Services!!!! This pertains to Friday night, Shabbat morning services, and holidays. Thank you in advance for your cooperation. www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 Ruchenu “Our Spirit’ 31 ● Ads for Ruchenu ● Business card ● $30/issue ● $120/5 issues ● $200/9 issues ● 1/4 page ● $45/issue ● $180/5 issues $300/9 issues Camera ready ads due by 2nd Friday of each month www.beth-sholom.org http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016 TEMPLE BETH SHOLOM The Place To Be 32 Temple Beth Sholom The Place To Be www.beth-sholom.org 50 Pamela Road Framingham, MA 01701-3998 Phone: 508-877-2540 Fax: 508-877-8278 Change Service Requested Have you made your reservation for: October 16 — Brotherhood Brisket & Bourbon October 19 — Mom’s Night Out October 23 — Young Families Sukkah Decorating Party November 1 — Sisterhood Ladies Night Out November 6 — Sisterhood Bollywood Dancing Flyers inside this issue Page Build the Sukkah 11 2nd Soul Shabbat 11 Lunch & Learn 12 Young Families Sukkah Decorating Party 12 Brotherhood Brisket & Bourbon 13 Mom’s Night Out 14 Installation of Officers 15 Simchat Torah Sisterhood Ladies Night Out www.beth-sholom.org Shakin’ Shabbat 19 Sisterhood Bollywood Dancing 19 Friday Night Speaker 20 Veterans Service and 2nd Soul Shabbat 21 Brotherhood Breakfast and Learning with the Cantor 22 Interfaith Service 23 Kiddush Klub 23 18 Bima Baskets 24 18 Samba Cards 24 http://www.facebook.com/TempleBethSholomFraminghamMA October/November 2016