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MARCH / APRIL 2015 ADAR / NISAN 5775 CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 1 MARCH / APRIL 2015 ADAR / NISAN / IYYAR 5775 3 FROM OUR RABBI 5 FROM OUR CANTOR 7 TIKKUN OLAM From Conversation to Conversion It’s Here… The Adult B’nai Mitzvah Be on the lookout for information and opportunities to serve. 8-9 10 - 20 21 SISTERHOOD / MEN’S CLUB Exciting programs ahead waiting for you to explore! IN OUR CONGREGATION Second Fridays, Kraft Lectures, Birthdays, Anniversaries, B’nai Mitzvah, and more! 9 6 11 CALENDAR Take a look at what’s coming up at CBS and in our community! 22 - 24 4 THANK YOU FOR ADVERTISING PASSOVER GUIDE 2015 YOUR ONE STOP FOR IDEAS, ACTIVITIES, RECIPES, AND MORE AVAILABLE ONLINE BEGINNING MARCH 15, 2015 Contracts to sell Hametz can be found on page 4 in this month’s Kol Shalom. (Want a printed version? Call 302.654.4462 to request your copy.) 2 | KOL SHALOM FROM OUR RABBI FROM CONVERSATION TO CONVERSION Ralph Downard PRESIDENT Marla Cooper PRESIDENT-ELECT Edward Sobel VP ADMINISTRATION Karolin Lipman VP MEMBERSHIP Cindi Viviano VP PR, MARKETING, AND PROGRAMMING Peter Hazen TREASURER Barney Kantar SECRETARY Anita Sobel MEMBER-AT-LARGE Diane Wolf PAST PRESIDENT BOARD OF DIRECTORS Brian Appelbaum Steve Bernhardt Seth Bloom Carol Einhorn David Fruchtman Jodie Pezzner Mara Raskin Frances Ratner David Rosengarten Linda Sigman Anita Sobel Melissa Stanley Hayim Weiss ——————————1801 Baynard Boulevard Wilmington, DE 19802 302.654.4462 [email protected] www.bethshalomwilmington.org ...On another occasion it happened that a certain gentile came before Shammai and said to him, “Make me a convert, on condition that you teach me the whole Torah while I stand on one foot.” Thereupon [Shammai] pushed him away with the builder’s ruler that was in his hand. He came before Hillel, and [Hillel] converted him. Hillel said to him, “What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the whole Torah, while the rest is commentary thereof; go and learn it.” - Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Shabbat 31a It should come as no surprise to you that in the aggadah (story) recounted above, Congregation Beth Shalom follows the School of Hillel, not Shammai. We pride ourselves in being welcoming to spiritual seekers, interfaith families, the LGBTQ community, as well as all newcomers who defy labels. While respecting interfaith families and the reasons why one partner might not want to choose, or may not be able to choose Judaism as his/her home religion, like Hillel in the story above, we want to make the process of Conversion as welcoming and attractive as possible. We want our children, who according to the Pew Study will very likely fall in love with someone who is not Jewish, feel comfortable in asking his/her life partner to choose Judaism – if such a choice is possible. I like to say to our teens in our Kehillah program, “if someone not Jewish falls in love with you, they fell in love with EVERY part of you – including the part of you that is Jewish. There is no harm in, lovingly, asking them to join the religion that made you so loveable to them.” Such an approach is key to our survival as a people, as we invite wonderful people who are not of the Jewish faith to join our small, but sacred community. Toward that end, the four sponsoring rabbis who host our community-wide Introduction to Judaism program: Rabbi Micah Becker-Klein (Reconstructionist) of Temple Beth El , Rabbi Yair Robinson (Reform) of Congregation Beth Emeth, Rabbi Steven Saks (Orthodox) of Adas Kodesch Shel Emeth, and I, are offering a new rolling, ongoing admission to our class, which runs from October through May each year. Until recently, if a person was interested in using our Delaware introductory course as a bridge towards conversion, we would ask the student to wait until the following Fall to enroll. Like Shammai in the story, this policy was putting an unnecessary stumbling block up before a potential proselyte. Now students can come into the program when they wish, and either make up missed classes with his/ her sponsoring rabbi OR wait until the class resumes the following Fall and make up the missed classes then. Here is a list of the remaining classes and locations for this year: Basic Beliefs of Judaism Congregation Beth Shalom Thursdays, March 5, 12, and 19 Sacred Texts Congregation Beth Emeth Wednesdays, April 8, 15, 22 Holidays, Holy Days and Festivals Temple Beth El Thursdays, May 7, 14, 21 Graduation Temple Beth El Thursday, May 28 Applications, fee schedule, and complete schedules can be obtained through phoning our office - 302.654.4462 or by e-mailing Pat Burns, [email protected]. ■ CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 3 2015 CONTRACT FOR SELLING HAMETZ FOR PASSOVER K NOW ALL THESE PEOPLE BY THESE PRESENTS: That I, the undersigned, do hereby make and appoint Rabbi Michael S. Beals my true and lawful representative to act in my place and stead, for me and in my name and in my behalf, to sell all hametz owned and possessed by me, knowingly or unknowingly, as stated in the Torah and defined by the sages of Israel (e.g. hametz; hashash hametz - suspect hametz; and all kinds of ta’arovet hametz - hametz mixtures); also, hametz that tends to harden and to adhere to the surface of pans, pots, or other cooking or eating utensils of whatsoever nature, and to lease all places wherein the aforementioned hametz owned or possessed by me may be found, especially in the premises located at the address(es) below. Rabbi Beals has the full authority and power to sell said hametz and to lease said place or places wherein said hametz may be found, upon such terms and conditions as discretion dictates. Rabbi Beals has the full power and authority to assign or appoint a substitute or substitutes to act in my behalf with all the same powers and authority that I have invested in the Rabbi, and I do hereby ratify and confirm all that Rabbi Beals or a rabbinic substitute lawfully does or causes to be done by virtue of these presents. And to this I hereby affix my signature on this ______ day of ________ in the year 2015. Signature: ________________________________________________________________________ Address: ________________________________________________________________________ City: ___________________________________ State: ____________ Zipcode: _____________ This contract must be returned in person to Rabbi Beals at Congregation Beth Shalom no later than Friday, April 3, 2015 at 10:00am. Suggested contribution for Ma’ot Hittim (food for the needy): $_______________ Please make checks payable to Congregation Beth Shalom. Write Ma’ot Hittim in the memo line. CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 4 FROM OUR CANTOR IT’S HERE… ADULT B’NAI MITZVAH! Are you an adult who has not had a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? Are you interested in studying History, Hebrew, Jewish liturgy, and Trope? Then an adult B'nai Mitzvah may be for you! Some of my best childhood memories involve my mother’s journey to adult B’nai Mitzvah. At that time in my life I was very active in my home synagogue, attending Hebrew School and singing in the synagogue’s youth chorale. I knew that in a few short years, my sister and I would have a B'not Mitzvah; however, when I heard my mother talking about having a Bat Mitzvah as an adult, I didn't understand. It was at that point that I learned that when a boy turns thirteen and a girl turns twelve, they automatically become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah - literally "a son or daughter of the commandment." In Judaism we mark this special coming of age with a ceremony we think of as the B'nai Mitzvah, usually consisting of a service where the teen leads a mix of prayers, chants Torah and/or Haftarah, and the Aliyah blessing over the Torah. Nowadays, many families throw extravagant celebrations following the B'nai Mitzvah service. My mother was one of the many Jews who, for any number of reasons, did not have the opportunity to mark this moment in time in a significant way. For my mother, it was not even an option, because at the time, women did not have Bat Mitzvahs. It was simply unheard of, especially in her Sephardic community. As an adult, my mother became involved with synagogue life and decided that she wanted to learn more Hebrew and eventually work toward the goal of Bat Mitzvah. Before she knew it, she was set up with a Bat Mitzvah study partner, or chevruta, and they began studying regularly. I have the fondest memories of my mother and her chevruta meeting every week at our house over pizza and laughing for hours as they would try to sing some of the more complicated tropes. The process was a special one that involved friendships and joy and learning. The studying process lasted over a year and culminated with a special service and ceremony on Passover. My mother, her chavruta, and several other adult students had a special B'nai Mitzvah ceremony. The ceremony was a joyous one filled with celebration and happy tears. My mother not only now chants Torah at her home synagogue every month, she chants Haftarah, serves as a Gabbai and now also tutors both teen and adult B'nai Mitzvah students. This success story has never left me, as it completely transformed my mother’s Judaism and Jewish involvement. I believe that witnessing my mother's powerful journey helped to shape my Judaism. In addition, it has inspired me to give our adult learners at CBS this same opportunity my mother had. Over the last year, I have received a handful of requests to start an Adult B'nai Mitzvah course, and I could not be more excited at the thought. If for whatever reason, you did not have a B'nai Mitzvah, I highly recommend you join our upcoming class starting this March. Below please find the schedule for our Spring Classes (Dates/Times for Fall 2015 onward will be determined:) Sunday, March 22 11:00-12:15pm - Orientation Sunday, April 19 11:00-12:15pm - History of B’nai Mitzvah Sunday, May 3 11:00-12:15pm - Bible Sunday, May 31 11:00-12:15pm - Liturgy -------------------------Summer Break -------------------------October - December Hebrew January - June 2016 Prayer Book Skills and Trope Sunday, June 12 Adult B’nei Mitzvah Service and Ceremony ■ CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 5 A LETTER FROM SAM SAM NUSSBAUM, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR, CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM Dear Valued Congregants and Friends: My wife Chaviva and I are extremely grateful and appreciative that the Search Committee and Board of Directors of Congregation Beth Shalom have selected me to be your next Executive Director. We are thrilled and excited to start our new life together in Delaware and to join so many wonderful fellow Delawareans living the terrific life that Delaware has to offer. It has been apparent to us from the start that Delaware is a special place and that CBS is a special Jewish community of people, unlike anything we have ever experienced. We feel very fortunate to be part of the CBS family – people and families who care about Judaism, who live a comfortable and meaningful Jewish life, and who care about each other. CBS is blessed with a superlative clergy team in Rabbi Michael and Cantor Elisa. Together, they demonstrate and provide our congregants every day with the best in Jewish religious life: Rabbi Michael with his teaching, guidance, and leadership, and Cantor Elisa with her melodious voice, engaging services, and Hebrew School stewardship. We could not have better individuals to represent CBS both internally and in the greater community. My greatest hope is that I fit in well with this incredible team, and that together, we make CBS the best it can be. As I’m sure you know, the CBS Executive Board and Board of Directors led by Ralph Downard, is a can-do collection of individuals from different careers and perspectives, who join together as one on behalf of CBS both today and in the years to come. And the many other groups such as: the Minyanaires, led by Sam Swinger, the Sisterhood co-led by Jodie Pezzner and Elaine Schmerling , the Men’s Club led by David Fruchtman, the Board Committees, the Gift Shop led by Joyce Kaufmann and Francis Klein, Chesed co-coordinated by Elaine Schmerling, Debbie Grossman, and Claire Kantar, the Membership Committee, led by Karolin Lipman, the Kitchen Klub led by Janet Bailis, and the many other groups and individuals who devote their precious time and energy to make CBS the warm, welcoming, and wonderful place that it is. Each of these leaders would welcome your participation. You will find all their contact information in your Membership Directories. I encourage you to reach out to them if you haven’t already. I look forward to meeting each and every one of you. I look forward to learning about you and your families, to hearing about the history and tradition of this great synagogue, and to partnering with everyone on behalf of our congregation. As we look to the future there will be many new dreams and accomplishments for our synagogue, and I sincerely hope that I can join you in making our dreams come true. Thank you for being so welcoming to us! Sincerely, Chaviva and Sam Nussbaum ■ 6 | KOL SHALOM TIKKUN OLAM EMMANUEL DINING ROOM HANOVER FOOD PANTRY Thank you to February helpers: Lori Barbanel, Claire Kantar and Esther Schmerling, and to bakers Faith Silver, Bethany Kutz, Karen Moss, CBS Sisterhood, and a big todah rabbah (thank you) to the CBS Sisterhood who is covering CBS's Emmanuel Dining Hall’s meals this year. During our February Day of Service we served a delicious chicken dinner for over 130 individuals. Just an early warning that Pesach begins on Friday, April 3rd, with the first Seder. Perhaps you are ridding your household of chometz—then this would be a good time to cull out some items (canned or boxed) to contribute to the CBS Food Drive. We are in need of bakers, and ONE MORE HELPER for the two remaining days this year: Sunday, March 8 and Tuesday, April 7. Let me know if you are interested! Thank you! Elaine Schmerling, 302.475.3708 [email protected] ■ The food stuffs you contribute can join others’ donations to feed the unfortunate families who come to the Hanover Church Food Pantry for sustenance. Please put your cans of tuna, corn, beans, peas, carrots, etc. and your peanut butter and boxes of rice, crackers, pasta, and cereal in the bins that have been provided in front of the administrative offices. Here is your chance to do a mitzvah and keep some child from being hungry. Thank you! Marlene Ornston ■ WATCH YOUR E-MAIL! FAMILY PROMISE COMING IN APRIL! APRIL 26 - MAY 3! BASKING IN THE GLOW OF HANUKKAH Submitted By Faith Silver So you think you had a special Hanukkah – surrounded by family, lighting candles, eating latkes, and listening to the laughter of young children as they played dreidel and opened presents. Members of our congregation were able to recreate that experience with families in the Family Promise network as we shared the sixth night of Hanukkah with these families housed at Peninsula McCabe Church during the last week of December. We served a traditional brisket dinner to the 14 family members experiencing temporary homelessness along with 16 volunteers from other interfaith congregations in the Ninth Ward. Thanks to the efforts of our Men’s Club we dined on scrumptious latkes and polished the meal off with delicious sufganiyot (jelly donuts) provided by our Sisterhood. With a menorah on each table, we lit the Hanukkah candles and retold the significance of the burning lights. Our highlight for the evening was Cantor Elisa’s beautiful voice which was accompanied by Shari Walter on guitar, teaching our guests the joy of singing simple Hanukkah songs. After dinner, we cleared the tables and entered into a high stakes game of dreidel, every individual vying for their share of M&M’s. The family members also experienced the concept of Hanukkah “gelt” as we gave each family member a Target gift card. That same evening there was an additional set of lit candles as we presented one young family member with a birthday cake and a robot toy in honor of his fourth birthday. It was the huge smile on that young boy’s face and the glow of delight from his mother that warmed our hearts and sealed our memories. Family Promise is a major initiative for our Tikkun Olam Program at CBS. For four separate weeks a year, CBS with five other faith-based congregations, support families experiencing homelessness by setting up sleeping accommodations at Peninsula McCabe United Methodist Church, preparing meals, assisting with transportation, planning and participating in family activities, and providing warm and caring fellowship by interacting with the families. Along with the staff of Family Promise of Northern New Castle County which is a non-profit, 501(c)3 organization, we help move families along a path to their own independent sustainable living. Our next Family Promise Week is April 26- May 3. If you want to join the fun and do a mitzvah: contact Faith Silver, 302-764-5408. ■ CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 7 SISTERHOOD Sisterhood has been busy supporting and leading synagogue activites. In early February we baked hamantashen, under the leadership of Master Baker Susan Ebner who has helped lead this effort for a decade! Todah Rabah to her and other helpers who helped us bake almost 800 hamantashen for CBS’s Purim activities (including the Mishloach Manot) this year. Helpers include: Janet Bailis, Suzanne Burcat, Stacey Friedland, Wayne Geller, Shelley Mand, Karen Schultz and Howard Weissman. We purchased needed supplies for CBS including clear storage containers, new tablecloths, a large kitchen wall calendar, and string backpacks for Hebrew school students. We cooked family-friendly Shabbaton luncheons for about 100 people both in Jan and Feb. Thanks to cooking helpers Stacey Friedland, Sharon Rosengarten, Eva Weissman, Renee Felder; Janet Bailis, Ester Balick and the Kitchen Klub for baking delicious desserts! Thanks to Rachel Rodriguez for helping in the kitchen and Men’s Club helpers Hayim Weiss, Michael Stanley, and Dan Berkowitz (and his children), Vered Becker (and her girls), Rebecca Downard, and others. We partnered with the Kraft Family Foundation for the Shabbat Koleinu dinner and Oneg. The Sisterhood also sponsored the Oneg for MLK Shabbat. We led services, read Torah and celebrated together at Sisterhood Shabbat on February 21. Thank you Jessica Imber for all your hard work! We assembled Mishloach Manot bags for all members of CBS – if you haven’t picked yours up yet, remember to stop by CBS! Thank YOU for your participation in Happy Purim – we will donate these profits to CBS at the Annual Meeting. Lest we forget those in need: we are helping community neighbors by funding CBS’s costs for our Emmanuel Dining Hall days, fresh produce for the Hanover Food Closet, and supporting CBS’s Family Promise efforts. And finally…we CELEBRATED at the Purim Masquerade Ball! Thanks to Beth Ledger for appetizers, Lisa Kletter, Karen Schultz, and Meredith Weiss for decorations, and the Kitchen Klub for making desserts. Extended thanks to our Programming Committee for planning this event: Lisa Kletter and Jodie Pezzner. Thank you to those who donated to our silent auction fundraiser and to those who bid! Money raised from baskets donated by the religious school families will be used to upgrade our equipment needs such as computers. If you missed the event but would like to donate to help our school, please send checks to the office made out to CBS Sisterhood and write “school fundraiser” in memo line. Let the celebration continue: Plan to attend the March 14 Shabbaton luncheon and Women’s Seder on March 29 at 3:00pm (see page 4 for details). Join us in supporting community at CBS, and stay tuned for more exciting events and new partnerships! If you would like to be part of the sisterhood board for next year or serve on a committee, please submit your name to Elaine Schmerling or Jodie Pezzner. Sincerely, Elaine Schmerling and Jodie Pezzner, Co-Presidents In the photos: Shelly Mand & Karen Schultz (top), Stacey Friedland & Wayne Geller (right), Stacey Friedland, Suzanne Burcat, and Susan Ebner (bottom) Todah Rabbah! 8 | KOL SHALOM M E N’S C L U B MEN'S CLUB ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP BREAKFAST SUNDAY, MARCH 8, 10:00AM CBS SOCIAL HALL MEN'S CLUB SHABBAT SATURDAY, APRIL 18, 9:30AM Schmooze with old friends, and new ones you haven't met yet! Enjoy a complimentary Jewish soul food breakfast. Learn more about men's club upcoming events. Guest speaker, Ed Okonowicz, a renowned author and storyteller, will speak about "So you think you know all about Delaware." Anyone can attend. Admission is FREE for Men's Club Members renewing their 2015 Membership, $10 for all others. Order now! The Men of the Men's Club will give the clergy a break and lead the entire service and sponsor the kiddush lunch (prepared by the Sisterhood). So you think you know all about Delaware - whether a native or transplant, Delawareans are proud to be known as residents of the First State. But what do they really know about Delaware? This presentation (which includes a multiple choice quiz) challenges natives and newcomers to show their stuff about Blue Hen History, politics, geography, and more. Why does Delaware have a round top? How did the C & D Canal help save the Union? And what's the story with all those chickens, and pumpkins, and scrapple, and pirates . . . And lots MORE… Find out at the Breakfast! BREWS WITH JEWS™ THURSDAY, MARCH 19, 7:30PM STONEY'S ON 202 Join the guys of the Men's Club at Stoney's for some cold beers, munchies and some laughs. What better way to enjoy a winter evening! Bring your friends and join in the fun. Men's Club membership or Jewish affiliation not required. PHILADELPHIA SOUL GAME SUNDAY APRIL 12TH, 4:00PM Join the Men's Club for exciting Arena League Football action. This is a great event for the entire family. Lower level seats. Tickets only $20 and $25. Contact David Fruchtman for details or order your tickets on the Men’s Club Webpage! If you are interested in participating in the service with an English or Hebrew part, please contact Ethan Solomon, [email protected] or Josh Sachs, [email protected]. GO APE TREETOP ZIPLINE ADVENTURE SUNDAY, MAY 3, 2:00PM LUMS POND STATE PARK . (Plan to arrive 15 - 20 minutes prior to our start time 1:45pm) It is an outdoor experience that provides you 2-3 hours of outdoor fun and exercise. The result is spectacular. The course allows you to explore the park from an otherwise unobtainable vantage point while navigating through the treetops using zip lines, obstacles and tarzan swings. This is going to be fun!! Order on the Men’s Club Webpage! CONCESSION STAND FUNDRAISER BLUE ROCKS/FRAWLEY STADIUM SUNDAY, JUNE 7 25 volunteers, aged 16 and up, are needed for this fun fundraiser manning both concession stands at Frawley Stadium. No concession stand experience or Men's Club membership necessary. If interested in helping out, sign up: http://bit.ly/1vNytVN. Contact David Fruchtman, [email protected], for details. ■ Submitted by David Fruchtman, President LODGE LANE IS LOOKING FOR VOLUNTEERS TO SHARE THEIR TALENTS WITH THE RESIDENTS If you have an interesting hobby, collection, talent or have traveled to interesting destinations, why don’t you visit and share your experiences with the residents at Lodge Lane? Please contact Beth Poole, Activity Director at [email protected] if you are interested in volunteering your interests. CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 9 S E C O N D F R I D AY S FROM BRAS AND GIRDLES TO THE APOLLO SPACE PROGRAM Second Friday, March 13, 8:00pm Submitted By Marv Cytron ”Go for it!” was the response to Larry Ornston and his team’s proposal to management to develop and bid on the astronaut’s space suits for America’s trip to the moon: The Apollo Space Program. Here was the Platex Company, in Dover, DE. a successful manufacturer and marketing organization of ladies undergarments, going against many of the well-established aero-space companies to develop and bid on this 1969 venture. Join us, as our guest darshan, Larry Ornston, shares this interesting chapter of Delaware History. (Photo: Larry Ornston) Coming in April! THE NAYSAYERS EXPLAIN THE 10 PLAGUES Second Friday, April 10, 8:00pm The Ten Plagues! One of the key elements of the recitation during the Seders we will be celebrating next month. The drops of wine recall each plague brought against Pharaoh and his people, the “Plague Kits” distributed to the youngsters as they join in. But the doubters, the naysayers, have “scientific reasons” how these incidents took place. From Freud to Pharaoh’s Viceroy in the recent film, “Exodus, God and Kings,” all try to debunk the power of God as he frees our ancestors from slavery. Join us as Rabbi Beals has a bit of fun with the naysayers. ■ K R A F T E D U C AT I O N A L F O U N D AT I O N S P E A K E R S E R I E S FUNNY, YOU DON’T LOO K JEWISH! “JEWS OF CHINA AND THE HAGADDAH” SUNDAY, MARCH 22, 7:00PM Submitted by Marv Cytron The punch line of the old joke about an American businessman who finds himself in China on Rosh Hashanah! Asking directions to a synagogue he is astonished that every worshiper is Chinese. Prayer books in Hebrew and Chinese, all the familiar rituals, prayers and sermon led by a Chinese rabbi! After services he is greeted by the assembled worshipers, all are amazed that he is Jewish. Hence, they exclaim “ funny you don’t look Jewish!” The joke is perhaps, more fact than fiction! The Rabbi Jacob Kraft Educational Foundation of Congregation Beth Shalom welcomes Professor David Stern, Professor of Classical Hebrew Literature, University of Pennsylvania, as he takes us on a journey to the ancient Jewish community of Kaifeng, China. For over six hundred years, 11th to18th centuries, this community worshiped in the traditional manner, wrote their own prayer books, Torahs, and most notably, a Hagaddah. David Stern is the Moritz and Josephine Berg Professor of Classical Hebrew Literature at the University of Pennsylvania where he served for many years as Director of the Jewish Studies Program. Educated at Columbia College (BA 1972 and Harvard University (Ph.D. 1980), Stern was a Junior Fellow in Harvard's Society of Fellows, and has taught at Princeton University, The University of Judaism in Los Angeles, the Hebrew University, and the University of Washington. Dr. Stern's fields of specialization are classical Jewish literature and religion. He has written widely on the Midrash (the Biblical commentaries of the Rabbis). The community is invited to join us on Sunday evening, March 22, 2015, 7:00pm to explore with Dr. Stern the fascinating history of this ancient community in his lecture: “Jews of China and the Hagaddah.” A reception follows his talk, and there is no charge to attend. 10 | KOL SHALOM SYNAGOGUE PROGRAMMING “HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED?” SHABBAT TRADITIONS FRIDAY, MARCH 27, 6:30PM We continue our series; “Have You Ever Wondered?” A study and discussion on the laws, history and traditions of Judaism! We often observe these precepts, observe and celebrate holidays, etc., but perhaps, we are not quite sure of their reasons or history. For March we will explore some of the traditions of Shabbat: Examples: Why do we light at least two candles as we welcome Shabbat? What does “challah is taken” mean on packages of matzo or challah? We bless our daughters with the familiar names of the matriarchs (Sarah, Rebecca, Rachael and Leah), and our sons with Ephraim and Manasseh, why not Isaac, Joseph, Moses. Or Aaron? MAY 1948 REVISITED FRIDAY, APRIL 24, 6:30PM This week in Israel, and throughout the Jewish world, we observe Israel Remembrance Day and celebrate Israel Independence Day. Have you ever wondered what is the historical background of the United States support for Israel? Join us as Rabbi Beals takes us on a journey of historical episodes leading up to May 14, 1948, when President Harry Truman recognized the State of Israel eleven minutes after the Declaration of Israel’s creation. “A Few Coins and the Establishment of the State of Israel.” (Photo: Head and Shoulder Portrait of Join Rabbi Michael and Cantor Elisa for a nosh at 6:00pm, service at 6:30pm. Have something you have wondered about? Contact Rabbi Michael or Cantor Elisa. ■ Harry S.Truman by Hessler Studio Courtesy: Truman Library) POSTPONED TO THE FALL MAZEL TOV In our January/February issue of the Kol Shalom, we shared with you a special series of educational programs to help us all take pride in our collective Jewish legacy. This program was slated to begin in February and end shortly after Passover. Unfortunately, due to several other programs slated for this Spring, we had to postpone these educational offerings until the Fall, beginning sometime shortly after the High Holy Days. We will share more details later this Summer and during the High Holy Days to help you get ready for this exciting program! ■ To Elaine Schmerling for receiving the 2014 Governor’s Outstanding Volunteer Award for her CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES MARCH 2015 - APRIL 2015 3/6 3/13 3/20 3/27 5:41pm 6:49pm 6:56pm 7:03pm 4/3 4/10 4/17 4/24 7:10pm (Pesach) 7:17pm (Pesach) 7:24pm 7:31pm DON’T FORGET TO TURN YOUR CLOCKS AHEAD SUNDAY, MARCH 8 passion and commitment to improving the environment, especially in the Ardens. To Rabbi Michael Beals for being recognized with the Albert Einstein Academy’s 2015 Community Builder Award and to HaMorah Osnat David for being recognized with the inaugural Ner Tamid Excellence in Teaching Award at the AEA Gala. To Jordon N. Rosen, CPA, AEP on being elected the 2015 President of the National Association of Estate Planners & Councils by his estate planning community peers. To Ellisha Caplan, on receiving the 2015 Arnold Cohen Excellence in Teaching Award at the 2015 Teacher Appreciation Shabbat held on Friday, February 6. Got a mazel to share? Send it to [email protected]. CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 11 SYNAGOGUE PROGRAMMING The CBS Book Club, open to all members of the CBS community, meets every 4 to 6 weeks to discuss a book. Do you like to read and to learn more about Judaism or Jewish history? Do you like to share your thoughts about a book you've read? Looking for a way to spend some time with friends? Join CBS Book Club on selected Sundays at 10am, after Morning Minyan. March 29, 2015 (NEW DATE) Charlotte and Lionel: A Rothschild Love Story by Stanley Weintraub April 19, 2015 The Winemaker by Noah Gordon In preparation for next year, please send your book recommendations for the 2015-2016 line-up to Lori Barbanel [email protected].■ TODAH RABAH A heart-felt TODAH RABAH to Marla and Ross Cooper for opening their home for our New Member Brunch, held on Sunday, February 15. Despite the frigid, snowy and sometimes windy conditions, our new members received a warm welcome from members of our synagogue community. Among those attending the brunch was our new Executive Director Sam Nussbaum and his wife Chaviva. Welcome New Members! ■ 12 | KOL SHALOM I N O U R C O N G R E G AT I O N BAR MITZVAH: ADAM KERZNER Adam Michael Kerzner will be called to the Torah for his Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, March 21, 2015. Adam is a student at The Pilot School in North Wilmington. He enjoys sports, including soccer, basketball, and lacrosse. His hobbies and special interests include constructing Marble Runs and puzzles. For his Bar Mitzvah project, Adam volunteered his time as a “buddy” with TOPS (The Outreach Program for Soccer), for young athletes with disabilities, and organized a food drive for the Jewish Family Service Food Bank. Adam's proud parents are Roger and Michelle, and Noah is his younger brother. Mazel Tov! BAT MITZVAH: MEREDITH HAINES Meredith Haines will become a Bat Mitzvah on March 28, 2015. She is a seventh grade distinguished honor roll student at PS duPont Middle School and a member of the National Junior Honor Society. She plays flute in the school band and plays softball for school and for a travel softball league. She also swims year round for two swim teams. This past summer, she broke multiple swim club records and recently received a Delaware writing award. For her Mitzvah Project, Meredith volunteered at the Jewish Community Cemetery where she cleaned the grounds, raked leaves, planted flowers and displayed flags for Jewish War Veterans. She also entertained children of homeless families and prepared meals for them through Family Promise. She is the daughter of Kara and Brad Haines and sister of Graham and Noah. Her grandparents are Myrna Rubenstein (z"l) and Harvey Rubenstein of Wilmington, and Beverly and Stephen Haines of Severn, MD. Mazel Tov! K R A F T E D U C AT I O N A L F O U N D AT I O N L E C T U R E S E R I E S A NAZI’S SON SPEAKS OUT SUNDAY, APRIL 26, 7:00PM Submitted by Marv Cytron The Rabbi Jacob Kraft Educational Foundation of Congregation Beth Shalom welcomes Dr. Bernd Wollschlaeger, to our community on Sunday April 26. Dr. Wollschalaeger will share his experience of being the son of a proud Nazi. Bernd Wollachlaeger born in 1958 in the small German town of Bamberg, is the son of a former Nazi tank commander and member of one of the elite units of the Wehrmacht, the Germany army. Hitler personally awarded the Knight’s Cross to his father. Bernd loved his parents and admired his father, but growing up he needed to know all about what his father refused to discuss with him - what the Nazis did to Europe, Germany and the Jews, and what was his role? When Palestinian terrorists murdered Israel’s Olympic athletes in 1972, the German press noted that again Jews had been killed in Germany. The fourteen year-old Bernd wanted to know (Photo: A West German commander of an M48 tank, in 1960, U.S. Army what that meant. However, he could not get a straight answer from his parents. What he Heritage Education Center [USAHEC]) learned about the Third Reich at school horrified him. When he asked his father about these crimes his father told him; “Your teachers were all communists and liars and that the Holocaust never actually existed.” This encounter with his father set young Bernd on an exceptional journey of self-search and a developing love of Judaism, and Israel. Join us Sunday evening, April 26 at 7:00pm as Dr. Wollschlaeger shares his remarkable story and his message of peace and acceptance. A reception follows his talk and there is no charge to attend. ■ CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 13 I N O U R C O N G R E G AT I O N WHAT’S A SALON? “What’s a Salon?,” writes Susan Moseley, in her recent article for her home church, Westminster Presbyterian. She answers, “I thought a salon was a place where one went to have her hair ‘done’ or to get a pedicure. Only recently did I learn that salon originally referred to an important place for the exchange of ideas.” joint Salon between our two communities, on Monday, March 30, 6:15 to 8:30pm, at their home in Surrey Park. Our topic will be “The Role Religion Plays in Our Lives.” Ideally we hope to keep the numbers of participants both balanced and relatively intimate, as well as in keeping with the size limitations of each host’s home. If you are interested in attending please RSVP to [email protected] by Monday, March 23. Westminster Presbyterian leaders, in the hope of building on our Peace Drums cooperation to create stronger bonds between our two houses of worship, is inviting our congregants to join their congregants in an ongoing Salon program. Salons are open to a small group of self-selected congregants, to create a safe space to explore interesting ideas, in members’ homes, over wine and cheese, with no agenda. The purpose of these gatherings is intellectual and spiritual growth, as well as creating new bridges between our two communities. Being both good listeners and speakers, with a desire to learn from others are essential pre-requisites for participation. Please note there is another, ongoing opportunity for theological conversations with diverse groups. Our congregants, along with members of Hanover Presbyterian Church, Congregation Beth Emeth, and other Delaware spiritual seekers, have been participating for several years in Theology on Tap. It traditionally meets every six weeks on a Tuesday of the month, starting at 7:30pm, at Ulysses Gastronomic Pub, at the corner of Marsh and Silverside Roads. The next meeting is slated for Tuesday, March 17, at 7:30pm. If you are interested, I invite you to check in with Matthia McCracken in our CBS Front Office for more details and confirmation of date and time. We are blessed that our congregants, Rick and Elly Alexander, have offered to open their home for this first Rabbi Michael Beals SYNAGOGUE GOVERNANCE DUES ARE DUE As a member of Congregation Beth Shalom, you benefit in so many ways. Whether it's Sisterhood and Men's club activities, our Hebrew School and b'nai mitzvah preparation, social programming, high holy day and religious services, or support from our clergy in times of need, CBS is here for you and your family. None of this could exist without your support and we thank you for choosing to be part of the CBS family. Please remember that unless you are on a monthly payment plan, your CBS membership dues must be paid by March 15, 2015. —————————— NOMINATING AND LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT COMMITTEE APPOINTED In keeping with our synagogue by-laws, Congregation Beth Shalom President, Ralph Downard has appointed the 2015 Nominating Committee. Members are Regina Alonzo, Ellisha Caplan, David Fruchtman, Judy Lewis, Michael Sigman, and Diane Wolf, Past President, who will serve as Chair. The by-laws state that the committee should consist of five to eight members, including both Board of Directors and nonBoard of Directors members. Their duties include the nomination of a slate of Executive Officers and Board of Directors, and the distribution of the slate in advance of the annual meeting. Another responsibility is to solicit suggestions from the membership. If you have suggestions for the committee, please email Diane Wolf at [email protected] or call 302.478.4705. ■ 14 | KOL SHALOM B I RT H D AY S A N D A N N I V E R S A R I E S MARCH March 2 Elly Alexander Rachel Mussaf March 21 Alexander Montag Eli Sigman Darren Wiley March 3 Bradley Haines Tina Heiman March 22 Edward Richman Sandra Rotholz March 4 Ivy Harlev March 23 Meredith Rosenthal March 7 Renee Covin Meredith Friedland March 25 Miriam Edell Roberta Markovitz March 8 Christopher Alonzo Ethan Fruchtman Michael Glazier Cindy Goldstein March 26 Dennis Schnee March 9 Stacey Friedland Henry Heiman March 11 Pamela Appelbaum Michael Beals Mace Bloom Matthew Greenlee March 12 Alan Bleier Ann Klein Myrna Ryder Esther Schaffer Carter Steffen March 27 Evan Brodsky Phyllis Fink Sydney Lewis Robert Moldwin March 28 Grace Cherrin Lorraine Cohen Evan Crain Arlene Davis Howard Goldstein Debbie Grossman March 29 Joy Bloom Ronna Hochman Michael Kletter Barbara Longwill March 13 Arlene Ledger March 30 Barney Kantar March 14 David Burcat Justin Burcat Norma Pressman Mara Raskin March 31 Lolo Heitlinger Zach Platsis Karen Schultz Barbara Stargatt March 16 Robin Richman March 17 Arielle Beals March 18 Stanley Levy Andrew Rosen Howard Slaff APRIL April 1 Molly Ballard Sandye Turnauer April 2 Stuart Felzer April 3 Rose Kron Faith Silver April 4 Tom Felder Meryl Gardner April 5 Brian Andrus Shara Bubes Linda Levine Nancy Lustig Felicia Tannenbaum April 6 Eric Wexler April 7 Jason Stiebel April 8 Jeff Ledger Elias Mamberg April 9 Lynda Kaufman Julia Schwartz April 10 Esther Entel Michael Schwartz April 12 Regina Alonzo Zachary Glazier Mark Goldman Maxwell Rosenthal Barry Schnoll April 13 Terry Moore Thomas Weiler April 14 Jason Barnes Elizabeth Blumberg Jordan Cohen Alan Fink April 15 Diane Berger Helen Goldberg Jerome Grossman Janet Kaufman Martin Lessner April 16 Samuel Blumberg Robert Hronsky Peter Popper Arlene Wilson April 18 Ethan Hronsky Mindye Hughes Marilyn Levinson April 19 Kathy Bloom Joel Citron April 20 Paul Silver April 21 Richard Derman Joshua Sachs April 23 Jerome Nachlis Judith Zucker April 24 Martin Glick Laura Rubin Melissa Schwartzman April 25 Susan Rosen April 26 Rick Alexander Robert Davis Christian Giffin Harriet Harowitz April 27 Gary Harad Ruth Hochheiser David Ross April 28 Diane Wolf April 29 Emily Katz April 30 Helen Schutzman Hayim Weiss ANNIVERSARIES Karen Morris & Alan Levenson - 3/6 Laurie & Peter Hazen - 3/16 Bethany & Jason Kutz - 3/18 Elaine & Mark Mendelson - 3/19 Ester & Leslie Balick - 3/23 Ellen & Garth Koniver - 3/26 Ellen & Mel Pell - 3/26 Merle & Ronald Cohen - 3/29 Bryna & Jay Rappaport - 3/29 Andrea & Richard A. Levine - 3/30 Carol & Sidney Balick - 4/1 Kara & Bradley Haines - 4/1 Helen & Norman Schutzman - 4/1 Suzanne & Peter Burcat - 4/5 Anna & David Goldman - 4/6 Maris & Michael Laurence - 4/7 Pamela & Roy Finkelman - 4/8 Estelle & Martin Glick - 4/8 Marlene & Mitchell Greenberg - 4/10 Momilani & Stanley Budner - 4/13 Jessica & Andrew Rosen - 4/18 Janet & Abraham Bailis - 4/20 Joyce & Charles Kaufmann - 4/29 CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 15 M AY T H E I R M E M O R I E S B E A B L E S S I N G 10 Adar (3/1/2015) Etta Broder Arnold Cohen Eleanor Diznoff Mae Lipshutz Max Siegel 11 Adar (3/2/2015) Beatrice Cohen William Fost Yefem Golod Edmond Jacobs Max Lesnoy Meyer Segall Harry Sobel Harry Young 12 Adar (3/3/2015) Gerry Berman Louis Caney Mindy Curley Bessie Handelman Evelyn Langerman Dorothy Meritz George Rosenberg 13 Adar (3/4/2015) Samuel Clayman Harry Ehrlich Miriam Ungar Greibach Herman Klassman Edwyna Klastorin Betty Rosenberg Jacob Silvers 14 Adar (3/5/2015) Harry Bloom Samuel Blumberg Herman Cohen Anna Finger Bettye Herman Sabrina Mendelsohn Oscar Morris Albert Sklar 15 Adar (3/6/2015) Daniel Ehrenfeld Millie Eisenman Miriam Gibstein Joseph Hendler Sara Krasick Michael Montag Mollie Taylor 16 Adar (3/7/2015) Esther Freedman Fannie Goldman Avrom Green Manya Rabinowitz 16 | KOL SHALOM Morris Shore Rose Young 17 Adar (3/8/2015) Bessie Brooks Doris Dobkin Allan Goldberg Maurice Goldfinger Ethel Silverman Sherman Westrich Tanya Zallea 18 Adar (3/9/2015) Eleanor E. Barsha Marshall Feinsilber Rebecca A. Fost Irvin Glick Gloria Gross Edith Jacobson James Rosenbaum Louis Samuels Leo Schick Dorothy Maxine Schnoll Leonard Strick Joseph Weiner 19 Adar (3/10/2015) Ann Berkman Benjamin Braverman Marjorie Havel Amos Hollett Evelyn Stoltz 20 Adar (3/11/2015) Charles Bellak Benjamin Blume Sarah Drowos Miriam Liebman Mary Rothstein Charles Twer 21 Adar (3/12/2015) James K. Cohen Cecilia Haberman Jacob Kraft Saul Kron Jeanette Mason Jacob Mussaf Louis Rosenblatt Nettie Tomases 22 Adar (3/13/2015) Elizabeth Adler Robert Beitman Sonia Epstein Bernard Katz Dorothy Kaufman Dora Lieberman Bernard Sachs 23 Adar (3/14/2015) Lillian Cobin Molly A. Cohen Rose Dorph Roslyn Epstein Deborah Stargatt Feldman Lionel Felzer Hanna Greenbaum Lilli Heitlinger Edes Livingston Mae Miller Max Rosenbaum Arnold Shriber 24 Adar (3/15/2015) Anna Dektor David Finkelstein Harry Goldberg Edna Greenberg Rosie Levin Margaret Malloy Ethel Reiver Moshe Alexander Rubin Hugo Weil Mollie Zimmerman 25 Adar (3/16/2015) Robert Eisenman Joaquin Farnos Helen Havet Kenneth Isaacs Anthony Sholl Freda Singer Benjamin Yarowsky 26 Adar (3/17/2015) Barney Ash Rose Berkover Ethel Budovitch Morris Lipschitz 27 Adar (3/18/2015) Jennie Brodsky Esther Hyman Hattie Kutz James L. Reding Leah Schectman Rebecca Weiner 28 Adar (3/19/2015) Frank Chaiken Seymour Cohen Abraham Haberman William Leeds Sarah Lewis Samuel Longwill Harry Nathan Tobias Polonsky Isadore Rosen Harry Rudnick Nathan Sklar 29 Adar (3/20/2015) Emma Harad Rose Hendler Ari Norman Diane Plaut Cantor Andrew Salzer 1 Nisan (3/21/2015) Harry Fischer Belle Gardner Mildred Goldstein Kathryn S. Le Boritz Lillian Sobel Sydney Stargatt Morris Tucker 2 Nisan (3/22/2015) Harry Goldman Sandra Kay Dorothy Klein David Rossman 3 Nisan (3/23/2015) Jennie Zelda Katz Doris Morris Laura Zahn 4 Nisan (3/24/2015) Sylvia Feingold Corner Maurice Gabes Herman Handloff 5 Nisan (3/25/2015) Minnie Aerenson Harry Goldberg Annabelle Herring Mildred Jacobson Susan Spiller Moien 6 Nisan (3/26/2015) Hannah Bank William Bank Jules Held Abraham Simon 7 Nisan (3/27/2015) Bobbie Epstein Manny Klein Sylvia Knopf Levitt Melvin Ratner 8 Nisan (3/28/2015) Fannie Leah Faber David Paikin Fanny Rich Bernard Rudlin 9 Nisan (3/29/2015) Saul Bricklin M. Max Bycer Benedict Lebovitz Abraham Stutz Harry Turkin 10 Nisan (3/30/2015) Beatrice Bailis Irvin Berlin Max Davis Sarah Haber Beatrice Kessler Herbert Kletter Yehudith Kronfeld Kenneth A. Levine Bella Panar Morris Zackowitz 11 Nisan (3/31/2015) Ann Davis Sidney Ornston Barney Rich Harry Weinstein 12 Nisan (4/1/2015) Jennie Levy Albert Podell Morris Sloan 13 Nisan (4/2/2015) Morris Davis Kiva Kronfeld David Bernard Miller Wilma Rudnick 14 Nisan (4/3/2015) Samuel Balick Manuel Caney Irving Gilbert Bessie Hochman Aaron Levitt Berthold Levy Isadore Skolnick Sadye Swerling Leon Wapner 15 Nisan (4/4/2015) Samuel Fishman Thelma Hochman Louis Levinson Roslyn Levinson 16 Nisan (4/5/2015) James Cohen Ida Geller Edward Lipman Edward G. Lipman Mae Schier Isador Schutzman 17 Nisan (4/6/2015) Bessie Caney Mary Furtzaig Diane Brodsky Klein Rae Sloan Z I K H R O N A M L ’V R A K H A H 18 Nisan (4/7/2015) Miriam Ferber Tena Finkelstein Leonard Korr Abraham Levy Milton Roffman Richard Silverman Rasha Sklut 19 Nisan (4/8/2015) Reba Barkan Dora Dukart Morris Greenwald Mary Jacobson Mary Lebowitz David Sklut Karl Weiner Louise Yalisove Fannie Zallea 20 Nisan (4/9/2015) Joseph Barkan Betty Finklestein Louis Greenberg Arnold Nachlis 21 Nisan (4/10/2015) Jack Alan Davis Ethel Meiner Katherine Miller 22 Nisan (4/11/2015) Ida Antiles Sidney Brodsky Hyman Greenbaum Marvin Grossman Rose Lieberman 23 Nisan (4/12/2015) Jacob Noah Leibowitz Claire Willey 24 Nisan (4/13/2015) Louis Alper Morris Arsht 17 | KOL SHALOM Robert Alex Baron Solomon Cohen Samuel Gorenstein Joseph Graboyes Julius Seidenstat Jack Weinstein 25 Nisan (4/14/2015) Tillie Berlin Alexander Epstein Herman H. Furtzaig Lawrence L. Lobel 26 Nisan (4/15/2015) Jacob Baylin Leon "Mike" Bloom Ann Director Jack Gold Steven Matter 27 Nisan (4/16/2015) Benjamin D. Cohen Rosa Freedman Genya Byer Kagan Ronald Levine Sonya Byer Paretzki Isadore Salzer Wilma Salzer Elizabeth Weiss Zoltan Weiss 28 Nisan (4/17/2015) Isabella Greengold Celia Katz Joseph Miller 29 Nisan (4/18/2015) Jennie Balick Gloria Brown R. B. Downard Lee Kruger Louis Miller 30 Nisan (4/19/2015) Terry Frank Bernard Siegel 1 Iyar (4/20/2015) Harry Cherrin Harry Hirsch Charlotte Karel Leslie L. Kaye Faga Albert Orgiefsky 2 Iyar (4/20/2015) Leonard Rubin Matthew Bucholtz Ida Levy 3 Iyar (4/22/2015) Nettie Brodsky Myrtil Hanau Oscar Koralek Estee Lauder Nathan Levine Stanley Mittin Max Podolsky Leslie R. Stone Dorothy Zutz 4 Iyar (4/23/2015) Emil Greibach Rose Harwitz Alicia Bea Keil Sarah Kraushar Melvin Morris Rose Pudifin Ida Seidenstat Solomon Denenberg Isadore Dorph Roslyn Dressler David Katz Rose Reiser 5 Iyar (4/24/2015) Lillian Kramer Cheri Moon 9 Iyar (4/28/2015) Samuel Berkowitz Irving A. Bonett Jack Brodsky Fannie Fogel Anna Gerber Milton Lemberger Harry Schaffer 6 Iyar (4/25/2015) Niles Andrus Hyman Bucholtz Rheva Cook Minnie Jacobs Edward Kishner Diana S. Kramer Fannie Lipman Paul Popper 7 Iyar (4/26/2015) Rose Fischer Joseph Handler Harry Zutz 8 Iyar (4/27/2015) Ralph Berkman 10 Iyar (4/29/2015) Eileen Berger Frieda Degnan Rae Dolinger Rose Klassman 11 Iyar (4/30/2015) Sylvia Cherrin Edwin J. Levy Morris Stern WITH OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHES To Ruthie Blume and her family, on the passing of her husband, Alan. To Ira Horden and his family on the passing of his mother, Leatrice Leapman. To Ralph Milner and his family on the passing of his mother, Beatrice Milner. To Al Kessler and his family on the passing of his wife, Josephine. To the Cohen Family, on the passing of past CBS Rabbi, Kenneth S. Cohen. CONTRIBUTIONS Congregation Beth Shalom raises funds to support synagogue activities, programs and projects. To make a donation to any of our existing funds, please email or call our synagogue accountant, Marlene Greenberg, at 302.654.4462. The minimum contribution to send a tribute card is $12. To establish a new fund or learn more about contributory opportunities, please call our synagogue President, Ralph Downard. We appreciate your generosity. AL BERLIN MINYAN FUND For Tzedakah: Anonymous In honor of: The Minyan Leaders Elaine Schmerling & Warren Butt In memory of: Norman Alper Ruth Forman & Herb Keller Elva Levine B. C. Benjamin Ruth Siegel Estelle Berg Ruth Forman & Family Sheila Bernstein Sandi, Ethan, Jacob & Adam Solomon Byron Butt Claire & Barney Kantar Anita & Edward Sobel Fannie Cohen Donna M. Cohen Nathan L. Cohen Arlene Wilson Sidney Cohen Donna M. Cohen Minnie Cutler Nancy Laiken Swartz Leon Fruchtman The Fruchtman Family Albert Glick Estelle, Martin, Matthew, Holly & Naiomi Glick Debbie, Rich, Zack & Ben Newman Chaya Laya Goldberg Barbara & Samuel Swinger Benjamin Haber Barbara & Samuel Swinger Lena Haber Barbara & Samuel Swinger Harry Hirschfield Barbara Stargatt Eleanor Isaacs Ellin & Leonard Dwares Estelle & Martin Glick Nathan Katz Daniel & Richard Katz Josephine Kessler Anita & Edward Sobel Barbara & Samuel Swinger Joseph Laiken Nancy Laiken Swartz Leatrice Leapman Anita & Edward Sobel Stuart Schwartz Fran & Bob Freedman Morris Swinger Barbara & Samuel Swinger BRIAN DOMBCHIK FUND In honor of: Joyce & Charlie Kaufmann’s Grandson, Dovi Edward Rhoda & Steven Dombchik Celina & Ronald Riebman’s Anniversary Rhoda & Steven Dombchik In memory of: Brian Dombchik Rhoda, Steven, Gregory, Jeffrey, Dawn,Michael & Megann Dombchik Gila & Joel Lipman Henrietta Dombchik Rhoda & Steven Dombchik Louis Dombchik Rhoda, Steven, Gregory, Jeffrey, Dawn,Michael & Megann Dombchik Josephine Kessler Rhoda & Steven Dombchik Martin Lubaroff Sandra Lubaroff & Family Ida Preven Sandra Lubaroff & Family CANTOR ANDREW SALZER MUSIC ENDOWMENT FUND In honor of: Micah Harlev’s Bar Mitzvah Dr. & Mrs. Joseph Levine Twin Cantors’ Concert Merle & Ronald Cohen CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In appreciation: Mildred & Herman Cohen Maris Grove Interfaith Committee In honor of: Twin Cantors’ Concert Nancy & Jay Blumberg Faye Goldstein & Family Frank Levy In memory of: Harriet R. Bleier Alan Bleier CAPITAL CAMPAIGN In memory of: J. Jacob Baylson Eddi Chaikin & Family Phyllis Baylson Eddi Chaikin & Family Esther Long Chaikin Eddi Chaikin & Family H. Herman Chaikin Eddi Chaikin & Family James Chaikin Eddi Chaikin & Family Lydia S. Keil Harriet & Alfred Remsen Harry Remsen Harriet & Alfred Remsen Rose Remsen Harriet & Alfred Remsen Bertha Sutton The Mand Family Isaac Sutton The Mand Family CAPITAL MAINTENANCE In memory of: Morris Berger Diane & Philip Berger Edgar Rothshild The Rothschild Family Steven Rothschild The Rothschild Family Nora Schick The Rothschild Family CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 18 CONGREGATION FUND Mazel Tov: Celina Riebman – on Her Special Birthday Barbara & Donald Goldberg Speedy Recovery: Larry Ornston Barbara & Charlie Keil In honor of: Brian Gold’s Engagement to Julia Marilyn & Samuel Weiner Shelley & Howard Kristol’s Wedding Anniversary Phyllis & Alan Fink Nancy & Steve Lustig Meryl Weinreb For Tzedakah: Marcia L. Hill In memory of: Steven Alexander The Alexander Family Frances B. Berkover Wendy & Michael Berkover Franklin S. Berkover Wendy & Michael Berkover Allan Blume Beverly & Meredith Cloud Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Dudley Ellen & Gordon Freireich Les, Sally, Erin & Hannah Greenberg Lois & Clifford Johnson The Koss & Nathanson Families Norman Levine Barbara & Andy Miller Marcy & Joel Mirmelstein Harriet & Marvin Sachs Deborah, Howard, Nathan & Eva Stromwasser Sarah Ashley Burns Fran & Halle Burns Byron Butt The CBS Sisterhood Jodie & Ashley Pezzner Faith & Paul Silver Seymour Cohen Debbie & Robert Berman Shirley Cohen Merle & Ronald Cohen Sarah L. & Lawrence G. Silver Ida Edell Miriam & Steven Edell 19 | KOL SHALOM Nathan Edell Miriam & Steven Edell Robert Einhorn Carol Einhorn Nathalie Einhorn Rae Fink Hinda & Jack Fink Vera Gitlovitz Merle, Ron & Valerie Cohen Doris Gold Marlene & Gary Gold, Brian & Steven Mollie Gore Arlene Ledger Norman W. Grant Suzanne, Stuart, Niki, Jake & Sam Grant Bernard G. Greenberg Ruth Greenberg Sylvia C. Greenhouse Keith S. Chesler Searles Aaron Grossman Sherry & Scott Grossman Betty Holob Adeline, Gary, Marissa & Alyson Holob Dennis Kazinoff Phyllis Kazinoff & Family Josephine Kessler Florence Budovitch Rhonda & David Cohen The Finnegan Family Marlene & Gary Gold Hersh Kozlov Roz & Howard Kurman & Mike, Jaime, Max, Jill, Idan & Lev Eleanor Matas Celina & Ronald Riebman Harriet & Marvin Sachs Paul J. Smith Jerry Sokolow Jeffrey W. Spear Marilyn & Samuel Weiner and Rose Kron Louis Klastorin The Rappaport & Fieldman Families Israel Kurfirst Judith & Howard Zucker Leatrice Leapman Nan & Hal Pezzner Ruth Waxman Lescaud Lillian Waxman Balick Davida Levitt Linda & Michael Sigman Harriet Lipschultz Dina & Alan Lipschultz Lionel Lipschultz Dina & Alan Lipschultz Louis Mass Phyllis & Alan Fink Bertha Meyer Ellen & Robert Meyer Charles Meyer Ellen & Robert Meyer Morris Milner Sharon & Ralph Milner Nina Roffman Beverly & Meredith Cloud Eugene W. Rogosin Andrea Levine & Emily Rogosin Myer Rubenstein Debbie, Alvin, Norman & Hal Rubenstein Reba Rubenstein Debbie, Alvin, Norman & Hal Rubenstein Bernard Schaffer Esther Schaffer & Family Herbert Sherr Nancy Sherr & Family Ruth Silver Faith & Paul Silver Tillie Silverstein Faith Silver Zachary Stein Anita & Herman Stein Fannie Waxman Lillian Waxman Balick Mary Weil Shirley Stark & Family Celia Weissman Marian Weissman Howard Weissman GLADYS ARIFF KITCHEN KLUB In memory of: Byron Butt Celina & Ronald Riebman HARRIET KAUFMAN FUND In memory of: Nattilie Godwin Lynda & Larry Kaufman Emelyn Louise Ruggerio Lynda & Larry Kaufman Ida Schreibstein Lynda & Larry Kaufman HEBREW SCHOOL FUND In appreciation of a special blessing: Ann Zion In memory of: Martin Balick Lillian Waxman Balick MEN’S CLUB In memory of: JONATHAN MORRIS FUND In memory of: Jacob Kellem Annette Kellem & Family Ida Preven Sheila Gardner Erwin Schmerliing Elaine Schmerling Herbert Sperber Sharon & Jordon Rosen Katie Tobin Annette Kellem & Family Rose Wagner Lillian Kessler & Family Martin Yalisove Barbara E. Yalisove & Family Abraham Morris Irving Morris ENDOWMENT FUND In memory of: KRAFT EDUCATIONAL FOUNDATION In memory of: Abba Backman Lillian P. Kessler Benjamin Backman Lillian P. Kessler Allan Blume Ellen & Scott Levithan Dicey Sklut Josephine Kessler Barbara B. Keil Marilyn & Gene Miller Dicey Sklut Leatrice Leapman Barbara & Robert Cohen George Weiner Bess Lobel & Daughters Jacob Weiner Bess Lobel Louis Entel Esther & Leonard Entel & Family Mark Feigen Esther & Leonard Entel Josephine Kessler Farah Jimenez & David Hyman Anna Sherman Arlene & Robert Davis Mendel Sherman Arlene & Robert Davis Bertha Wirosloff Claire Wirosloff & Family Albert Glick Phyllis & Joseph Glick Ida C. Goldman Beth Goldman Benjamin Goldstein Ann & Larry Klein & Family Judith Harowitz Harriet & Jay Harowitz Eleanor Isaacs Phyllis & Joseph Glick Paul Zucker Judy & Howard Zucker RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In honor of: Hillary Jacobs & Eric Rosen’s Marriage Sandye & Jerry Turnauer In appreciation: Nathalie Einhorn Jane & Steven Goldberg In memory of: LEWIS-GREENBAUM FUND In memory of: Walter Greenbaum Judith, Jeffery & Lisa Lewis Elaine S. Sherman Howard Marks S C H O L A R S H I P S AVA I L A B L E FINGER-GORDON TRUST NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS The Anna E. Finger-Ruth F. Gordon Memorial Trust is now accepting applications for grants for 2015. The Trust is a charitable fund that provides grants each year to individuals and institutions involved with the study of Judaism and Jewish culture. For example, past awards have helped children attend Jewish camps, participate in the March of the Living and promote Holocaust education. The Trust has also sponsored teachers’ attendance at Jewish education programs, and awarded seed money to launch an innovative program to allow children with special needs and their families to participate in Shabbat services. Although financial need is afforded special consideration, it is not a controlling factor in evaluating grant requests. Grants are not limited by synagogue or branch of Judaism. The Trust was established in 1968 by Louis J. Finger and Abraham J. Gordon in memory of Mr. Finger’s mother and sister and Mr. Gordon’s mother-in-law and wife. Anna E. Finger (1893-1967) and her daughter Ruth Finger Gordon (1922-1961) were active members of Wilmington’s Jewish community and involved in many Jewish cultural and educational causes. Anna Finger and her husband, Aaron, were among the founding members of Congregation Beth Shalom, and their children, Louis and Ruth, were life-long Beth Shalom members. A teacher and Gratz College graduate, Anna Finger taught in Beth Shalom’s religious school and tutored Bar Mitzvah students for many years. Applications can be obtained by e-mailing David L. Finger, [email protected]. The deadline for applications is March 29, 2015. ■ SILVERMAN SCHOLARSHIP FUND SUPPORTS SUMMER EXPERIENCES The Sylvia & Isadore N. Silverman Scholarship Fund will be awarding its 26th annual scholarship to a deserving youth for a Jewish summer experience in camp or Israel. Applications may be obtained at the Adas Kodesch Shel Emeth Synagogue office, 4412 Washington Street Ext., Wilmington, DE 19802 (302.762.2705), and should be returned to the synagogue office by Monday, March 2, 2015. The Fund was established in 1989 in honor of the Silvermans’ 55th wedding anniversary, by their four daughters and many friends. ■ CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 20 Purim Program / Shpiel Purim Megillah Reading Introduction to Judaism - Basic Beliefs Shabbat Service Sulam for Emerging Leaders General Board Mtg. Introduction to Judaism - Basic Beliefs 2nd Friday Service w/Larry Ornston Hebrew School Upper Grade Shabbat Service JFD Good Deeds Day Introduction to Judaism - Basic Beliefs Shabbat Service Bar Mitzvah - Adam Kerzner Adult B'nei Mitzvah Orientation Kraft Education Program w/David Stern Executive Committee Meeting Shabbat Service Bat Mitzvah - Meredith Haines Women's Seder CBS Book Club Erev Pesach - Turn in your Hametz Contracts by 10:00 Shabbat Service - Note Special Time Pesach I Shabbat & Passover Service 1st day of the Omer Passover Service Pesach III - Pesach VI (CH''M) Pesach IV (CH''M) Pesach VII & Passover Service 2nd Friday Service Shabbat & Passover Service (Yizkor) General Board Mtg. Yom HaShoah Shabbat Service CBS Book Club Adult B'nei Mitzvah Program Sulam for Emerging Leaders Yom HaZikaron Yom HaAtzma'ut Shabbat Service Bat Mitzvah Julia Tomases Family Promise Week Kraft Program w/Bernd Wollschlager Executive Committee Meeting START DATE START TIME 03/04/2015 6:30 PM 03/05/2015 7:30 AM 03/05/2015 7:30 PM 03/06/2015 6:30 PM 03/08/2015 12:45 PM 03/10/2015 7:30 PM 03/12/2015 7:30 PM 03/13/2015 8:00 PM 03/14/2015 9:30 AM CBS CALENDAR March - April 2015 03/15/2015 03/19/2015 7:30 PM 03/20/2015 6:30 PM 03/21/2015 03/22/2015 11:00 AM 03/22/2015 7:00 PM 03/24/2015 7:30 PM 03/27/2015 6:30 PM Adar - Nisan - Iyyar 5775 For a complete listing of all our events, visit the CBS Website: www.bethshalomwilmington.org 03/28/2015 03/29/2015 3:00 PM 03/29/2015 10:00 AM 04/03/2015 04/03/2015 5:30 PM 04/04/2015 04/04/2015 9:30 AM 04/05/2015 04/05/2015 9:00 AM 04/06 - 04/09 7:30 AM 04/07/2015 7:30 AM 04/10/2015 9:00 AM 04/10/2015 6:30 PM 04/11/2015 9:30 AM 04/14/2015 7:30 PM 04/16/2015 04/17/2015 6:30 PM 04/19/2015 10:00 AM 04/19/2015 11:00 AM 04/19/2015 12:45 PM 04/22/2015 04/23/2015 04/24/2015 6:30 PM 04/25/2015 9:30 AM 04/26 - 05/03 04/26/2015 7:00 PM 04/28/2015 7:30 PM Recurring Events: Torah Study Thursdays Saturdays 12:00 PM 12:30 PM Girl Scouts Thursdays 6:30 PM Shabbat Morning Shabbat Saturdays 9:30 AM CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 21 CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 22 CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 23 CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM 1801 Baynard Blvd • Wilmington, DE 19802 PHONE: (302) 654.4462 / FAX: (302) 543.7150 www.bethshalomwilmington.org ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ NEXT KOL SHALOM DEADLINE IS APRIL 10, 2015 NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID Wilmington, DE Permit No. 77 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The Kol Shalom is the bimonthly newsletter of Congregation Beth Shalom, an egalitarian-Conservative congregation affiliated with the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. To submit articles, photos, and announcements, please e-mail: [email protected] or mail them to the address noted above. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ RABBI Rabbi Michael S. Beals [email protected] CANTOR / EDUCATION DIRECTOR Cantor Elisa Abrams Casuto [email protected] EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Sam Nussbaum [email protected] PRESIDENT Ralph Downard [email protected] The CBS Gift Shop Supports Israel with shelves of Israeli-made Judaica and gift items. Yes, they are more expensive, but we are helping out in our small way. Open during Hebrew School Hours and by appointment. CONGREGATION BETH SHALOM | 24