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June - Chesapeake Style Online
e l ty Chesapeake Volume XIV • Issue 6 • June 2012 © S www.chesapeakestyle.com Priceless June 2012 2 Fast Times on the Rivers In this issue we’re celebrating our local Teens. We have four Teen Style pages this month, Essex and Middlesex High School students have their work in Chesapeake Style for the first time. Washington & Lee and Northumberland are back. We are not having another Teen Style contest this year. That said, we have art, photography, essays and poetry on file from students who entered the Teen Style Contest in 2011, and we will continue to post their creations. Work on the Northumberland High School page is from their literary magazine, The Water’s Edge. In late February I decided it was a good idea to know what all the settings—other than Auto—on my camera were supposed to do. I took a class from Dawn Howeth, from Picture this Photography by Dawn. (Samples of my efforts below.) That day she told us she was working with Essex High School students in a photography club. She showed us some of their work. For several years, we have tried to encourage students from Essex and other Middle Peninsula schools to participate in our Teen Style pages. With Dawn’s help, we’re delighted to have that happen! Thanks to Deborah Figg, one of our sales reps in the Middle Peninsula,contacted Kristi Snow, Creative Writing teacher at Middlesex High School. She submitted work from her students. Part of it is in this issue—watch for more in upcoming issues! Way to go! Kudos to the adults, teachers and various interested folks in the community who encourage our local teens to share and celebrate their creative efforts on the pages! In our opinion, Anne-Sophie Marchal is among the best of many wonderful photographers in our Chesapeake Bay Region. We discussed her cover idea for this issue, poppies from Sue Ramsey’s garden. She sent three photos from which to choose. We’re so enamoured with all three that the other two are in this issue for your viewing pleasure! On another note, you may observe that many of our advertisers sport either a QR code, or a Facebook logo or both. When Chesapeake Style is downloaded in PDF format from our website the majority of links in the magazine and the ads are active. i.e. click on an email address, a website or the Facebook logo and it will take you directly to that page. Yes, each Facebook logo is site specific. Yes, including this one, for our Chesapeake Style Magazine FB page. We’re continually amazed at the number of folks who Like our page. Without specific contests to increase the number of Likes, as of this moment we’re up to 900+! Our Advertisers who have Facebook Pages, who have Liked us, are our priority and daily we share their posts. We share information about animals, recipes and information we think is of interest to folks. We share information from prospective and/or past advertisers sporadically. Chesapeake The mission of Chesapeake Style is to serve and celebrate the Chesapeake Bay Region and its people, past, present and future. Editor, Publisher Janet Abbott Fast Writers & Photographers Mari Bonomi, Betty Bridgeman, Kathey Brodtman, Bud Disney, Ellen Dugan, Jean Duggan, RuthE Forrest, Feather Schwartz Foster, Bill Graves, Melissa Haydon, Elizabeth D. Huegel, Gwen Keane, Spike Knuth, Narielle Living, AnneSophie Marchal, Chelly Scala, Paula Shipman, Elizabeth Allen Stokes, Fran Warren, Diana Wise Teen Style Writers, Photographers Karsten Coates, Edijah Fulcher, Casey Gaskins, Connor Haislip, Chris Holsinger, Sarah Ipson, Aja Jackson, Avery Ann Jones,Tess Mundey, Summer Newsome , Kausha Parrish, Chris Sheppard, Joey Stinchcomb Ad Sales, Distribution Betty Bridgeman, Susan Christopher, Deborah Figg, Bill Graves, Liz Huegel, Kathleen Kehoe, Victoria Kress, Rob Ransone, Nancy Shelley, Marie Stone Style Letters to the editor are welcome. The editor reserves the right to edit all submissions for clarity, lousy spelling or any other reason that strikes her fancy. Chesapeake Style is a free circulation magazine published eight times a year by Chesapeake Bay Marketing. To have it delivered for one year, please send your name, mailing address and a check or money order, for $24 for postage and handling, to the address below. Chesapeake Style P. O. Box 802 Warsaw, VA 22572 804-333-0628 [email protected] www.chesapeakestyle.com The opinions expressed in Chesapeake Style are those of contributing writers and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of Chesapeake Style or its advertisers. Reproduction in whole or in part of any material in this publication without permission is strictly prohibited. © 2007-2011 All rights reserved Chesapeake Bay Marketing. Proofreader Marie Stone Ad Composition, Graphics, Layout Janet Abbott Fast, Deborah Figg Chesapeake Style Magazine About the cover~Sue’s Garden Cover by Anne-Sophie Marchal there is at least one surprise, usually For an artist, is it a palette, a color wheel, an inspiration or a garden? For Sue Ramsey, it is all that, plus a way to relax and enjoy nature. Her goal is to have something in bloom all year—from the Hellebores in January, daffodils and tulips in March, roses and poppies in May, lilies in June and on through the late fall when the calendulas last into winter. It takes a lot of work, but the results are beyond expectations, and every day more. A walk through the garden not only relaxes, it also inspires and makes one believe. When she gives talks about flower arranging, she always reminds the participants to plant a variety of blooms, colors, and textures. A walk through her garden brings to life memories of the person who provided seeds or the friend who donated a plant or the excursion to the garden center when she discovered a new plant. June 2012 3 Cooking with Style by Betty B. Layered Fiesta Casserole The peppers and tomato provide Vitamin C and the cheese provides calcium in this one-dish low calorie meal. 1 lb. extra lean beef 1 green pepper, chopped 1 red pepper, chopped 1 jar (16 oz.) of thick and chunky salsa 1 can (14 one-half oz.) diced tomatoes, undrained 1 package (10 oz.) frozen corn, thawed 12 flour tortillas, (6 inch) 1 and one-half cups of Kraft 2% milk shredded reduced fat Sharp Cheddar Cheese, divided in half. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Brown meat with the peppers in a large skillet, stirring frequently; drain. Stir in salsa, tomatoes and corn; bring to a boil. Spoon 1 cup of meat mixture onto bottom of a 13 x 9 inch baking dish. Top with 6 tortillas, overlapping as necessary. Spoon half of the remaining meat mixture over the top of the tortillas; top with three-fourth cup of the cheese. Top with remaining tortillas and then meat mixture. Cover with foil. Served up with Love in Style! T By Melissa Haydon he warm glow of the sun, fresh cut grass, the smell of the grill, yep you guessed it, summertime! Whether spending the day on the river or in your own backyard, it is always a great day to be had in the summer. My childhood meant summers spent outside all day long playing with my neighborhood friends. We could always find something to do and had the best time doing it. Every so often we would decide to have a lemonade stand and we had the best lemonade in the world, Kool-Aid. Most of the time we sat there and drank all the lemonade ourselves but we did get the occasional person who would stop and buy some. Most days ended with seeing who could catch the most lightning bugs. Regardless of how the day unfolded it was always full of fun and lots of laughter. When I made this lemonade it immediately brought me back to those warm summer days spent with my friends. This is so much better than Kool-Aid! Lemonade 1 cup sugar 1 cup water (for the simple syrup) 1 cup lemon juice 3 to 4 cups cold water (to dilute) Make simple syrup by heating the sugar and water in a small saucepan until the sugar is dissolved completely. While the sugar is dissolving, use a juicer to extract the juice from 4 to 6 lemons, enough for one cup of juice. Add the juice and the sugar water to a pitcher. Add 3 to 4 cups of cold water, more or less to the desired strength. Refrigerate 30 to 40 minutes. If the lemonade is Bake for 25 to 30 minutes or until heated through. Remove from oven; uncover. Sprinkle with remaining three-fourth cup of cheese. Let stand 5 minutes or until cheese is melted. Fast, Fruity Dessert 1. Stir 2 cups of boiling water into (4 serving size) of Jell-o Brand Gelatin. Stir at least 2 minutes until thoroughly dissolved. 2. Add 2 cups of frozen strawberries; stir until gelatin begins to thicken. In a separate bowl, mix one-half cup of the gelatin mixture into 1 cup of whipped topping (cool-whip) with wire whisk until well blended. 3. Spoon whipped topping mixture evenly into 4 dessert cups. Spoon remaining gelatin and fruit mixture over whipped topping mixture in each cup. Top with a spoonful of whipped topping, if desired. Refrigerate 20 minutes or until gelatin is set. Kitchen tested and photographed by Diana Wise. a little sweet for your taste, add a little more straight lemon juice to it. Serve with ice, sliced lemons. Whenever I think of cooking and chopped 8 oz bag of shredded cheddar cheese Boil noodles according to package directions, chop veggies and add into bowl with tablespoon of vinegar and seasonings. Once noodles are done add to veggie mixture and pour dressing over and mix well. Add cheese and chopped bacon. Chill in refrigerator. Once chilled you may need to add a little more dressing. Served Up With Love was created in March of 2011. I share my love of cooking, writing, photography, and family on my blog. I share many easy recipes any cook can prepare. I don’t do a lot of fancy ingredients or get too complicated. Feeding your family should be easy. Please do stop by and visit for many more recipes to add to your collection, I would love to have you. I will have the sweet tea waiting. Much Love. www.serveupwithlove.com on the grill I think of sides, our favorite is pasta salad. Who doesn’t like pasta salad? This one is super simple which makes it even better. Bacon Ranch Pasta Salad 1 box of rotini noodles 1 bottle of ranch dressing 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar 1 tomato chopped 1 cucumber chopped salt and pepper to taste 2-3 slices of bacon cooked June 2012 4 Style Spotlight~Foxy’s, Fun Clothes for Fun Folks! A By Liz Huegel sk any baby boomer what “foxy” means and they will readily tell you it is synonymous with attractive lady! And that is exactly what Kathy Lukasewicz (pronounced luke-a-chev-itch) had in mind when she decided to open Foxy in Kilmarnock, her unique clothing store located on Main Street in the heart of Kilmarnock. She is quick to tell you they try to fit the “everyday woman” with separates that are fashionable and fun. The inventory includes both casual and dressy attire. Unlike many other boutiques, her clothing line runs from size 4 to 18 and she tries to keep the prices low and affordable. In the summer she carries a lot of linen, cotton and gauze because those fabrics are so cool, comfortable, and versatile. “I call my line fun clothes for people who like to have fun!” Kathy said with a big smile. Although she was living and working in Washington, DC at the time, Kathy decided to open Foxy in Kilmarnock eleven years ago. By this time, she and her husband Kenneth had become regular visitors to the Northern Neck and were planning to move to the area when they retired. Kathy noticed a significant lack of clothing stores to choose from— especially in her size bracket. Most of the clothing boutiques in the area catered to the small sized tourists, and were pricey to boot. Kathy acknowledged she does cater to the tourists who visit in the summer months, but noted it is the loyal • Supplies for Quilting • Punch Needle & • Rug Hooking Classes 804-453-6003 Open Tuesday - Saturday 10 to 4 [email protected] www.materialgirlnn.com 16658 N’umbld Hwy Reedville local customers who keep her in business year in and year out. Another influence was the advice of her maternal grandmother, Lucia Ciarrochi, who in her prime had wanted to open a catering business, but her husband Pietro wouldn’t allow it. He thought she had enough to do taking care of their home and thirteen children! Grandma Lucia encouraged Kathy to pursue her dream if she ever had a chance to open her own business. Kathy initially managed Foxy in Kilmarnock from her home in DC, with the dedicated assistance of two phenomenal ladies. Betty Kevorkian and June Pfister have both been on staff from the very beginning. Betty is the oldest of the part-time employees and is proud to still be working at the tender age 78! June, also a senior citizen, is a Northern Neck native and as such knows everyone in the county as well as all of their family history! Although Betty originally came from Chicago, she now claims to be an “almost-bornhere”. And then there is Bobbie Bates, the newest member of the team. Bobbi has been with the store since the move to Main Street in 2011. She is a feisty white-haired lady, tall and slender, sporting a sexy spiked haircut, and an equally sexy outfit. All three of the ladies are fun-loving and a blast to be around. Most importantly, they strive to make their customers feel good about themselves, and they don’t allow a customer to focus on their shortcomings. “Everyone has positive features… we focus on that.” Kathy continued, “These three ladies are perfect employees…always on time, ‘salt of the earth’ type people, completely trustworthy. That’s what you get when you hire seniors—they have old fashioned values and amazing people skills.” Kathy was born in the state of Washington and ended up in Washington DC. In the meantime, she lived all over the world as a military dependent. As an adult, Kathy settled in DC and worked as a medical office manager. In 2005, she and her husband Kenneth moved permanently to the Northern Neck and they now live in Heathsville on Hull Creek. We call it “the place where people wave at you with all five fingers.” Needless to say, they don’t miss the hustle and bustle of the big city; instead they love the slow paced, small community atmosphere found on the Neck. Ironically Kathy and Kenneth contemplated closing the store a year ago because the down-turn in the economy had really hurt the business. While discussing their options, Kathy said she just wanted a sign from God before making the final decision. At that moment Kenneth showed her the paper, which was hot off the press, and showed her an ad for a storefront on Main Street available for rent. Kathy called the owner that night and the rest is history. Since moving to Main Street the business has prospered. “Guess you could call that an answered prayer,” Kathy concluded. Store hours 10-5 MondaySaturday; 12-4 on Sundays. Bobby and Kathy with the mannequin. Liz Huegel photos. [email protected] June 2012 5 Inside a HSSNN Meeting… W By Ellen Dugan elcome. Fix yourself a cup of coffee and sit down. You don’t have to go anywhere to attend this meeting. It’s offline, via this printed page, courtesy of Jan Fast, the editor/publisher of Chesapeake Style. She’s usually an agreeable person, and she has a soft spot in her heart for Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck. To bring you up to speed before we begin, Hospice Support Services of the Northern Neck (HSSNN) is a unique organization of volunteers. They donate their time and talents because they are committed to making a difference – a very meaningful difference – in the dayto-day lives of the people they serve. Sometimes the lives they touch are ending. Sometimes they are changing. Always, they are cherished. In a nutshell, HSSNN volunteers enrich their client’s quality of life. They provide medical alarm services, food supplements, incontinent supplies, hospital beds, wheel chairs, and transportation for doctor visits, all free of charge. They also provide something that can’t be purchased or stored in a warehouse: regular contact with clients and much-needed relief to caregivers in the form of friendship and connection during the incredibly stressful time of coping with a loved one’s life-threatening illness. You could call HSSNN volunteers a Caring Network of Goodness or a Person-to-Person Connection Force. Today, most of the volunteers won’t be at our meeting. They much prefer to be out with people rather than cooped up in a meeting room, reading boring financial documents or figuring out answers to “Where do we go from here when it comes to fund raising?” So, if you’d like to duck out now and think about becoming a HSSNN volunteer yourself, great! However, we would like you to remain focused and stay tuned because we need your help in other areas too. Board President Wallace McGinness, easy to spot in a crowd because of his thick, wavy white hair, has posed the general topic of fund raising. He’s asked to hear from Treasurer Evelyn Neal. Evelyn has traveled worldwide with the IRS and because she is now retired, you can relax around her. She is no longer frightening. Evelyn reports that HSSNN spent $80,296 on dietary supplements, incontinent supplies and medical alarm services in 2011. Some of these items were paid for from funds raised during the annual Turkey Shoot Regatta. Evelyn has learned that the Turkey Shoot will not be contributing to HSSNN this year. She also knows that HSSNN receives no funding from the government or from Medicare. Board Member John McConnico is listening intently. Known as “Capt’n John” to the seafaring, he is recognized throughout the Northern Neck for his ability to remain calm in emergencies, on and off a boat. He’s calm right now, gathering additional information. “Hmm,” he thinks out loud. “We have 69 volunteers. They drive 44,256 miles and log 3,206 hours in serving our 175 plus client neighbors.” “That’s correct,” says Director Jane Scates. Jane has never performed in a circus, but she is adept at juggling schedules, client needs, orders, inventories, equipment, and a million other things each day. She’s not a worrier by nature, but she gets right to the point when she talks about fund raising. “What’s our new strategy to replace these funds?” she asks. “Well,” says Wallace. “We need to begin a general fund raising drive now. We need to include churches, businesses, civic groups, professional organizations, individuals, friends and neighbors. Everyone who is interested in stepping up to the plate and becoming a current or future ‘Friend of Hospice.’” “That’s exactly what we need to do,” says John. “We need to let folks know that a $35 donation can provide twenty-four days of dietary supplements and that $240 can supply medical alarm service for one person for one year.” His enthusiasm is echoed by other Board Members. They all agree to begin immediately. This is part of that beginning. If you would like to make a donation in memory of a loved one or in your own name, please make your check payable to HSSNN and mail to: P.O. Box 262, Warsaw, VA 22572. “All contributions are tax deductible and most gratefully accepted,” says Wallace. Now we can adjourn. Thanks for coming. Wallace McGinness photo by Ellen Dugan June 2012 6 Style Spotlight~More Than a Museum L ocated in Westmoreland County, the small village of Kinsale is the oldest customs port on the south side of the Potomac and abundant in rich history. The town was attacked from the river both during the War of 1812 and the Civil War. Steamboats first began using the wharf at Kinsale in the 1850’s and continued service daily until 1932, resulting in a burst of activity that is responsible for the current street layout and Victorian homes seen today. There were 57 businesses in the town’s heyday. The Kinsale Foundation was formed in 1977, as area architect Harry Lee Arnest III and historians Frank Bailey Jr. and Walter B. Norris Jr. joined with other historically minded individuals to preserve the area’s legacy for future generations. The quaint, two-story Kinsale Museum sits smartly on lush greens and welcomes visitors year-round, Fridays and Saturdays from 10 o’clock a.m. until 5 o’clock p.m. Museum Director Lynn Norris describes the building as “a welcoming place where stories are brought to life.” The museum building was given to the Foundation by Arnest's widow in 1989, and after extensive restoration, Kinsale Museum opened to the public in 1993. The Foundation has since bought the old Ice Cream Parlor and will be creating gallery space there. The Foundation and Cople District Volunteer Fire Department work together to create a sense of ongoing community in Kinsale, which became a historic district in 2005. In 2011 the Museum had its vintage roof replaced and had re-caulking work done to fix leaks around the windows. “An extensive collection of photographs, scrapbooks and other mementoes bring the past alive. The water is ever present in vivid artworks by Phil Arnest and John Barber, Melvin Foxwell’s Northumberland and the Estelle Leonard. There are boat models on loan from Turner Waughtel, photos of steamboats and an exhibit about the Floating Theatre which Edna Ferber detailed in her novel Showboat,” said Norris. The Museum hasn’t seen any vast drop in visitors, even in today’s economy, says Norris. The 400 families and businesses who comprise the membership are faithful in their support, she says. The Museum is full of area historical nuances, and Norris is the curator extraordinaire. “We have not one but two chewing tobacco cutters, a quilt in the North Carolina Lily pattern, and a washbowl and a pitcher with other crockery that were wedding presents in 1886. The famous ‘dipping bird’ from Raymond Sydnor’s barber shop is here. The brass scales and hand-hewn pitcher from the Museum’s days as a meat market and tavern seem to fascinate folks as much as the World War II maps brought home from Borneo, printed on both sides of silk fabric so if a seaplane pilot had to ditch he could still find his way.” Kinsale Museum is a proud flagship of times past, preserved for future generations. Paula Shipman photos. [email protected] June 2012 7 Gardening in Style~ Plants for Cooking andFreezing Medicinal Purposes supports the circulatory system. If you like By Kathey Brodtman S pring is a time to grow gardens and think healthy. Herbs and greens can make a difference in the way you feel and how you eat. People have been using herbs and greens for cooking and healing for thousands of years. Here are a few you can grow and prepare yourself. Try spinach, kale, beet greens, Swiss chard, parsley, cilantro, catnip— your kitty will love you and dill. In the past I have mentioned how easy it is to grow greens, herbs and vegetables in containers if you cannot plant a large garden. Just recently, I saw the most attractive hanging planters, each a virtual salad overflowing its pot. One had parsley, another, spinach and the third, lettuce. How beautiful and decorative. Edible landscapes can come in many forms including container gardening. to cook with garlic, try garlic chives. Just clip some of the young green tops and use like regular chives in cooking. When you drink water consider adding crushed basil, lemon balm, tarragon, mint or hyssop leaves. These herbs will improve the flavor of water. Herbs can be dried or frozen. Dry lemon balm, mint, dill, rosemary, oregano, sage and lavender in a warm, dark place, stems tied together and hung upside down or covered in a brown paper bag with small holes punched around for circulation. Edwards Produce works well for basil, dill, mint and chives. Be sure to wash well and pat dry before you process the herbs. A quick trick for freezing basil and mint is to chop the leaves, put them in an ice cube trays, add water to cover, and freeze. Store cubes in plastic bags in the freezer. Add a few cubes to your favorite dish or drink. The following culinary herbs are also useful for healing: garlic fights infection; ginger aids in digestion, turmeric is an antiinflammatory and horseradish These four herbs also add flavor to food so that you can eliminate using salt and fat in your cooking. For more information about culinary herbs see: culinaryherbguide.com/index. And check out the healing benefits of herbs at: www.anniesremedy. com. Finally if you want to help the bees plant rosemary, hyssop, lavender and also herbs in the mint family, which includes sage, thyme, marjoram and basil. Now I must get to my overgrown garden and do some cleaning up. Things got a bit wild while we were away. Just for fun, here’s a quote we found on our recent trip to Brookgreen Gardens in South Carolina: I used to love my garden. But now my love is dead: I found a Bachelor’s Button In Blackeyed Susie’s bed. Unknown Kathey Brodtman photo [email protected] Freshness Is Our Business Monday-Saturday 10 to 5 Fresh Eggs Local Produce in Season Annuals and Perennials Located on Rt. 200 29 Crosshills Rd Wicomico Church, Virginia 22579 540-226-4382 The Courthouse Restaurant Welcome Home! 6714 Main St., Gloucester 804-210-1506 804-210-1507 Fax First Friday & Saturday Second & Fourth Thursday Open Until 8 p.m. Open Daily 6 a.m. - 3 p.m. June 2012 8 Teen For Guidelines and Permission Forms go to www.chesapeakestyle.com, click on Teen Style. Essex High School Encouraging Young Artists, Photographers, Writers By D'Myra Brown Senior By Avery Ann Jones Sophomore R.I.P. Anthony Feather By Edijah Fulcher Although unheard, I thank you for always being there. Even when you were rapacious, you always seemed to care. You meant so much to me, you were special and that’s no lie. You brightened up the darkest day, and even the grayest sky. I will always remember you and what you used to say. You made each one of us smile, and live to the fullest each and every day. Our friendship is forever, but death pulled us apart. You may be gone physically, but you’re always in my heart. I was not ready to say goodbye, so on May 9 we will always remember you. R.I.P. Anthony Leon Feather By Sarah Ipson Junior June 2012 9 The Battle of Bunker Hill By Bud Disney “And what is so rare as a day in June? Then, if ever come perfect days ? Then heaven tries the earth if it be in tune,” Vision of Sir Launfal, a poem James Russell Lowell in 1848 I t was June of 1775, Boston Massachusetts, the battles of Lexington and Concord had come and gone, The British occupied Boston and the fledgling army of militia controlled Dorchester Heights overlooking the town. This was an insult to the King’s troops. A standoff, an unacceptable situation, this rebellion had gone far enough. This could not to be tolerated by the Commanding officer of his Majesties troops, General Thomas Gage. The arrival of additional troops and three experienced generals charged the atmosphere with contempt for rebel upstarts—Major Generals William Howe, John Burgoyne, and Henry Clinton. Major General John Burgoyne describes the American military as “Rabble in arms, flushed with success and insolence”. In less than two years General Burgoyne will be forced to surrender his Army to the Continental Army at Saratoga, New York. General Howe would win many battles, but in the end would be recalled without victory. General Clinton would be active in the early days of the war, would end the war in New York, but also never would see victory. The plans to defend Bunker Hill were changed and Breed’s Hill, the hill in front of Bunker Hill and closer to the Charles River, was chosen to fortify. The last minute decision was made by General William Prescott, who decided the hillsides of Bunker Hill were steeper and easier to defend. The name stuck as the first plan was to fortify Bunker Hill and the local people always called it the Battle of Bunker Hill. The Americans moved to breed’s Hill on the night of June 16, 1775. They spent all night preparing the fortifications. On the morning of the 17th, a British vessel spotted the fortifications and started bombarding. It woke up the Boston area with surprise, upon waking and discovering what the Americans had accomplished—it was decided to remove the socalled patriots from the hill. General William Howe was chosen to do so. It was planned to be a simple affair, standard frontal attack, by the experienced, and perhaps the best troops in the world at the time. A few rounds and bayonet attack would certainly run this rabble army off the hills. The attack would begin with bombardment, followed by landing of troops. A much used and effective frontal attack with muskets, a bayonet charge to finish the job. The Americans with capable leadership and a plan dug in behind earthen fortifications. With the order “hold your fire till you see the whites of their eyes” enabled the British to think they were going to be unopposed. Not so this day, the first charge was quickly broken up by the deadly close up firing into the charging Redcoats. On the second charge, charging again the stubborn Americans also repelled the Redcoats. The Redcoats fell back, reorganized, with their experience and determination once more attacked with typical tenacity and grim determination on a third attempt. The Americans, running low on ammunition held their position until it was overrun and then retreated. The British had won the day, but not without heavy casualties and learned an important lesson. For the duration, the British would never mount a frontal attack against an American fortified position— Bunker Hill had left its mark. Though the victory belonged to the British because the held the field at the end of the Battle, it gave the Americans hopes and strength, they had indeed fought well and all was not lost. General George Washington was appointed commander in Chief by the Continental Congress. “The times that try men’s souls” would come and go. It would be eight long years and the American Colonies would be free and the experiment of democracy would begin. Reference: Decisive Battles of the American Revolution By Lt. Col. Joseph B Mitchell Painting by John Trumbul Death of General Warren at the Battle of Bunker Hill. The Death of General Warren at the Battle of Bunker’s Hill, June 17,1775. Cotto n, Lin en & Gauz e Arr ivals Every Day! Ladies Apparel Casual, Cruise & Special Occasion 12 South Main Street, Kilmarnock 804-435-2200 10 to 5 Monday thru Saturday Noon to 4 Sunday June 2012 10 Spotlight on People in Style If you lived in the Persian Empire before ice cream was invented and you wanted some for your birthday, you would need to put snow in a bowl and pour grape juice over it. If you weren’t born in the winter this could be a problem. Luckily, today we can enjoy a bowl whenever we want to. Because of its universal availability and popularity, we asked: “What is the very best ice cream you’ve ever eaten?” John Stinchomb of Cobbs Creek (Mathews County) is a painter who works with Cliff Ellington out of Urbanna. He’s also the proud father of a girl named “Joey,” a seventeen year-old honor roll student at Middlesex High School, who will be attending Virginia Commonwealth University this fall. John admits that he’s more of a “pie guy,” especially his grandmother’s Dutch Apple Crumb. “It can’t be replicated,” he says, perhaps wishing he had a piece. But when his taste does turn to ice cream, John was hooked by Ben and Jerry’s marketing efforts and decided to try their Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough. “Wow,” he says. “It’s great, except for the price!” Eighty-seven year old Ernest Roane of Tappahannock was patiently sitting on a bench outside the Peebles Store, waiting for his wife Edna to come out before she spent too Lexi Lou’s Furniture and Gifts Hand Painted Furniture Priced Just Right Saturday and Sunday 8 AM to 4 PM Come to Calico Jack's and Find Cottage Furnishings, Antiques, Nautical Items, Fishing Equipment, Tools, Books, Knives, Glassware and an Assortment of Unusual Oddities. Accepting limited consignment 804-296-4350 Friday - Sunday 10 -4 5179 Mary Ball Rd., Lively much money inside. In his younger days Ernest drove a limousine in New York City so his nerves are good and he knows how to be patient. Some of his clients included Frank Sinatra, Sammy Davis, Jr. and Benny Goodman. “They treated me wonderful. Couldn’t have been any better,” he says fondly. As to ice cream, you can serve Ernest a big bowl of Breyers Vanilla and Strawberry. He likes these two so much that he enjoys them “once or twice a week.” Mollusk resident Doris Pearce moved here from upstate New York with husband Frank in 1988 because they are sailors and like to be near the water. Before her retirement, Doris was an elementary school librarian in Maryland where she was probably not allowed to eat ice cream on the job. However, just last year she decided to try a new brand, and well, the rest is history. Blue Bunny Butter Pecan is now her favorite. Much as she likes it, Doris is able to keep her weight down by “just eating a little less.” If you’re looking for nineteen yearold Rebecca Tallent who lives in Haynesville, she’s either in class at James Madison University or she’s hanging out with friends at her favorite ice cream shop, Chitter Chats in Reedville. At JMU Rebecca is studying health sciences, specifically pre-occupational therapy and special education. After teaching special ed courses while still in high school, she decided this was the field for her. And after tasting “Birthday Cake” ice cream at Chitter Chats, she decided that this was definitely the flavor for her! “It tastes like cake and if you don’t finish it all, you can take it home and re-freeze it,” says Rebecca. 6065 George Washington Memorial Highway Gloucester, VA 23061 804-832-5458 Now you can make history instead of just reading about it... with authentic historical costumes. I can put you in a replica of George Washington’s military coat...maybe you would prefer Scarlet O’Hara’s Barbecue Party Dress or Green Drapery Dress from the epic Gone With The Wind. Pegee® of Williamsburg, LLCPatterns From Historie P.O. Box 127, Williamsburg, Virginia 23187-0127 [email protected] www.pegee.com June 2012 11 Ashleigh Bennett~Lover Of Standardbreds A By Paula Shipman shleigh Bennett and I met through Facebook via our dear friend AnnMari Daley. Ash and I are both photographers and we both love horses but are partial to Standardbreds so we have a lot in common. Ash and her fiance’ Keith made the trip to Virginia from New York so we could meet in person and so I could take their engagement photos. Ash became interested in horses at six years old. She was given a choice between gymnastics lessons or horseback riding lessons. She had picked gymnastics but the gym was closing down so horseback riding prevailed. She enjoyed riding lessons for a few years. When she got older she decided she wanted to go to school for equestrian studies and attended Morrisville State College. Her second year there she was required to take an equine breeding class and the college had a complete Standardbred breeding operation there. She was hooked on Standardbreds after that. Ash knew the ins and outs of the equine industry as she was required to do everything from cleaning out stalls to record keeping. Morrisville state College stands such stallions as Conway Hall ($818,884) who's greatest progeny was the immortal Windsong's Legacy, Cash Hall ($554,297), RC Royalty ($665,681), Kenneth J ($1,562,007) and Movie Mogul ($239,256). While working at the Harrisburg Yearling Sale Ashleigh had the opportunity to groom for the Western Terror ($1,164,174) progeny, Western Silk ($1,578,573). She said she was a sweet filly. Ashleigh names Minor Skirmish as her favorite Standardbred. Minor Skirmish was a premature foal and was injured as a weanling. first crop standout, Royal Shyster ($273,256). Royal Shyster was owned by Ann-Mari Daley and trained by her husband Dan Daley. Ash works as a receptionist at Broadway Animal Hospital in Elmira, NY. She does miss working with Standardbreds and hopes to work with them again one day. Ash does have a horse of her own, a beautiful black and white Overo named Rosco. She found Rosco on the website www.dreamhorse.com Ash also got to witness See You At Peelers ($1,573,260) win her 15th consecutive race at Tioga Downs in 2011. I hope to see Ash again soon. It would be awesome to be able to watch See You At Peelers with Ash and our dearest friend Ann-Mari Daley yes, that would be sweet! Top l, Paula Shipman’s mare, Nancy’s Diamond aka Mama, and Ash. Mama’s first foal, CJ Crystal has won $122,337 at this writing and is still racing. Paula Shipman photo. Ash and Grand Presidium a Thoroughbred Stallion who had career earnings of $84,596. Photo taken by Ashley Palmer at Boxwood Farms before shipping overseas for stallion duty. [email protected] Ash nursed her back to health and consequently was the only person who could handle the filly. Minor Skirmish would never see the racetrack as her injuries would forever handicap her. She instead has led the life of a broodmare at LMN Bred Stables in Ohio. She has a yearling on the ground and is ready to foal again any day now. Ash would love to visit Minor Skirmish and eventually own her. Ash's first time in the winners circle was with a horse named Where's Waldo ($276,875). The most memorable winners circle moment would be with RC Royalty CROWN DONUTS are made FRESH throughout the day. Hot, Fresh Mini Cake Donuts Sprinkled with Cinnamon Sugar. Four Dipping Sauces! 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Mom and Dad treasure this family time and want it to last forever. It’s one of our favorite ways to relax and unwind. With the gas prices down a bit, there are increased opportunities to be out on the water, fishing, boating and just enjoying quality time. June provides lots of choices including trolling, bottom fishing and chumming. Travis’ favorites are bluefish, spot and stripers. Great opportunities exist for striped bass, bluefish, flounder, white perch and croaker. Maryland and Virginia anglers continue to enjoy the next wave of striped bass. Maryland striped bass season continues through December 15, 2012. The daily creel and possession limit is two striped bass at 18” to 28” or one at 18” to 28” and another larger than 28”. Maryland’s Chesapeake Bay and its tributaries are open to striper fishing during this second season. For information, call 800-688-3467 Treat Dad to a Sundae! at Westmoreland Berry Farm All Dads get a Free Sundae on Father's Day, June 17 Enjoy Peaches and Blackberries in June! (804) 224-9171 9 - 5 Mon - Sat 10 - 5 Sunday 1235 Berry Farm Lane, Oak Grove www.westmorelandberryfarm.com or visit Maryland’s Fisheries website at www.dnr.state.md.us/fisheries. The Potomac River Fisheries Commission (PRFC) striper season continues through December 31, 2012. During this time two fish per person per day at 18”-28” is the creel and possession limit. One of these can be larger than 28”. Additional information can be obtained by calling 800-266-3904 or via the PRFC website at www.prfc.state. va.us. The striper season in Virginia runs through June 15, 2012, with two stripers allowed in possession at 18” to 28”. One of these may be larger than 32”. To protect prespawn stripers, certain sections of Virginia Chesapeake Bay Tributary waters are restricted to possessing striped bass during this season. Information about this regulation can be found at www.mrc.virginia. gov/ or by calling 757- 247-2200. With only a few exceptions, most anglers have to complete registration with the Federal “National Saltwater Angler Registry”. This free and easy to complete process requires saltwater recreational anglers in the United States—including Maryland and Virginia—to register, via an online web based program. If you have not registered yet, it can be done through a toll-free number, 888-674-7411, or online at www.CountMyFish.noaa.gov. If your choice is bluefish, choices include trolling with small spoons, bucktails or surgical hose eels. While bottom fishing, enjoy catches of croaker and later this summer spot when using double rigged spinner hooks baited and enough weight to keep the baits on the bottom with bloodworms or strips of squid. Most popular baits are bloodworms for spot and croaker. Squid, cut into strips or used as chunk baits are also very successful. Other popular baits include peeler or soft crab, shrimp, artificial Fishbites and believe it or not small chunks of hot dogs. My family’s favorite fishing is drifting the edges of channels and drop-offs for flounder. For chumming, ground menhaden is the best choice to create a wonderful chum slick. Use 15 to 20 pound test leader tied directly to a hook covered with a small piece of cut menhaden for bait. Late evenings and night time fishing can produce bigger croaker. Popular fishing areas to try include drop-offs, obstructions and oyster shell bottoms. In the heat of the day, try deeper channel edges. Chelly Scala photos. [email protected] Chesapeake Style Magazine Calling All Quilters! ➤ Start your Machines, ➤ Pick up your Needles! ➤ Get Ready to Sew! ➤ If you need it, we have it! Fabric, Classes, Patterns, Kits and More! 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June 2012 14 Spike’s Wildlife Almanac~Cedar Waxwing I By Spike Knuth n 1807, a West Indies merchant by the name Viellot gave it the name Bombycilla cedorum, meaning “silky tail of the cedars.” The first common name of this unique bird was “silk tail” until being changed to waxwing. Due to its close association with the eastern red cedar tree, it ultimately became known as the cedar waxwing. There are only three species of waxwings recognized in the world; the cedar, Bohemian, of mainly the western states and north through Canada, and the Japanese waxwing of eastern Asia. They travel about in tight groups that turn, dip, or rise in unison as they fly. When alighting, they normally choose the tip top of a large tree. This is when they are most likely to be seen and recognized, especially when they reveal their presence by their unusual high pitched, lisping, “zee-zee” Cedar waxwings measure about 6-1/2 to 8 inches. They are trim, handsome birds, and their feathers have a smooth, fur-like appearance. They are pinkish- or yellowish-brown on their head, neck, and chest; grayish-brown on its back with slategray rump, tails, and wings. Their bellies and flanks are yellowish fading to white. They have black masks and chins with some white edging, a pert little brown crest, and a yellow band at the edge of its tail. They get their name from red, wax-like appendages on the tips of their secondary feathers. Waxwings pair up during late winter or early spring while migrating or wandering as flocks. They are late nesters and since they have two broods, they have active nests into October.The nest is a bulky affair up in a fork or on a horizontal limb from four to 50 feet up, built of twigs, * Dining on Cockrells Creek * Cocktails, Casual Dining * Seafood Specials * ABC On & Off Open Every Day for Lunch 11 a.m. Monday - Saturday Dinner til 9 p.m. bark-strips, leaves, and string, lined with fine vegetable fibers and grasses. Two to six eggs are laid; greenishslate or yellowish-gray in color, spotted and marked with black, brown, and dark purple. The eggs hatch in about 14 days, and in another 21-25 days the young are flying. At first the nestlings are fed insects but they turn quickly to their main food of wild fruits and berries. Waxwings feed on the berries of holly, cedar, greenbrier, viburnum, privet, and others, as well as apples, cherries, crabapples, and persimmon. A flock might suddenly come down to feed on fruit in the most unusual places. I saw one flock come down into the courtyard just outside of a gym, of a community college in Maryland to feed on a crabapple tree with hundreds of people milling about at a youth basketball tournament. They may suddenly come to the ground to feed on black liriope berries or forage in a magnolia on the berrylike seeds, or actively feeding on tiny privet berries. Occasionally they will sip sap from a sapsucker’s well and they will fly up at and catch insects like a flycatcher. One of their unusual habits, while sitting side by side on a branch, to pass a berry down the line often “sidehopping” to get closer together. Some waxwings do migrate in winter to Central America as late as January-February and may not return until May-June. However, many will stay with us all winter long, tending to be wanderers, often showing up suddenly. They’ll be found in open woodlands, parks, suburbs, and swamps where an abundance of wild fruits and berries can be found. Even on the bleakest of winter days, you may hear or see a flock sitting calmly in a barren tree top, sunlight reflecting off of puffed up yellow bellies, uttering their soft “zeeeing” calls. Original artwork by Spike Knuth Leadbelly's Restaurant is located at Fairport Marina 804-453-5002 252 Polly Cove Road, Reedville, Va Chesapeake Style Magazine June 2012 15 One of Life’s Moments~Captn’ Pruett I By Gwen Keane t is soft shell crab season and I am reminded of a man named Captn’ Pruett. He was a lifetime resident of Tangier Island, who each summer worked for my grandfather, Carter Keane, at our family owned business, Ditchley Packing Company. Captn’ Pruett’s job was to care for the “buster crabs” and once they shed, the soft shell crabs were packed alive in wet seaweed, for transport by truck to Washington, D.C. Hours later, well-dressed diners, would savor each bite of the freshly prepared soft shell crabs, served at the prominent Flagship Restaurant, owned by Daisy Mattingly, my grandfather’s cousin, Captn’ Pruett was a “closet drinker” until he got drunk. Once as Grandma and I sat in the flower garden, eating ice cream, we heard a strange noise from the direction of the plant. It sounded like a loud scrape made by automotive gears. My grandfather was not at home, so we abandoned our ice cream, and hurried off to investigate. Upon arrival at the plant, we watched as our old truck moved along, close to the high bank edge. The truck’s erratic movement on the rough terrain caused the wooden bed to sway back and forth. When we got closer, we saw that Captn’ Pruett was behind the wheel. Grandma, with her index and middle fingers in her mouth, gave the famous “you are in trouble now” whistle. Captn’ Pruett, all liquored up, held both of his hands on to the steering wheel as he drove past us. We knew he was not accustomed to driving because in the early 1950’s there were no cars on Tangier Island. As he passed by he yelled, “Mrs. Keane, I’m a going home! I’m driving right durn back to Tangier.” Grandma ran towards the truck, and as he attempted to turn it around, the engine cut off. When she reached Captn’ Pruett, she gave him a well deserved lecture on safety, the use of someone else’s personal property without permission, and the evils of excessive drinking. Captn’ Pruett cried out. “I didn’t mean no harm. I’m just so darn homesick.” Grandma, sympathetic of course, convinced him to go back to the crab shack and take a nap. She also invited him to supper the next night. At 5:30 p.m., that evening, Captn’ Pruett knocked at our back door. He joined us at the table, and as he sat with a plate full of food in front of him, he started a conversation. “Mrs. Keane, you sure do have a lot of cherries on those trees in your front yard. I wondered if you ever make any cherry wine.” That was how Captn’ Pruett sought permission to pick cherries, and was given Grandma’s cherry wine recipe. The next morning, he was in our front yard, with a bucket in hand. CAPT. FAUNCE SEAFOOD, INC. Wholesale & Retail Offering the Best in Fresh & Frozen Seafood ✔ Crabs ✔ Oysters ✔ Shrimp ✔ Crabmeat ✔ Fish ✔ Scallops ✔ Crabcakes and more! Two Locations to Serve You Better 2811 Cople Hwy 123 Maple St. Unit 3 Montross, Va Warsaw, Va 804-493-8690 804-333-3935 Later that night, while we sat on the porch, an explosive noise erupted. It sounded as if a shotgun had been fired. Grandma jumped from her rocker, and I followed. We headed towards the plant. At the edge of the bank, we looked down on the tar papered crab shack, built on pilings out in the water, surrounded by a dock. With all of the outside lights turned on, it was easy to see the barrel of a gun, propped up in the open window. Grandma hollowed, “Captn’ Pruett, are you all right?” A few seconds passed before he yelled, “I am ok but I sure got a mess on my hands.” “We’re coming down,” Grandma told the distraught man. We sat down on the edge of the clay bank and slid down to the sand beach. It was a short walk to the crab shack. We entered the building before Captn’ Pruitt could warn us of the wet sticky substance on the floor. Starburst patterns of the purplish liquid also covered the walls. Even Captn’ Pruett’s wet feather mattress, was pierced with pieces of charred glass. His cherry wine had exploded. Grandma, frustrated, threw up her arms, and asked, “Captn’ Pruett, what did you do?” “I made the wine just like you told me. Then I screwed the jar tops on and went to bed when “My gawd Mrs. Keane, I heard what I thought was a shot. I jumped from my bed to take cover and grabbed my shotgun. I just knew someone had shot at me. It wasn’t until I heard you call that I realized my wine had blown up.” “Captn’ Pruett, your wine blew up because you tightened the lids on hot jars.” The wine exposition became a favorite story told by my grandmother each year when the weather got warm, and it was time for “a run” of soft shell crabs. [email protected] Randy's Walk-in Tubs Plus ow N all a C for te a m sti es! c E Eble Pri E R ta F bea Un Senior Citizen Discounts. Need your Bathroom Remodeled? Call now. Made in America Our best-selling Therapeutic Tub! The Encore has six independently adjustable deep-tissue massaging water jets, an inline heater and 22 injected air jets for the gentle, swirling motion of air massage. The 22 air jets are located around the seat and in the foot well: the water jets are positioned for optimum therapeutic massage featuring two adjustable jets behind the calves, two behind the lower back and two in the foot well. You will end everyday asking for an Encore performance. 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The Sign of Fall By Karsten Coates Dew kissed and brown I cut through the foliage I tell the world it's coming, They always listen to my call, For I never fail I'm the harbinger of fall I am, the crisp brown leaf When I Kiss The Sky By Tess Mundey Hello to the stranger above, floating 'round my head, So long to the thoughtful lies, while I lie in bed, Your sincere white wisps of cloudy huffs send me further into morrow, The despicable ways you cloud my soul send me into sorrow. Further along down the road, abundant in dismay, I'll slink into a quiet dream, fully in display. When the clouds will beckon me, and I'll subside a lie, You may stop and wonder when I kiss the sky. Trouble By Chris Holsinger Trouble, Trouble, and more Trouble It's all I see Trouble is the only thing that Seems to come to me. 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Asking $300 Not Shown WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONS Contact Committee Chairman Clif Ames RFM 804-453-6529 If you have a boat with clear title that you wish to donate to the museum please contact Clif Ames at 804-453-3506 www.rfmuseum.org June 2012 18 The Guinea Connection~Part III W By Elizabeth Allen Stokes hile I and others proudly set up artifacts of our heritage, my mother held a grand reunion with family members, Christine Stokes Boyd and Helen Lewis Simmons, and other childhood friends, including Mary Stokes Foster, and some she had not seen in some thirty, forty, fifty years! The Clans of Gregory, all branches of the Stokes, Washington, Tabb, Cook were in attendance, as well as families from Mumford Creek—up on the hill—the Redcrosses, the Fosters, Corbins, the Catletts, in the Hayes Store area. There were such glorious greetings and tears and laughter and memories of church meetings and dinner on the ground! Of inspiring, beloved preachers and crooked “jackleg” ones—my mother never, ever trusted any man of the cloth so my religious training was left to my grandmother. The biggest attractions on my display was the photo of the old Allen Chapel and a model of my grandfather’s oyster boat, the Francis A. Hall. The talk of the evening was time spent in the old Allen Chapel in the one room schoolhouse that housed all the grades from primer to seventh grade, of the stern schoolmistresses, who tolerated no misbehavior and used the strap for discipline as much as the text for teaching. They talked especially about Mary Katherine Carter, from Piney Swamp, the youngest of the teachers who was to later become my mother’s sister-inlaw, who taught in the Bena-Hayes schoolroom. They laughed about the stinky schoolroom with its smoking potbelly stove—the wood supply always seemed to be green—and the smell from the boys’ woolen sock- clad feet competed with each other in winter—their boots and shoes were left outside. Good times were remembered in the chapel. The white children attended school in Achilles and later Botetourt, also a school down in Tidemill near Harbour Hill. There was also a school up near the Joe Lewis property near Hayes Store. Bena-Hayes School was erected on the Borum/Washington property, then consolidated with the BenaHayes near Morningstar for blacks. Brookville and T.C. Walker Schools came later. Those African-American families who could afford to further their children’s education were sent to Hampton, Petersburg. My mom grew up in a typical rural Tidewater community with the children of the white Guineamen families—the Jenkins, Belvins, West, Tilledge, Kings, Hogges,others— she became an excellent cook and seamstress for a large family which included five older brothers who pampered her and a father who adored her. Even though she was the only girl child who survived infancy she was taught and expected to do all chores on the farm. Binding up her reddish-brown waist length hair she planted vegetables in the garden, harvested the fruit from the orchards as well as help her father and brothers man the plows for the field and harvested crops—it was not unusual to see my mother behind a harrow or swinging a scythe. She toted water from the well, chopped wood, slopped the hogs,cleaned the outhouses, boiled water over the fires outside to wash her father and brothers’ long johns when they came home from the river. She mucked out horse stalls, baled hay, curried the horses, took care of the harnesses and such. Group photo with Pauline Allen Alexander at the Guinea Heritage Exhibit at Morningstar Baptist church, Bena. The Allen Chapel-Guinea Road. The James Monroe Allen Cemetery– Guinea Road. Elizabeth Stokes photos. June 2012 19 www.thepaperhanger.net The Wellness Place Mary H. Sudduth, LCSW Clinical Counseling& More! Visit our booth Now Offering: at Warsaw & ➤ Anger Management Tappahannock ➤ Grief & Loss Group Farmer's ➤ Mood Disorder Group Markets. See our selection ➤ Substance Abuse Groups of Produce & Plants Grown *Insurance & Court Ordered using Organic Methods! Referrals Accepted* For more information call 804-472-3706 www.wellnessplace1.com 1549 Oldhams Road, Warsaw Make your lawn greener and cleaner... Organic Green Lawn Care, Inc.™ Organic Lawn Fertilizations, Weed Controls, Lawn Renovations, Aera-vations & Seeding Chris Denton, Owner P.O. 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In her two and three year old season she became the richest filly pacer in harness racing history when she earned $1.94 million. Born in 2007, POAS's Dam, Stienams Place, was a top race mare in her day and raced until she was six years old and had 34 wins. Her sire, Rocknroll Hanover won 15 of 26 starts and was Three Year Old Pacer of the Year in 2005 and is also a World Champion. POAS has turned out to be a top performer as her parents were. I have watched almost all of her races as a two and three year old, I was and still am a big fan. POAS won seven of her nine starts as a two year old in 2009 and 12 of her 16 starts as a three year old in 2010. Those accomplishments earned her the Dan Patch award for top Three Year Old Filly Pacer in 2010. As with all things good, something bad always happens. POAS had a quarter inch bone chip in her right front knee. She was taken to New Bolton for surgery in 2010. Due to the surgery POAS missed her entire four year old racing season. in 2008. She is owned by Craig Henderson, Richard and Joanne Young and is trained by Chris Ryder who says POAS is, “Absolutely great.” POAS has won such prestigious races as The Eternal Camnation which honors the Standardbred super horse, Eternal Camnation who amassed a wicked fortune in her racing career of $3,748,574. She has also won The She's A Great Lady Stakes, The Fan Hanover Stakes and The Tarport Hap, all races named after top race mares. Her most famous half brother is one of my favorite standardbreds of all time, World Champion Rock N Roll Heaven ($2,748,818). POAS also has other half sisters and brothers such as Showherthemoney ($871,161), Ticket To Rock ($1,001,953), A Rocknroll Dance ($863,325) and Donkeys Can Talk ($153,164) among many others. POAS won The Breeders Crown in 2010 as a three year old at Pocono Downs. POAS did just that, she put on a show for the Breeders Crown Final audience and wowed them with a win befitting a champion. The announcer stated after her Breeders Crown win, “Put On A Show does not disappoint.” POAS is such a big mare that she had to have a custom made sulky to race in. She is bigger in size than most of her competition. POAS is racing against seasoned horses who have not missed a year of racing and they are tough ladies. She races against horses like Chancey Lady ($1,946,437), Symphony In Motion ($1,052,829), Ginger And Fred ($1,626,425) and Tea Party Princess ($530,391) all top mares. I look forward to watching her finish out her five year old season and I hope she continues to race big! Put on a Show with driver Tim Tetrick. Bret Hanover, with his trainer Frank Erwin, can be found on both sides of POAS’s pedigree. Bret Hanover retired the fastest and richest Standardbred at the time with $922,616 in the bank. US Trotting Association photos. [email protected] June 2012 21 Teen For Guidelines and Permission Forms go to www.chesapeakestyle.com, click on Teen Style. Encouraging Young Artists, Photographers, Writers Middlesex High School Cheerleading is a Sport C By Kausha Parrish heerleading is a universal sport. People all over the world cheerlead and over the years a lot of people have been arguing about whether or not cheerleading should be considered a sport. People think that cheerleading is not a sport because they think that all we do is cheer. Sideline cheerleading is different from competition cheerleading. One thing that is different about sideline and competition cheerleading is that sideline cheerleading is not a sport it is more of a club. A lot of people often get the two confused. When normal people think of cheerleaders they often think of girls who have been open for business. Well that is not what cheerleading is about. When a cheerleader thinks of cheerleading they think of all the hard work and dedication that it takes to be a cheerleader. Being a cheerleader is the same as being a football player. No matter what you still have to go through try-outs and you still have to go to the practices. There is a lot of stuff that you have to do when you cheerlead. If you are not a cheerleader then you do not understand. If you are a cheerleader then you are fully aware of what I’m talking about. Being a cheerleader you have to practice for hours a day. Sometimes you have to practice at 6 in the morning go to school and then practice after school. When you show up to every practice with your game face on then you are dedicated. If you don’t then you are probably one of the people who think cheerleading is not a sport. You still have to condition for cheerleading just like you do during football or any other sport. When we are finally ready to put a routine together we have to make sure that everyone is able to hit or complete all of their parts in a routine. If not they we have go back and change the play. When we cheerlead we get a medal and a ring too just like football, basketball, soccer, or baseball. Cheerleaders believe that cheerleading is a lifestyle because it is. When we cheerlead we are putting our hearts on the line. No matter what anyone else thinks cheerleading will always be considered a sport to me and the cheerleading population. It’s Only a Movie By Chris Sheppard It’s only a movie. Cats don’t dance. There isn’t another world It’s only a movie. in your closet. Rabbits don’t own pocket watches. It’s only a movie. It’s only a movie. People can’t fly or jump And last but not least, the into a chalk drawing. matrix doesn’t exist, It’s only a movie. It’s only a movie. The Na’vi and Pandora aren’t real. Oh, I almost forgot, houses It’s only a movie. aren’t monsters, Kangaroos don’t wear jackets. It’s only a movie. It’s only a movie. The ‘Me’ Poem By Joey Stinchcomb A wild array of random quirks and frenzied phrases that make up me. A strange assortment of mild manners, hilarious phrases, and unusual noise is what I be. Loud, opinionated, and as strong as the earth beneath my too-large feet. I am unusually tall, intelligent, and powerful; I can accomplish any awe-inspiring feat. I have an imagination Dr. Seuss would envy; I am a soldier that marches to the beat of my own drum. I dance and sing to myself incessantly; my voice is associated with noise, like a whistle or a hum. Well-done movies and books excite my senses and pump energy into my pulsating heart. My best friend is Meagan, or Frenchy, as I like to call her; I hope we never have to part. Sports keep me healthy and consistently exhausted; though, I do delight in the adrenaline rush. I revel in playing card games like Rummy, but I know nothing of poker, of straights, or of a royal flush. I fancy having contrary and independent views and distinct speech patterns that confuse and enlighten. I adore super power movies, where the level of excitement and thrills are always heightened. I relish chicken in the form of wings with a load of ranch on the side. I fell off a mountain as a child; I got into an accident that totaled my car in high school. I could have died. I used to live in a wondrous state called Maryland, but now good-old-Virginia is where I reside. I have adored writing poetry since I was but a child; I do not follow guidelines. I decide. I decide how I write, how I speak and act, how my life is run, and even my level of pride. I despise profanity and lies; I choose who I confide in and who I push aside. I turned out alright, even though my parents can sometimes suck. Once I named a tiny yellow duck, regrettably got my arm stuck, met a little man called Chuck, Lost a flip flop in a shore of muck, been unforgettably struck, and had my emotions run amuck. If you thought this was going to end in profanity, you are all out of luck, you schmuck. Chesapeake Style Magazine June 2012 22 Books in Style~27 Minutes 27 Minutes by Jeanne Johansen Reviewed by Narielle Living here is a group of people that exist in our society who become nameless, faceless and unseen. They are the homeless veterans, the ones who have been to war and returned broken, the men and women who carry the shards of who they used to be inside their hearts. So many times the homeless veteran struggles with addiction and mental health problems, overlooked by society because they are nothing more than a bum on the street. For them, the war has not ended, it has simply changed places. In Jeanne Johansen’s debut novel, 27 Minutes, the reader is introduced to a cast of characters, including Lisbeth, a nurse who works with homeless veterans; her fiancé, Robert; Dr. Bruckman, who T runs the clinic for homeless veterans; Buzz, a veteran; Tran, a Vietnamese immigrant; Marcie Daniels, a reporter; Erik, father of Lisbeth; and Mike, a friend of Erik. 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Log on to www.magickidsusa.com Mention Discount Code MK79201 for HUGE Savings! 828-276-6316 Johansen conveys a wealth of information in her book, including a glimpse of what it was like to be Buddhist in Vietnam during 1967 and how the Vietnam War touched the lives of the residents. She also focuses on America’s treatment of homeless veterans, and the daily struggles they endure simply to survive in a country they once offered to die for. The story takes a number of twists and turns, leading the reader from the streets of Richmond to rural Virginia and straight into an abandoned mental hospital, where a Vietnamese man waits to inflict revenge upon the person he sees as responsible for his uncle’s death. Some of the scenes that are truly riveting include the glimpse of the Buddhist monks’ practice of self-immolation, where they set themselves on fire as a protest against political events. These are extraordinarily moving as the reader is able to directly witness this horrific event. Johansen also does a terrific job delineating the problems so many veterans face, and brings empathy to a group that is often overlooked and misunderstood. 27 Minutes is told in a fast-paced, interesting manner that keeps the reader turning the pages. Thankfully the story ends with the suggestion of more to come from this author. ADOPT A SHELTER PET Bathing Suit Season is Here... Lovable, handsome Glenn is one of many great dogs now available at our shelter. He is 18 months old, playful, and full of personality. Introducing the Ultimate Body Applicator: At Northumberland Animal Shelter Come see our animals! 804-580-6156 veterans is in a mentoring program that helps the men with their addiction problems and become selfsupporting. Her experiences range from touching to funny. “The first time I ever laid eyes on Buzz, he was naked and chasing a woman through the alley behind the building where I work. She was carrying a stuffed buzzard; he was carrying a butcher’s knife.” Such events are common in Lisbeth’s line of work. Northumberland Animal Shelter 11703 Northumberland Highway (Rt 360), Heathsville ✔ Provides long-lasting results ✔ Reduces the appearance of cellulite ✔ Tightens, tones and firms where applied ✔ Measurable results in as little as 45 minutes! Also available Skin Care products, Nutritional Supplements. Liz Huegel 804-815-5077 lidabet.myitworks.com June 2012 23 Prime Enzyme Time! D By RuthE Forrest BA, CMT, NCBTMB id you know there are more than 1,300 unique enzymes in your body this instant? Some of them you made, some of them you received—or Not—from food. These essential proteins help with every biochemical reaction in each of your gazillion cells. Acting as catalysts they regulate everything from brain function to digestion. The World Gastroenterology Organization estimates that 70 million of us suffer severe deficiency of metabolically active enzymes. Symptoms range from bloating, indigestion and gastro-esophogeal reflux disease, to packing on stubborn pounds of toxic fat that doesn’t respond to even the most horrific workout schedule. Our bodies make most enzymes in the pancreas and liver. But starting around age 35 our ability to produce enzymes slows down to 50% or less as we age. Chronic stress not only depletes the enzymes we make, but also makes the remaining ones less effective. Add-in technological advances in food processing like pasteurized juice and homogenized milk which destroy almost 100% of enzymes, and you have disaster. Food provides the building blocks for the enzymes we make. The more fresh organic living foods—with their living active enzymes intact—we eat the better off we feel. University of Chicago research suggests that eating a diet of 70% raw foods increases cellular enzyme levels by as much as tenfold in only four days! If you eat a highly processed, fast food, high salt, fake sugar, pesticideriddled diet like most Americans your diet is devoid of enzymes. The result is that your poor liver and pancreas are desperately working overtime to correct the shortfall. They have to switch from producing metabolic enzymes critical for metabolic rate, energy, and brain functioning to making digestive enzymes to ensure that food is optimally digested to make the building blocks for more essential enzymes. Requiring an enormous amount of energy to produce sufficient digestive enzymes, these organs must decrease energy to their primary functions of detoxification and fat metabolism. The result is bloating, food cravings and the build-up of fat-packed toxins. Live-food diet experts suggest that due to our hectic lifestyle three in four women are not getting enough enzymes in their diet. The fix is surprisingly easy—eat more foods rich in living enzymes. Pineapple and papaya are great superfoods containing the enzymes bromelain, papain, and chymopapain which quickly breakdown dietary proteins, easing the stress on your organs. They are also great antiinflammatory compounds that help to heal injuries and infections. Jack LaLanne was right about juicing fresh fruits and veggies! Drinking fresh squeezed juice— not canned, bottled, packaged— energizes your body in 24 hours. Sprouts are one of the healthiest foods. The first sprout of the seed contains up to 20 times more enzymes than the adult plant. Making them at home is easy, safe, delicious, and fun—sprouting.com. Taking enzyme supplements can help. Look for full-spectrum digestive enzymes—fats, carbohydrates, proteins—in the vitamin isle. By the way, those little purple prescription pills decrease enzyme production and add to your toxic-load. If you were born jaundiced you have even less enzymes than most of us! 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Such was the case in Frank Epperson’s house in 1905. It was late in the evening and little Frank was out on the front porch, quietly mixing scoops of powdered soda with water in a glass—some reports say cup—and stirring it with a small wooden stick. Probably, he was tasting as he stirred and it’s possible that he spilled some along the way. Certainly his hands were sticky. But thankfully, he had no adult supervision. His parents were in all likelihood amusing themselves in the family parlor with conversation, books—whatever people did in San Francisco before TV and computers. When Frank was called “to come inside now,” he did. And luckily for us, he left his flavored soda water and stirring stick on the porch. What happened next would have catapulted Frank into the Popsicle® Hall of Fame had there been one. That night San Francisco temperatures plunged to record lows. Frank’s soda water froze. When he woke the next morning, he discovered that the stir stick had frozen inside the liquid. This made it a great handle. By running water over the container, he could loosen his ice treat. Immediately, he christened his new accidental creation the “Epsicle,” a combination of his name and icicle. From these humble beginnings, the fantastically successful Popsicle® industry was to grow. But not right away. That next summer Frank made his frozen treats in his family’s icebox and sold them around his neighborhood for five cents. There is no record of whether or not his mother enjoyed having him underfoot in the kitchen, but it’s probable that she indulged him. Perhaps she understood that he just wasn’t the kind of kid who sat passively on a wooden box and sold lemonade. He was into manufacturing! However, it wasn’t until Frank was 30, after successfully selling his ice pops to the public at Neptune Beach, that he actually patented his “frozen ice on a stick.” Shortly thereafter he changed the name to “Popsicle®” either to show that it contained soda pop, or because his children urged him to name the treat after what they called it: “Pop’s ‘sicle.” Probably both reasons apply. Although Frank’s original flavors have been forever lost to history, unofficial records indicate that they were root beer, cherry, lemon, orange, banana, grape and watermelon. Cherry and orange remain as top sellers among Popsicle® purchasers today. The dual or twin ice pop made its debut during the Depression as a way to easily split the treat and thereby allow a family to satisfy two children for the cost of one treat. It’s been with us ever since, although more than likely, kids today eat both halves. Frank died in 1983 at the age of 89, but his Popsicle® legacy, a reminder of the sweet summer days of childhood, lives on. [email protected] Chesapeake Style Magazine The Benefits of Having Your Air Ducts Cleaned: Reduced Household Dust Reduced Airborne Allergen Improved Indoor Air Quality Greater Energy Efficiency For a limited time - offering 10% off! Call King's Cleaning Services Today King's Cleaning Services, Inc. 804-529-7697 www.kingscleaningservices.com FREE Tasting at Rose's Steak House, in Kilmarnock June 19 at 5:30 p.m. June 2012 25 Books In Style~The Confidential The Confidential, by John A. Bray Review by Feather Schwartz Foster here are cop stories, and then there are New York cop stories. The Confidential is a 1973era cop story based in New York, written by an ex-New York cop, turned New York lawyer, and every line evokes images of Robert DeNiro or Al Pacino in top form. Jack Bray knows what he is talking about. One of the most thankless assignments of any undercover agent is being a part of a sting operation against their own comrades. Dante Falconiere is one of the best undercover guys in the business, but the sting has gone wrong. His career is in limbo. His trophy girlfriend adds to his cynicism. In a rare moment of guy-camaraderie— especially for a loner like Dante—he lets his disillusionment find words, and he himself will become the target of a sting operation to test his integrity. Or is it an entrapment? There are stories within stories, and author Bray, the former cop and attorney, has the eye and ear to make it all fit together. It moves fast, and you can visualize it like a movie full of the usual goodfellas and badfellas T and a few so-sofellas. There is the cop-sting that backfires, the DA office full of corruption, the overseas drug cartel that gets so fouled up that it will crumble the entire task force, the stings-on-loan against the judges, lawyers and who knows who else— and don’t forget the gal on the side. Poor Dante. He is a man with few friends other than his Italian father— Sales Service Installations Father & Son Get It Done! We Service What We Sell! ➤ Rinni Water Heaters & Systems ➤ Regency Gas & Wood Fireplaces ➤ Gas Space Heaters ➤ Electrical Plumbing Jobs ➤ HVAC (Repair & Additions) ➤ Gas~Natural or Propane ➤ Whole House Generators ➤ Water Filter & Purification VA LICENSED & INSURED FREE ESTIMATE www.TheFireandWaterCompany in Italy, no less—an ex-cop himself who will come to New York to be “Papa”. No wonder Dante is jaded and in desperate need for some time off—hopefully with trophy-gal. Cop-story lovers will gravitate to The Confidential like a duck to water. It has everything you would expect: plenty of rough-‘em-up, more than a handful of rogue cops and other law-enforcement types on the take, two—or is it three?—murders, a mysterious-but-distinctive hit-man who doesn’t understand the concept of “blend in”, a suitcase of unmarked bills, a complicated foreign drug cartel, drive-by shootings, a cleanup crew of feds, an addict witness who escapes from the Marshals, and the beautiful “cherchez la femme.” There are enough twists and turns to make a reader wonder if a) there is anyone you like, and b) more importantly, anyone you can trust. Except maybe Papa. The old adage is true: it takes one to know one, and the author certainly has his era, his eye and ear right. He is probably a little kinder to the language than most modern cop-writers, but then again, forty years ago, perhaps all of us were a little gentler in our speech. But the descriptions are spot-on, and the type of cases and particularly the overlapping cases, seem to ring true. The Confidential is a book that you don’t just read. You can see it and hear it as if it were the movie. The Confidential by John A. Bray available at all online booksellers, both in paper and as an ebook. Chesapeake Style Magazine Catering By The Bay With Big Jim Specializing in Chicken and Pork Many Side Choices Everything Cooked on Site Free Estimates, No Job Too Small Church, Business, Retirements, Birthdays 804-450-6060 June 2012 26 Rosebud Bed and Breakfast is nestled in Virginia's Historic Northern Neck, in Montross. Easy access for day-trips to 12 local wineries, Stratford Hall, George Washington's Birthplace, Virginia's Historic triangle—Yorktown, Jamestown and Williamsburg—as well as other local historic sites. Located in town, it's a short distance to local restaurants, shopping and more. Call 804-493-8324 for reservations. 15353 Kings Hwy P.O. 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The fact that women enjoy a much improved financial status than their mothers did is a contributing factor as well. Unfortunately, divorce is also occurring because of long-term care and debilitating illness. Nursing home costs more than most people’s monthly income causing financial devastation. Divorce is often the only legal planning tool that can relieve the financial burden. AARP found that 60 and 70 year olds were less likely to get marriage counseling and more likely to “throw in the towel”. It also cited they were the happiest of divorcees with a fresh lease on life and from forging a new identity. With seniors divorce is much different than with young couples. Visitation rights and child support are not issues. The home and the assets that have been acquired over the years are the bigger issue. Recently I helped an attorney with a property settlement issue. The couple getting the divorce was in their mid sixties and had a paid off home worth $500,000. Under normal conditions it would have to be sold and the proceeds Astra Publishers Announces the release of it’s first historical romance ... split. Selling it and getting a “top dollar” price in this market wasn’t likely and the taxes and tax cost would also be a major challenge. The wife was heart broken about leaving the home. We proposed a reverse mortgage and ran the numbers. The wife was eligible for $350,000, of which she could buy out her husband and still have $100,000 left over in a credit line with a four percent growth rate. Money to help her continue to pay the homeowners insurance and property taxes and live in the home the rest of her life without a monthly mortgage payment. The husband used $75,000 of the money he received to use a reverse mortgage for the purchase of a $150,000 modular home. He too would have no mortgage payment and a place to live for the rest of his life. In a difficult situation everyone was satisfied. As footnote to this story it’s worth noting that reverse mortgages are often used to purchase long term care products and to pay for a spouse in a nursing home, provided the other spouse resides in the primary residence. For a Free copy of NCOA’s Savvy Saving Seniors™ or Using Your Home to Stay at Home™ or to learn more about Reverse Mortgages call Bill Graves at 866-936-4141. Boxcroft, Inc. Nursery & Landscaping Love’s Enduring Bond by Jean C. Keating When he rode away to war as a colonel of Confederate cavalry, she took their son and moved back le! toyoung d Washington DC to nurse in K Union wounded. She tried n o to put the war and her love a le b rebel officer out of her mind ila a until his battered body was Av carried into her surgical ward ow N ISBN 978-0-9674016 Available at www.bn.com For Pre-Order Special Autographed Copies available at www.jeankeating.com 25% Off All In-Stock Plants Open Monday through Saturday 867 Fleeton Road, Reedville (804) 453-4462 Plant Sales and Landscaping June 2012 28 Not Antiques Roadshow~But You Can Find Bargains T By Fran Warren he bargains you find at the Northumberland Animal Shelter’s (NAS) thrift center in Lottsburg may not match what you see on the Antiques Roadshow—but you can find some surprising treasures there. For example, Jo Ann Smith, who heads the all-volunteer team at the thrift site, arrived one morning recently to find someone overnight had left a piece of art at the door. It didn’t look like much—it was a closeup of the face and beard of a grizzled Alaskan old-timer. The first reaction was to charge $5 for the piece. All the goods at the thrift site are priced dirt-cheap. Anywhere else, the frame alone probably was worth more than that. But Smith noticed the print had a number. That meant it was one of a limited number of prints run from the original. She decided to check further into the origin of the print. She started by checking the website of the artist, Jon Van Zyle, and found he is an internationally known Alaskan artist. She emailed him and got this response: You have the official Iditarod poster for 1980…very valuable…(based) on recent re-sales for $500 to $800 dollars...unframed. The Iditarod dog-sled race is a famous annual event in Alaska and Van Zyle is its official poster painter. On another occasion, someone donated a painting that turned out to be an original. It was a harbor scene by Robert F. Zoeller, a well-known marine artist who painted early last century. Smith is trying to determine the value of the piece by contacting art experts. Art is but one of the areas where you can find treasures there. The NAS Indoor/Outdoor Yard Sale, the thrift center’s official name, has—well, everything. There is a furniture showroom full of attractive furniture, modern and antique. There is a “man cave,” set aside by the volunteers for male shoppers, containing tools, fishing gear, electrical and mechanical supplies, and nautical items—including, currently, a pair of water skiis. Plants are available, including cuttings of favorites raised by the volunteers. There is modern and vintage jewelry, including Sarah Coventry jewelry; glassware and household items—and a Christmas House that stays open year-round. There you can buy—if you hurry—a life-size, animated Santa to wave out your front window in December. The Yard Sale occupies part of the Northumberland School Superintendent’s building at Lottsburg, although it is not a part of the school system. The Yard Sale exists to raise money to provide veterinary care for the shelter animals. The county permits the shelter volunteers free use of the building, and the shop sells only donated items—so every dollar of income goes to the animals. Although Northumberland’s animal shelter is under the Sheriff’s Office, the shelter and thrift shop are run by volunteers, with the help of a few part-time workers. In addition to the team that runs the Yard Sale, there is another team at the Animal Shelter building in Horsehead that feeds and cares for the animals and cleans kennels 365 days a year. And the team at the Yard Sale includes not only clerks, but specialists in such areas as jewelry and furniture—and men on hand to do the heavy lifting. The Yard Sale has expanded and grown to its present size under the direction of JoAnn Smith. Today it occupies 3,000 square feet of display space and stocks around 10,000 items for sale—and generates thousands of dollars for the animal care. It’s a place where you would like to spend hours browsing through the sections. And it’s the closest thing in Northumberland County to the Antiques Roadshow! NAS’ Thrift Center was started by Fran Warren, also a volunteer who supervises the Animal Shelter Volunteers, with only two borrowed tables to display merchandise. This poster left on the thrift center’s doorstep, turned out to be a numbered print of the official 1980 Alaska Iditarod Race poster. It’s value has been estimated at $500 to $800. Included in the inventory of more than 10,000 items the Animal Shelter’s Indoor/Outdoor Yard Sale are modern and antique furniture, vintage jewelry, water skis, plants and much more. June 2012 Just Breathe A By Robin Lilly student recently quipped, “I’ve been breathing all my life. Why do I need to take a class to teach me how to do it?” Of course you’ve been breathing all your life. But you probably haven’t been very conscious of how you breathe on a daily basis or what happens to your breathing when you are ill or under stress. We take it for granted that we will continue to breathe all day, every day until we take our last breath. But our breath can tell us a lot about what is going on with our bodies. The ancient yogis said that life consists of three stages: sunrise—from birth to about 30—, midday—from about 30-70— and sunset—from 70ish on. Asana— the yoga postures—pranayama— breathing—and meditation all play different roles during each stage. In the sunrise stage, asana takes priority over pranayama and meditation and serves to “get your ya-ya’s out”, allowing the excess energy of youth to help enhance overall well being. During the midday stage, all three yoga practices have equal importance in helping to maintain the balance during the— arguably—most stressful time of life. Pranayama and meditation rise to importance during the sunset time of life as movement—asana—takes a 29 back seat to more esoteric practices in preparation for the slower pace of life and, ultimately, death. So unless you are younger than 30, pranayama—breathing—really is a critical part of your general health and worth some study. Krishnamacharya was an Indian yoga teacher and scholar, often referred to as the “father of modern yoga”. It is widely agreed that he is responsible for the modern day phenomenon of exporting yoga to the west by training the leaders of the most popular forms of yoga today— Desikachar, Iyengar and Pattabi Jois—and in making the ancient Vedic texts accessible to modern students. In his teachings, linking the breath to movement is critical. Otherwise, he said that you are just doing calisthenics. If the ultimate goal of yoga is to maintain your body in a happy and healthy state so that you can truly get to know yourself and your potential, isn’t breath worth a little study? To experiment, try this exercise. It may be particularly helpful if you have trouble sleeping. Sitting or lying down in a quiet spot, put one hand on your chest and one hand on your belly. Close your eyes and concentrate on your breath. Inhaling through your nose, feel your chest expand and your hand rise. On your exhale—through the nose—draw your tummy toward your spine and feel your hand fall. Try to gradually increase both inhale and exhale. Practice this up to twelve times but don’t push yourself if you feel any discomfort. When you finish, relax the breath and notice how you feel. Enjoy! Robin Lilly is a certified yoga teacher specializing in therapeutic yoga. 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