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ALLEY V & february / march 2010 WOMEN A Force to be Reckoned With Changing the Cultural Tide of Women’s Lives BEYOND Visit & Picturesque Portugal Boating Made Easy & Affordable! Join the Boat Club! With membership you have access to 5 different boat styles. Platinum Membership All the benefits of regular membership plus exclusive use of a 37’ Regal Sport Yacht Have a large party ? Take the 22’ Deluxe Pontoon Water Sports? Take the 22’ Sea Ray Sundeck with ski tower A relaxing day cruise? Take the spacious 27’ Regal open bow Family fishing trip? Take the 22’ Palm Beach Castmaster An overnight stay? Take the luxury 26’ Sea Ray Sundancer At Stillwater Boat Club you have Choice and Convenience No Cleaning • No Big Service Bills • No Slip Fees • Unlimited Usage No boating experience needed...training provided! 651.439.9000 www.StillwaterBoatClub.com Our Readers Write YOUR THOUGHTS I am happy to have been reading the Valley magazine since the first issue. I anxiously await each new issue to see what changes have been made to the format and see it grow. I have always appreciated the way you show the metropolitan style of our Valley area. A lot of people think because we live in beautiful country we are country. Not so! We have so much to offer and interesting places to see and enjoy. It is wonderful to showcase it to a larger audience. I have enjoyed seeing the magazine grow and come into its own. I still am impressed by the layout and photography with each issue. Thank you so much for showing people what we have here in our little hide away and making people aware that the valley area is a great place to do business and live. Please continue with this stylish magazine. Misty G. North Hudson, WI At Valley Women and Beyond, we ask you, our esteemed readers, to consider the array of travel, human interest, sometimes political, oftentimes social ideas presented and then join the conversation. Each issue includes a section, Our Readers Write, devoted entirely to our readers to express your thoughts, add insight to something you read or share a similar experience. To send us your thoughts, you must include your full name and address on the letter for consideration. We cannot guarantee receipt or publication. Please limit your letter to 200 – 300 words in length. We will not return your letter. Please send your letters to: Valley Women and Beyond “Our Readers Write” 336 Lindsay, Hudson, WI 54016 Attn: Editor Or Email: [email protected] VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 3 contributors Nita Dusek offers high school senior, family, maternity and pet photography through her business Nita Dusek Photography. She also specializes in upscale portraits through a branch of her company called La Femme Jolie Boudoir Photography. Nita highlights her client’s best features and camouflages those not so much appreciated. You can find Nita on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and her websites www.NitaDusek.com and www.LaFemmeJolieBoudoir.com. Tammy Moore, co-owner of Valley Women and Beyond magazine and owner of IMeridian Corporation has a knack for business. With a BA in Business and an MBA under her belt, Tammy’s distinct style and original ideas have assisted in launching many successful ventures. While her ardor and commitment run deep for the companies she builds and maintains, she still finds time to indulge her love for kayaking and is an avid skier, scuba diver and world traveler. Seanne Hagemeyer is a Graphic Designer and Writer. Seanne and her husband, Clark are raising two boys, Timmy and Andrew and live in Hudson. Seanne has worked in the publishing industry for more than fifteen years writing and designing for such publications as the Fort Dodge Messenger, Sun Newspapers and the Stillwater Gazette. 4 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Thekla Fagerlie-Madsen has been helping businesses with technical/writing projects for over twelve years. She considers herself ‘very lucky’ to be living the ‘writing life’. She and her husband, Bob, live on his family’s century farm in western Wisconsin and like to hit the trails on their Paint horses, Red and Rex. Pam Donley loves living in the Valley. She began her post-high school education as an Art Major at Moorhead State University, continued out West for two years at Boise State University, and graduated with an Art Degree from John Robert Powers School of Interior Design. She has managed a resort, a salon, and has been a sales executive for Z103.3 Classic Rock Radio and most recently worked seven years for the Stillwater Gazette. Lindsay Draz is a student at the University of Wisconsin-River Falls, where she will be graduating this December with a Bachelors degree in Marketing Communications, with a minor in Professional Writing. When she is not working on her studies or at her internship, Lindsay enjoys volunteering as a Big Sister for Big Brothers & Big Sisters. Contents FEBRUARY/MARCH 2010 ISSUE 5 10 38 46 43 24 Departments 10 Travel 24 Valley Fashion 46 Travel 16 Women of Inspiration 29 Valley View 52 Good Reads 35 Restaurant Review 58 Valley Gems & Happenings Experience a Winter Golf Vacation Meet the Women of River Falls, Wisconsin What’s Hot for Spring Find Out What’s Happening in the Valley The Port Restaurant at the historic St. James Hotel Portugal; A Trip Back to Yesteryear Book Reviews by Terri Schlichenmeyer Valley Events and Information 38 Valley Cuisine WELCOME TO VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND www.ValleyWomenandBeyond.com Chief Executive Officer: Tamara L. Moore Chief Operating Officer: Diane L. Nelson Creative Director: Tamara L. Moore Senior Executive Editor: Diane L. Nelson Executive Editor: Thekla Fagerlie-Madsen Advertising Sales Associate: Pam Donley Marketing Coordinator: Lindsay Miller Graphic Design, Technical Production Associate: Seanne Hagemeyer Photography: Nita Dusek, IStock Photos Recipes from Sous Chef Kyle Stumpf from the St. James Hotel The content used in this magazine is copyright 2009/2010 Valley Women and Beyond and may not be reprinted in part or in whole without written consent by the publisher. All articles and editorial material represent the opinions of the respective authors. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 5 inspiration Religion without humanity, “ is very poor human stuff.” 6 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Sojourner Truth — Philanthropist, Abolitionist and Women’s Rights Advocate & VALLEY WOMEN Contents Valley Women and Beyond is available at these locations across the Valley area FEBRUARY/MARCH 2010 ISSUE 5 42 32 51 Features 9 Fashion Color your World with Vibrant Fashions 12 Black History Month Women; A Force to be Reckoned With 32 The Wild Institute Release Your Stress and Take a Walk on the Wild Side 37 Family Identify your Parenting Pattern BEYOND 42 44 51 56 Business Expand Your Horizons through Local Networking Home Staging Your Home for the Sale Winter Fun Found Spend time in our Vibrant, Snowy Outdoors Foods & Health Beware of Food Additives In Wisconsin Hudson Applebees Associated Bank Bert’s Coffee Bruegger’s Bagels Elan′ Giggle Factory Hudson Bagel Hudson Chamber Hudson Medical Aesthetics LaCroix Consignment Lady Katherine Lavender Thymes Massage Envy Midwest Psychological Piece by Piece Seasons on the St. Croix Gallery Stone Soup Gallery Ultimissimo YMCA River Falls Associated Dentists Anchor Bank The Best Western Hotel Beyond Lighting Bo Jon’s Flowers & Gifts Dish & Spoon Café Earth Angels H&F Home Furnishings Health Centered Dentistry Horizon Family Chiropractic Kinni Valley Chiropractic Kwik Trip (South) Lori’s Day Spa Mariachi Loco River Falls Area Chamber of Commerce River Falls Public Library River Falls Medical Clinic River Falls Spa Riverwalk Mercantile The West Wind Roberts Roberts Public Library Prescott Enrique’s HAIRitage Looking Good Hair/Tan Most Pharmacy Nesbitts Nursery Prescott Public Library Ptacek’s IGA Snap Fitness Menomonie MainStreet Health & Fitness The Creamery Sparx Restaurant UW-Stout Student Center New Richmond The Bean Bag Coffee House The Richmond Area Chamber of Commerce Edward Jones – Jill Shereck Arch Copy Greaton’s Jewelers St. Croix Chiropractic Somerset Perfect Reflection Hammond Sandy Brecht Photography The Hammond Hotel In Minnesota Hastings AmericInn Country Inn & Suites Creative Confectionaire Dunn Bros. Meloy Park Second Street Café Second Tyme Around The Point Restaurant Woodbury Chihuahua Chocolates Mapleleaf Hair Marble Slab Creamery PrimRose Rocheford Plastic Surgery The Bead Gallery The Woodbury Café Cottage Grove Bulletin License Center Country Inn & Suites La Pooch Lake Elmo Hagberg’s Country Market Red Wing Al’s Antique Mall Liberty’s Restaurant & Lounge Lily’s coffee House Norton’s Downtown & Lucky Cat Lounge Pottery Place Mall Provenzznos Ristorante Red Wing Visitors & convention Bureau The Levee The St. James Hotel Stillwater Anytime Fitness Fresh Fields Bakery Haskells Kowalski’s Market Massage Envy Oak Park Wine & Spirits Stillwater Skin Rivertown Animal Hospital Valley Bookseller VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 7 Editor’s Note I The Comforts in Life I was recently reminded of the comfort of my childhood when I came across an old familiar friend. The Mallo Cup™, a chocolaty, creamfilled treasure And delicately placed under the two Mallo cups was the all-too-familiar blue and white play money in the packaging, just as I remember. It brought a feeling of comfort that I had not known for many years. Often times, we tend to either overindulge ourselves in the comforts of life or deny ourselves of the guilty little pleasures. We need to find the right balance between too much of a good thing vs. not enough. Perhaps, the comfort is found in a decadent piece of chocolate when we are dieting, a glass of wine or maybe a new outfit for no special occasion, just because we can. I hope you find a measure of indulgence, comfort, and pleasure in the pages of this issue. • I was reminded of the importance of indulging (in a healthy way of course) ourselves from time to time when I met with Chris Heeter of the WILD Institute who described how so many women have made the connection with the outdoors and their inner child. How sea kayaking in Baja or dog sledding in Northern Minnesota brought about a certain comfort and sense of accomplishment which had been almost forgotten in some. • Dr. Jennifer Krohn-Schupe tells us which ingredients are the worst to consume and why. From artificial sweeteners to sodium nitrate, check the labels and get the low down on what your comfort foods are made of. Take advantage of some of the great networking opportunities in and around the St. Croix River Valley. Writer Lindsay Draz keeps you connected so you can expand your contacts and grow your business. • Understand the importance of staging your home before you put it on the market. Learn how to identify your parenting pattern and indulge your sweet tooth with recipes from Chef Kyle Stumpf of the Port Restaurant in the St. James Hotel in historic Red Wing, Minnesota. And don’t forget our Women of Inspiration in River Falls, Wisconsin. • Whatever your comfort zone may be, allow yourself some of the pleasures in life. “This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something that you have left behind...let it be something good.” Author unknown Diane Nelson 8 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 The tranquil, soothing, bluegreen color Turquoise evokes feelings of calm and triggers memories of tropical escapes and cool Caribbean waters. Just a little pop of color can update a wardrobe without breaking the bank. color your world with vibrant fashion By Brett Lane T The color of the year has been announced and the beautiful, vibrant Turquoise is the winner for 2010! The tranquil, soothing, blue-green hue evokes feelings of calm and triggers memories of tropical escapes and cool Caribbean waters. What a great way to begin a new year and a new decade! Color Updates Your Look For Less Just a little pop of color can update a wardrobe without breaking the bank. “Now more than ever, women are vigilant when it comes to spending,” says Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute®. “Instead of reinventing their wardrobe at the start of each season, consumers want pieces to complement what they Fashion Colors Continued on pg 14 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 9 Winter golf vacations for 2010 By Betsy Larey I 10 If you haven’t booked a winter golf getaway yet, you’re in luck because there are a number of prime destinations offering great deals. In years past, anyone waiting until the season starts generally pays a premium for last minute reservations. Lucky for you, winter travel is still somewhat sluggish so in this instance, procrastination pays off. Here are three properties, from the low end to the high end, worth looking at. Alabama Bound The Robert Trent Jones Golf Trail is a collection of 468 holes at 11 different sites across Alabama. The Trail was created and is owned by the Retirement Pension fund of Alabama. The Wall Street Journal proclaimed “this may be the biggest bargain in the country.” I’ve played four of them and can tell you that these courses are among the best public courses in the country. The beauty of the layout is each site is within a two hour drive of another one, so it’s easy to play two different courses in the same day. Winter rates for golf start at $45, and hotels vary depending on the location. The only negative is most of the sites are in small towns (except Birmingham and Mobile) so there’s not a lot of night life. Weather can be iffy, with averages in the 50’s in winter and 70’s in the spring. But if you’re serious about quality golf, you won’t find a better deal. www.rtjgolf.com The Hidden Gem The next property is a hidden gem in Northern Florida, the Ponte Vedra Inn and Club. This resort was built in 1928, and is located on the Atlantic Ocean 15 miles west of Jacksonville FL. For the seventh year in a row, the Inn has received the Five Diamond Award from AAA. In addition, American Express has listed it as one of the top 75 resorts in the US, and the Ocean course is rated in the top 10 in Florida. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Total Luxury At the high end of the scale is the Ritz-Carleton in Kapalua, Hawaii. The golf property is home to the Plantation Golf Club, where the PGA plays their season opening tournament every year. It’s total luxury, and no detail is overlooked. It’s everything you’d expect from the Ritz. I’ve eaten at the Plantation restaurant which features removable walls with direct ocean views. It’s truly an amazing experience and the food’s fabulous. There are two courses, the Bay and the Plantation. Definitely play the Plantation, where the 18th hole features one of the most beautiful views I’ve ever seen anywhere. EXPERT Most of the large, well appointed rooms are oceanfront. In addition, the resort features a 30,000 square foot spa that is absolutely stunning. There are two courses on the property, and the Ocean course is by far the best. In prime season, room rates are in the $200’s and golf is $160 per person. They are running an incredible special through March 14th at $199 per night for two plus two rounds of golf. www.pvresorts.com Rooms start at $289 and golf at $208 per player, but the winter special is $699 for two including breakfast and two rounds. For $50 more, you can choose one round and a $150 spa credit. www.kapaluagolf.com After a long Midwestern winter, you “deserve a break today” so get out of here and go play some golf! Betsy Larey is the Director of Instruction at Sawmill Golf Club in Stillwater, MN. She hosts Women’s Golf Getaways in Minnesota in the summers. Visit her website at www.stcroixvalleygolf.com ∆ Hair Care Looking great begins with the right hairstyle and color. Make an appointment today and get to the root of everyday gorgeous hair. Cut • Color • Perms • Facial Hair Removal Straightening • Updos • Organic Products Hair Design Make A Beautiful Investment Rocheford Plastic Surgery 2101 Woodwinds Drive, Suite 400 Woodbury, MN d Breast Enlargement d Breast Lift d Tummy Tuck d Liposuction d Eyelid Surgery d Facelift d Botox® & Dysport® d Wrinkle Fillers d Complete Laser Services 128 S. Main Street • River Falls, WI • 715.425.9900 Attend one of our FREE cosmetic surgery seminars February 24, March 24 or April 28 at 6:00 pm at the Hilton Garden Inn in Oakdale. Call to Register 651-739-1100 Dr. Heather Rocheford Board Certified Plastic Surgeon 651-739-1100 www.drrocheford.com VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 11 A Force to be Reckoned With: By Tatum Fjerstad Changing the Cultural Tide The history of women is not unlike Black History. As far back as ancient times, women were considered property, incapable of making decisions on their own, and meant to benefit men. This mentality spread to the treatment of black slaves. Both groups have come a long way in the last couple of centuries. As each generation passes, women can see stark differences in the statuses they hold in society. Imagine then, for a moment, the meshing of both groups, and try for yet another moment, to understand the plight of a black woman throughout all of this. It’s easy when we read history books and watch documentaries to put all women into a sterile box. But passion and the desire to be equal wasn’t a learned behavior. Women have always been capable of love, lust, power, and all the strength that men have. It wasn’t until very recently that women of all shades, ages, and sizes were recognized as being capable. We have a long list of women to thank for where we are today. It took a very bold sort of female, with a disregard for her personal sense of safety and recognition of her mortality to prove that these gender and race lines can be blurred and will eventually fade if we continue to stand out to the world around us. While it’s a shame that we have to prove ourselves, it’s almost more rewarding when we can look back as a group and offer a nod of respect to the women, and men, who helped us to become the women we are now. The true reward is when we are propelled by the truths of our past to become an ever present force of change for the future. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, as of 2002, anywhere from one-third to half of 12 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 the country’s businesses are owned by women. In 2007, the Washington Post reported that women who work full-time, have never taken time off to have children, and have a similar education to their male counterparts, make 11 percent less money than men. We are well on our way to boasting the synonymy of the words human and women when referring to rights. Even if you aren’t a history buff, names like Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, and Maya Angelou are household names. And while we have indeed come a long way, it’s remarkable how many women in just the last two decades have laid claim to several firsts in both the African-American and female world. It’s surprising to discover that Oprah was not the first African-American female billionaire in the United States. In fact, it was in 2003, and her name is Sheila Crump Johnson. She was also the first AfricanAmerican woman to build a luxury hotel in the states. As of 2009, Halle Berry is the first and only black woman to win Best Actress in 2001 for her performance in “Monster’s Ball.” In 1992, Mae Jemison was the first African American woman in space. One thin fiber of truth has followed women of every race on their journey to equality; staying silent will get us nowhere. This is not to say that we should burn bras or howl at the moon or curse whatever creator you believe in. The secret to being a strong woman is embracing every strength, weakness, every giggle, every tear and using it all to bring us closer to proving what used to be a sheer suggestion — our power as a group of people. ∆ Full Service AVEDA Salon & Spa Customer Appreciation Open House March 10, 1-6 p.m. Tours, Tea, Give-Away Drawings, Food, Gift Baskets, Hand and Chair Massages, and Consultations for Hair Cut/Color & Botox/Restylane. Thank you for shopping locally. It does make a difference! Lori’s MASSAGE&DAY SPA 303 North 2nd Street • River Falls, WI 715.425.9393 www.LorisDaySpa.com Join our 2010 bottomless mug club and enjoy FREE coffee, tea or soda starting now and all of 2010! Makes a great gift! It keeps on giving everyday all year long! All for only $129. Also available in card and key tag options. We feature an extensive Inventory of Instruments and offer high-quality lessons, rentals and repairs. Brickhouse Music Proudly Carries Daisy Rock Guitars More comfortable for women Designed with smaller dimensions and a lighter Weight Starting at $99 Culvers J J J J Brueggers Target Carmichael Road Mention this ad and get a free medium drink with any purchase! Coulee Road Hudson • 715-381-3510 Located behind Target in Carmichael Center next to Boomerang VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 13 Fashion Colors continued from page 9 already own. Pairing a bold color with a basic piece or freshening up their look with bright accents addresses the need for practicality, as well as fun.” Even women on a budget can add one or two functional pieces to their closets to freshen their look. Tranquil Turquoise can be paired with Amparo Blue, which is a lighter, more energetic blue than Navy. Other colors that pair well with Turquoise are the lovely romantic Violet or the greenish-yellow Aurora. Looking for a retro feel? Pair Turquoise with the season’s classic red, Tomato Purée, for a fun throwback look. Neutrals are cautious and soft, with the introduction of Pink Champagne, Tuscany, Dried Herb and Eucalyptus. Mix Tuscany, a warm beige, with Fusion Coral or Violet for a dynamic pop. For a more feminine, soft look, pair Dried Herb with Pink Champagne and add a bold, big accessory in the vibrant Tomato Puree. 14 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Don’t be nervous adding color to your wardrobe! Clinton Kelly, cohost of TLC’s “What Not to Wear,” explains that color is actually a safe way to perk up a wardrobe. “Color is rarely seen as trendy by the consumer. Sure, there are popular colors any given season, but they don’t cycle out of style as quickly as silhouettes or other details might.” So throw caution to the wind, make a splash and add some sunshine to your wardrobe this spring! What the Designers Say Amy Smilovic from Tibi says Violet is a great color to add into your wardrobe because, “It’s new, soft and evokes femininity and grace. It looks amazing paired with Black and is totally wearable.” Reem Acra states that fashionistas must have accessories, necklaces and belts in any color that pops! Badgley Mischka and Carmen Marc Valvo agree a “super sexy cocktail dress” is a must-have this spring. ∆ Come to Oak Park Wine & Spirits for all your St. Patrick’s Day Party Needs! LADIES FLY FISH SCHOOLS & CLUB B&B or Cabin Lodging, Fly Shop, & Kayaking. Corporate Outings Pamper yourself, you’ve earned it! www.kinnicreek.com 1-877-504-9705 5805 Neal Ave. Oak Park Heights Stillwater Next to Kowalskis across 36 & 5 651.439.2184 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 15 Women of Inspiration By Thekla Fagerlie-Madsen, Tatum Fjerstad, Diane Nelson Bo Jon’s Flower Shop Bakken Young Funeral Home Horizon Family Chiropractor River Falls, Wi Health Centered Dentistry Lori’s Day Spa Harmony Hair Care Each issue, Valley Women and Beyond highlights women who make a difference; in their businesses, in their personal lives, and in their communities. These individuals choose to share their time and knowledge to help build strong communities, foster relationships, and offer encouragement to others. These women are dedicated to building bridges, not walls, through open, honest communication and service to others. These women are business owners, mentors, mothers, daughters, wives, sisters, and friends. We hope you find inspiration in their stories. In our next issue we will be featuring Women of Red Wing, Minnesota. 16 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Crystal Knotek - River Falls Spa “We wanted to provide a relaxing place for people to enjoy spa and salon services, reduce stress, and experience a little extra pampering,” explains Crystal Knotek, co-owner of the River Falls Spa. She and husband Tim Knotek, DDS opened the full service salon and day spa in 2007. Retired from Northwest Airlines, Knotek ended her 24year career as the senior vice president for customer service and airport operations worldwide. She was still working when the spa opened, and she praises her staff for taking “fabulous” care of the business. “If you take care of your employees, they will take care of customers, and the business will be taken care of. It’s a circle of success.” Volunteering is integral to the circle of success and has always been important to their family. Knotek is a chamber member and is involved with the University of Wisconsin-River Falls to establish a women’s mentoring program. She’s a director for Wishes and More, an organization providing extraordinary experiences for children with life threatening or terminally ill conditions. Knotek and her family, along with parents Roger and Gladys Sondrol, have been on several mission trips. “I’m so rewarded by the people I meet, and by the opportunity to see my kids improve in their love for life and serving others. God put us here to serve; and when you serve and help others, it comes back to you in ways you don’t expect.” Her daughter Ali started Teens for Kids, based on the Wishes program, and recently, son Jake and daughter Lexi helped organize a Fellowship of Christian Athletes chapter at their high school with a modest amount of direction from Knotek. “I’ve done very little,” she says, adding that the kids and key school staff members worked to solidify the program. Her parents are at the heart of her accomplishments, she says. “They’ve always been there for us, serving as role models and providing a loving foundation of family and faith.” Upon her retirement, a Northwest employee offered these parting words which she takes to heart: “Remember Crystal, God’s surprises are always better than your plans.” ∆ Ellen Schuh Jensen - Easy Living Lara Score - Bo’s ‘N Mine Elder Care At age 16, Lara Score “I want to help people stay in their own homes as long as possible,” says Ellen Schuh Jensen, owner of Easy Living Elder Care in River Falls, Wisconsin. Jensen opened her business in 2003 providing care and companionship for her clients and peace of mind for the adult children that typically hire her to care for their aging parent. The “caretaking” gene is strong in the Schuh family. Her mother Janet and sister Paula have a companion care business in New Mexico. Another sister, Barb, owned a business in California, and it was after visiting her that Jensen decided to start her own business in the same field. “It was an a m a z i n g experience, seeing the positive difference my sister made in people’s lives,” Jensen relates. “When you take away the responsibilities of adult children, they can spend more quality time with their parents instead of doing all the ‘have to’s.” “My parents helped me understand that the elderly are an important part of society,” says Jensen. “My grandparents were also a big part of my life and I learned the importance of work ethics from them.” As a child, she helped with their one-acre garden and accompanied them “to market”, selling fresh vegetables while learning about business and sales. Gardening became an adult passion for her and she shares her garden’s seasonal bounty with clients and friends. She also loves to cook, another skill she learned from her grandmother. “My clients continually inspire me. Everyone is different and I learn something new from each person,” Jensen explains. “It’s amazing how they open their lives to me and how much wisdom they have to share. One of my clients gets dressed up when we go out, whether to lunch or shopping, and she’s excited and greets me with a hug. It’s wonderful to be able to make a difference in someone’s life; I can’t imagine doing anything else.” ∆ started waitressing and discovered a love for customer service. Since then, she’s worked in all aspects of the restaurant business and was hired to manage Bo’s ‘N Mine when Cedric Ellingson, her manager at another restaurant, and business partner Don Fowell purchased the established River Falls, Wisconsin restaurant in 2008. “There’s no other business I’d like to be in,” says Score. “I honestly believe that getting away and going out to eat is therapeutic for people. Our staff excels at customer service and really care about the people they are waiting on.” The restaurant owners have also given her the chance to indulge another passion: making salsa. She recently obtained a canning and preserving license and “Lara’s Salsa” is a featured item on the menu at Bo’s and the Hammond Hotel in Hammond, Wisconsin. “My dream is to have my own business featuring my own salsa line.” Bo’s ‘N Mine is very active in the community and the owners belong to the Chamber and its retail committee, the Lions Club, the bar tavern league, sponsor several sports teams, and host fundraisers for various charitable organizations and events. “We are always willing to contribute to a charitable event in some manner,” Score says. The people she’s encountered fuel her love of customer service. “I’ve learned by example from others, how they do their jobs and the way they treat people.” Score extends her life’s lessons to her staff. “I know everything about these kids’ lives, what they need, what their goals are. I try to show them you can love your job, and if your job is not making you happy, then you are doing the wrong thing. Find your passion!” ∆ VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 17 Jen Burleigh-Bentz — Brickhouse Music Lori Moran — Lori’s Massage & Day Spa When she’s not helping musician husband Tommy Bentz with their Brickhouse Music stores located in River Falls and Eau Claire Wisconsin, most likely Jennifer BurleighBentz is performing in the Broadway musical “Mamma Mia.” She began her acting career in high school where she learned to apply a “you can do it” attitude to her first love – theatre. “My high school choir and drama teachers {Baldwin-Woodville} Janet Hanson and Roxanne Wakeen helped me obtain scholarships to the University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire and also demonstrated a belief in my abilities.” UW-EC teachers Wil Denson and Terry Allen provided her opportunities on stage. “Wil is still my mentor today,” she says. “As I travel around the country performing, I still look to him for advice and encouragement.” Bentz takes pleasure in helping others who are interested in pursuing a music or drama career by sharing her experiences and advice. From helping someone find an apartment when they are moving to “the Big Apple” or coaching a River Falls Ambassador pageant contestant, she’s there to “encourage smart business thought processes to all young folks who are taking their first step into the ‘biz’.” Tommy Bentz started Brickhouse Music in the basement of his parents’ brick home in Alma, Wisconsin and moved to River Falls in 1997. Brickhouse Music has a wide variety of instruments, accessories, and sheet music, as well as a recording studio. They also provide music lessons and band/ orchestra instrument rentals and repairs. Brickhouse Music is a member of the River Falls and Hudson Chambers, the National Association of Music Merchandisers, and Wisconsin Independent Businesses. “Our parents have always been loving supporters of whatever we do,” BurleighBentz explains. “I don’t believe that anything else would have driven me on to Broadway if it hadn’t been for them. They are also instrumental in our continued success at Brickhouse.” ∆ Lori Moran and her sisters discovered that touch and massage brought their mother comfort during her chemotherapy cancer treatments many years ago. “I was a personal fitness trainer,” Moran says. “At the same time, I was contacted by a football franchise asking if I did massage, and referred them to someone else. I realized then I needed to check into this. I felt I was being drawn to that field of service.” She began by contacting places for more information and found people were happy to share their knowledge. “Now I get those calls,” relates Moran, and she shares her experiences, recommends schools, and invites the callers to contact her for employment after they’ve graduated. L o r i ’ s Massage & Day Spa in River Falls, Wisconsin is now celebrating 16 years in business. They recently remodeled the salon’s main floor, adding another hairstyling station and displays for the skin, hair, and cosmetic products they carry along with a selection of unique gift items. Husband Pat Moran does all the “hard work”, including remodeling and repairs, and helping with their children Shannon and Maria. The couple adopted Maria from Guatemala in 2008. The Spa belongs to the River Falls Chamber and Kiwanis, participates in the American Cancer Society’s Look Good Feel Good campaign, and Locks for Love. They donate services to Relay for Life participants, providing chair massages and pink hair extensions. Moran continually tries to create a better experience for both guests and staff, building on what works and learning from past mistakes. “You have to have a passion for service,” Moran says. “In so many ways, it’s just giving back. In doing so, we can improve, grow, and absorb life.” ∆ 18 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Terry McKay - ERA Muske Realty “When you like people and what you’re doing, people see that and know you’ll take care of them. They’ll also refer business to you, and that makes me work harder. I don’t want to let people down,” says Terry McKay, a local realtor for ERA Muske. While living in Arizona and raising four children, McKay sold ads for a local radio station. That led to newspaper ad sales and involvement with the Chamber of Commerce, turning into a Chamber board appointment. A member realtor invited her to get her real estate license. “He was good with people and his involvement in the community really made an impression on me,” McKay says. “If I can help by volunteering, that’s at least a way I can give back.” Moving back to River Falls, Wisconsin, she worked at a local factory, and then returned to real estate. She volunteered at her children’s school and Ezekiel Lutheran Church, serving on the church council, where she was also president for a term. “Volunteering is a choice,” she says. “You make time for things that are important.” A self-proclaimed extrovert, she enjoys meeting people and believes she’s benefited from her community involvement in ways she didn’t expect. “I don’t join an organization just to ask for something in return. You just give and don’t expect anything – and the less you expect, the more you get back.” She is very active with Rotary, the River Falls Chamber (she was 2007 Chamber Champion), the Downtown Business Group, Business Women’s Network, is president of the Business Improvement District Board, and a committee member for the ChOskers, a yearly award to a local Business of the Year. She’s Master of Ceremonies for the River Dazzle and River Falls’ Days parades. “Everyone has their own value. There a lot of places you can be involved. Join one thing this year. Pick a group where you don’t know very many people. You give first and whether it comes back tomorrow or ten years from now, it will come back to you - in more ways than you can count or give thanks for.” ∆ Toni Cadwallader — Bo Jon’s Flowers & Gifts What started as a summer job working for her sister turned into a career for Toni Cadwallader, owner of Bo Jon’s Flowers & Gifts. “I really enjoy working with people in the different aspects of their lives,” explains C a d w a l l a d e r. While this is especially true for happy events like weddings or special events, “even with funerals, you get to bring a part of that person’s life into that day and make it more meaningful for family members.” “This is a service-oriented business,” Cadwallader explains. “People walk in the door and expect high quality flowers, unique gifts, and beautiful bouquets; something they can’t find anywhere else.” Most people coming into her shop may not always know exactly what they’re looking for, she explains. “They want to feel that connection that I understand what they’re trying to express with flowers,” and she provides the creativity to turn their ideas into beautiful arrangements. “That connection is so rewarding.” The challenge and variety of owning a business are energizing to her. “There’s so many things that make this business different; the people, the products, and the ability to be creative.” She’s always worked; something she learned from her father. “I always like the concept of working for yourself.” Her father had a boat rental business in Linwood, Minnesota. “We cleaned out boats and dealt with customers. It was fun to see people come with their families and be excited about going fishing. He taught us how to take care of customers.” It’s no surprise that she’s instilled this work ethic in her family and two of her five sons have worked at Bo Jon’s. Cadwallader donates to the River Falls community as much as possible, at local benefits, college events and St. Bridget School’s annual winter gala. “I love being creative and working with happy things – how can you be upset when there’s fresh flowers around?” ∆ April Ingalls —Wild Violets By Tatum Fjerstad “I believe in the power of listening and being positive,” explains April Ingalls, owner of newly opened Wild Violets women’s clothing store located with Beyond Lighting in River Falls, Wisconsin. Ingalls takes her cue from her father who passed away and her son who is currently home and preparing to leave for Afghanistan. “Both of them have served in the wars and I draw upon the strength of knowing that we do not have to go through what they did; worse things could be happening and we are fortunate to be able to enjoy our freedom. I have a deep respect for the men and women who serve in the military. Most people have no idea what it is like,” Ingalls admits. Owning the Beyond Lighting store on Main Street for the past three years has been a welcome challenge, and Ingalls decided to add another venture to the mix; Wild Violets features women’s clothing, shoes, jewelry, and designer prom and wedding dresses. Her wedding dresses, many of which are name-brand, are beautiful and surprisingly affordable. When Ingalls is not working she is donating time, a caring shoulder and a gentle ear to young girls and women who have been sexually abused. She follows a deep conviction and passion to “help others by paying it forward.” Ingalls has always had a passion for the culinary arts so it only makes sense that before she delved into retail she studied at Dakota County Technical Institute School of Business and Chef School. She has owned three restaurants and cooked for her share of celebrities, including Jane Russell and Kenny Rogers. One of her restaurants, based in Prescott, Wisconsin, was featured in Esquire Magazine in 2002. She attributes her success to ambition and hard work. ∆ Melodie Needham — Harmony Hair Design “Art came first,” says Melodie Needham, owner of Harmony Hair Designs in River Falls, Wisconsin. “I’ve always been a painter.” Needham has successfully blended art and salon services as established businesses while indulging her creativity. It wasn’t a straight line career path. Inbetween, she obtained a decorative arts degree and had a business painting murals and faux finishes for area home builders. Now, her artwork is displayed on the walls of the salon she purchased from Donna Carter and opened in January 2009. “It was bitter-sweet,” Needham says, as she lost her mother to cancer in November 2008. She now donates time and services, along with several other local stylists, to Look Good Feel Better, a program providing personalized cosmetology service to women going through cancer. Harmony Hair is also a Locks for Love salon where people can donate their hair to be used to make wigs for cancer patients. “This field of hair has allowed me to give back,” Needham explains. Several other young women have followed in her footsteps, opening their own businesses. “There are three Needham’s on Main Street,” she says. Besides herself, daughters Valerie and Genevieve own their own businesses. Valerie has Karma Gifts and Genevieve has A Mother’s Touch massage therapy, and husband Jeffrey has helped all three women with construction and remodeling projects. She’s a former board member of Community Arts Base (CAB) and has chaired the Art on the Kinni event. She also mentors students interested in learning business skills. Theresa Hunt, a student at the Renaissance Academy, recently worked as a receptionist while earning credits toward her graduation, and may pursue cosmetology as a career. “I think there’s a reason for meeting certain people,” notes Needham. “A kind of weaving that enriches your life.” Needham encourages others to “do what you love doing. If you get paid for it, that’s the cherry on the top.” ∆ VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 19 Paige Olson — Kinni Creek Lodge & Outfitters By Diane Nelson Imagine if you will, a much simpler time and place where cell phones, computers, television and Wii™ do not exist. A place where the water seems to run clearer, the sky is bluer and the fish are biting. For Paige Olson of Kinni Creek Lodge and Outfitters in River Falls, Wisconsin, this rustic casualness is in part, what makes her job so rewarding. “I love my job,” Olson states. “The most rewarding part is seeing people laugh and just have fun kayaking or canoeing. Years ago, families and friends piled into station wagons and headed for a favorite vacation spot where they could relax, be silly, get enough fresh air and exercise to feel sleepy at night and energized in the morning.” Passionate about the outdoors even as a child, Olson found a way to turn her passion into a full-time career. “When I was little I went camping in Minong, Wisconsin with my parents and wondered if grownups could do this for a living,” recalls Olson. “I was fortunate enough to have several mentors while building my business.” One mentor in particular, her pastor, suggested she serve as a guide in the Boundary Waters. “I’m so truly in love with the Boundary Waters,” admits Olson. While Olson is big on family and leisure time, she also finds time to volunteer through her church, at Grace Place in Somerset, Wisconsin. Grace Place offers temporary housing to individuals who are in the system, incarcerated, in treatment, or homeless. There, they can live for a short time while seeking employment and make other housing arrangements. Olson believes that if you are truly fervent about something, “Take the risk, do your home work and if it is something you are truly passionate about, take that risk because even if you fail you will have learned something.” ∆ 20 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Dr. Amy Schreiner - Horizon Family Chiropractic “I didn’t initially think about going into chiropractic because I thought it was a man’s job – that you had to be burly and strong to do it,” says Dr. Amy Schreiner, owner of Horizon Family Chiropractic. While she had gone to a chiropractor since childhood, it took a break in her pre-medical education and a supportive aunt to steer her interest from medicine to chiropractics. “If I can help people live healthier, longer, and better quality lives, that’s the most important thing,” Dr. Schreiner explains. She opened her River Falls, Wisconsin chiropractic office in 2005. “It’s important that people know how their bodies function; chiropractic affects your digestion, sleep, mood, liver, kidney functions and more.” She learned how to run a business from Dr. Catherine Gray, a Fridley, Minnesota chiropractor who held extra classes mentoring students on “all those things they don’t teach you in school.” Dr. Schreiner now mentors students, allowing them to come into the office and ‘shadow’ her business. “I want to put that fire and passion into them – it’s about loving the miracles chiropractic can do.” Dr. Schreiner has been an EMT since age 18, is a River Falls first responder, a member of the St. Croix Valley Doula association (birth attendants), and she and her office are part of the Foundation for Wellness Education, a national outreach organization. “We go out and speak to businesses and schools on topics like backpack safety for kids and ergonomics at the office.” Her office sponsors Living Well – A Women’s Wellness Encounter each fall to educate women about health and wellness issues. She is a member of Rotoract, Heartlink Network, volunteers in her church, and teaches a medical terminology class at Chippewa Valley Technical School. “I do what I do because I’ve been through some rough times,” Dr. Schreiner explains. “There were people who supported me and were there to be my cheerleaders. If I can do that for someone else, it’s all worthwhile.” ∆ Jodie Bakken Young— BakkenYoung Funeral & Cremation Services “I always thought it would be interesting to be a woman in this business,” says Jodie Bakken Young, of the funeral home business she owns with husband Brian Young. She acknowledges she’s not a typical funeral director and that “there are a lot of people who think I’m a secretary.” Bakken Young explains that “many roads brought me here. At age 19, someone said I’d be a good funeral director.” She talked to a funeral director in her hometown of Mankato, Minnesota, who subsequently hired her for the summer. “I did a little bit of everything, from delivering flowers to standing at the front door during a visitation. I decided I could do this; I could serve a family in their time of need.” She went on to obtain an education in mortuary science. “I always knew I would have my own funeral home,” relates Bakken Young, “and I met and married a man with the same dream.” The couple now own five funeral homes in the Valley area. Her sole focus is community service and helping people get through what, in most cases, is the worst day of their lives. “It is my job, but on a day-to-day basis, I don’t feel that way,” she relates. “I’ve sat and cried with people. I see a family’s strength and caring; it’s not the end of them. I get to know a family intimately in a short time and you hold that with you.” She’s actively involved with the Chambers of Commerce in the communities they serve. Rotary’s motto “Service Above Self” particularly resonates with her and she is involved with many River Falls Rotary events, including the Relay for Life spaghetti dinner. “What keeps me going is I really care what happens,” she explains. “I care that a husband is saying goodbye to his wife of 50 years. And knowing that I’m doing what I love, I can’t image doing anything else.” ∆ Cheryl Dintemann — Johnnie’s Bar Sue Carlson- West Wind Bar & Grill Dr. Madelyn Pearson- Health Centered Dentistry Johnnie’s Bar has been in family hands through two generations of Linehans and now the Dintemann’s. Husband Dave worked for Tim Linehan, and they were in the process of purchasing the business when Tim died, says Cheryl Dintemann. The purchase went through in 2004. Dintemann works in the University of WisconsinRiver Falls internship office for the College of Agriculture, Food and Environmental Sciences, helping students with their internship planning, and is still involved in many aspects of the business. She manages the events calendar for the numerous parties and charitable benefits hosted by Johnnie’s. “The bar gave us more outlets for fundraising and the means to be able to do more volunteering,” Dintemann explains. Her parents were active volunteers and she learned from their example. “I grew up here and care about what happens to the town. It’s good for businesses to support each other.” Dintemann worked on the “Bowl for Kids Sake” fundraiser for Big Brothers Big Sisters last year and Johnnie’s Bar won the Small Business category award for raising the most money. They sponsor a bowling team for the event and most of the money is raised through donations from bar patrons, she says. “We couldn’t do this without our customers; they’re very generous. It’s important people realize that even though our business happens to be a bar, we can still have a lot of fun while supporting the people and businesses in River Falls at the same time.” They host the annual Nickolas’ Gift fundraiser and support Relay for Life fundraising efforts. The Friday Night Card Club becomes a holiday fundraiser for the food pantry; they raised $1,300 this year. She is also co-chair of the food committee for the Farm Technology Days event (July 2022). They are active in Chamber events and Dintemann is secretary of the Downtown Business Association. The next event she’s planning is the birth of their first child in February. ∆ “I like the variety; I like serving people,” says Sue Carlson. She has worked at the West Wind in River Falls, Wisconsin since 1981, waiting on customers, bartending, dishwashing, and hostessing. While she still does all these things as needed, she also manages the restaurant’s catering service and staff, ensuring that events like wedding receptions and graduation parties go as smoothly as possible. She started her career with owner Clair Pechacek and now works for his son Kevin. “There’s a lot of little things Clair taught me; and more importantly, that there were reasons for doing the little things.” These were valuable lessons that she carries with her today. Carlson passes on these lessons to her staff because she knows the little things make the difference. “A smile, a kind word, or the special details can personalize a large gathering for people.” Most of her catering staff are high school kids experiencing their first job and she enjoys working with “her kids”. “I try to make it a fun atmosphere and I work as hard as I expect them to work. I’ve gotten a lot of satisfaction when kids who have graduated thank me for teaching them to be accountable.” When her sister, Cheryl Schmitz, passed away four years ago, Carlson started participating in the Relay for Life. Carlson’s parents took custody of their daughter’s two sons, and she is very involved in their lives. “I’ve become a parent without having children.” The West Wind is involved with the Chamber of Commerce and participates in many of the area’s fundraisers and benefits. “I work for my customers,” she says, and those customers have now become friends, sometimes traveling from other cities to see her. “You can make someone’s whole day by your service,” Carlson says. “You can see when someone is having a bad day and you can make it better.” ∆ While studying dentistry at the University of Minnesota, Dr. Madelyn Pearson attended a lecture on holistic dentistry by guest speaker Dr. John Laughlin III. “I became very interested and wanted to learn more.” She started going to seminars on the topic and then did her externship with Dr. Laughlin at his office, Health Centered Dentistry, in River Falls, Wisconsin. After graduating dental school in 2007, Dr. Pearson began working as a holistic dentist at Health Centered Dentistry and has been there since. “I fell in love with the philosophy behind holistic dentistry,” Dr. Pearson explains. “I appreciate that biological dentists take into consideration the effects that dentistry can have on the rest of the body.” “It’s so much more than just fixing a cavity.” Dr. Pearson is able to change her patients’ lives by relieving chronic pain, restoring someone’s confidence by fixing their teeth, changing a smile, or increasing their ability to get a good night’s rest as dental issues can cause sleep disruptions. “I enjoy helping people, changing their lives for the better. That’s what is important in the end – the patient’s journey towards better health and well-being.” Dr. Pearson and Dr. Laughlin treat patients for sleep disturbance, orthodontics, TMJ disorder, safe amalgam removal, and overall preventative services. Health Centered Dentistry provides free educational seminars, and the doctors also donate their services in the local communities. Dr. Laughlin is a yearly donator to the River Falls Arts Organization, and Dr. Pearson is involved with the White Bear Lake Chamber of Commerce and Give Kids a Smile Day. As someone who found her particular branch of the dentistry profession by mere chance, Dr. Pearson says, “I went through a process of re-learning things and accepting new ways of thinking. You have to keep an open mind. 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The group is set to delight live audiences with what the Cleveland Plain Dealer has called a “highly polished, tightly choreographed extravaganza.” dance Dance Brazil Feb. 19-7:30 p.m. Ordway Main Hall Target® Dance Series www.ordway.org performing arts The New Mel Brooks Musical Young Frankenstein Feb. 9-14 Orpheum Theater 910 Hennepin Ave Mpls, MN www.hennepintheatertrust.org Roald Dahl’s Willy Wonka, Jr. Fridays, Feb. 19 & 26, 2010, at 7 p.m. Saturdays, Feb. 20 & 27, 2010, at 2 p.m. & 7 p.m. Sundays, Feb. 21 & 28, 2010, at 2 p.m. The Phipps Center for the Arts 109 Locust St. Hudson WI www.thephipps.org Mamma Mia! March 9-14 Orpheum Theater 910 Hennepin Ave Mpls, MN www.hennepintheatertrust.org Eau Claire Children’s Theater Presents: “The Jungle Book” March 19-7:00 p.m. Mabel Tainter Center for the Arts 205 Main St. Menomonie WI www.mabeltainter.com August: Osage County March 16-21-7:30 p.m. & March 20-21-1:30 p.m. Ordway Main Hall Ordway Performance Season www.ordway.org The Wizard of Oz March 26-28 Orpheum Theater 910 Hennepin Ave Mpls, MN www.hennepintheatertrust.org music Dudley Markham & Friends With Take2Day “A Journey of the Heart” Feb. 6 7:30 p.m. Mabel Tainter Center for the Arts 205 Main St. Menomonie WI www.mabeltainter.com ABBA: The Music Feb. 6-8 p.m. State Theater 805 Hennepin Ave, Mpls, MN www.hennepintheatertrust.org B.B. 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Business and groups can participate by purchasing a booth space ($10) and registering by February 20, hosting a short seminar or demonstration and donating a door prize. To register, or for more information, please contact Michelle Johnson, Hammond Community Library, (715) 796-2281 or [email protected]. The Hudson Area Chamber of Commerce & Tourism Bureau is hosting the annual Spring Showcase, “Discover the Best of the Hudson Area” at the Hudson Sports & Civic Center (1820 Hanley Road) from 11:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Lake Wobegon Brass Band March 7 Having received a standing ovation following their last performance at The Phipps, the 30-member British-style brass band returns with a diverse program of marches, classical, quasi-jazz, and popular selections. Sunday, March 7 at 7 p.m. Tickets are $22 for all adults and $15 for all students with a current ID. Location: 109 Locust Street I Take This Man by Jack Sharkey March 5 - May 15 Dinner Theater An outrageous concoction of wild, warm, and lightning paced hilarity that is perfect for the entire family. Dinner Served: Anytime between 6:00 - 7:00 p.m. Curtain - 8:00 p.m. March -May 15, 2010 Runs Fridays & Saturdays Tickets are $52 + fees/taxes Performances at the Best Western/Hudson House Inn at 1616 Crest View Drive. Call (715)386.2394 ext. 333 St. Patrick’s Day Parade Wednesday, March 17, 2010 4 p.m. Sponsored by McCabe’s Shamrock New Richmond, WI For more information contact Ruth McCabe (715) 246-4452 Line up in front of McCabe’s “Keep your faith in beautiful things; in the sun when it is hidden, in the spring when it is gone.” - roy r. gibson This event is free and open to the public. Children’s activities, family entertainment and a day full of activities geared to showcase products and services available in the Hudson area. These products range from new vehicles and home furnishings to healthrelated products/services and lawn maintenance services. Stillwater Bridal Affair Sunday February 28, 2010 12:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Come and see the exceptional services and products available in the St. Croix Valley for your special event. Sample delectable finger food from local caterers and cake vendors, see gowns and formal wear, visit with photographers, venue representatives, musicians, planners, and more. A Style Show is the highlight of the event Washington County Historic Courthouse 101 West Pine Street Stillwater, MN Contact Information 651-275-7075 Fees/Admission $7.50 at the door VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 31 ta k e a t r i p on the Wild side The 1960’s brought about a cultural revolution often referred to as “wild” due largely to a counterculture which chose to separate themselves from the traditional American lifestyle with a basic belief system centering around peace, harmony, and equality. 32 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 By Diane Nelson Chris Heeter, founder of The WILD Institute in Ham Lake, Minnesota, offers women who conquer their computers from 9 to 5 a way to release the stress and foster their own “wild” side. While bra burning, protesting, tree hugging, and communal living among other things, seemed to signify living on the “wild” side for some, today’s new counter culture of women in corporate America choose to take a walk, or should I say paddle, on a different kind of WILD side. Chris Heeter, founder of The WILD Institute in Ham Lake, Minnesota, offers women who conquer their computers from 9 to 5 a way to release the stress and foster their own “wild” side. This isn’t the bra burning, communal living of the 60’s (I suppose you could burn your bra if you really wanted to) but rather a matter of being alive, conquering your fears, and connecting with others on a deeper level. If you long to cultivate your inner “wild” side, Heeter offers exciting trips such as sea kayaking in Baja, dog sledding in northern Minnesota, or canoeing in Canada, to name a few. “There are varying levels in how women want to experience the outdoors,” Heeter explains, so she offers trips ranging from deep woods, back-country camping adventures to cabin-based trips with saunas. A professional through and through; Heeter is an experienced wilderness guide, a Certified Wilderness First Responder, and a graduate of the Outdoor Leadership School. She has spent 25 years organizing and guiding trips to some of the most spectacular places in North America. “I really believe my life’s work is to call out people’s wild sides. I use the word ‘wild’ in a really broad definition which is authentic, coming from a place that matters. Wild can mean being alive, courageous, fierce, and even playful – the deep wisdom of nature will bring people together,”she says with a smile. While learning or improving upon a skill is an important component of the trip, Heeter says, “The primary reason people come is the connection to nature because it comes in so many forms. For some, the physicality of the trip is what brings them alive. For others, it’s the quiet time and the ability to talk one-on-one with somebody around the fire. Finding your ‘wild” side is simply letting loose, having fun and being physically challenged; it’s part of being alive, your body is moving and existing in a simple yet exhilarating way.” Her career began out of a love for the outdoors. While working toward a bachelor’s degree in recreation at George Williams College, she accepted a summer job leading church groups on Boundary Waters canoe trips. A later stint guiding trips for Women in Wilderness fueled her growing passion and by age 20, she knew leading women’s wilderness trips would be her life-long career. Today, Heeter describes herself as, “a reluctant entrepreneur” and can’t imagine doing anything else. “I better be committed because I am entirely unemployable now,” she jokes. In fact, Heeter’s trips have become so well received she was featured on National Geographic Today’s Discovery Channel and has appeared in a number of magazines and television spots. She is an accomplished writer and published author of three books, Daily Degradations for Women Who Should Know Better, Wild Thoughts Just Outside the Window and Exploring the Power of Solo, Silence and Solitude. While the basic belief system of peace, harmony, and equality remains true, burning your bra is not recommend. To find out more information on upcoming trips, visit the website www. thewildinstitute.com or call 763-479-3954. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 33 Living, Loving, Remembering Taking the time to remember a person who was cherished. Bakken-Young Funeral & Cremation Service’s purpose is to deliver a quality of service that is unmatched. Every funeral and memorial service is a tribute to a life well lived. Brian L. Young & Jodie Bakken Young Owners/licensed funeral directors in WI and MN Serving Wisconsin’s St. Croix and Pierce Counties for 10 years www.bakken-young.com Serving five locations in Baldwin, Hudson, Maiden Rock, New Richmond and River Falls & VALLEY WOMEN BEYOND Subscribe Today! Call 715.222.5738 For ad placement email [email protected] Individuals interested in writing for any upcoming issues, please contact our office at the above number. 34 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Historic St. James Hotel & Port Restaurant The Port has been a perpetual winner of the Wine Spectator’s Award of Excellence by Diane Nelson Stunning 19th century architecture and old world service come together with cutting edge amenities and culinary delights in Red Wing, MiNnesota. S Step back in time at the St. James Hotel, a stunning 19th century, four-story Italianate structure. Designed in 1874, the hotel served as the city’s primary business and social venue along the main street commercial district. Today, the charming 61-room hotel celebrates more than 130 years of service. It’s no wonder the hotel was named the 23rd most historic destination in the world. Centrally located between the Twin Cities and Rochester, Minnesota, it’s a great way to spend a day or treat yourself to a weekend at the St. James Hotel and enjoy all that Red Wing has to offer. After a day of browsing through the many shops inside the hotel, take some time to indulge yourself with a massage at Refined Skin Medi-Spa, then off to a quiet dinner at the Port Restaurant on the hotel’s lower level. The Port Restaurant offers a charming atmosphere; from the cozy comfort of the fireplace to the white linen tablecloths, no detail goes unnoticed. Their wine list exudes charm and they do an exceptional job of providing high quality wines from small, independent producers. The Port has been a perpetual winner of the Wine Spectator’s Award of Excellence and offers a wine to complement every savory dish on the menu. If you happen to be a history buff, check out the wine cellar to find a hidden treasure from yesteryear. A quick rundown of the Appetizers is sure to wet your appetite. If you’re a seafood lover then it will be hard to resist the Steamers; Littleneck clams sautéed with bacon, Fresno chilies and garlic, finished with a delicate white wine butter sauce. The sweet and tender Seared Scallops and the Lobster Fondue are a sure bet. For the meat lover in you try the Braised Veal, a crispy veal cheek, grilled wild mushrooms, roasted shallots, and parsley pesto – this one melts in your mouth! For a unique and tasty spin on the old Caesar salad, try The Port Caesar; with baby red and green romaine lettuce, roasted garlic Caesar dressing, crispy braised pork belly, soft poached egg, and parmesan reggiano – delightful! Order any of the mouth watering Entrees ranging in price from around $14 to $35. Whether you choose the Grilled Kobe Beef Flat Iron, The Walleye, Bison Rib Eye, Filet Mignon or New Zealand Langoustines, you’ll find the presentation rivals that of any five star restaurants in New York. Port Chef Kyle Stumpf believes it is important to “use locally produced food whenever possible. The chicken is free-range organic, the Bison comes from North Dakota and Minnesota, and the steelhead trout is from off the Coast of Washington. I was inspired by a West Coast influence when I created this unique menu,” says Stumpf. You will be too! Be sure to leave plenty of room for dessert. Try the chef’s favorite, the Guinness Chocolate Lava Cake with Bailey’s Ice Cream, Toasted Pistachios and Jameson Syrup. Sample the apple strudel, banana S’mores, Orange Flower Honey Crème Brulee or some good old fashioned coffee and donuts; cinnamon sugar dusted fresh cake donuts, French vanilla Ice Cream, and cup of whipped espresso; a great way to top off any meal. The only thing this Chef was remiss in when creating his superb menu was creating smaller portions so guests can taste everything! The Port Restaurant is open Tuesday through Saturday, 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. For dinner reservations or more information call 800-2521875 or visit their website www.st.-james-hotel.com. ∆ Port Chef Kyle Stumpf believes it is important to “use locally produced food whenever possible.” The chicken is free-range organic, the Bison comes from North Dakota and Minnesota, and the steelhead trout is from off the Coast of Washington. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 35 Serving the St. Croix Valley Area for 25 Years 36 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 By Annie Rother At about the age of six months, a child begins to understand he is a human being, separate from his Identify Your Parenting Pattern Increase the odds of raising a responsible child mother and father. From this age on, the techniques used in parenting will reflect in the rest of your child’s life and within your family unit. Listed below are three basic parenting styles. What pattern do you follow? No parenting strategy is foolproof; however, consistent applications of positive parenting will build a strong foundation and Helicopter Parents make a lot of wind, noise, vibration, and do not go very far. They hover, rescue, and protect their child from teachers, playmates, and other apparently hostile elements, never allowing their child to make decisions, fail or deal with consequences of their actions. The message given to children by helicopter parents is, “you are fragile and cannot make it without me.” Often, out of “love”, these parents refrain from imposing any discipline because it also hurts them. increase the odds of raising a responsible child that will carry the pattern into future generations. Drill Sergeant Parents feel that children will be better in the long run if they are forthright and bark control, “do it or else you’re grounded!” Children of drill sergeant parents do not know how to make decisions. They have been ordered around all their lives. Drill sergeants frequently use punishment for their child’s mistakes. However, the real world does not generally operate on punishment, it operates on consequences. Resentment is the common reaction from children with drill sergeant parents. These parents eventually discover that when they punish their teens they provide them with a great escape valve; an escape from the consequences of their actions. Consultant Parents ask questions and offer choices instead of telling their children what to do. They establish options with limits. They guide the child to make their own decisions, and when necessary, learn from the positive and/or negative consequences it may bring. Consultants do not dictate, they advise. They do not give orders or impose grounding. They rarely get mad and shout at their children. They Parenting Continued on page 55 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 37 VALLEY CUISINE Check out these sumptuous recipes from Chef Kyle Stumpf of the Port Restaurant in the St. James Hotel located in historic Red Wing, MN. For the chocolate lover in you try the Guinness Chocolate Lava Cake, Chocolate Marquis with Passion Fruit Sorbet and Hazelnut Crunch, Chocolate Kahlua Crème Brulée or the Port Poached Pears with Honey Whipped Mascarpone and Bourbon Spiked Chocolate Ganache - this is extreme chocolate at its best! The best is still to come, top off the evening with The Happy Ending Martini. 38 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 guinness chocolate lava cake Lava Cake 6 oz. bittersweet chocolate 2½ oz. butter 1/2 cup all-purpose flour 1/2 cups sugar 3 large eggs 2 egg yolks 1 1/2 cups Guinness Grease and flour custard cups. Reduce Guinness with sugar to a thick syrup. Melt the chocolates and butter in a double boiler. Add egg mixture chocolate mixture. Stir in flour. Stir in Guinness. Divide the batter evenly among the custard cups. Place in the oven and bake until the edges should be firm but the center will be runny. Run a knife around the edges to loosen and invert onto dessert plates. Ice Cream Heat 1 quart cream with 1 cup sugar. Temper 10 egg yolks with cream and put back on the stove stirring constantly till it starts to thicken. Add about half a cup of Bailey’s. Completely cool and put in ice cream machine and then freeze. Syrup Heat a cup of Irish whiskey and burn off alcohol. Add 1/4 cup of sugar and make syrup, cool, and put in squeeze bottle. To finish Lay syrup on plate Put cake down on the plate Put a red scoop of ice cream on the cake. Garnish with toasted, crushed pistachios chocolate marquis with passion fruit sorbet and hazelnut crunch For the Marquis 9 oz. chocolate 1 cup heavy cream 2 egg yolks 1 egg 2 oz. honey 1 tbsp. sugar Melt your chocolate on a double boiler. Bring your honey to a boil. Combine your eggs and sugar and beat on high till light and fluffy. Add hot honey to egg mixture while beating and whip until cool. Fold in chocolate and whip cream to soft peaks. Fold in cream. Put mixture in an 8” by 8” pan and let set in refrigerator for at least 4 hours. For the Hazelnut Crunch 1 cup Hazelnuts blanched with no skins 1 egg white ¼ cup sugar Whip egg whites with sugar until light and frothy. Toss hazelnuts with just enough egg mixture to coat. Place on a sheet pan coated with a silpat or pan sprayed parchment paper. Cook in a 350 degree oven stirring every couple minutes. Pull hazelnuts out after hazelnuts are dry, just before they turn brown. Once cool pulse hazelnuts in food processor a couple times. For the Passion Fruit Sorbet ½ cup sugar 2 ½ cups passion fruit juice 1/3 cup lime juice Combine the sugar and passion fruit juice and bring to a boil. Cool this mixture in the refrigerator until completely cool. Add lime Juice. Put mixture in ice cream maker according to manufacturer’s instructions. Put in container and freeze till completely set. To serve Cut Marquis into a rectangle and set on plate. Put a small scoop of sorbet next to the Marquis. Top Marquis, sorbet, and a little around the plate with hazelnuts and serve. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 39 40 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 chocolate kahlua crEme brulee 2 cups heavy cream 1 vanilla bean 2 tbsp. sugar 6 oz. chocolate 5 egg yolks 2 oz. Kahlua liqueur Sugar in the raw for topping Preheat the oven to 300 degrees F. Mix the cream and vanilla bean together in a double boiler. Heat the mixture until simmering. Remove the vanilla bean. Whisk the egg yolks and sugar together in a mixing bowl. Slowly pour the chocolate cream into the egg mix, continuously whisking. Add in your Kahlua. Pour into 6 (4-ounce) custard dishes. Place in a large baking pan and add enough water to come up halfway up the sides of the cups. Bake until the custard is set, about 1 hour. Remove from the water and cool. Cover and refrigerate. Sprinkle 1 tablespoon of sugar in the raw on top of each one and with a brulee torch, caramelize the top and serve. The Happy Ending Martini 2 oz. Godiva Chocolate liqueur ½ oz. Chambord ½ oz. Nocello liqueur (can us Frangelico to sub) 1 1/2 oz. Stoli Vanilla To Serve Lace the rim of two martini glasses with a mixture of half cocoa powder and half sugar. Shake ingredients in a martini shaker filled with ice. Pour and serve. Port Poached Pears with Honey Whipped Mascarpone and Bourbon Spiked Chocolate Ganache For Pears 1 bottle tawny port 1 cup water 1 cup sugar 1 cinnamon stick 3 pears halved, peeled, and cored with a melon baller Bring all ingredients except pears to a boil. Reduce heat to a simmer and add pears. Cover and simmer till pears are tender but not falling apart. Cool in refrigerator. Reduce poaching liquid to a syrup. For Ganache Pour 1 cup of hot heavy cream over 1/3 pound of chocolate chips. Add 2 oz. bourbon. Serve warm. For Mascarpone Whip 1 cup mascarpone cheese with 2 oz. honey. To Serve Cut a small straight cut off the rounded side of the pear so it can stand upright. Stuff the holes left from coring the pears with whipped mascarpone. Pour ganache on plate and set pear on ganache. Drizzle a little port syrup over the pear and serve. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 41 Valley Connections e your x phorizons and Recently, while sitting at the coffee shop I overheard a woman say, “I need to get out and network more.” I found this to be one piece of advice that every woman should take when looking to build their brand, start a business, or expand business and contacts. Not many are aware of the endless networking opportunities that the Valley area and beyond have to offer. 42 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 By Lindsay Draz Teresa Thomas-Carrol, director of Women in Networking, a Minnesota based organization, says that networking is a “cost effective way to build brand and visibility.” In 2006, the Center for Women’s Business Research reported that there are 10.4 million privately held firms in the United States with 50 percent or more owned by women. “Women are opening businesses at twice the rate of their male counterparts. It’s the fastest growing segment of the U.S. economy,” says author Susan Wilson Solovic who wrote, The Girls Guide to Building a Million Dollar Business. The Valley area claims a wide variety of networking opportunities for business women to expand their business and network contacts. Your local Chamber of Commerce is a great starting point to find networking opportunities within your community and they will connect you with other businesses in the area. Additionally, there are individual organizations that are exclusive to business women. These niche networking organizations provide new contacts, education, the opportunity to grow as an individual or a business, and offer support. Check out our featured list. Cottage Grove, Minnesota • Cottage grove Chamber of Commerce • Women’s Business Development Group Visit: www.cottagegrovechamber.org • SON – Success Oriented Network Visit: www.successorientednetworking.com/cottage_grove.html Hastings, Minnesota • Hastings Area Chamber of Commerce and Tourism Bureau Visit: www.hastingsmn.org Hudson, Wisconsin • Hudson Chamber of Commerce Networking Opportunities -Good Morning Hudson -Business Spotlights Visit: www.hudsonwi.org/aboutus.php and click on the network link • Professional Women’s Network-St Croix Valley Visit: www.pwnscv.com • St. Croix Valley Business Alliance Visit: www.stcvba.org • The Heartlink Network Visit: www.theheartlinknetwork.com Lake Elmo, Minnesota • The Greater Stillwater Chamber of Commerce Visit: www.ilovestillwater.com MenomonIE, Wisconsin • Menomonie Chamber of Commerce Networking Opportunities -Business after Hours -Good Morning Menomonie -Leadership Luncheon Visit: www.menomoniechamber.org/networking/ New Richmond, Wisconsin • New Richmond Chamber of Commerce Visit: www.newrichmondchamber.org Prescott, Wisconsin • Prescott Chamber of Commerce Visit: www.prescottwi.com Red Wing, Minnesota • Red Wing Area Chamber of Commerce Visit: www.redwingchamber.com River Falls, Wisconsin • River Falls Chamber of Commerce -Business Breakfasts -Chamber Coffee Visit: www.rfchamber.com • Women of the St. Croix River Valley (Hudson and River Falls Meeting) Visit: http://www.meetup.com/Women-of-the-St-Croix- River-Valley/ • River Falls Business Women’s Network Contact: Cindy Kusilek - [email protected] Stillwater, Minnesota • The Greater Stillwater Chamber of Commerce The primary service area for the Greater Stillwater Area Chamber of Commerce is Stillwater, Oak Park Heights, Bayport, and Lake Elmo. • Women’s Business Bridge Visit: www.ilovestillwater.com Many networking organizations offer events that feature classes and guest speakers discussing various topics to educate and assist business people and owners with growth. ∆ Motivational Marketing Group Based in New Richmond, Wisconsin, Motivational Marketing Group is a non-profit group of area businesses. To learn more visit www.motivationalmarketinggroup.com Women in Networking St Paul/ Minneapolis Minnesota “Women in Networking (WIN) is a Twin Cities based organization in which women in business encourage one another’s professional growth and business success. Our members are a mix of female entrepreneurs, business owners, and key players in business-to-business services.” To learn more about this organization visit www.mnwin.org VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 43 secrets to Staging your home By Teri Larsen IMPROVE THE LOOK OF YOUR HOME BEFORE THE SALE Staging your home before listing it with a real estate agent is an essential step in getting the most money from your sale. Home staging requires you to look at your home from the buyer’s perspective. Buyers want the most for their money, and home staging will make your home look larger, cleaner, and more appealing. If you plan to sell your home in the near future, the prospect can seem overwhelming. Our economy, while it may be on the road to recovery, is doing homeowners no favors when it comes to selling their property. From minor changes, such as rearranging furniture and removing clutter, to major home improvement projects, studies show that staged homes sell more quickly and for more money. Remove and Rearrange The most important element in staging a home for sale requires little or no financial investment. Many homes are full of clutter, seasonal clothing and stored items that need to be removed. Simply packing these things in boxes and removing them from the property can make your home look larger, fresher and cleaner. In addition, closets will appear bigger, making them an asset to the property. 44 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 When you make the decision to sell your home, you must detach yourself from the property. It is no longer your family home; rather, it is a commodity that needs to be sold for top dollar. Part of letting go is packing up your family photos. By removing them and hiding personal items from sight, potential buyers can better imagine themselves living in your home. While replacing your furniture may not be an option, painting some of the walls is certainly within the realm of reason. Select a light neutral tone, perhaps a warm beige or pale gold, which works with your existing décor. This is especially important if your walls are currently painted in dark or saturated colors such as chocolate brown or lime green, as these may turn off some buyers. Another budget-friendly way to make your home stand out to buyers is to clean your home thoroughly. Kitchens and bathrooms, especially, need to be spotless. Don’t forget to shine up the faucets, dust the ceiling fans and vents, refresh shower curtains and rugs, and wipe the smudges from the walls. If deep cleaning your home is difficult for you, consider hiring a cleaning service to bring your home back to its very best. Even if your walls are already neutral, a fresh coat of paint will make everything feel new again. Patch any nail holes and make minor repairs before painting to be sure your walls are in excellent condition. For the investment of just a can of paint and some of your time, your home’s interior will feel clean and ready to welcome buyers. When staging your home for sale, the emphasis is not on how you live in the home, but rather on how the home looks to potential buyers. Therefore, consider removing some of the furniture from each room in your home. The goal is to create an open feel, and to make the rooms feel as large as possible. Buyers want to move through each room effortlessly; furniture that impedes the traffic flow of a space should be relocated or removed. Fresh Interior Colors and Decor The interior colors and décor in your home need to appeal to the largest possible number of potential buyers. For this reason, most home staging professionals and real estate agents recommend light, bright colors and neutral décor. If your home has unappealing views from a window or two, you may want to invest in window treatments to hide them. An inexpensive fabric shade will keep buyers from noticing that air conditioner standing right outside the basement window. While spending thousands of dollars on home improvements prior to selling your home may not be in the budget, just taking the time to make a few minor and inexpensive changes can make a big difference in the time it takes to sell your home. Teri Larsen, ASID, is the owner of T. Larsen Design LLC. With nearly 12 years of experience, she offers affordable interior design consultations for both homes and offices. Call 651/239-5852 or visit www.tlarsendesign.com for more information. ∆ “Twitterpated” Melissa Belanger One of Wisconsin’s finest collections of handcrafted work. Stop by and enjoy the exceptional art of over 150 local, regional and national artists. RIVER FALLS 401 Second Street in downtown Hudson 715/381-2906 • www.seasonsonstcroix.com VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 45 Tower of Belem (Torre de Belem), Lisbon, Portugal (Page 48) Built in 1515 as a fortress to guard the entrance to Lisbon’s harbor, the Belem Tower is a monument to Portugal's Age of Discovery. The impressive stonework features various historical figures plus Moorish-style watchtowers, arcaded windows, Venetian-style loggias and a statue of Our Lady of Safe Homecoming, a symbol of protection for sailors. 46 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Portugal a trip back to yesteryear VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 47 Visit picturesque Portugal P By Lauren Hopkins Portugal is one of the oldest countries in all Europe, renowned for its outstanding monuments, castles and churches, plus its pristine countryside. Your adventure begins in Lisbon, the capital city. The architecture here is simply amazing. Built in 1515 as a fortress to guard the entrance to Lisbon's harbor, the Belem Tower (www.mosteirojeronimos.pt/ english/index_torre.html) is a monument to Portugal's Age of Discovery. The impressive stonework features various historical figures plus Moorish-style watchtowers, arcaded windows, Venetian-style loggias, and a statue of Our Lady of Safe Homecoming, a symbol of protection for sailors. Architecture buffs won't want to miss a trip to The Jeronimos Monastery (www.mosteirojeronimos.pt/english/index_ mosteiro.html), the most impressive symbol of Portugal's power and wealth during the Age of Discovery. The cloisters are magnificent, each column differently carved with coils of rope, sea monsters, and coral which demonstrates the importance of sea exploration at that time. If it rains during your trip, don't worry. There are many museums that are fascinating to explore. The Gulbenkian Museum (www.museu.gulbenkian.pt) features a magnificent collection of Egyptian, Greek, Roman, Islamic, Asian, and European art. Some don't-miss pieces include a gold Egyptian mummy mask, a 2,700-year-old alabaster bowl, a series of 48 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 bronze cats, an incredible collection of Hellenic coins, rare pieces of Chinese porcelain, Japanese prints and rich 16th and 17th century Persian tapestries. For modern masterpieces, visit the cutting-edge Design Museum, which is now the Design and Fashion Museum or simply MuDe, which means ''change'' in Portuguese (www. mude.pt). The design collection consists of works by more than 200 designers representing trends in design from around the world. There are works by design icons such as Jean Paul Gaultier, Vivienne Westwood, and Yves Saint Laurent. In addition to fashion, there are innovative furnishings, glass, and jewelry from 1937 to the present. Portugal's indigent music style is called Fado — a melancholic sound which was born in Lisbon's old quarters. There are many ''Fado Houses'' — restaurants and taverns which feature both amateur and professional performers. The most authentic ones are found in Alfama, the oldest district of Lisbon. Here you will find narrow streets and small squares, perfect for browsing for leather goods, plus some of the most historic attractions. Visit the Castle of São Jorge (www.castelosaojorge.egeac.pt) for the city's most gorgeous views. About 200 miles north of Lisbon, Porto is the country´s second largest city and where port wine originated. The district of Porto boasts many beautiful towns ideal for day trips. Along the coast, holiday resorts like the trendy beach of Espinho, busy ports like Matosinhos, with delicious seafood, or traditional fishing towns like Póvoa de Varzim. In Amarante, you'll find 17th century mansions overlooking the river and sweet egg pastries called ''papos de anjo'' (angel bellies). Right next to Porto is Vila Nova de Gaia, where you can visit the lodges where Port wine is blended and aged and where you can taste the different varieties. Take a tour of the Sandeman Cellars (www. sandeman.eu), one of the world's oldest wine brands. You'll enjoy tastings and a behind-the-scenes look at how port wine is made. A drive through the Duoro Valley reveals beautiful, unspoiled countryside. You will see vineyards for miles. Another exciting outing is a river cruise along the Rio Douro. Afterwards, enjoy lunch or dinner at one of the many alfresco restaurants along the riverfront. Our goal is to provide you with effective, non-toxic skincare products In the center of the city is a popular eatery called Majestic Cafe (www.cafemajestic.com). Open since the 1920's, the cafe evokes the ambience of the Belle Epoche era when writers and artists flocked here. The furnishings and decor are very ornate. The menu includes traditional Portuguese fare, including the Francesinha, a sandwich which originated in Porto. It has thick bread, ham, sausage and other meats covered in melted cheese with tomato and beer sauce. Portugal is a spot that has it all — inspiring attractions, mesmerizing music, tasty food and more. Enjoy an exciting visit to this picturesque country! ∆ Chiropractic Care …the alternative health care solution Experience the potency of Cranberry Seed Oil Dry Skin? 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A R i v e R Ru n s T h Ro u g h i T Offered at $889,000 by JOn bergh 715.417.0310 email: [email protected] Located in the Beyond Lighting building 50 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Winter Fun Found Longing for a walk in the sun? Tired of seeing piles of dirty snow? Whether you love winter or loathe it, spending time in the snowy outdoors lifts your mood and makes waiting for spring go that much faster. By Donna Karis M Many state and county parks in Minnesota and Wisconsin are open during the winter with miles of trails, scenic views and potential wildlife sightings. So dress for the weather and enjoy the last few weeks of winter. Here are five parks in the Valley area where you’ll find outside fun and white snow. Most of the routes are easy and run through wooded areas or the prairies of native big bluestem prairie grass, including a picturesque view atop the bluff overlooking the St. Croix River. Two difficult trails run along the scenic Kinnickinnic River Valley and pass the beaver dams. Visit www.stateparks.com. Afton State Park If you would like to try snowshoes without purchasing a pair, rent some for a day courtesy of Afton State Park and take a jaunt along their four miles of snowshoe trails. Or take a snowshoe running class that is offered in February. Lake Elmo Park Reserve On the Minnesota bluffs overlooking the St. Croix River five miles south of Afton, the park offers some challenging trails for intermediate to advanced cross-country skiers due to the steep terrain, but also has a beginner route among their 18 miles of trails. Visit www.mnstateparks.info. Kinnickinnic State Park Winter access to the 1,200-acre park located nine miles south of Hudson, Wisconsin is limited to snowshoes, skiing and hiking. Park at the entrance gate and use the nearly seven miles of non-groomed trails. The Reserve’s 2,200 acres has gently rolling hills with trails through forest, prairie, and passing along the waterfront. Twelve miles of the park’s 20-mile trail system is groomed for cross-country ski use, appropriate for beginner to intermediate skill levels. A two-mile trail is available for snowshoers, pet walkers, and hikers. Keep a watchful eye out for pheasants, weasels, red fox, woodpeckers, and other wildlife. Check the on-line calendar for beginner snowshoe and cross-country ski lessons offered in February. Take a break to warm yourself at the ski shelter with a wood-burning stove. The Minnesota park sits a mile north of Interstate 94 from the County Road 19 exit, nine miles from the Minnesota/Wisconsin border. Visit www.co.washington. mn.us/info_for_residents/parks_division. Winter Fun Continued on page 55 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 51 good reads By Terri Schlichenmeyer “A Purse of Your Own” Nobody has to tell you that the economy is uncertain. You live it. You’d like to make your money go in a different direction but as far as you’re concerned, financial information might as well be written in Greek. But there’s help: if you just don’t get it, get “A Purse of Your Own” by Deborah Owens. You’ve never invested in stocks because it’s scary, right? It’s hard to understand, and besides – you don’t have the money in the first place. Wrong, says Owens. Take baby steps. Begin by looking at your assets, liabilities, and overall budget. When everything’s written down, you might be surprised to see that you can shave a little money here or there to invest. Even $5 a week can turn into 52 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 thousands of dollars in profits if you have the patience. So how to get started? You can buy stocks online or you can use a broker; there are advantages and disadvantages to both. In either case, Owens says, a financial advisor may be your portfolio’s BFF. Tired of seeing your money disappear? Then dig in your purse, sharpen your pencil, and get ready to learn how to stop the drain by reading this book. Using analogies that are easy-tounderstand, author Deborah Owens starts from the beginning and moves through the various ways to invest and save, how to utilize an investing club for support, and how to think like a wealthy woman. Owens’ advice is solid, real, and a little outsidethe-box, which makes the entire finance industry seem seriously fun. Even if you’ve only got a few dollars to spare but you want to see it grow, “A Purse of Your Own” is a book to bag. Invest a few dollars in it, and you’ll soon be investing like a pro. “Medicine in Translation” For several months now, you’ve been keeping a tight eye on Washington. This health-care debate has your attention and you’ve got definite opinions. You’ve also got questions. How, for instance, will reform affect you and your family? And how will it affect your wallet when taxes are used to insure the uninsured? Before you dwell on that last concern, read “Medicine in Translation” by Danielle Ofri. Every Monday after lunchtime, Dr. Danielle Ofri has an appointment with someone whose injuries are unimaginable. Registered with the Survivors of Torture program (or SOT), these patients have seen devastating horrors and their scars run far deeper than the physical. As a physician at New York’s Bellevue Hospital, Ofri cares for more than just SOT patients. Most of her patients speak English, more or less, but some require translators, which could be frustrating. More frustrating is the unknown: does someone legitimately need medication or is he dealing it? Timely, beautiful, and heartbreaking, “Medicine in Translation” couldn’t have been published at a better time. When it seems that health care (and lack thereof) is on everyone’s mind, this book adds a quiet reminder of so much. Author Danielle Ofri, herself the child of immigrants, writes with humanity, poignancy, and a shot of humor in this book. I was astounded at some of the stories that Ofri gently teased from people who would really rather forget, and I loved the way she wove her own journey in with that of her patients. I shuddered while reading this book, I smiled, and I can’t wait for her next one. If you’re concerned about health care for the most hidden of society or if you just want a book to make you think, pick up this one. “Medicine in Translation” is just what the doctor ordered. “Angel of Death Row” You thought you knew your rights. You’ve seen every episode of “Perry Mason” and “CSI” and you know what goes on in front of a judge. So when you were arrested, you figured you’d be back at work, quicklike. No big deal. You didn’t do whatever they say you did and you’re innocent until proven guilty, right? Wrong. And in some states, that cockiness can get you killed, as you’ll see in “Angel of Death Row” by Andrea D. Lyon. Growing up in Chicago, Andrea Lyon always had a book in her hand. Her assertive nerdiness made her the butt of jokes and teasing, which in turn gave her empathy for the underdog. Later, with a nod toward that empathy, she became a lawyer. Lyon weaves personal biography with passionate work by recalling some of her most-memorable cases in this book. Author Andrea D. Lyon is feisty and can see the humor in many situations, but she’s dead serious about saving lives on death row, which makes this book both pleasant to read and an edge-of-your-seat real-life scare. Lyon explains what goes on behind-the-scenes in a life-or-death trial and in doing so, also explains why she works to save criminals that most people don’t think are worth saving. No matter on which side of the death penalty fence you sit, if you’re looking for a book with humanity and heart, “Angel of Death Row” is positively heavenly. “Men want Sex & Women need Love” When it comes to members of the opposite sex, it’s all about numbers. You want him to have a nice six-pack and bench-press 200 lbs. She should measure 36-24-36. He should be six-two. She should be five-eight. And if you can’t find your Number One? You end up feeling like a zero. But why are we attracted to a certain eye color, a lopsided smile, or silky hair? Get some insight by reading “Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love” by Allan and Barbara Pease. From earliest childhood, we’re taught that A Special Someone is out there for each of us. But then, eventually reality sets in. He always wants sex. She’s unappreciated. She talks about feelings but he never talks to her. So how can you make attraction – and love – last? I had such high hopes for “Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love”. True, the information in this book isn’t very new but, when coupled with scientific data and solid advice, it felt fresh. The problem is that the good is cancelled out by the bad: specifically, an overabundance of old, sometimes insulting and even horrifying out-of-place jokes and an awful lot of overgeneralization. If you can separate the useful from the chaff, you’ll like this book. But if you’re seriously tired of being a Party of One, there are better relationship books out there. VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 53 ONE dollar PINTS, seven days a week. Reserve our back room for your party. Enjoy the game or play bags on our patio. Traditional Johnnie’s Bar St. Patricks Day: March 17, 2010 Corned beef & cabbage Live Irish Music 4-7 Happy to serve the River Falls community! www.johnniesbar.com 715.425.9291 116 North Main Street River Falls 54 VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 Parenting Continued from page 37 They seldom perform rescue missions, and they do not allow themselves to be manipulated or abused. They do offer empathy and understanding. To be an effective consultant parent requires not only changes in the tools and techniques of parent/child interaction, but also a very important and basic shift in attitude. There are six principles that will aid parents to discipline children in such a way as to control the immediate situation, provide the child a sense of safety and security, yet lead the child toward self-discipline. 1. Always use the least control necessary to succeed. 2. Never intentionally embarrass, degrade or humiliate a child. 3. Have the child help determine the nature of the consequence. 4. Never punish out of anger. 5. Never threaten a consequence you cannot or are not willing to enforce. 6. Direct your actions toward the behavior of the child, not the child himself. No parenting strategy is foolproof; however, consistent applications of positive parenting will build a strong foundation and increase the odds of raising a responsible child that will carry the pattern into future generations. Annie Rother has a rich history on a city, county and state level and is a strong advocate for child care and family issues. She currently is manager of Prescott Checks, Inc. and owner of Lookin Good; hair, tan, fashion and fun! ∆ Recycle, refresh, restyle your old jewelry into something new. Receive full scrap credit for your gold with any new design or special purchase. As a special gift from our family to yours – receive a 14k Gold Earth Ring(TM) with any custom design order. Winter Fun Continued from page 51 St. Croix Bluffs Regional Park This Washington County, Minnesota park runs adjacent to the St. Croix River with nearly 600 acres of upland fields, wooded ravines, bluffs and 3,800 feet of shoreline along the river. Seven miles north of Hastings, the scenic park offers six miles of cross-country ski trails. Visit www.co.washington.mn.us/info_for_residents/parks_division. Willow River State Park Sledding, cross-country skiing, ice fishing, and hiking are enjoyed at the 2,900-acre Willow River State Park located five miles northeast of Hudson, Wisconsin. Bird-watchers will spy chickadees, trumpeter swans, eagles and even robins that winter along Willow Falls and may find whitetail deer through the wooded trails. Two miles of hard packed trails along the river are open to dog walking, snowshoeing, dog sledding, and hiking. Another nine miles of cross-country ski trails are groomed for skate and traditional stride style skiing. There’s a sledding hill near the Nature Center classroom that doubles as a warming house on Saturdays and Sundays. Visit www.stateparks.com. Pick up a trail map at the park’s office, where you may also purchase the required day or annual vehicle permit. In addition, Minnesota parks require ski passes for cross-country skiers 16 and older. ∆ Family owned and operated, Greaton’s Jewelers, Inc. has been the premiere jeweler in New Richmond since 1950. 224 S. Knowles Ave. New Richmond, WI 715.246.2769 • 888.280.3976 toll free Tues-Fri 10am-6pm Sat 9am-3pm (extended holiday hours) www.GreatonsJewelers.com VALLEY WOMEN AND BEYOND / FEBRUARY-MARCH 2010 55 Watch Out for these Food Additives By Dr. Jennifer Krohn-Shupe W With all the options at the supermarket today, it’s no wonder that a good many consumers feel overwhelmed when they walk through those sliding doors. The aisles are filled with products extolling their virtues and promising a better life if one only chooses Brand X over Brand Y. Bright colors designed to grab your attention (not to mention your children’s) are on display at every turn, and coupons print out as you walk by. You also have to be concerned with what’s IN the box. Artificial food additives color, flavor and preserve the foods our families eat. Unfortunately, they’ve been linked to high cholesterol, diabetes, cancer, heart disease and more. Use this short guide to limit your exposure and your risk. High Fructose Corn Syrup (HFCS): This was developed in the 1970’s because it was cheaper than cane and beet sugar. It is easier to blend into beverages, maintains sweetness, prevents freezer burn, and reduces crystallization. With a high glycemic index, it converts to fat more readily than any other sugar. HFCS also alters the metabolic rate in a way that favors fat storage, and research suggests that it is a major factor of obesity. HFCS increases the risk for type 2 diabetes, coronary heart disease, strokes and cancer, and is not easily metabolized by the liver. Partially Hydrogenated Oil: This is a semi-solid shortening made from liquid oils by reacting them with hydrogen. It contains high levels of trans fats, and gives baked goods and snacks a longer shelf life. It is used to make oils stay in the food and sometimes is called “plastic fat.” It is used in more than 40,000 food products in the U.S. according to the Center for Science in the Public Interest. Trans fats decrease good cholesterol and increase harmful LDL cholesterol, which contributes to heart disease. MSG (Monosodium Glutamate): MSG is an amino acid flavor enhancer. Flavor enhancers are believed to stimulate the appetite, contributing to obesity. They are used mainly in restaurant food, salad dressing, chips, frozen entrees, and soups. Sensitivities to MSG include headaches, nausea, weakness, wheezing, edema, and change in heart rate. In research studies, they have destroyed nerve cells. Artificial Sweeteners: Aspartame (Equal, NutraSweet) can cause sensitivities resulting in headaches, dizziness, and hallucinations. Saccharin has resulted in cancer of the uterus, ovaries, skin, blood vessels, and other organs in lab rats. Sucralose (Splenda) is an artificial sweetener used in diet foods and is made by chemically reacting sugar with chlorine. Sorbitol is a sweetener used as a thickening agent, which maintains moisture in dietetic drinks, foods, candy, and chewing gum, and commonly has a laxative effect. These neurotoxic chemical additives directly harm nerve cells, overexciting them to the point of cell death. Sodium Nitrite and Nitrate: These are preservatives used in preserving, coloring, and flavoring cured meats and fish. They prevent botulism and are a color fixative. Sodium nitrites/nitrates combine with chemicals in the stomach to form nitrosamine, a highly carcinogenic substance. Obviously there are more factors to consider when shopping for food than are detailed in this short article, and you may have more questions than the ones discussed here. There are many websites where you can research items that are found on food labels. For more information you can visit www.treelight.com/ health/nutrition, www.fda.gov/food/foodingredientspackaging, www.foodnavigator.com. A good rule of thumb is if you don’t know what an ingredient is, don’t eat it. Dr.JenniferKrohn-ShupeisachiropractorandtheownerofCroixviewFamily Chiropractic in Hudson, Wisconsin. You may reach her through her website www.croixviewfamilychiropractic.com. ∆ Artificial food additives provide color, flavor and preserve the foods our families eat. 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