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Table Of Contents
Introduction
Did You Know There Are 9 Types Of People In The World?
Why It Is Important To Know These Personality Types?
Understanding Predictable Patterns Through Their Lenses
What Is The Enneagram And Why Does It Matter To You?
An Overview Of The 9 Types In Relationships
How Each Of The 9 Types See Their Every Day Life
The Strengths And Weaknesses Of Each Type In Relationships
The Life Mission Of Each Type For Parenting
Becoming A Better Version Of Your Type
Conclusion
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Introduction
The experts say understanding
human nature is one of the most
important aspects of life. The
reason why we believe it is so is
because more than 99% of the
population on earth doesn’t
practice this and fail miserably at
understanding other people as well
as themselves.
As a result, poor relationships, bad
childhoods, misunderstandings, vicious upbringing cycles are passed down from one
generation to another.
That was why this book was created. The enneagram is one of the most powerful tools of
ancient wisdom used in self discovery and personal development. The results from the
enneagram is extremely accurate and tells the strengths, weaknesses, core motivations,
moods, mannerisms and basically everything about a person’s personality type.
Do not underestimate the power of the information in this book because one thing that life
teaches us is this – human beings are wired to build and form relationships with others.
Hence, 90% of happiness is dependent on how we deal with people.
We hope you will be greatly blessed and grow more consciously as you open your mind to
a whole new world.
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Did You Know There Are 9 Types Of
People In The World?
Consider that in this world that everybody is the same.
The tremendous amount of human beings living today all belong
to one species or family: Homo sapiens or human beings. We all
have 2 ears, a mouth, a nose… well you get the picture.
As with any other species, there are differences among individual
human beings, from the size we are and the shape we are to the
color of our skin tone and the color of our eyes. However we are
much more alike than we are different from one another. We are,
as a matter of fact, amazingly similar.
We all have roots going back to the fact that we have all been
created as brothers and sisters. We have all been created as
smaller parts in the big picture that make up this world.
This ancient heritage is yours and we have the choice of how we decide to live our lives.
Consider also that we are all completely unique with our own fingerprint and DNA.
We're all unique people with unique talents to offer. And what makes us unique is the path
we choose, for no two individuals have traveled the same path; no two individuals have
gone through the exact same troubles or advantages.
No two individuals have traveled in the precise same direction at the precise same time in
their lives. And no two individuals have the exact same view or version of their life story or
their journey.
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Every individual has their own unequalled gifts to provide, however occasionally we don't
value our gifts or even recognize what they are and consequently we don't develop our
gifts to their full possibility, or at all.
That's where understanding the self comes in. Understanding self helps us to trust in
ourselves and encourage ourselves to grow into the greatest version of ourselves. And
when we do, that's when we fulfill our greatest potential and have our most outstanding
talents to offer.
Our talents are unique as they reflect our
individual unequalled life journey. And our life
journey impacts what we have to provide and
how we give those gifts to other people.
Every human provides a unique combination of
skills, self-confidence, energy, groundedness,
creative thinking, thoughtfulness, maturity,
merriment, talent, receptiveness, knowledge,
focus, experience, patience, friendliness,
forgivingness, understanding, acceptance,
dependability, gentleness, power, motivation,
dedication, sincerity, truthfulness,
perceptiveness and compassion.
Not everybody will react to the gifts that we have to offer as different individuals will react
to different things. That's why it is great to be unique!
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But most important of all:
Consider that there are certain type of human beings that think, feel and act in
similar patterns with some clusters of people but different from many others.
20 years of research has shown
that there are 9 types of people.
9 of which has their own distinct
style when it comes to dealing
with people, life and success.
This also known as the
Enneagram.
The Enneagram may be seen as
a set of 9 distinguishable
personality types, with every
number on the Enneagram standing for one type. It's usual to discover a bit of yourself in
all 9 of the types, but one of them ought to stick out as being closest to you. That is your
primary personality type.
Everybody comes out of childhood with one of the 9 types high-and-mighty their
personality, with an innate disposition and other pre-natal factors being the main things
that determine our type.
You see, we're born with a dominant type. Afterwards, this inherent orientation mostly
determines the ways in which we learn to adjust to our early surroundings. It likewise
seems to lead to particular unconscious preferences towards our parental figures, however
why this happens, we still don't know.
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Anyway, by the time kids are 4 or 5; their consciousness has grown sufficiently to have a
distinguished sense of self. While their identity is still changing, at this age youngsters start
to establish themselves and discover ways of fitting into the world on their own.
Therefore, our personalities
reflect all of the childhood
factors (including genetics)
that shaped its development.
Remember that all human
beings are all unique in their
DNA and certain patterns will
exist that is predictable.
Some of these people will be
alike in some ways.
Once you identify the cluster
you belong to, then things
become easier.
If you take a look at these
different personality types, you
will realize that different people
have different core fears and
motivations.
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Why It Is Important To Know These
Personality Types?
Understanding one's Enneagram type,
and the additional types, impresses an
individual with the fact that their view
of the world isn't universal, nor should
it be. We all have the possibility to
provide something vital to the
universe, and to arouse aspects of
human experience in ourselves that
are alien to us a lot of the time.
We all have times where we feel idealistic, or fondness, or alienated, nervous, passive,
enthusiastic, belligerent, achieving, or observant. And there are conditions where an
approach different from our own is precisely needs to be used. A highly evolved individual
may employ the characteristics of any type at all, plunging into those abilities in order to
handle a scenario suitably and effectively, and on purpose.
And not because our society has browbeaten us out of being who we are. And not
because we feel ashamed of our innate dispositions. But because we've come to
understand ourselves, to face our obsessions and assumptions, and we've taken on the
scary, invigorating and ultimately freeing challenge of understanding them.
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Everyone expects others to communicate through their ‘type’s’ language.
The problem with human nature is how everyone
expects others to communicate through their ‘type’s’
language. We expect that others will deal with us in a
way that we will understand.
Among the main facts of life that we all must learn is that
our happiness hinges upon the quality of our relationships.
We don't do well in isolation. Having great relationships with mates, friends, loved ones,
and colleagues, with everybody we meet and interact with, is essential if we're to be happy
and satisfied.
Our relationships are likewise bear upon our emotional and spiritual wellness: the level we
may have sound, growing relationships is impacted by our understanding as well as our
spiritual maturity. It's really hard for a needy, fearful individual to have substantial
relationships, whereas a gracious and understanding individual most often does. Our own
understanding of ourselves and others gives us freedom from destructive responses and is
the surest way to have and nurture relationships-and to give as well as get in them.
The Enneagram may help us get much clearer about our relationship values, what we
expect, communicating and argument styles, thinking and choice patterns, ways of settling
conflicts, concerns, defenses, and assorted coping techniques, to name simply some of
the factors that impact relationships. These go for to marriage, friendships, and work
relationships to all sorts of interactions. Every personality type thinks differently, has
dissimilar values and approaches, and wants dissimilar things in a relationship.
Great relationships hinge upon our being able to understand ourselves and other people,
to consider our own needs and the needs of other people, and to live with the legitimacy of
other people’s point of view while expressing our own. We have to be able to treat other
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people as we want to be treated, even if we haven't been treated so good in the past
ourselves.
Conflict may ignite from the littlest word or
action and may touch off destructive reactions
and actions. Unsolved or poorly navigated
conflict may damage and even ruin
relationships. Conflict doesn't have to be
destructive though. Addressed effectively,
conflict may actually contribute to mightier,
deeper relationships and may help to address
ongoing issues and concerns. Effective
communication skills serve a central role in successfully settling conflict, both in the
household and in the workplace.
Among the basic communication skills for settling conflict successfully is that of
understanding how to navigate an argument effectively. This includes understanding the
personality type of the person you are in conflict with and keeping the focus on one issue
and avoiding personal attacks.
Gaining resolution demands addressing your true concerns and reaching the core of the
conflict. Active listening skills, like talking less and asking questions, likewise play a role in
effectively solving conflict. All of this requires that you understand yourself and others.
Understand that people grow in different ways.
Every personality type has a different notion of what it means to be successful and grow
personally. Self-knowledge is one basic goal that will help everybody accomplish personal
success and growth.
A lot of people are hung up on someone else's idea of what is needed to be successful,
and they're unaware of what is really important to them. This is totally normal.
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We all have significant role models and influencers in our lives that might have core values
that are rather different from our own. If that is the case, it's crucial to realize that the
discrepancy between what we have been taught is really significant and what we
personally believe to be really significant is due to a difference in perspective.
If we spend our time and effort attempting to meet someone
else's idea of success, and disregard or minimize any
conflicting messages from our own mind, then we'll find
ourselves depleted and unhappy. Recognizing what is really
important to us is a major step toward accomplishing personal success and growth.
Break out of self-defeating patterns and vicious cycles.
While bettering our self-knowledge and understanding our personality type may be very
liberating, we shouldn't throw away the rules of the society in which we live. We have to
understand that other people's moral principles are no less important than our own. And
we have to understand and accept that we live in a culture in which particular personality
types and actions are more appropriate for certain tasks. This is another reason why it's
important to understand the personality types.
For instance, there are conditions in which it's more advantageous and effective to
demonstrate compassion and caring, instead of impersonal logic. As well, there are
conditions that need using impersonal logic to arrive at a decision, in which the more
subjective point of view is incorrect and ineffective.
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Individuals with a preference for caring will
have an advantage over logic in conditions
that call for compassion and awareness of
other's emotions. On the other hand,
individuals with a preference for logic will have an instinctive advantage over people who
use compassion in conditions that call for the power to arrive at a choice based on
impersonal data.
As we learn about our personality type and the types of other people, we're empowered
with an understanding of why individuals respond differently in different conditions. In this
way we can better accept and understand individual’s actions that are different from ours.
These insights are super useful and powerful to us as people.
All the same, if we're concerned with growing as people, we have to take care not to utilize
personality type as an excuse for our incorrect behavior. While it's useful to observe that
another individual’s incorrect behavior might be due to their personality type, we can't
utilize the same reasoning on ourselves.
We ought to realize that our personality type has failings, but we have to utilize that
knowledge to conquer those failings instead of to excuse pitiful behavior. We can't be
responsible for others conduct, however we may control our own.
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Understanding Predictable Patterns
Through Their Lenses
Each of the 9 types sees the world differently. It is built
into their neurological system. It is seen by their facial
expression. You can sense it from their energy. It is not
what they say but WHY they say it based on their primary
motivations, they perceive the world in this fixed pattern
and in order to get through to them, you have to speak their language.
# 1 Reformers. The fundamental motivation of the 1 is to be correct, and to prevent being
incorrect. Reformers are the most obsessively rational of the types, and the perfectionist
is a different name for this type. Generally 1's are driven by their "inner critic", an inner set
of measures that tends to be rather rigorous, and independent of what others tell them.
Therefore, they are self-critical, and likewise critical of other people. Ones get much of
their vigor from anger, and commonly, this is channeled into discipline, organizing, a
mighty work ethic and a love of fair-mindedness, justice, and truth. But they can get rigid
in their thinking, trapped by their own rules.
#2 Helpers center their lives on giving and getting love. This personality is among the most
emotionally expressive, and among the most centered on human relationships.
Commonly 2's bring a special interpersonal touch to nearly everything they do,
empowering other people. It's uncommon (although not impossible) to find 2’s in highprofile leadership positions.
Being looked up to is really important to 3's - they're competitive and put great value on
winning. In public, 3s project high self-respect. However the 3's craving for external
approval might make them image conscious. They may privately feel insecure.
More than any other type, 4s wish to understand themselves. They might look at their own
emotions deeply, searching for authenticity. They don't settle for the average or shallow,
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and are disturbed that most everybody around them does. The significance they attach to
their inner feelings makes them extremely individualistic and original.
5's identify more powerfully with their thoughts than any other personality. To other
people, 5's are known for their crisp intellect, mighty need for independence and privacy,
and strength of their intellectual interests. 5's are intensely interested in explaining the
universe and predicting what will bechance next.
6's place safety and trust most importantly before anything else, making them one of the
most loyal of the Enneagram personalities. Naturally, each type's greatest power is
likewise their greatest failing, and the 6's capacity for allegiance may be devastating if they
place their faith into something malicious or undependable.
To a strange degree, 7's live a life of action that's founded on seeking experience, going
after plans, dreams, and visions. this makes them exceedingly exuberant, multi-talented,
diverse, curious, and experienced, with a mighty appreciation for beauty, expressive style,
and artistic flair.
8's come across as the hardest of the Enneagram personalities. At work, 8's may be
assertive to a fault - they like to speak their minds flat out, make short but forceful choices,
and respect other people who do the same. They require and need a high degree of selfreliance, and if they feel controlled by authority, they frequently demonstrate an
unmistakable noncompliant streak.
9's come across as patient individuals who are great listeners, adaptable and
accommodative to other people. 9's have a strange ability to "go with the flow" of their
environment, and a want to be connected with their environment.
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What Is The Enneagram And Why Does It
Matter To You?
The Enneagram brings the way we see the universe into
sharp, clear-cut focus. Our certain worldview affects the
unique way every one of us brings our own ideas, feelings
and motives to any set of circumstances. The Enneagram is
kind of like the perceptual glasses that we wear. It's likewise
about our patterns of thinking and our patterns of belief and
our interior motivations.
The Enneagram supplies a clear map for us to see who we are, how we fit into the
strategy of things and how we interact with other people. This is a model, which goes on
the far side of the superficial aspects of conduct and delves into the fundamental
motivation that gives us a look at “why” individuals do what they do.
The Enneagram helps you strengthen your self-image that is the root and the core of your
life. You will be able to learn how to have an amazing relationship with yourself and
metamorphose your life from inside.
With Enneagram you will gain phenomenal lucidity about the way you ‘do life’ and step-up
your focus by centering on what you do best and the best way you tackle each area of
your life also.
The Enneagram will help you with making more money , You see making money doesn’t
work best at the ‘micro’ level but at the ‘macro’ level - this implies that those who know the
‘how’ will always wind up working for those who know the ‘why’. Enneagram will
strengthen your why in such a way that your cash will work for you and make money your
friend instead of a slave to it. You'll be able to figure out a plan that's most suitable for your
personality!
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Individuals are a great deal unproductive when they don’t recognize that they're a ‘fish’
and they are told to go up a tree. Each ‘fish’ in the sea is different and understanding your
personality will help you to expose your best ‘pond’ in order to flourish in an environment
where you'll be the best there is and maximize your productiveness!
If you're not already in your dream job, understand your Enneagram type can work out
your personality strengths to show you the way to discover your very own job where you'll
blissfully enjoy each day of your life!
Discover the greatest way to work with yourself and others to create a schedule that's
perfect for your personality type by understanding your personality type. As a
consequence, you'll gain more spare time and more freedom to better other areas of your
life!
With Enneagram you can get to be a healthier you naturally by taking away all cancer
causing ideas from your brain and your body. With Enneagram coaching, you can utilize
the power of energy healing combined with beefing up your mental health and help you to
speed up your healing in addition to what you're already doing.
Every personality type has particular hot buttons that causes them to misbehave
irrationally when we're at our worst. Enneagram coaching is perfect for individuals who
battle with issues with fearfulness and identify ways to keep away from these triggers. As a
result, you'll reduce tension and get even more energy.
Whenever you discover yourself struggling in your relationships, it's because of personality
differences that Enneagram may resolve. Different personality types link up in a
relationship and you are able to utilize it to empower or de-power each other. The key is in
recognizing what works for you and your mate so that you're meant to excel and thrive
with one another. A side benefit is that you'll likewise have a greater sex drive with your
mate, as you are both much happier!
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If you're in business or sales, building rapport and dealing with others is highly critical. The
Enneagram gives you a psychological guideline on how different personality types work
and you are able to utilize it to reduce or resolve conflict, close sales, establish rapport and
produce thriving environments at work.
Did you know that it is not simply about the exercise routine or diet that makes you fit?
What supports fitness is the inner motivation, your reasons why, your interior power and
firmest desires that will empower you to get the best body of your life. It's all in your mind!
And understanding your personality type will help you to increase your motivation on that
at the same time too.
We may only grow at the speed of the level of our self-awareness. We'll help you to grow
consciously by increasing your awareness and revealing your blind spots that are holding
you back from critical self-awareness. Once you comprehend this, you'll be able to be the
best critic for your life and transform yourself from within.
If you're looking for your life purpose or finding yourself, you can use the Enneagram as a
guideline of spirituality (the Enneagram after all, is a spiritual tool…) the Enneagram to
discover God’s will for your life or your karma for this life and you'll find your life purpose
and reveal your destiny!
The Enneagram supplies a treasure map to your life story and by finding your ‘true path’
based on your unique strengths, you are able to be sure to produce a huge impact in the
universe.
The last key to the puzzle - remaining happy by realizing yourself. If you don't know your
personality trappings, you will not be happy. Period. Enneagram will help you to discover
the path to bliss by going straight to the root so you'll be on the path to blissful happiness.
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An Overview Of The 9 Types In
Relationships
Understanding is the key to experiencing compatible, fulfilling relationships—this includes
both comprehending other people and yourself.
The Enneagram personality typing
system may supply you with profound
insights and pragmatic tools that will
better your relationships with
everybody in your life. This applies to
marriage, friendly relationships, and
professional relationships—to
everyplace people interact.
Comprehending is the key to having well matched, fulfilling relationships—this includes
both comprehending other people and yourself.
The Enneagram personality typing system may supply you with profound insights and
practical tools that will better your relationships with everybody in your life. This applies to
marriage, friendships, and professional relationships—to everyplace people interact.
Every personality type thinks differently, has dissimilar values and approaches, and wishes
different things in a relationship. A few types have more factors in common with one
another (for instance, two favorable types or two indrawn types); however, with the
Enneagram, the strengths and trouble spots may be specified for every combination of the
9 personality types.
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There are concrete answers to
these compatibility inquiries. All
the same, you have to know your
own type (as well as the other
individuals) accurately prior to
you being able to amply benefit
from this unbelievably valuable
resource.
To get the most accurate idea
about Enneagrams, we recommend Enneagram Exposed, the scientifically related product
to discover your type or that of somebody else.
As an alternative, you are able to begin your process of self-discovery by taking the free
tests online that will give you a taste of a full test and give you an estimate of your
personality type.
Once you've discovered your types, you ought to look into the subject deeper.
Likewise when assessing personality compatibility, the Enneagram supplies insights into
addiction and personality, and tools for personal growth. You are able to likewise think
about participating in online bulletin boards where individuals discuss personal and
relationship issues and share advice with one another.
This info will alter your life! It will alter how you see yourself and everybody else who's
significant to you—bettering your marriage, loved ones, professional, and personal
relationships. Provide yourself a chance to discover what you have been seeking—who
you truly are and what you may bring to other people.
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How Each Of The 9 Types See Their
Every Day Life
Here is info that is simple and practical for each type.
Type One
1's are scrupulous and ethical, with a mighty sense of right and
wrong. They're teachers, reformists, and advocates for change:
constantly striving to better things, however afraid of making an
error. Well-organized, orderly, and exacting, they try to sustain
elevated standards; however can slip into being critical and
perfectionists. They commonly have issues with resentment and
impatience.
2's are empathetic, earnest, and warm-hearted. They're friendly,
generous, and self-denying, however may likewise be sentimental,
flattering, and people pleasing. They're well meaning and driven to
be close to other people, however may slip into doing things for
other people in order to be needed. They commonly have issues
with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs.
3's are self-confident, attractive, and charming. Ambitious, competent,
and industrious, they may likewise be status-conscious and extremely
driven for advancement. They're wise and poised, but may likewise
be overly concerned with their image and what other people think of
them. They commonly have issues with workaholism and
competitiveness.
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4's are self-aware, sensitive, and reserved. They're emotionally
truthful, originative, and personal, however may likewise be moody
and self-conscious. Withholding themselves from other people due to
feeling vulnerable and faulty, they may likewise feel disdainful and
exempt from average ways of living. They commonly have issues with
melancholy, indulgence, and self-pity.
5's are alert, insightful, and curious. They're able to center and focus
on developing complex thoughts and skills. Independent, forwardlooking, and inventive, they may likewise become preoccupied with
their ideas and fanciful constructs. They get detached, yet highlystrung and intense. They commonly have issues with eccentricity,
nihilism, and reclusiveness.
The committed, security-oriented type, 6's are dependable,
industrious, responsible, and trustworthy. First-class
"troubleshooters," they counter issues and foster cooperation,
however may likewise get defensive, evasive, and nervous—running
on tension while sounding off about it.
7's are extraverts, optimistic, versatile, and spontaneous. Playful,
exuberant, and practical, they may likewise misuse their many
talents, becoming over- extended, confused, and undisciplined.
They perpetually seek new and arousing experiences, however may
get distracted and exhausted by remaining on the go.
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8's are self-assured, strong, and assertive. Protective, resourceful,
straight talking, and decisive, however may also be egoist and
domineering. 8's feel they have to command their surroundings.
9's are accepting, trusting, and unchanging. They're commonly
originative, optimistic, and supportive, however may likewise be too
willing to go along with other people to keep the peace. They wish
everything to go smoothly and be without dispute.
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The Strengths And Weaknesses Of Each
Type In Relationships
Each type will have strengths and
weaknesses as they go through life and try to
connect with other people. Here we will have
a look at those.
Type One Strengths: Shared purpose and values, equality, fairness, integrity.
Weaknesses: Insisting on being correct at the expense of their association with the other.
Controls by correcting other people—and by playing on their sense of guilt and deficiency.
Type Two Strengths: Emotional association, familiarity, warmth, affection.
Weaknesses: Insist on exclusivity and ever more nearness Manipulates by discovering
others' needs and wants and by producing secret dependencies.
Type Three Strengths: Social suitableness, competency, admirableness, attractiveness.
Weaknesses: Insistence on career and social status prior to the relationship. Controls by
charming other people and by adopting whatever image will work.
Type Four Strengths: Communicating, listening, acceptance, emotional truthfulness.
Weaknesses: Insistence on having all of their emotional needs met at once. Controls by
being erratic and making other people walk on eggshells.
Type Five Strengths: Wonder, intensity, involvement, non-intrusiveness.
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Weaknesses: Insistence on personal space and non-interference. Controls by remaining
preoccupied with thoughts and projects and by detaching emotionally from other people.
Type Six Strengths: Committedness, reliability, shared values, solidity.
Weaknesses: Self-distrust and reactivity: fluctuating between need for closeness and need
for aloofness. Controls by complaining and by testing other people’s commitment to them.
Type Seven Strengths: Arousal, adventure, excitement, assortment.
Weaknesses: Insisting on deferring making commitments. Manipulates by remaining
upbeat and overactive and by insisting that other people meet their demands for
satisfaction.
Type Eight Strengths: Dependableness, loyalty, strength, intimate compatibility.
Weaknesses: Insisting on sustaining control of other people. Manipulates by dominating
other people and by demanding that other people do as they say.
Type Nine Strengths: Comfort, peacefulness, harmony, stableness.
Weaknesses: Insisting on not noticing issues and staying neutral in conflicts. Controls by
"checking out" and by passive-aggressively resisting other people.
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The Life Mission Of Each Type For
Parenting
Among the most useful realms for parents to
get aware of is the differences of fit between
themselves and their youngsters. Not every
youngster will be a simple fit for each parent.
If two parents are extremely energetic,
social, and extroverted, and their youngster
is quiet, sober, and reserved, the fit between
the parents and the youngster may get
strained.
The youngster might unconsciously feel that he or she is a letdown to the parents, which
may cause serious emotional troubles for the youngster. The parents may try to
manipulate or pressure the youngster to be more like them. Or they may feel guilty or
inadequate for not understanding their youngster.
Type 1
Might demand self-command, reason, regularity, and the power to delay rewards—that
their youngster be a small grownup.
Type 2
Might demand generousness, considerateness, helpfulness, and attention to other
people—that their youngster be a small assistant.
Type 3
Might demand being great at tasks, carrying out family hopes, physical perfection, and
fame—that their youngster be a small champion.
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Type 4
Might demand sensitiveness, artistic creativeness, emotional depth, and understanding—
that their youngster be a small healer.
Type 5
Could demand independence, studiousness, cerebral gifts, and curiosity—that their
youngster be a small mastermind.
Type 6
Might demand dependableness, obedience, doggedness, and trustworthiness—that their
youngster be a small soldier.
Type 7
May need vitality, good humor, resilience, and spontaneousness—that their youngster be
a small entertainer.
Type 8
May call for toughness, self-reliance, bravery, and willpower—that their youngster be a
small enterpriser.
Type 9
May need quietness, lack of needs, gentleness, and non-needinesss—that their youngster
be a small saint.
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Becoming A Better Version Of Your Type
I come alive each morning knowing I
may be something more than I was
yesterday. I understand I may be
anything I wish to be as long as I center
on that goal. I try to make each day
another step toward succeeding at my
dreams. There's no better day than
today to begin being the best you.
Each day that you have, you have the
chance to make unbelievable things
occur. Yep, there are almost billions of
individuals on the planet, but you are
able to still make a difference either in
your life story or someone else’s. What
I'm asking of you is that you make one
little attempt to make yourself better in
some manner for the next week and, hopefully, continue this life style shift.
Why should you get to be a greater you?
I'm assuming you're an amazing individual right now. You have achieved a lot of amazing
things and done a lot for other people in your life. All the same, I feel that if we aren’t
endeavoring daily to be a better individual, we start to feel comfortable in the day-to-day
norm. Like a lot of you, I detest the day-to-day norm. I cherish making each day different
than the last and live something different as frequently as possible. With that, we ought to
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all challenge ourselves to be greater so that we go forward to grow and develop at
whatever place we are in our life story.
What are the advantages?
By trying to be a greater you, you will be more pleased, more productive, and satisfy more
aspirations than if you decided to be stagnant. You'll begin to see fresh opportunities that
once were never a reality nor a possibility. You'll meet fresh and exciting individuals that
might give more meaning to your life story. These advantages just touch the surface of the
favorable impact of trying to be a better you.
Why would you listen to me about becoming a greater me?
That’s a great question and I'm glad you asked. I'm not perfect. I
have a lot of flaws. All the same, daily, I attempt to be a better
individual as I know that by doing so I'm adding value to my
existence and hopefully, to other peoples too. I'm bringing more
value to the amazing gift of life.
If there's anyone that may strive to be a better individual, it is me and it's you. So, if I'm
seeing the positives from attempting to be a better individual, I know you are able to gain
from attempting this little action too. I do know that I have the skills to assist other people
in a modest way. You don’t have to take any of this advice. However, it never hurts to try
something new that could just better your life. The worst case scenario is that I don’t help
you in any way and you go back to your already amazing life.
You see if you check into the Enneagram Exposed book, you will find out things that you
never thought you would learn about your personality type and how you can become a
better person.
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As well, my wife Yuenn and I are certified councilors and have been able to help many
others with their life struggles. You can find out more info about that here: Personal
Coaching
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Conclusion
So the Enneagram, for starters, is about discovering a basic habit of mind, body, and heart
that inhibits an individual from getting at deeper states of pleasure, happiness, power,
aliveness, serenity, deep connectedness with other people, a sweet valuing of one's
Being, a sense of strength and competency in the world, the power to love at depth, and to
receive the profound preciousness of oneself and life.
Then comes the evolution of “presence” which is frequently achieved through other
practices designed to quiet the brain, to open the heart, to let an individual start sensing
their body and inhabiting it.
With a practice in place, one starts the journey of unearthing the Soul, of moving through
whatsoever shocks, sufferings, mistakes and sorrows that have caused an person to
abandon their capacity to be in the here and now, to sense themselves, to feel the
profoundness and beauty of their soul, to waken to what is their crucial identity, the very
stuff of their real nature and soul. The Enneagram supplies a map back to this cherished
material, and every type has a different path.
Learn all you can about this important subject.
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