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ISSUE 234 SATURDAY 13 APRIL, 2013 FRIDAY 19 SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 2 Need to Know considered poor manners to present the check before it is requested, so when you’re ready to leave, ask «La cuenta, por favor» and your bill will be delivered to you. MONEY EXCHANGE: Although you may have to wait in line for a few minutes, remember that the banks will give you a higher rate of exchange than the exchange booths (caja de cambio). Better yet, if you have a «bank card», withdraw funds from your account back home. Try to avoid exchanging money at your hotel. Traditionally, those offer the worst rates. I f you’ve been meaning to find a little information on the region, but never quite got around to it, we hope that the following will help. Look at the map in this issue, you will note that PV (as the locals call it) is on the west coast of Mexico, in the middle of the Bay of Banderas, the largest bay in this country, that includes southern part of the state of Nayarit to the north and the northern part of Jalisco to the south. Thanks to its privileged location -sheltered by the Sierra Madre mountains- the Bay is well protected against the hurricanes spawned in the Pacific. Hurricane Kenna came close on October 25, 2002, but actually touched down in San Blas, Nayarit, some 200 miles north of PV. The town sits on the same parallel as the Hawaiian Islands, thus the similarities in the climate of the two destinations. AREA: 1,300 sq. kilometers POPULATION: Approx. 325,000 inhabitants CLIMATE: Tropical, humid, with an average of 300 sunny days per year. The temperature averages 28oC (82oF) and the rainy season extends from late June to early October. allowed under certain circumstances but fishing of any kind is prohibited. Every year, the Bay receives the visit of the humpback whales, dolphins and manta rays in the winter. During the summer, sea turtles, a protected species, arrive to its shores to lay their eggs. FAUNA: Nearby Sierra Vallejo hosts a great variety of animal species such as iguana, guacamaya, deer, raccoon, etc. ECONOMY: Local economy is based mainly on tourism, construction and to a lesser degree, on agriculture, mainly tropical fruit such as mango, papaya, watermelon, pineapple, guanabana, cantaloupe and bananas. SANCTUARIES: Bahía de Banderas encloses two Marine National Parks - Los Arcos and the Marieta Islands - where diving is CURRENCY: The Mexican Peso is the legal currency in Mexico although Canadian and American dollars are widely accepted. Index BUSES: A system of urban buses with different routes. Current fare is $6.50 Pesos per ticket and passengers must purchase a new ticket every time they board another bus. There are no “transfers”. TAXIS: There are set rates within defined zones of the town. Do not enter a taxi without agreeing on the price with the driver FIRST. If you are staying in a hotel, you may want to check the rates usually posted in the lobby. Also, if you know which restaurant you want to go, do not let the driver change your mind. Many restaurateurs pay commissions to taxi drivers and you may end up paying more than you should, in a second-rate establishment! There are 2 kinds of taxi SATURDAY 13 cabs: those at the airport and the maritime port are usually vans that can only be boarded there. They have pre-fixed rates per passenger. City cabs are yellow cars that charge by the ride, not by passenger. When you ask to go downtown, many drivers let you off at the beginning of the area, near Hidalgo Park. However, your fare covers the ENTIRE central area, so why walk 10 to 15 blocks to the main plaza, the Church or the flea market? Pick up a free map, and insist on your full value from the driver! Note the number of your taxi in case of any problem, or if you forget something in the cab. Then your hotel or travel rep can help you check it out or lodge a complaint. TIME ZONE: The entire State of Jalisco is on Central Time, as is the southern part of the State of Nayarit - from San Blas in the north through to the Ameca River, i.e.: San Blas, San Pancho, Sayulita, Punta Mita, La Cruz de Huanacaxtle, Bucerías, Nuevo Vallarta, etc.) TELEPHONE CALLS: Always check on the cost of long distance calls from your hotel room. Some establishments charge as much as U.S. $7.00 per minute! CELL PHONES: Most cellular phones from the U.S. and Canada may be programmed for local use, through Telcel and IUSAcell, the local carriers. To dial cell to cell, use the prefix 322, then the seven digit number of the person you’re calling. Omit the prefix if dialling a land line. LOCAL CUSTOMS: Tipping is usually 10%-15% of the bill at restaurants and bars. Tip bellboys, taxis, waiters, maids, etc. depending on the service. Taking a siesta is a Mexican tradition. Some businesses and offices close from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m., reopening until 7 p.m. or later. In restaurants, it is ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 WHAT TO DO: Even if your allinclusive hotel is everything you ever dreamed of, you should experience at least a little of all that Vallarta has to offer - it is truly a condensed version of all that is Mexican and existed before «Planned Tourist Resorts», such as Cancun, Los Cabos and Ixtapa, were developed. Millions have been spent to ensure that the original “small town” flavor is maintained downtown, in the Old Town and on the South Side. DRINKING WATER: The false belief that a Mexican vacation must inevitably lead to an encounter with Moctezuma’s revenge is just that: false. For the 17th year in a row, Puerto Vallarta’s water has been awarded a certification of purity for human consumption. It is one of only two cities in Mexico that can boast of such accomplishment. True, the quality of the water tested at the purification plant varies greatly from what comes out of the tap at the other end. So do be careful. On the other hand, most large hotels have their own purification equipment and most restaurants use purified water. If you want to be doubly sure, you can pick up purified bottled water just about anywhere. EXPORTING PETS: Canadian and American tourists often fall in love with one of the many stray dogs and cats in Vallarta. Many would like to bring it back with them, but believe that the laws do not allow them to do so. Wrong. If you would like to bring a cat or a dog back home, call the local animal shelter for more info: 293-3690. LOCAL SIGHTSEEING: A good beginning would be to take one of the City Tours offered by the local tour agencies. Before boarding, make sure you have a map and take note of the places you want to return to. Then venture off the beaten path. Explore a little. Go farther than the tour bus takes you. And don’t worry this is a safe place. Sound Off Dear Editor, Now that PuRR Project Bingo has ended for the season, we want to take a minute to thank everyone who helped us make it such a successful event. Tammy and Sean and all the gang at Nacho Daddy provided the perfect venue and kept us fed and watered through all 15 bingo nights ~ thanks for your excellent service. The games would not have been nearly as much fun without numbers caller extraordinaire, Kathleen Palmer. Many thanks for your willingness to give up your Wednesday nights to raise pesos for our cats. We are so grateful to all the entertainers who took the microphone and kept the crowd laughing, singing and dancing at halftime ~ Miss Conception, Chi Chi Rones, Beverly Fairchild, Joanna, Kim Kuzma, Mikki Prost, Marcella Castellanos and the salsa dancers, the cast of ‘Rocky Horror Picture Show’, and Todd and Gaye Ringness (a.k.a. Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton). You are all absolute joys to work with. A huge ‘thank you’ to all the local vendors who donated prizes - restaurant gift certificates, t-shirts, massages, theatre tickets, mani/pedi’s, haircuts, art gallery gift cards, bakery goods, yoga classes - far too many to mention in this small space. We heard many favorable comments about our prizes, and we are so grateful for your generosity. 3 Most of all, we want to thank all of you who came and played bingo with us particularly those who never missed a night. Your contributions will go a long way to feed and care for the 125+ cats at our sanctuary this summer. The PuRR ladies are taking some time off to regroup and plan for next fall. Wherever you are in the world, have a great summer …and come play bingo with us again on Wednesday nights at Nacho Daddy next fall! Marilyn Khan PuRR Project Dear Allyna I have submitted many articles and letters to you over the past few years, and have been very thankful that you have seen fit to publish them; however I have never before written anything about a restaurant experience. My husband and I read with interest the letter by L.S. in your March 30th edition about their unpleasant, unfortunate experience at the new location of Ernesto’s Good Grub restaurant on Badillo. We have enjoyed the ribs and tortilla soup for many years at their location in Versailles. Ernie himself was always very generous in donating to charitable fundraising events for children here in PV and, since his passing, his children have carried on this tradition. So, this past weekend we decided to try the new spot Our food was the same delicious quality as before at a very reasonable price; the drinks were in line with other restaurants in this area; and the attention and serve by friendly Ivan, our waiter, was incredible. Perhaps L.S. simply hit an “off night” with new location issues. We encourage him/her and others to give them a try again very soon. Thank you, Chris Amo Dear Editor, This is about Sandra Cesca’s “Learn Vallarta” tour: And easy walk, excellent value, fabulous guide. Sandra was our guide. This is her business, she loves sharing PV. We did two walks with Sandra because the Wednesday walk around the South area was SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 so fantastic we booked her for a Thursday walk of the Historic Gringo Gulch area - also fantastic. I recommend her and her walking tours. We saw shops and interesting areas we would not have found on our own - and we had already been doing our own exploring on Monday & Tuesday. Sandra shares the history/knowledge of the area as a local person would because she is a local (like many folks, she is from elsewhere - decades ago). On our walks we bumped into people she knew many times - she is well liked in the local community. A walking tour with Sandra is a walk in the real PV - it only takes a couple blocks to get away from the heavy tourist commercial zone... Enjoy Sandra’s walks for a “non touristy” visit of Puerto Vallarta. (Sandra Cesca - Learn Vallarta, Tel.: 2933623 office, Cell: (322) 228-9365, Facebook: www.facebook.com/Learn.Vallarta, Web site: www.escaperoutevallarta.com Bill Please go to next page for continuation... Sound Off 4 PVGC April Meeting A report on the Bugambilia Festival (May 17-25) and our beautification project will also be presented. There are so many exciting events planned that the committee has extended the festival an additional day. The closing parade will be May 25th. The event schedule will be released soon and copies of the schedule will be available at our meeting. Check the website for announcements. www.vallartagardenclub.com The Bugambilia Festival Committee will be featuring a series of “Publicity Beautification Campaigns” on April 20th, 27th and May 4th. Thank you to those who signed up to volunteer at the No Way Jose! launch party. More details will be forthcoming but put those dates on your calendar. We hope you are working on your “beautiful balcony or facade” so you can enter the contest. Great prizes will be awarded in a residential and commercial category for “Most Beautiful Balcony”. See you on the 18th! The Puerto Vallarta Garden Club’s April meeting will be Thursday the 18th at 11 a.m. at the Paradise Community Center. The speaker will be Joaquin Aja on the topic “Growing Orchids by the Seaside”. April is our officer election meeting. Please think about your interest in serving as an officer and respond to this email. Your name will be placed in nomination along with those currently willing to run: Suzanne Kirkpatrick, President, Eduardo Covarrubias, Vice President, and Kimberley Bennett, Secretary. We are also actively recruiting Board Members. We are proposing a change in the bylaws to make the Treasurer position an appointment by the Garden Club Board and of indeterminate term length due to Mexican regulations governing this role. Publisher / Editor: Allyna Vineberg [email protected] Contributors: Anna Reisman Harriet Murray Stan Gabruk Giselle Belanger Ronnie Bravo Gil Gevins Tommy Clarkson Janie Albright Blank Polly G. Vicars Office: 223-1128 Graphic Designer: Leo Robby R. R. Webmaster: PVMCITYPAPER Online Team Cover photo Continued from previous page... “The Flower Lady” Dear Editor, Dear Editor, I love your paper and have visited and enjoyed most of the restaurants and shops that have ads. I’m sad that you must be about to shut down until October? I’m an elderly lady that has been living in the Marina for 10 years now, and I’ve been asking around for an assisted living establishment but it seems that there is none in Vallarta. How can this be possible as I know that many people from US and Canada have become widowed here and they have to leave to be with family, when they could stay on if there was a good place to live in. Or maybe there is one and I don’t know? June Dear June, We thank you for your readership and we’re glad to see that you’ve visited our advertisers’ establishments. That is the purpose of the ads …and what enables us to continue offering the Mirror free of charge to our readers. We are not “shutting down”. We just stop printing during the summer season, while still issuing a new edition every week, but online only. With regard to assisted living facilities in Vallarta, you may want to check out http:// vallartaseniorhomecare.com/home.html and http:// mexicoassistedliving.com/?p=106 The Ed. SATURDAY 13 by Bill Bell In regards to your article in last week’s PV Mirror (Saturday, March 30th, 2013) on page 19, a little yellow blurb (to get our attention) urges us to never buy illegally collected native orchids. While I have seen how the local bulldozers would have been destroying these same “illegally collected” orchids; if these orchids were not collected and put in thriving environments of the many private and public orchid collections, these same orchids would have had the possibility of being closer to extinction, aka lost forever. While it may sound cute and catchy, this kind of mindless jabbering only leads to a barer earth. Now, let’s review our priorities here. All orchids collected are from Ejido and private lands - with the permission of the land owner. Now, if all “illegally collected” orchids were done in this fashion stated above, we would have to save all the species type of situation going on, instead of a potential wiping out of several different endemic species. The plants are merely being relocated out of harm’s way and their seeds are spread by the wind. Where do you think all the plants in nurseries came from? The wild. I say cultivate all the orchids you can and spread out their seeds for ecology so we can bring all the different orchid species back to our areas now. Michael Patrick PV resident ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 PV Mirror es una publicación semanal. Certificados de licitud de título y contenido en tramite. Prohibida la reproducción total o parcial de su contenido, imágenes y/o fotografías sin previa autorización por escrito del editor. Within PV IFC acts as a “United Way” in Puerto Vallarta by JANIE ALBRIGHT BLANK T he International Friendship Club (IFC) funds a wide variety of needs in Puerto Vallarta utilizing a large number of faithful and hardworking volunteers. The IFC is a club and members pay dues to belong. The IFC operates with all volunteers with the exception of a parttime bi-lingual Mexican administrative assistant. They have no paid positions for any of the many projects and events they do from twiceweekly Home Tours to the Cleft Palate Surgeries performed four times each year to numerous social events they sponsor each season. This is truly a group of dedicated people who believe in their mission and volunteer countless hours to make it happen. The IFC is a registered charity in Mexico formed in 1985 to help with medical, educational, and emergency funding needs for the people of the Puerto Vallarta area. To this end they created the Cleft Palate Surgery Program and have continued to fund it for over 25 years. The IFC has a team of talented surgeons that volunteer their time and travel from Guadalajara four times a year to meet the needs of the almost 200 children who come and go through this program throughout their childhood having surgeries, speech therapy, and dental work as needed. A strong team of volunteers in this area, headed by volunteers April and Bill Miton, work tirelessly throughout the year to make this program a reality. In addition to the Cleft Palate Program, the IFC funds a Rice and Beans in the schools program, helps to make improvements to local schools in conjunction with the education minister’s recommendations, and makes financial contributions to R.I.S.E, Pasitos de Luz, and the Santa Barbara Rehabilitation Hospital. The IFC also funds a Becas scholarship each year, as well as contributes to local daycares and other agencies. Emergency funds are also given out for families in crisis. To raise the substantial funds required to support all of these programs, the IFC has over 500 dues paying members and with their many volunteers has operated the Original Puerto Vallarta Home Tours for over 25 years. These tours run every Wednesday and Thursday from November into April. Beginning last year a trip to the Botanical Gardens and Zoo, dubbed the “Bo-Zo” Tour, was added every other Tuesday. In addition to the tours, the IFC hosts a number of fund-raising social events each season that are open to both members and non-members such as a Scavenger Hunt, Valentine’s Day Dinner, St. Patrick’s Day event, Style Show Luncheon and an End of Season Brunch - among others. The IFC has a clubhouse that is conveniently located between downtown (el Centro) and the Zona Romantica on the south side of town. This clubhouse opens onto a delightful open courtyard that adjoins the area occupied by the University of Guadalajara Proulex and CEPE language programs. The IFC uses this indoor clubhouse and outdoor space to host social events, lessons and lectures each week throughout the season. Both during the day and in the evening, you will find the IFC Activities Calendar (ifcvallarta.com) packed with a wide variety of things to do from Bridge and Spanish lessons, to history lectures, to movie night, and a Friday evening cocktail hour. Because the IFC has such a comprehensive mission and operates solely with volunteer management, it is able to help the community in ways that smaller groups, often duplicating efforts, are unable to accomplish. The International Friendship Club is a registered charitable organization in Mexico listed as Club Internacional de la Amistad de Puerto Vallarta A.C. It is located at the northeast corner of the Rio Cuale Bridge above the HSBC Bank, Colonia El Centro, Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico, 48300. Phone: 322222-5466. Website: ifcvallarta.com Email: [email protected] SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 5 6 Within PV At the Saturday Co-op Market… We have found that sales the past couple of weeks for our vendors have been excellent! Perhaps it is because now there is a bit more room and space to have a good chat with the vendor and peruse more completely the items that they have to offer... A bit more elbow room! This week’s featured vendor is a dynamo in the community. Barbara Peters is a well-respected gallery owner and is always the first in line to promote Vallarta and all that we have to offer. Barbara told us that “creativity is a vital element to bring satisfaction and happiness to your life and help you stay young.” She has always enjoyed designing and creating her own clothes and turned this into a successful business in Beaumont, Texas, which was called “Bridals and Formals Unlimited”. Everything anyone would need for wedding and beauty pageants. When she sold the business and moved to Mexico, she continued creating tiedyed clothes and original jewelry for some of the high end boutiques in Puerto Vallarta. She then opened Galeria Vallarta in 1989 and her attention focused on promoting artists and the craftsmen of Mexico, while she designed jewelry for the gallery. Last year, Barbara joined the Saturday Market Co-op with her products of hand-painted cotton tops with matching jewelry. She says they are such fun to make and each one is unique! They are washable and do not fade or shrink. Some are handpainted, others are tie-dyed. Her jewelry is made of natural stones and also is one-of-a-kind, at very accessible prices. Each week she has new designs and a potpourri of items to choose from. With the steamy weather around the corner, Barbara’s loose-fitting cotton tops are perfect summer wear! As our featured vendor, Barbara is offering a free pair of handmade earrings with each purchase of a hand-painted top. Now that’s enticing! Remember that the Saturday Market Co-op is open every Saturday throughout the year! We don’t close in the summer months and eagerly look forward to seeing you there. And remember… Come hungry! SATURDAY 13 Upcoming fundraising event for PV orphanage L ocal restaurant owner JD Toews from Canada and visiting volunteer April Federer from DE, USA, have paired up to host a fundraiser benefiting the children living at the Refugio Infantil Santa Esperanza orphanage, also known as RISE (Children’s shelter of hope). The fundraising event will be held on Friday, April 19th, at JD’s BBQ Smokehouse at 283 Basilio Badillo St. Come by any time throughout the day for some delicious food, whether you enjoy pulled pork, wings, ribs, pizza, etc. JD will be donating 50% of the day’s proceeds to the orphanage. Even if you don’t come hungry, stop by to meet some of these special children. Around 2 p.m., the children get to come to JD’s for free pizza! They will leave with full stomachs and smiling faces. A table will be set up for further donations in the restaurant as well. Some information about the children... There are currently 49 children in total living at the orphanage, from babies up until age 14. They were turned over by a Mexican government organization that protects the rights of children. They were abused, neglected, or abandoned, which led to their placement at RISE. As reunification with their families is always the goal, this is not always possible. Unfortunately, most of these children spend the majority of their younger years at the shelter. RISE is a non-profit organization. The government merely assists in caring for these children or maintaining the orphanage. It is primarily run and supported by donations and fundraising events. Monetary donations are always needed and greatly appreciated. If you would like to make a financial or item donation, or even if you would like to volunteer, please check out the orphanage’s website at www.risepv.org Every single bit of assistance helps, whether it be big or small. For more information about this fundraiser or how else you can help, you may e-mail the event coordinator at [email protected] ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Within PV 7 Community landmark changes hands Open house offers desserts & discounts Casa de las Flores surrounded by Cup of Gold vines. An Ethiopian guest finds herself in art at Casa de las Flores. P “Confessions of a Gay Married Priest”, written at Casa de las Flores A happy boy at Pasitos de Luz Chilean “2X2” Award Winners uerto Vallarta residents and visitors have come to love the bright orange Casa de las Flores guesthouse and art gallery over the past 7 years. Owners Jeff Jackson and Maurice Monette have sold the compound in order to transition to more “art-filled” living here in PV. As Monette says, “we’re not sure we’re ready to use the word ‘retirement’ yet, but let’s just say we’re starting our ‘third act’ in this play we call life.” Monette is hardly retired as he just published his latest and incredibly timely book, “Confessions of a Gay Married Priest: A Spiritual Journey” (Vallarta Institute, 2013). The book is a fundraiser for various human rights organizations around the world including Puerto Vallarta’s LGBT Community Center, SETAC. The book is available on Amazon.com and at A Page in the Sun, Cassandra Shaw Jewelry, Coco’s Kitchen, Jorge’s Hideaway, Lido Beach Club and SETAC. To celebrate, Monette and Jackson invite the community to Casa de las Flores on Saturday, April 20th from 2 to 6 p.m. for “Desserts and Discounts”. All the Cuban paintings in the on-site Galeria HabanaVallarta will be discounted 50% and a part of all sales will support SETAC’s infant formula program for mothers with HIV/AIDS. Monette will also be available to sign copies of his book. SATURDAY 13 Jackson adds, “We really want to take a moment to celebrate what a home in Puerto Vallarta can inspire.” Over the past 7 years, Casa de las Flores has been the home of numerous fundraisers for the children’s shelter (RISE), the disabled children’s center Pasitos de Luz, and the Manuel Lepe Museum / Workshop. Buddhist meditation groups and Democrats Abroad have also used the venue for events. Also, from Casa de las Flores guesthouse proceeds, The Vallarta Institute awarded “2X2 Recreate the World” prizes of $2222.22 USD each to pairs inspiring positive change in the world. Winners included Puerto Vallarta’s brother & sister Yolanda and Cesar Sanchez (Pasitos de ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Luz) and father & daughter Manuel and Marcella Lepe (Manuel Lepe Museum), along with others from Ethiopia, Chile, Cuba and the US. One gift that Casa de las Flores will continue to give is the beautiful and medicinal Copa de Oro (Cup of Gold) flowering vine. Many people go out of their way early in the morning to collect the flowers that fall onto Calle Santa Barbara during the night. They make a tea infusion with cinnamon sticks known to heal the common cough and even bronchitis. One way or another, this traditional Vallartastyle home will just keep on giving back to the community. For more information on Casa de las Flores, please visit casadelasflorespv.com 8 Marina Vallarta Marina Vallarta’s Festival 2013 with a chance to rethink its meaning and reaffirm its cultural importance anywhere and anytime on earth; it may represent reality, abstraction, impression or stylistic distortion. What strange situations is the artist F eatured in the National Geographic magazine as one of the world’s most beautiful marinas, its distinct lighthouse offers awesome views from its vantage height. Proud yachts look their best in a rich and mighty site that welcomes tourists and townspeople alike. Restaurants are full of guests and action. Prices do not matter much. Gatherings are joined by romantic trios or rich-sounding mariachis, maybe a sax, in the background or a tango joined by the aroma of an appetizing speciality. On Wednesdays – 7 p.m. Filma13 Marina Vallarta is a film projection space with a cultural goal. Promoted by Filma13 and the Residents’ Association of Marina Vallarta, it offers something every Wednesday at 7 p.m. There is no entrance fee and the films are for the entire family to enjoy. Everyone is cordially invited. We are at the end of Calle Mastil. You can check out Filma13’s page on Facebook, where you will find information on the showings, the workshops and the various other activities it offers. On Fridays All art produces an upbeat, motivating, passionate strength, sometimes something melancholic from our own human nature. The dream, the acute or silent suffering expressed by the artist in today’s world, is characterized by the convincing effect of light, textures, the call to feelings and emotions. Art, whatever its means, provides the artist experiencing? No one knows, maybe not even him/herself, but it is there, on the canvas, on wood or a piece of paper, sold or exchanged for whatever allows him/her to survive. A human being telling his/her story with art. They are present every Friday on Marina Vallarta’s sophisticated and elegant Malecon (boardwalk). Visitors can admire and acquire works of art at unheard of prices, hard to match by renowned galleries. Renowned artists are also found, as well as good quality new artists. Among them: sculptor Octavio González Gutiérrez, creator of our whale and patron of this event, Yolanda Romero, José Castro, Beatriz Narváez, Ricardo Luèvano, Eduardo Rincón-Gallardo, Olga Infante, Angie Oblitas, Karlos Díaz, Jorge Díaz, Leopoldo García, Ana María Briones, Marina Narváez and Hilda Anaya. On Saturdays – 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. Luz Graciela Camarena Santa, organizer and coordinator of dance evening in Puerto Vallarta, has taken on the praiseworthy task of bringing dancing to Marina Vallarta. SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Her goal is for everyone to set stress aside as dance is an art form where the body’s movement is used to the rhythm of any musical sound. Dancing is a social interaction, intended as entertainment, a form of communication without using words, where dancers express their feelings and emotions through their movements. In this form of art, one can dance alone or with a varied number of others, in pairs or in groups, all depending on the dance itself. Dancing has developed through time in the different cultures, each with its own characteristics, ex.: disco, hip-hop, electronics, classical and modern ballet, salsa, rock, Mexican danzón, and of course, tango, ranchera music, etc. But we’re not going to depend on professionals, we’re just going to enjoy the moment, the beautiful Marina and its sumptuous yachts, all part of our paradise and the good company all dancing requires. The invitation is extended to all our visitors, whatever their age or culture. People are often shy to express their emotions by this means, but “Lucy” –as she’s know by most Vallartansassures us that dancing is the cure-all for body and spirit. Though she’s no spring chicken herself, she’s young at heart and spirit, and will welcome one and all every Saturday from 6:30 to 9:30 next to the Marina Golf Condominiums. And she adds that if you still don’t want to get up and dance, you can always watch those who do, in the comfortable chairs provided along this picturesque site, as you see the joy in those who participate in the various dances - Rock & Roll, swing, salsa, tropical, etc. So… let’s go! Come on over, join us, get up and dance! (Source: Hilda Anaya Sotelo & Ana Maria Briones) Beyond PV 9 WesMex 2013 International Small Boat Regatta April 18th – 21st 2013 Vallarta Yacht Club V allarta Yacht Club (VYC) is getting ready to host the 8th edition of the Signature Regatta WesMex 2013. This event typically attracts the best sailors from all over Mexico and other countries. WesMex is one of the four main regattas of the Mexican Sailing Racing Circuit, being also a qualifier regatta for the Mexican Sailing team to represent the country in various International Youth Competitions. Banderas Bay is recognized for being a prime spot for sailing in Mexico. The wind and weather conditions are ideal to the sport of sailing, which guarantees the success of a regatta. WesMex is a great example of seamanship, hard training and youth potential. For the past years, the VYC has been hosting world class regattas, such as the Pan American Games 2011. Boat classes competing this year are Optimist, Lasers (Standard, Radial and 4.7), sailboards (RSX and Techno 293), as well as the 420 Class on its second year of participation, with an important fleet managed by the Mexican Navy. So far we are expecting over 200 competitors who will fill the waters of Banderas Bay with color and passion. Optimist sailing teaches the foundations and the discipline of the sport of sailing to girls and boys from 7 to 15 years of age. The Optimist boat was designed in 1947 and since has been the biggest youth racing class in the world. Most of the current international champions, including Mexican Olympic sailor Tania Elias Calles, started as an Opti Sailor. After age 15, competitors generally move into the Laser class in its different variants, which takes sailing to a peak level, being a much faster and more competitive boat, with a worldwide fleet or over 200,000 boats sailed by top competitive athletes in a global international tour, including the Olympic Games. The C420 boat class has been recently adopted by the Mexican Navy and is being used as a training boat for racing and navigation skills. The C420 is a two-person boat in which teamwork and synchronicity becomes a very important element of sailing this vessel, just as any larger boat. The RSX and Techno 293 boards are high performance windsurf boards that are designed to work well in winds up to 35 knots and require impressive athletic performance and endurance from the sailor. Constantly stepping ahead and caring about our environment, WesMex 2013 is signed up as a Clean Regatta, under the best practice recommendations of the Clean Regatta Program (http://sailorsforthesea. org/programs-and-projects/clean-regattas.aspx) of the International Association Sailors for the Sea. The purpose is to achieve an eco-friendly event where no traces are left behind and conservation practices are taught to the participants for a better future and the conservation of the oceans. This WesMex edition comes just before the National Sailing Olympics that will be also hosted by the Vallarta Yacht Club from the 25th to the 30th of April. This means that during April, all the sailing teams from each state in Mexico will be around the VYC for a couple weeks, bringing a wonderful opportunity to the local community and especially for those interested in learning how to sail, to get to know the sport of sailing at its best competitive level. WesMex 2013 Schedule of Events April 18th – 9 a.m. Registration Desk Opens. Race Practice day. 6 p.m. Open Ceremony at Vallarta Yacht Club April 19th – 21st All races start at about noon. April 21st - 7.30 p.m. Closing - Award Ceremony at Paradise Village Resort Amphitheater. SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Following the Races The race courses will be set in front of the Paradise Village Hotel Beach, from where the races will be visible. Panga service will be provided for those wanting to see the races from the water at a minimum cost, departing from the pier located by the VYC building. Results will be published daily at www. wesmexregatta.org and https://www.facebook. com/WesmexRegatta.org After the event, professional photos will be available for sale through our website. All around the Vallarta Yacht Club between 9 and 11 a.m., prior to the launching of the boats for each race day, all of the competitors mingle in a very interesting youth reunion that is worth seeing. WesMex is made possible thanks to the generous contributions of our sponsors: Paradise Village Resort, O’Rourke y Asociados, Todo Vela Mexico, Los Arroyos Verdes, Bambu Naturals, Opequimar, PV Sailing and SYS, among others in conjunction with the Federacion Mexicana de Vela and the Mexican Optmist, Laser and Board Class Associations. For more information about WesMex 2013 please go to http://www.wesmexregatta.org/ and follow us https://www.facebook.com/WesmexRegatta. org For information about the Vallarta Yacht Club, please go to www.vallartayachtclub.org, and follow at https://www.facebook.com/Vallarta.Yacht.Club or call (322) 297-2222, Email: ibisdeteresaPR@ vallartayachtclub.org WesMex is one of the Vallarta Yacht Club Signature Regattas, internationally recognized as the Prime Small Boat Regatta en Mexico. Link to WesMex 2012 video: http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=JQz8tLjpiuc The Vallarta Yacht Club is a non-profit membership organization known for its contributions to yachting within the Banderas Bay Region. For more information about the VYC memberships, Sailing Programs and its many social and boating activities please contact us. If you are interested in volunteering at WesMex, please email [email protected] 10 The 7 Arts Last Malecon Sculpture Tour of the season! Roger Ebert June 18, 1942 – April 4, 2013 Becas Breakfasts + Coco’s = A good thing! Tuesday, April 16 , will be by POLLY G. VICARS th R.I.P. Joe Harrington’s column will be back next week. the last day for the Malecon Sculpture Walking Tours for this season (the 7th year for this free tour). No reservations are necessary, just show up at the Millennium sculpture next to the Hotel Rosita at the north end of the Malecon. The tour was created by and is guided by Galeria Pacifico’s owner, Gary Thompson. It ends at the Galeria’s 2nd floor location at 174 Aldama street. More information on the tour may be obtained at www. GaleriaPacifico.com, by calling 222-1982, or by visiting the gallery from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., Monday through Saturday. SATURDAY 13 T hey say “all good things must come to an end” but I have always hated that expression, always asking “Why?” Becas Breakfasts, since their inception several years ago, have been very good things; raising money to fund the educations of Puerto Vallarta young people of limited resources as well as providing excellent food, great ambiance and a chance to chat with old friends and meet new. The Becas Breakfasts are by no means coming to an end, only a pause for the summer season. Coco is promising an incredible breakfast for the April 17, 2013 event with your choice of three entrees: (1) Fresh Fruit Plate with choice of Yogurt or Cottage Cheese or (2) Mexican Omelet of Two Eggs, Chorizo, Onions, Tomato served with choice of Refried Beans or Mixed Green Salad with Guava Dressing or (3) Stuffed French Toast with Orange Marmalade & Cream Cheese, served with Fresh Fruit. All augmented with Coffee, Tea or Milk and her famous Corn Bread or Biscuits. Becas members will be selling raffle tickets and you may win one of the fabulous prizes donated by these local supporters, plus many more… Archie’s Wok, Cassandra Shaw Jewelry, Coco’s Kitchen, Coyul Licoreria, Daiquiri Dick’s, El Arrayan, FlorArt, Flowers to Go, Stefan Lokos framed poster, June Rosen, Lalo Morales, LaPalapa, Lucy’s Cucú Cabaña, Marcelo Mico Pilates, Mary Ellis, Mundo de Azulejos, Nacho Daddy’s, No Way José!, Peking Restaurant, Puerto Vallarta Botanical Gardens, River Café, Xocodiva Artisan Chocolates. A special treat for this breakfast will be Los Bambinos who, like Becas, have paused in their shows at the Roxy for this season. This will be a chance for the many Los Bambinos aficionados to enjoy their incredible musical talent as well as a way to say thank you to them for their constant support of Becas Vallarta. Tickets are the usual $150 pesos per person and must be purchased or reserved in advance. Call Polly at 223-1371 or 044-322-1820215 or email [email protected] or contact any Becas member. Becas and Coco want this seasonal pause in Becas Breakfasts to be so good that you join me in believing “Not all good things must come to an end.” ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 The 7 Arts 11 Puerto Vallarta’s ArtWalk Puerto Vallarta has established itself as a vibrant center of art creation, exhibition and promotion. An important contribution to the city’s art scene is Puerto Vallarta’s ArtWalk, every Wednesday, from October 31st, 2012, to April 24th, 2013, from 6:00 until 10:00 p.m. Thirteen galleries offer works by important national and international artists. Remarkable paintings, exceptional sculptures, fine ceramics, blown glass and other types of noteworthy art are part of this year’s ArtWalk offering. The thirteen galleries include: Galería Colectika, with works that focuses on the evolution of Mexican art. In particular, new colors, forms and techniques have been adapted from the outside world by well-known Native and Mexican folk artists. Galería Whitlow displays the masterful realism of Michael Whitlow. With exacting detail, wonderful interplay of darks and lights dancing amidst exquisite colors these paintings are like classical music for the eyes. (Both photos accompanying this article are from this gallery.) Galería Córsica, which has two locations, has been an ArtWalk member for many years. Because this contemporary fine art gallery’s catalogue includes only top Mexican artists, the gallery is a favorite of art collectors. Art Gallery Millan. In order to please collectors of art Architect Felipe Morfin, proprietor and artist exhibits his paintings with a new approach every year. Galería Pacifico has presented an eclectic blend of highly talented and acknowledged artists since 1987. Most of the artists represented by Galería Pacifico share a diverse contemporary focus. Caballito de Mar is next door to Galería Pacifico, showcasing art which is a serious reflection of Mexico’s cultural past. Antique Mexican jewelry, ceramics by great masters of Mexican folk art and unusual textiles can be viewed at this unique gallery. Galería Uno was honored and celebrated in 2012 for its contribution to art and culture for the past 41 years in Puerto Vallarta. It exhibits the works of over 30 artists living and working in Mexico. The Loft Galería exhibits works of the finest contemporary artists of the Americas in a setting that evokes urban art galleries. This gallery helps individuals and corporations develop interesting, valuable collections. Galería de Ollas dedicates itself to showcasing fine pottery from Mata Ortiz, México. From the 400 ceramists in this town, Galería de Ollas selects the most refined pieces for exhibit. PVSantana presents from Michoacán, Ignacio Punzo, a Mexico copper’s myth, and Manuel Morales, a national treasure in high-fired ceramics. This gallery also offers a selection of mature painters. Rodo Padilla’s sculptures reflect the optimistic hard-working Mexican men, wide-hipped women with delightful femininity and the innocence of SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 their children enjoying life. Puerto Vallarta’s Historic Center contains some of the most important restaurants in Mexico. The ArtWalk Association is proud to recommend the following: The River Cafe, Café des Artistes, Trio, Hacienda San Angel, Si Señor and India Gate. A perfect dinner will turn any ArtWalk gallery evening into a fantastic culinary art experience. 12 Map SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Map SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 13 FRIDAY 19 14 Good Bites Been there… There’s more to our history than just great flavors Sometimes we all need more than just chips, guacamole and margaritas. Archie’s Wok is your haven for bold and innovative flavors to get you out of that Mexican rut! Since 1986, Archie’s Wok has been legendary in Banderas Bay for serving-up original cuisine influenced by the exotic flavors of Thailand, China, and the Philippines. Archie’s helped establish the culinary foundation of Puerto Vallarta and continues to be one of the bay’s most beloved, longtime established restaurants. It all began in 1976 when Archie was asked to become Hollywood director John Huston’s private chef at his personal retreat on Banderas Bay’s south shore. Only reachable by boat, Las Caletas (The Coves) was John Huston’s rustic jungle villa by the sea. A world of flavors: “Having feasted around the globe, I can appreciate this wizardry. You bring the Orient, indeed the world, to my table in the middle of the Mexican Jungle. Marvelous flavours - I applaud you Archie!” Written by John Huston to Archie at Playa Caletas, 1981. Today, his family upholds Archie’s legacy of presenting a world of flavors at this tranquil Asian-inspired restaurant. So when you finally say “no more tacos”, head on over to Archie’s Wok and discover a world of flavors. Named “Best Asian” in Vallarta for the past 7 years. Ask about their “gluten free” options. Open Monday through Saturday from 2 to 11 p.m. The ever-popular d’Rachael continues to perform classical and contemporary music on harp, flute & vocals each Friday and Saturday evenings from 7:30 to 10:30 p.m. Located in Vallarta’s South Side at 130 Francisca Rodriguez. You know the street, the one that meets the new pier. 222-0411. No reservations needed. SATURDAY 13 D’z Route 66 – “…without doubt the most fun place… soda bar, photos of the 50’s, 45 rpm records, memorabilia … and the best music – especially if you’re a Baby Boomer… familiar items like burgers (humungous), hot dogs & pizzas, chicken wings & strips, finger-lickin’ good ribs, Philly Cheese Steak & traditional Club sandwiches, Root Beer floats, shakes, banana splits, sundaes, etc… Even passersby stop to listen and sing along to the music!” Hacienda Alemana Frankfurt - “A beautiful open-air garden setting... portions are huge... the Apfelstrudel rated an “A”... authentic good and hearty German fare at reasonable prices in an unexpectedly delightful little tropical oasis of peace and serenity.” Trio – “Rich woods, frescoes reminiscent of Tuscany and trompe l’oeil details, comfortable upholstered chairs, crisp white tablecloths and napkins, glistening tableware, and the most mouth-watering aromas wafting by as the courteous, efficient wait staff comes in carrying one succulent dish after another… The Mediterranean fare and décor of this Five Star Diamond Award winner stand alone in Vallarta.” (A.R.) Vietnam Express – “…extensive menu with many heartier dishes, but phở and its variations are the main attraction… none of the heartier dishes are over 80 pesos: curry beef on rice, grilled chicken, pork chop or shrimp - with salad on rice or with vermicelli and fish sauce, etc. Of course, there are Imperial rolls …and phở!” ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Vallarta Voices by ANNA REISMAN L ast week I told you about my attempt to get a new Don Quixote to replace the one I purchased in Michoacán, so many years ago (now totally eaten by termites and missing the feet that were literally scratched off by all my cats). Well, thanks to Gil and Lucy of Lucy’s CuCu Cabaña fame, the new one was shipped, to be delivered directly to my house …either Monday or Tuesday. I stayed home, waiting for it. Nada. Tuesday evening, I noticed a paper in my mail box, from the courier company, informing me that they had come by at 10 a.m. but there was no one home. No one rang the doorbell, so who knew? I called them up, told them I’d been home all day, and asked them to come back and to please ring the doorbell this time! I also put a big sign above the doorbell, asking them to please ring it. Wednesday, I called them again hoping to find out more or less when they’d be coming by. No, they wouldn’t. Maybe Thursday. Why? Because there were soooo many deliveries to be made… I won’t bother you with the whole sordid list of excuses I heard, suffice it to say that the truck suddenly appeared at my door, with my new Don Quixote, twice the size of my old Dear Editor, I am just amazed at the number of construction sites here in Puerto Vallarta when there is a glut of homes and condos for sale in this area. I have friends who have had their property on the market for months on end, and sometimes years, without a single showing from their real estate agent. The other thing that is mind-boggling is the noise that we residents and visitors have to put up with during all this construction. We live close to The Pinnacle that has been under construction for 2 years now with the completion date of early July. This date has changed several times so far. If the construction noise isn’t bad enough, we have to put up with all the shouting, the screaming, the whistling, and the cat calls and this happens from early dawn until closing time of 6 p.m. Can’t something be done to hold down the noise? We put up with our neighbors’ dogs that bark all day long, I don’t know how the owners put up with it, and it is driving us all crazy, and the burros braying and the chickens going off 24/7, it is nervewracking and owners are having a hard time re-renting due to all the noise. I love Mexico but I see very little regard for noise level and the concern for their neighbors comfort. It is very sad. one. I’m including a photo for you to appreciate the difference. I intend to termite-proof him, so I hope he lasts much longer than the first. Perhaps this one will even solve the problems of our town, something the other one wasn’t able to do despite all the years he spent pondering them… There was some rather interesting news this past week. It appears that Mayor Ramon Guerrero’s relatively new administration has decided to open a Municipal Office of Attention and Assistance to Tourists and Foreign Residents (OAATRE for its Spanish acronym). This new office located on the east side of Lazaro Cardenas Park was formally inaugurated by the Mayor last Monday, in the company of Kelly Trainor and Lyne Benoit, Consular Agents for the U.S.A. and Canada respectively. According to Guerrero, the office is manned by trained staff that speaks English, French and Spanish, able to give information and attend to complaints. Tel.: 222-2224. The goal is to make Puerto Vallarta the best city to visit – and to live in – on Mexico’s Pacific Riviera. A frustrated neighbor SATURDAY 13 15 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Being as biased as I am, I already know that PV is the best, but having someone help us re: getting a new license plate or a Senior Citizen’s card or the right bus to get where we want to go …is a good thing. I also think that the location is great as there are more and more people living and visiting the Romantic Zone on the south side of town nowadays. I remember, before they built the pedestrian bridge over the mouth of the Rio Cuale, and before they extended the Malecon, tourists were wary of wandering so far away from the downtown area and its beaten paths. No kidding! Other good news: the bus fares have officially been frozen at 6.50 Pesos per, for the time being. This is the weekend for the 3rd Annual Gourmet & Golf Classic in Punta Mita, starring Mexico’s own superstar, Lorena Ochoa. This lovely, unassuming young lady was the topranked female golfer in the world for over 3 years, until her retirement in 2010. As the first Mexican golfer of either gender to be ranked number one in the world, she is considered the best Mexican golfer of all time. We are all so very proud of her! I’ve run out of space. Hasta la próxima vez, I wish you a great week and hope your Mirror always reflects a happy, healthy you! [email protected] 16 Nature’s World Planting Roots in Mexico by TOMMY CLARKSON Anthurium (Anthurium andreanum) Family: Araceae (Also known as Flamingo Flower, Boy Flower, Painted Tongue, Flamingo Lily, Palette Flower, Spathe Flower, Patent Leather Flower or Tail Flower) Many think of the Anthurium as “the” Hawaiian flower. Well, it ain’t! In fact, the genus is not native to the Hawaiian Islands. They were first imported there, from London, in1889 by Samuel Mills Damon, who was, at that time, the minister of finance for the Republic of Hawaii. (Oh, the mindless minutiae one can glean from this column!!!!) With somewhere approaching a thousand species in this unique plant genus, in the wild these easily recognizable flowers range from Southern Mexico to northern Argentina and Uruguay. Hey can grow as an epiphyte (a non-parasitic plant that lives upon another plant - like a tree, for instance). The red, Anthurium andreanum is native to the wet forests of the western slopes of the Andes in southern Colombia and northern Ecuador. Those with a bent for trivia might be interested to know that they were discovered in Colombia in 1876 by Edouard André - those who are not so inclined can skip over that last sentence! In the proper environs, it is rather easy to grow these striking, tropical plants year around. And like some of the folks we’ve come across in our trek of life, there are all sorts: some that creep, others seeking to climb and those that simply bush out, taking up space! The middle kind – Anthuriums, not people - naturally, hangs from the jungle canopy down to the floor of the rain forest. The red, heart-shaped flower which we have all come to recognize as an Anthurium is actually a waxy, modified leaf (spathe) that flares out from the base of a fleshy spike (spadix) where the tiny, real flowers grow. The true flowers appear as that roughness a person feels running one’s finger up and down the spadix. The color changes of the spathe - between the bud stage and anthesis, (when the flower expands) can vary in color from pale green to white, rose, orange, reddish purple, reddish brown to shiny red. Most folks recognize the familiar red form of Anthurium. Is this an Anthurium? There is disagreement between botanists as to whether or not this guy is. (What think/know you of it?) This species not sporting bright foliage - is enjoyed primarily for its attractive leaves on our International Terrace. Recently joining our plant family is this beautiful white Anthurium. Hermarphrodites, these flowers are often divided sexually with a sterile band separating male from female flowers. The spadix can be club-shaped, tapered, spiraled, and globe-shaped in colors of red, white, green, purple, pink, burgundy or a combination. The stems are short to elongated with a length between 15 and 30 cm. At their ends, the actual, petiolate leaves (having a small stalk that attaches the leaf blade to the stem) may be spatulate, rounded, or obtuse. These may be erect or spread in a SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 rosette of a length that can surpass 100 cm in the larger species. The upper surface of the leaf may be matte, dully or semi-glossy and the leaf texture may range from leathery to “paperesque” and fragile. They possess a structure called a geniculum that allows the plant to swivel its leaves towards the sun, a great deal like the State flower of Kansas, the sunflower, the geographic environs from whence I originated! But unlike that many petealed, happy flower of the plains, some non-terrestrial Anthuriums are hemiepiphytic (capable of beginning life as a seed and sending roots to the soil or beginning as a terrestrial plant that climbs a tree and then sends roots back to the soil.) Anthuriums grow best with day temperatures of 78 to 90 F with temperatures above that causing foliar burning, reduced flower life and faded color. They will not survive frost or freezing conditions and night temperatures between 40 to 50 F can result in slow growth and yellowing of lower leaves. Out of doors, they like filtered, indirect light, warmth, and high humidity. Those that are soil planted require a combination of sand and high organic matter content, and a sustained degree of moisture (water thoroughly and then allow to dry a bit - moist but not drenched). Regular, slow release - 3:1:2 – fertilization, diluted up to onequarter strength, is a good thing. Some Anthuriums grow aerial roots that will appreciate misting and thank you for pushing them back into the soil. As concerns pests and diseases, one of the best ways to avoid the use of chemicals is by periodic wiping of the foliage and gently spraying them with water. And just as you taught your small children when bathing, don’t forget their undersides! In Manzanillo, visit Ola Brisa Gardens, Tommy and Patty’s verdant, multi-terraced tropical paradise nestled on a hill overlooking the magnificent vista of Santiago Bay. Leisurely meander its curved, paved path, experiencing, first hand, a delicious array of palms, plants and flowers from all over the world. Or, e-mail questions to him at [email protected] Health Matters Sexual Abuse - Part 2: Connecting the dots by GISELLE BELANGER RN, LCSW L ast week, I introduced the painful and often taboo topic of sexual abuse. I explained how common it is to live with the secret for years well into middle or late adulthood as well as finding the courage to break the silence and tell someone. I shared some people’s stories of not being believed and the pain and agony of living with the horrible memories. I explained many ways such trauma manifests itself into adolescence and adulthood including alcohol and drug addiction, selfmutilation, eating disorders (anorexia, bulimia, binge eating and overeating and obesity), as well as depression, which often goes undiagnosed and/or untreated and suicidal attempts. I explained that with depression, the person may not know why they feel the way they do because their memories of the abuse are completely blocked or very vague and disconnected pieces. On the other hand, they may remember every detail of the abuse but they’ve never connected it to their subsequent depression or any of the other problems that manifested. One woman spent her entire adult life getting extremely drunk a few times a year and she suffered with depression until a few years ago when she was finally put on anti-depressants. For the first time in her life, she admitted to someone, her therapist, that she was sexually abused by her older brother. She remembers everything, but she never knew that it had anything to do with her other problems. It was like a light went on… “you mean my choice of men, my depression, and my drinking is all related to that?! I thought I had put that behind me!” Another woman has attempted suicide 3 times starting at age 11, by her third attempt at age 22, she was serious, and was lucky to survive. She spent almost 2 months in the hospital and never talked about the abuse nor did she think it anything to do with her unhappiness and wanting to end her life. It can take a long time before treating the underlying cause of the depression becomes possible, because it depends on the capacity to remember and fill-in the missing pieces. Remembering/ Memories Memories can come in bits and pieces, and may be fragmented and not in chronological order. You may not know what age the abuse began or when it stopped, you may only remember the scent of the abuser but not his face, or you remember one abuser, ie: your brother, and many years later remember that your father or grandfather also abused you. The memories or the details, may be so suppressed that they come back in adulthood related to certain experiences that trigger an association to something from their past. (The Courage to Heal, Bass, Ellen & Davis, Laura, Harper Perennial Publishers, third edition (1994) Pg 79-83). A partial memory: One man remembers his older brother trying to sodomize him when he was 13 and described in detail how he stopped him pinned him up against the wall and almost choked him to death. He denied any memory of any other incidents. It is safe to assume this had been going on for years and that all he remembers was the last time; the time he was able to stop it; the time he was empowered enough to stop the victimization. He had all of the symptoms in his childhood and as an adult. One childhood example is that he recalled bedwetting for years, up until he was 12 or 13 (not a coincidence) and his parents asking “why do you do that?” and him feeling so angry and frustrated answering “I don’t know, SATURDAY 13 17 don’t you think if I knew, I’d stop?!” Memories can come back when she (the victim) becomes sexually active with her boyfriend or gets sober from an addiction, or has something similar happen recently which reminds her of the abuse. It can also feel safe to remember after one or both parents die so that there is no more question about whether to confront them or tell them what happened. (pg. 83-84) A “flashback” is a memory that is so vivid that you feel “as though the original experience is happening all over again”. Flashbacks may include the feelings you felt at the time or there may be “emotional detachment” as if you are watching a movie of it happening to someone else. (Pg 79) “Dissociation” is a defense mechanism in response to overwhelming trauma, pain, terror, or violence. It occurs “when our mind cannot endure what we/our bodies are being forced to endure, we separate or dissociate ourselves from the experience”. Some survivors describe “leaving their bodies” or “watching it happen to me from above my body”. Because they dissociated during the abuse, they may remember the experience in fragmented bits; sounds, smells, or a visual image and may not realize they were abused. (pg.81) Media coverage of a sex offender can trigger memories and make you realize you too were a victim. (pg 84) One man remembers vividly the day a pediatrician was arrested for sexually abusing many young boys. Although he was in his 20’s at the time, it made him wonder if he had also been abused because that was his pediatrician ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 too. Although, he knows he received legitimate medical procedures which were very traumatic and terrifying, he is unsure if he was abused. His memories are somewhat sporadic and fuzzy. He may never know for sure, but either way the experiences were traumatic and he is very emotionally scarred from them. NOTE: The case examples I used in both of these articles were being told by adults currently 40 years or older, so their childhood years range from the late 1940’s to the mid 1970’s. Society’s attitude and understanding of abuse was so limited back then, which greatly impeded the likelihood of talking about it, reporting it, or being believed. There was little to no education in the schools for the children or the teachers. Survivors always say, “that wouldn’t happen now”, realizing the impact of the time period in which they grew up. Thank goodness that today, so many survivors have come forth and told their stories and created an incredible and horrifying awareness of the problem. Now there is media coverage and professionals like doctors and nurses, teachers and school counselors, who have been trained to be aware of behavioral symptoms and are obligated to report anything suspicious. Investigations are conducted and children are rescued and protected. Giselle Belanger, RN, LCSW (psychotherapist) is available for appointments in person, by phone, or by skype webcam. Contact info: NEW!! [email protected] Mex cell: 044 (322) 138-9552 or US cell: (312) 914-5203 18 Calendar Solution to crossword on page 23 Solution to Sudoku on page 23 SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 Fish Tales 19 Spring is here: warm days, warm water, hot fishing! Written by STAN GABRUK of Master Baiter´s Sportfishing and Tackle W ell High Season for tourism is just about at an end now. The days are longer, summer is coming on early, the locals can feel it and the fishing remains great as we enter a transition period of the year. What this means is that the fishing changes. Spring and the mating season will begin shortly. The whales are gone, the Manta Rays are moving out and the water temperatures are in flux. This season with the premature high water temperatures and summer species that set up house all season around the Bay of Banderas you can’t go wrong heading out to El Moro or the Marieta Islands. Dorado, Yellowfin Tuna, Marlin, Sailfish, I mean they’re all here and ready for you to arrive, amigos. Inside the bay we’re still seeing smaller Dorado in the Los Arcos area, Skip Jack Tuna around the Yelapa area, Jack Crevalle near Nuevo Vallarta. The structure and rocks will always produce. For now four hours is still not the best bet for fishing in our world famous fishing grounds. But for families looking to have some fun on a short day, you’ll be satisfied. The Marieta Islands was the place to be once again this week. Rooster fish are thinning out, Snappers to 30 lbs., Skip Jack Tuna to 35 lbs., Sailfish off the island about five miles to the northeast. Nothing too complicated, just get there and you’ll catch fish, amigo. The occasional Dorado for now is 25 lbs. Pompano in the 35-lb range, and even occasional Amber Jack or two. With fishing conditions changing daily and with bait moving in and out, you may need to work a little, amigo, but at least you know it’ll pay off. The bite is happening around noon to the early afternoon, so getting there too early may be working against you for now. Corbeteña is still working, Cubera Snapper to the 50 to 60-lb range, but you’re jigging, not trolling. Dorado Bulls to 45 lbs. have been in and out, but if you’re ten miles north of The Rock, you’ll find Striped Marlin and Yellowfin Tuna anywhere from 35 lbs. running with the Spinner Dolphin to 150 lbs. Of course fish move, so keep an open ear to the locals on the radios. If your guide or fishing company does not have a radio, you’re taking your life in your hands. Remember, you have to care about YOUR safety, make sure you do! The area between Corbeteña and the Marieta Islands is an area ignored for the most part, but it can be very fertile with Sailfish and Striped Marlin. So keep an eye out and if you see billfish jumping off in the distance, slow down and drop some purple and black lures and of course, live bait, anything is possible in this area. Amber Jacks, Rainbow runners to 40 lbs., and the list goes on. El Banco is almost a carbon copy of Corbeteña. Off the high spots, jigging for Cubera Snapper is something you don’t normally do, but for now there are plenty of Cubera ready to take your bait. Sailfish are here as well but not SATURDAY 13 abundantly yet. March normally marks the beginning of Sailfish season and they’re already here, so enjoy yourself and release the billfish, amigos. It only helps us all and will ensure healthy numbers. Yellowfin are a little larger in the area this week towards the Tres Marias Islands, mostly running in the 150 to 225-lb range, anything trolled in this perfectly clear and blue water will get a strike. Lures or live bait is the same. But remember, there have been days of late where the fishing was less than spectacular - which is always the risk we take when heading to distant points. I’ve done this myself on a number of occasions. But with so many spots to take advantage of, there is no reason you don’t come in with a full fish box. Just a reminder, there are some vendors in Marina Vallarta that seem to keep ripping people off even after the police close them down. Be sure you have the contact information and the person’s name who you are dealing with, especially if they ask you when you’re going home, clue one. If you have an issue you need to go to the Ministerio publico (local police station) and file charges. So you need to write the guy’s name down as it appears on his I.D., not the nickname he gives you. Again, be smart and deal with people you get referred to or know are reputable. ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 It could mean the difference between having fun and having a headache. Any time you tell anyone you are leaving, you are asking for trouble. These rip-off artist will not return to that location until you have left, so you’ve been warned, don’t be stupid. Remember we are Official Agents for Mike’s Fishing Parties and right now you can book with us 8 hours on a group boat for $170. US dollars per person. Lunch and sodas included, BYOB or Tequila! Until next time don’t forget to kiss your fish and remember, at Master Baiter’s Sportfishing & Tackle “We Won’t Jerk You Around!” Master Baiter’s has changed locations in Marina Vallarta and are now near Victors Café Tecuba. Look for me at the least traveled end of Marina Vallarta and I will be there in my new place. Email your Questions to me at: CatchFish@ MasterBaiters.com.mx Web page: www.MasterBaiters.com.mx , Local Phone at: (044) 322 779-7571 or if roaming: 011 521 322 7797571 (this is my cell phone directly until the shop phone is working. Facebook: http://www.facebook. com/pages/Master-BaitersSportfishing-Tackle/88817121325 The trade name Master Baiter’s ® Sportfishing and Tackle is protected under trade mark law and is the sole property of Stan Gabruk. 20 Gil Gevins’ Page A chicken in every hand by GIL GEVINS www.gilgevins.com H uautla de Jimenez is a remote town carved into the side of the lush Mazateco mountains of Oaxaca. One side of it climbs up a hill. The other side dives off a cliff. From the shower stall of our half-star hotel room, we had an excellent if intermittent view of the steep mist-shrouded landscape, with its giant ferns and endless waterfalls. Surrounding Huautla are hundreds of tiny towns and villages where the equally tiny residents speak an amazing one hundred dialects of the Mazateco language. This linguistic glut is a reflection of the fact that up until 1940, when the first roads were built, it could take up to a month to travel from one village to another. Even today, getting around the area is often problematic. Lucy and I had been in Huautla for almost a week when the two brothers who owned our hotel (and who we never learned to tell apart) informed us of a fiesta in the nearby town of San Augustin. The San Augustinians were celebrating their Saint’s Day, and according to the brothers, it was an event not to be missed. “How far is it?” I asked Juan or Pablo. “Oh, not far,” he said. “And how long does it take to get there?” Juan or Pablo got a faraway look in his eyes and said, “Well, you know, that depends…” The road to San Augustin, we learned, was unpaved, randomly maintained and subject to diverse natural misfortunes. We decided to leave our truck at the hotel and take advantage of the local public transit system. This consisted of standing on the side of the rode until a pickup truck came by. The truck would invariably stop and give you a lift in return for a few pesos to help defray the cost of gas. We walked about a mile out of town to the “crossroads”, planted ourselves on the side of the road and waited for a ride. Pretty soon an old Chevy pickup came along. The driver, a middle-aged priest, told us he was in fact going to San Augustin and would be happy to take us. There were already four SATURDAY 13 people sitting in the front seat, so we climbed into the back. At first we had the back of the truck all to ourselves, but little by little it began to fill with people heading to the big fiesta. After a while the road, sliced into the side of the mountain, grew a little scary: hairpin curves, major rocks, outhouse-sized potholes, pools of mud, and to our left a sheer drop of a thousand feet. But with a priest behind the wheel we felt safer than a pair of nuns in a gay bar. Then we were joined by a tiny ancient woman with two big chickens. The woman had crackled skin and spoke not a word of Spanish. Getting her into the truck was a group effort. I took temporary possession of the chickens (holding one in each hand upside down by its trussed feet), while several of the other male passengers picked the woman up and hoisted her into the truck. Once we’d all settled down again, I held out the chickens so the woman could take them back. But smiling a big toothless grin, she merely nodded her head and patted me gratefully on the arm. “No, no,” I told her in Spanish. “You take them back. I was just holding them for you while you got in the truck.” The crone smiled, nodded her head and promptly went to sleep. I turned to my wife. “Now what do I do?” “Raise your arms,” Lucy advised. “You’re going to give those poor chickens a concussion.” A half hour later (a half hour of nonstop bumps, bowel-loosening skids and one nauseating curve after another) the muscles of my arms and shoulders were howling with pain. Keeping the birds heads from bouncing up and down on the metal bed was a real challenge. And with both my hands fully occupied the suspension-less truck was tossing me around like a ragdoll in a washing machine. “Honey,” I asked my wife, “you want to hold onto these chickens for a while.” “Are you joking,” she said, rolling her eyes skyward. Then, mercifully, we got stuck in the mud, in the middle of absolutely nowhere. The priest ordered everyone out. The particular patch of mud we were mired in was about twenty yards ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 long and six inches deep. We’ll have to push our way clear, the priest informed us. While the women gathered on the side of the road, all the men, except me, lined up behind the truck and began to push. To no avail. “We need you to push, too,” the priest told me. “Give those chickens back to the old lady.” With pleasure! I thought. And I didn’t have to feel guilty. The command to unburden myself of the chickens had come, albeit indirectly, from the Commander-In-Chief Himself. One thing about the Mazateco Indians, they are not all that used to riding in motor vehicles. Once we’d freed ourselves from the mud and gotten underway again, pretty much everyone (with the exception of my wife, myself and the two chickens) began to throw up. To their credit, everyone did their best to aim their alimentary contents over the sides of the truck. Some made it, some didn’t. An hour later, much the worse for wear, we pulled into the small pretty village of San Augustin, and prepared to party. Except, there was no party, not that we could see. Yes, a few men were sitting on the ground drinking something from a jug. And two stalls had been set up in front of the church, one selling cheap plastic ware, and the other selling tacos made from parts of a pig only a veterinarian could identify. But that was it. “Where’s the party?” we asked several people. “Right here,” they responded, if they spoke Spanish. If they didn’t, they just looked confused and walked away. It began to rain. “I’m hungry,” Lucy said. “Me, too, but I’m in no mood for pig bladder tacos. Where’d that lady with the chickens go? Maybe we can work out a deal.” Gil Gevins is the author of four hilarious books, including his latest and greatest, SLIME AND PUNISHMENT. All Gil’s books, including, PUERTO VALLARTA ON 49 BRAIN CELLS A DAY, PUERTO VALLARTA ON A DONKEY A DAY and REFRIED BRAINS are available on Amazon KINDLE. Real Estate by: HARRIET MURRAY Real estate sales by areas of the bay First quarter 2013 L ast week we looked at the state of the USA home market. The problem of large inventory in comparison to demand is common right now for the USA and Our Bay of Banderas in Mexico. This report will include sales reported by Area for our AMPI Flex MLS market for the period Jan 7-April 7, 2013. This database is the official data for the three AMPI chapters in the Bay: Vallarta, Nayarit, and Compostela. Users’ total Subtotals by Association AMPI Compostela 20 AMPI Riviera Nayarita 65 AMPI Vallarta 98 Total unique billable 183 Members Reported house sales for this period are 15. Total sales volume was over $10,000,000. USD. Average sales price was $677,193. USD. Average Days on the Market was 331. Areas reported by most volume and number: 1. South shore which includes Amapas, Conchas Chinas, Garza Blanca, Punta Negra, and Mismaloya: 3 sales with a medium sales price of $1,550,000. USD. Days on the Market were 337. 2. La Cruz de Huanacaxtle was second with 2 sales and an average price of $1,212,500. USD. Days on the Market: 284. SATURDAY 13 21 3. Bucerías has 3 sales with an average sales price of $104,667. USD. DoM: 321. 4. Nuevo Vallarta West was third with 2 sales and an average price of $360,000. USD. This area includes homes in El Tigre, Mayan Palace, Paradise Village, Oceanside, and Canal. DoM: 408. 5. Reporting one sale is the Airport area for $79,000. USD after 99 Days on the Market. 6. Francisco Villa East: one sale for $229,000. USD, DoM: 54. 7. Marina Vallarta with one sale for $279,000. USD, DoM: 114. 8. Nuevo Vallarta East at $36,000. USD, DoM: 753. 9. Punta Mita reported 1 sale at $400,000. USD, DoM: 585. Active listings of 391 properties in our market area total $391,000,000. USD. Absorption at the current rate of sales for this amount of inventory is averaging 73 months or 6 years. Sold Price to List Price shows a discount currently of 83-85%. Clearly we have our work cut out for us to market and sell the inventory with as much effort as possible. Many people are asking why there are new construction projects at the same time we have large inventory of existing product. One explanation is that not all existing inventory is saleable because of its price, style or condition. Some of our inventory may not ever sell. Each owner and listing agent need to discuss what the market is, realistically, and consider taking properties off the market, lowering the prices, cleaning them up… If our buyers do not want our product, it is not worthwhile to have it listed as part of our inventory. Working with non-motivated sellers who dictate what price they want impacts all sales and eschews the inventory numbers. AMPI Flex inventory of properties for sale is available on member websites as a search feature as well as http:// www.vallartanayaritmls.com This article is based upon legal opinions, current practices and my personal experiences. I recommend that each potential buyer or seller of real estate conduct his own due diligence and review. Harriet Murray can be contacted at [email protected] ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 22 Email Etiquette… W ith the season winding down, now is a good time to start to get into some good habits. When things are hectic, we tend to forget some basics and take shortcuts. It’s amazing how lazy we all can get with writing emails these days. And you know who you are! New users of all ages hit the Internet every day. They’re so new that even the most well-established “netiquette” (internet etiquette) can seem bizarre and nonsensical to them. Especially when it comes to the killer app of all time: e-mail. So here is some of the best advice I’ve heard over the years. Beware of hoaxes People have the best intentions when forwarding dire warnings about the latest computer virus, telemarketer con jobs, natural disaster news, and whatever stunts the current political administration is trying to pull. The problem: The vast majority of e-mail about such topics is total fiction. I beg you: Whenever the opportunity strikes to pass on some juicy tale of woe that has hit your inbox, first visit Snopes.com. This is the Internet’s master repository of what a hoax is and what isn’t. Bookmark the site. Visit it and do a search. Hi-Tech Don’t add to “junk mail” Here’s news you may not believe: Most people don’t necessarily share your sense of humor. Or your belief in chain letters that can cause bad luck involving your reproductive organs. Your friends and family are too polite to ask you to stop, and everyone else is far too busy dealing with important messages to want to wade through that nonsense. They all know to hit the delete key, but that doesn’t mean receiving these messages isn’t annoying. Get a permanent address In the early days of the Internet, people got e-mail addresses through either their Internet service provider or their employer. But few jobs or ISPs last forever, so that means changing your address, which means putting your friends through all the annoyance and hassle of updating their address books. You can minimize the chances of going through that change by utilizing an e-mail from a provider you believe will be around a while. Gmail, Yahoo, even Hotmail are all good bets. Time to leave Prodigy mail and its antique mail servers behind. Don’t hand out your address like candy Your e-mail address is a precious commodity, assuming you don’t want an inbox filled with spam, phishing SATURDAY 13 schemes, and advertisements. Give it only to friends and coworkers. Eventually all addresses get spammed, but keeping it close will minimize the problem. Best to set up an extra free email account (Gmail... Hotmail or Yahoo) and hand out that address when signing up for something online. Do not use “Reply All” blindly We’ve all seen those messages come in: Some stray person who got the same group e-mail you received, hits Reply All and now everyone in the group has to see his gripes. Don’t be that person. Especially don’t be that person if you’re going to gripe about someone in particular — it’s almost guaranteed that your subject will be on the list of people getting the message. Sadly, that kind of thing happens all the time. BCC is your friend CC once stood for “carbon copy.” Some say today it stands for “courtesy copy.” Either way, that’s how you send a message to someone else along with your intended recipient. However you interpret CC, the “B” stands for “blind,” and the BCC field is where you put in the names of those people you want to read your message on the sly. The people listed in the To and CC fields don’t get to see who’s included in the BCC field and you’re not abusing everyone’s privacy by revealing their e-mail addresses. Brevity is the soul of wit How often do you read e-mail messages that are over three paragraphs long? Neither does anyone else. ‘Nuff said. Avoid huge attachments At one time, sending digital files to people was done only by e-mail. It was the only direct way available. Now, you have a wealth of options for sharing. ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 As files get bigger and bigger, it’s best to take advantage of these options rather than clog up an inbox. First and best option: Share a link rather than the actual file. That video of your stealthy ninja kitten is huge coming from your camcorder; but if you put it on YouTube, you can simply send friends the link to view it online. Maybe it will go viral and make you an internet superstar. For still photos you can upload and share them from Photobucket.com or Flickr.com. NO ALL CAPS This might be the oldest bit of netiquette around, but it’s still important to point out to total newbie’s who shun the Shift key in favor of Caps Lock: TYPING IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS IS THE INTERNET EQUIVALENT OF SHOUTING. Don’t e-mail angry There are many things not to do when angry. Drink, Drive, Call your significant other, or your in-laws. Sending text communication of any sort when peeved is also a big no-no. If ou really must vent, email yourself things you’d like to say to someone, then take a day and review what you wrote. Chances are you’ll not feel as strongly as ou did when you first wrote it. That’s all my time for now. See you again next week... until then, Remember: only safe Internet! Ron can be found at CANMEX Computers. Sales, Repairs, Networking, Wi-Fi, Hardware upgrades, Graphic Design, Data Recovery, House-calls available. www.RonnieBravo.com Cellular 044-322-157-0688 or just email to [email protected] Brain Teasers 23 The New York Times Tuesday Crossword Puzzle Solution to Crossword on Page 18 SUDOKU! Sudoku is a logic-based placement puzzle. The aim of the puzzle is to enter a numerical digit from 1 through 9 in each row, column and group of squares enclosed by the bold lines (also called a box). Each box must contain each number only once, starting with various digits given in some cells (the “givens”). Each row, column, and region must contain only one instance of each numeral. Completing the puzzle requires patience. It is recommended as therapy because some studies have suggested they might improve memory, attention and problem solving while staving off mental decline and perhaps reducing the risk of Alzheimer’s disease. Solution to Sudoku on Page 18 SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19 SATURDAY 13 ISSUE 234 | APRIL 2013 FRIDAY 19