27 Little Known Lifestyle
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27 Little Known Lifestyle
27 Little Known Lifestyle “Hacks” That Boost Fat Loss, Jack Up Energy And Force You To Look Feel And Perform Your Best By Tyler J. Bramlett All Rights Reserved Copyright © 2013, Tyler Bramlett www.garagewarrior.com ! No portion of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without the express written permission of the publisher. ! Manufactured in the United States of America Published by: Tyler Bramlett. Santa Cruz, California ! ! ! ! I’m sad to have to include a disclaimer but here it is. ! DISCLAIMER STATEMENT: Exercise, Nutrition and Lifestyle books and videos sold and distributed by Tyler Bramlett and garagewarrior.com or its partnered websites reflects the author’s personal experience and is provided for educational purposes and general reference. It is not intended to be a substitute for medical advice or counseling. ! The reader assumes all risks from the use, non-use or misuse of the book. Neither the author nor publisher assumes any responsibility for the use or misuse of the information contained in this book. Please consult a physician before beginning any nutrition and exercise program. 2 Table of Contents INTRODUCTION ! ● ● ● Why Are Habits So Important? How To Effectively Change Your Habits The Best Way To Use This Book SECTION 1 - Daily Habits (The Lean Fifteen) ! ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● Drink Enough Water Eat Your Veggies Eat Protein For Breakfast Work On Building A Strong Digestion Get Your Sleep Breathe Deeply Read Your Daily Affirmation With Gratitude Walk Every Day Do Some Exercise Get Some Sunshine Touch The Earth Use Cold Water Therapy Make Sure You Laugh Read Something Avoid Obesogens SECTION 2 - Weekly Habits ● ● ● ● ! ● ● ● Kick Your Heels Up And Have A Cheat Meal Try Or Learn Something New Spend Some Time Alone Doing Something You Love Spend Some Time Socializing With Your Friends Or Family Go Outside And Play Measure Your Success Do A Selfless Act For Someone Else SECTION 3 - Monthly Habits 4 5 6 8 10 13 16 18 22 24 26 28 29 31 33 24 36 37 40 42 44 45 47 49 50 ● ● Identify Where You Currently Are And What Works Set Or Adjust Your Goals 52 53 ● Create A New Daily Affirmation That Focuses On Your Plan 57 ● Do Something To Take Care of Yourself 59 ● Conclusion 60 3 INTRODUCTION ! Why Are Habits So Important? “Achieve success in any area of life by identifying the optimum strategies and repeating them until they become habits.” - Charles J. Givens I’ve spent the better part of a decade working with people one-on-one trying to help them improve their bodies and lives. ! One thing stood out more than any other: the body they had. Their health and their lives were direct results of the habits they had formed before working with me. Good or bad, these habits were responsible for who they had become. ! I did some serious reflecting and realized that YOU, me and everyone else are ultimately the result of our habits. ! I then decided that I would focus on learning, applying and teaching new habits to people so they could better their health and lives. I began referring to these habits as “Lifestyle Hacks” to my clients and quickly realized that the single most powerful way to transform your body is through the consistent practice of new habits. As these new GOOD habits replace your old BAD habits your body and life are both guaranteed to change. ! This book was designed to teach you the 27 habits that I’ve discovered and will deliver the most powerful benefits in the shortest amount of time. Consider this your own personal guide to fast tracking your body transformation and developing the healthiest, happiest, strongest version of YOU. ! Make no mistake — though this book is straightforward it is not a book for people who aren’t willing to make a change. If you do not change your habits, your life and your body will stay the same. But, if you develop the 27 habits, you will witness a transformation in the way you look, feel and perform! ! Get ready, because today marks the turning point in your life! ! “A change in bad habits leads to a change in life.” - Jenny Craig 4 How To Effectively Change Your Habits ! “You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, 'I release the need for this in my life’.” ! - Wayne Dyer Early on when I first started teaching new habits to people I made a HUGE mistake… I was too complex in my explanations and I expected way too much way too fast. I would give people a giant list of things to do and expect them to do it. What happened? My clients were resistant and the good habits I was trying to teach them fell on deaf ears. ! Rather than consider this a failure I simply took it as feedback that the way I was teaching wasn’t working. I went back to the drawing board, identified the most powerful and important habits and created a series of articles designed to explain each of the habits, as well as the best ways to apply them and the quickest ways to add them into your life for MAXIMUM benefit. This book is a culmination of those habits. ! But I didn’t stop there… Instead of just creating a book about the most important body transformation habits, I went a step further and created an exact system for adding these new habits into your life. I divided this book into daily, weekly and monthly habits and devised checklists that you can use to permanently integrate these 27 habits into your life. ! All you have to do is work on adding more of these daily, weekly and monthly habits into your life and over time the changes will astound you. I am more than confident that within 30 days of consistent practice of all 27 habits your life will be transformed! ! Until recently, I’ve kept these 27 habits and checklists reserved for my private clients and members of my highly popular transformation challenges. But the profound life changing effects I’ve seen these habits have on them has inspired me to unleash this to the world, so, you too can become the healthiest, happiest and strongest version of YOU. ! Please note that this is NOT another diet and exercise book designed to tell you what to eat and how to exercise. Instead this book is dedicated to making a true and lasting transformation in your life by teaching you a set of new habits that are guaranteed to help you look, feel and perform your best. ! Ok. Now that you know the idea behind these 27 habits and how you are going to add them into your life, let’s cover the best way to use this book... 5 ! The Best Way To Use This Book Most books like this are jam packed full of filler text designed to fatten up the pages. This book is straightforward and is laid out into three different sections, each with its own set of habits for you to work on. The best way to use this book is to follow the five steps below in this exact order. ! 1) Take the time over the next week to read through the 27 habits. If you prefer to watch videos or listen to audio instead, I’ve made it extremely simple for you by adding in videos and audio recordings of each habit for your convenience. You can access the videos by going here -----> CLICK HERE TO ACCESS THE 27 HABITS AUDIO AND VIDEO LIBRARY ! 2) Print out the Habit Forming Checklists (NOTE: each download is good for thirty days) and put them in a place where you will see them every day. You can access the Habit Forming Checklist by going here -----> CLICK HERE TO ACCESS THE HABIT FORMING CHECKLISTS ! 3) Begin by doing all five of the Monthly Habits on your day off. These habits will serve as the foundation for your entire month so be sure to fill out the forms contained in the Habit Forming Checklist. ! 4) From there, make sure you perform the following two weekly habits each week: (1) Kick Your Heels Up And Have A Cheat Meal AND (2) Measure Your Success. Also pick a minimum of one other weekly habit and make sure that you do that for the next thirty days. If you can manage to do all seven Weekly habits (one for each day of the week) then GREAT! Make sure you check these habits off in your weekly checklist. ! 5) Pick a minimum of three daily habits and focus on doing all three of those habits each and every day. Once you are able to do all three daily habits for a week, add three more in and repeat trying to make sure you do all six habits daily. It is very helpful to use the daily Habit Forming Checklists to keep track of your progress. If you prefer to jump in feet first and do all fifteen feel free just make sure to be consistent and not overwhelm yourself ! Just follow these EXACT five steps and you will be on your way to changing your habits and changing your life! Now it’s time for you to learn more about the 27 habits... ! “The only proper way to eliminate bad habits is to replace them with good ones”. - Jerome Hines 6 SECTION 1 -Daily Habits The Lean Fifteen The Lean Fifteen ! ! “Our daily decisions and habits have a huge impact upon both our levels of happiness and success”. - Shawn Anchor Your daily habits are what determine where you will be years from now. These are the fifteen habits I’ve identified as the most powerful and important when it comes to transforming your body and your life. ! Please understand that although some of these habits may seem slightly strange and far fetched, they all serve a purpose in the grand scheme. If you neglect to apply them then you will not get the maximum benefit from this book. ! "If you're on the fence, all I ask is that you suspend your past beliefs and give these a shot for thirty days. Once you are able to do these fifteen habits, which I affectionately refer to as “The Lean Fifteen,” for thirty days you will understand their unique importance. ! Also, many of these habits are what I call silent result “stoppers”. If you’ve ever plateaued with your results, stopped losing fat; or if you couldn’t add any more reps or weight to your exercises or experienced a crash in energy and motivation then one of these fifteen habits could be the fix that your body has been craving. ! Lets get you started with The Lean Fifteen daily habits. ! “Habit is habit and not to be flung out of the window by any man, but coaxed downstairs a step at a time.” - Mark Twain 7 ! Daily Habit #1 - Drink Enough Water Do you ever think about how humans can live for around 30 days without any food? The record is an incredible 400 days, by Hira Ratan Manek - no joke! But the longest recorded survival without water is fourteen days, with the majority of dehydration deaths occurring within only ninety six hours! ! Water makes up sixty percent or more of our total body weight and dehydration can cause a thirty percent decrease in performance!! ! This speaks to how important hydration is to our overall health and how important proper water consumption must be to your body. ! When you are dehydrated your body actually tends to retain water and look more swollen and puffy. Think of it like this... If you had a thousand in your bank account and you knew that there was no more money coming in, wouldn't you think about spending that thousand wisely? Wouldn't you conserve it? Wouldn't you make sure that you didn't misplace any of it? This is what your body thinks when it is in a constant state of dehydration, which is defined by a two percent drop in fluid volume. Becoming dehydrated will give you that soft puffy look, especially around your internal organs (i.e. belly) and also makes your muscles tighter. ! 8 In order to fix this problem and MAXIMIZE your results, a habit you must form is to consume a minimum of half your body weight (lbs) in ounces of water per day. For example, if you weigh one hundred and fifty pounds you should be consuming a minimum of seventy five ounces of water per day (1oz per kg). ! The best way to make sure you are getting enough water throughout the day is to start your day with thirty two ounces (1L) of fresh cold water first thing in the morning. From there get yourself a sixty four ounces (2L) water bottle, fill it up and sip on it throughout the day. ! In addition to quantity, the quality of your water can affect your recovery by supporting or breaking down your fat loss hormones. You should think about the sources of the water that you are putting into your body, as many municipal water supplies contain toxic chemicals that will reduce not only your fat loss results but also your health. ! There are many toxic substances contained in municipal water supplies including chromium-6, chlorine and fluoride. When toxins enter the body, they are encapsulated by fat cells as a means of protecting your body. By removing toxins from your water supply you can reduce the chances of toxin binding fat cells forming, especially on your butt and thighs. ! At bare minimum, consider investing in a simple carbon filter that removes many of the harmful chemicals in your water. By consuming high quality water you should feel better, your body will detoxify faster and you will get better overall results by staying hydrated. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Drink a minimum of .5oz per lb of bodyweight (1oz per kg) up to a gallon (128oz/3.75L) per day. Drink the purest water you can find and a bare minimum and if you can afford it, get a high quality water filter or have fresh spring water delivered to your house. To make sure you get enough water in throughout the day I recommend drinking 32oz (1l) first thing in the morning and carrying a 64oz water bottle with you to sip on throughout the day. ! ! “It is easier to prevent bad habits than to break them.” - Benjamin Franklin 9 ! Daily Habit #2 - Eat Your Veggies Everyone knows that eating your veggies is so important, but let me ask you this question — and be honest with yourself: do you consume the recommended ten servings of veggies a day — what about the sixteen to twenty servings recommended for optimal health? ! How many people do you even know who eat this recommended amount of veggies? Not many, right? My bet would be that maybe one in ten thousand people eat enough veggies daily to be in the optimal range! ! When you do consume enough servings of veggies daily your body will look and work better, work better and your energy levels will skyrocket to unheard - of levels. ! For this reason you must form the habit of having ten servings of vegetables per day. Here’s a breakdown of what constitutes a serving: ! Raw Leafy Greens - 1 Serving = 1 cup (About The Size Of A Baseball Or Small Fist) Other Vegetables - 1 Serving = ½ cup (About The Size Of ½ A Baseball Or ½ A Small Fist) ! The best ways to do this are to use one or all of the following methods. ! MORE VEGGIES METHOD #1 - Commit to having a large salad every single day ! Having a large salad once daily as a meal or before your main course is a great way to boost your overall vegetable intake and is also a great way to prep your digestive tract before a meal. ! Keep it quick and simple, however, by using a simple and tasty recipe. Here’s such a recipe that you can use (just add and subtract for flavor): ! - 1 Bag Of Your Favorite Greens - ½ Large Cucumber (Sliced) - 1 Carrot (Sliced) - ½ Avocado - Olive Oil And Balsamic Vinegar As Dressing ! This salad recipe above will yield an extra five (or more depending on how big you make it) servings of vegetables every single day. 10 MORE VEGGIES METHOD #2 - Commit to having a pile of cooked or steamed vegetables with dinner ! Every night for dinner, even if you had a salad or even if you are out at your favorite restaurant, commit to having a pile of cooked or steamed vegetables with you meal. It’s quite easy to add in five or more servings of veggies in your evening meal by using this method. ! Again, keep it simple so you don’t get frustrated. Choose vegetables that are tasty and easy to cook. My personal favorites are brussel sprouts, broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage, carrots, spinach, kale, zucchini, squash, artichokes and asparagus.Simply steam them or lightly cook in a pan with butter or coconut oil and you are good to go. ! Choose your own favorites, or try something new for a change! ! MORE VEGGIES METHOD #3 - Commit to adding fresh veggie juice into your daily routine ! This is perhaps my favorite method for increasing overall vegetable intake in your body specifically because of the amount of vegetables you can add relative to the time it takes. ! Simply add five to ten servings of vegetables into a juicer or blender and drink them down once per day. Here’s basic recipe that I use that tastes great: ! - 1 Full Stalk Of Celery - ½ An Apple - ½ A Cucumber - 1-5 Kale Leaves - Add Lemmon For More Flavor ! The bottom line is that you need to develop the habit of eating more vegetables and these are the best methods I have found to quickly make that happen. 11 QUICK HABIT RECAP: Eat a minimum of 10 servings of vegetables per day (1 cup of raw leafy greens or ½ cup of other vegetables = 1 serving). The best ways to do this are by consuming a daily salad, adding in a pile of cooked or steamed vegetables into your evening meal and adding in fresh juice by using a blender or juicer. ! ! “You gotta eat right, you gotta have healthy habits, you know, and balance out your decadence with a healthy lifestyle during the day.” -Talib Kweli 12 ! Daily Habit #3 - Eat Protein For Breakfast Protein is essential for you if you want to get great results. Many people have heard that they need to monitor the amount of protein they take in but very few actually track this vital macro nutrient. The best way to make sure you get enough protein is to make a habit of eating it for breakfast. ! That's right! Eating thirty to fifty grams of protein with some high quality fats and veggies for breakfast will reduce your appetite -- especially for the sweet foods -- and it'll flip your fat burning switch into overdrive. ! There are two reasons this works: ! REASON #1 ! A protein-based breakfast stabilizes your blood sugar first thing in the morning. That's EXTREMELY important when you want to lose fat. Chronically high blood sugar levels are associated with obesity, heart disease, diabetes, and more. ! Let me explain: ! When you wake up and eat carbohydrates for breakfast, your body turns them into sugar and your pancreas secretes the hormone insulin to get the sugar from your blood to your cells. ! Much like a real estate agent, insulin's responsibility is to take the glucose (or carbs/sugar) you just ate and show it a few different places where it can live. House #1 is your liver, house #2 is your muscles, and house #3 is your fat tissue. ! The problem with eating carbs first thing in the morning is that, unless your muscles or liver need glucose -- as is the case within sixty minutes of a tough workout -- the carbs will most likely choose to live in your fat cells (house #3). ! Then, guess what happens when your blood sugar begins to settle down after a big spike? You crave MORE SUGAR! And you'll want it in the form of more carbs. ! That whole process effectively traps you in a constant state of craving carbs and sugary foods and never lets your body go into full fat burning mode. Skipping carbs and eating protein for breakfast is a great way to break the vicious cycle. 13 REASON #2 ! A higher protein breakfast will reset your brain's responsiveness to leptin -- a hormone that reduces your appetite. Consistently elevated insulin levels lower leptin and leave you feeling hungrier. That means high protein breakfasts not only put you in fat burning mode, they also help reduce your overall hunger. Talk about AWESOME! ! The habit you need to form is to eat a high protein breakfast (thirty to fifty grams) generally within sixty minutes of waking (the only exception is if you follow an intermittent fasting diet in which case consume protein for your first meal). If you do this you will have better control of your blood sugar levels and reduce your appetite and cravings for starchy and sugary carbs throughout the day. ! NOTE: If you exercise vigorously first thing in the morning, eat your high protein breakfast directly after your workout and include carbs but minimize fat instead. ! Here’s a few examples of high protein breakfasts you can use: ! ! ! ! ! ● Protein Mocha - Use 30g chocolate whey protein with 16oz coffee and 1 tbsp grass fed butter, blend and enjoy! ● Eggs And Bacon - Cook 2-4 eggs and 4-8oz bacon and enjoy! ● Omelette Or Scramble - Use 2-4 eggs along with your favorite veggies and enjoy! ● Meat And Nuts - Cook 4-8oz meat - breakfast sausage is great - and add a small handful of your favorite nuts. 14 QUICK HABIT RECAP: Eat 30-50g protein in the morning within 60 minutes of waking. This will help regulate your blood sugar in order to oxidize more fat for fuel. This also will decrease your overall appetite and cravings for starchy and sugary carbs throughout the day. If you follow an intermittent fasting diet, simply make sure your first meal is higher in protein and if you workout in the morning, lower the fat content of your meal and add in some carbs. ! ! “A habit is something you can do without thinking - which is why most of us have so many of them.” -Frank A. Clark 15 ! Daily Habit #4 - Work On Building A Strong Digestion Having a healthy digestive tract is one of the most important things you can focus on if you want to boost health and vitality. In fact, did you know that seventy percent of your immune system comes from your digestive tract? Even worse, you may not be getting the nutrients you need from your food and it could be stalling your overall results! ! How can this happen? Let's start by imagining two different people: ! One person has excellent digestion, I mean they can turn a rock into peanut butter if need be. The other suffers from indigestion and constipation or diarrhea. Now, imagine that both of these people eat the same meal. Are they each getting the same macro and micronutrients from the foods they eat? ! Since the second person in our example above suffers from digestive issues we need to assume that they aren't able to squeeze as much nutrition out of their meals as the other person with perfect digestion. ! Why is this an issue? Bear with me for a sec while I explain. ! Most dietitians consider that a calorie is just a calorie (a unit of energy), and due to the law of thermodynamics, energy can never be created or destroyed. If you eat five hundred calories and I eat five hundred calories then we would both be absorbing these five hundred calories. ! Here's the problem. ! Using the law of thermodynamics as a reference is illogical as the law only works in a closed system, where energy cannot be created or destroyed. Last time I checked, my body wasn't closed system. ! What I mean is that for you and I to get the same amount of nutrients from a particular food we would have to be a closed system (i.e. no poop, no pee, no sweat). Considering that everyone's digestive tract and bowel movements are different, you may be absorbing less or more of the food and nutrients you eat than the person next to you. You may be absorbing the wrong macronutrients and/or the wrong vitamins for your body! 16 This is an issue because high mineral and vitamin foods reduce your overall appetite, while eating foods devoid of nutrients tends to promote appetite! ! To fix this, form the habit of avoiding water or other liquids right after a meal. Drinking water after a meal can dilute the digestive juices and reduce your chances of getting the maximum amount of appetite suppressing vitamins and minerals from your diet. Instead, give your body sixty or more minutes to digest the food you ate before consuming liquid. ! In addition to this make sure you consume a minimum of one of the following sources of probiotics daily: ! ● Take a probiotic with breakfast every day. A probiotic supplement is one of the few supplements I take on a regular basis and it is one that I always recommend as the #1 supplement to all of my clients. ● Consume fermented vegetables. Eating fermented veggies like sauerkraut and kimchi can just as effective as taking a probiotic supplement. Consume these fermented veggies as a part of your salad or with your steamed veggies. ! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Work on your digestion daily by avoiding the consumption of water or other liquids within 60 minutes after your meals and either take a probiotic supplement or consume a fermented food ever single day. ! “Curious things, habits. People themselves never knew they had them.” -Agatha Christie 17 ! Daily Habit #5 - Get Your Sleep Sleep is one of the most important functions of the human body. It resets our hormones and allows our body the much earned rest it needs to repair itself and function optimally. ! You might be thinking, "What in the world does sleep have to do with my overall transformation?" ! I get asked this question all the time. The simple truth is that if you want to lose fat, be healthy, build muscle or be able to bring it in your workouts, then you need to build good sleep habits. Since sleep is so important, here’s the habits that will help you optimize your sleep so you can look, feel and perform your best. ! Sleep Habit #1 ! First, let's myth-bust. ! You constantly hear that you need to get 8 hours of sleep. Unfortunately, that isn't true. ! You see, your body goes through different levels of sleep in a cycle. There are periods of time when you're just a hair away from being awake and times when you're so deeply asleep it'd take a firecracker on your pillow to wake you. ! For most people, these sleep cycles tend to last ninety minutes -- give or take a few minutes. If you constantly aim for eight hours of sleep, you'll almost always set your alarm to go off when you're diving down into deeper stages of sleep. ! Instead of waking up feeling absolutely awesome and ready to take on the world, you wonder who glued your eyelids shut and just how many times you can get away with setting the snooze. ! That doesn't make for a very good morning. ! Instead of aiming for the age-old standby of eight hours, try sleeping for the following amount of hours: ! MINIMUM -----> 6 hours GET THIS DAILY -----> 7 1/2 hours TRY GETTING THE ONCE A WEEK -----> 9 hours 18 Now, I'm certainly not suggesting that you need to get 9 hours of sleep every night. That kind of sleep is more for world-class athletes. What I am suggesting is that you get a MINIMUM of six hours, aim for making seven and a half the norm, and try your hardest to get a few nights of nine hours occasionally. If you wake up feeling great, then you nailed it and found your sleep cycle. If you feel OK but not perfect, test out an 85-minute sleep cycle or a 95-minute sleep cycle instead. ! You'll know you've found your magic number when you wake up feeling great. From then on, aim for getting sleep based on that number and enjoy feeling great every day! ! Sleep Habit #2 ! Good sleep isn't just about quantity; it's also about quality. ! If you aren't getting the best sleep each night, it's time to troubleshoot some of the most common problems. Let's look at a few different things that can lower your sleep quality and leave you dragging the next day. ! Melatonin is a hormone that drives you to sleep at night. If yours is low, you might end up counting sheep 'till the sun comes up. There are some simple things that might affect your happy little sleep hormone. ! Light in your bedroom can reduce sleep quality dramatically. Even a dime-sized fiber optic light on the back of your knee in an otherwise pitch black room still decreases melatonin and increases cortisol production. ! Yowza! ! That's right. Your photoreceptors -- cells that detect light on your skin -- send a signal to your brain that it should turn down the production of sleepy little melatonin. With that little amount of light, the photoreceptors assume the sun is rising and that you want to rise with it. ! When light sets off the process of waking, melatonin drops as cortisol -- another hormone that gets your body going -- starts to rise. When melatonin drops and cortisol rises, no more quality sleep for you. ! Melatonin obviously likes darkness and makes us fall asleep while cortisol obviously likes light and makes us wake up. Knowing this, there are a few things you can do to make sure each hormone is highest at the right time. ! First, get some room-darkening shades or put a dark blanket up over your windows -especially if you live in the city! This will ensure that your happy little melatonin will be tucked in and enjoying the dark. 19 Second, reduce unwanted cortisol even further by following these guidelines. Cortisol increase in proportion to the amount of electromagnetic frequencies (or EMF's for short) around you. Unfortunately, almost everything in our modern world produces EMF's -- light sockets, electrical outlets, your cell phone and your cell phone charger, wi-fi internet waves, radio waves, etc. ! You can't get rid of EMF's, but you can reduce them without turning into the boy in the aluminum foil bubble. ! To optimize your sleep, unplug all the electronics around your bed. Get rid of your bedroom TV, take an hour before bed to read and decompress (this will help the melatonin, too), and make sure your alarm clock and cell phone are on the other side of the room while you sleep. ! Sleep Habit #3 Finally, do you best to go to bed when the sun goes down and get up when the sun comes up. ! I realize this step may be impossible because of your job, family, or whatever. If you can't do this right now, no worries. Just follow the above two tips and keep this one in mind for the time when you can use it. ! Think about the way we developed as a species. Did we stay up all night? Did we watch the old EMF idiot box (TV) until right before we went to sleep? The answer to both of these questions is an absolute, "NO!" ! Our ancestors went to bed a couple hours after the sun went down and woke up when it rose. ! So, why are we so disconnected with nature's messages around us? Why do we stay up sometimes until the wee hours watching goofy shows and then complain about being in a brain fog all day long? ! We do it because it's the way we were raised. I don't know about you, but when I was a kid, my family watched TV shows together until right before I went to bed. When I got older, I kept the same habit. The problem is, it isn't a good habit. ! Before moving on, I want you to know I'm not asking you to go to bed at 7pm and get up at 7am -- that's completely unrealistic. ! If you go to bed a few hours after the sun goes down and wake up when the sun comes up, you'll still get all the benefits. 20 Over the course of an average year, following a sunrise/sunset will look something like this: ! ! ! ● ● In the summer you should go to bed around 11pm and wake up with the sun. In the winter you should go to bed around 9:30pm and wake up with the sun. If you can roughly follow this guideline and flow through the seasons, your sleep will increase the quality of your sleep dramatically which will help you look feel and perform even better. ! As far as waking up, If you're fortunate enough to not need an alarm clock to wake up, good for you. Sometimes I have the opportunity of waking up naturally, and I love how great I feel on those days. ! However, I can't expect everyone out there to shun their jobs and lives in order to optimize their sleep. Simply do the best you can and take advantage of the times when you can wake up naturally. ! Good Luck! Now, go get some sleep! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Sleep a minimum of 6 hours a night and aim to make 7.5 hours the minimum. Work on finding your own unique sleep cycle (usually around 90 minutes) and use this when planning a nights sleep. You will know you have nailed your sleep cycle when you wake up feeling great! Sleep in a dark room and avoid electronics for a minimum of 30 minutes before bed. Try to go to bed within 2-3 hours of the sun going down. ! ! “A long healthy life is no accident. It begins with good genes, but it also depends on good habits.” -Dan Buettner 21 ! Daily Habit #6 - Breathe Deeply Breathing is arguably the most important function in the human body. As I’m sure you know, if you go without it for only a few minutes you will lose consciousness. So how does breathing affect your overall healthy and results? ! Let’s start with how you breathe. Most people these days breathe shallowly as if they are afraid to allow their belly to do its job. Watch any baby breathe and see that it allows its abdomen to expand and contract with each breath. ! Take this test right now... Place one hand on your chest and one hand on your belly. Take a huge breath in and look at which hand moves out further. If the hand on your chest puffs out while the hand on your belly stays still or, even worse goes back, you are breathing in a way that your body perceives as stressful. If you belly moves out and your chest stays the same or slightly elevates, then consider yourself a good breather. ! You see, your body is governed by two sides of the central nervous system: the sympathetic and the parasympathetic. The sympathetic nervous system regulates the fight or flight response we're all familiar with. The parasympathetic nervous system deals with the other side of things, what's commonly referred to rest and digest. ! Chest breathing (where your belly doesn’t expand) activates the sympathetic nervous system whereas belly breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system. This means that if you spend your days chest breathing your body be constantly stressed. This is no good if you want to look, feel and perform your best! ! Make the habit of spending five minutes a day practicing your breathing, one hand on your chest and one on your belly, until you are able to feel that your belly is doing the majority of the expanding. ! Monitor yourself throughout the day by noticing if you are breathing relaxed (i.e. belly) or tense (i.e. chest) and proceed to correct yourself. 22 Once you are belly breathing, spend your five minutes breathing while enjoying a walk. ! This one little fix will give you more energy and make you feel much better throughout your days. But what about the actual air we breathe? ! Being around polluted air is unavoidable these days, so instead of advising you to move to the forest, let’s take a look at the best type of air you can breathe. ! Negative ions, are an electrically charged particles that produce profound health benefits. For example, think about how you feel in a crowded space like a packed indoor concert. Though you may be enjoying the music, the atmosphere leaves you feeling run down and you exit feeling as if you have a layer of filth on your skin. ! Do you know this feeling? ! Take an opposite situation… imagine the feeling you get when you walk outside after it rains, when you are around a waterfall or at the beach. This feeling is regulated by the amount of negative ions present in the air that you breathe. ! So, instead of wearing a gas mask, try to put yourself in situations where you can breathe in the fresh air, take in the crisp smell of the forest and shift your mood and your physiology through just the quality of the air you breathe. ! Better yet, take a walk outside in the morning dew, by the ocean, or in the forest and reap the benefits of breathing truly fresh air! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: The way we breathe affects our nervous system in such a way that it tells us if we are stressed or relaxed. Practice relaxed deep breathing for 5 minutes a day preferably in areas with fresh air (beaches, forests parks etc.). You can learn this style of breathing by placing one hand on your chest and one on your belly as you practice breathing into your belly while your chest minimally inflates. ! ! “Everything you are used to, once done long enough, starts to seem natural, even though it might not be.” -Julien Smith 23 ! Daily Habit #7 - Read Your Daily Affirmation With Gratitude In the section on monthly habits, you will be instructed to create a daily affirmation. This daily affirmation is designed to remind you of your goals and values and set you up for success throughout the day. It is also designed to bring you a sense of gratitude. ! Being grateful is one of the key emotions that you must master in order to live a de-stressed life that you can be proud of. In fact, one of the key attributes looked at in centenarians (people who live to be over one hundred) is the fact that they were extremely good at expressing gratitude. ! Most people these days are always focused on lack. They still have twenty pounds to lose, they don’t make enough money, they could use a new car. The quickest way to fix this is to work yourself into a frenzy of gratitude right before reading your daily affirmations. ! This a powerful 1-2 punch that sets the pace for you day and guides you to make good choices and stay consistent with your habits even when faced with challenging situations. ! Do this by thinking about all of the things you are grateful for: your wife or husband, your kids or friends, your job, your hobbies, the weather, your next meal or even just the fact that you are alive. ! Once you’ve worked yourself into a frenzy of gratitude pull out the affirmation you have created in the Habit Forming Checklist sheets and read it out loud - read it with passion, gratitude and belief and set the pace for you day! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Work yourself into a frenzy of gratitude by thinking about all of the things you are grateful for. Then read the daily affirmation you’ve prepared in the monthly habits of the Habit Forming Checklist out loud while feeling that sense of gratitude. ! ! 24 ! “Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.” -Mahatma Gandhi 25 Daily Habit #8 - Walk Every Day ! Walking is one of my favorite exercises OF ALL TIME! ! You can do it anywhere, anytime, and with zero equipment necessary. Walking boosts your metabolism and creates a feeling of relaxation. It promotes greater lymph flow throughout your body, helping you recover from strenuous exercise faster and improving your immune function! ! Walking is one of the most natural movements we do, and for good reason: it's how we get from place to place. People these days walk less and less each year they're alive, and this trend is viewed as one of the major reasons for increase in obesity and illness. ! Let's compare this to, the average nomadic tribesman, who walks an average of twelve thousand steps per day and runs in short bursts another one thousand steps. That's thirteen thousand steps per day, with some estimates coming in even higher at closer to twenty thousand steps per day! ! Compare that to the average American's measly five thousand one hundred and seventeen daily steps - yikes! ! Do you see where I am going with this? ! Walking is one of the best overall exercises ever, and there's a good chance you're missing out on the action… and the benefits! ! Every day make a habit out of doing one or all of the following three things to boost the number of steps you take daily. It'll lower your stress, help you recover faster, and best of all -walking will accelerate your body transformation results! 26 Step #1 ! Take a twenty minute walk. You don't have to power-walk. A casual stroll with your family or friends will do just fine. If twenty minutes is too much, start with ten and work your way up in two minutes increments each week until you've built the habit of going on a daily twenty minute walk. ! Step #2 ! Park at the back of the parking lot. If you always hunt for the prime parking spot, not only will you waste time, you'll miss a valuable opportunity to take a few extra steps. ! People often spend two to four minutes looking for the best spot instead of just parking in the back when they arrive and walking to the door faster than they could have found a spot up front. Park in the back to save time and get in some extra steps! ! Step #3 ! Walk after every meal. The Chinese have a saying, "He who walks one hundred steps after every meal will live to be one hundred." While this may or may not be true, walking after meals increases digestion which will help your body in numerous positive ways! ! There you have it! Ten thousand steps a day keeps the doctor away, and it boosts your fat loss. Get out there and walk! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Make a habit of walking every day by going on regular 20 minute walks, parking at the back of the parking lot at stores or restaurants and taking short walks after meals. It doesn't have to be complicates, just make sure you walk every day! ! “The people you surround yourself with influence your behaviors, so choose friends who have healthy habits.” -Dan Buettner 27 ! Daily Habit #9 - Do Some Exercise We all know that in order to get great results you have to exercise. The problem is that there are thousand’s of different workout programs out there and none of them seem to agree. What are you to do and who are you to believe? ! It’s my personal philosophy that you should do some sort of exercise other than walking every single day. Now before you freak out let me explain what I mean when I say this. ! I believe everyone should do some form of resistance training and preferably higher intensity cardio training at least 3 days a week. If you want to check out my personal workout programs then you can click the links in the resources below. ! For the additional four days each week you need to do something, and you need to move your body. This doesn't have to be a vigorous workout where you break a mean sweat and it doesn't have to last for forty five minutes or longer. Instead, do something physical for at least ten minutes. This can be riding a bike, doing yoga, dancing, playing frisbee in the park, rolling around on the ground with your kids, gardening or anything else that involves movement. Try to change it up from week to week and make sure you are moving your body through a full range of motion every day. ! This is so important because lack of movement is one of the hardest things on your body. Jack Lalanne, the godfather of fitness said, “move it, or lose it.” Truer words have never been spoken and if you neglect to move your body every day, you eventually won’t be able to move it every day. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Daily exercise is essential in maintaining a healthy functioning body. Follow a well designed strength and cardio program 3 or more days per week and on the remaining days make sure you get at least 10 minutes of movement based exercise other than walking like riding a bike, gardening, playing with your kids etc. ! ! “Men's natures are alike; it is their habits that separate them”. -Confucius 28 ! Daily Habit #10 - Get Some Sunshine Ahh... The warm rays of the sun.Think back to a time that you were totally relaxed, when you were outside on a park bench or on a beach towel relaxing and bathing in the sun. Remember how relaxed you felt, remember how great the sun felt on your skin, like being wrapped in a warm blanket. What a nice feeling, right? ! So why the heck is everyone up in arms about the sun being so bad for you? Would something that nourishes the earth, provides you with heat and at times brings you into a state of total relaxation really be bad for you? Well... Yes and No. Let’s start with the negatives of too much sun exposure. The sun of today is much different from the sun of 1,000 years ago. As we continue to pollute our planet, the ozone layer gets thinner and thinner and as a result more harmful frequencies tend to slip through. Where our ancestors of yesteryear used to get away with 24/7/365 sun exposure, we unfortunately cannot. So how do you minimize the damage from sun exposure? Avoid going out without clothing or protection during the afternoon hours. For most people this will fall somewhere between 11am and 3pm. Now it doesn’t mean you should crawl in a dark cave every afternoon, it just means it's best to limit sun exposure to no more than 15-30 minutes during these hours. ! Secondly, all of the horror stories talking about skin cancer are typically related to the number of sunburns you have sustained in your life. So, try not to get sunburns or your risk for skin cancer will go up. ! Your hormone cycles themselves are optimally based on natural circadian rhythms, which are tied to the sun. This means if you want to optimize your hormones and get better results, then you need to get some sun. So, how do you use sun exposure to your advantage? ! Well, mild sun exposure can decrease the risk of deadly skin cancers and harmonize your body’s circadian rhythms — making you sleep better, feel better and leading to better body composition. 29 Here’s the real problem however: most people these days aren’t getting enough sun on a day to day basis. Why is this such a problem? ! Try taking a short walk first thing in the morning while letting the light hit your skin and eyes. This will help optimize your hormones right out of the gates and prepare you for the day (not to mention get you a few more steps). In addition to a morning walk, try eating your lunch outside as 15-30 minutes of afternoon exposure should do more good than harm. If you can get some sun exposure in the later afternoon, even better. ! The bottom line is: the sun is a lot like exercise. If you don’t get any exposure it can really affect your health. If you get too much exposure your body will be burnt and won’t want to go back for a while. But if you do it just right, you will feel great, get healthier, promote better sleep, optimize your hormones and maybe even get a good tan! ! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Sun exposure is critical to optimizing our hormones and circadian rhythms. Shoot for 30 minutes of sun exposure on your skin and eyes each day preferably avoiding the hours of 11-3pm. ! “Consciousness is a phase of mental life which arises in connection with the formation of new habits. When habit is formed, consciousness only interferes to spoil our performance”. -William Ralph Inge 30 ! Daily Habit #11 - Touch The Earth There’s so much more going on around you than you probably realize and one thing that’s become a rampant silent killer is something called EMF’s. ! Let me illustrate why this is so important. A few years ago I was at a health seminar when a speaker did a presentation on energy. Now, I’m not talking about this woo wooo pseudo science stuff but simple facts about energy. ! You see, we are all made up of energy; at the smallest level there is little that differentiates us from any other material in the universe. This energy can be measured and viewed, and most importantly, it can be altered. One of the most health damaging parts of our world today is the excess amount of Electromagnetic Frequencies or EMF’s floating around us around the clock. These frequencies can change the way our energy moves, can cause damage to our cells and more. But, the sad truth is that most EMF’s are unavoidable. ! However, there is good news! You see, your body was designed to shake off these EMF’s in a natural way. Much like every house has a ground wire that protects our electrical system from exploding if overloaded, we too have the ability to use grounding as a means of getting rid of excess EMF’s. ! Here’s how it works... Imagine your typical day: you get up, get showered, put on your shoes and clothes and you go out the door. You talk on your cell phone, sit in front of a computer and watch TV until it’s time to hit the hay for yet another day. ! The whole time no part of your body ever touches the ground, you encapsulate your feet in rubber coated vessels that prevent energetic bonding and keep all incoming EMF’s stuck inside your body. So what could you do differently? ! Simple... Take your shoes off and walk on the grass for a few minutes each day. Now I know this may sound crazy, but when your body contacts the earth, skin to ground, the earth allows the EMF’s to dissipate out of your body and into the earth. How cool! 31 Why is this so important? Because excess EMF’s can increase cortisol levels and insulin resistance — which means belly fat, sugar cravings and more! ! By simply walking on the earth for a few minutes a day we can minimize the effects EMF’s are having on our bodies and become the healthiest most energetic version of ourselves! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: EMF’s (Electromagnetic Frequencies) are surrounding us most of the day. They have the ability to increase cortisol and insulin which means additional stress to your body. To fix this make a habit of letting your skin come in contact with the ground for just a few minutes at least once every day. When you do the the energetic bonding between your skin and the ground will dissipate the EMF’s from your body and boost your overall health and vitality! ! ! “Habits are the daughters of action, but then they nurse their mother, and produce daughters after her image, but far more beautiful and prosperous.” -Jeremy Taylor 32 ! Daily Habit #12 - Use Cold Water Therapy Cold water therapy is one of my personal favorites. I have used this method daily for nearly a decade to look, feel and perform my best. Why does this technique work so well and why should you stop making excuses and get under a cold shower today? ! Being exposed to cold water increases blood flow and pressure as a mechanism to keep you warm (NOTE: this tends to have a blood pressure stabilizing effect over time). This can help to expose your muscles to more nutrients so they can recover faster. In addition to this, cold water has a thermogenic effect on the body. ! There is a type of fat cell in your body called brown fat. This “fat-burning fat” has the unique ability to burn the fat stores that surround it for fuel to produce heat. If you’ve ever swam in the ocean then you probably remember getting out of the cold water and feeling your skin heat up. This is the metabolic effect of brown fat burning the surrounding fat for fuel. ! There are far too many benefits that come from daily cold water exposure for me to list. Just know that this is in my opinion one of the most important habits that you can cultivate if you want to transform your body and health for the rest of your life. ! I’m not demanding that you go and swim in the ocean or pack yourself with ice; rather that a short two to five minute exposure of cold water at the end of your shower can have accelerated recovery benefits and elevated metabolic benefits as well. Plus, once you get used to it, you will feel great! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Exposing yourself to cold water has so many benefits I could write an entire book on the subject. Add in 2-5 minutes of exposure to cold water at the end of your shower on a daily basis and reap these amazing health and vitality benefits! ! ! “I think if you stop bad habits, and you stop long enough, you develop good habits.” -Jordan Knight 33 ! Daily Habit #13 - Make Sure You Laugh Laughing is one of the best things you can do for your body. When you genuinely laugh out loud your body gets flooded with endorphins and happy hormones that help you to de-stress and heal. Many cancer centers are now even recommending laughter exposure to their patients because of the how many miraculous improvements they have been seeing. Just google laughing and cancer and you will see lots of amazing stories. ! But why aren't we laughing more? Why do most people stop thinking things are funny and shut down the laughing side of their brain? I believe the reason is twofold. ! HUMOR KILLER #1 - Media ! When you sit down today and watch your local news what do you see on the TV? Is it heroic stories, comical scenarios and joyful experiences? Or is it mostly crime, violence, poverty, death and other negative things. This is a huge issue because the media is making us believe that the world is a dark and evil place. ! Now, I’m all for being informed about what is going on in the world. However I choose to dramatically limit my exposure to negative media as I notice a profound effect on my mood when I allow too much of it into my life. ! If you can’t find the joy to laugh, try eliminating or limiting exposure to negative media and instead watch something that makes you feel the tingle of laughter. Eventually as the negativity leaves your life you will start to laugh and smile again :) ! HUMOR KILLER #2 - YOU ! My friends and family all know me as someone who rarely has a filter on my thoughts and opinions. I try my best to move through life in a grateful and joyful haze and try to find the humor in all things. ! In fact, just days before writing this I came down with a really bad case of the stomach flu and after throwing up all night long I looked over to my wife and said, “you know, people pay good money for a cleanse that good.” We both looked at each other and laughed. 34 Many people these days take themselves and the situations that happen to them way too seriously. Our culture frowns upon public laughter and it prevents people from being able to express their humor and true selves to the world. Try to stop taking yourself so seriously and enjoy your life with a sense of humor. ! The way I am able to do this is to let go of the regimented seriousness we are supposed to have as we age and instead try to see the world through the eyes of a child. I’m sure you can remember a glimpse of what it was like to be a kid and see the world through eyes that didn’t worry about what others around you thought. ! If not, just watch any five year old and notice how they don’t seem to follow the same thinking patterns as adults do. They live lives free from the social constraints that are holding many adults back from fully experiencing laughter. ! Try to put yourself into situations each and every day where you will experience laughter. Hang out with a funny friend, watch a funny show, turn on some stand up comedy that you like, listen to a funny podcast or audio program and try to experience a little more humor in everything that you do. By creating the habit of laughing each and every day you will boost your immune system, flood your body with endorphins, like a runner's high and start taking life a little less seriously. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Laughing daily can boost your immune system, flood your body with happy hormones and give you a greater sense of relaxation and ease in your life. Laugh daily by avoiding too much negative media exposure, taking yourself less seriously and putting yourself into more humorous situations. ! ! “You've got bad eating habits if you use a grocery cart in 7-Eleven.” -Dennis Miller 35 Daily Habit #14 - Read Something ! There’s a phrase I heard years ago and it stuck with me. That phrase is, “readers are leaders.” ! Reading or the act of learning a new piece of information or exposing your mind to a creative story has a way of reshaping your mind to experience life more fully. The most successful and most intelligent people I have ever met are all readers. ! But, sadly reading for leisure is becoming less and less popular. Did you know that one third of kids exiting high school right now will never read another book again? Or did you know that only fifteen percent of the population reads on a regular basis? ! Even worse, with unlimited media at our fingertips, it’s becoming harder and harder to focus on reading good old fashioned books without getting distracted. ! That all being said, reading will continue to be one of the greatest ways to exercise your brain and expand your mind. For that reason I always recommend that people read for a minimum of fifteen minutes a day. ! When you start out, keep it simple. Find a book that interests you and set a timer for just fifteen minutes. Once the timer goes off find a good place to stop, mark where you left off and call it a day. Over time this fifteen minute habit will likely become your refuge from the insanity that is our world today and you will enjoy reading immensely. ! Remember… Readers are leaders. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: All of the smartest and most successful people are readers. Develop the habit of reading for 15 minutes a day by choosing a book that interests you and setting a timer for 15 minutes. Once the timer is up mark where you left off and wait until tomorrow. Over time you will learn to love the time you spend reading and you will keep your mind sharp into old age. ! ! “Vices are often habits rather than passions.” -Antoine Rivarol 36 ! Daily Habit #15 - Avoid Obesogens There are toxins within your home that you need to avoid. These TOXIC substances which damage your health and stall fat loss are found in many items in your very house. The reason these are so bad for you is because of little things called Obesogens. ! According to Wikipedia, obesogens are a class of chemical compounds that disrupt the normal development and metabolism of lipids. In other words, when you ingest obesogens via food, air or topically through your skin, your body will tend to store more body fat and/or make it harder for you to lose the fat you already have! ! So, what the heck are we to do about the obesogens? ! Unfortunately these days it is impossible to eliminate one hundred percent of obesogen exposure. Instead, in order to decrease the effects these environmental obesogens are having on your body go down the following list one step at a time and eliminate each of these obesogen from your life! ! Here is a list of the top 5 things you need to eliminate from your household to minimize excessive exposure to obesogens: ! Drinking Or Eating Off Of Plastic Materials - That’s right, plastic is one of the major players on the obesogen game and for optimal results its use should be minimized. Try using glass cups and storage containers rather than zip-top bags and plastic storage containers. ! Avoid Store Bought Air Fresheners - Most store bought air fresheners contain these chemical obesogens in them. Instead of chemical ridden air fresheners try using natural fresheners that you can get from your local health food store. Better yet, light a candle. ! Avoid Packaged Or Processed Foods - You have probably already tackled this one but most packaged and processed foods contain significantly higher amounts of obesogens than their less processed counterparts. Going organic is essential to minimizing the contact you have with environmental obesogens! ! Ditch The Non Stick Pans - Although extremely convenient, non stick pans off-gas poisonous chemicals known to be able to kill even birds! Do your best to trade up to cast iron or stainless steel so you can avoid these obesogens. 37 Stay Away From Chemical House Cleaners - Chemical house cleaners like windex contain a plethora of obesogens. It’s time to choose: shiny spot free windows or rapid fat loss. On a more serious note most local health food stores sell natural cleaning supplies that eliminate the use of toxic chemicals and do a pretty good job. Try replacing them one at a time so you don’t have to break the bank. Remember, take it one step at a time. Don’t take all this information and get all freaked out. Simply focus on one category at a time until you have replaced all of your toxic fat promoting supplies with the obesogen free versions. Good luck! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Obesogens are chemicals found in many common household items. They mess with your lipid metabolism and hormones and the result is a decrease in your health and fat gain. Make a habit of avoiding the five main obesogens above including eating or drinking off of plastic materials, store bought air fresheners, packaged or processed foods, using non stick pans that contain teflon and chemical based house cleaners. ! ! “The best way to break a bad habit is to drop it.” -Leo Aikman 38 SECTION 2 - Weekly Habits Weekly Habits - One For Each Day Of The Week “Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones.” ! - Benjamin Franklin There are seven different weekly habits (one for each day of the week). Although these habits are performed less often than the daily habits they all play an important part in you changing your body and changing your life. ! Unlike the daily habits, most of the weekly habits are very enjoyable and are easy to do. Since there are seven habits, all you have to do is perform just one habit each day of the week and you are good :) ! Start out by doing the following two habits as a priority. (1) Kick Up Your Heels And Have A Cheat Meal and (2) Measure Your Success. From there pick one or more habits to focus on and become consistent at them. Over time you will develop all seven habits which will help you look, feel and perform your absolute best. ! Alright, let’s introduce you to the seven weekly habits. ! “We become what we repeatedly do.” - Sean Covey 39 Weekly Habit #1 - Kick Your Heels Up And Have A Cheat Meal ! While I am a stickler for you maintaining a good nutrition program, I am a huge advocate of taking a meal (or a day if you're fairly lean) to eat whatever you want. The reason for this is because the quickest way to give up on a diet or healthy eating is to deprive yourself of the joys of food for a long period of time. ! If you're worried about the effects of a cheat day, trust me, a measly meal or twelve hour window of eating some tasty foods will not affect your results as long as you are following a good diet program the rest of the week. However, even on a cheat meal or a cheat day I have a few rules to help you minimize the overall damage you can cause. Follow these rules before and during your cheat meal for best results. ! ! ! ! ● Start your day off with a high protein meal just like you do on all other days ● Make sure you still consume enough protein throughout the day ● Drink lots of extra fluids throughout the day before (not after) your meals ● Consume hot herbal teas such as green tea or yerba mate tea in order to help digestion and increase metabolic rate ● Be sure to try and exercise or stay active in order for your body to handle all of the excess carbs coming in ● Reduce your fat intake when consuming a high carb meal ● Don’t eat something if you feel you are having an allergic or uncomfortable reaction from it. Common foods sensitivities include milk, eggs, fish, shellfish, peanuts, tree nuts, wheat, and soy. ● Don’t feel guilty, be happy and enjoy it! ! ! ! ! ! ! 40 QUICK HABIT RECAP: Having a cheat meal (or day if you are lean) once per week where you enjoy your favorite foods is a good idea to keep you motivated to stick to a good diet. Follow the tips above to reduce any damage caused from cheat days. ! “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” -Jim Ryun 41 Weekly Habit #2 - Try Or Learn Something New ! Although this book is about adding new habits into your life, I’m sure at some point you will think that it is hard adding in all these new habits. The reason for this is because the more you rehearse something the easier it is to do. It doesn't matter if it is positive or negative, you simply get better at what you do the most. This means that the old habits you’ve created during your life are easier for you to do than the new ones. The reason for this habitual strengthening lies in looking at brain science. ! A phrase often heard in brain science is, “nerves that fire together wire together.” This is a simple way of confirming that the more you do something the better you get at it. Think about it like this: If I put a hose at the top of a hill and turn it on, within five minutes there will be dozens, perhaps even hundreds of different water trails flowing down that hill. This represents the potential of the brain when learning something new. However, if I wait a week, a month or even several years, the dozens of tracks will turn into only a few deep grooves in the dirt, which represents how you stop learning new ways of doing things. ! So what does this have to do with helping you form better habits? Simple: The longer you spent making bad exercise, nutrition and lifestyle habits the more difficult you will find it to rid of those bad habits. You may quite literally be trying to undo thirty, forty or fifty years of mental conditioning, and it may be hard at first. Now I don’t write this to bum you out, but rather to show you a way you can reawaken the plasticity of your brain and kiss your old habits goodbye much quicker. Here’s how: In order to reawaken your learning brain you need to do new things. Learning new things, whether they be physical or mental, unlocks the areas of the brain that have been tied down and can make it easier to let go of old habits in exchange for new ones. 42 Here are just a few things you could try to reawaken the learning and creative side of you so you can send your old bad habits packing: ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ● Learn a new movement or sport ● Do things the opposite way you usually do them (put your left shoe on first, brush your teeth left handed, etc.) ● Try a new healthy recipe every week (you will surprise yourself with the foods you didn’t know you liked) ● Watch a documentary and then have a discussion about it ● Take a class or an online course on something you are interested in ● Try out a new outdoor activity The point is simple. When you learn new things your brain will open up to new possibilities and the more possibilities your brain has the less likely you are to get stuck in a rut. ! Once per week, devote thirty minutes to the study of something new. It can be anything you want to learn. You can focus on that one thing for several months and practice it each week or you can change it every week. Just pick something that interests you - the more creative the better - and set aside thirty minutes to work on it. When you do, your rewire your brain to make learning all these habits easier. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: When you learn new things your brain rewires itself to be more receptive to developing new habits. Spend 30 minutes each week learning to do something new. It can be anything you want, the more creative the better. You can work on one thing for months or change every week. ! ! “Everything you are used to, once done long enough, starts to seem natural, even though it might not be.” - Julien Smith 43 ! Weekly Habit #3 - Spend Some Time Alone Doing Something You Love In todays world people almost consider it a badge of honor not to take care of themselves. You hear people talk about how they only sleep four hours, they work two jobs and they spend all their free time with their family and friends. The problem with this is that when you are constantly distracted with work. Other people’s needs you tend to neglect yourself and eventually this can result in you forgetting who you are and what it is you love to do. ! I’m not recommending that you prioritize your needs above your family. Rather I am suggesting that all people, including the busiest people in the world all need to take a little time for them to do what it is they love. ! Carve out an hour or more once a week where you will go do something you love to do alone. It is important that you do this alone, as this will allow you to reflect on your values and connect to who you are and what you believe. By doing this regularly you will develop a profound sense of self awareness that you may not recognize in many other people. ! And don’t forget, if you have responsibilities like a spouse or children you must work together with your spouse or family and make sure that they get an equal amount of time to do whatever they want alone. By doing this for each other, you will develop a deeper respect and connection with your partner or family and the benefits to your relationship will astound you. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Carve out an hour once per week to do something that you love to do alone. It is important that you do it alone as the purpose of this habit is to develop a sense of self awareness you cannot develop any other way. Make sure to return the favor to your spouse or family members by allowing them the same time for themselves each week. ! “H is for Habit, winners make a habit of doing the things losers don't want to do.” -Lucas Remmerswaal 44 Weekly Habit #4 - Spend Some Time Socializing With Your Friends Or Family ! Just as we need time to ourselves, we also need to have social time with our family and friends. This is so important because as humans we are social creatures. If we avoid social settings for a long period of time things like depression, anxiety and a sense of disconnect begin to thrive. ! We are meant to be social, we are meant to sit around the campfire singing songs, laughing and telling stories with our friends and families. But, as often is the case these days, we come home from a long day at work, shower, eat dinner, maybe spend a little time socializing and then it’s off to watch the TV for an entertaining experience where we don't have to think. ! To fix this issue and begin to reap the benefits we humans get from socialization, set aside a minimum of one hour each week to socialize with your family or friends. It’s important that you choose a good setting to make sure that you avoid the distractions that technology will have on a social event. Nothing spoils a social setting more than TV shows, cell phones and other digital distractions. Here are some examples of good ways to socialize with your family and friends: ! ● Go eat out at a restaurant that has outdoor seating and let everyone know that there will be no cell phones present at this dinner. ● Go to a park or a beach (preferably one with no cell phone reception) and enjoy some outdoors time with your family. ● Have a BBQ at your house and set up tables outdoors if possible to can keep your distance from the TV. ! ! ! At first this may seem a little difficult, especially if you have children. But over time this will grow to be a fun and pleasurable experience for you to connect with those you love in a social setting. Regardless of what you activities you choose to do, carve out sixty minutes to avoid all technology and be social with you family and friends. ! ! 45 QUICK HABIT RECAP: As humans we are social creatures and as social creatures we thrive on regular socialization. Set aside 60 minutes or more each to spend week away from technology including TV and cell phones to socialize with your family and friends. Some great social settings are parks, beaches, restaurants and backyard BBQ’s. ! ! “So much of what we do every single day is the result of habits that we have formed over time.” -Joyce Meyer 46 Weekly Habit #5 - Go Outside And Play ! Do you ever just look at children? Watch them play on the playground? See all the fun they have while they are exercising? If not the next time you are around children take notice of how joyful they are when they move freely. What the heck happened to us as we grew up? ! Didn’t we used to play joyfully just like that as well? The truth is, society these days values education, sitting in classrooms and structure. Unfortunately this isn’t the way we were designed to work best. So what can we do to regain this playfulness and experience joy when moving just like the little kids on the playground? ! Simple... Join them! Now, I am not suggesting you go running around up and down the slides and across the monkey bars (although this sounds pretty fun to me), but instead set aside 30 minutes each week to get outside and play a little. This can serve as a great way to get fresh air, exercise, sun exposure, learn new movements and get some social time and get your feet on the earth. Here are some ideas of things you can do that are playful, fun and can actually boost your fat loss results: ! ! ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● ● Rock Climbing Paddle Boarding Walking Hiking Surfing Soccer Baseball Capture The Flag Frisbee Flying A Kite Playing Catch Walk Your Dogs You can do pretty much anything that you have fun doing! 47 QUICK HABIT RECAP: Playing like a child (especially outdoors) is key to a healthy and happy life. Set aside 30 minutes a week to simply play. You can do anything that you love to do and this can serve as a great way to accomplish many of the other habits at the same time. ! “Play reaches the habits most needed for intellectual growth.” -Bruno Bettelheim 48 Weekly Habit #6 - Measure Your Success ! There is a great saying in science that says, “that which gets measured gets improved”. Since the goal of this book is to teach you how to transform you body and life through mastering new habits, it stands to reason that one of the habits you need to do each and every week is set aside time to measure your success and reflect on your goals (the ones you will create with the Habit Forming Checklists in the monthly habits section) and how you are doing at building these new habits. Carve out ten minutes each week to ask yourself the following questions and measure your success: ! ! ! ! ● Are you consistently performing the daily habits that you are working on developing? If yes, then great. If no then what do you need to do to make those habits more consistent? ● Have you performed each of the weekly habits you are working on this week? If yes, then great. If no then what do you need to do to make those habits more consistent? ● Have you been following the monthly plan you created in the Habit Forming Checklist for your SMART Goal? If yes then great. If no do you need to change the plan or is there something you can do to make it work better? Once you honestly reflect on what you have accomplished for the week, feel free to tweak your daily affirmation to reflect any changes you’ve made that will help you be more consistent in forming these new habits and following the plan you laid out to achieve your goals. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Set aside 10 minutes to reflect upon the successes and failures you’ve had each week. Are you staying consistent with your daily and weekly habits? Are you following the monthly plan to achieve your goal that you created in the Habit Forming Checklist? If yes, then great if no, what do you need to do to make those habits more consistent? Alter your daily affirmation to reflect any changes you make to help you be more consistent. ! “Habits in writing as in life are only useful if they are broken as soon as they cease to be advantageous.” -W. Somerset Maugham 49 ! Weekly Habit #7 - Do A Selfless Act For Someone Else There are few things more satisfying then performing a truly selfless act for another person. The joy and gratitude that person will experience when you anonymously do something nice for them will rub off on you and make you a better person. ! Plus, the ripple effect of people remembering the nice act that was done for them will likely affect more people over time then you could ever imagine. Just think about a time when someone did something truly nice for you without an expectation of even a thank you in return. It was a good feeling, right? It probably even made you a happier, nicer person for a period of time. ! The most important part of this habit however is that you make it truly selfless. To do this you cannot expect anything in return. Not a thank you, not forgiveness, not a smile or anything else. You must give from the heart for the pure joy of giving. This alone will do more for you then you could imagine. ! It doesn’t have to be a huge act either. You could pay for someone’s coffee or food that you don’t know, you could send someone flowers or a nice gift they weren’t expecting or you could join a local program that helps people down on their luck. ! If you have wounds to mend in your family or other relationships, do something for them that they would enjoy or never see coming. But for the most powerful results, do this weekly selfless act for someone you’ve never met and keep it anonymous. During an interview I conducted I learned of an interesting way to selflessly give back that you can try. Go to a local coffeehouse and purchase a gift card for whatever amount you want. Give it to the person taking orders and tell them to use the card for the next people until it runs out and walk away. If you want, you can sit outside with your coffee and watch as people smile from the surprise. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Perform one truly selfless act each week for another person. Do not expect anything in return, not even a thank you or a smile. For best results, do something for someone you do not know and make it anonymous if possible. ! ! “Habits change into character.” - Ovid 50 ! SECTION 3 - Monthly Habits ! Monthly Habits - The Foundation For Habit Building “Good habits are worth being fanatical about.” ! -John Irving This section contains the five essential monthly habits that serve as the foundation for all the other habits you will form with this book. Unlike the other sections where the habits are straightforward, four of these habits involve your critical thinking and creativity. ! You must do all five of these habits for the rest of this book to work and by doing all five of these habits once per month, you will develop a deep sense of self awareness, purpose and direction that few other people have. These habits will serve as your roadmap to yourself and guide you to succeed with this book. ! Make sure you have your Habit Forming Checklist pages printed out as you will be actively participating for the first four monthly habits. Let’s jump right in and pour the foundation that will transform your body and life! ! “Successful people are simply those with successful habits.” - Brian Tracy 51 ! Monthly Habit #1 - Identify Where You Currently Are And What Works One of the most challenging things for people to do is to look at themselves objectively without bias or opinion. We all seem to have preconceived beliefs about ourselves and a stagnant opinion of our self worth. But your perception of you isn’t reality, it’s simply your intellectual projection of who you are on your organic body. This concept was initially very challenging for me to describe to people and to get them to understand. ! You are who you are right now and the only way you can make a change is to accept where you are in this current moment and identify where you truly are. It is only after you identify where you are that you can make a plan to change yourself to become who you want to be. ! What I’m asking you to do is to use the Habit Forming Checklist pages for the monthly habits and follow along with them as you create a strong foundation for success with this book. ! If this is your first time identifying where you are make sure you follow along with the monthly Habit Forming Checklist pages as you do this exercise. If you’ve already identified where you are before then skip to the bottom of this habit. ! Now that you know you need to establish where you are from an objective perspective, what is the best way to do this? ! Measure. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP:You can never move forward unless you accept where you are currently at. Pull out the Monthly Habit Forms and fill out the one that saysIdentify Where You Are Currently And What Works. Afterward, go onto Monthly Habit #2. ! ! ! 52 Monthly Habit #2 - Set Or Create New SMART Goals ! I'm gonna lay it on the line here and say that there's a good chance you want to look better naked, right? Well there's no shame in that at all. In fact when people come to work with me privately I first try to get them to set up some goals and expectations and they beat around the bush saying “I need to improve my health and fitness” but ultimately it comes back to the truth they aren't happy with where their body is right now. ! Identifying your real goals is crucial to getting the results you want, because you can never reach a destination that you don't know the location of. If this is your first time setting SMART goals, make sure you read and follow along with your Habit Forming Checklist Monthly Sheets. If you’ve already set SMART goals then skip to the bottom of this section. ! Wherever you are right now, I want you to take a moment to think about what it is that you really want to accomplish with your body. Is it a great body fat percentage? Would you like to compete in a sport again? Do you want your husband or wife to look at you as hot, buff or sexy again? Once you have an idea of what you want to look, feel or perform like I want you to write the following statement down on paper and read it several times each day, here it is... ! You can achieve anything you want as long as you know where you are going and what steps you need to take to get there ! After you identify your root goals all you have to do is stay the course, keep what's working and adjust or eliminate what isn't working and you will eventually arrive at your destination. Let's set up a hypothetical situation about your goals... ! Let's say you want to lose ten percent body fat. This is a good goal to shoot for because if you lose ten percent body fat you will be a brand new person. Take your goal and write it down, read it every day and internalize it until you feel like it is the only thing that is going to happen, like there's no way anyone can stop you from reaching your goal no matter how long it will take. ! Now you need to find a system that has helped people just like you to lose body fat and keep it off. For now let's go with kettlebells and cross training coupled with a low sugar, low processed food, minimal food allergy and moderate to high protein diet (just like you're already doing). 53 Now all you have to do it stick to the course and tweak and improve on your program as you make your way down the path to your own success! ! Let's take a look at the best way to set these goals so that you will actually achieve them. I want you setting SMART goals. SMART is an acronym for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time Bound. Lets look at each of these so you can set and achieve any goal you like. ! Specific - The more specific your goal is the better. If you want to lose ten percent body fat what goal do you think would be more powerful? "I want to lose ten percent body fat" or "I will lose ten percent body fat by January 1st 2013 as registered on an ultrasound body fat scanner using a 7 point test”. The second statement is much more specific - making it all the more likely you will achieve it. Be Exact! ! Measurable - Imagine if I had said I want to lose ten pounds this year. First off this is not specific enough, second of all I could lose ten pounds of fat, muscle or bone and not know what I was actually losing. Most of us who have body transformation goals should focus on something more measurable. Body fat percent doesn't lie — if you have low body fat percentage and good relative muscle mass you will look good in a bathing suit on the other hand, if you are not happy where you are now and you set out to lose ten pounds and end up losing all muscle, guess what: you still won't be happy. Make sure you know how you are going to measure the progress to your goal. You should also have stepping stones along the way that pertain to your goals (see Time Bound). ! Attainable - We already talked about this a little, your goal needs to be something you know you can achieve. That being said, you should aim high: your goal should give you butterflies in your tummy and it should feel good to think about. All in all you need to know what you are capable of and you should set your goals accordingly. ! Relevant - You won't achieve something that is unimportant or irrelevant to you. This is especially important when setting your financial goals, if you tie your goals to a number “like I want to make five thousand dollars more this year” then you also kneed to know what that five thousand represents. Whether it’s a vacation you want to take, an addition to your savings, a down payment to a new car, you should know why it is you want to achieve your goal. If the why isn't strong enough, then good luck getting to your goals. Make sure you are setting goals that tap into your passion and make sure you have the whys down so you know why you’re working towards this goal. 54 Time Bound - No goal is complete without a deadline. I recommend working backwards from your goal date and setting up mini goals. For example if you weight one hundred fifty pounds at thirty percent body fat and want to weight one hundred thirty five pounds at twenty percent body fat in one year your goals should look like this. ! Start - 150lb 30%BF 3mo - 146lb 28%BF 6mo - 142lb 25% BF 9mo - 138lb 22% BF 12mo Finish 135 lb 20% BF ! Now on first glance these mini stepping stone goals may look tiny in contrast to your year long goals but that is important. If all you focused on was losing four pounds and about two percent body fat every twelve weeks you would achieve amazing results over that one year period. It really is that simple: baby steps every day are the true brick and mortar of seemingly fantastic success. ! TAKE ACTION NOW 3 DAYS FROM TODAY! Now here is something I want you to do right now. Take out a piece of paper and write down "I will set a SMART goal specific to what I want to accomplish with my body and I will have it written on a piece of paper and placed in a spot where I will see it daily by three days from today”. ! There you go, I have set your first SMART goal for you, all you have to do now is write, rewrite, think rewrite, revise and then come up with your SMART goal by three days from now and you will have already achieved your first goal. Congratulations in advance! ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Setting goals is more then just wishful thinking. In order to set and achieve your goals most effectively, you need to set specific, attainable goals, determine how you will measure your progress, determine why you must succeed and make them time bound. If you establish goals in this SMART way, you will achieve them! ! ! ! ! ! ! 55 Monthly Habit #3- Create And Adjust Your Plan For Success ! Your goals are like water, they flow with you on the endless journey of life. In order for you to make a real and lasting change, you shouldn’t become married to a particular method of achieving your goals. ! The most successful people on the planet set specific goals and they make plans to achieve those goals just like you. The only differences between the extremely successful and everyone else is their ability to adjust and adapt as they move towards their goals. ! You see, when most people are met with roadblocks, they get frustrated and end up giving up. They tell themselves that their plan didn’t work and reconcile to a life of blameless mediocrity. ! But, instead of seeing failure as total defeat or a reason to give up, what if you used failure as a way to analyze whether your plans to achieve your goals are working. ! Thomas Edison once said — after failing over 10,000 times to invent the light bulb, “I didn’t fail 10,000 times, I found 10,000 ways not to make the lightbulb”. His perseverance is the reason you and I can flip a switch and light a room. ! The reason why I am telling you this is because if you really want to achieve your goals, then planning and adjusting that plan monthly or even sooner is the best way to get you there! ! Pull out your Monthly Habit Forms right now and follow along to the questions as you use your 30 Day SMART goal to set or adjust your plan and make sure you are always on the right path for success! ! Remember, there is no failure, only knowledge of what worked for you and what did not. ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Creating plans to achieve your goals is essential. But, you shouldn’t get married to the idea of those specific plans succeeding. Often when people fail they give up on their goals and dreams. By approaching your planning more like a dance where you learn from your mistakes you will ensure future success in anything you do. ! ! 56 Monthly Habit #4 - Create A New Daily Affirmation That Focuses On Your Plan ! When the goal is transforming your body, how important can your mindset really be? ! Let me tell you, people consistently underestimate just how important getting your head in the game is -- especially when it comes to optimizing your results. ! I once heard a story about a woman who taped a piece of paper over the display of her scale. The paper showed her goal weight of one hundred thirty two pounds, which was about ten pounds less then she currently weighed. ! Every day she stepped on the scale, looked down at the fake number, pretended it was real, and threw up her arms in excitement saying, "Yes! I did it!" ! The tale ended sixty days later after she had repeated the same ritual every day. Without any significant or conscious nutrition and exercise changes, she peeled away the paper, stepped on the scale, and weighed one hundred thirty two pounds! ! I don't know if the story is true, but it's compelling to think about what your subconscious mind is doing to either sabotage or encourage you to reach your goals. ! Consider the following two people, and then decide who you'd bet on succeeding. ! Person 1 ! This person wakes up every morning and thinks, "Today is the best day ever! I've got my food planned and I can't wait to work out. I know with every fiber of my being that I'm on the right track. Fat loss, here I come!" ! OR… ! Person 2 ! This person wakes up every morning and thinks, "I hate how tired I am! This diet is hard and the workouts are tough. Maybe I'll skip a few days. Besides, even if I stick with the program, I'm not sure this is really gonna work. After all, nothing ever goes right for me." 57 Okay. I may have made it way too easy to choose the ace in the hole, but you need to understand how important self-talk is. If you say you're tired, you'll be tired. If you say you hate working out, you'll hate working out. ! Whether or not you resemble person one or two right now, consider creating a daily affirmation you can read to yourself in the morning. If you put it beside your bed and read it first thing every morning, it'll motivate you to achieve your goals and put you in the right state of mind. ! It's been powerful for me. I started silently reading a small paragraph on an index card several years ago and have since evolved into listening to a five-minute speech I recorded about where I want to be in November 2015. ! Here are some guidelines for writing your daily affirmation: ! * Write in the future. Instead of writing, "In forty five days I will weigh less." Write, "It's November 11th and I'm eleven pounds lighter. The choices I've made over the last fifty days have led me to this huge success!" ! * Put your goal in there with as much clarity as you possibly can. Include details about how it'll feel to reach your goal, who you'll tell, the clothes you'll wear, and any other details that make your goal feel real when you read it. ! * Conclude it with a statement of gratitude. Try saying something like, "I am so grateful for where I am in my life, and I'm excited for what I know I can achieve. Thank you!" ! Here's a full example: "It's November 11th, and I'm even pounds lighter. My skinny jeans once again fit and I feel healthier than I have since I was nineteen! The choices I've made over the last fifty days have led me to this huge success, and I'm so grateful for where I am in my life. I'm excited for what I know I can achieve! Thank you!” ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Words are powerful. So powerful in fact that they can make or break your day and lead you on a good path to success or drive you to frustration and failure. Use the Monthly Habit Forms to create a daily affirmation. Read this affirmation every day first thing in the morning to make sure you set a positive goal oriented tone for your whole day. 58 ! Monthly Habit #5- Do Something To Take Care of Yourself Self care is perhaps one of the most neglected areas of many peoples lives. When you don’t take the time to care for yourself, you won’t ever be able to care for others. ! By doing something to take care of yourself at least once a month you will improve your health, your happiness and the way your body feels and looks. ! Here’s just a few of the things you could consider doing to take care of yourself: ! • Get a massage • Go to a day spa and spend the day soaking in their tubs or visiting their sauna • Go see a chiropractor • Get Rolfed (seriously try this!) • See a therapist you can comfortably talk to • Go to a weekend retreat for some much needed rest and relaxation • Schedule some extra time to sleep in with no distractions • Take you spouse or family on a trip to the beach and relax in the sun • And more... The bottom line is to do something for YOU. To do something that you know will make you feel like a million bucks and will rejuvenate your body and mind. ! Don’t forget, if you have a spouse or significant other it’s a great idea to help them out by encouraging them to take care of themselves at least once a month as well :) ! QUICK HABIT RECAP: Most people neglect the health of their bodies by never treating it nicely. Once a month do something healing and rejuvenating for your mind and body. Massage, chiropractic, acupuncture, spa treatments or just extra rest can do wonders for the way you look, feel and perform! 59 ! Conclusion ! Change Your Habits - By The Inch It’s a Sinch, By The Yard It’s Hard “Your goals are like water, they are not rigid but rather flow with the currents on the endless journey of life” ! -Tyler Bramlett The real key to you becoming a happier and healthier version of you who looks, feels and performs their best is in changing your habits. This is not an overnight endeavor however and the single most important thing is for you to be consistent and persistent. ! This book and the accompanying Habit Forming Checklists will guide you through developing the 27 Body Transformation Habits that will change your life for the better. If you apply the information in this book I can honestly and confidently guarantee that you will feel better then you ever thought you could feel! ! As a final note... Never give up on working to improve yourself. Always keep moving forward towards your goals and when you get stuck and you will get stuck. Don’t get frustrated but rather learn the lessons life is trying to teach you and then find a way to continue on your path to becoming the greatest version of yourself. ! Remember, I’m here to help if you need me :) 60