August 2015
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August 2015
TOM TURNER Lonely but Not Alone! was drafted into the United States Army 49 years ago this month. At 25 years old and married three years with a good position in New York City, my world suddenly changed. As I reported to the enlistment office and received my Gideon New Testament from a caring man at the door, lonely was a word that became very real to me. Way back then we did not have the immediacy of email and Facebook that transmits messages in an instant. Rather, we had to wait till we got to a phone booth or we heard our name at mail call meaning we had a “snail mail” letter from a loved one at home. What a thrill it was to open that letter and know that someone cared—about me! I was invited to join the board of directors at CMML 17 years ago, and after much prayer I felt the Lord would have me move in that direction. Over the years I have been privileged to meet many of the Lord’s servants who labor on the foreign field. One thing is very certain among these dear missionaries—they are far, far away from their home assembly, family and friends. Many times they feel lonely, but let me hasten to say they know they are not alone. They know from firsthand experience the promise of our Savior: “For He hath said, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee.” (Hebrews 13:5b) These dear saints no doubt miss the warm greetings and fellowship that we enjoy at the local assembly. But they have left that place of safety and support to travel to a distant land and culture where they preach the Gospel, disciple believers and put their shoulder to the plow to do a myriad of jobs that are needed on the field.There are lonely times for sure. Perhaps you also have felt times of loneliness as I did when I was in the military. But one thing I knew from experience was that He was with me and I was not alone. Dear reader, please imagine for a minute how you would feel if you were a missionary serving thousands of miles away wondering,“Does anyone back home care?” This does happen; I and so I challenge you to think about your personal responsibility to the individual or family commended from your home assembly to serve the Lord overseas. Remember they are an extension of you and your local church.Today, you have all the modern conveniences of email, Facebook, Skype and telephone that can put you immediately in front of your missionary to offer words of encouragement and care. Even if you feel you can’t use those electronic methods, you can still take time to write a letter to one of the Lord’s servants who may be feeling lonely right now! Your “snail mail” letter with a stamp from the U.S. or Canada truly will make a missionary’s day because your letter clearly says,“I care about you!” The Scripture reminds us “Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.” (1 John 4:11) And, “My flesh and my heart faileth, but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever.” (Psalm 73:26) Some of our missionaries may feel lonely, but they are never alone, and neither are we on the home front. Right now you have the ability (and might I say, the responsibility) to make an important difference in the life of a missionary. Please take time today to contact a missionary and encourage them in their labors by letting them know that you care. We all have a part to play in worldwide missions work. Some are called to go and others to stay at home to support those who have answered God’s call. But remember support not only includes prayer and financial help with practical needs, but it also means “coming alongside” to bear up our brothers and sisters who are serving the Savior. Satan is hard at work trying to discourage our missionaries. He does not want the Gospel to go out or people to get saved. But you can make a difference. “The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.” (James 5:16b) Please keep praying and then take action in this important battle. Won’t you become an encourager to the Lord’s servants today? You have the ability and the responsibility to make an important difference in the life of a missionary. Tom Turner is CMML’s Vice President, Publishing Vol. 44, No. 8. Christian Missions in Many Lands (ISSN 0744-4052) is published eleven times a year by Christian Missions in Many Lands, Inc., Belmar, New Jersey. Periodical postage paid at Belmar, New Jersey, and additional mailing offices. POSTMASTER: Send United States address changes to Christian Missions in Many Lands, Inc., PO Box 13, Spring Lake, NJ 07762. Send Canadian address changes to MSC Canada, 101 Amber Street, Suite 16, Markham, Ontario L3R 3B2. MSC Canada publication agreement Number 40026478. All correspondence, including address changes, gifts for missionary work, and for expenses should be sent by Canadian readers to MSC Canada, 101 Amber Street, Suite 16, Markham, Ontario L3R 3B2 and by United States readers to Christian Missions in Many Lands, Inc., PO Box 13, Spring Lake, NJ 07762. Copyright ' CMML. All rights reserved. COVER PHOTO: ©iStockPhoto.com/Mr_Khan 2 MISSIONS www.cmml.us ©iStockPhoto.com/Mr_Khan BY SARAH MATTIX The call to counseling ...through our pain, we become stronger because hope can turn our pain into something beautiful. For much of the past 14 years that my husband Jerry and I have served in the Middle East, I’ve focused on counseling as a means of building up the body of Christ and reaching out to unbelievers. I’ve come to appreciate what a powerful tool this is in discipleship and outreach. In the last two years since we relocated to Cyprus, I decided to work on an online degree in crisis and trauma counseling.This spring, as I was finishing up my studies, the Lord began to put the young refugee girls who have fled from ISIS and are in camps back in Diyarbakir, Turkey, on my heart. After hearing about a girl who hanged herself out of desperation, the desire to go and minister to these girls grew more urgent. Despite my own misgivings, Jerry encouraged me to trust that the Lord had uniquely prepared me for such a time as this. After consulting the leaders in Diyarbakir, I decided to go and do post-trauma counseling with the Yezidi refugee women. I had many concerns before making the trip. I wondered how everything would come together. I also had doubts about whether I could really be of help to these girls who have suffered so much. I was told that they are very reluctant to talk with anyone.Yet my passion for reaching out to them and loving them compelled me to at least try. I arranged for one of the ladies from the church in Diyarbakir to help with the translation and we stepped out in faith. MISSIONS August 2015 3 The refugee camp Sarah (center back) with some Yezidi refugee women and girls. The refugee camp used to be a park, with shade trees and picnic tables, that the church used to frequent. Today, it is surrounded by barbed wire to keep intruders out and the Yezidis in. The camp holds up to 3,500 refugees, all living in gray tents provided by the local municipality. Most of the Yezidis living in this camp used to live in the Sinjar province located in northwestern Iraq. They were forced to flee their ancestral villages last summer because of the vicious threat of ISIS.The men that fell into the hands of the Islamic State were summarily decapitated while the women were sorted with the younger captives being sold as sex slaves for the terrorists. Those that managed to escape mainly fled north to Turkey and were given safe haven by the Kurdish municipalities of the southeastern region. Until recently, the Yezidis managed to keep to themselves, preferring not to mingle with other ethnic or religious groups.The Muslim majority peoples around them refer to them as “devil worshippers” because they venerate a supreme angel in the form of a peacock, which is often associated with Satan. Their religion is actually a unique mixture of ancient Judaism, Christianity and Islam. More recently, because they have suffered so much at the hands of Muslims, they are very open to Christian help. Day 1 Hearing their stories As we parked outside the massive refugee camp we paused and prayed together before launching out. We prayed that the Lord would lead us to the right tent as I had a desire to do group therapy with the younger women as well as one-on-one counseling. The people in the first tent we walked up to gladly invited us in. Providentially, it turned out that they had five young teenage girls. I had my translator share with them why I had come, and they immediately showed interest and amazement that we cared for them. They then went out and invited all their friends to come to the tent. Within 15 minutes we had 35 girls ages 15 to 20 crammed into the tent. We sat with them for about two hours, listening to their stories of hopelessness and pain. Many of them sobbed as they spoke. Everyone had lost someone dear to them. Most had friends or relatives still in the hands of ISIS. Inside my heart I prayed: How can I help these girls find hope? Many of them expressed their desire to die, to go to sleep and never wake up in the morning. And yet, I saw that as they shared their stories, even the fact that I was willing to listen made them feel loved and gave them a glimmer of hope. Day 2 A ball and an egg Lemonade hope. 4 MISSIONS www.cmml.us The second day we returned to the camp, and within five minutes about 40 girls had gathered, all eagerly awaiting to see what I had to share. For the next 45 minutes I talked about God’s love as well as hope. I held up a ball and an egg. I then shared how we may all feel at times like cracked eggs spilling out its contents, never to recover. However, holding up the ball, I told them that we could actually choose to be balls instead, bouncing back from pain and trauma. During the next hour I allowed them to share their fears, hurts and pain with me some more. After two hours of therapy we passed out cookies and cake. The little boy from the tent hosting us came asking for cake and later his mom told us that it was the first time he had eaten cake in a year. I told him I had a little boy about his age. Seeing the marbles in his hand I mentioned that my son likes to play with marbles, too. He then surprised me by offering to give his marbles to Gabriel. In many instances like this I came to appreciate the generous spirit of the Yezidis who, despite all their misfortunes, continue to act selflessly. Day 3 Give your fear to God On the third day, we drove into the camp and noticed all the girls waiting for us. As we got out of the car, they showered us with hugs and kisses while jabbering away in Kurdish. This time I spoke about their fears and taught them to put their fears in a box, lock it, and give it to God. I explained that He is bigger than our fears. During this session they shared their fears, which usually consisted of losing loved ones and falling into the hands of ISIS as many of their friends and relatives had already done. Many tears were shed, but I taught them that living in fear only makes them weaker. In a group session I showed them different cognitive exercises to overcome their fears. In the forthcoming days I was repeatedly encouraged to hear them talk about how much the simple examples and exercises really helped them. Their stories At the end of this day I began to meet with different girls oneon-one for several more hours. One girl shared with me how she had not been able to cry since parting from her parents in Iraq. She had lost some close friends to ISIS and never heard from them again. She showed me scars near her heart where she had tried to stab herself to help the pain go away. After talking for an hour she said she felt a big burden had been lifted. During those hours I heard one horror story after another. The one that stands out to me was that of a 15-year-old girl who had been trapped on Sinjar Mountain for 10 days without food or water. She had seen babies die of starvation and friends jump off cliffs from desperation. She had witnessed decapitated bodies and severed heads. Right before they were rescued, her father and uncle went back to the village in a last-ditch effort to find food for their families. At that point ISIS attacked and she was rescued just in time but without any news of her father.This young girl looked like she carried the weight of the world on her shoulders. As I talked to her she seemed grateful to be loved. She is the young girl who, on my last day there, put a bracelet on my wrist say- ing she would never forget me. But her story and her face are etched in my heart and mind—it is I who will never forget her. Day 4 Lemonade hope The following day, we talked about hope and how it is bigger than our hurts and how we grow through our pain. Ultimately, through our pain, we become stronger because hope can turn our pain into something beautiful. I distributed lemons. I then asked them to close their eyes while squeezing the lemons. With their eyes closed, I asked them to imagine they were squeezing their pain out and giving it to God. Then we added sugar as a symbol of hope. Finally, we drank the lemonade together showing how our pain can be transformed into something sweet. All of the girls shared at different times what gave them hope. Many mentioned how their faith in God and love for their families kept them going. Day 5 Breaking the chains In our next session, we talked about how unforgiveness only chains us up and hurts us the most. They all shared their anger and expressed their desire to let go of it as I explained to them how it only hindered them. Again I did a lot of one-on-one counseling.The girl who had never cried came to me with great joy in her face, saying she had cried for the first time and felt so light inside. Another girl came and said that listening to me had given her hope again because the day I came to the camp she had planned to commit suicide. Story after story that day showed me how they had been applying what I had taught them and that it was giving them hope and making them feel like they were alive again. All of this made me realize what a difference God was making through me. One-on-one counseling. MISSIONS August 2015 5 Last Day The power of love On the last day they sat in front of me and one after another expressed that before I had come they had never known that anyone cared for Sarah with a Yezidi refugee girl. them. They felt abandoned in the refugee camp, and yet the fact that we were willing to come showed them that they were not forgotten. As they expressed this, my eyes filled with tears and I told them that even though I had come to teach I had learned so much from them. That day, I spent hours one-on-one hearing stories of how they had been transformed in the past days. Others expressed their deep pain. Every time I spoke to them I prayed for them in Jesus’s name. By the end, they returned and asked me to pray again in the name of Jesus. During the group sessions I also prayed for them several times, always emphasizing God’s love for them. Home again Let us pray Returning back to normal life after hearing so many horror stories is difficult, but during this time the Lord has showed me again that when He works through me, despite my fears and uncertainties, through the Holy Spirit He can use me powerfully. Overall, I was impressed by the incredible generosity, honorable demeanor and commitment to family I saw among the Yezidi people. Although we were not allowed to openly share the Gospel with them, nobody banned praying. So please pray that the Lord will work in their hearts in order to set them free from the bondage of sin and fear. The Kurdish sister who went with me to translate was also greatly impacted by our time together and intends to keep visiting the Yezidi girls from time to time. Please pray for her in her continued interaction with them. 6 MISSIONS www.cmml.us Finally, since I’ve returned, many have written asking what they can do to help. Many are eager to come and lend a hand where possible. While we appreciate the outpouring of love, the truth is that the local church is often flooded with wellmeaning visitors who actually take up the time and energy they should be investing in local lives. There are still financial needs that local leaders try to meet and the Disaster Relief Fund set up by CMML continues to welcome donations. More than anything though, they need our continued prayer support as refugee work can be incredibly draining. Sarah and Jerry Mattix serve the Lord in Northern Cyprus. They were commended in 2001 by the assembly in Yakima, Washington. BY JOEL HERNANDEZ n April 15 some 40 men met in Argentina to encourage the Latin American missionary movement. The men were leaders representing 11 countries in South America and several more from English-speaking countries (Canada, Scotland, U.K. and U.S.). We met for five days at the grounds of a Nazarene conference center in Pilar, Argentina. We called it a “retreat,” but there was no retreating about it.We were there to learn how to move forward. Each of these men might tell, if asked, the story of how assembly missionaries brought the Gospel to their country more than 100 years ago. They would recount the stories of men and women who, with admirable sacrifice, courage, godliness and creativity, left the comforts of home to plant the Gospel in mostly hostile territory. Though the names, places and dates change from country to country, the elements bear a resemblance: English-speaking missionaries sailed from Europe, leaving behind family and comforts and settled where God led them. They learned the language, faced hostility and persecution, yet in the end saw God plant His Word in good soil, such as would bring much fruit for generations to come. These pioneers were remarkable missionaries. It is no surprise then that Latin American believers would naturally define a missionary as a foreigner who leaves his or her English-speaking country and comes to labor in “our country.” But the winds are changing. A fresh understanding of the Great Commission is emerging south of the U.S. border. Believers are realizing Jesus calls all disciples to make disciples of all nations. The Great Commission is not a command directed only to the English-speaking world, or affluent nations, or O those with an evangelical maturity that spans centuries. No, the Great Commission is the responsibility of every disciple in every nation. God is leading an increasing number of Latin Americans to the mission field: an Argentinean doctor serves in Angola, a Colombian couple labors in the Far East, and a Mexican serves in Albania. Scores of others have been sent to places where Westerners are unwelcome. But these missionaries cannot operate in a vacuum. They need the spiritual, moral, and financial support of their local churches. And these churches cannot provide support in a vacuum either.They need to know the missionaries and understand their ministry and their needs. This two-way need provides the rationale for organizations that bridge the gap by facilitating the flow of communication from the missionary to the national assemblies, and the flow of resources from the local assemblies to the missionary. The bridge that connects missionaries and churches at home consists of organizations like CMML and MSC. There’s good news. Such national organizations in Latin America are emerging. In 1965 Argentina Missionary Evangelical Foundation (FEMA) was born. The Paraguay Missionary Evangelical Foundation (FEMIPA) began in 1998. Peru Missionary Services (SEMIPE) was founded in 2008. A number of other countries are now at different stages of the process of founding their own organization. This was the reason for the retreat. Latin American organizations came together, with the encouragement from CMML (U.S.), MSC Canada, Echoes of Service (United Kingdom) and Interlink (Scotland), to encourage other Latin American MISSIONS August 2015 7 brethren to begin their own missionary service organization. There were 11 countries represented: Argentina, Bolivia, Chile, Colombia, Ecuador, Honduras, Mexico, Panama, Paraguay, Peru and Uruguay. Tapping into the experience of those who are further ahead in the process, believers sat down to think hard about what makes a missionary service organization, its challenges, opportunities, and best practices.The program consisted of daily sessions, morning through evening, packed with lots of helpful advice about how to develop and maintain a healthy mission organization. Topics included: The biblical basis of missions The centrality of the local church in the process of missions Strengths and weaknesses of missions from the Latin American contexts Service groups: their governance, structure, purpose, policies, development and vision How a service group relates to the government Finance and mission (faith principle, missionary support, communication and accountability) The danger of dependency and how to avoid creating it The worker and his/her service (personal, logistic, cultural and ministry issues) There was time for a daily challenge from the Word. We wrestled around the table with the implications of the ideas we heard. We heard reports of what the Lord is doing in each country.We prayed for one another. And during down time, we reconnected with old friends and made new ones. So what was the value of this conference? First, it was historic. Nothing like this had ever been done before in Latin America. Though a number of these Spanish-speaking countries already have their own service organization, there has never been a time when brethren from Spanish-speaking countries have come together to learn how to set up their own. A second reason why this event was valuable is it established a precedent of collaboration. The conference was hosted by brothers from FEMA, Argentina. It was good that FEMA took the lead: brethren all over look up to Argentina as the oldest and most mature Latin American missionary enterprise. In this conference, however, Argentinean brethren set an exam- • • • • • • • • From top (L-R): Round table discussions included a multicultural perspective— Eliseo Zúñiga from Bolivia, Joel Hernandez from the U.S., and Eduardo Carbone from Argentina; Ian Burness shared from Echoes of Service’s wealth of experience; Evening “table talk” included reports of national mission work and prayer; Joel Hernandez, Paco Díaz, and Pepe Barrios considered Mexico’s missionary realities and needs; The event concluded with hymns and choruses set to the delightful cadences of an Argentinean music style. 8 MISSIONS www.cmml.us ple of service to their fellow Latin American brethren. But there was a further level of cooperation exhibited at the conference: the English-speakers were not in charge. This is significant in Latin America where white, English-speakers have long been regarded as the experts, as superiors especially on spiritual matters. Not so at this conference. The equality and the collaborative spirit between brethren of different nations and languages was evident, and it was a refreshing new precedent that underscored important truths: we need each other; we can learn from one another. A final value of this event was there was something for everyone. Some countries represented already have a mission organization functioning. Others only dream of having one.Yet all reported gaining helpful information from the sessions. Those just at the initial stages of developing an organization had an opportunity to pray, discuss, envision, and draft the first steps. Those with young organizations heard from those with older ones and considered issues, challenges and standards that affect a growing mission. Even brethren serving with the oldest missions were able to get a glimpse of how God is at work in Latin America and the unique challenges and opportunities as the Gospel moves forward. There’s a new dawning in missions in Latin America.Yes, the Lord continues to send missionaries there (just check out days 18 to 27 in the Missionary Prayer Handbook). Yes, missionaries are still critically needed in Hispanic countries. Yet there is a refreshingly new awareness among our hermanos, our brothers, in Latin America: the Lord of the harvest intends to send Latin American laborers to His harvest. As brethren step up to fill the gap between those sent and the assemblies who support, let’s pray that sound, trustworthy, spiritually-minded, service-oriented missionary service organizations emerge. Joel Hernandez is a CMML director. May We Introduce •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• Ana Caracciolo Missionary to Uruguay was born and raised in Mercedes, Uruguay. I came to know the Lord through a radio broadcast called “La Voz del Evangelia” (The Voice of the Gospel) in April 1971. From 1973 through 1975 I attended FEBE (Bible college) in Villa Maria, Argentina. Starting at age 19, I served the Lord as a school teacher (Bible, language, music and home economics) for five years at the Escuela Cristiana Camirena in Camiri, Bolivia. During those years, I met Mrs. Evelyn Pelley (Missionary Prayer Handbook Day 27) who came as a missionary from the U.S. in 1978. We served the Lord together in child evangelism (Good News Clubs), teacher training, ladies’ Bible studies and music ministry. In 1981 I was commended to the Lord’s work in Colombia. Evelyn and I were actively involved in church planting, camp work, ladies’ retreats, teacher training, organizing Sunday schools, door-to-door visitation and one-on-one evangelism. We both served in the cities of Barranquilla and Cartagena, Colombia. In 1992 we were invited to serve the Lord in Uruguay as volunteer workers with Child Evangelism Fellowship of Uruguay. We received the training and the CEF I credentials as IOTs (Instructors of Teachers). In 1995 I attended the CEF Leadership Institute in Sao Paulo, Brazil. In 2000 the director of all CEF in Latin America appointed me as the CEF national director for Uruguay. I continued to do volunteer service with CEF until March 2003. From April 2003 through May 2012 I came to the U.S. and was awarded a B.A. and M.A. in Communicative Disorders from California State University, Fullerton. After completing the clinical fellowship year, I was awarded a license and Certification in Clinical Competence as a speech-language pathologist. I sometimes do volunteer service among Spanish-speaking children with speech-language disabilities. Commended by Buena Park Christian Fellowship in Buena Park, California, I have returned to Uruguay to serve the Lord in child evangelism, teacher training, ladies’ ministry, and one-onone evangelism. MISSIONS August 2015 9 MOP 2015 Preparation for Missionary Service BY ANNIE ELLIOTT he Missionary Orientation Program, known as MOP, is an intensive one-week training session for new and potential missionaries. Held at Greenwood Hills Camp and Conference Center in Fayetteville, Pennsylvania, it is a joint effort of CMML and MSC Canada. This year, our 21 students ranged from early interest in missions to current missionaries looking for a “refresher” after their first few years on the field. We had two repeat MOP students, a father-son duo, seven married and 14 single, five from Canada and 16 from the United States. A particularly significant year, it marked the retirement of Ken Fleming, a MOP instructor from its inception 24 years ago. It was also a special year for Ken as his granddaughter attended as a student. The following introduction to our 2015 students, as well as our instructors, is to encourage your hearts to see God call His people to missions and to inspire you to pray for each one as they seek to serve the Lord. T ABBEY BROWN, originally from Kansas and in fellowship at Westside Bible Chapel, currently lives in Indiana and attends Bethany Christian Fellowship in Indianapolis. Praying about a missions opportunity in Cambodia, Abbey has served short-term in Ecuador and Romania and has a heart for orphans. She says she wants to communicate the “love and concern of my Heavenly Father to these children.” Regarding MOP, she shares that it “paints a very practical and realistic view of the mission field.” KATHRYN DUFFIELD, from Crescent Heights Chapel in Portage la Prairie, Manitoba, became passion ate about missions after participating in a 2014 short-term trip to Ireland and is seeking the Lord’s guid ance about returning there. She “enjoyed being with likeminde d people” at MOP,“even though we are all at different stages on our journey with missions.” 10 MISSIONS www.cmml.us MELODI FERRER, from Hillview Bible Chapel in Cupertino, California, grew up on the mission field and says that the example of her parents and other missionaries gave her an interest in missions. Although unsure if the Lord has called her to full-time ministry, she says she is “100 percent sure”the Lord has called her “to pray for and support missions as well as raise awareness.” She said that at MOP “meeting other missionaries reinforced the idea that what matters is not quantity of fruit from our ministry, but rather the faithfulness of our work (1 Corinthians 3:7).” GILBERT GLEASON, from Grace CHRISTINA FLEMING, from Arbor Oaks Bible Chapel in Dubuque, Iowa, is Ken Fleming’s granddaughter and a current Emmaus Bible College student. Christina was raised on the mission field until age 14 and has served on short-term missions trips. She says, “God has used MOP to show me how I need to serve and mature before I go out but has also given me more excitement for when I eventually do.” le JIM GLEASON, from Grace Bib Oregon, Fellowship in Por tland, his life. all ns heard about missio d for Lor Though still waiting on the actively future direction, Jim has pro served taken a missions course and ica. He Afr in and short-term in Peru rce of sou says that MOP is a “good what the Lord is doing and advice and counsel to learn where I might be needed.” JACOB HANNEMAN, from Martinez Bible Chapel in Martinez, Georgia, plans to serve in Niger for approximately one year. Reading Mark 16:15 and listening to camp messages by various missionaries stirred Jacob’s heart toward missions work. Describing MOP he shares, “It is a great training program; it can stop problems on the mission field before they happen. It is a privilege to listen to seasoned missionaries talk about their experiences.” HEATHER HOVIUS, from Listowel Bible Chapel in Listowel, Ontario, describes missions as “an outflow of God’s heart.” She is taking Emmaus Correspondence Courses in preparation for Training New Tribes Missions Missionary MOP that Centre in Ontario. Heather says ry work “brought up many aspects of missiona that I have never thought of before.” PHILIP AND CLARA LIT TERAL are from McKenzie County Believers Fellowship in Waterford City , North Dakota, which is a church-plant of Columbus Bible Chapel in Powell, Ohio. The Litterals feel a strong burden to shar e Christ on the mission field and hope to serve the Lord, with thei r five children, in Peru. Phil shares that “MOP is a completely inva luable resource to the body of Christ!” Clara adds, “One thing I lear ned is how much I have yet to learn!” MISSIONS August 2015 MOP 2015 JON AND APRIL HAYES, from Valley Bible Chapel in Washington Township, New Jersey, were married just five weeks before MOP. Jon and April served separately in Niger for approximately two years and will now return to serve there together. Jon attended MOP in 2012 and says,“It challenged me to rethink through things I’ve struggled with and experienced overseas.” April adds that “it’s great to hear from experienced missionaries.” Bible Fellowship in Portland, Oregon, has been a full-time commended worker for more than 30 years. Growing up as an MK on a Navajo reservation, participating in short-term missions trips to Peru, and supporting and counseling missionaries, Gilbert says he feels that “God has designed me for a support role in missions.” Discussing MOP, he states “I especially appreciate the focus on attitudes that are important for missionaries to have.” 11 SHARON LUIBRAND, from Stevensville Bible Chapel in Stevensville, Montana, says “God opened my eyes to needs around the world through Missions magazine, missionary reports and seeing other parts of the world for myself.” She has short-term missions experience in Romania as well as Serbia where her brother and his family serve. She shares that MOP “answered many of my questions and helped me to think through some important topics.” JEREMIAH, commended from an assembly in Texas, has DANNY AND VONNIE MEJORADA, fro m Westmount Gosp el Chapel in Etobicoke, Ontario, were former commended workers in the Philippin es, their home country. With a heart for the lost, they are seeking the Lord’s guidance for the future possibly serving in Taiwan or Gu atemala. Vonnie says, “Believers ser ving the Lord should attend MOP, not just those who have a heart for missions. It provides excellent training to take them to higher ground of service.” served in a few different countries. Jeremiah shares, “I was called to God’s work through His Word and through a sense of urgency and need imparted to me through wise men. How can I pray for laborers for God’s harvest and not go myself?” He says that “MOP has been a huge help.” [Last name and photo withheld by request.] DEBORAH ROGERS, TYLER VECCHIO, from Branford Bible Chapel in North Branford, Connecticut, has participated in two short-term missions trips to the Dominican Republic. He is interested in missions “because Jesus is worthy of worship from every tribe, tongue, people and nation.” And he “strives every day to be faithful to the command to make disciples.” Tyler shares that “time spent at MOP reinforced a deep contentment in God’s plan—as long as I have Jesus, it won’t matter where I am.” commended from Forest Hills Bible Chapel in Ada, Michigan, was born to missionary parents in Argentina, which she says gave her an appreciation for Latin America and missions. She is commended to the work at El Camino Academy in Bogota, Colombia, which she joined soon after MOP. Deborah “enjoyed meeting and getting to know likeminded Christians at MOP.” MARINA VIRGALLA, from Branford Bible Chapel in North Branford, Connecticut, has a heart for “kids all around the world” and is “interested in spreading the Good News to children and their families in unreached places.” She shares,“MOP is fantastic and I highly recommend it to those who are considering missions.It has shown me how important prayer is on, and for, the mission field.” 12 MISSIONS www.cmml.us ALICE WALTERS, from River Valley Christian Fellowship in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin, says she feels “great sorrow for orphans and for the millions of people in Asia who commit suicide each year.” Currently a nursing student, Alice is considering future Bible training in preparation for the mission field. She said she enjoyed “forming connections with current and future missionaries” at MOP. EMMA WICHERS, commended to Zambia by Heidelberg Bible Fellowship in Heidelberg, Ontario, has served the Lord at Chitokoloki Mission Hospital for two years. Emma attended MOP in 2013 just a few weeks before going to Zambia full-time, and returned this year for a refresher while she was on furlough. She explains that at MOP “they don’t tell you how to ‘do missions,’ because this will change from context to context. Instead, you are encouraged to think things through.” THE INSTRUCTORS Previously based in Senegal, Paul and Carol Bramsen minister to Muslims. Paul has written various books and articles; his current project is producing King of Glory: the Movie. Former missionaries to Zimbabwe, Phil and Marilyn Barnes now serve at MSC. Phil is MSC’s executive director and Marilyn ministers in WorkerCare and is still very involved in missions in Zimbabwe. Ken Fleming, a former missionary to South Africa and Emmaus Bible College instructor, a prolific writer, and a MOP contributor since its beginning, announced that this year would be his last at MOP. Joel and Amy Hernandez are former missionaries to Mexico. Joel now serves as the head of Emmaus Bible College’s Intercultural Studies program. Amy recently wrote a book, Unstuck, published through ECC Ministries. Patrick and Gael Long served the Lord in Colombia. An MSC board member for many years, Patrick has faithfully taught at MOP since its start. MOP 2015 Phil and Mary Parsons served in the Philippines and now minister at CMML. They are involved in Assembly Relations and Missionary Care as well as hosting numerous missionaries who visit the CMML guest home. Thank you to Ken! Visit www.CMML.us/flemingtribute or scan this QR code to watch a tribute video thanking Ken Fleming for his many years of service. MISSIONS August 2015 13 A New Perspective: Visiting a Missionary Family BY MICHAEL LONG F or a number of years, I regularly prayed for “J” and “C” (Missionary Prayer Handbook Day 29) and read their missionary prayer newsletter. I met them during their furloughs in the U.S. and had them over for dinner, but there is nothing quite like visiting a missionary on the field and seeing their life and work firsthand. I was blessed to marry C’s sister 14 months ago, and last month we visited J and C for 14 MISSIONS www.cmml.us ©iStockPhoto.com/michellegibson about two weeks. Balance ministry and family Educational needs Staying with J and C, I realized that keeping a proper balance in marriage, family, and ministry is a great challenge. Yes, there are millions of unsaved people around you, and the Lord has called you to share the Gospel with them according to His Great Commission, but at the same time as reaching out to the unsaved with evangelistic Bible studies, are you loving your wife as Christ loved the Church as urged in Ephesians 5? J feels a burden to train young men to take on leadership roles. In the same week as making time to mentor and equip men for the work of ministry, J and C also felt the need to spend more time with their children, especially in helping their oldest son to read. J and C have an extremely rigorous schedule. J sometimes preaches in their church, is working on an online master of divinity degree, and shares in leading a weekly Bible study. C spends at least a couple days per week going to language classes as she tries to become fluent in the native language as well as doing household tasks like shopping, taking their oldest son to school, and just being a mom to their two year old. I have never lived an extended period of time with a very active two year old and seven year old and did not realize how busy parents could be.When does a missionary couple get a chance to simply enjoy time together as a happily married couple? My wife and I were happy to watch J and C’s children to give them a break and allow them to have at least one date night. I previously went on a short-term missions trip to Mexico where I spent a couple of weeks doing intensive manual labor, like digging trenches and putting up sheetrock, but I confess that I found babysitting a two year old for hours much harder work than that. How do you make sure your children get a good education on the mission field? It is relatively easy to find a good school in the United States. For a missionary, making sure your children get a good education is more difficult. J and C are involved in a school for missionary children, which their oldest son attends. Personal spiritual enrichment Missionaries have many needs that I take for granted here in the United States. In the U.S., it is relatively easy to get spiritually fed. I can easily access recorded messages from my home church and enjoy the good teaching of the Word from any number of preachers past and present through my personal computer. If I need fellowship and prayer, it is simple for me to make a phone call, talk to one of the saints and ask that person to pray with me. But in a closed country, these seemingly everyday conveniences are not so easy to access. Over phone lines, which are potentially wiretapped by the government, using the Lord’s name or any kind of spiritually-related language can be dangerous. Fellowship and times of good teaching from the Word can be hard to find. Though J and C live in a country with many, many people, being a missionary can be very lonely. Medical concerns How does a missionary get proper medical care? The medical needs in J and C’s country are immense. As one of the nationals told me, the infrastructure in the country, despite its large cities, is poorly equipped to deal with medical emergencies. In the United States, we take for granted the medical care we have; if you call 9-1-1, you have the fire department at your house within minutes, and paramedics arrive ready to give CPR or other needed medical care; however, in the country where J and C serve, if you call for emergency services there is no guarantee when the ambulance might come, and when it does come, there are no paramedics, only people to transport the person in distress to the hospital. The missionaries I spoke with are often afraid to send their children to the hospital, fearing the risk could outweigh the benefits. The care at hospitals is minimal; pain medication is not given with procedures such as stitches. Hospitals do not give food; the patient’s family is responsible to feed them. Though my wife and I are not paramedics, we have worked in the medical field for a number of years (myself as a physical therapist, my wife as a nurse), so we had some experience in emergency medical care. Michael treating a patient; Three clinic doctors. MISSIONS August 2015 15 Some of the missionary families we met were familiar with basic first aid, but all of them appreciated the instruction we gave in things like basic CPR, abdominal thrusts (the Heimlich maneuver), and what to do for situations such as concussions, burns, and lacerations. When I asked one woman who works with orphanages what people’s knowledge of basic first aid was, she told me that the average person might get a handout in high school about CPR but that was it. Ministering to their physical needs Hospitality J and C have a real love for the national people. They have been in their current city for only a year, so they are still in the process of building relationships with people and making new contacts. I partook in an event where J and C showed hospitality to about 20 people. Most of them spoke very little English, and I spoke very little of their language. However, we were able to find common ground—playing games. Some in attendance showed spiritual interest. We also had the chance to minister to many of the local people. One day, my wife and I had a chance to go to a village in a farming area. We went with a believing doctor from England who has made these kinds of trips for years. I did not realize until later that day that us coming as a group of Western medicine practitioners was a huge event. People not just from the village but from miles around traveled to the local clinic to get evaluated and treated by us. I have never treated so many people in one day, and there were still many people whom we could not see. Great spiritual need The country’s poor medical care reflects its great spiritual need.There is a low regard for human life. A hospital in the city where we stayed had an average of seven unwanted babies dropped off at their door every day. They might be children with developmental delays or diseases like HIV. I did not see this firsthand, but some people I traveled with told me about “dying rooms” in orphanages where unwanted babies were left to starve to death. City-life challenges I had regularly lifted up J and C and their kids in prayer in regards to their health since they had mentioned a number of times that the pollution is pretty bad. However, after experiencing the pollution firsthand, I now pray for them with more earnestness. The pollution is so bad where they live that you may not be able to see the buildings on the next city block due to the thick smog. Driving the city streets is a great adventure. I have driven in a European country before where I felt the driving was considerably more aggressive than the United States, but driving in this country was on an altogether different level. Every day, as J drives his car or C rides off on her moped to drop off their oldest son at school or go shopping, they pray before going on the road. 16 MISSIONS www.cmml.us Game night. Lessons learned So what did we learn from this trip? I really learned not to take for granted a number of things, like medical care, I have here in the U.S. I learned there is a challenge to keep the right balance between spending time with one’s family and doing missionary work. Missionaries have spiritual needs, like fellowship and getting fed from the Word, that can be harder to satisfy in a foreign country. A simple board game can be a springboard for evangelism. Be on the lookout for needs in your community—they can be an opening for the Gospel. I am thankful to the Lord for this trip and the lessons He taught me through it. I regularly prayed for J and C and their children before this trip. However, after visiting them in person I now know how to pray for them more specifically and not just regarding things they mention in their prayer letters. Should any of you ever have a burden for a particular missionary or country, I strongly encourage you to visit a missionary family. Michael Long and his wife fellowship at Calvary Bible Chapel in Fremont, California.