August 2016 - Oregon Buddhist Temple
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Every Life Matters on the Oregon PureLand Path OBT established 1903 The Oregon Buddhist Temple Monthly Newsletter President’s column Cathy Yarne, OBT President Dear Sangha, In May, you received a letter about our temple building's 50th anniversary. Please mark your calendars to attend the special luncheon on Nov. 6th to commemorate this OBT milestone. We've also created the Building 50th Anniversary Fund. This fund will help ensure the preservation of the temple and annex. I am very fortunate to have "grown up" in the temple so I have an extensive history with the temple. I remember the day our temple celebrated the completion of our current temple. At the time, I was actively participating in many temple activities so this event was a memorable event for me. The 50th anniversary has helped me realize that this is an opportunity to show my gratitude to the temple for its significance in my life. It is my pleasure to make a monetary gift to the Building Anniversary Fund. Also, I believe it is important that we sustain our temple not only for me, but also for our future Sangha and community. Therefore I have made a bequest to OBT. No matter whether you have a long history with OBT like me or you are fairly new to our Sangha, I hope you will consider making a donation to the preservation of the Oregon Buddhist Temple so it can continue to provide the Buddha dharma for generations. Gassho, Cathy The header leader above, “Every Life Matters” was contributed by Susan Endecott. Readers are invited to suggest header leaders for future newsletter issues. August 2016 Board of Directors meeting highlights Kim Kono, Board Co-Secretary OBT Board meeting summary June 12, 2016, 12:30 pm Annex Members in Attendance: Cathy Yarne, Susan Endecott, Ken Garner, Judy Hittle, Shinya Ichikawa, Kim Kono, Mie McGraw, Al Ono, Amy Peterson, Charles Reneau, Jayne Ichikawa (OBWA). Members Absent: Phaedra Urban, Katie Tamiyasu Maintenance: Cathy Yarne read Ray Fukunaga’s report, which included a recommendation on elevator repairs. The Board supports Ray’s recommendations on next steps. Board discussed the cost of long-term replacement of the elevator and the importance of budgeting funds to do so. Building 50th Anniversary: Kim noted that to date we’ve received contributions from 19 donors. We will be recognizing donors in the newsletter and on the Anniversary website. Cathy emphasized that we should have 100% participation in giving from the Board, as well as from the Anniversary Committee. Foyer Display Rack purchase: Ken Garner has purchased and set up the foyer display rack. He recommends that one person or a designated small group of members be appointed to keep materials updated and the rack tidy. Obon Festival: Judy Hittle gave an update on festival signage, entertainment schedule, parking, and encouraged all food booth chairs to get their food handlers card. Phaedra had emailed Board members a proposal to boost our advertising via Facebook at a cost of $300. After discussion, Amy Peterson made a motion to allocate $150 for social media promotion. Cathy Yarne seconded the motion. Motion passed. “The purpose of the Oregon Buddhist Temple is to insure that the Jodo Shinshu Sangha have the facilities, resident minister and other resources they need to share the Buddha Dharma in their daily lives and during their major life events.” Oregon Buddhist Temple 3720 SE 34th Avenue Portland, OR 97202-3037 503-234-9456 e-mail: [email protected] website: http://www.oregonbuddhisttemple.com This monthly newsletter is published by the Oregon Buddhist Temple, a Buddhist Churches of America temple affiliated with Jodo Shinshu Hongwanji-Ha. Please contact the temple with any comments, questions or concerns, or if you wish to report a change of address. Send news items to the editor: Shinya Ichikawa at: [email protected] August 2016 2 The Oregon PureLand Path Emergency Preparedness: Charles Reneau discussed resources and types of emergencies for which we need to have a plan. He then conducted a tour of the facility to show Board members the locations of critical equipment and shutoff locations for electric, gas and water in the event of an emergency. New Projector: Cathy reported that Yoshi Ono had purchased the projector and case as requested. The screen will be purchased later, when needed. Supervising Minister: Cathy reported on the status of talks with Tacoma Buddhist Temple about our new supervising minister. Arrangements have not yet been formalized. Plans were discussed for Rev. Fujimoto’s weekend at OBT, including a potluck lunch program. Mie inquired about testing water faucets fountains at OBT for lead. Cathy will check inexpensive testing resources. Meeting adjourned at 3:30 p.m. Submitted by Kim Kono and Susan Endecott, Secretaries last and and into Co- August Shotsuki Hoyo This is a monthly memorial service to honor and remember those loved ones who passed away during the month of August. The Shotsuki-Hoyo service will be held August 14 Sunday service at 10 am. Please join us and offer incense in memory of your relative(s) or friends. Listed below are the names of those who passed away starting from 1930. Oregon Buddhist Temple has records from 1904. If a name is missing, incorrect, or prior to 1930, please notify Jean Matsumoto, Etsu Osaki, or the temple. Abe, Patsy 8/30/2006 Akao, Toshiko 8/14/2000 Ando, Suematsu 8/26/1957 Ando, Sumiko 8/25/2001 Azuma, Nisuke 8/11/1961 Brown, Jan Jr 8/31/2007 Brown, Reiko Akao 8/15/2011 Fujii, Sumino 8/3/1938 Fujii, Toshimi 8/9/1941 Fujii, Yoshimi 8/31/1995 Goto, Sanji 8/8/1947 Greenwood, Arlita 8/10/2001 Harada, Kintaro 8/23/1931 Harrison, Henrietta Ueoka 8/5/2014 Hasegawa, Rihei 8/27/1933 Hashimoto, Toshinosuke 8/23/1938 Hata, Kesae Kay 8/17/2000 Higashi, Jinsue 8/11/1961 Inahara, Tei 8/6/1997 Ishida Baby 8/12/1950 Itamura, Edith 8/7/2002 Ito, Masu 8/26/1956 Iwamoto, Taichi 8/23/1947 Kaneda, Jirokichi 8/11/1944 Katada, Kazue 8/28/1995 Kataoka, Tsunekichi 8/15/1946 Kato, Koriku 8/16/1974 Kawamura, Ko 8/8/1934 Kawashima, Yoozo 8/23/1943 Kinoshita, Sei 8/1/1973 Kunimune, Sadaji 8/18/1931 Maeda, Francis Kanji 8/24/2001 Maeda, Kinu 8/31/1987 Matsumura, Kina 8/10/1972 Mayers, Bernard Leon 8/17/2010 Melore, Barbara 8/17/2006 Morita, Yachiyo 8/31/1997 Muramatsu, Matsutaro 8/13/1978 Muramatsu, Phyllis 8/11/2006 Naemura, Saisuke 8/20/1953 Naganuma, Sam Sadatoshi 8/12/2001 Nakao, Emil 8/14/2005 Nakao, Taitaro 8/5/1972 Ng, Joann 8/21/2004 Okawa, Reiko 8/31/1998 Okawa, Toichi 8/11/1959 Otani, Shotaro 8/31/1940 Ozaki, Yoshimatsu 8/6/1933 Ryu, Wataru 8/17/1937 Sadanaka, Jukichi 8/7/1933 Sakagami, Kisaku 8/1/1944 Sakamoto, Hantaro 8/25/1954 Sakano, Ichiro 8/12/1948 Sasaki, Teruko 8/28/2009 Shido, Mary 8/14/2000 Shigefuji, Ichiro 8/30/1945 Shiraishi, Hichitaro 8/16/1949 Smith, Vincent 8/19/2001 Sono, Carol 8/14/1948 Sugimura, Kinu 8/10/1972 Susaki, Nobuko 8/2/2001 Tajima, Shunsaku 8/19/1949 Takabayashi, Tsunetaro 8/20/1960 Takata, Ichiro 8/30/1945 Takegaki, Hiroki 8/10/1936 Tamiyasu Hirao 8/21/1978 Tamiyasu, Shoji 8/18/1947 Tanada, Kenichi 8/23/1949 Tanaka, Saichi 8/12/1957 Teramura, Kisuke 8/26/1969 Toyooka, Hatsuye 8/23/1983 Uesugi, Shodo 8/10/1933 Uesugi, Take 8/9/1953 Uyeda, Henry 8/24/1974 Wataru, Ryu 8/17/1937 Winner, Diane Renee 8/7/2001 Yagi, Kan 8/9/2013 Yamaguchi, George Takashi 8/13/1945 Yamaguchi, Shigezo 8/18/1935 Yamaguchi, Ujitsuto 8/27/1986 Yamasaki, Tsunagoro 8/26/1931 Yoshida, Kamekichi 8/28/1952 Yoshizane, Sachiko 8/18/1934 Yumibe, Seikichi 8/7/1941 August 2016 3 The Oregon PureLand Path TEMPLE BUILDING HISTORY – REMEMBERING NOVEMBER 6, 1966 Jean Matsumoto Weather-wise it was a beautiful day but what else do I remember about the day? I was in charge of the Ochigo (for explanation, see below) parade. I had participated in a parade in 1952 when Lord Abbott Kosho Ohtani and Lady Yoshiko Ohtani visited the Oregon Buddhist Church, but dressing the children was something completely foreign to me. In 1966, I had been assigned this responsibility as Sunday School Coordinator. Thanks to Sunday school teacher Etsu Osaki, who had experience in Seattle from where the elaborate outfits were borrowed, other teachers, and many mothers, some who were familiar with Ochigo presentations in the past, we were able to get the children ready. The current State Health Department across the street was a Union Hall (Boilermakers?) and they allowed us to dress the children there. A problem was that we started dressing them at 11:00 am and the ceremony started at 1:00 pm and no arrangements had been made for lunch for the children. Quick-thinking Sunday school teacher, Takako Mukaida Maeda, went over to the nearest hamburger shop on Powell Boulevard and picked up 19-cent hamburgers, French fries and drinks for all the children, teachers and mothers. We were all grateful for her decision. I hope she was reimbursed for the expenses. Recently, former students who were part of the Ochigo parade on this day have told me that they are in the picture. I honestly can’t remember very much more about this day, but if anyone out there can remember an incident associated with the dedication ceremonies of November 6, 1966, we would love to hear from you. Please contact me at 503-280-2463, or [email protected]. CHIGO -"young-children": Chigo are children who participate in Buddhist processions. From the Kamakura Period on, well-to-do families sent their children to temples for their education. In major celebrations, the children being educated at the temple participated in ceremonial processions and major celebrations. They were dressed to represent heavenly beings. The children wore the "Kariginu" a robe with long, wide sleeves which is worn over Hakama, a culotte-like skirt. This is the hunting costume of the Heian nobility which later became official garb of the government. Boys wear a stiff hat of lacquered gauze called the "Eboshi". Girls wear a crown of a Phoenix Bird and bright metal pendants called "Tenkan". Both boys and girls wear the ancient make-up of the nobility called "Kugemayu" which consists of two black dots just above the space between the eyebrows. From Traditions of Jodoshinshu Hongwanji-Ha By Masao Kodani and Russel Hamada The Oregon Buddhist Temple Board and the 50th Building Anniversary Committee extend our deepest gratitude to the following donors who have contributed gifts to OBT's 50th Building Anniversary Fund as of July 9, 2016. Thank you! Abe, Al Anonymous Bezier, Betty L. Endecott, Susan Furumoto, Elaine F. Hittle, Judy Ichikawa, Shinya & Jayne Inahara, Toshio Ishii, Michael & Janice Kasahara, May Kono, Kim & Randy Choy Larouche, Setsy & Chip Matsushima, Hiroshi & Janie Minagi, Misao Shiraishi, Richard & Karen Tachibana, Sahomi Takeuchi, Nancy Lee Taniguchi, Ted & Akico Unno, Alice, Mark & Megumi Wahl, Joseph & Lora Watanabe, Ruth Sono Yuzuriha, Shigeru & Yoko Yuzuriha, Todd & Elaine August 2016 4 The Oregon PureLand Path Obon Service, July 24, 2016, 10 am Hatsubon is the first Obon service following the passing of a loved one. For this year's Hatsubon we honor the memory of the following members and friends Name Age Haru Furukawa 99 Lily Kajiwara 91 Mineto Hara 1 yr 19 days Robert Kiyoshi Takeuchi 72 Ben Valentino Tano 81 George Kajiwara 90 Sumiko Ikata 98 Mitsuko Hasuike 95 Haruka Juliana Tsunemine Weiser 18 Henry Susumu Muramatsu 87 Mary Mariko Naganuma 92 Buddhist Name Shaku Myo Chi Shaku En Kyo Shaku En Kyo Shaku Kai Hou Shaku Chi On Shaku Kyo On Shaku Jyo On Shaku Shi Ju Shaku Myoshin Deepest sympathies To the family of Hank Muramatsu who passed away on June 15. To the family of Mary Naganuma who passed away on June 30 OBT Membership Meaning Radiant Wisdom To Teach Perfection To Teach Perfection To Open the Dharma To Know Gratitude To Teach Gratitude Constant Gratitude The Thread of Life Bright Faith Date of Birth-Death 04/22/16-10/12/15 07/26/24-10/13/15 10/15/14-11/13/15 02/23/43-12/25/15 02/14/34-01/17/16 07/22/25-02/08/16 03/03/18-03/30/16 04/12/21-05/07/16 06/20/97-04/05/16 07/29/28-06/15/16 04/28/24-06/30/16 differently. On the other hand, maybe this is what we have always done and this is the best we can do. I hope to hear from members and non-members. In Gassho Link to the OBT Membership application form at: http://www.oregonbuddhisttemple.com/documents/mem bership/Membership2016.pdf Al Ono, Membership chairperson Over the months I have been asking supporters of Oregon Buddhist Temple to take the next step and become a member. This shows your support of OBT and the desire for OBT to keep moving on with our mission to teach the Dharma and bring together the Sangha. Our membership numbers are still sliding. We are certainly not the 200 members as noted in days past. Our present membership at just over the half way point in the year is 98. Why is the membership decreasing? Is it because people do not like to commit that much? Is it the amount of dues? Is it other commitments especially on Sunday that takes away time and interest from OBT? Is it issues from the past? Is it the way that OBT is managed? I have some thoughts and ideas, but I would appreciate your comments and even recommendations on this issue. You can E-mail me at [email protected]; you can send me or leave me a note or just catch me and tell me your thoughts and comments. Moreover, I would like to form an ad hoc committee of 2 or 3 to meet in one gathering and go over this question of OBT membership and come up with recommendations or things we can do OBWA news Nancy Kajitsu Results of our June OBWA meeting remind us how active our group is! Ann Shintani Winner read minutes from our May meeting which were corrected and approved. Judy Yamauchi gave an update of our treasury and passed out our most current membership list. Topics covered were a plan for a visitation program for members unable to attend temple events, our next community outreach activity-volunteering at the Oregon Food Bank, a kimono showing and an update on the upcoming District and Federation Conference in October. Also, plans for the kitchen and gathering area were laid out! Expect thorough cleaning and painting. Kiyomi reported on Gotanye food prep and Marilyn Achterman suggested an apron design for our kitchen helpers! Katie Tamiyasu and Susan Endecott relayed OBT Board plans and ideas were presented on how OBWA can better support our temple. July is another active month: 5 The Oregon PureLand Path Saturday, July 16th at 10 am-OBWA meeting. 1 pm kimono showing and sale Sunday, July 17th following Dharma gathering, a farewell potluck with and for Reverend Fujimoto Tuesday and Thursday beginning July19th - Obon dance practice in the basement from 7pm. Thursdays July 21st and August 4th - Judy Yamauchi and team will sew children's happi coats in the basement from 10 am to 3 pm, to sell at the Obonfest craft booth. Everybody is very welcome to join. Good Food! Saturday, July 23rd food prep for Obon service Sunday, July 24th Obon service at 10am Saturday, July 30th cemetery service beginning at 9 am in Nokotsudo, 10:30 Rose City Cemetery and 12 noon Gresham Cemetery. August 4th begins food prep for Obon August 6th is Obonfest 3pm-9pm In Gassho Odoro Odoro Potorando!!! Obonfest 2016 is coming! Ken Garner Saturday, August 6, 2016. Website: http://www.pdx-obon.com/ The festivities begin at 3 pm and will end with community dancing from 7-9pm. We hope you, your family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, and other acquaintances will come and enjoy what is sure to be a delightful day filled with music, dance, food, and heartfelt connections within this longstanding tradition. ENJOYING OBONFEST Perhaps the best way to enjoy ObonFest is to join in the community dancing. Prior to ObonFest, dance instruction will be provided by Sahomi Tachibana on Tuesday and Thursday evenings 7 - 9pm, through August 4th, at the Oregon Buddhist Temple. The classes are free and everyone is welcome, but you can join in on the community dancing at ObonFest without the lessons. This year we will be debuting Portland Ondo. This song was composed and choreographed by members of the Oregon Buddhist Temple. It extols the charms of the Northwest, honors the immigrant experience, and revels in the wonderful life we live here. Activities: In addition to the Obon dancing, the festival will include children’s activities, an omiyage shop, a gently-used kimono/yukata sale, as well as dharma talks in the temple and entertainment throughout the day, featuring Portland Taiko, SusseFusse August 2016 International, Minidoka Swing Band, and the Tachibana Japanese Dancers. Food: The food booths will include many delicious items including yakisoba (stir fried noodles and vegetables), yakiniku (grilled beef), yakitori (grilled chicken), hot dogs, spam musubi, shaved ice (not snow cones!), manju, cold somen noodles, and a variety of soft drinks. The Beer Garden will again have grilled squid, spam musubi, and edamame for purchase to go with your beverage. Vendors: Several vendors will be present at this year’s festival selling charming gifts and crafts. These vendors include: Lunarcat Studios (cards and crafts), Sweet Persimmons (purses and small goods), Karen Fullerton (Chinese brush painting), Karumi’s Glass (small glass crafts), Kumoricon (anime), Hiroshi Igaki (pottery), and Miwa Nishi (massage) SUPPORTING OBONFEST ObonFest cannot happen without your support! If you haven't signed up to volunteer, there is still time. Please contact our volunteer coordinator June Shiigi via email at [email protected] to find out where we still need help. If you would like to help with construction, we will begin on Friday, August 5, at 9 am; we will do the final set-up on Saturday morning at 9 am; and dismantle and clean up on Sunday, August 7th at 10 am. Volunteering is not limited to OBT members! Bring your friends and family to help. There is no denying that putting on a show like Obonfest is a lot of work, it also is a lot of fun and a great way to get to know the Sangha members and make new Dharma friends Memorial lanterns: Memorial lanterns for a loved one to be honored or who has passed can be ordered using the form available in this newsletter, on the OBT Facebook page, and on our OBT website. Cost for lanterns is again $25. Remember that lanterns from previous OBT ObonFests which are being stored at the Temple or at home can also be re-hung for $15. Hurry, the deadline for these orders is Tuesday, August 2, 2016. Kimono/Yukata Sale: We will be selling new and gently-used kimonos or yukatas at ObonFest. If you have any items (yukatas/kimonos/accessories) to donate, please bring them to the Temple or contact: Yasuko Fields ([email protected]). Omiyage shop: An omiyage shop will be underway during ObonFest. Donations of new or gently-used Asian ware are also being gratefully accepted. Please bring them to the Temple indicating that the items are for Omiyage Shop. We hope to see you at ObonFest 2016 August 6, 2016! August 2016 6 The Oregon PureLand Path Bon dance practices Ann Shintani Remember that there will be Obon dance classes with Sahomi Tachibana on Tuesdays and Thursdays, beginning July 19 through Aug. 4, at 7:00pm (OBT basement, use back door). Remember to bring your water bottle and some money as there is sure to be items for sale Dharma school stuff Pool party thank you: On June 17, Ms. Jean Matsumoto hosted our OBT pool party. We celebrated the end of the Dharma School year, and congratulated our high school graduates Alyssa Ono and Joy Yuzuriha. We thank Amy Long for providing water safety, and to Justin Kwong for being available as a back-up lifeguard. The weather was warm and the food and company were delightful - a wonderful start to summer. NW YBL Retreat: This weekend retreat for youth (Northwest Young Buddhist League, 8th - 12th grades) will take place in July at the Seattle Betsuin ("Betsuin" is how we refer to larger temples). We have three participants from OBT: Joy Yuzuriha, Kirt, and Yukim. They will participate in youth minister training, do volunteer work, attend the White River Buddhist Temple Obon festival, and have fun. Registration and other expenses are paid from our Spaghetti Bingo fundraiser earlier this year. We thank OBT for their support. Girl Scouts: The temple Girl Scout troop will go on an overnight trip to the Seattle area, which includes attending the Tacoma Buddhist Temple Obon festival, at the end of July. If you are a Scout, and interested in pursuing an Obon patch, please email [email protected] to make arrangements or for information. pivots around a central character: Holly Sykes. Each chapter/novella is narrated from the perspective of an intersecting character, with settings ranging from England in the 80s to the apocalyptic future. Each story could stand alone as a work of genius, as they slowly build on Holly’s unwitting role in a war between two groups with psychic powers, culminating in a thrilling showdown reminiscent of the best of Stephen King. Taken together this is a hugely entertaining page-turner, an operatic fantasy, and an often heartbreaking meditation on mortality. Please join us for interesting conversation and a beverage or two! Lotus circle – August Jean Matsumoto It’s summer and colorful flowers abound. Thank you to friends who belong to OBT’s Lotus Circle who donate $35 so that our Flower Toban can purchase the flowers which they arrange so creatively on our altar each week. Those generous donors whom we acknowledge for honoring their loved ones in the month of August are: August 7 – Ami Kinoshita in memory of (imo) her parents, Taitaro and Mitsu Nakao, and her late husband’s parents, Tokuji and Kise August 14 – Matt, Randy and Julie Muramatsu imo their parents, Henry (Hank) and Phyllis August 21 – Sandie Yamauchi imo her parents, Ben Yukio and Misaye Tonooka, and her grandmother Chiyoko Tonooka; Ray Fields imo his step-father Bernard Mayers August 28 – Anonymous imo Patsy Abe Please check out the webpage for Lotus Circle that was set up for us by Ken Garner ([email protected]) where you can share information about your loved ones, pictures, memories, etc. For further information about the Lotus Circle, please feel free to call 503-280-2463 or e-mail: [email protected]. OBT Readers Club Ken Garner Wednesday August 17, 2016 7:00 - 8:30 pm The next Readers' Club meeting will be Wednesday, August 17, 2016 7:00 - 8:30 pm at the Lucky Lab Brewpub 915 SE Hawthorne, Portland. We will be discussing The Bone Clocks by David Mitchell. The Bone Clocks is a feast of a book, a saga that spans decades, characters, genres, and events. The structure New books in the OBT library Etsu Osaki Mapping the Dharma: A Concise Guide to the Middle Way of the Buddha, by Paul Gerhards, Parami Press, Vancouver, WA: 2007, 114 pages. In clear and August 2016 7 The Oregon PureLand Path well-organized form, this book gives all the essential elements of the Buddha’s teachings. The following books were available due to the generosity of Buddhist groups at “Buddhism in the Park.” The Pristine Pure Land School by Dharma Master Huijing Shenyang; Chinese Pureland Buddhist Assoc., Taipei, Taiwan: 2014, 72 pages. Chapter 1 Description of the 2 Pureland schools, Chapter2 The 18th and 19th Vows; Chapter 3 Questions & answers. Awareness Alone Is Not Enough by Ashin Tejaniya, Awaken Publishing & Design, Singapore: 2014, 234 pages. The author answers many questions about practice (of meditation), of terminology. There is a good glossary of Pali terms. Inner Freedom by Thich Nhat Tu, Vietnam Buddhist University Publications, Vietnam: 2011, 110 pages. These are Dharma talks were given to jail inmates. However, they are also relevant to our daily lives. The Broken Buddha: Critical Reflections on Theravada and Plea for a New Buddhism by Ven. S. Dhammika, The Nimmala Group, Camy Press, Singapore: 2006, 177 pages. A very interesting book by the author who is a westerner ordained as a Theravada monk. He claims that in countries such as Sri Lanka and Thailand Theravada Buddhism is not what it should be. Many monks tend to be arrogant and interested mainly in money. He feels that young boys should not be ordained as monks since they have no choice. Buddhism is going down in some of the SE Asian countries. Theravada Buddhism in the western world is doing much better. August Toban Dart, Chris Honma, Hannah Kagawa, Julie Kunisaki, Dana Lilly, Susan Osaki, Etsu Saiget, Carol Wahl, Lora Yamauchi, Sandie Hardee, John Ishikawa, Grace Kollas, Phillip Kunisaki, Randy Osaki, Amy Reneau, Charles Wahl, Joe Wyant, Wendy Yarne, Cathy Toban not only means “my turn” but “my chance” to show my appreciation to all the men and women whose monetary donations and hard work resulted in this beautiful place, our Temple, to hear the Dharma Words of Jean Matsumoto - 1995 Elevator update Ray Fukunaga Advanced Vertical Systems will begin the work to replace the faulty programmable logic controller with a more simple system of electromechanical relays Monday, July 18. The project is estimated to take most of the week and we should have an operating elevator by July 22. Thank you to all members for their help in availing the Temple to AVS during this work week and to the Board for their help and guidance throughout this project. What Buddhism means to me Kelly Lash I’d like to share my path to Buddhism and what it means to me. It has been a meaningful journey for me to find this Sangha over the last year since I’ve attended service here. The tragic, hate crime in Orlando a few weeks ago, and the domino effects around the country afterwards, compelled me to share my experience in solidarity to all those who are in grief, or just can’t make sense of it all. This shooting was the most devastating act of violence that the gay and transgender community has ever experienced. On the morning after the shooting, before I had heard the news, I was compelled to share my experience growing up, hoping that it will help people understand and find peace of mind. My cousin lives in Orlando FL. She is a singer and performer there, and works for Disney World. Her job is to perform as Tinkerbell, touching the hearts of hundreds of children every day with her youthful energy. She continues to bring joy and comfort to Orlando after the tragedy. To me, this is Buddhism. I was raised in Buffalo, NY, where my family still lives today. I was raised catholic by my mother, an Irish catholic. My father was not religious at all, but in my opinion, he was unknowingly Buddhist when I was a child. Whether he would call himself Buddhist, I’m not so sure. He and I are both introverted, and prefer to speculate and contemplate about this only occasionally, with few words ever needing to be exchanged to find connection. Introversion is very Buddhist, I think. Growing up I was a bit of a black sheep, as it seemed that I was the only person in my family who made life decisions more often based on my feelings, 8 The Oregon PureLand Path instead of based on logical thinking, and rationality. My family is made up of analytical thinkers; they are doctors, scientists, engineers, accountants, statisticians, computer technicians, lawyers, etc. They are highly logical and not always in touch with their feelings, but as Reverend always says, “that’s ok”. As a child I didn't realize that I was different in this way that I made my decisions. I am also fairly logical and scientific at the same time. I was such a math nerd, in fact, that I used to have a job tutoring calculus in college, just for fun. But my passion was always being around kids. My parents became foster parents when I was in 5th grade. Up until I graduated high school, they brought home many foster children for short and long periods of time. My brothers and I are a product of this upbringing. When I was 2 years old, I went to the daycare in the special education school where my mother worked as a physical therapist. My mom used to laugh while telling my ex boyfriends or girlfriends when I brought them home to meet my parents, that I walked around the daycare sticking my tongue out like my fellow two year old classmates, who stuck their tongues out because they had Down's syndrome. I was copying the other kids, probably to fit in, and make friends with them. Every child is special like this, I learned at a very young age! Every child is a product of the values and teachings of our family system, school system, and community system. As a kid, I would go to work with my mom in the summers and play on the huge swings, scooters, and the enormous bouncy balls in the enormous gym, watching my mom help them walk or ride a tricycle. Service to children is a value that was instilled in me by my parents, but never pushed onto me. My dad is a very good mathematician and statistician. When I was in my 3rd year of college, he quit his computer desk job, crunching numbers for a private health insurance company. He quit shortly after helping pay for 3 of the 4 years of my undergraduate degree at a state college. Since then, he’s been driving the school bus for the public schools my brothers and I grew up attending. To me, his work ethic, the hard work of providing an opportunity for me to pursue college, this is Buddhism. I was confirmed in my Irish Catholic church at 16 years old. I was a young, idealistic, self-righteous vegetarian by the time I went off to college at 18 years old. But my ego and high level of self-confidence, as well as my working middle class, white and privileged childhood started to get in the way of my spiritual journey. I didn't understand why God would send me to hell for an eternity. There is no eternal hell that an all loving God sends us to forever. How silly and weird is August 2016 that? I used to think to myself during confirmation class at church. Life is suffering. It is very hard to survive. Life is hard as “hell” already. But, As Reverend says, “That’s ok.” That brings us all comfort on the hardest days. This feeling of comfort, occurring at the same time as the suffering, is what Buddhism means to me. When I moved away to college to Syracuse, NY at 18 years old I came out to my new college friends as bisexual. Being gay or bisexual was still considered a "sin" according to almost every Christian and Catholic church, at that time, in 2002, only 14 years ago. This is a false judgement that is still present in many Christian churches and other religions. If my religion wouldn't accept me for who I love, I’d have to find one that did. When I was 24, after a spiritual experience I had one summer working as a bird biologist in the mountains with a coworker who practiced Reiki, I decided to become a child and family therapist after 3 very dreamy and fun-filled years of doing this field work as a bird biologist. Nature was always my temple, and often my office as well. Protecting the earth, and having clean air and water for all sentient beings - this is what Buddhism means to me. Growing up as a child, I began to learn that it is not a sin to be different, to be ourselves. Yet, I was still only a child, like many other children, who grew up being taught to pass judgement on others for their sins. I believe that judgement is the opposite of compassion. We are all one big interconnected energetic organism who really, really need each other to survive, and this is compassion. We white European Americans are just beginning to catch onto this idea. I experienced this powerful interconnectedness, compassion and gratitude from this Sangha the moment I set foot in the door. The homophobic hate crime in Orlando and the incredible support around the world that has resulted from it is proof that we are all connected, all in this together, and that we cannot survive without this support, especially if we pass judgement on others. My catholic mother sat peacefully and attentively during our service on Easter Sunday when she visited me. She sat peacefully, singing along to the youthful and entertaining song on the ukulele, or was it a mandolin? I could tell it was meaningful to her. A few years ago, as a budding child and family therapist and Buddhist, I discovered lovingkindness meditation, a compassion meditation practice chanting compassion towards others. We are not taught compassion in public school. I found compassion meditation very grounding and meaningful. I could put my own self-involved way of thinking aside in order to intentionally think about others instead. 9 The Oregon PureLand Path I recently meditated here with four others before service. It was very peaceful and comforting, to experience stillness and connectedness with others, just by breathing the same air together, chanting in my head about gratitude, especially after the tragic event in Orlando the night before that has affected our gay and transgender community, in a very big way. I had stillness in my monkey mind for 25 minutes that morning. This stillness in between the chaos is Buddhism to me. Buddhism is accessible to all people with compassion and without judgement; the layperson, the farmer, the illiterate, the poor, the disabled, the homeless, the transgender, the gays, the wise elders, the sick, the shy, the racial minorities, even us beings with many food allergies are accepted! And most importantly, it's accessible and fun for the kids after service. To all you kids out there, all 3 of you! You are the future, and you are smarter than us grown-ups - much, much smarter than us. You have not yet learned the bad habit of judging others so much, you accept everyone for who they are. Your mind is more fun and free and you know how to play all day long. We grownups, we forget how to play. The idea of playtime goes in one ear and out the other with us grownups. Playing - this is Buddhism to me. August 2016 Buddhism is simply love and compassion towards others and us. It has been there all along, within all of us, as the world breathes gently around us, among all the chaos. It is all the same energy, the same interconnectedness. This is what the Buddha taught, I think. I am learning still. Compassion, connection, gratitude and service to others is how we have always survived, and how we always will survive. When we are sad or lonely, or scared, we can remember that we are all still children, children, who may get scared of the dark sometimes. Yet we still survive, somehow. Even in our pain and loss, we are all connected, supporting one another, just by breathing. I express gratitude for this. OBT Board of Directors [email protected] Term Ending 2018 : Ken Garner (Vice-President), Shinya Ichikawa, Kim Kono, Mie McGraw Term Ending 2017: Katie Tamiyasu, Judy Hittle, Phaedra Urban, Cathy Yarne (President) Term Ending 2016: Susan Endecott, Al Ono, Am y Peterson, Charles Reneau OBT Financial Officer: Elaine Yuzuriha 10 The Oregon PureLand Path August 2016
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