We are very much alike, you and I
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We are very much alike, you and I
A HopeTree Family Services Publication Caring Times June 2012 We are very much alike, you and I... Emotionally, we generally treasure are important for communicating, our friends and cherish our families. taking care of myself, living at home, Spiritually, we tend to worship the interacting socially, keeping myself same God who made both the limitless safe, performing academics like universe and the Mayfly with the same reading, writing, and basic math, and loving care. many forms of work. I may also have Socially, we enjoy many of the same a serious physical ailment or two. activities with the same passion. We cry I have an intellectual disability. at sad movies, cheer for the underdog, I can perform and love ice cream. many of the skills Physically, we Developmental Disabilities so-called ‘normal’ resemble each other Ministry people do. It may a great deal. We may take me a little be skinny and tall or longer or I may have to learn those shorter and heavier. We may even be skills in a different way, or may not getting a little grey around the edges. be quite as good at them as you, but I That’s okay, though. There may be can do them. Suppose you decided to snow on the roof, but there’s still fire in sing in the choir on Sunday morning. the furnace. But there is one important Would they let you? Certainly. Are thing I ask you to remember: you Luciano Pavarotti or Sandi Patti? I have an intellectual disability. That No. But you can still sing, can’t you? means my brain works differently than I have an intellectual disability. I many people you know. I may have am not content to be a wallflower. trouble with some of the skills that I want to live. I want to hold a job and earn a living and pay my bills like anyone else. I have hobbies and interests that I derive the same joy and sense of accomplishment from as you do from yours. I have an intellectual disability. I want to help my community and participate in my church. I know who God is. I love Jesus for what He did for me. I share that love with those around me as well as I can whenever I can. I have an intellectual disability. I am not always happy or pleasant. I have bad days just like anyone else. I am not always ‘lovable’ or ‘cute’ or any of the other stereotypes you may have heard. “We Are Very Much Alike” continues on page 3. HopeTree Family Services was founded in 1890 as the Baptist Orphanage of Virginia and still proudly serves as a ministry partner of the Baptist General Association of Virginia. Progress Report: Blessings Home A Message of Hope We all seem reach a point when we seriously question who we are and why we are on the Earth. Wrestling with those answers often leads us to ask those same questions of others. How much do we really know about our friends and co-workers? What talents or skills might they have hidden under the bushels of their everyday lives? The question of identity, both our own and that of others, can be tricky to answer. Pastors and psychologists alike have struggled for years to help people find satisfactory answers to who they are and why they are in their current lives. HopeTree Family Services has been blessed not to struggle with an identity crisis, nor a question of purpose. We were founded in 1890 to provide care for children and youth in need by mission-minded, forwardthinking Baptists. We have held to their mission and to their forwardthinking mindset. From Foster Care to the Wilderness Outdoor Opportunity Discovery School to HopeTree Academy to Residential and Independent Living, our commitment to children and youth is the same as it was 120 years ago. Dr. Stephen W. Richerson President & Executive Director Twenty years ago we recognized a need to nurture a slightly different facet of our ‘personality’. We began caring for adults with intellectual disabilities in response to a request from the Baptist General Association of Virginia. These men and women are legally adults. They have often been primarily cared for by their parents or immediate family. They remain someone’s child just as you will always be your parents’ child. Just as we are all children of God. The question of why HopeTree Family Services is here is clearly answered each time we look into the eyes of one of our residents. We are here to provide the shelter, nurturing, and encouragement each individual needs to become the person God intends them to be. With your support, we provide the answers they all seek. Your generosity through the holidays was remarkable. We are steadily moving closer to our goal of $400,000 to complete the Blessings Home on the Salem campus. As of 6/1/12, our total raised is $106,890. We would appreciate your help in recruiting new friends to our cause. Please refer your friends to our website, www.HopeTreeFS.org, so they can learn more about this exciting project. $400,000 $300,000 $200,000 $96,332 $100,000 4/23/12 The Mission of HopeTree Family Services is to provide Christian residential, educational, and support services to at-risk children and youth, and to adults with intellectual disabilities throughout Virginia. HopeTree Family Services provides residential care to at-risk youth as well as adults with intellectual disabilities. In accordance with Federal law and US Department of Agriculture policy, this institution is prohibited from discriminating on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, age, or disability. To file a complaint of discrimination, write USDA, Director, Office of Civil Rights, 1400 Independence Avenue, SW, Washington, DC 20250-9410 or call toll free (866) 632-9992 (voice). TDD users can contact USDA through local relay or the Federal Relay at (800) 877-8339 (TDD) or (866) 377-8642 (relay voice users). USDA is an equal opportunity provider and employer. The Developmental Disabilities Ministry shall develop, carry out, and regularly monitor policies and procedures governing discrimination in the provision of services to adult residents with developmental disabilities. HopeTree Family Services shall comply with all state and federal laws, including any applicable provisions of the Americans with Disabilities Act (42 USC 2101 et seq.), that prohibit discrimination on the basis of race, color, religion, ethnicity, age, sex, disability, or ability to pay. Volume 46 - No. 8 June 2012 Caring Times is published 16 times per year by HopeTree Family Services, 860 Mt. Vernon Lane, Salem, VA 24153. CaringTimes@HopeTreeFS. org Phone: (540) 389-2112 Select photos may represent volunteers and not actual clients of HopeTree Family Services. Publisher..............................Dr. Stephen Richerson Editor........................................................Mark Early Hope Events 2012 Walk for Hope The most recent Walk for Hope events were conducted by: HopeTree Family Services - Salem Round Hill Baptist - Round Hill Waterford Baptist - Waterford Atlantic Baptist, Old Chincoteague Baptist, Horntown Baptist Chincoteague Southside Baptist Association Congratulations are in order for Donny (above left) and Quan. They have been accepted for admission to King College in Bristol, VA. Donny and Quan reside in our Independent Living program and attend nearby Salem High School. Without your support, these two young men would not be on the threshold of successful adult lives. In upcoming editions of Caring Times, we will keep you appraised of their continued success. “We Are Very Much Alike” continued from page 1. We extend our deepest gratitude to all who have organized and participated in Hope Events all across Virginia so far this year. As of June 1, a grand total of $25,151 has been raised in support of HopeTree Family Services’ ministries at Hope Events across Virginia. Please consider lending your support to our ministries to at-risk children and youth and to adults with intellectual disabilities by hosting a Hope Event of your own. Have a Bike for Hope, Rock for Hope, or Anything You Want for Hope....we’ll provide the promotions and materials, you provide the place and the people. Call Shauna Chastang at (540) 389-2112 or send an e-mail to [email protected]. Statewide Hope Events I have an intellectual disability. I have the capacity to love quickly and deeply. Sometimes I am guarded around strangers as most people are, but I can quickly open my heart and my arms to embrace nearly anyone. I know I could embrace you as a friend and cherish your companionship for many, many years. Because we are so very much alike. 9/15 Henry County Baptist Association - Walk for Hope Martinsville, VA Ways to Give Tried and True The Men of Ruth Camp Campbell Cottage II - (left to right) Ricky, Jon, John, Scott, and David. These gentlemen live in Ruth Camp Campbell Cottage II. For some, it has been their home for a decade or more. The two-story structure was originally constructed as the Straley-Kinchloe Infirmary in 1938. Seventy-four years later it is still as structurally strong as the day it opened. However, ten years after most of the men moved into the re-named Cottage II as part of the Developmental Disabilities Ministry, they are not quite as sturdy as they were in their younger days. As they continue to age, the building’s central staircase will become more and more difficult for them to manage. The two-story structure also presents a challenge to staff who care for the men and provide many different types of life-skills training. That is why we are conducting the Building upon the Pillars campaign to construct a new home for these men. This project actually began in February 2008 when ground was broken for the Bledsoe Home on the Salem Campus. Our original plan called for two new homes for adults with intellectual disabilities to be built on the Salem Campus. Unfortunately, expected funding for the second home disappeared in the economic troubles of that time. Since then, we have been attempting to discover new sources of the necessary funds to complete that second home we call the Blessings Home. A foundation has been laid and roughly one-quarter of the $400,000 necessary to build the Blessings Home has been raised. By sharing your blessings with the men of Cottage II, they can soon move into the Blessings Home and continue to enjoy fulfilling, productive lives as God has intended for them. Please complete and return the form below with your contribution to the Blessings Home. Thank you. Please address the form below and all other correspondence regarding the Blessings Home to: HopeTree Family Services Attn: David Wilson PO Box 849 Salem, VA 24153 Mailing a check is still the primary way many people contribute to HopeTree Family Services. Quick and Simple You can easily donate via credit card on our website (HopeTreeFS.org) or with a secure electronic funds transfer through your local bank. Its Negotiable HopeTree Family Services accepts donations of stocks, bonds, Certificates of Deposit, Money Market Accounts, and other financial investments. “We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.” -- 1 Thessalonians 1:3 ( ) I want to help build the Blessings Home. Please accept my gift of $________. 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