MR01-02MarriageBhava

Marriage & Relationship
Workshop #01
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Presenter
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Pt. Sanjay Rath
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Marriage Bhāva
 Marriage has an impact on every bhāva
 Examine 7th Lord in different bhāva
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Bhāva
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① स्व-भाव (sva-bhāva) Nature
of Native
② कु टु म्ब (kuṭumba) family, kula
③ िमथुन (mithuna) paired,
couple
④ सुख (sukha) – happiness,
contentment
⑤ सुत (suta) – संतान (saṅtāna)
⑥ बर् चयर् (brahmacarya)
continence, chastity
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Bhāva
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⑦ दार (dāra) - wife (nature)
⑧ माङ्गल्य (māñgalya) –
[extent of] married life
⑨ धमर् (dharma), रक्ष (rakṣa)
⑩ अथर् (artha) - wealth,
respect
⑪ िपर्य (priya) - favourite,
love
⑫ भायर् (bhārya) – nourish,
maintained
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Marriage can mean completely different thing for man and woman
For Woman, Men cannot replace mother, so 4H not as critical.
Instead it is 10H, the ‘rājya’ … “rule and follow”
But for Men, marriage is really like growing out of the cradle and
4H is critical. Some men can never break away from cradle!
Sukha-Artha Axis
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Men: Bhavat Bhāvaṁ 4H7H
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Fourth from Fourth House is Seventh …
for Men
Male Chart: If a planet is in 4H it has a
dominating influence on choice of partner
• Sun - education, music, religion; Moon
– food, cook … etc. and so on.
• Unless this criterion is constantly
present, the relationship becomes
shaky and the man tries to ‘crawl back
into cradle’.
• Look for these planets in trines to
‘brides lagna’ in rāśi and navāṁśa
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Notes
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Planets in 4H-10H
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Tenth from Tenth House is Seventh … for
Women
Female Chart: Planet in 10H has a
dominating influence on choice of partner
These planets shall dominate Lagna (or
be in trine to lagna) to show the nature of
person who they accept as Spouse
These are karmic choices that fulfill the
picture of ‘Home’
…but the picture is invariably distorted for
both men and women due to their ‘karma’
and other images caused by society
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Notes
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Jaya – Amitabh Bachchan
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Jaya 7L Mo in Pi (Dvisva✓) | Amitabh Su 7L in Vi (Dvisva✓)
Jaya: 10H has Ketu and 7H | Amitabh has Ketu in Lagna
Amitabh: 4H has Saturn-℞ | Jaya is Capricorn (Sat) Lagna
Marriage: June 3, 1973 – Bad Muhurta; Mo with Ke, Me, Ve
4H Retrograde is ‘weak’ because they show “love for wife” when
direct (gochar) and hate when retrograde - ‘kabhi kabhi effect’
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Rekha – Amitabh Check
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BhanuRekha 7L Me in Li (Chara) | Amitabh 7L Su in Vi (Dvisva) ✕
Marriage if at all, will not be for long … BUT
Rekha 10H with Sun [Marriage] 7L+10L Me with exalt Sat [Extra]
Amitabh is Aq Lagna (Sat) + Sat in trine (9H) in navāṁśa
Amitabh 4H Sat ℞ [Wife] 4L Ven with Ma, Su, Me [Extra-3]
Rekha has Mars in Sg Lagna + Mars in trine (9H) in navāṁśa
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Whitney + Bobby
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Whitney 7L Sun in Cn (Chara) | Bobby 7L Me in Cp (Chara) ✓
Whitney 7H Me (Spouse Young), 10H Vacant, 10L Ma, Ke
Bobby Lagneśa Ju +Ke, Mars trine 9H navāṁśa, Bobby 6 years
younger than Whitney ✓
Bobby 4H Pi + Ve, Ra, Sat AK | Whitney Aq Lag (Ra, Sat), Ve✕
Marriage July 18, 1992  4 major muhurta flaws [later]
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Jacqueline - JFK
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Jacqueline 10H Su, Me | JFK Lagneśa Me; Sun trine D1, D9
JFK 4H Rāhu | Jacqueline Rāhu not in lagna in D1, D9 ✕
Jacqueline will not be able to take JFK out of his cradle i.e. JFK
will continue to be very independent like a bachelor!
But JFK 4L Jup | Jacqueline Lagneśa Ve + Jup – this brings
about marriage, home
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Husband
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Traditional Marriage
Wife
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Wife 10H Ge vacant, 10L Me + Ve, Su, Ma
Husband is Taurus Lagna (Ve ✓) with Ve conjoining Su, Me, Ma in
trine … fulfills all criteria
Husband Chart 4H Leo vacant, 4L Sun conjoins Ke, Ve, Me, Ju, Sa,
Ma …very high requirements (6 planets guṇa)
Wife Vi Lagna (Me) + Mo; Me conjoins Su, Ma, Ve; Sa, Ju, Ke in trines
…fulfills the criteria!
Devaguru Brhaspati Center
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Hṛd Chakra
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• 4H, 10H Anāhata Chakra
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– Hṛd Chakra is near and connected to
Anāhata Chakra
– Male 4H Hṛd Chakra
– Female 10H Hṛd Chakra
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Graha
Sun
Moon
• If wife worships Viṣṇu avatāra
Mars
associated with graha placed in
4H (if none, take lord) of husband Mercury
chart, then success in winning
Jupiter
heart of husband forever!
Venus
• Jagannāth in heart of husband will
Saturn
be drawn to her … her husband
Rāhu
will be drawn to her
Ketu
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Avatāra
Rama
Kṛṣṇa
Nṛsiṁha
Buddha
Vāmana
Hṛṣikeśa
Kūrma
Varāha
Matsya
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6th House shows Brahmacarya (+ve), Ṣaḍripu (-ve)
Virgo natural sixth sign – symbol of purity, virgin
Venus debilitated in Virgo; Mercury exalted in Virgo
Mars kāraka (significator) of Brahmacarya
Brahmacarya or Ṣaḍripu?
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Brahmacarya Principles
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• Yoga of 6th lord and 7th lord
• 6th Lord aspects 7H and 7th lord very weak
• Mercury and Saturn in yoga – conjunction,
exchange or mutual aspect (rāśi dṛṣṭi): native
is like a child
• Sun and Moon in yoga - conjunction,
exchange or mutual aspect (rāśi dṛṣṭi): gives
very strong spiritual inclinations
• Mars Kāraka must be in strength
• Saturn must strongly influence mind
– Sat associates with Moon
– Moon sign Lord ‘śubhapati’ debilitated
– Dispositor of ‘śubhapati’ debilitated
Devaguru Brhaspati Center
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Lordship of Signs
Svakṣetra
Planetary Lordship of a
sign is based on the sign
being either the svakṣetra
(home) or mūlatrikoṇa
(also called ‘trikoṇa’ – the
office)
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Venus
Mercury
Moon
Sun
Mūlatrikoṇa
Mars
Moon
Sun
The first lordship is always
Mercury Rāhu that of the weekday
planets Sun to Saturn –
Venus
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Rāśi
Aries
Taurus
Gemini
Cancer
Leo
Virgo
Libra
Scorpio
Sagittarius
Capricorn
Aquarius
Pisces
Mars Ketu
Jupiter
Saturn
Rāhu
Jupiter
Saturn
Ketu
Devaguru Brhaspati Center
Agni is the devatā of BhūLoka
If two weekday planets
own a sign, the svakṣetra
ownership is stronger than
mūlatrikoṇa
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Swami Vivekananda
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6th Lord Venus conjoins 7th Lord Mercury
Strong influence of Saturn on Moon (conjunction)
Moon sign lord Mercury ⇄ Saturn
Sun – Moon in rāśi dṛṣṭi: Very strong spiritual inclination
Mars is very strong in 5H in mūlatrikoṇa
Confirmed brahmacarya; Sat on burning coal to remove one bad
thought that came to mind!
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Ramakrishna Paramhansa
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6th Lord Moon conjoins 7th Lord Sun in Aquarius
Moon in Aquarius Saturn sign; Saturn exalted but retrograde
(high ideals, low desires)
Mercury ⇄ Saturn rāśi dṛṣṭi; Sun + Moon conjunction
Mars is exalted – very strong
Confirmed brahmacarya even in marriage!
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Ramana Maharṣi
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6th Lord Jupiter ⇄ 7th Lord Mars (rāśi dṛṣṭi)
Śubhapati Mercury (Moon sign Lord) ⇄ Parivartana Ketu in
debility [Mo sign lord must be weak for sadhu – no desires in
mind]
Sun ⇄ Moon (rāśi and graha dṛṣṭi): Strong spiritual inclination
Mars is very strong in mūlatrikoṇa in Ruchaka Yoga
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Maharṣi Mahesh Yogi
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6L Mercury ⇄ 7L Moon (rāśi dṛṣṭi)
6L Me in Lag dṛṣṭi 7H + 7L Moon in 8H in maraṇa sthāna
Mercury ⇄ Saturn (graha dṛṣṭi); Moon in Leo, Śubhapati Sun in
maraṇa kāraka sthāna + conjunct debilitated Rāhu = No desires
in mind
Devaguru Brhaspati Center
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The Enemy of Marriage
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• 6th Lord in Lagna aspects 7th house + 7th Lord
Weak  wife is lost, kidnapped [enemy dṛṣṭi on
wife]
• 6th Lord aspects Lagna from 7th house +
Lagneśa Weak  native is kidnapped etc.
[enemy dṛṣṭi on self]
• 12th Bhāva or Lord associates with 7th bhāva or
Vice-versa + Venus associates with 6H or 6L 
Wife becomes ‘Fallen’
• 7th lord aspects 6th Bhāva or 6th Lord  Wife
becomes ‘Enemy’
• 8H Māṅgalya: 8H, 6H Yoga = Enemy breaks
marriage or tries to …
• Much more in śāstra, but these are the
principles
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Śrī Rama
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6th Lord Jupiter is in Lagna  graha dṛṣṭi on 7H = Enemy will
have dṛṣṭi on wife [Jup 6L – enemy was brāhmaṇa by birth]
Rāhu in 6H (enemy is Asura) is 8L (break marriage)
Rāvaṇa was the son of a Maharṣi married to Asura lady
7th Lord Saturn has dṛṣṭi on both 6H Sg and 6L Jup [Sat in 4H,
enemy action is triggered by women, step-mother, servant,
enemy sister]
Mars exalted in 7H – will surely win all battles if Mars is strong
[Mars is younger brother – Lakshmana, Vibheeshana younger
brother of enemy; Hanuman]
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Kajol Marriage
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7th Lord in 6H with 8L-Me: she tried for many years for a relationship to work.
11L Jup dṛṣṭi 7H (friend Ajay Devgun) gave advise of relationship
But 11L Jup is also 2L = 2nd relationship “Multiple ‘retakes’ before actual ‘take’
is common in film industry” … Kajol Comment
She married Ajay Devgun on 24 Feb 1999 [Sat-Mer] but in 2010 ‘Once Upon
a Time’ happened between Ajay and Kangna Ranaut [Sat-Rāhu]
6L in Lagna dṛṣṭi 7H, Rāhu co-lord of 8H in 10H (work)
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Judd Hirsch – Two Neṣṭā
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Mercury, Saturn in 12H = 2 Neṣṭā Planets gave 2 marriages
Jup is Lagneśa in 9H (independent), dispositor in 8H – breaks
marriages
Mer + Sat = Immature relationships (childish)
Married Elisa Sadaune 1956 - 58: Me-Ra to Me-Ju “It was my fault it
ended, I just didn't feel it had a future”
6L Sun dṛṣṭi Lag, 7L Me in 12H, Mars 8H etc.
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Judd Hirsch – 2nd Marriage
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Son Alexander Hirsch 1966: Ke-Jup “The quick encounter
with the boy’s mother occurred at a Catskill resort in the
kitchen… We look upon Alexander as a gift from heaven.” Ke
is 9L in 5H, Jup in Sc dṛṣṭi 5H
Married fashion designer Bonni Sue Chalkin 24 Dec 1992 –
2003: Sun-Mer to Moon-Ven;
Daughter Montana Eve, Son London
5L Moon in Cancer (Rāśi) to Virgo (Navāṁśa) = 3 count = 3
children …ok complete
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Judd with son
London Hirsch