October 2013 GW Voice
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October 2013 GW Voice
Vol. 17 17,, No. 10 – October 2013 P.O. Box 397, Cranbury, N.J. 08512 PRSRT STD ECRWSS U.S. Postage PAID EDDM Retail Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 A Monthly Periodical Serving Greenbriar at Whittingham PRESENTED BY THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB OF GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM Waiting for the Next Storm? Start Planning Now!!! By Ruth Banks The old and the young: veterans and youth together present the flags. Photo by Joe Harvie Remembering “A Tragedy of Unthinkable Proportions...” This past September 11 marked the twelfth anniversary of the destruction of the World Trade Center in New York City, the attack on the Pentagon in Washington, DC, and the crash of a plane in Pennsylvania headed to Washington, DC to do more damage. “The tragedy struck close to home, here in Monroe. Sadly some of our residents lost family, loved ones, and friends. Our hearts and prayers go out to each and every one of them. Husbands and wives, mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters, sons and daughters, friends and co-workers once heroes in everyday life are now heroes in history. As the years pass and we try to continue on with our daily lives, we always re- War of the Worlds...Revisited By Helen Oxenberg I was a young teenager in 1938 when one of the headlines in the Times was: “RADIO LISTENERS IN PANIC, TAKING WAR DRAMA AS FACT. Many flee homes to escape ‘gas raid’ from ‘Mars.’ Phone calls swamp police at broadcast of Wells’ fantasy.” A wave of mass hysteria seized thousands of radio listeners when a broadcast of a dramatization of H.G. Wells’ fantasy The War of the Worlds led thousands to believe that an interplanetary conflict had started with invading Martians spreading wide death and destruction in New Jersey and New York. There were traffic jams, clogged communications systems, families rushing out of their homes with wet towels over their heads and faces to (Continued on page 26) member the American flag, the ultimate symbol of freedom,” shown here being presented by war veterans from Monroe, supported by a troop of local Boy Scouts. “That tragic day we witnessed hero after hero of incredible proportions, victims who so tragically lost their lives, the families of the victims who live on, paying tribute to the memory of their loved ones, the police officers, firefighters and emergency medical personnel who ignored concern for their own safety to save others, passengers on the flights who died trying to prevent further deaths, volunteers who continued to work tirelessly day after day, and our government leaders who worked to protect and defend our country, states and communities. “In each other we see the symbol of love and compassion, a nation united together. In our children we see the symbol of hope, the future of America. We will always remember this day.” (Excerpted from Monroe Mayor Richard Pucci’s remarks at the 9/11 annual memorial ceremonies on September 11, 2013.) BOARD ELECTION RESULTS WHOA: Miriam Cohen, Rod Kober, Les Linet GWCA: Irwin Kaplan, John Cassiliano GGCA: William Benjamin, Alan Kadish A brighter ambience: A new rug in the Towne Center Library teaching a course in Public Health. Planning for disaster preparedness involves a number of steps, the first being to have a plan that will deal with anticipated as well as unexpected situations. Pay attention to weather forecasts – they have been very accurate. Before Having survived Super Storm Sandy and Hurricane Irene, we are more aware now of the importance of preparing in advance for potential emergencies and disasters. As was pointed out at the Residents Civic Club meeting on September 11 by the (Continued on page 27) speaker, Miriam Cohen, disasters can occur suddenly, without warning. Ms. Cohen is in a position to know this first hand having been involved in the state’s response to the attack on 9/11. Formerly the Director of Nursing for the Middlesex County Health Department, she has also served as Director of Disaster Planning for the NJ Primary Care Association. She currently is on the faculty of Kean University, Miriam Cohen, Public Health Nurse SPECIAL GENERAL ELECTION Wednesday, October 16 GW Ballroom, 6 AM to 8 PM. To elect a new U. S. Senator from the State of New Jersey (to finish the term of deceased Senator Frank Lautenberg.) Alone No More on Thanksgiving: A Dream Becomes a Reality By Ben Baum Two years ago when the new Senior Center was still just a vision, Bonnie Leibowitz, Senior Center Director, and I spoke about our dream for a dinner for those Monroe Township residents who had no place to go for Thanksgiving. We had several conversations after that and she decided it wasn’t feasible to consider this project before the opening of the new Center. Once the Center opened on June 26, Bonnie started the process to make this dream a reality. We have had several committee meetings with representatives from the Senior Center staff, adult community members and (Continued on page 6) MEET & GREET THE CANDIDATES Board of Education, Monroe Twp. Brought to you by the Residents Civic Club and The League of Women Voters of Monroe Township Wednesday, October 9, 2013 Program Starts Promptly, 7 pm, in the Ballroom Note: 13 Candidates are running, but only the following six, who accepted our invitation, will speak: Michele Arminio, Lewis Kaufman (Incumbent), Louis C. Masters (Incumbent), Thomas S. Nothstein, Steven Riback, Ira Tessler (Incumbent). NB: Neither the GW Residents’ Civic Club nor The League of Women Voters of Monroe Township endorses any candidate. This event is held as a public service so that the community may be better informed. ALL RESIDENTS ARE WELCOME REFRESHMENTS WILL BE SERVED OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 2 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE WHOA Responds To Rugged Criticism There are approximately 2,800 residents in our community—a community that offers multiple and varied activities and diversions. No one activity appeals to all or to even a majority of residents. Interests and tastes are varied. Thus, no two houses are furnished or decorated in the same manner. As a matter of fact, some residents even paint their mailboxes to express their individual style and taste. It should be abundantly clear that 2,800 individuals could not come to a consensus and approve the decorative selections made by anyone. Decorative styles are plentiful and readily available. It is a pipe dream to believe that a committee, as suggested by board critics, would succeed in gaining approval of a majority of our residents. At random, pick up an issue of any popular decorating magazine such as House Beautiful, House & Garden and/or Interior Design, and multiple decorative versions of the same room will be featured, with no two being identical or even in the same style. A visit to the Design Center in New York or any fabric, wallpaper, rug and carpet, etc. showroom will provide a view of hundreds, if not thousands, of varying designs, color combinations, quality and type of material used. While we recognize that tastes are indeed varied and different, and respect a resident’s right to disagree with our decisions, we do not appreciate when the disagreement with the board is over taste and decor, but is somehow presented with charges of Board incompe- tence, irresponsibility and heavy handedness. We have always acted sincerely and with the community’s interests at the forefront. We chose Barbara Ostrom, an internationally recognized veteran Designer and Consultant with builders of high-end residential and commercial installations. Both Home Beautiful and Home & Garden magazines have included her as one of the top 100 Designers in the US and with her work published in over 50 books. She has been a designer for over 35 years and her wide array of services has been utilized in hotels, restaurants, as well as commercial and retail spaces. Barbara Ostrom was chosen after recommendations by the past President of the New York Chapter of the AID and who now holds the rare position of Fellow in that organization and who has spent 58 years in the Design Field. Barbara was the only recommended Designer who agreed to amend the industry’s standard contract, to permit us to use her design and do all purchasing on our own. The Letters to the Editor Water, Water Everywhere... I understand that plans are being made to give Middlesex County all wet and woodlands properties currently owned by Greenbriar residents. And I also understand that a communication will shortly be going to all residents about this matter and a vote taken on the proposal. As a prelude to open meetings that may be held, I have framed some questions I would like answered in order W HITTINGHAM VOICE THE G REENBRIAR at Staff Members S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Amy P. Appleman Ruth Banks Ben Baum Annette Cavaliere Ellen Chmiel Joan Freeman Eileen Giacalone Art Gordon Don Greenfield Dick Herlands Dawn Horowitz Freddy Howard Arlene Lazar Harvey Lazar Gloria Montlack Olga Naccarella Dianne Pinkowitz Martin Rich Larry Sheppard Elaine Wintjen Editorial Board S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Helen Oxenberg, Village I Burton Farber, Village II usual 33 1/3% extra charge on purchases by the designer was waived. So we save that extra amount off every purchase made under the plan. Thus the $25,000 retainer is the total fee with no additional commissions. Despite granting the small, very vocal group of Board critics a forum to freely voice their criticisms at both our workshop meetings and Wednesday evening Ballroom meetings, the criticism is masked in accusations of incompetence, irresponsibility, and heavy handedness. Please remember that the Board consists of residents duly elected pursuant to our Bylaws. Our duties and obligations are specified in those Bylaws. To encapsulate them, the word “management” appears proper. In conclusion, if you disagree with our selections, it would be appreciated if you limit your criticism to the real reason for the disagreement, that of taste and style. Refraining from inflammatory accusations of Board incompetence, irresponsibility and heavy-handedness would clear the air. Arnold Riback, Representing Vill. II WHOA Representative Saul Brodman, Business Manager Advertising Office Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397 Cranbury, NJ 08512 (732) 761-8534 e-mail: [email protected] Editorial Office Greenbriar Whittingham VOICE 100 Whittingham Drive Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 (609) 655-4791 e-mail: [email protected] Publisher Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397, Cranbury, NJ 08512 · (732) 761-8534 or 8535 [email protected] The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE is a monthly periodical presented by the residents of Greenbriar at Whittingham, Monroe Township, New Jersey. All editorial material for publication should be submitted on or before the 3rd of the month prior to publication month to the Editorial Office. Greenbriar at Whittingham residents may deliver material to The GW VOICE mail box located at the Concierge Desk in the Towne Centre. The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE is not liable for any typographical or printing errors that may appear, including in its display or classified advertising, over the cost of the space of the advertisement. Note: The advertisements in The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE are, to the best of The VOICE’s and Princeton Editorial’s knowledge, accurate representations of the products and services offered. However, no endorsement by The VOICE or any other party is intended or implied. Acceptance of all materials is at the discretion of the publisher. WE RESERVE THE RIGHT TO EDIT ALL MATERIALS © 2013, PRINCETON EDITORIAL SERVICES to be informed enough to cast a vote. I am presenting them here so that all residents can review them, add their own to the list and we can all (the board included) be prepared to address this situation quickly and thoroughly. My questions are as follows: · When was the dam built and by whom? · How does Trent Lake fit into the water management system of the County? · When did the dam break and by what means? · What are the consequences of the dam being breached? Property damage? Water management issues? How are residents of GW affected? · With consideration of the consequences, are we required by law to repair the dam? · What are the costs to repair the dam and how many quotes have we received? · Was there insurance on the dam? If so, have those monies been received and where are they? · Why are we giving all of the wet and woodlands to the County and not just the lake and access to it? · Will we get a tax abatement for the gift of property? · Will we be exempt from contributing to the repair of the dam due to our gift? · What assurances do we have that the dam will be fixed and in what time frame? If we give up the property what assurances do we have that it will be kept private and the lake and surrounds will not become part of the recreational system of the County with hiking trails and a parking lot? What assurances do we have that unsecured roadways will not be added to the property jeopardizing the security of our homes with unmonitored access to our properties? Will there be fencing around the perimeter? Other security (Continued on page 26) Message from The Manager’s Office B y William H. Hinkle, General Manager As the summer season wraps up, this may also include the conclusion of some of our summer projects if weather turns too cool. However, we will work to accomplish as many outdoor projects as possible if Mother Nature cooperates into November. Our landscape crews will begin late into October and continue into November with leaf pick-up, but please recognize that this is an ongoing project as various varieties of trees lose their leaves at different times, including some that will retain their leaves well into the winter season. As of this writing with the hurricane and storm season already half over, we are hoping that we may dodge a bullet, as weather patterns have been mild, after two trying seasons. Coming into the peak of the season and into October, residents are reminded to keep their guard up, and use diligence in maintaining emergency procedures close at hand, with last year’s late October storm in mind. Take the time each and every day to review the emergency preparedness bulletins that have been circulated and published throughout the year. With the closing of the outdoor pool, Management will again be storing and inventorying all equipment assessing concerns and needs for the 2014 season. Outdoor pool attendance did experience a slight rise this season, especially on weekends. Our eight community ponds have experienced considerable established growth after many years of monitoring and planting. Come November, we will again look to have all growth (excluding trees), cut down to 8 inches for the winter. Some concerns have arisen throughout the year with the growth; hence, we will look at options next season for thinning out some brush during the season. Our water quality has been good through our seasonal pond maintenance (with limited surface algae); geese control improved and bank stabilization excellent in maintaining our desired pond levels. The function of our ponds is the overall control of water into the detention and retention basins in preventing any community flooding. Do your part and keep street drains clean by avoiding throwing undesirable debris into same, especially dog waste. Please remember that you must submit an Architectural Modification Application to the Management Office for any of the following before commencing work: landscaping, decks and/or patios, exterior light fixtures, solar panels, HVAC system replacements, walkways and porticos, vinyl trim wrap, roof and/or window replacements, front lawn trees, PODS/dumpsters, tube lights, and any other change to the exterior of your home. Applications may be picked up from Management or Resident Services. Once your application is reviewed, you will receive an approval letter from GW management indicating that you can begin your project. Remember, respect the guidelines set forth in our governing documents. The approval letters that you receive from the community are a required part of you (or your contractor) obtaining Township approval for those projects that need a Township permit as well. Autumn officially arrived on September 22. The fall months bring many items that I wish to remind you of: For those getting ready for your winter retreats, remember to winterize your home. There are forms available at the Concierge Desk to assist you in the filing process with the Monroe Township Municipal Utilities Department. This includes draining the water from and turning off the outside water spigots. Do NOT disconnect your telephone service if you will be away as there will be no way for your alarm system to communicate with the Central Station (dial tone IS mandatory). Furthermore, do not reduce your phone service (long distance) until you confirm with your alarm company that the number it calls can be reached. Complete a vacation form (available online or from the Concierge or Security) letting us know when you will be away, provide a forwarding address, and notify us of who would respond to a household emergency should there be one. This is a prime time to clean your chimneys if you are utilizing a wood burning fireplace in your home. Have your gutters cleaned as leaves can clog them as they fall, which may cause concern during rainstorms and/or winter storm events. Remove all planters from walkways, stoops, and driveways not later than October 15. Remember: Should there be any snow clearing over the winter months, the vendor is NOT responsible for damage to these items if they are not removed from these areas). With our economy still in a state of recovery, there are several items that you can do to save your household money. In many of these options, rebates from your utility company(s) and/or tax credits through the federal government may be available: · Install CFL (Compact Fluorescent Lighting) bulbs, which may save you an average of $125 per year; · Consider replacing light fixtures, motion sensor security lights, and ceiling fans, with Energy Star fixtures; · Change your air filters regularly (every one to three months); · Have a programmable thermostat installed; · Replace an older toilet with a high efficiency, high performance WaterSense labeled model, which may save you up to 60% on your (Continued on page 3) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Meet the Stars By Gail and Myron Alpern Backstage, at the August WHOA Show in MTHS, Hassie and Michael Lichten and Dale and Bob Blum met the Unexpected Surfer Boys. The group tackled the timeless songs of the legendary Beach Boys. Our couples were wowed by the beat of such classic hits as; Surfin USA, Barbara Ann, and I Get Around. They said that meeting this group was so much fun because they were warm and friendly and they gave each couple an autographed CD. We hope that you agree that WHOA provides great shows at a fair price. We often hear people say, “Where can you see such great The Residents Civic Club of Greenbriar at Whittingham Is Conducting Its Annual Holiday Fund Drive We wish to thank our excellent, hard-working loyal staff. We appreciate the efforts of our nurses, security, maintenance, office, and management employees who keep this a beautiful community. We suggest a minimum donation of $15.00 for a couple and $7.50 for a single, but any amount will be appreciated. Please note: WHOA & GWCA are not sponsors of the Holiday Fund. Please make your check payable to “Residents Civic Club.” Mark “Holiday Fund” in the memo section and deposit into Lock Box #4 near the Concierge desk in the clubhouse. Checks can also be mailed to: Residents Civic Club Box 4, 100 Whittingham Dr., Monroe Township NJ 08831 shows so close to home?” Come often and bring your friends. It is a good place to meet and greet and catch up with everyone at our sellout c r o wd s. St ay i nf or m e d through our emails/flyers/ channel 3 and monroenjonline (website). Come to our shows—you may be the next one to Meet the Stars! Manager (Continued from page 2) water usage; and insulate your home, which may offer you up to a 20% savings on heating and cooling costs; · Purchase Energy Star qualified appliances such as washers, dryers, freezers, refrigerators and dishwashers; · Insulate your water heater by wrapping it with an insulating jacket or switch to an Energy Star qualified water heater; · Upgrade your furnace and/ or air conditioning system; and · Replace your windows and/ or doors. For those of you who are leaving for your winter homes, the staff and I wish you a wonderful winter and we’ll see you in the spring! · Seal OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 3 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 4 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE New Residents Get Together By Sheila Werfel The dates, August 13 and 22 may not mean anything to many of you, but to the 57 new residents who were invited to my home those evenings, it meant a chance to meet other new neighbors. Unfortunately, a few people were unable to attend. There were also 29 new residents I couldn’t call because I didn’t have their phone numbers. Everyone had such a great time. Many came early, and many stayed late. Bissli (our Cocker Spaniel) greeted all the guests when they arrived, and gave a goodnight bark when they left. There was so much cake, cookies, pies, fruit, candy, and coffee, that no one wanted to leave (except for those who are still working). Once everyone took a seat (in the living room, dining room and the hall) we went around the room and introduced ourselves. We applauded the couple married 50 years and the newlyweds married a week. The Brooklynites outnumbered the rest of us; as usual! Several people went to the same high school and two people discovered they had been high school classmates. “It’s a Small World After All!” When asked the question as to why they moved to Greenbriar at Whittingham, the answer was unanimous: “It’s the best community around!” If you have recently moved into this community and haven’t received a call from me, that most likely means that I don’t have your phone number. So….PLEASE get in touch with me at either my e m a i l a d d r e s s , [email protected] or by phone, 619-3229. Don’t miss out on having a great evening with friends you haven’t met yet. I’ll be having another get together in October. My door is always open to meet you. My coffee pot takes a minute to start perking and my tea kettle can blow its whistle at any given moment. I look forward to meeting you. Thank You Notes Living in GW with residents who make our community a warm and friendly place to live is a unique experience. This was made apparent when I was overwhelmed with cards, phone calls and visits during my recovery. I sincerely thank everyone for their concern and best wishes. Ed Goldman *** Your many thoughtful expressions of sympathy were so appreciated. I thank you for the cards and contributions sent to me in memory of my sister Mae. This is truly a caring community. Marilyn Grossman *** Family and friends, Joel and I were overwhelmed by the love, caring and concern of all of you during my surgery and recovery. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the cards, donations, gifts, flowers, visits, and delicious food. Our friendships have become a lasting bond. Love... Rickie Schartoff *** Dear GW friends, thank you for all the kindness and concern shown us after Irwin’s recent hospitalization. Thank you for all those good wishes and for all that delicious food. You are a wonderful community. Fondly, Ann and Irwin Rausch *** This is just a note to tell everybody how lucky we are to have Johnny as our bus driver. Johnny is always smiling, courteous, cheerful and helpful. We salute him and thank him for a job well done. The many riders *** Thank you to all our caring friends and neighbors at Greenbriar at Whittingham for helping us through this time of sorrow. Your sympathy and comfort at the loss of my beloved sister, Brenda Wagschal, will always remain in our hearts! She was a woman of valor. Audrey and Paul Bresalier and Family MTCAC Presents Annual Juried Art Show Paid for by Citizens for Tamburro & Schneider, 103 Concordia Circle, Monroe Township, NJ 08831 From Monday, October 21 through Monday, October 28, the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission will sponsor a Juried Art Show at the Monroe Township Library. The Juror, Jeff Cohen, is a professional artist and teacher who does unique paintings, sculpture and ceramics. The exhibit is open to living artists of all ages. Work must be original and not from kits. .Artists should present their work at the Conference Room in the Library on Tuesday, October 15 between 3 pm and 7 pm. Artwork not accepted must be picked up on Friday, October 18 between 11 am and 3 pm. To obtain an entry form, visit the web site www.Monroe TownshipCulturalArts.com or call (732) 521-4400. Questions: (609) 395-0934 during working hours. Do not call the Library. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE THE COMMUNITY AROUND US Civic Affairs By Jerry Tamburro Monroe Township Council President Free Parking! Yes, that’s right – free parking! Currently you can park free at the Township park & ride locations on the week-ends. However, you must obtain a park& ride hanger which must be displayed when parking on the week-end. They are not valid during the week and yes they are free. You must apply at the transportation office at our new senior center and you will receive it while you wait. At our regular Council meeting on September 9 we intro- duced an ordinance which will also make parking on Wednesdays free, however only at the new park & ride across from Clearbrook. Just for clarification, the new park & ride is at Clearbrook Commons, across from Clearbrook and next to the CVS. When this lot was built, at a developer’s expense, parking on both sides of Applegarth Road was eliminated. At that time it was noted that most of the cars parked on Applegarth were from residents that lived outside of Monroe. Only Monroe residents can use our park & ride lots. Since the new lot is cur- rently underutilized we felt that residents who only use the facility occasionally should benefit. As with the week-end only parking you must apply at the transportation center for a different color hanger. This privilege will not be available until January 1 of next year. It takes two readings of our ordinances and 20 additional days to become effective which brings us to the end of November. In addition we have to obtain the hangers, which takes several weeks. Bottom line is that it is free with no conditions attached! Enjoy! At October LWV: An Insider’s View of New Jersey By Ruth Banks Having served as a State Senator and State Assemblyman, Assistant Commissioner of Education, author, and lecturer at Princeton, among other roles, Gordon MacInnes has learned at first hand the ups and downs, the pitfalls and the successes, of the State of New Jersey. He will be sharing some of those insights with us at the Monday, October 28 meeting of the League of Women Voters of Monroe Twp. The meeting will be held at the Township Municipal Building at 1 pm, and is free and open to the public. Mr. MacInnes is currently the president of the New Jersey Policy Perspectives, a progressive think tank in Trenton. From 2007 to 2012 he was a Fellow at The Century Foundation in New York, and for two years was a lecturer at the Woodrow Wilson School, Princeton University. His legislative experience was gained first in the General Assembly and then in the State Senate from 1994 to 1998, representing a Morris County district, where he served on the education and environment committees. He has been a director of the New Jersey Network, was the first director of the Fund for NJ and served as a special assistant to the Commissioner of Education and Governor Richard J. Hughes. From 2002 to 2007 he served as the Assistant Commissioner of the NJ Department of Education responsible for directing the implementation of courtordered programs in the state’s poorest city districts. Following his Senate term he led the Citizens for Better Schools, a non-profit organization that advocated for improved instruction in underperforming schools. A current member of the Board of Governors for Rutgers University and a trustee of Occidental College, of which he is a graduate, Mr. MacInnes is the author of Wrong for All the Right Reasons: How White Liberals Have Been Undone by Race (1996) and In Plain Sight: Simple, Difficult Lessons from New Jersey’s Expensive Effort to Close the Achievement Gap. (2008). He also authored a monograph for The Century Foundation in 1999, Kids Who Pick the Wrong Parents and other Victims of Voucher Schemes. He is a graduate of the Woodrow Wilson School of Princeton University. The LWV is a political but nonpartisan national and state organization. The League does not support or oppose candidates for public office, Jewish Federation GW Chapter By Eddie Thompson We hope that everyone had a pleasant High Holiday experience and we all look forward to a year of good health, happiness, and peace for Israel and the world. On September 22, we honored Richie Diamond at our annual Awards Luncheon which was held at B’nai Tkvah. Richie was happy to see so many of his friends, neighbors, and relatives present to share in his simcha. Our guest speaker was Jeffrey Schwartz who is chairman of allocations for the Jewish Federation. He explained how we allocate the funds we receive and explained why it is so important to donate to Jewish Federation so that we may continue with all of our very vital and needed programs. On October 12, we will have our annual phonathon for Monroe Twp, and we hope to contact as many “snow birds” (Continued on page 6) but does study and act on public policy issues which the members have agreed on. The League is open to men, not just women, and meets monthly, usually on the fourth Monday of the month at 1 pm at the township Municipal building. In months when a holiday occurs on the fourth Monday, we meet on the third Monday. In June and in November the League hosts a luncheon at Forsgate Country Club. This year’s Holiday Luncheon is on November 11 and will feature Ingrid Reed as the speaker. She will again deconstruct the election for the attendees. For information on the luncheon, please call Doris Altman at 609-655-5932; for information on membership or programs please contact Ruth Banks, 609-655-4791, or Judy Perkus, 609-395-1552, or Francine Glass, 609-860-7890 for residents of the Ponds. OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 5 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 6 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The New Jersey Distinguished Service Medal was awarded to these residents during a ceremony in Trenton on the anniversary of V-J Day. From left are Charlie Dunlop, Harold Siegel, Bill Schwartz and Dan Mann. GW Chapter Jewish Federation (Continued from page 5) as possible before they venture south. Please be sure to answer our phone call and respond generously so that we may continue to adequately serve our Middlesex Jewish community as well as our fellow Jews in Israel and elsewhere across the seas. A Community Day is planned on November 24 at the Douglass College Campus Center (this is the day before Thanksgiving and the first day of Chanukah) and we will have a fun day for the youngsters and programs to enlighten everyone about our programs and services. On January 12, 2014, we will continue with our solicitations and designate that day as our official Super Sunday phonathon. Again, we urge you to answer the call if you have not as yet. We cannot stress enough how important it is that you help us to reach our goal of serving you and your fellow Jews. To those who are leaving our community for the winter, we wish you well and for those who are staying, we hope you find the winter tolerable and safe. If you have questions about Jewish Federation, please call co-presidents, Dorothy Thompson (860-2664) or Judy Brodman (395-8171), or you may call the Jewish Federation of Greater Middlesex County office at 732-5881800. If you wish to become active with Jewish Federation, we encourage you to contact either of our presidents or the Federation office directly and we will be happy to welcome you as an active volunteer. Thanksgiving (Continued from page 1) seniors who live outside the gated communities. At the last meeting there were 20 enthusiastic people present. We have decided that we can accommodate 150 people this first year; our hope is that this will become an annual event. This year the event will only be open to seniors but future Thanksgiving meals may not be age-restricted. The Monroe Township Office of Senior Services will be conducting Monroe Community Cares Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving Day. The goal of this event is to provide an opportunity for all seniors to celebrate this day and not experience the lonely feeling of having no place to go while everyone else is celebrating this national holiday. Now they can come to the Senior Center and have what we expect will be a memorable event. The following facilities/ businesses have agreed to serve as corporate sponsors to keep the per person cost to a minimum: The Gardens at Monroe, Brookdale Assisted Living at Wynwood, Saint Peter’s Hospital, Point of Care Pharmacy, Seaview Orthopedics, Senior Bridge, Hospice of New Jersey, Monroe Medical Supply and The E. Francis Parker Memorial Home. If you are interested in attending this noon time Thanksgiving Day event or know of others in GW who will be alone on November 28, please have them get in touch with me at 609-2359440 or the Senior Center at 609-448-7140. Calling for Minyan Volunteers The Minyan Group of Greenbriar at Whittingham has serviced our community for over 20 years and now we need your help in order to continue this most important function. To cover the broad spectrum of observance among residents, we need to ensure the presence of 10 men at all Shiva minyans. You do not have to be fluent in Hebrew to be part of our group but we need your presence. However, if you are fluent in Hebrew, we could also ask if you wish to be a minyan leader as well. For more information and to volunteer, please call: Eddie Thompson-860-2664/Aaron Nitkin-395-7598/Jim Penzias860-8344. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE From Our Mayor B y Richard Pucci, Twp. of Monroe Township Tops List of Communities for Empty Nesters Monroe Township was named the Best Community for Empty Nesters in the state in an article in the September 2013 issue of New Jersey Monthly. According to the story, Monroe was chosen to top this list because of its low taxes, open space and location in Central Jersey among many other factors. “Many of the Jersey towns with a significant number of 55 -plus communities – such as Manchester, Stafford, and Little Egg Harbor are located further south,” the article stated. “Monroe has the advantage of being closer to population centers of Northern and Central New Jersey and even New York. That makes it a good choice for empty nesters eager to downsize, but not ready to retire.” In addition, the article, which is available online at www.njmonthly.com, also cited quick commutes to New York, whether by bus or train, as an advantage of living in Monroe. “Express buses stop at Rossmoor and other locations to pick up passengers for the 55-minute commute to the Port Authority in Manhattan,” the article stated. “There are also several park-and-ride lots. New Jersey Transit riders typically drive a half hour to Matawan, New Brunswick or Princeton for the direct train connection to New York City.” Furthermore, the Township’s low tax rate and local health-care industries were taken into consideration in getting Monroe to the top of the list. “The presence of industrial ratables (drawn to the proximity of Exit 8A off the New Jersey Turnpike) helps keep taxes under control. The abundance of seniors also has spurred “over-whelming growth in the [local] health- (Graphic reprinted with permission from New Jersey Monthly September 2013 issue.) Nurse’s Notes Durable Power of Attorney and Advance Directives Stephanie Fitzsimmons Sexton RN, APN This past weekend the Home News Tribune carried an article about a gentleman who was not competent to make decisions for a period of time due to injuries from a fall. As a result he was made a ward of the state and received health care using his insurance supplemented by his private assets. At the moment he appears capable and is battling to be declared competent and independent. He has a home that he owns and yet cannot return to his home because he does not have the legal right to sign himself out of the assisted living facility where he currently resides. Durable Power of Attorney for Property (DPA) is a document that allows you (the principal) to give legal authority to another person to make financial/legal decisions and financial transactions on your behalf. It is called “durable” because it remains effective even if the principle (you) becomes mentally incompetent. Mental incompetence could happen for several reasons, a sudden illness or accident where you are not able to speak on your own behalf or the development of Alzheimer’s disease. Now you are sitting there thinking – nothing is going to happen to me and if it does I have family members that will step forward to assist me. That could be very true, but I think you should choose whom you want to make those decisions for you. A DPA is effective as of the day it is signed and executed. This means that even if you are competent to make your own decisions, your DPA will have the legal authority to act on your behalf and engage in financial transactions. A “springing” DPA, on the other hand, becomes effective at a later date, usually when the principal(you) becomes mentally incompetent – it “springs” into effect at the point you lose capacity, as certified by a physician. Consult with your bank about its requirements for accepting a DPA. Advance Directives are legal documents which provide information about your treatment preferences to those car(Continued on page 21) care industry.” The excellent school system and low crime rate were also cited in the article as reasons to live in Monroe. “Monroe Township High School ranked 124 last year on the New Jersey Monthly list of Top High Schools,” the article stated. “Younger families seek out three-bedroom ranches for about $325,000 or the higher-priced fourbedroom colonials. Like the empty nesters, they appreciate the access to nearby centers of employment and culture such as New Brunswick and Princeton.” Monroe was the only Middlesex County community on the list of Top Towns for Empty Nesters, and beat out communities such as West Caldwell, Pennington, Florham Park, North Caldwell and Manchester. We have worked hard throughout the years to make Monroe a great place to live, raise a family and retire. It is an honor to be named by an independent survey as the Best Community for Empty Nesters. OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 7 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 8 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Computer Tips and Tricks By Herman Strauss Saying Goodbye: Five Alternatives To The Optical Disc With computers growing smaller and lifestyles going mobile, fewer and fewer devices offer sufficient space for internal optical drives. Presently, the market is kept afloat by Blu-ray consumer home video sales but in terms of data storage, optical discs are slowly becoming ob- solete. Moreover, while most movie buyers still prefer to own a physical copy of their purchase, this market, much like the music market, will soon be taken over by streaming services. So are you still storing data on optical drives? Optical discs have a storage capacity of up to 50GB (Blu-ray) and at around $0.08 per GB they remain one of the cheapest ways to store data. Under optimal conditions in terms of temperature, humidity, and handling, Blu-ray discs can last over 50 years, an impressive number. The problem is, optical discs require an optical drive to be used and such a device will likely break long before 50 years are up. The question then is whether those drives will still be available in a decade or two from now and at what point is it smart to switch to another storage medium. The way you store your data should always be current. There is no point in chaining yourself to a specific method or medium. The key is that your data is easily accessible to you, now and in the future. Hence, the best way to store your data depends on your needs. How much data do you have? Do you want to store, transport or share your data? Where do you need to access them? And for how long do you need to store your data safely? To make potential alternatives to optical discs comparable, I have examined four different criteria: storage capacity , average price per GB, average or approximate lifetime in years or number of write/erase cycles, and compatibility with other devices and operating systems. Option 1: USB Stick Capacity: regularly up to 128GB (256GB available.) Price: from $0.60 to $0.80 per GB. Lifetime: 10 thousand to 5 million write/erase cycles, approx. 2 to 20 years. Compatibility: theoretically any device with USB port. Flash-based drives and particularly USB thumb drives are probably the best alternative to optical discs in terms of lifetime and portability. Since lifetime depends less on climate and storage conditions but primarily on the number of times data are written to or erased from the drive, flash drives theoretically could have a longer lifetime than DVDs or Blu-ray discs. With up to 128GB, thumb drives also offer more storage capacity (Blu -ray up to 50GB) and they do not depend on the availability of an optical drive. However, flash drives are significantly more expensive per GB. Option 2: SD(HC) Card Capacity: up to 128GB. Price: from $0.62 to $1 per GB. Lifetime: 100 thousand to 1 million write/erase cycles, approx. 1 to 10 years. Compatibility: adapter or SD card reader required. This is the most portable alternative to optical discs. With regular storage sizes between 16 and 64GB, SD cards are also comparable in size. Similar to USB sticks, the lifetime of SD cards depends on write/erase cycles and can thus be very short or rather long. Like all flash-based storage devices, the price per GB is significantly higher than that of optical discs. Moreover, SD / SDHC cards require an SD / SDHC card reader or an adapter. Option 3: External Hard Drive (HDD) Capacity: up to 3TB. Price: from $0.04 to $0.15 per GB. Lifetime: approx. 2-5 years. Compatibility: any device with USB port. External hard drives are the cheapest alternative to optical discs. They cost less, offer a much higher storage capacity, and are essentially compatible with any device that sports a USB port. In terms of connecting the hardware, compatibility is a non-issue. That said, keep in mind that the file system (typically FAT32 or NTFS) can potentially prevent recognition or full functionality of a HDD when connected to other devices (TV) or operating systems. The biggest issue, however, is the vulnerability of HDDs. They are easily damaged by physical shock, which makes them suboptimal for transporting data. Moreover, their operation relies on moving parts, meaning each use increases the likelihood of hardware failure. Option 4: External Solid State Drive (SSD) Capacity: up to 256GB. Price: from $0.80 to $1.78 per GB. Lifetime: 100 thousand to 5 million write/erase cycles, approx. 5 to 20 years. Compatibility: any device with USB port. In terms of price and durability, SSDs are similar to thumb drives or SD cards: ex(Continued on page 12) EMAIL BULLETIN DELIVERY SOME OF THE EMERGENCY AND OTHER EMAIL BULLETINS FROM MANAGEMENT SENT TO RESIDENTS ARE BEING RETURNED AS UNDELIVERABLE. TO FACILITATE DELIVERY, PLEASE ADD THE EMAIL ADDRESS [email protected] TO YOUR CONTACT LIST. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Senior Solutions By Helen Oxenberg, MSW, ACSW (Helen Oxenberg’s column, Senior Solutions, is syndicated and appears in several states.) Dear Solutions: A woman whom I knew many, many years ago has just moved into my community. I was never very friendly with her but some of my friends at that time played cards and some played mahjong with her. Unfortunately she was found to be cheating in both games and no one would play with her anymore. Now I understand that she is about to join an ongoing card game and I’m in a quandary. I know it was many years ago but do people ever really change and should I warn the other card players? I don’t want to be mean to her or unfair to the other women so I don’t know whether to say anything or not. The trouble is, I have a very good memory. What do you think? -Emma Dear Emma: Actually Emma, a very good memory is one that can remember what to remember and knows what to forget! I understand your dilemma. However, has anyone asked you anything about this woman, since it was “many, many” years ago? You don’t know what she may have learned or how she may have changed over the years. The women in the game she is about to enter are surely smart enough and mature enough to recognize any wrongdoing and make their own decisions about how to react. So, Emma, remember that you’re a compassionate person – or you wouldn’t feel this as a dilemma – and remember to feel good about yourself. Dear Solutions: My daughter, who was not very young when she married, has one child – “the heir” as her husband calls him. Now, because time is running out, as she says, she wants to have another child right away. Her husband says it’s very important to him to have an heir so his family’s biological genes will continue in the world and since he now has that heir, he’s not interested in another child. She’s upset and has asked me for advice about how to convince him, so I’m asking you for advice about what to tell her. Thanks. -The mother-in-law Dear Mother-in-law: She should tell him if he really wants to insure his biological genes’ continuation in the world he shouldn’t just count on one “heir.” He should have an heir and a spare. After all, who knows what can happen in this world. Tell him it would also be nice for the heir to have sibling company to carry those genes in the world. – (just make sure you don’t name the new baby “spare”). Seriously, your daughter should talk to her husband about his fears of having another child – financial?, emotional?, conflict? – whatever, they should sit down and talk frankly about each one’s feelings and fears and then make a decision together. Bringing their opinions into the open will help them to be closer and to understand each other better. And you, Mother-in-law, after suggesting “heir” and “spare,” say no more. a Dear Solutions: I’ve been living with the same man for 28 years, we’re not married. But like a marriage, our relationship has grown stale. So we snipe at one another. I become extremely irritated when he questions and probes my five grown kids (in a sneaking way when I’ve left the room) to find out their income. He feels the need to know how much they pay for their house, mortgage, cars, etc. I’ve asked him not to grill my kids about such things but he continues to do so. I tell him, “If they want you to know their business you wouldn’t have to ask.” We argue about this constantly after the kids go home. Bear in mind, all five kids are gainfully employed as nurses, real estate agents, their own business, etc. As their mother, I never pry because it’s obvious they are all doing well financially. So what do you think? -BG Dear BG: Well, BG, 28 years? So, while you were groaning they were growing and now both the groaning and the growing has come to maturity. Every one of his questions “when you leave the room” can be and should be or not be answered by those grown children. As you say to him, “if they want you to know their business you wouldn’t have to ask.” And BG, you’re right, if they want won’t. It sounds like you arhim to know their business they will tell him and if they don’t, they e using this problem to cover your own uneasiness with your “stale” relationship. Stop using your children as scapegoats and start working with your companion to try to fix what’s wrong – maybe with some therapy. Problems? Become part of the Solution. Write to Helen Oxenberg, Senior Solutions, P.O. Box 346, Jamesburg, NJ 08831 or email:[email protected] Demonstrations October 1 - 15 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 9 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 10 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The Cinema By Larry Sheppard FRUITVALE STATION portrays the last 24 hours in the life of Oscar Grant III (MICHAEL B. JORDAN), a 23 year old black youth apparently trying to turn his life around. Unable to keep a job and already having done some prison time for drug dealing, he is hardly the model of a good citizen. He does love his illegitimate child with his girlfriend (MELONIE DIAZ) but his hot temper and inability to put his past behind him will eventually end in violence. His caring mother (OCTAVIA SPENCER) tries to keep her angry son out of trouble but good intentions aren’t enough. Based on an actual incident in 2009, Oscar and some friends celebrating New Years’ Eve become embroiled in an altercation at the Fruitvale Station of the San Francisco BART line. Police are called and the situation escalates, culminating with a police officer shooting Oscar in the back. Director RYAN COOGLER does an outstanding job in his first full length film, depicting Oscar as a human being not deserving of death even though his faults become evident. The white officer who shot Oscar received a light sentence with his claim that in the excitement, he mistook his regular pistol for his Taser gun. Oscar is a victim of a fractured society where violence, discrimination and deprivation are a basic reality of everyday life. What is significant about FRUITVALE STATION is the sadness and frustration manifest in this waste of a human being. RATING…B+. BLUE JASMINE proves again that WOODY ALLEN is a genius. That is a strong statement but how can one not give him this credit for producing about 45 movies in as many years. They were certainly not all winners but he can still fashion a compelling story with a perfect cast of characters that makes him an artist extraordinaire. Jasmine (CATE BLANCHETT) arrives at her sister’s dumpy apartment in San Francisco. Her pampered existence on Park Avenue has been completely eradicated when her husband Hal (ALEC BALDWIN) is arrested and imprisoned for financial fraud. Claiming to only having the clothes on her back but flying first class to get there, she is on her way to a nervous breakdown. Her divorced sister Ginger (SALLY HAWKINS) is her exact opposite, scatterbrained and kooky but still wants to do the best she can to help her sister. Their personality and physical differences are explained as due to being adopted rather than having the same biological parents. We also meet Ginger’s boyfriend, excitable Chili (BOBBY CANNAVALE) as well as Ginger’s exhusband, resentful Augie (ANDREW DICE CLAY). Jasmine’s polished exterior soon gives way as she tries to adjust to this comedown from a life of exquisite clothes and fancy parties to being a dentist’s receptionist. Her last attempt at extricating herself from her base circumstances by marrying a wealthy man, Dwight (PETER SARSGAARD,) does not work out, bringing on her final collapse. CATE is brilliant as the doomed Jasmine and several Academy Award nominations are in order for this small but terrific film. RATING…A. THE BUTLER is actually the story of the civil rights movement as seen through the eyes of real life White House servant, Eugene Allen and the eight Presidents he served during those tumultuous years. Less realistic is the screenplay includ- ing a name change to Cecil Gaines (FORREST WHITAKER,) his wife Gloria (OPRAH WINFREY) and son Louis (DAVID OYELOWO) along with numerous cameos by some familiar faces. Most are quite a stretch, including ROBIN WILLIAMS as Dwight D. Eisenhower and JOHN CUSACK as Nixon, although JANE FONDA as Nancy Reagan seemed reasonable. The screenplay begins in the deep south as Cecil sees his father shot down for trying to protect his mother from a white rapist. He goes north and ends up as a waiter in a fine Washington, D.C. restaurant where his excellent reputation leads to a White House job. As a butler, he is privy to presidential conversations concerning many civil rights situations which are then flashed onto the screen for the audience to relive. Interspersed with these happenings is his own family life, less tranquil with an unhappy alcoholic wife, a rebellious son who is active in civil rights violence and another son who is killed in Vietnam. While I found the soap opera ending contrived, the film is still significant as a review of the struggle for freedom of African-Americans in the 20th century. I recommend the film both for the acting as well as the emotional impact of those troubled times. RATING...B-. Finance and Investing By Irwin Kaplan Forecasts and Stock Purchases I don’t think interest rates will rise soon because the U.S. economy is relatively weak. There is not a lot of consumer demand and retail prices continue to rise, keeping the pressure up. The U.S. debt is still sadly high along with U.S. unemployment and a slow housing market buildup. Internationally, politics and economies seem to be degenerating. This is the kind of scenario that does not make investing easy nor does it build investing confidence. Rather, it seems to create a highly volatile investment environment, ups and downs coming for good reasons and no reasons. It is a time for investors to be very cautious and not get trapped in investments that have no value logic to their market price. When interest rates begin to rise, whenever that will be, there will be a rush to the exits as mutual funds, along with professional and hedge fund players, join the exodus. History tells us that rising interest rates create downward pressure on market prices for most securities, stocks and bonds. History also tells us that this tide doesn’t stay with us forever – but no one knows in advance how long it will impact the financial markets. This is my current forecast. I have taken this forecast position because I don’t see legislative action in Congress to change my opinions, nor does the current international situation foster investment confidence. Yet, like many retirees I am looking for income. One of my responses to the economic drag is to search out and invest in companies that pay dividends and have estimates of earnings rising in the next three years. These companies must have adequate finances – controllable debt, and be conservatively managed. At the same time my buy-in market price has to be conservative- a modest P/E (price to earnings ratio) and dividend payout ratio. I am also prepared to reinvest the dividends I receive to help build value and income. To find these investment candidates I look for companies in industries that (Continued on page 11) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Reflections By Ben Baum When Bart, our 9-year-old grandson, visited in August from Ohio, he surprised me with his request to make a return visit to Insectropolis, the bug museum in Tom’s River. I had taken him there last spring and he was so enthralled with the world of insects he wanted to return. Since I taught science for four years, I was encouraged that he might someday head down a scientific career path. From my perspective it was a double whammy, for I got to see the exhibits again and learn some concepts I missed on the first go round as well as spending valuable hours with my grandson. When we proceeded to the section where the entomologist allowed the audience to touch a scorpion, a centipede and an African cockroach, Bart was thoroughly engrossed. Next to him were a boy and girl who interacted with him and shared that their birthday was the next day. So I interjected and asked them if they were twins. Much to my amazement they indicated that their other brother and sister were sitting across the aisle with their mother. We had met our first set of quadruplets who were 9 years old like Bart! After the quadruplet encounter, I Googled quadruplets and learned we had met one of the 3447 sets of quadruplets in the world. On the last Saturday in August I spent the day with my mother in the emergency room at Robert Wood Johnson Hospital. I came to the conclusion that emergency rooms are a great equalizer. There was a significant representation of the country’s ethnic, racial and religious groups at the ER. There was an Orthodox Jewish gentleman in his traditional garb, an Indian man in his native clothes, an Arabic woman with the required head covering and a few teenagers who were scantily dressed. We all had one thing in common — concern for the well being of the loved one we had accompanied to the ER. By the time I had been there for about 3 hours, I began to converse with a man whose father was bleeding internally. When I left that evening, we two strangers shook hands and wished each other well. The other factor I observed in the ER setting was that you can always find someone there whose problems are more profound than your own. Many of the cases that Saturday were of a more life threatening nature than my Mother’s. And I forgot to mention that my Mother turned 97 on April 15! By the time you read this the GW elections will be over. I hope that we have as many residents involved in the September 18 election as we did in the July 17 election to mod- Finance (Continued from page 10) will prosper in the future economy I see. What are they? Ok, here is my current industry choices - Healthcare, Utilities (electric and water), and REITs (real estate investment trust). This week I made an initial investment in a company that owns U.S. hospitals. While hospital operations are sure to be effected by the new health laws, there is a large demand for medical services by a growing maturing population and a move toward consolidation in the industry. My income forecast for this company is up for each of the next three years. I am comfortable with my conservative buy-in price and I am looking for this investment to rise in value as I wait for the market to recognize the potential I bought into. This company also pays a current dividend above 4.5% annually, which I can reinvest. Because no investments’ future is written in cement, I have to monitor the company’s results, and hopefully it will work out profitably, as I planned. This is my example of how I put my forecast to work for investment selection. You can do the same. If the job is not for you, get professional investment advice, or look for mutual funds that meet your criteria. Cinema ify the by-laws; 1072 of us voted in that election. Don’t forget to vote in the October 16 election for the New Jersey representative to the U.S. Senate. The country would sure be better off if its citizens got as enthused about the democratic processes as they are about their favorite athletic team. How about 535 congressional cards to add to the baseball cards that fans collect? We were at the mall one day and I observed a family of five waiting to enter the movie theater. As they sat there I noted that each one of them, parents and children, were utilizing their smart phones. I wonder if their behavior is indicative of what occurs when they arrive home, namely, little direct communication between family members. I’ll bet they entered the theater and watched five different movies! After judging for several GW elections and interacting closely with April, I’m convinced that if we had a GW Jeopardy Game that April (Continued on page 12) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 11 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 12 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Memories: Life On This Side Of The Hudson By Len Greenberg I grew up in suburban Hillside, New Jersey. We were walking distance from the famed Weequahic High School, in Newark, a world away from our relatives in Brooklyn. Most everyone lived in two family and single family homes. The town was a mix of blue collar factory workers, middle class entrepreneurs and professionals, as well as some wealthier people like Phil Rizzuto. I recall those hot summer days of my childhood, the days before air conditioning. It’s truly amazing how we all survived without “air.” Living in our own house, we were able to have an attic fan that created a refreshing, but warm breeze throughout. Memorial Day was the official day for my dad, who worked six days a week in his store, to take down the storm windows and put up the screens. It was my job as well as my older brother’s to help him, once I became a teenager. There were fourteen sets of windows in the house and two screens and storms per window. This was a day I dreaded; the screens were stored in the attic. They collected dust all winter and the screens were quite heavy. The only break in the day long project was the Memorial Day parade that came right past our house. The parade was usually headed up by a platoon of Marine reservists who were commanded by one of our high school teachers (who later was rumored to have had an affair with one of my female classmates,) followed by the high school band playing something like “On Wisconsin,” followed by a few vets in uniforms that no longer fit. For us kids the true highlight of the parade came at the end, when dozens of kids with their bikes decorated in crepe paper and streamers followed with their own contributions to the goings on. Early in the summer, we were able to spend the day at the playground where there were organized activities, usually a softball or kickball game for the boys and more crafty endeavors for the girls or less athletically inclined boys. Every summer the “Playground Commission” organized trips to Yankee Stadium or the Polo Grounds, never to Ebbets Field, where we would join thousands of other kids from all over the metropolitan area to cheer on our heroes who were so far away on the field that it was often impossible to see who we were cheering for. A special treat for us kids from the Newark area was an excursion to Olympic Park in nearby Irvington. It was our Palisades Park. One just needed to walk to Chancellor Avenue and take the number 14 bus which took us right to the door. Once inside we enjoyed the rides or swam in the enormous pool which looked like it could accommodate 1000 kids. The park even had its own circus which had two shows a day on Saturdays and Sundays. If you liked Computer Tips (Continued from page 8) pensive, but potentially long lifetime. SSDs are available with larger storage capacities than other flash-based storage devices, however, this also comes at a higher price. Option 5: Cloud Storage Capacity: regularly up to 500GB with Dropbox (theoretically unlimited.) Price: from free to $1 per GB and year. Lifetime: theoretically unlimited, practically as long as service is available or as long as you pay. Compatibility: any device with internet access. Storing your data in the cloud is the most convenient way to backup, share, and keep your data with you, provided you have access to the internet. However, this is only practical for small amounts of data. If you have more than a Reflections (Continued from page 11) Schauer, with her encyclopedic knowledge of GW and its residents, would be the hands down victor. If you complained recently about GW officials, Township officials, state leaders or national leaders, ask yourself two questions: Did I perform my civic duty by voting in the last election? Did I take an active role in the democratic processes at any of the above levels? Have you made time to escape from the world-wide realities of floods, uncontrolled fires, use of chemical weapons and a myriad of other negative occurrences by just looking outside and appreciating the serene transition from summer to fall that surrounds us? It’s hard to remain stressed about the above events when watching a tree sway in the breeze, a butterfly gracefully landing on a blooming flower and even a couple walking hand in hand in the crisp cool air. Mark your calendar for the following October holidays: games of chance, you could spin one of the big wheels on the tree shaded midway for one of the fun prizes which, it seemed, no one ever won. This was an innocent time before we realized that many of these games were rigged. At the end of the day you would have spent all your money, including the dime necessary to take the bus back, and had to walk all the way home. Times were different then. The same neighborhoods that are shooting galleries of crime today were safe enough then for us youngsters to walk home. I wonder if today’s kids are missing out on some level of creativity in their lives. So much of their time is organized in “play dates” and travel teams. I cannot imagine my three grandsons walking or even biking the three miles to Olympic Park, as we did. On the other hand, maybe it’s a good thing that times are not as innocent. I hope the world will be as full of promise and good times for the kids of today as it was for us. few GB, it can get very expensive as fees are due monthly or yearly, for as long as the storage space is needed. Conclusion Many alternatives for optical drives exist, but few can compete with the price and theoretical lifetime of Blu-ray discs. On the other hand, many make for better long term investments. In the long run, you should always have your data stored in at least two futureproof locations. But for the moment, Blu-ray discs and DVDs are a viable storage method. Just make sure you move your data before your last way to access them disappears. Do you still use optical discs to store or transfer data? For more computer tips and tricks, come to the Computer Club meeting at 9:30 am on the fourth Saturday of each month in the Towne Centre Ballroom. Club membership is $10 a year. Columbus Day–14, Election Day for U.S. Senate–16, United Nations Day–24, Make A difference Day–26, Navy Day–27 and Halloween – 31. The gemstone for October is the opal or tourmaline; the flower is the calendula or cosmos. When celebrating Get Organized Week from October 1–7, you might want to consider putting your plans in place for any upcoming disasters, including the creation of emergency kits. Since October 8–14 is Fire Prevention Week you should continue your organizational efforts by reviewing your plans in case of a fire emergency and also attend to replacing the batteries in your smoke and carbon monoxide alarms. October 10–19 is National Food Bank Week; please do your part. Look for me on October 17; I’ll be wearing an orange shirt, purple pants and a polka dot bow tie to celebrate Wear Something Gaudy Day. I expect to be able to jump over the Towne Centre in a single bound by the end of October because I’ll be observing Spinach Lover’s Month! OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 13 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Ladies Golf League News By Carol Cooper and Ruth Reich From The Golf Board Labor Day was the last Golf Tournament of the 2013 season. The weather was beautiful. The players went out in two flights, one at 7:30 and the second at 10:30. Each group had a light breakfast of bagels and cream cheese, and a chance to socialize before playing. Everyone was in good spirits, when Kevin, (our Head Professional) gave instructions for playing the round. The tournament was a Scramble. Each person in the foursome drove the ball from the tee. A Scramble is not like an ordinary tournament. Usually each person hits his own ball and then hits his next shot, until he putts the ball in the hole. His score is the number of shots he takes to get the ball in the hole. In a Scramble, there are no individual scores. There is only one score for the entire foursome. After the foursome tees off, the group decides which shot they want to use. One ball is selected and all players hit their second shot from the location of that ball. There were two rules that made the game more interesting. First, the person who hits the drive can not hit the second shot. Second, every player must hit at least one drive. Choosing which drive to use becomes more complicated. If one or two players in the foursome typically hit a short drive, the question becomes when to use his drive. The Scramble format allows people of different abilities to play together, as a team, and have a good time. Along with the Scramble, the format also included a Shotgun start. Every foursome starts on a different hole. All the foursomes start at the same time. In the past some courses actually had the starter fire a shotgun so everyone knew when it was time to start. At the conclusion of the tournament there was a delicious buffet that included various salads, pasta, chicken, sausage, eggplant rollatini and beverages. Labor Day also marks the beginning of the Fall agronomy program. The greens are aerated with a machine that digs small holes about 3 inches deep. The plugs are removed and the holes are filled with sand. At first the greens are impossible to putt on. After about a week, if weather conditions are reasonable, the grass grows in to fill the holes. Eventually, the green is restored, and the aeration improves the health of the grass. A similar process is used on the fairways and tees. Course Superintendent John Cipriano is also adding turf to low lying areas in the fairways where turf was lost and to some areas where turf was lost on the edges of the greens. The heavy rains and extraordinary heat cooked some of the grass and the turf was lost. A SPECIAL RECRUITING CAMPAIGN is being offered to bring in more players . The Golf Course is running a one time special offer. The price of membership, for people who have never been members before, is being reduced to $600 for residents, and $900 for non-residents. In addition, if someone wanting to join brings another player, the price is reduced another $100 for each player. Two residents joining together would pay $500 each and non-residents would pay $800 each. The difference in price between residents and non-residents is due to the fact that residents also pay $25 per month in maintenance to the golf course. People joining now can begin playing immediately and then play through the 2014 season. In the following (2015) season the players must pay the full membership price. A Message from Your Golf Professional By Kevin Darlington As we head into the fall of another golf season, we look forward to the great weather that accompanies it. The golf club would like to recognize our club champions of the 2013 season. Our Men’s 18 Hole club champions are: Championship flight, Bob Fausak; Flight A, Bill Devin; Flight B, Jack Beekman. The Men’s 9 Hole Club Champion is Harry Koenig. The Ladies 18 Hole Club Champion, Pat Mizerek; the 9 hole Flight A, Anne Hughes; 9 Hole Flight B, Ruth Sachs; 9 Hole Flight II, Bunny Applebaum. Congratulations to all our winners. This month’s golf tip ties into being a club champ: being a good putter. No matter how far you drive the ball, how accurately you play your iron shots, or how good you are pitching and chipping, it’s all about getting the ball in the hole. That means the shortest club in the bag, the putter, is also the most important. Most golfers, including pros, use the putter for about 40 percent of all shots in a typical round, no other club comes close. The mistake we make the most with our putting is the 3 putt. One way of improving your ability to putt the correct distance is by using a simple practice drill. Instead of trying to make putts of 20, 30, or 40 feet, your goal should be to leave the putt within a distance of 3 feet from the cup. This drill will train you to keep the ball within 2 putt range on longer putts in turn limiting lost strokes due to the dreaded 3putt. As with anything we want to improve, the key is spending the time practicing. We want to wish our members heading south a safe trip and great winter golf season. Thanks for a great year. August 15 was a crystal clear day as the Ladies Golf League celebrated their “Member-Member” Tournament. Dressed in pink shirts and white shorts while munching on bagels and sipping coffee, they convened for their traditional Scramble. The teams were comprised of two women from the Tuesday league and two from Thursday. Everyone had a chance to drive the ball. The next shot was chosen and all hit from that position until they reached the green and all putt. This is a very inclusive way of mixing the teams and fun is had by all. The winners were Bette Meyerowich, Leslie Davret, Abby Diamondstein and Gail Shinberg. Two prizes were awarded. One for “closest to the pin” on hole four to Beth Cohen. “Closest to the line” on hole two to Verna Arden. The evening event at Knob Hill was held in the tradition of the 50’s. Myrna Reiter and her sister Darlene Broder were the Chairwomen. Dressed in poodle (Continued on page 14) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 14 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE After Hours Club By Gail Alpern The August 30 After Hours Hawaiian Dinner Dance gave a new meaning to the word Aloha! Members were greeted by a board member and a colorful lei was placed around their necks. The catered dinner was varied, on a Hawaiian theme, with many selections so that everyone found their favorites. The Dorian Parreott Quartet played many love songs as well as fast music for the line dancers and those that like to mix it up. Attendance at After Hours functions has been growing rapidly and club president, Myron Alpern, read an extensive list of new and returning members so that the group could make them feel welcome. We hope that you will join us for future occasions and be part of the fun! Upcoming events are as follows: October 25 is Rinaldo Toglia—a tenor in the manner Ladies Golf (Continued from page 13) skirts, jeans with bobby socks and sweaters buttoned backwards, the woman danced the night away to a marvelous DJ, “Good Vibrations.” He got us up dancing to the twist and 50’s music that made us really move. He directed us to sing in chorus along with Doris Day, Louis Prima and Teresa Brewer. He brought out a pile of Hula Hoops that were the rage in the 50’s and a good number of our ladies tried to revive the fad. Hula Hoops became a contest that was won by Leslie Duvet. The room was festive with poodle skirt center pieces which supported the balloons, bubble gum, candy and 45 records on the table. While some women were snacking on hors d’oeuvres, others were cheering for the women competing in a putting contest. There were smiles galore and everyone left feeling the warmth of old friends and new. It was a marvelous evening with everyone in a circle holding hands and singing That’s What Friends Are For. In future articles, look forward to golf tips, rules and regulations that apply to our course and updates on golf events. October 11 is our Awards and Closing Breakfast at the Americana Diner. “Chip-ins” for August were Bunny Applebaum, Darlene Broder, Bette Meyerowich, Sandy Kelly, Evie Rabinowitz, and Joan Ricci. Thanks go to Sheila Fox for writing the previous articles. Keep smiling and swinging. To the women leaving for the winter have a safe, healthy and fun time. of Mario Lanza with a fantastic voice. Refreshments to follow. November 22 is our Holiday Dinner Dance featuring the Dale Stover Quartet. Details are being finalized. Dues are $10 pp—check made out to After Hours Club and put in Box 8. Stay informed through Channel 3 and flyers in the rear of the Towne Centre. Please give us your email address to receive the latest updates. Please note deadlines for table reservations. American Legion Aux. Unit 522 By Catherine McKernan, Secretary Greetings from Texas. We are here to attend the 95th National Convention of the American Legion and Auxiliary. It takes place at the George R. Brown Convention Center in Houston, Texas. There are hundreds of members of the Legion, Auxiliary and Sons of the American Legion in attendance. Festivities began with a baseball game between the Houston Astros and the Mariners. The National Commander, James E. Koutz, threw out the first ball. A good time was had by all. Sunday was the day of the big parade. Legion and Auxiliary members, along with Sons of the American Legion marched the route even though it was hot and humid. Auxiliary meetings were held Tuesday through Thursday. It was reported in the Auxiliary Convention Guide that the American Legion Auxiliary is still the largest patriotic women’s service organization. We honor all veterans’ service and try to make a difference in their lives. “The world needs to know who we are and what we do so they can understand and appreciate why we matter.” Over the past year more than 4.5 million volunteer hours were served. Almost 20 million dollars were raised or spent on veterans and military families, and 3.2 million veterans and military families were served. The Auxiliary did a fine job and will continue to do so. Our Unit is dedicated to giving all the help needed by our veterans and their families. We hope more women will join our ranks and serve our veterans. Thursday was a special day for New Jersey. Our candidate for Eastern Division National Vice President, Maggie McMahon, was elected and installed. She has always been a hard worker and a dedicated member of the American Legion Auxiliary. So we offer our congratulations to Maggie. We know she will do a great job. We must also mention two New Jersey stars of the American Legion. William Rakestraw was elected to the high office of National Vice Commander. Bill has always been a true Legionnaire, always ready to serve. We also congratulate Daniel McCole. Dan is the National Executive Committeeman for New Jersey. It was a successful convention and we learned a lot about activities, fund raising, and helping our veterans and their families. Charlotte, NC will be the site of the 96th Convention. Please fly your American flag daily for our troops in harms’ way. Pray for their safe return. God bless our troops and God Bless our Great Country - America. Alisa Chapter Of Hadassah By Rhoda Juskow What a great day it was! The Associates of the Alisa and Monroe Township Chapters presented a powerful and emotional day. An attendance of over 300 men and women came to hear the Hon. Consul General of the Czech Republic of Philadelphia speak about the unbelievable good in a man named Nicholas Winton. Nicholas Winton saved 669 Jewish Children from the Nazi death camps. Today, over 5,000 men and women are alive because of what one man accomplished. After Peter Raphaeli spoke, the audience viewed the film, “Nicky’s Family,” the story of how one man saved so many children. He found people in England and Canada and some in the United States who were willing to take a child to live with them. Queen Elizabeth knighted him and he is now Sir Nicholas Winton. At the age of 104 he is still doing fine. Mr. Raphaeli had lunch with him in London just a few weeks ago. The day gave Hadassah a chance to speak about our Associates and the many ways that Hadassah is helping people in Israel and other parts of the world. The proceeds from this event will help the children living in Youth Aliyah Villages in Israel and our many Young Judea groups. Our Education sessions are very well attended and we are grateful to our speakers who have been so interesting. The discussion on the book, “Rav Hisda’s Daughter” will be a wonderful prelude to hearing the author, Maggie Anton, speak at our Book & Author event on October 14. At our Member Appreciation that evening, four of our long time active members will be honored. So get your reservations in and join us for a great evening. Flyers are in the rounder. The day at Boscov’s department store was fun, and the first Lunch Bunch Day had a successful beginning. Contact Judy Gerstein, 860-8446, to join the Lunch Bunch. At our September meeting, radio hosts from station WWFM DJ Ted Otten and DJ Michael Kownacky regaled us with the music and life of Cole Porter. On Wednesday afternoon, Sept. 25 at 1 pm, an afternoon with renowned Chef Ash at Lemon Mediterranean Restaurant in Freehold took place with a cooking demo and a five-course lunch. (Continued on page 15) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Hadassah (Continued from page 14) Sunday, October 27 is the Myrtle Wreath luncheon. Alisa Chapter will be honoring two of our very special ladies, Joanne Ferstan and Sheila Farber at Forsgate Country Club. Call Rhoda at 409-0983 if you need more information. GW Bridge Club By Arthur Van Blerkom It is now October and the GW Duplicate Bridge Club is still going strong. Starting November 4, the Monday, 1 pm nonsanctioned game switches to Encore. GW residents do not pay at the games played at Encore. The Thursday, 7 pm game which is held year round at GW also non-sanctioned. All GW residents are welcome to come. There is no daily cost for the Monday game but GW residents must pay annual dues of $10. Starting in November on Thursday nights there is no game fee but annual dues are required to be paid. Anyone who wants to play on Thursday night should email me by 6 pm Wednesday to be guaranteed a spot. Any player, Bridge Club member or not, who has any bridge questions please contact the writer of this letter at [email protected] or 609—8606346. Any question will be responded as soon as possible. This month I will discuss the use of Texas Transfer.” Many fans of Jacoby Transfers play Texas Transfers as well . The treatments are similar, but there are important differences. After a 1NT opening by partner, the Texas transfer may be used to describe a hand with a six-card or longer major suit with appropriate values. Be careful not to use the Texas Transfer on a hand that is too weak. As far as differences between Jacoby and Texas transfers, the responder bidding 4D or 4H for a 4H or 4S bid from the 1NT opener is usually not interested in a slam. “Bidding a hand in the right manner allows opener to contribute its opinion as to whether the partnership belongs in game only or slam. Two heads are better than one.” I wish to acknowledge that the above was taken from the ACBL convention review. Go to the ACBL site and get more details on Texas Transfers and other conventions. The following hand will be used to show difference between Texas Transfers and Jacoby transfers; VUL NONE, DEALER SOUTH NORTH ♠ AT76 ♥ A94 ♦ A962 ♣ A7 EAST WEST ♠K ♠ J4 ♥ 32 ♥ KJT865 ♦ QJ743 ♦ 85 ♣ QJ863 ♣ T95 SOUTH ♠ Q98532 ♥ Q7 ♦ KT ♣ K42 The normal bidding has gone: E N W S P P 1NT P 4H P 4S P P P This is a Texas Transfer. Why? Because South has only 10pts and a 6 card spade suit Since N 1NT promises at least two spades, bidding 4H for a 4S transfer is correct and hurts defense in finding a killer lead if possible If the South hand did not have the D K and C K, the correct response would be 2H transfer to 2S and then P,P,P. There would be no possibility of game and 2S is a better contract than 1 NT. This is even true if responder only has 5 spades and a weak hand. If he only has 3 pts the chances the contract belongs to the opposition. Most of the time you should get a favorable score bidding 2S. Social players who try duplicate often fail to understand that their score on each hand matters only in relation to what other pairs did on the same deal. At rubber bridge, party bridge or IMPS, the goal is to make the contract. At matchpoint duplicate, making the contract is not the goal (as strange as that may sound). South wants a higher score than the other Souths. The problem is when different levels of players are playing the game. Sometimes the less experienced player will get a better score on one particular hand that is not played properly. But over 100 hands the person who does follow the above guideline will have a better overall score. The above points have been repeated from previous Voice Bridge articles on purpose. Duplicate players must automatically understand the different principles relating to duplicate bridge from other types of bridge games. Below is a summary of the August 2013 games. They are split between the non sanctioned games on Monday and the non sanctioned games on Thursday The first number is for number of first places, the second number is for number of second places and the third number is for number of third places Monday non-sanctioned games: August 5,12, 19,26 Lester Ageloff 010, Lorraine Ageloff 010, Marilyn Askin 010, Richard Assenzio 110, Lloyd Baskin 001, Saul Blum 200, Claire Brinn 010, Natalie Cancel 002, John Cassiliano 001, Paulyn Cohen 010, Cheryl Davis 001, Herb Dinowitz 100, Elaine Egers 110, Nat Fein 100, Ronald Feldman 001, Donald Friedland 100, Ken Friedman 100, Roseanne Goodstein 001, Ronnie Greenhouse 010, John Ievers 001, Stanley Kaplan 011, Richard Lazar 011, George Moehringer 001, Seymour Orchowitz 110, Elliot Lila Pollinger 110, Chuck Redburn 002, Jerry Seymour 100, Irma Siegel 100, Elaine Singer 001, Lillian Sottile 010, Myron Stein 101, Elaine Stein 101, Joseph Tauber 010, Arthur Van Blerkom 100, Fred Weiner 010, Kurt Weiss 001, Phil Zwalsky 010. Thursday Non-Sanctioned games: August 1, 8, 15, 2, 29 Lester Ageloff 121. Lorraine Ageloff 121, Frank Askin 100, Marilyn Askin 101, Richard Assenzio 201, Saul Blum 001, Eve Buzin 101, Paulyn Cohen ,201, Elaine Egers 100, Nat Fein 001 ,Doeia Frisch 110, Eileen Gialacone 010, Roseanne Goodstein 101, Warren Greenberg 010, Marlene Greenberg 010, Ronnie Greenhouse 010, Manny Jarvis 001, Doris Kohlberg 010, Dorothy Kreitzberg 110 Richard Lazar 002, Joel Levy 200,, Elihu Nemiroff 200, Bea Orchowitz 002, Seymour Orchowitz 001, Lila Pollinger 120, Gene Ross 010, , Elaine Singer 101, Eugene Sultan 002, Joseph Tauber 002, Fred Weiner, Beverly Weiss 001, Kurt Weiss 021, Phil Zwalsky 101. If any bridge player wants additional information concerning time of games or what is required to play on either Monday or Thursday please contact Arthur at 609/860-6346 or email at [email protected] (Continued on page 16) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 15 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 16 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Computer Club By Fran Solomon On July 27 Fran Solomon talked about “How to Sell on eBay” and George Realmuto spoke about “How to Evaluate Stocks.” On August 24 Arthur Segal from Rossmoor spoke about Digital Photography and how to effectively transfer photos from camera to computer. On September 28 Joe Morris showed us his favorite and interesting Web Sites and he also ran the meeting in the absence of our President. At the meeting on Saturday, October 26 at 10 am John LeMasney from the Ewing Computer Center will speak about “How Seniors can use Technology in a Sensible Way.” All meetings are held in the GW Ballroom. We have refreshments starting at 9:30 am and the meeting starts promptly at 10 am. We usually start our meeting with a DVD of jokes. Our computer experts are here to answer any and all of your computer questions. You can bring your questions with you for answers. There is always something interesting to learn about how we communicate with computers, phones and tablets. The Computer Club communicates with its members through The Voice, meetings, email, flyers in the rounder and Channel 3. If you change your email address or want to be added to our mailing list be sure to notify Mary at [email protected]. Computer Tip: Three best sites to make money doing odd jobs and tasks: “Talkrabbit”, “Gigwalk”, and “Elance”. GW Connections By Dorothy Thompson As we enter the fall season, we hope you enjoy the beautiful colors that Mother Nature has to offer. Speaking of fall, our trip to QVC on October 30 is a sell out. You can place your name on the wait-list. Call Juliet at 409-1959 for more information. Our next General Meeting will be on November 4 at 7:PM in our Ballroom. Dr. Robert Butts, a popular lecturer for the New Jersey Council for the Humanities, is presenting a terrific program entitled “From Shakespeare to Sunset Boulevard - The Story of the Broadway Musical.” Dr. Butts is professor of music at Montclair State University and the Baroque Orchestra of New Jersey and Opera of Florham Park. As the 21st century begins, the Broadway musical remains one of the world’s most popular musical formats, reflecting the styles, trends and personalities of all who enter its exciting world. The New Jersey Council for the Humanities offers speakers from politics and religion to race, education and health care. Humanities Connection brings together some of New Jersey’s most fascinating scholars, authors, filmmakers and educators in conversation about critical topics facing our state, nation and world. Attend this informative program and invite your friends. Any questions - call May Herlands 409-3828. GRACE KELLY. -On November 19, 2013 we will be going to the Michener Art Museum for a docent led tour of “From Philadelphia to Monaco — Grace Kelly, Beyond the Icon.” Over 100 objects including 40 designer dresses and the famous “Kelly” handbag will be shown. The exhibit presents the woman behind the celebrity and traces her extraordinary life’s journey. This exhibit is the first and only one in the USA. The cost is $65.00 with the bus leaving at 9:45AM. We will have a plated lunch at Cock’nBull Restaurant in Peddlers Village with discount coupons for the shops in the Village. Pick up a flyer in the rounder and place your check in lock box #5 with your choice of lunch as stated on the flyer. Any questions, call Selma Herzog at 395-4031 or Juliet Klein at 409-1959. Don’t miss this fabulous afternoon! Looking ahead to 2014...On June 11, we will go to Two Rivers Theatre in Red Bank to see a delightful show by Wendy Wasserstein. Also, on October 8 we travel to Pennsbury Manor, the home of William Penn. This is the 43-acre estate of the statesman, diplomat and founder of Pennsylvania. Mark your calendars for these wonderful events in 2014. Now that fall is here, check your closets as we accept inseason clothing which is donated to the Women Aware Shelter and Home Front. Marilyn Steiner, 10 Umberland Place, or Doris Becker, 12 Severn Way. We accept clothing for men and women, so please place items in bags and just drop the bags at Marilyn’s or Doris’. We also accept toiletry samples from hotels, cosmetic samples, etc. Through our Designated Charities we have donated 27 backpacks to the Women Aware Shelter, along with clothing and school supplies. Our Study Groups continue to have some openings. Please call Barbara Fineman, 395-8038 or Annette Roth, 655-9088 to learn more. The groups are: Book Study - Barbara Fineman; The Classics Jean Melden; It’s Debatable Enid Kadish; Movie Groups Lynn Padwee; Play Reading Marcia Lambek and Jean Melden; Poetry - Arlene Lazar; Provocative Thinking - Rita Modell; Short Stories - Juliet Klein. Remember - You can always send a lovely greeting through “Connections”. Just call Dorothy Thompson at 8602664; a card can be sent for only $2.50. GW Friends By Len Greenberg Have you checked out the GW Friends monthly breakfasts at the Tap Room? If you have not, you had better get with it. The last few breakfasts have attracted over 50 members! We are not sure what the big attraction is. Could it be our charming President Marvin Shindelman, or the exciting 50/50 drawing which is bound to reward someone with several months of free breakfasts? Maybe it’s our friendly greeter at the door who says…”what’s your name?” and “seven dollars please.” The breakfast is open to all members and is particularly well attended on a rainy morning when the golfers have nothing else to do. Although our membership is comprised of both men and women, the typical breakfast is attended mostly by men. One might think the wives encourage the guys to get out of the house or perhaps the guys are anxious to get out of the house. One thing is for sure; it is the biggest monthly weekday breakfast in the community. If you have not been, call Howie Katz today, and make your reservation for the next breakfast. They are usually the first Monday of the month at 9 a.m. When you call Howie, mention my name so I get to keep this job. If you are a new resident, we are a very friendly, welcoming group, and this is a great way to meet your neighbors. I should also mention that we will again have two South Florida reunion breakfasts this winter. One will be January and another in March. The dates and details will follow in a future notice. Here is a list of our scheduled activities for October. Monday October 7: Monthly membership breakfast. Just $7 gets you the choice of the Tap Room’s breakfast menu. A lot of fun with a great group. Fifty-Fifty drawing every month. A great place to make new friends. Breakfast starts at 9 a.m. Call Howie Katz to reserve a seat. 409-8606 Monday October 7: Movie Group meets at 4p.m. in the Towne Centre. Open discussion and review of recent movie releases. Join the lively discussion. Call Bob Modell and let him know you’re coming. 395-8575 Tuesday October 8: Finance and Investing Group meets at 7:30 in the Town Centre library. Irwin Kaplan leads this group in a fascinating discussion of worthwhile investment opportunities. This month we will be joined by Tom Ondreyka, V.P. of Wells Fargo, who will make a presentation of where the financial (Continued on page 17) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE GW Friends (Continued from page 16) market is and where it may be going. Call Irwin and tell him you are coming. 860-9582 Thursday October 10: GW Friends Golf Outing. Our third outing of the season. Meet at 9 am at the Clearbrook Golf Course, for a 9:30 t-time. Just $24 for nine holes of fun. After, we meet at the Tap Room for lunch. Make out your check for $24 to the GW Friends and deposit in box 22. Lunch is just $9, tip included, payable in cash at the Tap Room. For more information call Charlie Strimpell at 655-9596 Monday October 14: MedSci Group will be meeting at 4 p.m. in the Towne Centre library. Starting up again with fascinating discussions promised by our member presenters. Al Brackup leads this group and will start by presenting a program on allergy and immunity. You can participate…just call Al and let him know what you are interested in.. Al can be reached at 4097677 Monday October 21; Music Group. The group meets at 7:30 in the Towne Centre library. Each month a different member presents a program on artists, composers, and genres of music, from Benny Goodman to Brahms and even Bo Diddley (I don’t think this has happened yet). This month Norm Katz will be making a presentation of “seasonally appropriate music.” If music is your thing call Dave Lasser at 409-7667. Monday October 28: Book Club; Marv Bachman leads this group. If you’d like to participate in a lively discussion on books you’ve read, call Marv at 409-5464. The group meets at 4 p.m. in the Towne Centre library. The following books are slated for future discussions: The Great Gatsby, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Red Sparrow, and Unorthodox. Monday October 28; Monthly Membership Meeting and Speakers Night: Business meeting starts at 7 p.m. Guest speaker at 7:30 will be Delores Meyerhoff who will speak on the legal treatment of gays. As usual, this night is free to members and spouses/significant others. A nominal $2 fee is asked of non -members. Coffee and refreshments will follow Looking forward to meeting you at a GW Friends event. GW History Club By Sandy Werfel The planned topic for the History Club Meeting on September 9 was to be the ‘Robber Barrons.’ Unfortunately our speaker was unable to attend due to a prior commitment. The meeting went on as scheduled with a different topic. In 1861 when the Civil War started there wasn’t even one person medically educated and trained to care for the sick or disabled as a nurse. There were less than 150 hospitals in the North and the South combined. The only medically educated people were physicians. There weren’t any schools for nurses. In 1861 caring for the health of family members was women’s work. For females to provide nursing outside the home was unthinkable. Healthcare for pay was thought to be demeaning and unladylike since it could bring them in contact with strange naked men. When the war began, we were totally unprepared medically. The employment of 1812 tactics and 1860 weapons caused so many casualties that the existing medical profession care methods were instantly overwhelmed. The unanticipated number of battle casualties was not in the hundreds, but in the thousands. There was another unspoken factor involved. We need to keep in mind the effects on income in the North and South. A large number of bread-winners were at war. The war’s effects in the South were further complicated by the blockade. At that time an enlisted soldier’s wages, on either side, were thirteen dollars a month. This was not a livable wage. The calico shirt a soldier wore cost twenty dollars. This sudden need created another, previously unavailable, form of employment. Those assisting doctors in providing medical care had been exclusively male. But males were now at war and no longer available. Many women were suddenly without breadwinners. Economically deprived women took war related work because of necessity. Most women were paid for jobs such as seamstresses, cooks, domestic servants, earning between $5.00 and $12.00 a month. Where women did men’s work, ‘equal pay for equal work’ was unheard of. The need for people to help care for the extraordinary numbers of the wounded forced the realization that women were needed to fill the gap. To overcome the prejudices of the era, the issues of patriotism and one’s Christian duty were raised and spoken of. Newspapers reported the problems of lack of medical care. The reports told horror stories of wounded and dying men left unattended on the battlefield without even being offered a drop of water. Women in both the North and South responded by volunteering to care for the sick and wounded. In spite of their lack of education and their lack of experience, the women volunteered to go on the battlefields. They volunteered to go into the field medical facilities, and into the makeshift, offbattlefield hospitals. One might think that because of the extraordinary demand and need, the pay for women to serve as nurses might be reasonable or even good. Need I tell you “no such thing existed?” Nurses were not paid as much as the lowest enlisted rank in either army. In spite of the requirement that they be educated and over the age of 35, the pay was $0.40 per day. That’s right! For a six day week, a female nurse got two dollars and forty cents. A woman nurse’s pay was $9.60 per month. A male assisting physicians and doing the same work the female nurses were doing, received $20.50 a month; more than twice as much as the females. These “male nurses” outnumbered female nurses throughout the war 4:1. A town in Illinois received a letter describing the poor care and lack of medical supplies its soldiers were receiving. The letter went to pastor Edward Beecher (Harriet Beecher Stowe’s brother) of the Congregational Church. He made the letter the subject of a sermon. The church held a successful fund raising drive which made it possible for them to purchase a large amount of medical supplies. But no one was willing to take it to the soldiers. Mary Bickerdyke, a 43 year old widow, arranged for her sons to stay with friends so she could deliver the supplies to the soldiers. When she arrived at the Army base, she was appalled at the filthy conditions of both the patients and clinics. She told a doctor to get some soldiers to begin a cleanup. He said his rank was so low no one needed to obey his orders. She set about recruiting soldiers to labor in the cleanup process. She then confiscated some barrels and had them cut into bath size to be used for bathing and for (Continued on page 18) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 17 REMEMBER OUR MEN AND WOMEN IN THE SERVICE OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 18 GW History Club (Continued from page 17) clothes wash tubs. Pretty soon, without any authorization, she was ordering the cleanup of the patients and medical facilities of the Army of the Tennessee, commanded by William T. Sherman. Soon she ticked off enough officers so that they tried to bar her presence. Sherman did have a rule that barred women from his camps. She took a doctor to Sherman who explained the good she was accomplishing. Sherman okayed her as the only woman allowed in his camps. She cleaned up the Army of Tennessee’s medical units GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE and attached herself to them for the balance of the war. They were in Georgia when she saw a combat exhausted battalion passing her medical facility. She ordered her staff to bring them some fruit and water. She told their colonel to halt the battalion. He refused, so, in a deep voice, she called the Battalion to halt. She told the Colonel, “You don’t want to go to the wall with me. I have been there with a number of officers and I am the only one to come back. Now I have work to do, you carry on!” Enough officers complained of Bickerdyke overriding their orders to Sherman. He said, “Okay, okay; I know she can be difficult. It’s that she is so damn good. I will take care of it.” “Bickerdyke, I’m getting complaints on top of complaints. Haven’t you ever heard of insubordination?” “Yes sir, it’s the only way I can get things done!” “On whose authority are you acting?” Sherman demanded. “I obey the authority of the Lord God Almighty.” Bickerdyke responded. Sherman reported back to his officers, “I am sorry boys, there is nothing I can do. She outranks me.” If you have any questions or would like additional formation, please contact me by either email, [email protected] or by phone 619-3229. Italian American Sr. Cultural Club By Rose Corso The Italian American Sr. Cultural Club installed its new board members. May they have a bright and productive two years. Remember, they’re volunteers. Support is what they need from the membership. Polynesian night turned into a colorful and provocative evening, enjoyed by everyone, even those not dressed in Hawaiian attire. The music by the Jersey Shades had the dance floor jumping. A perfect evening from all angles. Point of interest: October is known as Italian American Heritage Month. Italian-Americans have made significant contributions, economically, culturally and politically to our society. Amerigo Vespucci and Christopher Columbus were some of the first explorers to discover the North American continent and illustrate the geography. ItalianAmericans have won prestigious prizes, such as the Nobel Prize, the Pritzker Award for architecture, and the Fields Medal for mathematics. Today, over 26 million Americans of Italian descent live in the United States, making them our country’s fifth largest ethnic group. Italians and Italian-Americans invented many devices that are integral parts of our lives from calendars and eye glasses to batteries. We have been entertained by Hall of Fame baseball player Joe DiMaggio and singer/ songwriter Frank Sinatra. Our country’s political process has also been enriched by individuals like Anthony Celebrezze (the first Italian-American Cabinet member) and Antonin Scalia (the first Italian-American Supreme Court justice), and New York City Mayor Rudy Giuliani. “Now, Therefore, I Richard Pucci do hereby recognize October as Italian-American Heritage month in the Township of Monroe.” (Dated: October 3, 2002) Dates to remember: October 4 - November 1 (Music Nite) Ciao a tutti. New Kids on the Block By Fran Solomon The New Kids on the Block is a group of single homeowners in GW who are interested in taking trips, learning something new and meeting other singles. All ages are welcome. On Wednesday, August 7 Marc Leibeck spoke about Memory Loss and What to Know. On Sunday, September 15 we walked the High Line in New York and had a great day. Instead of our meeting on September 18 we went to the Little Szechwan in West Windsor for dinner. On Wednesday, September 25 Larry Krakower led a group on a docent tour of Drumthwacket, the Governor’s Mansion. On Saturday, October 5 Diane Altman is organizing an exciting event - we will go to dinner at Antonio’s then go on a Ghost Walk in Princeton. On Sunday October 13 we will be going to Grounds for Sculpture with docent Marcia Pudalov. For information about this event call Barbara Beck, 409-9344. On Wednesday, December 4 at 7:30 pm we will have a Line Dance and Pizza Party with Mike Malone, experienced Line Dance teacher. $10 - Open to All. If you are interested in knowing about an event, we advertise on Channel 3, put flyers in the rounder, have an article in the GWVOICE and send emails. In order to attend an event you must be a dues-paying member. Any single homeowner can join this group and the dues are only $10 per year. Put your check made out to “New Kids on the Block” into Box #26. For more information about New Kids on the Block call Maddi Litoff 609-395-4071 or email her at [email protected]. ORT America By Nancy Feuerstein IMPROVE, EMPOWER, EMPLOY! These are the words of ORT’s campaign for 2013. For 133 years, ORT has led the way with innovative programs for underserved Jewish communities worldwide. We educate over 300,000 students daily, giving them opportunities for educational and career success. Here at G/W we support this very important mission by participating in our many interesting and informative events. On August 8, we visited the beautiful and historic Renault Winery to enjoy wine tasting and a family-style luncheon consisting of delicious food all prepared with wine. After an informative tour and a visit to the gift shop, we continued on to Atlantic City for a day of fun at the Showboat Hotel and Casino. We thank Florence Singer and Nancy Feuerstein for planning this fun-filled New Jersey day. At our meeting on August 14 at the Monroe Township Library, we enjoyed hearing about some of the highlights of Manny Strumpf’s career with the National Park Service. Manny was in charge of The Statue of Liberty and had many stories about celebrities, such as Mary Tyler Moore and Dolly Parton who met with Manny as he accompanied them on a tour of this landmark. This was a very informative and entertaining presentation and we thank Lynda Radowitz for inviting Manny to speak to us. On October 9, we are looking forward to our ever-popular card party to be held in the ballroom at 11:30 a.m. Check with Miriam 409-9160 or Janice 409-1630 for availability as of today. We will enjoy lunch of Sloppy Joe’s deli sandwiches and salads, catered by Lox, Stock & Deli. The cost is $26 per person and everyone is welcome. We look forward to our next meeting at the Monroe Township Library on October 30 at 6:30 pm to hear a special speaker, Star-Ledger columnist Mark DiIonno. He is a highly respected finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in news commentary, so we know his talk will be very interesting and informative. Refreshments will be served and everyone is welcome. On Sunday, November 10, the North Jersey Region of ORT is hosting a wonderful buffet breakfast at the Forsgate Country Club at 10:30 a.m. The cost (Continued on page 19) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 19 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE ORT America (Continued from page 18) is $36 per person. Our special guest speaker will be Larry Strickler who will discuss “Sex, Gangsters and the Hays Code” (censorship). Provocative films in the 30’s led to this censorship code that lasted almost three decades. Larry is a well known movie historian, college lecturer and performer. If you were lucky enough to have seen Larry at a previous ORT event, you know how interesting and entertaining he is! Call Roz Scheidt at 409-9097 if you have questions. Save December 11 as we end the year with our annual holiday party. By popular request, we will have our exciting auction, so plan on joining us with a new gift of minimum $5 value. More details will follow. Save March 26, 2014 for our ever-popular card party and June 2, 2014 for a special performance of the Mercer Symphonic Band. The movie discussion group meets on the fourth Monday of each month, 1 pm in the Towne Centre Library, members only. We enjoy lunch on our own at 11:30 a.m. in the Tap Room, so RSVP to Betty 409-1168 or Nancy 860-6633. Watch Channel 3 for details about the films to be discussed. Ongoing: Bowling – Beverly 409-7993; Tribute Cards – Rita 395-8993; Unwanted cell phones – Kay 409-0955; Gift cards for Shoprite and Stop & Shop – Miriam 409-9160. Martin Salmanowitz Senior Social Club By Bert Herling As I had expressed in my last month’s WHOA News column, many times it takes a downturn to make us realize how extremely lucky we actually are. As many of you know, I found myself unexpectedly facing heart surgery. Unfortunately, complications did not permit a speedy recovery. It was not easy to learn and then accept the news that my hospital stay would be extended. However, all the calls, cards, and good wishes from the very caring Greenbriar at Whittingham community, especially my friends at the Martin Salmanowitz Senior Social Club helped chase the blues away. Words fail to adequately express the overwhelming gratitude I feel. I cherish the friends and friendships Rita and I have made in this community and the Senior Social Club. We truly are blessed and I thank each of you from the bottom of my heart. Memorial Tribute to Jim Kelly and Henry Perotti: While we are deeply saddened by the passing of our members and friends, Jim Kelly and Henry Perotti, we rejoice in having known and worked closely with both of them. They had completely different personalities but were as one in their dedication to serving the club. Tireless workers, they were always willing and ever ready to undertake the often difficult and thankless tasks that needed attention and action. We will miss them. If you missed our ballroom show on August 24, you missed one of the best shows we have ever had, at least that is the feedback from many at the sold out event. We saw Ed Sullivan’s “Really Big Shew!” Performers included Tom Jones, Jimmy Durante, Jack Benny, Louis Prima and Keely Smith, Sonny and Cher, Elvis Presley, Uncle Floyd Vivino, and more. The show was hilarious and Floyd had everyone singing old commercials, amazingly in tune. Preceding the show we danced to the music of the Ace in the Hole All Star Band. Dinner catered by Jacques was also outstanding. Many who attended our Michael McGeehan show on July 18 said that that show ranked among our top shows so it was gratifying to hear that we are meeting our goal of helping to make Greenbriar at Whittingham a great place to live. As we have often said, we are very grateful for the support of our members who attend our events. We try very hard to live up to your expectations by presenting quality entertainment. Almost all of our shows sell out so we recommend that reservations be made as soon as a new offering is announced. If you have not already done so, please give us your e-mail address so we can notify you of new events. You can send your e- mail address to [email protected]. In order to attend our shows and trips, membership is mandatory. Dues are $20 per year for a couple and for a single man. A single woman’s dues are only $10 for the year. The membership year runs from July 1 to June 30. Bingo Our club sponsors and conducts an evening of Bingo on the 2nd Friday of each month with doors opening at 7 pm. The next Bingo is scheduled for October 11. Events Calendar – Save These Dates October 15 – Tuesday – “Ciao Bella” – Afternoon cabaret show and luncheon at the shore with Vincent Talarico. Crystal Point Yacht Club in Point Pleasant. Buses leave 10:45 am. $60 pp members, $63 pp guests. Waiting list. October 17 – Thursday – singer Darren Williams Luncheon Show. 1 P.M. Ballroom. Salad platters catered by the Tap Room. $17 pp members, $19 pp guests. Waiting list. November 14 – Thursday “All American Variety Show” with Joey Arminio and the Family. 1 pm. This luncheon show is a tribute to our servicemen, commemorating Veterans Day. Deli platters will be catered by the Tap Room. $17 pp members, $19 pp guests. December 7 – Saturday – Holiday dinner show. “Legendary Singers of the ‘50s and ‘60s” presented by Ace in the Hole Productions. 6:30 P.M. Ballroom. Dancing. Dinner catered by Jacques includes salad, beef Bourguignon, chicken breast Florentine, ravioli, rice and broccoli au (Continued on page 20) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 20 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Senior Social Club (Continued from page 19) gratin, cake, coffee, soda. $28 pp members, $31 pp guests. A Personal Thank You I wish to acknowledge and publicly thank Paul Bresalier for his extraordinary service to our club during my hospitalization and resultant inactivity. Paul spent two full years at the helm and was due and entitled to a respite. Yet when called upon, he was there without hesitation or any reservation to continue the activities calendar of our club as well as writing this column. He didn’t miss a beat. Thanks also to his wife, Audrey, who tolerates his long hours on the computer. Sadly, we express our deepest sympathy to Audrey on the recent passing of her sister in Maryland. GW Tennis Club By Claire Feinstein Well another month has gone by and so fast. They say as we get older, the years go by faster. Just think when we were young we couldn’t wait until we got older so we could get our permit and drive a car among other things. Oh well— that’s life! C’est Ia vie. Now on to better things. GW tennis had success at the Senior Olympics: our very own Linda Shiff and Marge Geffner won medals. Richard Diamond is being honored by the Jewish Federation of Middlesex County for all the work he has done. Our congratulations to him. The next Norm Finestein mixed doubles tournament was held on September 12 at the Princeton Racquet Club. Our many thanks to Herb Levin and Linda Shiff for arranging a breakfast at the Tap Room to honor Bill Dobkin, past president and recording sec’y for all the work he has done. Linda Shiff was very creative and made a beautiful card which we all signed. We will miss Bill and Marian who are moving to Florida. We wish them much good health and happiness with many years together in their new residence. Marge and Barry thanked all who participated in the mixed doubles before the pizza party. Our speaker, Dr. Berger, chiropractor, certified trainer and nutritionist gave an enlightening lecture about taking care of oneself. He told us what to do and what not to do in case of pain. He operates the Wellness Center in Jamesburg where they do physical training, massage, acupuncture and of course chiropractic procedures. Our meeting ended with pizza and drinks. Accolades to Carolyn Marks, Linda Shiff and Diane Altman for the professional manner in which they handled the distribution of the pizza; a job well done. Thank you. Yiddish Club By Donna Steif On Sunday, September 1, we welcomed for the third time Marcia Haddad Ikonimopolous to our monthly breakfast. She is the leading authority on Romaniote Jewry which traces its roots back to the Hellenized Jewish communities of ancient Greece. She spoke on Bulgaria’s role during the Holocaust. According to Ms. Haddad, the Bulgarian government had been proclaiming that the (Continued on page 21) OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 21 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Yiddish Club (Continued from page 20) Jews born in Bulgaria were treated very well during this terrifying time and that many of those who fled to Bulgaria to escape the Nazis were allowed to stay. Statues of men were erected who were claimed to be saviors of the Jews when, in fact, they were the ones who treated the Jews the worst. It was a shock for many of us to hear that what, in fact, had occurred was that the Bulgarian citizens and those who had sought asylum there had been deported to Auschwitz. There now are groups of young Bulgarians who are doing their utmost to spread the horrible truth of what had been done in their country during the worst tragedy to mankind in Europe’s history. After her presentation, Ms. Haddad welcomed a question and answer period which also proved to be informative. Again we wish to assure those who do not speak or understand Yiddish that you are definitely in the majority! Members of the Yiddish Club who attend our Sunday morning breakfasts come with the expectation of seeing an interesting program and are rarely disappointed. Of course, you must realize this IS the Yiddish Club and our themes are of Jewish content - an author who has written something of interest, an expert on Jewish genealogy, or someone who has lived among and studied the Jews of a different culture. You may find it to be one of the best Sunday mornings you have ever spent! NOTE: Unless specified, our programs take place the first Sunday of every month at 10:15 a.m. Bagels, cream cheese and coffee are served. Tables are set up for 10 and 12. Charge is $6 per person unless otherwise indicated. Membership dues of $5 per person must be PAID UP for 2013 to attend programs and trips! Place your check and seating arrangement form taken from the rounder in the Towne Centre into Lockbox #6 with your name and date of event written on the outside of the envelope. No admission at the door…reservations a must! Future Programs: Sunday, October 6, Aryeh Green, our guest for the second time, is Director of MediaCentral, a Jerusalem-based project of HonestReporting, which provides support and services for foreign journalists in Israel. Most recently he has served as a senior member of Natan Sharansky’s staff in the Prime Minister’s office, responsible for contacts with Palestinian and other Arab activists. Suffice to say, you will find him very engaging! Sunday, November 3, the Bumper “T” Caring Clowns, represented by Dr. Huggabubbe (aka Aviva Gorstein) and Dr. Curlybubbe (aka Ester Gushner) will be here to talk about The Healing Power of Humor…Jest for the Health of It. These amazing ladies will share their profound experiences visiting seriously ill patients, distracting them for a moment from their treatment, fears and anxieties. That moment of levity or solace can last long after the clowns leave the room. Join us for an entertaining, inspiring and refreshingly different aspect of health care! Sunday, December 1, is our annual always well attended Chanuka Party. There will be music for your dancing or listening pleasure as well as delicious platters of food. Details will follow. TRIPS: Thursday, November 14 the Yiddish Club Council consisting of the Yiddish Clubs of Clearbrook, Concordia, Encore, Ponds, Greenbriar@Whittingham and Regency will be seeing the musical version of the film, Lies My Father Told Me. Cost per person is $54 which includes transportation and your orchestra seat. Lunch is $15 on your own at the Yiddish Club’s favorite, Ben’s Deli. Sold out! We do have a wait list – call Charlotte at 409-7969. On Tuesday, December 3, our trip will be to the Center for Jewish History on 16th Street in New York City. Our Annual Trip to the New Jersey Performing Arts Center will take place on March 21, 2014. Details to follow. Let’s Speak Yiddish has been thoroughly enjoyable for the men and women who converse in Yiddish on the third Wednesday of each month from 10 am until 11:30 am. Chairperson Harriet Weitzner would like to extend an invitation to you to join her and the group even though you may speak and understand only a little bit of Yiddish. Only Yiddish Club members may join! Multi-Media Center: Many of our members have been taking advantage of the MultiMedia Center to borrow books, DVDs and video cassettes before or after attending the breakfast and program of the Yiddish Club on the first Sunday of the month in the ballroom. All selections borrowed must be returned the following month. If you wish an annotated bibliography, e-mail Natasha Rosenbaum, our librarian in charge, at [email protected]. The Yiddish Club welcomes new members with whom we could share our special programs and interesting trips. We would be happy to greet you! A Vacuous State By Elaine Wintjen For a number of years, I’ve had the pleasure of seeing my often- innocuous, sometimesconvoluted thoughts printed in this newspaper. However, when I began to submit my “prose” to The Voice, my intention was to write in a humorous voice and, perhaps, become the Erma Bombeck of Greenbriar at Whittingham. I’ve no idea if I’ve had any success because the salary is non-existent and I don’t get much feedback. However, when writing for this august publication, one must meet a deadline and while next month’s deadline is fast approaching, I can think of nothing to write about, certainly nothing humorous. My life, Nurse’s Notes (Continued from page 7) ing for you, helping to insure that your wishes are respected even when you can’t make decisions yourself. A clearly written directive helps prevent disagreements among those close to you and alleviates some of the burdens of decision making which are often experienced by family members, friends and health care providers. Your directive takes effect when you no longer have the ability to make decisions about your health care. This judgment is normally made by your attending physician, and any additional physicians who may be required by law to examine you. If there is any doubt about your ability to make such decisions, your doctor will consult with another doctor with training and experience in this area. To- of late, has been far from funny. When not feeling particularly humorous, my next favorite topic is to castigate those politicians whose politics do not agree with mine. There, I have a wealth of material. Almost on a daily basis, some congressman or candidate for political office will make an absolutely outrageous statement to which I must respond. However, my editor has asked that I refrain from making any kind of political statement in this publication. And while this helps keep my blood pressure under control, I am also, at this time, too tired to do battle with anyone. But what about that deadline? (Continued on page 23) gether they will decide if you are unable to make your own health care decisions. Your directive is in effect only as long as you are unable to make your own decisions. References: Advance Directives for Health Care (1991) retrieved September 4, 2013 http://www.state.nj.us/health/ healthfacilities/documents/ltc/ advance_directives.pdf Family Caregiver Alliance Durable Power of Attorney retrieved September 4, 2013 http:// www.caregiver.org/caregiver/ jsp/home.jsp GW Lecture — Monday, October 7, 1:00pm. Optometrist Dr. Michael Trottini will speak on Life and the Eye. RSVP: Concierge. Flu Shots Friday October 18, 8am to 2pm in the Ballroom. Medicare Part B – no fee or 25.00 receipts given. TOWNE CENTRE NEWS By Monica Caterson, Clubhouse / Recreation Manager WHOA Entertainment The Phantom’s Leading Ladies Saturday, October 12, 2013 8:00 PM ~ $25.00 The Monroe Township High School The Bronx Wanderers Saturday, November 16, 2013 8:00 PM ~ $25.00 The Monroe Township High School WHOA Movies In The Ballroom @ 1:00 PM Sunday, October 13, 2013 “Quartet” Sunday, October 27, 2013 “Arbitrage” WHOA Trips Mount Airy/Sands Casino November 10-11, 2013 Celebrity Cruise from Ft. Lauderdale January 20-31, 2014 Royal Caribbean Cruise from Bayonne, NJ January 21-31, 2014 Ask about the 2015 Cruise! *Flyers in Towne Centre* WHOA Atlantic City Wednesday, October 2, 2013 Bus Leaves Community @ 9:30AM “Resorts” Wednesday, November 6, 2013 Bus Leaves Community @ 9:30AM “Caesars” WHOA Duffy Square Duffy Square will resume: May 21, 2014 June 18, 2014 July 16, 2014 August 20, 2014 September 17, 2014 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 22 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Addiction By Juliet P. Klein OK! OK! I confess. I’m a junkie. Nay, not a druggie, but I definitely have an addiction. You see, I’m a clipper. Scissors must be ever at the ready whenever I peruse newspapers or magazines. My eyes ever scanning… I hunger for tidbits of oddities, of stories, of blurbs, or whatever smacks of being out of the ordinary, amusing or downright bizarre. Gleefully I clip away, and into my story file it goes. Here’s a glimpse of just a few of the snippets and my comments. Cronuts’ Entrepreneurs. In case you’ve been out of the country since May, a Cronut (trademarked) is the latest craze in NYC. It’s sold only in a So-Ho bakery. It’s a puff pastry-like croissant-donut cross breed, deep fried , filled with pastry cream, topped with icing, rolled in sugar and supposedly tastes like fried heaven. The Cronuts are $5.00 each with a two limit. The bakery opens at 8 am. Only 200 are made and sell out by 9 am. Ever on the alert for a quick buck, the entrepreneurs (scalpers) queue up sometimes starting at 2 AM. The going rate for a single black-market Cronut is $35.00. Some scalpers have a clientele via Craigslist and deliver but often charge more. Others hawk their place in line for up to $30.00. I marvel at the scalpers who have seized the opportunity, and those who are so flush that apparently money is no object to satisfy a craving. Since I’m adverse to anything so sweet, I can easily pass by this indulgence. But then, as they say, to each his own, and I do recall many a time, when dear husband and I didn’t think twice about “blowing the wad” on some little thing or other that we thought we really, really needed and simply couldn’t live without! Thinking back…what foolishness. But, those scalpers, now they’re on to something. What’s That You Say, Never Heard of a “Durian?” Well, all you need do is ask any of the citizens of the South East Asia countries and they will either smile and say “Ah you mean the King of Fruits,” or stare at you with a ghastly grimace and say… ugh! Known and consumed in South East Asia since prehistoric times, why it’s called a fruit is anybody’s guess since its distinctive characteristic is far from the delightful fragrance of fruits as we know it. Rather it has a pungent odor, often described as rotten onions, turpentine, raw sewage, etc., etc. The odor is so strong that often it’s prohibited on public transportation. But something weird happens when the shell is opened for inside is a substance described as looking like rich custard with delicious almond like flavor, apparently with little of the odor. It’s about the size of a large watermelon. Many who taste it become addicted. Some claim it has an aphrodisiac effect and others that it provides a “hot body high.” Having lived in Hong Kong for five years, I remember it well. When in season, the supermarkets carried it and I recall almost gagging at the odor and having to flee for fear of throwing up. Many times I was told if you can go beyond the smell, you’ll be rewarded by its delicious ice cream like taste. Never happened! But should you dare to give it a try take yourself to Jay Fan’s sidewalk booth on Grand Street in NYC Chinatown. He claims he carries the very best quality Durian (there are many varieties) and for $40.00 he’ll cut and scoop out the “delicious” pulp…and who knows you, too, may become addicted. Concierge Doctors in the Hamptons. What? You thought the charming seasonal comedy “Royal Pains” on the USA network was a delightful figment of the writers’ imaginations? Not so. The fun program that centers around “Hank Med,” a concierge doctor and his associates who are on call to immediately attend to the medical needs of the rich and famous in their Hamptons’ homes, is based on real services. And now, again in real life, into the breach, step a husband-and-wife dental team who for $999 per person will perform one hour session of professional teeth whitening in the comfort of the client’s living room. The dentists practice in NYC and offer their services while vacationing in the Hamptons. Another opportunity seen and captured. Sigh. And we thought the days of doctor house calls had gone the way of the dodo bird. Not so. Not so. Got Money? They’ll come. Horrors…Fading Sense of Smell. All through our lives we’ve heard…Stop! Take time to smell the roses. So now, in our “glorious” golden years, when we do have time to pause, it’s been reported on good authority that the sense of smell degrades as we age, reducing pleasure and safety and by 60, half of us will experience some reduction of nose function; by 80, three-fourths of us will. Experts have told us that the taste of food is directly connected to our sense of smell…test it… close your eyes, hold your nose, and take a bite of any food… can you tell what it is? Probably not. How often lately, have you said…this just doesn’t taste as good as I remember it??? Well, now we know why….our schnozzle is betraying us and joining our fading hearing and eyesight. Moral of the story… enjoy every precious moment. Environmentally Friendly Recycling. It seems the mortuary industry that hasn’t had a new idea in 150 years is now pushing the envelope. Its appealing to those who wish to leave an environmentally sound legacy, to forgo all the usual trappings we commonly now use, bulky coffins, cement vaults, etc. all of which are claimed to pollute the earth with toxic chemicals. Among the new burial options, a company called (Continued on page 23) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Another View By Joan Freeman It’s quite astonishing to realize how readily we lap up the mega-doses of horror and violence that are thrust upon us daily. A gurney with the bloody victim strapped onto it, being loaded into the medi -vac is a familiar scene on the nightly news, or the latest police or “whodunit” television drama. Perpetrators of drug wars, rapes, random killings, or child abuse are shown, being squashed into the back of a police car. No one needs to be told what a yellow plastic tape indicates when it marks off an area of ground, or surrounds a house or a parking lot. Insistent reporters shove microphones into the faces of Addiction (Continued from page 22) Eternal Reefs suggests becoming a “reef ball” and provide a habitat for sea life. Cremated remains are mixed with environmentally friendly concrete and cast into a basketball-size “pearl.” It’s then attached to a honeycomb-shaped reef. Whole families can become a reef. The company has already installed more than 1,700 memorial balls in many locations. And for $25,000, Celestis Inc. will send a module containing your remains on a mission to the moon. An Ontario company is working on a metal glide canister that will be shot into the sky and when reaching space a small pyrotechnic charge will eject the ashes into the heavens…talk about making a statement! For me, I think I might consider the “reef ball.” What a really cool idea. But strange that I would even consider it since I’ve never been comfortable with ocean waters, even snorkeling gives me the creeps. “Ghost Money.” How the Chinese Honor Their Ancestors. To our Western thinking, we may find the following hard to fathom. Let me assure you … having witnessed it during my time in Hong Kong, it’s true. The Chinese are strong believers in venerating their dead ancestors based on the idea that their spirits continue to dwell in the natural world and they have power to influence the future fate of the living. Consequently, during the annual “Hungry Ghost Festival,” when the gates of the underworld are believed to open and ghosts are allowed to wander the earth, the living make burnt offerings of stacks of “ghost money” also known as “Joss Money” to help ensure their ancestors’ comfort in the afterlife. Temples have large furnaces outside their main gates where people gather to place the grieving families for their reactions to the fate of their loved ones. We seem to enjoy, even revel, in the most gruesome details of the latest child murder or discovery of a shallow grave or the trial of a celebrity murder suspect. Why? What has happened to us as a society? Why do we have such a bottomless appetite for the most brutal occurrences? Do we dwell on violence because it is the only subject presented in comprehensive detail by the media? We can’t seem to focus on the really pressing issues of our time: social reforms, immigration, foreign policy, envi(Continued on page 25) money to be burned. Traditionally in small denominations but recently the value has risen to bigger fake bills, some in millions, billions and trillions. The reason even Hong Kong’s dead must keep up with the Joneses, and since hyperinflation is now rampant in Hong Kong, so it must be in the spirit under world, since it’s believed that it mimics what is happening above ground. And something to behold…DVD players, cars, houses, and servants all made out of colorful paper are available to be burned as offerings for the needy dead. According to Chinese tradition, burning ghost money is a vital part of ancestral care. The traditional view of the Chinese afterlife is that it closely mirrors the real world with its own otherworldly bureaucracy full of officials that need careful cajoling – not to mention bribes. And cash is needed in the underworld to gamble…a favorite activity of living Chinese. (Interesting what man will do and believe in his fear of the unknown.) In addition to all the burning, in true “festival” fashion, parties abound, and of course, empty chairs are placed at tables should the ghosts care to join. (Elijah’s Glass, anyone?). No doubt there are many other interesting cultural customs throughout the world of honoring one’s ancestors. Those I know, attending annual religious services in synagogues or churches, lighting memorial candles and visiting gravesites once a year, seem so very simple by comparison. So, dear reader, hopefully you’ve enjoyed my snippets and comments and can understand my addiction. Note: Lest I be accused of plagiarism…yes, of course, excerpts were taken and reworded from the various articles as well as verification on Google search. Care to know where? Email [email protected]. Vacuous State (Continued from page 21) I still have nothing to say and while some professionals might call this “writer’s block,” I know I’m not in that category. I may simply have to write about nothing and at this point, dear reader, you might wish to turn on your television set. I did some extensive research and found Mr. Webster’s definition of the word “nothing.” It’s “a thing that does not exist” or a “person or thing of no importance.” I couldn’t think of a better way to describe my current condition. My brain is blank; my nerves are numb and my body is still a bit broken. I’m certainly aware this little exercise has been far from humorous, uninformative and not at all interesting. However, there is good news; I’ll not miss the deadline! OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 23 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 24 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Columbus, Ohio By Dawn Horowitz Columbus, Ohio is a little off the usual chosen road as a tourist destination. However, a traveler, on his way to another vacation spot, might want to stop for three days in Columbus, which can provide interesting sights as the driver rests from continuing on a long drive. Therefore, last summer my husband Paul and I drove to Columbus on our way to Chicago, Illinois. Also, my grandson Mikhael and his girlfriend Liat are presently living there, on the North side. Thus, Mikhael offered to be our guide for our initial exposure to the unique sights of Columbus. On our first day, we drove to the downtown north area which is filled with upscale restaurants and antique shops. After we parked, we came across the indoor North Market, a hodgepodge of stalls selling farm fresh vegetables, fish, wonderful baked goods, tourist souvenirs, homemade candy, etc. and a really good introduction to what Columbus has to offer. Both Mikhael and Liat said they passed the structure daily but had never entered. Together we found postcards and some nibbles plus met interesting shoppers willing to share their tips on what was worth buying there. We all ordered their highly recommended frozen yogurt and agreed totally with the sound judgment of the previous customers. Afterwards, we wandered through the various antique shops. We were also on a mis- sion to find a worthy dining option for the evening but could not find one we all agreed upon. Liat solved our problem by choosing a lovely vegetarian restaurant that we had passed before on the main street. On day two, Paul and I went to the Columbus Museum of Art. We were delighted to find an exhibit about the history of the folk art of Czech puppeteers. In the past when we visited Czechoslovakia, we bought a puppet of Don Giovanni and admired the work displayed in all the souvenir stores. Therefore, while wandering about the museum, it was fun to reexamine the fantastic genealogy of our puppet and see how the Czechs’ art has influenced marionette development in the United States. Next, we traveled to see The Ohio State University, an original land grant college. It is the third largest campus in the country, simply enormous. There are city buses in use only for travel along the campus streets. Of course, once there, we took the chance to enter one of the renowned Big Ten football conference arenas and looked at its beautiful field. “Very impressive” said Mikhael. He said he planned to see a game this year. Then, upon entering the main university library, Mikhael led us to an elevator to the top floor to view a lovely panorama, a green-tree scene of miles and miles of Columbus. Also we went to the icehockey field house to see if any team was at practice but no game was available to watch. That evening, we attended a Triple A minor league baseball game of the Columbus Clippers. We were dedicated fans and were very sad as the Clippers seemed destined to lose. However, the Clippers rallied in the ninth and went on to win; a great evening was enjoyed by all. On our last day in Columbus, Mikhael took us to the state capital, named for the explorer Christopher Columbus. Here is housed the seat of government of the State of Ohio. Located in a Greek Revival building is the General Assembly, consisting of a House of Representatives and a Senate as well as the Governor’s offices. Luckily, we were able to enter the legislative chambers, decorated elegantly and we could admire how beautifully the entire building was outfitted. Also we noted that the delegates’ desks had modern additions such as plugs for iPhones, iPads, etc. When we came to the museum inside the capital building, we were happy to learn about the history of the many native tribes who first inhabited the territory. We saw a painting of Thomas Edison, born in Ohio, and discovered that Lincoln had visited the state three times and was honored by the residents for his support that led to the Union’s winning the Battle of Vicksburg during the Civil War. Now it was finally the time for the event we had been waiting for since our arrival at Columbus. We were about to visit the famous Ohio State Fair. Joining the crowds walking up to the Fair’s ticket booths, we went in and found ourselves surrounded by sheep in line for the contest of “sheep shearing.” Mikhael questioned how one could judge this type of contest and we found no answers. I suggested that maybe the time to complete the job is the main priority for the judge? Later, we rode the sky train that went from one side of the Fair to the other. The train consisted of Ferris Wheel type seats on two cables which traveled about 25 feet above the paths the visitors were using to view the Fair’s attractions. This gave us a bird’seye-view of the possible exhibits we could see next. We also ate the hot corn for sale at almost every booth. Mikhael enjoyed his first-ever corn dog and pronounced it okay! We tried a couple of games but didn’t win anything. Nevertheless, it was still a special experience for us and remains a good memory. However, on this trip, we missed visiting the zoo and aquarium, reputed to be the best in the country. Thus, we intend to return soon. Since we still have Mikhael and Liat living in Columbus, we have an added incentive to plan an additional visit for this coming winter. FOR ADVERTISING CALL Princeton Editorial Services 732-7618534 or 8535 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Green Fair Expands for 2013 Freecycling, environmentally friendly storytimes by the Library, hybrid and electric cars, bicycle exchange and so much more are on tap for the 4th Annual Green Fair. The Fair, set to run from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Oct. 5 at the Oak Tree School on Applegarth Road, is once again cosponsored by the Monroe Township Environmental Commission and the Public Library. “We are happy to continue our work with the Library to give residents the knowledge and access to products to make their lives a little greener,” said John Riggs, Township Director of Planning and Environmental Protection. Freecycling is a major component of this year’s Green Fair. Through Freecycling, residents can bring items that are in good working condition, such as furniture, toys, lamps, tools or other items they do not need anymore, leave them at the freecycling site at the fair, for someone else to take home. “We want to remind people that this is not a dump for garbage,” Mr. Riggs said. “The idea is to keep perfectly good items out of the landfill. Items that are not taken by residents will be donated to RISE.” RISE is a non-profit organization based out of Hightstown that provides referral and support services to area families and individuals in need. In addition, the fair will feature the Bike Exchange, an allvolunteer effort that collects, repairs and sells bikes from its shop in the Capitol Plaza Shopping Center on the Trenton/Ewing border. The bike exchange not only makes low cost bikes available to lowincome families it also makes financial contributions to the Boys and Girls Club. Furthermore, St. Peter’s hospital will be on hand to check blood pressure and cholesterol. Electric and hybrid cars will be on display. The shredding truck will be available for residents to shred old documents. Bee keepers and worm composters will share information, and so much more. Essential Emergency Information (Please cut out and save) Gather the items listed below and place them in a bag, suitcase, box, backpack or container (your kit) in the event you have to leave your home. 1. Anyone on life support systems: get a back-up battery-pack. 2. Keep information and phone numbers (doctors, family, friends, hospital, list of medicines, pet shelters, insurance, vital records) conveniently located in a fire-proof, water-proof box. Put in easily accessible place. Remember to update your kit and check on its location often. 3. Buy battery operated radio, cell phone chargers for car, flashlights, extra batteries. 4. Have cash on hand (at least $100.) 5. Clothing for family members. 6. Extra set of car and house keys. 7. Whistle 8. Buy a GPS for your car Also, remember to complete these emergency tasks! 1. Keep car with at least 1/2 tank of gas filled (If notice of a storm, full.) 2. For heat, boil pots of water, on stove. DO NOT just turn stove on. NEVER leave unattended. Avoid using candles, but if you must, NEVER leave unattended. 3. Make contact with your neighbors, family. 4. Stock-up on water (1 gal/person/day), nonperishable foods, mechanical can opener, up to date meds, AND don’t forget for your pets, too. 5. Fill tub with water for sanitary reasons. 6. People with special needs, register with the Township. From the EEI committee Gloria Girard, Irwin Kaplan, Miriam Cohen, Linda Norden GW Voice Snowbird Mailing PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY Name ___________________________________________ Winter Mailing Address: ________________________________ Street ___________________________________________ City______________________ State _____ Zip __________ Monthly issues of the GW VOICE will be mailed to the above address. $2.00 per month covers postage and handling. Please circle months requested. Nov Dec Jan Feb March April May Make checks payable to: “GW VOICE” Amount Paid: $2.00 x number of months = $____________ Date Paid_____________ Check Number_____________ Leave this request form with your check in the GW Voice Mailbox in the Annex. Another View (Continued from page 23) ronmental concerns, financial disparity between rich and poor, and ethical and moral issues. We give only cursory glances at articles that require contemplation and serious thought. We shrug our collective shoulders and return to the violence of the day. Are we also victims? Yes, we are. Experts continue to assure us that there is absolutely no connection between increasing violence in our society and escalating focus on sex and violence in the media. But then, why do advertising agencies spend millions of dollars to encourage the public to buy a new product, such as a new soft drink. Ads display it continually so that the public will be seduced into choosing it above others. We buy what we are programmed to buy. Is it not likely then, that the barrage of violent images we see inures us so that we are no longer shocked by its invasive effect on our lives? Rather than working to make our society less violent, we permit the media, in all its forms to persuade us that it is perfectly okay to live in a world saturated with horror and violence. I think there is something wrong somewhere. Don’t you? OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 25 OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 26 War (Continued from page 1) flee from the “gas raid.” Thousands called police, newspapers, radio stations in U.S. and Canada seeking advice for protective measures. Many required medical treatment for shock and hysteria. The program, produced by Orson Wells and the Mercury Theatre on WABC was on from 8 to 9 PM and was listed in the newspapers as: “H.G. Wells’ War of the Worlds presented by Orson Wells and the Mercury Theatre.” Meanwhile... I was at home listening to the radio. I was tuned to that station and actually heard the very beginning, which made it clear that what you were going GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE to hear was a play. So the play began with – a program of Spanish music – and then an announcement which I remember very clearly. It didn’t say “we interrupt this program” it said “we interrupt this program of Spanish music to bring you a special announcement of breaking news” and then went on to describe an invasion of aliens from Mars. So, I knew that this “announcement” was just part of the play and since I wasn’t into aliens or stories about Martians I turned it off and went to a friend’s house. While I was there her aunt, who she lived with, came in all excited and said, “turn on the radio” because somebody told her there’s an invasion of aliens in New Jersey.” They turned on the radio and began to hear the panic and hysteria going on. I kept telling them that the news announcement was just part of the play being broadcast but no one was quite sure what to believe. So I guess I was practically the only person on the East coast who knew the truth. And now, I live in New Jersey, not far from the Martian landing site which supposedly took place (on October 23, 75 years ago) in a little town called Grovers Mill and every time I drive past I get a slightly creepy feeling. I keep looking for remnants of those Martians but I guess brave New Jerseyians who didn’t flee fought them off because I don’t see them anywhere. Letters (Continued from page 2) measures? County property is open to county residents – can it legally be closed to the public? Has research been done to determine the effect of repairing the dam to adjacent property? Many of us have underground streams that feed the lake and run under our property. Will these be affected by the restructure? If so, what assurances do we have that property damage will be addressed? I am sure others can add additional relevant questions. This issue is of great importance to the community. We may be giving away more than just acreage and responsibility for the repair costs. What about security, rights and financial remuneration? I understand that the costs are high to repair the dam but what are the unspoken costs of gifting the land? The entire community is affected and needs clear, complete and thoughtful answers to make a decision. I look forward to getting them. Nancy James *** Just Vote! An Election Day Primer in the Sept. Voice was confusing to many. The four easy steps to voting did not mention the most obvious and important one, come on down to the Towne Centre and use the voting machine. Eliminate the sending out of proxies and send out absentee ballots when requested. Vote like we do in Federal and State elections. Eliminate the cost of mailing and the confusion. Sincerely, Fred Marks (Editor’s note: The availability and importance of voting in person was carefully recognized by the author and the GW VOICE. The story in question opens with the following two sentences in the first paragraph. “On September 18, a vote for WHOA, GWCA and GGCA board candidates will take place at the Towne Centre from 8 am to 8 pm. You can vote in person during that time.” Root, Root for Old Utrecht High... On October 6, there is going to be a New Utrecht High School Reunion at the Station Bar and Grill on Route 130. That is the old Cranbury Station Restaurant. The price is $20 per person for a full luncheon and various surprises. The time is 1 to 5 pm. If you are interested call Janet Unger at 655-4087. Gene Gursky Monroe Library Book Discussion 1 p.m., Saturday, October 5. Part two in this two part program about Half the Sky authored by the Pulitzer Prizewinning couple Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn about oppression of women around the globe. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. World’s Greatest Arias Presented by Jerry Kalstein, Boheme Opera NJ at 1 p.m., Monday, October 7. A survey of celebrated opera arias composed by greats including Mozart, Rossini, Verdi, Puccini, and others. Live singing and CD and DVD performances accompany discussion about the features of each composer that have endeared them to us throughout time. Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk. Coupon Club 1:30 p.m., Monday, October 7. Clip coupons and swap ‘til you drop at the Library’s monthly Coupon Club. Spend time with fellow couponers trading unwanted coupons in exchange for those you need. Discuss deals, share frugal tips and shopping experiences. Bring a pair of scissors and your stash of any non-expired coupons. Book Discussion with Sylvia Deutsch 10 a.m., Tuesday, October 8. A discussion about Jill Ker Conway’s memoir, The Road from Coorain. Register and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. NJ Authors’ Network Author Panel 2 p.m., Saturday, October 12. Local authors share tips and information on getting published in today’s market. Register at the Welcome Desk. Coffee and a Book 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, October 15. Sarah Thornhill by Kate Grenville will be discussed. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 27 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE CLASSIFIED ADVERTISING Transportation RICK’S CAR SERVICE – Professional driver. Greenbriar resident. Reasonable. (609) 902-9979 or (609) 655-8051. TRANSPORTATION – Airports, events, doctor’s appointments and more. Call George (732) 887-5437. CAR SERVICE – For a comfortable ride I hope you decide to call John (609) 655-2015. Airports, doctors, shopping. MARVIN’S LIMOUSINE – Low rates. Choice of Cadillac sedan or Lexus SUV. Greenbriar resident $5 discount with this ad. Call (908) 812-6299. A. HARRINGTON LIMOUSINE – Owners are Greenbriar Whittingham residents. Call (800) 458-5466. FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE – Errands, doctor’s appointments, bank reconciliation, household organizing and more. Bonded, reasonable and reliable. Call Carol (609) 448-9188. NAT TRANSPORTATION – Monroe resident. All airports, shipyards, NYC and local. Doctor and hospital visits. (917) 657-5611. BOB’S CAR SERVICE – We go everywhere-anytime. Low rates. (609) 409-7174 or cell (646) 258-0241. TRANSPORTATION DOCTOR – Airports, trains, piers, doctors, local service, NYC. Reliable and references. Call Lon J. (732) 423-1847. Home Improvement & Services EXPERT HOME REPAIRS. Kitchen, bath, closet remodeling, tiling, painting. Call Bob Katz (609) 490-9522 for details. TKS HOME IMPROVEMENT – A full-service contractor and handyman services. Roofing, kitchens, baths, basements, painting, tile, hardwood and more. No job too big or too small. Lic#13VH05970500. (609) 259-2574. RELIABLE HANDYMAN SERVICES – Local resident. No job too small. All labor guaranteed. Call me to discuss-no obligation. Reasonable rates. Call (609) 4097096 or (908) 385-5869. LEN’S HANDYMAN SERVICE, LLC – Autumn is heretime for fix-ups and repairs. Specializing in home improvements. We do it all. We paint one room or the whole house. Sheetrock and wall repair. Crown moulding. Renew or repair that bathroom or kitchen. Doors, medicine cabinets, closet doors and closet remodeling. Bath tile and grout, caulking, shelving, Pergo flooring and ceramic tile, electrical work – anything in your home. Whole house/ garage cleanouts. Monroe Township resident. All major credit cards accepted. Licensed and insured. NJ License # 13VH03701800. www.lenshandyman.com Call (732) 353-6031. JOHN PEARL HOME IMPROVEMENT AND LANDSCAPING, LLC – General repairs, power washing, deck staining, tile, painting, masonry repairs. Tree removal, landscape projects and more. Licensed and insured. NJ License # 13VH06515700. Call John at (908) 208-1150. MIKE THE HANDYMAN – See my display ad in this edition. (732) 780-0468. M & M POWER WASHING – Community special $110 plus tax. Includes one-story house, concrete front walkway and back concrete patio. Call for details. (732) 367-1071. SAM’S PAINTING COMPANY – Quality painting for over 30 years. Free estimates. License #13VH02599700 (732) 6168402. WINDSOR MOVING COMPANY – Helping families pack and move for over 20 years. Fully insured. Lic. PC00512. Call (609) 448-8840. Miscellaneous/ Services PROFESSIONAL PET CARE – Bonded and insured. Call (609) 860-9696. HAIRCUTS DONE in the comfort of your home. Call Renee (732) 641-2170. HAIRCUTS in your home. Please call Barbara (917) 9951696. RJF SALES COMPANY LLC (formerly Monroe Computer Service). Is your computer running slow? It may need a tune-up. Desktop and laptop repair in your home. Virus removal and protection. Monroe resident with over 20 years of computer experience. [email protected] (732) 723-9523 or (732) 967-3400. PC PROBLEM SOLVERS – Low priced service. Slow computer? Viruses or spyware? Pop-ups? Computer and internet set-ups. We make house calls. Call Herman (609) 4090824. COMPUTER ASSISTANCE in senior's home. Help with all aspects. Selection, set-up, and training. (609) 409-7631. Wanted to Buy CARS WANTED-CASH WAITING – I come to you. Any make, any year, don’t trade. Call me first, I’m a fellow senior. (732) 735-0125 from 8:30 a.m. to 8 p.m. 7 days a week. Help & Health Services OUR CARING HOME COMPANIONS help seniors live at home. Personal care, meals, housework, transportation, up to 24 hour care. Top references and screenings, we do things your way. Affordable rates. VISITING ANGELS. (732) 656-7720. CARING ELDER CARE – We will help you live independently. Experienced, reliable, affordable. Local, references. (646) 413-0813. www.CaringElderCare.com EXPERIENCED CAREGIVER looking for full-time/part-time, live-in/out position as a companion/caregiver to a mature adult. Excellent references. Call (908) 587-8573. ANNA’S HOME CARE – Certified professional caregiver is looking for live-in/live-out job in Monroe Township. Experienced, references. Driver’s license. Accepts long-term care insurance. Low prices. Private care option. Call Anna at (609) 409-1600 or (732) 579-8158. NEW JERSEY LICENSED MASSAGE THERAPIST – 10 years experience. $30 for 50 minutes. Appointment only. (609) 662-4481. Housecleaning NICE JEWISH GIRL’S HOUSE CLEANING and Health Aide Service. 20 years experience. Low rates. Insured and bonded. Call Eileen at (609) 860-9050. HENRYKA’S HOUSE CLEANING – Polish ladies, reliable and experienced. References available. (609) 5860806. Start Planning (Continued from page 1) Sandy made landfall in NJ, there were numerous warnings of the impact it could have on our state. How many residents actually prepared for the power outages? Ms. Cohen’s admonition to the audience was to make a plan and implement it. Her checklist included: · Buy a whistle. If electric power is cut off, and you are alone, blowing a whistle will attract help. · Duct tape: In the event of a hazardous or toxic spill event, you will want to duct tape over openings in your home. · Charge your cell phone and learn to text. Texting on a cell phone will work in the event of a power failure, even though you can’t make calls on your cell phone. Also, have a list of contacts and numbers. · Have a radio, which can run on batteries, such as a NOAA Weather radio. This will keep you in touch with what’s going on outside. · Batteries: Have a fresh supply of batteries for the radio, flashlights, lanterns, hearing aids, etc. · Matches: If you have a gas stove, you can light the burners with a match and heat water and food. · Documents: Collect important documents in a waterproof container or pouch. For example, homeowners insurance policy, licenses, passport, credit cards, medical information. · Get together in a backpack, if possible, personal information, cash, copies of important documents, medications, first aid stuff, and so on, as well as a change of clothing, medications, and prescriptions if necessary. The Red Cross suggests everyone keep at a minimum in event of an evacuation order a three-day supply of water, a change of clothing, a blanket , flashlight and batteries, radio, extra set of car keys, sanitation supplies, extra eye glasses. Make sure your car has a full tank of gas. Ms. Cohen also cautioned that a disaster could result in more illnesses, impaired health care structure, shortages of food and water, and lack of electric power for days, even weeks. People who live through disasters and/or are displaced from their homes will take time to recover, both physically and mentally. Another point she stressed was to let your family members know how you are and how they are. Also, we need to be alert to neighbors who might need assistance. Free family protection publications can be had by writing to FEMA, P.O. Box 70274, Washington, D.C. 20024. Ask for “Are You Ready? Your Family Disaster Supplies Kit” and “Emergency Food and Water Supplies.” In the brief business meeting preceding the program, Ben Baum, Community Affairs chair, announced that a Thanksgiving Dinner will be held at the new Senior Services Center for residents who are alone. A more detailed story appears in this issue. Baum told residents who wished to support this effort to contact the Office of Senior Services, attn: Bonnie, at 609- 4487140, or him at 73 Chichester Rd., 235-9440. Gene Gursky, president, reminded the audience that the club is seeking contributions to the Holiday Fund, which is “our way of thanking the people who keep GW running smoothly and safely year round,” and urged to put checks in the club’s lockbox # 4. The program for October 9 will feature a “Meet and Greet your Candidates for Board of Education.” Co-sponsored by the Civic Club and the League of Women Voters of Monroe Township, it is scheduled for 7 pm and is open to the public. Only six candidates accepted the invitation to participate. A trained League moderator will oversee the proceedings. Jerry Cohen, program chair, reminded the audience that a welcome to new residents will be the feature of the November program. The second round of flu shots will be held on October 18 from 8 am to 2 pm in the ballroom. IZABELA’S CLEANING SERVICE - Professional house cleaning. Quality work. References available. Reasonable. 2 bedroom/2 bath, $65 and up. Experienced. Free estimates. (609) 954-0181. Please print your ad and mail it to Princeton Editorial OCTOBER 2013 – PAGE 28 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY 1 6 10:15 a.m. Yiddish Club 3:00 p.m. Disabled Israeli Veterans 13 1:00 p.m. Movie: Quartet 7 20 27 3 FRIDAY 4 5 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 10:00 a.m. Entertainment Mtg. 10:00 a.m. Chorus 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits/Art & Sewing Class 2:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:00 p.m. Zumba 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 8 9 10 11 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 9:30 a.m. WHOA Building and Grounds Comm. 10:00 a.m. Chorus 11:00 a.m. WHOA Towne Centre Mtg. 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Art/ Sewing Class 1:00 p.m. GWCA Finance Comm. Mtg. 2:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:00 p.m. Zumba 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Grp 7:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 7:00 p.m. Bingo 12 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 9:30 a.m. Computer Club 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 10:00 a.m. Village I Fee Simple Adv. Board Elections 10:30 a.m. WHOA Village I.1 Adv. Board Elections 11:00 a.m. WHOA Village I.2 Adv. Board Elections 11:30 a.m. ORT Card Party 1:00 p.m. Quilting 1:30 p.m. T’ai Chi Class 7:00 p.m. Yoga 7:00 p.m. Golf Finance Comm. 7:30 p.m. Residents Civic Club Open Mtg. 16 17 18 19 25 26 14 15 9:00 a.m. Sculpting & Arts/ Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. GW Friends Discussion Group 5:30 a.m. Special Election 9:30 a.m. GWCA Open Workshop Mtg. 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 10:00 a.m. Let’s Talk Yiddish 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 1:30 p.m. T’ai Chi Class 7:00 p.m. Yoga 7:00 p.m. Golf Course Finance Comm. Mtg. 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 10:00 a.m. Chorus 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Arts & Sewing Class 2:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:00 p.m. Zumba 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 23 24 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. WHOA Budget & Finance Comm. Mtg. 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 9:30 a.m. Computer Club 9:30 a.m. GWCA Covenants Comm. Mtg. 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 1:30 p.m. T’ai Chi Class 3:00 p.m. Bridge Board Mtg. 7:00 p.m. Yoga 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 10:00 a.m. Chorus 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Art/ Sewing Class 2:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 5:00 p.m. Italian American Club Board Mtg. 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:00 p.m. Zumba 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 30 31 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 6:30 p.m. Italian American Senior Social Club SATURDAY 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 1:30 p.m. T’ai Chi Class 7:00 p.m. Residents Civic Board Mtg. 7:30 p.m. New Kids on the Block 9:00 a.m. Sculpting/Arts & Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 12:30 p.m. Orientation Mtg. 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Finance Study Group 7:30 p.m. WHOA Covenants Comm. October 14 2 THURSDAY 9:00 a.m. Sculpting/ Arts & Crafts 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Yiddish Club Board Mtg. 10:00 a.m. GWCA Site Review Comm. 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:30 p.m. Billiards 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga Class 9:30 a.m. Line Dancing 10:00 a.m. GW Debatables 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 12:00 p.m. Woodworking 12:00 p.m. Men’s Fitness 1:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 1:00 p.m. Painting 1:00 p.m. Storm Water Mgt. Comm. Mtg. 1:00 p.m. Health Lecture 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 4:00 p.m. GW Friends Movie Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:30 p.m. Meditation Class 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Line Dancing 10:00 a.m. GWCA Grounds & Landscaping Comm. 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 12:00 p.m. Woodworking 1:00 p.m. Painting 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 4:00 p.m. GW Friends Med-Sci Group 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:30 p.m. Meditation Class 7:00 p.m. Hadassah Membership Appreciation 7:30 p.m. History Club WEDNESDAY 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 6:00 p.m. Tennis Club Dinner Dance 8:00 a.m. Flu Shots 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art Columbus Day 21 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. WHOA Open Workshop Mtg. 9:30 a.m. Line Dancing 10:00 a.m. Prov. Thinking 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 11:00 a.m. Golf Finance Comm. 11:30 a.m. WHOA Closed Mtg. 12:00 p.m. Woodworking 12:00 p.m. Men’s Fitness 1:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 1:00 p.m. Painting 1:30 p.m. GGCA Board Mtg. 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:30 p.m. Meditation Class 7:30 p.m. GWCA Open Mtg. 7:30 p.m. GW Friends Music 28 1:00 p.m. Movie: “Arbitrage” 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Line Dancing 10:00 a.m. GW Connections 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 12:00 p.m. Woodworking 12:00 p.m. Men’s Fitness 1:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 1:00 p.m. ORT Movie Discussion 1:00 p.m. Painting 1:00 p.m. Woodworking 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 4:00 p.m. GW Friends Book Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:30 p.m. Meditation Class 7:30 p.m. GW Friends 22 9:00 a.m. Sculpting & Arts/ Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:30 p.m. Billiards 29 9:00 a.m. Sculpting & Arts/ Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Yiddish Club 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:30 p.m. Billiards 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 7:00 p.m. Yoga 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 10:00 a.m. Chorus 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Art/ Sewing Class 2:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 6:00 p.m. Zumba 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:00 p.m. Duplicate Bridge 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing Happy Halloween 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Computer Club 9:00 a.m. Yoga General Mtg. 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 11:00 a.m. Aquasize 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 7:30 p.m. After Hours Club