October/November 2014 - Kay Park Parish Church
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October/November 2014 - Kay Park Parish Church
Reflections The Magazine of Kay Park Parish Church Issue No 12 October—November 2014 From the Manse If we were responsible citizens, we voted in the Referendum of 18th September. If we voted “No”, we are happy with the outcome; if we voted “Yes”, we are not. So what now? We need to remember that we belong together in the same Scotland. We cannot be separated - and even though we were on opposite sides, we belong together. We are not defined by which side we were on. We now must work – and pray - on the same side: work for the future of Scotland and work with our near neighbours in England, Wales and Northern Ireland to settle our relationships. Blythswood Care have asked us to participate in their annual Shoebox Appeal and we have agreed. If you wish to take part, please pick up a leaflet from the table underneath the pulpit or from the Communion Table in the Side Area, and bring your Shoebox on Sunday, October 26th when they will be dedicated. If you can’t manage that day, the following week, Sunday 2nd November, will do fine, when you will be invited to leave your shoebox in the side area. The Kirk Session has unanimously agreed the Refurbishment Plans submitted by our architect, Rebecca Cadie, in response to our Feasibility Study. Indeed, we are delighted with them. You will find copies of these Pray for what? For this very unity behind the national plans included with this edition of “Reflections” on pages decision. That so many people joined the debate, registered to vote and voted, is wonderful: let’s pray that 6 & 7, and full-sized copies on display boards in the Side similar “political engagement” continues. Let’s pray for Area of the sanctuary. our politicians, Scottish and UK, as they lead us in the Rebecca will present and explain these plans to the times ahead. And as the National Church, let’s pray the whole Congregation after the 11am service on Sunday, prayer we have always prayed: that God’s will for October 19th, in church. The Kirk Session will also Scotland will bring His Kingdom here as it is in heaven. indicate how it intends to manage and fund the project and be pleased to hear all comments and questions. I wish “Lunch Break” every blessing as they start in October! Sheila Davies has taken this great idea, added Exciting times, in more way than one! enthusiasm and determination, and then encouraged a great team to join in to make it happen. Pray for all who Cheers and blessings, serve and all who come to eat, that they may know the Fellowship of the Holy Spirit. I had great news from the office of the General Trustees on September 17th. The company who bought the former Old High building, Kilmarnock and District Independent Funeral Service, had written a letter saying they “agreed to a reasonable level of public access.” This caused the Heritage Lottery Fund, to whom we had been asked to repay £25,230 of a grant made on the building to write: “We are therefore happy to reduce the amount payable to £12,615.” Halved! Thanks, KADIFS! And thanks, General Trustees, for all your help. SEE THE PROPOSED PLANS FOR THE REFURBISHMENT OF THE CHURCH ON PAGES 6 &7 The vision of the Church of Scotland is to be a church which seeks to inspire the people of Scotland and beyond with the Good News of Jesus Christ through enthusiastic, worshipping, witnessing, nurturing and serving communities. 1 KAY PARK CHURCH FAMILY FOCUS IRENE AND CHARLES CUTHBERTSON - CHURCH MEMBERS T he only way to describe Irene and Charles Cuthbertson is to say that they are an absolutely fascinating couple with a most interesting story to tell, having spent most of their life in the Middle East. Charles was brought up in Kilmarnock, and, after leaving Kilmarnock Academy, worked for a spell in the post office and then the former Glacier Metal. He also trained in accountancy, and then spent his working life in the oil industry. His first posting was in Iraq, where he spent two years followed by spells in Qatar and Syria. While on leave from Iraq, he was on holiday in Bournemouth where he met Irene from London, who was working at that time for Barclays Bank. It was certainly love at first sight, because, three weeks later, the pair became engaged, and married the following year in St. Andrews Presbyterian Church in Edgware. After the wedding Charles and Irene set off for Syria, where they were allocated a house among the other ex-pats. Although there were many restrictions, they enjoyed a very comfortable lifestyle, and were able to travel to places such as Damascus and Beirut, and also to Jerusalem, which they found a very moving experience. While in Syria they attended Christian services, provided by the company. After Syria the Cuthbertsons moved to Kuwait, followed by spells in Karachi and Chittagong, which is now Bangladesh. Their next posting was to Ecuador in South America. During all this time their four children were born. Their two eldest sons, Alastair and Malcolm, were born in Tripoli in Lebanon, while the younger children, Angus and Elizabeth, were born back home. Due to the limitations in the education system abroad, the children spent most of their school years in this country. On his return from Ecuador in 1977 Charles worked for three years for Clyde Petroleum in Glasgow. There then followed a three year posting with the West Indies Oil Company in Antigua, [not a bad place to spend some time], where Charles and Irene were joined by the children during school holidays. On his return to Kilmarnock in 1984, he set up his own business as a management consultant for new companies, during which time he spent six months in Lagos in Nigeria. Then in 1990, the couple’s final stint abroad was in Saudi Arabia, where they spent the next five years. Irene talked about the restrictions imposed, especially on women, such as the strict dress code and women being denied the right to drive, although I think she sneakily had a shot under the cover of darkness. The five times daily call to prayer also brought about its own limitations on everyday life. In 1995 Charles and Irene finally returned home to their lovely home in Waterside which they bought in 1967. Charles began his religious education at the former West High Church where he attended Sunday School and Boys’ Brigade, and where, also, their four children were baptised. In 2011 Irene was baptised and also confirmed as a member of the Church of Scotland by David Lacy at the Easter service. The Cuthbertsons decided to come to Henderson after attending a Remembrance Service conducted by David at the War Memorial. Their four children live in Essex, Northumberland, Cheshire and Sydney in Australia, and they are the proud grandparents of nine grandchildren. Charles volunteers once a week at Citizens’ Advice in Kilmarnock and is also treasurer for the Air Cadets. Irene’s interests revolve around gardening and embroidery. They both feel very much at home in Kay Park and have greatly enjoyed several of our pilgrimages. To say that my afternoon spent in their company was interesting is rather an understatement. The Cuthbertsons’ life together has been an amazing one, and, to someone like myself, who just managed to live for four years as far away as Irvine, their story is captivating. I have only skimmed the surface here but, I am sure, there is a book waiting to be written. We look forward to it! 2 The £50 Challenge …………. RONNIE HAMILTON Finance Convenor This has been a fantastic year of working together, for each other, supporting one another and at the same time making money for the church. me as she handed me a generous cheque, “That was good fun. We should do it again. Maybe not next year but certainly another time” Last year we decided to offer each member £50 and challenged them to make it grow. We gave out £3600 to our members. A few people said they didn’t want to take the £50 but they would save something every week and put that in as their contribution, and we are very grateful to them. A few weeks ago Marilyn Malcolm thought that it might be a good idea to have a Fashion Show to give people an opportunity to give some of their time and talents to raising money for the Challenge—and what a response she got. People sold tickets, baked, set up tables, modelled, washed dishes, served teas and cleared up at the end and over 120 people bought tickets and came along. The result—over £1000 was raised on that one night. What a fantastic effort! I am grateful to Marilyn for suggesting and organising the event. If you remember, at the time the interest we were getting for each £50 was 0.25%, so that in a year each £50 would have gained 12.5pence. Getting anything more than that back was a gain! We are holding a Craft Fair on 4th October to round off the Challenge and give people who have something to sell a last chance to offer their wares. After that I should I have been truly amazed by the sheer ingenuity of the be able to announce in church the total of the response members: from tattie scones to nesting boxes, form Bill and of course I will let you know in the next edition of and Ben garden ornaments to pinboards, from the magazine. Afternoon Teas to Mamma Mia with cocktails, from All I can say at the moment is that, in financial terms, painting to singing to photography, from vegetable this has been the best investment ever. People who growing to jam-making, from a Fashion Show to don’t know this church kept telling me that I would babysitting, each and every person has made such a never get the money back, but they didn’t know the contribution, not just to the coffers of the church, but people of Kay Park Church. Just think what we could to the life of the church. As usual, the people who were have done if we had given away £ 10,000 ! involved got most out of the exercise. One lady said to Well, those who took on the Challenge surpassed themselves, with returns from £10 to £480. This whole page was sponsored by GILMOUR HAMILTON & Co. Chartered Accountants & Independent Financial Advisors 37 Portland Road Kilmarnock, KA1 2DJ Tel. 01563 537777 Fax: 01563 524424 Web: 3 ‘GO SERVE’ – 2014 On Saturday, 6th September, 2014 Rene Larmour and I, along with 26 other Guild members from Guilds within the Irvine and Kilmarnock Presbyterial Council left Kilmarnock at 7.30am to go to Dundee. The reason for this was the Annual Guild Rally in the Caird Hall. As usual, this was a very inspiring meeting and after the Welcome from Kay Keith, national Convener, we proceeded to the Opening Worship by singing Great God of every shining constellation (CH4: 246). The Moderator, Rt. Rev. John Chalmers was invited to speak and gave us some of his personal reflections and his words were inspirational. His youngest son, John-James was injured in Afghanistan and after the meeting was travelling to London to be with him for the INVICTUS GAMES. The guest speaker this year was the Rev. Dr. Margaret Fowler who is Scottish but has lived in Jamaica since 1988 serving in several charges and currently in Hope United Church. She is certainly no ordinary minister and is not afraid to speak out when others remain silent. Margaret is an expert in Human Trafficking and is a member of the Human Trafficking Task Force with the Ministry of Justice, Jamaica. For her doctorate her focus was on Social justice and is widely recognised with awards in Jamaica for her work with women. Her address was very challenging – “How can we help?” “Who needs help?” within a one mile radius of our church? The DVD has been ordered and we hope to have it for Guild Week in November. Perhaps we could use it as part of a church service. There are now 400 men members of the Guild (Nationwide) so numbers are growing and we are looking forward to starting our new session on Tuesday, 23rd September, 2014 at 7.30pm I sincerely hope some of you will be inspired/intrigued to join us on 23rd September. Ellen MacLeod From the mouths of babes …. On a walk through a beautiful but remote part of the Peak District, my family stumbled across a young couple naked in the heather with their own very obvious reasons for avoiding the beaten track. My four-year-old granddaughter Emma was perched on her father’s shoulders and couldn’t have missed what was going on. As we walked away from the you red-faced couple, we waited for the inevitable questions. “Wow!” exclaimed Emma happily. “Did you see that? It must have been Adam and Eve.” One of the very best nights on our Social Calendar last year was undoubtedly the Memories Night in October. Over 100 silver surfers, golden oldies or baby boomers danced the night away to music of the 50s, 60s and 70s and were entertained (and didn't stop dancing!) by Grant Donald, that master of the keyboard who can sing everybody fron Elvis to Neil Diamond, Cliff Richard to Elton John and a hundred others in between. We did have a break for pizza and sandwiches but it was a night for music and dancing. The tickets will be available from the beginning of October but as everyone who was there last year will want one, you’d better get yours very quickly. This will be Grant’s last appearance for a long time—he doesn’t want us to grow tired of him…...as if!! 4 CHURCH PROPERTY—TODAY AND IN THE FUTURE The Property Committee continues to monitor the condition of the Church and Manse to ensure that they are kept wind and watertight as we approach another Autumn and Winter. One of the most important maintenance issues over the next month or so will be work that is required to the Church Tower. Essential pointing and crack repairs will be required and we are about to seek the Kirk Session’s approval to carry out this work. With the new Lunch Club about to start, we have been working with the Social Committee and East Ayrshire Council’s Environmental Health Department to ensure that the Church facilities meet with all Regulations. An improved Disabled access ramp from the rear car park to the sloping ramp leading to the rear Church door has been formed to ease the passage of wheelchair users and can be accessed from the rear of the car park. As far as the proposed changes to the Church are concerned, the Architect Rebecca Cadie of ARPL Architects, has now presented her outline proposals to the Kirk Session. She is a highly experienced architect in church restoration/ refurbishment and, as a keen churchgoer herself, has enormous sensitivity in dealing with these matters. These proposals are based on the Design Brief prepared by the Congregation some months ago and the design solutions in response to our requirements have proved to be innovative and imaginative. For people who find it difficult to envisage the outline plans on paper she will also present a vivid 3D picture of how our church might look. The plans will also be on display in the Church before then for everyone to see as well as being included with this magazine, but all members should make a determined effort to come to church on that day and stay behind for the meeting, so that they can ask their questions of Mrs Cadie and of the Kirk Session. On the next two pages we have printed the plans for the sanctuary and the hall. Please take time to have a good look at them before you come along to the meeting. If you wish to see larger copies, they will be available in the church from now until the meeting. PLEASE COME ALONG ON 19TH. OCTOBER—THIS IS YOUR CHURCH Jeff Davies—Co-Convener Property. PRAYER-TIME will be held on 25 October 2014 in Caldwell and Dunlop Parish Church from 10—10.45 a.m. with tea/coffee served from 9.30 a.m. All members are welcome to this informal hour of prayer and meditation. EVERYONE IS MOST WELCOME PRAYER CHAIN—Don’t forget to use it, it’s there for your prayer needs Any prayer request for KPPC Prayer Chain can be sent via the following:text/phone 07753 275400 or email [email protected] Prayer request slips in the pew bibles can be handed to Jenny Hall or put in the boxes at the front door and rear stairs of the church. 5 6 7 KAY PARK STROLLERS IN ARRAN What a great day we had for our Strollers outing to the Isle of Arran: the sun was shining, the sea was calm and the Strollers were in great spirits. On arrival at Ardrossan, however, 45 minutes early for the boat we were shocked to see that the car park was almost full and the overflow spaces were taken up. Would there be room for 18 walkers on the boat. Well, we not only made it on to the boat, we were first in the queue for the bacon rolls and coffee! Auchrannie Hotel spa to dine in style, a few went shopping to Arran Aromatics and Ian Grant went up Glen Rosa accompanied by two former geography teachers who were pleased to reprise their lessons on the geography and geology of the island. Wednesday 5 November Strollers’ Night Out Thursday 13 November (lunch at the Church’s Lunch Break afterwards) The Strollers crossing the ravine! Cladach where we stopped for .. Refreshments or a bite to eat. Some of the members continued on up to Brodick Castle, others went to the A timetable has been drawn up so that you can put the dates in your diary. Details of the walks will be found in the Sunday Order of Service or in the Kilmarnock Standard nearer the dates., but most start off around 9.30 in the church car park. Monday 13 October We were met at Brodick by two of our regular Strollers, Silvija and Colin Wilde, who have a caravan at Whiting Bay and spend half their time there, and by Mary and John Dick, former members who live there. Silvija and Colin had a lovely route planned along the front at Brodick and across the golf course (again!) then along the shore to to Ardrossan, a little tired but very happy after a memorable day in the very best of company. Ian and his mentors, Bill and Mike We all met back in Brodick in time for a hotly contested putting match, a few ice cream cones and further… refreshment. Saturday 13 December You will notice that we are trying to accommodate everyone with this selection of dates. If you can only manage one or two you will still be very welcome. It’s rarely the same 20 or so people who come along. Those who had never been to Arran and those who hadn’t visited in For a little light exercise and an hour decades were captivated by its or so in good company it’s a great beauty. It really looked magnificent way to spend a morning. in the September sunshine, a perfect Scotland in miniature, with its mountain and beaches, and we are all eager to return. There was talk of a putting, bowling and golf tournament and maybe an overnight stay next time! But then there was an awful lot of talk. Back on the ferry, which was a lot quieter, we enjoyed the sail back In the gardens of Brodick Castle Friendship Club We are into Autumn now, and the new session of the Friendship Club will open on Thursday 9 th October at 2pm, when we will be welcoming one of our old favourites, Pete Christie from Troon, who will entertain us with his songs along with guitar accompaniment. On subsequent weeks the ever-popular Netta Howie will be returning with slides and stories from yet another exotic holiday, the Rev. Jamie Milliken, formerly of the Howard Centre and now with Troon Portland, will tell of his new life as a parish minister, while at the end of November Lynette Russell will entertain with her Christmas Novelties. A warm invitation is extended to members old and new to join us. You will enjoy a lovely afternoon with entertainment, laughter and chat, not forgetting an excellent afternoon tea. If you haven’t been before, come along just once and you’re sure to want to come back 8 Started very successfully on Thursday, 2nd October and will be open on every second Thursday after that i.e. on the 16th. and 30th. October and on the 13th and 27th November and on the 11th. December. Lunch Break OFFICE BEARERS MINISTER: The Very Rev. Dr. David W. Lacy 52 London Road, Tel: 01563 523113 Doors will open at 12. noon and close at 2.00 p.m. [email protected] Come along and get homemade soup with crusty bread, a hot or cold pudding and tea or coffee, all for the magnificent sum of £2.50. SESSION CLERK: This is a huge effort by Sheila Davies and her committee, not to mention all the people who will be working and supplying the homemade dishes. Janet Grant Come and bring your friends along. You know you’ll get a warm Kay Park welcome. Tel: 01294 213236 3 Kirkhill Cottages, Old Perceton, Irvine [email protected] ORGANIST/CHOIRMASTER: IRENE KAY Alex Ferguson Sharon and the family would like to thank all those who supported them at Irene's funeral on Thursday 21 August. Thanks too for the beautiful flowers, cards and lovely words which we have received. We are so touched and comforted by such kindness. Tel:534506 [email protected] REPORTER: Shiona Thomson Tel: 01563 533574 [email protected] MINISTER’S SECRETARY: KAY PARK PARISH CHURCH Sharon Shields wishes to employ a Tel: 01563 524009 HALL LETTING MANAGER [email protected] to manage the letting of the hall/church to ensure all letting group requirements are met whilst at the same time meeting the requirements of the Church. MAGAZINE EDITOR: Hourly rate: £7.65 Eleanor Hamilton Hours per week (flexible and variable) Tel: 01563 526817 Main duties: The co-ordination of the letting of the halls/church To issue approved Hall Let contracts and ensure that contracts comply with the Church of Scotland requirements To ensure that all letting groups have required certificates i.e. insurance To collect rental amounts by the preferred payment method (i.e. direct debit) To report feedback from lets of any requests/complaints To set up additional equipment e.g. audio visual equipment To maintain the lets diary and upload to website To open/close the building before/after functions To lay out and tidy away tables/chairs To watch over the car park during weddings/funerals To liaise with the Halls Letting Committee/Property Committee [email protected] HALL LETS CONVENER: Janet Grant 3 Kirkhill Cottages, Old Perceton, Irvine Tel: 01294 213236 [email protected] KILMARNOCK: KAY PARK PARISH CHURCH OF SCOTLAND Registered Charity# SC 008154 Closing date: 19th October 2014 9 Alpha (Courses) You are no doubt aware that new plans are being prepared for alteration to the church building. These changes should see much needed practical changes to the church building but at the heart of these changes is an opportunity to carry out the real work of the church - Mission / Discipleship. Earlier in the year I wrote an article regarding Alpha Courses. I asked for a feedback on how you may feel about KPC running such courses. As plans are being prepared for changes to our building perhaps we should also be . I got two replies regarding discipleship plans. One such plan would be running Alpha courses now. We have approx. 500+ members but not on Sundays! Why not start with courses for the those we seldom see and by the time our building is ready we would have gained experience in running such courses and maybe win back some of our members. To remind you of the article: From the February magazine: What does the above heading conjure up in your mind? Evangelical type worship/teachings? We don’t do that in the C of S! What would you think if KPC wanted to run Alpha courses? Do you agree? Would you be interested if you were invited to one. Would you be willing to get involved? If I ask you these questions I should also admit to what my own feelings were! Very sceptical, it’s was scary stuff. Fortunately there is always an opposite to any cynical view point. The following is an extract, featuring key words or phrases, from the introduction to a day training course on Alpha which I attended in January organised by the Alpha DNA, Key Principles & Values. Alpha is based on six key New Testament principles. (Corinthians 2: 1-5) 1.Evangelism is most effective through the local church. (1.Thessalonians 1:6-8) Releases the whole congregation in evangelism and mobilises a whole army of lay ministers. Persuading (2 Corinthians 5:11), no pressure (Matthew19:22) 2. Evangelism is a process. Building trust, seeking answers, not being told, gradual journey, making new friends. 3. Evangelism involves the whole person. Appeal to the head - Historical faith. Appeal to the heart, God’s love can be felt. (Romans 5:5) Appeal to the conscience - Praying to the Holy Spirit to bring conviction of sin. (2 Corinthians 4:2) Summary Alpha works through the local church; allows time to journey and build relationships; creates relaxed environment to hear and experience the truth of Jesus, whilst welcoming the Holy Spirit to draw Alpha guests to faith. The remainder of the day went on to explain the ’Nuts and Bolts’ of hosting and running an Alpha course, the tools required, elements of the course and the team that would be required. The experience of the day was not what I was expecting. My negative feelings changed to very positive feelings by the afternoon. It is fairly easy to run these courses but very effective. One point to make clear, a one off Alpha course will not attract new members to KPPC immediately. For Alpha to work it may need a commitment by KPPC to run one course each year for 5 years. It’s about helping others, over several Alpha courses, being there year after year until they perhaps finally take the ‘plunge’. I asked a few questions at the beginning of this article. I would really like to hear your views on KPPC running Alpha courses or if you just wish some more information, Please contact me either personally, by phone (01563 524618) or by email ([email protected]). Jim Raeburn 10 This whole page was sponsored by CHURCH NOTICES FUNERALS McNeil & Sons Ltd. Est. 1895 Complete House Furnishers In my Father's house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you. 18 John Dickie Street 21.08.14 Mrs. Irene Kay, 15, Cairns Terrace (D.23) Kilmarnock, KA1 2AP 02.09.14 Mr. Douglas Mitchell, 38, Forest Grove, (N/M) Tel: 01563 523239 09.09.14 Mr. John Walker, 16, MacDougall Place (D.16) BAPTISMS WEDDING 24th August Blair William John Dyet 20th September Laura Anderson to Stephen Logie 31st August Alexander James Allan WELCOME by Transfer Certificate SCRIPTURE READINGS IN CHURCH Mrs. Elizabeth Reid, 16 Wilson Avenue OCTOBER 5 Dist 49—Helen Muirhead Jack Leishman 12 Elizabeth Templeton 19 Alex Steven 26 Shiona Thomson Ms Claire McCurdy, 4 Hollybush Place, Southcraigs Dist 2—Jennifer Hall CHANGE OF ADDRESS NOVEMBER 2 Ewen Macdonald Mr & Mrs Andrew Allan, 75 Dundonald Road Dist 28 9 Caroline Hyslop To 13 Mount House Dist. 32— John Nisbet 16 Bill Caldwell 23 Jess Barry 30 Jeff Davies Mrs Jean Lawrie, 22 Garven Court to Argyll Nursing Home, North Hamilton Street Church Flowers Sincere thanks to the following people who have donated to the Flower Fund in August and September 2014: Mrs Paterson, Mrs McGougan, Mrs McKenzie, Mrs Shedden, Mrs Learmonth, Mrs Short, Mrs Knapp, Mrs McCrone, Mrs McFarlane, Mrs Morton, Mrs Pratt, Mrs Grant and Mrs Sansum . Donations can be placed, in an envelope marked Flower Fund, on the Offering Plate, or given to Moira Neil or Aileen Sansum. Cheques should be made payable to Kay Park Church Flower Fund. 11 Unless stated otherwise, Sunday Services are at the following times: 9.45 a.m.- Informal Worship in the Side Chapel area. 11.00 a.m.– Morning Worship Kay Park Parish Church London Road, Kilmarnock KA3 7AA October 4 10.00 am Craft Fair to round off the £50 Challenge 8 7.30 pm Kirk Session meets in the hall 19 11.00 a.m. ONE SERVICE ONLY FOLLOWED BY THE PRESENTATION OF THE REFURBISHMENT PLANS 26 11.00 a.m. 29 7.00 pm 31 7.30 p.m. Shoeboxes to church Planning Group meets in the Counting Room MEMORIES NIGHT Beadle: John Nisbet Elder in Charge: Jess Barry Andy Raeside Allan Hamilton Iain Macmillan Edith Macmillan Margo Raeside Effie Steven Olive Gow November 2 10.15 a.m. Elders’ Service in the Hall 11.00 a.m. Sacrament of Holy Communion (Carded) too) 9 10.45 a.m. Remembrance Sunday—one service only 12 7.30 p.m. Kirk Session meets in the Hall 26 7.00 p.m. Planning Group meets in Count Room Beadle: Roger Bingham Janette Steven Jim Raeburn (Shoeboxes welcome this Sunday Elder in Charge: Maureen Miller Joe Cochrane Jean Deans Gordon Slater George Thomson Carol Raeburn Christmas Lunch TICKETS FOR THE CHRISTMAS LUNCH WILL BE AVAILABLE FROM SUNDAY 9TH NOVEMBER These tickets sell out very quickly so buy yours early to make sure of getting one! 12 VISIT YOUR CHURCH ONLINE AT: www.kayparkparishchurch.co.uk