A BIT ABOUT US

Robert P. Herbst
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Perry, FL. 32347-3231
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February 9, 2001
Non Fiction
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750 Words
FROM THE BOOK,
My E-MAIL Order Bride
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A LITTLE BIT ABOUT US
By
Robert P. Herbst
This is what I looked like at 63 in 1998. I had this picture taken to send
to Lyudmila. I’m not exactly pretty but there must have been something in the
picture she liked.
First and foremost, I got tangled up with an agency which took money
to do a service. I sent the money in advance along with all my original
documentation. They in turn were to file the paperwork for my K-1 Visa while I
was still in Feodosia.
The agency in question failed to pay their Kiev associate and the
associate in turn, could not forward the documents to finish the K-1 process for
me on time.
This agency has long since gone out of business. The man who handled
my situation is a real stinker. If you should ever meet this guy, avoid any
prolonged contact he will only do wrong by. If you want his name please
contact me and I’ll be happy to supply it.
When the agency finally did get all the
documentation needed, they suddenly refused
to answer phone calls, E-MAIL or regular mail
from either me, my son or their business
partners. The use of this agency cost me six
months of time and many hundreds of dollars. I
intend to make absolutely sure no friend or
acquaintance of mine ever gets burned by this
outfit again.
With the above in mind, I suppose I
should let you all in on how I did it. As you
can see, it wasn’t easy.
Somehow this lady just caught my eye.
I never got any further in my search. There
were other pictures but these are the ones
which sealed my fate.
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The picture of Lyudmila standing was taken after I arrived in Feodosia. She was just 50 at the time. The
picture was taken at the park with the “Dancing Water Fountain” near the shore of the Black Sea. There’s a
picture of the fountain itself later in the story.
No matter which picture she had used, I would
have been hooked. To me this is one classy lady. I
consider myself extremely fortunate to have found her.
I’m even more fortunate, she decided to be my wife.
We were married on January 11, 1999.
We wrote back and forth by E-MAIL, regular
mail if I wanted to enclose pictures, for about six
months. After this I went to stay with her for another
six months in her home in Feodosia, Crimea, Ukraine.
The reason I used regular mail to send pictures
is because of the expense of sending them by E-MAIL.
E-MAIL pictures are horribly expensive for the lady.
Although these E-MAIL relationships do work out,
there are absolutely no guarantees here. One must be
prepared to tread carefully.
What I have set down here on paper, is the
experience of living with Lyudmila in Feodosia,
Crimea, Ukraine, for six months in her home. I
also give a short dissertation on how and why things
worked out the way they did and a brief outline of a
procedure you may choose to follow.
However, I caution you to remember, no two
people are the same. Any advice you get from myself
or others must carefully tailored to your circumstances.
During my stay I tried my best to fit into their
lives and not the other way around. I did this so I’d
know what Lyudmila and her son would need after
arriving here in the States. It involved going to the
market with her as much as it involved seeing the town
of Feodosia.
As much as a Florida, American in Feodosia, Crimea, Ukraine could, I went native. After all, I was not
there as a tourist. I was there specifically to learn as much as I could about my future wife.
The last few chapters are suggestions to follow if you decide to make the quest for a Russian/Ukrainian
bride. These suggestions are based on my experience and should not be taken as absolutes. Your situation may
be quite different from mine and as always, one must bend the rules to fit their situation. From my own
experience the end is well worth the effort.
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