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Scroll Congregation Beth El November 2016 • Cheshvan-Kislev 5776 Immigrating From the Clergy Theme Coming to America• 1, 4-7 From the Clergy • 1 Be Brave and Shave • 2 Departments Men’s Club • 2 Library Corner • 3 Sisterhood • 9 Contributions • 10 Bulletin Board • 12 The Scroll is a recipient of three Solomon Schechter Gold Awards from the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. Vol. 65 No. 3 TO THE UNITED STATES By Rabbi Fabian Werbin Jewish immigration to America has been were not going to continue our lives in going on for more than 360 years. Jews the country where we were born. That arrived in the United States in three big was a decision we made during the first waves. In 1654, Sephardic immigration or second week we started dating. There began with a small group of Jews from was something in our souls that told us Brazil sailing to New Amsterdam (now we needed to look for a life with difNew York City) on the St. Cathrien. Ash- ferent opportunities for ourselves but kenazim outnummainly for our bered the Sepnot-yet-born hardim by 1730, kids. but the character We left Arof the American gentina in 2001, Jewish communiand after a year ty remained Sepand a half in hardic through Israel, we began the American working in BarRevolution. The ranquilla, Cosecond wave, be- Werbin/Gradel family at their farewell par- lombia. After five ty in Colombia. From left, Catalina, Patricia, ginning around years, we realized Ari, Rabbi Werbin (he and Ari wearing traditional Colombian Guayabera shirts). 1840, consisted the time to look of Jews from Germany. The third wave for a better future for us (now as a famwas composed primarily of Eastern Euily) had arrived. ropean Jews, who began to immigrate to Broken Computers, Rings, A-C the United States in large numbers after Coming to America was not easy, and 1880. Those who arrived from Russia the first days were very complicated. The and other Eastern European countries first morning the children woke up very became the majority of Jews in the U.S. early. Our errands (Social Security, etc.) Large-scale Jewish immigration to the started at 1:00 pm, so I turned on my United States ended in 1924. computer to see if I could find some free Difficult Process Wi-Fi from a neighbor, but the comSince then, people like my family still puter broke. The second day my wedimmigrate to this country, but restricding ring broke. The third day the air tions have made the process more difconditioning in our rental house broke. ficult and limited. The fourth day a generous member lent For many reasons – safety, a strong us a van so we could do some errands. I Jewish identity, and the desire for a betdrove to the synagogue (just a couple of ter future – my wife and I knew we continued on page 7 Scroll 8215 Old Georgetown Road Bethesda, Maryland 20814-1451 Phone 301-652-2606 Fax 301-907-8559 Webwww.bethelmc.org Affiliated with United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism Rabbi Gregory Harris [email protected] Associate Rabbi Fabian Werbin [email protected] Hazzan Matthew Klein [email protected] Clergy Emeriti Rabbi Samuel Scolnic z”l Rabbi William Rudolph [email protected] Hazzan Abraham Lubin [email protected] Executive Director Sheila H. 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Hoffman [email protected] Secretary Sue Emmer [email protected] Scroll Committee [email protected] Janet Meyers, Chair, Sharon Apfel, Judy Futterman, Mara Greengrass, Susan Jerison, Davida Kales, Marci Kanstoroom, Helen Popper, Marsha Rehns, Walter Schimmerling, Larry Sidman, and Katie Smeltz. Graphic designer: Tiarra Joslyn 4U editor: Jennifer Katz Scroll, USPS Number 009813, is published monthly by Congregation Beth El of Montgomery County, 8215 Old Georgetown Rd., Bethesda, MD 20814. Periodical postage rate paid at Bethesda, Maryland and additional mailing offices. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to Scroll, 8215 Old Georgetown Road, Bethesda, MD 20814. 2 Be Brave and Shave More than $100,000 was raised by 31 men and women who had their hair shaved at Beth El’s Be Brave and Shave event on October 18 to raise funds for the Bone Marrow Transplant Unit at Children’s National Medical Center. Photo by Carly Glazier and Mitchell Solkowitz Men’s Club UPCOMING MEN’S CLUB EVENTS Sunday, November 1, 10:00 am Franklin H. Portugal will discuss his book The Least Likely Man, a portrait of Marshall Nirenberg, who shared the Nobel Prize for cracking the genetic code. Professor Portugal served on the scientific staff of the National Institutes of Health with Marshall Nirenberg. He is currently a clinical associate professor of biology at The Catholic University of America in Washington. Thursday, November 5, 8:30 pm Hearing Men’s Voices. Martin Sieff will speak on “Key Friendships That Changed (and Enriched) Our Lives.” Sunday, November 8, 10:00 am Hazzan Matt Klein and Hazzan Emeritus Abe Lubin will discuss “The Sights and Sounds of Jewish Spain.” They will share information on the upcoming Beth El congregational trip to Jewish Spain, July 3-14, 2016, organized by the Cantors Assembly. Sunday, November 15, 10:00 am Rabbi David Rose, Jewish Social Service Agency hospice chaplain, will lead a discussion about hospice and end-of-life issues. Co-sponsored with the Female Physicians Affinity Group. Sunday, November 22, 10:00 am Herb Tannenbaum will present his second audio concert, “Jews in Jazz.” Sunday, November 29, 10:00 am Open discussion Library Corner Welcoming Refugees: How the Statue of Liberty Became the “Mother of Exiles” By Robin Jacobson For millions of immigrants, their first glimpse of America was the Statue of Liberty in New York harbor. The statue – with its famous engraved poem about embracing the “huddled masses, yearning to breathe free” – greeted ships carrying the poor and persecuted. Today, amid the Syrian refugee crisis, the Statue of Liberty has become newly relevant; a humane symbol of tolerance and welcome, it stands in counterpoint to harrowing reports of razor-wire fences, tear gas, and water cannons at closed borders. Surprisingly, though, the Statue of Liberty originally had no connection with immigrants or refugees. The statue’s meaning and mission were transformed by an American Jewish poet, Emma Lazarus (1849-1887). Read about her in biographies by Esther Schor, Bette Roth Young, and Eve Merriam (all in our library). Here are highlights from a remarkable story. A Monumental Gift In 1875, French sculptor Frederic Auguste Bartholdi began work on a massive statue entitled Liberty Enlightening the World. The statue was to be a gift from the people of France to the people of the United States. It would celebrate both the American centennial and the Franco-American commitment to liberty. The statue, a robed goddess, was to evoke the legendary Colossus of Rhodes, one of the Seven Wonders of the ancient world. That gargantuan statue had also guarded a harbor entrance. Although the Liberty statue was a gift, the United States had to fund and build a pedestal for it. Fundraisers planned a gala art exhibition accompanied by the auction of a portfolio of artwork and writings by notable Americans. Emma Lazarus In 1883, the pedestal fundraisers asked Emma Lazarus, an eminent poet and essayist, for a poem to be included in the arts auction. Lazarus initially demurred but later wrote 14 immortal lines. Her poem reimagined the statue’s identity as the “Mother of Exiles” and America’s mission as providing a haven for the homeless: The New Colossus Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame, With conquering limbs astride from land to land; Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame. “Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses, yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!” Why did Emma Lazarus identify with the plight of immigrants? She was not an immigrant herself or even the child of immigrants. Rather, she was a wealthy fourth-generation American, a secular Jew at home with the cultured Manhattan elite. But Lazarus did have deep, personal experience with refugees. Beginning in 1881, thousands of Russian Jews emigrated, fleeing violent pogroms. Many were housed in miserable conditions on Ward’s Island in New York City. Lazarus made these refugees her cause: she visited, taught classes, and advocated for better housing, food, and sanitation. She even promoted a Jewish national home in Palestine years before Herzl became a Zionist. At the statue’s dedication in 1886, no one mentioned refugees or The New Colossus, but by 1903, Lazarus’s friends succeeded in having the poem engraved on a plaque within the statue’s pedestal. The poem and the statue have been united ever since, beloved by immigrants and their descendants for the promise of a new life in America. n Beth El Book Chat Sunday, November 15, 11:30 am Join us to discuss All the Light We Cannot See, a World War II historical novel by Anthony Doerr, winner of the 2015 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction. Book chats are jointly sponsored by Sisterhood, Men’s Club, and the Library Committee. All are welcome. For more information, please contact Margery London or Robin Jacobson. 3 Peter and Carolyn Vollmer: Wearing Furs to Scrubbing Floors By Sue Bruser My parents, engaged but not yet married, arrived separately they found work through a Jewish refugee agency. Employed in New York City from Nazi Germany in 1938, thanks to as a cook/maid and butler/chauffeur, they experienced sponsorship by family friends. Dad, age 27, arrived in late diverse upper-income Jewish families – from those who spring, bringing with him a new baby carriage for his sister demanded 15-hour days and provided bedbug-ridden ac(also recently arrived), then expecting my cousin. My moth- commodations to those who treated them with respect and er, 19, left Germany three months later wearing a white kindness. dress and matching jacket and entered the United States My father, not yet an American citizen, was drafted into carrying a silver fox jacket; my maternal grandmother didn’t the Navy at age 30 and served in the Pacific; he said his want her only child to arrive in America wearing a schmatte. experiences in the Navy (wonderful stories!) shaped his In many ways, my parents were concept of “being American.” He stereotypical refugees from Germany, noted that the American boys easalthough in other ways they were not. ily shared the treats sent from home; My mother, Hannelore Caroline Hess the German-born boys were more (known in the United States as Carolikely to squirrel away the goodies lyn), came from an upper middle-class they received. For Mother, an initial merchant family. Father’s family were impression of America was a sign in cattle dealers, not an unusual occupaBaltimore reading, “No Jews or dogs tion for Jews in southwestern Gerallowed.” What had she gotten herself many. My father, Helmut Vollmer into? Peter and Carolyn Vollmer (known as Peter), much desired and had the aptitude to be At the close of the war, Dad was posted to California, an engineer, but his mother was adamant that a job that and Mom joined him. While in New York City, they had might require wearing Levis was no job for her son. (Had lived in an apartment in Washington Heights – known as the she only known…) “Fourth Reich” among the many German Jewish refugees Finding Work who settled there – and their friends were German Jews. They were married in September 1938 by a Reform rabbi Living in the San Francisco East Bay area introduced them – a sore point for Mom, whose grandfather was a Conserva- to lifelong, American-born friends (most were members of tive rabbi. With no money, no family able to help financially, their synagogue, Temple Beth Shalom) as well as the joys of no connections, no higher education, and passable English, homeownership and California living. God bless America! n Honest Work, Family, and Faith By Elizabeth Goldman My zadie was born in a village near Kiev into a family too poor to buy his way out of service in the Czar’s army. Conscripted into service in the 1890s, his goal became to survive. That involved feigned illness (he stole sick people’s urine to pass off as his own) and the safety of the hospital. The alternative was the front lines and certain death. Eventually, he escaped by crossing Siberia and managed to reach Canada, where he almost died. A kind woman saved his life by nursing this total stranger back to health. In America, where streets were paved with golden opportunity, he carried a pack and collected discarded goods that he sold. Through frugal living, he saved enough in three years to bring his wife, two daughters, ages four and two, his 4 father, and his sister to New York. Moving South Zadie’s father and his sister stayed in New York, while my grandparents, my mother, and my aunt relocated to Birmingham, Alabama, at the urging of a Jewish group that resettled newly arriving Jews to other parts of the United States where they believed there would be more opportunities. My bubbe had been taught by her father to read and write, and she was also a dressmaker and furrier. In Birmingham, she set up a dressmaking shop, but she never learned English because she had been deaf since childhood. Zadie continued on page 6 COMING TO America Escaping Mussolini and Hitler By Edoardo Kulp three months after arriving in the United States, leaving my My parents fled Europe during World War II. My father, Richard Kulp, came from a very wealthy family in Frankfurt, grandmother alone to raise four young boys. My father attended Yale University and became a successful investment Germany. In 1933, with the rise of the Nazis, my grandfabanker. His three brothers became a cantor, a professor, and a ther thought it best to leave Germany. They fled to France businessman. with limited possessions and lived in Paris and its suburbs. Leaving Venetian Roots In 1940, when the Germans invaded France, the Kulps My mother, Paola Oreffice Kulp, comes from one of the fled south to Chateaubriand. The French subsequently put my grandfather into various labor camps, but he was always, oldest lines of Jews in Venice. She, too, was from a wealthy family. Her uncle (my great-uncle, Giorgio Cavaglieri) was thankfully, released – by the Germans! (The enemy of my an architect in the Italian army, designing air strips for Musenemy is my friend.) While living in Chateaubriand, my solini (he was called “Mussolini’s architect”). But when the grandfather, for fear of being identified as Jewish, would racial laws went into effect in 1938, he felt it was time to leave the apartment only at night. At one point, a German leave Italy. He was able to get himself, his mother (my greatgeneral in charge of the German corps stationed in the area grandmother), and his sister (my moved into the apartment below great-aunt) out of Italy and to my father’s. One day, the general New York in 1939. He eventually made a visit to the family’s apartjoined the U.S. Army and greatly ment. My grandparents were terhelped the war effort. He helped rified that they would be caught, pave the way to get my grandfaespecially if the general heard the ther, Giulio Orrefice, out of Italy children speak German; they had in 1940. My grandfather was an been told never to speak Gerattorney for a large insurance man because that would identify company in Italy, but when he them as foreigners and, as such, came to America, the only job he Jewish. Luckily, they were never could get was as a factory workcaught. Five months after the famer. He subsequently sponsored my Kulp family in France in 1936: Edoardo’s grandily came to Chateaubriand, the mother, his father (second from left), and uncles grandmother, my mother, and my Germans arrived in full force. The aunt to come to the United States. They flew from Rome to family moved south to live in a friend’s factory in Limoges, Lisbon and waited for their visas. They took only what they part of Vichy France and not yet occupied. could carry and arrived by ship in New York City on August Sailing to America 30, 1941. They first settled in New Haven, Conn., where In 1941, with the help of a wealthy family member althey lived for a number of years before moving to New York ready in the United States, the Kulps obtained the affidavits City. needed to get U.S. visas. All nine family members traveled through Spain and Portugal, where they boarded a ship for the United States. They arrived in September 1941, two days before Rosh Hashanah. My father was 11 years old. The family settled in New York City’s Washington Heights neighborhood, then called “Frankfurt on the Hudson,” because many German Jews had settled there. (My father grew up playing stick ball with Henry Kissinger, also a Washington Heights resident.) The Kulps essentially had to start over. Tragically, my grandfather died suddenly only American Success Story What is amazing about my mother’s family is not so much what they left behind in Italy and their escape to the United States but what became of them when they settled here. My great-uncle became a well-known architect and preservationist in New York. His sister, my great-aunt, was accepted into Yale’s PhD program for organic chemistry - without a college degree (and only an Italian high-school degree) and was one of the first women to get a PhD at Yale and one continued on page 6 5 Coming to America Continued ESCAPING MUSSOLINI AND HITLER continued from page 5 of the youngest at age 21. She became a well-known chemist and invented fire-retardant fabrics. My grandmother continued her education and received a master’s degree, also from Yale, and eventually taught French at the New York School for Performing Arts. My mother became a stock broker and, of course, the best mother ever! Coincidentally, my father and mother arrived in the United States a little over a week apart. Additionally, as my father studied in his dorm at Yale Uni- versity in the early 1950s, my mother was “pulling taffy” with her Girl Scout troop downstairs in the same building, although they would not meet until the early 1960s and married in 1962. But what my parents have in common that helped them and their families escape the Nazis in Europe and then become successful in the “New World” was a deep, well-rooted family foundation and the belief that a good education was the key to survival. n HONEST WORK continued from page 4 dealt with the customers. My grandparents had six more children in Birmingham. When my mother, the eldest, was nearly grown, the family moved to Nashville. There my mother learned secretarial skills and soon moved to New York City, where she met my father. After the marriage failed, she moved with me, then three years old, back to Nashville. Bubbe died when I was 13, and I spent Shabbat and holidays together with Zadie all through my teen years. He walked me down the aisle at my wedding. In his final years, he read Tolstoy in Russian. His dream to be a doctor was fulfilled through grandchildren and great-grandchildren (three grandsons and one greatgrandson became doctors). Paola and Richard Kulp with grandchildren Geoffrey (left), Daniella, and Ryan I wrote this poem in memory of Zadie, who died a few years after I moved away from Nashville. A man is gone A soldier stiffened straight To meet the snapshot call A tender heart encased Within a fiery temper ball He had a crippled seed Who earned the portion That was his to give A captive’s prize Mustached endurance Merry eyes n Elizabeth and her zadie Join us at BUMC for the Annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Service Tuesday, November 24, 7:30 pm Rabbi Gregory Harris, Rabbi Fabian Werbin, Hazzan Matthew Klein, Reverend Jenny Cannon, and Reverend Kara Scroggins Beth El’s Ahavat Shir Hazzan Matthew Klein, Director Bethesda United Methodist Church Choir Chris Warrington, Director Beth El’s Shir Atid Leah Kocsis, Director 6 Coming to America Continued The Old Country By Jeff Annis One time he invited me to sit with him in the back bedroom. “Not for a lecture,” he said, but so we could talk quietly. He had a story to tell me about the old country. He’d never mentioned that before. Grandpa sat in the comfortable chair by the window, and I sat on the bed gazing out the fourth-floor window toward the ocean. “When I was a small boy,” he began. More focused on watching the Ambrose Lightship flashing in the distance, I said, “Yeah, I remember.” At that absentminded remark, my 80-year-old grandpa roared in laughter. He shuffled into the living room to announce my most amazBen and Rachel Annis in Queens ing ability to remember his childhood! Bounce the Quarter On weekends when our grandparents didn’t drive out to He never did finish telling me the story. visit us on the Island, we drove to Arverne in Queens to visit Years later, I asked my uncle what he knew about his them. I was about eight, and Grandpa took a special interest father’s boyhood. Uncle Martin knew only one story about in me. He took my hand and walked me around the block an incident in the Sukachov market. While holding her into the corner luncheonette, where he helped me select a fant son, Ben’s baby brother, their mother got into an argunew Pensie Pinkie (a small pink rubber ball used in stickball) ment with a nasty peddler, who struck her and dashed the so we could play bounce the quarter. Win or lose, I kept the infant to the ground. That was Grandpa’s only story about quarter. Those walks always involved a lecture on life and the old country – but a good enough reason to head to Ellis how to behave like a mensch. Island.n They rarely talked about the old country. Ben Annis (“Bananas” to his friends) arrived in New York in the late 1890s from Sukachov, a Polish town about 40 miles south of Plonsk. According to a book in the archives at Yad Vashem, our family’s Jewish roots there go back to 1426-1455. The Annis name comes from a small river in the area, the Anucz. By the early 1900s, Ben was a founding member of the Independent Sukachovi Young Men’s Sick Support Society. “Say it with rhythm so it sounds like a train leaving the station,” he would say. FROM THE CLERGY continued from page 1 blocks) and got a flat tire. The fifth day was most hilarious of all. We wanted cell phones. Because we didn’t yet have Social Security numbers, the phone company required a $500 deposit for each phone. We came back home so happy with our new phones only to realize that in our house there was no signal. It took 95 days for our belongings to arrive, so we lived for three months with whatever we had brought in our suitcases. The freight company told us nearly every day that the truck with our things would arrive the next day. I remember one time they told us they were able to “localize” the truck, and it would arrive at our home around 4:00 am. That night I think nobody slept at the Werbin home, but the truck wasn’t there at 4:00 am or 6:00 am or 10:00 am. For weeks we waited. Because we were promised every day that “tomorrow” the truck would arrive, we didn’t buy replacement items. Learning the Hard Way There were many things we learned the hard way. For example, nobody told us that the emergency room is only for real emergencies. We discovered that after the bill arrived. Nobody told us that it is not customary to add mayonnaise to the hamburger or the pastrami as it is in Argentina; we discovered that when people started to ask if we were really Jewish. Nobody explained to us that you do not leave the car when a policeman stops you for a ticket.You can imagine this rabbi with hands up when the cop almost took out his gun. There is a Jewish phrase that says, “We survived Pharaoh; this too will pass.” We survived all these unforeseen events, so we knew the rest was going to be easier. We have been very fortunate to have two congregations, Beth Israel in Roanoke and Beth El in Bethesda, filled with lovely people who immediately adopted us, offered help and assistance, and opened their hearts to our family. Another Jewish phrase states, “Kol haatchalot kashot,” meaning “Every start is difficult.” Adapting to and adopting a new culture is a process, and it takes time. Overall, we are very happy with our decision, and we cannot thank enough those who received and welcomed us. n 7 Build the Joy Eighth Annual Latke-Hamantasch Debate Sunday, December 6, 10:00 am Beth El’s Latke-Hamantasch Debate has regaled packed houses for the past seven years, with debaters on both sides offering extremely clever and humorous arguments and leaving the audience yearning for more. The debate over the relative merits of the Latke vs. the Hamantasch began several decades ago at the University of Chicago. It has since been taken up in several venues outside Chicago, and we hope you will join us again here in Bethesda to explore this compelling question. You won’t want to miss this entertaining, educational, and fun morning! Families with children in Edith Sievers’s kindergarten class help build and decorate a sukkah at the Religious School’s annual Build the Joy last month. Maccabeats in Concert Congregational Spain Trip Information Session Sunday, December 13, 1:00 pm Sunday, November 8, 10:00 am Come learn about our trip to Jewish Spain, led by Hazzan Matt Klein and Hazzan Emeritus Abe Lubin on July 3-14, 2016. We will partner with the Cantors Assembly and tour the breadth of Jewish Spain while based in Barcelona, Madrid, and Seville. Come join us after the Men’s Club breakfast on November 8 to learn more about this unique, exciting Jewish adventure, as we enjoy the gems of Spanish tourism while celebrating our Sephardic heritage. Beth El Preschool Open Houses Learn more about Beth El Preschool (BEPS) at one of our upcoming open houses for those who are interested in enrolling their children for the 2016-17 school year. Thursday, November 12, 9:30 am Thursday, November 19, 7:30 pm Monday, December 7, 9:30 am To sign up for an open house tour, contact BEPS at 301652-8569, ext. 307. A Conversation on Interfaith Dating Come hear the renowned Maccabeats perform a capella favorites. Tickets: $25 for adults • $20 for children under 13 $80 family maximum (immediate family only) Purchase tickets online at bethelmc.org/events/ maccabeats, or make checks payable to Congregation Beth El, 8215 Old Georgetown Road, Bethesda, MD 20814. Hebrew Conversation Group This informal, friendly group is a way for participants to hone their Hebrew conversation skills. Meetings will be held at Beth El this month on Tuesday, November 3 and Wednesday, November 18, at 1:30 pm. For more information, contact Art Salwin. Monday, November 23, 7:00 pm Interfaith relationships are a reality. In our session with Marion Usher, PhD, a clinical professor at The George Washington University School of Medicine, we will discuss how we can actively and positively transmit the importance of Judaism in our lives. 8 Jewish Calendar/Diary for 5776 (2015-16) While supplies last. Contains all Jewish and secular holidays. Makes a useful gift for family and friends. Pick up your copies at the Beth El office or the Judaica Shop. Only $10 per calendar. Sisterhood UPCOMING SISTERHOOD/ZHAVA EVENTS Tuesdays, November 3, 10, 17, 24, 6:30 pm Mah Jongg Friday, November 6-Sunday, November 8 Sisterhood Retreat, Bolger Center, Potomac Sunday, November 8, 10:30 am Zhava Hope Connection 5K Monday, November 16, 7:30 pm Rosh Chodesh: It’s a Woman Thing Thursday, November 19, 7:30 pm Board Meeting Sunday, November 22, 6:30 pm Sisterhood/Zhava Membership Dinner Grandparent’s Memory Book for Jewish Families For each and every grandparent in your life, this book contains 72 pages with space to include individual life stories, family traditions, recipes, photographs, etc. The memory book is a unique way to preserve your family’s history and precious memories for succeeding generations. A great gift idea. Only $16.95 per copy, available at the Beth El office or at the Judaica Shop. Mail orders, please add $2.00 per copy. Questions? Contact Ina Young. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------Use this form to order the Grandparent’s Memory Book by mail. Please print. Name___________________________________________ Telephone_______________________________________ Please Join Us for the Annual Sisterhood/Zhava Membership Dinner Sunday, November 22, 6:30 pm Torah Fund Award for Service to Sisterhood Michelle Gips and Mindy Davis, z”l The cost of dinner is $18, open only to Sisterhood and Zhava members Please bring toiletries to be donated to Bethesda Cares and tzedakah for the Torah Fund. Please make reservations by Wednesday, November 11 Name of member(s)___________________________ Phone ______________________________________ Amount of check ($18 each) payable to Beth El Sisterhood $ _________ Respond by November 11 to Linda Herman at [email protected]. Mail checks and form to Beth El Sisterhood, 8215 Old Georgetown Rd., Bethesda, MD 20814 Artisan Boutique Sunday, December 6, 10:00 am-2:00 pm The Artisan Boutique will feature handmade gifts – from jewelry to Judaica – for the whole family. Purchase last minute Hanukkah presents; the holiday begins that evening. Wares are sold by Beth El congregants and local vendors. For more information, contact Geryl Baer at [email protected]. Address_________________________________________ Email____________________________________________ Please enclose check for $18.95 (includes postage) to Beth El Sisterhood and mail to Ina Young, Beth El Sisterhood, 8215 Old Georgetown Road, Bethesda, MD 20814. Israel Framed New and beautiful Israeli art you can order online. Just go to www. IsraelFramed.com to view all the options and prices. Order your selections for yourself and for holiday gifts. Please use the checkout code BethEl5775. This will ensure that you receive a 10 percent discount and that Sisterhood will receive a contribution from Israel Framed. 9 Contributions Please remember that contributions can be made easily, quickly, and securely via our webpage – www.bethelmc.org Donations made from August 28 to October 1 Beth El Forest In Honor Of: Harold Gorvine’s second bar mitzvah by Naomi Greenwood and Tom Dahl and family In Memory Of: Nancy Laning by Julia Copperman Nathaniel T. Cohan by Rita Barr Dorothy Beverly Kitchen Fund In Memory Of: Bess Sickel by Hugh and Ruth Sickel Helene Gruenberg and Regine Gruenberg by Helene Weisz and Richard Lieberman Cantor’s Fund In Honor Of: George Shalom Austerklein, son of Hazzan Klein and Rabbi Auster, by Roz Sporn Hazzan Klein davening on Rosh Hashanah by Paul Schweizer Hazzan Klein for officiating at Eli Kale’s bar mitzvah by Andrew and Davida Kales In Memory Of: Fanny Lieber, grandmother, and Ruth Rehns, mother, by Marsha Rehns Herman Jutkowitz by Cary and Nancy Feldman Capital Campaign / Building Fund By: Joel Moss In Memory Of: Jane Schimel by Ronald and Gail Schimel Chevra Kadisha Fund By: Zissman Shiur In Memory Of: A. Marvin Nattel by Twila Nattel Abraham Chinn by Sarah Kalser Leonard Rubin, my father, by Sharyn Schlesinger Disabled Access Fund In Memory Of: Anna Chinn, my beloved mother, by Sarah Kalser Lillie Lefkowitz, my mother, by Anita Ash General Fund By: Robert and Miriam Adelstein In Honor Of: Libby Shapiro Feinman by Annabelle Band Our children, Jonathan and Eileen Kay, by Frederick and Priscilla Kay Rabbi Harris, for the Yom Kippur honor for Larry and Lisa Lerner and Reina Lerner, by Larry and Lisa Lerner Ricardo Munster, for his help with preparation for Eli’s bar mitzvah, by Andrew and Davida Kales In Memory Of: Aaron Burman by Bea Berger Arthur L. Adams by Natalie Adams Barbara Balsam by Jennifer Hirsch Bernard Berger, my husband, by Bea Berger Bertha Simkowitz by Faith Walerstein Blanche Fersh by Rob Fersh and Sharon Markus Bruce Israel by Carolyn Elefant 10 Edith Weisz, beloved mother, by Helene Weisz, Bernie Weisz, and families Esther and Louis Kohn by Jacqueline Kohn Esther Chubin, mother of Herbert Chubin and grandmother of Ellen Chubin Epstein, by David and Ellen Epstein Fred Mandler, beloved father of Susan King, by Susan and Bert King Harry Weinstein by Frank Weinstein Helene Gruenberg and Regine Gruenberg by Bernard and Janyse Weisz Herbert Brenner by Jeffrey and Lynne Ganek Ira Kline, my beloved husband, by Etta Kline Joseph King by Bert and Susan King Lia Hirsch, mother of Walter Schimmerling and Raquel Masel, by Walter Schimmerling Lillian Ehrenstamm by Faye Ehrenstamm Lou Cohen, husband of Susan Cohen, by Rita Kopin Madelynne Schulman and David Neustein by Rick and Sharon Schulman Marjora Minska by Helene Weisz and Bernie Weisz Masha Cohen Baras, beloved mother of Sheila Cohen, by Judith Marcus Rose Chotkin by Rhea Troffkin Samuel Simkowitz by Faith Walerstein Sophie Levy by Paul Levy Wanda Brasseur-Perez by Yvonne Perez-Mirengoff and Paul Mirengoff Elaine Silverman Gessow College Activities Fund In Memory Of: Elaine Gessow, my beloved friend, by Annette Goldberg Warren Rosing by Barbara and Douglas Rosing Groner Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund In Memory Of: Harry Goldstein, my beloved father, by Judith Levin Kimball Nursery School Fund In Memory Of: Rubin Horwitz by Ellen Darr Bernard Kotelanski, M.D., Marriage Education Fund In Memory Of: Morris Gorden by Phillip and Vivian Gorden Library Fund In Memory Of: Bernard I. Miller by Jay and Sharon Berzofsky Zalman Ginderov by Boris Ginderov Mazon In Memory Of: Dorothy Rubin, my mother, by Sharyn Schlesinger Emily Drachman by Richard and Elizabeth Drachman Jack Babbin by Mona and Jerry Gabry Deborah Gabry by Mona and Jerry Gabry Sonia Varsano by Ricardo Varsarno Mintz Landscaping Fund In Memory Of: Herman Altschul by Carolyn and Kenneth Feigenbaum Morning Minyan Fund In Honor Of: Judith Epstein by Jack Epstein Contributions Continued In Memory Of: Burton Rudman by Rick Rudman Dora Brody, my beloved mother, by Gerald Brody Goldie Sturm, my beloved sister, by Mary Dubrow Isadore Edgar Fassberg by Benjamin Fassberg Jacqueline Abrams by Andrew and Katey Koblenz Leon Weintraub by Mark and Blanche Wine Nathaniel Degutz by Bert and Judy Spector Rita Minker by Jack Minker Prayer Book Fund In Memory Of: Bernard Siegler and Sylvan Siegler by Gary and Judy Liberson Henry M. and Rose W. Schwartz, beloved parents of Ina Wernick, by Ina and Jerome Wernick Rabbi’s Fund By: Morton and Lillian Davis Jeff and Ellen Shrago Jane, Barry, and Elinor Schimel In Honor Of: Our Yom Kippur honor by Jack Minker and Johanna Weinstein Rabbi Harris, for officiating at Eli Kales’ bar mitzvah, by Andrew and Davida Kales Rabbi Werbin for his support by Sarah Birnbach In Memory Of: Carl Berger by Henrietta Asen Charles Aubrey Snyder by David Snyder Hannah Schneider by Libby Gordon Harvey Gordon by Libby Gordon Herman Jutkowitz, father of Stan Jutkowitz, by Peter and Debbie Friedmann Howard Thomashauer by Robin Thomashauer Nathan Richman by David and Marjorie Richman Sam Hermon by Jerry and Linda Herman Sidney Sklar by Kathy Sklar Sol Feldman, my father, by Cary Feldman Scolnic Adult Institute Fund In Honor Of: Peter Cohen’s birthday by Rita Kopin In Memory Of: Eugene Sporn, my beloved husband, by Roz Sporn Herman Abromowitz, my beloved father, by Ellen Bezner Howard Copperman, beloved husband, by Julia Copperman Nancy A. Laning by Susan Cohen Senior Caucus In Memory Of: Susan Cohen’s sister by Naomi Levy Dr. Elaine L. Shalowitz Education Fund In Memory Of: Adam Shalowitz, my beloved father, by Erwin Shalowitz Pearl Shalowitz, my beloved mother, by Erwin Shalowitz Simos Music Fund In Memory Of: Marlene Korn by David Korn and Shara Aranoff Sidney Kaplan, my beloved brother, by Roz Sporn Sisterhood Kesher Nashim Fund In Memory Of: Jean Miller by Jay Miller Sisterhood Kiddush Fund In Honor Of: Hallie Werbel, for helping with Eli Kales’s bar mitzvah kiddush luncheon, by Andrew and Davida Kales Susan Cohen’s birthday by Rita Kopin In Memory Of: Barbara Kam by Barbara Spitzer Doll Laboe by Barbara Friedman Kate Wernick, beloved mother of Jerome Wernick, by Jerome and Ina Wernick Marjorie Friedman by Barbara Friedman Marjorie Pokroy by Rita Liebowitz Sisterhood Shiva Meal Fund In Memory Of: Shoshana Vainstein by Sharona Sapoznikow Elaine Tanenbaum Religious School Enrichment Fund In Honor Of: Bat mitzvah of Jordan Elias by Andrew and Davida Kales In Memory Of: Isidor Leventhal by Carl Leventhal Torah Scroll Fund In Honor Of: Gideon Sanders, for reading Torah at Eli Kales’s bar mitzvah, by Andrew and Davida Kales In Memory Of: William Mirengoff by Mark Mirengoff and Yvonne PerezMirengoff Transportation Fund In Honor Of: Doris Povich, for her support, by Rose Saady Esther Isralow’s special birthday by Rose Saady Lucy Ozarin’s birthday by Rose Saady Refuah Shleimah to Dan Yastrov, son of Hattie Goodman, by Rose Saady Ricardo Munster, for his attentiveness to Beth El seniors, by Rose Saady, Mary Dubrow, and Annette Goldberg Roz Sporn, for her support, by Rose Saady Birth of George Shalom Austerklein by Rose Saady In Memory Of: Harry Kossman, my dear brother, by Mary Dubrow Isak Grunberg by Helene Weisz, Bernie Weisz, and families Lillian Kessler by Julia Copperman Louis Cohen by Susan Cohen Samuel Sporn by Roz Sporn Selma Beckowitz by Judith Zassenhaus Yehuda Brownstein, my beloved father, by Rita Kopin Wolf Israel Quest In Honor Of: Birth of Madeline Juliette Wolf, granddaughter of Douglas and Annette Wolf, by Debby and Menachem Shoham In Memory Of: Masha Cohen Baras, beloved mother of Sheila Cohen, by Debby and Menachem Shoham and Evelyn and Isail Wagenberg Young Equality Fund In Memory Of: Nathan Weinstein by Joe and Ina Young Rena Young by Joe and Ina Young 11 Congregation Beth El 8215 Old Georgetown Road Bethesda, Maryland 20814-1451 Periodicals Postage PAID Bethesda, MD 20814 While we know you’ll want to read every word in this issue of the Scroll, when you’re finished, please recycle it. Bulletin Board Mazal Tov to Abbie and Bill Eckland on the marriage of their son, Samuel Eckland, to Claire Thibeau Condolences to Steven and Marlene Aisenberg on the death of Steve’s father, congregant Irwin Aisenberg Julie Bender Silver and David Silver, David and Nan Bender, and Barbara Bender on the death of their father, long-time congregant Howard Bender Sheila Cohen and Phil Ochs on the death of Sheila’s mother, Masha Cohen Baras Susan Cohen on the death of her sister, Nancy Laning Gale and Ron Dutcher on the death of Gale’s father, Aaron Freedman Bill and Abbie Eckland on the death of Bill’s mother, Elaine R. Eckland Stan and Gail Jutkowitz on the death of Stan’s father, Herman Jutkowitz Noteworthy Roundtable with the Rabbi, Wednesday, November 4, 2:00 pm. Join us to celebrate November’s birthdays (yours and those of others) with desserts, coffee, and a lively discussion led by Rabbi Harris. Birthday celebrants receive a special invitation, but all are welcome. Send submissions to the Scroll to [email protected] Dor L’Dor, Thursday, November 5, noon. The Beth El Preschool (BEPS) 4s Class and a group of Beth El seniors blend together to form Dor L’Dor. To participate and share pizza with the preschoolers, RSVP to Susan Bruckheim or contact Ricardo Munster at 301-652-2606, ext. 316, or [email protected]. Senior Caucus, Thursday, November 12, noon. Brown Bag lunch. Come and socialize with your friends and enjoy refreshments and dessert. Senior Caucus-Vatikkim Luncheon Program, Thursday, November 19. Starts with lunch at noon. Following lunch, Hazzan Matthew Klein, accompanied by pianist Leah Kocsis, will perform a concert of Broadway musical songs. Hazzan Klein is a classically trained baritone with a background in musical theatre. Lunch costs $10. To RSVP for lunch, contact Ricardo Munster at 301-652-2606, ext. 316, or [email protected] by Tuesday, November 17. The program is free and begins at 1:00 pm. Bridge – the greatest game ever! Join us every Monday, and Thursday (except the 3rd and 4th Thursdays this month) from 12:30 to 3:00 pm. Drop in and join a game; no partner necessary. For information or transportation, contact Ricardo Munster at 301-652-2606, ext. 316, or [email protected]. Follow us for pictures, upcoming events, and more: fb.me/congregation.beth.el Weekly Parashiot Source: Siddur Sim Shalom Hayei Sarah Vayetzei Upon Sarah’s death, Abraham acquires the Cave of Makhpelah as a burial ground. Before his own death, Abraham dispatches his servant, Eliezar, to Haran in search of a wife for Isaac from among his kin. Rebecca, Abraham’s great-niece, is gracious to Eliezar and agrees to the marriage. As he begins his journey, Jacob dreams of angels, ascending and descending. Awed, he vows to return from this journey and follow God’s ways. After reaching Haran, he marries Laban’s daughters, Leah and Rachel, sires children and prospers while raising cattle for Laban. After twenty years, Jacob finally fulfills his pledge to return to Canaan. November 7, 25 Cheshvan Tol’dot November 14, 2 Kislev Rebecca bears twin sons, Jacob and Esau, rivals from birth. Esau sells Jacob his birthright. Rebecca helps Jacob secure Esau’s blessing by deceiving Isaac, to Esau’s fury. Fearing for Jacob’s life, Rebecca implores Isaac to send Jacob off to her brother Laban, in Haran, to seek a wife. November 21, 9 Kislev Va-yishlach November 28, 16 Kislev As he prepares to face his brother, Esau, upon returning to Canaan, Jacob wrestles with an angel, who confers upon him the name of Israel. The meeting with Esau goes well, yet Jacob, fearful still, is quick to part company with him. Jacob’s camp reaches Shechem, where his daughter, Dinah, is raped; two of Jacob’s sons take brutal revenge. Jacob then builds an altar at Bethel, as God instructs. Rachel dies giving birth to Benjamin. Later, Jacob and Esau bury Isaac. Beth El Calendar &Weekly Parashiot Descriptions of Services Minyan Chaverim offers the ruach of the Shabbat services in USY, BBYO, and Hillel. We have a lay-led, traditional, participatory, spirit-filled service, including full repetition of the Shacharit and Musaf Amidah, as well as the full Torah reading with an interactive Torah discussion. A pot-luck lunch follows the service at a nearby home. For information, contact Debbie Feinstein at debbie_feinstein@yahoo. com or Sheryl Rosensky Miller at [email protected]. The Worship and Study Minyan is conducted by members of the congregation and combines evocative Torah study with ample singing and ruach. Children are welcome, although the service is oriented toward adults. For information, contact Dan Hirsch at 301-654-7289, [email protected] Sid Getz at 301-530-2215, [email protected] Mark Levitt at 301-365-5365, [email protected]. Minyan Olamim, led by Hazzan Klein and guests, includes chanting, niggunim, meditation, and a focus on the inner journey of the prayers. Mixing Hebrew and English, it is an opportunity for people of different backgrounds to sing, pray, converse, and find a deeper spiritual meaning in their Shabbat experience. Zhava Shabbat Morning Service Gathering is an opportunity to learn more about this service with a member of Beth El’s clergy in a small group setting. Oct. 10, Nov. 14, Dec. 12, March 12, and May 14 at 10:30 am. Daily Services M-F 7:30 am Sun-Th 8:00 pm Fri 6:30 pm Sun 9:00 am Shabbat Services (all services are weekly, except as noted) Early Morning Service Main Service Babysitting (2-6 years old) Minyan Chaverim (3rd Shabbat) Minyan Olamim (4th Shabbat) Worship and Study Minyan (1st Shabbat) 7:30 am 9:30 am 9:15 am 9:30 am 10:45 am 9:45 am Youth Shabbat Services Teen Service (1st Shabbat) 10:00 am Junior Congregation (5th grade +; Library) 10:00 am Shitufim 10:30-11:30 am (2nd– 4th grades; 2nd & 4th Shabbat; Zahler Social Hall) Gan Shabbat (kindergarten-2nd grade; 1st & 3rd Shabbat; MP 1&2) 10:30-11:30 am Nitzanim (birth - kindergarten; 2nd, 4th, 5th Shabbat; MP 1&2) 10:30-11:30 am For information, contact Elisha Frumkin, 301-652-8573, ext. 319, [email protected]. Congregation Beth El November 2015 Monthly Calendar Sunday Cheshvan-Kislev 5776 Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday 1 2 3 4 5 No Religious School - Professional Day 9:00 am Minyan 9:30 am Men’s Club Breakfast 10:00 am Men’s Club Program 10:00 am Beth El Spain Trip Meeting 7:30 pm Talmud Class 12:30 pm Bridge 7:15 pm Boy Scouts 8:15 am A Taste of Talmud 10:00 am Scolnic Institute 1:30 pm Conversational Hebrew 6:30 pm Mah Jongg 9:30 am Rabbi Harris’s Torah Class 9:30 am Rabbi Werbin’s ‘King David’ 9:30 am M. Fine Torah Class Noon Senior Caucus Dor L’ Dor Lunch 1:00 pm Bridge 7:00 pm BEPS Shop and Sip 8:30 pm Hearing Men’s Voices 9 10 11 8 Sisterhood retreat (offsite) Zhava Hope Connection 5K - offsite 9:00 am Minyan 9:30 am Men’s Club Breakfast 10:00 am Men’s Club Program 10:00 am Ahavat Shir Rehearsal 7:30 pm Talmud Class 15 9:00 am Minyan 9:30 am Men’s Club Breakfast 9:30 am Book Club 10:00 am B’nai Mitzvah Family Education Program ` 9:30 am Knitting Group 12:30 pm Bridge 7:15 pm Boy Scouts 8:15 am A Taste of Talmud 10:00 am Scolnic Institute 6:30 pm Mah Jongg 7:30 pm BEPS Board Meeting Class 2:00 pm Roundtable with the Rabbi 7:30 pm Scolnic Institute Veterans Day 9:30 am Rabbi Harris’s Torah Class 9:30 am Rabbi Werbin’s ‘King David’ Class 7:30 pm Scolnic Institute 12 Rosh Hodesh Kislev 9:30 am BEPS Open House 9:30 am M. Fine Torah Class Noon Senior Caucus Brown Bag Lunch 1:00 pm Bridge 7:30 pm Executive Committee Meeting Friday Saturday 6 Candles 4:45 pm 7 Sisterhood Retreat (offsite) 6:30 pm Friday Evening Service 7:15 pm B’nai Mitzvah Family Shabbat Dinner Sisterhood Retreat (offsite) 7:30 am Early Shabbat Service 9:30 am Main Shabbat Service 9:30 am Jordan Lerner Bat Mitzvah 9:30 am Samuel Ferber Bar Mitzvah 9:45 am Worship & Study Minyan 10:00 am Jr. Congregation 10:00 am Teen Service 10:30 am Gan Shabbat 12:45 pm Shabbat Mincha Service 13 Candles 4:39 pm 14 Rosh Hodesh Kislev 6:30 pm Kol Haneshama Friday Evening Service 7:30 am Early Shabbat Service 9:30 am Main Shabbat Service 9:30 am Jolie Rosenstein Bat Mitzvah 9:30 am Talia Shapiro Bat Mitzvah 10:00 am Jr. Congregation 10:30 am Zhava Shabbat Morning Service Discussion 10:30 am Nitzanim 10:30 am Shitufim 12:45 pm Shabbat Mincha Service 16 12:30 pm Bridge 7:15 pm Boy Scouts 7:30 pm Rosh Chodesh: It’s a Woman Thing 17 8:15 am A Taste of Talmud 10:00 am Scolnic Institute 6:30 pm Mah Jongg 7:30 pm Board of Directors Meeting 10:00 am Men’s Club and Female 18 9:30 am Rabbi Harris’s Torah Class 9:30 am Rabbi Werbin’s ‘King David’ Class 1:30 pm Conversational Hebrew 7:30 pm Scolnic Institute 19 9:30 am M. Fine Torah Class Noon Senior Caucus Luncheon 7:00 pm Knitting Group 7:30 pm BEPS Open House 7:30 pm Sisterhood Board Meeting 20 Candles 4:33 pm 10:00 am BEPS Shabbat 6:30 pm Friday Evening Service 6:30 pm Nitzanim Friday Evening Service Physicians Program 7:30 pm Talmud Class 21 7:30 am Early Shabbat Service 9:30 am Main Shabbat Service 9:30 am Isabel Engel Bat Mitzvah 9:30 am Jocelyn Mintz Bat Mitzvah 9:30 am Minyan Chaverim 10:00 am Jr. Congregation 10:30 am Gan Shabbat 12:45 pm Shabbat Mincha Service 6:30 pm 2nd Grade Family EducationHavDeli 7:30 pm Israel Media Series 22 9:00 am Minyan 9:30 am Men’s Club Breakfast 10:00 am Men’s Club Program 10:00 am Ahavat Shir Rehearsal 10:00 am 5th Grade Family Education 23 12:30 pm Bridge 7:15 pm Boy Scouts 7:30 pm Age & Stage: Are Your Children Interfaith Dating? 24 8:15 am A Taste of Talmud 6:30 pm Mah Jongg 7:30 pm Interfaith Thanksgiving Service (at BUMC) Religious School Closed 9:30 am Rabbi Harris’s Torah Class 9:30 am Rabbi Werbin’s ‘King David’ Class Schools and Offices Closed Thanksgiving 9:00 am Morning Minyan 26 27 Candles 4:30 pm 28 28 29 30 Candles 5:53 pm 31 25 Schools and Offices Closed 6:30 pm Friday Evening Service Program 6:30 pm Sisterhood/Zhava Membership Dinner 7:30 am Early Shabbat Service 9:30 am Main Shabbat Service 9:30 am Daphne Kaplan Bat Mitzvah 10:30 am Minyan Olamim 10:30 am Nitzanim 12:45 pm Shabbat Mincha Service 4:00 pm Asher Rubin Bar Mitzvah 7:30 pm Talmud Class 29 Schools and Offices Closed 9:00 am Minyan 9:30 am Men’s Club Breakfast 10:00 am Men’s Club Program 7:30 pm Talmud Class 30 12:30 pm Bridge 7:15 pm Boy Scouts 27