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SIMPLY SPEAKING Jamestown Friends Meeting November, 2014 November, 2014 Light Workers . . . . . . . By: Frank Massey, pastoral ministry (336) 301 0082 E cclesiastes 3:9-11a (MSG) But in the end, does it really make a difference what anyone does? I've had a good look at what God has given us to do— busywork, mostly. True, God made everything beautiful in itself and in its time. The brilliant fall colors (especially the flaming red maples), the raining down of leaves, the faint smell of burning leaves, the crisp mornings and the hint of winter—all are signs that the year is drawing to a close. (This makes for perfect motorcycle-riding weather!) Then, the eclipse on October 23 only added to the wonder of the season and the times. LIFE CONSTANTLY REMINDS US that it is about change, with Ecclesiastes telling us that there is a time for all seasons—a time for everything. As much as we enjoy this beautiful fall weather, we know that “this too shall pass.” Yet, we learn from the changing of the seasons; for we grow, change, and adapt according to the passage of time. .......... As the earth and trees renew and restore during the winter months so that they might burst forth in new growth and energy in the new season, so, too, do we need to rest and restore. Our energy may decline a bit during the winter months, and our activities at the Meeting may be slower as the weather grows colder. This lessening of energy offers us time to reflect, renew, and plan for the “new” season. Let us not move too quickly into that time of rest. Let us not move right over the season of “Thanksgiving.” We have much to be grateful for in our faith community. We celebrated 50 years of ministry this summer and acknowledged our commitment to the community. We reaffirmed the importance of our Quaker heritage and social testimonies in living who we are. .......... We welcomed visitors, some of whom have chosen to become more involved in the life of the Meeting. Now and again, the sounds of small children, even the wonderful gurgling song of an infant in a baby carrier, might be heard in the meeting room. We have members actively engaged in the NC Yearly Meeting’s struggle to “define who we are,” which has fueled out own search for Quaker identity and expression. WE ARE SERVING, GROWING, and changing; yet, we remain committed to our Quaker understanding of our “faith and practice.” We never know what the future holds, but we do know that this moment prepares us for the next moment. Our growth into the future depends on our being faithful today, as we listen for God’s voice and seek to be obedient. We will take the changes as they come, taking the opportunities to reflect and renew. We know our ministry feels the needs of those who enter in. We give Thanks! Did You Know . . . ? FCNL’s Executive Secretary to Visit JFM By: Martha Mattocks Jamestown Friends should be very proud of the efforts of several of our members who were instrumental in helping with organizing this year’s NC Yearly Meeting’s Peace Conference. With a theme of “See What Love Can Do,” the Peace Conference, held Saturday, October 18, at Deep River Friends Meeting, was a wonderful success. About 50 folks attended to hear Dr. Everett Worthington, Jr. speak on forgiveness and reconciliation. His talk was timely and helpful to all who heard him. The hard work of Clarence Mattocks, Wallace Sills, and Frank Massey in preparing for and carrying out this project is very much appreciated. .......... During the week end of November 1, Diane Randall, executive secretary of Friends Committee on National Legislation, will be at Jamestown Friends Meeting and will be speaking during a community gathering at 6:30 p.m. Saturday; during Adult Forum on Sunday; and during meeting for worship on Sunday. Everyone is invited to participate in these events. Festivities and special events commemorating Jamestown’s first 50 years are coming to a close. Luckily, we have two more months in this calendar year and a full slate of activities. Our next fun event will be the “roast” for our minister, Frank Massey. Be sure to let a member of the Life Events Committee, Louise Richardson or Ronnie Hicks, know whether you will be attending. You will most certainly want to be on hand for this special night! .......... We send good wishes for a speedy recovery to Helen Stanfield as she recuperates from a bout with shingles. We are also grateful that Peggie Baxter, who had a recent fall, did not incur any permanent damage. Bruises heal quicker than broken bones! .......... Diane leads FCNL’s staff to effectively educate and lobby for the policies and legislative priorities established by FCNL’s General Committee. A lifelong advocate for peace and social justice, Diane is a fierce proponent for citizen engagement that advances policies and practices to create a better society for all. Diane joined FCNL in March, 2011 as the fourth Executive Secretary in its 70-year history. Diane travels widely on behalf of FCNL and represents a voice for Quaker advocacy in Washington on the Hill, within the faith community, in media, and throughout the United States. Thanks to all of you for your expressions of love and concern during the illness and recent death of my step-mother, Barbara Carter. Daddy, who is 93, is doing well. In the near future, we will be moving him to Arbor Acres (Methodist Retirement Home) in Winston-Salem NC. I suspect I will be “in and out” as we assist Daddy during this transition period. We are definitely looking forward to having him closer to us. I suspect that you will get to see him more often and get to know him better. REMEMBER! When you go shopping, pick up some items to be donated to the Open Door Shelter Food Pantry (nonperishable foods) and FEMAP kits (baby, school, hygiene). Put your donations in the collection containers located in the foyer of the meeting room. Also, the choir collects old cell phones for recycling. A container for that project is also in the foyer. And now you know! 2 Courtney Hazen and Lucas are both seniors this year. They have begun the process of visiting and applying to colleges. It’s hard to believe that it’s November already! Where has fall gone? It will be winter before we know it! Some of us may be dreading the cooler months, but some of our youth may be looking forward to them. The cooler weather means they will be finishing up with their current sports and looking ahead to the next school semester. COURTNEY HAS VISITED several colleges, but none has “grabbed” her just yet. She has a parttime job at Blue Zucchini restaurant in High Point. Anyone who is looking for a good meal could go by and visit with Courtney during dinner. Lucas has applied to NC State (his first choice), Clemson, Appalachian, UNC-W, Virginia Tech, and UNC-Charlotte. He hopes to study some field of engineering. .......... Keep all our youth in your thoughts as they go through their activities and adjust to new possibilities during the next few months. CURRENTLY, ALEXA ALTIZER is wrapping up her Challenge soccer season. As of this writing, Alexa’s team is undefeated, and they have only allowed two goals all season! Alexa is also managing the boys’ soccer team for Trinity High School and will begin basketball tryouts soon. I hope to see all of them soon. (Remember— Christmas isn’t that far off! We’ve got another program to do!) Lucas Hick is also finishing his soccer season, but he still has four more weeks (at least) of football. Lucas is the kicker for Ragsdale High School’s team. You may have seen his name in the newspaper a lot for scoring extra points for the Tigers. .......... Tennis for Abigail Farlow has ended for this year, but she is continuing to practice with the marching band. The Western Alamance High School band is a competition band, which means that every Friday (if they are not playing a football game), they practice. Also, every Saturday through October, they are competing somewhere. “Name That Quaker” By: Linda Willard October Answer (The question for October was: According to family stories, I once saved the life of a child dying with diphtheria by using a sterilized goose quill to force air into his lungs. Who am I?) According to family stories, Eunice Gardner Worth, mother of North Carolina Governor Jonathan Worth, 1802-1869, once sterilized a goose quill to save the life of a child. THESE ARE LONG BUT FUN days for Abby. In addition to playing flute in the band, she is in “the pit,” meaning she plays percussion, including bells and other instruments. Once competition season is over, parade season will begin. November Question If you are traveling by sea further north, you can depend on whom to help you? Cliff Hazen, an eighth grader at Ferndale Middle School, is really enjoying playing paintball now! He recently got his own paintball gun and is practicing with it every chance he can. Cliff is also looking forward to playing golf in the spring. Message Schedule for November 3 November 2 – Diane Randall, FCNL November 9 – Frank Massey November 16 – Frank Massey November 23 – (To be determined) November 30 – Open worship John Hancock, clerk of Quaker Men, encourages all men to attend the "Meet and Greet Diane" gathering at the meetinghouse on November 1, 6:30 p.m. Diane Randall, Executive Secretary of Friends Committee on National Legislation, will speak on the topic "Advocating for Peace in a Culture of War." November 8 – 5:00 p.m. – Jamestown Friends You’re invited to a celebration of Pastor’s Appreciation Month, in honor of Frank Massey Attendance is encouraged in lieu of the usual Quaker Men's Saturday morning meeting, which will not be held in November. .......... November’s meeting of USFW will be on the 17th at 7:00 p.m. The seventh floor living room at Friends Homes will be the place. The program will be led by Louise Richardson. All ladies are invited to attend. .......... It will be a carry-in, vegetarian meal with lots of desserts! Plan what you will bring – at least one vegetarian dish and one dessert. (Also, “cheat meat” table available) Entertainment for all; participation by many! Mark Farlow, emcee RSVP by November 6 (either yes or no) to Louise Richardson or Ronnie Hicks, Life Events Committee [email protected] – [email protected] Hospitality Committee will assist. From Susan Haworth Our Fall Yard Sale was October 11. The profit for the Meeting was about $1,275. To everyone that worked very hard to make this happen, we say a huge “thank you.” According to Susan . . . . . (Bulla, that is) A man on his Harley was riding along a California beach when suddenly the sky clouded above his head and, in a booming voice, God said, “Because you have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish.” The yard sale is a labor-intensive effort and we really appreciate each and every one of you that came out to work hard. This time, we had about seven people who worked Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday nights, as well as all Saturday morning. THE BIKER PULLED OVER and said, “Build a bridge to Hawaii so I can ride over any time I want.” Next spring, we hope more people will join us with the preparation and cleanup. The yard sale projects not only help the Meeting, but they also help the community by offering goods at very low prices. The leftovers are donated to Goodwill where they will also be available at low prices. God replied, “Your request is materialistic; think of the enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking. I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time and think of something that could possibly help mankind.” THE BIKER THOUGHT ABOUT it for a long time. Finally, he said, “God, I wish that I, and all men, could understand women. I want to know how she feels inside, what she’s thinking when she gives me the silent treatment, why she cries, what she means when she says nothing’s wrong, why she snaps and complains when I try to help, and how I can make a woman truly happy.” Come to the spring sale and help us recycle! I’m supposed to respect my elders, but it’s getting harder and harder for me to find one now. God answered, “Just how long do you want that bridge?” 4 Pam Hicks Among Ourselves Who among us was recently named as one of the “Great Nurses of NC”? That is an honor received by Pam Hicks at a black-tie affair held at Koury Convention Center in Greensboro on October 18. Norris Bodenhamer Something happened the week of October 12 that made Norris Bodenhamer very happy. She found and bought a fiddle (“country” for violin) which had belonged to her Grandpa Tuttle. THE GREAT 100 INC. is a peer-recognition organization that honors nurses in North Carolina. (Tag line! Congrats, Pam. You do us proud! Do you have a photo of that?) NORRIS HAS FOND memories of good times when she was young, up to about ten years old, which was when her grandpa died. She and her family would often go to Papa’s house for a visit. Papa, a tobacco farmer, would play the fiddle and Daddy would “get on the piano.” They had a great time “making music.” Neither of the musicians could read music, but if either of them heard a song, he could play it. Their enthusiasm in playing “made you feel like dancing, or, at least, tapping your toe!” Linda Willard The North Carolina Society of Historians, Inc., on October 25, presented Linda Willard a D. T. Smithwick Newspaper & Magazine Article Award for the following four articles: General James Green Martin; Buffalo City, NC; Hugh Williamson; and Diana Harris Foster. Collective comments from the judges included the following: “This author writes gripping articles about the most interesting subjects! It is her intent to educate the readership regarding as much littleknown, overlooked, or fascinating data pertaining to her regions of expertise as is humanly possible. . . . . They are reader-friendly, yet contain a great many details helpful to the seasoned researcher.” (Tag line! Way to go, Linda! You must have quite a few of these awards now.) Norris often wondered what happened to Papa’s fiddle. She never heard anyone mention what might have happened to it. As time went by, Norris found out from her brother Larry that one of his friends mentioned that his great uncle had bought the fiddle from Papa for $15. A NEPHEW HAD THE FIDDLE, along with other instruments that he had no interest in keeping. He told Larry that he would sell it for $150. Larry paid the money and took the fiddle to Norris. She nearly cried when he brought the fiddle to her. It was still in the original case and seemed to have been well taken of over the years. Norris plans to pass the fiddle along to Amanda, her granddaughter, some day. Happy November Birthday 1 8 8 11 Amanda would have an heirloom from her greatgreat grandfather. Also, Amanda, a student at Appalachian State University, is majoring in music, and is playing a viola in the university’s orchestra. She would take great pride in owning the instrument and would lovingly take care of it. 5 Eluza Russ 12 Tommy Mattocks Bill Byrd 14 John Hancock Adam Williams 19 Billy Ragsdale Dylan Harris 21 Pat Adelberger 24 Debra McCroary FCNL’s annual meeting scheduled for 20-23, eleventh month, 2014 – Lobby Day is 11-21-14 FCNL has addressed nature of Ferguson MO law enforcement officers, as well as in Thomasville and Winston-Salem Music Committee – Beth Massey Christmas worship music program to be 12-21-14 Budget request submitted to Finance Committee Monthly Meeting Minutes Summary – Tenth Month, Fifth Day, 2014 As submitted by Kate Foreman Suko, Recording Clerk (To be approved Eleventh Month, Second Day) General Notes Nominating Committee beginning work for 2015 committee nominations New Year’s Eve service to be held 12-31-14 Six people from Jamestown Meeting attended called Deep River Quarterly Meeting 9-15-14 NC Yearly Meeting Representative Body to meet 11-1-14, Forsyth Friends Meeting Finance/Stewardship Committee – Rex Adelberger Monthly meeting asked committee to itemize deposits, withdrawals in reserve fund Contribution received in honor of Wallace Sills’ ministry to family of Ruth Wynell Draughon Tew Yearly Meeting’s 2015 budget recommending monthly meeting askings be reduced to $93 per member Proceeds from Chicken Barbecue Project held September 13 about $5000 `````````` Summary - Called Meeting for Business Tenth Month, Nineteenth Day, 2014 Frank Massey offered to represent Jamestown Meeting at Representative Body, 11-1-14 Binford Farlow asked to formulate JFM’s response to queries from New Business Committee of NC Yearly Meeting General responses to queries from Adult Forum discussions as follows: Christian Education Committee – Wallace Sills Group working toward offering Quakerism classes Budget request for 2015, youth minister’s job description submitted to Finance Committee Ministry and Counsel – Frank Massey David Zarembka, Great Lakes Peace Initiative in Africa, to lead Adult Forum and present message at meeting for worship 10-19-14 Diane Randall, FCNL executive secretary, to bring meeting for worship message 11-22014 – joint meeting with New Garden Friends Meeting being explored a. Time line for making decisions regarding Yearly Meeting concerns is unreasonable. b. Yearly Meeting should stay united. c. Let’s seek ways we can work together. House and Grounds Committee – Frank Massey “Bumps” in meetinghouse sidewalks have been smoothed Simply Speaking is published monthly for Jamestown Friends Meeting 509 Guilford Road Jamestown NC 27282 Phone: (336) 454 3813 E-mail: [email protected] Peace and Social Concerns Committee – Clarence Mattocks Dr. Worthington to be keynote speaker at Yearly Meeting Peace Conference 10-18-14 – Topic to be “Christians Forgiving Christians” Editor: Louise Richardson; Managing Editor: Wallace Sills Columnists: Frank Massey, pastor; Beth Massey; Martha Mattocks; Wendy Mattocks December deadline – November 24 6 lives and the lives of those we touch daily, both directly and indirectly? .......... By: Beth Massey Our choir met at Friends Homes–Guilford on Sunday, October 12, to share some of our music of this anniversary year during weekly Vespers service. During that time we all sang hymns together, our choir sang some of our favorite anthems, and we shared some of our Quaker heritage through glimpses of our August S.P.I.C.E. Night celebration. We look forward to the journey of learning this music and its message. We invite you to join us – if you discern that it might help you make your way to the heart of the Christmas message. We will meet Wednesdays, 7:30 – 9:00 p.m., from now until December 21 (with a break on Thanksgiving Eve), and we can make other rehearsal adjustments if needed. COME SING WITH US! DURING THE SERVICE, David Stanfield and Clarence Mattocks told stories and facts about Jamestown Meeting/Friends Homes connections, some that even choir members did not know. Did you know that Binford Farlow has been on the Board of Trustees and Personnel Committee, as well as being active with dining facilities renovations? Also, Helen Stanfield is a former Director of Admissions, and David Stanfield wrote and published the history of Friends Homes. .......... Thankful Week before Thanksgiving, I limp around real strange. Huddle in the corner, as though I have the mange. All the other turkeys, just gobble, gobble on. I'm silent, and I act as if my gobbler's gone. Everyone is thankful on Thanksgiving Day. Friday it's forgotten. You all go on your way. I know what thankful is, so listen when I say. "It's great to be a turkey, after Thanksgiving Day." We appreciate the part these Friends have played, and continue to play in providing and building this loving, supportive community for us and our families as we grow older. This is the third time in seven years that out choir has led a Vespers worship at Friends Homes; finally, we had no complaints that attendees could not hear us. Practice does help us improve – whether it make us perfect or not! Most attendees seemed genuinely appreciative of our sharing, and we very much enjoyed renewing acquaintances with f/Friends, as well as meeting new f/Friends. --Author Unknown Treasurer’s Report Summary THE CHOIR’S FINAL PROJECT for this Anniversary Year will be leading meeting for worship on Sunday, December 21. On that morning, we will bring to you The Heart of Christmas, by Pepper Choplin. In this season when so many “good” activities compete for our time and resources, we hope it will help us discern and focus on what is most important. (as of September 30, 2014) Compiled by Ronnie Hicks, Treasurer Life is always about choices. How do we make our way through all the trappings and the wrappings, and, when there, choose the heart of the Christmas event, the heart of the Christmas story – past and present? How do we put our faith into practice to bring that story, that reality, to our 7 Contributions (actual) $38,639 Contributions (budget) $41,625 Total income $56,171 Total Expenses (actual) $50,266 Expenses (budgeted) $49,428 Quakers for Kids In 1662, the Parliament of England passed The Quaker Act. This law made it a crime for Friends to gather in groups of five or more. For nearly a decade, Parliament passed laws against Friends. All this legislation had a severe impact on the early Quaker movement. authorities felt awkward about threatening children, they were soon able to overcome their feelings. The boys were hauled outside and beaten. All the children were sent home. .......... Although they faced routine harassment by the authorities, the children of Reading Meeting continued to meet for worship. In fact, these young Friends maintained the meeting at Reading until their parents were finally released from prison. In towns in England like Reading, Bristol, and Cambridge, authorities imprisoned the entire population of adult Friends. IN READING, THE imprisonment started when a Quaker leader from the north came to visit. In order to hear the visiting leader, many of the local Friends convened a meeting in someone's home. The authorities raided that assembly and threw everyone into jail. This dramatic story highlights the potential for spiritual leadership among children. Adults and children are able to experience Christ as the Present Teacher. Children Are Welcome The following Sunday morning, authorities came to the Friends meeting house. Those few adult Friends who had been absent at the earlier meeting were seized and arrested. Ultimately, every Friend in Reading over the age of 16 was thrown into prison. .......... Though the adults were in prison, the children decided to keep their meeting. Many visitors to meeting, especially those to unprogrammed or silent meetings, worry a lot about their children and whether the children are being quiet enough. They should relax. While it would be appropriate to take your child out of meeting if the child is screaming or being noisy for long periods, the occasional noises of small children are generally welcomed. Some paper and crayons, or a book to read for older children, are often helpful, too. AT FIRST, THE YOUNG Friends gathered together outside the meeting house, itself. They could not go inside because of armed guards and a padlock on the door! At last, they found a meeting space inside an empty granary nearby. There, answering the call of God upon their own hearts, they met for worship. Most children, especially those of visitors, have a tough time sitting silently for a full hour. Many meetings have some sort of "First Day School" or "Sunday school" for children. If you see an adult rising after the start of meeting for worship and all the children filing out, they're probably headed for the First Day School. Friends are generally quite tolerant of babies and their noises. It should be considered normal at most unprogrammed meetings to breast feed babies during meeting. Once again, the stillness of Quaker worship was disturbed by hostile authorities. At first, the soldiers were surprised to find only children. If the 8 From Our Past – Simply Speaking – 1990 What was going on around Jamestown Friends Meeting during late 1989 and early 1990? Here’s some “catching up” for you to think about. The writer is unknown. The choir, under the direction of Cindy Helmstetler, provides lots of beautiful and inspiring music for us. Their Christmas program provided a special Christmas feeling for everyone. It is nice to see new members in the choir: Brenda and Chester Haworth, Peggie Baxter, and Martha Mattocks. Carmen Farlow and Louise Richardson do a great job on the organ and piano. Scott Lee is an inspiration when he leads the congregational singing. Nineteen friends participated in Crop Walk in High Point in October. This was great fun! Right, Doris Ann? .......... A successful Vacation Bible School was held in July. Plans for an even bigger, better VBS are underway for the summer of 1990. Thanks for your work, Patrick. Patrick Simpson was placed under the care of the Yearly Meeting Recording Committee during sessions at Yearly Meeting. We are proud of you, Patrick. WE HAVE RECEIVED SEVEN new members in the past couple of months: Sharon Davis, Stephanie Davis, Tracy Durham, Joy Stone, Doris Ann Garis, and Joel and Carole Kennedy. Each one is actively involved in the Meeting activities. LOVE LOAVES WERE COLLECTED November 19, and $320 was collected. One-half of this money remains with us. This year some of the money was used to buy fuel for one of the families we are helping. The Kiwanis Club has been very helpful to the Meeting. Serving their meals has been a profitable activity for the building fund. Beyond the profit, members have enjoyed preparing these meals. The fellowship has certainly been good for Jamestown people. On Thursday evening, December 21, the Meeting treated the Kiwanis members. It was our way of saying “thanks, we appreciate you.” .......... In addition to the Kiwanis meals, the Meeting has begun doing a bit of outside catering. All proceeds go to the building fund, of course. We catered a meal for Billy Ragsdale at Town Hall on December 16. Then, on December 18 (between periods of bad weather), we catered a meal for Bow Stafford at the Wade Street Warehouse. In August, we catered an outside meal at the Mendenhall Plantation. Jewell Farlow has done a tremendous job with planning and supervising these catering projects. Our recycling program is still working very well. Keep saving your papers, foil, glass, and plastic containers. In July of last year, Jamestown Meeting celebrated its 25th birthday with cake and candles. Lots of friends helped us celebrate, including Howard Coble and Victor Murchison, who were speakers. .......... Meeting activities would not be complete without recognizing the “Wally Wagon.” It is now a Yearly Meeting institution. Many thanks go to Carmen Farlow and his parents for hosting the New Year’s Eve party. It was great. THE “BIGGIE” RECENTLY WAS the groundbreaking for the new meeting room. It became a reality on Sunday, November 19, 1989. More than 130 people came to see Vernon Richardson and Cecil Haworth maneuver the bulldozer to get those first shovels of dirt moved. This was combined with our second annual Thanksgiving feast. We had waited a long time for this to happen. BENJAMIN JOEL KENNEDY, SON of Carole and Joel, was born October 23, 1989. He is growing very fast and has already outgrown his “preemie” clothes. Some members just can’t wait for him to begin attending Meeting activities – so the “spoiling” process can begin. There was a beginning of this on New Year’s Eve! 9 Jamestown Friends Meeting – November, 2014 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat 1 Representative Body – Forsyth Friends - “Meet, Greet Diane Randall” – 6:30 p.m. RESET CLOCKS – one hour earlier 2 3 4 5 6 Choir rehearsal – 9:30 – Diane Randall, FCNL, speaks during worship Fellowship meal – monthly meeting 9 10 11 12 13 Sadie Hawkins Day Veterans’ Day 16 8 Choir rehearsal – 7:30 p.m. Choir rehearsal – 9:30 Choir rehearsal – 9:30 7 Bittersweet Chocolate with Almonds Day 17 14 . 15 Clean Your Refrigerator Day Choir rehearsal – 7:30 p.m. 18 19 World Peace Day 20 21 22 28 29 Universal Children’s Day Choir rehearsal – 7:30 p.m. 23 Choir rehearsal – 9:30 30 Choir Rehearsal – 9:30 24 25 26 Simply Speaking deadline – December edition 27 William Penn and second wife Hannah Callowhill named honorary citizens of U.S. by President Reagan, 1984 November is National Epilepsy Month, Aviation History Month, and National Peanut Butter Lovers’ Month. 2