EXPERIENCE STRENGTH
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EXPERIENCE STRENGTH
FEARLESS and THOROUGH DISTRICT 33 NEWLSETTER 4.15 From Your DCM Happy Spring-time District 33. March has been mostly warm and beautiful and for that too, I am grateful. March was also a month of firsts for me. I attended my first PRAASA and my first Burien Little Assembly. Thank you all once again for allowing me to serve you as your DCM. This has, in many ways, forced me from my comfort zone to experience these service events, something I might not have done otherwise. PRAASA, which stands for Pacific Region of Alcoholics Anonymous Service Assembly, was an excellent experience for me and one I would encourage you all to take in when you can. The format involves panel discussions followed by open microphones for comments/sharing combined with roundtables broken down into service/committee positions. Next year PRAASA will be held in Spokane on the first full weekend th th in March (4 –6 ). This is an opportunity if we want to put together a group to attend, sharing costs of transportation, hotel/motel/RV, and even meals. Sounds like fun fellowship and an A.A. road trip to me. I arrived late to the Burien Little Assembly after attending another meeting, but was able to take in two panels, the first of which, “Diversity: Do you welcome everyone?”, included Michelle L. from our district. The second panel I attended was “Anonymity in the Electronic Age: Don’t tag me ‘bro!?” Both panels were thought-provoking and spiritually engaging. nd Next year (this year was the 42 year!) I’ll plan on being there for the entire day. We also held our GSR orientation in the month of March. There was a tremendous amount of service experience amongst the 20+ people who attended. Thank you to all those who came to learn, share, and help out. In particular I want to thank our Workshop Committee Chair. Mindy G., and Jim H., for their hard work and preparation. Unfortunately only a handful of groups sent their GSRs. If you were unable to attend please contact me and I’ll forward the handouts. And a EXPERIENCE STRENGTH quick note on this year’s Assembly. It will be held at the Bell Harbor International Conference th Center on the Seattle waterfront, October 16 , th th 17 , and 18 . All GSRs should attend as this is your opportunity to express your group’s conscience on issues affecting your group, district, and area, as well as A.A. as a whole. To defray costs and hopefully encourage greater attendance I’m suggesting we set up carpools with shared parking. We can also plan on “potlucking” snacks during the day and maybe going to nearby restaurants to eat in groups. This way we can avoid some of the costly meals offered with the registration. Just some thoughts, but again I can see the potential for some fun nd fellowship! Lastly, I’ll be attending the 2 Area th 72 quarterly on April 4 and will provide some feedback on that next month. Gratefully InService to You, Paul B., DCM-District 33. a meeting is what we deem as "sick", is it not our responsibility to participate and do what we can to share our strength, experience, and hope? Are we not responsible to be the hand of AA that reaches out to be a part of the solution? I really feel what AA needs is a lot less judgment especially when it comes to meetings. In my own personal experience, that only "bad" meetings I've ever gone to were the ones I chose to not participate in because I was too caught up in my own head and my own judgments. There are difficult people in our meetings; some hard to hear, some hard to listen to, some really annoying, and some delivering the exact message we need. Sometimes these are all the same person, and at one point or another that person was us and can be again. To have a true transformation of character we need to let go of everything we know and everything we desire to control. Patience goes a very long way, as does a kind hand or ear that reaches out to another in need. At one point we were all "sick", and even the best meetings won't be heard to the person who is trapped in their own head. Carrying the message……. One story at a time Good Meeting What makes a meeting "good"? I often hear people talk about how Folks should go to this meeting because it's "good" based on the amount of sobriety that sits in the rooms or the shares that happen. I've also been told about meetings I should avoid because the meetings are "sick". As in a lot of folks who are not completing the steps or sticking with recovery. When this happens, I always think about "focus on the solution and the solution increases" and the next thought is that "I am responsible whenever another alcoholic reaches out for help." I first found AA in a hall every other meeting in town referred to as the "1, 2, 3 hall" or a "sick hall", and it was my first home group. There were lots of people who had been sober for years. Some who had cycled through the steps many times and others who could not make it past step 3, but were still sober. It has been my opinion that what makes a meeting "good" has more to do with your attitude and participation than the members outside of you. If Row, Row, Row Your Boat Some of the best analogies for recovery have come to me from your mouths in meetings all over the state. Others have come from my experience in sobriety. My first sponsor used to take several of us to the gym three or four times a week. In addition to helping heal and grow our severely abused bodies, the principles of the gym applied to our spiritual growth as well. You can go to the gym, dress in the latest workout wear, sit on a bench for hours, and the result will be...nothing. Work up a sweat, push some iron around, lots of reps, lots of weight, and your muscles react. You get stronger, more resilient, and overall healthier. Yes, it hurts, but pain is gain. Recovery is like that, too. Read the book, work on the steps, trust God, help others, clean house (whether you want to or not) and not only does the program work, you get rocketed into...well you know. It was during one of those Row, Row, Row Your Boat Continued… particularly grueling sessions at the gym when my sponsor had me on the rowing machines, that this scenario came to mind. Recovery is like rowing a boat. In order to go forward, I need to have both hands on the oars and row. The more effort I put into rowing, the further I get. If I stop rowing, I don't get very far. As a matter of fact, the current (which always seems to be against me) pushes against me and I lose ground. But I want to see where I'm going, too. So I row with one hand so I can turn and see where I'm going. But since I'm rowing one handed, I'm simply going around in circles. Being the good alcoholic, then, I switch hands. Still going in circles, just the other direction. No, it's only when I'm facing the back of the boat, rowing, that the boat moves forward. God is at the tiller and steering. He alone can see where we're going, and I need to trust that he knows the way. If I'm doing it right, I get to see where we are now and where we were. The future is God's domain, and I must trust Him to get us to our destination. Read the book, do what it says, apply these principles in all of my affairs, help other alcoholics, let go and let God...that's rowing for me. I'm not in charge of anything, except rowing. That's “right sized” for me. DID YOU KNOW...... ~ Sister Ignatia died in Richfield, Ohio, at age 77, on April 1, 1966. There were reportedly about 3,000 people present at the funeral, including A.A.’s co-founder, Bill W. She was born in Ireland as Bridget Della Mary Gavin on January 1, 1889 at Shanvalley, Burren, in County Mayo. ~ "Alcoholics Anonymous" (the Big Book) was first published April 10, 1939. ~ April 29, 1896 Edwin (Ebby) Throckmorton Thacher was born in Albany, New York and was the youngest of five boys. February 1940 - April 1941 A.A. grew from 33 members to 350 members! EVENTS; UPDATES; HAPPENINGS HOPE AROUND THE SOUND: HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT April 3: Area 72 April Business Quarterly Oak Harbor, WA April 14: 6PM DISTRICT 33 MEETING. Our Area Treasurer, Heather C., will attend our April th 14 Business Meeting to provide further background and to answer questions concerning the Area “Standing Committee Reimbursement Policy.” In particular Heather will be prepared to address questions such as: What has the cost been to the Area in past rotations? What is the projected cost if continued? Where in the Area budget have/will the costs be allocated? Heather th will also provide a 7 Tradition presentation and answer questions along these lines as well. rd April 10-12: 33 Annual North Coast Roundup Seaside, Oregon April 11: Blossoms Women’s Luncheon Port Townsend, WA April 11: Area 72 Treatment Comm. Quarterly Everett, WA April 18: Area 72 Accessibility Comm. Quarterly Vancouver, WA April 25: Area 72 Web Committee Quarterly Shoreline, WA th April 27: North Star’s 40 Anniversary Celebration; Tacoma, WA st April 28: Narrows Group 51 Anniversary 1201 S. Jackson Street; St. Andrews Church May 9: Area 72 PI/CPC Quarterly Denny Park; Seattle, WA May 15-17 Olympic Roundup; Port Angeles, WA July 24-26; Freedom in Sobriety Conference LaQuinta Conference Center; Tacoma, WA [email protected] REGARDING: The new GSIG 2015 meeting schedule booklet yellow in color: The meetings at Lake Sawyer Christian Church: The addresses are incorrect: they are listed as 31605 3rd Ave.; Black Diamond whereas ACTUALLY the churches’ address is 31605 Lake Sawyer Rd, S.E. Black Diamond. Please make a note of this and spread the word. Lot’s of folks will end up at the Black Diamond Community Center…. District 33 is currently scheduled to have booths at TWO community events at this time. They are: Maple Valley Days, located at Lake Wilderness Park: June 12, 2015 : 3:00 PM - 8:00 PM June 13, 2015: 12:00 PM - 8:00 PM June 14, 2015: 10:00 PM - 5:00 PM Note: We will be sending out booth staffing request forms in mid May: We will need a total of (16) volunteers for Maple Valley Days. Covington Days Festival, location not available at this time HOURS ARE CURRENTLY UNKNOWN – HERE ARE THE DATES: July 18, 2015 AND July 19, 2015 Notes: We should have location and hours of operation available by May 1st. We will be sending out booth staffing request forms, mid June: Volunteer count is to be determined. TRUSTED SERVANTS DISTRICT 33 DCM: Paul B. Alternate: Eric P. Treasurer: Ruth G. Alternate: Judy G. Secretary: Susan P. Alternate: Open Archivist: Katy C. Alternate: Jim H. Treatment: Okkie A. Alternate: Open Registrar: Mark H. Alternate: Open CPC: Janet T. Alternate: James S. Corrections Chr: Okkie A. Alternate: Open Workshop Chair: Mindy G. Alternate: Open GSIG Rep: Rick L. Alternate: Open Accessibility Chr: Vandy D. Alternate: Open Newsletter Ed: Mindy G. Alternate: Michelle L. Printer: Mindy G. Alternate: Open P.I.: Chuck G. Alternate: Open Webservant: Rick G. Alternate: Open Literature Grapevine – Open Alterante: Open Open means these positions are in need of your support. Please see anyone of us, or come to the district meeting and join us! We need all the help we can get in Unity! HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP GARY AND MINDY G NEED ONE MORE SEASIDE TICKET PLEASE CONTACT [email protected]