Nazareth Connections - Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth
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Nazareth Connections - Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth
Nazareth Family: The Heart of Our Mission Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth Connections International perspective: From Vietnam, the Philippines This past summer, three CSFNs spent a week in Vietnam, part of an ongoing exploration of the possibility of establishing a CSFN mission in that country. This fall, CSFN sisters in our province in the Philippines — and those they serve — were hard hit by two earthquakes and Typhoon Haiyan. See pp. 4–5 Live from Des Plaines: It’s the ‘Ask Sister’ podcast The CSFN Provincialate in Des Plaines was the setting for ‘technology meets talk-radio format’ earlier this year when the national podcast, ‘Ask Sister,’ was broadcast live from the Provincialate meeting room. The hour-long program featured Srs. Michele Vincent Fisher and Michael Marie Franzak being interviewed by the two IHM sisters who founded A Nun’s Life Ministry — Srs. Maxine Kollasch and Julie Vieira. Twenty-plus sisters and staff were in the on-site audience; another 30 participants were in the chat room, asking questions of Srs. Michele and Michael Marie; 260 were monitoring the audio and video podcasts live, and an estimated 1,000 viewers downloaded the program within a week of the broadcast. So this is how it’s done! Provincial Superior Sr. Barbara Jean Wojnicki, standing left, congratulates Sr. Maxine Kollasch, IHM, seated left, and CSFN Srs. Michele Vincent Fisher, seated right, and Michael Marie Franzak, standing, immediately following the ‘Ask Sister’ podcast originating at the Provincialate in Des Plaines, IL. (Photos by Judy Horak) Audience questions ranged from vocation stories to how the daily lives of the sisters have changed in the 21st century. Sr. Michael Marie pointed to her grandmother’s ‘simple yet very strong spirituality” as one of her inspirations. Sr. Michele related that “I can see God’s hand in my life from the very start” when a parish priest arranged her adoption as an infant. 9 To connect with the audio or video recording of the program, please visit www.aNun’sLife.org Volume 7 | Number 4 Fall/Winter 2013 Inside This Issue Message from the Provincial ......... 2 Editor’s Note ............................... 2 Pittsburgh update .......................... 3 International news ........................... 4–5 New citizens ................................ 5 Vocations .................................... 8–9 Around the Province ..................... 4–17 Calendar ..................................... 9 In Memoriam ............................... 14–15 Development ............................... 16–19 We, the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, are called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love among ourselves and others by living the spirit of Jesus, Mary and Joseph whose lives were centered in the love of God and one another. We witness to this love through dedicated service to the Church, especially in ministry to the family. — CSFN Covenant of Love A message from the Provincial Superior: “Our life in Nazareth (is) a life of love” Editor’s note: For a variety of reasons, this issue of Nazareth Connections comes to you well after our planned pre- Thanksgiving delivery. Sr. Barbara Jean’s message, written in the fall and focused on the Love of Nazareth, remains appropriate in these seasons of Advent, Christmas and Epiphany. Dear Friends, This issue of Nazareth Connections comes to you between the beginning of the academic year and the Thanksgiving holiday, launching the season of many family celebrations. These annual occasions impact the life of the family and present many opportunities as food for thought. The opening of a new school year draws me to contemplate Nazareth as a school where love, family celebrations and prayer were taught and lived. Jesus spent 30 of his 33 earthly years in Nazareth. Some spiritual writers have called these the “hidden years” because so little is written about them in the Gospels. However, upon meditation, these years reveal the holiness of ordinary life. There in the house of Nazareth, Jesus “grew in wisdom, age and grace” and he forever transformed family life. The Christian family has been called the “domestic church” or the “church of the home.” In the midst of the family as in the Holy Family, Christ is truly present. However, we need eyes to see him at work, ears to hear his teaching and hearts to make a place for him to abide. In our own families, we can learn the way of selfless love in this school of Nazareth because Love is the heart of the school of Nazareth. The family, the “domestic church,” is the place where we begin and continue our journey of growth in love, mutuality and prayer. Family life is where lessons for a lifetime are taught, learned and adopted. We learn thoughtfulness to others, selflessness, reconciliation, forgiveness, celebrating, ritual prayer, to name a few. Within the Holy Family, Jesus had to learn these same life lessons. A cursory look at Scripture tells us that Jesus must have learned to pray and worship within His family. The presentation in the Temple, the annual celebratory journey to Jerusalem for the Passover and the finding in the Temple indicate that Jesus was being raised in the traditions and celebrations of His People. Jesus was known as the “Carpenter’s Son” so he must have apprenticed with Joseph in order to provide for his mother after the death of Joseph. Like the Holy Family, we respond to the call to holiness within the family and we experience this in real, earthy and ordinary situations. Meditating on the mystery of Nazareth, we absorb the lessons that lead to true discipleship. Mary’s humble Sr. Barbara Jean Wojnicki, CSFN “Fiat”, Joseph’s obedience and Jesus’s Provincial Superior obedience to the Father in self-sacrificing love point to the prayerful and discerning attitude necessary for true discipleship. Like Jesus of Nazareth, we can learn to choose to respond to grace, developing the eyes, ears and heart to accept the hidden invitations to love within ordinary everyday living. The school of Nazareth is the school of Love. Love formed the basis of all the actions, thoughts and prayer for the Holy Family, the earthly Trinity. Presenting the Holy Family of Nazareth as the place where God’s love was so vividly present, yet hidden from others, Mother Foundress wrote in her Journal in 1885: “… I envisioned our life in Nazareth as a life of love, externally given to work … of whatever our Lord may require….But in the very depths of the soul the interior life would flourish in profound union with God ….” These words, spoken to the Sisters as well as to all of us, reflect the magnitude of the mystery of Nazareth, the scope of its ability to teach, and they continue building up the Kingdom here and now! So as the days grow shorter and the temperature begins to drop, we look forward to the celebrations that are ahead. Thanksgiving ushers in so many wonderful occasions to share as family, pass on our family and Church traditions, and really communicate the importance of family. And you, our readers, are a very important part of our Nazareth Family. Please know that we remember the members of your family who have gone before you on All Souls Day. We will remember with gratitude your generosity and support on Thanksgiving and we assure you of our prayer for you and your families during the Christmas season, especially on the Feast of the Holy Family. Lovingly in the Holy Family, Editor’s note: CSFNs ‘prepare the way of the Lord’ day in, day out “Prepare, prepare//the way of the Lord. Prepare the way,//make straight his paths.” These words from a favorite Advent hymn paraphrase those familiar verses from Isaiah the prophet. Yes, the words are familiar, but they deliver a message easily lost in the busy-ness of the Christmas season. Are we preparing ourselves and our families for the coming of the Lord — yesterday, today and tomorrow? My bosses — the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth — strive to do just that every day of the year. To follow their charism — to share the Kingdom of God’s love with the people of the world — ensures that they are always preparing the way. This issue of Nazareth Connections illustrates just a few of the ways the sisters live out their charism: · By being open to establishing and serving new missions (pgs. 1, 4, 6)) · By utilizing new media to share the good news (pg. 1) · By embracing sometimes difficult changes in a way that furthers their mission (pg. 3) · By sharing the good news with school children, families and business leaders (pgs. 5, 7, 10, 11, 13) Actually, you can find examples of the sisters’ charism lived in ordinary and extraordinary ways on every page of this issue. By sharing that Kingdom with us, they invite us to do the same in our daily lives. On behalf of all the sisters of Holy Family Province and the provincial staff, we wish you all the blessings of the season and much joy in the new year. As always, thanks for reading! Judy Horak, Director of Communications 2 Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Mission & Ministry Sisters, alumnae gather for final Mass at Mt. Nazareth Friends, family and alumnae came from near and far on Nov. 23 to bid farewell to Mt. Nazareth, Pittsburgh, once the provincialate for the former St. Joseph Province of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN) that also housed a residential girls’ high school. The almost 100-year-old building once was home to some 100 sisters, though in recent years, it housed three small communities totaling less than 20 sisters. Many of those sisters have temporarily relocated to another convent, although one small community remains. Srs. Geraldine Wodarczyk and Kathleen Matuszewski, co-facility managers, spoke to local reporters before the open house, Mass and reception. They reminisced and looked forward, with Sr. Geraldine telling one newspaper, “It’s a whole different living of poverty. Our vows of poverty at one time were more personal, but this really is letting go of history.” 9 Mt. Nazareth chapel to remain Sr. Geraldine Wodarczyk pauses a moment in the historic chapel at Mt. Nazareth, once the Pittsburgh provincialate for the CSFNs. The chapel, as well as the daycare, will remain. (Pittsburgh Post-Gazette photo by Michael Henninger; used with permission) Mt. Nazareth to house 42 senior residences Presbyterian Senior Care (PSC), the largest non-profit provider of senior living services in Western Pennsylvania, is planning a $10 million project to convert Mt. Nazareth on Bellevue Road, Pittsburgh, into 42 senior apartments. Work is expected to start in the spring. Mt. Nazareth Learning Center, the daycare center on the two lower floors of the building, will remain and receive $1 million in improvements as part of PSC’s construction plan. Holy Family Province will build a small convent on the campus to house sisters from ’the Mount,’ with some sisters temporarily relocated and a small group remaining until the new, smaller convent opens. Sr. Linda Yankoski honored by Duquesne University Citing her achievements on behalf of HFI, children students now live on campus and study at local Catholic high schools. Last year, Holy Family Institute implemented a new approach to residential treatment, designed to help reduce recidivism among juvenile offenders. Sr. Linda Yankoski, president of Holy Family Institute, Emsworth, Recently elected as chair of Catholic Charities USA, Sr. Linda sat on Duquesne’s board for 10 years, serving as vice chair. PA, was one of four women and men recently inducted into the She remains an emeritus member. 9 Century Club of Distinguished Duquesne University Alumni. Sr. Linda holds an Ed. D. in graduate education from Duquesne. Joining the CSFNs in 1972, Sr. Linda was assigned to work at Holy Family Institute as a social work intern in 1975, beginning a 38-year career with HFI. In 1988, she was named executive director of the Institute; in 2001, its president. She holds a bachelor’s degree in social work from the University of Pittsburgh and a master’s in administration from Notre Dame. Her list of accomplishments is long. In recent years, as HFI president, Sr. Linda has implemented a violence prevention initiative and established a workforce development program. When refugee children came to Pittsburgh following the 2010 Haitian earthquake, the Institute took in 12 orphans, developing a comprehensive program—including preschool and elementary City skyline a perfect backdrop for new Century Club members Sr. Linda Yankoski, second from left, is joined by, l to r, Rev. James P. education—to help these and other unaccompanied children. In 2011, the institute launched an international college preparatory program, through which dozens of international Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 McCloskey, Duquesne President Charles Dougherty, Lisette McCormick and Robert Wanovish at the Oct. 11 reception for the new members of the Duquesne Century Club. (Duquesne University photo) 3 International “Another step toward Vietnam”—notes from Sr. Angela Marie continued from page 1 As the CSFNs explore the possibility of establishing a new mission in Vietnam, Sr. Angela Marie Mazzeo, general councilor from Rome, spent a week there this past summer, visiting with religious sisters, two bishops, seminarians and students as part of the congregation’s discernment process. Here are some excerpts from her report to the sisters. On arriving at Ho Chi Minh City (formerly Saigon), she was met by “Sr. Julianna Tran and a priest from the Xuan Loc Seminary where Sr. Julianna assists with the English language program run by Holy Family University.” They were joined later by Sr. Maria Fe Mata, the provincial superior in the Philippines. Welcome, sisters! Some of the novices from the Sisters of the Holy Rosary welcome CSFNs to Vietnam. At left, Srs. Julianna Tran and Maria Fe Mata. At right, Sr. Angela Marie Mazzeo. On page 1, Sr. Angela Marie visits with Bishops Joseph Dao and Dominique Nguyen. (CSFN photos) They were housed at the Xuan Loc Seminary and welcomed by seminarians eager to practice English. That day, they also met with Bishop Joseph Dao, auxiliary bishop of Xuan Loc Diocese and rector of the seminary, discussing what steps are necessary to prepare “for service in Vietnam and exploring future ministry possibilities. With the assistance of Bishop Joseph, we were able to accomplish these goals and to learn so much more!” Sr. Angela Marie reports. During another visit, Bishop Joseph “stressed that our charism is very much needed there.” The sisters also met with both Bishop Joseph and Bishop Dominique Nguyen, who hopes to create a family center. Srs. Angela Marie and Marie Fe spent much time on the road, traveling through Ho Chi Minh and Xuan Loc dioceses, talking to sisters in 11 different congregations serving there. All minister in pre-schools, even those with ministries outside of education, Sr. Angela Marie reports. Generally, the Vietnamese government does not permit religious groups to operate any other schools. Visiting pre-schools and daycare facilities, “we received a wonderful welcome from the children complete with singing, clapping and even some dancing.” Note: Sr. Angela Marie hails from Philadelphia, where she served for years as a hospital pharmacist before joining the General Administration in Rome. Sr. Julianna Tran is a graduate student at Holy Family University, Philadelphia, where she assists with the university’s English language program for Vietnamese seminarians. 9 CSFNs, neighbors recovering after earthquakes, typhoon in Philippines CSFNs in Bohol, the Philippines, are teaching in tents and waiting patiently for the promised return of electricity on Christmas Eve — all in the wake of the Oct. 15 earthquake (7.1 magnitude), the Nov. 8 Typhoon Haiyan and a second, smaller earthquake Nov. 11. “Roads are not passable, so just continue praying for us, our country and people,” Sr. Maria Fe Mata, provincial superior in the Philippines, wrote on Nov. 9 from Manila. After the typhoon, the CSFN school in Bohol served as an evacuation center. After the first, devastating earthquake, Sr. Maria Fe wrote, “God is so good, the timing was such that when the earthquake occurred, there was no school and no work — it was a public holiday.” For days, the sisters and most of their neighbors slept outside or in tents, cautiously returning to first-floor quarters — when available — after a few days. Power was restored within a few days after the earthquake, but since the typhoon, residents have been functioning without electricity. Sr. Helen Tereba, assistant general superior of the CSFNs, arrived on Nov. 10 for a planned official visit to the sisters in the Philippines. She reports that “all the residents of Bohol have returned to a very basic lifestyle...relying on daylight and finding water wherever they can.” The CSFNs use a generator two hours a day to fill water tanks, iron and charge cell phones — cell phone towers were restored a few days after the typhoon. Morning and evening prayers are recited by flashlight and candlelight; for bathing, the sisters have ‘bucket baths’ by flashlight. Most importantly, they have reopened their school, welcoming children to outdoor classrooms — tents on the school playground. 9 (Photo by Sr. Helen Tereba) 4 Children in Bohol are delighted to be back in school Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 International Governance Study Committee holds third session in Krakow The Congregation’s Governance Committee of seven from around the globe gathered in Krakow in mid-October for its third session. “The work was intense and each day well organized with the end goal always in front of us,” Sr. Rita Fanning, provincial councilor, noted. In addition to Sr. Rita, Sr. Hanna Paradowska of Des Plaines, IL, participated in these meetings. While most of their time was spent analyzing and reviewing documents, on their final afternoon, the sisters made a pilgrimage to the Divine Mercy shrine in Krakow, as well as to a new shrine built in honor of Bl. John Paul II. Check this out! Sr. Dominika Konieczna, Warsaw, works with Sr. Maria Goretti Jach, translator and Sr. Hanna Paradowska, Des Plaines, IL. (CSFN photo) Pilgrims On Oct. 22, members of the CSFN international Governance Study Committee went on pilgrimage to two shrines in Krakow: the Divine Mercy Shrine (above) and the new Shrine built in honor of Bl. John Paul II. Shown here, left to right: Srs. Maria Teresa Marcinik, Rome; Srs. Hanna Paradowska and Rita Fanning, Des Plaines, IL, and Sr. Maria Goretti Jach, Krakow. (CSFN photos) Sekacz: It’s the tree cake, Sr. Rita! Sr. Angela Marie Mazzeo, general councilor, explains the history of the tree cake, or sekacz, a delicacy dating back to the Middle Ages in eastern Poland. Sr. Rita Fanning is her attentive pupil. Around the Province: Faith formation, faith in action Witness to faith Sr. Mary Ellen Gemmell installs a picture of Bl. Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd in a school corridor. (NAGS photo) Faith Fair at Nazareth Academy Grade School A different take on Advent on YouTube To celebrate and mark the close of the Church’s Year of Faith, the students, teachers and staff at Nazareth Academy Grade School held a ‘Faith Fair’ on Nov. 21, the feast day of CSFN foundress, Bl. Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd. Students from all grades participated in the Faith Fair, not unlike a science fair, but with student research and creative work focused on faith. Sr. Theresita Donach discusses the Holy Family and Advent in a video on the Family Innocence project’s YouTube channel. We sometimes put the Holy Family on a pedestal, she says, thinking they don’t relate to the messiness of real family life. What if we look at Mary as the first unwed mother, St. Joseph as a stepfather and the Family as immigrants when they fled into Egypt? “These are issues we face today,” she says. You can find the video at “Our gift of faith is our life,” Sr. Mary Ellen Gemmell, principal, says. The Faith Fair initiative provided an opportunity to make the students more familiar with the story of Frances Siedliska, Bl. Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd, who founded the CSFNs in 1875. “Who... is a better instructor? She leads us to the Holy Family, and they reflect the Father, our Creator; Jesus, our Redeemer and the Holy Spirit, our Sanctifier.” Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vsh7Gu_-t4Q Family Innocence is a non-profit corporation “dedicated to keeping families out of court: resolving conflicts & injustices peacefully.” Sr. Theresita was invited to share her reflection by Attorney and founder Michelle MacDonald, a friend of one of Sister’s former students. 9 5 Fall, winter around the Province Sr. Lucille retires from Nazarethville; decades of service in health care Sr. Lucille Madura recently retired after 14 years as administrator of Nazarethville, Des Plaines, IL, now part of the Presence Health network. In addition to her 14 years at the helm of Nazarethville, Sr. Lucille served 12 years at Holy Family Hospital (now Holy Family Medical Center), Des Plaines; 10 years at St. Mary of Nazareth Hospital, Chicago, and nine years on the governing boards of all three ministries. Texas farewell for Sr. Edyta: Moving from one ‘holy land’ to another CSFNs from across Texas gathered at Jesus the Good Shepherd Convent in Grand Prairie for a farewell celebration for Sr. Edyta Krawczyk, who has moved to the CSFN mission in Haifa, Israel. Above, Sr. Edyta (right) is joined by Sr. Mary Paul Haase, standing, and Sr. Lillianne Murzyn, who seem to be admiring both Sr. Edyta and the spectacular sign the sisters created for her. (Photo by Sr. Malgorzata Majszczyk) In her retirement, Sr. Lucille plans to pray and reflect to discern God’s will. She’s confident a part-time position will surface that will enable her to continue to serve. (Sr. Lucille photos courtesy of Presence Health) Sr. Maryann McKeogh, former provincial treasurer, assumed administrator responsibilities at Nazarethville on Nov. 4 after studying for and receiving her nursing home administrator’s license from both the State of Illinois and the federal government. Celebrating summer research with Sr. Marcella Louise & students Earlier this fall, Sr. Marcella Louise Wallowicz, at right, and her summer research students were recognized at a Chestnut Hill College math program. Sister’s students, Kevin Bates and Megan Kelly, displaying their certificates, presented a project that dealt with metacognition and the use of Math Eliciting Activities (MEAs) to increase student engagement and learning. Sr. Marcella Louise explains, “MEAs are the ‘real-world problems’ in problem-based learning. My research students created MEAs involving optimizing work schedules, redecorating a home and simultaneously managing a savings account and a checking account.” Also shown are, at left, Dr. Mike Markowitz, VP Academic Affairs at Holy Family, and two representatives from the Council of Independent Colleges. 6 Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Around the Province St. Leonard’s Home welcomes business community to mark Year of Faith Group explores “The Vocation of the Business Leader” That’s the message of “Vocation of the Business Leader: A Reflection,” issued by the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace last year. More recently, it was the focus of a special discussion earlier this month, featuring presentations by Sr. Thea Krause and the Most Rev. Mark Bartchak, bishop of the Diocese of Altoona-Johnstown. The program for business people and leaders of the local faith community was organized by the board of directors for St. Leonard’s Home in Hollidaysburg, PA, as its mission activity for the year. Sr. Thea and Bishop Bartchak shared their reflections on the vocation document, then invited input and faith-sharing from the audience of local business people. “We wanted to engage the professional community in the area in a Year of Faith activity oriented toward their particular issues as business people,” Sr. Cynthia Meyer, executive director of St. Leonard’s, which hosted the evening. 9 [Sr. Thea is the institutional ethicist and the patient coordinator for veterans with primary clinical traumatic brain injuries at the VA Medical Center in Altoona, PA.] Photos, top: Sr. Thea Krause and Bishop Mark Bartchak compare notes before their joint presentation. Middle: Sr. Maria and Chris Conner, right, a banker from Hastings, PA, in a small-group discussion. Bottom: Sr. Maria Kruszewski, center, enjoys the conversation with Judge Paula Aigner and Attorney Maryann Joyce Bistline, both trustees of St. Leonard’s. (CSFN photos by Sr. Thea Krause and Sr. Michele Collins) Family, friends help Sr. Claire celebrate 100 years More than 125 Sisters, family members and friends helped Sr. Claire Pawlak celebrate her 100th birthday earlier this month at Holy Family Manor. Fr. David Moczulski, ofm, was the principal celebrant, assisted by a great-nephew of Sr. Claire. Sr. Claire spent her ministry years in education, teaching primary and middle grades, and also serving Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 as principal, local superior and supervising teacher. From 1982 until well into the 2000s, she served at St. Hyacinth Parish in Dillonvale, OH, finally retiring after serving as sacristan and Eucharistic minister. Sr. Claire drew visitors from far and wide. “It was a huge success,” the Pittsburgh sisters report. 9 (Photo by Sr. Celeste Hupert) 7 Vocations Sr. Faustina Ferko’s apostolic experience takes her across the Province Second-year novice Sr. Faustna Ferko began her apostolic experience in early fall, traveling to Long Island, NY, in early September; Altoona, PA, in October, and Philadelphia in November. St. Leonard’s Home in Hollidaysburg. Sr. Faustina joined in with residents in some of St. Leonard’s activities. She also accompanied Sr. Thea during her teaching ministry at St. Aloysius College. From St. Theresa of the Child Jesus Convent in Wading River, NY (on long Island), Sr. Faustina observed and walked alongside Sr. Michele Bremer in her prison ministry during September. In November, Sr. Faustina joined Sr. Mary Anthony Lovezzola in her ministry at Nazareth Academy High School, Philadelphia, residing with the Sisters at St. Katherine of Siena Convent in that city. At the start of Sr. Faustina’s journey, Sr. David Sibiski, director of novices, noted In October, Sr. Faustina joined Sr. Cynthia Meyer and Sr. Thea Krause in their community in Altoona, PA. Sr. Faustina spent time with Sr. Cynthia, executive director of Sr. Faustina at vocation fair in Steubenville, OH. that “Sr. Faustina is very excited and eager to be among our Nazareth communities and share our Nazareth charism. 9 Meeting with a female prisoner on Long Island. Sr. Theresita Donach becomes new Vocation Director in January Sr. Theresita Donach officially assumes the role of Province Vocation Director on Monday, Jan. 6. But for months now, she has been working alongside Sr. Michele Vincent Fisher, provincial councilor since January and vocation director since 2007. This fall, Sr. Theresita moved from Blackstone, MA, to the Provincialate in Des Plaines, IL. A scene from her multi-state trek is shown at right, with photo courtesy of Sr. Jeanne Mariet, CSI who traveled with “Sr. T” to Chicago. Watch for an interview with Sr. T and Sr. Michele in our next issue. 9 8 Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Vocations Congratulations, Sr. Josephine! Ten months after she became a postulant and 22 months after becoming a CSFN affiliate, Toni Garrett — now Sr. Josephine — was accepted into the CSFN novitiate at a Vespers service at Jesus the Good Shepherd Convent in Grand Prairie, TX. Saturday, Sept. 21 was a joy-filled and emotional day for the new Sr. Josephine, her family and friends, as these photos attest. Above, a teary-eyed Sr. Josephine addresses the reception crowd. Above right, A beaming Toni Garrett, still a CSFN postulant, shares the front pew with Sr. Barbara Jean Wojnicki, provincial superior, at left, and Sr. David Sibiski, novice director, at right. Toni’s family was in the front pew across the aisle. Bottom right, Sr. Marietta Osinska, left, Toni’s director of formation, holds the novice’s veil while Provincial Superior Sr. Barbara Jean Wojnicki reads the commitment prayer. (Photos by Emily Alexander, Sr. Michaela Tomkowiak and Sr. Marietta Osinska) Visit us as www.nazarethcsfn.org to learn more about Toni’s road to Nazareth and life as Sr. Josephine. Sr. Maria Sophia renews vows In late summer, Sr. Maria Sophia Gerlach renewed her temporary vows at the Provincialate chapel. Here she makes her vows before Provincial Superior Sr. Barbara Jean Wojnicki, the congregation and God. (Photo by Sr. Gabriela Duszynska) This way to the chapel! Sr. Mary Paul Haase leads “Come & See” participants on a convent walkabout as they compare the sisters’ home to their family homes, learning what makes convent life special and unique. Thirteen high school students participated in this late-summer Come & See while seven adult women took part in the Discernment Weekend at Jesus the Good Shepherd Convent, Grand Prairie, TX. (Photo by Sr. Rosalynn Nguyen) Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Nun Run Always lots of smiles after the Midwest CSFNs host participants in the Archdiocese of Chicago ‘Nun Run.’ Here, sisters from several convents gather at Divine Providence Convent, Des Plaines, with the ‘runners.’ (CSFN photo) 9 Around the Province Diocesan medal of honor Srs. Thaddeus Rajca, Barbara Sudol and Mary Ellen Genova beam after receiving the Diocese of Bridgeport’s 2013 St. Augustine Medal of Service. The sisters are among the 23 members of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown, CT, honored for their service in December 2012 in the wake of the Sandy Hook school shootings. Bridgeport diocese honors three CSFNs Three Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN) are among the 23 staff members of St. Rose of Lima Parish, Newtown, CT, to receive the 2013 St. Augustine Medal of Service awarded by the Diocese of Bridgeport this fall. Srs. Thaddeus Rajca, Mary Ellen Genova and Barbara Sudol were nominated by Bridgeport Bishop Frank J. Caggiano. “This year’s ceremony was distinguished by the prolonged standing ovation given to the 23 members of the St. Rose of Lima Parish who received recognition for the extraordinary services they performed” in the wake of the Dec. 14, 2012, Newtown tragedy that left 26 children and teachers dead, the diocesan newspaper, the Fairfield County Catholic, reported. Bishop Caggiano said, “At a time when so many people wonder where God is, you make his compassion, mercy and presence real.” The medal is named for St. Augustine because “he wrote one of the most beautiful sermons ever written about generosity,” Bishop Caggiano told the 900 people assembled in St. Augustine Cathedral for the prayer service and medal ceremony. (Group photo by Sr. Bernice Stobierski; medal photo by Sr. Barbara Sudol) 10 Winter’s early start ... and a bit of wonderland From Texas to New England, winter has made itself known most emphatically, with ice and snow storms, frigid temperatures — and beautiful scenes like this one, outside the CSFN Provincialate in Des Plaines, IL. Our newest U.S. citizen Sr. Francesca Witkowska, left, shows off her new citizenship certificate earlier this year with Sr. Natanaela Swieconek, herself a relatively new citizen. A native of Poland, Sr. Francesca has been stationed in the U.S. since 2003, with a year back in Warsaw. Please visit www. nazarethcsfn.org for more of her story. Mission & Ministry leadership retreat In November, the CSFN Mission & Ministry Board hosted a gathering of the Provincial Leadership Team, Mission Advancement Committee members and the CEOs, directors, principals, senior administrators and board members of CSFN-sponsored ministries. Sr. Thea Krause was the keynote speaker, discussing “Virtuous Sr. Loretta Organizations Inspired by Catholic Mission: Our Vocation as Theresa Felici Business Leaders.” The 60 participants who gathered at Holy Family University, Philadelphia, discussed a draft of the CSFN Core Values; their feedback will be used by the sisters to continue to shape the Core Values, according to Sr. Loretta Theresa Felici, president & CEO of CSFN Mission & Ministry, Inc. Afternoon break-out sessions were facilitated by the Mission Advancement team: Srs. Marie Kielanowicz, Cynthia Meyer and Maria Kruszewski. A copy of “Vocation of the Business Leader,” published by the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace, was provided to participants as recommended reading and can be found at www.stthomas.edu/cathstudies/cst Sr. Angela elected to NCNWR board Sr. Angela Szczawinska (Midwest), electronic media coordinator for the province, was elected earlier this fall to a three-year term on the board of the National Communicators Network for Women Religious (NCNWR). Sr. Angela joins the board in January 2014, when NCNWR becomes “CWR” — Communicators for Women Religious. Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Around the Province Superiors pray & reflect together in Pittsburgh “I feel as if I am only an echo of his voice.” These words of Mother Foundress, Bl. Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd, were the theme of the September retreat and meeting of the Province’s local superiors, who gathered at Mt. Nazareth in Pittsburgh. Sr. Catherine Fedewa, assistant provincial, said the retreat directed by Sr. Marie Kielanowicz was ‘fabulous, very inspiring.” Say ‘cheese!’ From the looks of this photo, the local superiors who gathered in Pittsburgh in September were happy to oblige photographer Sr. Angela Szczawinska. “Only an echo of his voice” was the way Mother Foundress felt she was to direct the sisters. “Most of what Sr. Marie spoke about was the concept of relationships,” Sr. Catherine said, “that Mother Foundress was very personal with the sisters, very compassionate and yet firm when that was necessary.” 9 The true meaning From the winners of the school Christmas card contest, it’s obvious the students at Nazareth Academy Grade School (NAGS) understand the true meaning of Christmas. These winning cards are the creation of 8th-graders Tracy Marcelis (left) and Michele Anzabi (right). Students also created messages for the cards, including this offering from Julia Halas, also an 8th-grader: Christmas A time for fun, a time for cheer, A time for friends and family dear. A time for laughs, a time for smiles. But most of all, a time for Mary, Joseph And their newborn child! Merry Christmas! The cards were sent by the administration, faculty and staff of NAGS. Sr. Stella Louise Slomka recognized by Retirement Research Foundation After serving 34 years as a trustee on the Retirement Research Foundation (RRF), Sr. Stella Louise Slomka recently stepped down from that post — and promptly was named a ‘trustee emerita’ by the board. A member of the CSFNs since she was 17, Sr. Stella Louise was “always a trailblazer,” the RFF notes, earning a BS in Commerce & Finance from St. Louis University in 1958, and a master’s in hospital Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 administration in 1959. That same year, she was named president of St. Mary of Nazareth Hospital Center. In the 1960s, under her leadership, the hospital built a 16-story, 495-bed facility in Chicago’s West Town/Ukrainian Village neighborhood. For the RRF, Sr. Stella Louise helped establish grantmaking programs that support the person-centered culture movement in nursing homes and long-term care facilities, and fund projects that enable houses of worship to make their facilities more accessible to the elderly and disabled. 9 11 Around the Province: Peace & Justice Can We Tip the Balance? A column by Sr. Mary Annette Gailey, CSFN When I was young, we had a favorite hymn in the children’s choir. Some of you may know it: “Pass it On” (Kurt Kaiser): “It only takes a spark to get a fire going. And soon all those around, can warm up in its glowing.” There is a bit of a spark in the air as we travel through Advent. This season invites us to a spirit of hopeful anticipation – awaiting new life, of light born in darkness. Aware that the health of our planet is in dire straits, that the poor and vulnerable are ever increasingly threatened and impacted by environmental ills, we are, indeed, grappling with darkness. This is no time to hide our lights under baskets. This is a time to stand in solidarity with the poor and most vulnerable among us, as Pope Francis leads us to do by his example. A recent article in the mainstream media (see TIME at http://nation.time. com/2013/11/15/the-real-reason-pope-francis-posed-with-anti-fracking-activists/) argued that the pope wasn’t really against fracking (hydraulic fracturing) – he was simply being a champion for the poor. Yet, as Francis’ recent predecessors emphasized, ecological justice is impossible without addressing poverty. Standing in solidarity requires a disarming acceptance that we are ONE family of God. Where you and I choose to stand is important because “every aspect of our lives is, in a sense, a vote for the kind of world we want to live in.” (Frances Moore Lappe).* To realize how deep and wide and enmeshed is this web to which we belong, consider as John Muir insists: “When we tug at a single thing in nature we find it attached to the rest of the world.” When we destroy or allow destruction of any aspect of creation, we are destroying ourselves. “Mystics have always asserted that all creation is a unified whole, but most human beings have not lived out of that kind of consciousness…” (Beth Blissman).* Every decision or non-decision (always, actually, a decision) leads to another, and another, each with consequences that accumulate with both positive and negative effects. When I drive to work, I am fortunate enough to use a car with excellent gas mileage. I choose to take a short-cut that avoids other traffic – which also reduces idling time – and therefore, emissions. I am mindful of the RPM (revolutions per minute) meter in the dashboard, indicating the speed of the engine; maintaining steady RPMs (at approx. 1.5 RPMs) enhances miles per gallon. (An example for those who are unfamiliar: drivers who speed up to the next light often surge 3-5 RPMs, increase emissions and reduce overall gas mileage). Driving mindfully can have a relatively positive effect on the environment. Yet, at the same time, driving a car has a negative impact on air quality and the use of precious resources. Alternatives, such as public transportation, sometimes are available, yet in my case, that’s often impractical due to route schedules and other responsibilities such as traveling between work sites. In our modern society, it is likely that we will find our decisions simultaneously contributing to both the demise and the recovery of our planet in various ways. Choosing to live consciously aware of this balance gives me pause in many decisions – large and small. Efforts continue to be made in the private and public sector to expand environmentally sustainable solutions to systemic problems – while at the same time, financial and political power continue to undermine these efforts. It is not enough to break even at this critical juncture – we must tip the scale in recovering our right (positive) relationships with God, with one another, with all of creation, and with ourselves. According to Aldo Leopold, “We can be ethical only in relation to something we can see, feel, understand, love, or otherwise have faith in.”* As Judy Cannato prayed, “Holy Heart of the Universe, help me to see myself in relation to all that is. Help me to recognize the ways that my energy touches all that is, the ways my habits and words affect all the wholes to which I am a part.”* As we prepare to celebrate the Incarnation of our God, entering our world poor, homeless and dependent, may we see Christ ever more fully in the most vulnerable of our present age, and welcome them into our hearts, our homes and *Excerpts from Earth Saints and Heroes our conscious decisions. 12 A reminder from Sr. Catherine Fedewa: Pray, fast on Fridays for immigration reform We have committed our sisters to PRAYER AND FASTING for immigration reform on FRIDAYS; our efforts began Aug. 16. Those who would like to join together in spirit are asked to pray and fast for compassionate immigration reform every Friday until the House of Representatives completes its voting process. Meanwhile...Immigration video, We Are All Immigrant, now available on YouTube. Immigrants who arrived in Pittsburgh from Kenya and Nigeria, the Philippines, Italy and Mexico tell their stories through a new video, produced by sisters from Pittsburgh area religious congregations, including the CSFNs. The 30-minute film, “We Are All Immigrants,” is available on YouTube at: http:// youtu.be/RT2t7s2zwoA Anti-Human Trafficking Newsletter The Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth are among the 50+ religious congregations who support this newsletter. Recent issue covers Vatican seminar on human trafficking; Pope involved The current issue of Stop Trafficking shares highlights from the unprecedented Vatican seminar on human trafficking. Seventy delegates from around the globe attended, with another 60 observers present, contributing expertise and proposals to combat trafficking. “Pope Francis was directly involved in combating modern day slavery in Buenos Aires, where he actively supported the work of the Fundacion Alameda, an Argentinian organization headed by Gustavo Vera, another of the speakers” at the Vatican conference. “The Pope’s first trip after his election was to Lampedusa to pay tribute to the hundreds who had recently died at sea, trying to reach this island half-way between Sicily and Tunisia…” Please check out the entire newsletter at www.stopenslavement.org/index.html. Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Association of the Holy Family Cleveland Associates reflect on faith, survival amid Holocaust horrors The power of faith and survival amid the horrors of the Holocaust were the focus of the late October meeting of the Cleveland chapter of the Association of the Holy Family. The guest speaker was Gita Frankel, a friend of Associate Mildred Dudl and a survivor of World War II concentration camps. “Many questions and tears were shared by all as Mrs. Frankel unfolded her story,” according to Sr. Madeleine Rybicki, coordinator for the Cleveland group. Mrs. Frankel, now 88, was 13 when she was sent to the first of a series of camps, including Lodz and Auschwitz. ”She said her faith is what kept her alive,” Sr. Madeleine recounts. “She pointed out to us that she missed her family ... and that she was often very hungry. What terrorized her very much was lining up daily and not knowing if being on the right or left was the word to go to the chambers,” Sr. Madelein recounts. Other terrors: seeing others get shot and the humiliation of stripping down your clothing. A Polish-speaker, Mrs. Frankel is “excited to speak with anyone who speaks Polish, especially our Sisters,” Sr. Madeleine reports. She has made presentations at colleges, high schools, grade schools and other organizations. A Cleveland resident, she will be speaking with Associate groups in Erie, PA, and in Pittsburgh in March and April of 2014. 9 Photo: Gathered in faith: Associate Dolores Dodrausky, Holocaust survivor Gita Frankel and Sr. Madeleine Rybicki smile for the camera after Mrs. Frankel’s presentation to members of the Cleveland Association group. (Photo by Sr. Madeleine Rybicki) Mid-Atlantic Associates enjoy annual gathering at Mt. Nazareth, Philadelphia Every October, nine local groups of the Association of the Holy Family (including one from Miami, FL!) gather at Mt. Nazareth, Philadelphia, for an annual day of reflection. Fr. Lawrence Kozak, Our Lady of Calvary Parish, Philadelphia, celebrated the Mass and shared insights in both his homily and an earlier discussion on faith and the New Evangelization. Sr. Rita Partyka, Mid-Atlantic coordinator, reports that these and other aspects of the day’s program emphasized the “star-light rays’ that we are called to be as Catholic Christians.” Almost 80 associates attended the event. Marriage Moments & Parenting Pointers by Susan Vogt www.susanvogt.net Thanksgiving and Christmas are traditionally times when adult children return home and blended families re-gather in unique and complicated ways. This can be both joyous and stressful as family systems reshuffle. Don’t let the holidays be a battlefield. If your family is perfect, work on letting go of pride. ***** Do you really believe in the resurrection of the dead as Jesus proclaimed in Luke 20:38? Even if you and your beloved are still young, have you talked about your deaths? Consider both practical issues like medical/funeral decisions and faith issues. Do you believe in an afterlife? ***** November was National Adoption Month. Adopting a child is a huge life changing decision–usually one that enriches the whole family. Discern whether it is right for your family. If not, perhaps being a short-term foster parent or mentoring or tutoring a child would work. Think about it. ***** Advent is a time of quiet preparation, in the dark days before the “re-birth” of Christ. Don’t let our hectic consumer culture rob you of this special spiritual time. Sure, buy some gifts, but allow yourself to be blessed by less—stress, clutter, and frenzy. Sometimes less is more. See my new book, Blessed By Less, for tips on how. Used with permission of the author. Distributed via the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministries (NACFLM, which counts the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth among its members. Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 13 In Memoriam Sr. Honesta (Harriet) Pozdol July 13, 1916 – Aug. 29, 2013 The youngest of seven children born to Joseph and Katherine Pozdol in Chicago, young Harriet Pozdol was educated by the CSFNs at Holy Trinity School in that city. After her 8th-grade graduation in 1931, Harriet entered the Congregation in Des Plaines, IL, attending Holy Family Academy as an aspirant. After her novitiate and as a temporary professed sister, Sr. Honesta entered the three-year nursing program at St. Mary of Nazareth Hospital, Chicago, graduating in 1941. She earned her B.S. from DePaul University in 1944. Her earliest experiences in nursing involved the care of newborn and premature infants, having received a certificate in pediatric nursing from St. Mary’s in 1938. She advanced to supervisor at St. Joseph Hospital in Clayton, NM. After four years there, she returned to Chicago, earning a master’s in nursing education and teaching in the nursing program at St. Mary of Nazareth Hospital in Chicago. It was the first of several opportunities to educate and influence a new generation of nursing students. After 25 years of nursing, Sr. Honesta resumed her professional studies, earning a master’s in hospital administration in 1962 from St. Louis University. Subsequently, she was appointed administrator of Bethania Hospital in Wichita Falls, TX, serving from 1962-71. She moved to Tyler, TX, where she served as administrator of Mother Frances Hospital through 1980. At the start of her tenure, Mother Frances had 700 employees and recorded 12,000 patient visits per year; during her 10 years at the helm, the hospital doubled in size. In all quarters – patients, family members, hospital employees and the larger healthcare community -- Sr. Honesta was recognized for both her compassion and leadership skills. Sr. Honesta’s dedicated service on the Foundation Board of Mother Frances Hospital was a key component in the 1987 designation of Mother Frances Hospital as the East Texas region’s Children Miracle Network hospital, enabling the hospital to provide specialized technology and services for pediatric patients. In her role as advisor to the executive committee for the Auxiliary at Trinity Mother Frances Hospital System, Sr. Honesta was declared by all who knew her as one of the kindest people, a caring friend to all with only the best things to say about others. Sr. Honesta’s administrative talents were broadly utilized within the Texas healthcare community. At various times, she served as chair of the Texas conference of Catholic Health Facilities and the east Texas and Midwestern divisions. She was a regional director for the Texas Hospital Association and a Life Fellow of the American College of Healthcare Executives, where she continued to demonstrate her talent for balancing quality patient care with financial stability. She tirelessly served her community and the healthcare profession until her retirement as hospital vice president in 2002, transferring from Tyler to Jesus the Good Shepherd Convent in Grand Prairie, TX. Sr. Honesta was an enthusiastic participant in community life, even after a toxic lump necessitated the amputation of one of her legs. A few years later, the other leg was amputated, but still, Sr. Honesta maintained her genteel, caring spirit. She loved being with people, reading – and spending quality time with “Impy” the cat who parked himself in her lap as Sr. Honesta sat on the patio, saying her prayers. Asked once how she was doing, Sr. Honesta replied, “I enjoy my life. I cannot wish for more.” 9 Sr. Alice (Hedwig) Lubiak Nov. 13, 1919 – Sept. 21, 2013 Sr. Alice Lubiak’s love of learning was a lifelong passion; whenever assigned new responsibilities, she took courses to enhance her skills — even taking a Spanish language class in her senior years. A native of Wilkes Barre, PA, Hedwig Lubiak was two when her family moved to Erie, PA, near St. Casimir Parish where Hedwig and her siblings attended the parish school. Encouraged by her pastor, she sought admission to the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, her teachers at school. She became an aspirant while attending high school at Mt. Nazareth Academy in Pittsburgh, becoming a postulant her senior year and graduating in 1937. Now Sr. Alice, she professed final vows in 1945. She earned a B.S. in Education from St. John College and a master’s in religious education from Providence (RI) College. In 1970, she earned a second master’s in English from Marquette University, Milwaukee. Her teaching ministry encompassed both elementary and high schools, serving in elementary schools for 19 years in Cleveland, Pittsburgh and Erie, as well as Dearborn and Allen Park, MI. For 24 years, she taught high school English, theology and journalism in Cleveland and Sr. Hilarette (Helen) Gibala Jan. 17, 1917 – Nov. 1, 2013 Pittsburgh Allen Park. An excellent teacher, she was respected by her students, particularly those in their teen years. An avid reader, she regularly encouraged her students and others to read. Sr. Alice served in a variety of leadership roles for the congregation, including local superior at convents in Cleveland and Allen Park. She was assistant provincial superior for the then St. Joseph Province from 1986-92, and was a delegate to the CSFN General Chapter in Rome in both 1983 and 1988. From 1987-96, she served as administrator, bookkeeper and medical insurance clerk at Holy Family Manor, Pittsburgh. She moved to the Manor in 2003 after surgery for a fractured hip; still, she continued to serve as provincial librarian. Throughout her life, she remained close to her sisters, Sophia and Angela, and brothers, Stanley Jr. and Fr. Casimir Lubiak, as well as her nieces and nephews across the U.S. and Canada. Sr. Alice maintained a life-long friendship with her girlhood friend Jane, Sr. Anece Godlewski, who died in Australia several years ago. Despite the miles, Sr. Alice was deeply saddened by the loss of her CSFN friend from Erie. Sr. Alice celebrated her 75th anniversary in religious life in 2011. 9 Sr. Aurelia (Evelyn Denise) Lopata March 7, 1931 – Nov. 26, 2013 Philadelphia Obituaries to be posted to web; also will run in Spring issue Full obituaries for Sr. Hilarette and Sr. Aurelia will be posted to our web site, www.nazarethcsfn.org, as soon as they are available. They also will be included in the spring issue of Nazareth Connections. 14 Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 In Memoriam Sr. M. Jude (Dolores) Niemiec Oct. 10, 1932 – Oct. 26, 2013 The seventh child of Polish immigrants, young Dolores Niemiec grew up in New Boston, PA, in coalmining country. The much loved ‘baby’ of the family, Dolores attended the only public school in New Boston, developing a love for art and color. In fourth grade, her mother transferred her to the Catholic school, taught by nuns and with few art classes. When she was 12, her family moved to Philadelphia and Dolores found herself in class with 56 students, an overwhelming change from the quiet, smalltown schools she knew. For high school, she joined many of her friends at Nazareth Academy, where she had a great interest in dramatic productions. Freshman year, her art teacher advised her to continue art classes, but her mother had other suggestions. With a well-developed reputation as the class clown, Dolores and her classmates were all surprised when it was announced she was entering religious life. It had been the furthest thing from her mind, but she could not put the idea to rest. It created a need in her to withdraw to quiet places where she sensed deep peace and a yearning to know who God was. Her parents disapproved when Dolores became a CSFN postulant after high school graduation, but by the time she professed perpetual vows, her parents were reconciled to her vocation. A woman of many talents, Sr. Jude never considered what ministry she would like to enter. She let God and her religious superiors make the assignments. Her first was as a seventh-grade teacher at Sts. Cyril & Methodius School in the Greenpoint section of Brooklyn, NY. She also taught at Nazareth Academy Grade School, Philadelphia, and was the director of girls aspiring to enter religious life, a six-year assignment. She also taught social studies at St. Hubert High School, Philadelphia. She believed her next assignment as vocation director to be “one of God’s jokes” because she found public speaking intimidating. God inspired her response, creating an audio slide presentation. Next, Sr. Jude completed studies towards a master’s in art education from Penn State University, followed by an MFA (master’s in fine arts) from Catholic University. She savored these opportunities to engage in the contemplative experience of being one with God in the moment of creation. Soon she was named chairperson of the Art Department at Holy Family University, Philadelphia. During this time, Sr. Jude was a hospice volunteer at Presbyterian Hospital, studied practical nursing and earned her license. When she obtained a position in Hospice Home care with Holy Redeemer Hospital, she continued to teach part-time at the university for 12 years. With Sr. Xavier Kozubal, she established a House of Prayer in the province that evolved into a weekend and summer retreat program for 10 years until the property was sold. With this experience and her hospice work, Sr. Jude asked to become a presence among the poor in Philadelphia. She and Sr. Xavier lived with the Franciscan sisters who staffed a soup kitchen, thrift store and Women’s Center for drug-addicted women. Sr. Jude ministered there for 15 years, retiring to Mt. Nazareth in 2011 due to declining health. 9 Reflecting on a sister who was “Martha and Mary all wrapped into one” Dear readers: We’re sharing excerpts of Sr. Michele Vincent Fisher’s weekly vocation reflection of Oct. 30, 2013 — a column that paints a vivid portrait of one of the ordinary saints among us. For the full text, please visit our web site, www.nazarethcsfn.org This first time I laid eyes on her, she was curled up on the floor sitting on a little prayer pillow with one hand on the floor and the other propped under her chin, gazing wide-eyed at the tiny tabernacle that contained the Blessed Sacrament. The sun was shining into the small prayer room, bathing her in light while one single wisp of smoke rose up from a fragrant cone of incense she had placed at the foot of the tabernacle. It was a lovely sight, really. It was the first time I had seen someone praying in this way, so intimate and so amazingly still and peaceful. I silently backed away and allowed her to pray without disruption. Several minutes later, she was at the kitchen stove, preparing a delicious lunch for the small group of us who were visiting the House of Prayer that day. It was Mary and Martha all wrapped into one, and I was intrigued by this quiet, colorful woman with the light dancing in her eyes and a smile that spoke “welcome” to my inquisitive soul. For more than 25 years, Sr. Jude would be an unforgettable part of my life and of my own spiritual journey. …From her Red Velvet Cake recipe to her insightful quotes from mystics like Julian of Norwich or Meister Eckhart to her skill with a paintbrush and oils on a blank canvas, Sr. Jude was a delightful soul. … Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 As I was preparing to move on from the novitiate to make my first profession of vows, Sr. Jude was also preparing to move on to follow a dream that God had planted in her heart. This dream would take her, along with her dear friend, Sr. Xavier, into one of Philadelphia’s poorest and most dangerous neighborhoods to serve the poorest of the poor. For the next 21 years, Sr. Jude poured out her love caring for patients at St. John’s AIDS hospice, preparing meals for hundreds of Philadelphia’s hungry and homeless at St. Francis Inn and offering art programs to homeless women who would stop by the Thea Bowman Center to rest for a while. While I served as a child care worker for abused and neglected children in a different part of town, Sr. Jude was serving the mother of two of my boys, a cocaineaddicted prostitute dying from AIDS who would frequently come and lie down on the steps of St. Francis Inn, knowing that she would be safe there. “Tell my boys I love them,” was the last thing she said to me as I delivered a van load of bread to the Inn one wintry morning. I knew that this suffering soul was comforted in her most vulnerable moments by the loving touch of Sr. Jude. [The Oct. 27 Sunday readings] couldn’t have been more appropriately chosen to describe the life of our Sr. Jude. In the words of St. Paul, Jude can finally say: Beloved: I am already being poured out like a libation, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith. (2 Timothy 4:6) 9 15 Development Calendar Province events Wednesday, Dec. 18 Christmas Caroling, Grand Prairie, TX Friday, Dec. 20 1st day, Holy Family Novena. Visit http://www.nazarethcsfn.org/?s=Holy+Family+Novena for the complete Novena text in PDF format. Wednesday, Dec. 25 Christmas Day Sunday, Dec. 29 HFA Alumnae, Holy Family associates meet for afternoon of reflection on CSFN foundress Earlier this fall, approximately 85 people — Holy Family Academy (HFA) alumnae, Chicago area members of the Association of the Holy Family, sisters and guests gathered in the Provincial Home for an uplifting afternoon of prayer and reflection. A Celebration of the Legacy & Ministry of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth was sponsored by the HFA Alumnae Committee and the Association of the Holy Family. In this Year of Faith, those who attended were invited to walk in the footsteps of Bl. Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd, CSFN foundress, and spend the afternoon reflecting upon beginnings: Feast of the Holy Family Wednesday, Jan. 1, 2014 Feast of Mary, Mother of God Sunday, Jan. 12, 2014 Profession of Perpetual Vows, Sr. Gabriela Duszynska, CSFN; Des Plaines Provincialate Friday, Jan. 24, 2014 CSFN Social—Philadelphia · the beginning of the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth in Chicago, · the beginning of the Holy Family Academy on Division Street, · the establishment of the Association of the Holy Family, · the beginning of friendships and memories that will last forever. Sr. Marie Kielanowicz delivered a most eloquent pre-recorded script on the legacy and ministry bequeathed to us by our foundress which was dramatically illustrated by the Power Point presentation of Sr. Danielle Jacob, CSFN. The afternoon culminated with light refreshments and a tour of the Heritage Room. By Sr. Clare Marie Kozicki Welcome, Roe! The Development Office in Philadelphia welcomed a new administrative/major gifts assistant. Rose Marie Zachwieja (“Roe”) is shown with Srs. Helen Petela, center, and Carol Mockus, assistant development director. CSFN DVD on Nowogródek martyrs still available Opłatki update: 2,100 orders this year For the 2013 Christmas season, supporters of the CSFNs in the U.S. have placed 2,100 orders for opłatki, the traditional Christmas wafer of Poland and other central European nations. The Development Office had more than 4,000 wafers this year, ordered from CSFNs in Belarus. Visit www.nazarethcsfn.org for to order the coffee-table book commemorating the CSFNs 125 years in the U.S. 16 A limited number of DVDs about the CSFN sisters martyred by the Nazi regime in 1943 remain available through the Province Communications Office. Sr. Mary Bernard Wiecezak and Jason Kapell produced the video, prepared for the 2010-11 celebration of the CSFNs’ 125 years of ministry in the U.S. On Aug. 1, 1943, Sr. M. Stella (Adela) Mardosewicz, CSFN, and her 10 companion sisters were shot by Nazi soldiers and buried in a common grave outside Nowogródek, then in Nazi-occupied Poland, now part of Belarus. A $5 donation is suggested to cover the costs of shipping and handling; mail to Sr. Stella DVD, CSFN Communications, 310 N. River Rd., Des Plaines, IL 60016. For the prayer to our martyred sisters, please visit: http://www.nazarethcsfn.org/index.php/prayer-to-nowogrodek-martyrs/ Thank you. Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Development Texas Sisters host Mass, reception for benefactors Back in September, sisters from across Texas joined with those at Jesus the Good Shepherd Convent, Grand Prairie, to host dozens of benefactors and friends for Mass and a brunch reception. Kathi Barth, development director, and Sr. Clare Marie Kozicki, assistant development director, helped organize the program. At right, Sr. Clare partakes in the buffet with some of the many guests. Middle photos/left: Jeanne Streeter, Sr. Corona Molenda and James Cain, chairman of the board of the Grand Prairie Chamber of Commerce; right, Sr. Lillianne Murzyn and Jeanne Streeter. Below: Guests filled the chapel for Sunday Mass. (Photos by Kathi Barth) Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 17 Development Grateful Gathering draws a crowd in Pittsburgh Grateful Gathering, the popular annual fundraiser in Pittsburgh, drew its usual large crowds (an estimated 250 people) to Holy Family Manor on Saturday, Oct. 12. The buffet tables groaned under the weight of the offerings, from hearthealthy fruit trays to decadent chocolates. Net proceeds are estimated at $28,000. Sr. Jane Frances Malaczewski staffs the secret gift table. Sisters and friends crowd the tables, including Srs. Thea Krause (black jacket), Cynthia Meyer, grey, and novice Sr. Faustina Ferko. Look for more photos & information in November. (Photos by Kathi Barth) A big ‘thank you’ to our sponsors Gold Sponsors Silver Sponsors Lane Steel Co., Inc. & The Zabrowski Family Sodexo Services, Inc. The Community at Holy Family Manor, Inc. Consumers Produce Company, Inc. Vernon C. Neal & Alvina B. Neal Fund Mr. Tim Aguglia Betsy Ann American Chocolates Zalewski Funeral Homes, Inc. Bronze Sponsors G. W. Kleber & Sons Nursery Energy Savers, Inc. Dr. Lorri A. Lankiewicz, Balance for Wellness, Inc. The Paul Gropelli Memorial Company Matuszk Brothers Electrical Contractors Holy Family Institute Stahl Plumbing, Heating, Air Conditioning George Pegher, Inc. More news from the Lone Star state: CSFNs enjoy Taste of Grand Prairie As members of the Grand Prairie Chamber of Commerce, the CSFNs can sponsor a booth at the annual ‘Taste’ event. Here are some scenes from their first foray at the Taste: Left, Sr. Clare Marie Kozicki, point person for the CSFN effort, is assisted by volunteer Rose Ann Riggall. Right: Sr. Beata Czyl checks things out with volunteers Buddy Shepard and Jeanne Streeter, partially hidden. (Photos by Kathi Barth) 18 Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 Development CSFN Family Day draws 135 donors, sisters together for a tribute In early November, about 135 donors and sisters gathered in Philadelphia for the annual Family Day Mass in honor of CSFN friends and benefactors. Music for the Mass, celebrated in the Mt. Nazareth Convent Chapel, was led by the Nazareth Academy Grade School Choir. Two of their cantors are shown at left. Sr. Susan Therese Rojek was the liturgy coordinator; at far left, Sr. Maria Annette Mallen proclaims one of the readings for the Mass. At the close of Mass, the Michaelann Tribute Grant was awarded to John J. Donnelly, CEO of L.F. Driscoll. The PayIt-Forward Grant was presented to Independence Mission Schools, with CFO Ann McGoldrick on hand to receive the check. They are shown in the bottom photo with Sr. Carol Mockus, left, assistant development director, and Michael Delaney, brother of the late Sr. Michaelann Delaney, who nominated Mr. Donnelly for the award. In addition, three high school scholarship winners — students at Nazareth Academy and St. Hubert’s high schools, — were recognized. Sr. Michaelann was an alumna of St. Hubert’s. Two of the scholarship winners are shown below with Sr. Loretta Theresa Felici, president/CEO of CSFN Mission & Ministry. Far left, Sr. Loretta Theresa leads the recessional at the close of Mass. 9 (Photos by Kathi Barth) Volume 7 • Number 4 • Fall/Winter 2013 19 Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID Des Plaines, IL Permit No. 340 Central Offices, Holy Family Province 310 N. River Road | Des Plaines, IL 60016 Vol. 7 | No. 4 | Fall/Winter 2013 Nazareth Connections is published three times a year by the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth in the USA. Editor: Judith A. Horak Proofreader: Sr. Clare Marie Kozicki Design/Print: Quantum Editorial Board: Sr. Angela Szczawinska Sr. Audrey Merski Sr. Barbara Frances Samp Sr. Celeste Hupert Sr. Jude Carroll Sr. Kathleen Ann Stadler Sr. Marcella Louise Wallowicz Sr. Mary Louise Swift Sr. Sandra Marie Sosnowski For unto us a child is born For unto us a Child is born Unto us a Son is given And the government Shall be upon His shoulder And his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor The Mighty God The Everlasting Father The Prince of Peace. Questions, comments, suggestions? Please contact: Communications Department Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth 310 N. River Road Des Plaines, IL 60016 847-298-6760 x144 [email protected] www.nazarethcsfn.org “Like” us on ... https://www.facebook.com/csfn.usa From Handel’s Messiah, based on Isaiah 9:6 The Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth wish you and yours all the blessings of the season. Photo of Provincialate chapel Nativity scene by Sr. Angela Szczawinska