great room - Rochester Women Magazine
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great room - Rochester Women Magazine
JULY/AUGUST 2009 COMPLIMENTARY R o che ste r ome n Belly Dancing for Every Body Building an outdoor great room Going Greek: the people, the food, the festival Meet the mother-daughter team at Zorbas Find your fill on Blueberry Hill RWmagazine.com Lindsay~ Orthodontics and Lumineer Veneers • Dr. Perry has been doing smile make-overs for almost 20 years. • Dr. Perry has been a certified Invisalign® provider for over five years. • Was featured on KTTC in 2003 with his computerized one-visit Cerec Crown procedure. • Dr. Perry has been placing Lumineer™ veneers since 1997. • The first dentist in SE Minnesota with the new “Water Lase” dental laser for doing pain free smile lifts during cosmetic make-overs. • Member of the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry. Phillip Phillip G. G. Perry, Perry, DDS DDS • Has trained with the top cosmetic educators in the country. 1. The Center for Esthetic Excellence. 2. 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But just because you have a grown up kitchen, it certainly doesn’t mean you can't eat the extra batter off of the spoon. A Trusted Minnesota Family Business Since 1954 www.WarnersStellian.com 1318 Apache Drive SW, Rochester - Across from the Apache Mall RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 3 Head of the class. With high marks in reliability and safety, the Subaru Forester is one exceptional vehicle. Recognized as a 2009 IIHS Top Safety Pick and voted Motor Trend’s 2009 Sport/Utility of the Year,™ it’s the overachiever that drives ahead of the curve. Love. It’s what makes a Subaru, a Subaru. Forester ®. Well-equipped at $19,995† MSRP excludes destination and delivery charges, tax, title and registration fees. Dealer sets actual price. Forester 2.5X Limited pictured above has an MSRP of $25,995. † Clements • Apache Mall, Rochester • 1-507-289-0491 or 1-800-657-6989 • www.clementsauto.com Anytown Subaru 123 Anystreet Anytown, AZ 12345 www.anytownsubaru.com KEEPING YOU ON THE MOVE MAGAZINE JULY/AUGUST 2009 in every issue COVER STORY BELLY DANCING FOR EVERY BODY 21 41 Dance for your strength, body image and well being. No tummy tuck required. By Amy Brase Cover photo by Olive Juice Studios 15 41 FOOD STEWARDSHIP BEYOND BOUNDARIES A core group of Greek women offer gifts to our community and beyond. By Margo Stich 53 HEALTHY LIVING ANCIENT ART OF YOGA ALIVE IN ROCHESTER By Jorrie Hansen 30 HOME REMODELERS CORNER An office reception area gets an upgrade. By Megan Holmen 49 30 FROM DRAB TO FAB: BUILDING AN OUTDOOR GREAT ROOM One family’s do-it-yourself journey. Part one: Construction. 36 By Marlene Petersen HUMOR CAN THIS YARD BE SAVED? By Amy Brase 62 PROFILE GREEK RESTAURANT, UKRANIAN OWNERS, AMERICAN DREAM. Zorba’s combines the work ethic of two Ukrainian women — one in Rochester, one on the East Coast — into an authentic Greek experience. 15 SAVING GRACE A woman and a house restore each other. By Penny Marshall By Victoria Moore PERSONAL & PROFESSIONAL THE BARD IS BACK From Shakespeare to Beethoven, Winona offers the best in plays, music and art. 32 By Ellington Miller 7 From the Editor 8 In the News 10 In the Know 56 Networking News 58 Upcoming Events 60 Advertisers Index 60 Community Calendar 12 FROM HELPLESS TO HELPFUL Summertime strategies to build confident and responsible children. By Raelene Ostberg 18 BACK TO SCHOOL MAY BE THE ANSWER In my 40s, I take online college courses from the comfort of my home, after the work day and sometimes in pajamas while my family sleeps. A variety of options make it easy for you to continue your education, too. By Trish Amundson 27 TRAVEL I FOUND MY FILL ON BLUEBERRY HILL Rush River Produce has the blues and more. By Debbie Thompson 49 RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 5 6 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com from the editor MAGAZINE Issue 54, Volume 10, Number 3 JULY/AUGUST 2009 publishers Jorrie L. Hansen, MBA Doug Solinger editor Ellington Miller design director Rue Wiegand layout designer Emily Benike GRAPHIC DESIGNER Kate Brue assistant editor Margo Stich marketing account manager Tracy Nielsen Community Relations Susan Franken Marketing Administrative Assistant Debbie Thompson INTERN Megan Holmen photography Fagan Studios Michael Cleary Photography Olive Juice Studios Rochester Women is published six times per year by Women Communications, L.L.C., P.O. Box 5986, Rochester, MN 55903 Subscriptions available for $18 per year (six issues). Send check to the address above. All unsolicited manuscripts must be accompanied by a self-addressed, stamped envelope. Rochester Women assumes no responsibility for unsolicited materials. ©2009 Women Communications, L.L.C. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced without written permission from the publisher. Rochester Women magazine does not necessarily endorse the claims or contents of advertising or editorial materials. Printed in the U.S.A. Rochester Women is a member of the Minnesota Magazine & Publications Association, Rochester Area Builders, Inc. and the Rochester Area Chamber of Commerce. There is comfort in coming home after a long day and seeing the door opening for you. It is, after all, only a door, but it welcomes you home day after day. Catherine Conlan, “The Honking Tree,” Minnesota Public Radio I ’ve heard I get a nostalgic look on my face when I am reminded of my past experiences. For example, I smile every time I pass the Davanni’s Pizza in Burnsville, where I went on my first out-of-town date as a teenager. Visiting my alma mater brings back the memories of my job at the campus library, reshelving books with the cutest guy on campus…who is now married with the cutest children. The family cookbook in my cupboard has a 20-year photo history of my extended family at the dining room table. No wonder we are close — we’ve shared many meals and memories. On a recent trip to Wisconsin, I looked down over the Mississippi River and was transported to every Sunday I spent at my grandparents’ cabin on Lake Pepin (the widest part of the Mississippi), swimming and fishing and searching for agates along the beach. No matter where I cross the Mississippi, it brings me home to the cabin. These things trigger memories that remind me of how lucky I am – to have had a great family, good education (I did do some learning at college too), an easy childhood and typical teen years. When I bought my first home, the front door — vintage 1940 — was a beautiful, rich wood that had been painted white. Knowing nothing about restoring anything, I removed the door from its creaky hinges, stripped it, sanded, stained and re-detailed every crevice to return it to its original form. I was so proud of that feat, I would drive around the block before pulling into the driveway just to take in the new appearance. But the home gave me more than newfound curb appeal. It was my trial house for all things homeowner: bathroom cabinet and window blind installation, furniture purchase and arrangement, landscaping, and contractor negotiation. The way I see it, the house gave me as much love as I gave it, and many memories. After all, nobody else was present when I spent three hours with the shop-vac sucking up basement water. I had a hard time leaving that house, for it represented more than my adult independence. When you live with someone or something, you trade secrets, care for each other and share life. And now, when I drive by it, I get the same wistful look as when I pass the Davanni’s or the campus library or open the family cookbook. They hold meaningful, irreplaceable memories. That’s why I am inspired by our home article this issue. It’s by a woman who fell in love with a 100-year-old barely-salvageable house. If you believe in “the right people at the right time,” this woman was meant to save this house. She spent five years restoring it to its former beauty, when others would have demolished it. She restored its soul, and now the house and the writer are taking care of each other. Enjoy this issue, full of stories of home, family, and traditions new and old. 507-529-5385 RWmagazine.com [email protected] For advertising information: 507-951-3496, 507-753-9935 RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 7 in the news Rochester Women magazine honored The Women’s Leadership Council of the United Way of Olmsted County awarded Rochester Women magazine the inaugural 2009 Maude Finch Award for its business achievements. The Women’s Leadership Council awards a local woman, a business and a local organization who have distinguished themselves in advancing the common good in our community through a career of service or achievements. Maude Finch was the recording secretary of the Rochester Community Chest, who when paid $20 for her clerical services in 1925, donated those proceeds back to the organization for the common good. Journalism Award Amy Brase recently won a Page One award from the Minnesota chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists. She accepted the award at a banquet with Tom Brokaw as the keynote speaker. Amy won third place for her humor column in Rochester Women magazine, in the category “Magazine – Story, Design, Photography: Best Department” for magazines under 50K circulation. Congratulations Amy! Remember the Ladies photo by Reflections by Kynn. Women with Rochester Area Habitat for Humanity Women Build, Karel Weigel, Jorrie Hansen and Ellie Miller of Rochester Women magazine at Remember the Ladies event. Recipients of the 2009 Maude Finch Award Karel Weigel, retired Mayo Clinic Community Relations Administrator Rochester Area Habitat for Humanity Women Build Rochester Women magazine “I am honored Rochester Women magazine has been selected to receive this award,” said Jorrie Hansen, publisher. “I appreciate being recognized for giving back to the community.” uptown without the attitude! Hair Studio 52 & Day Spa is a full service salon and spa offering a complete menu for your hair, skin and nails, along with waxing, massage therapy and body treatments. You will be pampered in a friendly and professional spa environment. 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Fanciful costumes and a delightful musical score make this a wonderful family show. Performances at Century High School. Tickets $12 adult, $11 student. For tickets: 507-216-6431 or [email protected]. A Summer With Seuss! July 13 – 15, 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Words Players is offering A Summer Seuss Theatre Workshop for children ages 5 – 10. There will be three afternoons of acting, creating, and singing, with a focus on basic acting skills, vocal training, and charcater interaction. Students will work with actors from the SEUSSICAL production. Suggested donation: $60 (Includes class instruction, one student ticket to the July 23 opening night of SEUSSICAL, and a backstage pass after the show). The workshop will be held at Midwest Bible Baptist Church building at 5930 Bandel Road NW. Register: 507-252-4714 or [email protected]. Women Entrepreneurs Morning Networking Friday, August 21, 2009, 7:30 - 9 am Rochester Area Chamber of Commerce Women who are considering opening a business or have recently opened a business are invited to a free networking even to meet other women entrepreneurs, discuss business challenges and opportunities and learn about community business support services. RSVP to [email protected] or 507-288-1122. Women Build The first Rochester Area Habitat for Humanity Women Build House was dedicated on June 13. Thanks to volunteers, sponsors, and media for your support. We send our best wishes to the Jaras family and years of happiness in their new home. On to the second Women Build House – are you interested in helping? Contact Patricia at 507-252-0849 or check us out at RAHH.org. Join us for the Artisan Market event August 21-23 at Salem Glenn Winery (salemglenvineyard.com) for a fabulous summer fundraiser for Women Build. Artists welcome to apply for a booth; contact LuAnn, 507-951-1468. Rochester’s First Annual Arts & Cultural Festival Saturday, August 22 10 a.m. Musical Strollathon Walk. Five live musical performance sites Noon – 7 p.m. at Mayo Park – Behind Mayo Civic Center: ARTists Village – Show and sale, Handcrafted art work & demonstrations, Displays by local arts & cultural organizations, ARTiStage – Free live entertainment in Amphitheater, ARTiKids – Free children’s activities 4 p.m. – 10:30 p.m., Peace Plaza Pre-ticketed Blues & Barbecue Festival, Six bands, Barbecue sampling and cash bar, $25 per person Tickets available at Rochester Visitors & Convention Bureau or 507-288-4331. For ARTigras information: www.RochesterMNArts.com or 507-424-0811 CONFERENCE Date to be announced Prospective Entrepreneurs, New Entrepreneurs, Existing Entrepreneurs there is an event being planned for you this fall! The Rochester Area Chamber of Commerce Diversity in Business (DIB) committee’s mission is to increase business ownership for women and minority entrepreneurs. A toolkit to help area women and minority entrepreneurs succeed in business is available through Chamber of Commerce. For more information, to participate or to register, visit www.rochestermnchamber.com or call 507-288-1122. 10 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com Women on Wheels® National organization uniting women motorcyclists. We welcome all women and ride all brands, sizes, and styles of motorcycles. Meetings at Mr. Pizza North, 4040 28th Street NW. Attend meetings to: join a group of unique women, meet other motorcyclists, share riding experiences, obtain dates for group rides. Contact: 507-272-2469, womenonwheels.org, mnwomenonwheels.org. Upcoming meetings: July 13 and August 10, 6:30 p.m. 3!Ebzt!B!Xffl-!3!Hppe!Up!Cf!Usvf" Usvf!Xbsfipvtf!Qsjdjoh!Opx!! Jo!Spdiftufs"!Ivhf!tfmfdujpo! pg!!gbcvmpvt!edps!bu!!uif! Mpxftu!Qsjdft!jo!Upxo" An eclectic mix of clothing and accessories for women of all ages. Specializing in natural organic fabrics: ~ Cotton ~ Hemp ~ Bamboo Uivstebzt!21.7! 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Paul Barnes) The Great River Shakespeare Festival Get your fill of the great playwright with the Great River Shakespeare Festival, now in its sixth season with productions of The Tempest and Love’s Labours Lost, which play in rotating repertory through July 26 in the Winona State University Performing Arts Center Theatre. The festival also hosts a series of guest speakers, free pre-show concerts on Fridays and Saturdays, and post performance conversations on Thursdays. Pre-show grilling will take place on July 4, 11, 18, and 25, although playgoers are encouraged to bring picnic dinners to any performance and enjoy the landscaped gardens outside the WSU Performing Arts Center. For information and tickets, visit grsf.org or call 507-474-7900. The Tempest Prospero, a banished Duke marooned on an enchanted island, spends much of his life feeling righteous indignation for the suffering his evil brother has inflicted on him. But in this extraordinary soulful romance (which unfolds over the course of only one day), he finds his own humanity, seeks grace rather than revenge, and becomes the pilot of his own salvation. Love’s Labour’s Lost Shakespeare’s gorgeous, hilarious, and poignant comedy of living life in moderation gives us a wealth of comic characters: eight young lovers, a pompous pedant, an amorous Spaniard, a daffy village curate, and the sensibly lusty and lustily sensible village milkmaid and her charming if lackadaisical suitor. Rochester Day is July 18. Events include coffee and discussion in the morning, The Tempest at 3 p.m., Grill with Will at 6 p.m., a prelude concert at 6:30 p.m. and Love’s Labour’s Lost at 8 p.m. A group rate is available to Rochester patrons. Paul Watkins Gallery, Winona State University and Lillian Davis Hogan Galleries, Saint Mary’s University. Through July 24. Sixty-eight artists from the tri-state region are represented with works in a broad range of styles, media, and subject matter. No admission charge. Attendees of the Shakespeare plays and the Beethoven concerts are welcome to view this two-part exhibition. The two galleries are just three miles apart. For gallery locations and hours, visit visitwinona.com/events. 12 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com The Minnesota Beethoven Festival Class up your summer evenings with some classical music. This premiere summer festival presents Beethoven through a variety of instruments. Information and tickets are available at mnbeethovenfestival.com or 507-457-1715. June 30, Frederic Chiu, piano, St. Cecilia Theater, Cotter High School, 7:30 p.m. July 2, Minnesota Orchestra, outdoor pops concert, Lake Park, 8 p.m. Free. July 7, Ambassador Trio. St. Cecilia Theater, Cotter High School, 7:30 p.m. July 9, Thomas Hampson, baritone, Somsen Auditorium, Winona State University, 7:30 p.m. July 14, Canadian Brass. Somsen Auditorium, Winona State University, 7:30 p.m. July 16 & 17, American String Quartet, Minnesota Marine Art Museum, 7:30 p.m. July 19, Minnesota Orchestra with Osmo Vänskä, Winona Middle School Auditorium, 4 p.m. Photos courtesy of Great River Shakespeare Festival. Southeastern Minnesota Regional Juried Art Exhibit Over 60 Masters Now On Display! Monet, Renoir, Pissarro and more... Experience... the Minnesota Marine Art Museum where you can now see world renowned masterpieces close to home. Explore......... the new gallery featuring over 60 rare paintings from the Impressionist and Hudson River School artists including Monet, Renoir, Sisley, Corot, Pissarro, Bierstadt, Cole, Homer and more. Examine........ four centuries of marine art and artifacts from the Burrichter-Kierlin Marine Art Collection, one of the finest in the nation, or the extraordinary folk art sculptures by nationally-acclaimed artists, Leo and Marilyn Smith. Enjoy............. eight acres of native prairie plants and grasses as you sit and watch the river flow by. 800 Riverview Drive Winona, MN Tues.-Sat. 10am-5pm • Sun. 11am-5pm Visit the museum website at www.minnesotamarineart.org or call (507) 474-6626. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 13 LOSE WEIGHT NATURALLY!! BIOS LIFE SLIM A SCIENTIFIC BREAKTHROUGH IN FAT LOSS! • Promotes FAT LOSS! • Improves cholesterol • Promotes digestive health • Controls hunger and cravings • Stabilizes blood sugars • 90 Day money back guarantee • No pre-packaged foods • No synthetic or herbal stimulants Kathy C. 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But it’s not Greek. It’s Ukrainian. For the past seven years, Luda has owned and operated Zorba’s Greek Restaurant with the right-hand assistance of her daughter Anna. And just how it came to be is quite an interesting story. Coming to America Luda’s husband, Andrey, was born in Russia, Luda and Anna in Ukraine. In 1994 when Anna was 16 years old, the family relocated to the United States. They chose Rochester, rather than Los Angeles or New York, “because it was No. 1 city,” explains Luda. “And I think they wanted to bring me here because Rochester has so many good values too,” says Anna. While attending high school, Anna started waitressing at Zorba’s. She continued to work while attending classes and until she graduated in 1999 from Rochester Community College. “The only thing not Greek in here (besides us) is the Russian vodka we use for cooking.” The University of Minnesota was next in Anna’s pursuit of a degree in international relations and political science. While attending the U of M, she would come home and spend her holidays and breaks working at the Greek restaurant. “I loved working here and started doing other things besides waitressing.” She learned other aspects of the business — like ordering, bookkeeping and management. Prior to graduating from the U of M in 2002, Anna applied for several federal jobs but to no avail, found herself back in Rochester working at Zorba’s. When the owner (who was the second owner of the establishment) said he was ready to get out of the business, Anna quickly responded, telling him to “hold his thoughts – let me talk to my family.” She approached her parents (who were both employed full time) about buying the restaurant. “They were excited but very nervous because they hadn’t been in the food business before,” said Anna. “And I had to make a lot of promises to them too — like I’d never take a day off.” But Anna knew the ins and outs of the operation by then, as well as the clientele, and was confident they could make it work. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 15 Zorba’s Greek Restaurant 507-281-1540 924 7th Street NW Open daily: 11 a.m.– 9 p.m. Outside patio seating Gluten-free and children’s menu Take out and bulk orders Average lunch $4–$7; dinner $7–$10 Classic Greek cuisine served at Zorba’s. The dream achieved In 2006 Anna received the phone call she had been hoping for— news of a job offer from the government. But it meant she’d be moving out East. “This made me very happy but very sad,” said Luda, casting a wistful look at her daughter. “I’m very proud of Anna and she is so much a patriot.” Anna quickly defined her mother’s comment by passionately expressing her gratitude for what she’s been able to accomplish since coming to the United States. “I love this country and am so very lucky,” she said. “I got to graduate from high school, get a diploma from community college and the university, and I got to work at this place and now I get to work for the government. I feel so very, very lucky. This is the American dream.” Work ethic with a smile With Anna’s departure, Luda inherited Anna’s position in the restaurant as well as her own. “It was very hard at first,” says Luda. “But I learned.” It also meant longer hours that she continues to work – seven days a week, usually 10–12 hour days. “But I work hard all my life so I’m 16 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com used to it,” she says with a smile. A graduate of Tech University in Ukraine, Luda had worked for seven years in the IRS and seven years at the Tech University in accounting. She also pursued her education in Minnesota, graduating from RCTC in 2003. Anna has always been, and remains, just a phone call away to assist her mother. Whether it’s technical problems with the cash register or a customer needing assistance in placing a bulk (catering) order, Anna is able to respond and help get the job done. Many people probably aren’t aware that the owners of this popular Greek restaurant aren’t Greek. “The only thing not Greek in here (besides us) is the Russian vodka we use for cooking,” says Anna. Luda giggles and smiles when asked if she’s ever attempted to infuse some of her ethnic dishes into the menu. “She’s tried but we’ve kept the menu authentic and as it has been since day one,” says Anna. Being “family oriented” is a key factor. They get to know their customers, meet the families of their employees, and have retained cooks for more than 10 years. And although they are not Greek, they have an intrinsic inclination to serve food. “In our culture, food always comes first,” says Anna. “If you have a meeting with someone, you feed them first and then you have discussion. Whenever there are family gatherings, there is a huge amount of food — enough to last for many days after.” There’s an overt mutual admiration and respect between the two women as Luda gazes lovingly at her daughter and adds, “I wanted Anna to grow up with a good heart, good mind and good health, and I’m very proud of her.” And while Anna is quick to poo-poo her mother’s admiration, she proudly responds, reiterating her mother’s industrious work ethic and her many accomplishments. Family, food comes first Editor’s note: This is the part three in a series of articles on diverse women entrepreneurs. So to what does this mother-daughter duo attribute the success of their labor of love? Penny Marshall is a Rochester freelance writer. Artistic Framers Inc. Garden and Home Accessories Giftware and Photo Frames Custom Frames Take 15% Off any one item (including frames!) 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Children who do chores from an early age develop a sense of responsibility, competence, self-reliance, and self-worth. Involvement in chores also positively impacts a child’s future career track, education level, and relationship skills. Unfortunately, engaging children in chores is not always easy. At the age most children are driven to assist, they tend to be the least helpful. A young child’s desires and attempts to “help” can result in a job that not only takes longer but results in a final product that, shall we say, lacks polish. Also, unwanted battles can arise. If initial attempts fail, adults may resort to nagging, yelling, or threatening before giving up completely out of sheer frustration and exhaustion. Luckily, there are many tips that can smooth children’s transition from helpless to helpful. Engaging children takes work. But once chores are ingrained as a way of life, older children will provide adults very valuable assistance with household tasks. Chores War Busters: Set the Stage • Start young: The time invested when a child is a two-year old will more than be made up later when the child becomes an advanced helper. • Build in a chore time: Have a clean up time of day. For example, everyone do a “10 minute tidy” before book time, naptime, or bed. • Get organized: When possible, have a place for everything. Have a small number of toys available at one time and place toys on a shelf with a label and/or picture nearby. 18 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com • Frame it positively: Maintaining a positive tone is essential for setting the stage for chores. Model positive feelings about the job you are going to do. Also, indicate a desirable natural outcome: “When we have the toys picked up, we will have space to wrestle!” • Break task down into pieces: Small bites are easier to chew and will not overwhelm the child. “Clean your room” sounds expansive. Instead, make a list of two or three concrete steps that can be checked off. “Clothes in the laundry room. Toys in the bin. Vacuum.” Pictures also encourage young children. • Match the job to the child: Make sure expectations match the child’s age so the child feels successful and competent. The side bar contains examples of tasks children can do at different ages. Keep your standards in line with child’s age and avoid redoing the chore if possible. • Show, tell, do: Children will need to learn about standards and need cleaning tips. To assign a new task: 1. Show the child how to do it 2. Tell the child what you are doing 3. Do the task with child 4. O ver time, encourage independent completion of the task It’s Chores Time • Let child choose: Provide a chores list and let the child choose. A child willingly contributes when focused on those chores he or she is naturally drawn to and enjoys. • Follow the child’s lead: Some children will work best independently, some will need you nearby to maintain momentum. Some will be able to work on a task for a long period of time, some will need breaks along the way to regroup. Also, consider what time of day fits best for the child. • Give specific praise: As soon as the child starts to help, give affirmations (i.e., thumbs up, pat on the back, smile). Comment about how good it feels to work together and give specific feedback about the job your child is doing. “You already picked up three toys. What a big help!” • Make task fun or a game: Children often enjoy racing to put toys away or cleaning up to a clean-up song. “Let’s see how fast we can pick up these toys. I wonder how speedy we can do it!” • Set a timer: Timers work wonders because they give a visual end time and the child a sense of control. Children may also love to race the clock and see how far they can get before the buzzer goes off. • Increase responsibility as children grow: A one-year-old will “help” dust by pushing around a cloth. By age five, a child will be able to dust an entire area independently. Rewards may also be used and can provide short-term encouragement. However, focusing on the natural rewards of the child’s actions will have excellent long-term results. Point out how good it feels when the house is clean, how pleasing it was to work as a team, and how important the child’s contribution is. Avoid connecting chores to money or allowance. Simply set the tone that every person, no matter how small, is a valued and contributing member of the family. Inform your child he is needed to help the family run well. Your child’s sense of pride will be enough. Taking the time now to encourage young children to do chores and be responsible will pay off well into the future! Chores build up self-confidence and show children that with hard work and perseverance, anything is possible. Household tasks: Jobs for 1 year-olds •W ash clothes – sort socks, push/turn buttons •P ut stuff where it goes – dirty clothes in laundry, toys in a bin, etc. •D iapering – get diaper, put diaper in pail, take off diaper, etc. • F etch items •H elp adult wipe spills •M imic adult cleaning •D ust with own cloth •D ishes – sort silverware Household tasks for 2-3 year-olds •W ash clothes – gather laundry, fold towels, divide into piles •M ake bed – help put pillows on, pull off sheets. •M ake basic snacks – cereal with milk if in smaller container, spread on crackers, wash fruit •P ush “swiffer” or broom around •D ishes – help wash and dry, put silverware away, put plastic dishes away in lower cabinet •H elp set table – •P ut books away on shelf • S ome “help” with baking, cooking, decorating •P ick from 2-3 outfit choices and clothes in laundry basket at end of day put napkins, plates, silverware on table – not in correct place • S imple hygiene – brush teeth, wash/dry face, brush hair •D ress/undress with help •P ut groceries away – soup cans in cupboard •C lear dishes from table Household tasks for 4-5 year-olds •W ash clothes – separate clothes, help take out and put in washer, fold basic clothes, puts clothes away in respective drawers •G et the mail •D ishes – help with dishes, put in dishwasher and put away clean dishes •H elp cook – mix, •V acuum measure, scoop, dump, crack eggs •C lean up toys •D ish up food on plates •T ake out garbage •C lean sink, counter, bathtub correct place •M ake bed •P our own drink • F eed the animals • S et table – items in •H elp compile grocery list •C lean mirrors or windows •M ost self care – pick out clothes, dress and undress self, brush teeth and bathe. 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E very belly dancer has a story. For Terri Allred of Rochester, the story began with an errant soccer ball. Allred was hosting a fundraiser at a professional women’s soccer game in North Carolina in 2003 when she was struck in the head by a ball. After the incident, chronic migraines and fatigue prevented her from working full-time as the executive director of a women’s center for victims of sexual assault. While in rehabilitation, Allred’s therapist encouraged her to take a dance class. “Belly dance was offered at an art center just a few minutes from my home,” says Allred. “At first I couldn’t make it through a whole class without getting dizzy, but I persevered. Belly dancing was physically very good for me; I experienced a transformation from injury to health and found an inner-confidence.” Allred, known also by her stage name Sadiya, which means “happy,” is now an accomplished dancer and instructor. “It all started by teaching friends in my living room and then my niece for her sixth birthday,” says Allred. “If you would have asked my husband if he thought he’d have a belly dance studio in his house one day when he married me, he would have said not in a million years!” Allred’s supportive husband, Daniel, now serves as a photographer at shows, helps with advertising and manages her Web site. Belly dance is good for you Belly dancing, which originated in the Middle East, enhances physical strength, positive body image and self-esteem. Known for its graceful and repetitive motions, belly dancing works with the female form rather than against its natural inclinations. Hip drops, rolls and pivots utilize muscle groups in the abdomen, pelvis, trunk, spine and neck. Belly dancing can reduce stress, improve posture, aid in digestion and even prepare a woman for childbirth. “Every woman’s body will respond to one move or another,” says Allred. “The drum beat in Middle Eastern music is what the hips represent and most people can shake their hips! I always start with the hips in class because everyone can experience success.” Some women do experience difficulty in moving the chest and ribcage areas because it requires more strength and flexibility. “It’s a great workout for your core. I lost 35 pounds when I became a belly dancer; I had just given birth to my second child when I experienced the head injury,” Allred explains. “After being laid-out flat in bed for a year, I used dancing to regain a healthy body.” Many women have taken dance lessons at some point in their lives. Many also admit to feeling like they never really fit RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 21 “Belly Dance for Every Woman” August 8, 7 p.m. Rochester Civic Theatre Tickets $10; Children under 12 are free Sponsored by Sadiya Belly Dance and Shaia Dance Collective Enjoy an evening of dance featuring Rochester professional, semi-professional and student dancers. Reception to follow with cash bar. Teachers will be available to provide information about lessons. Contact Terri Allred at sadiyabellydancer.com or shaiadancecollective.com Local Teachers Laura Ehling RochesterBellyDance.com Julianna JuliannaBellyDance.com Sadiya (Terri Allred) sadiyabellydancer.com Jennifer Watson, Kelly Kirkpatrick, Traci Hussong, and Patti Chiarini shaiadancecollective.com Learn to Belly Dance Dan Abraham Healthy Living Center Teachers: Julianna and Jennifer Watson Classes open to DAHLC members Janet Lange Dance Studios Teachers: Terri Allred, Kelly Kirkpatrick, Jennifer Watson and Patti Chiarini Classes for all ages; open to public Rochester Athletic Club Teachers: Terri Allred, Traci Hussong Classes open to RAC members Nutrition Shop Teacher: Julianna Classes open to public Rochester Community Education Teacher: Julianna Workshop only; open to public Sadiya’s Oriental Dance Studio Teacher: Terri Allred Classes open to public Work Out World Teachers: Laura Ehling and Terri Allred Classes open to WOW members YMCA Teachers: Laura Ehling, Terri Allred and Jennifer Watson Classes open to YMCA members India Curry House July 5, Aug 2, 6:30 - 8:30 pm Demos with lessons with Julianna 22 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com Everyone follow along...Sadiya teaches the hip lift at a birthday party. in. “I’m 42 and I don’t look like a model,” says Allred. “I dance with my belly showing and I’m a regular woman. That’s what helps other women to identify with me. My philosophy is that all women should have access to dance, regardless of size, income level or physical wellness.” Generations shimmy together Jan Schuck and her 8-year-old daughter Gracie have been taking belly dance classes with Allred for almost a year. Recently, they performed for the first time together. “I can see how my daughter is more confident and carries herself in a different way since taking dance classes,” says Schuck. “I hope she will have the ability to bypass some of the body issues that I have struggled with and realize that her body is perfect, strong and beautiful just the way it is.” Schuck says belly dancing has strengthened their mother/daughter relationship as well. They both love the music, the workout and the closeness with other students. “There are no worries about how big or small or how in or out of shape we are.” In the Middle East, belly dancing is a family dance and part of the culture, says Allred, who has training in Arabic rhythms, history of belly dance, various styles of dance and cultural context of the art form. “We’ve made it into more of a performance dance in the west, but it’s still a dance where women become a community of friends.” Allred’s students enjoy talking, laughing and expressing themselves through dance. “They are not self-conscious; they are at ease learning the moves.” The Shaia Dance Collective, started by Terri Allred in 2008, consists of both professional and semi-professional belly dancers. They meet weekly to share ideas, discuss teaching techniques and offer feedback. Their performance style ranges from Classical Egyptian to Tribal Fusion. Instruction photo courtesy of Terri Allred. Fred Astaire Dance Studio Teacher: Terri Allred Classes open to public Debunking Common Myths about Belly Dancing Though most women agree that belly dancing is a beautiful art form, many wonder if it conflicts with wholesome family values and faith. An interview with Terri Allred Amy: What reassurance can you offer to those who fear that belly performance of mine and of Shaia Dance Collective’s is a family dancing may lead to the exploitation of children? performance. When there is a group of all men with one woman Terri: Stereotypes and myths fuel that kind of thought process. Belly dancing, there is a societal connotation. I will not dance for all-male dancing is actually a modest dance. Of course, like many things, audiences. The MN Guild of Oriental Dance sets guidelines that there will be people and places with different standards. You have to promote a healthy understanding of dance and we desire to be trust the teacher. I did a lot of child abuse prevention with parents culturally appropriate so we never give the appearance of impropriety. and am uniquely trained to handle all kinds of issues with children. If you think about some of the other styles of dance that many Amy: Rochester is known for being more of a conservative city. How children learn – the moves, music and costumes are much more has belly dancing been received? suggestive that those used in belly dancing. Terri: It has been overwhelmingly positive. Initially, people have the image of a hyper-sexualized female with very little clothing. Then they Amy: What do the children wear? meet us or attend a show or birthday party. Once they are exposed, Terri: For the Rochesterfest Parade, they will wear black pants, hip they realize that it’s a much more modest dance. scarves and t-shirts. I never dress the kids in two-piece costumes. When I host birthday parties for girls, they sometimes make their own Amy: Is belly dancing rooted in a particular religion? Would hip scarves with dangling coins and beads. At the end of the party, Christian women feel uncomfortable or conflicted about being in this moms are invited to watch their daughters perform and they are environment? absolutely delighted. Terri: I have a Master’s of Theological Studies, so this question is right up my alley. In most belly dance classes in the U.S., you are learning Amy: How do your sons, ages 6 and 10, feel about mom being a belly an Americanized version of a Middle Eastern dance. Belly dancing dancer? may have come from fertility rituals originally, but currently has no Terri: They like that their mom is a dancer. Belly dancing teaches girls religious significance. It would be similar to taking a class on Chinese about positive body image and it’s important for my sons to view girls cooking – no religious influence, only increased cultural appreciation. in this way rather than the way girls are portrayed in ads. I recently There is one exception to this. There is a traditional dance done with danced with my boys at a Mother’s Day show. the woman wearing a candelabra-like headpiece who dances in front of the bride and groom as they enter the wedding ceremony. It is Amy: Can you explain how belly dancing is modest? designed to light the way symbolically toward the couple's future. This Terri: The style is demure. There are certain pelvic moves that are aspect of ceremony is also done in some African cultures. inappropriate in belly dance. We never lean over in a way that shows our chest to the audience. Many times, we dance with our arms placed Amy: Can every woman really do this? over our chests. We never dance with our legs in an open position. Terri: I teach women in their 70s and women in their 20s. It’s not One knee is always inward, which is much more modest. always the marathon runners who are the best dancers. Any woman can enjoy this dance. In our culture, there are so many stereotypes Amy: I noticed on your web site that you requested “no all male about women needing to look a certain way. Traditional western groups.” Has that ever been an issue? Have you ever felt like men have dance, like ballet, holds the energy in all up in the chest and lifted, but perceived you in a way that conflicts with your intentions? in belly dance, the energy is in the hips. Women’s bodies naturally flow Terri: There’s no way to control how people perceive you. Every into the moves because they are very female-centered. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 23 “Julianna has a way of hypnotizing the audience with beautifully feminine movements,” says Lori Stoltz, Julianna’s first student. “From the fluid snake arm movements to defined pelvic and chest pops, she performs with a paradoxical style that is all her own, yet honors the ancient women who have danced the same movements before her.” “It’s a celebration of everyone’s creative artistic vision,” says Allred. Shaia performs regularly in Rochester and beyond. They will be featured dancers this summer at Rochesterfest, Rochester’s ARTigras, Winona’s “Drops and Drama” and the Minnesota Renaissance Festival. mission of working on behalf of women and girls, whether they are healing from violence or improving self-esteem. “People say when they watch me that they get this overwhelming sense of joy, and that’s exactly how I feel,” Allred says. Performance groups in Rochester Youth can do it Bellydancing has gained popularity among the youngest of Rochester girls, as well. The Happy Hips Youth Oriental Dance Troupe, directed by Allred, is a positive, girl-friendly group that will perform in this year’s Rochesterfest Parade. Allred is amazed at how the children blossom in a healthy, encouraging dance environment. “In ballet, you do what your teacher tells you to do. In belly dance, there’s improvisation; children are great at that.” Those who have tried it insist that belly dancing is for every woman. For Terri Allred, it’s a vehicle to fulfill her life 24 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com The dancer known as Julianna is credited with introducing belly dancing to Rochester. She has trained extensively with some of the best teachers in the world, has competed nationally and is an instructor at various places in Rochester. “Most people try belly dancing because they want to exercise and have fun, not because they want to become belly dancers. I wanted to actually become a belly dancer, which is unusual,” says Julianna. “Belly dancing makes women feel good. It doesn’t take long for them to realize that these movements look really pretty on a curvy body. Belly dancing creates camaraderie among women.” Julianna performs regularly and is a favorite at the Mediterranean Cruise Café in Eagan, Minnesota. She also dances at the India Curry House in Rochester on the first Sunday of each month. Her productions are known for being works of art with stunning costumes and thematic dance numbers. Since 2004, Julianna’s dance company, Julianna and the Blue Lotus Middle Eastern Dancers, has produced numerous dinner shows and theatrical productions. “It has always been my goal to present this as an art form and as professionally as possible,” says Julianna. “Our performances have high standards with costuming and how we present ourselves.” Amy Brase is a writer who won a jangly hip scarf as a doorprize last year. After learning about the amazing benefits of belly-dancing, she can no longer deny the power of a good shimmy. Instruction photo courtesy of Julianna. Julianna, center, instructs at several locations in Rochester. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 25 blog.uwolmsted.org Connect and converse about building better lives, making a difference, hope and change at blog.uwolmsted.org. Advancing the Common Good - Building blocks for a better life for all. • Education • Income • Health • Community Basics • Technology Living It - Making a difference right where we live. • News • Events • People • “How I Live United” Civic Parables - Stories of hope and change and what both require. “Click the Can” at Canned Goods GIVE. ADVOCATE. VOLUNTEER. LIVE UNITED www.uwolmsted.org 26 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com United Way of Olmsted County professional Back to School May be the Answer In my 40s, I take college courses from the comfort of my home, after the work day and sometimes in pajamas while my family sleeps. I am continuing my education through online courses. A variety of options make it easy for you to continue your education, too. By Trish Amundson A re you ready to go back to school? With daytime, evening and online educational opportunities, there are a variety of academic venues to fit your lifestyle and career goals. As an adult learner, it is possible to balance work, family and school commitments and enhance your job marketability, even amid the economic downturn. Moreover, students over 55 can take advantage of local programs to constantly challenge their brains and remain healthy and sharp. Back-to-school trend At local colleges, many professionals are enhancing their skills and making value-based career changes. “More and more adults are looking to pursue ‘encore careers’ that change the focus of their working careers to align better with their values,” says Pete Myszkowski, Enrollment Communication Coordinator at Winona State University-Rochester. Still, other adult learners are hoping to survive the effects of the economy by jumping into new careers and overcoming or avoiding layoffs. “Recessions can be good opportunities for adults to retool their skills,” he says. “Many dislocated workers are returning to school and are preparing for new, emerging careers, such as green careers and health careers — some of the hottest areas right now.” Special programs and funding are available to help dislocated adult workers. At the Rochester Workforce Center, employment counselors assist these individuals in developing career plans. “Some adults in the program may qualify for one year or more of education and training,” says Diane Dingfelder, Director of Outreach and Continuing Education at Winona State University. “We are seeing an increase in the number of students enrolling through our Adult Entry Program and seeking to complete four-year degrees.” Job stability is a growing concern. “Many students are now considering the employability of specific degrees,” says Myszkowski. For example, a recent increase in the accounting program at WSURochester follows the U.S. Department of Labor’s estimated increase in accounting jobs between now and 2014. The juggling act Simultaneously working, raising a family and going back to school can be overwhelming. But many local programs provide flexibility to help balance these priorities. At colleges such as WSU-Rochester, scheduling options include evening and online courses. Through the local Augsburg College program, classes meet in four-hour intensive blocks every other week (complete with a warm supper). Jean Stahl is earning her Augsburg degree, over a period of 10 years, one class at a time. A busy mother of six, she RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 27 understands the significance of flexibility, as well as strong support from her school, family and workplace. “I like the schedule,” she says. “It would have been difficult to do this if my husband hadn’t been so supportive.” She also is grateful to her employer, Mayo Clinic, for supporting a large portion of her education. Soon, Stahl will complete her nursing degree – but not her educational pursuits. Next fall, she plans to enroll in a master’s degree program — a true testament of her dedication to lifelong learning. Augsburg in Rochester offers almost 40 courses per semester to more than 400 students. The school’s motto: Education at a healthy pace. “Adult learners can take as many or as few classes as they desire – at a schedule that fits the busy life commitments of work and family,” says Sue Nash, Associate Professor and Department of Nursing Program Coordinator at Augsburg College. Like Stahl, some students take up to 10 years to complete a degree. Learning through LIFE Rochester Community & Technical College and the University of Minnesota-Rochester offer more than traditional adult learning programs. Together, they support the Learning is ForEver (LIFE) program, with more than 100 daytime classes at the Heintz Center each year. Studying the Options Several colleges provide a wide range of local training and higher education programs, including: • Augsburg College, augsburg.edu • Cardinal Stritch University, stritch.edu • Crossroads College, crossroadscollege.edu • Minnesota School of Business, msbcollege.edu • Rochester Community & Technical College, rctc.edu • Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota–Rochester Center, smumn.edu • University of Minnesota–Rochester, r.umn.edu • University of St. Thomas, stthomas.edu • Winona State University–Rochester, winona.edu/rochester LIFE Program Contact: 507-280-3157, [email protected] or visit learningisforever.net Presenters, programs and venues previously offered to participants of the LIFE program, for nominal fees, include: • Rochester – A Great Place to Live, But How Do We Pay for It? • The French Revolution • History Center of Olmsted County (tour) • K-12 Education: Issues, Opinions, Answers • Kiev, Ukraine to Istanbul, Turkey — By River, Black Sea, Road • Mayo Clinic for Aging Brains • Selected Topics in American Cinema • Quarry Hill Nature Center (tour) • Amish Country Tour • “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers” at the Chanhassen 28 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com “The mission of LIFE is to provide humanities-based educational programs that are stimulating and allow for social and personal growth opportunities for adults ages 55 and older,” says Chrisanne Pieper, Senior Programs Director. Now in its 16th year, the program does not require tests and written papers; just fun, interactive learning and socializing take place. Eighty percent of the program participants are women, such as Ione Schloegel, who serves as the board’s president and has attended more than 50 classes. “The LIFE program has provided me the opportunity to revisit and put in perspective the history and politics I have lived,” she says. “Most importantly, it has provided me with a social network of new friends and fellow student travelers.” Like Schloegel, Carolyn Chaapel is an active participant and board member. “When one retires from a job, it’s important to find other venues that are of personal interest and to meet people who can share in those activities,” says Chaapel. “New friendships, new opportunities to learn, and shared discussion times in an informal setting — the program brings “LIFE” into my life!” Trish Amundson is a Rochester-area freelance writer and full-time employee at Mayo Clinic. She participates in distance learning through the University of Phoenix. Balancing Work, Family and School Sue Nash of Augsburg College offers the following tips when considering or creating an educational plan: • Keep the needs and wants of all in perspective. • Review your timeline and family commitments, while considering important events and family needs (including those of elderly parents). • Keep your family members involved and enlist their help in your success. • Set up and maintain defined “family-time only.” • Set up clear study times and places. • Establish family events that can be put on the calendar and planned ahead. • Celebrate small steps as you work toward your degree. • Determine your priorities. You may choose to spend Sundays with your family and settle for a “B” in your studies. 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EXPECT the UNEXPECTED www.rctc.edu/getonline | 507.529.2786 | TTY Relay # 1.800.627.3529 6/12/09 7:53:30 AM RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 29 remodelers corner after before Remodelers Corner W hen Dr. Nicholas Psimos decided to remodel his oral surgery office, he needed a designer who could transform a small space into an efficient working environment with style. Jennifer Satory Christoffer, formerly of Kane & Johnson Architects, took on the challenge. One of the goals was to create more privacy. The front reception desk was completely open to the waiting area. They needed a barrier that would create some privacy, but still allow the staff to remain open to patients. “Privacy panels made of frosted glass and wood framing are incorporated into 30 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com the new design and keep the space open and airy,” said Jennifer. “The staff can now accomplish multiple tasks while separated from those sitting in the waiting area.” Another change for the staff was a move from paper files to electronic files. It allowed them to replace the filing shelves with a built-in console and created a better flow of organization. Dr. Psimos saved money and prevented waste by keeping the existing cabinets and trim, and Jennifer achieved a new look by enhancing the oak windows and doors with cherry wood in the reception desk, console and trim. She brought in a darker blue, black and satin nickel to enhance the original blue still present on the cabinets. Custom details can boost a project from “expected” to “unique,” said Jennifer. “Dr. Psimos had seen an etched glass door at Mike Ditka’s Restaurant during a trip to Chicago. We borrowed this idea for the new door between the reception and patient rooms, using his logo.” The etched glass is repeated in the backlit sign above the reception desk. 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The farm fields had been sold off and now constitute the local golf course, but the house and its associated sheds and outbuildings remained, a one-acre island bordered by cedar trees, slowly being reclaimed by the land. I had been looking for some time for a small cottage in the area; just a weekend retreat that perhaps needed some minor sprucing up. But this house intrigued me, pulled me in. That first warm winter day found me crawling inside through a broken cellar window. My curiosity about what might lay within overcame my fear of spiders and snakes and my normally more circumspect nature. As I entered the kitchen above, the house opened itself up to me. Large windows let the low winter sun stream in. And I loved the original wide millwork and wood floors. The view from the second story held promise beyond encroaching trees and brush. Building a restoration team It took me nearly a year to purchase the property. Try as I might to let my rational side prevail, the house owned me from that first day. The realty listing represented the property as a building lot needing only to have the remaining buildings razed to become the site of a new house. The agent gently but persistently discouraged me from considering any restoration. I contacted several carpenter/contractors in the area who were not interested in taking on such a formidable project, especially Before photo courtesy of Victoria Moore. I n spite of everything it was love at first sight. Remarkable, considering the house was literally falling off of its foundation, lacking a single intact window, and littered inside with dead birds and moldy wallpaper. But somehow the house reached out to me, chose me to save it from what would almost certainly have been a bull-dozer. In spite of its ravaged exterior, it rose up against the bright blue winter sky with a sense of pride like a down-on-her-luck dowager with a self-assured presence, none-the-less. She must have known when she saw me that I was the one to save her. And I have come to know that she also was the one to save me. Grace Cottage sits high on the upper Mississippi River bluffs overlooking the valley in the distance. The original (Top) The master bedroom has windows on all three walls. (Below) The bathroom is split into a tub area and shower area. overseen by someone they didn’t know (“Will your husband be home if I come by?” one inquired). But I persisted too. I located an architect with experience in historic renovations, a kindred spirit, as it turned out. Her vision and obvious spiritual connection to the project gave me confidence that it could be done, and even more importantly, should be done. She recommended a general contractor with a reputation for meticulous carpentry work, surely a requirement for such an old house. Next came a structural engineer who cataloged its assets and liabilities. The first time we all met at the property I knew that fate had brought us together to undertake this adventure. They shared my delight in the old beams, the stone foundation, the light. With their encouragement and support I began a lengthy negotiation process that led to an accepted offer on Christmas Eve, just before the turn of the millennium. Now this house, my house, could see its third century nestled safely in its hollow at the crest of a hill. demolition work. I spent the first summer removing debris inside and out, salvaging out hardwood flooring from a late addition that would not be saved, and beating back the overgrowth outside. During the second summer, the house was raised and new concrete footings laid and the stone foundation rebuilt. I had never seen this kind of work done before and I still marvel at the skill and precision involved. The house was raised and lowered without incident. Badly slanted floors became straight. Crooked windows sat back in their frames. The mason chose each stone with care and placed it with intention. The foundation became a sturdy work of art. During the third and fourth summers, I salvaged all of the millwork and stripped it of one hundred years of paint of all colors and descriptions. And then there was the plaster and lath to be removed, one five gallon bucket at a time, and hauled outside to the dumpster. A thick layer of blown cellulose insulation covered the attic floor and fell like greasy gray snow when the second-story ceilings were removed. But beneath it all lay simple, strong, elegant bones. As each cracked, moldy wall came down, the vision of the house reborn became clearer and I was energized to continue the filthy work. Although the house was wood-framed, it had a brick veneer. Most of the bricks had been salvaged for local patios and fireplaces after the house had been abandoned. The rest had been removed to a large pile when the house was raised. I spent weeks Demolition, preparation It took more than four years to prepare the house for its major reconstruction. In order to truly own the property and to make it mine in spirit, I wanted to do as much work with my own hands as possible. Not being skilled in any of the construction trades, I settled for doing the RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 33 Add the beauty of WOOD FLOORING... Sales of Oak, Maple, Cherry, Walnut & Exotic Woods in Strip & Parquet Styles Jim Brogan , Trent Rutledge, Tony Horsman Over 40 years combined experience 507.280.6282 www.creativehf.com 3532 Hwy 63 South, Rochester (next to DeGeus Tile) 34 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com www.susankellyinteriors.com (Top) Wood floors throughout the home are original. (Below) The kitchen includes the original five foot long cast iron sink. removing old mortar from more than 5,000 brick that promised to grace the front entry, both inside and out. By this point of course, the neighbors had despaired of ever seeing any real progress on what remained largely an eyesore. I became known as “that eccentric woman,” sometimes a curiosity, sometimes an irritation. But whenever I needed a question answered there was someone who took an interest. The proprietor of the local hardware store was always quick to inquire about progress. Likewise the owner of the local coffee shop. When I needed referrals to local tradesmen, the once-reluctant realtor not only freely shared his knowledge but also made calls on my behalf. The area arborist who cleared out the overgrown woods treated each tree like one of his own. Rebuilding, one detail at a time Under the direction of an incredible father and son team of general contractors, the house was rebuilt one detail at a time. Twenty-first century laminated beams were hidden in the cellar along side nineteenth century floor joists. New walls went up, transom windows captured the light and spread it throughout the house. Original floors were restored to the luster of their youth. Original and recreated millwork was placed with meticulous attention to detail. The old attic became the gabled vault of the second story, lending a contemporary feel to the century-old space. The five foot long cast iron kitchen sink that took several men to lift was returned to its place of honor under new windows that framed the cedar windbreak beyond. Old porch columns graced the new front entry. It took more than five years from the day I first saw my house until the night when I could first sleep there. But each day of those five years reinforced for me that this was the place I was meant to be. Each time I drive over the crest of the hill and see her standing there proudly, she seems to welcome me, to envelop me. Her reclamation buoyed my spirits and expanded my vision. The hard labor of demolition confirmed my physical strength. Today we belong to one another, mutually restored. Victoria Moore lives and writes on the Mississippi bluffs near Wabasha. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 35 garden after From Drab to Fab: Building an Outdoor Great Room One Family’s Do-It-Yourself Journey Part One: Construction before I n January 2008, I was battling my worst case of cabin fever yet. Since a tropical vacation cure was unlikely, I sought treatment in the sun-drenched pages of gardening magazines. There, among the speckled pages of yellow daylilies and purple hydrangea, I discovered the outdoor great room: an outdoor living area complete with flagstone flooring, privacy fence walls, a vine-covered pergola ceiling, lush landscaping, and even weather-proof lamps and fireplaces to light up the night. Just months before, my husband and I had begun discussing ideas for changing the dreadfully steep hill that occupies much of our lawn so we could stop mowing it and also create more outdoor space. Leveling off the top of the hill with a retaining wall and adding one of these beautiful outdoor rooms seemed like the perfect solution. 36 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com Best laid plans Before moving from daydreams to construction, I had to face a few realities. First, I knew we couldn’t afford to hire anyone, which left all elements of design and construction to me and my husband. Could we handle such a large project? Second, did we have enough space for such a room; what building codes applied; and how much would it cost? I spent the next three months measuring and drafting, calling suppliers, professionals and city building inspectors, and visiting the library, Home Depot and Lowe’s to research every aspect of design, material and construction. Everything was going smoothly until I began looking closely at retaining wall materials. All my research indicated that it was possible for a “do-it-yourselfer” to build her own retaining wall. What the articles didn’t tell me and I would never have known had I not talked with two people — Cory at Sargent’s Nursery and Joe at Rochester Brick — was that building a wall into a hill took a special type of material and engineering or it would eventually collapse (never a good thing, especially when my wall was on the corner of the school bus stop). Thus, the wall became the first major hiccup on the project because a contractor was now inevitable…and so was a home improvement loan. Despite this significant change, we decided to move ahead. So, I began interviewing contractors and gathering bids for the retaining wall. I selected Ryan Hegland of Hegland’s Creative Landscapes because he was thorough, professional and offered something I hadn’t seen before: a boulder retaining wall. I loved it immediately; it was natural, unique, and that fact that it was easier and cheaper than a manufactured retaining block wall didn’t hurt either. Photos courtesy of Marlene Petersen. By Marlene Petersen Breaking ground Taking two weeks off work, my husband and I began construction on May 8, 2008, with a seemingly simple goal: dig 21 holes, four feet deep for all the fence and pergola posts. To make it faster and easier we rented a “one man” auger (which took both of us to operate). Little did we know that the rock-laden soil in Rochester renders the auger significantly less effective since rocks get wedged in the auger bit and lock it up. This requires the operator to turn the auger off, drag it back out of the hole (weighing easily over 100 pounds, or so it felt by hole 21), clear the bit and start again. Consequently, something we thought would take four hours took ten; we had our first glimpse of what the entire project would be like. Luckily, on day four, we received help and inspiration: first, one of my husband’s work colleagues came over, providing help and instruction on the fence, and then my two college-aged, “will work for food, beer and lodging” brothers-inlaw arrived to work with us for a week. Second, Ryan, my rock wall contractor, delivered three dump trucks of boulders on during our front lawn and began tearing the earth from the hill with his Bobcat (skid loader). Day five found us finishing the fence while Ryan flitted around our now shorter and gentler hill in the skid loader placing the boulders in level rows with the ease of someone taking a Sunday drive. His work was so precise yet agile that cars and pedestrians stopped and stared. One of our retired neighbors, who watched the work for hours, said it was better than CNN. By day seven, Ryan was done and my brothers-in-law would be leaving soon, but we still had to finish the patio, build the 11-step flagstone staircase, set the pergola posts, and connect our old deck to the new patio…with only eight more days of “vacation” left. So in a desperate act of unprecedented pleading and cooking, I convinced by brothers-in-law to stay a little longer and called in a few favors with CHRISTINE’S LANDSCAPE DESIGN LLC creating beautiful outdoor environments Design • Installation • Maintenance Chris Florin 507.429.2220 RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 37 Rochester Women How to Hire a Contractor Confidently 1. Get recommendations from friends or businesses that have used the services you are seeking. 2. Contact at least four contractors for estimates and arrange to be home when they arrive. 3. During the estimate, observe how contractors conduct themselves, especially how thorough they are in obtaining the information for the estimate and how they treat your property. 4. Before they leave, interview the contractors face-to-face about the materials they will use, when and how they will conduct your job, any relevant material and labor warranties, and the nature of their business. Listen to the words they choose, and observe their body language. Note how much time the contractors spend answering your questions. If they are unwilling to spend time with you before they get the job, be wary; it could be an indication of the attention they will give you during and after the job. 5. Make notes about your impressions of each contractor either on the bid or on a separate piece of paper to help you distinguish one from another. 6. Give the job to the contractor that was most thorough in his bid, competent in his business and made you feel most comfortable. This is not necessarily the lowest bidder. You may spend a few dollars more, but you won’t regret being confident in your choice. Design and Construction Resources 1. Library books, videos and magazines on landscaping, gardening, patio and deck design and construction (free) 2. Specialty publications at newsstands such as Better Homes and Gardens’ “Landscape Solutions” and “Garden, Deck & Landscape” ($5-$10) 3. Specialty books from Lowe’s, such as “Complete Patio,” and Home Depot’s “Landscaping 1-2-3” ($15-$20) 4. Leaflets or brochures from suppliers like Rochester Brick or contractors like Hegland’s Creative Landscapes (free). friends, family, co-workers and neighbors. Much to my embarrassment (but eternal gratitude), my “do-it-yourself ” project suddenly involved nearly everyone we knew. I now know why Ebenezer Scrooge lived in a dark, drafty house: he was too stingy to hire contractors and didn’t have enough friends to “do-it-yourself.” The end? We didn’t finish all the heavy construction in those eight days, but, thanks to all the help, we got close. Meanwhile, I had picked up all the plants for the hill, and they were beginning to wilt in the sun. They had to get in the ground soon or hundreds of dollars in greenery would be lost. But how we got through that is another story. Next issue: Part two, Softscaping. 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While it has become an all-church effort, there is a group of ladies behind the scenes, whose commitment to serving others extends beyond this event and the community. Ladies of the Greek Orthodox Church The Rochester Orthodox community consists of about 120 families, including individuals born in the Orthodox faith and converts. They are people of Romanian, Serbian, Ethiopian, Ukrainian and Egyptian heritage. A philanthropic group called the Philoptochos Society is “the right hand of the church,” says member Maria Thomas. Philoptochos means “friends of those in need,” and its purpose is serving people. The local 20 or so Society members have provided for the needs of numerous RWmagazine.com July/Augåust 2009 41 Rochester organizations including the Dorothy Day and Ronald McDonald houses, Salvation Army, Women’s Shelter, Gift of Life House and Hope Lodge. Current members range in age from 35 to mid-80’s. Thomas is hopeful that this group will continue to attract younger church members. Philantropia (philanthropy) is a Greek Orthodox tradition dating back to the Byzantine Empire. The roots of the society trace to the immigrants arriving to the U.S. in the late 19th century, though it wasn’t until 1931 that it became recognized as a national organization in the U.S. The Rochester Greek Church is part of a diocese that covers six states, including Wisconsin, Illinois, Iowa and the two Dakotas. At a diocese level the combined Philoptochos Societies support an orphanage, missionary work and an emergency fund, which provided aid in the Katrina relief efforts, and Holy Cross Seminary, which trains Orthodox priests. Growing up in a Greek family Dentistry for Children and Adolescents, Ltd. Dr. Candace A. Mensing & Dr. Robyn R. 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However, families always sat at the dinner table together. “Things were not a sit down, ‘eat and go’ event,” says Maria Thomas. “Frozen” and “pizza” were not part of growing up. Angie Rustad remembers healthy meals every evening, even though her mother worked full time. Denise Mangouras recalls Village Greek Salad with Feta cheese – and of course there was bread at every meal. As for what distinguishes their cuisine, it’s laden with olive oil, garlic, lemon and oregano. Herbs are always fresh. As Ann Kolas reflected on their regular outings into the mountains when they returned home to Greece, one could almost smell the mountain air. Ann is emphatic that nothing compares to hand-rubbed fresh Greek oregano, commonly propagated by mountain farmers, as well as mountain tea. Both prove to be cause for some airport I AM A MOTHER, WIFE, CAREER WOMAN AND A DAUGHTER CARING FOR MY AGING MOTHER Traditional Greek pastries. excitement as the security dogs catch whiffs of aromas in their luggage before returning to the U.S. Greek meals commonly end with fruit for dessert. Freezers are stocked with delectable pastries and the hostess is always ready for unexpected company. Greek coffee is both a morning and afternoon tradition with pastries offered, especially later in the day. Certain foods are associated with festivals and holidays such as the Easter lamb. On Holy Thursday they color Easter eggs and bake Tsoureki (Easter Sweet Bread). Rather than birthdays, it is more likely that one’s “name day” is celebrated – the day of the saint for which one is named on their baptismal day. Wine is ingrained in tradition and diet, with no set minimal drinking age. They all recognize that first-generation immigrants faced a need and pressure to “assimilate.” At the same time they always supported each other. Angie recalls having a Greek doctor, Greek lawyers and frequenting Greek restaurants. As many Greek men had been in the restaurant business in their own homeland, so too they pursued such in the U.S. Apparently at one time a fashionable joke circulated: What happens when a Greek meets a Greek in the U.S.? They open a restaurant. Balancing life’s roles can be both a joy and a challenge. But “doing it all” isn’t always the best answer. Sunrise Senior Living understands. For over 25 years, we have been committed to helping families make senior living decisions that satisfy both their hearts and their heads. We appreciate the importance of living the life you want to live and we are passionate about championing quality of life for seniors. 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Greek oregano 5 large cloves garlic, finely chopped 1 Tbsp. fresh ground black pepper, or to taste 1 ½ Tbsp. salt, or to taste 8 ounces feta cheese 4 ounces cream cheese 2 large eggs 1/8 cup chopped fresh dill (or 1 tsp. dried) dash of pepper 1 pound of phyllo 1 ½ cups butter The local Greek Festival Rochester experienced its first Greek Festival in 1963. The original intention was a “friends of family” social, but Thomas recalls, “it boomed; we ran out of food.” It started at the Sportsman Club, located west of the Rochester Airport, then moved to Silver Lake and later moved indoors to the Mayo Civic Center. With the expansion of the church building in September 2005, the festival moved to First Street SW, adjacent to and including the physical structure. Attendees can learn more about the church through tours or peruse auction items in the fellowship hall. Food stations are set up in the parking lot and ample table seating lines the street. And of course music and dancing are key elements of any Greek festival. Intense baking spans 10 days for the event. In recent years, children as young as age 7 have become involved, preparing for and/or serving at the festival. Many people come together to bring this festival to the community. It is a gift in its own way – a chance to experience a variety of authentic Greek food (all food hand-prepared – all the baking done in advance by the ladies of the church), dancing and festivity. 44 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com In a medium bowl, finely crumble the feta with a fork. Stir in the cream cheese, eggs, dill and pepper. Melt butter in a saucepan. Keep warm, but do not allow to brown. Gently unfold phyllo. Using a sharp knife, cut through stacked phyllo lengthwise into three equal portions. Cover phyllo, when you are not working with it, with plastic wrap. Lay out one strip at a time; brush with melted butter and fold in half lengthwise to make a 3-inch wide strip; butter again. Place 1 teaspoon of filling in center bottom, 1-inch from edge. Fold one corner over to form a triangle; continue folding over triangle till reach end of strip (same a folding a flag). Brush triangle with butter. Repeat until phyllo and filling are all used. At this point the triangles can be frozen. Before serving, remove from freezer. Place on a baking sheet. Bake at 350 degrees for about 20-25 minutes or until golden brown. If baking without freezing, bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes, or until golden grown. Serve warm. Horyiatiki/Village Salad This makes a wonderful summer meal served with crusty bread. Courtesy of Penny Kolas. 1 long English style cucumber (or 2 small regular) 3 large vine-ripened tomatoes 3 scallions 1 small green pepper ½ lb. imported feta cheese, cubed 1 cup kalamata olives 6 Greek peppers (pepperoncini) Wash vegetable under cold running water; drain in a colander. Peel cucumber, if desired, then cut into quarters lengthwise then into 1-inch pieces. Cut tomatoes in half lengthwise – remove core. Cut each half into three wedges. Cut roots and any wilted leaves off the scallions then cut them into ½- to 1-inch long pieces. Remove stem, seeds and ribs from pepper then cut into ¼-inch slices or large cubes, as desired. Toss prepared vegetables, cubed feta, olives and Greek peppers together in a salad bowl. Prepare dressing: first rub oregano with fingertips to release the flavor then whisk all ingredients together until smooth. Toss desired amount into salad until vegetables are well coated. Refrigerate leftover dressing in a tight jar for up to 10 days. Classic Greek Kebobs, one of the many wonderful food items available at the Greek Festival. Gluten-Free Cupboard Visit us to select from over 1000 food items! 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This is one of numerous ways she continues to prepare it. 1 leg of lamb (4-5 lbs.) 2 Tbsp. olive oil 1 Tbsp. fresh lemon juice 2 cloves garlic, crushed 1 tsp. each thyme, rosemary and salt ½ tsp. each marjoram and coarsely ground black pepper Thoroughly combine oil through pepper. Rub onto all surfaces of the meat. Roast, uncovered, Margo Stich of Rochester Women magazine thanks the five women who generously gave of their time to make this article happen— Maria, Angie, Ann, Denise and Penny. These special ladies of Rochester affirm and daily carry forth the society’s mission statement, which includes “to aid those in need, to promote charitable aims of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America, and to preserve and perpetuate Orthodox Christian concepts.” Also thanks to Zorba’s for providing Baklava for photos, and to Johnny Mangouras of Cabernet Catering for preparing the Greek Kebobs. Rochester Arts Council’s Arts & Cultural Festival Saturday, August 22 Musical Strollathon Walk 10 AM – 1 PM Soldiers Field to Government Center $20 through August 20, $25 thereafter ARTists Village 12 PM – 7 PM Mayo Park – Behind Mayo Civic Center Handcrafted art works for show & sale Free entertainment & children’s activities Blues & Barbecue Festival 4 PM – 10:30 PM Peace Plaza Six bands Barbecue sampling & cash bar $25 tickets pre-sold at Convention & Visitors Bureau Call 507-288-4331 www.RochesterMNArts.com Call 507-424-0811 46 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com The decorating team of Susan Volden Interiors and Keefe’s Wall Enhancing set the ambiance and tables for the photo shoot featuring the women behind the Greek Festival and their fabulous food. With much excitement, Susan and Jean created the perfect backdrop on which the featured food was placed. Would you like to experience what these two decorating professionals can do for you? Susan and Jean are working together to offer a special one-hour design appointment for $100. They will come into your home and offer their combined 40 years of decorating experience to transform your environment into the space you’ve always dreamed it could be. They would love the opportunity to serve you with valuable decorating ideas and proven design tips that would make your dream room a reality. For more information or to schedule your appointment call Susan at 507-261-4046 or Jean at 507-990-5151. Community Celebration: Making a Difference Through Research Tuesday, August 11, 2009 5:30–7:30 p.m. Mayo Clinic, Siebens Building, Phillips Hall Free and open to the public Come join Mayo Clinic in a celebration of the many ways medical research improves our community. Raffle for door prizes! Free parking is provided in Mayo Clinic ramps and surface lots for this event. ctsa.mayo.edu/celebration Mayo Community Celebrate Ad.indd 1 Michael ClearyIs this coming in done? 48 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com 5/26/09 2:25 PM travel I Found My Fill on Blueberry Hill Rush River Produce has the blues and more By Debbie Thompson Photos by Debbie Thompson G rowing up a city girl, I never had the opportunity to pick blueberries. Oh yeah, we bought blueberries from the grocery store or fruit stands and I would eat them until my tongue and teeth were blue, but I never thought about where they came from. With much anticipation on a sunny July morning, I was going to find out. I started my adventure in search of the blues in Maiden Rock, Wisc. Rush River Produce is the premier U-Pick blueberry farm for western Wisconsin and southern Minnesota. A few turns off Highway 35S, along the Wisconsin side of the Mississippi River, I left the cool shade of the tree-lined side roads and found myself high on a hill in the welcoming sunlight. The view of the Rush River Valley was spectacular. At every turn, I could see farmland for miles. Driving a short distance on a gravel road, I came to a parking lot of cars, from near and far, between an old red barn and a border of beautiful flowers. The sweet floral scent mixed with the earthy grass and hay from the barn. Through the perennial garden, I followed the sound of laughter and could hear people talking near a busy stand. Several people returning from the field proudly displayed full containers while others were given empty boxes for filling. Terry and John Cuddy and their two grown children, Joe and Lucas, have owned and run this family-friendly farm since 1987. Most days it’s sunny and beautiful and the blueberries are plentiful, but you never know what Mother Nature has in store. “The weather and availability can affect our hours,” says Terry. “Always call ahead before driving to the farm. We love to hear from you and want to be sure that we have enough delicious blueberries for you to pick.” An abundant supply of red and black currants and a more limited supply of white currants and gooseberries are also available in July and early August. Additionally, locally made honey, maple syrup and blueberry jam are for sale. With a basket and directions to begin at the bottom of the hill and pick my way back up, I was ready to gather my bounty. As I walked on the path, I was amazed to see the entire hillside lined with four-foot blueberry bushes. There was such an abundance of fruit on the branches that the bushes appeared to be blue. People, young and old, were mixed in among the rows, engaged in friendly conversations. I picked berries one by one until I realized that all I had to do was run my hand along the branch and the beautiful blues fell into my basket. The picking was very easy and gathering a handful to eat was even easier. The fruit that was exposed to the sun was warm and juicy while the berries that hid in the shade of the leaves were cool and crisp. With my basket full, I returned to the stand to have them weighed. The blueberry season opens after the fourth of July and continues for only eight to 10 weeks. The Cuddys plant 13 different varieties to provide an extended blueberry picking season. Terry says it best: “Never miss July and come back in August, and make sure you pick enough for eating now and freeze some for fall.” I know I will be back again with my daughters and hopefully someday with their children. “Remember the adventure with every blueberry pancake and muffin,” shares Terry. With an abundance of blueberries and recipes in hand, I said goodbye until the next time I come to get my fill on blueberry hill. Debbie Thompson is a freelance writer and is now an experienced blueberry picker. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 49 Great Berry Recipes Out of this World Blueberry Pie Baked 9 inch pie shell (graham cracker recommended) ½ c. water ¼ c. cold water 1 c. sugar 5 Tbsp. all-purpose flour 4 c. fresh blueberries Pinch of salt Blueberry Sauce Good on everything, super easy and fast 1-2 c. fresh or frozen blueberries, depending on how much you want. Warm blueberries in sauce pan on medium heat until berries juice up, simmer briefly. Add ¼ to ½ c. sugar to taste. Stir and enjoy. Great on cake with whipped cream. Try it over French toast, pancakes, with yogurt, ice cream, or just plain from a dish. For a fresher berry flavor add a handful of fresh or frozen berries to the pan just before serving, stir in, and serve. Make a smooth batter of the ¼ c. water, flour and salt. Boil 1 c. of the blueberries with sugar and ½ c. water. Add batter and stir with whisk until it thickens. Remove from stove and cool. When cool, add remaining berries and pour into pie shell. Refrigerate. Serve with whipped cream or ice cream yogurt, ice cream, or just plain from a dish. Rush River Produce U-Pick Blueberries July and Early August 8 a.m. to 2 p.m., Thursday through Sunday Please call ahead for weather conditions, availability and directions, 715-594-3648, rushriverproduce.com BLUEBERRIES July & Early August 8 am to 2 pm U Pick Thursday - Sunday 715-594-3648 rushriverproduce.com Maiden Rock, WI NEW TO THE ROCHESTER AREA??? Contact Rochester Greeters for a FREE welcome packet which includes civic information, maps, gifts and coupons. 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At that time, I thought I might be wasting my time if I wasn’t reaching my target heart rate for the duration of my allotted exercise hour, but I got a lot more out of the class than I anticipated. One Friday morning after a long busy week, I slipped my shoes and socks off, took a deep breath, opened the door and walked barefoot across the bamboo floor into yogalates class. As gracefully as possible, I laid down the exercise and yoga mats and sat crossed legged. I didn’t know a pose. I waited and breathed. The instructor welcomed us. Throughout the class, I followed the positions. I listened to my breathing. I thought. I felt. I heard. I touched. I stretched. I laughed. I cried. I tried. It hurt. It felt good. I left. I went back. I went back again and again for more yoga classes. I became more calm, still and quiet, consciously breathing more, listening more, feeling more, letting go more, accepting and transforming. Not only had my workout transformed, but so had my life. I felt more balanced, more focused, less worried, less stressed and stronger. I felt feelings that I wasn’t feeling before in my fast paced days and workouts. Yoga helped me gain core strength and flexibility I was looking for in my workout as well as balance, strength and flexibility in my living. Benefits of Yoga I started talking about the benefits of yoga and found out there are many people around Rochester practicing the ancient Eastern art here in our Midwestern city. One of my yogalates classmates, Bill Pudwell, explained he used to have back pain and yoga has taken care of it. Yoga helped him strengthen core muscles and helped his back become more livable. He smiles saying, “Before, I didn’t know how I would have time for it (yoga) and now I don’t know how I wouldn’t.” I agree, now that I have made yoga stretching and breathing a part of my life. “My life is beautiful,” says Michelle Salz, a regular yoga class participant at the RAC. She explains that her life is also busy, full of stress and chaos, just as most people’s lives are. Yoga is a reset button for her. She practices yoga five days a week and each time it is a beautiful renewal. “I feel peace come over me immediately. After an hour of mental centering and physical Asanas, my mind feels tranquility and my body feels strong. I couldn’t imagine my life without yoga and the loving yoga teachers who share their gift with us. I wish all people could experience the magic of yoga,” says Michelle. Seyward Mattson, a pastoral intern at Our Saviors Lutheran Church, says, “Yoga is the closest thing to exercise I’ve done that I’ve enjoyed. Christians enjoy yoga. It can be enjoyed by people of all religions.” I was relieved to know there are other Christians who appreciate the art. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 53 Namaste The bowing gesture, with hands held together at heart center, and Sanskirt greeting “Namaste” means that divine within our heart bows and honors the divine within the hearts of others and that we are united when we live from the heart. This gesture and greeting can be given at both the beginning and at the end of a yoga class; however, it is usually done at the end of class because the mind is less active and the energy in the room is more peaceful. Blue Moon Yoga Studio Instructor Amber McCornack and students at Quarry Hill Nature Center. “Inhale, exhale, wait for the beautiful moment of nature to touch your hearts,” says Amber. Yoga for Everyone There are people of all ages, cultures and both genders practicing yoga here in Rochester for reasons from strength training to stress relief to mental and physical therapy. Through Blue Moon Yoga Studio people from various cultural backgrounds and economic situations are practicing yoga. The Blue Moon Yoga Studio philosophy is that “‘yoga is for everyone,’ no correct clothes, no proper payment, no right answers, no ego, no script, no ‘you’re not good enough or rich enough,’” says owner Karen Edmonds. Yoga is for everyone as they are there. What could be more welcoming and relaxing? And people are going and benefiting. Michele Erickson-Johnson, who has been attending Yin Yoga classes at the Blue Moon Yoga studio for almost a year explains, “I started attending when my brother found out that he had a rare form of non-hodgkins lymphoma. He suggested I go to learn to relax. I was so stressed and tense at the time that I was having problems breathing and having panic attacks. Over time, I’m learning to relax, breathe and to turn off my mind. Yoga has been wonderful for that and I’ve not had a panic attack in over 10 months.” Michele has also discovered the physical benefits of yoga. Her flexibility has improved along with breathing for running. She’s does yin stretching along with her running and find that she has not been as sore after she runs. She can 54 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com work-out longer and run further because she has more control over her breathing. Others have noticed a change in Michele as well. Her husband says she seems happier and more relaxed. She been teaching her kids some of the stretches and says, “They love doing yoga with mom.” What a great opportunity to get the whole family active. Lori Rehnelt, who also been practicing yoga for about a year at Blue Moon Yoga, feels emotionally stronger and more centered. “I was able to start ‘feeling’ again and identifying my needs,” she explains. “I feel more connected to God. I also work a 12-step (Alanon) program and yoga helps me focus on God as my higher power. It helps me keep the focus on myself and not on others. Practicing yoga is something I do for me,” says Lori. Yoga for Life Students begin practicing yoga for immediate results, but also over time find benefits worth continuing the practice. Lorna Podvin has been practicing yoga for over 30 years. She has a family history of osteoporosis and arthritis, so maintaining spinal flexibility is important to her. “I have never been into physical fitness, but yoga has helped me keep my body flexible. It approaches stretches in such a gentle, individual way which allows a person to practice at their own pace.” Sara Atkinson, owner of Breathe Yoga Studios, says “Yoga begins for many as a means to stretch, relax, relieve stress or simply as exercise, but what makes yoga so much more is the evolution of the practicedeeper awareness of oneself and one’s breath and how that awareness further transforms into deeper awareness of others, one’s impact on others, and one’s impact on our environment and the world.” From beginning, throughout, yoga is emotional, spiritual and physical. It focuses on breathing, which gives us life emotionally and physically, helps us become conscious of what we are taking in (inhaling) and letting go of (exhaling). It helps us connect with our emotional, spiritual and physical selves and the world around us. Jorrie Hansen, publisher, Rochester Women magazine, has three children with her husband, Bill. She enjoys working out, playing Bunco and recently discovered the joy of yoga. She hopes to see many Rochester Women readers at yoga class this summer. "9')6).'-94)-% )-!+%!$)&&%2%.#% Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place. Adult volunteers are needed to help girls develop strong values, leadership skills, social conscience, and a positive self image. www.girlscoutsrv.org • 800-847-0787 RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 55 Networking News... Rochester Women of Today ABWA Greater Rochester Express Network (GREN) Networking breakfast meetings at Express Personnel Services, 2518 N. Broadway, 7-8:30 a.m. Cost is $15. RSVP to Margaret Heise at [email protected] or 507-273-0325. Guests are welcome. www.abwagren.org/index.html August 4, Speaker to be announced. Mothers and More Improving the lives of mothers through support, education and advocacy. Meetings at 7 p.m., Quarry Ridge Apartments clubhouse, 1823 Quarry Ridge Place NW. Visitors are welcome. Contact rochmoms.org or Heather Christy at 507-206-3513 or [email protected]. July 14, Finishing Your Puzzle Revelation will highlight the experiences of some of the women who participated in this study to help individuals rediscover their true gifts, passions, dreams and self. July 28, Learn ways to give back to the community and involve your whole family. We’ll complete a small service project together. August 11, Enjoy a night out on the town...on foot! Walk starts at 7:30 sharp. August 25, Feel like your marriage is a little lost? Do you think having kids and mortgages and the craziness of life has come between you and your spouse? Learn tips on how to reconnect, renew, & re-energize your marriage. Executive Women International (EWI) For more information, contact Sharon Copeman, 507-281-0435. July 13, Business meeting at Home Federal Bank at Crossroads Shopping Center Supports our community through volunteer activities, with focus on personal growth and leadership. Meets fourth Friday of each month at 6:30 p.m. at Olmsted National Bank (975-34th Ave NW). Contact Brandy at [email protected] or 507-358-0950. Upcoming meetings: July 24, August 28 Southern MN Mothers of Multiples Community and networking with other MOMs who are going through and have gone through all that you are. All meetings are held at The Garden’s community clubhouse on St. Bridget Road SE. More information: somnmoms.org or Kristi Ruen [email protected]. July 15, Multiples Panel: Adult and teen multiples will answer questions about being raised as a multiple, 7 p.m. August 19, Pampering Night: Enjoy a night of pampering, 6:30 p.m. New members RSVP if you plan to attend. ROCHESTER Volunteer! Women Needed for Study on Postmenopausal Symptoms The Women’s Health Clinic is seeking postmenopausal women for a study of atrophic vaginitis, a common condition occurring during and after menopause. Symptoms include vaginal dryness, itching, and/or burning. We are trying to find the lowest effective dose of estrogen cream which will help with these symptoms. You may be eligible to take part if: • You are between 40 and 75 years old • You are postmenopausal (naturally or surgically) • You are not taking or have stopped hormone replacement therapy within the last 3 months • You are experiencing vaginal dryness, itching, and/or burning This study will last for 12 weeks. You will have 2 clinic visits and 3 blood draws. Remuneration will be offered. For more information, please contact the study coordinator at (507) 266-1944. More clinical trials information can be found at http://clinicaltrials.mayo.edu Mayo Clinic is an affirmative action and equal opportunity educator and employer. 56 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com 25,000 Copies of the Rochester Women’s Business & Resource Directory will be distributed to 10,000 women at home, at the Rochester Women’s Fall Expo (October 2009), through Rochester Women magazine distribution racks, networking groups, businesses and resources. You can be featured on the cover with an ADVERTORIAL! Quarter Page $575 Half Page $995 DISPLAY AD Quarter Page $525 Half Page $895 Additional ad sizes available. BUSINESS LISTING Business Listing $175 Final ad space reservation deadline is August 27, 2009 Contact Tracy Nielsen, Marketing Account Manager DIRECTsCELL TRACY 27MAGAZINECOMs27MAGAZINECOM J.E.T.S. 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Held at DeerCreek Speedway, it features a concert by the Ballas Hough Band (ballashough.com) with Mark Ballas and Derek Hough, as seen on Dancing with the Stars. PapaPalooza PreGame, starting at 2 p.m., includes a bean bag tournament, Texas Hold ‘em tournament, wine tasting, silent auction and live music. The show starts after the last race at 9 p.m. Tickets: PapaPalooza.info.com or deercreekspeedway.com Blue Moon Ballroom August 7 “Club Swing,” a fun mix of East Coast Swing, Lindy, West Coast Swing, Big Band and current pop hits. Lesson 7:30-8:15 p.m., dancing til 11 p.m. $8 Adults, $6 Youth. August 14, “Club Salsa,” Pro-DJ Julio Conde from Guatemala, mixing: Salsa, Bachata, Cumbia, Merengue, Lazer & disco light system, Cash Bar 18+event, Lesson 8-9 p.m., Dancing 9 p.m.-midnight. $8 admission, 2030 Hwy 14 East, 507-288-0556, BlueMoonBallroom.com Through September 6 Come to the Commonweal Theatre in Lanesboro every Sunday at 7 p.m. for a live one-hour radio program featuring music and comedy. The show is broadcast on KFIL Preston at 103.1 FM or 1060 AM, and online at overthebackfence.org. Tickets only available at the door at 6 p.m. Brought to you by the Lanesboro Radio Company. Joy more Wednesday, August 19, 2009 7:00 to 9:00 pm at the Plummer House 1091 Plummer Lane, Rochester Ladies, you are invited to enjoy a relaxing evening at the Plummer House and begin to experience “Less Stress, More Joy.” • Discover ideas for a joyful life through workshop sessions created just for you. • Enjoy a delicious dessert with your friends in a beautiful setting. Tickets are $35 each. For reservations and more information, call Sandy Cookman at the Plummer House, 507-281-6182. A portion of the proceeds will go to Eden-Global Handicrafts, bringing new life and hope to women in China. www.edenchina.org 58 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com July 12 Get ready to rock the house as “Disney’s High School Musical: Summer Celebration!” brings the ultimate mega-mix to Treasure Island’s Event Center on Sunday, July 12 at 3 p.m.. It’s the only live, touring High School Musical experience featuring the songs, dances, and team-spirited fun inspired by all three hit movies. Tickets are available at 877-849-1640 or treasureislandcasino.com. Young Adult Writer's Group Live Radio Less stress, High School Musical Out of the Darkness Community Walk 2009 American Foundation for Suicide Prevention September 19 Help survivors of suicide loss and save lives in SE Minnesota. Silver Lake Park – East Pavilion 10 a.m. Check-in 11 a.m. walk (3 miles) Register and/or donate at outofthedarkness.org Get Smart Training For Parents, Parts I & II July 18 10 a.m., Meeting Room B, Public Library Come to Efficacy Institute Parent Training and join other parents to: • Explore what leads to development and the obstacles to learning • Explore ways to help your child to not just work hard but “work smart” • Learn how to motivate your child to get better, strong, and smarter Coordinated by the Diversity Council (diversitycouncil.org). Register online, at the Fiction, Movies & Music desk or 507-328-2305. July 28 7 p.m., Meeting Room A, Public Library Do you like to write? Would you like to meet other tweens/teens who like to write? Would you like to share your work, and get advice on how to improve? If the answer is yes, then come join our meetings. We meet the last Tuesday of the month. Will you Join the Journey? Join The Journey (jointhejourney.us) will celebrate its fifth annual Ten Mile Breast Cancer Awareness Walk on Sunday, Sept. 20. Ten miles may seem long, but it represents the tough journey many women have walked with a diagnosis of breast cancer. All monies raised during the walk stay in the Rochester area for programs that benefit women who have breast cancer. One of the many programs that JTJ supports is the efforts of the Zumbro River Fiber Arts Guild. These 60 knitters/crocheters have donated more than 2,000 hats to Mayo Clinic patients undergoing cancer treatment. RochWomen.JosephJul.Aug.09:Layout 1 BackThis Summer by Popular Demand! it’s alive KIDS IN FREE! Tue & Wed! Call for details. Classical music explodes in Brendan Bujold “…showy and glitzy!” –Star Tribune sonic blooms: a tremor of timpani, a sea of strings, a burst of brass. Your pulse quickens. Your spirits soar. MINNESOTA PUBLIC RADIO It’s classical music. 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Greenhouse.............................................................34 JETS............................................................................................57 Julianna Bellydance..............................................................20 Just Rite Foods.......................................................................40 Klampe, Delehanty & Morris.............................................50 Landscape Artisans..............................................................38 Le Jardin European Style Floral........................................45 Madonna Towers/Madonna Meadows.........................13 Massage Envy.........................................................................59 Mayo Clinic.....................................................20, 48, 52 & 56 Mayo Employees Federal Credit Union........................34 Michael Cleary Photography.............................................48 Minnesota Marine Art Museum......................................13 Minnesota Public Radio......................................................59 Minnesota School of Business.........................................26 MLT Group...............................................................................61 New Horizon Academy........................................................29 Northern Lights and Furnishings.......................................6 O’Brien & Wolf, L.L.P. Law Offices...................................48 Olive Juice Studios................................................................25 Olmsted Medical Center........................................................9 Outta the Barn........................................................................55 Pepin Cottage..........................................................................48 Perry Dental................................................................................2 Post Town Winery...................................................................45 Premier Bank Rochester.....................................................38 Psychic Insights......................................................................17 Real Deals Home Decor......................................................11 Reiland’s Hair Clinic...................................................20 & 55 Rochester Area Family Y....................................................55 Rochester Business Law Center......................................26 Rochester Community and Technical College...........29 Rochester Community Education, Winery Tour.........46 Rochester Downtown Alliance.........................................20 Rochester Feed & Country Store.....................................39 Rochester Greeters...............................................................50 Rochester Honkers Baseball.............................................59 Rush River Produce..............................................................50 Salem Glen Winery................................................................40 Sargent’s Gardens.................................................................39 Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota............................29 Silhouette Shoppe.................................................................52 Spring Valley Historical Society........................................17 State Farm Insurance, Sue Madden.................................6 Sunrise Cottages of Rochester.........................................43 Susan Kelly Interior Design...............................................34 T.G.I. Friday’s.............................................................................17 *PAIIR (Parents Are Important In Rochester), The College of St. Scholastica..........................................25 The Frog & Bear Bed and Breakfast..................................57 The Hunter Studios...................................................................11 Tres Francoise Salon.................................................................13 United Way of Olmsted County............................................26 University of Minnesota - Rochester.................................29 Warners Stellian Appliance Company, Inc.........................3 Wild Ginger...................................................................................11 Womego........................................................................................51 Zen Creations..............................................................................17 Rochester Public Schools Early Childhood Education support programs for all families, 328-4020, rochesterce.org/paiir Quarry Hill Nature Center, 281-6114, qhnc.org Red Wing Arts Association, 651-388-7569, redwingartsassociation.org, redwing.org Riverside Live! Concert Series, 328-2200 or 800-657-3980, riversideconcerts.com Rochester Art Center, free to public every Thurs and first Sat monthly, 282-8629, rochesterartcenter.org COMMUNITY CALENDAR Check out our Community Calendar online for additional listings at RWmagazine.com *Rochester Astronomy Club, 2nd Tues, RCTC Charter Deadline for submitting events for Rochester Women September/October issue is August 1, 2009. Complete form at RWmagazine.com/calendar.php Rochester Civic Theatre, “The Musical of Musicals,” Events in purple are sponsored by RochesterWomen magazine. *(507 area code unless stated) Lourdes, 285-9915 ONGOING (*contact organization for regular meeting times) *American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, 358-2254, outofthedarkness.org, afsp.org Assisi Community Center, 280-2180, rochesterfranciscan.org Room, 250-2947, rochesterskies.org (opens July 10), times vary, rochestercivictheatre.org *Rochester Community Band, rehearsals Thurs at *Rochester DBSA-Depression & Bipolar Support Alliance, 2nd, 4th, 5th Mon, (Bethel Lutheran Church), 282-8372 days, 292-9679 eves. DBSAlliance.org, [email protected] *Rochester Downtown Alliance, ongoing events, 424-4744, downtownrochestermn.com/events, [email protected] Rochester Downtown Farmers Market, every Sat. Blue Moon Ballroom, dancing, lessons, rentals, 2030 through Oct., 7 am – noon, 4th St & 4th Ave SE,. Market Manager, 273-8232, rochesterdowntownfarmersmarket.org Boys & Girls Club of Rochester, 287-2311, Rochester Family Y, Check out new monthly events calendar, 287-2260, rochfamy.org Hwy 14 East, 288-0556, bluemoonballroom.com [email protected] Chanhassen Dinner Theatres, “Always…Patsy Cline,” (through Oct), “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat,” (through Sept), times vary, 800-362-3515, chanhassentheatres.com Rochester Garden and Flower Club, 288-6730, dwebsite.com/gardenclub Rochester Kennel Club, 507-753-1075, rmkc.8m.com *Child Care Resource & Referral (CCR&R), ongoing Rochester Public Library, events and ongoing groups, support programs, 287-2020, c2r2.org 285-8000, rochesterpubliclibrary.org Commonweal Theatre (Lanesboro), “The Odd Couple,” (through Oct 23), “The Rainmaker,” (through Oct 24), times vary, 800-657-7025, commonwealtheatre.org rochesterseniorcenter.org, Crossings Gallery (Zumbrota), ongoing Rochester Senior Center, 121 N Broadway, 287-1404, Rochester Track Club, rochestertrackclub.com Savvy Singles, ongoing events, [email protected], exhibits, classes, concerts, gift shop, 732-7616, crossingsatcarnegie.com savvysingle.net *Dances of Universal Peace, third Friday monthly, 6415 West River Rd. NW, 281-2791, [email protected] *Seasons Hospice, offering grief education and support. Newly Bereaved program first Mon monthly, Hospice Office (1811 Greenview Place SW), info, calendar, 285-1930, seasonshospice.org *“Empowering Women” Choose healthier relationships, Zumbro Valley Mental Health Center, 289-2089, zumbromhc.org Sexual Assault/Victim Services, 328-7273 John Hassler Theatre (Plainview), “Dear James”, 800-8995759, sheldontheatre.org (through July 12), “Summer Sampler,” (August weekends), 534-2900 or 866-548-7469, jonhasslertheater.org Lanesboro Art Council, community arts organization, 467-ARTS, lanesboroartcouncil.org Mantorville Theatre Company, info at mantorvillain.com Masque Youth Theatre, “Alphabet Soup,” final show, (through June 28), times vary, 287-0704, masque.org NAMI Family to Family Support Group, a peer- support for people who have loved ones with mental illness, 1st and 3rd Mon monthly, 6 pm, St. Mary’s Generose, Rm M227, 2nd and 4th Wed monthly, 7 pm, 2200 2nd St SW, Suite 203, 287-1692, nami-semn.org Olmsted County History Center, 282-9447, olmstedhistory.com *Page Theatre, (Winona), 457-1715, [email protected], pagetheatre.org *Sheldon Theatre, (Red Wing), 651-388-8700, Southeastern MN Performing Arts Network, performing arts groups and artists, SEMPAN.com USA DANCE - Southern MN Ballroom Dance Chapter, lessons, dance 2nd Fri monthly, “Castle,” 121 N. Broadway, 7:30-11 pm, 507-843-4665, 281-1034, somnusadance.org *VIGOR (Vegetarian Interest Group), vigr.org Visit Winona, museums, riverboat rides, agri-tours, Shakespeare Festival, visitwinona.com *Women in the Outdoors, 952-440-5396, womenintheoutdoors.org Women on Wheels, Rochester Chapter, 2nd Monday monthly, 6:30 pm, Mr. Pizza North, (4040 28th Street NW), 272-2469, mnwomenonwheels.org *Zumbro Valley Sweet Adelines, 288-2790, [email protected] 60 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com CALENDAR EVENTS JUNE June 25-Sept 10, “Thursdays on First Summer Market & Music Festival,” Peace Plaza & 1st, 11 am – 8:30 pm, downtownrochestermn.com. Pick up RochesterWomen magazine July/August issue on June 25 and July 2 at Thursdays on First. June 25-28, Rochesterfest continues, rochesterfest.com June 25-28, “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor July 12, “Down by the Riverside” Summer Concert Series begins, “Survivor,” 7 pm, Mayo Park, Sundays through August 23, riversideconcerts.com July 13, 25th Annual Gift of Life Transplant House Benefit Golf Tournament, Rochester Golf and Country Club, dinner, silent auction, raffle, start 12:30 pm, register, 288-7470, gift-of-life.org July 13–15, A Summer Seuss Theatre! Acting, creating, and singing workshops by Words Players, donation, children 5 to 10, 1 - 3 pm, 5930 Bandel Road NW, 252.4714, [email protected]. Dreamcoat,” Honors Choirs of SE MN, Century High School Auditorium, times vary, 252-0505, HonorsChoirs.org, rochesterfest.com July 16, Samaritan Bethany Golf Classic, Willow Creek June 26-28, Water Ski Days Festival, Lake City, July 16, International Picnic, Silver Lake North Shelter, 651-345-4123, lakecity.org June 25-July 26, Great River Shakespeare Festival, (Winona): “The Tempest,” “Love’s Labour’s Lost,” times vary, grsf.org June 27, 22nd Annual Country Breakfast on the Farm, Shea Dairy, 10240 Viola Rd NE, tickets at Rochesterfest Info Booth June 22 – 26 or onsite, buses at 6:15 am from Century High School SW corner, free ride with person having a Rochesterfest button. Golf Course, 12 pm, 424-4034, samaritanbethany.com 6:00 - 8:30 pm potluck, new foods, meet international neighbors, riamn.org July 16, Rochester Garden and Flower Club Annual Tour and Show, 4 pm to dusk, self guided, maps on sale 4 - 7:30 pm, East lot, RCTC Heintz Center, [email protected] July 20, Bear Creek Golf Classic, Rochester Golf and Country Club, noon registration, 1 pm start, 288-7195, bearcreekservices.org June 27–July 25, “Drops and Drama,” Historic Masonic Temple, Winona, 3 pm Saturdays, showcases 1909 collection of handcrafted scenic drops, 459-8090, [email protected], tdmwinona.org July 23–25, “Seussical,” Century High School, 7 pm, June 28, Hy-Vee Triathalon, Foster Arend Park, (37th St & Ronald McDonald House (Rain or shine) RCTC, (Hwy 14 & Cty Rd 22), registration 8:30 – 11:30 am, 356-2862, rmhmn.org E River Rd. NW), 8 am, 269-3591, rochesterfest.com JULY by Words Players, family show, 216-6431, [email protected] July 26, 9th Annual The “Cruise” - A Benefit Ride for the July 27-Aug. 2, Olmsted County Fair, Graham Park & July 4, 4th of July Celebration, Silver Lake Park, band concert 8:30 pm, fireworks at 10 pm or dusk. Graham Arenas, [email protected] July 9, Rochester Honkers Ladies Night, 7:05 pm, Course, Byron, start 11:30 am, banquet and awards 6 pm, 287-2032, [email protected] Mayo Field, presented by Rochester Scrapbooking Company and Y105. Free scrapbooks for first 500 ladies! rochesterhonkers.com July 27, ARC Celebrity Golf Classic, Somerby Golf July 31, 31st Annual Swing Your Birdie Golf Classic, July 9-12, Annual PrideFest, Gay Lesbian Community Services’, glcsmn.org supports Ronald McDonald House, Willow Creek Golf Course, start 12:30 pm, lunch, raffle and silent auction, 252-2195, [email protected], rmhmn.org July 10, RT Autism Awareness 7th Annual Golf Benefit, AUGUST Willow Creek Golf Course, 10:30 am start, dinner, reception, register, 254-8901, rtautismawareness.org Aug 5-9, Chatfield Western Days, ci.chatfield.mn.us July 10-11, Relay for Life of Olmsted County, University Aug 8, Remodelors Council Garage Sale, 8 am – noon, July 11, Dixieland Jazz Festival, Goodview Pavilion, Aug 14-16, Downtown Oronoco Gold Rush, 367-2111, goldrushmn.com Center Rochester, 5:30 pm, donations, supports the American Cancer Society’s mission, [email protected] Winona, 12 – 5 pm, free Jazz and Dixieland concert features musicians from region, 452-2272, [email protected] July 11, St. John’s Block Party, St. John’s Catholic Church, noon-midnight, 288-7372, tickets online, sjblockparty.org 108 Elton Hills Lane NW, donations accepted, 282-7698, rochesterareabuilders.com Aug 14-16 & Sept 18-20, Rochester Gold Rush, Graham Park, 269-1473 Aug 18, ARC Southeastern Minnesota Annual Picnic, Essex Park, 6 pm, register by Aug 14, 287-2032 or arcse-mn.org Aug 19, “Less Stress, More Joy,” 7 - 9 pm, Plummer House, relaxing workshop sessions, dessert, benefits Eden-Global Handicrafts, reservations, 281-6182, edenchina.org August 21, Women Entrepreneurs Morning Networking, 7:30 to 9 am, Rochester Area Chamber of Commerce, 220 S Broadway, Suite 100. Women considering opening a business or who have recently are invited to discuss challenges, opportunities and learn about community business support services. RSVP, 288-1122, rochestermnchamber.com Aug 21–23, Miracle Lodge at Ironwood Springs Grand Opening Celebration, 533-4315, miraclelodge.com August 25-30, Gladiolus Days, St Charles, info at stcharlesmn.org Pick up the RochesterWomen September/October issue beginning Aug 27, 2009 at Thursdays on First. Aug 28, 6th Annual Wine Tasting & Trash to Treasure Charity Auction at Victorian Lace, St Charles, 4:30 pm, funds raised for Breast Cancer, treasure donations needed, 932-4496,[email protected] Aug 30, Concert fundraiser featuring Brass Etc. and Whirlwinds (brass and woodwind quintets), 3 pm, St. Rose of Lima Church, friendsofsrose.org Aug 28-30, 46th Annual Greek Festival, Holy Anargyroi Church, 703 W Center St, Fri 5-8 pm, Sat 11 am-8 pm, Sun 11 am-6 pm, free admission/parking, 282-1529, greekfestrochester.com SEPTEMBER Sept 12, ALS Walk, East Silver Lake Park, registration: 9 am ~ walk: 10 am, 888-672-0484, [email protected] Sept 20, 5th Annual Join the Journey Breast Cancer Awareness Walk, Mayo High School, registration at jointhejourney.us Bring your family to the Silver Lake Pool for several different themed Family Fun Nights throughout the summer. Enjoy swimming, loads of activities for kids and music. Themes include Pirate Adventure, Hawaiian Luau and Under the Sea. Cost: $25 per family Silver Lake Pool 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Thursday , June 25— Pirate Adventure Thursday, July 9— Hawaiian Luau Thursday, July 23— Under the Sea For more information contact Rochester Area Family Y 507 287 2260 ext. 304 [email protected] RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 61 humor Can This Yard Be Saved? By Amy Brase W e don’t claim to be master gardeners. It was not so many years ago that we learned the difference between perennials and annuals. But how tricky can it be to grow…grass? That question led to our backyard’s temporary demise. I choose the word “temporary” because we are ever the optimists. Building on a one-acre lot meant our children would have ample space to frolic. For my husband it justified what every man dreams about – a riding lawn mower. There was but one obstacle: we had spent all our money on the house. Sod for the backyard boasted a price tag of $11,000. Who could blame us for thinking we’d just “do the backyard” (read: untamed field of gargantuan weeds) ourselves? A plan was quickly devised. Dad-in-law hauled in his old Murray lawn mower to face the grisly, beanstalk-tall field thistles. Four inevitable breaks later due to overheating of the mower, most men would have thrown in their hats. Not these Minnesotans. No, it was time to get serious. Naturally, this meant renting a John Deere front loader with a box blade for leveling. To the tractor’s credit, it did knock down most of the weeds. Seven hours into the eight-hour rental, the men persevered as a solid wall of dust settled into my patio cushions forevermore. I quickly learned to keep windows 62 July/August 2009 RWmagazine.com closed during “yard work” while my husband test drove his very first, used (read: 30 years old) riding lawnmower with a drag borrowed from a neighbor. Isn’t it poignant when the very things we long for are the things that let us down? This lawnmower, albeit John Deere, had a random habit of quitting and needing 24 hours of respite before firing up again. Nevertheless, we were excited to witness the first sprouts of growth. That’s when something unprecedented happened. The weather chose to mock my husband, a former meteorologist. Within hours of distributing seed, a colossal downpour washed it all down to the end. To this day, we comment wistfully on the lush turf that rests just beyond our yard. That rain was a doozy, creating cavernous ruts and exposing a profusion of rocks. Out came the shovels and rakes and in came a dump truck load of black dirt. We seeded again and pressed our noses to the patio window, confident that this time we’d reap the grass of our labor. There really might be something to this “Mother Nature’s Wrath toward the Weather Guy” story because Minnesota became a parched desert overnight. My new daily routine revolved around the lugging of hoses and sprinklers. The only grass that grew was in patches…17 feet apart. This was the point when I started to check out. I convinced myself that a flourishing, green carpet of grass clipped consistently to four inches would really be quite boring. I remember thinking that our backyard didn’t bother me so much if it didn’t bother the neighbors. The neighbors whose yard rivals the Landscape Arboretum. The ones who spend quality time together by plucking weeds. I was comfortably settling into my lower standards when 12 tons of dirt appeared near the swings. True to form, my husband had researched tools, techniques and price points. A younger, used John Deere mower with a wagon and several equipment rentals joined forces to ultimately tear up the yard and expose more rock. Five years later, we still plant trees with a pick ax, and dandelions appear to have the upper hand. Dirt clumps collected in a crescent-shaped mound can be seen in the back left corner. We fondly call it “future berm.” Faithfully, we over-seed and fertilize. Neighbors offer hopeful nods. My husband remains upbeat. We still share the dream of a picture-perfect yard, but winter will come soon enough. Isn’t it beautiful how snow makes all of our yards look the same? Amy and her husband Adam, a skilled family handyman and determined DIY-er, wholeheartedly agree that growing grass is harder than it looks. RWmagazine.com July/August 2009 63